You are on page 1of 72

NORTH JERSEY/ROCKLAND

APRIL 5, 2019
VOL. LXXXVIII NO. 29 $1.00 88 2019

THEJEWISHSTANDARD.COM

Road to liberty
Teaneck's Temple Emeth explores
freedom struggles then and now
JS-2

Your values and beliefs understood and respected.


Jewish services and amenities at Englewood Health

Rabbi available for patients and families Electric Shabbat candles


and lamps
Chapel, with quiet meditative space
Shabbat and holiday services
Shabbat overnight room for
on patient TVs
family members/friends
Glatt Kosher food and Kosher pantry
Jewish holidays observed
with Shabbat food provisions, and
Shabbat entrance and elevator safe food warming cabinet

englewoodhealth.org
2 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019
JS-3*

Page 3
Meet the ‘Marvelous Mrs. Maisel’ Haggadah
l It’s a TV show about nostal- of Midge Maisel and other char-
gia for a certain era of American acters are scattered throughout
Jewish life. the new version, which also has
And now it’s part of the most handwritten notations by Rachel
nostalgic Jewish holiday. Brosnahan’s character as well as
Yes, the hit Amazon series faux wine stains.
“The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel,” now The limited-run Haggadahs are
has a tie-in Haggadah. available to people who order
Inevitably, it’s a Maxwell House Maxwell House coffee via Ama-
Haggadah. zon.com. Passover begins on the
The coffee company is offer-
ing a limited edition version of its
evening of April 19.
“There is an organic link be-
CONTENTS
Haggadah featuring illustrations tween the Maxwell House and Noshes���������������������������������������������������������4
and other shtick based on the ‘The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel’ briefly local����������������������������������������24
show about an aspiring Jew- brands and we quickly aligned cover story������������������������������������������ 30
ish comedian and her extended on the idea of creating Midge’s jewish world���������������������������������������38
family of Jewish relatives in late Haggadah — a combination oPINION����������������������������������������������������� 50
1950s New York. of the 1958 classic version and keeping kosher����������������������������������� 54
The “Maisel” Haggadah is a Midge’s amazing personality,” dear rabbi zahavy���������������������������56
throwback to an earlier edition of Naor Danieli, brand manager for d’var torah�������������������������������������������57
the Haggadah that the company Maxwell House, said in a state- THE FRAZZLED HOUSEWIFE��������������58
has been offering as a holiday ment. JTA Wire Service crossword puzzle���������������������������58
giveaway since 1932. Illustrations arts & culture�������������������������������������59
calendar������������������������������������������������ 60
obituaries�����������������������������������������������65

Cory Booker shows off his Hebrew skills on CNN


classified ads������������������������������������� 66
real estate�������������������������������������������� 69

PUBLISHER’S STATEMENT: (USPS 275-700 ISN 0021-6747)


l Last week, Cory Booker showed off his United States, I will fight every day to put is published weekly on Fridays with an additional edition
Hebrew on a national stage during a CNN more indivisible into this one nation under every October, by the New Jersey Jewish Media Group, 1086
Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666. Periodicals postage paid
Town Hall broadcast. God.” at Hackensack, NJ and additional offices. POSTMASTER:
Asked by a pastor how his faith would This isn’t the first time Booker has recited Send address changes to New Jersey Jewish Media Group,
1086 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666. Subscription price
influence him as president, the New some Hebrew in a speech — he displayed is $30.00 per year. Out-of-state subscriptions are $45.00,
Jersey senator and 2020 Democratic the same skills for Yale’s 2013 graduating Foreign countries subscriptions are $75.00.

presidential candidate talked about how class. That same year Jeffrey Goldberg, now The appearance of an advertisement in The Jewish Standard
does not constitute a kashrut endorsement. The publishing of
he was raised by a Christian mother who the editor in chief of The Atlantic, said that a paid political advertisement does not constitute an endorse-
taught Sunday school. He said “Christ is Booker knows more Torah than most of the ment of any candidate political party or political position by
the newspaper or any employees.
the center of my life.” Senate’s Jewish members.
The Jewish Standard assumes no responsibility to return
But then Booker said, “Can I quote Booker’s love for Judaism can be traced unsolicited editorial or graphic materials. All rights in letters
some Hebrew to you? at least partially to the roots of his friend- and unsolicited editorial, and graphic material will be treated
as unconditionally assigned for publication and copyright
“I studied the Torah, too,” he said. “There’s a song ship with Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, whom he met while purposes and subject to JEWISH STANDARD’s unrestricted
sung during the High Holidays: ‘Ki veiti beit t’fila yikareh he was a Rhodes scholar at Oxford. (The friendship has right to edit and to comment editorially. Nothing may be
reprinted in whole or in part without written permission from
l’chol ha’amim’ — ‘May my house be a house of prayer since foundered.) Boteach was Chabad’s rabbi on cam- the publisher. © 2019
for many nations.’ pus at the time.
“We are the United States of America. We were not “I would give him Baldwin and DuBois,” Booker told
ON THE COVER: The Temple Emeth
formed as a theocracy. We were formed on the ideal the New York Times in 2002, during his first run for
group walks in the footsteps of
that many of us in our diversity can come together and Newark mayor, describing his relationship with Boteach.
the Bloody Sunday civil rights
create one strong whole. And if I am president of the “And he would give me Hillel.” GABE FRIEDMAN/JTA
protestors, who crossed the
Edmund Pettus Bridge and were
beaten by the police massed on the
Roger Waters other side. The bridge is a seminal
place in civil rights history.
gets April-fooled: PHOTO BY ARBARA BALKIN

He’s playing Tel Aviv Candlelighting:


l An April Fools’ tweet by an Israeli government- Friday, April 5, 7:07 p.m.
sponsored Twitter account managed to boil the Shabbat ends:
blood of Roger Waters, the Pink Floyd co-founder
Saturday, April 6, 8:08 p.m.
known for his anti-Israel stance.
The April 1 tweet by 4IL, a pro-Israel account run
by the Ministry of Strategic Affairs and Public Diplo-
macy, announced that Waters would play a concert in “YOU DISGUST ME, AND YOU DISGUST THE
For convenient
Tel Aviv on July 16 saying: “Pink Floyd legend @rog- WHOLE OF THE REST OF THE CIVILIZED WORLD,”
erwaters is coming to Tel Aviv! Mark your calendars!” Waters tweeted. home delivery,
“THIS IS NO LAUGHING MATTER,” Waters yelled in Bassist and vocalist Waters, an outspoken critic of call 201-837-8818 or
an all-caps response, which also included an obscen- Israel, is known for publicly harassing artists scheduled bit.ly/jsubscribe
ity for emphasis. to visit the country or perform there. Times of Israel

Jewish Standard april 5, 2019 3


JS-4*

Noshes “Hummus was one of the first prestige


grocery foods. Hummus was the
Sopranos of the grocery store.”
— Food scientist Ali Bouzari, quoted in an Atlantic article
“In the Future, Everything Will Be Made of Chickpeas”

‘SHAZAM’!:

Just say the word


for superhero-dom
“Shazam” is the says the words “Cap- Classic (WBC). RYAN biah Games in Israel.
first feature film tain Marvel.” The adult BRAUN, 35, outfielder/ He was in the majors
since 1941 to depict Freddie is played by first base, Milwaukee. for most of 2018, but
this famous D.C. ADAM BRODY, 39. This 6X All-Star and saw limited playing
comics hero. Of course, Brody still probably is Asher Angel Rachel Bloom the 2011 NL MVP isn’t time. IAN KINSLER,
he is a superhero who best known as a co- the dominant play- 36, second base, San
fights evil. In this star of the hit show er he once was and Diego. Like Braun, this
movie, he’s fighting the “The O.C.” his batting average 4x All-Star isn’t the
evil forces controlled dipped in 2018. Still he star he once was. Still,
by Dr. Sivana (Mark ‘Crazy’w comes hit 20 homers. ALEX he posts okay hitting
Strong). Shazam’s to an end BREGMAN, 24, short- stats and he won a
secret is that he The series finale of stop/ third base, Hous- Golden Glove in 2018
actually is a teen boy CW’s “My Crazy ton. Bregman signed a for his great fielding.
named Billy Batson Ex-Girlfriend” will six-year, $100M dollar JOC PEDERSON, 26,
who turns into a ripped air on April 5 at 8 p.m. contract extension in outfielder, Los Angeles
adult with many You don’t have to be a March. He’s now the Dodgers. Pederson,
superpowers by follower of the TV highest paid Jewish a streak power hitter
shouting the word show to tune in to the baseball player ever. who was frequently
“Shazam!” (Opens special that immedi- Robert Stock Rowdy Tellez This contract is a tes- injured, stayed healthy
April 5.) ately follows the finale tament to how well in 2018 and hit more
The adult Batson/ at 9 p.m. It’s called and an Oscar nomi- writer (“How I Met Your Bregman has played consistently. He played
Shazam is played by “Yes, It’s Really Us nee, was a founding Mother,” among oth- since mid-2016, when for Israel in the 2013
Zachary Levi, who isn’t Singing: The ‘Crazy member of the popular ers). Bloom’s cousin is he joined the “big WBC. KEVIN PILLAR,
Jewish. The teen Billy Ex-Girlfriend’ Concert band Fountains of a rabbi and performed club.” His hitting and 30, outfielder, Toronto.
Batson is played by Special!” Taped in Wayne. His credits in- their wedding. fielding led the Astros This former bar mitz-
ASHER ANGEL, 16. An- March, the concert clude writing the songs to their first World vah boy is a consis-
gel is a co-star of “Andi features “Crazy” star for the hit musical Play ball!: The Series championship tently good hitter and
Mack,” a current Disney RACHEL BLOOM, 31, movie “That Thing You Tribe on the big- in 2017. He repeated in base stealer. ROBERT
TV series for teens. and the cast of the Do” and co-writing the league diamond 2018, with great bat- STOCK, 29, relief
Angel comes from series performing live Fountains of Wayne The 2019 baseball ting stats that includ- pitcher, San Diego.
an observant Arizona versions of fan-favorite 2003 hit single “Sta- season began on ed 31 homers. He was After nine years in the
family and he had a bar songs. They are cy’s Mom.” He grew March 28. The a 2918 All-Star team minors, Stock made his
mitzvah. The role of accompanied by a up mostly in Montclair. following players have member — and, yes, he big league debut last
Freddie Freeman also band and an orchestra. Well-known actor JON at least one Jewish had a bar mitzvah. Fun June. His 100 mph fast-
is played by two peo- Bloom, ADAM BERENTHAL, 42, is his parent and identify as fact: His family went ball may keep him up.
ple. Freddie is Billy’s SCHLESINGER, 52, and first cousin. Jewish or secular. to the same Albuquer- And ROWDY TELLEZ,
foster brother, and he’s JACK DOLGEN, 50ish, By the way, Bloom, RICHARD BLEIER, que synagogue as the 24, first base, Toronto.
the only person who wrote 150 songs for unlike her TV charac- 31, relief pitcher, Bal- family of ALEXI ASHE, He was called up last
knows that Billy is Sha- the series, which have ter, has been happily timore. He has post- Seth Meyer’s wife. MAX September and was on
zam. The teen Fred- gotten them three married since 2015. ed great stats in the FRIED, 25, pitcher, At- a hitting tear for the
die becomes an adult Emmy nominations. Her husband, DAN last two seasons. He lanta. Fried had a bar rest of the season. Re-
superhero — Captain Schlesinger, an Emmy GREGOR, 39, is a played for Israel in the mitzvah and played member this guy.
Marvel Jr. — when he and Grammy winner successful TV sit-com 2013 World Baseball in the 2009 Macca- –N.B.

Want to read more noshes? Visit facebook.com/jewishstandard California-based Nate Bloom can be reached at
Middleoftheroad1@aol.com

E L E V A T E Y O U R S T A N D A R D S

TWO LOCATIONS TO SERVE YOU BETTER - ENGLEWOOD, NJ & HARRIMAN, NY - BENZELBUSCH.COM

4 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


JS-5

As you journey across California wine country, subtle changes in climate and soil produce
Cabernet Sauvignon in a spectrum of aromas and flavors; a beautiful palette to work
from. By blending the grapes of these regions, different characteristics are contrasted and
complemented. In each variation, this series carefully blends Cabernet Sauvignon to
showcase the combinations, creating a harmonious and complex wine. C aC lai lf iof ro nr ina i a
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 5
JS-6*

Local
From immigration debates to robotics, in one book
TABC students look at some of today’s political controversies
through the lens of a poor, gifted Mexican’s journey
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN

I
n the snowy Mexican village where Oscar
Vazquez spent his childhood, kids had to carry
firewood to school if they wanted to keep warm.
Desperate to provide for his family, Oscar’s father
went off to toil in Idaho potato fields, got deported after
a year, and subsequently went back over the border to
find work in Phoenix. That was where he relocated his
family in 1998, when Oscar was 12.
Although Oscar was bright and motivated, and later
he would serve with the U.S. Army in Afghanistan, his
illegal entry into the country proved a costly hardship.
Earlier this year, all 333 students at the Torah
Academy of Bergen County read a book about Oscar

ALIZA FISCHMAN/TABC
Vazquez and his friends Cris-
tian, Luis, and Lorenzo. The
book, by Joshua Davis, is called
“Spare Parts: Four Undocu-
mented Teenagers, One Ugly
Robot, and The Battle for the
American Dream.” TABC students and faculty surround Oscar Vazquez after his speech.
On March 27, Mr. Vazquez
came to the Teaneck high Corps) program in high school, cloud your judgment. It’s really compassion that’s more
school for boys for its ninth that he realized the full impact important,” Eli learned.
annual Book Day, an event of not having a birth certificate, TABC English department chair Carol Master orga-
packed with activities related passport, or citizenship papers. nizes Book Day with former school librarian Leah
to themes in the year’s chosen His difficult path to citizen- Moskovits. Over the summer, a faculty committee
ALIZA FISCHMAN/TABC

book — in this case, immigra- ship required going back to live chooses that year’s book, based on a short list the two
tion law, Mexican culture, and in Mexico for a year, while his his women compile and input from volunteer student
robotics, among others. wife and daughter stayed in the readers.
“Spare Parts” describes what United States. In June 2011 Mr. “It has to be a book that is appropriate for our students
led the four Mexican teenagers Vazquez finally became a U.S. and touches on a different culture, opening their world
who were in an elective high- citizen, served in the military for and providing a human side to an issue that they can
school marine-science class Oscar Vazquez tells TABC students more than three years, and now relate to and that piques their interest,” Dr. Master said.
to enter the Marine Advanced about his immigrant experience. does business analytics for BNSF “Spare Parts” was especially topical this school year,
Technology Education Robot- Railway Company. when the issue of funding for walls across the Mexican
ics at the University of California Competition in 2004. Mr. Vazquez has come a long way from that December border shut down the federal government for 35 days.
Mentored by two dedicated teachers from their gritty night when he was a terrified 12-year-old slipping across “I could see in our discussions in class that they felt
public school, the boys chose to compete not against the border into the American desert with his mom. this book was relevant to their lives though it described
peers but against sophisticated college-level teams from “I didn’t know what it meant to come through a hole a very different culture than they’ve been exposed to,”
institutions including MIT. in the fence,” he told his TABC audience of students, she said. “We tried to use it as a springboard to discuss
The audience in the Teaneck yeshiva already knew teachers, and administrators. “I just knew that I was how America is a country of immigrants and how one
what happened next, but listened attentively as Mr. now in a different country.” deals with immigrants. We hope that by learning about
Vazquez told them how, despite building their under- Eli Levine of Teaneck, a senior at TABC, said that what people go through as immigrants, our students
water robot out of glued-together PVC pipes and wires hearing about the hole in the fence and the critical lack will understand the issues in a different way.”
on a shoestring budget, the Mexican high-school of official papers “gave me a whole different perspec- While Book Day sessions ranged from Mexican cook-
seniors won the competition. They also won the tech- tive about kids who came into the country illegally, not ing to graphic novels to auto mechanics, immigration
nical writing prize and a special award for finding an by their own choice, and don’t understand what that was the central theme.
ingenious solution — tampons — to contain a leak in means.” The keynote speaker was Englewood’s Mayor
their project. Eli got to explore that perspective further by attend- Michael Wildes, who is the managing partner of immi-
After writer and film producer Joshua Davis wrote ing a Book Day session titled “Is Empathy Really a Good gration law firm Wildes and Weinberg, an adjunct pro-
about the unlikely triumph of these undocumented Thing?” led by Michael Atlas, a clinical psychologist fessor of business immigration law at Cardozo School of
teenagers, Mr. Vazquez received a Fulbright scholar- who is TABC’s director of student support. Law, and the author of “Safe Haven in America: Battles
ship to Arizona State University. Two years later, new Dr. Atlas explained that current research sheds doubt to Open the Golden Door.”
state immigration regulations caused him to lose his on whether identifying with the pain of others actually Mr. Wildes’ firm, which his father, Leon, established
scholarship; nevertheless, he graduated with a degree is helpful in terms of our own emotional well-being and in 1960, has represented such clients as John Lennon,
in mechanical engineering. moral decision making. Melania Trump, Lord Rabbi Jonathan Sachs, Lionel
It wasn’t until Mr. Vazquez tried to join the military, “Even though everyone talks about how empathy is Richie, Boy George, and Pelé, along with plenty of reg-
having completed the ROTC (Reserve Officer Training so important, too much empathy is bad because it can ular people seeking a better life in the United States.
6 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
JS-7*

Local

and administrative staffs, proposed the Jewish legal


perspective on “ger toshav,” a gentile dwelling in
Jewish society, as a paradigm for Judaism’s attitude
toward the immigrant.
Delia Nagar, a Spanish teacher at Ma’ayanot Yeshiva
High School for Girls in Teaneck, told her personal
story as a Jewish Mexican immigrant.
TABC history teacher Marita Poline emceed a Jeop-
ardy-style game in which categories included famous
immigrants, contributions by Jewish immigrants to

ALIZA FISCHMAN/TABC

ALIZA FISCHMAN/TABC
American culture, and the places from which Jews emi-
grated and where they settled.
Debby Alter, the director of immigrant and refugee
services at the Jewish Family and Vocational Service of
Middlesex County, described the process required to
become a legal immigrant and then a U.S. citizen.
Book Day co-chairs Dr. Carol Master, left, and Joshua Arrington talked to the students about The robotics angle also was resonant, because the
Leah Moskovits with presenter Oscar Vazquez. “Technology & Prosthetics.” school has a maker space with 3D printers.
With Mr. Vazquez there to give advice, TABC’s
Referring to American immigration policy, Mr. Wil- Jachter, presented Torah sources that could shape STEM (science, technology, engineering, and math-
des said, “Our door needs to be hinged open; no wall a Jewish approach to today’s divisive debates about ematics) coordinator Aryeh Tiefenbrunn helped stu-
is going to protect us … and we have to make sure that immigration. dents design a waterproof housing for the electronic
we, the ‘people of the passport,’ set the standard” as The head of school, Rabbi Asher Yablok, suggested components of an underwater robot like the one
a light unto the nations. Mr. Wildes noted the Torah’s drawing inspiration from the Torah’s reference to the described in “Spare Parts.”
emphasis on being kind to the stranger, detailing his exodus from Egypt as a cause for compassion to strang- “Our TABC robotics team is currently building a
strong opposition to separating members of immi- ers, and he led a discussion on how the modern Jew- robot that can shoot baskets on a mini basketball hoop
grant families. ish immigrant experience might affect our outlook on for an upcoming competition,” Mr. Tiefenbrunn said.
Several breakout sessions dealt with immigration immigration reform. At Book Day, he led a discussion of how the human
from a variety of angles. Rabbi Daniel Fridman, who heads the Jewish Cen- body can inspire robotic designs, and what types of
TABC’s Bible department chairman, Rabbi Howard ter of Teaneck and is a member of TABC’s academic SEE TABC PAGE 68

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 7


JS-8*

Local

Fair Lawn celebrates Yudins


for a kinship of 50 years
Rebbetzin Shevi and Rabbi Benjamin Yudin look back at their community
— and it looks at them — with love and wonderment
Joanne Palmer city folks,” Rebbetzin Yudin said. “When

T
we were in Brooklyn, that seemed like
here seem to be different ways the country to our family who still was
of building a community. in the Lower East Side. And then when
It can develop entirely on we moved to Washington Heights, that
its own, sprawling organically really was the country.”
and uncontrollably, overspilling bound- Still, “my husband tried out for it,”
aries, sometimes going too far. she continued. “They offered him the
It can organize around a high-octane job that summer, right after that, and
charismatic leader, following rigid guide- we moved here three days before Rosh
lines, growing but always facing inward, Hashanah in 1969.”
back toward him. (Usually it’s a him.) “At first we thought that the biggest
Or it can grow organically around perk living here would be not having to
the nucleus of a charismatic leader (or drive around looking for parking.” They
perhaps leaders, maybe a husband and already needed a car, she said, “so my
wife) who is so low-key that the idea of father gave us his ’55 Plymouth.”
charisma seems inappropriate until you When the Yudins moved to Fair Lawn,
step far enough back to see clearly that the congregation, which was about two
yes, it is charisma, that the growth is nei- years old, had 17 families; 10 were active,
ther rigid nor uncontrolled. Rebbetzin Yudin said, and the other
And perhaps that central couple, seven were supportive, although they
those two who are the nucleus of the showed up far less regularly.
expanding, humming, vibrant bubble, Soon, it became clear that the com-
are so modest — modest for real — that munity needed a rabbi all week long.
the thought of claiming any kind of Rabbi Yudin continued to teach, first
credit for the vitality around them is still at MTA and then at YU — in fact, he
borderline distasteful and makes them still continues to teach at YU four days a
genuinely uncomfortable. week, as well as in Fair Lawn — but the
That can’t be a very common situa- job became full time, for both Yudins.
tion — surely it is by far the least com- To be clear, it is ludicrously inac-
mon of these three — but it’s what’s hap- curate to call the work that Shevi and
pened in Fair Lawn. Benjamin Yudin do a job. It’s a life. It’s
Rebbetzin Shevi and Rabbi Benjamin their lives. Their joint life. It is not melo-
Yudin of Shomrei Torah are at the cen- dramatic to say that their two hearts,
ter of the Orthodox community that together, have become the beating
they started to nurture when they first Rebbetzin Shevi and Rabbi Benjamin Yudin heart of the community.
moved there, at the behest of Yeshiva “My husband loves being able to com-
University, exactly half a century ago. children, who were the same age, grew This was in the late 1960s, the cusp of bine being a pulpit rabbi and a teacher,”
Next Sunday, the community will cel- up together; they were members of the postwar and antiwar explosions. Peo- his wife said. “He never wastes any
ebrate those 50 years with them at a the same shul —Young Israel of Eastern ple were leaving cities; Jews, like their time. His Shabbos table is a teaching
gala (see box), as the Yudins move into Parkway — and went to the same school. neighbors, were considering the appeal experience.” What about her? “When I
an active, still-to-be-defined retirement, “Our families walked home from syna- of grass and shrubs and single-family saw the amount of work he was doing, I
very much in place. gogue together,” Rebbetzin Yudin said. houses and garages and bicycles left out- realized that it was better for me to join
Their story begins even more than 50 “What started as close family ties and side overnight; they also were propelled his life, and to complement whatever
years ago. friendship, and similar background and by the increasing violence and poverty he does,” she said. “Basically, he leaves
Shevi Werner and Benjamin Yudin beliefs, ended up in an engagement.” that they saw in inner cities. every day and I am the one who is here
both grew up in Crown Heights, in Both of them were 20 years old when You can’t have a sustainable Ortho- to answer the phone, to answer the
Brooklyn, back when Crown Heights they married. Both were in college — he dox community without a minyan. YU doorbell, to give him messages.” And
was deeply Orthodox but not yet over- in YU, where he got an undergraduate saw both a danger and an opportunity. It of course to counsel and to cook and to
whelmingly Chabad. Shevi’s father, degree, a master’s degree in Jewish his- started seeding new settlements, includ- listen and to give warmth. “My day is
Irving Werner, was born in Brooklyn, tory, and smicha, rabbinic ordination, ing Shomrei Torah. “YU wanted to do never boring,” she said.
from parents who came from Poland; and she first in Brooklyn College and that so that kids going to YU from there When they first came to Fair Lawn,
her mother, Sarah Kesten Werner, was then in City. She also earned certifica- would have an Orthodox shul to go to. the Yudins — the two adults and their
brought to the Lower East Side from tion from YU’s Teachers Institute for Rabbi Robert Hirt of YU’s division of new oldest child, who was 2 1/2 then — lived
Russia when she was 3 years old. Her Women. communities told my husband about a in a standard local house, above the
father-in-law, Alexander Yudin, and her At first, the young couple lived in fledgling congregation in Fair Lawn,” small space where the minyanim met.
mother-in-law, Adele Bernstein Yudin, Washington Heights; she taught Hebrew Rebbetzin Yudin said. “There was an “Our salary was $25 a week,” Rebbetzin
both were born in New York. school and he taught at YU’s high school, opening for a weekend rabbi.” Yudin said. As the shul grew, so did the
The families were friends, and their MTA. Okay, sure, but New Jersey? “We were See Yudins page 10
8 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019
JS-9

Kosher for Passover


Available only at ShopRite’s of
Paramus Englewood
224 Route 4 East 40 Nathaniel Place
& Forest Avenue 201-816-8331
201-843-4180
Holiday Wine
$
499
20% Setton Farms

OFF
Apricots
14-oz.

All 750 ML
Bottles
$
499
Imported and From our Setton Farms
Domestic Kosher Fish Walnuts
10-oz.
ShopRite
Sale Price $8.99 lb. Department
Kosher Wines -$1.00 lb.
$ 99
7
$ 99
7
Discount Taken at Register
(Except advertised and Fresh Kosher Atlantic
in-store tagged items, cannot be Setton Farms
combined with other discounts).
Limit
4-lbs. lb. Salmon Fillet Mixed Fruit
Farm Raised, Large, Boneless, Never Frozen 18-oz.
Good thru April 27, 2019 FINAL PRICE

$ 69
1 $ 69
1
Tonnelli
Pasta Sauce
25-oz., Reg. or Fat Free Pizza Sauce,
Reg. or Fat Free Marinara Sauce, Vodka Style,
Zesty Italian or With Mushroom

Pri Avat Pickled


Cucumbers In Brine
$ 49
2
Lieber’s

1
Vegetable Oil

$ 99
349
Spray
5-oz.
$
89 ¢
Lieber’s Prigat 1.5 Liter
Mandarin Oranges Fruits Drinks Dipz Dips
11-oz., Whole or 50.7-fl. oz. Grape, Strawberry-Banana, 7-oz. Onion, Sweet & Spicy
Broken Segments Orange, Mango, Grapefruit, Diet Onion, Heavenly Eggplant,
Grapefruit or Lemon Mint Roasted Garlic or Onion & Garlic

Complete Dinner Package e Prepared


under strict OU
Heat and Eat, Choose from... supervision

$
12999
Sliced
Turkey Breast Delicious
& Gravy
Serves 8
sides included...
• Potato Kugel
$
19999
Sliced Brisket • Broccoli Kugel
& Braising
Jus • Charoset
Serves 8
• Sweet Carrot
Tzimmes
$
16999
Brown Sugar
Salmon • Chicken Broth
• Matzo Balls
Serves 8
72 hour advance notice required
Prices, programs and promotions effective Sun., April 7 thru Sat., April 13, 2019 in ShopRite® Stores in Paramus and Englewood, NJ only. Sunday sales subject to local blue laws. No sales made to other retailers or wholesalers. We reserve the right to limit purchases of any
sale item to four (4) purchases, per item, per household, per day, except where otherwise noted. Minimum or additional purchase requirements noted for any advertised item exclude the purchase of prescription medications, gift cards, gift certificates, postage stamps,
money orders, money transfers, lottery tickets, bus tickets, fuel and Metro passes, as well as milk, cigarettes, tobacco products, alcoholic beverages or any other items prohibited by law. Only one manufacturer coupon may be used per item and we reserve the right to limit
manufacturer coupon redemptions to four (4) identical coupons per household per day, unless otherwise noted or further restricted by manufacturer. Sales tax is applied to the net retail of any discounted item or any ShopRite® coupon item. We are required by law to charge
sales tax on the full price of any item or any portion of an item that is discounted with the use of a manufacturer coupon or a manufacturer sponsored (or funded) Price Plus® club card discount. Not responsible for typographical errors. Artwork does not necessarily represent
items on sale; it is for display purposes only. Copyright© Wakefern Food Corp., 2019. All rights reserved. Digital Coupon savings can be loaded to your Price Plus® club card IN STORE at the service desk, kiosk or contact 1-800-ShopRite.

Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 9


JS-10*

Local

Yudins
from page 8
building; it moved to another part of the
house, which was joined by its neighbor,
doubling its size. Eventually, the com-
munity bought land across the street
and built a shul. There still is a parking
lot outside the Yudins’ house, which
makes sense, because the house, with
its perpetually unlocked door, is an irre-
sistible magnet, apparently to everyone
who’s ever met either Yudin. Really, any
Yudin. And that’s a lot of people.
“Because we were so small and so
insular in the beginning, age wasn’t a
factor,” Rebbetzin Yudin said. They did
not hold themselves back from relation-
ships. Often, back then, their friends
were older than they were; now, often
they’re young. It doesn’t matter. “There
isn’t a generation gap between someone
who is 20, or 10, or 90,” she said. “On
Friday mornings, my husband can sit
with the kids in the nursery school” — oh
yes, the synagogue has one of those too,
named after Leah Sokoloff. “He brings
the parsha to life.”
For decades, he’s gone on Nachum
Segal’s radio show, JM in the AM, where
he discusses the parashat hashavuah —
the weekly Torah reading. “His father
had died suddenly, and his mother was
sad,” Rebbetzin Yudin said. “He thought
it would be a good treat for his mother
if she could hear him on the radio.” It
was. It cheered her. “So that started as
a one-time thing — but it’s gone on for
30 years. Men from some of the founding families break ground for the new synagogue building in 1979.
“And then he goes to Daughters of
Miriam” — the nursing home in Clifton grandchildren, making Rabbi and Reb- Rebbetzin Yudin sees her choices as waves of emigration from the Soviet
— “every Friday afternoon.” betzin Yudin great-grandparents. Some obvious ones, pretty much no-brainers. Union and then later the former Soviet
He used to bring their children with of them live in Israel; the rest live either “Because we lived in such close proxim- Union. Most of them came with no Jew-
him to visit shut-ins on Friday after- in New Jersey or on Long Island. “We get ity to the shul, it would either be a closed ish background, but many of them found
noons, his wife said, and now he brings tremendous joy from our beautiful fam- door or an open one,” she said. “And for their way to Shomrei Torah, where the
his grandchildren to Daughters of Mir- ily,” Rebbetzin Yudin said. me, an open-house life style is just bet- Yudins welcomed them.
iam. “That’s how they spend time with Esther Schneider Sherizen lives in Oak ter. It was comfortable for me. And if I Laura Brook, who was born in Belarus
their grandfather. Park, a Detroit suburb, but she grew up had a shut door, all those people would and grew up in Riga, Latvia, is among
“My kids saw the whole life cycle in Fair Lawn. Her father, George Schnei- be shut out of my life.” that group. She moved to Fair Lawn in
growing up,” she continued. “They saw der, was Shomrei Torah’s first presi- “I saw all that, growing up, and when 1991. “I came with no religious back-
people in challenging times as well as in dent. “Esther was a little girl then, and I got married, I told my husband that the ground,” she said. “We knew about
happy times. They were able to realize now she’s a grandmother,” Rebbetzin one thing I really wanted in my home was Pesach but celebrated it with a family
that the sad times also were part of life. Yudin said. They’re still close, as was a guest room,” Ms. Sherizen said. She cre- dinner. I knew about Chanukah from my
And they saw people’s courage. They clear when Ms. Sherizen walked into ated one; she offered the same kind of grandmother, and I knew that on Yom
saw how some of them were able to pick the house, and the two women beamed hospitality the Yudins did. “I knew how Kippur you fast, but it was just when I
themselves up and go on living, how at each other and hugged tightly. “That’s to do that, I knew how to make our house got here that I learned anything about
their faith in God would give them some how it is with a lot of the kids who grew the Shabbat and yom tov home, because it.” Her teachers were the Yudins.
comfort. They weren’t afraid of funerals. up here, Rebbetzin Yudin said. “They I learned from Shevi. It’s a chain. One “The rabbi’s class is so interesting,” she
They weren’t afraid. move away, but the bond continues.” thing leads to anther, and you find your- said. “No matter how busy you are, you
“We shared our lives with our kids. “My dad and a couple of others met self knowing how to do it. run to it. If you skip it, you skip something
Not other people’s secrets, of course, in somebody’s living room” as they “Shevi has an incredible amount of very important. It is food for the soul.”
but they knew when Abba had a funeral. planned to open Shomrei Torah, Ms. patience, and the ability to give to others,” Elaine Reinheimer and her husband,
We would have a plan for a Sunday after- Sherizen said. “I think about the cour- Ms. Sherizen said. “That’s who she is.” Michael, moved to Fair Lawn 47 years ago,
noon with then, but invariably some- age it took for them to pull these first Lillie Mentzel and her husband, Stu, and joined Shomrei Torah immediately.
thing would come up.” meetings together. There were a lot of have been members of Shomrei Torah She’d known the Yudins even longer; she
They must have done something right, nay-sayers.” But the community took for 46 years. “Shevi was the first person was a secretary at YU when Rabbi Yudin
she added. “Four out of our five sons off. And “Shevi always welcomed people we met,” Ms. Mentzel said. “She isn’t just was a student there. “I got a sneak peek
have smicha, and so do our sons-in-law.” into her home. And into her life. a friend. She is a mother, a sister, a confi- at him, and that’s why I moved here,” she
The Yudins have seven children. “My mother always said that she dant, an everything.” said. “My children are who they are today
All their children are married, and wasn’t a Chevy,” Ms. Sherizen con- Many Russian-speaking Jews found because of Rabbi and Shevi. They both
all have children; some already have cluded. “She’s really a Cadillac.” their way to Fair Lawn in the various See Yudins page 12
10 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019
JS-11

ISRAEL’S
CITY OF HEALTH
INSPIRES THE WORLD

SHEBA MEDICAL CENTER, TEL HASHOMER

NAMED ONE OF WORLD’S


1 0 B E S T H O S P I TA L S
B Y NEWSWEEK MAGAZINE

SHEBA BY NIGHT BY BRUNO LAVI

American Friends of Sheba


is honored to support
Sheba, its groundbreaking
initiatives, and the pride
this world leader brings to
the State of Israel.

 TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SHEBA, VISIT


 W W W.SHEBAMEDIC AL.ORG .

Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 11


JS-12*

Local

Yudins
from page 10
live in Israel. And we include Rabbi and
Shevi as part of our family.
“My mother moved to Daughters of
Miriam seven years ago, and Rabbi visits
her every Friday,” she added.
And then there’s Janusz Legutko,
Shomrei Torah’s custodian. He was
born in Poland, where he was a math
teacher — and a Roman Catholic. He
found his way to Shomrei Torah, where
he got a job. He did not think about con-
version, at least, not at first. But he was
drawn in by the Yudins’ warmth and
care, and also by the intellectual and
spiritual content of their lives. Now, he
lives in the Yudins’ house part of the
week, and also is a counselor at the
Sheli house for special needs kids. He
grew very close to Rebbetzin Yudin’s
father while the older man was getting In 2017, the family gathered for the wedding of Chanina and Rabbi Larry Rothwachs’ daughter Shani and Yisroel
dialysis, and so he, too, has been incor- Benovitz. Jerry Meyer Studios
porated into the Yudins’ family.
“Chesed” — acts of loving kindness “They are retiring, but one really “I’m going to the hospital now,” to their understanding of themselves as no
— “are a boomerang,” Rebbetzin Yudin knows what they are retiring from,” he visit patients. “I don’t have a contract to more giving, no more loving, no more
said. “The love that he had for my par- continued. “Their house operates like a go there, but it has to be done,” he said. generous than anyone else in their posi-
ents, and the help that he gave to me — soup kitchen.” (Or, as Rebbetzin Yudin “Personal involvement is the way I was tion would be, is a textbook illustration
there are no words.” puts it, “I don’t have furniture. I have privileged to build a congregation, and of humility in action.
Rabbi Larry Rothwachs, who leads chairs.” And tables and a vast kitchen. that has spilled over, thank God, to the Of course, they don’t see it that way.
Congregation Beth Aaron in Teaneck, is And a constantly ringing phone, silent community,” he said. “Having a personal They see themselves as just part of the
married to the Yudin’s older daughter, only on Shabbat, imperiously vibrating rapport, one, one, one. Each person is community. But they do acknowledge
Chaviva. all the rest of the time.) made to feel welcome in the community. the community’s marvels.
The Yudins’ is a “50-year-long story,” “Hundreds of people walk in every “Part of it comes from studying with “When you do a needlepoint, the back
Rabbi Rothwachs said. At the beginning, week. Nobody knocks. They just walk them. There is no greater bond that one is all knots,” Rebbitzin Yudin said. “On the
“there are many stories, some of them in and take what they need. That can’t Jew can have with another than study- other side, you see, piece by piece, how it
apocryphal, about how my father-in-law change. That will continue for as long ing Torah with them. There is something all comes together.” The community’s like
would pull people off the street for a as their hearts beat. They cannot retire about the Torah itself — it is eternal, it is that, she said; now, it’s full and bursting
minyan. Students of his would come for from that.” divine — that when you share that with with color, its shape visible on both sides.
a daily minyan, and he’d promise them a The two work together seamlessly, someone else, that person realizes that The Yudins are more or less retiring,
home-cooked breakfast in return. he added. “There is a real partner- you are not just sharing information but they say, but they are so integrally part
“It was very hands-on. ship between them. There are very few you are sharing inspiration and destiny. of the community that their next chal-
“And then, slowly but surely, it grew, duties or tasks that they both do. There So I thank God that over the years I have lenge will be to withdraw from some
and people moved to Fair Lawn. It was is hardly any overlap. He goes out there been privileged to share Torah with so parts of the leadership, to leave its direc-
at one point probably the biggest or sec- and brings people into the house, and many different people.” tion open to its next rabbi and new gen-
ond biggest established Jewish commu- she takes over from there — feeds them, Over the years, the community has eration of leaders, but also to stay on in
nity in Bergen County, after Teaneck, clothes them, and loves them. He teaches grown and it has what it needs — kosher a new role.
and then the entire Jewish commu- them. She sits with them and counsels food, a shul, an eruv, a mikvah, a char- “This is our place,” Rebbetzin Yudin
nity in Bergen County exploded, but it them. It is very natural and fluid. They ity fund, he said. “Each family has their said. “This is our home. So we won’t be
became contagious. Today, there are don’t review it. There is no official set of needs, so at one given time we can have the parents of the shul any more. We’ll
seven Orthodox shuls in Fair Lawn, and policies and procedures. It is all 100 per- a funeral and a wedding. be the grandparents. We are not looking
the more options, the better. cent real, and they are selfless. “The challenge is based on the third to end the life we love so much.”
“What makes my in-laws most unique “And the real miracle is that they and book of the Torah, Leviticus, where we Because when your job isn’t a job
— there are several ways, really — but their children and their grandchildren are told to love your neighbor as your- but your life, then it changes when you
it mostly is that they are known to be are normal. They are very normal.” And self, to feel with them. If they are going retire, but the love behind it doesn’t
completely selfless, in every way. There almost all the men have gone into the through a loss, you have to be there with ever change.
is no way for them that the rabbinate is family business, he added. them. And two hours later, you have to
a career. It’s not a job. It’s not really an Rabbi Rothwachs is not alone in being switch modes and be ready to dance Who: The community of
occupation, even. For anyone, even for influenced by his in-laws, he said. “Many with the next family at a wedding. You Congregation Shomrei Torah
rabbis, there is a point of separation young men who grew up in Fair Lawn can’t say, ‘Today I am not in the mood in Fair Lawn
between their professional public per- have become rabbis, and many young to dance. I just came from a funeral. The What: Celebrate Shevi and
sona and their personal one. My in-laws women who grew up there have become ability to focus on loving your neighbor Benjamin Yudin as they retire
feel such a genuine love and connection teachers and leaders in their communi- as yourself — that is a challenge. after 50 years
for every person in the world, no matter ties. All of them will tell you that they are “How do I do it? With great difficulty. When: On Sunday, April 7, at 5 p.m.
how important or unimportant, and their inspired by the Yudins.” I am only human.”
Where: At the Atrium Plaza,
home can become a second home — and Rabbi Yudin is almost too busy to talk, When anyone talks about the Yudins,
401 NY-59, in Monsey
in many cases a first home — for people but he makes time, not grudgingly, but they always use the word humility. The
who either were literally homeless or fac- with a certain rushed patience. “I don’t Yudins’ modesty is bone-deep, they For more information,
reservations, or donations:
ing challenges. Their hands-on nurturing have time, but I’ll make time in the time say; their humility, their insistence on
Call (201)981-9201
of so many people continues to this day. I don’t have,” he said. being seen as just like everyone else,
12 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019
JS-13

PASSOVER MENU 2019/5779


PASSOVER MENU 2019/5779
MENT QTY. QTY.
MEAT DEPARTMENT QTY. SALADS SALADS DAIRY DEPARTMENT DAIRY DEPARTMENT
GEFILTE FISH 15.99 LB. CARROT RAISIN SALAD 9.99 LB. PLAIN FARMER 9.99 LB.
15.99 LB. HORSERADISH CARROT RAISIN SALAD
7.99 LB. COLESLAW 9.99 LB.
8.99 LB. PLAIN FARMER
WALNUT RAISIN FARMER 13.99 LB. 9.99
CHOPPED LIVER 16.99 LB. POTATO SALAD 8.99 LB. PINEAPPLE FARMER 13.99 LB.
7.99 LB. COLESLAW
VEGETARIAN CHOPPED LIVER 16.99 LB. CUCUMBER SALAD
8.99 LB.
9.99 LB.
WALNUT RAISIN FARMER
CHOCOLATE FARMER 13.99 LB.
13.9
16.99 LB. STUFFED CABBAGE *
POTATO SALAD
5.99 PC. HEALTH SALAD
8.99 LB.
9.99 LB.
PINEAPPLE FARMER 7.99
PLAIN CREAM CHEESE LB.
13.9
CHICKEN SOUP 9.99 QT. ISRAELI SALAD 9.99 LB. VEG. CREAM CHEESE 9.99 LB.
16.99 LB. CHICKEN VEGETABLE SOUP CUCUMBER
9.99 QT. SALAD BEET SALAD 9.99 LB.
9.99 LB. CHOCOLATE FARMER
SCALLION CREAM CHEESE
9.99 LB. 13.9
VEGETABLE SOUP (PARVE) 9.99 QT. HEARTS OF PALM SALAD 12.99 LB. CHEESE BLINTZES 3.50 EA.
5.99 PC. MATZA BALLS (4 LARGE) *HEALTH SALAD
8.00 / 4PCS. BROC. & CASHEW SALAD9.99 LB.
12.99 LB. PLAIN CREAM CHEESE
EGGPLANT PARMESAN 2-3lb. TIN
11.99 LB. 7.99
ROAST CHICKEN 9.99 LB. QUINOA SALAD 12.99 LB. MATZAH LASAGNA 2-3lb. TIN * 11.99 LB.
9.99 QT. CHICKEN CUTLETS ***** ISRAELI SALAD
19.99 LB. SAUTEED SPINACH 9.99 LB. 12.99 LB. VEG. CREAM CHEESE
BROCCOLI QUICHE 2-3lb. TIN 11.99 LB. 9.99
www.maadan.com
GRILLED CHICKEN CUTLETS 19.99 LB. SPINACH QUICHE 2-3lb. TIN 11.99 LB.
9.99 QT. CHICKEN FRANCHAISE BEET19.99
SALADLB. 9.99 LB. SCALLION CREAM CHEESE
11.99 LB.
MUSHROOM ONION QUICHE 2-3lb. TIN 9.99
CHICKEN MARSALA 19.99 LB. DAIRY DEPARTMENT
9.99 QT. CHICKEN FLORENTINE HEARTS OF PALM SALAD 12.99
NO ORDERS TAKEN FROM
19.99 LB. LB.
DAIRY DEPARTMENT CHEESE BLINTZES
DESSERTS 3.50
BONELESS STUFFED CAPON * 18.00 PC. ALL DAIRY ITEMS BELOW NO ORDERS TAKEN FOR BAKERY GOODS
8.00 / 4PCS. BROC. & CASHEW SALAD
SWEET & SOUR MEATBALLS * 15.99 LB. 12.99 LB.
WILL BE AVAILABLE IN OUR SHOW CASES EGGPLANT PARMESAN 2-3lb. TIN
ALL BAKERY GOODS BELOW 11.9
BRISKET OF BEEF (GRAVY) 29.99 LB. NOVA (FRESHLY SLICED) 12.99 ¼LB. WILL BE AVAILABLE AS OF APRIL 11th,2019
9.99 LB. CORNED BEEF QUINOA SALAD
28.99 LB. SABLE (FRESHLY SLICED) 12.99 LB.
14.99 ¼LB. MATZAH LASAGNA
7 LAYER CAKE2-3lb. TIN * 11.9
9.99 ¼LB.
19.99 LB. ROAST BEEF
GRAVY
SAUTEED SPINACH
28.99 LB.
9.99 QT
BAKED SALMON
WHITE FISH
12.99 LB.
16.99 LB.
BROCCOLI QUICHE 2-3lb. TIN
ALMOND MACAROONS
ASSORTED COOKIES
11.9

www.maadan.com
BLACK & WHITE SWIRL
19.99 LB. PASTRAMI
TURKEY BREAST
28.99 LB.
19.99 LB.
CHUBS
GRILLED SALMON
21.99 LB.
25.99 LB.
SPINACH QUICHE 2-3lb. TIN
BON BONS (CREAM FILLED)
11.9
SMOKED TURKEY BREAST 19.99 LB. FRIED FLOUNDER* 25.99 LB. BROWNIES
19.99 LB. TURKEY PASTRAMI 19.99 LB. HERRING IN WINE SAUCE 14.99 LB. MUSHROOM
CHOCONION QUICHE 2-3lb. TIN
DIP MACAROONS 11.9
19.99 LB. SALAMI
BOLOGNA
DAIRY DEPARTMENT
12.99 LB.
12.99 LB.
HERRING IN CREAM SAUCE
HERRING SALAD
14.99 LB.
11.99 LB.
CHOC DIPPED LEAVES
CHOC. SANDWICH COOKIES
19.99 LB. POTATO KUGEL NO ORDERS TAKEN FROM DAIRY DEPARTMENT
9.99 EA. KIPPERED SALMON SALAD 18.99 LB. CHOCOLATE CHIFFON DESSERTS
SWEET MATZAH KUGEL * 9.99 EA. WHITE FISH SALAD 14.99 LB. CHOCOLATE NUT WAFER
18.00 PC. BROCCOLI SOUFFLÉ * ALL DAIRY ITEMS BELOW
12.99 EA. TUNA FISH SALAD 12.99 LB. NO ORDERS TAKEN FOR BAKERY
CHOCOLATE ROLL
SPINACH SOUFFLÉ * 12.99 EA. EGG SALAD 9.99 LB. JELLY ROLL
15.99 LB. WILL BE AVAILABLE IN OUR
CAULIFLOWER SOUFFLÉ * 12.99 EA. FRESHLYSHOW CASES
SLICED CHEESE ALL BAKERY GOODS BELOW
KRAKOVSKI COOKIES

12.99 ¼LB.
CARROT SOUFFLÉ * 12.99 EA. AMERICAN WHITE 10.99 LB. LADY FINGERS
29.99 LB. NOVA (FRESHLY SLICED)
SWEET POTATO PUDDING * 12.99 EA. CHEDDAR 11.99 LB. WILL BE AVAILABLE AS OF APRIL 1
MARBLE CAKE

14.99 ¼LB.
STUFFED DERMA (KISHKA) 12.99 LB. EDAM 13.99 LB. MARZIPAN (RAINBOW)
28.99 LB. SABLE (FRESHLY SLICED)
MATZAH FARFEL * 12.99 LB. EMEK 13.99 LB. MOCHA ROLL 7 LAYER CAKE
9.99 ¼LB.
CARROT TZIMMES 12.99 LB. GOUDA 14.99 LB. RAILROAD CAKE
28.99 LB. BAKED SALMON
ROAST POTATOES 12.99 LB. HAVARTI 13.99 LB. ALMOND MACAROONS
9.99 QT WHITE FISH
CRANBERRY RELISH
CREAMED SPINACH
12.99 LB.
12.99 LB
HAVARTI (DILL)
MOZZARELLA
16.99 LB. 13.99 LB.
11.99 LB. OTHER DESSERTS
ASSORTED COOKIES
28.99 LB.
CHAROSES
CHUBS
SPECIALTY PASSOVER ITEMS
14.99 LB.
MUENSTER ORANGE RIND
SWISS DOMESTIC
21.99 LB. 11.99 LB.
13.99 LB.
FRUIT SALAD
FRUIT COMPOTE
BLACK
11.99 LB.
11.99 LB.
& WHITE SWIRL
19.99 LB. NECK BONES GRILLED SALMON 2.00 EA. SWISS IMPORTED 25.99 LB. 19.99 LB. BON BONS (CREAM FILLED
SEDER PLATE (COMPLETE) 29.99 EA. * GEBROKTZ CHAREIDIM SHMURAH MATZAH
19.99 LB. HORSERADISHFRIED FLOUNDER*
ROOT (PINT) 12.99 EA. 25.99
***** CHICKEN CUTLETS LB. IN
AVAILABLE HAND SHMURA MATZAH LB. BROWNIES
19.99 LB. HERRING IN WINE SAUCE BOTH GEBROKTZ AND NON GEBROKTZ
14.99 LB. CHOC DIP MACAROONS
12.99 LB. HERRING IN CREAM SAUCE 14.99 LB.
Or To Make Your PESACH Really Easy, Just Enter The Amount Of Guests You Would Like
CHOC DIPPED LEAVES
12.99 LB.
To Order For From Our "COMPLETE DINNER MENU" Which Includes: Gefilte Fish With Carrots
HERRING SALAD 11.99 LB.
And Horseradish, Chicken Soup With Large Fluffy Matzah Balls, Potato Kugel, Carrot Tzimmes, PROVIDING HOMEMADE CHOC. SANDWICH COOKIE
Health Salad, Fresh Fruit Compote, Seder Plate, Macaroons And Cake.
9.99 EA.10 PEOPLE INCREMENTKIPPEREDPER ITEM SALMON SALAD 18.99 LB. GOODNESS FOR 37 YEARS
CHOCOLATE CHIFFON
SORRY NO SUBSTITUTIONS PASSOVER WINE AND
9.99 EA.Please Enter NumberWHITE
Of People FISH
Below SALAD 14.99 LB. WE THANK YOU CHOCOLATE NUT WAFER
MAIN COURSE SECTION LIQUOR SALE
12.99 EA. Roasted Chicken TUNA FISH SALAD $ 36.00 Per Person 12.99 LB. JONNY, STUART & YOSSIE CHOCOLATE ROLL
12.99 EA. Chicken Marsala EGG SALAD $ 36.00 Per Person
Chicken Franchaise $ 36.00 Per Person GOING ON NOW THROUGH
9.99 LB. JELLY ROLL
THE END OF PASSOVER MA'ADAN IS UNDER THE SUPERVISION OF THE
12.99 EA. Boneless Capon FRESHLY SLICED CHEESE KRAKOVSKI COOKIES
Brisket Of Beef
$ 40.00 Per Person
$ 40.00 Per Person www.maadan.com VA'AD OF BERGEN COUNTY ( R.C.B.C. )
ORDERS ACCEPTED TILL THURSDAY 4/11/2019 - 8:00PM
12.99 EA. PICKUP AMERICAN
HOURS FOR PASSOVER WHITE SPECIAL HOURS 10.99
FOR PASSOVERLB. NAME: LADY FINGERS
12.99 EA. WednesdayCHEDDAR 4/17/19 7:30a.m. - 7:00p.m. Monday 4/22/2019 11.99 7:30a.m. LB.-7:00p.m. MARBLE CAKE
Thursday 4/18/2018 7:30a.m. - 8:00p.m. Tues.-Wed 4/23-24/2019 7:30a.m. -7:00p.m.
12.99 LB. Friday 4/19/2019 EDAM7:00a.m. - 12:00p.m. Thursday
13.99 LB.
4/25/2019 7:30a.m. - 4:00p.m.
MARZIPAN (RAINBOW)
12.99 LB. Sat.-Sun.EMEK 4/20/19 - 4/21/19 CLOSED Fri. - Sat. 4/26/18 - 13.99
4/27/2019 LB.CLOSED TEL: MOCHA ROLL
12.99 LB. TEL:
GOUDA 201-692-0192 446 CEDAR LANE
14.99 LB. E-MAIL ADDRESS:
RAILROAD CAKE
FAX: 201-692-3656 TEANECK, NJ 07666-1711
12.99 LB. email:HAVARTI
stuart@maadan.com 13.99 LB.
email: JONNY@maadan.com PICKUP DATE: TIME:
12.99 LB. HAVARTI (DILL) 13.99 LB.
12.99 LB MOZZARELLA 11.99 LB. OTHER DESSERTS
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 13

ITEMS MUENSTER ORANGE RIND 11.99 LB. FRUIT SALAD 11.9


14.99 LB. SWISS DOMESTIC 13.99 LB. FRUIT COMPOTE 11.9
2.00 EA. SWISS IMPORTED 19.99 LB.
Local

‘Shoelaces’
Israeli film is fiction but reflects director’s
relationship with his special-needs son
LARRY YUDELSON “Meorav Yerushalmi” — meaning

S
“Jerusalem mix” — that aired for three
“ hoelaces,” the 2018 Israeli film that will play seasons spread out between 2003 and
Wednesday night in Nanuet as part of the 2010. He also played leading roles in
Rockland Jewish Film Festival (see box), tells the Israeli series “Hostages,” which is
the story of the complicated relationship now available on Netflix, and “Prisoner
between an aging father and his special-needs adult son, of War,” which inspired the Showtime
whom he abandoned while he was still a young boy. At series “Homeland.”
the center of the plot is the son’s desire to donate one Mr. Goldwasser saw him perform
of his kidneys to help his ill father. When the transplant in another project, a small role where
committee rules that the son is not competent to make he played “a guy with intellectual dis-
the decision, and that his father, his legal guardian, does abilities. That is how you say it in the “We worked together on every line in
not have the right to make it for him, the son sets out to cleaned-up slang,” he added, using a the script. We discussed his character. We
fight that decision. more direct word that we will not use built him from the ground up: How he
The film won the audience awards at the Atlanta, Bos- to make his subject fully clear. “It was a Jacob Goldwasser stands, how he talks, how he looks, how
ton, and Los Angeles Jewish film festivals, and a best sup- very appealing, very touching charac- he laughs. Everything.”
porting actor award at Israel’s Academy Awards, the Ophir. ter. He really did a wonderful job. The script was honed through years of editing, until it
But for years after hearing the true story that inspired “I wrote to him a lot of compliments. And in a few was finally approved by the committee that allocates gov-
the film, director Jacob Goldwasser resisted making it. words I told him about the story that I am refusing to ernment investment for the Israeli film industry.
The reason: The story cut too close to the bone. make for 12 years. “You have to be firm enough and strong enough not to
“We have a son with special needs,” Mr. Goldwasser “Immediately he called me. He said, ‘it’s a great story, break down and not to give up,” he said. “Maybe those
said. “As part of a self-protection of my heart, I decided do it!’ I said ‘no, I don’t have the psychological power.’ rejections did good for the film.”
not to do films about my tzuris, my problems. I felt much He pushed me. He didn’t let me go until I considered to He believes the film does good for the world.
more at ease dealing with other people’s problems.” do it.” “I felt a responsibility to improve the image of those
“For 12 years I ran away from the story.” Mr. Nevo, for his part, “did the research like a good unfortunate people in the eyes of the public,” he said.
What changed? actor does. He went for a week to live in the village [for “I’m sure that anybody who will watch this film — espe-
Blame the film’s lead actor, Nevo Kimchi. Mr. Kim- people with special needs] where our son is living. He cially young people — will go home a better person. I have
chi was a leading character in Mr. Goldwasser’s series worked with them. He spent time with them. a very strong agenda in this film. More than the other

Hack it together!
Bergen, Rockland students compete in all-female coding challenge at Lander
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN many other women are

S
involved in the field,”
ilvia Pan, an engineer at AMC Networks, often Ms. Cohen said. “We
is the only woman in the room when she is at didn’t want the hack-
hackathons, intense coding events where teams athon to be just cold and
collaborate on building apps or websites, often competitive, but an edu-
over the course of a sleepless weekend. cational and fun experi-
But as a judge at Hack It Together, an all-female ence where people could
12-hour hackathon held at Lander College for Women in learn something new
Manhattan on March 3, Ms. Pan noted that she was sur- and build a community
rounded by 120 female student hackers and expressed of women who want to
her wish that this experience would “encourage more go forward in this field.”
women to go into tech.” Lander junior and
Gender was not the only aspect that set Hack It Student organizers of Hack It Together at Touro’s Dr. Alan Kadish of co-organizer Esther
Together apart. Because Lander is a division of the Ortho- Lander College for Women, from left, Sarah Bra- Teaneck, president of Gassner of Miami added,
dox-affiliated Touro College and University System, this cha Schuraytz, Sarah Cohen, and Esther Gassner. Touro College, speaks at “All too often women
Sunday hackathon offered participants an atmosphere PHOTOS BY DMITRIY KALININ Hack It Together. miss out on these incred-
that did not desecrate the Sabbath and where the meals ibly valuable learning
and energy-boosting snacks were strictly kosher. a senior at Lander, was among the organizers of this experiences, and recruiters miss out on reaching talented
“As a religious Jew, there aren’t so many of these fourth annual Hack It Together. women in computer sciences, because of the bro culture
types of events I can participate in because they always The all-female environment is intended not only to that often permeates hackathons.”
involve Shabbes,” Sarah Cohen of Wesley Hills said. “It support female students already interested in coding There was certainly no bro culture — with its all male,
ends up being super annoying because these events but also to encourage more girls to try it, she added. high-testosterone affect — at Hack It Together.
are a cornerstone of getting into the computer-science Many high-tech companies are actively seeking qualified In addition to 35 Lander students, attendees came
industry; it’s a great way to network and gain expe- women to diversify their staff. from nearly 40 universities and high schools, including
rience.” Ms. Cohen, a computer-science major and “We had a lot of beginners here, and they saw how Barnard, Princeton, University of Pennsylvania, and
14 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
Local
Sandi M. Malkin, LL C
films I made, which I insisted on having no agendas,
only story. That gave me the courage and the power
Interior Designer
to do it.”
(former interior designer of model
But don’t think it’s a grim film, Etti Inbal says.
Dr. Inbal runs the IAC Cinematec, which brings
rooms for NY’s #1 Dept. Store)
Israeli films to North Jersey. Last week she screened
“Shoelaces” at the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in
Tenafly, and brought Mr. Goldwasser in to discuss For a totally new look using
the film.
“He took this special topic and used humor and an your furniture or starting anew.
excellent actor to present it so that we can really fall
in love with someone with special needs,” Dr. Inbal
said. “You see the depth of his understanding of the
Staging also available
issue. People were touched, very touched.”
973-535-9192
What: “Shoelaces” at the Rockland Jewish
Film Festival
What’s it about: Nominated for eight Israeli
Academy Awards including Best Picture,
“Shoelaces” tells the gently comic story of the
heartfelt relationship between an aging father
and his exuberant, autistic adult son, whom he
abandoned while he was still a young boy and
rediscovers later.
When: Wednesday, April 10, 7:30 p.m.
Where: Regal Cinemas, 6201 Fashion Dr., Nanuet
How much: $14, $12 senior citizen/student
Advance tickets at: bit.ly/rjff-shoelaces
For a full schedule of films and to buy advance
tickets, go to: jccrockland.org/film-festival. The
Rockland Jewish Film Festival runs through
April 30. All films are shown at the Regal
Cinemas in Nanuet.

Bruriah High School for Girls in Elizabeth, as well


as organizations such as Women Who Code and
Girls Develop It.
The overall assignment was to create a product
that could solve a problem or address a need related
to entertainment and travel. Hackers had to write all
their own code but could consult professional coders
who served as mentors throughout the day. Hack It
Together sponsors AMC Networks and JetBlue Air-
ways also offered company-sponsored challenges
that participants could choose to do.
The JetBlue challenge was won by students from
the Flatiron School, an accelerated programming
school in Manhattan for job-seekers. They created an
interface for passengers to discover volunteer oppor-
tunities at their destination, tied to gaining bonus
miles from the airline. Their prize was round-trip Jet-
Blue tickets to any domestic destination.
For the AMC challenge, one student group pitched
a social viewing platform on which users could
review shows in real time, write recommendations,
and invite friends to watch with them. The students
were invited to AMC headquarters in Kansas to pres-
ent their idea to executives and explore internship
opportunities at the company.
Each team presented a three-minute demo of
its app. Judging was based on factors such as inno-
vation, usability, problem solving, and technical
achievement.
The first prize went to a project dubbed “Bound-
less,” created by a team of three Lander students and
SEE HACK IT PAGE 68
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 15
JS-16*

Local

When devotion trumps age


99-year-old volunteer finds second home at NCJW thrift shop
LOIS GOLDRICH whose mother was a life also enjoyed opera. “I have or email — “I keep telling people I’m not
member of NCJW — found many albums of opera,” in the 21st century. I live in the world of
What is it that keeps you going? her way to New York to she said, adding that she today but not in this particular world.
While many of us may spend some work in the fashion indus- also enjoys the music of I’m from the old school, and so far I’ve
time pondering the question, 99-year- try on Seventh Avenue. Ella Fitzgerald. “I don’t like been able to get along without them.
old volunteer Estelle Green will answer “I was in the textile busi- rap,” she said. “I don’t even People have to call me.”
immediately — the National Council of ness,” she said. “I was a like to look at it.” While it On her 99th birthday, her family threw
Jewish Women’s Council Thrift Shop in buyer for specialty stores may have a place, that place her “a big party,” she said. “Three gen-
Bergenfield. all over the country.” Her is “not in my house.” erations.” At 4’10”, and with a variety of
“I’m a people person,” explained Ms. late husband, Jule, also Ms. Greene has belonged minor ailments, “I expect to be standing
Green, who has worked in the shop for was in fashion. Later, they to the National Council here next time,” she said. “I have good
decades. “You make friends with cus- “moved across the bridge” Estelle Green of Jewish Women since eyesight,” she added. In fact, “my eye
tomers. I could be here five days a week.” to Fort Lee, where she has the early 1960s. “I had doctor leaned over and asked if I was still
And there’s more, she said. “The thrift lived for some 60 years. worked since I was out of college until driving. He told me to keep it up. I said,
shop is nonprofit. Our money goes to Although Ms. Greene and her hus- the early 60s,” she said. “I stopped and ‘I will as long as you keep my eyes OK.’”
community services all over the county. band had no children, she said, she has thought, ‘I don’t know anyone. I need to “I don’t use Uber,” she continued.
I could get on a soapbox to tell you how always been drawn to volunteer activi- meet people.’” So she joined NCJW. “Everyone always wants to pick me up. I
fabulous it is and what we do for the ties involving youngsters. For several Ms. Green calls the thrift shop her said to my friend, ‘Have you ever driven
community.” years she worked with Bergen Reads, “home away from home. I go twice a with me and felt unsafe?’ But I don’t like
That accords well with the organiza- an initiative of the Jewish Federation of week, Monday and Friday, for 2 l/2 hour driving at night. I try not to go out then
tion’s self-description, as drawn from a Northern New Jersey. stints. I’m the coordinator of volunteers, because of the glare of newer cars.”
recent statement. “Inspired by Jewish “Some of the children were eager always making sure someone is manning Ms. Greene said that she has seen
values, NCJW strives for social justice by to learn, and some weren’t,” she said. the shop. many changes over the course of her
improving the quality of life for women, “Some said, ‘Read to me,’ and I said, The number of NCJW volunteers is lifetime. She doesn’t think the world is
children, and families and by safeguard- ‘You’re going to learn to read to me.’” dropping,” she added. “We’re an older in good shape at the moment. “I’m not
ing individual rights and freedoms.” Reading is one of her own favorite activ- group.” To get volunteers, “I get on the very happy when I read the newspaper
Ms. Greene, who was born in Mas- ities. “I read a great deal, and I belong phone and plead.” or turn on the TV,” she said.
sachusetts on February 11, 1920 — and to a book group.” She and her husband With only a cell phone — no computer According to Ms. Green, she’s older

Federation cop
Gerard Dargan brings 26 years of police experience to JFNNJ
LARRY YUDELSON synagogues. community’s schools are “well on the road to taking the steps nec-
As a sergeant in the Ber- next on his list. essary to secure their vulnerabilities.”
Gerard Dargan is the son of a police offi- gen County Prosecutor’s At the synagogues, he Part of that will be applying for the
cer. He’s the husband of a police officer. major crimes unit, he took meets with the rabbi or next round of security grants. “There’s
And for more than 26 years he was a part in the investigation the administrator. He looks a narrow window to turn it around, from
police officer, for the last 18 at the Ber- of attacks on local syna- over its security situation. early to mid-April,” he said.
gen County prosecutor’s office. gogues in late 2011 and And he offers his services in The Jewish Federation of Northern
Now he has a new beat, and it has 80 early 2012. He interviewed applying for federal home- New Jersey has long played a central role
synagogues. Anthony Graziano, who land security grants. in helping area nonprofits apply for the
Since March, Mr. Dargan has been carried out the attacks Many area congregations grants, and this now has become part of
working at the Jewish Federation of under the guidance of have received the grants in Mr. Dargan’s responsibilities. “We offer
Northern New Jersey as its community Aakash Dalal. The two men Gerard Dargan recent years, and in his visits assistance to help synagogue leaders
security director. each received a 35-year Mr. Dargan saw the impact prepare the grants,” he said.
“With the rise in anti-Semitic activ- prison sentences for those crimes. the grants made. He inspected camera His advice to synagogue leaders:
ity here in northern New Jersey, it is “It was all fueled by hate,” Mr. Dargan systems, access controls on doors, glass “Make sure you take all the necessary
imperative that we focus on the safety said, to explain the motivations for the films on windows, and bollards in front steps to make your synagogue secure,
and security of our 125,000 Jews,” Jason Molotov cocktails thrown at Congrega- of buildings “to stop any kind of vehicular from having a vulnerability assessment
Shames, the federation’s executive tion Beth El in Rutherford and the graf- attack,” he said. “Many of the synagogues done to find out where you’re deficient
director, said. “This position will ensure fiti sprayed on several other synagogues were able to implement safe rooms and in security, to applying for a grant and
Jewish communal safety by focusing on in the area. “That’s the simplest way to panic buttons and alarm systems.” moving to implement the security fea-
incident response and developing indi- say it.” Not all of the synagogues he visited, tures they’ve suggested. Security should
vidual institution- and community-wide Mr. Dargan’s first order of business however, had brought their security to be on the top of everybody’s mind.”
plans through training, risk mitigation, on joining the Jewish federation was this level. “Some were in desperate need His biggest surprise from this first
relationships with law enforcement, and to introduce himself to the roughly 80 of upgrading,” he said. round of site visits: “Not everyone is as
access to other government resources.” synagogues in the federation’s catch- Some of these had already received site security conscious as they should be.”
Mr. Dargan is not Jewish, but he ment area. “In the past two weeks, I’ve assessments from his former employer, Mr. Dargan is naturally security-con-
knows a lot about the threats posed to already visited about 20,” he said. The the county prosecutor’s office, and were scious, even in his private life.
16 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
JS-17

Local Let us mind your business -


we just might see what you are missing
Steven Morey Greenberg, Esq.
than the organization she belongs to; Hannah Solo-
Greenberg & Lanz, LLC
mon founded NCJS 96 years ago. Her own NCJW sec- Business Attorneys
tion, Bergen County, presented her with a bouquet of
flowers on her birthday. Karen Kurland of Fair Lawn,
Please phone us for a free consultation
the thrift shop’s vice president, explained that the
Bergen County section was created in the late 1990s regarding your business concerns including:
with a merger between the organization’s Greater Strategic and Succession Planning, Acquisitions/Sales,
Teaneck and Mid-Bergen groups.
Ms. Kurland, who has held many positions in the Partnership Disputes and Litigation.
organization and has known Ms. Green for 15 years,
described her as a “Jill of all trades in the store, who Two University Plaza · Hackensack, NJ 07601
not only recruits volunteers but offers to pick them
up and bring them in. It’s what keeps her going,”
Phone: (201) 487-7755 · Fax: (201) 487-0087
she said. Calling the 99-year-old “very feisty and a smg@greenberglanz.com · www.greenberglanz.com
no-nonsense kind of person who tells it like it is,” she
said, “She’s really great with engaging new members
to become volunteers and training them to work in

THE WHITE SALE


the store. I’m impressed by her devotion.
“I wish we had five more of Estelle.”
Ms. Kurland said the Council Thrift Shop is “a thrift
shop like no other. We’re not a big box but have a very
boutique feel. You can find unique items. People get
hooked into shopping there; they become addicted.
Some come weekly, and some come daily. And volun-
OUR LOWEST PRICES EVER!
teers like it because they get dibs on the stuff.”
The Council Thrift Shop is at 75 South Washing-
ton Avenue in Bergenfield. Proceeds from the sale
of donated new or gently used clothing, accessories,
and household items go directly to support people in
need in the community and to advance NCJW’s advo-
cacy programs. For more information, call 201-385-
3702 or go to www.ncjwbcs.org. OLIVER STEFENEL
Spread Collar Button Cuff,
Button Cuff & French Cuff Slim & Classic Fit
Fashion Spread Collar 80’s 2ply Cotton
Slim Fit. Sug. Retail $65.00
Whenever he enters a room, “I scan it and look Sug. Retail $65.00
Sale $32.50
for any person who may be up to no good.” When he Sale $39.99
True Wrinkle Free
dines out with his family, “I position myself where
I can keep myself and my family safe if something Sale $49.99
happens, God forbid.”
“You have to be like that. It’s a scary world.”
Mr. Dargan grew up in Secaucus. His father was
a deputy chief in the Hudson County prosecutor’s
office. “I followed in my father’s footsteps. It was
something I always wanted to do.”
He joined the Hudson County prosecutor’s office
in January 1994, and stayed there for six years before
joining the Bergen County Prosecutor’s Office. As he
was leaving, he met a new hire, Maria. They married. DAVID LEONARD CITTERIO
Now they live in Hillsdale and have two school-age True Wrinkle Free Spread Collar
Button Cuff & French Cuff 80's 2ply Cotton
children. She is now a sergeant and still works at the Slim & Full Cut Button Cuff & French Cuff
Hudson prosecutor’s office. Sug. Retail $69.00 Sug. Retail $65.00
In New Jersey, it’s the county prosecutor’s office Sale $49.99 Sale $39.99
that’s responsible for major crimes: homicides, sex-
ual assaults, large scale narcotics, serious white collar
crimes. Mr. Dargan spent most of his career working
on homicides and special victims. “Those investiga-
tions are very rewarding,” he said. “You’re able to
LIMITED 5 SHIRTS PER CUSTOMER WHILE SUPPLIES LAST
save the life of a child, stop the abuse, put the per-
son responsible in jail.” But he does not want to talk
about any of those old cases. Publicizing them runs
the risk of retraumatizing the victims, he said, and he
does not want to do that.
BORO PARK: FLATBUSH: LONG ISLAND: LAKEWOOD: TEANECK:
He’s excited about his new position.
5020 13th Avenue 1505 Coney Island Ave. 467 Central Avenue 1700 Madison Ave. 215 W. Englewood Ave.
“If anyone needs assistance from the federation or
718.972.4665 718.676.7706 516.295.5006 732.987.9480 201.530.7300
has any security or law-enforcement related issues Sunday & Legal Holidays 10 - 6, Sunday & Legal Holidays 10-6, Sunday & Legal Holidays 10-6, Sunday & Legal Holidays 10-6, Mon. - Thurs. 10-9,
where I can be the liaison, I’m very willing and able Mon. - Wed. 10 - 7, Thurs. 10 - 8, Friday 10-3 Mon. - Wed. 10-7, Thurs. 10-9, Fri. 10-3 Mon., Tues. & Thurs. 10-7, Wed. 10-9, Fri.10-3 Mon. - Thurs. 10-7, Friday 10-3 Friday 10-3, Closed Sunday

to help with that,” he said.


JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 17
JS-18*

Local

FIRST PERSON

Fulfilling a 40-year dream


Teaneck educator, on the verge of making aliyah, tells
why she’s doing it, what she’s leaving, where she’s going toward
LEAH V. HERZOG

I
am a passionate and unapologetic Zionist. My
aliyah dream was conceived with the outbreak
of the Yom Kippur War, and it was born, fully
formed, almost 40 years ago. If you nourish a
dream, it will live, and it will continue to nourish you.
I grew up in the leafy, quiet, integrated suburb
of Teaneck. Mine was the classic American Jewish
childhood: we didn’t eat pork but we didn’t keep
kosher, I went trick-or-treating and gave Valentine’s
Day cards to my classmates. The High Holy Days
meant many boring hours in synagogue; Chanukah
meant presents; and Passover meant taking matzah
and cream cheese to eat in the school cafeteria.
Being Jewish was my ethnic pride.
In 1973, I was a fourth grader enrolled in my syna-
gogue’s Hebrew school. As we watched the grainy tele-
vision footage, my teacher told us about the Yom Kippur At left, Leah stands with her husband, Avi; at right, she’s flanked by her daughter, Eliana, and her
War and how Israel was in grave danger. I was infuriated son, Reuven. COURTESY LEAH HERZOG
at the thought that MY country, my little country, was
imperiled. As the child of Holocaust survivors, I knew Getting back to Israel the second time was much communities as Jewish educators. My mother passed
from as early as I can remember that the only safe haven harder. My father felt that I had learned enough Jew- away at the age of 95, in 2016.
for Jews was Israel. My mother, a fourth-generation ish texts, my mother did not want me so far away, I can now, finally, fulfill a 45-year-old dream.
upper-middle-class Viennese who fled Austria in 1938 and so I began college. In the middle of my fresh- We plan to move to Givat Ze’ev, a small suburb
and landed with her sister and parents in Chile in 1941, man year, I was diagnosed with a progressive retinal north of Yerushalayim. It is an inclusive community—
penniless but alive, and in America in 1961, instilled in disease and told I could be blind before I was 23. My secular, religious, Ashkenaz, Sephard, yeshivish, and
me the knowledge that Jews were really safe only in parents relented. chassidish all live there and get along. My son, now a
Israel. We were immeasurably grateful to America, but For nine months, I swam in the sea of Torah at college graduate, will stay in the United States for now,
we were only truly secure in the country with a Jewish Michlalah in Jerusalem, rode the sunflower-seed-littered following his own path and deciding which dreams he
government, Jewish police, and a Jewish army. Egged busses, shopped in the dusty, loud Machane wants to fulfill when. This is the one thing that gives
The child of two musicians, I learned piano from my Yehuda, and cherished every view from every hilltop. I
German grandmother when I was 5 and began flute felt blessed; I was living Rav Kook’s dream: learning the
lessons at 9. The soundtrack of my house was classi- Torah of Israel in the Land of Israel among the people of
cal music: live, on records, on the radio. As a child of Israel. I finished off my year working on a moshav in the
the late 1960s and early ’70s, I loved folk music, and I Golan. They invited me to stay and to teach elementary When I finally arrived
taught myself to play guitar from a book. Along with
Simon and Garfunkel, John Denver, Billy Joel, and the
school. Getting back on the bus to Jerusalem felt physi-
cally wrenching. I desperately, hopelessly did not want in Israel for the first
Beatles, I listened to the Israeli and Chassidic Song to return to America. But my rosh yeshiva and mentor, time in 1981, I kissed
Festival albums, learning words I didn’t really under- Rabbi Yehudah Copperman ob”m, told me that because
stand. By ninth grade I was in day school, assiduously my parents were survivors and I was a “bat z’kunim” the ground and fell
trying to master Hebrew. Naomi Shemer was a won-
derful teacher, and I looked up almost every word to
— the daughter of older parents — that I was more obli-
gated in kibbud horim than yishuv ha’aretz — that it was
deeply in love. I was
every song. The first song I composed and wrote in more important that I fulfill the mitzvah of honoring my high with spiritual
Hebrew was about my fervent desire to go to my land,
where my people were born, and which no longer was
parents than that of making aliyah to the land of Israel.
So I returned, and I graduated from college.
excitement, and even
just a dream. When my husband and I married in 1986, we made the steepest and
As I became religious, history and Torah merged.
Israel was the place where the patriarchs walked
a 10-year aliyah plan. We would have some children, I
would finish my Ph.D., and then we’d go.
rockiest pre-dawn
and the Haganah fought. As far as I was concerned, Six years into the 10-year plan, my father died. Two climb was bliss.
every square inch of the land was holy. In my mind, years after that, almost nine years after we were mar-
the sky was always Mediterranean blue, the air per- ried, we had our first child. My mother had only one me pause: the precious, named-for-my-father son will
fumed with citrus, and the people bristly but genu- other grandchild from my three older siblings. I felt stay in America, at least for now.
ine. When I finally arrived in Israel for the first time in strongly that it would be betraying my father’s mem- In Israel, we have close friends eagerly awaiting us,
1981, I kissed the ground and fell deeply in love. I was ory and a travesty to move to Israel then, taking my who will help us with the socio-emotional and prac-
high with spiritual excitement, and even the steepest mother’s precious, named-for-my-father grandson tical transition that we know awaits us. Our daughter
and rockiest pre-dawn climb was bliss. The lone oak — with us. When I asked if she would consider mov- finished her IDF service as a lone soldier and lives
the alon — became my personal totem; I was the child ing with us she said, “I have moved enough in my there. My husband’s parents, brother, sister and
who was returning to my ancient borders. Six weeks life. I have started over and learned a new language brother-in-law, nieces and nephews, great-nieces and
later, eyes puffy and nose red from crying, I had to be enough times. I am not moving again.” We moved to great-nephews are there.
pushed onto the plane. New Jersey, raised our two children, and served our SEE DREAM PAGE 68
18 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
JS-19

Wishing our customers a Happy Passover!


