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There are really two very different (and important) aspects to the "conversations with women" topic:
1. The HOW.
2. The WHAT.
Most guys want to know "what to talk about" with women.
It only makes sense that you should talk about things that women are interested in... right?
It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever topic you're talking about in the RIGHT WAY.
In other words, if you don't understand HOW to carry on a conversation that creates ATTRACTION, then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about... because the woman you're talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.
The HOW of conversation includes (but, is not limited to):
- Your body language
- Eye contact
- The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
- Sending mixed messages
- Directing the conversation
- Dealing with common questions and topics
...and many other things.
My point is that if you're running into a lot
" With that said. then you probably need to get the HOW handled before the WHAT.of "uncomfortable silences". etc. If you think about it. I want you to do yourself a favor and THINK for a minute. "THE WHAT. nervousness. But instead of just giving them to you.. the fashion channel. soap operas. For whatever reason. and other usual challenges. nighttime dramas..Drama . romance novels. the answer to this question is rather obvious.. WOMEN tend to LOVE: . there are several topics that are GREAT to discuss with women.. What topics do women PAY to hear about? Hint: Cosmo magazine.
Here are a few ideas: 1.. cheat on their spouses.Famous people and their lives So. 2. it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these topics. and then say "I didn't do it". Talk about how someone famous is doing something really stupid.. funny. These situations are BEGGING to be picked apart with a fine-toothed. Find an interesting looking group of people and guess what's going on. rock stars and famous sports figures just LOVE to do crazy things. critical.Romance .Conflict . then psycho-analyze them. sarcastic mind. Play amateur psychologist to the stars.... .. Actors..
Talk about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork and how he's not getting any. Make fun of someone famous.Look around you. needy Wuss at some point during the relationship. and find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they're on their first date. Star Wars and your secret love: wrestling. stalking. Then. ** When a guy can't seem to hold on to a woman. how he's dressed. *Talk about other people's love lives. start making fun of how the guy is acting. kidnapping. computers. and women love it. or whatever. his posture. *3. chess. Analyzing what's going on with a close group of others is big fun. the problem is ALMOST ALWAYS one of the following: 1) He turns into a clingy. death. ****Topics to avoid: Rape. . comic books. no matter how many compliments he gives her.
2) He becomes PREDICTABLE and BORING at some point during the relationship. do you work here (I know she does not work there)?" . So stop doing those things. MS. *your core concept of attraction has to do with mystery and anticipation.. ***You will not believe how competitive women are. have their hair done. and their makeup perfect? Well they're not fixed up like that for the men." This is one of the reasons why so many married guys talk about how much more often they're approached by women now that they're married... and all the women are dressed up. He said "You know when you go out to a nice bar or club.. A friend of mine pointed something out to me a few years ago. it's for the other WOMEN. ***Me."Excuse me.
my problem is that I am a very shy guy. I want you to help me find this book (I don't say." (By the way." Me."No."Aren't you shy?" She ."Yeah."You don't seem shy to me either.She."What do you mean you are shy? You don't seem shy to me."Wow." She. as she gave me that wondrous look. Me.. and I am trying to get over it.. but liking it). you remind me the PowerPC girls (she would be shocked.. Whether or not you .' I go with a demand of authority... and with the person you are talking to. you are indeed gorgeous . 'Can you please help me." Me." She. See.."What book is that. this happened to me in real life. they like it)." She. and she was hot for real) Me."It depends on the situation." she asked me."Good.
