You are on page 1of 48

OCTOBER 06, 2017 VOLUME 48 ISSUE 40 • AMERICA’S LGBTQ NEWS SOURCE • WASHINGTONBLADE.

COM

Gay couple among victims in Las Vegas massacre
Mass shooting the shooting.
displaces Pulse as worst Robinson worked as a legal records
specialist for Las Vegas, according to the
in modern U.S. history Las Vegas Review Journal. Robinson went
to Basic High School and held degrees
By CHRIS JOHNSON from Nevada State College and Western
cjohnson@washblade.com International University.
His boyfriend, Robert Eardley, was also
A Utah gay couple attending the country present at the shooting and was wounded
music festival in Las Vegas where the after taking shrapnel in his back, but is
deadliest mass shooting in modern U.S. expected to survive, according to KUTV.
history took place was among the victims of Eardley was quoted by local affiliate FOX
the tragedy, according to local media reports. 13 as saying Robinson was an “amazing,
Cameron Robinson, a 28-year-old Cedar determined, hard working man that spent
City, Utah, resident who worked in Las his life always striving to be better.”
Vegas, was among the 58 people killed in “He was so kind and sweet and caring,”
the attack, CBS affiliate KUTV reported. His Eardley said. “He was quiet and shy but
sister, Meghan Ervin, is quoted as saying once you got to know him he was goofy
CAMERON ROBINSON (right) was killed in the attack on a Las Vegas country music Robinson was struck in the neck during and fun and so enjoyable. His family and
festival this week. His boyfriend, ROBERT EARDLEY (left) was wounded.

PHOTO COURTESY OF GOFUNDME CONTINUES ON PAGE 15

‘Christian Supremacist’ Pence on deck
A dutiful Trump servant?
dictatorship, as all about him cower, fearing his
Or Dominionist working tirades of unpredictable temperament or an
to impose religious law unleashed primary challenger.
“Donald Trump’s brand of preening
from the Oval Office? narcissism and incompetence is a constant
reminder of just how far we’ve fallen,” writes
By KAREN OCAMB Vanity Fair editor Graydon Carter in the
November issue.
Next month, America faces the one-year Thank God, some say, that “adult” Vice
anniversary of having elected reality TV star President Mike Pence is waiting in the wings,
Donald Trump as president of the United crouching on deck to be called up to save the
States. Pundits, journalists and everyday ballgame, otherwise known as the Republic,
people worldwide are stunned and flummoxed should Trump be indicted, impeached, deposed,
Vice President MIKE PENCE has a long anti-LGBT record, prompting as each day yields a new illustration of how
fears of his influence on President Trump.
PHOTO BY GAGE SKIDMORE
the chronic liar is striving to “normalize” CONTINUES ON PAGE 16

BOLD MOVE GAY FAMILIES WHARF TIME

David Grosso seeks Lesbian couple, two kids The Anthem promises
to decriminalize sex on cross-country trip and to bring more A-list acts
work in Washington. more in our special section. to city’s music scene.

PAGE 15 PAGE 27-29 PAGE 31
0 2 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M

STARTUPS AND ENTREPRENEURS

Easton location:
21 North Hanson Street, Suite 201, Easton, MD 21601
 24/7 Access
 100mb Wifi
 Conference Room
 Network Printer

Visit or call

hotDesks.org
410.770.9330
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 0 3

6 uniquely furnished guest rooms w/ baths

Includes 3-course gourmet breakfast
with your choice of entrée.

Gay-owned and operated, welcoming the LGBTQ
Community, Friends, and Family.

Dog-friendly with on-site dog sitting available

Special Event Space Available
...more than just a place to sleep
For information or reservations: 410-822-0605
Located in Easton’s downtown historic district,
info@hummingbirdinneaston.com visit local boutiques and restaurants, and celebrate
www.HummingbirdInnEaston.com the arts at our galleries, museums, theatre, and
14 N. Aurora St., Easton, MD 21601 year-round festivals.

Trippe-Hilderbrandt
Gallery

Paintings Photographs Sculpture
23 N Harrison St. Easton, Maryland
410-310-8727 tripphilder@icloud.com
www.trippehilderbrandtgallery.com
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

0 4 • O CTO B ER 0 6 , 2017 LO CA L N E W S

Comings & Goings D.C. Baptist church ‘affirms’ LGBT inclusion
Fanning to lead aerospace association
Members of D.C.’s First Baptist Church located at 1328 16th St., N.W., affirmed on
By PETER ROSENSTEIN Sept. 24 through a “discernment action” that LGBT members of the congregation should
be fully included and involved in the life of the church, according to a statement church
The Comings & Goings column is about sharing the professional successes of our community. officials released last week.
We want to recognize those landing new jobs, new clients for their business, joining boards of
organizations and other achievements. Please share your successes with us at comingsandgo- “A clear majority of members present and participating in the action (78.5 percent)
ings@washblade.com. We also invite LGBTQ+ college students to share their successes with us. affirmed a statement that supported LGBT members’ ‘full participation in the life of our
community,’” the statement says.
Congratulations to Eric Fanning who It adds that the action means LGBT members of the church would be “fully eligible
will start his position as president and CEO to participate in the ordinances, blessings, benefits and responsibility of church
of the Aerospace Industries Association membership including communion, baptism, marriage, ordination, parent/child
(AIA) on Jan. 1, 2018. According to the AIA dedications and all offices and positions of leadership.”
website, “The AIA, founded in 1919, only The statement quotes Senior Pastor Julie Pennington-Russell as saying, “First Baptist
a few years after the birth of flight, is the Church has affirmed that being open and inclusive of all people, without exception, is
most authoritative and influential trade part of the essential character of our community of faith. Our welcome extends to every
association representing the U.S. aerospace person, as does the welcome of Christ.”
and defense industry on Capitol Hill, within It says the action on Sunday, Sept. 24, “capped a years-long journey of prayer, Scripture
the administration and internationally. study and small-group discussions by the congregation” over the LGBT inclusion topic.
As the voice of American aerospace and ERIC FANNING The statement, which was prepared by church member Rob Marus, concludes by
defense, AIA’s strong advocacy is essential PHOTO COURTESY OF FANNING quoting church Inclusion Team member Kate Campbell as saying that the action to fully
to protecting the interests of our nation include LGBT members “does not bind any other individual member’s conscience on
and our industry.” Upon announcing Eric’s an issue about which they may differ, but rather requires honest commitment to life
appointment, AIA Chair Dennis Muilenburg together in the community of Christ regardless of differences.”
said, “Eric is an accomplished, respected LOU CHIBBARO JR.
leader whose broad government and
national security experience will serve AIA
and its member companies well.” U.S. Attorney’s Office sponsors
On accepting the position, Fanning said,
“The aerospace and defense industry
D.C. hate crimes forum
represents more than 2.4 million proud  
workers, representing over 13 percent of The Office of the United States Attorney for the District of Columbia is inviting D.C.
the nation’s manufacturing force from all residents, including members of the LGBT community, to participate in an upcoming
50 states, who passionately understand CHIP WHEELER forum called “Prosecuting Hate: Looking At Hate/Bias Crimes in the District of Columbia.”
PHOTO COURTESY OF WHEELER
the gravity of their contribution to our The event is scheduled to take place Oct. 25 at 6:30 p.m. on the second floor of the
economy and national security. …This is city’s Reeves Municipal Center building at 2000 14th St., N.W.
an exciting time, and I am proud to lead A flier announcing the forum says its aim is to bring together law enforcement
AIA in its role as the voice of American aerospace and defense.” officials and the community to gain a better understanding of issues surrounding hate
Fanning is well known in Washington, D.C. He served as the 22nd Secretary crimes related to “race, color, religion, national origin, sex, age, marital status, personal
of the Army providing leadership and oversight of our nation’s largest military appearance, sexual orientation, gender identity/expression” and other categories,
service. He previously served as chief of staff of the Secretary of Defense, Acting including homelessness and physical disability.
Secretary of the Air Force and Under Secretary of the Air Force, and Deputy William Miller, a spokesperson for the U.S. Attorney’s Office, said the event will consist
Under Secretary and Deputy Chief Management Officer of the Navy. He is the of an official meeting of the U.S. Attorney’s Hate-Bias Task Force brought directly into
only person to have held senior appointments in all three military departments the community.
and the Office of the Secretary of Defense. During his more than 25 years of “The Hate-Bias Task Force is a collaboration of agency and community partners in
distinguished government service, Fanning also worked on the staff of the the District who focus on addressing the needs of the various affinity groups in the city
House Armed Services Committee, and was a special assistant to the Secretary combating hate-bias crimes,” Miller told the Washington Blade.
of Defense and associate director of political affairs at the White House. LOU CHIBBARO JR.
Congratulations also to Chip Wheeler, who has been appointed to the  
position of Associate Director for Volunteer Recruitment and Selection at the
Peace Corps. Creating the Peace Corps was one of the signature achievements of Baltimore event raises $100K for LGBT clinic program
President John F. Kennedy. For more than five decades, Peace Corps volunteers
in 140 countries have demonstrated ingenuity, creativity, and grit to solve critical Baltimore’s Chase Brexton Health Care’s third annual Charm Ball on Sept. 27 raised
challenges alongside community leaders. approximately $100,000 to support its Hope Lives Here fund, which helps Chase Brexton
Prior to assuming this position with the Peace Corps, Wheeler served for the past patients with critical needs, according to a statement released by the LGBT supportive
10 years as national director, community investments, in the Office of Corporate organization.
Responsibility at Voya Financial. He also led the Voya Foundation supporting “These funds will make an immediate and significant impact in the community we serve,”
children’s education, financial literacy and diversity. Before joining Voya Financial, said Becky Frank, Chase Brexton’s Vice President of Marketing and Development. “Some of
he served for 10 years as vice president for private sector initiatives at America’s our patients are forced to choose between essentials such as prescriptions or groceries,”
Promise Alliance, which was founded by General Colin L. Powell. she said. “With our donors’ gracious support, we can ensure that they receive both.”
In addition, he has served in leadership positions at the U.S. Chamber of Commerce The statement says more than 220 guests gathered at the B&O Railroad Museum in
Business Civic Leadership Council; as a Trustee of America’s Promise Alliance; on downtown Baltimore to attend the event, which included a dinner and dancing. It says
the board of the Association of Corporate Contribution Professionals; and on the Chase Brexton also officially launched its 40th anniversary celebration at the event.
corporate advisory board of the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce. “The coming year will be packed with commemorative events spanning the
Wheeler is a native of St. Louis and a graduate of Texas Christian University. organization’s four decades of care, all leading up to an especially distinctive retrospective
event at the fourth annual Charm Bill in September of 2018,” the statement says.
LOU CHIBBARO JR.
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 0 5

COLUMBUS DAY EVENT
THE AREA'S LARGEST SELECTION OF MOST CUSTOMIZABLE FURNITURE BRANDS

SAVE UP
TO $1,500
toward the
purchase of
Stressless®
$4,368 seating.

3PC ITALIAN LEATHER SECTIONAL Ends
WITH 2X POWER RECLINERS & ADJUSTABLE HEADRESTS 10/16/17.
Also available in sofa and other configurations
MSRP $8,599

TAKE 30-45% OFF* SPECIAL ORDER OR IN-STOCK MERCHANDISE
FALLS CHURCH CHANTILLY TYSONS ROCKVILLE
703.820.8000 703.766.8000 703.556.3900 301.881.3900

* Cannot be combined with other promotions. HamiltonsSofaGallery.com

Serving Our Community for 35 years Keep your promise to protect each other.
a d v i C e • m e d iat i o N • L i t i G at i o N • a P P e a L S • C o L L a B o r at i o N

FamiLY | eState PLaNNiNG | emPLoYmeNt | immiGratioN
ComPLeX LitiGatioN | CiviL riGHtS | LGBt | adoPtioN | BuSiNeSS

Silber, Perlman, Sigman & Tilev, P.A.
at tor N e YS at L aw • d C | m d | va

3 0 1 . 8 9 1 . 2 2 0 0 • S P - L aw. C o m
6 9 3 0 C a r r o L L av e , S u i t e 6 1 0 • ta k o m a Pa r k m d

Wills & Trusts
Powers of Attorney • Living Wills
Partnership & Prenuptial Agreements
(240) 778-2330 • (703) 536-0220
www.PartnerPlanning.com
Serving the LGBT Community
in DC/MD/VA since 1983
Lawrence S. Jacobs/McMillan Metro, PC
202.319.8541 • www.lgbtc.com • Se habla espanol
~
0 6 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

L O CA L NEW S O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 0 7

LGBT students protected under Del. anti-bias proposal
Draft policy allows trans bathroom that corresponds to their gender
kids to use bathrooms identity.”In a July 17 memorandum, Delaware
Gov. John Carney (D) directed the state’s
matching gender identity education department to develop the school
nondiscrimination policy and called for it to
By LOU CHIBBARO JR. be published for public comment by Nov. 1.
lchibbaro@washblade.com  The department appears to have
completed that task on Sept. 26, when
In a little-noticed development, the Delaware it posted the draft policy and regulation
Department of Education last month released documents on its website. It also
a draft model anti-discrimination policy for the announced that the department was
state’s public and charter schools that includes holding “community conversation”
strong protections for LGBT students. meetings this week in each of the state’s
Among other things, the proposed three counties and the city of Wilmington to
policy and an accompanying draft obtain public input on the two documents.
regulation would require schools to “work “Every student should be able to learn, Delaware Gov. JOHN CARNEY directed the state’s education department to develop the school
with students and families on providing achieve, and grow without unlawful nondiscrimination policy.
access to locker rooms and bathrooms discrimination based on their appearance,
that correspond to the students’ gender gender, race and/or ethnicity, gender
identity or gender expression.” identity or expression, sexual orientation, discrimination law that, among other attorney and Equality Delaware official
In the area of team sports in the state’s or any other protected characteristic,” categories, bans discrimination based on Mark Purpura and Wilmington activist
public and charter schools, the draft regulation Carney said in his July 17 memo. sexual orientation and gender identity. Andrea Rashbaum, who is the mother of
states, “A student shall have the opportunity to “I hereby direct the Department, in The Delaware education department’s a transgender high school student.
participate on the team that is consistent with conjunction with stakeholders across our website shows that Carney appointed Also named to the advisory panel
the student’s gender identity regardless of the state, to promulgate, through regulation, a 15-member Anti-Discrimination was Cape Henlopen School District
student’s assigned sex at birth.” clear guidance to our school districts and Development Team consisting of community Superintendent Robert Fulton, whose
Despite this language, Alison May, a charter schools to prohibit discrimination advocates and public school officials from district includes schools in the cities of
spokesperson for the state Department in educational programs, and activities for across the state to “review, advise and provide Lewes and nearby Rehoboth Beach,
of Education told the Blade in an email on students, on the basis of any legally protected feedback” on the draft anti-discrimination where large numbers of LGBT people live
Wednesday, “Neither the draft regulation characteristic,” Carney states in the memo. regulation and model policy. and visit in the summer months.
nor the draft model policy requires that Although he didn’t say so directly, Carney Among those Carney appointed to the
students be allowed to use a locker room or was referring to the state’s sweeping anti- advisory body are Delaware gay rights � CONTINUES AT WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

Lesbian activist Moregan Zale dies at 73
Former D.C. resident
“Moregan continually worked for gay Girl Scouts, and kids birthday parties,”
worked as clothing designer rights and women’s liberation,” Schimmel said Schimmel.
said, becoming an activist for marriage Along the way in her wide range of
By LOU CHIBBARO JR. equality long before the U.S. Supreme activities Zale lived and worked out of
lchibbaro@washblade.com Court ruling making same-sex marriage a houseboat moored in a harbor in San
the law of the land. Diego; moved in with friends on an 1,800
Veteran lesbian activist Moregan Q. Schimmel said she and Zale liked to acre farm in the Blue Ridge Mountains in
Zale, a former D.C. area resident whose boast that they were “married” three Virginia, where they created a “lesbian
career included work as a clothing times before same-sex nuptials became community” in four rented farmhouses.
designer, seamstress, upholsterer, legal in the U.S. The first was in 1987 in It was at the farmhouse in Virginia
sewing teacher and amateur stand- D.C. as part of a mass demonstration where Zale and Schimmel met and fell in
up comic, died April 16 at a hospice in of 3,000 gay or lesbian couples taking love, Schimmel recalled.
Danbury, Conn. marriage vows on the weekend of a In keeping with her avocation as
P.J. Schimmel, her partner and wife national gay rights march on Washington. sometimes stand-up comic Zale in the
of 36 years, said she had been suffering In 2001 the two traveled to Vermont for last months of her life wrote a “Cross-
from cancer and other ailments. a civil union, which the state had recently Over Comedy, telling what was funny
The couple lived in Arlington, Va., for legalized, Schimmel said. Then finally in MOREGAN Q. ZALE about being told she had a terminal
more than 20 years, where Zale operated 2003 they traveled to Canada to be legally illness,” Schimmel said. “We read some of
an antiques and upholstery business in married being able to do so in Connecticut. and organized a lesbian fashion show at it at her ‘After-Party’ celebrating her life,”
Virginia before they moved to the Norwalk, Zale was born in Brooklyn, N.Y. in 1943, her Manhattan loft, which was featured in Schimmel says in her write-up.
Conn., area in 1993, where they remained where she went to public schools and DYKE magazine, according to Schimmel. “Along with sharing our life together,
until the time of Zale’s death in April. attended Brooklyn College. A short time At the age of 62 she went back to college Moregan’s passion was creativity,”
Zale’s involvement in the LGBT rights later she became one of the first women to study early childhood education and Schimmel said. “She loved people, but
movement dates back to 1970, according to go to an upholstery trade school in “reinvented herself” with a new business wore her heart on her sleeve and would
to Schimmel, when she marched in New York City, Schimmel said. called Sew Create & Celebrate, teaching sometimes get mad at the world. She had
the first Christopher Street Liberation “As a young girl, her grandmother sewing to kids and adults, Schimmel recounts a great joie de vivre and enthusiasm and
Day march in New York City that taught her the basics of sewing,” Schimmel in a write-up on her wife’s varied career. will be missed by many.”
commemorated the first anniversary of noted. “In the ‘60s and ‘70s she designed “She taught thousands to sew, both at Vale is survived by Schimmel, her son
the Stonewall Riots. and made custom clothing for lesbians her studio and at after school programs, and a grandson.
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

N A T I O NA L NEW S O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 1 1

White House invokes ‘religious
freedom’ to defend anti-gay nominee

SARAH HUCKABEE SANDERS invoked religious freedom to defend an anti-gay nominee. TOM PRICE resigned amid scandal over use of private planes.
SCREENSHOT VIA CSPAN WASHINGTON BLADE PHOTO BY MICHAEL KEY

White House Press Secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders invoked “religious freedom” on
Monday to defend one of President Trump’s judicial nominees who has faced criticism LGBT groups cheer Price’s
for her views, including opposition to same-sex marriage.
Sanders made the remarks in response to a question from The Heritage Foundation’s resignation as health secretary
Daily Signal, which asked if the White House is concerned about criticism in Congress
and the media over Amy Barrett. Trump nominated her for a seat on the U.S. Seventh LGBT groups were among those cheering the news last week that Secretary of
Circuit Court of Appeals. Health & Human Services Tom Price resigned from his post amid scandal over
“We certainly support religious freedom and would ask that Congress also support using more than $500,000 in taxpayer dollars for private jets.
that as well,” Sanders said succinctly. Although the cited reason for his resignation was the scandal, Price exits in
Although Sanders was responding to a question about Barrett in particular, her the aftermath of several congressional attempts to repeal the Affordable Care
response could have applied to any number of Trump nominees with anti-LGBT records. Act, which provides health insurance for an estimated 20 million people, and
Among them is Jeff Mateer, whom Trump nominated for a federal judgeship in Texas. accusations the Trump administration is sabotaging the law.
A CNN report revealed 2015 comments in which Mateer endorsed widely discredited David Stacy, the Human Rights Campaign’s director of governmental affairs,
“ex-gay” conversion therapy, opposed same-sex marriage and called transgender kids said in a statement Price’s actions had a significantly negative impact on the
part of “Satan’s plan.” health of LGBT people.
The White House briefing room exchange follows a New York Times article published “We welcome Tom Price’s resignation because he jeopardized the health and
last week about concerns over ties Barrett has to a Christian group called People of well being of LGBTQ people and other marginalized communities,” Stacy said.
Praise, which teaches husbands are the heads of their wives and should take authority “Americans deserve a secretary of Health and Human Services who will stand
over the family. up for them and look out for their best interests no matter who they are, where
As noted in the article, Barrett faced intense questioning over her religious views from they come from or whom they love.”
Democrats during her confirmation hearing. Sen. Dianne Feinstein (D-Calif.) said, “When Prior to joining the Trump administration, Price had built an anti-LGBT record
you read your speeches, the conclusion one draws is that the dogma lives loudly within as a U.S. House member representing Georgia in Congress. In 2006, he voted for
you.” Social conservatives have interpreted that line as an attack on Barrett’s faith. a U.S. constitutional amendment that would have banned same-sex marriage
Barrett has voiced anti-LGBT views on at least one occasion that would be consistent throughout the country. Price also voted against hate crimes protections
with Catholic Church dogma. In 2015, Barrett co-signed a letter by the Ethics & Public legislation, “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal and a version of the Employment Non-
Policy Center for Catholic Women stating opposition to same-sex marriage just months Discrimination Act.
after the U.S. Supreme Court ruled for marriage equality nationwide. In 2013, Price participated in a conference call hosted by Tea Party Unity and
“We give witness that the Church’s teachings — on the dignity of the human person said a caller was “absolutely right” about the potential of negative health and fiscal
and the value of human life from conception to natural death; on the meaning of human impact of legislation promoting LGBT rights. The caller was Rabbi Noson Leiter,
sexuality, the significance of sexual difference and the complementarity of men and who attributed the arrival of marriage equality in New York to Hurricane Sandy.
women; on openness to life and the gift of motherhood; and on marriage and family Sarah Kate Ellis, CEO of GLAAD, cited Price’s anti-LGBT record in a statement
founded on the indissoluble commitment of a man and a woman — provide a sure celebrating the resignation of Price.
guide to the Christian life, promote women’s flourishing, and serve to protect the poor “After decades of targeting marginalized communities for his own profit,
and most vulnerable among us,” the letter says. karma finally caught up with Tom  Price,” Ellis said.  “It’s a relief that an anti-
Barrett also has invoked the ire of progressive groups by saying abortion is “always LGBTQ activist like Price was removed from the Trump Administration’s highest
immoral,” coming out against the contraception mandate under the Affordable Care ranks, but LGBTQ Americans must remain vigilant and prepare for the next
Act and criticizing U.S. Chief Justice John Roberts for allowing the individual mandate nomination — as they could bring the same discriminatory agenda as the rest of
in Obamacare to stand as a tax. Also at issue is an article in which she argued Catholic the president’s picks.”
judges must recuse themselves in death penalty cases because their religious faith CHRIS JOHNSON
conflicts with the law.
CHRIS JOHNSON
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

