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how can I achieve this?” Even the majority who want the long last relationship. there are the ones who come to me and say.. ‘There is no guarantee of obtaining a one night stand with a woman. were unbelievable. Let’s get the bad news out the way ﬁrst.kezia-noble. Lets narrow it down to three types..up artists. All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. DRAMATICALLY! And what better way to ﬁnd this out than a women explaining it from her point of view. both ‘naturals’ and pick. Nothing out there can guarantee a one-night stand. are openly not apposed to the idea. and as everyone in the community knows. it would automatically make me a liar. And now I will share what I have taught them with you. I have taught these techniques/tips/methods of inﬂuence (or whatever terminology you wish to use) to a number of my private students. There is. there is however some great ways that you can increase your chances of attracting a woman for the purpose of a one night stand. I just want loads of one night stands. Sorry guys.’ Even the most skilled seducers out there. to start on this note. First of all you have to understand your target of the evening. Three different types. Ultimately it is ALWAYS s up to the woman. I’m famous for my 100 percent honest feedback and advice.Although the vast majority of my students ultimately want to ﬁnd a wonderful woman that they can have a meaningful and long lasting relationship with.com . can go home empty handed. that along the road of ﬁnding the one true woman of their dreams. they might be keen to take a few paths of ‘non committal pleasure” First with the bad news. and any one who preaches that they have a technique or trick that can GUARANTEE you this is a LIAR. I’m sure you wanted to hear me say something like “And now I will share with you the 100 percent success technique in getting any girl in to your bed!” But if I said that. completely unapologetically: “Listen Kezia. who have told me that the increase in the number of one night stands they have achieved as a result from carrying out the techniques that I gave them. And now for the good news! Although there is never a hundred percent guarantee.
So what do these guys around her usually do as a result? All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. They are all thinking “BINGO” too. promise them the world with our big baby blues. and then when we have had our fun . she is probably just being over friendly with them that’s all” Guys are turned on by the fact that a sexy girl is ﬂirting with them. we leave those men standing in the club on their own as they recover from the aftermath of the dizzy whirlwind we left them spinning around in. they subsequently believe that they will be the one she ultimately chooses. and she prides her self in being ‘girl friend/wife material’ In Part 1. The mere thought or notion that he will be sleeping with her that very night fuels his ego.kezia-noble. she is so up for it” “Her skirt is so short and I’m sure she loved it when I brushed my hand across her thigh. we are going to look at ways to increase your chances in obtaining ‘Woman Type 1’ for the purpose of a one-night sand. The woman who wants to come across a good girl. The woman who wants everyone to think she is wild/naughty/ﬁlthy in bed. This will be easy!” “She is ﬂirting more sexually with me much than the other guys here. That is usually the ﬁrst mistake men make.The woman who wants men to see her as a good girl. and why they are most likely going to be prick teased for the remainder of the evening. They acknowledge that there are other men competing with them.Woman Type 1 . I know a lot of women (me included) who dress up in sexy clothes. and for her. they are thinking one or more of the following: “Look at the way she was ﬂirting with me. Me and my friends included. Woman Type 3. as the guy wonders how on earth he couldn’t manage to get us back in his bed! If she is a girl wearing a very revealing outﬁt and ﬂirting outrageously with nearly every single guy in the club. you might be forgiven for thinking “BINGO” and believing that getting this particular women in to your bed will be a piece of cake…WRONG! Lets start with what every other guy around her is doing wrong. because she REALLY is a good girl. “the woman who wants you and most men to think that she is wild.com . and as we all know. And having a big ego can cloud ones judgment of the reality of a situation. but since men can sometimes have a slightly inﬂated ego about themselves. when a guy is sexually turned on. but secretly can’t wait to have a no-strings passionate evening with a man. ﬂirt with lots of men . one night stands have (so far) been out of the question. At this point in their mind. his mind can sometimes not operate as well as it usually does. We laugh in the taxi all the way home. naughty filthy in bed” Do not presume this type of woman is the easiest to get out of the three. They are something that she thinks only ‘sluts’ do. Woman Type 2.
