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....The head of every man is Christ;
and the head of the woman is the man;
and the head of Christ is God.
1 Cor. 11:3

....The man is the image and glory of God:
but the woman is the glory of the man.
1 Cor. 11:7
These two verses give us the order of authority and the purpose of the
male and female in creation. Man did not set the order; God did! Man cannot
change the order and still please God. God will not submit to man’s intervention
of His will. His will, will be done!

It’s strange that a male will run from responsibility, and a woman will at-
tempt to move the man over so she can take charge. Neither one has surrendered
to believing God’s way is life and it works. Maybe they just haven’t sought to
learn how to fulfill their place in marriage! God created man, male & female, to
join together in marriage and show by their works, just how the godhead works
in heaven. We were made in HIS IMAGE. Marriage is a complete picture of the
godhead. The godhead is three, yet they are one. The male, female and spirit of
their union is three, yet God says they are one! The male’s position is to bring
glory to the CREATOR and the female’s position is to bring glory to GOD’S
CREATION, man. We are to work within one another’s lives, as the godhead
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Since the man is the head, the woman is to strive to fulfill the will of the
father. The father is the provider, the mother is the producer and the children are
the product. It takes all to represent the image of God. The Heavenly Father is
the provider, the Word is the producer and we, the children of God are the
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(Continued from page one) SONGS IN THE NIGHT
products of their work. When we, the family, work together as God works, then Job 35:10
mankind will get a glimpse of the beauty of God.
Songs in the night before dawn’s early light, when darkness spreads its
I am afraid that most men could not tell the wife what his will is for his wings across the land:
family! She may have never asked him. More than likely, he hasn’t given it a Though shadows line the way, it seems there is no day, and trouble seems
thought. He married her for a partner, thinking no further than his and her rela-
to be so close at hand.
tionship. They didn’t marry to build, they married to mate, and when the fruit
comes in, they have no clue what they should do with it! The fruit of our union
is the fulfillment of God’s command, multiply, replenish and subdue the earth. Songs in the night can chase away the fright, while waiting for the safety
It’s not just about what we want, it’s about what God wants. We are to do this for of the day:
God and He gives us the privilege of enjoying our work as we move along. Are When you cannot see the road, they help to bear the load, and keep you
you living “as unto the Lord” or just striving to get what you want out of life? on the straight and narrow way.

If you are a father, does your wife know what your will is for your house? Songs in the night help to make things right, when every corner seems to
What do you consider a great family? Are you working at building that kind of be so very wrong:
a home? How well do you represent the Heavenly Father in your home? Are They warm a cold, cold heart, cause sorrows to depart, and give us
you loving, gentle, kind, gracious, forgiving and compassionate to those at your strength enough to carry on.
house? If not, do you humble yourself and ask forgiveness from your family?
Does your family see the character of the Heavenly Father in your life? If not, When darkness seems to say, “You’ll
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we received His name. Christ is loving and freely gives us our needs. Do you Songs in the night can fly across the
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render to doing it God’s way. What do you do if your mate could care less about So when the night seems long, just lift Spanish Language for world-wid distribu-
pleasing God in your relationship? What your mate does will either make it your heart in song; the fear, the fright, tion, through Bible believing Missionaries at
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We are supposed to bless our mates and make their lives better, yet most
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Bro. Jerry & Gloria Brewster
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TID BITS OF WISDOM we needed godly fathers like we do today.
MONTHLY REPORT
My father left my mother with four girls and me on the way. I never got
Summer vacation is here. Hopefully you will have special time with your to know my father until I was in my 20’s. After I saw him, I could lay down my
children. Take advantage of what time you have. They will be grown and out of anger and feel compassion. He threw his life away. I always wanted to be a good
the house before you know it. father to my sons not like I had. It took a lot of work in my life for Christ to teach
me how to have His mind when it came to my responsibilities to my family. If
We heard that Bro. Joe West fell and broke his hip and required surgery. we will yield ourselves to Christ, He will conform us to His image and we can do
We haven’t been able to get in touch with them but know they would appreciate a work as a father that will bring glory to God.
your prayers. This has been a rough year for them with the loss of their son, Bro.
