When we talk about divorce, first thing that will come to our minds is marriage.

But what is
marriage, marriage is the legally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship.
Marriage is mostly about how two people unite and what is the cause of their union. First reason why
did two people got married is they found love at each other and they wanted it to last forever. So, they
made a vow or a promise to each other in front of the altar or in front of God. Marriage can be
recognized as the creation of God since it is mostly about love. Because love is created by God. While
divorce is just created by the human. So tell me, who is the most powerful creator, the creator of
divorce who is also created by the creator of love or marriage.

 Mark 10:9 “Therefore what God has joined together, let no separate.”

Here's what if their partner is being abusive. And he/she might have been hurting his/her
partner physically. Then they can’t stand it anymore. We could say that divorce is still not the answer.
What's purpose of your promises and vows during your wedding? Will you just waste all the time and
preparation you gave just to have a dream wedding? I guess you will not trifle away all the efforts you
have done. Since before the marriage there’s a preparation that makes the couple ready to be united us
one. In this process, they have to understand each other to have a better relationship and avoid fights.
With that, they are able to get to know each other and have knowledge on each other’s weaknesses. In
that case, the abusive partner can change its behavior with the help of his/her partner. Their partner can
help them by asking them what’s wrong or if they are dealing with some problem. They are in one flesh
now and have each other’s back. They are supposed to solve each other’s problem to have a better
living.

 1 John 4:12 “No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and His love
is made complete in us.”

Process of divorce is expensive or it costs a lot of money. The expenses that you will spend is up

Is up to $30,000 or approximately up to Php150,000. See it is indeed a lot of money to spend for. Plus,
the money that you will spend for medical assistance. If ever you get stressed out or depressed on the
divorce that you might regret when it did happen. Think twice, because the money you will spend might
be a big help to the family you built. For example, the money can be spent for your children’s better
education.

If the couple got divorced, it will have a large impact to their children. Their children will have a
hard time to think where they will gonna live, either their mom or their dad. When in the first place,
they should not pick who will be by their side because both of their parents should be always by their
side. What if the mother can’t handle the problem of her child/children, at least there is a father that
could help her handle it, vice versa. A child must have a guidance both from their parents. If not, this
could lead them from being rebellious. That could affect its behavior.