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Liberating your relationships

Our true essence is Love. Every single person on planet earth, no matter how
they act, always has been and always will be Love. Humans only act contrary
to this essence because they suffer from the lie of unworthiness and believe in
the lie of our own sinful nature; that we are not divine, and need to earn or learn
our way into heaven. And most people try hard to avoid this suffering through
behavior that is out of alignment with Love.

3rd Dimensional Relationships


Because people experience disconnection from their essence of love and from
God-Life-Force, they try to obtain love and energy from each other through
relationships, relationships that are primarily co-dependent in nature and survival
oriented. Also because of our feelings of separation, we have a strong desire to
somehow create safety, security, oneness, peace and unity in our lives, to
somehow be reconnected to God through our relationships, and a desire to feel
loved by having lovers, partners and friends.
And we are submitting to the needs of partners, friends, family, jobs... Giving our
power away for these illusions, but inevitably these relationships will fall apart,
because they are built on a powerless position, where you must give your power
away.
In typical 3rd dimensional reality, rarely do people consciously relate to each
others true essence or the divine soul connection of the relationship. We are
typically relating to our images, perceptions, beliefs, pictures of reality, ideas,
agreements, with and about that relationship, person or group, and what we
think or believe they are, or should be to us or for us. Were relating typically as
an idea, a concept, a belief and often romantic fantasies , often based on mutual
agreements to deny or support the illusions of unworthiness, lack, separation,
enemy consciousness.
We help each other survive emotionally by reinforcing our
social/sexual/relationship/family bonds. I will stay with you; and be nice to you;
and be a good sex partner; and good love partner; and good friend; and good
father/mother; and get along with your family, and friends, and business
friends, to ensure our social, emotional, sexual, financial, survival. We will be
supported by society and family because we are good, up standing, responsible
citizens, who do the right thing; have kids; spend time with family on holidays; go
to work each day; and support whatever fascist regime is in power.
From a spiritual perspective, typical relationship is built on illusion and fear. And
your choice is: maintain the illusions or shatter all the illusions by accepting your
divinity and sovereignty. The choice is: maintain the agreements to help each
other feel loved and neededand make these types of relationships more
important than following my own spirit; more important than embodying my own
God presence; more important than knowing the truth; more important than co-
creating Heaven on Earth. Or accepting your divine sovereignty and making
following your own spirit your sole/soul priority in life.

Divine Relationships
So how do I manifest Divine Relationship in my life?
As is often the case in this process of realization, sometimes the best way to
determine what you want is based upon what you do not want. And by no longer
engaging in old patterns, you make room for new divine realizations and
experiences to enter your life. So in the case of relationships, you may not
initially be able to manifest new divine relationships, but at least you know what
kind of relationships not to interact with. Which entails getting to a place in your
consciousness where you do not care what other people think about you and
ceasing the pursuit of relationships so that you can have an experience of feeling
loved by having a partner/lover, and ceasing to play all of the typical co-
dependent games.
It is as simple as that, but because we have a whole cavalcade of aspects of our
consciousness that are not quite through with these patterns, it is not so simple
as that. There is much work to be done in the healing and forgiveness
department to bring all of your aspects back into the heart of love, so that they
are no longer pursuing love as if it is something that can be possessed. But that
does not mean that you need to go live in a cave and become a recluse either.
The ascension process cannot be rushed. Much patience and compassion is
needed to accomplish this task of enlightening all aspects of yourself that have
disconnected from Source, from love, and assisting humanity to do the same. So
the process of releasing the social consciousness of survival, should be done as
gently as possible, so that your ego can make a gentle transition to oneness, and
energy bodies and DNA can catch up with all of the light you are embodying
without frying your energy systems.