that he has even developed a strong case of paranoia. When we are in that state of limbo. as someone who believes that hey have no chance in securing any chance whatsoever with another woman in the club. It’s a MAJOR turn off. Women believe that a celebrity can have his choice of girls. I have never heard of one single woman saying she slept with a man. e)Tries the ‘love tactic’ by telling her he wants more than a one night stand. then he is TRULY mistaken. Even if we are attracted to a guy. Women do not want to sleep with a guy like that! No matter how horny she is! The one night stand idea for women is far more psychological. It also makes us view him. When this happens the level of power in the interaction goes straight to us! We instantly know that the puppy dog is so desperate for some sex . which is another reason why he has glued himself to us for dear life. Remember we like to be chased to a certain degree. Let me retract that.com . where as for a guy it is usually much more physical or even animalistic.Here is the most common list (me and all my girl friends have unfortunately experienced at least one or more of these at the same time) a)Buy her more drinks than the other men around her. ESPECIALLY if we are ﬂirting with them. Flirting and using ‘push pull’ techniques in the sexual escalation stage are far more effective. Following us around like a ‘puppy dog’ This is so common and such a turn off. b)Increase the sexual tension to the point of embarrassment. but we also like to chase too. we become intrigued in wanting to know whether he likes us or not. and this creates a constant challenge to us that we relish! Overwhelming a girl with full-blown sexual energy/escalation is only something that we enjoy when we know the man very well or a man that we are in a relationship with already. abandoned his pride and all for the sake that he just MIGHT get to sleep with us. Which is why celebrities secure one night stands with such ease. (more like a dog on heat than a puppy dog) d)Keep telling her how sexy she is. and that he wants a relationship with her or wants to just ‘hold her hand’ all night and ‘cuddle’etc. The puppy dog. where by he thinks that if he lets us out of his sight we will leave him for something better. We women can get drinks from nearly any guy in the club.(In all my adult years. abandoned his own enjoyment of the evening that he had planned. his overwhelming sexual escalation can turn us off. has abandoned his friends. Why do none of these work? common techniques Lets start with point A. Offering her endless compliments about how beautiful she looks. and there for it becomes more of a All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. as it leaves us in a state of limbo. (This is something we will come back to again later on) We enjoy the challenge immensely.kezia-noble. If a guy thinks that he will obtain her loyalty by buying her more drinks. Point C. because he bought her drinks) Point B. c)Become a puppy dog following her around where ever she goes.
During the conversation . I want you to then make a casual remark to her about the women you are checking out. Provoke mild jealousy and demonstrate high value (at the same time) First of all. Understand clearly that she wants attention. Point E.then this will only serve to turn her off. Women are not stupid! I don’t care what she is wearing. and yet you are saying she is girlfriend material? Really? You want her to think that you would love to have a relationship with a girl you just met . If you presume that she is stupid and think that she will fall for the old line of “I want to have a relationship with you” or “I just want to cuddle you all night” Then you automatically place yourself in a weaker position.com . But also acknowledge internally the fact that will all change very soon. and she will not like it. All these common mistakes. I want you to check out other women.e. who are scattered around in the venue. are now in the past for you. All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. not on! Point D. she will cotton on to this. If you did decide to use the “relationship” line. you approach her and allow her to begin ﬂirting with you. Women often are the ones who become the puppy dog around the celebrity. She will simply ﬂutter her eye lashes. Beware . I.that at that moment. And unless the girl is in to some sort of serious dominatrix fetish . how she is behaving and/or how much she is outrageously ﬂirting or playing up to the image of a bimbo that she might be portraying for that evening (women have alter egos/masks/bravados too by the way!) This does not mean that she is stupid. Let the guys around her carry on with these mistakes. No matter how aroused you are.kezia-noble. who cares if it is you saying it. Either that or your desperate for any girl to be your soul mate. over 20 men have told her so already. say ‘thanks’ and add you to her list of little ‘ego boosters’ she has already collected. When a guy becomes a puppy dog (or a dog on heat) we know that we OWN him.competition/challenge for them to secure his sexual interest. or the ‘love tactic’ (This is not the Love-close by the way) What do you think her perception of you will be as a result? She knows full well how she is behaving and what she is wearing. whilst you play a whole different game. she might simply react and turn her back on you. your standards MUST be low. she knows she is sexy. Yes yes.who happens to be ﬂirting like a Las Vegas ‘show girl’ looking for a tip? Wow. but if you can pin point that moment that she notices you looking at another girl. Never show a woman you have low value or low standards. Preferably more sophisticated looking women. scared he might go and ﬁnd something better. This of course serves to fuel the level of attraction the woman has for the man. Never underestimate your target. and simply wants to add you to her list of admirers for that evening.