1 2 • O CTO B ER 0 6 , 2017 NATIONAL NEWS

Nat’l trans group launches
political arm to impact elections
A leading national transgender group has
launched a political arm aimed at electing
candidates to advance transgender rights.
The National Center for Transgender
Equality, which has existed since 2003
as 501(c)(3) lobbying group, announced
its new 501(c)(4) at an event Tuesday
evening at the D.C.-based law firm of
Squire, Patton, Boggs.
Mara Keisling, executive director of the
National Center for Transgender Equality
GREGORY ANGELO, president of Log Cabin Republicans, defended the administration’s vote.
Action Fund, said during the event
WASHINGTON BLADE PHOTO BY MICHAEL KEY the new political arm will foster a new
direction for the organization.
“We’re really here to serve to trans
White House: Vote people, we’re here to take action, to get
things done, hold people accountable
against UN death penalty and move the ball forward,” Keisling said.
“Things are scary right now, trans people
The National Center for Transgender Equality
endorsed DANICA ROEM.

resolution not about gays and our children are being attacked
everywhere, but I promise you we have
PHOTO COURTESY OF DANICA ROEM

not come this far to only come this far.
The Trump administration is pushing back against criticism over its vote at the We’re still moving forward.”
United Nations against a resolution repudiating the death penalty, saying the Already the organization has made three endorsements upon its debut. One is Danica
move wasn’t about the application of the punishment to same-sex relationships. Roem, a Virginia transgender journalist seeking to replace anti-LGBT Del. Bob Marshall
A White House National Security Council spokesperson said Tuesday the vote in his seat representing the state’s 13th district in the House of Delegates. Roem could
against the measure is consistent with other U.S. votes at the United Nations be the first openly transgender person to be elected and serve in a state legislature.
against the death penalty resolution in previous administrations. The other two candidates are running for Minneapolis City Council. One is Andrea
“The United States unequivocally condemns the application of the Jenkins, running to represent Ward 8 on the city council, and the other is Phillipe
death penalty for homosexuality, blasphemy, adultery and apostasy,” the Cunningham, who’s running to represent Ward 4. Both candidates could be the first
spokesperson said. “As in years past, we voted against this resolution because openly transgender people elected to city council in a major U.S. city and Cunningham
of broader concerns with the resolution’s approach to condemning the death would be the first openly transgender man to hold public office anywhere nationwide.
penalty in all circumstances.” Additionally, the organization launched two new initiatives aimed at enhancing the
The NSC spokesperson referred the Blade’s additional inquiries to the U.S. voices of transgender people. One is “Voices for Trans Equality,” which seeks to train
mission at the United Nations, which didn’t immediately respond to a request trans people to be better advocates for trans rights. The other is “Families for Trans
for comment. Equality,” which seeks to work with families with trans youth.
As reported by the Washington Blade, the resolution  condemns use of the The organization also launched the National Council of Advisors, which seeks to solicit
death penalty for those found guilty of committing consensual same-sex sexual input from local transgender leaders across the nation.
acts. The resolution passed by a 27-13 vote margin. The United States joined Raffi Freedman-Gurspan, director of external relations for the National Center for
Saudi Arabia and others in voting against the measure. Transgender Equality, said the new efforts will “amplify the voices of trans people.”
But the measure also broadly condemns the death penalty — which is “We’re going to send out our storytellers so they can help change the narrative that’s
practiced in the United States, unlike many other developed countries — as out there,” Freedman-Gurspan said.
unfairly used against marginalized groups. The multi-faceted resolution calls on CHRIS JOHNSON
countries to adopt protocol aimed at abolishing the death penalty, welcomes
countries that have placed a moratorium on the punishment and condemns its
use against the underaged, the mentally ill or pregnant women. Court upholds ruling for Miss. anti-LGBT law
An LGBT Republican group maintains characterizing the resolution as a
measure against the death penalty for gays is off base. A federal appeals court announced last week it wouldn’t reconsider a ruling upholding
Gregory Angelo, president of Log Cabin Republicans, said he spoke with U.S. a sweeping anti-LGBT “religious freedom” law in Mississippi — although one judge
staffers at the United Nations who informed him U.S. votes against resolutions penned a stinging dissent over the refusal.
repudiating the death penalty are nothing new. The U.S. Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals refused to reconsider the ruling issued in June by
“The gist of the resolutions is in opposition to domestic interests and even a three-judge panel on the court upholding the law. The panel found the plaintiffs in the
United States law when it comes to application of death penalty in all 50 states, consolidated cases — one filed by Campaign for Southern Equality, the other by the Joshua
and the United States has consistently voted against this resolution,” Angelo said. Generation Metropolitan Community Church and 13 Mississippi ministers — lack standing
Angelo cited additional U.S. votes against similar resolutions repudiating the to challenge on the basis it violated the Establishment Clause under the First Amendment.
death penalty: One in 2007 under the George W. Bush administration as well The recorded vote against a rehearing of the decision was 12-2. Among those who
as two votes during the Obama administration — one in 2010, another in 2014. dissented was U.S. Circuit Judge James Dennis, a Clinton appointee who said “the court
As evidence previous administrations have taken similar positions, Angelo has abdicated its mandate to decide the substantive claims raised by the plaintiffs.”
pointed to a news item from 2014 during the Obama administration referencing “Respectfully, the panel opinion is wrong; the plaintiffs have standing to challenge
a U.S. vote against a resolution calling for a moratorium on the death penalty HB 1523 under Supreme Court and Courts of Appeals precedents,” Dennis writes. “The
The only difference in the most recent resolution, Angelo said, was a reference panel opinion misconstrues and misapplies the Establishment Clause precedent, and…
to a new U.N. secretary general’s report saying the death penalty is used to its analysis creates a conflict between our circuit and our sister circuits on the issue of
target gays, people suspected of being gay and those in same-sex relationships. Establishment Clause standing.”
“This was not a standalone resolution on whether or not the United Nations Even though plaintiffs aren’t challenging a religious display set up by a government
and its members supported use of the death penalty against gay individuals,” actor, which is sometimes forms the basis for Establishment Clause lawsuits, Dennis
Angelo said. writes under the anti-LGBT law “the stigmatic harm suffered by non-adherents is
CHRIS JOHNSON sufficient to establish an injury-in-fact.”
CHRIS JOHNSON
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 1 3

Your Historic Lewes Compound Awaits!

ENVISION THE POSSIBILITIES: Offered together for
two homes | one unique opportunity $1,699,900
103 Shipcarpenter Street & 240 Front Street
Call for a private tour!
16698 Ki ngs H i ghwa y S t e . A , L e w e s , D E 19958 • ( 3 02) 645- 6 66 4 • L e e A n n Gr o u p . c o m
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

1 4 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 I N T E RN A T I O N A L N E W S

City’s Pride parade in July — and Vice President Isabel de Saint Malo are among the
Gay lawyer spearheads Panama officials who publicly support marriage rights for same-sex couples.

same-sex marriage efforts
Chanis said the Panamanian Roman Catholic Church and evangelical groups have
spearheaded the opposition to the issue. He noted to the Blade that President Juan
Carlos Varela — who is Catholic — has “never gone all the way to say yes or no to
marriage equality” but “flirted with the idea of civil partnerships” for same-sex couples
during an interview.
“He didn’t restate it,” said Chanis. “You can feel he is open to something. He’s not
against it, that’s for sure.”
Chanis specifically applauded Castillo for her support, noting she is a U.N. ambassador
to stop discrimination against people with HIV/AIDS. He told the Blade a video that
showed a mother abusing her 5-year-old son because she thought he was gay prompted
her to endorse marriage rights for same-sex couples.
“She was like, ‘What the fuck? This is our country. This is not acceptable,’” said Chanis.
Castillo is among those who have appeared in a campaign in support of marriage
rights for same-sex couples.
“I always felt she was very human, she was very kind and real,” said Chanis. “She’s
controversial, that’s for sure, generally speaking because of her stance on many issues.
On this specifically she has become a face, a leader who took a risk and owned it.”
A spokesperson for Castillo’s office told the Blade earlier this month in an email that
she was not available for an interview.
MICHAEL K. LAVERS

IVÁN CHANIS BARAHONA is a gay Panamanian lawyer who is spearheading efforts to extend
marriage rights to same-sex couples in his Central American country.

PHOTO COURTESY OF IVÁN CHANIS BARAHONA

PANAMA CITY — A gay Panamanian lawyer who once lived in D.C. is leading efforts to
extend marriage rights to same-sex couples in his country.
Iván Chanis Barahona is working on behalf of a gay couple legally married in the U.K.
who is seeking formal recognition of their marriage in Panama. He is also among the
lawyers litigating a second lawsuit challenging the provision of Panamanian law that
bans same-sex couples from marrying.
The Supreme Court heard oral arguments in both lawsuits over the summer. They
have been combined into one case.
Chanis told the Washington Blade on Sept. 26 during an interview at a Panama City
coffee shop the judge who heard the lawsuits will share his ruling with the eight other
judges who sit on the court. He said he remains optimistic, even though it’s unclear
when the Supreme Court will release its decision.
“We did a really good job,” Chanis told the Blade. “We have a really solid case.”
Evan Wolfson, founder of Freedom to Marry, and Hunter T. Carter of the New York
City Bar Association, who works with advocates throughout Latin America who are
seeking marriage rights for same-sex couples in their respective countries, are among
those who filed amicus briefs in support of the plaintiffs. Chanis also noted the Supreme A law that allows same-sex couples to marry in Germany took effect on Oct. 1, 2017.
Court received amicus briefs from Herman Duarte of Fundación Igualitos in Costa Rica
and Argentina. WASHINGTON BLADE PHOTO BY MICHAEL K. LAVERS

Carlos Ernesto González is the lawyer from Morgan & Morgan, which is Panama’s
largest law firm, who specifically represents the plaintiffs in the marriage cases. Chanis,
who is not formally affiliated with Morgan & Morgan, is working pro bono on them. German same-sex marriage law takes effect
“If they decide strictly on the law, we’re supposed to win,” said Chanis, referring to the
Supreme Court. A law that allows same-sex couples to marry in Germany took effect this week.
The Inter-American Court of Human Rights in 2012 ruled in favor of Karen Atala, a The lower house of the German Parliament, which is known as the Bundestag,
lesbian judge from Chile who lost custody of her three daughters to her ex-husband on June 30 approved the measure by a 393-226 margin.
because of her sexual orientation. The landmark decision established a legal precedent Chancellor Angela Merkel voted against the bill, even though her position on
throughout Latin America. whether to allow a vote on it changed. The Social Democratic, Green and Free
The Mexican Supreme Court cited the Atala case in a 2013 ruling that found a Oaxacan Democratic Parties all back marriage rights for same-sex couples in the country.
law against same-sex marriage unconstitutional. Same-sex couples can legally marry in Finland, Sweden, Norway, Denmark,
The Movement for Homosexual Integration and Liberation, a Chilean LGBT advocacy the Netherlands, Belgium, Luxembourg, France, Spain, Portugal, Malta,
group, in 2012 filed a lawsuit with the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights on Gibraltar, Guernsey, England, Wales, Scotland, the Isle of Man, Ireland, the Faroe
behalf of three same-sex couples who are seeking marriage rights. Chilean President Islands and Iceland. President Trump last month nominated Ric Grenell — a gay
Michelle Bachelet last month introduced a same-sex marriage and adoption bill as part foreign policy expert who is a former chair of the California chapter of Log Cabin
of an agreement it reached with the group in June 2016. Republicans — to become the next U.S. ambassador to Germany.
“If they decide strictly on the law, we’re supposed to win,” Chanis told the Blade, MICHAEL K. LAVERS
referring to the Panama Supreme Court.
Panamanian First Lady Lorena Castillo — who was the grand marshal of Panama
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

NEWS O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 1 5

Still no motive in Las Vegas mass shooting
CONTINUED FROM PAGE 01 The shooter — identified as Stephen affected are in our thoughts and prayers.” Somewhere, the profile tells us, there is
Craig Paddock, 64 — fired from the 32nd Trump traveled to Las Vegas on Wednesday. another disaffected, angry man, likely
friends meant the world to him. His floor of a Las Vegas casino upon an The death toll of 58 surpasses the with a history of domestic violence who is
loss will leave a scar on us all. He will be outdoor country music festival below as shooting at Pulse nightclub in 2016 that building an arsenal like the one reportedly
missed greatly.” singer Jason Aldean performed. left 49 dead and 53 wounded at the hand in the shooter’s room as he slaughtered
A GoFundMe page has been established As of Wednesday, there was still no of Omar Mateen. people from his balcony. His twisted
to pay for Robinson’s funeral expenses. indication of the motive for the shooting. Terry DeCarlo, executive director of sense of masculinity and entitlement
As of Tuesday evening, the page had The Department of Homeland Security the Orlando LGBT Center, said on his coupled with an internet that feeds his
raised more than $16,000. reportedly said there was no “specific Facebook page his office stands ready to petty grievances into a noble mission in
“Today we lost an amazing friend, son, credible threat” involving other public assist his local community reacting to the his deluded mind.”
brother, uncle, cousin, coworker and venues in the United States. Las Vegas incident. Smith added the shooting
boyfriend to the senseless, horrible tragedy Images of the shooter’s room were “Know that The Center is working on contributes to the sense of frustration
of the Las Vegas shooting.” the page says. released Tuesday showing a cache of getting counselors to our offices, if you with federal lawmakers over inaction in
“He was full of life and love and so much semi-automatic weapons that were need to speak to someone after this response to repeated mass shootings
passion. He loved his family, friends and modified to become fully automatic. morning’s horrific events in Las Vegas, we in the United States.
everyone he came in contact with.” According to CNN, law enforcement will be making them available to you.... “Had everyone at the concert been
According to the page, Robinson officials found Paddock dead inside his stay tuned and we will release times very armed they could not have stopped
enjoying cooking, entertaining, running room at the Mandalay Bay hotel after he soon!” DeCarlo said. “ORLANDO STANDS killing,” Smith said. “He opened fire at his
marathons, traveling, going camping, apparently killed himself. WITH LAS VEGAS!!!” leisure from a tactically superior vantage
boating and being outdoors. White House Press Secretary Sarah Nadine Smith, executive director of point. More guns aren’t making us more
“Between his love to cook and amazing Huckabee Sanders said in a statement Equality Florida, called the shooting safe. More military-style weaponry is
dance moves there was always good Monday morning President Trump “has been “another horrific, inevitable, preventable, killing us with regularity. I’m heartbroken
times,” the page says. “He was such a briefed on the horrific tragedy in Las Vegas.” senseless tragedy.” about Las Vegas. But right now all I can
caring, giving and loving man. Cameron, “We are monitoring the situation closely “Pulse has been eclipsed as the feel is rage at the predictability of it and
you will be greatly missed. We love you and offer our full support to state and worst mass shooting in U.S. history,” the utter failure of our leaders to do a
so much!” local officials,” Sanders said. “All of those Smith said. “And this one will be too. damn thing.”

Grosso seeks to decriminalize sex work in D.C. 
Repeal measure, the LGBT Community, said their respective
backed by LGBT groups, groups strongly support Grosso’s bill.
“The criminalization of sex work
arrives this week disproportionately affects the LGBTQ
community, specifically LGBTQ people of
By LOU CHIBBARO JR. color,” the Anti-Violence Project told the
lchibbaro@washblade.com  Blade in a statement.
“When sex work is criminalized,
At least three prominent local LGBT sex workers experience high rates of
organizations have expressed support for violence, both from customers and
a bill D.C. Council member David Grosso from law enforcement,” the statement
(I-At-Large) was scheduled to introduce says. “Furthermore sex workers who
on Thursday calling for decriminalizing experience violence are less likely to
prostitution in the District. report these instances of violence and are
Grosso’s bill, the Reducing not able to receive victim services due to
Criminalization to Improve Community D.C.’s current laws,” it says
Safety and Health Act of 2017, would “GLAA has opposed criminalization
repeal all current D.C. laws that call for of sex work for many years now, with
criminal penalties for commercial sex work Council member DAVID GROSSO’s bill would repeal all current D.C. laws that call for criminal the understanding that these laws
engaged in by consenting adults. It would penalties for commercial sex work engaged in by consenting adults. disproportionately impact groups that are
cover sex workers and their customers. PHOTO COURTESY OF DAVID GROSSO already facing discrimination, especially
Grosso told the Washington Blade people of color, gay and trans people,
he began to seriously consider immigrants, and people with criminal
decriminalization legislation after several “So what I’m saying is our current policy illegal to engage in human trafficking or convictions,” Bagal said.
prominent human rights organizations, of criminalization of sex work hasn’t worked to force or coerce someone to engage in “We believe that removing criminal
including Amnesty International, for the District of Columbia,” he continued. sex work against their will. penalties for consensual sex work
announced support for decriminalization “It hasn’t worked for sex worker rights. It “All we’re doing is removing the between adults will improve public health
of sex work as a means of protecting the hasn’t worked for human rights. And it criminal penalties for consensual sex and safety, protect sex workers, and
human rights of sex workers. hasn’t worked for our neighborhoods.” work between adults,” he said. “There are enable us to better address violence and
“I feel like we’ve tried for a long time Grosso said removing criminal still even penalties for sex in public. You human trafficking,” he said.
to solve the issues that come with the sanctions against sex workers would also wouldn’t be able to do that.” “We are definitely in support of
prohibition of sex work in the District improve public health and safety for them Ruby Corado, executive director of the legislation that is addressing the
of Columbia,” Grosso said. “We have and put the city and police in a better D.C. LGBT community services center Casa incarceration of young people who are in
lots of issues with our streets, with position of addressing serious crimes of Ruby; Guillaume Bagal, president of the D.C. a survival mode,” said Corado, who noted
neighborhoods, with people being violence, including human trafficking. Gay and Lesbian Activists Alliance; and Josh Casa Ruby supports the Grosso bill.
unhappy because of cars being parked in He said his legislation “absolutely” Eisenstat, co-chair of the D.C. Anti-Violence
certain places and things like that,” he said. would leave in place all laws that make it Project, a program of the D.C. Center for
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

