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< BACHELOR OF BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION WITH HONOURS >

< 03 / 2019 >

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TABLE OF CONTENT

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1 1.0 INTRODUCTION 3&4

2 2.0 EFFECTS OF EARLY MARRIAGE 4-6

3.0 ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF EARLY


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MARRIAGE 6-9

4 4.0 COCLUSION 9 & 10

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1.0 INTRODUCTION

Some previous performances show that early marriage phenomena are associated with
high levels of poverty and social constraints due to conflict, political and economic
barriers, instability, and lack of service in education, housing, and professional
development. As a result, it is common that parents will not encourage their daughters to
get married at a young age in the hope that this marriage will increase their financial and
social status. However, early marriages for young girls are regarded as a form of human
rights violation, as it affects the physical, mental, psychological, educational and
emotional development of women. This tradition can be a dangerous practice; and
consequently, its many harmful effects. For example, girls will be denied the right to
independently express their views, the right to be defended from the harmful, traditional
practices. In addition, early marriages require heavy household performance and marriage
responsibilities including the addition of children. The issue here raises the question, how
the mothers of children raise their children when they are their own children.

If I was a Helen, I would not get married at an early age like at age 19 because its too
small age to involve in the marriage life at all. Marriage is not a big thing actually. It will
happen just one time only in our whole life. We must think about our future before
involving in marriage life. Other than that, our family and friends are more important
than this all. First of all, 19 age is the age we spend time with our family and enjoyed our
teen’s life with our friends in a good way. Moreover, our parents will have a big dream
for our marriage. They should have plenty of plans and ideas for our marriage function.
Some more, there’s are some effect of Early Marriage. That’s are married girls at a
younger age are often more susceptible to health risks related to early sexual initiation
and childbirth, including HIV and obstetric fistula. Young girls who lack status, power
and maturity are often subject to domestic violence, sexual abuse, and social isolation.
Early marriages almost always damage their education girls or meaningful employment,
which contributes to persistent poverty. Marriage girls keep cycles of gender inequality,
illness, and poverty. Getting married girls at an early age when they are physically
matured, leading to the highest rate of maternal and child mortality.

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If I was Helen’s mom I won’t agree for my daughter’s marriage. Because she is just 19
years old. Obviously, not a right age to getting married. There is no benefit for early
marriage. Girls are too young to work, so they can not support themselves, let alone a
couple or family. In addition, girls are not fully emotionally developed and can not be
expected to make a lifetime decision, especially as many adults are incapable of doing so.
They are too young to understand the concept of sex and children. Most will die in
childbirth. They are not mature. I think it's bad for someone to have an early marriage
because they are too young and do not know how to manage themselves. Besides their
mentality they just want to have fun and enjoy their teen years and they feel like people
will respect them more and look forward to them. But on the contrary, they just ruined
there their own teen life.

2.0 EFFEECTS OF EARLY MARRIAGE

Young adults may experience misery as a result of early marriage. So much more is
known about the state that they have no reliable estimates of their scale of circumstances,
or the social damage brought forward in education, they give to their own children. One
obvious thing is the impact of early marriage on girls and less on men. Early marriages
can have negative effects such as psychosocial shortages, financial hardships, lack of
emotional maturity, education barriers and violence and neglect.

Early marriages can lead to psychosocial weakness. Because they are young they may not
mature with marriage. This may occur in men or women. Shortage of maturity can lead
them to unhappy marriage and then divorce. Mature couples should be more aware of the
needs of their families, jobs, loyalty and so forth. This deficiency is not good for
marriage. If they are less mature, they may not be aware of the needs of their families and
they spend more time with friends. Lack of maturity can make them hard to find work
and some of them may not want to get a job. Loyalty is important in any relationship.
Lack of maturity can sometimes affect their loyalty. Divorced at a young age is not
impossible at all, it can affect the future of their children by having a broken family.

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In addition, early marriages can affect their education. Early marriages can prevent
school-age children from obtaining their rights for the education they need for their
personal development, their preparation for adulthood, and their effective contributions to
the well-being of their families and communities. Indeed, married girls who wish to
continue schooling may not be able to do it practically and illegally. The interaction
between the number of years of schooling a girl and the postponement of marriage was
established by demographic and fertility studies.