" Me." Me." She laughed." Me. and I asked her. you like this situation." She had not written her e-mail." Like you taught me. I turned around and walked 3 steps away from her and went back to her. you are not shy at all." She. young people these days."You would love it? Hummm. I am the right person. because I feel less shy talking to you. and I accused her."I gotta go. so you like guys in the evolutive process of not being shy. that is sexual harassment."Oh." She. "Have you not written the e-mail because you forgot it? Geeez. sure. "I want your e-mail address. "Hey. so."Oh. you feel comfortable. eh?" She hit me on the shoulder. and I said to my mind. lol. so easily getting amused. I would LOVE that. and overall."See. and I am 21." (She is 29.) .feel comfortable. "Kids.
like being with this sense of humor. and said. "Have a good night. "What? You like my lips? They are not average."Do you mean offering kisses?" She laughed. "Wait.You are too much.She. and said. She gave me her e-mail. silly . my..." She replied." I said. I slightly smiled at her. are you always like this?" Me ." Me. "Wow." She was laughing so hard that her face turned red. "You too. rather. would smirk. but I never laughed. You should be grateful if I touch your forehead with them.." . are you leaving like that without saying 'it was pleasure meeting you?"' She said. "No."Oh."For you to handle?" She stared at me. bye... and I said..
and wrote it down."All the time. I said." She sighed.. I swear David." she said. I was not expecting your call." She did not say anything. but jumped to me and kissed me. "Wow." I said. "Maybe you want to take a rest. She did not want me to. unless you promise me that if you lay in bed you will take me with you. and talking. in a good way. and you don't do it because I am here. They fail in trying to imitate me" (I wanted to leave already. we had sex. " I said. I called her the same night." "What?! Why?" she asked. It was great. To make this short. Needless to say.. We met again. She asked me. even though I was having a good time). "No. "No.. but you forgot to write down your phone number. I said. " I said. or lay on your bed. staring at me. and said. and she was. "I wish all men were like you. She was quiet. nor smile. but I did leave. I am calling you because I forgot to wish you sweet dreams. I am glad they are not like me. and I told her that I ought to go... and half an hour of me being there. I have to go. "Look. "Why you say that?" "Hey kid. at her house. and also checking to see if you made it home safe. "I really have to go ." I said. ." "That is so sweet of you.
3) Don't be BORING. not comic book collecting.or. Think wine collecting. energy. and ATTRACTION. not chemistry.." ***What Causes Women To Leave Men? 1) Women are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES. . I realize that this is making you very attracted to me. just say: "That's impossible. but please control yourself. humor. passion.. "I'm glad you noticed.. A few quick ideas: Take up an interesting hobby.**If a girl tells you that you're too funny. Mountain biking. Boring is also the lack of adventure.. 2) Don't be PREDICTABLE." .
but if you do these things (or even ONE of these things)... say "Hi. and let YOU call the shots. will you call me . I'm willing to let YOU be the one who's in control... A woman can like everything about you. 1) Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval Men. And Insecure If a guy is on the phone with a girl he just met... But the problem is that women DON'T WANT you to give up your status and "manliness". I want your approval and attention. and she says "Hey. it can DESTROY your chances of success with a particular woman. Um.. well. Women aren't ATTRACTED to men who act weak and tentative.... OK. he might say "Aw..Fashion. and do anything to please YOU. in effect. 2) Being Needy. um. ***WHAT ATTRACTIVE WOMEN HATE MOST ABOUT SINGLE GUYS. I have to go". Clingy. if you'll give me your attention and approval".. not X-Box.
He'll stay physically close to her.when you get home?". and they're walking around in a large department store. and not leave her side for a minute. fun. Or let's say a guy and a girl are out on their first date. etc. Most guys will follow the woman everywhere. And an even worse example is a guy who is so emotionally insecure that he actually ASKS a woman to tell him that he's nice. interesting. If she wanders away. he'll come find her IMMEDIATELY. "Do you think I'm interesting?" "Do you think we could ever have a relationship?" "Am I your type?" . as if he's afraid she'll leave without him.
but he isn't getting them.... So what does he do? He ASKS for them! He says "So. Everything about the way he asks says to the woman "I'm trying to figure out what you want me to do..And Even Worse. So you've got a situation where a man is trying to FOLLOW a woman who isn't LEADING. Trying To Get Her To Lead The REAL problem is that most women won't try to LEAD naturally. I was thinking of maybe taking you to Olive Garden for dinner.. He's looking for little cues so he knows where to go and what to do. please help me know how you want me to . 3) Not Leading . how does that sound?". It makes them shiver with the heebie-jeebies.Women HATE this stuff.. It makes them want to RUN AWAY.