1 6 • O CTO B ER 0 6 , 2017 NATIONAL NEWS

Critics fear influence of ‘Dominionist’ Mike Pence
CONTINUED FROM PAGE 01 a massive backlash, including pressure
from the NBA, which basketball-loving
resign or any other myriad of fantasies Hoosiers could not abide, Pence backed
Trump despisers dream about. But off a bit, but never renounced the
Pence — who identifies as “a Christian, ideology that guided his pen.
a conservative and a Republican, in that In 2000, while serving as a
order” — knows his place, serving as a representative in the 107th Congress,
submissive Christian good wife, supporting Pence said: “Homosexuality is
Trump adoringly, no matter what. incompatible with military service
But whether the one-time presidential because the presence of homosexuals
aspirant is biding his time or dutifully in the ranks weakens unit cohesion.” No
following an assignment, in reality, surprise, then, when Trump-whisperer
Pence is the tip of the spear for religious Mike Pence was the exclamation point
extremist Christian warriors who now at the long sentence written by religious
occupy a place in the Oval Office. right buddies Tony Perkins, head of the
And while Trump may have initially Family Research Council, Ralph Reed,
disparaged having this less than macho- chair of the Faith & Freedom Coalition,
macho man as his running mate, he has and an assortment of other Christian
since seen the light. White evangelicals right politicos secretly writing policy,
voted for him overwhelmingly, by 80 including the surprising directive to end
percent or more, and have stuck by him. open transgender service in the military.
Is Vice President Mike Pence directing anti-LGBT policy in the White House?
Plus, they make him feel special. Why else Pence made that call to Air Force One
would a self-proclaimed germaphobe let that got Trump to tweet out the new PHOTO BY GAGE SKIDMORE

so many strangers lay hands on him as policy, according to a White House source
he bows his head over the Resolute desk, familiar with the chain of events.
promising them more religious liberty. Missouri Republican Rep. Vicky Though Trump may simply be swayed by influenced politicians and public officials
“Many right-wing Christians have Hartzler and California Republican Rep. the evangelical infatuation with him as at all levels of government and who even
convinced themselves that he is a leader Duncan Hunter got their inaccurate their leader, Pence and the evangelicals after leaving office, shape our political
in the tradition of Cyrus the Great or King claims about the $1 billion cost of gender he hangs with have a profoundly discourse. Roy Moore, the elected Chief
David who, while being deeply flawed, reassignment surgery from Peter Sprigg, deeper commitment to their version of Justice of the Alabama Supreme Court,
can be used as an instrument of God’s Senior Fellow for Policy Studies at the Christianity known as “Dominionism.” has been a rallying figure for dominionists
will,” writes Salon political writer Chauncey Family Research Council. When they Though there are different strains of all stripes for the better part of two
Devega. “Christian evangelicals’ rejection of failed to get their legislation passed, they of this spiritual warfare, it still aims decades,” he continued, about the
empirical reality and their habituation into went to Freedom Caucus head Rep. Mark at theocracy and religious freedom, controversial populist who just won the
believing the absurd and the fantastical Meadows (R-N.C.), who attends a weekly which strategists want to exploit as a Alabama Republican primary with help
mates perfectly with the zealotry of the congressional Bible study with Pence weakness in constitutional democracy. from “alt-right” leader, Steve Bannon.
broader American right, which views politics and other Christian rightists, to get into “The idea that Christians have a sacred “Others at the top of recent American
as a form of religious fundamentalism.” Pence’s office. But Perkins and company duty to get involved in politics, the law political life have included Sarah
“Trump is a Trojan horse for a cabal of had been pressing Trump since June and media, and otherwise bring their Palin, Michele Bachmann, Rick Perry,
vicious zealots who have long craved an 2016 about how the military is no place influence to bear in different public Mike Huckabee, and Newt Gingrich.
extremist Christian theocracy, and Pence for “social experimentation,” according to spheres is the animating principle behind Other prominent elected officials
is one of its most prized warriors,” Jeremy the Washington Post, so he wasn’t averse the religious right,” Religious Right in the dominionist camp include Lt.
Scahill wrote right after the 2016 election to the idea. watcher Sarah Posner wrote in Salon in Gov. Dan Patrick (R-Texas), Gov. Sam
in an article for The Intercept entitled “I think the military suspending 2011 about the dominionist strategy. “If Brownback (R-Kan.), Sen. James Lankford
“Mike Pence Will Be The Most Powerful transgender [people]  from the military you attend a Values Voters Summit, the (R-Okla.), and Rep. Steve King (R-Iowa).”
Christian Supremacist in U.S. History.” shows the influence of the religious annual Washington confab hosted by Trump recently nominated Brownback,
“Pence has been a reliable stalwart right,” Heidi Beirich, a researcher at the Family Research Council, you’ll hear one of the most anti-LGBT politicians, as
throughout his public life in the cause of the Southern Poverty Law Center speakers urging young people to go into the Ambassador-at-Large for International
Christian jihad — never wavering in his told Newsweek. media, or view Hollywood as a ‘mission Religious Freedom, where he will
commitment to America-First militarism, “The SPLC has identified 45 field.’ That’s because they insist these spread the Pence policy about religious
criminalizing abortion, and utter hatred organizations it classifies as anti-LGBT institutions have been taken over by freedom and religious persecution
for gay people (unless they go into hate groups spread across the country, secularists who are causing the downfall of around the globe. Indeed, even after he
conversion therapy “to change their sexual dedicated to waging what Focus on the America with their anti-Christian beliefs.” resigned, Health and Human Services
behavior,” which Pence has suggested the Family founder [James] Dobson described Another Religious Right watcher, Frederick Secretary Tom Price, left behind a “draft
government pay for),” Scahill writes. as a ‘second civil war’ to put control of the Clarkson, a senior fellow at Political strategic plan” replete with references
As governor, Pence opposed legislation U.S. government in the right hands—the Research Associates, says the religious to “faith” or “faith-based” organizations,
to add LGBT people to hate crime laws and hands of those who reject LGBT rights,” movement should be taken seriously. according to a Politico report Oct. 3.
tried to block federal HIV funding without Newsweek reported last July. “Dominionism is the theocratic idea that Pence often joined Price, Speaker Paul
a warning label opposing same-sex Perkins confirmed this in an interview regardless of theological camp, means, Ryan, House Financial Services Chairman
relationships. Pence became infamous with the Christian Broadcasting Network. or timetable, God has called conservative Jeb Hensarling (R-Texas) for weekly Bible
for signing Indiana’s Religious Freedom Trump is “committed, along with the Christians to exercise dominion over study sessions, the Associated Press
Restoration Act (RFRA) into law in 2015, Republican Party platform, that the society by taking control of political and reported last year. “Mike Pence is a
which would have allowed discrimination social engineering that has been in our cultural institutions. The term describes House man. He cares about us and he
based on sexual orientation and gender military that the previous administration a broad tendency across a wide swath of will make sure that we are in the loop,”
identity. The signing ceremony featuring foisted upon the military would stop,” American Christianity,” Clarkson wrote said Rep. Jack Carter (R-Texas) who
a bevy of conservative religious leaders Perkins said after Trump announced the on politicalresearch.org in August 2016. also attended Bible study with Pence.
has become an iconic symbol of Pence’s ban. “That’s what he’s doing. He’s only “There are untold numbers of
penchant for all things anti-LGBT. After doing what he committed he would do.” dominionist and dominionism-
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

H E A L TH NEW S OC T OB E R 06, 2017 • 17

Gay HIV rates down dramatically in England
LONDON — New cases of HIV among gay and bisexual British men have been
slashed by 21 percent in just a year, official new data shows according to the
Daily Mail and other U.K. outlets. 
It is the first time such cases in this high-risk group have decreased since the
deadly epidemic started to make headway in the 1980s. Experts say it stems
from quicker testing, fast treatment and PrEP, a controversial drug that can
prevent those exposed to HIV from becoming infected.
Government figures show there were just 2,810 cases of HIV among gay and
bisexual men in 2016, down from the 3,570 recorded the year before, the Daily
Mail reports. 
Public Health England officials that presented the data, claim it is the “most
exciting development in the U.K. HIV epidemic in 20 years.”
Londoners were shown to have the steepest decline in new cases among
gay and bisexual men, with a 29 percent fall over the course of 12 months. The
findings suggest that PrEP, which was available as part of a drug trial at eight
clinics in London, may have helped, the Daily Mail reports. 
Trials have shown that PrEP, also known as pre-exposure prophylaxis, is 92
percent effective at preventing HIV as long as the pills are taken every day.

Lower income a gay suicide factor: study
VANCOUVER — Gay and bisexual men making less than $30,000 a year and
without a university degree have more than five times the odds of attempting
suicide compared with their more advantaged peers, according to new research
from the University of British Columbia.
“Less-educated men might feel a greater sense of hopelessness because
they see few options to improve their lot, compared to their peers, who could
address their poverty by using their education,” said study lead author and UBC
postdoctoral research fellow Olivier Ferlatte.
The findings were published last week in the Journal of Homosexuality. 
Researchers also found that bisexual men who were in relationships with
women were less likely to attempt suicide compared with those who were single
or had male partners.
“For a bisexual man, having a female partner is probably protective in that it
shields them from the stress of being a member of a ‘visible minority’ and from
potential discrimination,” said Ferlatte, who works in the men’s health research
program at UBC’s school of nursing.
Ferlatte and colleagues from the non-profit Community-Based Research
Centre for Gay Men’s Health evaluated data from a national health survey of
8,382 men who have sex with men. Analysis focused on 145 men who reported
having attempted suicide in the past 12 months.

‘Conversion therapy’ ban bill fails in Miami
MIAMI — Miami-Dade commissioners on Tuesday rejected a ban on gay-
conversion therapy for minors, saying the proposed crackdown would thrust local
government into a parent’s right to make decisions about a child’s mental health
and address matters of sexuality within the family, the Miami Herald reports. 
The 4-7 vote followed hours of public testimony, most of it from opponents
of the proposed ordinance by Commissioner Sally Heyman. Supporters wanted
Miami-Dade to join a list of local governments banning the discredited practice
of trying to change a child’s sexual orientation, but critics saw the ordinance as so
broadly worded that it could ensnare a pastor’s sermon or a parent expressing
concerns about a child’s choices on sexual activity.
Commissioners voting for the failed measure noted the broad consensus
among medical groups that addressing sexual orientation as a problem to be
fixed only causes harm to a child, the Herald reports. 
Much of the criticism focused on the original language of Heyman’s ordinance
that said it applied not only to licensed counselors, but also to those without a
license. With that wording, critics said the rules could be interpreted to apply to
someone acting in the role of a counselor, including a youth minister or a parent.
Heyman amended the ordinance to limit the rules to licensed counselors, but
the change didn’t sway any votes, the Herald reports. 
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

VIEWP O IN T O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 2 3
VOLUME 48 ISSUE 40

Reporting abroad with an
ADDRESS
PO Box 53352
Washington DC 20009
PHONE
202-747-2077

embarrassment in the White House
E-MAIL
news@washblade.com
INTERNET
washingtonblade.com
PUBLISHED BY
Brown Naff Pitts Omnimedia, Inc.
PUBLISHER
LYNNE J. BROWN
lbrown@washblade.com ext. 8075
EDITORIAL Foreign sources
EDITOR
KEVIN NAFF appalled by Trump, say
knaff@washblade.com ext. 8088
FEATURES EDITOR U.S. becoming ‘irrelevant’
JOEY DIGUGLIELMO
joeyd@washblade.com ext. 8081
SR. NEWS REPORTER
LOU CHIBBARO JR.
lchibbaro@washblade.com ext. 8079
NEWS REPORTER
CHRIS JOHNSON
cjohnson@washblade.com ext. 8083
REPORTER & INTERNATIONAL NEWS EDITOR
MICHAEL K. LAVERS
mlavers@washblade.com MICHAEL K. LAVERS is international news
editor of the Washington Blade. Reach him at
POP CULTURE REPORTER mlavers@washblade.com.
MARIAH COOPER
PHOTO EDITOR
MICHAEL KEY SANTIAGO, Chile — The weather in the
mkey@washblade.com Chilean capital on Saturday morning was
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
PETER ROSENSTEIN, MARK LEE,
cold and rainy when I started reading the
LATEEFAH WILLIAMS, KATE CLINTON, day’s headlines from around the world on
KATHI WOLFE, RICHARD J. ROSENDALL, my iPhone. I opened my Twitter account
MAXIMILLIAN SYCAMORE and saw President Trump had begun to at-
CREATIVE DESIGN/PRODUCTION tack Carmen Yulín Cruz, the mayor of the
AZERCREATIVE.COM
SALES & ADMINISTRATION Puerto Rican capital of San Juan who is work-
ing tirelessly to help the citizens of her city A restaurant in Santiago, Chile, mocks President Trump.
DIRECTOR OF SALES & MARKETING WASHINGTON BLADE PHOTO BY MICHAEL K. LAVERS
STEPHEN RUTGERS that Hurricane Maria ravaged on Sept. 20.
srutgers@washblade.com ext. 8077 “The mayor of San Juan, who was very
SR. ACCT. EXECUTIVE complimentary only a few days ago, has took office on Jan. 20. Iván Chanis Barahona, a gay Pana-
BRIAN PITTS
bpitts@washblade.com ext. 8089 now been told by the Democrats that you Trump has effectively banned the citi- manian lawyer who lived in the U.S. for
ACCT. EXECUTIVE must be nasty to Trump,” tweeted Trump zens of five predominantly Muslim coun- a decade and is now spearheading his
JOE HICKLING from his New Jersey golf course. tries — Iran, Libya, Syria, Yemen and So- country’s same-sex marriage movement,
jhickling@washblade.com ext. 8094 To say that I was in disbelief when I malia — from entering the U.S. He has also told me on Sept. 26 during an interview
CLASSIFIED ADVERTISING/ADMINISTRATION
took a screenshot of the tweet and sent begun to refer to North Korean President in Panama City the U.S. is “becoming ir-
PHILLIP G. ROCKSTROH
prockstroh@washblade.com ext. 8092 it to a long-time contact in San Juan is a Kim Jong-un — whose government con- relevant for people.” Andrea Ayala, execu-
NATIONAL ADVERTISING gross understatement. His response was ducted its sixth nuclear test last month and tive director of Espacio de Mujeres Lesbi-
RIVENDELL MEDIA almost immediate — describing Trump has launched two missiles that flew over anas por la Diversidad, an LGBT advocacy
212-242-6863; sales@rivendellmedia.com as a pendejo (“idiot” in Puerto Rican Japan in recent weeks — as “Rocket Man.” group in El Salvador known by the acro-
For distribution, contact Lynne Brown at 202-747-2077, Spanish) and sending me screenshots of Attorney General Jeff Sessions last nym ESMULES, said the day before in the
ext. 8075. Distributed by MediaPoint, LLC
two additional tweets in which the presi- month announced the Trump adminis- Salvadoran capital of San Salvador that
All material in the Washington Blade is protected by federal copyright law
and may not be reproduced without the written consent of the Washing- dent criticized Yulín for her “poor leader- tration would end the Deferred Action for any decision the Trump administration
ton Blade. The sexual orientation of advertisers, photographers, writers
and cartoonists published herein is neither inferred nor implied. The ship ability” and accused her and other Childhood Arrivals (DACA) program that makes to cut aid to her Central American
appearance of names or pictorial representation does not necessarily
indicate the sexual orientation of that person or persons. Although the Puerto Ricans of wanting “everything to has allowed roughly 800,000 young un- country is “going to have an impact.”
Washington Blade is supported by many fine advertisers, we cannot ac-
cept responsibility for claims made by advertisers. Unsolicited editorial
be done for them when it should be a documented immigrants to remain in the I yearn for the day when Trump will get off
material is accepted by the Washington Blade, but the paper cannot take community effort.” U.S. Trump in June announced the rein- Twitter and start acting like someone who re-
responsibility for its return. The editors reserve the right to accept, reject
or edit any submission. A single copy of the Washington Blade is available The president who claims to speak on statement of travel and trade restrictions sembles how an American president should
from authorized distribution points, to any individual within a 50-mile ra-
dius of Washington, D.C. Multiple copies are available from the Washington behalf of all Americans — including the with Cuba during a campaign-style event conduct themselves. I also yearn for the day
Blade office only. Call for rates. If you are unable to get to a convenient
free distribution point, you may receive a 52-week mailed subscription for more than 3 million U.S. citizens who in Miami that can only be described as a when pigs will fly over the Andes mountains
$195 per year or $5.00 per single issue. Checks or credit card orders can be
sent to Phil Rockstroh at prockstroh@washblade.com. Postmaster: Send live in Puerto Rico — is a morally bank- disgusting spectacle. that loom over the Chilean capital.
address changes to the Washington Blade, PO BOX 53352 Washington,
DC 20009. The Washington Blade is published weekly, on Friday, by
rupt man with no sense of basic dignity Trump is an embarrassment to his Neither of these scenarios will likely
Brown Naff Pitts Omnimedia, Inc. Individual Subscriptions are $195
per year for 52 issues (only $3.75 per issue mailed to you USPS). Rates
or compassion. His outrageous attacks country, to the people he claims to rep- come to pass.
for businesses/institutions are $450 per year. Periodical postage paid against the mayor of an American city resent and to the office that he occupies. Trump is a morally bankrupt man who
at Washington, D.C., and additional mailing offices. Editorial positions
of the Washington Blade are expressed in editorials and in editors’ who is doing everything possible to help The world is watching the tragedy that is is putting his country and the world at
notes as determined by the paper’s editors. Other opinions are those
of the writers and do not necessarily represent the opinion of the her citizens survive are the latest in a long the Trump presidency continue to unfold. risk. Those who enable him — including
Washington Blade or its staff. To submit a letter or commentary: Let-
ters should be fewer than 400 words; commentaries should be fewer list of actions (or inactions) that have left Pedro Santos, the gay nephew of Co- the Log Cabin Republicans who held their
than 750 words. Submissions may be edited for content and length,
and must include a name, address and phone number for verification. this gay American journalist who rou- lombian President Juan Manuel Santos annual dinner at the Trump International
Send submissions by e-mail to knaff@washblade.com.
tinely reports overseas embarrassed. I who lives part-time in New York City, told Hotel in D.C. last week — are complicit.
am also increasingly ashamed to identify me on Sept. 29 during an interview at a Americans of good will and conscience
myself as an American while this man oc- coffee shop in the Colombian capital of must do everything they can to ensure
cupies the White House. Bogotá that everyone in Colombia “hates” that such a man never occupies the White
Here are a few of the myriad examples Trump. Pedro Santos also said the U.S. has House again. The future of the U.S. and
©2017 BROWN NAFF PITTS OMNIMEDIA, INC. of what this president has done since he become weaker since Trump took office. the world hangs in the balance.
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

2 4 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 VIEWPOINT

For Trump, a golf cart ride to hell
Unleashing curses and action and thy lies turn to acid in thy throat. May all Miranda is spot-on. His multiracial portrayal at home and abroad while enriching himself.
the pussies thou hast ever grabbed return of America’s founders illuminated the shared How ironic that he accepted the resignation of
against a national disgrace as piranhas that clean thee to the bone.” national heritage that Trump and his base re- HHS Secretary Tom Price for lavish travel with
I am only practicing. I am not sure I’ve got- ject in favor of white dominance at any cost. public money. Purging lieutenants will not
ten the hang of ritual cursing. Besides, I am Some politicians responded to Trump’s solve a problem that flows from the top.
still looking for nine black hen feathers. I destructive behavior with the greatest bane We awoke Oct. 2 to a soundtrack of au-
blame gentrification. A proper city ought to of clarity in our discourse: false equivalence. tomatic gunfire on cable news. Another
have a shop offering a selection of suitable They talked as if both sides were “playing record-setting massacre had occurred, this
curses with the requisite accompaniments. politics,” despite Trump’s uniquely revolting time in Las Vegas. The death toll as I write
In truth, however, incantations are need- stream of insults, blame, and self-congratu- is 58. Even amid shock and grief, we know
ed not to summon otherworldly spirits but lation, and the contrast between the quick matters will only worsen. Gun sales will
RICHARD J. ROSENDALL is a writer and activist. to awaken our fellow citizens. As cases in federal response to storm damage in Texas spike. Nevada’s gun laws are among the
Reach him at rrosendall@starpower.net. point, let us examine two recent calamities, and Florida and the slow response to that most lax in the country. In Alabama, Repub-
one natural and one man-made. in Puerto Rico. Trump deflected criticism by lican Senate candidate Roy Moore waved a
On a crisp, clear autumn midnight I After Hurricane Maria hit Puerto Rico, declaring it an attack on first responders. pistol. Congress is considering legislation to
kneel in a clearing in Rock Creek Park and Elaine Duke at Homeland Security called the He insulted Puerto Ricans by saying, “They ease the purchase of silencers. Horrors like
feel the eyes of nocturnal animals on me federal response “a good news story.” San want everything to be done for them,” then Vegas are used not to limit high-powered
as I gaze upward, lift my arms heaven- Juan Mayor Carmen Yulín Cruz responded, displayed his humanitarian instincts by dedi- weapons but to militarize policing, which
ward, and solemnly intone: “This is not a good news story. This is a cating a golf trophy to hurricane victims. disproportionately targets people of color.
“Under a waxing moon I hex thee, Donald ‘people are dying’ story.” Trump as usual We do not have a leader of all the people. Trump used the Pulse nightclub massacre
John Trump. I curse thee with bad lawyers, responded by denigrating her, since every- We have a con artist who inflames, distracts, to justify his travel ban. Unluckily for him, this
unflattering headlines and ungrateful mobs. thing has to be about him, and anything that and divides us for the sake of power. We have time the shooter was a 64-year-old white man.
May thou be locked in a limousine filled with contradicts his alternate reality must be false a vindictive narcissist who demonizes protests So he called for unity. Do not be fooled: his
flatulence until thou canst not breathe and or malicious. “Hamilton” creator Lin-Manuel by people of color, degrades women, and calls lodestar is rule by division. We must unleash
thy cries for help are unheeded. May thy golf Miranda, who has family in Puerto Rico, shot journalists enemies of the people while prais- not merely our curses but our concerted politi-
balls be replaced by dragon eggs that hatch back, “She has been working 24/7. You have ing Nazis and consorting with our nation’s cal action and our votes.
upon impact and answer thy boasting with been GOLFING. You’re going straight to hell. greatest adversary. Other than stealing a Su-
fire. May thine incitements fall on deaf ears, Fastest golf cart you ever took.” preme Court seat, all he has done is sow chaos Copyright © 2017 by Richard J. Rosendall.
All rights reserved.