Marriage is one of the basic needs of everyone's life. You will find husbands and wives
when they grow up. Some couples succeed in their new life, while others suffer from
severe problems in their families. This issue usually occurs to those who are married at a
young age. If married people are under the age of eighteen or should they wait until they
are mature enough for marriage.

Firstly, marry underage affects the health of the wives seriously. Research shows that
there are many cases of death of a young mother when delivering a baby. What I mean by
this is that the state of the very young girl's body is not enough to get pregnant. As a
result, they usually take risks during their delivery. One more thing is that young couples
can not care for the welfare of their wives during their pregnancy, so they may coincide
with or get any injury. That will cause them in danger. Women appear to be victims when
they are married at a very young age.

Next, young couples do not have enough responsibility for their new family. Normally,
both men and women lack the experience of life, and the way they think and behave quite
fragile. Their lifestyle is as if they were single. In other words, they do not have the
ability to earn their income. Moreover, they can not wait to live with each other. We can
say that couples who are married at a very young age often break their relationship
because they lack experience of life and responsibility for their families.
Critics of this position show that married people in their youth have more time to produce
more children. However, this old concept has changed over the years. Nowadays, young

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people turn to spend time learning to build their ability to meet the job market. If they
were married before they graduated, they would probably stop learning because they
were busy with their family. As a result, they missed the title and failed in the job market.
Marriage at a young age affects the education of severe people.

3.0 ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF EARLY MARRIAGES

The incidence of young women marrying men much advanced in years is nothing new. In
fact the patriarchal underpinnings of society make it easier for older men to have young
brides rather than for mature women to find social acceptance with far younger male
partners. And like with many long-held practices, there are certain advantages to
marrying a man older to you. There is some advantages and disadvantages cause of early
marriages.

10 Advantages

1. He is successfull. The top drawer of marrying parents may be the success of the
material you can take as his wife. An older man is far more likely to be
established and succeeded in his career than a younger man, no longer a debt.
This means that you can live a good life and be able to enjoy luxury, while with a
younger man it will take many years to live an economic life even though it can
be part of the comfort.

2. He is mature. The more a person experiences, the more likely he becomes


emotional adult. This is a great advantage over young men who have always been
jealous of associating with other men or expecting their fragile ego to work every
moment and then. An older and more mature man is less likely to be affected by
small anxiety and ego-hassles. His long experience will give him a broader
perspective on the things that are very important in life, the key factor in
successful relationships. Perhaps one of the reasons why Jacqueline Kennedy

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decides to marry an older but weaker Aristotle Onassis after living as a very
colorful and charismatic but younger John Kennedy wife.

3. He is more stable in life. Professionally and emotionally, an older man is more


likely to achieve stability than a young man who is still experimenting with his
career and relationships. You can definitely expect an older man to put wild day
wine and women behind them and now become more open to the calm and
stability that people are looking for in relationships. Good examples in the
wedding are celebrity couple Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones.
However, not all older men can or even want to calm their colorful personality
and like Hugh Hefner continues to live on the wild side.

4. He is more responsible. A long and successful career implies that a man is


capable of fulfilling his professional responsibilities. Therefore, you can expect
that he is also sensitive to the needs and obligations of personal relationships as
well. This is far from your unreliable younger brother to put a mortgage behind or
do not remember taking your child from his piano lesson. In fact, if you are
interested in having a child, you may be looking for an older man ready to start a
family compared to the young friends who will besiege and complain and
complain that they just do not feel ready for such a huge responsibility. Examples
of celebrities such as marriage are Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes.

5. He is sexually experienced as well. One of the biggest disadvantages to marrying


older men should be sexually dissatisfied sex or lack of sexual attraction. People
just have to look at the delicious Harrison Ford to find out that younger Calista
Flockhart does not complain. Instead of old men with long years in their
relationship can be more knowledgeable than young men and more importantly,
eager to give their wives, unlike young people who are too keen to their own
satisfaction to see what their feelings are. Also, modern medicines like Viagra
have made it easier for older men to live an active sex life as it may not have been
possible over the last few decades. Finally, men can divide the children into their
years, rock legend Mick Jagger's father who at the age of 57 years.