Releasing Co-Dependence
The initiations of this transition of releasing the patterns of co-dependence can
be quite painful. And the prospect of giving up these security blankets does not
look and sound too great, especially the prospect of being rejected by everyone
you have previously known to be family, friends and lovers. This doesnt feel so
divine, and losing jobs and becoming un-employable doesnt feel so good either.
But unfortunately these scenarios are more often the case when embarking upon
a life of empowerment, divinity and sovereignty. But the pain and suffering is
temporary, as you let go of the old patterns and the people still addicted to those
antiquated patterns of energy exchange. And the joy of empowerment and
experiencing your sovereignty and divine power for the first time is ecstatic and
well worth the journey. And reconnecting to your divine family/soul mates, is an
absolute joy.
After a while of successfully making it through the initiations, you are transported
through the gateway of Divine Love and realize that you dont need anyone to
exchange energy with. There is a constant infinite supply of divine love within you
all the time, and available to be channeled from Source. And you no longer need
to maintain certain relationships and manipulate yourself to do things you dont
want to do to ensure your survival. You now become completely un-social. Your
relationships become transpersonal. You connect with people because there is a
divine attraction to do so, because there is a soul (vertical) connection to
acknowledge and nurture. Horizontal co-dependent connections are continually
disconnected and released. And only synchronis evolutionary relationships are
encouraged and supported.
All your relationships become specific to your individual mission, their individual
mission and your group mission of co-creating heaven in your lives and for the
whole planet. You truly open your heart and all of your chakras, you open to the
constant flow of sexual-chi-prana-life-force-creation-God-Unity/Christ energy
between you. You acknowledge, feel, see and experience the love that you both
(or more) are, without doing anything. The love that is between you, just is.
Certainly there are soul connections and past life connections, but these
profound love connections are reminders of the love we all naturally have for
everyone and everything, a love that just is.

Beyond lack
From this natural base of love-unity-Christ consciousness, there is no such thing
as worthy/unworthy. No such thing as lack/abundance. Duality is no longer
believed to be real. Prosperity is the natural essence of the universe and
everyone supports the prosperity of everyone. There is no lack, so there is no
need to make agreements with myself, others or the universe to provide for me.
Everything and anything is available anytime in an instant without having to work
for it or prove you are worthy of receiving it. There is no need to play the games
of lack and separation any longer.

People will still need to play these games for their own experience and soul
growth, but you are done playing this game. When you are bored with a game
you stop playing, simple as that. Now lets play a new game shall we?, its called
Co-Create Heaven On Earth, a game that everyone can play, and there is only
one rule to this game and that is, act from, be, allow, embody and manifest your
vision of Heaven on Earth! And everyone will get better and better at playing this
game of divine expression, as they figure out what that rule means, and as they
see what it means by your example of you creating Heaven in your Life. When
people give themselves permission to follow their heart dreams and live a real
life, and thrive from their creativity, not just survive.
Lets Play Heaven on Earth!

4th Dimensional Relationships


In order to learn to play this new game of heaven creation, it is necessary to
expand ones consciousness to higher levels of awareness, facilitating 4th and
5th dimensional relationships, or co-creationships (as I like to call them).
4th dimensional relationships are more spiritually and karmically based. These
types of relationships are the ones experienced in the early to middle stages of
awakening as one is clearing their karma and healing their past lives, and their
soul and ancestral lineage. So personally through the laws of Divine Reflection
and Divine Resonance, we manifest people who will assist us with this, directly
and indirectly, to clear, heal and forgive our past lives.
Healing is the typical orientation of 4th Dimensional thinking. Your relationships
are about clearing your karma; balancing and healing your dark side; balancing
and healing the masculine and feminine; healing your past lives with each other;
healing your bodies; adopting longevity and releasing disease; healing the
planet, and trying to create unity through engaging with and forming new
groups with people who have similar orientations and beliefs. Typically, people in
humanity act this out by joining religions and adhering to dogmatic beliefs to
maintain social security.
The 4th dimensional initiations can be strong and intense as we balance the
conflict between light and dark and past experiences of the use and abuse of
power, control, magic and alchemy, when we have separated ourselves and
disconnected from God-Goddess/Love. Also intense is the journey of balancing
the divine masculine and divine feminine within, and the balancing of the
energies of being and doing.
In the new age community, people are more often than not, relating to each other
from this perspective which is more accelerated than the typical human 3rd
dimensional perspective of relationship, but an even higher perspective is
needed, which is a 5th Dimensional Unity/Christ consciousness level. So people
are generally relating consciously 3rd Dimensionally, and sub-consciously 4th
dimensionally, and unconsciously 5th dimensionally.
People in the New Age may often be contacting a higher 5th dimensional
perspective as well, bringing this higher awareness to the conscious mind. From
my perspective, we must be aware of all three and decide which is most
important in ones life. All three have their place and must be acknowledged for
their validity and place in individual lives and current perspective of reality. But as
always, there are always higher perspectives and higher truths, and every
relationship consists of all three to various levels.