I N S I DE LGB T W A S HING TON

It’s Friday, Price cut on aisle 5
Another week, another would be fun to hear him say it about Kel- through Congress. Because Trump doesn’t Then there is Trump’s infrastructure
lyanne Conway on her way out the door. understand healthcare as he admitted early plan. That is now bogged down waiting
high-profile departure The real problem with the Trump admin- in his presidency — when he said “Nobody for a tax plan to be passed. But it seems
from Trump land istration is the president apparently doesn’t knew health care could be some complicat- it is also hung up because Trump doesn’t
understand what the people he is hiring are ed” — he believed him. understand the process of public/private
either supposed to do or can do. Neither the Trump didn’t understand the policy impli- partnerships nor the politics of getting a
president nor his minions have been able to cations of the bill nor the process Congress member of Congress, even a Republican
put together what my good friend former would need to follow if changes to the ACA one representing a rural district, to vote for
Congressman Phil Sharp (D-Ind.) refers to would be done. Price clearly misread the poli- a bill based on counting on a private build-
as the formula for getting something done tics or the mood of the country when it came er to invest in a road in rural Oklahoma or
in government. According to Sharp that for- to really changing the healthcare they were Wyoming that isn’t traveled enough to get a
mula is a combination of the three P’s; poli- now getting used to having. The same could return on their money.
PETER ROSENSTEIN is a D.C.-based LGBT rights cy, process and politics. Only by understand- be said of Trump’s effort to put forth his vari- It is now rumored that Trump feels
and Democratic Party activist. He writes regularly ing and working through all three can the ous travel bans. We are now seeing the same Jared and Ivanka being in the administra-
for the Blade.
administration actually get something done. lack of planning from the administration tion may not be so great as it makes them
Trump and his co-conspirators appar- on the proposed overhaul of the tax code. targets. Well what makes them targets are
Another Friday in the Trump administra- ently have yet to learn that. I guess decent Trump is speaking about it one way, Treasury things like using private email accounts
tion, another firing. This time it was Tom Price, people should be thankful for that. They are Secretary Steve Mnuchin is saying something while there. Once the hysterical laughter
Secretary of Health and Human Services. Who usually prepared to deal with only one of different and his chief economic adviser, over that dies down you have to think
will it be next Friday? Every Trump administra- the three having never thought through all Gary Cohn, is showing a total disregard for maybe they aren’t as smart as people
tion official cringes when Fridays come around of them on any issue. Tom Price was most the politics of the situation, first saying he made them out to be. Perhaps neighbors
and they hear themselves being referred to by likely fired more for his failure to accom- can’t guarantee every middle-class person on Tracy Place in Kalorama will wake up
the president as a “good man,” which always plish ‘repeal and replace’ of the Affordable will get a tax break under the plan and then one Friday in the not-too-distant future to
seems to foreshadow their demise. Care Act than for his ripping off the Ameri- suggesting a $1,000 tax cut for a family would find a moving truck parked on their street
It did for Michael Flynn, Sean Spicer and can public by taking a $12,500 charter jet be great because then they could buy a new and Trump holding a press conference
Steve Bannon among others. We don’t from Washington to Philadelphia. That was car or have their kitchen remodeled. This is saying Jared is a ‘good man’ and for the
have to worry about him saying “good a great excuse to dump him. Trump hired the result when all of your economic advisers first time using the term ‘good woman’ as
woman” because there are so few women Price because he told him he had a ‘repeal come from Wall Street and are multi-million- his tribute to Ivanka on their way out the
in high positions in this administration. It and replace’ bill ready to go that he could get aires with no concept of most people’s reality. door and back to New York.
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

V I E W PO I N T O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 2 5

Two new books shed important light on 2016 election
“when I was in veterinary school, women friend George does. “I hate Trump! I vot- hind her, was breathing down her neck
‘What Happened’ and were treated horribly. A lot of men made ed for Hillary,” he told me over the phone. during one of their debates.
‘Unbelievable’ offer penis jokes around them – did all they “She was very qualified. But Hillary has Trump called Tur “little Katy.” Unlike
could to make them miserable.” the emotional impact of a piece of wood!” her male colleagues who could wear the
front-row insights I’ve been reading two new books: People who’ve met Clinton in a small same suits for days, Tur couldn’t wear the
“What Happened” by Hillary Rodham group or one-to-one setting have found same dress more than once.
Clinton (Clinton’s take on the 2016 presi- her to be quite human. One of my friends Clinton approaches the press warily
dential campaign) and “Unbelievable: My met Clinton at a small gathering after she but she’s never incited hatred against
Front-Row Seat to the Craziest Campaign spoke at Yale. “Hillary was warm, funny journalists. Trump, as Tur details in
in American History” by Katy Tur, the and interested in what we had to say,” “Unbelievable,” routinely voiced his dis-
NBC News correspondent who covered she told me. respect for journalists. Like a modern
Donald J. Trump’s campaign from its be- Clinton’s humanity comes through in day Joe McCarthy, Trump would stir up
ginning to its election night victory party. “What Happened.” Like many voters, Clin- hatred against the media among the
KATHI WOLFE, a regular contributor to the These vivid accounts of the gobsmacking ton was bewildered by her defeat. “I want crowds at his rallies. “I’d never kill them
Blade, was the winner of the 2014 Stonewall
Chapbook Competition. election made me think of my talk with to pull back the curtain on an experience ...,” he’d say of journalists, “But I do hate
my Dad nearly five decades ago. Then, we that was exhilarating, joyful, humbling, in- them.”
hoped that Agnew’s rant against the me- furiating, and just plain baffling,” she writes. Tur knows how well Trump connected
My (late) Dad, a veterinarian, called dia was just a temporary phase; and we “What Happened,” isn’t an unbiased, to his base no matter how debased his
me one night during my first days in thought that sexism was on its way out. comprehensive analysis of what Clinton behavior became. “I’ve heard him insult
college. He’d just hired a woman to be Sadly, as Clinton’s and Tur’s books show, calls “a shocking defeat.” Yet, she takes a war hero, brag about grabbing women
his associate in his veterinary practice. demagoguery against the media and sex- responsibility for her failed campaign. “I by the pussy ... tout the size of his junk
Earlier that day, Vice President Spiro ism are still here: unlike Elvis, they haven’t knew that millions of people were count- in a presidential debate ... and indirectly
Agnew had called the members of the left the building. ing on me, and I couldn’t bear the idea endanger my life.”
press “nattering nabobs of negativism.” Writing by politicians usually is mush. of letting them down,” she writes, “But I Those who do not learn history are
Referring to Agnew’s slam on the media, They mostly write books to bolster their did...and I’ll have to live with that for the doomed to repeat it, philosopher George
he said, “He’s a demagogue like Joe Mc- chances of successfully running for office. rest of my life.” Santayana said. No one who believes in
Carthy. Our president lied to us about As a rule, instructions on laundry deter- Both Clinton and Tur experienced sex- LGBTQ rights, feminism, civil rights or
Vietnam. We need the press to know gent boxes are more interesting and re- ism. Clinton’s voice was considered too freedom of the press wants the debacle
what’s going on!” vealing than these volumes. This isn’t the soft if she didn’t project like a man at a of the last election to reoccur. “What
You’re lucky to be going to school now case with “What Happened.” rally, but too shrill if she spoke up more Happened” and “Unbelievable” offer an
“with women’s lib,” my father added, Many of us feel about Clinton as my loudly. She felt as if Trump, walking be- essential window on to our history.

B R O CK PA PER SCI SSORS

‘Will & Grace,’ still funny, still important 
heralded reboot last Thursday. Someone harbinger of changing attitudes and ac- turn of “Will & Grace”, many remarked
Primetime, mainstream suggested that we watch the original pilot ceptance? Maybe. But it’s certainly better on how important it was for them to see
gayness still matters before. If anything, it provided a small ba- than margarine and apple juice.  mainstream out-and-proud gay charac-
rometer of just how far we’ve come.  Beyond that, the show itself had 11 ters on the small screen. What we were
Take for instance product placement. years of cultural messages to make up treated to before wasn’t much. Remem-
Nothing, and I mean nothing, will ruin for. And in doing so, we were treated to ber the pathetic gay character Matt Field-
a show or movie faster than clumsy a lot of gay and political references that ing from “Melrose Place?” Any time he
product placement. I practically quit were seemingly shoehorned into 20 min- went in for a gay kiss the camera would
ABC’s “Modern Family” when an entire utes of airtime. Everything from Queerty, slowly pan away to a burning candle on
episode took place in a Target. I rolled to Grindr, to ‘fake news’ got a nod. Those the coffee table. 
my eyes when a recent “Star Trek” man- were all in the set up. The problem part of You can’t discount the importance
BROCK THOMPSON is a D.C.-based freelance aged to work in Nokia and Budweiser. the sitcom formula found us in Trump’s of mainstream queerness, on the
writer. He writes regularly for the Blade. So I noticed that when Will opened his Oval Office, where Grace has been hired small or large screens. And remember,
refrigerator minutes into the 1998 pilot, to redecorate. A pillow fight ensues be- we haven’t really had a gay film that
It followed a fairly standard sitcom there front and center were a giant tub tween she and Will. This interrupts a ro- achieved mainstream success since
formula — set up, problem, resolution. of Country Crock and some Mott’s apple mantic rendezvous with Jack and a Secret 1996’s “The Birdcage.” The resolution
But all in all, last week’s reboot of “Will & juice, the former I’m not even sure is Service agent. The agent responds to the portion of “Will & Grace” had the cam-
Grace” did deliver. Typical of Washington, stored in the refrigerated section of the fight, but not before stealing a quick kiss era zooming in on HRC’s “Make America
D.C., social media demanded that we all grocery store.  on the lips from Jack. For me, this was the Gay Again” cap sitting on the back of
take a side. Gays traded their barbs via This time around, Will’s apartment most striking moment of the episode. Trump’s Oval Office chair. 
Facebook and asked if a reboot of a show got some updating here and there, and Not because I’m a prude, mind you. I’ve Will Jack’s countless ‘journeys inward’
gone for almost 11 years was necessary. minutes into this episode we see a not- seen far more than some onscreen man- hold up? Will Karen’s drunken rich girl
Will it be funny? Will it hold up?  so-subtle Human Rights Campaign logo on-man make out sessions, but this sort schtick get old after a while? We will see.
Worthy questions, especially of a show on the kitchen window and two front- of thing, this mainstream queerness, still Those two did provide the bulk of the
as iconic as this. So my friends and I or- and-center Starbucks cups that got so seems too few and far between for pri- laughs in the show. But the importance of
dered Chinese take-out (seemed to pair much screen time they deserved billing. metime television.  the program lies in its primetime, main-
well) and huddled up to watch the much- Better products, better placement, but a When people commented on the re- stream gayness. 
2 6 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M

SEX IS...
PRIDE

Be proud of
your sexuality.

Visit SexIsDC.org

LEARN. SHARE. BE. @SexIsDC
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM • OCTOBER 06, 2017 • 27

Our big lesbian family road trip
Calif. couple embarks
on national park tour
adventure en route to
France

By KEITH LORIA

Since getting married on Valentine’s
Day in 2014, Wendy Kokocinska and Don-
na Myers adopted two 2 year olds, res-
cued three dogs and bought themselves
an 18-foot trailer, which they are now us-
ing to take a trip of a lifetime.
The couple and their family are half-
way into a seven-month road trip to 45
national parks. They sold their house,
left Los Angeles on May 2 and will spend
Christmas in Maryland before moving to
France to start a sustainable farm with a WENDY KOKOCINSKA (left) and partner DONNA MYERS take a selfie at Crater Lake National Park in Oregon on their cross-country road trip.
small gite rental business.  PHOTOS COURTESY KOKOCINSKA/MYERS
“It all started with our plan to move to
France,” Kokocinska says. “The goal was
to visit as many national parks as pos-
sible before leaving and decided to take once described Yellowstone as some- small space does tend to result in a quick
a transatlantic trip from the East Coast where ‘you get the most reward for the resolution,” Kokocinska says. “We’ve fig-
since it would give us a chance to visit least input’ in terms effort to reach the ured out how to get the kids to sleep at
with Donna’s family before leaving.” views and sights of the park. The park night. We’ve made our dinette/bed as
As the designated planner, Myers’ has a great infrastructure too and does a comfortable as we can. We’ve learned
goal was to see a lot of places but great job of catering to the crowds.” how to make our meals simple while try-
also ensure they spent enough time at Along the way, the couple have kept a ing to maintain some level of nutrition.”
each one to truly experience it without list of their favorite things such as favor- And while they both wish the kids were
feeling rushed. ite hikes: Hurricane Ridge in Olympic Na- a little older to remember the experience
“I wasn’t sure where to start, but ul- tional Park and Edith Cavell Meadows in fully, they are enjoying the time they all
timately geeked out after dinner most Jasper; favorite scenic drive: Going to the get to spend together and taking steps to
nights researching parks to figure Sun Road, Glacier National Park. preserve the memories.
out which we should visit and when. “Blackrock at Joshua Tree will always “This really is the adventure of a lifetime
I may have made an extensive, color-cod- be special as our first stop on this tour; and being able to share it with each other
ed spreadsheet,” she says. “Then I down- trying to sleep with a glacial river roaring and create these memories together is re-
loaded the RV Trip Wizard app to plan by at Mt. Rainier was memorable; hav- ally something special,” Myers says. “We’ve
the route, trying to make sure we stayed ing a 2,000-pound bison take a nap not talked about ways that we can remember
out of bad weather. That’s why it kind of far from our front door at Bridge Bay was as much as possible. One idea is perhaps
looks like a drunkard planned our route. quite an experience and waking up to having an annual photo-fest where we
It’s definitely not the most efficient, but so snow at Grant Village in Yellowstone was look back at pictures once a year.”
far it’s doing a pretty good job of keeping beautiful,” Kokocinska says. “It’s fair to say Once the trip is over, the couple is hop-
us out of the worst weather.” each and every stop has been special in ing to find a piece of land in France where
Myers does all the driving while Kokocin- some way.” they can create a sustainable, biodiverse KOKOCINSKA with the couples’ two children
ska handles the navigating and hitching. Traveling with two young kids and farm that produces most of the food they in the California Redwoods.
They’ve visited parks across the U.S. and three dogs does create challenges, need for their family and is also pretty PHOTOS COURTESY KOKOCINSKA/MYERS
Canada and will continue until December. though they like to think of them more enough that people will want to come
So far, Kokocinska’s favorite stop has as inconveniences than problems. The stay on the farm.
been Yellowstone, even though she had couple declines to name their children or “Our initial goal was to create a life we settled on France. Of course, finding
low expectations going in. share photos of them. where we could both raise our children somewhere where our same-sex mar-
“We thought it might be over-hyped “We’ve been living in less than 200 as stay-at-home moms,” Kokocinska says. riage is legal was a big consideration too.”
and overcrowded but it was by far one of square feet and sharing a room with our “We both loved the idea of a mostly self- To learn more about their journey,
the most beautiful parks with an amazing toddlers for the past five months; we defi- sufficient farm and researched many op- view their blog at hpyhomesteading.
variety of spectacles,” she says. “Donna nitely get on each other’s nerves. But the tions including here in the U.S. before wordpress.com.
28 • OCTOBER 06, 2017 • WASHINGTONBLADE.COM • QUEERY: 20 QUESTIONS FOR BRENT ALMOND

BRENT ALMOND

How long have you been out and who Lin-Manuel Miranda and winner of every
was the hardest person to tell? 2020 Tony Award.
Twenty-two years. Probably the 100 or  
so people I had to tell when I was removed If your life were a book, what would
from church leadership for being gay. That the title be? 
was in Texas, if it wasn’t obvious. “How to Draw Everything” 
 
Who’s your LGBT hero?  If science discovered a way to change
Locally, Ruby Corado and the folks at sexual orientation, what would you do? 
Casa Ruby. The work they’re doing to Not a damn thing.
help trans people is amazing and vital.   
   What do you believe in beyond the
What’s Washington’s best nightspot, physical world? 
past or present?  I’m taking the wait-and-see approach.
I’m know I’m showing my age here,  
but Tracks. It was one of the more mixed What’s your advice for LGBT
(queer/straight) dance clubs around and movement leaders? 
I loved being able to take a break on the Learn to recognize your privilege
back porch and grab a burger or watch — especially if you’re white, male,
the children turn it out on the runway. cisgender, Christian, educated, wealthy
WASHINGTON BLADE PHOTO BY MICHAEL KEY   or able-bodied — and then learn how
Describe your dream wedding.  to silence it long enough to hear what
The one I had in 2014, in my backyard, others are saying.

Brent Almond
surrounded by family and friends. Our  
3-year-old son thought being the ring bearer What would you walk across hot
had something to do with ringing a bell, so coals for? 
we gave him one to ring at the ceremony My husband, my son and Ben & Jerry’s
when we were pronounced as married.  Chocolate Fudge Brownie FroYo.
   
