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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
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What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. Some people are polarizing. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. Change does not mean they will end. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. That was a tool in 3D. In 4D. No one seems to really get the point. and that is all change means. is inside of you. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. let some things out. it is going to be very different. they believe. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship.For one thing. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. It is going to challenge you. at all costs. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. they are weak and open to attack. you are going to start feeling pain. because you can never be separate. It is a symptom. you will create more discomfort and pain. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. Separation. first level. they will blame sex. Energetically. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. There is no separation. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. is to be avoided in their belief. Some people are denying them. Sex. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. they think all it has to do with is sex. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. If you are resisting change. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. and that is allowed. Breaking. Change means change. It may first manifest outside of you. and never has been. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. . Instead. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. You allow the other person to move in that direction. Divorce is a 3D solution. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. It is not. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. Always. It is not the issue. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. If you are willing to move with it. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. If you create resistance. So. then your relationships are going to start to change. no matter what choice happens. If they are vulnerable. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. They have nothing to do with the problem. and challenge you. confusion. Some people are going with the flow. That. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. but you haven't known what was happening. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. these things started in the 1960s of your time.
You don't require the other person to make the same choice. So you are trying to act on your excitement. You do not have to plan for the future. with trust instead of control. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. You only make the choices for you and no one else. You would just trust. . Meaning absolute trust. They are all part of the same family anyway. Because she wants the child. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. Your mate can do whatever they want. The choices are all for you. whatever) relationship. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. we apologize. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. allowance instead of manipulation. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. That is the difference. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. then that choice is for you. They have nothing to do with the other person. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. Therefore. It is different from what you see here." No. In a 4D type relationship. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. That is what we meant by conscious choice. the idea of commitment does not exist. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. So. she has the child because she wants the child. In 4D type relationships. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. The choices are entirely for you. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. If we have explained it incorrectly. It placates you into thinking you are secure. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. It is trust. No. You say to the person. If the woman is Pleiadian. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. If you choose to be non-monogamous. not a compulsion). although your society will change. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. If you choose monogamy. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. In 4D you are acting in the moment.
You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. That is what I've been finding out. and so when that recognition is there. I would rather not cause problems for them. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. Therefore. then after the baby is born. so all the issue come crawling out. It is an equation that doesn't work. In the moment. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. "Oh. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. For some people it is sex. you cannot put that outside of yourself. For others it is money. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. You say. It looks nice. I don't want to hurt other people. In the moment. But I still want these people as friends. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. I've finally been making choices for myself. we become dependent on the other person. in the moment. sex is a really good trigger. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. and still push people's buttons. In 4D. If you are in the moment. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. Okay. You can say nice things all the time. . there is that child. you can love it. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. Then in 4D." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. and people have been getting upset. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had.Exactly. If you are totally 100% in the present. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. at all costs. you are in the past or the future. you got a haircut. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. This is a very good question. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. but any reality that you create." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. It really depends on the individual. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. each day. totally and absolutely. I made a mistake in having this child. No effort." Never. is all dependency gone? Yes. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. Yes. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. You must. Not just a child. There will never be a time where you will say. Sex is just one of those lids. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. Very simple. For others. "Oh. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes.
You can never hurt another person. It prolongs the pain. it is her choice. They all come from you. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. If she chooses to be hurt. disapproval or invalidation. fears. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. I don't see there is an exception to that. in the husband's excitement he says. In your innocence and excitement. In . Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. At the same time. You try to protect other people. That is empowerment. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. "I want to go hot air ballooning. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. That is one of my button-pushers here. and emotions. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. It is then that each person will be challenged. Good term. then you polarize between victims and hurters. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. He is protecting himself. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. They like the concepts. We might borrow that one. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. This is what we mean by enmeshment. That is then the way you will see the universe. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. There cannot ever be victims." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. If. The outcome is the same. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. then you are manipulating people around you. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. that is deliberately hurting her. But there are no victims. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. Well. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. But in reality.