R.C.B.C

FOOD SHOWCASE DOESN’T JUST WISH YOU A


BEAUTIFUL PESACH SEDER...WE HELP YOU MAKE IT!
STORE HOURS
24-28 Fair Lawn Ave, Fair Lawn, NJ Sunday Mon-Tue Wednesday Thursday Friday
201-475-0077 8:15am 8:15am
to 8pm to 7:30pm
8:15am
to 8pm
8:15am 8:15am
to 9:30pm to 5:30pm
info@food-showcase.com
Follow us on and
SPECIALS
Manischewitz Empire
Egg Glicks Haddar
Chicken Glicks Almond
Matzo Broth Ketchup Apple
2 for Juice Butter
Low Sodium $3.49 $2.69 $13.99
$5.99 2 for $5
Tuscanini Rippled Pereg Matzo Glicks Chocolate Chips
Potato Lay’s Glicks
Vegetable Crumbs $2.19
Chips Potato Plain/Seasoned/
Classic and Chips Oil
Flavoured
Rosemary $3.79 $11.99 $3.49
$2.99
Shibolim Yehuda Matzo
Terra Sweet Paskesz Whole
Potato Mini Matzos Meal
Grain Rice
Chips Croutons Chips
5pk. Canister
$3.29 $5.99 $14.99 $3.39
$2.99

Elite Gluten Kariot TURKEY


Free TURKEY GROUND
Chocolate DRUMS/ ROLL TURKEY
Chocolate Cereal WHITE
Wafers WINGS WHITE
$7.49 $1.99lb $6.99lb $6.99lb
$3.49
CHICKEN GROUND CHICKEN
CHICKEN CHICKEN CUTLET
WHOLE PULLET $4.99lb CHICKEN
FAMILY PACK BONES
PULLET QUARTERED (FULLY
$2.79lb $2.94lb CLEANED) $1.49lb
$5.59lb
BEEF BEEF BEEF
BEEF CHUCK BEEF
CHUCK STIR NECK
STEW EYE CHUNK BONE
FRY
$7.99lb STEAK $7.29lb $2.79lb
$7.99lb $9.99lb

BEEF BEEF BEEF FAMILY PACK


TOP OF FRENCH CHUCK GROUND GROUND BEEF
RIB POT POT BEEF $5.59lb
ROAST ROAST $6.69lb
$8.99lb $8.39lb $6.99lb
CHULANT PICKLED/
GROUND PASTRAMI RAW PICKLED
BEEF CORNED
$10.99lb FIRST CUT CORNED
X LEAN SECOND CUT
BRISKET
$7.29lb $12.79lb
$14.39lb

Les Petit FREE DELIVERY within 2 hours Les Petit


Variety *In town only Muenster
Pack Cheese
$9.49 Our specialty is customer service $3.49
Specials are good until April 22

Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 19


JS-20*

Local

Resistance to measles vaccine


persists in local charedi communities
BEN SALES and according to my observation they

R
shouldn’t take the vaccine.”
abbi Mordechai Shain of Tena- Many schools in the area used to accept
fly isn’t sure about vaccines. religious exemptions to vaccines but no
Almost all of the 400 kids longer do so. The Anshei Lubavitch Day
in the school he runs, from Care Center in Fair Lawn used to have one
3 months old to eighth-grade teens, are unvaccinated child out of more than 300,
vaccinated. About eight or 10 are not. according to the organization’s executive
But he’s skeptical that immunization director, Rabbi Levi Neubort. But that
works at all. ended this year, because Rabbi Neubort
“My doctor in shul says everyone feared the school could become a magnet
should take a flu shot, so a lot of people for anti-vaxxers.
went,” said Shain, the head of school at “I got a number of calls from parents
the Tenafly Chabad Academy in North- that want to place their children in a
ern New Jersey. “Ninety percent that took school that still took a religious exemp-
a flu shot got flus and the 10 percent didn’t tion,” he said. “God forbid we would
get the flu. … I speak to so many doctors end up with a concentration of non-vac-
and they’re saying just the opposite, that cinated kids, something I would not
vaccines are good, but they put in the Rabbi Mordechai Shain L’via Weisinger allow.”
vaccine different methods that give you Children with legitimate medical
more danger than the vaccine is saving personal experience) many more than urge all parents to vaccinate their children exemptions also depend on “herd immu-
you from.” ‘one in a million’ lives have been ruined as recommended by the American Acad- nity” — that is, being in a population
Later he added, “In the vaccine there by vaccines. We don’t want any more emy of Pediatrics.” where others are vaccinated.
are things there that are putting you at people to be hurt needlessly.” Rabbi Shain’s school does not allow Schools in charedi areas in Brooklyn
higher risk.” Ms. Weisinger, a former board mem- parents to exempt their kids from vac- have taken measures to stem the mea-
(According to the Centers for Disease ber of the Orthodox Jewish Nurses cines for religious reasons. But it does sles outbreak. In December, the New
Control, flu vaccinations reduce the Association, said the anti-vax move- accept notes from doctors exempting York City Department of Health banned
risk of contracting the illness by 40 to ment has taken hold among some children from vaccines. Other schools unvaccinated kids from Brooklyn yeshi-
60 percent.) charedi Jews, a result of a lack of edu- will run doctors’ notes by a local health vas after charedi neighborhoods in the
Rabbi Shain’s school is the only one cation and distrust of authority. board for verification. borough experienced 39 measles cases
among about a dozen Orthodox schools “There’s a lack of trust in the govern- within two months.
there that still accepts unvaccinated kids, ment that goes way back,” she said. “You Schools also independently had barred
according to L’via Weisinger of Teaneck, a have others who really care about their unvaccinated kids, leading in one case to
school nurse who runs a group of nurses kids who are not educated.… They’re legal action. After their child was kept out
at Bergen Jewish schools.
The vaccine issue has become espe-
not out in the real world hearing real
science. They’re not taught to discern
Those who do of Oholei Torah, a Brooklyn yeshiva, Sho-
lom and Esther Laine sought an injunc-
cially urgent as measles has spread in between conspiracy theories and real not vaccinate tion last year that would force the school
nearby charedi Orthodox communities
that have low vaccination rates. Last
science.”
In late February, Bergen County saw
can potentially to accept their religious exemption to vac-
cines. Reached by phone last week, Mr.
week, Rockland County barred unvac- one case of measles, which is highly con- spread life- Laine would not comment because the
cinated minors from public places. The
county has had 153 confirmed cases of
tagious and can stay in the air for hours
after an infected person coughs.
threatening legal battle is ongoing.
Joseph Aron, a Brooklyn attorney
measles since October. “We say our community is pro-vac- diseases to focusing on religious and constitutional
Despite institutional pressure, a strain
of opposition to vaccines has persisted
cine, but then we let an anti-vaxxer into
our school and they have measles and
others who are issues, said that according to New York
state law, the school was well within its
in charedi communities, which claims our immuno-compromised kids get vulnerable. rights. “There’s no obligation for a school
that vaccines are ineffective at best and exposed and our pregnant women get to accept a religious exemption,” he said.
harmful at worst. A pamphlet circulating exposed,” Ms. Weisinger said. “Those “I would always check with the board “The school has total autonomy. The
among Orthodox communities, published people are all susceptible to people of health before I would accept a med- school doesn’t have to bend backwards
by an Orthodox anti-vaccine group calling from Rockland County coming into our ical exemption, because they’re not all and accept me if I have a medical reason
itself Parents Educating and Advocating community.” legitimate,” Ms. Weisinger said. “Unfortu- to not get vaccinated.”
for Children’s Health, falsely claims that Jewish institutions in the county have nately there are some rogue doctors out In New Jersey, the state government is
doctors obscure evidence that vaccines urged their members to vaccinate. A there who are anti-vaccine and support advancing a bill to remove the religious
are harmful, and links vaccines to brain December statement signed by more than the anti-vaccine community, and there’s exemption. Rabbi Shain says most par-
swelling, paralysis, and death. (In reality, 40 Bergen County rabbis and Orthodox a lot of pseudoscience out there.” ents are happy that the school no lon-
lasting negative effects from vaccines are school officials said Jewish law commands But Rabbi Shain says he accepts doc- ger accepts religious exemptions. But he
extremely rare.) vaccination. tors’ recommendations at face value. says he hears from parents on the other
The group also hosts regular confer- “Vaccination is not only an obligation “If they have a doctor and the doctor side as well.
ence calls featuring anti-vaccine doctors, to protect the health of our children and can give a letter that for this child it’s “Most parents want that we don’t
according to the WNYC blog Gothamist. ourselves, but a responsibility we have not good to do vaccines, then it’s under accept religious [exemptions] and we
“[S]ome of what we are told about towards others,” the statement said. medical guidance, so the Torah says you should be vaccinated,” he said. “Some
vaccines is simply untrue,” the pam- “Those who do not vaccinate can poten- follow the doctor,” he said. “The doc- parents are saying why do we have to
phlet’s introduction reads. “From our tially spread life-threatening diseases to tor doesn’t have to tell me the reason. vaccinate?”
research (and, for some of us, from others who are vulnerable. We strongly The doctor can say I’m a licensed M.D.,  JTA WIRE SERVICE

20 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


JS-21

Offering Respite Care During Passover


CareOne at Cresskill CareOne at Teaneck The CareOne Respite program is a cost effective way to
221 County Rd. 544 Teaneck Rd.
Cresskill, NJ 07626 Teaneck, NJ 07666
provide the comprehensive care your loved one needs. It is an
www.careonecresskill.com www.careoneteaneck.com option that provides caregivers with peace of mind so they can
201.567-9310 201.862.3300 enjoy time away and a much deserved rest during the holidays.
Regain your strength to continue to be a great care provider.
CareOne at Valley CareOne at New Milford
300 Old Hook Rd. 800 River Rd.
Westwood, NJ 07675 New Milford, NJ 07646 CareOne Respite Program includes:
www.careonevalley.com www.woodcresthcc.com u Personal care assistance
201.664.8888 201.967.1700 u 24 hour monitoring and assistance

CareOne at Wellington CareOne at Ridgewood Avenue u Daily activities and programs


301 Union St. 90 W. Ridgewood Ave. u Delicious chef prepared cuisine
Hackensack, NJ 07601 Paramus, NJ 07652 u Rehabilitation services
www.careonewellington.com www.careoneridgewoodavenue.com Wishing you good
201.487.4900 201.652.1950 u Beauty Salon and spa
health, happiness,
u Complimentary laundry prosperity and
CareOne at Oradell Harmony Village at u Beautiful grounds all the joys of
600 Kinderkamack Rd. CareOne Paramus Passover!
u Kosher Meals Available
Oradell, NJ 07649 189 Paramus Rd.
www.oradellhcc.com Paramus, NJ 07652
201.967.0002 551.276.7200

Take a virtual tour at


www.care-one.com Toll Free 877.99.CARE1

1136830

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 21


JS-22*

Local

March Mitzvah Madness


LAURA FREEMAN were over 40 pop-up stands that packed
and donated over 6,000 smile kits, activ-
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jer- ity books, and snack packs. At the mega
sey’s March Mitzvah Madness month- food drive, 8,000 lbs of food were sorted
long campaign of doing good deeds and distributed to food pantries all over

PHOTOS COURTESY JFNNJ


finished up with high scores. The cam- northern New Jersey. At the Super Sun-
paign challenged community members day phone-a-thon, almost $300,000 was
and organizations to be mitzvah entre- raised in just one day. Our community
preneurs throughout the month. There really scored big!!

Making placemats at the arts and crafts table.

Michael Semegran and family

Gabby Marcus delivering to the Center for Event sponsor George Allen of GB
Food action after hosting a pop-up Allen and Associates

Event chairs Michael Semegran, Barbara Selman,


The Opper family hosted a smile kit pop-up and Vicky Manaloy

The Halper family helps sort donations.

United
Synagogue
of Hoboken
participants
pack smile kits

Adrian Diaz and


Sarita Gross at
the March 31
food drive
Representatives of the CUMAC/Echo, Inc., a recipient agency,
pick up donations.
22 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
JS-23

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 23


Briefly Local

Rabbi David and Alla Fine, center, with Temple Israel & JCC board members,
from left, financial secretary Merille Siegel, vice presidents Howard Schreiber
and Nadine Genet, president Robert Obeiter, treasurer Evan Weitz, and
recording secretary Manny Haber. ROBERT KERN
Alan Moskin, seated middle row, center, with teen participants.
Celebrating Rabbi Fine  CHANA LAINE

and family in Ridgewood Valley Chabad teens hear


Temple Israel and Jewish Community songs by the TI-JCC choir accompanied
Center in Ridgewood celebrated the by the shul’s Bimah Band, followed by a Nazi camp liberator’s story
10th anniversary of Rabbi David and Alla tributes and presentations from Rabbi Last month, nearly 150 partic- Austria, where he was promoted
Fine’s arrival at the shul at the communi- Fine’s brothers, sons, friends, Mayor ipants attended Valley Chabad from private to staff sergeant.
ty’s annual Ways and Means dinner last Raymond Hache of Ridgewood, and Eternal Flame’s program with with This was part of the Eternal
month. The Fines were joined by their shul president Robert Obeiter. Rabbi Alan Moskin, an American soldier Flame 2019 Teen Fellowship pro-
family, friends, and members of the two Fine spoke about his family’s 10 years who told his story of participating gram, where teens learn about the
congregations within TI-JCC: Temple with the community and sang a Hebrew in the liberation of a concentration Holocaust firsthand through study,
Israel, an egalitarian Conservative con- song that he had sung to his wife at their camp, Mauthausen, and the hor- discussion, and trips. The teens
gregation and Reconstructionist Con- wedding. The evening included a dinner, rors that he witnessed. also spent a weekend in Washing-
gregation Beth Israel. a silent auction, and dancing. Alan Moskin was drafted into ton, visiting the U.S. Holocaust
The evening began with Havdalah and military service when he was Memorial Museum and attending
18 and served in the U.S. Army a part of the AIPAC conference.
during World War II. A member The Eternal Flame, a project of
of the 66th Infantry, 71st Division, Valley Chabad, is supported by a
and part of General George Pat- grant from the George and Martha
ton’s Third Army, his outfit fought Rich Foundation.
through France, Germany, and

In conjunction with National Mitzvah Day and Good Deeds Day

sunday, apriL 7
2:00-4:00 pm | Fair Lawn Jewish Center
10-10 Norma Ave, Fair Lawn, NJ 07410

Chesed begins at home


Bring the whole family and participate
in a variety of projects to take home
or give to someone else including Woodcliff Lake meets AIPAC
a friendship bracelet, bookmark, Members of Temple Emanuel of the Simone Wilker, and Norma Wal-
cork trivet and a Seder centerpiece. Pascack Valley in Woodcliff Lake went sky. Middle row, Scott Miller, Randy
Free event! | All ages welcome to the AIPAC 2019 Policy Conference Miller, Todd Stewart, Barry Blecher,
First 100 attendees will receive a National Mitzvah Day shirt. in Washington D.C. Shown here, and Cantor Alan Sokoloff. Top row,
front row, from left, are Jeffrey Levin, Marty Prince, Jonathan Levin, Jeff
For more information, please contact 201-244-6702, info@areyvut.org or visit www.areyvut.org Rabbi Loren Monosov, Nina Stewart, Steinfeld, and Robert Walsky.

24 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


UPCOMING AT KAPLEN JCC on the Palisades
JCC Dance Company Auditions
Have a child that loves to dance? Have them try out
for the JCC’s Dance Company! Our company is a
performance group that dances in various venues
around the area and is for children who are dedicated
to dancing and motivated to excel in their art.
To Schedule an Audition: Please call 201.569.7900
ext. 437 or email jmonaco@jccotp.org

Lavish Lunches
MITZVAH LUNCH WITH SENIORS

A great new option for everyone this year — join us for a


Mitzvah Luncheon at the JCC for a rewarding experience
to share a meal with seniors. Proceeds from Lavish
Lunches support Senior Adult programs at the J to
provide meaningful enrichment, stimulation, and social
opportunities for the seniors in our community.
Visit jccotp.org/lavishlunches to register
Thur, Apr 11

THE LEONARD & SYRIL RUBIN

Nursery School
Open House
3 Months-Kindergarten
Join us for a fun and groovy Shabbat
celebration at our weekly Tot Shabbat,
followed by a tour of our nursery school.
Meet our admin team, see learning in
action, and find out more about our child-
centered and progressive preschool!
Fri, Apr 12, 9:15-10:30 am
RSVP at jccotp.org/nsopenhouse

ADULTS KIDS FAMILIES

Passover Seminar School’s Out! What Now? Infant/Child CPR & First Aid
WITH RABBI REUVEN KIMELMAN The JCC has you covered! We will fill your child’s Learn prevention, recognition, and treatment of first
Why are there so many fours in the vacation with fun and laughter. With special half- aid emergencies including choking, common first aid
Haggadah? day trips for the older kids and fun entertainers emergency handling, and more in this non-certifying
Wed, Apr 17, 8:15 pm, Free and open for the younger ones, there’s something for course perfect for parents, grandparents or caregivers!
to the community. everyone! Extended care available!! Wed, Apr 10, 7:30-8:30 pm, $10/$15
Grades K-5: Trips to Bounce U, Billy Beez,
Legoland, and more!
Mon, Apr 15–Thur, Apr 18 and
Mon, Apr 22–Thur, Apr 25, 9 am-4 pm
TO REGISTER OR FOR MORE INFO
Ages 3-Pre-K: STEM, Fun w/Nature, Messy Show,
Dance, and Magic!
VISIT jccotp.org
STAY IN THE KNOW! LIKE US ON
Wed, Apr 3, Mon, Apr 22-Thur, Apr 25,
9 am-4 pm facebook.com/KaplenJCCOTP

KAPLEN JCC on the Palisades TAUB CAMPUS | 411 E CLINTON AVE, TENAFLY, NJ 07670 | 201.569.7900 | jccotp.org

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 25


Briefly Local

Eileen Pleva,
a Kaplen JCC
vice president
and event
sponsor;
author
Alexandra
Silber; event
chair Kim
Harrison, and
Kathy Graf, the
JCC’s director
The candlelight vigil in Teaneck remembering of New
the victims of the massacres at New Zealand Initiatives.
mosques reflected solemnity and solidarity by COURTESY JCCOTP
mourners of all ages. Rabbi Daniel Fridman, top
right, and Mayor Mohamed Hameedudin spoke.
 PHOTOS BY STEVE FOX JCC on the Palisades sponsors
Teaneck organizations mourn a meet with women’s authors
Nearly 100 people attended the March lunch, and book signings that allowed
victims of mosque massacres 24 “Sunday of Strong Women” pro- guests to socialize with the authors.
The Jewish Community Council of Center of Teaneck, Imam Moutaz Charaf gram at the Kaplen JCC on the Pal- Event sponsors included Kim and
Greater Teaneck, Teaneck Women of the El-Zara Mosque in Midland Park, isades in Tenafly. The morning fea- Marc Harrison, Lisa Beth and Greg
Together, and Muslim Women in Action and Yasmeen Al-Shaheeb, representing tured three writers — Angela Himsel, Meisel, Eileen and Brian Pleva, and
sponsored a candlelight vigil on the Muslim Women in Action, and Teaneck author of “A River Could Be a Tree,” Julie Segal and Mark Warner. It also
Teaneck Township Green on Tuesday, Women Together, who discussed the Susie Orman Schnall, author of “The was supported by the James H. Gross-
March 19, to show solidarity with the importance of fighting hate wherever Subway Girls,” and Alexandra Silber, mann Memorial Jewish Book Endow-
Muslim community in light of the mas- it occurs and denounced racism and author of “White Hot Grief Parade.” ment Fund.
sacres in the Al-Noor Mosque and the anti-Semitism. The names of those killed The program included a Q&A,
Linwood Islamic Center. in the massacres were read by members
Speakers included Teaneck Mayor of the Muslim Women in Action includ-
Mohamed Hameedudin, Steve Fox, rep- ing Sumaira Yousufi, Farah Hassan,
resenting the Jewish Community Coun-
cil of Greater Teaneck and the North-
Suada Catovic, and Zubaida Habibud-
din, and Teaneck Women Together, rep-
Awards brunch in New City
ern NJ Holocaust Memorial Committee, resented by Shana Dworken, Judi Samu- The Nanuet Hebrew Center in New Club, along with Diane Serratore, the
Rabbi Daniel Fridman of the Jewish els Ramos, and Jennifer Montag. City will hold its annual journal awards executive director of People to People,
ceremony and brunch reception on who will receive NHC’s Stanley Blu-
Sunday, April 7, at 9:30 a.m., at the menthal Community Service award.
Rockleigh. Honorees include past and For more information, call (845) 708-

START THE SEASON OFF RIGHT!


current presidents of the NHC’s Men’s 9181 or go to nanuethc.org.

POND CLEANOUT & SPRING STARTUP...SCHEDULE YOUR SERVICE TODAY!

COURTESY TBT

WaterWorks is a full-service pond and water feature aquatics company. From the design
and installation of new ponds, to refurbishing an existing pond, WaterWorks does it
all! Monthly maintenance, year-end closings and openings, we can even stock your pond
with colorful new fish or plants to create your ideal pond environment!
For 28 years, WaterWorks has been the pond and aquarium
specialists – for residential or commercial properties.
Wayne shul rocks to the ’80s
Speak to a Waterworks professional today! Congregants and friends of Wayne’s Temple Beth Tikvah danced to
Office: 973.664.9880 music from the live ’80s retro cover band Arena last month. Some guests
Mobile: 973.722.0664 dressed as Elton John, Axel Rose, and others, and an Italian feast, a light
show, and period drinks rounded out the evening.
Traditional Ponds • Pondless Waterfalls • Salt & Fresh Water Aquariums
Fully Insured • Est. 1991 • NJ Lic: 13VH09842000

26 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Happy
PASSOVER
Everything for your Passover table
Prices valid April 5 through April 19, 2019.

5
$ 99
Empire Fresh Kosher
Boneless Skinless
/lb.
Chicken Breast
3596522

4/$5 5 $ 99
4
$ 00 Manischewitz,
/ea.
Streit’s Matzo Ball & Acme Smoked Streit’s, Yehuda
Matzo Ball Soup Mix Nova Salmon or Aviv 5lb Matzos
Selected Varieties, 4.5 oz. pkg. 4 oz. pkg. 3411223 80 oz. pkg. 3556356
3408299

$ 99
3
Fresh Horseradish
/lb. 2/ 7
Kedem Grape
$
Kedem
2/ 4 $
2/$6
Mrs. Adler’s
3565852
Juice Apple Juice Ge�lte Fish
Selected Varieties, 64 �. oz. btl. Selected Varieties,
64 �. oz. btl. 3535578 3554696 24 oz. jar 3421622

Baking needs

2/ 5
Manischewitz Cake
$
3/ 5
Manischewitz
$
2/ 6
Gunter’s
$
2/ 6
Gefen Cake Mix
$
Meal or Matzo Meal Potato Pancake Mix Honey Bear Selected Varieties,
12–14 oz. box 3347362
Selected Varieties, 16 oz. cont. Selected Varieties, 6 oz. box 12 oz. btl. 3402272
3415600 3412798

Try something new! Sweet confections

2/ 5
Tuscanini Potato Chips
$
2/$3
Elite Chocolate Bars
2/$4
Gefen Macaroons
7
$ 99/ea.
Lilly’s Passover
Selected Varieties, 4.6 oz. pkg.
3527398
Selected Varieties, 3.5 oz. bar
3525664
Selected Varieties,
10 oz. canister 3377547
Assorted Cookies
32 oz. pkg. 3610414

Grocery

2/$5 2/$4 2/$6


79
Store Brand
¢ Manischewitz
Tam Crackers
Selected Varieties,
8 oz. pkg. 3421557
Tabatchnick
Chicken Broth
32 �. oz. cont.
3365351
Manischewitz
Egg Matzos
12 oz. pkg.
3419385

Seltzer
Selected Varieties,
33.8 �. oz. btl.
3595250
2/$5
Season Skinless & Yehuda
2/$1 2/$4
Season Flat
Boneless Sardines Memorial Candle Anchovies
Selected Varieties, 1 ct. jar 2 oz. pkg.
4.37 oz. pkg. 3421654 3352847 3421648

Use your Stop & Shop card and save on items on this page.
We sell kosher and non-kosher foods. Not all products kosher for Passover. Not all items available in all stores. While supplies last.

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 27


JS-28

Federation Scores Big with March Mitzvah Madness


Jewish Federation’s March Vicki Monaloy, of Paramus, one that provided an opportunity assembling the snack packs, they
Mitzvah Madness campaign of the Mega Food Drive co- for people to be mitzvah could participate in delivering
spread throughout northern New chairs and an active Federation entrepreneurs and “do good” in them as well.
Jersey like wildfire, encouraging volunteer, witnesses firsthand their own
community members of all ages the vital work Federation home with
to “do good”. There were three does. She is involved with their family
opportunities to do a mitzvah other Federation sponsored and friends.
throughout the month – a Super programs, including Bergen The pop-up
Sunday phone-a-thon, host or Reads. Vicki, who recently trend started
attend a Mitzvah Pop-Up, and retired, sees these opportunities in big cities
donate or pack and distribute as a meaningful way to give over the
food at the Mega Food Drive. back to the community. Vicki holidays
Each was a slam dunk in helping was busy working at different with pop-up
our community members in food collection sites all month boutiques.
need. long and even enlisted her local “Federation
hairdresser in Fair Lawn to get in brought pop-
At the March Mega Food
on the action. “When the owner ups to the
Drive, which was on March 31,
of my hair salon heard about the non-profit
hundreds of people, young
food drive, she wanted to be a world,” said
and old, sorted, packed and We packed
part of the giving and set up a Beth Figman, 100
distributed a record 8,000
collection site at the store,” said Director of SNACK PACKS
pounds of food to nine local food
Vicki. In total, there were 50 food Volunteer
shelters including Jewish Family
collection sites all over northern Resource
and Children’s Services, Center The number of donations from
New Jersey. Services at Jewish Federation.
for Food Action, Helping Hands the pop-ups during the month
Mitzvah pop-ups assembled
Food Pantry, CUMAC, Hoboken Vicki sees the food drive as a real of March was staggering. 6,685
smile kits, snack packs, or
learning opportunity. “We “packs” were delivered all over
activity books, all of which were
often have parents who bring Bergen, Passaic, and Hudson
delivered to organizations
along young kids to help pack, counties to organizations that
that need them. In total, over
and it becomes a teaching help people in need. “The
6,000 packs were donated.
experience,” she said. “We community really supported this
The recipient organizations
all have fun and, at the same program,” said Figman. “When
were overwhelmed with the
time, feel proud that we are we first started planning the
outpouring of donations.
helping others.” mitzvah pop-up program, we
Ilana Picker, a teacher for the thought maybe we would have
Barbara Selman is also a
Sinai program at Ma’ayanot High 20, but we ended up having
chair of the Mega Food
School, and her seven students over 40 — and it’s all because
Drive and a volunteer who
hosted a mitzvah pop-up stand. our community is so supportive!
is deeply committed to
The girls geared up for the People really stepped up to the
Federation’s work. She is
challenge and created flyers and plate.”
especially connected to the
posters requesting items to fill
Jewish Community Relations Jewish Federation’s work to help
snack packs. Within two weeks,
Committee which she believes the community will continue
the boxes they had placed at
is an essential outlet for throughout the year, but March
the front of the building were
Jewish advocacy. “The Jewish Mitzvah Madness catapulted
overflowing with donations, and
people make it a priority to reach efforts to a whole new level.
Emergency Food Pantry, and they had collected everything
out to other communities and, in Shames said, “As I always say,
Wayne Interfaith Network. they needed to make 100 snack
today’s climate, this is essential Federation can’t accomplish
“Even though our community is packs.
to maintain positive interfaith any of the work we do without
considered to be more affluent,
relationships,” said Barbara. “Throughout the project, the girls our volunteers, donors and
it is staggering how many people,
Jewish Federation’s work felt a sense of pride. Often they professional staff. The success
right here in our own backyard,
mirrors her own personal value are on the receiving end, but of March Mitzvah Madness was
have food insecurities,” said
system, so the work she does is here they were the givers,” said because of the community.
Federation CEO, Jason Shames.
meaningful to her. Ilana. “It was amazing to watch That’s what makes northern New
“Helping those in need is a
them take the initiative and Jersey so special.”
fundamental part of our mission The newest initiative of March
do something meaningful for
and what we accomplished this Mitzvah Madness was the To learn more about Jewish
others.” The girls were excited
month makes me very proud.” trendy mitzvah pop-up stands Federation please visit
to learn that, in addition to
www.jfnnj.org or call
Paid Advertisement 201.820.3900.
28 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019
JS-29

inn in g
W !
stats
super sunday ONE Day
$
290,456
Bram Alster
raised!
Judy Taub Gold
Co-Chairs

pop-up stands ONE Month

6,000
packs donated!

mega food drive ONE Community

8,000
Vicki Monaloy pounds of food
Barbara Selman
Michael Semegran
Co-Chairs
donated!
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey is the only organization in
northern New Jersey with the unique mission of addressing the needs of the entire
community. We are the eyes, ears and voice of your Jewish community.

Mega Food Drive Sponsors


201.820.3935
| G.B. Allen Associates, Inc. CPAs | Hearts for Hunger |
marchmitzvahmadness@jfnnj.org
Englewood & Paramus
Paramus

See more photos... follow us @jfnnj


Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 29
Cover Story

The group from Emeth gathers in Kelly Ingram Park in


Atlanta. The park was a major staging area for protests
during the struggle for civil rights. BARBARA BALKIN

Temple Emeth
looks at social justice
Fresh from a trip to the Deep South, the synagogue
welcomes former RAC head Rabbi David Saperstein Rabbi David Saperstein

Joanne Palmer their wedding for their honeymoon. She in February. there, and at times to eastern Europe

R
was 21, and it was 1964. The bodies of On both the macro and micro levels, as well, but also in shorter, more afford-
abbi David Saperstein, the the three murdered civil rights workers, the passion for civil rights and social able ones. Given the shul’s historic — and
longtime head of the Reform James Chaney, Andrew Goodman, and justice is embedded in Temple Emeth’s ongoing — interest in civil rights, and
movement’s Religious Action Michael Schwerner, had just been found DNA, a combination of the guiding val- given also that the new Legacy Museum:
Committee — who resigned in Mississippi. “I was talking to some ues of the Reform movement to which From Enslavement to Mass Incarcer-
that position to become President man in the airport, some man from Flor- it belongs and the passion of Rabbi ation had opened in Montgomery, it
Barack Obama’s ambassador at large for ida, about how horrible it was,” she said. Sigel, its rabbi emeritus, who was vitally seemed likely that a trip to that and
international religious freedom — will “And his response was, well, if they’d important in Teaneck’s own struggle for other civil rights landmarks would be
talk about many aspects of social justice only minded their own business… integration in the 1960s. (Again, macro interesting to the handful of synagogue
as the Rabbi Louis J. Sigel scholar in resi- “My jaw dropped,” she said. “I didn’t and micro, intertwined.) members necessary for a trip.
dence at Temple Emeth in Teaneck next know what to say. I wouldn’t forget it. I Temple Emeth’s trip grew out a dis- “I’m also the chair of the social action
weekend. (See box.) didn’t forget it. I remember it now.” cussion that Lynn and Steve Chaiken committee,” Ms. Chaiken said. “This
His is a macro vision. That is a micro insight into the larger of Teaneck had with its rabbi, Steven year, we looked at three huge areas — rac-
Jackie Guttman of Englewood, a long- phenomena that Rabbi Saperstein will Sirbu. “The temple takes a trip every ism, the environment, and immigration.”
time member of Temple Emeth, remem- talk about, and it was evoked by a six- two or three years, generally to Israel,” All those issues are connected. “Teaneck
bers being at a New York airport with day trip to civil rights sites in the Deep Ms. Chaiken said. That stoked members’ is a very integrated town, it tries to be
her husband, Howard; they had just left South that a Temple Emeth group took interest not only in the regular trips diverse — and it all made sense.”
30 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019
JS-31

Cover Story

So they started planning the trip,


working with the Jackson, Mis-
sissippi-based nonprofit Gol-
dring/Woldenberg Institute of
Southern Jewish Life.
“We announced it on Rosh
Hashanah,” Ms. Chaiken said.
“We thought eventually we’d
hear from 25 people. Thirty at
most.” In three days, 50 peo-
ple signed up — more than they
thought they could manage,
and the number at which they
drew a line. The participants
ranged in age from the woman
who celebrated her 80th birth- Howard Lieberman looks at photographs at the the Center
day on the trip to two women in for Civil and Human Rights in Atlanta. BARBARA BALKIN
their 30s, but most were retir-
ees, the Chaikens said. Chaiken said. Still, she Ms. Guttman found that although
The group flew to Atlanta, continued, “We didn’t the bigger museums are powerful, at
and then took a bus to Mont- go any place that was times the smaller, more intimate ones
gomery, Birmingham, and terribly preachy. You could penetrate her soul even more
Selma. Their itinerary included just absorb all the deeply. She talked about the Legacy
both museums and syna- information, and you
gogues. “We went to the last put it together.
Samuel Walker, who as a child walked in the Selma-to-Mont­
temple in Selma, Temple Mish- Ms. Guttman went
gomery march in 1965, led the group through the National
kan Israel,” Ms. Chaiken said. on the trip, she said,
“It’s a beautiful building. If we
Voting Rights Museum.  BARBARA BALKIN
because she wanted I think that all
understood it properly, there
are only four Jews there. They’re trying
me understand more about how com-
parable it is. We are talking about more
to learn more about
the civil rights movement than she had
of us on the
to maintain the building.” They were in than four million people sold into slav- known when she was living through it. trip were to
Birmingham on Shabbat, and had din-
ner and went to services at Temple Ema-
ery, not allowed to have any kind of free-
dom, who died of slavery. I also started
She’d gone to college in the early 1960s
in Pottsdam, way up in northernmost
one degree or
nu-El there. looking not as much at reparations as at New York State; in that way-pre-internet another
“Emanu-El in Birmingham is where
Milton Grafman was the rabbi in the
reconciliations.
“We don’t own up to our past in
and even-more-pre-social-media time,
she could learn about current events, as
overwhelmed
1960s,” Rabbi Sirbu said. “He was one of America,” Mr. Chaiken said. “Everyone they then were called, only on “the one with what we
the eight clergymen who wrote to Mar-
tin Luther King, asking him not to come
just blows it off. They say, ‘It’s been 100
years. Just get over yourselves.’ One of
television set in the lounge in the dorm.
“When I look back at it now, it is
were seeing
to Birmingham. They told him that they the focuses of the Legacy Museum is the amazing how poorly informed we and learning.
had their own plan. Of course, King did subtitle, ‘From Slavery to Mass Incar- were.” Then, later, as a young married
go to Birmingham, and his ‘Letter from ceration.’ The slavery is gone, but the woman, “we were activist types, and Museum and the National Memorial for
Birmingham Jail’ is explicitly addressed oppression is not. we sent donations, but we didn’t go to Peace and Justice; she found the garden
to them.” “In Berlin, there is a Holocaust demonstrations. We were too wrapped where a coffin-like shape hanging from
Both Chaikens found the trip pro- museum in the middle of the city. That up in our babies.” But now, looking at rafters overhead and sticking starkly up
foundly moving. “I never really under- doesn’t mean that everyone supports these museums and streets where terri- from the ground represented victims of
stood the comparisons between the it, but it is there. Here, in America, we ble history had happened, “I think that lynching or other kinds of racially-tinged
Holocaust and the history of slav- don’t talk about our sins.” all of us on the trip were to one degree murder breathtaking and terrifying.
ery in our country until I saw all this “We don’t teach enough about what or another overwhelmed with what we There are more than 4,400 names, she
together,” Ms. Chaiken said. “It made happened in the United States,” Ms. were seeing and learning.” said, an almost unbearable number of
Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 31
JS-32

Cover Story

names. But still she was if possible even more moved


by the smaller spaces. She talked about the Freedom
Riders Bus Museum in Montgomery, a “former Grey-
hound station,” she said. “It’s one room, and it is so
powerful that I was crying. All the headlines started
coming back to me.”
She saw “a picture of John Lewis as a young man.”
He’d been a civil rights worker then, beaten and jailed,
getting up and doing it again anyway. “I remembered
that at Barack Obama’s first inauguration, he was on
the platform, and the camera caught him, and he was
crying. I was so moved by the picture of him as a young
man, thinking about how far he has come. He’s been a
representative for 17 terms” — Mr. Lewis, a Democrat,
has represented Georgia’s fifth district in Congress
since 1987.
“The times haven’t changed enough — but they have
changed a lot,” she said.
She also has thought a great deal about how “we can
sit here smugly, thinking that the South has to keep
making apologies, but it’s only by virtue of the fact that
the North has a different climate that we didn’t have
slavery here too. If the climate were like the South’s,
we could have.
“Also, New Jersey was the last Northern state to out-
law slavery,” she added. (Slavery was abolished in the
state in 1804 but was phased out very gradually; the
The coffin-shaped stones in the National Memorial for Peace and Justice in Montgomery memorialize last 13 slaves in New Jersey were freed in 1865.) “We
victims of racist violence by name. BARBARA BALKIN as a nation can’t just keep thinking of it as a Southern

REGISTER · DONATE · CREATE A TEAM


MOTHER’S DAY, SUNDAY, MAY 12
JCCOTP.ORG/RUBINRUN
EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT UNTIL APRIL 14

8K TRAIL RUN *
10K RUN
5K RUN/WALK
NEW! HEALTH EXPO
For more info: rubinrun@jccotp.org or 201.408.1404

WE THANK OUR 2019 LEAD SPONSORS

THE KAPLEN FOUNDATION

THE RUBIN FAMILY THE RUBACH FAMILY

supporting individuals with special needs * Trail run open to ages 15+; recommended for experienced runners.
All giveaways while supplies last. Please arrive early on race-day. Shuttle parking available.

KAPLEN JCC on the Palisades TAUB CAMPUS | 411 E CLINTON AVE, TENAFLY, NJ 07670 | 201.569.7900 | jccotp.org

32 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019


JS-33

Cover Story

issue,” she said. “I would like to see historical markers


throughout the country.” They’d show where historical
events connected to slavery happened. “It would be a
modest way of acknowledging what happened here,”
she said.
“As we came back with a renewed commitment
to carrying on the unfinished work of the civil rights
movement, criminal justice reform is at the top of the
list,” Rabbi Sirbu said.
This leads logically to Rabbi Saperstein’s weekend at
Temple Emeth.
David Saperstein is a lawyer as well as a rabbi; “for 40
years, he has been the face of the Reform movement’s
social justice initiative,” Rabbi Sirbu said. Because of
Temple Emeth’s longstanding interest in social justice,
“it seemed like a perfect fit to invite him in 2015.” He
did, and “Rabbi Saperstein accepted the invitation —
but then he had to step away, when he was appointed
to the position of ambassador for religion by the Obama
administration.
“But we kept him in mind all this time, because he is
such a talented teacher, and now we are an even better
fit for him, because our politics have become so frac-
tured, and even though the RAC” — that’s the Reform
movement’s Religious Action Committee — “has a lib-
eral bent, it is committed to a nonpartisan mission.
“And even though Rabbi Saperstein is no longer its
director, he still speaks passionately about this message
that Temple Emeth members really take to heart. The group gathers in front of Temple Mishkan Israel in Selma. BARBARA BALKIN

NVE-193604 1Q IRA CD Ad 5x6.5_NVE-193604 1Q IRA CD Ad 5x6.5 3/21/19 2:35 PM Page 1

Get on the road to retirement.