The blogger and gay dad answers What non-LGBT issue are you most
passionate about? 
What LGBT stereotype
annoys you most? 
20 gay questions I’m on the advisory board for Camp That we can or should be cured.
Kesem, a summer camp for kids whose  
By JOEY DiGUGLIELMO parents have been touched by cancer. What’s your favorite LGBT movie? 
I’m also a big supporter of Comfort L: “Bound”; G: “Priscilla”; B: “Cabaret”;
Brent Almond, a self-described “lifelong doodler” wanted to do something Cases, founded by a dear friend and T: “Paris Is Burning”
memorable for his son’s first day of school so he drew Batman on a Post-It fellow gay dad. They provide overnight  
note with the words, “Go get ‘em, Jon!” and a phenomenon was born. cases and other personal items to kids What’s the most overrated
“He loved it and I loved doing it, so I kept it up posting them to Instagram,” in the foster care system. In fact, we’re social custom? 
Almond, a graphic designer and illustrator, says.  having a Comfort Cases fundraiser at Gender-reveal parties.
After the notes were featured on BuzzFeed, Almond’s popularity Town in November, featuring Tatianna  
skyrocketed and he gained about 7,000 followers in two weeks. A spate of and Mrs. Kasha Davis from “RuPaul’s What trophy or prize
media coverage followed.  Drag Race.” do you most covet? 
Almond began blogging on his son’s first birthday with the goal of sharing   Anything from my son that says
his experiences as a designer and gay dad. It started out being about product What historical outcome “world’s greatest dad.”
reviews, decorating and fashion tips and the like, but soon got more personal. would you change?   
He’s blogged about everything from taking his son to the Supreme Court The invention of gunpowder. What do you wish you’d known at 18? 
the day same-sex marriage was legalized to meeting his son’s birth parents   That the people and the religion I was
to going to weddings and taking trips and everything in between. Find him What’s been the most memorable pop trying to please by staying in the closet
online at designerdaddy.com.  Search for “superlunchnotes” on Instagram to culture moment of your lifetime?  weren’t worth it. 
follow him there.  It’s a tie between “Star Wars” and Ellen  
Almond, a 48-year-old “Air Force brat,” says the most amazing thing to coming out.  Why Washington? 
come out of his blogging is an “amazing community” of dads he’s met, many   For the non-residents reading this,
of whom overlap with the annual Dad 2.0 Summit he attends. On what do you insist?  Washington is not the old, white dudes
Almond lives with husband Nick Pirulli and their 7-year-old son Jon in To be heard. in all the old, white buildings — they
Kensington, Md. Almond came to the area 22 years ago from Texas.    come and go with some regularity. D.C.
He enjoys singing, musical theater, geek culture, blogging, Netflix and “the What was your last Facebook is similar to New York in that it’s the
occasional” dirty martini in his free time.  post or Tweet?  great American melting pot but with a
“Straight to Hell,” a new musical by much simpler subway system. 
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM • OCTOBER 06, 2017 • 29

Rainbow resources

BIGSTOCK PHOTO; PHOTO COURTESY OF MONKEYBUSINESSIMAGES

Books, seminars, theater
families survive the extraordinary pres- Boylan calls the book the one “that care- der children have been waiting for” and
and more for LGBT families sures and complexities that accompany givers and family members of transgen- “a thoughtful roadmap.”
(life) in the 21st century.” Gender and
By JOEY DiGUGLIELMO sexual identity are themes explored in
joeyd@washblade.com the work which runs in the Family The-
ater at the Kennedy Center (2700 F St.,
Resources for rainbow families are in- N.W.) Oct. 12-15. Tickets are $29. Details
creasing all the time. Here are a few we’ve at kennedy-center.org. 
heard about. “Suicide Awareness and Prevention
“The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads: Ev- in the LGBT Community” is a commu-
erything You Need to Know About LGBTQ nity forum that will be part of “One Love
Parenting But Are (Mostly) Afraid to Ask” for a City” at Hillcrest Children and Family
by Eric Rosswood is slated for release Oct. 24.  Center Oct. 8-15. There will be LGBT com-
Stan J. Sloan of the Family Research ponents to various parts of the event. De-
Council calls it, “the parenting book gay tails at hillcrest-dc.org. 
dads have been waiting for.” Topics in- Rainbow Families has its Halloween
clude finding LGBT-affirming pediatri- Party on Sunday, Oct. 29 at 5:30 p.m. at
cians, finding LGBT-friendly schools, how Silver Spring United Methodist Church
to childproof your home with style, how (8900 Georgia Ave., Silver Spring, Md.).
to handle awkward questions and more. The group also has a family outing to Cox
The 248-page book retails for $16.95. Farms in Centreville, Va., on Saturday,
“When You Look Out the Window: Nov. 4. Details at rainbowfamiliesdc.org. 
How Phyllis Martin and Del Lyon Built Another new book out is “Transgender
a Community” is a book for children ages Children and Youth: Cultivating Pride
4-8 by Gayle E. Pitman and illustrated by and Joy with Families in Transition” by
Christopher Lyles that tells in age-appro- Elijah C. Nealy (288 pages, $27.95). Nealy,
priate ways how the pioneering lesbian a therapist and former deputy executive
couple affected their city’s various land- direcot of New York City’s LGBT Com-
marks. It was released in June and is avail- munity Center and trans himself, covers
able on Amazon for $15.72.  issues such as gender dysphoria, child ‘When You Look Out the Window’ tells the story of pioneering lesbian San Francisco activists
“Wilderness” from En Garde Arts is a therapy, coming out as trans, medical Phyllis Martin and the late Del Lyon for kids.
“pulsating new multimedia documentary transition, transgender adolescents, navi- PHOTO COURTESY MAGINATION PRESS
theater piece that speaks to our collec- gating school, preparing for college and
tive search for connection and hope as work and more. Author Jennifer Finney
3 0 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M
ARTS AND ENTERTAINMENT • WASHINGTONBLADE.COM • VOLUME 48 • ISSUE 40 • OCTOBER 06, 2017 • PAGE 31

Exterior of the Anthem, a new concert venue at the Wharf.
PHOTO BY JOHN SHORE; COURTESY I.M.P.

It’s Anthem time
New venue from 9:30 Club team draws top acts
By MARIAH COOPER
mcooper@washblade.com

D.C. may be known as a hotbed of iconic 9:30 Club.  settled nicely into the mid-sized venue are Bob Dylan (Nov. 14), Erykah Badu
political activity but its arts can be just as “There are bands that just grow up hole in D.C.’s music scene. (Nov. 18), Morrissey (Nov. 30), the Killers
explosive. Now, the District is welcoming wanting to play there from all over the “There are a lot of acts that are in that (Jan. 10) and Lorde (March 8). 
the Anthem (901 Wharf St., S.W.) to its country even though they’ve never been mid-sized sweet spot,” Schaefer says. The Anthem will also welcome popular
thriving music scene.  there,” Schaefer says. “It’s just got that “There was no real place for them to play podcast live shows with “Pod Tours America”
Tucked inside the Wharf, the newly kind of reputation.” that was for music. You end up playing (Nov. 3) and “Lovett or Leave It” (Nov. 3). 
developed commercial and residential Hurwitz wanted to expand on the in basketball stadiums. This one is being Fans don’t have to worry about craning
area that kicks off its opening weekend success of the 9:30 Club, which has a built from the ground up for music their necks or standing on tiptoe to spot
Oct. 12, the Anthem is the latest music capacity of 1,200, and Merriweather Post from people who’ve had 36 years in the their favorite artists. Schaefer promises
venue from Seth Hurwitz. Pavilion, which can hold around 18,000 business that know how to create perfect that there isn’t a bad spot in the house to
Hurwitz, co-owner of the 9:30 Club people, into a mid-size venue.  sight lines, great sound, wonderful enjoy the show. 
and chair of I.M.P. Productions, has About eight years ago, he reached out to lighting and production.”  But there will be prime seating. 
transformed the 9:30 Club into a Monty Hoffman who was developing the The Anthem’s acts are booked by The venue will offer “super excellent
legendary music venue respected by Wharf. Hoffman was already considering I.M.P., just like 9:30 Club and the Lincoln seats,” seating on the second and third
musicians around the world.  adding a music venue with another Theatre, with plenty of LGBT-friendly acts floors, which will be aimed right at the
Audrey Fix Schaefer, communications company but decided to meet with Hurwitz. scheduled to take the stage.  stage for optimal viewing. 
director for I.M.P. Productions, says After talking, the pair clicked and realized LCD Soundsystem (Oct. 17-18), GRiZ The idea came from Hoffman who had
Hurwitz’s recognition as an independent they had a similar vision for the space.  (Nov. 4), Tegan and Sara (Nov. 11), St. never designed a music venue before. 
music promotor has held its own in the About $60 million was shelled out for Vincent (Nov. 27) and Pentatonix (Dec. “Monty (Hoffman) thought, ‘Why are
face of corporate promoters based in Los construction, which resulted in a three- 17) will all perform at the Anthem this fall. 
Angeles. Especially when it comes to the level, 57,000-square-foot space that Other big name artists on the calendar
CONTINUES ON PAGE 49
3 2 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M

YOU ’RE READY FOR THE NEXT STEP UP.
georgia row AT WALTER REED
Walk to Metro!

Now Selling!
New Luxury Urban Condos
in Northwest D.C.
from the $500s

These unique and innovative condos are designed with your lifestyle in mind. Walkable, bikeable and
with convenient access to major D.C. thruways. Shop. Dine. Entertain. Enjoy urban charms. Don’t miss
the chance to own in Washington, D.C.’s most desirable location and enjoy your life – upgraded.

GeorgiaRowLiving.com
*Must register on site and comply with all policy terms.
Prices subject to change without notice. Brokers Warmly Welcomed.*

Sales by McWilliams Ballard: 1416 P Street NW, Washington, DC 20001 | (202) 750-5929
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 3 3

IT’S HAPPY HOUR AT THE ZOO!
Join us from 3 to 5 p.m. on the Panda Overlook at the Smithsonian’s National Zoo. Every Thursday–Sunday in
September and October, you can enjoy food and beverage specials in a casual, one-of-a-kind outdoor setting (weather
permitting)—all while supporting the Zoo’s mission to save species. Drink now, but feel good about it in the morning.
nationalzoo.si.edu

Happy Hour_9.5x5.1455_v5.indd 1 9/25/17 3:36 PM

http://cliffhyra.com/
Paid for Bruce Majors and authorized by Friends of Cliff Hyra
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

3 4 • O CTO B ER 0 6 , 2017 A RT S & CU LT U RE

This Week in the Arts provided by CultureCapital.com
Saint-Ex. Mundane Aight Comedy Wind Orchestra. Oct 6. The Clarice.
w/ Adelle and Kevin. Thru Nov 13. theclarice.umd.edu.
The Passenger. The Roast of Harry
Potter. Oct 6. First Friday Comedy
Showcase. Oct 6. U Don’t Know Jack
MUSEUMS
w/ Jack. Thru Nov 15. Town Tavern DC. Folger Shakespeare Library. Painting
Capital Laughs. capitallaughs.com. Shakespeare. Thru Feb 11. folger.edu.
Dumbarton Oaks Library and
DANCE Collection. Ancient Textiles. Thru Mar
31. Women in Art. Thru Mar 31.
Lotus: Tap Stars Reunite to doaks.org.
Celebrate the Art Form. Oct 7. Goethe-Institut. Brilliant Dilletantes.
Matthew Bourne’s The Red Shoes. Thru Oct 28. goethe.de.
Wilderness Oct 10-Oct 15. Kennedy Center. Hillwood. Spectacular Gems and
Oct 12-Oct 15. Kennedy Center. kennedy-center.org. Jewelry. Thru Jan 7.
kennedy-center.org. ArtWorks for Freedom. Oct 7-Oct hillwoodmuseum.org.
This pulsating new multimedia documentary theater work—derived from the 8. Dance Loft on 14. Dance Place. Library of Congress. Drawing Justice:
real-life stories of six families exploring issues of mental health, addiction, danceloft14.org. The Art of Courtroom Illustration. Thru
and gender and sexual identity—features an evocative folk rock score, video Roy Assaf Dance. Oct 7-Oct 8. Dance Oct 28. loc.gov.
projections, and emotionally charged movement.  Place. danceplace.org. National Gallery of Art. Fragonard’s
Germaine Acogny (Senegal). Oct 11. Fantasy Figures. Oct 8-Dec 3. Edvard
Magnetic Fields: Opening Party The Clarice. theclarice.umd.edu. Munch: Color in Context. Thru Jan 28.
Oct 12. National Museum of Women in the Arts. nga.gov.
nmwa.org.
The opening party will include spotlight tours, light refreshments, an open bar
MUSIC National Geographic. Wild: Michael
Nichols. Oct 12-Jan 12. nglive.org.
and live music featuring Amy K. Bormet and Shana Tucker. Plus, Enjoy a first Michael Feinstein. Oct 7. Lisa Loeb. National Museum of Women in the
look at the exhibition Magnetic Fields: Expanding American Abstraction, 1960s to Oct 8. AMP. ampbystrathmore.com. Arts. Equilibrium: Fanny Sanín. Thru
Today, which places abstract works by multiple generations of black women Tempesta di Mare. Oct 12. Folger Oct 29. Wonder Women! Thru Nov 17.
artists in context with one another, and within the larger history of abstract art. Consort at Lutheran Church of the nmwa.org.
Reformation. folger.edu. National Portrait Gallery. Celebrating
The Effect Brasil Guitar Duo. Oct 12. Strathmore. Fifty Years. Thru Jan 6. Lincoln’s
Thru Oct 29. Studio Theatre. strathmore.org. Contemporaries. Thru May 19.
studiotheatre.org. NSO: Dvorák’s Seventh Symphony. npg.si.edu.
When two volunteers for an antidepressant clinical trial start to feel the tell- Thru Oct 7. NSO: Tchaikovsky’s Kennedy Center. Mark Twain Prize
tale signs—sweaty hands, thumping hearts—they know they’ve fallen for each ‘Pathétique’ Symphony. Oct 12- for American Humor Exhibit: The Art
other hard. Or are their bodies processing a chemical romance?  Oct 15. Jason Moran & Q-Tip. Oct of Robert Risko. Thru Oct 27. Exhibit:
6. Thelonious Monk Centennial Fantasy in Japan Blue. Thru Dec 3.
VelocityDC Dance Festival Celebration with Jason Moran, Geri kennedy-center.org.
Oct 6-Oct 7. Washington Performing Arts Allen, and Kenny Barron. Oct 8.
at Sidney Harman Hall.
washingtonperformingarts.org.
Kennedy Center. kennedy-center.org.
Atlas Presents: Akua Allrich. Oct 8.
GALLERIES
Featuring the city’s best-known ensembles, undiscovered gems, and everyone Atlas. atlasarts.org. gallery Neptune & Brown. Cianne
in between, the VelocityDC Dance Festival has become one of the highlights Virginia Opera: Samson and Delilah. Fragione: Dancing the Tarantella. Thru
of Washington’s dance season. Dance companies include Company Danzante Oct 7-Oct 8. GMU Center for the Arts. Oct 8. galleryneptunebrown.com.
Contemporary Dance, Gin Dance Company, Urban Artistry, Capitol Movement, cfa.gmu.edu. The Art League. M. Jane Johnson:
CityDance, Prakriti Dance, S.J. Ewing & Dancers, SOLE Defined and more. Hypnotic Brass Ensemble. Oct 6. Splendid Fortitude. Thru Nov 5.
Sweet Honey in the Rock. Oct 8. theartleague.org.
PHOTO COURTESY OF THE KENNEDY CENTER
BlackRock. blackrockcenter.org. Waverly Street Gallery. Vanishing
Calvary Baptist Church Concert African Wildlife Photography Exhibit.
Series. Oct 6. FMMC. Calvary Baptist Thru Oct 7. waverlystreetgallery.com.
Church. Jordan Kitt’s Concert Series. ISAAG. Conversations with
THEATRE The Arsonists. Thru Oct 8. Woolly
Mammoth. woollymammoth.net.
Oct 11. FMMC. Jordan Kitt’s Music.
fmmc.org.
Al Zheimer. Thru Oct 6.
idbstaffassociationartgallery.org.
Antony and Cleopatra. Oct 10-Nov Skeleton Crew. Thru Oct 8. The LA MANTA (Mexico). Oct 6. Jaimeo JCCNV. Rough Around the Edges –
19. Folger Theatre. folger.edu. Effect. Thru Oct 29. Studio Theatre. Brown Transcendence (USA). Oct Works in Paper by Ronni Jolles. Thru
A Little Night Music. Thru Oct 15. An studiotheatre.org. 12. The Clarice. MilkBoy ArtHouse. Nov 28. jccnv.org.
Act of God. Thru Nov 26. Signature Sotto Voce. Thru Oct 29. Theater J. theclarice.umd.edu. Zenith Gallery. RESIST: Nationally Juried
Theatre. sigtheatre.org. theaterj.org. The Canales Project. Oct 8. National Exhibit. Thru Oct 15. zenithgallery.com.
Stones in His Pockets. Thru Oct 15. Antigone. Oct 6-Oct 13. The Clarice. Gallery of Art. nga.gov. Glen Echo Park. Stephanie George:
Keegan Theatre. keegantheatre.com. theclarice.umd.edu. Carpe Diem! Second Thursday Dream Visions. Thru Oct 21. Land
In The Heights. Thru Oct 22. Our Cabaret. Thru Oct 8. Workhouse Arts Contra Dance. Oct 12. Washington Lines. Thru Oct 22. glenechopark.org.
Town. Thru Nov 12. Olney Theatre. Center. workhousearts.org. Revels. Silver Spring Civic Building at
olneytheatre.org.
Death of a Salesman. Thru Oct 22.
Stand-Up Studios Comedy
Showcase. Oct 7. Stand-Up Studios.
Veterans Plaza. revelsdc.org.
Joan Shelley with James Elkington.
AND MORE...
Ford’s Theatre. fords.org. standupstudios.com. Oct 8. Max Weinberg’s Jukebox. Oct Docs in Progress. Docs In The
Josh Blue. Oct 11. Shear Madness. Phil & a Mic with Phil Mike. Thru Nov 11. Mountain Heart. Oct 12. Wolf City: Spotlight on Coming of Age
Thru Nov 26. Kennedy Center. 14. Bier Baron Tavern. Happy Hour Trap. The Barns. wolftrap.org. Documentaries. Oct 7. American University,
kennedy-center.org. Comedy Show . Thru Nov 16. Cafe Remembrances and Tributes: UMD Forman Theater. docsinprogress.org.
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 3 5

COLUMBUS DAY WEEKEND

3 BIG SALES!
STICKLEY TRUCKLOAD SALE!

3 DAYS ONLY
ENDS OCTOBER 9TH
Stickley is sending truckloads of furniture to Sheffield's Rockville showroom for a holiday
weekend sale like no other. Shop a wide variety of styles and don’t miss your chance to
receive the best deals on your favorite items. Furniture will be priced for immediate sale.
Arrive early - doors open at 10 am this Saturday. Rockville Showroom only.

STRESSLESS
® with this ad

BUY MORE, SAVE MORE ONE STICKLEY
SPECIAL ORDER
Receive up to $1,500 towards your purchase ITEM*
of seating or accessories!
ROCKVILLE & DULLES

Rockville Showroom Dulles Showroom
1582 Rockville Pike | Rockville, MD Dulles Town Center Mall | Dulles, VA
301/881-6010 571/323-6000

SheffieldFurniture.com

*Limit one per household. Good through 10/9/17. Not to be used with any other offer or previous purchase. Some exclusions apply; Please see a designer for details.

Sheffield Blade Oct6-Truckload.indd 1 10/3/17 5:55 PM
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM
3 6 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 O U T & A BO U T

Saliers unveils debut solo album
Indigo Girls singer/ a song gets born. A lot of the songs were
songwriter releases writtne that way. They started with a loop BLADE: The Indigo Girls have stayed
or a beat and then that rhythmic pulse fairly active in the studio while many
project — and it’s not helkped write the song. A few things that other veteran acts just tour with nothing
what you’d expect were written on guitar, Lyris said, “OK, we’re new out. Why is that important to you?
gonna take the guitar out of this and do this SALIERS: Yeah, I mean it’s true they’re
By JOEY DiGUGLIELMO instead.” … I don’t sit down and go, “OK, I’m expensive to make and nobody sells
joeyd@washblade.com gonna write about guns in America right records anymore, even the type of top
now.” I sit down and get a beat and find the echelon of record-selling bands don’t
Thirty years and 14 studio albums chords and then the subject matter comes. really sell. We have to make a living
into the Indigo Girls, Emily Saliers has touring, that’s just a reality, so it’s a good
released her first solo album, And even BLADE: Will you do some Indigo Girls thing we love it and we never go out
she acknowledges the artistic paradox. songs on this tour too? You can’t really fill for too long. … We’re always excited to
“What’s a 53-year-old woman doing a whole show with just one album. get back together and there’s always an
making her first solo record,” she says SALIERS: We’re gonna do mostly songs internal push to create more new music.
with a laugh. Although the Indigo Girls from the album. It’s a full band and a The only thing that keeps us from doing it
are alive and well — bandmate Amy friend who’s a filmmaker has created more is busyness. … It just makes sense
Ray has released five solo albums and is some video images so it’s sort of a full in the scope of a career to keep putting
working on a sixth — Saliers says it was a sensory experience. A section of the out new music.
chance to pursue some of the more soul- show will probably be Indigo Girls songs
and groove-oriented music she grew up that I’ve written, maybe acoustic, but we BLADE: Do you think it’s lame with
with. “Murmuration Nation” came out in haven’t fully hammered that out yet. But bands like the Dixie Chicks who just
August. She’s touring it now and plays the real purpose of the tour is to play the PHOTO BY JEREMY COWART tour and tour and haven’t had anything
the Birchmere on Wednesday, Oct. 11. solo music. new out in like 10 years?
EMILY SALIERS is touring her debut solo
Her comments have been slightly edited album with a surprisingly elaborate band and SALIERS: Whatever anybody wants
for length. BLADE: It feels like such a weird time in stage show. to do is fine. If people like it and they’re
this country. You’ve been on the road some coming to your shows, I don’t really care.
WASHINGTON BLADE: How does it feel with Amy this year. Does it feel different at NSO Pops. How did your symphonic shows It’s just that for us, we know what keeps
to finally have a solo album out? the shows or do people kinda wanna leave come about and how were those dates? our fires burning and that is to create new
EMILY SALIERS: Well, it’s great. I’ve that at the door and just enjoy the concert? SALIERS: D.C. was fantastic but after the music, to not be on the road all the time
been talking about it for a long time and SALIERS: It’s perceptibly different. From third show, we were wiped because the and to support each other’s independent
even when I found (producer) Lyris Hung the first show we played after the election, symphony shows are the most intensive projects.
… it still took three years so it was like a it was palpable and there’s a real sense of of all our performances. They’re one-offs,
real labor of love. … Sometimes you look anxiety among our fans but also a sense not typically tied to a tour, so we show BLADE: How is your daughter?
at a CD and you think, “This is holding all that we need music to galvanize us and to up, meet the conductor, have a two-hour SALIERS: She’s gonna be 5 at the end of
that time and all that work and all that make us feel good. It’s a crazy fucking time in rehearsal and then we perform. You have to November and she’s the light of my life. I
stuff,” and it’s a weird feeling but the this country and not just a little — it’s a lot. It constantly be on your toes and it’s a different never wanted to be a parent ’til I found
response to the album so far has been almost feels cosmic with the terrible storms, orchestra every time. The D.C. orchestra the right person and it’s been a very
overwhelmingly positive so I feel great the earthquakes. We’ve been getting huge was phenomenal as you would expect. It got happy marriage. We allow each other a
about that. reactions to songs like “Pendulum Swinger” started because there’s an agency that puts lot of space and (wife) Tristin takes care
and “Rise of the Black Messiah.” … This artists together to arrange your songs and of things when I go away and I take care
BLADE: The Indigo Girls’ fan base country — it’s a bit of a tinderbox right now then you send the scores around and we got of things when she’s involved in school
is known to be highly loyal so is that invited to do that and it’s been fantastic. … or work. We love our kid and we have a
a built-in audience for this or do you BLADE: How much of your album We’re doing a symphony album in 2018 that really, really great life and I’m so grateful
feel like you have to prove yourself was written by November? we recorded with the Colorado University for it.
somewhat? SALIERS: All but one. The song “Fly” Symphony so it’s become a very important
SALIERS: I don’t have to prove myself. I was written in response to the election. part of what we do. BLADE: You and Amy were so pioneering
just think the album is fairly different from and were out when so few were in popular
anything Amy and I have done together BLADE: When people yell out songs BLADE: Sometimes those music. Have you ever had younger bands
in the same way that some of her records during the slightest lull in a concert, do arrangements for pop or rock acts are like maybe Tegan and Sara or whomever,
are very different from what we’ve done you ever feel like saying, “Just chill — so lame and the orchestra is bored out tell you it was cool or inspiring that y’all
together. … I can’t just assume poeple will we have a set list?” of their minds. How do you feel yours were out so early?
find out about it and get tickets to the show SALIERS: No. We try to honor as many turned out and was that a concern? SALIERS: I don’t recall that so much
and stuff like that. … Without the Indigo Girls of those as we can. We’ll look at the set SALIERS: We worked with two different from other artists but we’ve had a lot of
I wouldn’t have any solo record out … but list immediately and ascertain if there’s a arrangers and then ended up sticking with those conversations with fans. They’ll tell
still a lot of groundwork needs to get done spot where that song makes sense. Some this guy named Sean O’Laughlin and he’s us personal stories about how the music
to reach out and get people to listen to it. we won’t do if they’re too rusty and we just so creative and passionate. Amy and I carried them through a hard time when
haven’t practiced them and sometimes both had long conversations with him about they were coming out or whatever and
BLADE: You talk about this being a we won’t do it if it’s something we’re how he felt about the songs. .. He put so that’s really the most gratifying thing.
more groove-oriented album. How hard tired of. Sometimes if we’re introducing much into them. … Often the conductor will
is it to come up with a compelling groove something from our new album and say, “These are good arrangements, they’re
EMILY SALIERS
or loop and which comes first — the somebody yells out, “Chickenman!,” we’ll interesting.” … We hired the right person. ‘Murmuration Nation Tour’
music or the lyrics? say, “We’re gonna go ahead and do the With Lucy Wainwright Roche
BLADE: How many Indigo Girls songs Wednesday, Oct. 11
SALIERS: It’s not hard. … I could just pick one we were talking about.” The Birchmere
up an Apple loop off my Logic program do you have charts for now? 3701 Mount Vernon Ave.
and just run that loop for five minutes and BLADE: The Indigo Girls were in our SALIERS: I think maybe 23. We usually Alexandria, Va.
$29.50
just start writing guitar parts to it and then market in May for three shows with the do about 18 at one of those shows. birchmere.com
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 3 7