Low. where you want me to take you. This is ATTRACTION DEATH! Men who don't lead. and even worse. Gestures. Approval-Seeking.act. try to get a woman to lead. and what you want me to say".Status Posture. ANNOY THE HELL OUT OF SINGLE WOMEN. Voice Tone. They HATE IT! 4) Using Insecure. And Body Language .
Men like women. Men are dominant. They like to enjoy the chase.. win things. they don't demonstrate that they "get it" when they're with women that they "like". They love anticipation. don't act like a GIRLY-MAN. There are POWERFUL causes at play here. Well guess what? Most men don't BEHAVE like men when they're in the presence of a woman that they "like". Men like to play rough games. And since most men don't understand female human nature. Women like men. They love to "let a guy catch them". Men are competitive.5) Not Understanding That She's A Woman And You're A Man Women are coy. and it's not .. It's not sexy. They like to play hard to get. and rule their territory. When you're around a woman you like.
attractive. It's an ego boost. As a matter of fact... etc. the better and more powerful they feel. ***Why You Should NOT Compliment A Woman The more attention and compliments they get.. BUT.. she wants sexual tension. 7) Not Understanding Attraction You have to do things like CREATE TENSION.. give her time to miss you... this doesn't mean that a woman will feel ATTRACTED to you if you give her compliments..... she wants a challenge. and it's a BUTTTTT bigger than J-Lo's. are you a model or an actress?" etc.. if you start talking to an attractive woman and say. you're really beautiful... the most LIKELY .. you're like a goddess.... "Wow. she wants to laugh.. I mean.. stop doing something that she likes.. And single women HATE IT! 6) Not Being Interesting To Be Around She wants mystery.
and watch them carefully. you'll ." I was stunned. "Women don't dress up for men. a good friend of mine said something that totally shocked me. If you put a group of attractive women together in a club or bar. As a general rule. you ALWAYS want to avoid being mentally slotted into the "average" and "like all the other guys" category at ALL COST. About 4 or 5 years ago when I was first learning about how to be successful with women.response you're going to get is her giving you the cold shoulder. Why? Because SHE GOT WHAT SHE NEEDED FROM YOU and you showed her that you're JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER guy out there that will worship her for her physical beauty. they dress up for each other. He said.
Men could really care less what a woman is wearing or how she's dressed for the most part. Most men would never notice this subtle communication that's going on between women. but if you look for it. and especially attractive women. but it's just not that important. it's nice to see a woman dressed well. Sure.. you'll find it. Women. and trying to intimidate other women with their eyes. negative comments. making negative comments to their friends about how other women look. . The fact is that women don't like to compete with each other on the football field. like looking each other up and down with disgusted looks..see something interesting begin to happen. this leads to "bitch looks". don't like the idea that another woman is getting more attention than her.. And women can tell very quickly if another woman is more attractive. they compete to be the most attractive.. The women will start doing "catty" things.
and turn up the funny. women don't spend a lot of time fixing themselves up to get compliments. so you can actually have a conversation. but most guys never even CONSIDER it because it's not what comes naturally. you might turn down the cocky.and other amazing displays. rather than giving her compliments. To summarize. The thing to do when you meet an attractive woman is to actually TEASE AND BUST on her a bit. .. There's a HUGE opportunity in these first meeting situations. This effectively scrambles her whole program and causes her to lose her composure. they do it to compete with and impress other women. Ask a few attractive. *** A final note: If you're a pretty good looking guy. It takes her off guard and shakes her out of her world.. well-dressed women about this and they'll tell you.
Women perceive good looking guys who act cocky as MAJOR PLAYERS. One guy I know always has girls around him. "I don't even know you that well". This says "I just teased you but you didn't get it... do or own. Did some C&F routine like "Don't get too close". ***I go to this club on a regular basis. *** Here are a few more quick stories about guys I know who are "cool". it is important to understand that PLAYFUL TEASING.. Usually he has three or . ***To be successful with women. EYE CONTACT and CONFIDENCE are much more ATTRACTIVE than anything you can repeat. squint a bit and smile just barely.. I don't think I've ever seen him WITHOUT at least one girl with him. Learn the art of the "sly smile". and too much cocky too soon can backfire on you. I saw this one girl and started dancing with her. In fact." It's great.