NVE Bank’s 25-Month IRA CD


is only available through
April 15!
2.50 on our
25-Month IRA CD
%
APY*

1887 201
9

SPECIAL
Visit or call your local NVE branch. New Funds Required
Bergenfield: Englewood: New Milford:
135 N. Washington Ave. 201-384-4000 70 Engle St. 201-816-2810 400 River Rd. 201-261-3850
Closter: 42 W. Hudson Ave. 201-816-2814 Teaneck:
175 Homans Ave. 201-784-6436 Hillsdale: 740 Palisade Ave. 201-692-2902
Cresskill: 159 Broadway 201-664-4576 1505 Teaneck Rd. 201-816-2824
189 County Rd. 201-816-2822 Leonia: Tenafly:
310 Broad Ave. 201-816-2826 80 County Rd. 201-816-2820

www.nve.bank

*Annual Percentage Yield (APY) is effective as of 3/25/19 and subject to change without notice. Penalty for early withdrawal.
Offer available through 4/15/19. New funds required. Other terms and rates available. Fees could reduce earnings on the
account. Minimum amount of $5,000 is required to open this account. Maximum amount of $250,000 per tax ID. Interest
payments are rounded to the nearest cent. As a result, low balance accounts may not be paid interest. Available only to
persons who reside or work in New Jersey. Your contributions may be tax deductible. Consult your tax advisor. NVE Bank is
not responsible for any typographical errors.

Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 33


JS-34

Jewish World

Rockland Bakery
Come for all your Passover needs!

Kosher for Passover Macaroons, Flourless Cakes, and More


Quality, our main ingredient, is in everything we bake!
United Kosher supervision Rabbi Yaacov Spivack

94 Demarest Mill Road, Nanuet, NY 10954


Phone (845) 623-5800 • Fax (845) 623-6921
www.rocklandbakery.com From left, tour guide Nora Katz, Steve and Lynn Chaiken, and Rabbi Steve
Sirbu stand by the Edmund Pettus Bridge in Selma. BARBARA BALKIN

Brightview. “When it comes to issues like liberal economic thought in the last

Bright Life! anti-Semitism and religious freedom,


his expertise has only grown in the last
four years since his ambassadorship,”
100 years,” he said, previewing his dis-
cussion, which will be in much greater
depth. “A lot has to do with the role of
a position that ended when Donald J. the public sector. Conservatives believe
Trump replaced Barack Obama in the that there is an inherent justice at work
White House. in the capitalist free market, and that
The overall title of Rabbi Saperstein’s governmental intervention invariably
four talks, which will be delivered from causes more harm than good. You
Friday night through Sunday morning, intervene only as a last resort. Liberals
is the formidable if hopeful “Being in tend to believe that there is no inherent
the Hands of God: Jewish Social Justice justice in the capitalist system, and that
at a Time of Crisis and Opportunity.” wealth will function in a way to protect
“They asked me to cover a broad its own interests, and therefore it is not
range of issues of concern to the Jew- only the right but also the responsibility
Independent Living: It’s the carefree ish community,” Rabbi Saperstein said. of government to force the system to be
retirement you’ve dreamed of! At Brightview, “I am going to give an overview of a more fair and equal.
Let Your all you have to do is what you want to do. number of issues that we confront both “If you look at the question of the role

Life
domestically and internationally, and I of the public sector in the era of the Tal-
will try to place them in the context of mud, you see that the rabbis developed
Bright Assisted Living: Highly trained
associates provide the care you need.
the values of the Jewish tradition.
“I will address issues such as global
perhaps the first social welfare system,”
he continued. “When a town developed

Shine Wellspring Village®:


climate change, the battle over voting
rights, some of the tensions in the civil
to a certain size, it had to develop funds
to help the poor and maintain schools,
at Bergen County’s Premier Compassionate professionals rights arena, particularly between civil at least for all the boys, and the local
deliver our highly specialized rights and religious freedom. I’ll go government regulated the marketplace.
Senior Living Community dementia care program into depth on some economic issues, It is more akin to the liberals’ view.”
and on how one might use the Jewish In another talk, he’ll consider cli-
in a state-of-the-art
tradition to shape what our public pol- mate change, an issue that is hugely
neighborhood.
icy positions ought to be. The Reform resonant with young people, Rabbi
movement derives its positions from Saperstein said. “We’ll explore what
our tradition and applies it to some of the Jewish tradition has to say about
Call Mary or Marianne to the issues in front of us,” he continued. the obligation to protect the world, to
schedule your personal visit.
Specifically? “In the health care realm protect the poor and the vulnerable,
201.479.9437 and in terms of unemployment and of a and we’ll look at the rules for protec-
396 Forest Avenue • Paramus, NJ 07652 minimum versus a living wage,” he said. tion that go back to biblical times, in
www.BrightviewParamus.com One of his talks is about economic terms of air and water.
justice. “Look at the fundamental dis- “There are a range of examples in our
tinction between conservative and tradition that talk to our responsibility
34 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019
JS-35

Jewish World

to protect God’s creation,” he contin- Rabbi Saperstein said. “There also is a campaigns since the turn of this cen- freedom around the world; at anti-Sem-
ued. “We will look at the concept of bal deep concern with the concept of reli- tury. It’s certainly a target-rich subject. itism and Islamophobia and the per-
tashchit, the mandate not to waste, and gious freedom in Jewish law. So this is “I’ll look at how religion has been used, secution of particularly vulnerable
we’ll look at some of the facts on climate not resolved by the tradition.” His dis- how candidates use it, what is and is not groups, minority Syrian populations, the
change. The implications of that will be cussion, therefore, “will be more about permitted, what is and is not appropri- Rohingya, the Uighurs, and I’ll talk about
particularly important for the younger helping people understand the legal ate, what is and is not wise,” he said. “I’ll how we can be effective in responding to
generation.” issues and what implications they have look at a range of examples, and then I’ll it.” In that talk in particular, Rabbi Saper-
Then there’s religious freedom. “The in terms of the Jewish community.” open it up to discussion. stein will be able to draw on the experi-
issue is the clash between religious Different parts of the Jewish commu- “And finally, I’ll look at religious ence he had as ambassador.
freedom and civil rights claims,” Rabbi nity are likely to have different opin-
Saperstein said. “The bakeshop case.” ions on the question, he added. “The
Who: Rabbi David Saperstein
(He’s talking about the recent case in Orthodox tend to say that if you have to
Colorado where a baker did not want balance the two” — that’s religious free- What: Will be the Louis J. Sigel Scholar in Residence
to make a wedding cake for a gay cou- dom and civil rights — “they’d come out Where: At Temple Emeth, 1666 Windsor Road, Teaneck
ple, claiming that he’d have to exercise in favor of religious freedom, and we” When: From April 12 to April 14
his artistic talent and therefore seem — that’s liberal Jews — “tend to say that
To be specific:
to approve of an action he found unac- protecting civil rights is compelling.”
ceptable according to the tenets of his Does he look at these questions as a The whole program is called “Being in the Hands of God: Jewish Social Justice
at a Time of Crisis and Opportunity”
religion. The Supreme Court ruled in rabbi or as a lawyer? “I don’t see any
favor of the baker on technical grounds, bifurcation,” he said. “If you think about At Shabbat evening services at 8, Rabbi Saperstein will talk about “Tough
leaving the issue alive.) “I don’t know the positions that the Jewish movements Choices: Jewish Perspectives on America’s Social Justice Challenge.”
that there is a distinctive Jewish under- and organizations take, we all take pub- On Saturday morning, at Torah study at 9, he will address “The Jewish Re-
standing because Jewish law protects lic policy positions, and each decides sponse: Economic Justice: Testing the Morality of Our Nation.”
the civil rights and fundamental dignity in our own way how to apply law and On Saturday afternoon, at 1, he’ll look at “Religious Persecution and Religious
and equality of all people, and supports history lessons we draw from the Jewish Freedom Across the Globe.
the structure of law in our society, which tradition to contemporary issues.” It’s an On Sunday morning, he’ll take on “Racing with God: The Use and Abuse of Re-
ensures that people may not be discrim- integrated process, he suggested. ligion in American Elections.”
inated against because of protected cat- He’ll also talk about how religion
For more information, go to the synagogue’s website, www.emeth.org.
egories, which include ethnic identity,” has been used in American political

Check Out Our Great CD Rates!

6 Month CD* 1 Year CD*

2 15 
% APY
2 50 
% APY

Visit our Monsey branch today! 75 Route 59, Monsey Town Square (Evergreen Kosher Market Center)
Anita Levine, VP, Branch Manager • 845-425-0189
Open Sunday from 9AM - 1PM

www.applebank.com Established 1863 · Member FDIC

Annual Percentage Yields (APYs) disclosed are effective as of 1/1/2019 and may be changed by the Bank at any time. *CDs require a $1,000 minimum balance to open and earn interest. Early withdrawal
penalty may apply. CDs must be opened in person at an Apple Bank branch. Offer may be withdrawn at any time without prior notice.

apple bk - JEWISH STANDARD - TWO CDS 1-1-2019.indd 1 Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 11:59:34
1/7/2019 2019 AM 35
Grand Opening 9,000 square foot
PASSOVER SUPER STORE, Sunday, March 31, 9 am
Largest all Kosher Supermarket in Rockland, Hudson & Bergen County

Whole
Wheat Egg Matzo
Matzo Matzos Farfel Lollycones
10.50 Oz 12 Oz 14 Oz. 3 Oz

4/$5 $
2 99 $
2 99 $
299
Matzo Ball
Mix or Matzo
Cake Matzo Matzo Ball & Soup
Meal Meal Meal Mix
Canister - 16 Oz 16 Oz 27 Oz Low Sodium, 4.50 Oz
$
2 99 $
2 89 $
4 49
4/$5

Matzo Matzos Cake Egg


5 Pack 5 Pack Meal Matzos
1 Lb Boxes 1 Lb Boxes Canister - 16 Oz 12 Oz.

7
$ 99 $
10 99 $
2 99 $
299
Cake
Matzo Mix Fruit Matzo
Meal Assorted Flavors - Slices Meal
Canister - 16 Oz 11/14 Oz. Gift Pack - 8 Oz 16 Oz
$
2 99 $
4 29 $
3 49 $
329
YEHUDA
Extra Virgin
Gefilta Olive Oil
Fish Cooking Mandlen Matzos
Sweet Or Original Spray For Soup 5 Pack
Jar - 24 Oz 6 Oz. Box - 1 Oz 1 Lb Boxes
$
3 89
2/$4 2/$4 $
1199

Whole
Sweet N Peeled Cranberry Matzo
Sour Duck Cooked Sauce Crumbs
Sauce Beets Jellied Or Whole Berry Asorted Varieties - 12
40 Oz. 17.60 Oz - 16 Oz Oz.
$
299 2/$3 2/$3 $
339

Stuffing Noodles
Mix or Ziti Quinoa
Borscht Homestyle Or Onion Assorted Varieties - 9 Tri Color Or White -
32 Oz. - 5 Oz Oz Pouch - 16 Oz
$
189 $
299 $
279 $
449
TO OUR VALUED CUSTOMERS!
Join our mailing list, get
Please remember that you must give your phone number to the
cashier at checkout to receive all of our amazing specials. We are so instant access to specials,
or follow the link
http://tinyurl.com/
FORMERLY PATHMARK
36 JEWISH
proud to have you as partAPRIL
STANDARD of the Evergreen
5, 2019MEMBERS ONLY Family. coupons, & exclusive offers: evergreenkosher SHOPPING CENTER
Passover Deals @ N OW O P E N:
MEAT
DEPARTMENT
COMPLETELY
KOSHER FOR
PASSOVER
FISHERY
Check out our new FISH DEPARTMENT
Large Variety of Fresh Fish, Ready To Bake, Frozen Gefilte Fish, GOODMAN’S
Classic Onion
Cooked Gefilte Fish, All Kosher For Passover
Gefilta Soup Mix
Fish Place Your Order at Fishorder@Evergreenkosher.com 2.75 Oz
s $
3 75 Let us know what day you want to pick it up.
5/$5
TABATCHNICK
CAMILLE BLOCH
Torino Classic AUFSCHNITT
Tentations Wholesome HADDAR
Beef
tzo Giftpack Chicken Kosher Jerky
p Milk Or Parve Broth Salt Assorted Varieties
6.66 Oz. 32 Oz 16 Oz - 2 Oz

Oz
$
699 2/$4 2/$2 $
469
HOLLYWOOD LIPTON
Safflower KEDEM Matzo
Oil Concord HADDAR Ball Mix
32 Oz. Grape Grape 4.50 Oz
$
5 99 Juice
22 Oz.
Juice
64 Oz.
$
199
3/$6 $
299 SEA CASTLE
Organic
MISHPACHA Seaweed
Macaroons EXPIRES 4/30/19
Snacks
Assorted Flavors
10 Oz. SAVE Sea Salt Or Spicy -
0.35 Oz.

2/$5 2/$4
299
No returns on seasonal items, Not responsible for typographical errors - While supplies last - No rain checks
SEASON
$
Olive w/ coupon only

Oil
Extra Light Or Extra AVIV
Virgin - 33.80 Oz
Matzo 5 Pack 1 Lb Boxes
2/$10 $
899
EMPIRE
Chicken JASON

Broth GUNTER’S
Seasoned
Brisket Reduced Honey Coating
Sauce Sodium Bear Crumbs
12 15 Oz
Assorted Flavors - 32 Oz 12 Oz
25 Oz $
299 $
299
$
399
4
$ 99

NESCAFE
Rich & Full HEAVEN & EARTH
PAESANA
Pasta ‫חג‬
General
Tso’s Sauce
Original
Coffee
7 Oz
Veggie
Croutons
Sauce
Marinara Or Tomato ‫כשר‬
!‫ושמח‬
14 Oz 5 Oz & Basil - 25 Oz
$
449 $
299 2/$4 $
449

59 ROUTE 59, MONSEY, NY 10952 CALL 845.352.4400 | FAX 845.352.4410 | EMAIL INFO@EVERGREENKOSHER.COM
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 37
Jewish World

THE THERAPY GYM EXPANDS


Aquatic Therapy
Now Sundays and Fridays
PT • OT • SPEECH • SOCIAL SKILLS
BEHAVIORAL THERAPY/ABA
YOGA 4-7 YO • ZUMBINI N-4 YO
INFANT MASSAGE N-12 MO

205 W. Englewood Ave, Teaneck, NJ


201-357-0417 • www.thetherapygym.com
We b i l l i n s u r a n c e f o r y o u S O Y O U D O N ' T H AV E T O !

Orthodox Jewish men look through books stacked on a sidewalk in


Crown Heights on February 25, 2019. SPENCER PLATT/GETTY IMAGES

www.haroldskosher.com FIRST PERSON

Reporter encounters
Kosher Market anti-Semitism on the
streets of New York
FEATURING FRESH BEEF, VEAL, LAMB, POULTRY
SAM SOKOL bit like a mirror reflecting the cur-
ONE OF THE
WE’RE PROUD TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY
rent zeitgeist.
CTIONS FOR OVER 80 YEARS
LARGEST SELE WITH SELECTION, QUALITY AND SERVICE Evidently I’m a “f•••ing Jew bastard.” “I’m not sure you can properly
FO ODS &
OF PASSOVER Open Sun. April 14, 8-5 & Fri. April 19, 8-3 Earlier this month, I had just gauge the state of anti-Semitism based
GROCER IE S arrived in New York City on a visit. I on this one hobo,” Eddy later told
Open during Passover April 22, 23, 24, 25 was walking along the street in Chel- me. “That said, random anti-Semi-
sea, chatting with Eddy Portnoy, a tism like this only seems to happen if
PREPARED FOODS STRICTLY KOSHER
FOR PASSOVER Yiddish scholar and the author of the you’re wearing Jewish gear.” (I wear a
ROAST TURKEY, RAW WT. SIZES: 12-15-20 +UP WITH GRAVY ..................... 6.00 LB
ROAST TURKEY BREAST, RAW WT. 6 LB AVG ................................................. 8.25 LB wonderful book “Bad Rabbi,” when small, blue-knit kippah.) “To be hon-
STUFFED BREAST OF VEAL - BY THE SLICE .................................................. 9.99 LB a homeless man approached us and est, a lot of charedim walk around
BRISKET OF BEEF ............................................................................................. 26.99 LB
began screaming. At first I brushed it in that area and I wonder if the guy
ROAST CHICKEN, 2 1/4 LB AVERAGE-BY THE CHICKEN ............................. 6.99 LB
STUFFED CHICKEN BREAST W/VEGETABLES - BY THE PIECE .................. 14.00 LB off. While I have lived in Israel for the harassed them.”
STUFFED CORNISH HENS ............................................................................... 14.95 EA past 14 years, I grew up in Manhattan, Several nights later, after deliver-
SWEET & SOUR MEATBALLS, 1 1/2 LB., BY CONTAINER .......................14.95 TRAY
GRILLED SALMON, BY THE PIECE ................................................................. 18.99 LB
and such behavior was just the back- ing a speech on Holocaust distortion
CHICKEN MARSALA OR VEAL MARSALA ..................................................... 18.99 LB ground hum of life in the big city. As at a local think tank, I went out for a
OVEN BROWNED POTATOES, 1 1/2 LB., BY TRAY .....................................9.99 TRAY such, it took a second for his words to drink with a friend who commented
CARROT TZIMMES, 2 LB. - BY CONTAINER ..............................................15.95 TRAY
MATZO PUDDING - BY TRAY ...................................... SMALL $12.95 LARGE $28.95 penetrate my brain. that he had experienced similar rhet-
MATZO STUFFING - BY TRAY ..................................... SMALL $12.95 LARGE $28.95 “F•••ing Jew bastards,” he ranted. oric on the street a couple of times in
POTATO PUDDING - BY TRAY .................................... SMALL $12.95 LARGE $28.95
BROCCOLI SOUFFLE - BY TRAY ............................... SMALL $12.95 LARGE $28.95
“Heil Hitler.” recent years.
VEGETABLE SOUFFLE - BY TRAY ............................... SMALL $12.95 LARGE $28.95 I was shocked, but also, in a per- Given that the New York Police
MATZO PANCAKES 2 PER PACKAGE -BY PACKAGE ................................. 7.00 PKG. verse way, comforted. As a journalist, Department reported last year that
POTATO PANCAKES, 2 PER PACKAGE - BY PACKAGE ............................. 7.00 PKG.
MUSHROOM ONION FARFEL, 1 1/4 LB - BY TRAY ..................................11.95 TRAY I have written about anti-Semitism anti-Semitic hate crimes in the city
MATZO BALLS, 6 PER TRAY - BY TRAY .......................................................8.39 TRAY for years. I’ve had coffee with Hamas were up 25 percent over 2017, I
STUFFED CABBAGE - 2 PER TRAY - BY TRAY...........................................12.95 TRAY
CHOPPED LIVER, 1 LB. MINIMUM, BY THE POUND .................................... 11.99 LB
members, chatted with European thought it would be interesting to go
GEFILTE FISH, BY EVEN NUMBER ONLY .......................................................... 3.89 EA ultranationalists, and have written through the process my co-religionists
CHICKEN SOUP .................................................................................................. 8.99 QT a soon-to-be-published book on the would face after reporting their own
HOMEMADE HORSERADISH_____WHITE_____RED ..................................4.29 12 OZ.
CHAROSES, 1 LB. MINIMUM, BY THE POUND ............................................. 12.99 LB instrumentalization of anti-Semitism brushes with the oldest hatred. Recent
CRANBERRY PINEAPPLE RELISH, BY THE POUND ....................................... 8.99 LB in modern hybrid war. But I’ve never incidents included the smashing of the
SEDER PLATES ................................................................................................. 19.95 EA
CHEF'S SALAD - BY THE POUND ..................................................................... 7.99 LB
experienced anti-Semitism aimed at front window of a synagogue in Bush-
me personally. It was as if, as a jour- wick, Brooklyn (prompting the city to
The Deli Department will have a full selection of Salads, Cooked Food & Catering nalist, I was exempt. increase security for Jewish houses
• Imported & Domestic Cheeses • A Full Selection of Chocolates • Passover Ice Cream
• Fresh Baked Cakes & Cookies • Full line of Frozen Foods
As Eddy and I continued walking, of worship), the kicking of a stroller
OUR KITCHEN IS STRICTLY KOSHER FOR PASSOVER UNDER RABBINICAL SUPERVISION my anger warred with my relief that pushed by a Jewish woman, a number
my first experience of anti-Semitism of beatings, and several incidents of
67 A E. Ridgewood Ave. was so innocuous. I felt as if I were vandalism and arson.
Opp Lord & Taylor
overdue. It wasn’t a particularly mem- I called up Alex Rosemberg, the
Paramus, NJ • 201-262-0030 orable experience, we both decided, associate regional director for New
Hours: Mon., Tues. & Wed. 8 A.M.-6 P.M.; Thurs. 8 A.M.- 7 P.M.; Fri. 8 A.M.- 4 P.M.; Sun. 8-3; Closed Sat.
WE ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR TYPOGRAPHICAL ERRORS
but it seemed significant in that the York and New Jersey for the Anti-Defa-
homeless man’s words seemed a mation League, and asked him to run
38 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
Jewish World

me through the procedure. He pointed religion-based hate crimes. However, feel that their plight has not received “Regardless if the developer and the
me to his organization’s online incident Rosemberg noted that the overall level sufficient attention, with one prominent landowner is doing it legally or ille-
reporting form. of anti-Semitic sentiment has remained community figure telling me that he gally, if you go and beat an innocent Jew
On average, Rosemberg said, he mostly flat, hovering between 12 and 15 believed that this was because the vic- because you feel that the person who
receives an average of 23 complaints a percent for years. tims were charedi Jews. raised your rent is Jewish, you target an
week, not all of which end up being cat- “What has changed, he said, “is the “There’s no question that it’s not innocent Jew. That’s the very definition
egorized as anti-Semitic or racist inci- emboldenment of the people that think getting the same media attention as in of anti-Semitism.”
dents. After receiving a complaint, his that way to act out. People feel embold- other places and I don’t know why,” However, despite the increase in inci-
team investigates to determine if the ened to act out because of the climate, local activist Rabbi Yaacov Behrman dents, it’s important not to exagger-
incident rises to the level of a hate crime. because of the way national rhetoric has agreed. “I think that part of it’s because ate the level of concern, said Rabbi Eli
The ADL also proactively monitors the been shaped.” when the victims are chasidic Jews, it’s Cohen, executive director of the Crown
media to spot incidents, often contact- Overall, he told me, the relatively less important to some people. But more Heights Jewish Community Council.
ing the NYPD to check if they heard large number of anti-Semitic incidents importantly because it’s not part of the “We’ve seen more [anti-Semitism] in
about a specific occurrence. in New York compared to other regions overall agenda. If they can’t link it to the Crown Heights because of the proxim-
In the case of Brooklyn, which has does stem from an increase in cases, but far right, they are not as interested in ity of having a very mixed community,
“seen a marked increase in assaults,” also reflects both an increased willing- reporting it.” but the old narrative of two communi-
Rosemberg said that his organization ness to report and the fact that New York Behrman likely was alluding to the fact ties facing off in Crown Heights isn’t
has found it “incredibly important to has a larger concentration of Jews than that many of the suspects arrested by the what’s happening,” he said. “We’re not
respond when every single one of these other parts of the country. police have been young men of color. seeing that at all. The leadership level
incidents occurs.” However, neither the ADL nor the He said that part of the problem in [of the local] communities have a good
In the early 1990s, the ADL was NYPD has been able to “see one marked Crown Heights is gentrification, and that relationship. We don’t hear the same
harshly criticized by many chasidim for political or racial or ethnic or national low-income residents see the Orthodox rhetoric we heard in the ‘90s. From that
what they saw as its failure to respond to tendency in any of these incidents,” he Jews and Jewish property owners as point of view, I think I see it more in the
the Crown Heights riots, which featured said, referring to the perpetrators. “It’s vanguards of their displacement. “Peo- context of the phenomenon we’ve seen
widespread attacks against Jews. really random. If you talk to the hate ple can’t afford to live here anymore,” around the city, and certainly some of it
Late last year the FBI reported that crimes task force they will tell you the he said. “Now there’s this lie being ped- is better reporting of incidents not pre-
overall, hate crimes increased by 17 same thing.” dled around that somehow the Jews are viously reported.
percent in 2017, with hate crimes In Crown Heights, which has seen a being protected from gentrification and “I wouldn’t put it at the level of a com-
against Jews rising by more than a third significant uptick in violent anti-Semitic are not affected and some of the devel- munity under siege.”
and accounting for 58 percent of all incidents in recent months, some people opers are Jewish.  JTA WIRE SERVICE

E N G L E W O O D ' S P L A N T B A S E D C A F E

2 3 W E S T P A L I S A D E A V E
E N G L E W O O D , N J

2 0 1 . 5 0 3 . 2 3 2 3

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 39


Jewish World

Jewish groups appoint Lithuania’s genocide studies


co-chairs for task force center engages in Holocaust
on anti-religious violence denial, local Jews say
RON KAMPEAS addressing threats,” a joint ADL-SCN CNAAN LIPHSHIZ center’s claims, threatening to take
release said. legal action unless they are retracted.
WASHINGTON — Two former home- The Trump administration’s Home- Lithuania’s state body for preserving The community said the text
land security secretaries will co-chair a land Security Department recently dis- the memory of the Holocaust broke “contains features which are crimes
task force convened by national Jewish banded an intelligence unit that tracked the country’s laws against denying that under the Lithuanian criminal code,
organizations aimed at tracking anti-re- right-wing violence. The move drew genocide, local Jews said. namely, denial or gross belittlement
ligious violence. criticism from groups that track hate The controversy surrounding the of the Holocaust.”
The task force, announced last week, crimes. The alleged Pittsburgh killer was Center for the Study of the Genocide The text was a defense of Jonas
is a joint project of the Anti-Defamation a white supremacist who blamed Jews and Resistance of Residents of Lithu- Noreika, the wartime governor of the
League and Secure Community Net- for supporting what he called an “inva- ania is the latest in a series of actions Lithuanian Šiauliai district under the
work, a Jewish self-defense initiative. sion” of migrants into the United States. that the country’s critics say is a gov- Nazis. Many historians believe he
Its co-chairs are Jeh Johnson, the “This move defies logic,” said Jon- ernment-sponsored campaign to oversaw and profited personally from
Homeland Security secretary under athan A. Greenblatt, ADL’s CEO and exculpate its people from its substan- the dispossession and murder of the
President Barack Obama, and Michael national director, about the closing of tial complicity in the murder of 85 district’s Jews.
Chertoff, who held the job under Presi- the Homeland Security branch focused percent of the country’s 170,000 Jews. Last month, a Lithuanian judge
dent George W. Bush. Johnson is African on domestic terrorism. “The current Last month, the center published dismissed as “ill-based” an Ameri-
American, and Chertoff is Jewish. administration has been chipping away a text claiming that “the Lithuanians can Jew’s lawsuit against the center,
The initiative arose after the attack on at our nation’s ability to address a deadly operated against the will of the Ger- demanding it take down a plaque
a Pittsburgh synagogue complex in Octo- serious national security threat: right- mans” during World War II and that commemorating Noreika.
ber that killed 11 Jewish worshippers, the wing extremism. To simply disregard “the residents of occupied Lithuania “Noreika belonged to the anti-
worst anti-Jewish attack in U.S. history. this threat, especially after what we wit- in 1941 didn’t understand ghettos as Nazi underground of Šiauliai which
“The task force will develop best nessed in Pittsburgh, Charlottesville, part of the Holocaust.” rescued Jews. Noreika helped those
practices to increase coordination and Charleston, and even overseas in Christ- On March 28, the Jewish Commu- who rescued Jews,” the center’s text
cooperation related to incident track- church, New Zealand, could put lives at nity of Lithuania published on its also said.
ing, information sharing, reporting and risk.” JTA WIRE SERVICE website a harsh condemnation of the  JTA WIRE SERVICE

Never Clean Your Gutters Again!


GUTTER
S
®
G
ut

Over 80 Million Feet Installed!


ter
Helm

15OFF
Spring Into
et

SAVINGS
Ro
ofin
g

% *

Senior & Veteran FOR OVER Monthly Payments


38
39
Discounts as low as $ **
.99
Get a FREE Estimate YEARS

201-503-3265 FOR GUTTER PROTECTION

3 Eliminate clogged and overflowing gutters


Handles 3 LIFETIME No Clog WARRANTY, transferable


22RAIN
of
/ hr
3 Installed by trained & certified technicians
3 Approved by all major roofing manufacturers
*Min. purchase of 50 linear feet required, offer expires 4/30/19. Offer applies to Gutter Helmet only and must be presented at time of estimate, cannot be combined with any other offers and subject to change without notice. Void where prohibited by law. **Subject
to credit approval, fixed APR of 9.99% for 120 months. Lednor is neither a broker nor a lender. Financing is provided by 3rd party lenders, under terms & conditions arranged directly between the customer and such lenders, satisfactory completion of finance
documents is required. Any finance terms advertised are estimates only. †Based on an independent 2014 national marketing study. NJ HIC Reg.#13VH04341800 © 2019 Lednor Corporation.

40 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


SUPERCOUPON
GET READY FOR
2
Present This Coupon at Time of Purchase Order,

$ 99
Pick Up or Delivery to Receive Discount

PASSOVER
Kedem
Grape Juice
64-oz. btl., Any Variety

SAVE 70¢
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY

Welch’s
Manischewitz
Grape Juice
2
$ 79
FREE
Products sold are 64-oz. btl. SAVE 40¢
LIMIT 4

Kosher for Passover WITH $25 OR MORE PURCHASE

One (1)
as marked.
5-lb. Box Matzos
themaincourse
soupson •Yehuda •Osem •Streits

2$ 99
Empire Split •Manischewitz
Limit 1
Chicken Breast lb. 5-lb. Box •Horowitz
Fresh, with Rib Attached, Kosher
•ShopRite or Aviv

1
$ 99
Empire Chicken (Where Available, While Supplies Last)

Leg Quarters

1
lb. With this coupon and additional

$ 49

9
Fresh, with Back Attached, Kosher purchase of $25.00 or more (excluding

4
SAVE 50¢

020340
fuel and items prohibited by law).
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY Empire Boneless
Chicken Breast $ 99 Limit one per family. Void if reproduced,
sold or transferred. Cash value 1/100 cent.
Fresh, Boneless, Skinless, Kosher lb. Good at any ShopRite® store.
Manischewitz ©2019 Wakefern Food Corp.
Effective thru Sat., April 27, 2019.

0
Matzo Ball Fresh Kosher ShopRite
Sale Price $8.99 lb.
-$1.00 lb.
Soup Mix Large Atlantic
4.5 to 5-oz. box,
Any Variety,
Salmon Fillet
Farmed Raised, Boneless, Never Frozen
Limit
4-lbs.
$ 99
7
FINAL PRICE
lb.
SUPERCOUPON
Present This Coupon at Time of Purchase Order,

1
Pick Up or Delivery to Receive Discount
Matzo Ball or Soup

4$
$ 49
3 3 2
Soup 4
$ 99
3 2$
MUST

2$
BUY
Greens FOR
16-oz., Fresh FOR
lb.

5
FOR
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY Bunch
Beets
2$ Bunch
Carrots
Fresh
Horseradish
Yahrzeit
Memorial
Tabatchnick FOR

0
Fresh
Fresh! With Tops
Lamp Candle
Frozen Soups

020820
2 to 6-oz. Star

gefilte fish & more!


(Frozen) 14.5 to 15-oz. pkg., Cream of Spinach With this coupon. Limit one per family.
or Potato Cabbage, Old Fashioned Potato or Void if reproduced, sold or transferred.
Tomato with Basil Cash value 1/100 cent. Good at any

3 499
ShopRite® store. ©2019 Wakefern Food Corp.

$ 49 $
Effective thru Sat., April 27, 2019.

0
SUPERCOUPON
Present This Coupon at Time of Purchase Order,

2
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY Pick Up or Delivery to Receive Discount

$ 00
SAVE $1.00
Osem Consomme LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY
Soup & Seasoning Mix OFF
14.1-oz. cont. Manischewitz LIMIT 1

3
Gefilte Fish
2$
5
ShopRite
Kosher
Chicken Broth
FOR $ 99 24-oz. jar (Excluding Gold Label
and White & Pike) Jelled or in Broth
Bartenura
Balsamic
Vinegar

8
32-oz. carton

3 $5 8
$ 99 $ 99

1
16.9-oz. btl.
SAVE $1.00

019900
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY
Acme Acme With this coupon. Limit one per family. Void
FOR A&B Gefilte Fish Whitefish Salad Herring
32-oz. cont, Old Fashioned,
if reproduced, sold or transferred. Cash value
1/100 cent. Good at any ShopRite® store.
(Frozen) 20-oz. cont. Low Sugar, Sweet,
Tabatchnick White & Pike (Excluding Salmon)
1-lb. cont., Packaged in Cream or in Wine Sauce ©2019 Wakefern Food Corp. Effective
Sun., April 7 thru Saturday, April 20, 2019.

0
Broth
32-oz. carton, Chicken dairyfavorites
ShopRite
$ 99
3 Goodman’s
$ 99
1 Glick’s
$
499 2$
5
1
Walnuts Macaroons Vegetable Oil
$ 49
FOR
6-oz. bag, 10-oz. canister, Coconut, 48-oz. btl.
Chopped or Shelled Almond, Chocolate Chip
SAVE 50¢ SAVE 50¢
Temp Tee
or Chocolate
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY LIMIT 4
Cream
Cheese
Gold’s

4 3 3
ShopRite Trading
$ 99 Joyva $ 49 Gefen $ 99
8-oz. cont., Whipped
Horseradish Company Italian Chocolate Mayonnaise

2
6-oz. jar, Any Variety
Extra Virgin
Olive Oil SAVE $1.00 Jelly Rings
9-oz. box, Any Variety, LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY
32-oz. jar, Regular or Lite
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY
$ 99
$
4 99
16.9-oz. btl. Imported from Italy, LIMIT 4 Marshmallow Twists or
100% Italian Grown Olives Jelly Rings
Ba-Tampte

1
$ 89 Manischewitz 2$
5 $ 99
1
ShopRite Glick’s Pickles
32-oz. jar, Sauerkraut
SAVE $1.00 Apple Sauce Matzo Meal FOR Ketchup or Half Sour
1-lb. 9-oz. jar 16-oz. canister 24-oz. btl.

5
LIMIT 4 (Excluding Organic) (Excluding Whole Grain)

ShopRite Trading Company


Kosher Cake or Matzo
2$
Smoked Salmon FOR

$ 99
5 $ 99
1 $ 49
2
4-oz., Norwegian Wholesome Manischewitz Gunter’s Breakstone’s
Pantry Salted Egg Matzo Clover Whipped Butter

3
frozen Almond Butter 8-oz. cont., Any Variety

$ 99 Honey Bear
12-oz. box
(Excluding Daily) (Excluding Organic)
16-oz. jar, Original or
Kosher for Passover
SAVE $1.00 12-oz. squeeze btl.
LIMIT 4 PER VARIETY

Kosher Taste
Frozen Fruit
12 to 16-oz. pkg.,
Wholesome
Pantry Organic
Coconut Oil
$
4 99 Manischewitz
Tam Tams
8-oz. box, Any Variety,
Tam Tams or Matzo Crackers
1
$ 99 Haddar
Salad
Dressing
$ 49
2
$ 99
1
Friendship
Blueberries or 14-oz. jar, Refined, 14.2-oz. btl., Any Variety Cottage Cheese
1-lb. cont., Any Variety
Mango Chunks Expellar Pressed

Prices, programs and promotions effective Sun., April 7 thru Sat., April 13, 2019 in ShopRite® Stores in NJ, North of Trenton (excluding Ewing, Hamilton Square, Hamilton Marketplace, Pennington and Montague, NJ and Rockland County, NY) including E. Windsor,
Monmouth & Ocean Counties, NJ. Sunday sales subject to local blue laws. No sales made to other retailers or wholesalers. We reserve the right to limit purchases of any sale item to four (4) purchases, per item, per household, per day, except where otherwise noted.
Minimum or additional purchase requirements noted for any advertised item exclude the purchase of prescription medications, gift cards, gift certificates, postage stamps, money orders, money transfers, lottery tickets, bus tickets, fuel and Metro passes, as well as milk,
cigarettes, tobacco products, alcoholic beverages or any other items prohibited by law. Only one manufacturer coupon may be used per item and we reserve the right to limit manufacturer coupon redemptions to four (4) identical coupons per household per day, unless
otherwise noted or further restricted by manufacturer. Sales tax is applied to the net retail of any discounted item or any ShopRite® coupon item. We are required by law to charge sales tax on the full price of any item or any portion of an item that is discounted with the
use of a manufacturer coupon or a manufacturer sponsored (or funded) Price Plus® club card discount. Not responsible for typographical errors. Artwork does not necessarily represent items on sale; it is for display purposes only. Copyright© Wakefern Food Corp., 2019.
All rights reserved. Digital Coupon savings can be loaded to your Price Plus® club card IN STORE at the service desk, kiosk or contact 1-800-ShopRite.

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 41


Jewish World

For Israelis abroad, elections start


with a scramble for flight tickets home
CNAAN LIPHSHIZ Israel is tainted by selfishness: I’m one of thousands of for leaving Israel in Hebrew is “yerida” — descend-
Israelis living abroad who must fly home for every elec- ing — as opposed to “aliyah” — ascending.
AMSTERDAM — Like many voters in democratic tion, on short notice and with high costs, because our Whereas the United States, France, the Nether-
national elections, I almost always hope that whoever is country won’t let us vote anywhere else. lands and many other democracies actively encour-
elected will be able to serve out their full term — even if In other words, I really wouldn’t mind limiting this age expats to participate in elections — expats even
they weren’t my pick. ordeal to once every four years. have their own constituencies and representatives
This is especially true in my native Israel, whose infa- Just as our desire to vote reflects an undying attach- in the French parliament’s lower house — Israel
mously brittle coalitions last on average only 2 1/2 years. ment to the country that many of us perceive as an insur- bars its approximately half a million citizens living
Early elections there cost billions in polarizing campaigns ance policy, Israel’s lack of absentee voting reflects a elsewhere from voting abroad. The only ones eligi-
and present a governance challenge that I see as far more country’s hang-ups about citizens who leave its borders ble to vote oversees in Israeli elections are several
worrisome than having the country run by someone who and the Zionist ethos of Israel’s founders. thousand government envoys.
isn’t my cup of tea. The late Israeli prime minister Yitzhak Rabin famously According to the International Institute for
But if I’m honest, my desire for political stability in called leavers “wimpy debris” as late as 1976. The word Democracy and Electoral Assistance, about 60
percent of the world’s 193 countries allow their citi-
zens to vote abroad. Globalization is only helping to
increase this trend, with Belgium, Sweden, Mexico,
and Panama joining the list in the previous decade.
India did so this year.
Netanyahu’s is one of several Israeli governments
that have tried to promote voting abroad, but a
2015 bill on the matter failed. (Opponents of the
idea include Arab lawmakers and many on the left
and right of c enter.)