ON TI
SA CKE
LE TS
GREAT PERFORMANCES AT MASON NO
CFA.GMU.EDU W
!

With the famous “Bacchanale” Exhilarating work! Romance-Sensuality-Drama. Dance! So much fun to see!

VIRGINIA OPERA
PILOBOLUS TANGO BUENOS THE MARTIAL ARTISTS
SAMSON AND Shadowland AIRES AND ACROBATS OF
DELILAH FRIDAY, OCTOBER 13 AT 8 P.M. ff
The Spirit of Argentina TIANJIN
SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7 AT 8 P.M. SATURDAY, OCTOBER 14 AT 8 P.M. China Soul
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 8 AT 2 P.M. Arrive early and enjoy a free class led by FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 3 AT 8 P.M. ff
dancers from Tango Mercurio! Advance RSVPs SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 4 AT 2 P.M.
required. AND 8 P.M. ff
ff Family Friendly performances that are most suitable for families with younger children

TICKETS 888-945-2468 OR CFA.GMU.EDU
Located on the Fairfax campus, six miles west of Beltway
exit 54 at the intersection of Braddock Road and Rt. 123.

Discover Burgundy!
Visit our one-of-a-kind learning environment Your Flooring Professionals since 1985
for students age 4 through grade 8! MHIC #41515

.tsal seilppus elihw stcudorp llA* .sliated dna noitceles rof erots eeS .tcudorp eht fo noitatneserper tcaxe eb ton yam dna ylno sesoprup noitartsulli rof era nwohs segami tcudorP*

For a limited time ONLY!

40% off *
BATHROOM
REMODELING
*Product images shown are for illustration purposes only and
may not be exact representation of the product. See store for
selection and details. *All products while supplies last.

N. Bethesda Laurel
Fall F
Octo air
5268 Nicholson Ln. 13380 Mid Atlantic Blvd.

Join us at an upcoming open house! ber 14 (Next to Shoppers & HomeGoods) (Rt. 1 & Contee Rd.)
! (301) 881-0969 (301) 206-2200
Reserve a spot at 703.329.6968 November 10, 9–11 a.m. Germantown Aspen Hill Columbia
or burgundyfarm.org/visit and 20650 Seneca Meadows Pkwy. 13629 Connecticut Ave 8221 Gateway Overlook Dr.

discover our 26-acre Alexandria
December 2, 2–4 p.m. (Next to Wegmans) (Aspen Hill Shopping Center) (Next to Costco)
(301) 528-6400 (301) 460-4100 (410) 872-1129
campus just off the Beltway! January 7, 2–4 p.m.
WWW.FLOORMAX.US.COM

Burgundy Farm Country Day School • 703.329.6968 Carpet | Hardwood | Ceramic | Laminate | Vinyl | Stair Rails | Fireplace Surrounds |
www.burgundyfarm.org • www.facebook.com/burgundyfarm Sand & Finish | Bathroom Remodeling
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

3 8 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 CA LE N D A R

E-mail calendar items to calendars@washblade.
com two weeks prior to your event. Space is lim-
ited so priority is given to LGBT-specific events
or those with LGBT participants. Recurring
events must be re-submitted each time.

TODAY
The QREW hosts a dance party at
Songbyrd Music House & Record Café
(2475 18th St., N.W.) tonight from 10
p.m.-2:30 a.m. DJ Mim will play music.
There will be photo booths, giveaways
and more. The first 40 people receive free
entry. Cover is $5. For more information,
visit facebook.com/qrewdc.
All Things Go Fall Classic music
festival is today through Sunday at Union
Market (1309 Fifth St., N.E.). Galantis,
the Knocks, Jacklndn, Win and Woo and
Lightwaves perform today. Saturday
there will be performances by Young
Thug, Vince Staples, Cashmere Cat, Saba,
Kweku Collins, Jay IDK, Innanet James,
April and Vista perform on Saturday. On
Sunday, performances will be from Foster
the People, Bleachers, Betty Who, Foreign
Air, Now Now, Fletcher, Great Good Fine
OK and Young Futura. Single day tickets
PHOTO COURTESY STRATHMORE
are $74. Three-day tickets are $169. VIP
single day tickets are $150 and include Out crooner MICHAEL FEINSTEIN plays AMP by Strathmore Saturday night.
special access and amenities. Three-day
VIP tickets are $250. For more details, visit
allthingsgofallclassic.com.
Spooky Movie International Film The D.C. Fetish Ball celebrates its 10th details, visit fillmoresilverspring.com.
SATURDAY, OCT. 7 Festival hosts a screening of “The Rocky anniversary at Ultrabar (911 F St., N.W.)
Horror Picture Show” with a shadowcast tonight from 9 p.m.-3 a.m. A fetish fashion WEDNESDAY, OCT. 11
Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington from the Bloody Mayhem Theater show featuring latex, erotic boudoir and
presents “Ropeburn,” a celebration Company at AFI Silver Theatre (8633 more will be displayed. Scene demos The Lambda Bridge Club meets at 7:30
of the queer underground, at Dupont Colesville Rd., Silver Spring, Md.) tonight including fire play, medical play and edge p.m. at the Dignity Center (721 8th St.,
Underground (19 Dupont Circle, N.W.) from 10:30 p.m.-12:30 a.m. General play will be showcased. Other events S.E.) for duplicate bridge. No reservations
tonight from 7 p.m.-2 a.m. There will admission tickets are $13. Senior tickets include dancing, pole performances, body required and new comers welcome. If
be a Tom of Finland fantasy live model are $10 and child tickets are $8. For more paint, a dungeon play space and more. DJ you need a partner, call 703-407-6540.
art gallery, fetish demonstrations, food, details, visit silver.afi.com. FireMonkey, DJ Beat Kitty, DJ Mindcage and Big Gay Book Group meets at Trio
cocktails, raffles and vogue dance battles. DJ Nicholai will play music, among others. Restaurant (1537 17th St., N.W.) tonight
There will be performances at 10 p.m. SUNDAY, OCT. 8 Tickets are $40. For more information and at 7 p.m. to discuss “The End of Eddy” by
and midnight. Tickets are $75. Funds to purchase tickets, visit dcfetishball.com. Edouard Louis translated from French
support Gay Men’s Chorus. Guests must D.C. Pride Volleyball League hosts a Queer Girl Move Night hosts a by Michael Lucey. For more details,
be 21 and older. For more details and to Jell-O shot fundraiser at JR.’s Bar (1519 17th screening of “Edie & Thea: A Very Long visit biggaybookgroup.com or email
purchase tickets, visit gmcw.org. St., N.W.) today from 5-8 p.m. The fundraiser Engagement” at Black Cat (1811 14th St., biggaybookgroup@hotmail.com.
Youth Pride Day is at Dupont Circle benefits D.C.’s bid for Gay Games XI and for N.W.) tonight at 8 p.m. Doors open at 7:30
(1 Dupont Circle, N.W.) today from noon- D.C. Pride Volleyball. For more information, p.m. Admission is free. For more details, THURSDAY, OCT. 12
5 p.m. LGBT youth 24 and under and visit facebook.com/dcpvl. visit facebook.com/queergrrlmovienight.
allies can enjoy performances, games, Distrkt C hosts DC2 , a gay dance Team Rayceen and Project Healthy
speakers, resources and more. For more party, at the D.C. Eagle (3701 Benning Rd., MONDAY, OCT. 9 Living’s the ManDate present Rayceen,
information, visit youthpridealliance.org. N.E.) tonight from 10 p.m.-4 a.m. DJ Nina Fix Me Up, a single men’s mixer, at Studio
Man Upp hosts Dilf Washington D.C. Flowers spins tracks. There will be an Pop singer Halsey, who identifies as Theatre (1501 14th St., N.W.) tonight from
Coach at the D.C. Eagle (3701 Benning open bar from 10-11 p.m. Tickets are $25. bisexual, brings her “Hopeless Fountain 7-8:30 p.m. Beverages will be provided.
Rd., N.E.) tonight from 8 p.m.-3 a.m. DJ For more information, visit distrktc.com. Kingdom Tour” to Capitol One Arena (601 The event is intended for men 18 and
StrikeStone will spin tracks. Whiskey and Jordin’s Paradise Wellness Center F St., N.W.) tonight at 7 p.m. Tickets range older. Local authors Joseph Braxtion and
Fireball shot specials run all night. There (1215 Connecticut Ave., N.W.) hosts from $29-265. For more information, visit James Simmons will have vending tables.
will be a cigar and pipe social on the patio dance classes to learn the “Thriller” ticketmaster.com. Rayceen Pendarvis will host a series of
from 8-10 p.m. Athletic gear encouraged. routine today from 3-4 p.m. Instructors interactive games to break the ice and
For more details, visit manupp.net. Destiny and Kelly will teach the moves TUESDAY, OCT. 10 socialize. Admission is free. For more
Michael Feinstein performs at AMP in preparation for the “Thriller” flash details, visit facebook.com/teamrayceen.
Strathmore (11810 Grand Park Ave., mob in Dupont Circle on Saturday, Oct. Lesbian singer Syd, lead singer of the LezLink hosts a lesbian and queer
North Bethesda, Md.) tonight at 8 p.m. 28 at 6 p.m. The flash mob is part of the Internet, performs a solo show at the women’s happy hour at Satellite Room
Feinstein will honor legendary singers international event “Thrill the World,” Fillmore (8656 Colesville Rd., Silver Spring, (2047 Ninth St., N.W.) tonight from 6-9
such as Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, with groups around the world coming Md.) tonight at 8 p.m. Tickets range from p.m. Guests are encouraged to bring a
Sammy Davis, Bing Crosby and more. together to flash mob to “Thriller” by $52-75. A meet and greet package, which single friend. Drink specials include $4 rail
Tickets range from $125-175. For more Michael Jackson. For more details, visit includes a personal photograph with Syd drinks and drafts. For more information,
information, visit ampbystrathmore.com. facebook.com/jordinsparadisefitness. and early entry, is also available. For more visit facebook.com/lezlinkevents.
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 3 9
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

40 • OCT OB E R 06, 2017 O U T & A BO U T

AN EVENING WITH
CHOPTEETH
AFROFUNK
BIG BAND
SPECIAL BONE READER CD RELEASE SHOW By MARIAH COOPER
FRIDAY OCT 6

AN EVENING WITH
SPLINTERED
SUNLIGHT
SATURDAY OCT 7
SUN, OCT 8
JAMES HUNTER SIX WASHINGTON BLADE PHOTO BY MICHAEL KEY

TUES, OCT 10
AN EVENING WITH HUDSON: D.C. Queer Theatre Festival goes ‘Solo’
JACK DEJOHNETTE, LARRY PHOTO BY CASEY CURRY
GRENADIER, JOHN MEDESKI D.C. Queer Theatre Festival’s show “Going Solo” will be at Anacostia Arts
& JOHN SCOFIELD Center (1231 Good Hope Rd., S.E.) Oct. 13-14 at 7 p.m.
Against Me! returns to D.C.
The showcase will feature six solo plays ranging from campy comedy to
THURS, OCT 12 surround the theme of love and loss. Comedian Elizabeth McCain (seen here)
EILEN JEWELL W/ MISS TESS will perform her one-woman show “A Lesbian Belle Tells.” Other performers Against Me! performs at 9:30 Club (815
include Christopher Prince, J. Scales, George-Warren Roo DeLessin, Xemiyulu V St., N.W.) on Friday, Oct. 13 at 8 p.m.
FRI, OCT 13 Manibusan and Regie Cabico. General admission tickets for one night are $20. The show supports their latest album
DAVID GRISMAN For two nights, tickets are $35. VIP ticket for one night is $30. It includes VIP “Shape Shift with Me.” Their sixth
BLUEGRASS EXPERIENCE seating, entry to the opening night reception and two complimentary cocktails.
VIP tickets for two nights are $55.
album “Transgender Dysphoria Blues”
chronicled lead singer Laura Jane Grace’s
W/ CIRCUS NO. 9
The festival, founded in 2012, is dedicated to giving voice to transition journey. Bleached and the Dirty
SAT, OCT 14 underrepresented artists. Nil open the show. Tickets are $25.
KAT WRIGHT & For more details, visit dcqueertheatrefest.org. For more information, visit 930.com.
THE INDOMITABLE SOUL BAND
SUN, OCT 15
Show time for the Wharf
THE STEEL WHEELS The Wharf (690 Water St., S.W.)
TUES, OCT 17 celebrates its grand opening with a long
weekend of events Oct. 12-15.
AN EVENING WITH HOLLY BOWLING On Thursday, Oct. 12 there will be live
WED, OCT 18 music and entertainment on five stages
SIRIUSXM PRESENTS: THE HIGHWAY FINDS TOUR from noon-9 p.m. The Bacon Brothers
HIGH VALLEY perform a happy hour concert at 5 p.m.
W/ ASHLEY MCBRYDE AND ADAM DOLEAC There will be daytime fireworks at noon
and sunset fireworks at 6:30 p.m.
THURS, OCT 19 Friday, Oct. 13 there will be live music
MEDICINE TRIBE PRESENTS from 10 a.m.-10 p.m. Gay Men’s Chorus
NAKHO: MY NAME IS BEAR of Washington, Will Gravatt Band, Tom
W/ 1000 FUEGOS AND CHRISTINA HOLMES Lagana and more will perform. Headliner
Go Go Gadget performs from 6-7:30 p.m.
FRI & SAT, OCT 20 & 21 2 NIGHTS There will also be s’mores at the Wharf
AN EVENING WITH THE FAB FAUX
PHOTO COURTESY DAKSHINA/DPS
fire pit and a silent disco.
THE BEATLES 1966-1967 AND 1969-1970 Saturday, Oct. 14 will feature
entertainment from 10 a.m.- 9 p.m. ‘90s
SUN, OCT 22 South Asian Arts festival runs Oct. 12-14 cover band White Ford Bronco performs
MARTIN SEXTON TRIO from 6-7:30 p.m. Other actives include
Dakshina/Daniel Phoenix Singh Dance Company presents its 14th annual Fall Festival Yoga on the Pier, Art Wheels and more.
SUN, OCT 27 of South Asian Arts at Atlas Performing Arts Center (1333 H St., N.E.) Oct. 12-14. On Sunday, Oct. 15 activities run from 9
ALL GOOD PRESENTS Mallika Sarabhai and Company performs a mix of classic and contemporary a.m.-6:30 p.m. At 10 a.m. there will be morning
MELVIN SEALS & JGB dance on Thursday, Oct. 12 at 7:30 p.m. Rama Vaidyanathan and Company activities with Rocknoceros Kids’ Band. The U.S.
W/ SWEET LEDA FEAT. RON HOLLOWAY combines dance, music and poetry based on the lives of Janabai from Maharashtra Army Band Downrange performs at noon. At
and Lal Ded from Kashmir, India. Performance is on Friday, Oct. 13 at 7:30 p.m. On 4 p.m. there will be a blessing of the wharf
Saturday, Oct. 14 at 7:30 p.m. Leela Samson and Spanda Dance Company gives a followed by a performance Howard Gospel
performance inspired by myths and symbols based off images of rivers. Choir of Howard University. The weekend
The company has several LGBT dancers. Tickets range from $27.50-60. For closes out with sunset fireworks at 6:30 p.m.
more details and to purchase tickets, visit atlasarts.org. For a complete list of events, visit
THEHAMILTONDC.COM wharfdc.com.
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 4 1

Family Building through:
• Adoption
• Donor Agreements
• Surrogacy
Serving the LgBt coMMunity for ALMoSt 20 yeArS. noW in Dc, MD & vA!
827 Woodside Parkway • Silver Spring, MD 20910
p: 301.221.9651 • f: 240.491.9551
jfairfax@jenniferfairfax.com • www.jenniferfairfax.com

MARYLAND RENAISSANCE FESTIVAL
AMERI C AN LE ATHER
COMFORT RECLINER® TIME TRAVEL TO...