5th Dimensional Relationships - Co-Creationship


5th dimensional relationships are transpersonal. Your relationships are based
upon mutual honor of each others sovereignty and mastery.
The only purpose of your interaction is for the evocation of your divinity and
mastery and the embodiment and action of the divine plan through you as a
divine channel of God-Goddess. There are 4th dimensional elements as you
clear any personal karma together, and be divine reflections for each other to
heal your karmic/Akashic records in general, but this not done strictly from a
healing perspective, but as an act of love to facilitate soul reconnection. In other
words, by combining two or more divine forces, greater power/creation is
accomplished with ease and grace.
As you awaken more fully, and accept prosperity as your birthright, your
relationships will eventually lose all traces of 3rd dimensional survival orientation.
The 4th dimensional aspects will also drift away as you heal/balance more and
more of your karma, heal your past and reconnect your soul aspects to
soul/love/source within. Then all of your relationships are primarily about co-
creating Heaven within and without; co-creating heaven in your life, each others
lives, the entire planet and the entire universe.
Until then, you will need to get into relationships for 3rd and 4th dimensional
reasons, until you are done with those illusions and have created balance within
yourself and your soul. You will need to engage in relationships to clear your
karma with individuals, but you will soon realize that each individual relationship
is a clearing of every single relationship you have ever had with anyone. So you
dont have to try to meet up with every single person you have ever had a
relationship with to clear your karma. You would have to spend lifetimes trying to
do this and all the while generating more karma on and on to infinity.
So you must realize what karma really is and that it can all be gracefully cleared
right here and now just by you realizing who you are, that you are All-That-Is
expressing itself at a single point, then what has happened or will happen was
just experience and soul growth. (Please read my karma articles:
http://www.zakairan.com/ZaKaiRansArticlesBooks/ZaKaiRansArticlesBooks.htm
So take your pick. Survival oriented relationships, karmic relationships or heaven
relationships its your choice.

Soul Family
Now, assuming you choose heaven relationships, you will make it a top priority to
solely engage with people who have a similar vision as yourself. Initially they will
be few and far between. But as your ascension process continues, more and
more soul family will manifest, beings who have a similar 5th dimensional bias as
yourself. The people you will be able to interact with for longer periods of time,
will be those beings whos sole/soul interest is living a 5th dimensional Christ-
Consciousness existence. Those beings who take complete responsibility for
their reality, karma and manifestations. Beings who are open, cooperative,
communicative and creative. Beings who say yes to life and sensuality and
adventure. Beings that enjoy their own energy and vibrations so much, that they
do not need to spend time with you or anyone, but when the synergy is correct,
the joy of being together is ecstatic and divine.
The next step in everyones awakening and mastery process is Soul Family
Connection. The new civilization of light and love will only manifest through
group/soul connection and creation. Christ Consciousness is a group soul thing,
where all things are honored and included as part of the wholeness of All-That-Is.
This initiation is the clearing of all group soul lifetimes and karma. Often this
journey can be difficult because light workers can be some of the trickiest beings
to deal with. And to the degree that each individual is willing to clear their group
soul stuff, will be to the degree that you will be able to interact as a group on
wholistic levels and be able to truly manifest divine creations.

How to nurture the creative energy


Now back to one. How do I nurture my creative/sexual energies? The key is the
heart. To become centered in the heart and live and breathe and function with an
open heart, is the absolute key. And if youre heart ever closes, you next step is
to discover why, clear, heal and forgive, so that your heart will open again.
With an open heart, you are able to access your divine essence which is love.
Then you do not desire to obtain love, or experiences that make you feel loved,
because when you access your center, your love core essence, there is no need
for false gods and false feelings, only the real thing will do. Your creative
energies can now be kept for yourself, rather than sold to the highest bidder, or
squandered frivolously. And your creative sexual energies can be shared with
others who do not need your energy, nor do they want it, because they have
access to their own center and because they are not interested in taking your
power. These energies are shared for their real purpose, for the conception and
birthing of new divine creations. The energy is channeled and synchronized in
Unity/Christ expression for Co-Creation rather than procreation. And your
intimate sensual/sexual expression can now become a co-creation, with no goals
and no future intentions, only the energy of the moment. You want nothing from
your partner/s other than for your mutual ecstasy and divinity evocation. Energy
and pleasure is equally given as received. Or it is given and received without
expectation of return. And every moment is an orgasm.
Go forth and be fruitful, blissful, sensual, ecstatic, adventurous and have fun!