In Israel, the first


reaction to any
political statement
by an expat is
often not to
debate the expat’s
argument, but
their right to even
express an opinion.
In Israel, “the first reaction to any political state-
ment by an expat is often not to debate the expat’s
argument, but their right to even express an opin-
ion,” said Eldad Beck, an Israeli journalist based in
Berlin. “This mentality needs to go, whether the
prime minister stays or not.”
Why, then, are we prepared to travel thousands
of miles to vote in Israel, where we haven’t lived in
years? And why do some of us do this, then lazily
opt out of voting in the countries where we do
make our homes?
Maximillian Marco Katz, an Israeli citizen and
activist against anti-Semitism in his native Roma-
nia, said he wouldn’t make a special trip to vote
there, although he will for Israel. “The truth is, in
Romania I was told too often that I don’t belong,
even though I grew up here,” Katz said. “I served in
Israel, I fought in Israel. My children are there. I’m
a Zionist above all and it’s my home, so of course
I will vote.”
The relatively dramatic nature of just about any
Israeli election — it’s often a close race with serious
SEE ELECTIONS PAGE 49
42 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
Jewish World

Polish nationalists use anti-Semitic rhetoric


at N.Y. protest against Holocaust restitution bill
JOSEFIN DOLSTEN
In Manhattan, Polish nationalists protested against Polish nationalists
a bill designed to help Holocaust survivors and their hold a protest in
descendants reclaim lost property in Poland. New York’s Foley
Hundreds of people participated in the protest in Square against a
Foley Square last Sunday, and some used anti-Se- Holocaust restitu-
mitic rhetoric. One protester held a sign calling to tion law on March
“stop the Holocaust industry,” while others ques- 31, 2019.
tioned how many Polish Jews were killed during MOLLY CRABAPPLE

World War II, according to author Molly Crabapple,


who posted photos from the event on Twitter.
One protestor told Crabapple that the Jews of
Warsaw were “mostly killed by other Jews.”
They were protesting a law that President Don-
ald Trump signed last year, called the Justice for
Uncompensated Survivors Today Act.
The measure requires the State Department to

THIS SUNDAY!
report on how certain European countries have
progressed in returning wrongfully confiscated
or transferred Holocaust-era assets. It does not
mention Poland specifically, but Poland is the only
WALK-INS WELCOME

13
European country that has not passed laws to com-
pensate people who lost their property and other TH
assets during World War II.
Last year, the Polish Senate passed legislation
ANNUAL GUESTS OF HONOR
that criminalizes accusing the Polish state of the
crimes committed by the Germans during World
BREAKFAST DR. EPHRAIM &
War II. JTA WIRE SERVICE
DR. CHAVA CASPER
BRIEF
RABBINIC
Israel’s measles outbreak SUNDAY SUPPORTER AWARD
began in Uman, Ukraine APRIL 7, 2019
9:30 AM - 11:30 AM RABBI MENACHEM &
MARCY OSTER
MRS. SARAH GENACK
JERUSALEM — Israel’s measles outbreak took off
CONGREGATION
in September after thousands of mostly chasidic pil-
grims brought the virus back from Uman, Ukraine. KETER TORAH VOLUNTEER
Tens of thousands of Jews gather in the central 600 ROEMER AVENUE RECOGNITION AWARD
Ukrainian city each year on Rosh Hashanah, near TEANECK, NEW JERSEY MRS. MANDY
what many believe is the burial site of Rebbe Nach-
man of Breslev, an 18th-century luminary. RICHMAN
Ukraine’s measles outbreak began in 2017; there
have been almost 70,000 cases, the New York Times TO MAKE A RESERVATION
reported. In late September, after Rosh Hashanah and OR TO DONATE:
KEYNOTE SPEAKER
the annual Uman pilgrimage, measles cases exploded
in Israel, to 949 in October, according to the news-
WWW.PROJECTSARAH.ORG SARANNE ROTHBERG
paper. The cause is believed to be the many pilgrims
973.777.7638 FOUNDER OF COMEDYCURES.ORG
who returned from Ukraine with the virus. “HOW TO USE HUMOR, LAUGHTER & PLAY
Meanwhile, a measles outbreak in New York began AS YOUR PERSONAL STRESSBUSTERS”
THERE IS NO COUVERT
in October with a child in Bensonhurst, Brooklyn,
FOR THIS EVENT BREAKFAST CHAIRS
who had visited Israel. Israel’s measles outbreak
VALET PARKING
began in March 2018 in a small Orthodox community AVIVA DISTENFELD • JUDITH HALPERN • SHERYL SCHAINKER
in Safed.
Orthodox Jews in Israel for the most part do not
have a problem with vaccines, which are provided
free there. Large Orthodox families, however, often
are not careful about making sure all their children
have their vaccinations. PROJECT S.A.R.A.H.
Vaccination rates among the Orthodox in Israel are Stop Abusive Relationships at Home
in the 80 percent range. The virus spreads quickly
because Orthodox children attend many life-cycle
events such as weddings. JTA WIRE SERVICE

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 43


THANK YOU
EZER MIZION,
THE WORLD’S
LARGEST JEWISH
BONE MARROW REGISTRY,
THANKS
THE ENGLEWOOD
COMMUNITY
FOR HOSTING EZER MIZION’S
SHABBAT OF HEROES

Thank you for partnering with us to


create the Englewood Community
Donor Pool, forging an inextricable
link with a cohort of IDF heroes to
save lives across the globe.

To contribute to the Englewood Community Donor Pool,


sponsor a soldier for $50 at shabbatofheroes.com
To establish a Personalized Donor Pool, please contact
Ryan Hyman, National Director of Development,
at 718-853-8400 | ryan@ezermizionusa.org

Ezer Mizion, the world’s largest Jewish bone marrow registry, has saved thousands of lives
since its inception 20 years ago, today facilitating a bone marrow transplant somewhere in the
world, every single day. Over 525,000 of the nearly one million potential bone marrow donors
in the registry are IDF soldiers who are young, healthy and genetically diverse. These heroes
not only defend the State of Israel; they are proud Ezer Mizion partners who save the lives of
people in Israel, the United States and across the globe.

SPONSO R A SOLDIER AT SHABBATOF HEROES.COM

44 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Jewish World

Liberal Orthodox yeshiva feels fallout


from decision not to ordain gay student
SHIRA HANAU an alternative to the more right-leaning

S
Yeshiva University, the school, in the
ignaling a red line on how far Riverdale section of the Bronx, ordained
Modern Orthodoxy is prepared its first class in 2004 and has ordained
to bend to adjust to societal more than 100 rabbis since then.
changes, a liberal New York City Since its founding, the yeshiva has
seminary will not ordain an openly gay sought to balance its Orthodox creden-
student who is engaged to be married tials with its progressive values. The
and completing his fourth year of rab- decision on Atwood is being perceived
binical studies this spring. by some as the yeshiva’s attempt to
In a statement to the New York Jewish ground itself more firmly in the tradi-
Week, Yeshivat Chovevei Torah student tional Orthodox world, which maintains
Daniel Atwood, 27, wrote: “Four years that Jewish law prohibits same-sex rela-
ago I came out as gay during my first tions. While there has been a significant
year at Yeshivat Chovevei Torah Rab- increase in empathy for LGBT Jews in
binical School, and it was decided that recent years within the community,
I would receive semicha [ordination] inclusion has rarely reached the level
as their first openly gay student. After of communal leadership, and same-sex
four years of study and my complet- A class at Yeshivat Chovevei Torah in Riverdale. marriage is universally prohibited.
ing almost all of the program’s require-  COURTESY OF YESHIVAT CHOVEVEI TORAH “I always knew that being in the posi-
ments, YCT decided not to give me tion that I am in would be a difficult
semicha, news delivered to me only a Atwood became engaged in the fall served for nearly 20 years as the flagship process,” Atwood wrote. “I was always
few weeks ago, three months before my and is living with his partner. institution for a subgroup of modern willing to navigate those challenges and
graduation, without any prior conversa- The decision marks a turning point Orthodoxy often dubbed “Open Ortho- work with YCT throughout this process.
tion on the matter.” for the rabbinical school, which has doxy.” Founded by Rabbi Avi Weiss as SEE LIBERAL PAGE 46

Limited Engagement thru June 30th


NOW OPEN

The Most Exciting New Retirement Community


Has Arrived in Rockland County.

Brightview brings carefree, resort-style living – with no large


entrance fee – to Rockland County.

Brightview Lake Tappan offers access to tri-state shopping,


culture, entertainment, and endless on-site opportunities for a
rewarding retirement.

Reserve your
apartment today!
Call Cindy or Dorothy to
Celebrating Broadway’s Greatest Lyricist, schedule your visit.
Independent Living • Assisted Living
Oscar Hammerstein Dementia Care 845.205.7102
410 West 42nd St. 212-239-6200 SINCERELYOSCAR.COM
31 Hunt Road | Orangeburg, NY 10962 | On the Reservoir

SO.JewishStandard2.5x6.5.4C.indd 1 2019-03-18 3:28 PM JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 45


Jewish World

SENIOR
Liberal say about it.
FROM PAGE 45 “So it’s a real shameful moment,” continued
And I have always been fully committed to living my Lopatin, who headed the yeshiva when Atwood

NIGHTS!
life according to Orthodox halacha [ Jewish law]. At the was accepted as a student and stepped down last
* same time, I refuse to live anything but a dignified life, year. “I hope that there will be dozens of Orthodox
something I was always transparent about, including not rabbis that step forward and say that we want to
being closeted or secret about my Torah, my identity, my give this student semicha and not dozens that are
beliefs, or my relationship. cowering behind closed doors.”
n d Wednesdays 3 PM “Most importantly, I am grateful for all the support my Seminarians at YCT who were interviewed
ays a - 10 P
M o nd M immediate family and my partner, Judah Gavant, have for reactions said that they were pained by
given me over my years in rabbinical school.” the decision.
In his statement, Atwood said he is pursuing an inde- “The last few weeks have been a very challenging
pendent ordination. and painful time to be a student at YCT,” one stu-
Rabbi Dov Linzer, YCT’s president and rosh yeshiva, dent, who asked to remain anonymous because of
declined to comment on the specifics of the case. “We the sensitivity of the situation, wrote in an emailed
accept all students regardless of sexual orientation, pro- statement. “We feel upset and angered about the
vided that they are fully committed to Orthodox halachic process that led to this decision. When Daniel
Tilapia observance,” he wrote in an email. “There have been got engaged, I was excited because I thought YCT
Florentine students in the past that did not receive semicha, each would affirm his choice and still grant him semicha.
one for reasons specific to his case. Out of respect for It was deeply saddening for me to learn that they
all our students, the yeshiva does not discuss particular wouldn’t.”
students and why any student may or may not be receiv- Alumni of the school said they were informed
ing semicha.” that Atwood would not be ordained last month
Linzer added that “the yeshiva could have handled the in a conference call. Several described feeling
process of informing Daniel, and coming to a timely deci- distraught at the news; they’d been hopeful that
sion, in a much better manner, and we are sorry for the Atwood’s ordination would set a path for future
Home of the Handmade Milkshake hurt that was caused as a result.” gay students.
Rabbi Asher Lopatin, YCT’s president before Linzer, Several graduates of the school said alumni are
Buy One 141-147 N. Dean Street weighed in with his dismay about the decision to deny divided over the school’s handling of this deci-
Entree Atwood ordination. “I’ve never been more disappointed sion. “People look to Chovevei to be a beacon for
Get One FREE Englewood, NJ
from our regular-priced
menu only
in modern Orthodoxy and its institutions,” he said. “We people who are trying to stay committed to the
with purchase
of 2 beverages 201-568-8088 are supposed to stand for an unfearing loyalty to hala-
cha, and it seems to me that there are so many who are
Orthodox world and at the same time not have to
compromise their moral values,” said Rabbi Aaron
*Age 55 and up. Not valid with any other offer discounts or coupons. Dine-in only, for a acting out of fear and not who they really believe halachi- Potek, an alumnus and now the rabbi at GatherDC
limited time at participating restaurants. ©2014 IHOP IP, LLC
cally can be a rabbi. We’re supposed to fear God alone, in Washington, D.C. “If the leadership at Chovevei
we’re not supposed to fear what other Jews are going to can’t find a way to make space for gay Orthodox
rabbis, that sends a pretty devastating message

Coppélia
to that community and to the broader Orthodox
community about what is and is not possible to be
included in that world.”
Rabbi Avram Mlotek, who grew up in Teaneck
and is the founder of the Base Hillel outreach proj-
ect and also a graduate of YCT, said he felt “heart-
broken” for Atwood and his family.
Others defended the school, noting the require-
One of the greatest comic ballets of all time! ment for YCT students to be fully committed to
Orthodox halacha and Atwood’s recent engage-
Saturday, April 6 | 7PM ment to his partner, with whom he lives. In 2010,
YCT faculty members issued a document urging
Bergen PAC compassion and inclusion for LGBT members of

30 N. Van Brunt St., the Orthodox community, but also asserted that
“Halakhic Judaism cannot give its blessing and
Englewood, NJ imprimatur to Jewish religious same-sex commit-
ment ceremonies and weddings, and halakhic val-
201.227.1030 ues proscribe individuals and communities from
encouraging practices that grant religious legiti-
bergenpac.org macy to gay marriage and couplehood.”
“We’re living at a time when people are trying
to figure out how someone can be gay and keep
halacha at the same time,” said Rabbi Chai Posner,
a YCT graduate who is the associate rabbi of Beth
Save 25% with code Tfiloh Congregation in Baltimore. “This would be
COPPELIA25 the first time an Orthodox rabbi would be granted
semicha while being openly gay, and fair or not,
that reality carries with it a certain level of expecta-
tions” in terms of adherence to halacha. “The bar
is certainly raised for someone who is going to be
a rabbi.”
© Richard Termine
YCT graduate Rabbi Aviad Bodner is the rabbi of
Stanton Street Synagogue on Manhattan’s Lower
46 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
Jewish World

East Side. He said nearly one-third of his syna-


gogue’s leadership is LGBT. “The Orthodox com-
munity must do more and can do more to be more
welcoming to the LGBT community,” Bodner said.
Without addressing this specific case, he said that
YCT “must ensure that every one of its musmachim
Celebrating
130 YEARS
[ordained rabbis] is observant and follows halacha.”
Several alumni emphasized the constant ten-
sion YCT deals with in navigating between the
broader Jewish world and more traditional Ortho-
dox elements.
“Chovevei is being pulled in two directions,”
Potek said. “There’s a group of alumni and students
who want Chovevei to be taking these important
steps toward greater inclusivity, and then there are
OF CRAFTING KOSHER FOODS
alumni who are paranoid about what right-wing
Orthodox Jews will think about their Orthodoxy.”
This is not the first time YCT’s actions have
sparked debate among its alumni. In 2016, several
graduates wrote an open letter opposing the prac-
tice of “partnership minyanim,” traditional-style
services in which women lead parts of the service
and a practice embraced by several YTC alumni.
In 2009, Rabbi Weiss privately ordained Sara
Hurwitz as “rabba,” in a controversial move that fur-
ther alienated the movement from the mainstream
modern Orthodox community. Weiss and Hurwitz
subsequently founded Yeshivat Maharat to ordain
women as Orthodox spiritual leaders.
Linzer, who has been the rosh yeshiva of YCT
since its founding and assumed the role of president
last fall, has long been an advocate for acceptance
of LGBT members of the Orthodox community.
In his email to the Jewish Week, he noted that the
yeshiva “regularly brings in members of Eshel, JQY
[two support groups for gay people from traditional
backgrounds], and the LGBTQ community, as well
as rabbis, poskim, and community leaders, so that
we can best chart a path forward that is rooted in
Torah, halacha, and responsible rabbinic leader-
ship, and that honors the inherent dignity of every
human being created in God’s image. We continue
to grapple with this issue and are always learning in
the process.”
In an online discussion organized by the Jew-
ish Orthodox Feminist Alliance, Linzer discussed
the Jewish legal ramifications of two men living
together and wrote that “our focus has to be not
on halacha, but on communal acceptance and on
making gay men and women, and their spouses or
partners, as well as their children, fully welcome
and fully a part of our communities, synagogues,
and schools.”
He continued: “On a communal level, we should
be very wary of assuming that we know what goes
on behind closed doors. It also is none of our busi-
ness. We do not presume to know, or believe it our
business to know, which family is or is not keep-
ing the laws of niddah [ritual purity], and to judge More than 411,000 likes.
them accordingly, and this should be no different.”
NEW YORK JEWISH WEEK VIA JTA WIRE SERVICE
Like us on Facebook facebook.com/jewishstandard

WE OFFER REPAIRS 1245 Teaneck Rd.


AND ALTERATIONS
We want your business and we go the extra
Teaneck
TALLESIM CLEANED • SPECIAL SHABBOS RUSH SERVICE mile to make you a regular customer 837-8700
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 47
48 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
Jewish World

Elections One of them is my own father, Israel Lifshitz. When Israel because of threats to its security. Yet this time
FROM PAGE 42 elections come around, we often travel together. around, security played a marginal role in his electoral
security implications — certainly helps attract the Sometimes we vote for the same party, other times choice, I reminded him. “You’re right,” he said. “I guess
devotion of some expat voters. we don’t, and sometimes, ridiculously, we travel to it’s all about an emotional attachment that I have over
Merav Shtifman, an Israeli businessman from effectively cancel each other’s vote by picking oppos- there, but not here.” The son of Polish Holocaust sur-
Amsterdam, will travel to Israel for two days just to ing candidates. vivors, he also regards Israel as a contingency, he said.
vote. She cited her belief that Prime Minister Benja- Looking up our designated ballots in Israel, I remem- As for me, my attachment to Israel is simple: Ris-
min Netanyahu, who is implicated in several alleged bered with a pang of guilt sitting out the 2017 Dutch ing anti-Semitism and xenophobia here and through-
corruption scandals, is a danger to Israeli society. elections. I had the voting slip ready and then went gar- out Europe give me little reason to believe that our
“There is no alternative to replacing this ruler,” dening or something and simply forgot all about it. two small children, whom my wife and I are raising
wrote Shtifman, who will vote for Blue and White, As for my dad, who is also a Dutch citizen, well, he as pro-Israel, pro-American Jews, will feel at home in
the newly formed center-left party led by Benny chivalrously donates his vote in the the Dutch elections the Netherlands when they come of age in about 20
Gantz and Yair Lapid, which is neck and neck with to his wife — she tells him who to vote for. (“We’re both years. This belief informs the importance I attach to
Netanyahu’s Likud in the polls. “I don’t think he lefties, so whatever,” as he explains it.) voting in Israel, a country they might someday call
cares about what’s good for the country, only about To my father, the stakes are compellingly higher in home. JTA WIRE SERVICE
his personal survivability” in power.
Katz, by contrast, says the allegations against Net-
anyahu have a minor influence on his decision mak-

Make Your Pesach Easy!


ing, though he has not decided whether to vote for
him or for Blue and White. “I live in a country with
many corruption scandals,” he said. “I’ve learned to
disregard them until a court hands down a verdict.
There’s too much risk for manipulation otherwise.”
Tell us how many guests and we will do the rest!
Torn and undecided about whom to vote for,
Katz says Netanyahu has “elevated Israel to new We Wish You All COMPLETE
heights in terms of its international status, economy
and security, but neglected vital internal issues like
A Happy Passover! SEDER MENU
health, socioeconomic gaps and education.” FOR 8-10
Meital Davidsen, a repeat expat voter from Den-
mark, will vote Labour not necessarily against
A LA CARTE MENU
APPETIZERS SIDE DISHES With 3-guest
Netanyahu, she said, but for its “great legislative
work, which corresponds with my values.” Like
Home Made Chicken Soup Matzah Farfel W/ increment increases,
Matzah Balls Mushrooms & Onion
Katz, Davidsen has decided to suspend her verdict Garden Vegetable Soup Oven Roasted Potato make your
on the allegations facing Netanyahu until a court Gefilte Fish - Sweet Loaf SL
Gefilte Fish - Regular
Sweet Matzah Pudding
Lg. Sm
Pesach easy!
delivers its own. Red Hot Horseradish 8 oz. Tell us how
Blanched Seasoned
“It’s only fair to give him the right to fight for Miniature Stuffed Cabbage Vegetables
his name and not be the judge and jury,” Davidsen Chopped Liver Roast Vegetables many guests
wrote of Netanyahu in a private Facebook message Vegetarian Chopped Liver Potato Pudding Lg. Sm and we will set
Spanish Eggplant Matzah Vegetable Stuffing
to the Jewish Telegraphic Agency. “Though I never Pickled Herring Fillet Stuffed Derma (Kishka) up the rest.
believed in his agenda nor agreed with his way of Vegetable Pancakes
managing the country, I don’t think he is a traitor as MAIN DISHES Potato Pancakes START WITH:
Oven Roasted Turkey Roasted Sweet Potato • The Seder Plate
others claims. But he lost his way a long time ago.”
Sliced Whole Carrot Tzimmes • Old Fashioned or Regular Gefilte
Beck will fly in to vote for Netanyahu. “The left Oven Roasted Turkey Breast Broccoli Soufflé Fish with Carrots & Horseradish
has not internalized the lessons of its failed pol- Glazed Brisket of Beef Spinach & Cauliflower Soufflé • Vegetarian or the Real Chopped
icy of concessions” to the Palestinians, he said. Oven Roasted Chicken Cranberry Sauce/Relish Liver for a Schmear
Sweet & Sour Haroset
“That makes it dangerous. And Netanyahu and Stuffed Cabbage Health Salad
• Chicken Soup with our Fluffy Matzah Balls
his Cabinet have brought Israel to unprecedented Stuffed Roast Breast of Veal Israeli Salad YOUR CHOICE OF MAIN COURSE:
achievements in security and diplomacy. I’m vot- Stuffed Cornish Hens Cole Slaw • ROASTED CHICKEN................................................. $279.00
Israeli Pot Roast Potato Salad • SLICED FRESH ROASTED TURKEY BREAST ....... $279.00
ing to protect it.” Stuffed Breast of Capon Pickles Sour New • CRANBERRY CHICKEN ........................................... $279.00
Netanyahu’s legal woes and unpopularity in the (Vegetable) Tomatoes Peppers • SLICED BRISKET OF BEEF .................................... $298.00
media only strengthen Beck’s feeling that “Israel’s Roast L.I. Duck a la Orange • BONELESS CHICKEN MARSALA ........................... $298.00
Meat or Turkey Loaf BAKED GOODS
democracy is under attack” by people, including in ON THE SIDE:
Cranberry Chicken Matzah
the justice system, determined to oust Netanyahu. Hungarian Goulash • Matzah Farfel with Mushrooms and Onions
Egg Matzah
Beck is less nonchalant than many other Israeli Chicken Meat Balls Honey Cakes • Carrot Tzimmes with Dry Fruit
expats about voting in Europe. “I basically make Chicken Marsala Sponge Cakes • Our Famous Health Salad
a point of participating in every election where Marble Cakes • Brooklyn Macaroons
ORDER YOUR Layer Cakes • Box of Matzah
I am eligible to vote,” said Beck, a dual citizen SEDER PLATE! Macaroons
of Austria and Israel. “The difference is, Austria **Sorry, Please NO Substitutions**
makes an effort to allow me to vote wherever I
am. Israel does not.” (Austria allows voting by
mail. The Netherlands even allows citizens to Place your
empower others to vote for them.) order by Friday,
This time around, I booked my ticket from April 12
Amsterdam, where I’ve been living since 2010, Since 1976
days after the early elections were set for April 9.
We will close on Friday, April 19 at 1pm and will reopen Sunday, April 28 at 8am
I’ve learned that even off season, waiting any longer
means forfeiting all hope of finding a direct flight 894 PROSPECT ST., GLEN ROCK NJ · 201-445-1186
and submitting myself to exorbitant prices for a www.koshernosh.com
connection — thanks to other Israelis flying from Under The Supervision of Rabbi Dr. Bernhard Rosenberg, Behr Kosher Supervision
Amsterdam to Tel Aviv close to the elections.
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 49
Editorial
Looking inward,
KEEPING THE FAITH

A short-sighted approach
looking outward to guide dogs in shul
T W
his area is remarkable for they want their own story some-
the breadth and depth of how not to be central to their story, ith Pesach just two weeks vow, for both are abhorrent to the Lord your
its Jewish life. This week, if that should be possible. away, one law I never thought God.” Kasher reasoned that since it is for-
we look at two commu- The thing is, the Yudins embody would come to mind in con- bidden to use money from the sale of a dog
nities, one Orthodox, one Reform, modesty and humility in a way that nection with it is this: “Do not to purchase a Temple sacrifice, it certainly
both in Bergen County. is hard for the rest of us to under- put a stumbling block before the blind.” (See must be forbidden to bring the dog itself
First, there are the Yudins. stand. Those seem to be Victorian Leviticus 19:14; we will read it in synagogues into the Temple. Thus, he said, one can-
It’s an interesting experience, try- words, traits that have gone the way on May 11.) not bring a dog into a synagogue or other
ing to interview Shevi and Benjamin of the reticule and the settee for the As I often note here, the intent of this law sacred space. (See his comment to the verse
Yudin, the heart and soul of Shom- rest of us. But wait — a reticule is a is to prohibit misleading people — but it also in his Torah Sh’lemah, Vol. 15.)
rei Torah, the Orthodox shul that is handbag, and a settee is a couch, means exactly what it says, and it is in that There is much wrong with this ruling, not
at the heart and soul of Orthodox and modesty and humility really literal context that it came to mind. the least of which is that “dog” in verse 19
life in Fair Lawn. still do exist. A blind person with a guide dog recently may not refer to a real dog at all (although
It’s interesting because they really Rabbi and Rebbetzin Yudin have was initially rebuffed when trying to make many commentators say it does). More
don’t want to be interviewed. done extraordinary work. They a reservation to attend a syna- likely, given the context, it is
It’s not that they don’t want to have brought community and Jew- gogue’s public seder because meant as a euphemism for
talk. They’re proud of their work, ish life to hundreds, possibly thou- the guide dog was not allowed a male prostitute. If it does
passionate about the Jewish com- sands, of people. Thank you, both in the synagogue. Fortunately, refer to real dogs, however, as
munity they’ve created, eager to of you, for what you have done for when the rabbi heard of it, he Nachmanides (the Ramban)
showcase their congregants, their the rest of us. reversed the decision. Still, explains, it refers to “brazen
friends, their students, and the peo- On the other end of the Jewish there are many synagogues dogs that harm the public.” In
ple who will become their friends, spectrum, there is the work that that would not welcome guide that case, the Ramban contin-
their congregants, and their stu- Temple Emeth in Teaneck does. It’s dogs into their midst for any ued, “the owners vow [to con-
dents as soon as they’ve met. They outward facing; social justice work reason, especially including tribute] their value [to a cause
love their work, and they love their is a logical outgrowth of the Reform attending services, or partic- Shammai they consider sacred], as an
life, because their two lives are one movement’s understanding of the ipating in a religious event, Engelmayer atonement for their soul.” In
complementary life and their work Jewish people’s mandate to pursue such as a seder. Ramban’s view, the reason
is their life, because it’s all one justice. That the synagogue would There is no direct discus- for the prohibition is that the
seamless whole. need only three days to convince 50 sion of this issue in the codes, meaning that money being used for a sacred purpose was
Before Shomrei Torah, there members to fly down to Atlanta and there is no direct prohibition against dogs of acquired “in a contemptible manner.” (The
was very little Orthodox life in Fair then take a bus around the Deep any kind being admitted, much less guide citation as quoted is found in Rabbi Charles
Lawn. Now, there are seven Ortho- South, to immerse themselves in dogs. Nevertheless, there are a few rabbinic Chavel’s translation.)
dox shuls, as well as Conservative, the stories of slavery and racism that rulings referencing other laws to support A guide dog is not a vicious animal in any
Reform, and Chabad ones. It’s not the new museums there show, and this position. Perhaps the most notable one respect. We have had one coming to our ser-
clear how many of them — if any to come back home ready to work — was issued (ironically, for me) by the late vices for several years now, and no one has
of them — would have been there because racism, like anti-Semitism, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Kasher, whose ever heard as much as a whimper from her.
without the Yudins. still is alive — because the Jewish Haggadah Sh’lemah I rely on each year in She just rests at the feet of her owner, even
But they don’t want to be tradition demands that they do to — preparing for Pesach. if someone pets her.
interviewed. that’s impressive. In his voluminous Torah Sh’lemah com- Kasher’s ruling received much criticism,
They will allow their story to be There are many ways to be Jewish. mentary, Kasher cites Deuteronomy 23:18- including from the late Lubavitcher Rebbe,
in this newspaper, as it has been The more deeply immersed you are 19 as his prooftext. The verses state: “No Menachem Mendel Schneerson. In corre-
in others, because they know in your own, at times the harder it is Israelite woman shall be a cult prostitute, spondence with Kasher, he referenced a
that their life is inspirational, that to believe that there are other ways. and no Israelite man shall be a cult prosti- principle put forth by Rabbi Moses Isserles
the community they’ve created But the range of ways of being Jew- tute. You shall not bring the fee of a pros- (the Rema) regarding whether women in
is a model. They will talk to me, ish here is wide, and we all benefit titute, or the pay of a dog, into the house their state of impurity should be allowed
with grace and good humor and from having them all here. We each of the Lord your God in fulfillment of any into a synagogue. The Rema (in his gloss to
warmth and good will. They want can chose only one, but we all are
their community’s story told. But enriched by having the choice. —JP Shammai Engelmayer is rabbi of Congregation Beth Israel of the Palisades, now in Fort Lee.

Jewish Editor
Joanne Palmer
Correspondents
Warren Boroson
Advertising Coordinator
Jane Carr
Production Manager
Jerry Szubin
Founder
Morris J. Janoff (1911–1987)
Standard Associate Editor
Larry Yudelson
Lois Goldrich
Banji Ganchrow Account Executives
Peggy Elias
Graphic Artists
Deborah Herman
Editor Emeritus
Meyer Pesin (1901–1989)
1086 Teaneck Road Abigail K. Leichman Bob O'Brien
Community Editor Miriam Rinn Robin Frizzell City Editor
Teaneck, NJ 07666 Brenda Sutcliffe
Beth Janoff Chananie Dr. Miryam Z. Wahrman Mort Cornin (1915–1984)
(201) 837-8818
Fax 201-833-4959 About Our Children Editor Advertising Director Administrative Assistant Editorial Consultant
Heidi Mae Bratt Natalie D. Jay Jenna Sutcliffe Max Milians (1908-2005)
Publisher
James L. Janoff International Media Placement Secretary
P.O. Box 7195 Jerusalem 91077 Ceil Wolf (1914-2008)
Associate Publisher Emerita
Marcia Garfinkle Tel: 02-6252933, 02-6247919 Editor Emerita
Fax: 02-6249240 Rebecca Kaplan Boroson
thejewishstandard.com Israeli Representative

50 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Opinion

Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 88) ruled that they should be


admitted because not to do so would “cause them great pain This is why we should
for while others are praying they must remain outside.” By
the same token, Schneerson wrote, to bar blind people with immunize our children

R
guide dogs would “cause them great pain for while others
are praying they must remain outside.” (Schneerson’s com- ockland County is in the midst of a mea- The Rockland County measles outbreak is cen-
ments can be found at www.chabad.org.) sles epidemic. As I write this, there are tered in an Orthodox Jewish community. As a rabbi,
Both the late Rabbis Moshe Feinstein and Joseph Solove- at least 155 cases of measles — a disease I know that there is nothing in Judaism that would
itchik — who usually are on opposite sides of the halachic that was eliminated from the United prohibit vaccination. On the contrary, the most
spectrum —also ruled positively on the issue. States in 2000. important precept in Judaism is pikuach nefesh,
Feinstein, in his ruling, referenced a comment in the I write this article as a mother and grandmother, saving a life. Even the laws of Shabbat may be sus-
Jerusalem Talmud M’gillah 3:3 regarding a certain Rabbi as a pediatrician, as a part of a team that developed pended, if someone’s life is at risk. In Judaism, we
Imi, who would “permit even a marginal scholar to enter new vaccines, and as a rabbi. also have an obligation to heal. As it says in the Tal-
the synagogue with his donkey and his tools,” and, presum- As a pediatrician, I took care of children who mud, “One who saves one life, it is as if he saves an
ably, with his clothes, as well. If a donkey was permitted succumbed to diseases that we no longer worry entire world.” Prevention, too, is important. The
in a synagogue, he ruled, certainly a guide dog should be about today. I remember sitting with a mother as Torah tells us “You shall make a parapet for your
allowed inside. she struggled to understand why her beautiful little roof.” That is, we have an obligation to remove haz-
Feinstein acknowledged that some would object to bring- boy — who was fine until a few days before — had ards to public health and safety from our domain.
ing a dog into a synagogue because it could lead to creating died of Hib disease so quickly that antibiotics did The Talmud also tells us that dina malchuta
a somewhat frivolous atmosphere in an otherwise sacred not have time to act. A vaccine against Hib, which is dina. The law of the land is the law. Through-
place. The Babylonian Talmud tractate M’gillah 28a, for recommended for all children today, was not avail- out Jewish history, we have understood the need
example, forbids frivolity in a sacred space. He dismissed able back then. to comply with the just laws of the society in
the objection, however. Instead, he cited the immediately Many years later, I met another which we live. The law requiring
preceding discussion in JT M’gillah 3:3, which states that mother. She, too, had a child who that our children be immunized is
“synagogues and study halls are built to be used by Talmud died of Hib disease. But her story like other laws that govern how we
scholars,” including to eat and drink there. was different. There was a vaccine live together. We stop at red traffic
What is remarkable about Feinstein using that text to sup- available, but she was overwhelmed lights to make life safer for drivers
port his argument is that he chose the Jerusalem Talmud’s with the responsibility of new moth- and pedestrians. We wear seat belts
opinion about eating and drinking over the Babylonian one, erhood. There was so much infor- because they protect lives in case of
which specifically bans both. The Babylonian text bluntly mation on the internet, and it was accident. Immunization protects us
states “one may not eat in them, nor may one drink in them.” scary. There was even talk of a gov- against deadly infectious diseases
(See Igrot Moshe, Orach Chayim, 1:45.) It is as if he was bend- ernment conspiracy. How could she and has the added effect of provid-
ing over backwards to allow guide dogs into a synagogue. know what to do to best protect her Rabbi Dr. ing herd immunity. By reducing
As for Soloveitchik, we do not have a direct quote regard- child? Her pediatrician assured her Jill Hackell the spread of disease, it can protect
ing his ruling. As is often the case where he is concerned, of the benefits of vaccination, but she babies who are too young to be fully
we must rely on hearsay, in this case from the recollection thought she’d just wait, and decide immunized, and it can protect peo-
of his son-in-law, the late Rabbi Aharon Lichtenstein. This is later. When her toddler died, she learned, in a way ple, both young and old, who have medical con-
how he explained Soloveitchik’s ruling in a lecture cited by that no parent ever should have to learn, that mak- tra-indications to vaccination, or who have fragile
Rabbi Howard Jachter in his Halachic Perspectives on Pets: ing no decision was also a decision, and it had con- immune systems. When enough people say, “Let
In BT B’rachot 63a, the Talmud offers a standard for sequences. Terrible consequences. someone else vaccinate their child — mine will be
acceptable behavior in a synagogue: If a person would As a vaccine researcher, I conducted trials of safe,” the herd immunity breaks down, and none
allow that behavior in his or her home, it is acceptable in a new vaccines in thousands of children, to make of us is safe from these deadly diseases.
synagogue as well. According to Lichtenstein, says Jachter, sure that the vaccines were both safe and effective It is good public health policy to enforce immuni-
Soloveitchik applied that standard to the guide dog. Because against the disease they were designed to protect. zation laws, to make sure that susceptible children
a person would allow a blind person with a guide dog into My team was testing a new vaccine against whoop- stay out of school, and, if necessary, other public
his or her home, so may a synagogue do so. ing cough. Because there already was a whooping spaces, for the safety of all.
There are other supports for this position, the most cough vaccine in the United States, there was not I am now savta — grandma — to four beautiful
important perhaps being that animals were allowed on the enough disease here to test the new acellular vac- grandchildren, and I am proud and relieved that
Temple grounds — and not just animals required for sacri- cine to see if it worked. But to our surprise, we they are all up-to-date on their immunizations.
fices. Mishnah Shekalim 7 refers to “money that is found found that we could test this vaccine in the devel-
[in the Temple precincts] in front of animal dealers,” which oped world. In what was then West Germany, the Jill Hackell is the rabbi at West Clarkstown Jewish
tells us that Jerusalem entrepreneurs would bring animals parental anti-vaccine movement was very strong, Center. She’s also a physician, who earned her
to that most sacred space to sell to those in need of sacrifices. vaccine rates dropped, and a whooping cough medical degree from Johns Hopkins School of
If animals for sale could be brought onto Temple grounds, epidemic was sweeping the country. Now, parents Medicine, where she also did her pediatric residency.
an animal required for a person’s well-being surely may be were willing to test a brand-new vaccine in their She practiced general pediatrics for several years
brought into a synagogue. children, because they could see how devastating and then moved to the pharmaceutical industry,
Bringing a pet dog into a synagogue, on the other hand, this forgotten disease was. where she did clinical research on new vaccines
is another matter entirely. Although there really does not Both my children received all their vaccines on for more than 20 years, including vaccines against
exist any direct prohibition to doing so, guide dogs are well time. As a pediatrician, I knew how serious these pertussis (whooping cough), Hib (Haemophilus
trained in remaining calm and even respectful of others, but diseases were. The day that my son received his influenza b), and pneumococcal disease. She
such behavior cannot be assured of other pet dogs. routine measles vaccination, there was a pediatric has combined these two paths with an interest in
Frankly, though, there never should have been a debate resident on a ventilator, in the hospital in which I bioethical issues, teaching Jewish bioethics at the
over allowing guide dogs into synagogues. Barring them was working. She had contracted measles from a Academy for Jewish Religion, and graduate-level
is nothing short of a chilul ha-Shem, a desecration of the patient, and was very, very ill. secular bioethics at Dominican College.
God who described Himself as being “compassionate and
gracious…, [and] abounding in kindness and faithfulness.”
(See Exodus 34:6.) We are commanded by Him to “walk in
The opinions expressed here are those of the authors, not necessarily those of the newspaper’s editors,
My ways” (see Genesis 17:1). We fail to do so — and we fail
Him — if we ourselves are not compassionate and gracious, publishers, or other staffers. We welcome letters to the editor. Send them to jstandardletters@gmail.com.
abounding in kindness and faithfulness.
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 51
Opinion

Barriers to participation: Poverty in the Jewish world

T
here is a persistent myth overwhelming and uniform financial is living in or near poverty, may be closer to us than
about American Judaism that success in the 20th and 21st centuries is the research tells us. we’d think. The 2013 Pew
has spread so deeply into our firmly held by those within the Jewish This population may Study tells us that “Jews
community’s collective psy- American world and anti-Semites alike well be prevented from with household incomes
che that it may have harmed our ability — but it simply isn’t true. participating in some of less than $30,000 are con-
to take action. While I was in San Francisco, I partic- the most enriching aspects centrated among young
I recently returned from San Fran- ipated in a well-attended, illuminating of communal life, includ- adults and those who have
cisco, where I attended the Jewish meeting that the Harry and Jeanette Wein- ing the one about which I reached retirement age.”
Funders Network 2019 International berg Foundation presented on the state of am most passionate — Jew- Promising steps already
Conference. A large crowd from all over Jewish poverty in the United States. As I ish camp — purely due to Jeremy J. have been taken to make
the world descended on the Bay Area listened and digested information shared financial reasons. Fingerman a difference. The Phila-
for the conference, ready to gain new in several sessions mapping out the dire Jewish poverty is a sig- delphia-based Seed the
understanding of trends and challenges state of ever-larger portions of our com- nificant issue that deserves Dream Foundation is offer-
affecting our Jewish community. munity, I was able to appreciate the grow- our urgent attention, and there is so ing a new matching grant program to
In my role as CEO of the Foundation ing plight of those struggling to make ends much more we can do to uplift the most help meet the urgent needs of Holocaust
for Jewish Camp, I regularly am involved meet more fully. The problem touches vulnerable members of our commu- survivors living in poverty. UJA-Federa-
in conversations about increasing oppor- people of all ages and backgrounds, from nity. Part of this is raising awareness of tion of New York continues to find inno-
tunities for positive Jewish experiences aging Holocaust survivors to people with the issue. I believe that we must make vative ways to support the low-income
and longstanding Jewish identity. disabilities to single-parent families. it a communal goal not only to shatter Jewish households, which are heavily
Of the myriad of significant issues Having gathered research from several this myth for the next generation, but to concentrated in the region.
facing the Jewish community, how- recent studies and more than 70 lead- also instill in them the empathy to see it In my own work, I have seen Jewish
ever, I was particularly struck by one ers who have a connections to the cause where it exists and the motivation to find camps step up to distribute several mil-
that isn’t always at the forefront of our throughout the United States, the Wein- better solutions to the problem, for our lion dollars each summer to help fami-
communal agenda: the growing rate of berg Foundation’s findings were a distant future and theirs. lies in need provide life-changing Jewish
poverty in the American Jewish com- cry from common beliefs about uniform We should feel a sense of duty to edu- experiences for their kids.
munity. The myth of American Jews as and prevalent Jewish prosperity. Close to cate our entire Jewish community about I continue to be inspired by a
a “model minority” who have achieved 20 percent of the U.S .Jewish population Jewish poverty, especially as the issue unique program in Cleveland funded