SALE
ADVERTISING PROOF A D V ERT IS ING
ISSUE DATE: 170928 SALES REPRESENTATIVE: PROOF #1 ISSUE DATE: 02.11.16 SALES REPRESENTATIVE: PHIL ROCKSTROH (prockstroh@washblade.com)

REVIEW AD FOR COPY AND DESIGN ACCURACY. Revisions must be submitted within 24 hours of the date of REVIEW AD FOR COPY AND DESIGN ACCURACY. Revisions must be submitted within 24 hours of the date of
proof. Proof will be considered final and will be submitted for publication if revision is not submitted within 24 hours of proof. Proof will be considered final and will be submitted for publication if revision is not submitted within 24 hours of
NS the date of proof. Revisions will not be accepted after 12:01 pm wednesday, the week of publication.Brown naff pitts REVISIONS the date of proof. Revisions will not be accepted after 12:01 pm wednesday, the week of publication.Brown naff pitts
omnimedia llc (dba the washington blade) is not responsible for the content and/or design of your ad. Advertiser is

Don’t
omnimedia llc (dba the washington blade) is not responsible for the content and/or design of your ad. Advertiser is
GN responsible for any legal liability arising out of or relating to the advertisement, and/or any material to which users REDESIGN responsible for any legal liability arising out of or relating to the advertisement, and/or any material to which users
EVISIONS can link through the advertisement. Advertiser represents that its advertisement will not violate any criminal laws or
any rgihts of third parties, including, but not limited to, such violations as infringement or misapporpriation of any TEXT REVISIONS can link through the advertisement. Advertiser represents that its advertisement will not violate any criminal laws or
any rgihts of third parties, including, but not limited to, such violations as infringement or misapporpriation of any
/LOGO REVISIONS

Miss Out!
copyright, patent, trademark, trade secret, music, image, or other proprietary or propety right, false advertising, unfair
competition, defamation, invasion of privacy or rights of celebrity, violation of anti-discrimination law or regulation,
IMAGE/LOGO REVISIONS copyright, patent, trademark, trade secret, music, image, or other proprietary or propety right, false advertising, unfair
competition, defamation, invasion of privacy or rights of celebrity, violation of anti-discrimination law or regulation,
SIONS or any other right of any person or entity. Advertiser agrees to idemnify brown naff pitts omnimedia llc (dba the NOADVERTISER
REVISIONS SIGNATURE or any other right of any person or entity. Advertiser agrees to idemnify brown naff pitts omnimedia llc (dba the
washingtonwith blade)
ADVERTISER SIGNATURE
washington blade) and to hold brown naff pitts omnimedia llc (dba the washington blade) harmless from any and all By signing this proof you are agreeing to your contract obligations the and to hold brown naff pitts omnimedia llc (dba the washington blade) harmless from any and all By signing this proof you are agreeing to your contr
liability, loss, damages, claims, or causes of action, including reasonable legal fees and expenses that may be incurred liability,
washington blade newspaper. This includes but is not limited loss, damages, claims, or causes of action, including reasonable legal fees and expenses that may be incurred
to placement, washington blade newspaper. This includes but is no
by brown naff pitts omnimedia llc, arising out of or related to advertiser’s breach of any of the foregoing representations payment and insertion schedule. by brown naff pitts omnimedia llc, arising out of or related to advertiser’s breach of any of the foregoing representations payment and insertion schedule.
and warranties. * and warranties.
$300 OFF ANY COMFORT RECLINER
LIMITED TIME ONLY CROWNSVILLE, MD

Only 2 Weekends Left!
Saturdays & Sundays through October 22
Rockville, MD | Dulles, VA | SheffieldFurniture.com
10 am - 7 pm Rain or Shine
800-296-7304
*Discounts off of MRP. See your sales associate for complete details.
MarylandRenaissanceFestival.com

SheffBladeOct6AL_VF.indd 1 10/3/17 5:55 PM
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

42 • OC T OB E R 06, 2017 F I LM

Mariinsky Ballet
Valery Gergiev, Artistic Director
Yuri Fateev, Deputy Director of the Ballet Company

La Bayadère
“An unbroken line of arabesques that stops
the heart with its grace” —The Telegraph (London)
Characters in ‘The Feels’ discuss their first orgasms. Buried secrets emerge in ‘I Dream in Another
Language.’ Both films will be shown on Friday, Oct. 20.

PHOTOS COURTESY THE FILM COLLECTIVE

The Reel deal
D.C.’s annual LGBT film tries to drown his frustrations with
festival returns mid-month booze and casual sex. Things change
when Gheorghe (Alec Secareanu), a
handsome Romanian migrant laborer
By BRIAN T. CARNEY arrives to work on the farm.
The Friday night double feature includes
A Pakistani lesbian trying to keep her “The Feels” and “I Dream in Another
girlfriend away from her live-in mother; Language.” “The Feels” is a sprightly
a farmer’s son entranced with a hot comedy about orgasms. Andi (Constance
Romanian migrant worker; a betrothed Wu) and Lu (Angela Trimbur) are
lesbian who admits she’s never had an celebrating their upcoming wedding with
orgasm and a genderqueer kid trapped a bachelorette weekend in wine country.
Oxana Skorik and Andrei Yermakov, photo by Natasha Razina

in a conservative school. At the risk of On the first night, Lu shocks everyone,
sounding like we’re about to hand out an especially Andi, by revealing that she has
Oscar, these are some of the subject’s at never had an orgasm. Her unexpected
this year’s Reel Affirmations. disclosure inspires their collected friends
The festival returns to the Gala Hispanic (gay and straight) to talk about their first
Theatre Oct. 19-22 (bumped a week orgasms and the challenges of love,
from the initially announced dates) for lust and trust and to indulge in some
an exciting celebration of queer films shenanigans of their own.
from around the world. A complete “I Dream in Another Language” is a
schedule can be found at thedccenter.org/ mystery about language and love. A
reelaffirmations; check there for updates. young linguist travels to the jungle of
The Festival’s smack-down opening Mexico to research a language on the
night feature is “Signature Move,” a verge of disappearing. Once there, he
heartfelt comedy directed by Jennifer discoverers its last two speakers clashed
Reeder and written by Lisa Donato and 50 years ago and have refused to speak
Fawzia Mizra, whose short film “Spunkle” to each other since. Attempting to reunite
was a crowd favorite at last year’s festival. them, the researcher discovers a secret
The film stars Mizra as Zaynab, a lesbian past and a forbidden gay love story.
Pakistani Muslim lawyer living in Chicago. Appropriately enough, Saturday’s

October 17–22, 2017 | Opera House Her recently widowed mother has moved
in; Parveen (Shabana Azni) has two
program opens with “Saturday Church,”
a moving portrait of Ulysses (a breakout
obsessions in life: watching Pakistani performance by Luka Kain), a shy and
with the Kennedy Center Opera House Orchestra television dramas and finding a husband effeminate 14-year old boy living with
Casting available at kennedy-center.org for her only daughter. his family in New York City. In the wake
Zaynab has just started dating Alma of his father’s death, he’s struggling with
(Sari Sanchez), a confident Mexican- additional family responsibilities. He’s
American woman whose mother was a also struggling with his gender and sexual
TICKETS ON SALE NOW! Luchadora wrestler. Zaynab is fascinated identities under the intense scrutiny of
KENNEDY-CENTER.ORG | (202) 467-4600 by the sport, but tries to keep her new his suspicious conservative aunt.
girlfriend and her new hobby a secret
Tickets also available at the Box Office. Groups call (202) 416-8400.
For all other ticket-related customer service inquiries, call the Advance Sales Box Office at (202) 416-8540.
from her mother. � CONTINUES AT WASHINGTONBLADE.COM
The other half of the festival’s
opening night double feature is
Support for Ballet at the Kennedy Center is provided by C. Michael Kojaian. REEL AFFIRMATIONS LGBT FILM FESTIVAL
Russian Cultural Initiatives are supported by The Vladimir Potanin Foundation.
“God’s Own Country” an atmospheric Oct. 19-22
International Programming at the Kennedy Center is made possible through the generosity of romance set in the rolling fields of Gala Hispanic Theatre
the Kennedy Center International Committee on the Arts.
rural Yorkshire. Johnny Saxby (Josh 3333 14th St., N.W.
Showtimes, ticket prices and more at
O’Connor), the son of an ailing farmer, thedccenter.org/reelaffirmations
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

T HE ATE R OC T OB E R 06, 2017 • 43

MATTHEW BOURNE’S
P R O D U CT I O N O F

PATRICK BALL (left) and JACK KOENIG in ’The Collection.’
PHOTO BY CAROL BOSEGG; COURTESY STC

Pinter double bill

Photo by Hugo Glendinning
Unexpected alliances, role cast Patrick Ball). None of the four seem
happy in their relationships.
playing enliven ‘60s minis Convinced that Stella and Bill had a one-
night stand while away on business in Leeds,
By PATRICK FOLLIARD James decides to confront the competition:
“You’re not a film star, but you’re quite
Six seasons ago, Shakespeare Theatre tolerable looking, I suppose,” says James
Company’s out artistic director made a to Bill who seems gay but is presumably
great success with Harold Pinter’s 1971 bisexual. Their meeting, the first of several,
mesmeric exploration of memory “Old is a mix of menace and attraction.
Times.” Now he’s returned to Pinter with Meanwhile Harry pays a fact-finding
a double bill of one acts from earlier visit to Stella. What’s actually happened
in the British playwright’s career, “The between Stella and Bill is confirmed and
Lover” and “The Collection.” denied. Ultimately it doesn’t matter what
Penned in the early 1960s originally for is true or isn’t.
television broadcast, the plays are poised At an about an hour each and
on the precipice of the swinging ’60s. It’s separated by an intermission, the pieces
not about free sex, but rather a darkly are finely acted and expertly rendered.
funny examination of characters (gay Kahn has assembled a talented quartet
and straight) who are involved in games of actors (all except Koenig new to STC)
of one-upmanship and dominance, and who ably handle the rhythm and silences
constructing their own truths. of Pinter’s particular language. With well-
“The Lover” is about Sarah (a perfectly timed Pinter pauses, they impart more
pressed Lisa Dwan) and Richard (the meaning into the work than what the
excellent Patrick Kennedy), a young married spoken words alone convey.
couple living in a London suburb who The all-woman design team is stellar.
initially seem totally average, humdrum and Jane Greenwood’s costumes expand on
a bit stuffy. But then, just before Richard the characters’ personalities, wants and
heads off to the office, he calmly asks Sarah stations. Bill’s memorably form-fitting BASED ON THE FILM BY MICHAEL POWELL AND EMERIC PRESSBURGER
if she will be seeing her lover later in the day. plaid trousers and Harry’s black tie and
AND THE HANS CHRISTIAN ANDERSEN FAIRY TALE
She replies affirmatively. Soon it smoking robe are all spot on. Debra
becomes clear that the husband is in fact Booth’s remarkably serviceable set of MUSIC BY BERNARD HERRMANN
the lover and the couple are engaged three households impeccably reflects
in some serious ongoing role playing. In
the afternoon, Richard — in the guise of
its respective inhabitants’ aspirations to
bourgeois comfort, tidiness or cool. Mary
OCTOBER 10–15, 2017 | OPERA HOUSE
a rumpled Beatnik — returns home for a Louise Geiger’s lighting technically clever
heated tryst. Awaiting his arrival, Sarah shifts the actions from home to home
doffs her sensible day frock and slips into while imbuing the scene with an element
an alluring lace cocktail dress. But all is of mystery and suspicion.
not of fun and games and their meetings For fans of Pinter’s unreal realism,
become increasingly spiteful. Where this Shakespeare’s latest is satisfyingly TICKETS ON SALE NOW!
will lead is unclear as are their true feelings. good. For those new to his work, it’s the
“The Collection,” the second of the perfect introduction.
KENNEDY-CENTER.ORG | (202) 467-4600
night’s offerings, involves couples Stella Tickets also available at the Box Office. Groups call (202) 416-8400.
and James (again Dwan and Kennedy) ‘THE LOVER’ AND ‘THE COLLECTION’ For all other ticket-related customer service inquiries, call the Advance Sales Box Office at (202) 416-8540.
Through Oct. 29
who have been married for two years; Shakespeare Theatre Company
and prickly, middle-aged Harry (terrific Lansburgh Theatre International Programming at the Kennedy Center is made possible through the generosity of
out actor Jack Koenig) and his seductive, 450 7th St., N.W. the Kennedy Center International Committee on the Arts.
202-547-1122
much younger boyfriend, Bill (a perfectly Shakespeare.org
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

44 • OC T OB E R 06, 2017 MU SI C

‘Wonderful’ return
The Killers’ latest is
JOY AND MATH CAN BE USED tight and potent
IN THE SAME SENTENCE. By CHRIS GERARD

It’s hard to credit that 13 years have
passed since the Killers emerged with
their electrifying blend of new wave
influences, a heavy dose of David Bowie
and the arena-rock muscle of U2 on their
smash debut “Hot Fuss.” They were hard
to resist from the very beginning, blasting
off with high-energy hits like “Somebody
Told Me,” “Mr. Brightside,” “Smile Like
You Mean It” and “All These Things That
I’ve Done.” Despite the band’s decidedly
retro tendencies, the Killers have always
infused a slick modern sheen that has BRANDON FLOWERS, front, opens up on
kept their music fresh and relevant. personal topics with his band the Killers’
While they’ve never quite been able eclectic new album.
PHOTO COURTESY ISLAND
to equal the commercial success of “Hot
Fuss,”the Killers have managed to keep
plugging away with one solid album after
another. Despite being dismissed by some with PTSD. The Killers typically operate
critics as too derivative of their influences in a world of storytelling and character
and too eager to embrace the mainstream, development, so the more intimate nature
the Killers still sell consistently well of “Wonderful Wonderful” translates to a
when many of their new wave-revivalist piercing emotional immediacy that feels
contemporaries of the early 2000s have completely genuine.
fallen by the wayside. Their latest album, “Some Kind of Love” is a gauzy ballad,
“Wonderful Wonderful,” is their first in with Flowers’ gentle multi-tracked vocals
five years, and their continued relevance floating atop a lovely bed of swaying
is confirmed not only in the quality of the synths. “Out of My Mind” is reminiscent of
album but by the fact that it debuts at the electronic-tinged pop that saturated
no. 1 on the Billboard album chart, their Top 40 airwaves in the late ‘80s. It boasts
first ever to reach that mark. The album’s one of the album’s simpler yet most
success is not surprising — “Wonderful irresistible melodic hooks and seems an
Wonderful” is the tightest and most potent obvious choice as a future single. “Life
collection of the Killers’ exciting retro pop/ to Come” once again is built mostly on
rock brew since their debut. synths — the guitars take a back seat on
Lead single “The Man” is a tight dance/ “Wonderful Wonderful” as the band relies
funk jam that somehow manages to more heavily on electronic textures. The
merge elements of ‘70s disco, ‘80s new album’s closer is the contemplative “Have
wave and ‘90s electronica into a groove All The Songs Been Written?,” which starts

Beauvoir Open Houses that’s immediate and engaging. Flowers’
taut falsetto lands somewhere between
as a slowly simmering ballad before rising
to the point where you think it’s gonna
Barry Gibb and David Byrne, a wildly really take off but then sorta sputters
Thursday, October 19 at 9:15 a.m. eccentric performance that’s a refreshing unexpectedly mid-ascent. It’s an odd
Sunday, November 12 at 1:00 p.m. change from the overly perfect autotuned
soullessness to which pop music fans
ending that feels unfinished, but perhaps
that’s the point. Maybe it’s meant to be a
are typically subjected these days. “The harbinger of things to come.
Register today: Man” sounds a bit like Maroon 5 but “Wonderful Wonderful” is the Killers
with an edgier kick and infinitely more at their most focused and engaging.
www.beauvoirschool.org/visit personality. Also excellent is the second While still unabashedly mining the
single “Run For Cover,” a jittery rocker past for inspiration, they also look
with a rapid-fire vocal during the verse unerringly forward with an album that is
that gives way to the type of anthemic immaculately crafted, fiercely performed
chorus that Brandon Flowers performs and brimming with solid hooks and fiery
so well and with such obvious heart.   grooves. If you’re a fan, you’ll like it. If
The title track opens the album with you tend to view the Killers as style over
a stripped-down electronic rhythm, substance, as many critics do, “Wonderful
swoops of quavery keyboard and a slow- Wonderful” is at least worth an open-
building intensity that eventually boils minded listen. The Killers will probably
over as Flowers builds plenty of drama never be critical darlings, but it hardly
for the cinematic climax. In keeping matters. They know their niche and they
3500 Woodley Road NW, Washington, DC 20016 with the more personal nature of this operate within its flashing neon glow with
www.beauvoirschool.org album, Flowers bares his heart in “Rut,” all the vitality and spirit of a band just
opening up about his wife’s experiences getting started.
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 4 5
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

46 • OC T OB E R 06, 2017 SP O RT S

“ Some think I should dress more like
a woman. Some think I should dress
more like a man.

I may not fit some
ideas about gender,
and I am a proud
part of DC.
KEDZIE TELLER (far right) playing quidditch with the Austin Outlaws during the 2016 Major League
Quidditch tournament.
PHOTO BY TAYYEB MUBARIK
Please treat me the same way any
person would want to be treated:

A snitch in time …
with courtesy and respect.
Discrimination based on gender identity and
expression is illegal in the District of Columbia.
If you think you’ve been the target of
discrimination, visit www.ohr.dc.gov
or call (202) 727-4559.
‘Harry Potter’-inspired
colleges, but I am very competitive and
game enthralls gay athlete I wanted to be an athlete at a Division I
college,” Teller says. “I ended up accepting
OFFICE OF

GLBT
AFFAIRS

By KEVIN MAJOROS a track offer from Boston University in
part because they had a communications
Often life-changing moments come out program for journalism.”
Show your support! Spread word of the #TransRespect of the blue. When Teller first noticed the quidditch
campaign by photographing this ad and sharing on Twitter. In spring, 2009, Kedzie Teller stumbled team on campus, it was the end of his
upon a quidditch match between Boston freshman year and he was leaving the track
University and Emerson College. His first team due to personal differences with the
thought was, “This can’t be real.” coaching. Hungry for a competitive outlet,
What he didn’t know at that moment he went to a quidditch practice at the
was that quidditch, a game inspired by beginning of his sophomore year and was
one played in the “Harry Potter” books immediately hooked.
(albeit sans magical elements), would “It is very competitive and super fun. I fell
define the next eight years of his life. in love at the first practice,” Teller says. “The
Quidditch is one of the fastest growing team was a mix of athletes and people who
sports in the country with about 200 college love Harry Potter and I met a lot of people
and community teams registered with the who I wouldn’t have met otherwise. We
United States Quidditch Association. In also won a lot and I like to win.”
2015, the sport went pro with 16 teams Teller played for Boston University
making up four divisions. Locally, Major Quidditch as a chaser for three years and
League Quidditch has representation by captained in his senior year. When he
the Washington Admirals. graduated in 2012, he thought his career
The rest of the world is also catching was over. Instead, he was selected to the
onto the sport which has been described United States National Quidditch Team
as a mix of rugby, handball and dodgeball. and played in the inaugural World Cup in
The International Quidditch Association London winning a gold medal.
World Cup is held every two years and in Reinvigorated, he returned to Boston
2016 it drew teams from 21 countries. and formed his own team, Q.C. Boston.
To play, two teams of seven players By that time, United States Quidditch
mount broomsticks and attempt to land had begun allowing community teams to
quaffles (i.e. the ball) in one of the three compete against college teams. He was
hoops on the opposite end of each hockey selected again to the national team in
rink-sized “pitch” before the snitch, a 2014 and won another gold medal at the
tennis ball in a sock attached to an official, World Cup in Vancouver.
is captured. It was invented in 2005. “It has been so special being a part of
Players ride broomsticks in the form this sport early on and to watch it develop,”
of pvc pipes in the gender-inclusive sport Teller says. “The rules have evolved and
somewhat akin to flag football. the sport is incredibly better now.”
Teller grew up in a soccer family all over So much better in fact, that there are
New England with three sisters who also rumblings of the possibility that quidditch
played the sport. Teller played on travel will be an Olympic sport someday. The
teams and captained his high school International Olympic Committee has a
soccer team where he was all-state. He list of guidelines when considering a new
was also a sprinter on the track team and sport that includes outreach to youth.
when it came time to pick a college, he Yes, kidditch is alive and well.
had to make a choice.
“I had soccer offers from Division II � CONTINUES AT WASHINGTONBLADE.COM
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

A D V I CE OC T OB E R 06, 2017 • 47 琀栀攀
Lesbian nonplussed
Failed relationship could first thing you can do is tell yourself that
be a gift in disguise many people go through this sort of self-
lacerating heartbreak and come out the

一䄀䬀䔀䐀 夀伀䜀䄀
other side. It’s true and it might help you
to calm down, even a bit. That would be
a good start.
 It sounds to me like you’re seeing the
relationship and its aftermath through a
䴀漀渀搀愀礀猀Ⰰ 眀攀搀渀攀猀搀愀礀猀 ☀ 䘀爀椀搀愀礀猀
distorted lens: your girlfriend and your 㘀㨀㌀  倀䴀
relationship were great, while you, now

MICHAEL RADKOWSKY, Psy.D. is a licensed
psychologist who works with gay individuals
and couples in D.C. He can be found online
at personalgrowthzone.com. All identifying
single and on your own, are awful.
  I’m basing this on your description of
the relationship as flat-out terrific, on your
questioning only your own contribution to
琀甀攀猀搀愀 礀猀
㄀⼀㈀ 瀀爀椀挀攀 氀漀挀欀攀爀猀 ☀ 爀漀漀洀猀
information has been changed for reasons the breakup, on your dramatic sense of loss
of confidentiality. Have a question? Send it to
michaelradkowsky.com and on the way you’re tearing into yourself. 㠀 愀洀 ⴀ 洀椀搀渀椀最栀琀
  When we see our lives through this
MICHAEL,