If you do not express who you are. and then actually on the physical level. the more diseased you get. Write them down. You are all divine portions of the creator. You protect them from the things that you fear. If you look at a Pleiadian. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. It throws you into disharmony. You stuff it. If you do not express who you are 100%. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. They do not know who you are. It is. in one way. it is going to be devastating to you. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. it is also insulting. Be truthful. Those judgments eat you up. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. All That Is is neutral. You are lying to yourself. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. You cannot withhold any portion of you. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. You can tell them that. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. Then they only know you through your lies. we've always screwed up the communication. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. If they don't agree with you. Say it into a tape recorder. You won't know what the thoughts are. They are the ones generating their reality. balance. Get comfortable with who you are. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . When you hold back that which you are. you are lying. that is their choice. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. Let yourself think it first. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. it submerges itself. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. reflecting that which you feel within. because they don't know who you are. It is stasis. The more you stuff it. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. This is a no win situation. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. Literally. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). Cancer. They cannot be victim of hurt. You are lying to the other person. heart disease. But in one way. Write it down. They cannot ever love you for who you are. Let it be okay to start thinking them. to hell with what the others think. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. not necessarily the things they fear. It buries itself into your cells.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. first think what it is you want to say. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. Externalize them.
If she has perceived that she is clean on it. for instance). ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. The more you practice. There is only neutral expression. In the expression. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. and I don't agree with that. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. whether it is attacking or not attacking. they are not going to feel attacked. In fact. Other times you cannot. You will learn how to tell the difference. they will feel attacked. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. let us clarify. . "You are a jerk. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. Know who you are. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. so it's fine. Before you express something. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. Yes. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. and if it is indeed an attack. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. If they have no issue about being attacked. That wasn't my question. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. and that's cool. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. That is not a clean idea. Sometimes you can see that. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. the more you will be able to tell. If you do (to get them to do something. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. whether she thinks it's clean or not. If you think it's clean. Okay. "It is clean as a whistle. and the synchronicity of All That Is." if you feel hurt. If your wife walks up to you and says.. If it's not clean and you can recognize it.. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. Get out that pent-up energy. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. There are not mistakes in creation. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. If that expression is an attack. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. There are no wrong things. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. In the addictive state. It cannot be any other way. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. She can tell me I'm a jerk. So it's essential for her to express that. times when you say to yourself. We apologize if the language was misleading. I'm not saying that it has to be clean." and you express your thought. Again. But by all means at least express it to yourself. then express it. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. I understand that. because that in itself is part of the growth process. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. There are times when you cannot see it. All right. That is not what was implied. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not.
Examine your beliefs. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). "You look like a pig today.to fourth-density relationships model. It is not possible. really believe that. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. then you will have matched your vibrations. Well. If you really believe that Creation is Love. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. every instance must support ultimately that belief. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. ever. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. it's not clean. It will lock your relationship into third density. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. but we didn't make it a major point. that hurts me. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. then every action." And if he feels really good about himself. That is the bottomline intention of creation. and it will not hurt him. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. also. But you can't know. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. You can never hurt another person. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. "If you have dinner with another woman. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. You may walk up to your husband one day. then it's clean. underneath everything else. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. it's not true excitement. But if you do. that's not going to hurt him in the least. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. and you may say. You cannot hurt another person. so don't tell me about it if you do that . Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. Victimhood would come into it. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. third-density relationships often express victimhood. They can choose to feel hurt. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. if you really. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. because it's the way to take your power back.
and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. but that's secrecy and it's third density. and you're feeling the pain. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles.. Right? Yes! So it's fine. allowance." That's okay to ask for that. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. However.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. It's a significator. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. it's fine. and that's quite all right. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. there's nothing wrong with it. Exactly. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. which an indicator that you are making the change. but recognize that's what you're choosing. Yes. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. then actually. honesty. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. It's all equal anyway. exactly. So whenever I feel pain. unconditional love. no. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. You're holding onto something from third density. . But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. Absolutely. reading this. If you choose third density. Many people are using it that way. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. It's one package or another package. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. I won't feel any pain. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. those in the room. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. because the cruise control does not come with third density. then you're right. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. to remind you that you can still feel. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. you will not feel pain. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions.. secrecy.