Israel is so much more than our Plan B

A
few weeks ago, an Israeli My grandfather was a first-generation of the Holocaust, the and to try to make con-
Ph.D. student studying immigrant who fled the Russian Czar world realized that for nections so as to ame-
w i t h m e at C o l u m b i a when he was merely 14 years old, safet y, Jews need to liorate these i ssues.
asked me why the major- arriving alone in America in 1910. return to their national However, I keep these
ity of American Jews support Israel so His experience as a Jew was one of homeland, which began in mind in regard to the
unequivocally. pogroms and oppression. My Hun- in 1881 and was born global stage. The human
I’ve been thinking about that ques- garian grandmother’s entire family, against all odds in 1948 rights abuses in coun-
tion. It’s hard to answer, and my first with the exception of the uncle who out of swamps, malaria, tries around the world
response, I soon felt, was inadequate. immigrated to Argentina, was mur- desert, dust, toil, love, — including the United
I thought about it more, and this is dered in Auschwitz during the sum- and miracles. Dana Adler States — are numerous.
how I would answer that question. mer of 1944. It’s a horrifying thing to I’ve had a love affair What’s going on right
Growing up in America, the quint- see on the family tree. with Israel since I was here, with the chipping
essential melting pot, we were taught So what does this have to do with a little girl. This love has continued, away of abortion rights, the immi-
to embrace our diversity and have Jewish American identity and Israel? and I have passed it onto my chil- grant situation on our southern
pride in our background. It’s part of The bottom line is that the future dren. I couldn’t be more proud of border, the ongoing discrimination
what’s wonderful about being a patri- of the Jewish people and Israel are my son, who served as a lone soldier against the black community, and the
otic American, where we can equally inexorably linked. Israel is our his- on the front line of democracy in decimation of the Indian community
love our country and love where we torical homeland, Israel is in our lit- defense of our homeland, and who are national embarrassments and
came from. I have fond memories of urgy, Israel is where our matriarchs now, as an American Jew, speaks points of great contention.
elementary school, where my Greek, and patriarchs are buried, Israel is fluent Hebrew. I have spent most of However, other countries fare far
Armenian, Italian, Indian, black, and the only country in the world that my adult life believing and fundrais- worse in regard to their human rights
Korean friends would have their par- speaks our ancient language. Israel ing for the Jewish people, and I am abuses. You don’t need to look fur-
ents bring delicious ethnic dishes to is a miracle on earth, where medi- proud to continue that journey by ther than Venezuela, Syria, Iran, Tur-
school for International Day, which I cal and high technologies are discov- serving on the board of governors of key, North Korea, Qatar, Pakistan,
looked forward to every year. ered at an unprecedented rate and the Jewish Agency and in my study of Lebanon, South Sudan, China, Saudi
But when I was a child, my par- shared with the entire world. Israel human rights at Columbia. Arabia, Myanmar, and many, many
ents had no fond affiliations with the is the only place on earth where traf- I’m opening up my eyes to the others. I believe that Israel’s right to
countries of their heritage. My grand- fic stops on Yom Kippur and where human rights abuses and violations sovereignty and security supersedes
parents are primarily from Russia, all the Jewish holidays are celebrated in Israel and the West Bank, as well that of any human rights violations,
Hungary, and Austria, but I never nationally. After two millennia of as Israel’s internal struggles regard- particularly because it holds over
had much affiliation with those coun- being persecuted, expelled, and vio- ing the rights of women and religious half of the global Jewish population.
tries, and I didn’t feel proud of them. lated, and finally after the horrors pluralism. I work hard to learn more I also firmly believe, however, that
52 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
Opinion Letters

College scandal isn’t surprising


Some letters to the editor in the March 19th student ineligible for classification, would
paper revealed the shock and sense of refer the parents (those who could afford
so generously by the David and Jewish communities comprehen- revulsion people felt upon learning of the it, of course) to a private evaluator who
Inez Myers Foundation, and run sively address and overcome the college admissions scandal. As a school would make sure that the student’s results
collaboratively by Jewish Fam- financial barriers to access and psychologist working for Bergen County rendered them eligible!
ily Service Association of Cleve- participation? Special Services (providing child study What are parents and, at times, school
land and the Jewish Federation We all should work toward a team services to private schools, both reli- personnel teaching students about hon-
of Cleveland. The program not day when we can say that the gious and secular), I am truly sorry to con- esty, integrity, playing fair and how one
only fully funds a Jewish summer existence of Jewish poverty in the fess that as horrible as the situation is, it is should be rewarded for effort? Extra help
camp experience for many years, United States is a myth. Unfortu- not completely surprising to me. and extended time are meant as a means
but also provides each recipient nately, the struggles many mem- Not only does my team come in contact of leveling the playing field for those who
with a large duffle bag filled with bers of our community face right fairly regularly with parents who push to legitimately are stymied by a learning dis-
all the supplies necessary for the now are far too real. have their child “classified” — even when ability (which, put simply, means that
summer. This holistic approach By embracing our collective the child is not eligible — because they the student has the necessary potential
to addressing the needs of unaffil- values and tearing down financial want the child to get extra help, but school but that there is some neural mechanism
iated low-income families allows barriers to become more inclu- personnel also often push to have ineligi- that interferes with him or her being able
a child to truly be just another sive, we can ensure every Jewish ble students classified. The first “push” is to put forth their full ability). If students
camper. To ensure participation, American has the opportunity to to have students who exhibit no legitimate who don’t need these accommodations
the program works with each fam- partake in the richness of Jewish reason to be evaluated, be evaluated. are afforded them, then the whole system
ily to help identify the right camp, communal life. The most conspicuous perpetrators are should be abandoned as the purpose for
complete the application, and the parents of 10th and 11th graders who which it was intended is negated.
provide other needed assistance. Jeremy J. Fingerman has been the make it obvious that they want the stu- Sadly, this is a continuation of the pro-
More than 120 Cleveland-area CEO of Foundation for Jewish dent to get extended time on the SATs and cess that often starts in elementary school
kids attended Jewish camp last Camp since 2010, and he is a vice ACTs. And if it isn’t egregious enough that in which parents who are large donors, and
summer thanks to this gener- president of JPRO Network, the the parents attempt to manipulate the sys- administrators who are complicit, contrive
ous collaboration. Could this network of North American Jewish tem, I came to understand that the person together to see that the students involved
special, sensitive approach be a communal professionals. He lives in in charge of special services at a particu- receive higher grades than deserved.
springboard for similar initiatives Englewood with his family. Write to lar high school, upon finding out that the Nancy Silberman Zwiebach,
throughout the country, helping him at Jeremy@jewishcamp.org. Bergen County evaluation determined the Englewood

Don’t divide, unify


The AIPAC conference has just concluded, Before our era, two other presidents stand
with 18,000 in attendance. It was another out as the greatest supporters of Jews in Amer-
demonstration of very broad American Jew- ican history. George Washington recognized
ish support of Israel. As a card-carrying Zionist religious equality, in his letter to the Jews of
(full disclosure, I am an officer of Mercaz USA), Newport, Rhode Island, written in an age
the Palestinian people have a homeland, no matter what her that unity gladdens my heart. when Jews were few in number, strange, pow-
right to self-determination and policies and no matter who her On the other hand, the March 29 Jewish erless, and unassimilated. That letter remains
a claim to human rights. leader is. I will never abandon Standard included pieces that stand out as a key statement about religious tolerance in
Look what’s happening right her, and I will always fight for symbols for the disunity, discord, and division the new young nation, and a huge departure
now in Gaza, where Hamas is gun- her in every way I know how. in the Jewish world. A JTA story reported that from European norms.
ning down their own people in the Israel’s future is linked to mine a charedi Orthodox rabbi in Israel recently In the 19th century, Abraham Lincoln
street. Palestinians have a right to and my children’s, just as it praised Nazis for creating separate living rescinded General Order No. 11 in January
live in dignity, but their leader- is linked to my past and my quarters for men and women. You would 1863. The order had been issued by General
ship won’t allow it simply because ancestors. think that in the season of Purim, such a rabbi (later President) Ulysses S. Grant, expelling
they hate Israel. I believe that both Far from being simply Plan B, would remember the injunction about Ama- Jews from three southern states. Lincoln
Hamas and Hezbollah, which call Israel is central to our identity as lek and refrain from referring to the perpetra- opposed his greatest general in the context
for the destruction of Israel, are Jewish Americans. It is incredibly tors of the greatest pogrom in history. of a Union culture that resented Jews such
terrorist organizations. It’s truly insulting to think that this special A letter writer takes Rabbi Shammai as Judah Benjamin for their active support
a shame that the Palestinians are place, where my cousin Hannah Engelmayer to task for criticizing the current of the Confederacy.
ruled by terrorists in Gaza and by just moved, where my son Har- U.S. president. He says that POTUS 45 “has Grant was in the mainstream of his era,
corruption in the West Bank. In rison proudly served, and where been the most supportive of Jews and Israel, but Lincoln took the unpopular moral high
order for there to be peace, Israel I return time and time again to perhaps in American history.” This view- ground. Lincoln, just like George Washing-
needs a peace partner. help improve policy, is some- point contributes to the partisan divide that ton, demonstrated support for the Jews in an
In regard to loyalty, while how a mere place to escape to in now afflicts Jews and supporters of Israel. example of principled leadership, regardless
I might not agree with all the case things look bleak. It is much, The horrifying rise in anti-Semitic incidents of political popularity. These two presidents
United States’ policies, and I much more than that. and violence over the past two years reflects have rightful claims to the title as greatest sup-
might not like the current lead- As American Jews, it is our this situation. porter of the Jews. They sought to unify, rather
ership, I will never forsake her. spiritual home. This divide is a recent phenomenon in than to divide. American Judaism stands on
I love America, and I believe American history. Every American president the shoulders of these two giants.
that she is the best country in Dana Adler of Tenafly is a since Harry Truman has supported Israel. In this age of increasing religious tension, is
the entire world allowing for the graduate student in human rights Truman, Nixon, and Johnson did so under it not time for Jews to finally stop bashing each
most opportunity anywhere. at Columbia University. She has more challenging circumstances than today. other? Let’s try to stop being our own worst
Although I would like to spend been a Jewish communal leader They came from both sides of the aisle. The enemies. A united American Jewish commu-
time in other places, I could for the better part of the last two partisan fissure may have begun under Pres- nity, regardless of party affiliation, is the key
never abandon her. decades and now is a member ident Obama, but factually, his administra- to the future survival of Israel. Am Yisrael chai!
The same goes for Israel. I will of the board of governors of the tion continued to support Israel with very Eric Weis,
always love her as my historic Jewish Agency for Israel. generous arms deals. Wayne
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 53
JS-54*

Keeping Kosher

Manischewitz unveils new look Cedar Market embraces Passover


across its product line As Passover approaches, look to Cedar and many more on the shelves in every
The Manischewitz Com- ‘Comfort Food for the Market in Teaneck, with its depart- department.
pany, the largest mar- Soul,’ represents our ments fully stocked with kosher-for- Cedar Market strives to go above
keter of kosher foods brand’s familiar place in Passover items. Aisles 1 and 2 are and beyond the needs of its custom-
in North America, has the hearts and kitchens entirely filled with kosher-for-Passover ers and offers great customer service.
unveiled a fresh new look of the families that we products. The meat department is now Fruit, vegetable, and cake platters are
for its iconic brand. For serve.” fully kosher for Passover, with a large available to order. Follow Cedar Mar-
more than 130 years, its The new brand vision variety of chicken, American Black ket on Facebook and Instagram to see
mission has been to bring not only will include Angus beef, turkey, and duck. Be sure new items, tastings, flash sales, and
families to the table and updated packaging to check out the expanded kosher-for- more. If you are not already signed
reconnect with tradition designs but will also Passover selection in the dairy and fro- up for its weekly savings email, go
through food. The brand’s extend to a redesign of zen departments. Cedar Market has a to www.thecedarmarket.com and
new visual identity, which the Manischewitz Com- large kitniyot selection as well. Look sign up today. Cedar Market is at 646
includes new products, themes, and pany’s website and advertising cam- for a variety of items that are new to Cedar Lane, Teaneck. For more infor-
more, continues to reflect an ongoing paigns. As part of its commitment the market this year, including Mikee mation, email info@thecedarmarket.
commitment to these values. toward modernizing the Manischewitz barbecue Sauce, Gefen soft cookies, com or call (201) 855-8500.
Since the brand’s establishment brand while retaining its classic roots,
in 1888, the Manischewitz Company Manischewitz will several several new
has delivered a broad range of prod- products in the coming months.
ucts. “We are so excited to unveil our For more information, go to man-
new brand image to our consumers,” ischewitz.com or www.Facebook.com/
said David Sugarman, its president Manischewitz. It’s on Twitter and Insta-
and CEO. “Our new logo’s tagline, gram @ManischewitzCo.

Looking at the meal in a new way


The sisterhood at Temple Sinai of Bergen County in
Tenafly will host a “new and provocative” seder led by
Rabbi Jill Hammer on Tuesday, April 9, at 7 p.m. Rabbi
Hammer is the director of spiritual education at the
Academy for Jewish in Yonkers and the co-founder of
the Kohenet Hebrew Priestess Institute, a program in
spiritual leadership for Jewish women.
The sisterhood’s president, Franci Steinberg, and
a lay leader, Annice Benamy, invite everyone to enjoy
Passover foods, singing, learning, and connection to Rabbi Jill Hammer Kayco and Whole Foods team up
community. Reservations, jsherman@templesinaibc.org.
for a wider assortment of choices
Two brand leaders, Kayco and Whole Whole Foods’ commitment to unique
Foods, which offer natural, whole- products that meet the highest stan-
Women’s seder in Woodcliff Lake some, responsibly sourced food, have dards and fit a variety of dietary needs.
The sisterhood of Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley offers a women’s Passover teamed up to offer a wider selection of Shoppers can find a full array of organic,
seder with music and dancing led by Naomi Less, a musician, facilitator, and edu- trendy and traditional kosher choices fair trade, vegan, and natural options
cator, on Sunday, April 14, at 5 p.m. For reservations, call (201) 391-0801 or tepv.org. for Passover. that are free of gluten, GMOs, preserva-
Harold Weiss, Kayco’s executive vice tives, and artificial ingredients.
president, said the company’s partner- Whole Foods stores nationwide will
ship with America’s favorite purveyor carry a diverse selection of Passover
of natural foods began more than a favorites and new releases includ-
WE KOSHER FOR PASSOVER!
‫בס"ד‬

PROMPT decade ago, in response to growing con- ing Kedem Biodynamic Grape Juice,

Go-Kosher
SERVICE sumer demand for products that fit both Yehuda Matzoh: organic whole wheat
KOSHERING AMERICA’S KITCHENS, ONE AT A TIME ™
kosher and healthy lifestyles. and gluten-free varieties (everything,
“Our palates have gravitated toward original, cinnamon, unsalted); Yehuda
creative cuisines and sophisticated regular, panko-style, and gluten-free
food trends,” Weiss said. “People today matzoh meal; Kedem Gourmet Tilapia
• Full Kitchen Koshering
are genuinely interested in food — not Gefilte Fish; Sea Castle Seaweed Snacks;
K O S H E R I N G S E R V I C E
• Instructions/hands-on
just for the way it tastes, but for how Gefen Roasted Chestnuts; Glick’s Maca-
demonstrations it’s produced and what that means to roons (regular and gluten-free varieties);
Overwhelmed? No time? Moving? • Full toiveling service their overall health. They expect con- Eylon All-Natural Marshmallows (vanilla
Relax and leave the koshering to us. • Can arrange kosher venience, and they no longer want to and vanilla minis); and Harrison’s Bit-
affairs in hotel/
restaurant of choice
choose between delicious and healthy tersweet Chocolate Chips, Fruit Smiles,
1.888.GO.KOSHER I GOKOSHER.org • Party Planners
just because it’s Passover.” Jelly Rings, and Fruit Slices. In addition,
• Available for groups,
As the premier distributor of kosher Gefen Gluten-Free Pastas (shells, wide
Rabbi Sholtiel Lebovic, Director
rabbi@gokosher.org seminars and schools food in the United States, Kayco stands noodles, elbows, and lasagna) will be
for variety, quality, and convenience. available at Whole Foods markets in
NY Tri-State • Philadelphia • Florida • Chicago • California • New England • DC Area • Toronto • Montreal That legacy goes hand in hand with many regions.

54 Jewish standard aPriL 5, 2019


JS-55*

Keeping Kosher

Kosher.com offers Passover recipes, Accessorize


many by noted cookbook authors the holiday
Naomi Nachman, aka the “Aussie Gourmet,” is a kosher food writer, personal Midrash Manicures is selling three
chef, and media personality. The recipe below is from her best-selling cookbook, unique seder accessories in time
“Perfect for Pesach” (Art Scroll). The book includes many easy recipes for meals for Passover — a matzah-inspired
or to enhance a seder table. More than 125 recipes include a photograph by hair scrunchie, matzah-printed leggings, and a three-
kosher blogger and cookbook author Miriam Pascal. The book includes appetiz- quarter-sleeve-length matzah print dress. The leggings
ers and starters, main dishes and desserts, gluten free and non-gebrochts rec- and dress, made of polyester and spandex, are machine
ipes, freezer tips, prep aheads, how-to information, and recommendations for washable.
basic kitchen equipment. To spark meaningful conversations, share the manu-
facturer’s modern “Ten Plagues” nail decals —including
the 10 biblical plagues with your seder attendees.
Holiday quinoa “hummus” Midrash Manicures aims to combine Jewish educa-
Ingredients: tion and creative art to make Torah more meaningful.
1 cup kosher for Passover Pereg Natural Foods Quinoa It also holds educational workshops at synagogues,
1/2 cup pine nuts day schools, and summer camps for creative religious
2 cloves garlic crushed
expression.
juice of 1 lemon (2-3 teaspoons)
Rabbi Yael Buechler, founder of Midrash Manicures,
1/2 teaspoon kosher for Passover Pereg Natural Foods Salt
1/2 teaspoon Kosher for Passover Pereg Natural Foods Cumin received rabbinic ordination from the Jewish Theo-
1 tablespoon olive oil logical Seminary and was named one of the Jewish
1/4 cup water Week’s 36 Under 36 Jewish visionaries for her work
1 tablespoon olive oil, for garnish with Midrash Manicures. She is the rabbi-in-residence
1 tablespoon parsley, finely chopped for garnish of the Lower School at the Solomon Schechter School
Kosher for Passover Pereg Natural Foods Paprika, for garnish of Westchester.
Pereg’s Kosher for Passover Zahtar, for garnish For more information, call (347) 201-1948 or go to
midrashmanicures.com.
Place quinoa and pine nuts into the bowl of a food processor
fitted with the “S” blade. Process until blended. Add remaining MIRIAM PASCAL
ingredients; continue to blend. Scrape down sides and blend again
for approximately 30 seconds. Do not over-blend or the mixture will become gummy. Transfer to a serving
bowl. Garnish with olive oil, parsley, zahtar and paprika. Store in an airtight container. Closter shul to host
Recipe shared by Naomi Nachman from “Perfect for Pesach” with permission from Art Scroll. the Cocktail Guru
Check kosher.com for other Passover recipes by Naomi Nachman and others. A mixologist from the Cocktail Guru of Manhattan
comes to Temple Emanu-El of Closter on Thursday,
April 11, at 7:30 p.m., for a “Tipsy Seder” program for
those 21 and older. The Cocktail Guru, who has been
featured on “The Today Show,” as well as NBC, ABC, and
Turkey and food drive in Paramus Fox, will prepare kosher for Passover cocktails that you
can serve at your seder. Admission includes drink sam-
The JCC of Paramus/Congregation Beth Tikvah col- Food will be donated to the Center for Food Action plings and hors d’oeuvres (recipes provided). For more
lects solidly frozen kosher and non-kosher turkeys in Mahwah. ShopRite gift cards or check donations information, go to templeemanu-el.com/tipsyseder.
and non-perishable packaged food (no glass) for its both are welcome.
Fran Leib Memorial Food Drive. It’s in the shul’s The shul is at East 304 Midland Ave. For more infor-
parking lot on Tuesday, April 16, from 7:15 to 9 a.m. mation, call (201) 262-7691 or go to www.jccparamus.org.

TAKING ORDERS FOR PASSOVER


Seder volunteers needed at Jewish Home Foster Village DINE
IN OR

Volunteers are needed to help residents at Pass- passing around the festive foods. Volunteers
Kosher Delicatessen TAKE
OUT

over seders at the Jewish Home at Rockleigh on report to Rabbi Feld in the synagogue at 4:15 (after APPETIZERS · SALADS
Friday, April 19, and Saturday, April 20, from services).o sign up, email Stacey Orden, the Jewish SOUPS · ENTREES
4:15 to 6:30 p.m. Tasks include turning pages in Home’s director of volunteer services, at sorden@ SIDE DISHES · DESSERTS
the Haggadahs for residents, pouring wine, and jewishhomefamily.org or call (201) 518-1175. Great Food, Great Service, Reasonable Prices
469 S. Washington Ave. • Bergenfield, N.J.
201-384-7100

Passover flowers by J-ADD Serving The Kosher Way Since 1976

The Jewish Association for Developmental Disabilities ( J-ADD),


a nonprofit agency that serves those with special needs, offers
flowers for Passover and other holidays.
There are centerpiece and bouquet options. Orders are due
April 11 and pickup will be on Thursday, April 18. ORDER FOR PASSOVER BY APRIL 12
Courtesy J-ADD

Flowers can be picked up at many local venues including


the Fair Lawn Jewish Center/CBI, Kaplen JCC on the Palisades Avi & Haim 894 Prospect Street
in Tenafly, and the Fair Lawn Jewish Center/CBI. To order, call Proprietors Glen Rock, NJ
(201) 457-0058, ext. 2010, or email FlowersbyJADD@j-add.org. Under Rabbinical Supervision Tel: 201-445-1186
www.koshernosh.com Fax: 201-670-5674
A representative J-ADD centerpiece
Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 55
Dear Rabbi Zahavy

Your talmudic advice column


Dear Rabbi, But museums and cultural There are many varia- the shammos would go around the shul.
I am the head administrator at a major institutions around the tions on stories like these, Members would tell him their pledges
Jewish nonprofit in New Jersey. One of world now have stopped but the common thread and he would report them aloud. For
our biggest donors has been charged accepting donations from that runs through them is instance, he would call out “Mr. Weil
with a crime. We want to remove his the Sacklers. that philanthropy all too pledges $5,000” as he announced the
name from our building now. Do we This brings to mind the often serves as the repu- amount he was told by the donor on
need to wait and see if he is convicted story of another Jewish tation-laundering mech- the spot. In the back of the synagogue
or exonerated? It could be years and we family involved in push- anism for people who a non-Jewish man sat with a pencil and
do not want to suffer embarrassment in ing addictive substances. made fortunes out of the paper and wrote down each pledge
the interim. The prominent New York Rabbi Tzvee suffering of others. And so no one would dispute it later. And
Disheartened in New Jersey Jewish philanthropic Tisch Zahavy no doubt it can serve as the understanding was, as the prayers
family suffered no social or a guilt-assuaging mecha- assured, that these acts of charity
Dear Disheartened, philanthropic rebuffs that I nism as well. “mitigated the evil of the decree” of
You do not need to wait. But you may can recall over the years for its owner- Accordingly, my advice ought to be Yom Kippur.
not need to disown your disgraced ship stake in Lorillard, makers of New- that yes, you should take down the It was a simpler time decades ago.
donor, even when he (or she) is con- port cigarettes. The Tisch family ostensi- names of those who engaged in dis- Today we have the instantaneous inter-
victed and sent to prison. Check with bly divested its holdings of that company reputable conduct from all of our edu- net to inform us all about the wrong-
your New Jersey colleagues in the non- in 2008. cational, social, cultural, recreational, doings of our tycoons, from purveying
profit sector about the local customs in The Tisches had bought the company and other institutions. No matter what instruments of death and suffering,
this muddy swamp. It seems obvious 40 years earlier, when Laurence Tisch the cost, we should never allow the pur- to the various forms of illegal sexual
that where big money is involved, cre- and Preston Robert Tisch took advan- veyors of evil to use philanthropy to buy improprieties and offensive harass-
ative solutions abound. tage of the expanding public health con- themselves eminence. ing behaviors.
For instance, I can recall several years cerns over the dangers of smoking. The Yet we know that is not how the world Would Mr. Nobel be able to establish
back, when a big-named donor of a New brothers bought the cigarette company works. Consider the case of the Nobel his prize program today? Perhaps not, if
Jersey Jewish school was sent to prison. at a bargain basement price and made a prizes. There is no greater eminence a group started to circulate opposition
It was true that as a result, his name was fortune over the next decades. that a person can receive than one of on the internet under the hashtag #@
removed from the school. But resource- The Times reported in 2008, “Pub- those prizes for accomplishments in the nononobel. Or perhaps yes, since it’s
fully, the school put up his mother’s lic health experts say Lorillard’s New- arts or sciences. utterly critical to the balance of the uni-
name as the replacement. And the fam- ports, which rank near the top in smok- Who was Mr. Nobel? He was the inven- verse that the fortunes of evil-doers be
ily continued supporting its cause. ing-machine tests of nicotine yield, may tor of dynamite and a manufacturer of directed back to do good for humanity.
Be aware that this issue has another be among the unhealthiest varieties cannons and armaments. His fortunes My advice then is to mitigate your
related side, now in the news in a major of cigarettes.” derived from war, death, and destruc- embarrassment the best you can. Per-
way, that affects many charitable recipi- Now, why do I so vividly recall this tion. According to the Nobel commit- haps remove the donor’s name from
ent organizations, Jewish and not. particular sad saga? It’s personal. My tee, he made no attempt to hide that your building.
It’s not clear where this will lead, but mother smoked those Newports for he wanted to cleanse his reputation But common sense, and all that I know
cultural institutions have stopped taking decades. When I was in high school, she through philanthropy. His biographers of the dynamics of religion and cul-
donations from a prominent Jewish fam- used to send me out on Friday mornings say that he bequeathed his fortune to ture, tells me that you should continue
ily, the Sacklers, and its foundations. to do some Shabbes shopping for her — institute the Nobel prizes after he read a to accept funds for doing the deeds of
The Sacklers founded and are major to buy a challah, some gefilte fish, a jar draft obituary that condemned him for decency, no matter what their source is.
owners of Purdue Pharma, the notori- of horseradish, and a pack of Newports. profiting from the sales of arms.
ous maker of OxyContin, the opioid drug She smoked those cigarettes right up to I’m sure it wasn’t just a come-to- Dear Rabbi Zahavy,
that is most visibly involved in the addic- her death in 2000, which was caused by charity moment at the end of his life I have celebrated Passover with a seder
tion crisis that has beset our nation. The emphysema, heart disease, and vascular that motivated this tycoon. Nobel for many years. Every year I leave the
company has played a major role in the disease, the multiple horrible illnesses knew how the world works, and he table with the same question: Who wrote
opioid epidemic that killed more than that her Newports inflicted on her. devised a plan to make his name synon- the Haggadah? Nobody has ever given
200,000 Americans over the last 20 Annually, cigarette smoking kills 7 ymous with positive academic and cul- me a good answer to this. Can you help?
years. In March, company officials set- million people worldwide; 480,000 of tural achievements. Puzzled about Passover in Paramus
tled a lawsuit brought by the state of them are in the United States. These Tellingly, I cannot recall ever read-
Oklahoma, agreeing to pay $270 million numbers have been comparable for the ing of a recipient who refused the Dear Puzzled,
to avoid going to trial in state court. past 50 years. Nobel prize because its monies derived It is correct and sanctioned to say his-
More large settlements now are Owning a company that purveyed from war. torically, critically, and theologically that
expected with other states and a with a death has had little effect on the repu- And it’s not just charity work that can many people over many epochs wrote
consolidated collection of 1,600 individ- tation of the Tisch family. To this day, redeem a person’s repute from the stains parts of the Haggadah.
ual lawsuits. New York University’s undergraduate of sin. It’s at the core of the world’s reli- SEE DEAR RABBI PAGE 68
The family is the 19th richest in the performing, cinematic, and media arts gions. It’s what religions do.
United States; in 2016 its wealth was school is named the NYU Tisch School At the ancient Israelite Temple in The Dear Rabbi Zahavy column
listed at $13 billion. The Sacklers have of the Arts. And children happily visit Jerusalem priests accepted sacrifices offers mindful advice based
a long record of philanthropy to scien- the Tisch Children’s Zoo at 65th Street from sinners every day — sin-offerings on Talmudic reasoning and
tific, medical, educational, and arts insti- in Central Park. And many other places and guilt-offerings, consisting of a bull- wisdom. The author aspires to
tutions, mainly in the U.S. and the U.K. of art and recreation bear their name. ock, a goat, a lamb, doves, or fine flour, be equally open and meaningful
depending on the offender’s status. to all the varieties and
Tzvee Zahavy of Teaneck is a prolific author who has published many books and And I recall with some awe being a denominations of Judaism. You
can find the column here usually
articles about Judaism and Jewish law. He has served as professor of world religions, child and listening to the announce-
on the first Friday of the month.
Talmud, Jewish law codes, Jewish liturgy, Jewish history, and Near Eastern and Jewish ments of the pledges at the Yom Kip-
Please mail your questions to
studies at major U.S. research universities and seminaries. He received his Ph.D.from pur appeal at the Park East Synagogue, the Jewish Standard or email
Brown University and his rabbinic ordination from Yeshiva University. Go to www. where my father was rabbi. After my them to zahavy@gmail.com
tzvee.com for more details. dad’s inspiring Yom Kippur sermon,
56 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
D’var Torah
Parshat Tazria/Shabbat Ha-Chodesh:
Looking for a baguette tree before Pesach

I
f you were to glance with a jaded eye at the because we are better at math than our ances- Israelites, can end up with a world in which
subjects covered in this week’s Torah portion, tors in Temple times, but because we (sadly) we can have a profound and lasting effect.
Tazria — childbirth, leprosy, impurity — you lack vision, the ability to see the new emerg- We thus understand why the blessing we
might miss an inspired progression. ing from the dried husk that surrounded it. make before eating bread (even matzah!)
Last week’s reading (Shmini) took place on the Rabbi Israel, the Ba’al Shem Tov, writes is “Hamotzi lechem min ha-aretz — God
eighth day (bayom ha-shmini) of the priestly pre- about the beginning of parshat Tazria that brings forth bread from the earth,” despite
paratory initiation. After an entire week of purify- when the Torah says “Isha ki tazria ve-yalda what Turnus Rufus claimed.
ing themselves to serve as kohanim, two of Aaron’s zachar (when a woman conceives and bears It is through the yearning vision of our
sons, Nadav and Avihu, are consumed by fire from a son),” it is not only talking about how the hearts that we are somehow able to see the
God right there in the sight of the entire nation, and biological process works, but that there is a Rabbi David baguettes and focaccias and bagels inher-
their corpses must be gingerly carried off by their spiritual process that goes on, as well. Bockman, ent in the seeds and the stalks of wheat that
brother priests. After all, this verse speaks of the woman Congregation sprout from them. We are God’s partners,
This week’s portion, by contrast, begins with conceiving (“giving forth seed”) before she Beth Shalom of ultimately, in bringing about the redemp-
childbirth and its concomitant impurity, but on gives birth, a process that the Baal Shem Pompton Lakes, tion, the purity, the holiness that lies hid-
Conservative
the eighth day, the male child is circumcised — Tov sees as exemplifying “it’areruta de-le- den beneath an outer klippa (husk).
removing the impurity. tata (initiation from below).” When our child is born, it’s the hopes
The same eight-day period that begins in puri- In other words, what happens depends, in part, on and aspirations we harbor for its future that bring about
fication and ends in death (last week), begins in who started the ball rolling. the flowering of that life’s potential.
impurity (at birth) but finally winds up in the If the exodus from Egypt had been a totally divine We have two weeks until the arrival of Passover to flip
complete opposite, in purity, at the time of cir- fiat, with initiation only from above in Heaven, the destiny: We must shift our hearts’ focus from last week’s
cumcision. Why this contradiction? result may have been different. But, as is so clearly por- inevitable descent toward entropy and encroaching
Rabbi Jacob Leiner of Ishbitz, in his Beit Ya’akov, trayed in the Passover Haggadah, the Israelites groaned death that seemed to be what lay in store for us all, to
recalls the story from an early rabbinic collection under their heavy bondage and cried out to God, thus this week’s promise of purity, covenant and redemp-
called Midrash Tanchuma, wherein the Roman sena- initiating the process of the exodus from Egypt, from tion, the grandeur hidden in re-experiencing the Exo-
tor Turnus Rufus (Quintus Tineius Rufus) argues with which they left “be-yad ramah (with high hand).” dus, the trees and bushes blooming with soon-to-be-re-
Rabbi Akiva about the relative value of God and man. When we initiate the process of redemption, it hap- alized baked goods.
Presenting Akiva with stalks of grain and a finished pens in a strong and exalted manner. Can you not yet see the ultimate redemption? Perhaps it
loaf, Turnus Rufus tries to convince the sage that The strands of our readings converge! lies just beyond the horizon!
while God made the grain grow, human beings were The process of Tazria, when initiated from among the Shabbat Shalom
superior, because they converted the inedible wheat
stalks into the yummy baguette!
Rabbi Akiva deftly turns the Roman’s argument
on its head by answering that God made the bread
in potential while allowing human beings the honor
of participating in the realization of the bread that
We invite the
was hidden within the wheat.
So too, argues Rabbi Leiner (following other hala- community to join
chic sources), the necessity for brit milah (covenant
of circumcision) after a week enables human beings
to participate in their own self-improvement — not
us at our seder
merely a commandment from God, but a gift of
agency in their own perfection.
In a similar vein, we read the special maftir
section, “Ha-Chodesh” [Exodus 12:1-20], where
Advance Reservations Required · Glatt Kosher
God points out the new moon of the month of For Reservations/Fee Contact 973-253-5281
Nisan, declaring that this shall be the “head of all OF MIRIAM
RS
months for you,” becoming the new year for the TE CE

Daughters of Miriam Center


GH NT
U E
A

Torah and for all biblical texts.


R
D

·
TH
·
TE

Because we no longer have a Temple in Jerusa-


E
L L E N I N S T I TU

GAL

lem, nor the Sanhedrin (high court) that resided


5HIGHEST
OUT OF5 STARS The Gallen Institute
LEN INSTI

there, and thus cannot declare the new month QUALITY RATING
MEDICARE
GA

based on witnesses testifying there, we must now a Jewish senior continuum of care facility
TU
FROM
E

TE
TH

rely on calculations to declare the date of the new


·

155 Hazel Street, Clifton, NJ, 07011


·

A
R

E U
GH
NT

month, squaring the lunar year with the solar,


CE TE
RS
OF MIRIAM

and whether or not an extra month needs to be

Wishing everyone a Chag Sameach!


added to create (as we have done this year) shana
me’uberet (a “pregnant” year of 13 lunar months).
This year’s month of Nisan thus follows the “isha
ki tazria” (a woman who becomes pregnant) of the
double Adar we’ve just concluded.
The Meshech Chochmah (Rabbi Simcha ha-Kohen The Center is a beneficiary agency of the Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey.
of Dvinsk) explains that we rely on calculations not
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 57
Kosher Crossword The Frazzled Housewife
“STREET APPEAL”
BY YONI GLATT, KOSHERCROSSWORDS@GMAIL.COM
DIFFICULTY LEVEL: EASY

Covering all the bases


BANJI GANCHROW person who was growing and develop-

H
ing inside of me and hoping that with
akarat hatov means “rec- each month, everything that was sup-
ognizing the good.” When posed to be happening, would be hap-
you go to a bar or bat mitz- pening. And for the past few months, I
vah, or any simcha for have been doing the same (without the
that matter, folks usually give hakarat whole pregnancy element since I am
hatov to God, thanking Him for all He not currently with child. Or will ever
has done by bringing the be again. Just to be clear.
family to this happy occa- Yes, it is just a little extra
sion. This tribute of grati- weight, no I am not hav-
tude usually comes before ing a child in my very
the annoying “you are the late 40s). I also try not
greatest husband/wife in to make any eye contact
the whole world.” (Barf.) with anyone so I don’t
“My life would be noth- have any evil thoughts,
ing without you.” (Dou- which defeats the pur-
ble barf.) “And this party pose of my going to syn-
would be in an empty Banji agogue in the first place,
room if it weren’t for you.” Ganchrow trying to be a better per-
(Triple barf.) In any event, son. Yes, I have issues.
over a year or so ago, two This past month was
specific and significant incidents hap- a little different. As some of you know,
pened in my life. Son #1 totaled the car, my dad has been in the hospital and
but walked away in one piece, thank rehab the past few weeks. What had
God, thank God. (Perhaps some of you started as a simple procedure ended up
read that column. If not, that is OK.) being a near disaster. It got me think-
Across Down And a few weeks after the accident, my ing about the words that you say in the
1. Gertrude Stein’s repeated flower 1. Football’s British relative mom fell, and, thank God, thank God, blessing of the new month. Please don’t
5. Wife or daughter of 48-Across, 2. Comedic partner of Stan
didn’t break anything. (I didn’t write be alarmed, but I am about to quote
with “The” 3. Aloof ones
9. Advil alternative 4. Aristocratic title about that one so you’re good if you from the siddur. “May it be your will
14. Arm bone 5. Vietnam or Six Day didn’t read it and if you read it, well, that You inaugurate this month upon us
15. Poker starter 6. Make king, perhaps you should get that checked out.) for goodness and for blessing. May You
16. King before Solomon 7. One getting a lead role, often I decided that I needed to show give us long life, a life of peace, a life
17. Ideal street for Israeli soldiers 8. Purebred family tree hakarat hatov to God, to show Him of goodness, a life of blessing ... a life
in mid-June of 1967? 9. “-ly” word, usually
how much I appreciated the blessings of physical health.” All of these things
19. “There you have it!” (in French) 10. Language of Southeast Asia
20. Best-selling book of all-time 11. Haman and Antiochus that He had given me. So I sat down that we want for ourselves and for the
21. “And Still ___” 12. Awful with son #1 to discuss my options. I people we love.
(Maya Angelou book) 13. Dutch cheese wanted to take something on — some- But what about when the month
23. “Solaris” author Stanislaw 18. Longs for thing good — a mitzvah or something doesn’t turn out the way that we want
24. Affirmative 22. He hit 60+ home runs three times of that nature. Something to help me it? There is sadness, there is sickness,
25. Rand of note 26. Jew
toward becoming a better person. As there is death. And as I am reading the
27. Hooked with a horn 28. Ishmael, to Abraham
29. Ideal street for Wiesel and Wouk? 29. Roger who isn’t exactly a Zionist you can imagine, he had a whole list of words, I see that the last two words,
33. Close by 30. Behavior principle things that I could do to show God my before it says, “now let us respond:
36. Black or green drink 31. Arrived appreciation. Just a few, right off of the Amen,” are, “For salvation and conso-
37. Letter opener? 32. “A Star Is Born” star Kristofferson top of his head (they started coming out lation.” Consolation. Nechama. Com-
38. Converses 33. Performs of his mouth, a tad too quickly if you fort. It seems that God is covering all of
39. “In ___ beginning...” 34. “... wherefore art ___ Romeo?”
ask me but, whatever) — start covering His bases. We all pray for it to be a good
40. 1938 Nobel-winning 35. What Americans are entitled
physicist Enrico to pursue my hair, start wearing only skirts, stop month. For everything to go our way.
41. Booze up 39. Indy team using inappropriate language… Yes, son For miracles to happen. But in the event
42. Tuna, at a sushi bar 40. Shaped #1 was ready with many options. But that it doesn’t, that it isn’t in the plan,
43. Company heads 42. “How many roads must ___ walk knowing it would need to be something we are offered comfort and consolation.
44. Ideal street for G-d? down...” (Bob Dylan lyric) that I could actually follow, we settled I guess it is good to read the English, and
47. Son two of eight for Abraham 43. Purchase
on going to synagogue once a month for it certainly is good to know that we are
48. Hank who was Ant-Man 45. Golf course “birds”
49. ___-fi 46. Concert starter the blessing of the new month. So far, I all being watched out for, even if it isn’t
52. It can come in a spray 49. Bit of bread have gone every month, in snow, sleet, always what we want.
54. Bearded garden dwarf 50. Recesses along the shore hail — just like the postal service! I have Wishing all of you blessings and com-
56. Fat king of Moab 51. Like some gas gone in Woodmere, in White Plains — fort in this new month and all of those
58. Emulate Rickey Henderson 52. Russian ruler, once nothing has stopped me from going to follow.
60. Ideal street for Braun and 53. End in ___ (come out even)
back on my word.
Bregman? 55. Regev of Israel
62. Window alternative 57. Take rudely Looking back, I remember I used to Banji Ganchrow of Teaneck has not
63. Journey 59. Comp. button go every month when I was pregnant; only learned where Emerson, New
64. Tennis serving whiz 61. Just manage, with ‘out’ saying the words with sincere intent Jersey, is, but that it only takes 90
65. Observes the Sabbath and focus. I would think about the little minutes to walk there.
66. “Your Majesty”
67. Tops
The solution to last week’s
puzzle is on page 67.