My girlfriend of 18 months dumped me
last month and I feel like I’m losing my
lens, we need to work at grinding a new
lens.  That new lens is equanimity, the
ability to stay calm and believe you’ll be
OK even as life rolls over you and knocks
猀愀 琀甀爀搀愀 礀猀
最爀愀戀 愀 ␀㔀 漀昀昀 挀愀爀搀 愀琀 吀刀䄀䐀䔀
mind.  I can’t get any food down. I wake you around. Just as it does to everyone.
up in the middle of the night and can’t fall  Your job now is to move forward even
back asleep. I can’t stop thinking of her if you don’t feel like it. This will help you
and wondering how I screwed this up. I’ve start to build up your own belief that 昀愀挀攀戀漀漀欀⸀挀漀洀⼀琀栀攀挀爀攀眀挀氀甀戀 ㄀㌀㈀㄀ ㄀㐀琀栀 猀琀 一圀
heard breakups can be bad and now I am you will ultimately be fine.  Accept that
finding out just how awful they can be. the relationship is over and find things
To make matters worse, it’s because of to take even a little pleasure in. Enroll in
her that I came out to myself, friends and a class at a local restaurant, museum or
family.  Now I’m feeling like I turned my meditation center; adopt an animal; go TWO IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN ONE…
whole life upside down for nothing. see hilarious movies with friends; take up
 She broke up with me after I brought up a new sport.  Anything to pull your mind
the idea that we should get married. She out of the tragic, self-criticizing groove in
responded that she actually felt like we which you’re currently stuck, and move
had been “growing apart.” Then she added forward step by step. And don’t despair if
that she feels like we’re “best friends” but you occasionally take a step back.
she doesn’t “feel it” for me anymore.  What you may have done “wrong” is to
  I’m driving myself crazy thinking try and keep all the less-than-perfect stuff
over and over about what I might have out of your relationship.  You believed
done wrong. I thought we had a terrific you were living a romantic idyll with no
relationship and our sex life seemed problems.  Maybe your girlfriend was
absolutely fine. I was dreaming of joining you in this view or maybe she
spending the rest of my life with her. wasn’t.  But evidently there were some
  My parents treated my coming out problems and neither of you was equipped
as if I had lost my mind because I had to deal with them. You wanted to shove
only dated guys.  They aren’t the most them under the proverbial rug, while she
gay-friendly people.  Now my mom is felt that the solution was to terminate the
encouraging me to consider dating men relationship without any discussion.  
again, basically saying that obviously   Not incidentally, when you can view
same-sex relationships don’t go too well. life with equanimity, you’re better able
That is not too comforting but there’s a to accept the difficulties that come with
part of me that thinks she’s right. being in a relationship as something
A CABARET OF DUETS
  As for my friends, I can tell they’re to deal with rather than something you
getting tired of listening to me go on must ignore or flee from. IT TAKES TWO…
about what I might have done to ruin   One more thing: What about your
at ATLAS PERFORMING ARTS CENTER
things.  I know I sound and think like sexual orientation?  Did this relationship
a broken record but I can’t stop the wake you up to the fact that you are 1333 H STREET NE
thoughts. I feel like there’s no one who lesbian or was your attraction to your TICKETS Call 202-399-7993 or visit GMCW.org
really cares. former girlfriend more about her than Groups of 10 or more: call 202-293-1548
  Basically I don’t know how to pull about gender? 
myself out of this.  Is there some way to Whether or not you decide to date men
stop mourning? again in the future, you did not waste your
time in the relationship.  Going through
MICHAEL REPLIES: this painful aftermath is handing you the NOVEMBER 11 at 4PM
opportunity to learn the invaluable skill & 8PM
Yes, I think you can get past this.  The of self-soothing.
4 8 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM

A R T S & EN TE RTA I NMENT O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 4 9

Venue’s ‘super excellent seats’ designed to stymie scalpers
CONTINUED FROM PAGE 31 The Anthem has a stage, backdrop,
production and lighting that is moveable
you doing that? Why not tilt the chairs to shrink or expand the space to
toward the stage?’ Everyone in the room accommodate 2,500 to 6,000 occupants. 
was like, ‘Yeah, why not?’ It took fresh “It is so much more fun for the artist to
eyes of someone who has never done feel that all these people stepped into the
this. So we went back to the architect room. It also makes it more fun for the
and ran it through computerization patron to go in and feel like, ‘Oh my gosh
to figure out the exact right angle,” everybody else loves my band and this
Schaefer says.  is going to be a lot of fun.’ Nothing feels
“Super excellent seats” will have a strict good when you go in and it’s echoing in
“no scalping” policy and will require the there,” Schaefer says. 
person who purchased the ticket to show The Anthem welcomes I.M.P. favorite
up with an ID to match.  the Foo Fighters to christen its stage
As for food and drink, the Anthem has for a sold-out concert on Thursday,
got it covered. Eat-To-The-Beat, the U.K.- Oct. 12. Lead singer Dave Grohl, who
based, backstage catering service, will frequented the 9:30 Club as a teen
provide casual fare for concertgoers. growing up in Springfield, Va., was
“Eat-to-the-Beat comes up with such invited by Hurwitz to open the venue
creative, delicious stuff as if you were and toured the space during the early
sitting in the kitchen of one of the most stages of construction. 
fabulous chefs in America,” Schaefer says.  “It was always going to be the Foo
Attendees can also choose from seven Fighters,” Schaefer says. 
bars, as well as a coffee bar, for alcoholic The opening concert will be accompanied
and non-alcoholic needs.  by the Wharf’s grand opening, which runs
Another feature, similar to the 9:30 from 11 a.m.-6:30 p.m. with fireworks and Patrons will be allowed to take food and drink into the concert area when the Anthem opens next
week.
Club, is a versatile space that can other live entertainment.
transform based on whether the show is Visit theanthemdc.com for a complete PHOTO COURTESY I.M.P.

smaller or bigger.  list of concerts and more information. 
5 0 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M

It’s Like Retirement, Only Better
Ingleside at Rock Creek and Ingleside at King Farm are now expanding your possibilities for engaged
retirement living. Creekside at Ingleside at Rock Creek and Gardenside at Ingleside at King Farm, our
upcoming additions, represent even more choices for discerning people 62 years of age or better. Both
communities offer an exceptional, independent lifestyle with upscale offerings, modern amenities and the
security of five-star rated, on-site health services.
Don’t miss your opportunity to take advantage of priority choice locations!

An Ingleside Community An Ingleside Community

For more information call 202-470-3413 For more information call 240-380-2678
3050 Military Road NW • Washington, DC 701 King Farm Blvd. • Rockville, MD
www.ircdc.org www.inglesidekingfarm.org
Ingleside at Rock Creek and Ingleside at King Farm are CARF accredited, not-for-profit, continuing care retirement communities.

Ingleside at King Farm is expanding with the proposed building of 121 new independent living apartments, 32 private assisted living memory support suites, and a Center for Healthy Living subject to approval by the Maryland Department of Aging.
Attorneys that are OUTthinking |OUTspoken |OUTdoing
ackermanbrown.com

W A SH I NGTO N B lADE.C Om O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 5 1

REALESTATE

A world transformed by real estate
Realtors pitch in it is a predictable mix of daylong classes,
networking events and silly evenings
to help those affected spent watching dueling pianos, followed
by Hurricane Harvey by a hazy flight home with a tired brain
and body.
By DAVID BEDIZ This year, the event was scheduled for
Sept. 11-15, just two weeks after the larg-
In the wake of one tragic event after an- est hurricane and flood event the country
other — some caused by one man, some has ever seen: Hurricane Harvey. With
caused by man in general — we all may be floodwaters over 6-feet high in thousands
tempted to throw our hands in the air and of homes in Houston, the storm claimed
give up on humanity. Our leaders seem to dozens of lives and left hundreds of thou-
want to focus on moving backwards, while sands homeless. It also destroyed the
we as a species need desperately to move largest financial investment many resi-
forward and focus on solutions for our fu- dents had ever made, and many of those
ture. On the world stage, we retreat from investments were not protected by insur-
global policy shifts to try to slow down or ance of any kind.
reverse climate change, and domestically In the wake of such a catastrophe, our
we contemplate allowing silencers and brokerage could not just sit idly by and Realtors ditched a conference in Houston to pitch in and help in the aftermath of Hurricane
Harvey.
armor-piercing bullet sales in the wake of follow the same pattern of a typical con-
one violent mass shooting after another. ference week, especially since the confer- PHOTO COURTESY OF DAVID BEDIZ

Despite these desperate times, there is ence itself was so close to the devasta-
a movement, and perhaps a majority of tion. As a result, our large group shifted
us, that still have a positive outlook for focus from education to relief. With only bris littering the road. But then, as we but the floodwaters that rose around it. It
the future. Out of every tragedy, there about 13 days to plan, the original events pulled into what was previously a typical was like entering a war zone.
emerge heroes willing to risk their lives to were cancelled, buses were booked and middle-class housing development, the
help others, and communities strength- supplies were ordered to allow the 10,000 evidence became overwhelming: lines n CONTINUES AT WASHINGTONBLADE.COM
ening to help its weakest members. We original attendees to change roles to di- of piles of debris littering front yards of
may not always see it in the news, but saster assistant volunteers. every single house as crews worked to DAVID BEDIZ is a 13-year veteran Realtor and a
these movements happen. I saw it myself We boarded buses from Austin starting remove the things of peoples’ lives from leader in the community, serving on the Board
in Houston two weeks ago. at 7 each morning for several days in a their homes. One house was completely of Directors for both DCAR and GCAAR, the two
local Realtor associations. His top-producing
Every year, our brokerage, the largest row. As we got closer to Houston, the re- burned out, with nothing left standing but team was named 2015 Best of Gay DC Real Es-
in the world now, gets together in Austin, mains of the devastation Harvey caused the brick walls that made up its perim- tate Group by the Washington Blade, and has
Texas for a week of education, collabora- became more common: flooded fields, eter. Perhaps it burned during the flood been nominated for the award again this year.
He can be reached at 202-642-1616 or www.
tion and business development. Normally, muddy bushes and trees, signs and de- with no one and nothing to help put it out bediz.com.

FAÇADE
TRANSLATION:
SMILE ON FACE OF
REAL ESTATE AGENT
AT END OF OPEN HOUSE.

To be used at the top of collateral:

VALERIE M. BLAKE, Associate Broker, GRI, Director of Education & Mentorship
Dupont Circle Office • 202-518-8781 (o) • 202.246.8602 (c) To be used at the bottom of collateral:

Valerie@DCHomeQuest.com • www.DCHomeQuest.com
5 2 • O CTO B E R 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M

AN ICON
Converted from a 1939 art deco
warehouse, these loft style apartments

IS NOW A
have retained much of the original
details like concrete floors, exposed

DESTINATION
columns and beams, and some ceilings
over 12ft tall! The amenities are just
as exciting, with The Cellar speakeasy
club room, massive rooftop terrace,
Hecht Warehouse
1401 New York Avenue NE and onsite grocery and retail. Close to
Washington, D.C. 20002 Union Market, we also provide a shuttle
888.376.8543
HechtWarehouse.com to the NoMA Metro Station.

ONE MONTH FREE!*

MAKE YOUR MARK
Originally an industrial printing press,
Brookland Press has been reimagined as
polished loft apartments. With over 100
unique floor plans, it’s easy to find just
the right apartment to fit your lifestyle.
Partner that with a rooftop terrace
overlooking D.C., 2-level club room, and
private pool and you’ve got it all. Also
directly across the street from the Rhode
Island Avenue Metro Station.
Brookland Press
806 Channing Place NE
Washington, D.C. 20018
(202) 292-5022
BrooklandPress.com

TWO MONTHS FREE!*
*This is for a limited time only and for a select number of apartments.
Call the leasing center for all the details.
DEADLINES
All Classified Ads
- Including Regular & Adult - SHARE ADS ARE FREE.
Must Be Received Place your HOUSING TO SHARE
By Mondays at 5PM ad online at washingtonblade.com
So They Can Be Included and the ad prints free in the paper and online.*
in That Week’s Edition of *25 words or less prints free - anything more is $1/word.
Washington Blade and
washingtonblade.com

W A SH I N GTO NB LA DE.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 5 3

MASSAGE / CERTIFIED
PLACE YOUR CLASSIFIEDS ONLINE
VOTED #1 BEST Of Gay
Place your ENHANCE YOUR AD WITH WASHINGTONBLADE.COM
OUR UPGRADES
DC - Massage for active HOUSING TO SHARE PICTURES BOLD TEXT
adults. Schedule your ad online at LARGE TEXT COLOR
washingtonblade.com AND MORE
massage in Arlington Sun-
Tue or DC Wed, Fri, Sat. and the ad prints free in CONTACT US AT PHOTOGRAPHY
202-747-2077
Call or text Gary at 301- the paper and online.* STEVE O’TOOLE
704-1158 or visit http:// *25 words or less prints free - anything more is $1/word.
PHOTOGRAPHY Fine
www.mymassagebygary. Art Photographer
com. DEADLINES for Portraits &
PLACE YOUR CLASSIFIEDS ONLINE Weddings. Check out
All Classified Ads
WASHINGTONBLADE.COM - Including Regular & Adult - my new website - www.
YARD SALE Must Be Received steveotoolephotography.
By Mondays at 5PM com. Specializing in
WHOLISTIC SERVICES, washingtonblade.com
COUNSELING FOR Bears & Big men.
YARD SALE. BEEKMAN INC. seeking Full Steve 703-861-4422.
PLACE. Inside gate at 16th GAY MEN. Individual/ Time Direct Support
couple counseling Professionals to assist
Street, NW & Belmont LEGAL SERVICES
Street, NW. Oct 7, 2017, w/ volunteer peer intellectually disabled CLEANING
counselor. Gay Men’s adolescents & adults ADOPTION & ASSISTED
from 9 am to 12 Noon. with behavioral health
Counseling Community REPRODUCTIVE Law FERNANDO’S CLEANING:
issues in group homes & Attorney Jennifer Residential & Commercial
since 1973. 202-580-8861. day services throughout Cleaning, Reasonable
COUNSELING Fairfax represents
gaymenscounseling.org. DC. Requirements 1 clients in DC, MD & VA. Rates, Free Estimates,
No fees, year exp., valid drivers interested in adoption Routine, 1-Time, Move-In/
PERSONAL & BUSINESS donation requested. license, able to lift 50-75 or ART matters. 301- Move-Out. (202) 234-7050,
COACHING. Consider the lbs, complete training 221-9651, JFairfax@ 202-486-6183.
power of hiring a Coach program, become DDS jenniferfairfax.com.
Med Certified within 4 HOUSE CLEANING SERVICES -
to help you life life to the EMPLOYMENT months of hire, ability to Reliable & Affordable, With Great
fullest. Sean Robinson pass security background FULL SERVICE LAW FIRM
References, You Have Better Things
PhD, c.sean.robinson@ check. Associates Representing the GLBT community
gmail.com. http://www. LEASING degree preferred. For for over 35 years. Family adoptions,
To Do. We’ll Do Your Cleaning! CALL
US TODAY! 571-384-6899.
pathtosuccess.org. CONSULTANT more information, estate planning, immigration,
employment. (301) 891-2200. Silber,
please contact the
ASSISTED LIVING Human Resources (HR)
Perlman, Sigman & Tilev, P.A. www. TELL ‘EM YOU sAW ThEiR Ad in ThE
Blade classifieds!
SP-Law. com.
LGBTQ AFFIRMING Represents the Community on Department at
THERAPY at Dupont Circle various levels cultivating relationships. (202) 347-5334.
Individuals, couples, This position is responsible for LIMOUSINES HANDYMAN
families, adolescents. meeting census goals through LOCKER ROOM ATTENDANTS
BRITISH REMODELING
Over 15 years serving effective education and counseling of
NEEDED! The Crew Club, a gay men’s
naturist gym & sauna, is now hiring KASPER’S LIVERY HANDYMAN Local
the community. Mike prospects. See our ad online. Locker Room Attendants. We all SERVICE Since 1987. licensed company
Giordano, LICSW. 202/460- scrub toilets & do heavy cleaning. You Gay & Veteran Owner/ with over 25 years of
6384 mike.giordano. STYLIST - COMMISSION OR BOOTH
must be physically able to handle the Operator. 2016 Luxury experience. Specializing
msw@gmail.com. www. work & have a great attitude doing BMW 750Li Sedan. in bathrooms, kitchens
RENTAL Carolina Antenzana@aol.
WhatIHearYouSaying.
it. No drunks/druggies need apply. Properly Licensed & & all interior/exterior
com. 703.243.9622 or 703.350.8421 Please call David at (202) 319-1333. Livery Insured in DC. repairs. Drywall, paint,
com. from 9-5pm, to schedule an interview.
A2Z Hair Studio 3000 10th St www.KasperLivery.com. electric & wallpaper.
Arlington, VA. Phone 202-554-2471. Trevor 703-303-8699.

Cognitive-Behavioral SIMPLE
Therapy
Results-Oriented • Affordable AFFORDABLE
Larry Cohen, LICSW PROVEN RESULTS
30 years serving the LGBT community
202-244-0903 CALL TODAY TOPLACE YOUR AD
socialanxietyhelp.com
See website for NPR story on my work
202.747.2077

DAVE LLOYD & ASSOCIATES
Top 1% Nationwide
NVAR Life Member Top Producder

703-593-3204
WWW.DAVELLOYD.NET

ENTHUSIASTICALLY
SERVING DC & VIRGINIA
DEADLINES
All Classified Ads
SHARE ADS ARE FREE. - Including Regular & Adult -
Place your HOUSING TO SHARE Must Be Received
ad online at washingtonblade.com By Mondays at 5PM
and the ad prints free in the paper and online.* So They Can Be Included
*25 words or less prints free - anything more is $1/word. in That Week’s Edition of
Washington Blade and
washingtonblade.com

5 4 • O TO B ER 0 6 , 2017 W A SH I N G T O N BLA D E . CO M

Always FREE to listen and reply to ads!
Place your SALE / WV
HOUSING TO SHARE
ad online at SHEPHERDSTOWN,
washingtonblade.com WV BEAUTY This
and the ad prints free in unique home includes
the paper and online.* Permaculture, Privacy,
*25 words or less prints free - anything more is $1/word.
and Potomac River Playmates or soul mates,
access, just 3 miles from you’ll find them on MegaMates
the vibrant cultural
hub of downtown Washington:
MOVERS Shepherdstown. Only (202) 448-0824
OUR GUYS AROUND $428,000 riverkv@gmail. www.megamates.com 18+

TOWN MOVERS. com
Professional Moving
& Storage. Let ‘Our
Guys’ Do The Heavy
Lifting. Mention the BODYWORK
‘Blade’ for 10% off of ENHANCE YOUR AD WITH
our regular rates. Call OUR UPGRADES
today 202.734.3080. www. PICTURES BOLD TEXT
LARGE TEXT COLOR
ourguysatmovers.com. AND MORE
CONTACT US AT
GREAT SCOTT MOVING INC. 202-747-2077
Local & Long Distance, Pianos! A
Great Move at a Great Price call (301)
699-2066. Highly` rated by Consumer
Check Book, Better Business Bureau,
Yelp & Angie’s List. We’ve moved the
Blade, let us move you!

PEST CONTROL
EJ’S PEST CONTROL
Insect, Rodent, & Critter
TOP RATED MASSEUR
Control. Effective
Experience Detecting Custom bodywork!
& Eliminating All Types Exceptional deep tissue
of Household Pests & sensual bodywork
including Ants, Bed Bugs,
Termites & Rodents. for total stress relief in
Schedule your Pest private studio both on
Inspection Today (202) the Hill & at Farragut
455-9924. DC, MD, VA, DE.
Square. Call Erik 202-
544-5688. In calls only!
TREE SERVICE No texts! Intro Special
$99.00.
BRANCHES TREE EXPERT
Company. Full service
certified arborists, THE MAGIC TOUCH: SWEDISH,
pruning, insect &
Massage or Deep Tissue. Appts 202-
disease diagnosis,
treatment & removal. 486-6183, Low Rates, 24/7, In-Calls.
301-589-6181. www.
BranchesTreeExperts.
com. Angie’s List
Award Winner.

SALE / VA
IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY FOR

PLACE YOUR FREE AD ONLINE
the rest of your life, buy this Virginia
waterfront home. Privacy and beauty ADULT ENTERTAINER MAN TO MAN
on 13+ acres, 3-4 large BRs, country Fantasy Massage By Lee. Smooth, Hot
kitch. 3.5 baths, fishing, canoeing,
hunting. Great financing with
Body, Fit 5’9”, 145 Lbs, 29” W., 24/7, WASHINGTONBLADE.COM/CLASSIFIEDS
minimum 10% down.1 hour to D.C. In/Out. Only In town Fri, Oct, 6 & Sat,
$750k. 202-543-2505. Oct 7. 412-628-1269.
W A SH I N GTO NB LAD E.C OM O CT O BE R 0 6 , 2 0 1 7 • 5 5

PA R T Y
PRESENTED BY

OCTOBER 19

DESTINY B. CHILDS TICKETS AT

COMPLIMENTARY AVION TEQUILA AND ABSOLUT COCKTAILS 6-8PM
FOOD BY BEST OF FINALISTS
PERFORMANCES BY BEST OF FINALISTS
PAMALA STANLEY, SASHA ADAMS AND MORE!
HIVcare.org
AHF Healthcare Centers

D.C.
1647 Benning Rd NE Ste 303
20002
(202) 350-5000

2141 K St NW Ste 606
20037
(202) 293-8680

MARYLAND
4302 Saint Barnabas Rd Ste B
Temple Hills, 20748
(301) 423-1071

Dr. Mark Davis, Warren,
AHF Dental Director AHF Client