And you will begin to see. some of the understandings. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. not necessarily in every single relationship. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. it's an expression of who we are. we will have a short break. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. Sasha: All right. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. Greetings. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. Now. Sasha. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. Third density is the density of polarity. powerful changes within your life. with respect to your channel. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. Greeting to all of you. it really does not. overall. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. this is Sasha. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. They do not have to bring pain. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships.Again. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. Do not be surprised. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. let me repeat myself. you are going to see tremendous. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. exactly. Now. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. Yes. of course. literally that means two . That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. However. Now. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. It's simply different. After that. Now. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. necessity meaning single parents. absolutely 100% guaranteed. but you don't have to manifest pain.
Make your choices. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. there will be no problem here. . And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. it takes away the love they can have for you. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. Now. back and forth. so because of the aloneness.ideas are present. But recognize where the time element comes into it. honesty. and in this mated group. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). insert a third variable. The dynamics will have to change. and then you bring in another mate. So when I spend time with my mate. That is a third-density idea. back and forth. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. because using the paddle idea. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. "This is better than this. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. I am deprived. Period. I get caught in the time factor. are present. living in the moment. but it might not necessarily work for you.. So therefore. back and forth. As you start choosing how you want to live. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. you must just go for it. etc. I'm not alone. so if I don't have this. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. that you must at all cost heal this. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. fourth. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. if you in third-density. It can. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. again. Now. we're not saying. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. When you love yourself unconditionally. these things are going to begin coming up. as Germane was not saying. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. I was also in a mated group. And that is something that we would like to address. It cannot happen. Do you all follow? Thoughts. most definitely. It is not time. Absolutely cannot happen. Well. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. as intense. back and forth. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles." Do you follow? Now. back and forth. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion.
Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. You are it. And when you see your mate. There were basically three different phases of environments. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. Sasha. I was just curious about that because. It's just a question of when. . because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. and the same thing with the Orions. The shift is going to happen. The critical mass is going to happen. One were rooms of privacy. it is still going to happen. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. when your mate is not there. no. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. And again in fourth density. at least right now. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. as Germane was saying. invited guests you may call it. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. It will take longer if they resist it. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. So for instance. Either way. it's exciting in the moment. Both are equal. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. Yes.Exactly. Question. Now you on your planet. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. The same thing with the Essassani. you are excited in the moment with yourself. Or comment. Do what you can. And so when that recognition is there. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. Both companies are appreciated. Did you want more on that? Well. when you lived with a group. that only we entered. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. Sasha. which is open to all. if you will. We do not perceive. through who you have been as a species. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person.
Sasha. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. So it's that issue. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. . there was no fighting.. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. We are going through relationship transformation. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. it was a natural movement from one state to another. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. or not even that different. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. Yes. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. that's when I was in the group. It's a little bit different. yes. there was no resistance. Just with a different twist. and therefore for instance. One last question along these lines. not out of a sense of prejudice. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways.. If that's true. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. You follow? Yes. to give you a very dramatic example. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. You know those Zetas. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. let us say. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. having to deal with the need to control. there were no tears or anger. very rough.
any man that I've been around. That was not so much of a challenge. the present holds your answers. We're not talking about the sex act.. sex does not become a big deal. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. It is of a creative vibration. because literally the past does not hold your answers. etc. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't.. sexuality is not sex. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani." I mean. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . if people judge their own or others' sexuality. "Hmm. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature.. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. On our planet and in third density. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. Right now. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. etc. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. There is simply one expression. They are very secure in their identity in the present.. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. That was kind of a landmark. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. In third density. Maybe. that becomes irrelevant. someone else will be attracted to this body type. And if you were to live in the moment. can it? Exactly. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. A lot of this searching goes on. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. going to bed with Sasha. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. it can't be used against you. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. Now. but he taught us a thing or two.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. a different developmental structure. and if that is the case. Again. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. no child feels unwanted. there is so much emphasis on body types. Not only that. Again. I will be attracted to a certain body type. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. Now.