he doesn’t seem like the rest who are talking to you.. “He looks like a nice guy. you look great. I want you to seem slightly apologetic. not too much. who are so far airily unsuccessful. ( I know you are thinking that the last thing you should do is create a friendship with her.. I want you to add one thing. Before you let her go back to her admirers. “ I mean. ‘Imply that she is more cute than erotic.com .by saying its because you hate to see ‘good girls’ being taken advantage of. and say to her this.and she is not. Say to her something along these lines. like she is going to be wild in bed” This will provoke her curiosity. Then tell her that she would look awesome if she wore that.infact I know my mother would adore you!” The ‘mother’ bit is a playful touch. understand this. that will make her smile. The moment you have said that. She will be wondering why that women is coming across sexy to you . just enough to show her that you have NO INTENTION of making her feel bad. Separate your self form the others Then (in your own words) you make the offer of being friends. “you look very sexy.’ This is sometimes called ‘negging’ in the pick up community. but I can tell that underneath all that you are a good girl.kezia-noble. I mean. (say this in a playful way! Do not say it in a big brother/caveman type of way. but something like that makes a woman seem so sexy. Women are extremely competitive with each other. Imply she is “hot” but that she is not actually sexy.“have you ever worn a long dress/elegant top/ sexy trousers/knee length skirt like that before?” Whether she says yes or no is irrelevant. Again playfully tease her . she should give you a subtle sign and you will step in and help her out. but this is only one of the beginning steps in this scenario and it will all make sense soon) Validate one of the men. but will also make her fee as though you potentially see another side to her. I want you to zone in on the guy most likely to sleep with her or the best looking one etc. and say that if she has any problems with those guys trying it on with her.) The emphasis here is on the fact that you are separating yourself from the other men. and uses it to your advantage then go on to say something like this. Where by a man uses a negative remark towards a girl designed to break her indifference to him by showing her that he is indifferent to her beauty. they seem All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www.
She will be more than happy to have you there. but he just looks like a genuinely sweet person.B.D..(but an enjoyable state of limbo) As for the interaction between you both becomes more solid.like average nice enough men too. maybe a bit too nice. not a spiteful one. but offer ideas to her that would make her seem sexier rather than just aesthetically pretty. hmmm. Also she will still be slightly intrigued and drawn to the fact that you are not sexually attracted to her (yet) Notice one of the puppy dogs that will be hovering around her. as it will give her the opportunity to respond under pressure. which will create the same effect as using the validation technique on her. and make a joke about him. It makes us feel good and a man who ﬂirts hints to us MOMENTARILY that there could be ‘something’ more. which can lead her to feel overwhelmed and/or uncomfortable) Women ADORE ﬂirts. Tell her she looks great. This again keeps us in a state of limbo. as it will be a relief compared to the other men doing either point A. I want you to remember to get her to qualify her self too. give her ‘double sided compliments’. so don’t go thinking that ﬂirting means you might be perceived as sleazy or perverted. she probably does not want you to carry on thinking she is this sweet good girl who loves cuddles and teddy bears.com that although . Remember that with double sided compliments You would essentially be telling her she is pretty she is not sexy. but as you well know. and it turns them off. and there fore not yet your type. Remember at this point. She wants you to start seeing her as sexy! Flirting and getting away from the friend zone. you are using words such as sweet/nice/cuddles etc that actually will conjure up images in her head that will have the opposite effect of turning her on. (Alpha Male Other Guy) and women notice when men amog each other. You are telling her to actually go for one of the men. (Do not stay in the seduction stage for too long yet. Flirting is when a man dips in and out momentarily from the comfort stage to the seduction stage and then back in to the comfort stage. just a playful observation. go up to her again when she is alone for a second or with friends. and are also both on the SAME high level compared to the rest of the men in the club who are on a lower level. Every girl I know loves to hang around with a ﬂirt. During the course of the night. This will make it seems like you two share a private joke.He deﬁnitely looks like a cuddler/sweet guy” This will make it seem more genuine to her that you are not out to attract her. This is around the point when you can begin ﬂirting with her. or better still. All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. and the ﬂirting continues.kezia-noble.E on her. What other guy would ever do this? All the other men are telling her that the other men are “ugly” and are “using her” and all other sorts of amog techniques.C.(hahaha) but deﬁnitely better than the rest. Offer her tips to improve her self. Double sided compliments and displaying high value.