58 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Arts & Culture
Faith and Freedom
New Haggadah is a gateway to the insights of Rabbi Dr. Eliezer Berkovits
RABBI NATHANIEL HELFGOT idea but not overwhelming her with a lengthy trea-

O
tise. A nice example of this is R. Berkovits’ insightful
n the bookshelves of the contemporary reading of the section in the Haggadah describing the
young and not-so-young college-edu- rationale for the matzah as being bread that had not
cated modern Orthodox Jew, one most leavened as the Israelites were being driven out of
often will find the theological works of Egypt and “could not delay” (Ex. 12:39). R. Berkovits
Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik and his esteemed son- cites a comment of the Midrash Yalkut that interprets
in-law, my revered teacher, Rabbi Aharon Lichten- the phrase in two ways: “the haste in which the Chil-
stein, both of blessed memory. dren of Israel had to leave Egypt… Another opinion
On another shelf one will probably find works the haste meant is that in which the glory of God left
of Rabbi Norman Lamm, the former president of the country.” Developing this dual theme, R. Berkov-
Yeshiva University, as well as the increasingly pop- its suggests: “Redemption came before its time; the
ular (in both senses of the word) writings of Lord people were not prepared for it.… Had the Egyptian
Rabbi Jonathan Sacks. On another shelf one also slavery lasted any longer, it would have completely
may find some writings of Rav Kook and in some broken the nation and rendered them, for all time
instances the newly translated works of Rav Shagar. to come, unfit for their mission for which they were
These thinkers rightly occupy a pride of place in the destined… “In haste,” remarks the Yalkut, is the haste
pantheon of modern Orthodox thought leaders. The of God. Before the date originally intended, God had
dominance of these voices, however, sometimes to hasten their help…. Israel was saved from destruc-
has come at the price of relegating other significant tion; it was not yet mature for its mission. Hence fail-
voices from the 1950s to the 1970s that contributed ure followed upon failure. The nation even lost its
significant ideas to our thinking about the engage- homeland and was sent into exile once more, to learn
ment of halachic Judaism and the modern world. the rest of the lesson.”
Leading thinkers of those decades, such as Drs. All the selections are cited with the exact source
Michael Wyschograd and Eliezar Goldman, and Rab- and page number, so the interested reader can fur-
bis Walter Wurzburger, David Shapiro of Milwaukee, ther research R. Berkovits’ full treatment of the idea.
and Shubert Spero of Cleveland, all of blessed mem- It is, however, critical to remember as you read this
ory, and others, have not enjoyed the same fame volume that R. Berkovits did not write a commentary
or study of their writings in the contemporary area as Israel in 1992, and it serves as motto to many till today. on the text of the Haggadah. This is a compilation taken
they deserved. Chief among those who were significant A number of years back, the Shalem Institute in from other works written with other purposes in mind.
thinkers during those bygone decades and whose writ- Israel reprinted a number of R. Berkovits’s writings, This volume, then, is part of the growing genre of works
ings have done much to enrich our thinking is Rabbi Dr. reigniting interest in his work and introducing a new published in recent years that cull ideas from the writ-
Eliezer Berkovits z”l. generation to his stimulating and engaging thought. ings of thinkers and append them into a running com-
R. Berkovits (1908-1992) was a profound philos- This year, the Jewish world was blessed with the pub- mentary on this most popular of Jewish texts, which is
opher, rabbinic scholar, and theologian, who was a lication of another volume that I hope will encourage so central to the Jewish historical experience. As such,
close student of the renowned Rabbi Yechiel Yaakov even more study and engagement with this important it is no surprise that some readers may find some of the
Weinberg z”l at the Hildesheimer Rabbinical Sem- contemporary Jewish thinker. Reuven Mohl of Ber- citations only tangentially related to the specific text at
inary in Berlin where he received his ordination, gen County, a dentist who grew up hearing his own hand, feeling that it has taken them far afield from the
while also earning a doctorate in philosophy at the father discuss ideas formulated by R. Berkovits and immediate context of the words of the Haggadah. At the
University of Berlin. He served in the rabbinate in Ber- became intrigued by them, has compiled and edited same time, the rabbis of old did praise those who speak
lin before escaping to England, where he served in a commentary to the Passover Haggadah culled from about the Exodus “at length.”
the pulpit in Leeds. He later served in congregations R. Berkovits’s work. The volume, titled “Faith and Expanding the contours of your discussion in new
in Australia and Boston before settling in Chicago in Freedom,” includes the entire Passover Haggadah in and unexpected directions may fall under the rubric of
1958, serving as chair of the department of philoso- Hebrew, with an English translation, in a clear and that rabbinic encouragement. “Faith and Freedom” is
phy at the Hebrew Theological College in Skokie. appealing font. It is prefaced with a moving introduc- a wonderful gateway into the thinking and writings of
In 1976 he made aliyah to Israel, continuing his tion by his sons, themselves educators and rabbis. On a leading voice of Torah and ethics of the 20th century,
writing even as he settled into retirement. He was the the bottom of the page, the editor has created a com- a man whose ideas should continue to resonate in the
author of 19 books in areas of Jewish philosophy, eth- mentary directly citing relevant selections from the ongoing conversations about modernity, Judaism, the
ics, the Holocaust, halacha, and Zionism, as well as writings of R. Berkovits. State of Israel, the role of women, and so many other
hundreds of significant articles in all areas of Jewish The Haggadah, of course, deals with major theolog- critical topics that continue to engage us all.
studies and life. To take one example, in my view, his ical themes of Judaism, such as God’s involvement in
seminal essay on prayer, written in the mid 1960s, is history, suffering, redemption, and the covenantal his- Rabbi Nathaniel Helfgot is rabbi of Congregation
one of the best — if not the best — presentations on tory of the Jewish people. These are all themes that R. Netivot Shalom in Teaneck, the chair of the department
Jewish prayer in the English language. His formula- Berkovits wrote about at length during his prodigious of Torah SheBaal Peh at SAR High School in Riverdale,
tion that “Halakha must once again reveal itself as the career and so the Haggadah is an excellent springboard and the author of a number of volumes on Jewish
wisdom of the feasible giving priority to the ethical” to enter into his thoughts. The citations have been well studies, in both English and Hebrew, including “Mikra
(“Not in Heaven,” pg. 178) was a guidepost for much chosen, and in most cases are neither too short nor and Meaning: Studies in Bible and Its Interpretation”
of his writings since the early 1940s till his death in too long, giving the reader the chance to digest a full (Koren/Maggid, 2011).
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 59
Calendar
(201) 750-9997,
templeemanu-el.
Adina Sash, aka Flatbush Girl com/93queen.
COURTESY HILLEL ROCKLAND
Children’s Passover
program: The JCC of
Paramus/Congregation
Beth Tikvah hosts a
monthly preschool
program for 3- to
5-year-olds and their
caregivers, “Preparing
for Pesach,” 9:30 a.m.
Stories, projects, music,
cooking and activities.
East 304 Midland Ave.
Mayor Michael Wildes
Marcia, (201) 262-7733 Englewood mayor
or edudirector@ in Monsey: The
jccparamus.org. Community
Spring boutique in Synagogue of Monsey
Tenafly: The Kaplen and the Stern family
JCC on the Palisades offer the 22nd annual
offers a boutique with Israel and Pearl Stern
more than 50 vendors Memorial lecture and
selling gifts, home brunch, 10:15 a.m.
furnishings, jewelry, Mayor Michael Wildes
women’s fashions of Englewood, an
and accessories, immigration lawyer,
children’s clothing, and will discuss “Jews
summer camp items, and Immigration:
10 a.m.-5 p.m., and on Lessons from Biblical
Joseph to the White
APRIL As part of Jewish Heritage Month and Holocaust Monday, 9 a.m.-4 p.m.
House.” 89 West
Proceeds support
commemorations at Rockland Community College, Adina Maple Ave., Monsey.

11
the JCC Leonard and
Sash, aka “Flatbush Girl,” discusses “Don’t Post That! Syril Rubin Nursery (845) 356-2720 or
comsyn.org.
How to Use Social Media Correctly to Make Money and School. 411 E. Clinton
Ave. (201) 408-1435 or Fundraiser for
Change the World,” in RCC’s Ellipse Technology Center at 12:15 p.m. fkoszer@jccotp.org. animals: START II,
145 College Road, Suffern, NY. Rabbi Dov Oliver, (845) 574-4422 or Save the Animals
doliver@sunyrockland.edu. Rescue Team holds
its annual Spring
Fling fundraiser at
sermon. 585 Russell Vitales in Teaneck,
Comedy in Fair Lawn:
Friday Ave. Reservations,
(201) 891-4466 or
Saturday The sisterhood of
11 a.m.-3 p.m. Tricky
tray, 50/50, auction,
APRIL 5 www.bethrishon.org. APRIL 6 the Fair Lawn Jewish gift certificates, brunch
Center/CBI presents with vegetarian
Women’s study group Shabbat in Closter: Murder mystery in “Howdy Stranger!” an options. 293 Queen
in Closter: Rabbi Temple Beth El of Ridgewood: Temple improv sketch comedy Anne Road. Joan,
show, 8:30 p.m. Rabbi Meeka Simerly
David-Seth Kirshner Northern Valley has its Israel & JCC host (201) 368-2743.
leads a study group family friendly Hagigah “Totally ’80s, Totally Admission includes Learning about
at Temple Emanu-El Shabbat, 6:45 p.m., led Murder,” an adult show, appetizers, and Passover in Wayne: Camp open house
of Closter, 10:30 am. by Rabbi David Widzer professional interactive desserts. 10-10 Norma Rabbi Meeka Simerly in Haledon: Camp
180 Piermont Ave. and Cantor Elizabeth murder mystery Ave. (201) 796-5040 or offers a comprehensive Veritans will hold
(201) 750-9997. Goldmann with the sponsored by the shul’s RFlanzman@aol.com. look at Passover — its its annual spring
junior choir, Rinat Brandeis Men’s Club, traditions, its rituals, open house at the
Shabbat in Wyckoff:
Temple Beth Rishon
Beth El, and religious
school students. 221
8:15 p.m. 1980’s-style
dress optional.
Sunday the seders, and the camp, with family
fun activities, snacks,
food we eat during the
hosts Shabbat Kulanu, Schraalenburgh Road. Admission includes APRIL 7 festival —at Temple demonstrations, and
a new Shabbat (201) 768-5112 or www. open bar, desserts, camp tours, 1- 4 p.m.
Beth Tikvah, 10 a.m.
experience for all, on tbenv.org. and prizes. 475 Grove Film in Closter: The Meet the leadership
Bagel breakfast. 950
the first Friday of each St. (201) 444-9320 Sisterhood of Temple team. 225 Pompton
Preakness Ave.
month, at 6:13 p.m., or MensClubEvents@ Emanu-El screens Road. (973) 956-1220.
(973) 595-6565 or
in honor of the 613 Synagogue.org. “93 Queen,” 9 a.m. templebethtikvahnj. Wine/spirits/deli in
mitzvot. Music and a 180 Piermont Ave. org. Hackensack: Temple
story will replace the

60 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Calendar

Beth El and Chabad Congregation Beth continues its monthly Shalom. Refreshments the Hands of God:
of Hackensack have a Tikvah hosts the “Great Cafe Europa for at 12:30 p.m., program Jewish Social Justice
wine and spirit tasting Passover Recipe Holocaust survivors at 1. 1449 Anderson at a Time of Crisis and
and deli dinner, 4 p.m. Swap,” 7 p.m. Email at the Rockland JCC, Ave., Fort Lee. Opportunity.” After
Wines available to recipes to share to 2:30 p.m. John and (201) 947 1735 or musical services at
order. 280 Summit LJRwax@gmail.com. Amy Israel Pregulman, geshershalom.org. 8 p.m., he will discuss
Ave. (201) 342-2045 East 304 Midland Ave. the founders “Tough Choices:
or ChabadHackensack. (201) 262-7691. of KAVOD, will Tricky tray/fashions Jewish Perspectives
com. photograph survivors in Fair Lawn: The on America’s Social
there. KAVOD partners Pythian Sisters hold Justice Challenge.” At
Welcome to with Jewish Family a fashion show with Torah study, Shabbat
Englewood: Mayor Service and other clothing from Chico’s morning at 9 a.m., he
Michael Wildes holds organizations that and a tricky tray will talk about “The
a meeting for all new work with survivors. auction at the Fair Jewish Response:
Englewood residents Rabbi Chaim Poupko 450 West Nyack Lawn Community Economic Justice —
and their friends at Road, West Nyack, N.Y. Center, 6 p.m. Testing the Morality of
the newly renovated Lunch and learn: The Admission includes a
Dor L’Dor group at (845) 354-2121. our Nation,” followed
Crowne Plaza Hotel, sheet of tickets and by services at 10:30. At
7 p.m. 401 South Van Congregation Ahavath a door prize ticket
Torah in Englewood Jewish N.Y. in 1 p.m., his talk will be
Brunt St. For new Englewood: New for a 50-inch smart “Religious Persecution
residents and friends offers a pre-Passover TV, and refreshments.
lunch and learn, York City tour guide/ and Religious Freedom
to meet owners of historian Marty Gift cards include Across the Globe.” On
local businesses, “Haggadah Highlights,” upscale restaurants,
with Rabbi Chaim Schneit gives an Sunday at 10:30 a.m.,
restaurants, public illustrated lecture, department stores, he concludes with
officials, and nonprofit Poupko, the shul’s movie tickets, dinner,
senior rabbi, and a mini “Jewish New York,” “Racing with God:
organizations. Free gift at the Englewood and more. Proceeds The Use and Abuse
bag and refreshments. pre-Passover boutique, will benefit children’s
noon. 240 Broad Public Library, 7 p.m. of Religion in
Sponsored by 31 Engle St. www. charities. 10-10 20th St. American Elections.”
Englewood Chamber Ave. Reservations, Gayle, (201) 791-0737.
englewoodlibrary.org. Journalist/author Reservations required
of Commerce, Crowne Eileen, (201) 568-1315
in Tenafly: Sally for dinner, Kiddush
Plaza Hotel, and the or dorldor@
Kohn, a progressive lunch, and breakfast.
City of Englewood. ahavathtorah.org.
commentator on 1666 Windsor Road.
Reservations, Fox News and (201) 833-1322 or
(201) 567-2381 CNN, discusses her emeth.org.
or crauscher@ journalist experiences
englewoodnjchamber.
com.
and her new book,
“The Opposite of Sunday 
Hate: A Field Guide APRIL 14
Monday  to Repairing Our
Humanity,” at the Music in Paterson:
APRIL 8 Miriam Krupka Berger Kaplen JCC on the Rabbi Baruch Simon The Clifton-based
Palisades, 8 p.m. The acoustic rock band
Pre-Pesach shiur program, sponsored Pre-Pesach shiur
COURTESY HILLEL ROCKLAND Blue Valley plays
in Teaneck: Miriam in part by the James in Teaneck: Rabbi
music from its new
Krupka Berger gives Baruch Simon, rosh
Book talk in Suffern: H. Grossmann CD for the Lambert
a pre-Pesach shiur, Memorial Jewish Book yeshiva at RIETS,
As part of Jewish Castle Concert series
“The Four Loves of Endowment Fund, discusses “Haggadah
Heritage Month at Lambert Castle,
Shir ha-Shirim: Can concludes with a Q&A. Insights: Torah
and Holocaust 5 p.m. 3 Valley Road.
We Be Friends with (201) 569-7900 or for the Seder” at
commemorations at Limited seating.
God?” for Sisterhood JCCotp.org. Congregation Beth
Rockland Community (973) 247-0085 or
of Congregation Beth Aaron, 8:15 p.m. 950
College, Abigail lambertcastle.org.
Aaron and Lamdeinu, Queen Anne Road.
Miller, the educational
at Beth Aaron, Thursday  (201) 836-6210 or
Movie in Closter:
Temple Beth El of
director of the
Holocaust Museum & 8 p.m. All welcome. APRIL 11 bethaaron.org. Tuesday 
Northern Valley’s Center for Tolerance & Refreshments. 950 APRIL 16
membership Education, discusses Queen Anne Road.
(201) 836-6210 or
Parsha learning: Friday 
committee screens Heather Morris’ novel Temple Emanu-El APRIL 12
“93 Queen,” 10:15 a.m. “The Tattooist of www.bethaaron.org. in Closter offers
Refreshments. 221 Auschwitz,” in RCC’s “Parsha for Dummies,”
Hadassah meets exploring the weekly Shabbat in Closter:
Schraalenburgh Road. Ellipse Technology
in Paramus: The highlights of the Temple Beth El holds
(201) 768-5112 or www. Center, 12:15 p.m.
Hadassah Bat-Sheva services led by Rabbi
tbenv.org. 145 College Road. Torah reading, 11 a.m.
Players presents an David S. Widzer and
Rabbi Dov Oliver, 180 Piermont Road.
original skit, “What’s Cantor Elizabeth
Tuesday  (845) 574-4422 or
doliver@sunyrockland.
Best for Henrietta,”
(201) 750-9997 or
templeemanu-el.com. Goldmann and
about what might have featuring the Shabbat
APRIL 9 edu.
happened if Henrietta Unplugged Band with
Talking about Jewish Szold lived in the time music director Jim
Lunch and Learn of dating apps and
personalities in Rensink, clarinetist Book talk in Fort
in Teaneck: Rabbi social media, at at
Wayne: Seniors of Benjamin Baron, and Lee: The sisterhood
Zev Goldberg of the JCC of Paramus/ featuring congregants,
Temple Beth Tikvah of JCC of Fort Lee/
Young Israel of Fort CBT, 8 p.m., following 7:30 p.m. 221
are welcome to hear Congregation Gesher
Lee discusses “10 a meeting at 7:30. Schraalenburgh Road.
Shirley Laiks discuss a Shalom meets
Inspirational Ideas to Refreshments. E. (201) 768-5112.
potpourri of talented to discuss Ayelet
Share at Your Seder” 304 Midland Ave.
Jewish personalities, Gundar-Goshen’s
at Congregation Bnai laurajerrymenter@ Shabbat in
including Dr. Ruth “ Waking Lions,”
Yeshurun, for the yahoo.com. Teaneck: Rabbi
Westheimer, Steven Marty Schneit 1 p.m. Refreshments.
Teaneck Orthodox David Saperstein,
Spielberg, and Alan 1449 Anderson Ave.
Retiree Association former director of
(TORA). Lunch at Dershowitz, 1 p.m. 950
Preakness Ave. Barbara,
Wednesday  Irving Berlin: Marty
Schneit discusses the Religious Action
(201) 947-1735.
noon, talk at 12:45 APRIL 10 Center of Reform
(973) 694-7478 or “Irving Berlin: An
p.m. 1610 Parker Judaism, is the
templebethtikvahnj.org. American Institution”
Ave. Reservations, Rockland program Rabbi Louis J. Sigel
for the CSI Scholar
bnaiyeshurun.org/tora for Holocaust scholar-in-residence
Passover recipes in Fund and Sisterhood
or mkarlin@aol.com. survivors: Rockland at Temple Emeth.
Paramus: Sisterhood of the JCC of Fort Lee/
at the JCC of Paramus/ Jewish Family Service Congregation Gesher He’ll explore “Being

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 61


Calendar

Singles
West Nyack Road.
Gene, (845) 356-5525. Thursday Photographers to visit
Singles meet in APRIL 11 Rockland’s Cafe Europa
Sunday Caldwell: New
Jersey Jewish Singles Widows and
On Wednesday, April 10, from 2:30 to survivors; their mission is to photo-
APRIL 7 45+ meets for food, widowers meet: 4 p.m., the monthly Cafe Europa for graph as many Holocaust survivors as
fun, mingling, and Movin’ On, a monthly Holocaust survivors at the Rockland possible. Kavod partners with Jewish
Seniors meet in a dessert buffet to luncheon group JCC, sponsored by the Rockland Jew- Family Service and other organiza-
West Nyack: Singles celebrate the group’s for widows and ish Family Service and the Holocaust tions that work with survivors. The
65+ meets for a get- eighth anniversary at widowers, meets at
together at the JCC the Glen Rock Jewish Museum and Center for Tolerance and program is at 450 West Nyack Road,
Congregation Agudath
Rockland, 11 a.m. All are Israel, 2:30 p.m. 20 Center, 12:30 p.m. Education, continues. in West Nyack, N.Y. For more infor-
welcome, particularly Academy Road. Sue, 682 Harristown Road. John and Amy Israel Pregulman, mation, call (845) 354-2121 or go to
from Hudson, (973) 226-3600, (201) 652-6624 or the founders of Kavod, will visit the kavodensuringdignity.com.
Passaic, Bergen, or ext. 145, or singles@ arbgr@aol.com.
Rockland counties. monthly social group to photograph
agudath.org.
Refreshments. 450

Areyvut chesed fair on Sunday


Holocaust survivors, students Areyvut will host a free community,
hands-on chesed fair at the Fair Lawn
“Chesed Begins at Home.” Projects
include preparing a challah to bake at
collaborate on ‘Bare Witness’ Jewish Center/CBI on Sunday, April 7, home, repurposing material to make
On April 11, at 8 p.m., seniors at the with Ms. Reichardt and Ms. Lopkin, met from 2 to 4 p.m. It is in conjunction dog toys, creating friendship bracelets,
Torah Academy of Bergen County will with Holocaust survivors, learned their with Good Deeds Day and its National bookmarks, cork trivets, and a seder
present “Bare Witness,” a play created stories, wrote them, and will perform Mitzvah Day. The first 100 attendees centerpiece. All projects can be taken
by two TABC teachers — Cary Reichardt, them. One student composed an original will receive a National Mitzvah Day home or given to a family member,
the school’s coordinator of Holocaust score to accompany the vignettes, while shirt courtesy of Areyvut friend, or neighbor.
studies, and Rebecca Lopkin, its per- another created all the sets. TABC is at The family education program is The shul is at 10-10 Norma Ave. For
forming arts director. Students, working 1600 Queen Anne Road, Teaneck. geared for all ages and will have a vari- information, call Daniel Rothner at
ety of projects around the theme of (201) 244-6702 or go to areyvut.org.

50 pupils from GBDS will star


in ‘Red Sea Blues’ at Wayne Y
The annual school musical produc- musical numbers include “When you
tion is the highlight of the Academies Believe” from the movie “Prince of
@ GBDS: Arts Academy’s programs. E�ypt,” “It’s Raining Manna,” and the
This year, it presents “Red Sea Blues” title song, “Red Sea Blues.” The show
on Wednesday, April 10, at 7 p.m., at stars 50 GBDS students from kindergar-
the Wayne YMCA. The show is a come- ten through eighth grade, with special
dic and poignant story of the Israel- appearances by parents and faculty
ites’ journey from slavery in E�ypt to members. For more information, call
receiving the Torah at Mount Sinai. Hit (201) 337-1111 or go to www.ssnj.org.

Program helps confront challenges


brought by early onset memory loss
The Senior Center at the Kaplen JCC on The long-term goal is to promote social
the Palisades in Tenafly launches Mem- engagement and greater independence
ory Café, a new free program designed through activities and valuable interac-
for people with early-onset memory loss tions with others who are experiencing
as well as for their caregivers. An inaugu- similar life-changing events. Changes
ral meeting is set for Wednesday, April 10, in memory, thinking, and behavior can
11:30 a.m.; after that, the group will meet be signs of early stage memory loss; it is
on the third Wednesday of the month at important to ask a physician about them.
11:30 a.m. A light lunch will be included. “Our hope is to provide people with
Typically, people who are diag- younger-onset memory loss with vital
nosed with memory loss when they are activities and resources that keep them Book and author night
younger face dramatically different chal- engaged and independent and to provide Lynda Loigman, author of “The Park Ridge, Temple Emanuel of the
lenges than those faced people by who continuity of care over time as symptoms Wartime Sisters,” discusses her Pascack Valley in Woodcliff Lake,
are affected when they are older. This advance,” Judi Nahary, the JCC’s senior book for Jewish Federation of Temple Sinai of Bergen County
program is specifically geared to explor- services director, said. Northern New Jersey Women’s in Tenafly, Temple Beth Rishon
ing these challenges in a safe, support- Caregivers who attend this program will Philanthropy on Thursday, April 11, in Wyckoff, and Women of Chai
ive, and engaging environment, where have an opportunity to form close bonds at 7:30 p.m., at JFNNJ headquarters of Temple Beth Tikvah in Wayne.
participants and caregivers can share, and socialize outside the program. Regis- in Paramus. The night is co-spon- JFNNJ is at 50 Eisenhower Drive,
laugh, cry, find support, and explore tration is required. For more information sored by sisterhoods of Temples Paramus. For more information, go
their feelings and concerns without fear and to register, call (201) 408-1450 or email Beth Sholom of Pascack Valley in to www.jfnnj.org/bookandauthor.
of embarrassment. Ms. Nahary at jnahary@jccotp.org.
62 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
Calendar

Bicyclists and hikers gearing up


for JFCS Meals on Wheels benefit
Jewish Family & Children’s Services of in the community. All proceeds support
Northern New Jersey will hold its ninth JFCS food assistance programs, which
annual JFCS Wheels-for-Meals — Ride include Kosher Meals on Wheels and
to Fight Hunger ride and hike on Sun- the JFCS food pantries, serving nearly
day, June 23. This year’s event, with 3, 200 families using the Teaneck and Fair
10, 25, and 50-mile rides, will begin and Lawn facilities.
end at Temple Emanu-El in Closter. The Use promo code JSTAND for 30
day, which is for the whole family, raises percent off registration fees at Rideto-
awareness for the fight against hunger FightHunger.com or call (201) 837-9090.

Amy Kent, Stephanie Cohn, Karin Bevilacqua, and Jillian Somberg at last
year’s run. COURTESY JCCOPT

Get your sneakers ready


for Kaplen JCC Rubin Run
The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in importance of fitness and healthy
Tenafly has opened registration for lifestyles, and raises significant funds
the 38th annual Rubin Run, which to provide enrichment and profes-
will take place on Mother’s Day, Sun- sional guidance for people of all ages
day, May 12. More than 1,000 people who are differently abled so they can A vendor at last year’s sale and her creations.  COURTESY JCCOTP
participate in the annual USA Track attain the support and comfort they
and Field-sanctioned event, which
aims to celebrate family and fitness
deserve in an inclusive and accessible
environment.”
Spring boutique in Tenafly
while raising funds for programs that The Rubin Run includes outdoor The Kaplen JCC on the Palisades offers to 5 p.m., and on Monday, April 8, from
improve the quality of life for dif- activities for kids, light snacks and a boutique with more than 50 vendors 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Proceeds support the
ferently abled children, teens, and beverages, free babysitting, pre-race selling gifts, home furnishings, jewelry, JCC Leonard and Syril Rubin Nursery
adults in our community. stretches and warm-ups, CompuS- women’s fashions and accessories, School. The JCC is at 411 E. Clinton Ave.
Participation supports vital JCC pro- core race-recording, trophies for the children’s clothing, and summer camp For more information, call (201) 408-
grams and services that help more than top three male and female winners items, on Sunday, April 7, from 10 a.m. 1435 or go to jccotp.org.
850 people each year to learn appro- in each age category, and a medal for
priate social interactions, increase all children under 10 who finish the
communication skills and self-expres- race. And in honor of Mother’s Day,
sion, develop greater independence in all participating moms receive a rose
activities of daily living and self-help, as they cross the finish line.
and become productive, healthy, and Participants are encouraged to
engaged members of the community. fundraise as individuals or as teams The All
This year, for the first time, there and can register at jccotp.org/rubin- Seasons
will be a Health Expo, which will be run. Early bird registration runs Chamber
open at the JCC on Thursday, May through April 14 and online until May Players
9, from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m., and again 8. After that, registration is at the JCC. PHOTO PROVIDED
on Friday, May 10, from 9 a.m. to 6 The Rubin Run is made possible
p.m. Rubin Run participants will be by generous community sponsors.
able to pick up their packets there. It The presenting sponsor is the Kaplen
also will feature local businesses and Foundation. Diamond sponsors
resources for health and wellness, as include BSecure, Englewood Health,
well as vendors who will sell products and the Rubin and Rubach families.
and services. Many of the exhibitors Platinum sponsors include the Jew-
and vendors at the expo also will be
at race itself, adding to the fun.
ish Standard, the North Jersey Media
Group, and Dr. Praeger’s Sensible
Chamber music at Teaneck Library
The Rubin Run will feature three Foods. The All Seasons Chamber Players include flutist Lisa Hansen of Leonia,
race options — an 8K trail run through The Rubin Run is named for the returns to the Teaneck Public Library to violinist Bob Lawrence, cellist E. Zoe
the Lost Brook Preserve, maintained late Leonard Rubin, a past president perform “Indomitable Spirit: Beethoven Hassman, and pianists Jean Strickholm
by the Tenafly Nature Center, a 10K and founder of the JCC, who estab- and Beyond,” a spring program of cham- of Demarest and Jacqueline Schiller-Audi
run, and a 5K walk/run. lished this community-wide athletic ber music featuring composers who of Paramus.
“The Rubin Run exemplifies every- event to encourage and promote overcame major life challenges. The con- A reception will follow the concert.
thing we stand for at the JCC,” the healthy living. cert, part of the library’s Music On a Sun- The library is at 840 Teaneck Road, cor-
JCC’s CEO, Jordan Shenker, said. “It For more information, c all day Afternoon series, sponsored by the ner of Cedar Lane, and is handicapped
brings our community together on a (201) 408-1404 or go to jccotp.org/ Friends of the Teaneck Public Library, is accessible. For information, call (201)
very special day, acknowledges the rubinrun. on Sunday, April 7, at 2 p.m. Performers 837-4171.

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 63


Jewish World

An Orthodox organization’s gala dinner


is mostly a tribute to Donald Trump
BEN SALES who promoted the conspiracy that Hil-
lary Clinton was involved in a child sex
Bright red baseball hats emblazoned ring. Kalman Yeger, the New York City
with white capital letters freckled the councilman who recently tweeted that
room among the crowd who had gath- “Palestine does not exist,” was cheered
ered for the evening. by the crowd.
The co-chairman of the Republican “They put fear into us, but they should
National Committee, Tommy Hicks Jr., rose not,” McCarthy said in his speech, refer-

MICHAEL BROCHSTEIN/GETTY IMAGES


to speak after Representative Kevin McCa- ring to Israel’s enemies. “I expect that
rthy, a California congressman and the from Iran, I expect it from Syria, but I
House minority leader, and before former should not expect it from the U.K. and
Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee, a two- America, or in the halls of Congress.”
time Republican presidential candidate. The table decorations were MAGA-
To his side, a couple of women style hats reading “Build Israel Great
cheered. They were waving Trump cam- A gain.” Attendees gradually scooped
paign signs. Hicks kept his remarks short. them up and wore them. Others wore
“Just come help us win in 2020. We kippahs or other apparel emblazoned
have the best president ever,” he said, with Trump’s name.
drowned out by loud cheers. “Wherever Representative Kevin McCarthy, the House minority leader, speaks at the And Trump supporters at the dinner
you have friends, please come get them gala dinner of the National Council of Young Israel in Manhattan on March 31. praised the president for more than his
working. We have to win in 2020. It’s the Israel policy.
most important thing in our life.” “I got a whole wardrobe of Trump
Welcome to the gala dinner of the stuff,” said Ayton Eller, wearing a tie and
National Council of Young Israel. kippah both reading “Trump 2020.” “I
The dinner last Sunday night in mid- got like 10 T-shirts, I got like four sweat-
town Manhattan, an annual fundraising shirts, I got five yarmulkes.”
event for an Orthodox synagogue associ- He went on to say: “I’m an accountant,
ation with more than 100 member con- so tax cuts, was like, historical. … The
gregations, had the trappings of a tradi- stock market, since he got in, like, went
tional religious Jewish gathering. There up — I made tons of money with that.”
were Hebrew songs, rabbis and their And: “Everything else, Israel pol-
BEN SALES

BEN SALES
wives were honored, strictly kosher food icies, doing away with Obamacare,
was served, and men peeled off for Min- Obamacare is a mess.”
cha, the afternoon prayer. Not everyone at the dinner came to
But the theme of the night was support Zachary Silver, 25, believes that religious Judaism naturally leads to support- support Trump. Many on hand were
for President Donald Trump, the Repub- ing President Trump. Each table at Young Israel’s gala dinner was decorated members of Young Israel synagogues,
lican Party, and Israel’s West Bank settle- by MAGA-style hats reading “Build Israel Great Again.” and the group also honored a group of
ments. Conversely, speakers warned of Jewish World War II veterans.
the dangers of Representatives Ilhan Omar Young Israel sparked a minor contro- president, “you are putting Jews at risk, Iris Maidenbaum, 60, is not a member
and Rashida Tlaib, two freshman Demo- versy in February when it became the are you not aware that you are making of a local Young Israel congregation, but
crats, both Muslims, who have endorsed first major American Jewish organiza- people of that religion a target.” appreciates the group’s vocal support of
the movement to boycott Israel. Omar also tion to defend an agreement between Speaking Sunday, Moskowitz said Israel. “We’re not signed up because of
has made many statements perceived as Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Net- “We’ve allowed Torah-true values to any particular political affiliation, but
echoing anti-Semitic stereotypes. anyahu and Jewish Power, a far-right come under question or worse. We’ve we’re in agreement with many of the
“For the first time in our history, the political party. Jewish Power’s leaders allowed them to be replaced with the policies, at this point probably most
Jewish people have a real friend in the are former followers of the late Rabbi leftist progressive tikkun olam ideology. of the policies, on Israel and on other
White House,” Yechezkel Moskowitz, the Meir Kahane, who advocated expelling … Leftist progressivism, as great as you things,” she said. “But particularly, our
dinner chairman, told the crowd to loud Arabs from Israel. Nearly two dozen might think it is, is not Judaism.” concern is the security and the advance-
cheers. “President Trump is the most Young Israel synagogues objected to the Upon mention of the “tikkun olam” ment of the State of Israel.”
benevolent leader the Jewish people National Council’s statement. agenda, the crowd booed. “Tikkun For others, the bond between Ortho-
have ever known in their 2,000 years in The National Council has a history olam,” Hebrew for “repairing the world,” dox Judaism and Trump hit home.
their diaspora, believe me.” of supporting right-wing politics in the is a phrase often used by left-wing Jewish Zachary Silver, 25, a conservative
The gala was characteristic of a trend United States and Israel. And Moskow- groups in particular to talk about social activist who managed the contingent
among Orthodox Jews, who voted for itz, who runs a consultant and broker- justice, which conservatives often dis- of about 125 young professionals at the
Trump in numbers opposite those of age business, is an outspoken opponent miss as liberal activism. dinner, believes that Jews who become
America’s non-Orthodox Jewish major- of left-wing Jews on social media. About The lineup of marquee speakers Sun- more traditionally observant will gravi-
ity. Their growing affinity for the Repub- a week ago, sparring with the left-wing day — including Hicks, McCarthy, and tate toward the Republican Party. “The
lican Party paid off when Trump named Orthodox group Torah Trumps Hate, Huckabee — was entirely Republican Republican Party right now and the con-
an Orthodox supporter of the settlement he wrote on Facebook that “The Pitts- or otherwise right wing. The emcee servatives are the most pro-God move-
movement as U.S. ambassador to Israel, burgh shooting as horrifying as it was, was Pete Hegseth, the co-host of “Fox & ment of my life, honestly,” said Silver,
moved the U.S. embassy to Jerusalem was in my opinion a sad but direct result Friends Weekend.” who also wore a Trump kippah. “The
from Tel Aviv, pulled the United States of their actions.” When you “weap- Rudy Giuliani, the former New York liberal party, the leftist party, the Dem-
out of the Iran nuclear deal, and last onize a religion against the leader of mayor and current Trump lawyer, was ocrats, especially here and in Israel,
month said he would recognize Israeli your country,” he wrote, referring to in attendance. So was Jack Posobiec, they’re socialist, they’re anti-God, they
sovereignty over the Golan Heights. Torah Trumps Hate’s opposition to the the right-wing pundit and provocateur don’t have true values.” JTA WIRE SERVICE
64 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019
JS-65

Obituaries

Paul Breslow
Paul Breslow, 94 of Fair Lawn, died March 27. survived by his wife of 68 years, Gloria, sons, Marc
A U.S. Air Force photo reconnaissance pilot and Jay (Debbie), and three grandsons.
during World War II, he was a New York University Donations can be sent to the Opportunity Center
Established 1902
graduate, served in the Korean War, and owned a in Fair Lawn. Arrangements were by Robert
business-form company in Mamaroneck, NY. Schoem’s Menorah Chapel, Paramus. Headstones, Duplicate Markers and Cemetery Lettering
Predecased by brothers, Irving and David, he is With Personalized and Top Quality Service