Larry West. They are wonderful soldiers of Christ and have made a difference in The male should represent God in a way that brings glory to Him as a
many churches and many people’s lives over the years. We need more like them. Creator! The female’s work should represent the glory of man, beautifying God’s
We also had a dear friend, Sheldon Wolf, pass away this last week and would like creation. Oh, if we could just get a glimpse of the opportunity God has given
to have you pray for their family. Their son, Levi Wolf, is a new pastor with a each one of us, we would put more effort into our work.
new wife and they will need your prayers also. Another friend, Bro. Mark Pitt-
man, has been diagnosed with leukemia and will be facing some hard days ahead. Father’s day is coming up. Oh how we need godly fathers today. Will
Some of our faithful supporters are in bad health also. Three weeks ago I had you pledge to be one? Every child deserves a good father!!!
another attack of gout. We are praying that there will be no more. I am sure some
of you reading this also need our prayers. We should be praying for one another!
The Bible says, “we have not because we ask not!” A minister parked his car in a no-parking zone in a large city be-
cause he was short of time and couldn’t find a space with a meter.
Hopefully, this finds you still reading through your Bible this year. It Then he put a note under the windshield wiper that read: “I have
amazes me how alive my Bible is after reading it almost every day for the last 50 circled the block 10 times. If I don’t park here, I’ll miss my appoint-
years. The Bible is alive and if you read it daily it will keep you feeling alive! ment. Forgive us our trespasses.”
We can’t live on yesterday’s feeding. We need daily feeding to find strength for
the day. Don’t give up! When he returned, he found a citation from a police officer along with
this note “I’ve circled this block for 10 years. If I don’t give you a
I was able to fill in for Pastor Worely this Sunday while he and his family ticket I’ll lose my job. Lead us not into temptation”.
were on vacation. We will be filling in for Pastor Dale Harris, in Jacksonville.
Texas, this August 12th. Our church, Galilean Baptist in Cedar Hill, Texas, will
have a Ladies Conference, June 2nd, and Gloria and Mrs. Ann Marie Knicker- A father was approached by his small son who told him proudly, “I
bocker will be speaking. If you need someone to fill your pulpit for you while know what the word Bible means!”
you are away, we would be glad to help. We can preach, teach Sunday School and His father smiled and replied, “What do you mean, you know what
Gloria plays the piano. We enjoy aiding pastors.
the word Bible means?”
Two of our dearest friends are providing us with a vacation the end of Au-
gust. This August we will be retired for four years and God has faithfully cared “That’s easy, daddy”. It means
for us through friends like these. Many of you have responded to our needs as B - basic
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my Bible and the book were not wet! I drove to the lady’s house and picked up
F my Bible and the book. I tried to give her a reward, but she wouldn’t take it. She
said she knew how much that Bible meant to me and she didn’t want a reward.
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M When I got home I went into my prayer closet and thanked God for re-
A deeming my Bible and the book. I read through my Bible every year and I had
marked where I had stopped when it was stolen. I began reading the next chapter
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and guess what that chapter was about. That’s right, it was about the borrowed
E axe head!!! God was showing me that it was all about God and His love for me.
By Later, I found a place to buy the book, but of course I don’t have the daughter’s
INSPIRATIONS Gloria Brewster signature in it: yet I wouldn’t take anything for it.

A TRIBUTE TO A Does God care about our dilemmas? Oh yes He does! He wants us to
totally depend upon Him for our needs. That means a close relationship. He is
GOOD WOMAN! aware of the smallest details of our lives and most of all, He cares! He also says,
“We have not, because we ask not!” What if I had not asked and just assumed I
Years ago, when George Bush became our president, I instantly felt a would never see it again? One of my favorite verses is Hebrews 11:6.
kindred spirit with Barbara Bush. She loved being a wife and a mother and I also
loved being a wife and a mother! I had never wanted to meet a politician before, Heb 11:6
but I wanted to meet her. Of course, I never did get to meet her, but I watched her But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must
life closely. believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

I knew she was a good woman, but I wasn’t sure that she knew what it I believe that my God IS whatever I need and He will reward my seeking
meant to be a “real Christian.” I would tell my husband how terrible it would be Him in time of trouble. I can’t count the times that God has proven this to be true
if after being such a good person she would end up in hell because nobody told in my life. How about you? ---Gloria Brewster
her how to accept Christ as her Lord and Savior. Well, finally she wrote an auto-
biography and I bought it hoping to find something in it that would tell me if she
really knew Jesus. THE WORD OF GOD
For feelings come and feelings go, and feelings are deceiving;
After reading a few chapters I began laughing! I couldn’t believe how
My warrant is the Word of God nought else is worth believing.
God had let me know that she understood salvation. God put it in her heart to
I’ll trust in God’s unchanging Word till soul and body sever:
write a story that told me what I needed to know.
For, though all things shall pass away, His Word shall stand forever.
