CHAPTER I

PRELIMINARY

A. Background
In entering the present age we tend to want only worldly pleasures, without
regard to the negative effects caused by these actions.
We spend a lot of time having fun without limits. This is due to the promiscuity
that is happening at the moment.
Teenagers today misunderstand the true meaning of promiscuity. They only
know that we are free to do whatever they do in their minds. One example that is
always done by teenagers now is Free Sex.
Usually teens do shameful acts out of curiosity and want to try something.
Like free sex, they see scenes that break religion and finally their passions move
and want to try it. And they do that with their partners but not their wives, but
together with their girlfriends.
For this reason, I try to raise the title of the dangers of promiscuity, so that the
readers, especially for teenagers, now to avoid promiscuity and know the effects
of promiscuity.

B. Problem Formulation
Definition and impact of promiscuity for teens or adults.

C. Purpose.
As for some of the objectives of this paper include:
1. Knowing the meaning of promiscuity
2. Knowing the impact of promiscuity
3. Knowing how to deal with promiscuity.
 D. Benefits
So that readers know the meaning, types, and effects of promiscuity, and they
know how dangerous promiscuity is.
 CHAPTER II
DISCUSSION

A. The meaning of promiscuity.

In general people are more inclined to pursue worldly pleasures, even though
there is endless pleasure in heaven. But they do not care about it, the worst they
leave their practices for their pleasure. Especially teenagers now who like to try
something new and they like to do it without regard to its effects.
Teenagers now know the term free promiscuity, they interpret promiscuity if
we can do unlimited acts. Even though this is not the case, the real meaning is
that we are only recommended to be friends with anyone and if our friends save
their behavior, don't copy it, that's the real meaning.
The meaning of promiscuity is one of the necessities of life of human beings
because humans are social beings who in their daily lives need other people, and
relationships between people are fostered through association.
Another meaning of promiscuity is one form of deviant behavior which means
"free" is beyond the limits of norms. So it can be concluded from the above
understanding free association is a deviant human behavior that violates religious
norms and there are no limits.

B. types of promiscuity
In general, people see and want to feel what has been seen and some do not
want to miss. Usually they tell of their experiences in doing something distorted.
Then people who listen do not want to be left behind because their opinions are
said to be said to be a loser because they have not felt or done that, so there arises
in their minds to do deviant behavior.
One example that is now the subject of conversation is free sex. Teenagers
now from junior high school to university students they already know and almost
some of them have even done it. Initially it was a result of negligence from his
parents who did not pay attention to who he was friends with, then there was the
wrong cell phone. With the existence of electronic devices which are then
misinterpreted by seeing useless films such as porn films or porn videos. Finally
they also want to try to do the same thing as practiced in the video.
 Usually this happens because there is also dating without limits. Teenagers are
now dating style very concerned. That's because they are dating like they are
husband and wife, has no limits. Though they may not necessarily be husband
and wife. But they are happy and proud of their actions, the proof is that they
even send their friends to be enshrined in video recordings.
Another example of promiscuity is that teenagers now often drink and drink
drugs. In the beginning they just wanted to try drinking it until finally they
continued to do so with drugs. Many say our minds are gone if we take drugs and
we can be creative easily until finally teenagers try it and finally addicted
C. Causes and effects of promiscuity