Please call 1-800-675-5624


www.kochmonument.com
Briefs
76 Johnson Ave., Hackensack, NJ 07601
Pittsburgh City Council Polish border police
approves gun-control petitioned to bar Holocaust
legislation introduced in denier from entering country Robert Schoem’s Menorah Chapel, Inc
Jewish Funeral Directors
wake of synagogue attack Cnaan Liphshiz Family Owned & managed
Generations of Lasting Service to the Jewish Community
Marcy Oster A Warsaw-based Holocaust commemoration group peti- • Serving NJ, NY, FL & • Our Facilities Will Accommodate
Throughout USA Your Family’s Needs
The Pittsburgh City Council gave final approval to gun-con- tioned the Polish border police to block entry to the • Prepaid & Preneed Planning • Handicap Accessibility From
trol legislation proposed in the wake of the deadly attack country for a Holocaust denier planning to give tours • Graveside Services Large Parking Area
on the Tree of Life synagogue building last October. of Nazi death camps in Poland. Gary Schoem – Manager - NJ Lic. 3811
The council voted 6 to 3 to send a package of The group From the Depths filed the petition last Jordan E. Schoem – Funeral Director - NJ Lic. 5146
Conveniently Located
gun-control and anti-violence bills to the desk of Mayor week. Its founder, Jonny Daniels, said it was the first W-150 Route 4 East • Paramus, NJ 07652
Bill Peduto, who said he would sign it, the Pittsburgh Tri- legal procedure to block British Holocaust denier 201.843.9090 1.800.426.5869
bune-Review reported. David Irving’s planned tours of Holocaust-related
Critics of the legislation and gun-rights advocates sites in Poland.
have threatened lawsuits. Some argue that state law The border police have 30 days to reply to the
prohibits municipalities from regulating guns. request about Irving’s planned tour, which is sched-
The bills ban possession and use of certain uled for early September.
semi-automatic weapons, including assault rifles. The Irving, who has been convicted of Holocaust denial
Tree of Life gunman used an AR-15 assault-style rifle in several countries, “intends to spread his controver-
in the attack on the synagogue that killed 11 worship- sial views on the territory of the Republic of Poland Funeral Planning Simplified
pers on a Shabbat morning. that violate the good name of the Polish Nation, the
The measures also ban ammunition and acces- historical truth and the memory of millions of victims
BergenJewishChapel.com
sories, such as large capacity magazines, and allow of German totalitarianism,” Daniels wrote.
201.261.2900 | 789 Teaneck Road, Teaneck, NJ 07666
courts to remove guns temporarily from a person Last month, From the Depths also petitioned the
deemed to be a public threat. A companion bill public prosecutor’s office in Poland to bar Irving from Owner/Manager Daniel W. Leber, NJ Lic. No3186
passed by the council directs additional funding to entering the country. That petition included a dossier
city anti-violence programs. of Irving’s many attempts to deny various aspects of
The guns and accessories outlined in the bills owned historical accounts of the Nazi genocide.
by residents would be grandfathered. Violators of the The nine-day tour, which costs $3,650, is scheduled GORNY
laws could be fined $1,000, or face up to 90 days in
prison for each offense.
to visit Treblinka, Sobibor, Belzec, and Majdanek. Pub-
licity for the tour calls the death camps “controversial.”
FUNERAL SERVICE INC
Council members Erika Strassburger and Corey It also will visit the Adolf Hitler’s bunker headquarters, 973-919-4570
O’Connor, whose districts encompass portions of Squir- known as “The Wolf’s Lair,” and the headquarters of SS SPECIALIZING IN AFFORDABLE
rel Hill, where the Tree of Life building is located, and chief Heinrich Himmler.
GRAVESIDE SERVICES
Peduto’s office introduced the three bills in December, Irving is described on the promotional material as a
just seven weeks after the synagogue shooting, accord- Hitler expert. He led a similar tour in 2013. www.gfuneralservice.com
FOR MORE INFO
ing to the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette. JTA Wire Service  JTA Wire Service
Office: 240 Mt Prospect Ave · Newark NJ 07104
John M. Gorny, Manager NJ NJ Lic #3563

We continue to be Jewish family managed,


Obituaries A Traditional Jewish Experience knowing that caring people provide caring service.
are prepared Pre-Planning Specialists • Graveside and Chapel Services GUTTERMAN AND MUSICANT
with information JEWISH FUNERAL DIRECTORS
provided by
800-522-0588
Barry Wien - NJ Lic. No. 2885 WIEN & WIEN, INC. MEMORIAL CHAPELS
funeral homes. Frank Patti, Jr. - NJ Lic. No. 4169 800-322-0533
Correcting errors Arthur Musicant - NJ Lic. No. 2544 402 Park Street, Hackensack, New Jersey 07601
is the Frank Patti, Sr. Director - NJ Lic. No. 2693 ALAN L. MUSICANT, Mgr., N.J. Lic. No. 2890
responsibility MARTIN D. KASDAN, N.J. Lic. No. 4482
of the 327 Main St, Fort Lee, NJ Advance Planning Conferences Conveniently Arranged
funeral home. 201-947-3336 · 888-700-EDEN at the Funeral Home or in Your Own Home
www.edenmemorial.com GuttermanMusicantWien.com

Jewish Standard APRIL 5, 2019 65


Classified (201) 837-8818 YBH
YBH of

both
of Passaic
Passaic is
elementary
elementary school
both our
for
our Boys
for the
is seeking

Boys and
the 2019-2020
seeking experienced
school teachers
and Girls
experienced
teachers for
Girls Divisions
2019-2020 school
for
Divisions
school year.
year.
Help Wanted Situations Wanted Cleaning Service Handyman
All HomeinImprovements
All positions are part-time in the
positions are part-time the afternoon.
afternoon.
A responsible woman looking to BA
BA and
and experience
experience are
are required;
required;Master’s
Master’s degree
degree
care for YBH
elderly.of Passaic is seeking experienced
A Team of Your Neighbor with Tools
B B
B”H
Live-in or out. Re-
elementary
liable! Pleasant! Experienced! Ref-
erences. Waiting for your call 347-
Polish Women
school teachers for preferred.
preferred. Join
Join
Home Improvements
our
our collegial
&covercollegial
Handyman
andEST
and professional
professional
of the EST
team.
team.
816-1363 both our Boys and Girls Divisions
Clean Email
Email cover letter
letter and
and resume
resume to
Home Repair
toService
• Apartments • PAINTING · FINISHING
for the 2019-2020 school
Homesyear.
• Offices
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
CARPENTRY · HANDIWORK
Carpentry
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org Painting
AIDE available to do elder care. Decks Kitchens
Shomer Shabbat · Free Estimates
All positions
Warm, loving, are part-timeExperienced
caring, experienced,
• References
in the afternoon. Over 20 Years Experience
Locks/Doors Electrical
201-679-5081 Due to
reliable, excellent references.
BA and experience are required; Master’s degree
Live- out. 201-668-7946 Ask usDueabout our to increased enrollment,
enrollment,Paving/Masonry
increasedBasements
Bathrooms Drains/Pumps
preferred. Join our collegial and professional team. YBH
investment of
YBHpropertyof Passaic
Passaic
rates isis seeking
seeking part time
Plumbing part time Maintenence
SINAI Schools is seeking motivated and Email cover letter and resume to experienced
Adam
experienced201-675-0816 middle
middle schoolschool teachers
teachers
Tiles/Grout in
in the
HardwoodtheFloors
General Repairs
qualified professionals to work as part of Help Wanted ppersin@ybhpassaic.org afternoon
amark2@hotmail.com for the 2019-20 school
· NJ Lic. #13VH05023300
afternoon for the 2019-20 school year:
Instagram: yourneighborwithtools
year:
its highly collaborative and interdisciplinary •• Language
LanguageArtsArtsNO JOB IS TOO SMALL
•• Science
Science
24 Hour x 5 1/2 Emergency Services
team for the 2019-20 school year Due to increased enrollment, •• Social
Social Studies
Studies (World
(World History/Jewish
History/Jewish
Shomer Shabbat History)
History)
Free Estimates

Positions are available in our Elementary, Middle YBH of Passaic is seeking part time BA
BA required.
required.Master’s
Master’s Degree
Degree preferred
preferred
1-201-530-1873
and High Schools in Livingston, River Edge and experienced middle school teachers in the Email
Email cover
cover letter
letter && resume:
resume:
Teaneck, NJ and Riverdale, NY. afternoon for the 2019-20 school year: Help Wanted ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
Positions include: • Language Arts • Science
• Social Studies (World History/Jewish History) YBH
YBH isis seeking
seeking P/T
P/T or
or F/T
F/TAssistants
Assistants in
in
Special Education Teachers Limudei
BA required. Master’s Degree preferred Limudei Kodesh
Kodesh and
and General
General Studies,
Studies,
(Both General and Judaic Studies) for
Email cover letter & resume: for the
the 2019-2020
2019-2020 school
school year.
year.
Assistant Teachers Email
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org Email cover letter && resume:
cover letter resume:
Speech Therapist ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
Music Therapist Senior C
YBH
are is seeking P/T or F/T Assistants in

Limudei Kodesh and General Studies, YBH


YBH of of Passaic
Passaic seeks
seeks
SINAI at RYNJ is seeking a Middle
for the 2019-2020 school year. Middle School Special Services
School Special Services Coordinator
Coordinator
motivated Educational Supervisor for
Email cover letter & resume: for the
the 2019-20
2019-20 school
school year.
year.
to join their collaborative team Please
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org Please send
send resume
resume and
and references
references to
to
Candidates should have a master’s degree and ppersin@ybhpassaic.org.
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org.
certification in special education, as well as a YBH of Passaic seeks
minimum of 5 years of experience in the field. The Middle School Special Services Coordinator YBH of Passaic is seeking experienced
full-time position entails curriculum development for the 2019-20 school year. elementary school teachers for
as well as supervisory and administrative respon- Please send resume and references to both our Boys and Girls Divisions
sibilities related to the operation of an inclusive ppersin@ybhpassaic.org. for the 2019-2020 school year.
special education elementary school.
All positions are part-time in the afternoon.
BA and experience are required; Master’s degree
SINAI Maor High School in Livingston, NJ
preferred. Join our collegial and professional team.
seeks a Secular Studies Curriculum Coordinator
Email cover letter and resume to
Candidates should have a master’s degree and ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
certification in special education, as well as a
minimum of 5 years of experience in the field. Antiques Due to increased enrollment,
The position requires excellent communication YBH of Passaic is seeking part time
skills and the ability to work collaboratively as a
Antiques Wanted
experienced middle school teachers in the
member of our administrative team. Responsibili- We pay cash for
afternoon for the 2019-20 school year:
ties include curriculum development, staff supervi-
sion, professional development, and other admin- Antique Furniture
• Language Arts • Science
• Social Studies (World History/Jewish History)
Modern Furniture
istrative roles.
WE BUY BA required. Master’s Degree preferred
Email cover letter & resume:
Please email resumes to careers@sinaischools.org.
Qualified minorities and/or women are encouraged to apply, EEO. Modern Art
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
• Oil Paintings • Silver
Antiques
Paintings
YBH is seeking P/T or F/T Assistants in
• Bronzes • Porcelain
Bronzes
for the 2019-2020 Silver
Limudei Kodesh and General Studies,
❖school year.
Sterling Associates Auctions • Oriental Rugs • Furniture Chinese Porcelain & Art
Email cover letter & resume:
ppersin@ybhpassaic.org
SEEKING CONSIGNMENT AND • Marble Sculpture • Jewelry Men’s & Women’s Watches
OUTRIGHT PURCHASES • Tiffany Items • Chandeliers Top School
YBH of Passaic seeks
Dollar forServices
any kind of
Sculpture · Paintings · Porcelain · Silver Middle Special Coordinator
Jewelry · Furniture · Etc. • Chinese Art • Bric-A-Brac Jewelry, including
Please send costume
for the 2019-20 school year.
resume and references to
TOP CASH PRICES PAID ppersin@ybhpassaic.org.
201-768-1140 · www.antiquenj.com
info@antiquenj.com
537 Broadway, Norwood, NJ 07648
Tyler Antiques ANS A
• Established by Bubbe in 1940! • Over 25 years courteous service to tri-state area
ASK ABOUT OUR FREE APPRAISAL SERVICE.
CALL FOR AN APPOINTMENT. We come to you ❖ Free Appraisals
tylerantiquesny@aol.com Shommer
Call Us! Shabbas
Call us. We’re waiting for your 201-894-4770 201-861-7770 ❖ 201-951-6224
classified ad! 201-837-8818 Shomer Shabbos www.aadsa726@yahoo.com

66 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Tradition!
Classified
A Zissen Pesach!
Happy
Passover
plumBing
APL Plumbing & Heating LLC Get results! Wish your family, friends, #1
-NAME-
1½”w x 2”d $36 #2
-NAME-
31/8”w x 2”d $72
Complete Kitchen &
Advertise on Jewish Standard readers
Bath Remodeling
Boilers · Hot Water Heaters · Leaks and customers a
EMERGENCY SERVICE
this page. Warm wishes
Happy Passover in our
Fully Licensed, Bonded and Insured

201-837-8818
NO JOB IS TOO SMALL!

for a Happy
Passover
201-358-1700 · Lic. #12285

rooFing Passover
ROOFING · SIDING
HACKENSACK
ROOFING
OOFING
GUTTERS · LEADERS

Greeting -NAME-

Section
Free Roof #3 5”w x 2½”d $135
Estimates CO. Repairs
INC.
201-487-5050 83 FIRST STREET
HACKENSACK, NJ 07601

APRIL 19
Solution to last week’s puzzle. This week’s puzzle is You can have your
on page 58.
own personal greeting
(see samples here but
many other sizes available)

YES, I WOULD LIKE


A PASSOVER GREETING
#1 #2 #3 #4
(or call 201-837-8818 for other sizes)
Wording ______________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
Wishing you a
Happy Passover
Name ________________________________________________________
Address ______________________________________________________
Phone ________________________________________________________
Credit Card # __________________________________________________
Exp. date _________________________ Code _______________________ -NAME-
Fax to 201-833-4959 or mail (with a check if you prefer) to:
The Jewish Standard · 1086 Teaneck Rd. · Teaneck, NJ 07666

DEADLINE APRIL 15 #4 5”w x 6½”d $351

“ Being hungry affects


your appearance,
Inspired by Jewish values and ideals,
MAZON is a national advocacy
how you act. When I’m
“ organization working to end hunger
hungry, I’m not in the
among people of all faiths
mood for anything.
and backgrounds in the
United States and Israel.

Help us end hunger.


Please donate today.
Call us.
We are waiting for
your classified ad! 10850 Wilshire Blvd. Suite 400, Los Angeles CA 90024
201-837-8818 (800) 813-0557 | mazon.org

JEWISHJEWISH
STANDARD
STANDARD
JANUARY
APRIL
25, 2019 67 67
5, 2019
Local/Dear Rabbi Zahavy/Jewish World

TABC Dream from Dunkin’ every day. Even the Friday night television
FROM PAGE 7 FROM PAGE 18 lineup is referred to as “leil Shabbat.” Would Yirmiyahu
machines are necessary to simulate how human I vacillate between jumping for joy and jumping out the prophet howl at the materialism and secularism,
athletes throw balls. of my skin. I am more excited and more terrified than or would he rejoice because the hills resonate with the
Herschel Sauber, president of Orthocraft, I ever have been. sound of Torah and the music of weddings?
described how prosthetics are built. To show how Naïve romantic illusions of what it means to live One of my favorite sounds is the whroo-whroo of
a person experiences wearing prosthetics, there the Zionist dream have dissolved under the weight of the turtledoves, one of my favorite scents is the climb-
was a live demo featuring Josh Arrington, a former Kafkaesque bureaucracy and scenarios more absurd ing bougainvillea, one of my favorite colors is the spe-
basketball player who has a computer-controlled than Beckett’s plays. The wars between Israelis and cific shade of glowing mauve reflecting off of lime-
prosthetic leg. Palestinians, religious and secular, Ashkenazim and stone as the sun sets. The same woman who growls
TABC Talmud and physics teacher Rabbi Shaya Sephardim are different only in the amount of blood at you on the bus will throw herself in front of your
First led a session on robotics, artificial intelligence, that is spilled, not in the depth of trauma. The start-up child to protect her, the same swaggering and obnox-
and the way human minds develop intelligence. nation can’t run a fast train from Jerusalem to Tel Aviv. ious adolescent with the rifle will lay down his life for
Judaic studies instructor Rabbi Raphi Mandelstam’s The incubator of medical breakthroughs makes a you. It is a very flawed place, but it is my place. It is a
session, “Can Alexa Turn on the Lights on Shab- mother clean up her child’s post-surgical vomit. Web- dysfunctional family, but it is my family. It is a fraught
bat?” explored the halachic ramifications of robots. sites don’t work, appointments aren’t kept, and driv- existence, but it is home.
These and many other elements of Book Day pro- ing is nightmarish. It has been an evolving, delayed dream for too long.
vided much food for thought. And yet... With the help of Nefesh b’Nefesh, government agen-
“I learned about the benefits of immigration, Every step I will take will mirror my ancestors’ foot- cies and the Creator of All, it will soon be a dream
Howard Gardner’s eight types of intelligence, what falls. The Tanach that I love and teach will come alive fulfilled.
my teachers do to make me want to learn, what it’s on every hill and valley, in every olive tree and date
like to grow up as a poor immigrant, and the hala- palm. The national calendar is MY calendar. Lights are Leah V. Herzog, M.Ed., of Teaneck is co-director of
chic reasoning and need for balance in the immi- strung in sukkot, costumes are worn on Purim, and Israel guidance and teaches Tanach at the Ma’ayanot
gration debate — all in one day,” Yakov Halstuch, donuts are from the bakeries at Chanukah rather than Yeshiva High School for Girls in Teaneck.
a student from Teaneck, said. “It really felt like a
unique learning opportunity.”
That was precisely the aim of organizers Dr. Mas-
ter and Ms. Moskovits, who said, “If our students Massachusetts. It is like a seven-hued rainbow.
learned even one new thing at Book Day, we’ve
Dear Rabbi So here is the answer to who wrote it. The Hagga-
FROM PAGE 56
accomplished our goal.” dah evolved organically over millennia. It is the out-
Okay then, you may say to me, show me how that put of many authors, mostly anonymous, assembled
works. Explain to me who wrote the various compos- by many editors and used throughout history by
ite texts and when did they write them. nearly all Jews, every year.
Hack it And concisely that is what the Polychrome Histor- Seeing the different sources of the Haggadah in
FROM PAGE 15 ical Haggadah sets out to do — in a brilliant way — by vibrant colors makes vivid the point that Rabbi Joseph
a Rutgers student, which allowed air passengers to color coding the layers of the text from the Biblical, B. Soloveitchik always taught, that the Haggadah is
select and explore locations to experience in virtual rabbinic (Mishnaic and Talmudic), geonic, medieval, not simply the retelling of a story.
reality as they fly over them. modern and contemporary periods — each in its own It’s an occasion of Talmud Torah, studying Torah
Lander College for Women Dean Marian Stoltz- color. Biblical verses are black. Mishnah passages in the rabbinic manner. When you finish at the end of
Loike said she started Hack It Together four years ago are red. And so on — until contemporary texts (that the seder, you haven’t told the story of the Exodus in
“to create a space for women who share a passion some people add) like the Hatikvah, appropriately are a narrative way. You’ve told it in a kind of midrashic
for creating technology to work together in a warm, printed in Israeli-flag blue. And this marvelous work pastiche. The color highlighting shows you the alter-
collaborative environment.” provides critical notes to show the sources of the dis- nating cadences of the work. It’s like an opera with
While the college hosts the event, a student com- tinctive literary strata of the Haggadah and includes a different arias. The Haggadah is the libretto.
mittee handles all logistics, including sponsorships. brilliant English translation. You can order the book from Amazon. There’s
In addition to JetBlue and AMC, other corporate In 2017 I reformatted and reissued the Polychrome still plenty of time to get it for your seder this
sponsors the committee signed up were Balsamiq, Historical Haggadah. It was originally published in year. I wish you and all our readers a happy and
Grace Hopper Full Stack Academy, Motionden, Wol- 1974, the work of Rabbi Jacob Freedman of Springfield, kosher Passover.
fram Language, and Lexmark. Kind and Herr’s con-
tributed snacks.
Ms. Cohen and her committee also arranged pre-
hack workshops led by engineers from JPMorgan
Chase and Amazon and a user experience designer 7 immigrants awarded prize for major contributions to Israel
at 1010Data — all women — and by Yosef van Bemme- MARCY OSTER principal of the Evelina de Rothschild-Tehilla Second-
len, a Teaneck native who co-founded Amazon Web ary School in Jerusalem (Education); and Danny Hakim,
Services consulting partner firm Elementryx. JERUSALEM— A South African who flew combat mis- founder and chairman of Budo for Peace and chairman of
Dr. Alan Kadish of Teaneck, the president of sions in Israel’s War of Independence and the U.S.-born Kids Kicking Cancer Israel (Culture, Art & Sports).
Touro College, said this year’s hackathon was the founder of a pluralistic Orthodox school for girls were The Lifetime Achievement Award went to Harold
largest ever. among those recognized for making major contributions “Smoky” Simon, who played a key role in founding
“What we saw was well over 100 extraordinarily as immigrants to Israel. the Israeli Air Force and was acting chairman of World
talented women, some with more experience and On Monday, Nefesh B’Nefesh, an organization that Machal, an organization for overseas veterans of Israel’s
some with none, showing their talent and creativity,” helps diaspora Jews make aliyah, announced its 2019 Syl- wars. The Young Leadership Prize went to Miriam Ballin,
Dr. Kadish said. “They had a short time to produce a van Adams Bonei Zion Prize winners, which are awarded founder of the United Hatzalah’s Psychotrauma and Cri-
fully refined app, and I thought they did an extraor- to English-speaking immigrants. sis Response Unit.
dinary job in that period of time. We had some very The honorees are Ora Paltiel, director of the Hadassah Hundreds of immigrants from English-speaking coun-
good industry collaboration and some great mentors, Center for Research in Clinical Epidemiology (Science); tries were nominated for the prize, which “recognizes
including Touro graduates.” Leah Abramowitz, co-founder of Melabev and coordi- outstanding Anglo olim who have helped Israel in a
He added that Hacking It Together teams retain nator of the Institute for Studies in Aging (Community meaningful way by encapsulating the spirit of mod-
the intellectual property for their creations and may & Non-Profit); Michael Dickson, executive director of ern-day Zionism and contributing in significant ways
choose to develop their products further. StandWithUs–Israel (Israel Advocacy); Beverly Gribetz, towards the State of Israel.” JTA WIRE SERVICE

68 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Real Estate & Business

The freedom to choose a Passover favorite


GABRIEL GELLER complex notes of blackberries, straw-

P
berry jams, and purple plums, with hints
assover is the holiday of the of spices and dark chocolate. A real treat
matzah. People often ask with a slow-cooked, well-marbleized sec-
which wine pairs best with ond cut brisket.
matzah. There are two Going back to the seder, why not have a
answers to this question: Either no dessert wine for the fourth cup? Tzafona
wine pairs with matzah, or all wines Cellars from Canada have recently come
do. Passover is also Chag Ha’aviv, up with an unusual wine. The Tzafona Ice
the Holiday of the Spring, and Chag Wine Cabernet Sauvignon 2016 is made,
Hage’ula, the Holiday of Freedom. as its name suggests, from grapes that
Trees are blossoming these days, the were late harvested frozen on the vines.
weather is warming up, and a bounty and Petite Sirah. Each contributes its unique The temperatures drops well below 30
of freshly bottled rosé and white wines are popping savors and characteristics. degrees Fahrenheit pretty early during the fall, causing
up on stores shelves. A very pleasant and delightful white is the Or the remaining grapes in the vineyards to freeze naturally.
Rosé and whites are the perfect wines to relax Haganuz Amuka Blanc Blend 2018. It is a blend of Char- These grapes having reached a very level of ripeness with
with on a warm Passover afternoon, or with the donnay and Sauvignon Blanc, grown in Or Haganuz’s a sky high amount of sugar will, when crushed, release a
many fish, chicken, and salads to be served over estate vineyards in the Upper Galilee, which are some very small amount of highly concentrated juice, very sweet
the course of the holiday. Rosé wines are also a of the most beautiful in Isarel. It is light to medium-bod- while however retaining the natural acidity which is nec-
great alternative to the heavier red wines for the ied, with amazing notes of Meyer lemon, pear, and essary to balance out that sweetness. This wine can either
Four Cups. They are typically light in body, rela- kiwi, with abundant acidity. replace dessert, or will complement a fruit salad, served
tively low in alcohol, with refreshing acidity. A rosé French wines, especially the red ones hailing from with almond and coconut macaroons.
will go down more easily while drinking the proper Bordeaux, are usually considered heavy and bold. Not Having read all of the aforementioned recommenda-
shiur required, whichever opinion you hold by. all of them are like that. Château La Clare 2014, for tions, please remember that the most important is that you
The spring symbolizes renewal. Matar winery instance, has a silky texture and is medium in body. It is drink the wines that you enjoy. Passover is Chag Hage’ula,
from Israel’s Golan Heights has released a new neither too tannic nor concentrated, allowing for easy the holiday on which we celebrate our freedom from Egypt,
rosé. The Matar Rosé 2018 is a very pale pink in sipping, and it pairs nicely with chicken. Being already and of course our freedom to choose the wines we like. A
color, with aromas and flavors of citrus blossom, 5 years old, it is not too young to enjoy now. Some have happy Passover to all, l’chaim! ROYAL WINE/KEDEM
grapefruit, and cherries. A real pleasure to drink. the minhag to drink white wines at the Seder.
The Herzog Lineage Rosé 2018 is a great option as The Herzog Special Reserve Quartet 2015 is a wine to
well. Even more so if you need a mevushal rosé. It is drink preferably with the many other yom tov and chol
made from no fewer than 12 grape varieties grown hamoed meals. A blend of Malbec, Zinfandel, Caber-
in the Herzog family’s Prince Vineyard in Clarks- net Sauvignon, and Petit Verdot grown in some of Cal-
burg, California, including Tempranillo, Viognier, ifornia’s prime growing regions, it is full-flavored, with OPEN HOUSES
SUNDAY, APRIL 7 • 1PM – 3PM
\ TEANECK ]

BANK-OWNED PROPERTIES
High-Return Investment Opportunities
See all available properties at
njhomeinfo.com

GARDEN STATE HOMES


25 Broadway, Elmwood Park, NJ

Ma’ayanot Drama Martin H. Basner, Realtor Associate


(Office) 201-794-7050 · (Cell) 201-819-2623
Society presents 548 Standish Rd. $549,000
‘Paradise Lost’ FLORIDA IS FOR YOU
Sunlit Eng Tudor. 3 BRs, Sunlit Fam Rm, Fin Bsmt.
595 North St. $399,000
Room for Extend Fam. 3 BRs, 3 Full Baths. New Granite Kit.
The Ma’ayanot Drama Society, in partnership with ALSO OPEN SAT 4/6 @ 1-3 PM
Black Box Studios, will perform Clifford Odets’s
classic three-act Depression drama, “Paradise BY APPOINTMENT
Lost.” The play follows a Jewish family forced to \ TEANECK ]
rediscover what “family” truly means and to face Brick Col. 3 BRs, 2.5 Baths. $395,000.
the harsh reality of the American dream as they see CALL Charm Tudor. 4 BRs, 3.5 Updated Baths. $620’s. Rent $4,040/mo.
their lives begin to unwind. Watch as a family and TODAY
friends join together and split apart as they make
\ TEANECK VIC/NEW MILFORD ]
Expansion Poss. 3 BR, 1.5 Bath Cape/102'x 75' Priv Prop. $370’s
their way through the-mid
Houses, 1930s.
condos, and rentals in active adult, BUY • SELL • RENT
in active adult, country club, and beachside in ALL CLOSE TO NY BUS / HOUSES OF WORSHIP /
“Paradise Lost,” directed
country by BBPAC
club, artistic
and by direc-
the beach HIGHWAYS / SHOPS / SCHOOLS
in Boca BOCA RATON, DELRAY BEACH, BOYNTON BEACH
tor Matt Okin, plays Raton,
at 7:30 Delray
p.m. onBeach, Boynton
Monday, April Beach and the surrounding communities www.RussoRealEstate.com
and surrounding communities
8, and Tuesday, April 9, at Ma’ayanot Yeshiva High
Advantage Plus app.russorealestate.com
School for Girls, 1650 Palisade Ave., Teaneck. 601 S. Federal Hwy • Boca Raton, FL 33432
Tickets are $10 and available in advance at www. Elly & Ed Lepselter
(561) 302-9374
(201) 837-8800
blackboxpac.com.
JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 69
Real Estate & Business

Meir Panim: Fighting poverty in Israel


A child’s cry: ‘We don’t have any food at my house’

A
t ten o’clock, Adi instructed all percent of the Israeli population lives in Panim provides food for the body and will also be distributing prepaid food
the children in her Jerusalem poverty, 29.6 percent of Israeli children nourishment for the soul.” shopping cards as well as food baskets
gan (school) to take out their are living in poverty, and two out of Meir Panim annually serves 490,000 filled with traditional Passover foods to
aruchat eser (mid-morning every five children are victims of Israel’s hot meals to children, adults, and the more than 2,500 families.
meal). Hungry, all the children raced to economic crises. elderly at restaurant-style soup kitchens Meir Panim is dedicated to easing the
unzip their tiks (backpacks), remove their That is where Meir Panim steps in: across Israel. year-round struggles facing many Israeli
lunches and begin eating. All the chil- alleviating the harmful effects of pov- This time of year, Doron Haloni of families and their children through its
dren, that is, except for Benny. erty on thousands of families across Tzfat, one of Israel’s “working poor,” network of restaurant-style soup kitch-
“At the beginning of the year, I noticed Israel by supporting a wide range feels more stressed than usual. He and ens in Tzfat, Tiberias, Or Akiva, Jerusa-
that Benny often came to gan without of food and social service programs his wife are both employed full time, yet lem, and Dimona; meals-on-wheels for
food. One morning, I asked him if he for- aimed at helping needy people with struggle to put food on the table for their the elderly, homebound, and disabled;
got his food at home. His response broke dignity and respect. four young children. and after-school youth clubs for at-risk
my heart. ‘We have no food at home, my Over 110,000 children like Benny “While my children are looking for- children.
belly is empty, and I haven’t eaten any- receive a hot lunch from Meir Panim. ward to Passover, my wife and I are According to Knesset member
thing since the slice of bread you gave Meir Panim understands the enor- worried about the extra expenses Michael Oren, “Meir Panim represents
me yesterday.’ mous stress Israeli families face. Work- involved in preparing for Passover,” the best of what this country is and rep-
That night, Adi made a call to Meir ing full-time jobs, Benny’s parents are said Haloni. resents the essence of the Jewish State
Panim and arranged for Benny and his part of a growing segment of the Israeli Like many of its restaurant-style of Zionism and everything we stand
siblings to receive daily hot lunches, free “working poor.” soup kitchen locations, the Meir Panim for.”
of charge. “It is heartbreaking; both working and restaurant in Tzfat is preparing to allevi- “We at Meir Panim feel that any-
Unfortunately, Benny is not the only unemployed adults have seen their sit- ate this worry for families like Haloni’s. thing we can do to ease the suffering of
four year old in Israel that leaves for uation plummet, largely due to massive Branch manager Benny Elgad is orga- impoverished Israelis is our mission,”
school without lunch and goes to bed cuts in government spending, leaving nizing a large Passover seder open to all said Rozmaryn. “We are grateful to our
hungry. them and their entire families helpless,” those in need. donors, who feel the same.”
According to the Israel National said Mimi Rozmaryn, director of global To further enable disadvantaged To donate to Meir Panim, visit:
Insurance Institute’s latest report, 21.2 development for Meir Panim. ”Meir Israelis to enjoy the holiday, Meir Panim meirpanim.org/donate

Salud Cafe opening in Englewood Summer internships offered


with an emphasis on local, fresh once again to Teaneck students
Salud Cafe will be brewing Devoción cof-
fee, which uses hand-selected beans from
interested in elder care career
Colombia — paired with your favorite As a way to educate and encourage more well-trained elder care work-
non-dairy choices, almond and oat milk. students to consider elder care as a force to provide services for our
The cafe is is located inside NJ Eye and career path, Age Friendly Teaneck aging population.”
Ear and offers a selection of plant-based (www.agefriendlyteaneck.org) will The 2019 internship will again
items from local prepared food business sponsor a four-week career explora- combine a dynamic curriculum, real-
Kale & Co. Kale & Co launched in 2013, sell- tion internship for four outstanding world experience, and one-on-one
ing dishes that are locally sourced, plant- and motivated high school juniors or connections with professionals in the
based, and organic, with no GMOs, artifi- seniors who are Teaneck residents fields of geriatric-related social work,
cial ingredients, or animal products. The starting July 8. Deadline to apply for geriatric wellness, technology, home
menu choices include many of the Kale & these positions is May 1. care, recreation, food service, hous-
Co favorites. Follow it @salud.cafe Each student will receive a $1,000 ing, elder law, and business manage-
stipend, thanks to a grant from a small ment. Interns will be supervised by a
family foundation. team of seasoned and knowledgeable

Jimmy J
J
Age Friendly Teaneck is sponsor- professionals from Geriatric Services,

im
im
ing this internship for the second Inc., Jewish Family and Children’s Ser-
year, after a very successful program vices of Northern NJ, and Homewatch
in 2018. Last year’s interns — Sara CareGivers of Bergen County.
Ismail, Alicia John, Hajra Mateen and There’s more information and the

the Junk Man Laura McDonald — have lauded the


program not only for helping them
applicationat agefriendlyteaneck.org/
internship.html. Contact the organiza- the
the
RESIDENTIAL & COMMERCIAL think about future career possibilities
but also for giving them great oppor-
RESIDEN
tion at info@agefriendlyteaneck.org.
Age Friendly Teaneck is a commu-
WE CLEAN OUT: tunities for understanding and com- WE
nity-wide project whose mission is
Basements •Basements
Attics • Garages • Fire Damage municating with elders, in a variety •
to ensure that residentsAttof Teaneck
Construction Debris • Hoarding Specialists
Construction of settings. can age-in-place in their homes andD
WE RECYCLE Those skills will be critical for community with dignity and indepen- W
CALL TODAY FOR A FREE ESTIMATE CALL
elder care in future years. Elizabeth
TODAY
dence. Geriatric Services, Inc., a non-

201-66•1845-600-5941
- 4940
Davis, Age Friendly Teaneck’s proj- profit provider of housing and social
201-661-4940
We do not transport solid or hazardous waste
20
ect director, said, “It is clear that
our society will need a larger and a
1- 6
services for older adults in Teaneck
since 1990, coordinates this initiative.
We do not tran

70 JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019


Happy Passover
Cedar Lane Management Group
Dine In • Take Out • Clothing • Jewelry • Candy
Salons • Gifts • Judaica • Pickles • Movies & More
A&S Comics Creations Fine Haircutting Inc. Marburn Curtain Warehouse Sababa Grill
563 Cedar Lane 509 Cedar Lane 647 Cedar Lane 456 Cedar Lane
Allergy Partners Czin Optical Marlon by Mishoe Sal & Pimienta
553 Cedar Lane 489 Cedar Lane 358 Cedar Lane Colombian Restaurant
Amazing Savings Dance Art Creative Center Maum Meditation 477B Cedar Lane
647 Cedar Lane 519 Cedar Lane 475 Cedar Lane Sapphire Thai Food Express
Angelo’s Tailor Design by Flora Max Dollar and Deals 445 Cedar Lane
358 Cedar Lane 437 Cedar Lane 493B Cedar Lane Sciarra & Company
Annapurna Indian Direct Line Carpet & Flooring Mei Salon 504A Cedar Lane
Grocery & Catering 553 Cedar Lane 447 Cedar Lane Shelly’s Vegetarian Restaurant
557 Cedar Lane Dovid’s Fresh Fish Market Mod Corals 482 Cedar Lane
Applauden Academy of Teaneck 736 Chestnut Ave 394 Cedar Lane Shear Design
565 Cedar Lane Elite Nails Mortgage Apples Cakes 738 Chestnut Ave
Aquarius Health Foods 451 Cedar Lane 740 Chestnut Ave
Signature Appliances
408 Cedar Lane Empire Hunan II Mr. FreshCut 513 Cedar Lane
B. Dinelli for Hair 444 Cedar Lane 394 Cedar Lane
Straight Nappy
519A Cedar Lane Nail Garden
Estihana 411 Cedar Lane
Back in Touch Massage Therapy 515 Cedar Lane 444 Cedar Lane
Strom’s Custom Cleaners
427 Water Street New Asia Chinese Takeout
Fifth Avenue Haircutters 540 Cedar Lane
Bellissima Hair & Salon 401 Cedar Lane 567 Cedar Lane
Subway
433 Cedar Lane New Teaneck Fish Market
Five Star Coffee Shop 559 Cedar Lane
Bettina’s Boutique 431 Cedar Lane
356 Cedar Lane Swaddles
388 Cedar Lane New to You Consignment
FrameWorks 500 Cedar Lane
Bischoff’s Confectionery 457 Cedar Lane
477A Cedar Lane T-Mobile
468 Cedar Lane Noah’s Ark
Garden State Jewelers 449 Cedar Lane
Brier Rose Books 493 Cedar Lane
441 Cedar Lane Taipei Noodle House
450 Cedar Lane OnPoint Fitness Studio
IHOP 483 Cedar Lane
Budget Print 409 Cedar Lane
610 Cedar Lane Tate Academy
Copy Center/DP Graphics Parisian Cleaners
International Beauty 549 Cedar Lane
426 Cedar Lane 429 Cedar Lane
Supply and Salon Teaneck Cinemas
Butterflake Bakery Pickle Licious
492 Cedar Lane 503 Cedar Lane
448 Cedar Lane 384 Cedar Lane
J & J Pharmacy/Liquors Teaneck Locksmith
BV Tuscany Restaurant PizzaLicious
527 Cedar Lane 509B Cedar Lane
368 Cedar Lane 439 Cedar Lane
Janet Joyner Photography Teaneck Nails
CVS Pottery, Paint & Love
406 Cedar Lane 386 Cedar Lane
540 Cedar Lane 502 Cedar Lane
Jet Cleaners UnWined
Carly’z Craze Purple Lily Art Studio
455 Cedar Lane 441 B Cedar Lane
472 Cedar Lane 668 American Legion Dr
Castillo Salon J R Coiffure Hair Salon Rabbi A. S. Teicher Sofer Stam UPS Store
443 Cedar Lane 492C Cedar Lane
398 Cedar Lane 742 Chestnut Ave
Cedar Lane Furs Judaica House Rain Veggie Heaven
498 Cedar Lane 478 Cedar Lane 399 Water Street 473 Cedar Lane
Cedar Market Just Right Fitness Rainbow Jewelry & Watches Verizon Wireless
646 Cedar Lane 494 Cedar Lane 497 Cedar Lane 418 Cedar Lane
Chonji Academy of Martial Arts Kameleas Beauty Boutique Raven Hair Victor’s Pizzeria
424 Cedar Lane 362 Cedar Lane 388 Cedar Lane 540 Cedar Lane
Cohen Invitations & Stationery KFC Regina’s Tailoring/Bridal Boutique Walgreens
547 Cedar Lane 585 Cedar Lane 405 Cedar Lane 520 Cedar Lane
Coliseum Pizzeria Lark Street Music Rock Collage Yarn Dezvous
435 Cedar Lane 479 Cedar Lane 364 Cedar Lane 495 Cedar Lane
CompuTeaneck Ma’adan Rocklin’s Paper & Cards Yosi Unisex Salon
569A Cedar Lane 446 Cedar Lane 458 Cedar Lane 412 Cedar Lane
Couture de Bride Manor Shoes Repair Rudra Indian Bistro Zoldan’s Judaica Center
406 Cedar Lane 445 Cedar Lane 561 Cedar Lane 412 Cedar Lane JS

Support Your Local Merchants


Sponsored by CLMG • www.cedarlane.net • Always Free Parking

JEWISH STANDARD APRIL 5, 2019 71