. He kind of IGNORES them when he first meets them. on the other hand. Then he shows up at the door to these hot spots with five women. and one of them introduces a female friend to him. I have another friend that is really amazing with women. the women that are around him always want to talk to HIM. and treats them like good friends who he's comfortable enough to bust on. make it his business to know where the "cool" places are in town. He DOES. teases them. he'll shake her hand and say "hi". EVERYONE who knows him thinks of him as a "cool" guy. Somehow. where to go out. and who to call for the "inside track" on where the hot spots are. he doesn't buy things for women. And all the guys he knows think of him as one of the coolest guys around. and he doesn't kiss up to them. He always makes fun of the girls.. Finally. If he's out with friends. He's not rich.four girls with him. and sometimes up to 10 or 12. But he does something that's rather unusual when he's around women. then TURN AWAY and go back to whatever he was doing. I have one friend who literally says .
you probably remember him saying these exact words when I'm interviewing him. etc." If you've seen my Advanced DVD Program. He's blunt.. "You probably wouldn't like me.. you do things like: -Pursue -Cling . ***When you act like a Wussy.. Our relationship will probably go no further than the physical. they love him. ***"You're cute when you pout. or smother them with compliments.things to women like.. I don't really have relationships with women. He's so calm and laid back around women that they have to pursue HIM. and honest about whatever is on his mind. and it happens a lot. and yet. direct..". buy them things. And he has a crew of guy friends who all love him and think he's one of the "coolest" guys in the world.. and it works. He doesn't chase women.
She doesn't want a guy who does what she wants him to do. An interesting. . An interesting. but it's HORRIBLE for ATTRACTION. attractive woman doesn't want a guy that she can push around. It's distinctly FEMININE in nature. *** Being "nice" and "accommodating" and "understanding" is great for friendships and social relationships. She doesn't want a little boy that she can train and raise.-Share "feelings" -Act submissive -Seek approval -Pine away This is WUSSY behavior. attractive woman wants a MAN.
*** After a woman comes over to your house and gets physical with you. makes you laugh. Don't call the next day and talk hot and heavy. Do you prefer it when guys try to BUY your attention with gifts and food. and keeps you guessing about what's going to come next?" ***I was trying to figure out an approach when she happened to turn and looked right at me. can I ask you a question? I'm trying to overcome my shyness." ***"Excuse me. LEAN BACK. Here's one of my favorite quotes: "Give her the gift of missing you. so I got off my bar stool went over and said "Can I ask you . makes fun.*** Just make sure that you don't start calling this girl every 20 minutes. and it's my goal to ask five women today what it takes for them to feel attracted to a man. or do you prefer it when a guy teases you. Give it some time and space. and that you give her space to miss you and think about you.
.something?" She said "Sure." *** And to answer your question that you asked about the "face" that women respond to. ***And. but I was obviously mistaken. Say.. I say "Then please don't sing any more Eagle songs.and the rest is history. cuz I really like them". what?" I then asked "Are you going to sing any more Eagles songs?'" She says " I guess I can do a request" (semiteasing). Check out the look that Marlon Brando has on his face on the cover of "Streetcar Named Desire". madder than hell. Almost immediately I heard "Hey a**hole!!!" I turned and there she was.she started laughing too. sat down with me.... *** The way to not "regress into Wuss behavior . "Oh. sorry. you looked like you might be an interesting person. That should give you a good idea of what I'm talking about. I started cracking up. if a woman is actually RUDE to you. just laugh.. then I turned and walked back to my bar stool.
If you stay busy. Stay busy. and I will do whatever I have to do to please you and spend time with you". Too many guys will meet a woman. Big mistake. then basically say in one way or another to her: "You are my everything now.. and keep your own life going .after initial success" is. Spend time on your own.. 1) Have a life. Do things with friends that don't involve the woman you're dating.
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