1. Cause of promiscuity
There are many reasons for teenagers to do promiscuity. The causes of each
adolescent may be different but all are rooted in the main causes namely the lack
of adolescent life's grip in terms of belief / religion and emotional instability of
adolescents. This causes uncontrolled behavior, such as promiscuity and drug use
that leads to diseases such as HIV and AIDS or death.
2. The effects of promiscuity
Promiscuity is very identical to the name "clubbing" (sparkling world). Which
has become common knowledge that the use of drugs is rampant. This is
synonymous with free sex. Which eventually leads to HIV / AIDS, and the
vastness after being exposed to this virus the lives of adolescents will become
very lame in all respects.
Apart from free sex the promiscuity of promiscuity also leads to teenagers
who drink and drink. There are also those who often take drugs. Though they do
not know the ends of their actions will lead to death.
D. How to deal with promiscuity.
Parents should pay more attention to their children's relationships with whom
he is hanging out. This is one way to overcome promiscuity. But if they have
fallen prey there is still a way with psychotherapy. But it's better to boast than
cure. Therefore parents and the community should now be more vigilant in
socializing and maintaining lust when dating not without limits.
We all must also increase our faith and devotion to God Almighty. Channeling
positive interests and talents are things that can make everyone able to achieve
life success later. But even though these words are often 'echoed', there are still
many teenagers who do things that should not be done. In addition to the above
there are still many ways to deal with other promiscuity, including:
1. Maintain a balanced lifestyle. Namely the need for adolescents to learn
discipline by managing time, emotions, energy and thoughts well and
beneficially, for example managing time in daily activities and filling free
time with positive activities.
2. Be honest with yourself. Namely realize basically each individual wants
the best for themselves. So that free association can be avoided. So with
this teenagers don't abuse their emotions and themselves.
3. The need for teens to think for the future. It's rare for teens to think about
the future. If every teenager is able to instill the question "What will happen
to me later if I neglect in compiling steps to become a better individual?"
Then it is accompanied by positive actions for self-improvement in
adolescents. With that, teens will think long about doing things that are
deviant and will reduce the number of adolescents affected by HIV / AIDS
later.

E. Discussion of Resource
Of the five narrators I've asked, it turns out they have different answers like
the following:
1. Just mention his name T.M bia is a student he said that he had had a
relationship not husband and wife with his girlfriend but only one time.
While you drink often so much that he had forgotten.
According to him the drinks he often drinks such as the Leaning Hat, Old Man,
Tuak and Berem (a type of traditional drink) and according to him the drinks he
often drinks are Tuak and Berem because the problem is cheap and quickly makes
a headache.
2. Just mention his name M.A. same as he is a student too but he said if the
relationship is not husband and wife he never did because he was afraid
that one day his girlfriend was pregnant and married, but if the problem is
hard he already bored.
He said the drinks he often drank like Bintang, Tilted Hats, Parents, Tuak and
Berem (a type of traditional drink) and according to him the drinks he often drank
were Tuak and Berem because they were cheap and quickly made me dizzy.
3. Just mention his name, BJ, he is a trader, he said that he often does
relationships if he is not mistaken, he said he first took a sex hole during
 the second grade of junior high school, and if he was drinking when he
started junior high, then he said that from the school, the first student was
expelled. that is he is because he has been caught naughty in addition to 3
times drinking by the teacher.
He said the drinks he often drank like Bintang, Tilted Hat, Old Man, Red
Wine, Ciu (a type of traditional drink) and according to him the drinks he often
drank were Tuak and Berem because they were cheap and quickly made me dizzy
and if I drank other drinks. less expensive besides also less up or make dizzy less
quickly.
4. The last resource person, just call it AD, is now still a state high school
student, admits that when he drinks and has sex with all his girlfriends and
drinks, he also often says that if he doesn't drink in one week at least one
day it feels different.
The drinks he often drinks, namely Tuak and Berem, are not only cheap but
not as dangerous as drinks that are mixed with oplos, and he also said that
drinking quickly causes dizziness.
 CHAPTER III
COVER

A. Conclusion
The meaning of promiscuity is one of the necessities of life of human beings
because humans are social beings who in their daily lives need other people, and
relationships between people are fostered through association. The types of
promiscuity are free sex which results in the HIV / AIDS virus and death. In
addition there are liquor and drugs that will damage the future and ultimately will
result in death.
B. Suggestions
Parents should monitor their children's behavior and pay attention to who they
are friends with and don't give excessive freedom such as going out at night.