Its just that there is room for improvement or you have seen better! She can talk the talk.: “you look great. “you look cute.I.kezia-noble. Saying she is not sexy enough is going to provoke her insecurity but not enough to hate you. d) Separate yourself from the other men who are hounding her. you would be more tantalizing (showing off the nape of your neck would be far more provocative than showing off cleavage and legs all at once. because you said she looked good. h) Check out other women that she might be competitive with or who are dressed in an elegant style or who are behaving in a sophisticated or elegant manner. From there. Remember that by using the double sided compliment. and that any mask or alter ego or bravado a girl chooses to present to others. is a little like handing a girl a beautiful rose with a thorn attached. but turn it in to a ‘ﬂirtatious friendship’ very quickly. b) Make sure that she knows you have a thing for ‘sexy’ women who are ﬁlthy/naughty/dirty or wild. but can she walk the walk? These series of techniques are what will help you increase your chance of getting this type of girl to sleep with you that very night. but just enough for her to want to prove to you that she is sexy and that she can be naughty/dirty/good in bed. The one man who comes along and spots a few ﬂaws in her bravado.e.com . and she uses that knowledge to tease men. and get her to work for his approval and set her the challenge of proving to him that she is not talk and no action. e) Validate some of the other men by saying they seem sweet or look like ‘nice’ people (be sure to use the words “nice” and “sweet”) f) Create small moments where by you and her poke gentle fun at some of the other guys hitting on her (do this in the later stages) Make it seem like an “us against them” situation. Here is a round up of the main points you must remember: a) Understand that she wants to be perceived in a certain away. can be systematically taken down. g) Get her to qualify her self by demonstrating high value and presenting yourself as a challenge. i) Pay her double sided compliments All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. she will warm to the idea of you escalating the interaction in to one of stronger sexual nature. but if you wore an elegant black dress that grips on to your hips. like that girl over there. But most of all he will be turning the table. He will draw her in quickly and smoothly. she can not hate you. but if you had your hair piled up. (do not come across as some sort of monk!) c) Build up a friendship at ﬁrst. but ﬂows near your thighs then you would be sooooo my type/would looks sexier/would look more naughty” “You look pretty. but if you had red nails instead of heavy makeup. will stand out from the crowd. you would look much more naughty” A double-sided complement. (enough for her to want to qualify herself to you) Remember that this woman presumes everyone will think she will be porn star in bed.
give her quick kiss on the lips or put your ﬁnger gently to her lips. (This leads to the woman pitying him and being turned off) 3) The man gets angry. What you must do instead. and starts to insult her. This is where you have to interrupt her. who have literally gotten drunk on the short term power that negging or “push” gave them.kezia-noble. The rest should be fairly easy. consequently had made them miss the actual point of negging and ‘push-pull ‘completely. This will help you to not over do Negs and Push. and she certainly is not expecting you to be the one who actually makes the suggestion of ‘just being friends’. consequently this makes the girl feel as though she is being begged. Tell her this: “You don’t have to explain your self. like a little boy who has had his toy taken from him. In some cases he can even get a bit aggressive too. But if she has suddenly a last minute doubt in her head. is actually tell her that you think maybe it’s a good idea that you just remain friends. K) Monitor her reactions. and start over talking and try desperately to persuade the girl to go back home with him. I think you are really nice girl.com . This is because he has got physically turned on by the thought and belief that he is going to have sex with her. This is ALL you can really do in this situation. I guess I thought I saw another side to you and I got turned on. but now I’m not. All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. This is of course is reverse psychology. Which of course. J) do not over do the “push” in the ‘push –pull’ scenario that you are creating with her. 2) The man gets sulky. I thought that from the start. make sure you do not make the common mistake of getting needy. to show her you don’t want her to explain her self. she will feel insulted! . (This results in the woman thinking he is a pig) These are reactions that will get you nowhere. After a while if you push her too much. so don’t worry about it. She is not expecting you to react so calmly and indifferent. then whatever you do. and now all of a sudden there is a signiﬁcant chance that he will go home frustrated. When this happens a man can temporarily panic. We can still be just friends. giving you the reasons why she has doubt or last minute nerves. Last minute doubts Once the passion is there and you have turned her on psychologically and have aroused her physically. (Of course you don’t want to over do this part) This will make her want to start explaning her self. This is something I have witnessed with even very well known pick up artists. the man can end up doing one of three things. agree with her not to go through with it. she will become bored or even worse. 1) He might get needy. As a result. Yes. and somewhere along the line.
.. What if the girl is presenting her self as a GOOD GIRL ? (type 2) Ok. If a girl presents her self as a good girl who would never dream of sleeping with a guy the ﬁrst night . does this mean she really is a ‘good girl’ ? Or is it simply a mask that she wears to get the man to work hard for the pleasure of one night with her? Part 2 will follow... how to increase your chances of seducing her that same evening.. And of course. I am aware of the term ‘freeze out’ which is occasionally used in the pick-up community to explain this same example of dealing with her ‘last minute doubts’ and I agree with the pick-up coaches who teach it. the most effective way of dealing with this kind of situation when or if it arises.com .kezia-noble. as it is in my experience.The fact that you also reminded her that as you had expected in the ﬁrst place that she is a ‘good girl’ will also slightly provoke her in to proving to you AGAIN that she is not. where I will show you how to assess whether she really is a good girl or is wearing the mask of a good girl.. this is more interesting. I hope that explaining it from a woman’s point of view will help conﬁrm that this is really the best way to handle it. All Rights Reserved © Kezia Noble 2009 | www. Part 2 TEASER.
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