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There are five factors which are important to understand when discussing womens
sexual fulfilment.

1) Sexual anatomy
2) Cycles
3) Sensorial orientation
4) Chakra orientation
5) Spiritual potency

I have written a book called Divine Sexuality which goes into great detail on the
subject of both womens and mens sexuality. This article highlights some of the key
points that are essential for women. I refer to the vagina as the yoni the Tantric
word for the female genitals, meaning sacred place and the penis as lingam,
meaning wand of light.

Sexual anatomy
Did you know that:

The clitoris has 30005000 nerve endings, all devoted to pleasure, connected to
pleasure centres all over her body.

The hood of the clitoris is attached to the clitoral bulbs, which reside inside the body
and become engorged and erect when the woman is sexually excited. The hood is
also connected to the vaginal lips, both inner and outer which also become engorged
and erect during excitation.

Orgasmic contractions happen inside the yoni, but the intensity can vary, depending
on the degree of excitation and arousal in the whole body, thus giving rise to the terms:
whole body orgasm, vs localized clitoral orgasm.

In general, women require a minimum of 20 minutes of sensual and sexually


stimulating warm up to reach a threshold from where sexual orgasm becomes
possible.

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After sexual orgasm, in general, a woman remains on the plateau, ready for more
orgasms, for at least 20 minutes.

Women are capable of experiencing multiple orgasms, (one orgasm feeding into the
next in an unbroken river of ecstasy,) as well as chain orgasms, (one orgasm following
the next with short gaps in between.)

The yoni of a woman is not very sensitive unless she is highly aroused. This is
because it is the birth canal, and if it was as sensitive as the clitoris and clitoral bulbs,
it would be excruciating to give birth.

When the woman is highly aroused, the yoni lengthens and expands, giving rise to a
craving to be penetrated by her lover.

The yoni, being versatile, forms herself to fit the size of the lingam which is
penetrating her (within reason according to anatomical proportions of both partners.)

The way a woman desires to be stimulated sexually, or to stimulate herself, stems


from how she has learned to experience sexual pleasure. In most cases, her sexual
empowerment is dependent on how she has trained herself to respond sexually during
masturbation.

A woman is capable of multiple orgasms into her 90s and beyond.

I have worked with countless women in groups and individual sessions and have
found that in general, women carry a great deal of misconception around the subject of
orgasm. Because of this, women tend to walk around with shame and secret suffering
which they may even hide from their lovers. One example of this is that 50% of women
fake orgasm.

For this sorry state of affairs, there are multiple factors to blame. One important factor
is that Freud made an erroneous statement, which had no basis in scientific fact. He
observed that there are two types of women, the infantile and the mature. He stated
that the infantile woman needs clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, while the
mature woman orgasms from penetration alone. Even today, this erroneous
statement haunts the lives of millions of women with unnecessary suffering.

Masters and Johnson scientifically tested this statement in a clinical study. Electrodes
were attached to women who said they reached orgasm from penetration alone, and
their sexual response was carefully monitored as they were engaged in sexual
intercourse. It was found in each case that the women were actively stimulating their
clitoris, through the friction of the lingam rubbing on the clitoris, or by the clitoral hood
stimulating the clitoris with the friction of intercourse.

It was later verified in the groundbreaking research of Masters and Johnson that the
three elements clitoral arousal, sacral nerve, and vaginal contractions are
necessary for female orgasm to take place.

Another factor which has had a great deal of influence is that a large majority of
women in Western society did not even know they were capable of orgasm until the
1900s. It was thought that marriageable women did not enjoy sex, but simply put up
with it as a chore in order to please their husbands or to get children. People believed
that only fallen women, or prostitutes, had pleasure in sex. Therefore, many women
carry the ancestral belief that they have no right to pleasure and are meant to have
sex to please their partner, never daring to ask for what they want and need. The
healing for this is for women to practice self-pleasuring, (masturbation) and discover
what you like and how you like it sexually and then to communicate this to your
partner. If you do not know and love your own body and way to pleasure, your partner
will not know either.

Because women have not been aware of their own capacity for pleasure, when the
womens movement began, the direction many women took was to deny their feminine
nature, to copy men and compete to do it better. Sexually this has been disastrous.
Womens sexual response is diametrically opposite to mens. This is why we are
complementary. Just imagine the positive poles of two magnets trying to meet. They
cannot. They oppose each other energetically. However, if you have a receptive pole
and a positive pole of the magnets coming together, they glue together with great
eagerness. Opposites attract.
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Another very important factor is education and the lack of it. Because of the
destructive idea propounded by some spiritual traditions, that spiritual fulfilment is only
possible if one denies sex, there is a great lack of any kind of intelligent sexual
education. And because our species survival depends on sex, of course our bodies
make it a priority.
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In our present so called sexually free society, there is still a great lack of sex
education, and yet the internet and other media are full of pornography. I have nothing
against sexually explicit media, if it remains true to men and womens real experience
and potential. Pornography, however, is for the most part simply idiotic and gives false
impressions to people as to what is expected during sex. It tends to psychologically
and emotionally damage the impressionable young who are trying to learn about this
most vital subject.

An exquisitely beautiful young woman came to my Tantra course. She admitted in


private that she was a high-class prostitute, in great demand, but inside she felt
nothing but disgust and had never known orgasm (though she was good at faking it.) I
asked her about her formative years and how she found out about sex. At age nine
she was introduced to pornography. The first film she saw was one in which humans
were having sex with animals. She was so horrified that she went into complete shock
and shutdown, and this psychological and emotional trauma, became a catalyst
towards her profession as an unhappy prostitute. Luckily this story has a happy
ending. I was able to offer healing to her, and subsequently, she found a Beloved and
discovered the joy of orgasm.