The Bush’s always had company. On Sunday, Barbara would make ev-
eryone who was staying in their home go to church with her (that was, every one “No, No, No,” protested the agreeable fellow;
but President George Bush. He seldom went). One Sunday morning she was sit- “I wouldn’t call her a sourpuss at all.
ting in bed reading a book before church when a knock came to the door. It was All I know is that when she rubs cold cream on her face, it curdles.”
her relative that was staying with them. He wanted her to solve a problem. His
dog had died that week and he told his wife he wanted to give a special offering
in honor of his dog. She said, “you can’t honor a dog in church,” but he thought According to those in the know, the world’s most conceited man was the
he could. He asked, “Why can’t I? I loved my dog”. She said she didn’t know fellow who celebrated his birthday by sending his mother a telegram of
why he couldn’t, but for him to go ask Barbara, she would know why. So he did congratulation.
and Barbara wondered just what to say to him. Barbara answered him, “Did your
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BEHOLD IT WAS BORROWED! dog ever accept the Lord Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior”? He said, “No”.
Then she said, “You can’t honor your dog in church”. Well, that let me know that
Some years ago, I met a lady who had a very interesting book. It was a Barbara knew what it took to be a Christian. I’m sure God made her put that in
book written by the daughter of the man Spafford, who wrote the song, “It is Well her book just for me!
with my Soul.” The lady had made a trip to Israel and met the daughter of the
Spafford’s in her bookstore. The Spafford’s had started an orphanage during their I love biographies. Reading her book gave me a chance to see what it
lifetime in Israel and the daughter still ran the orphanage. She also had written was like to live in the home of a politician, and it made me want to share with her
a book about the life of her mother and father. The daughter was kind enough to what it was like to live in the home of a preacher. Our lives were so different!
sign the book for this lady. Well, I never got to share with her, but I believe she would have enjoyed knowing
about a preacher’s home as much as I enjoyed reading about her home.
The story I had been told was how that Mrs. Spafford and her 6 children
were on a ship and the ship sank, killing all of her children. She was the only one As you know, Barbara Bush was buried April the 21st of this year. If you
to survive. Later, Mr. Spafford came on another ship and when it went over the did not see her funeral, you need to find a way to watch it. I have never seen a
place where his children had died. he wrote the song, “It is Well with my Soul”. woman receive such great honor as she did; first, by her family, and then by her
That turned out to be only a small part of the story and this book Mr. Spafford’s friends. The people came by the thousands to honor her while she laid in state.
daughter wrote, tells the whole story. I asked the lady if I could borrow her book What was it that made Barbara Bush so attractive to everyone?
and she graciously agreed but she said, “please take care of it”, because she didn’t
want to lose it. I told her I would guard it with my life. Mine and Barbara’s lives were different. She danced. I wasn’t allowed
to go to dances. She drank. I wasn’t allowed to drink. She attended parties that
God has used the story in that book to greatly influence my life. I would I wasn’t allowed to attend. She went to movies. I was not allowed to go to mov-
carry that book in a bag with my Bible every where I went. I would read my ies. We did not live the same lives, so why did we have such a kindred spirit?
Bible and then I would read a chapter of the book. There came a time in Barbara’s life that she accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as
her Lord and Savior. At 16 years of age, I accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as my
One night, Jerry and I went to visit a family that he had lead to Christ. Lord and Savior. She sought to learn and know how to love with a godly love. I
We weren’t in the home for more than an hour. When we went to the car someone sought to learn and know how to love with a godly love. We had faith in the same
had broken into the car and stolen my Bible, the borrowed book and an electronic Person and the same Person taught us how to love. How can we be so different
Bible, which were all in the bag. My heart sank! There was no way I could re- and yet alike? Because it’s not about who we are as much as who we love and
place that book. The daughter who signed it was now dead. We drove around place our faith in!
the area where they lived, looking on the street, hoping they had dropped it when
they found out it had no dollar value, but we found nothing. I finally gave up and Was there any advantage to my living a separated life? Oh yes! Separa-
went home very heavy hearted. I prayed that night, reminding God of the axe tion keeps you at a distance from Satan’s playground. Barbara may have had to
head that was lost in the Bible and how that God had redeemed it for the prophet deal with some things that I did not have to deal with because of my separation.