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6. He is less likely to stray. He is less likely to deviate than the young man who is
still making decisions about what they want in the couple. An old man who has
seen and did everything knows the value of salvation and loyalty in relationships.
At this stage of life, he wants friends and soul mates and may not be interested in
riding around the city or looking for women in bars and night clubs.

7. He will have more tome for you. A comfortable man residing in his profession
will be your disposal more often than a young man who is still struggling to
establish his qualifications and prove himself professionally. Moreover, when
your old friend is retiring, you can look forward to helping him with your home or
children rather than always at work or with a beer friend.

8. You will be more open-minded. Married an older man to you can make you
suspect in the eyes of many. You may be accused of gold diggers or the
manifestations of your partner's mid-life crisis. However, while confronting and
passing through these issues, you will gradually learn to be more open to other
unconventional relationships as well, for example where the man is much younger
than a year to a partner or partner comes from the background different
ethnicities. This broad-minded is absolutely worthless in this time when people
are increasingly becoming victims of disunity based on religious, ethnic or sexual
identity.

9. He will help you live in the present. Very important is given in today's culture to
plans and ideals for the future. Young people obsessed with making habits often
forget to enjoy what they have - now. Moreover, someone who has not met his
feet professionally can not afford to spend much time stopping and smelling roses.
On the other hand, with older people you will appreciate the beauty of the present
day and the importance of living fully for a long time you will approach his age.

Finally, a man who has a longer and wider experience can make your life more
interesting than it does with a younger man. He can not only advise you on
practical or financial matters but opens your eyes to the variety and beauty offered

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by the world. Therefore, if you are married to an older man, do not hesitate to take
your relationship to the next level if you know that is what you want. After all, as
Aaliyah's beautiful song goes, 'age is nothing but a few'.

2 Disadvantages

1. Older men have had more lovers. Older men have more wives, girlfriends or
lovers than young men. This can make them wise when dealing with
relationships. It can also leave them with more emotional baggage than young
men. Therefore, older men may have a bitter and biased view when it comes to
women. For example, she might think that all women are worried because her ex-
wife never gave her peace since then.

2. Older men might not shrare all of your interests. Older men may not share all your
interests, values, beliefs, and opinions. Furthermore, he is less likely than a young
man who wants to get out and jump the party or bungee from the bridge over the
weekend. On the contrary, he may want to enjoy comfortable nights at home,
attend a dinner, or go out for a romantic meal in the restaurant. Older male friends
are more likely to share their interests than you are. If you want to go out and like
to do all the things that young people do, you should avoid older men. Parents
may not be interested in this because they are already there and do it.

4.0 CONCLUSION

In conclusion, early marriages rise in 2011-2014, all parents out there must be aware of
this problem since the duration of early marriage will increase each year. Lack of formal
education, financial problems, and early pregnancy all the effects of early marriage and
not only affect parents but also the chains of children in unhealthy habits. Marriage is a
great responsibility, and everyone should consider the effects of early marriage. Also, the
Government should consider this as a major problem. The teenager must have the
discipline to control the problem of this early marriage, they are too young to assume a
great responsibility to have their own family.

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Teenage marriage can happen to anyone depending on the moral beliefs and if you are
ready for any consequences later. This means teenage marriage is a big step in one's life
and not something that young people can just run. This is important because young
people need to know the different effects of teenage marriage. They need to know why
adolescents can not get married and how important it is to wait until you are really
prepared for such a great commitment. In addition, they need to learn about teenage
outcomes as most of them will not be better. From this information, we find out that
many people are young, but they may not be really happy and satisfied with their decision
because they are too young to tell.

Early marriages raised much debate with different parties with their opinion on the issue.
However, from this essay, it can be deduced that early marriage should be fully addressed
as it denies the education of girls, leading to early pregnancy and denying gender equality
of girls. These things seem to bring more weight than what supporters advocate as they
suggest that early marriage is the way in which girls can experience financial liberation.
To say, people have to quit early marriage.

( 2818 words )

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