In my groups, it gives me great joy to empower the feminine in women, helping women
to become aware of their power and potential, not only in orgasm, but in many other
areas of life.

Cycles
Women are keepers of the tides of life, of all life cycles. This is so because we are
bound to the moon, and to the ever-present facts of birth and of death inherent in our
womb. When we carry a child in the womb, the gestation of this child moves through
each aspect of evolution. This means we are the keepers of the whole history of
evolution, of all of life. When we are not carrying a child, and are in the cycles of
menstruation, each month we go through creation and de-creation. As the lining of the
womb moves out with the menstrual flow, our hormone levels drop and we go through
a small death. When we begin awakening to the awesome power inherent in being
woman, and we link this to our natural yearning to nurture and love, we will naturally
be drawn to become the custodians of life in all its aspects. When a woman is not
aware of her feminine power, inherent in her womb, she simultaneously is in denial of
her full potential for ecstasy.

I have met many women who believe that if they go into their full orgasmic potential, it
will frighten the men they are with. And so they hold back, not wanting to rock the boat.
Our full orgasmic potential is intimately connected to how we are with our womb, with
our life cycles and with our monthly menstrual cycle.

Deepest ecstasy in orgasm arises when the womb is energetically open and the
woman is passionately in love with being the womb of all of life. To help support this,
learn to breathe and to make sounds during sexual arousal. Learn to love your belly,
and to love your menstruation. Keep a diary of your cycles and note down how you
feel, sexually and emotionally, during the different phases of the moon cycle. If your
man is afraid of your sexual ecstasy, he would benefit from going to a mens group, a
Shamanic group, or a Tantra group, where he can experience a rite of passage into full
manhood.

Sensorial orientation
To be sexually fulfilled, as women, we need to honour the fact that, in general, we
need to open up through the kinesthetic sense. We need touching, cuddling, emotional
security and feelings of all kinds. Of course, women also have highly developed visual,
auditory or olfactory senses, but for moving into sexual contact, we need to own and
be comfortable with our potential for emotional fluidity.

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During sexual play, when a womans womb centre opens, she will have a tendency to
laugh or to cry. This is a signal that her yoni is now open and ready for penetration. It is
common that the woman cries as she climaxes, and unfortunately this is often at the
very end of the sexual act. For the sex to be more fulfilling, she needs to open up her
emotional flow before penetration. This can happen very easily by the partner placing
his relaxed hands on her belly and just being present with her womb centre. Within five
or 10 minutes, she will most likely find herself either laughing or crying, and this is a
signal that all is flowing.

Chakra orientation
The seven main chakras are a vast subject by themselves. In brief, chakras are
energetic centres in the body, which mirror cosmic principles and support each person
to become a full spectrum rainbow, merging into white light. Each chakra has a
masculine or positive aspect or a female, receptive aspect. In the male and female
bodies, the chakras are complementary opposites. This means that, in the same way
you experience orgasm at the first chakra (sex centre), you can also experience
orgasm at the second chakra (lower belly), or at the third chakra (stomach area), and
so on up to the seventh. The male and female chakras fit together like lock and key, as
complementary opposites. In the male, the first chakra is positive and outgoing, while
in the woman, it is receptive. In the second chakra, the belly, the woman is more
outgoing, while the male is receptive. In the third chakra (stomach), the man is
outgoing and woman is receptive. In the heart chakra, the woman is outgoing and the
man is receptive. In the throat chakra, the man is outgoing and the woman receptive.
In the sixth chakra (centre of brain in line with the third eye), the woman is outgoing
and the man is receptive. In the seventh chakra, at the crown of the head, male and
female merge beyond duality.

A very important key for the woman to be sexually fulfilled is for her to awaken to her
positive polarities in the chakra system. She needs to own and celebrate her womb
centre (second chakra) as described earlier. She needs to nurture her capacity for
unconditional love in the fourth chakra (heart centre), and she needs to open up and
use her intuition, held at the sixth chakra (third eye centre). When this happens, she
will automatically become open to her lover in her receptive centres, and he will at last
feel he is being fully received. When we feel disempowered, we do not open to the
partner, but rather protect ourselves. When you awaken the power and potential of
your positive chakras, you will shine and feel ready to absorb the gifts given by the
male principle.

Spiritual potency
As the woman is the womb for all of life, she is also the birth giver and the spiritual
mother for this world. If she is weak, and unaware of her own ecstasy, she will give
birth to a world based on a collapsed feminine, and an over aggressive masculine, as
we see today. This situation can change very rapidly if women everywhere can open
up to their own divinity and power.

It has happened at least twice in history, that two warring tribes came to almost
instantaneous peace when the women of both tribes joined together and refused to
have sex with their men until the war was stopped and a peace treaty was agreed. The
womans power is in her capacity to become love and to radiate that love into each
and every aspect of life.

During orgasm, it has been found by scientists who put electrodes in the brain that a
womans brain completely shuts down. No-mind is a highly prized spiritual state
because it takes us beyond past or future, into the present moment. When a woman is
moving into orgasmic ecstasy, she can easily use this state to access what is known
as Mahamudra, meaning the great gesture which arises out of the orgasm with the
universe. A womans orgasm can be so powerful and full bodied that it can propel her
into Samadhi (universal consciousness). Having known her capacity for ecstasy, she
then wants to bless the whole world. She becomes a devotee of life.

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Read Saritas profile, her extraordinary childhood that takes her single-pointedly to
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Article first published in Paradigm Shift, 49, Nov-Dec 2010 www.paradigmshift.info

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