(2 Kings 6). I asked the Lord to please redeem that book and reminded Him it It always pays to keep a distance between you and the work of Satan. BUT re-
was “borrowed”. member, you are not the only person God loves! Even though they did not use
our translation of the Bible, there was more Scripture read at Barbara’s funeral
It rained the next two days and one week later I gave up thinking about than I have ever heard at a funeral (and I’ve been to a lot of funerals). They made
it and was trying to think of a way to tell the lady I had lost her book when the it clear that her trust was in the Person of the Lord Jesus Christ. They said Barba-
phone rang and a woman asked if I was Gloria Brewster. I said, “Yes, I am”. She ra’s death was the end of an era. They said, women don’t live like her any more.
said, “I found a bag with a Bible and a book in it and it was obvious that whoever I hope they are wrong. It was Barbara’s FAITH in Christ, her LOVE for God,
it belonged to loved their Bible. She said, “I told my friend, I must find who this family and friends, along with her strength of character that made her honorable.
Bible belongs to”. She had been trying to find me for a week. The bag had been As women, we MUST NOT let that die. It’s time for the women to turn their
thrown into a ditch and when the lady was driving, she saw it and wondered what hearts back to “GOD” and “GO HOME” and love your husband and children. Do
it was. She stopped the car and picked up my bag. It had rained for two days and you want to be honorable? Then live a honorable life. One that God can bless!!!
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The Plan
When we first arrive, we intend to focus our attention on the younger
generation in Togo. Forty-one percent of the approximately seven million people
New Trip
are under fifteen years of age. This presents an incredible opportunity of reach-
Greetings, ing the next generation of Togolese and also the surrounding African nations.
Once again, I will be traveling overseas to the continent of Africa. My Because of this, we will be spending the first six weeks holding Vacation Bible
most recent trip to Togo, West Africa, in 2016, led me to understand that I defi- Schools with the intention of reaching the parents and families. These efforts will
nitely needed to go back for longer than just a few weeks. The tenure of this up- be the basis for the church plant. We will be based out of the capital city of Lomé’
coming trip to Togo is one year. My friend, Yaovi Kpogno, a Togolese national, which is home to about one-fifth of the population. The large neighbor-hood of
has been making plans to return to his country as he has finished his education Kodjoviakopé within Lomé is on the border of Togo and Ghana and is in need
here in the states. God has placed in his heart a desire to plant churches, build a of a Baptist church. This is where we will base our evangelistic efforts including
school/orphanage, and start an institute to train others. As our friendship grew, I but not limited to: crusades, soul-winning and discipleship efforts, VBS, regular
was amazed by his genuine walk with God. He has been an extreme blessing to church meetings, sports outreach, and Bible clubs in the schools.
me in my own personal walk, and I know that the Lord is with him. I have been The Need
planning and preparing to return with him to help in any way that I can in the In May 2017, I graduated with a Youth Ministry degree from the Crown
beginning of his ministry to his people. College of the Bible in Knoxville, TN. For a year following, I have been assisting
My Goal my father, Pastor Matt Wilkerson, through the ministry of the Galilean Baptist
My main goal in going to Africa is first and foremost, to make myself of Church. I have been able to save some money this year for my initial expenses to
no reputation, and to take on the form of a servant as did our Lord Jesus. I do not get to Togo, but that of course will not be enough to sustain me for the duration of
desire to go to Togo to be the “main man” or the leader, as I believe that I am still my stay. I have already purchased the plane tickets, and we are scheduled to leave
being prepared for what my main calling will be. God has been raising up Togo- July 9, 2018. It is estimated that my expenses will be $1,000 a month for the trip.
lese men of God to reach their own people among their own culture, and to me, I am praying that the Lord will supply this through His people. If you would like
that is more exciting than any agenda that I might have. Many of you who may to support my year-long mission, either monthly or with a one-time gift, you may
be reading this, knows what it means to be a servant—to spend yourself for the do so through my sending church or through my “Go Fund Me” page - “A Year
sake of others. I am desiring to do the same thing in Africa, that you are involved in West Africa”. Please pray for us.
in here. I have witnessed the readiness of the Togolese Christians to serve and to In Christ,
follow Jesus, and I am excited for what God has prepared for the months ahead. Matthew Wilkerson, Jr.
My desire is to be an encourager and co-laborer with Yaovi as well as “TO GO TO TOGO”: A YEAR LONG BARNABAS MISSION TRIP
with the people that God raises up in Togo. The pattern of ministry for this trip Prayer and Support Letter
comes from the example of one of the early Christians, Barnabas. He was a man MATTHEW WILKERSON
full of faith and the Holy Ghost. Everywhere he appears, he is helping the saints Phone: 972-795-0821
of God. He brought Paul to the other apostles, extended the hand of fellowship to Email: mrtennkanbro28@gmail.com
him, journeyed with him, and waxed bold with him in exhorting people to cleave Sending Church:
to their newfound faith in Jesus Christ. He was separated by the Holy Spirit with Galilean Baptist Church
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