then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. If you are so together and whole. They are natural diversifying characteristics. Exactly. . When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. That is very accurate. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. you would all be "gorgeous" also. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. Exactly. And that is the cycle. Well. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. if you're all gorgeous. you feel beautiful. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. Yes. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. but the preferences are so unimportant. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. Most definitely. conditions. But it is not a need in any way. that is a third-density idea. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. If you all felt that way. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. Conditional love. When you do not need something from another individual. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. I know. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. Now. When you move into fourth density. Most definitely. you feel vibrant. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. they're too tall. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. those symbols will change because you will change. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. you feel healthy. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. we may have preferences. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate.No." Oh. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. you would have all that male and female inside your body. they're too ugly. Separation. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. there is no attention on body type. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se.
Integration is the entire soup itself. The recipe needs those things. exactly. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. yes. Living the relationship. then it is out of need. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. you will not know how to cook the soup. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. Sasha. Do you follow? There is a fine line. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. Work with it.It's almost like a paradox here. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. Fourth density is integration. Can be. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. you will not know the recipe. we would say. and it will take a lot more energy. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. In fact. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. fun and excitement instead of need. If you do not want to look at your needs. Recognize the need. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. There is a difference. The recipe requires carrots and celery. To use an analogy. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. Third density is separation. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. Now. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong.
You're not attacking someone. So neither one is wrong nor right. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. you are choosing to integrate yourself. Do you want to comment on that? Well. and your needs. as dysfunctional as they may be. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. We do not have that particular expression. . and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person.carrots. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. Nothing exists without a purpose. Now again. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. If you choose personal growth over relationships. I become angry. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. But if you choose personal growth. personal growth will always have to suffer. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. however. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. As long as the relationship takes precedence. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. Sasha. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. There are times when we recognize. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. Go to your own garden. recognize what you get with that choice. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. Exactly. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. we're talking in ways that are different than you. Exactly.
I have one question. "No. But it came into my life suddenly. . That is all you are responsible for. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. If they feel deprived. I guess. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. from my thirddensity perspective. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. Ahhh. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. You cannot deprive another person. We're not understanding the exact question. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. if that's the case. I appreciate that." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. that need is okay. I follow. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. Well. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. Well. Back in this needs issue. and I can tune into it. We are sorry. But you can play out that game. but there is. and I feel it's a very good answer. And like we say with the soup. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. I refuse to do that. it's their choice. That doesn't matter. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. pulling yourself back into third density. getting the package deal there. And even if I'm able to say.
and my two basic needs were safety and protection. starts setting in. you're not in fourth density. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. Period. If you have that need. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. nearly nonexistent. and then they will be angry. For one thing. Exactly. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. and it started out. So when you have no expectations . the anger. play. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. You can never second-guess another person. ecstasy. Now. You are still playing the thirddensity game. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. They will not verbalize them.which is exactly what I do not want to do. the level of anger would be very. I remember saying. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. Seventy-five percent. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. you will get caught because it is a game. whether covert or overt. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. Obviously that is a trap. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. hostility. However. caring and sharing. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. Exactly. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. very low¾hidden anger. "I don't expect anything from it. you cannot know. they will never be satisfied. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. In other words. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. Am I on track? Yes. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. That is so correct. And just be pure in my own intention. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. and let it be whatever it ends up being.
what a load off your mind that is. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. Much. And so. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. In fourth density. All Rights Reserved.to fourth-density thinking. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. you then know there's an issue. "If you can't feel the pain. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. The joy will start to grow. yes. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. It will just automatically start unfolding. and they will always be an issue. you can't feel the ecstasy. Yes. they will stay there on the counter.about the other person fulfilling your needs. Again. you will soar. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. much love to each and every one of you. much. that you judge. Copyright © 1993. The pain will start to subside. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love." In third density. . It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. going to start seeing changes. yes. are so valuable because they make up the soup. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. If you judge them. that makes a lot of sense. that idea cannot exist. that you're angry at. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. Once that idea is relinquished. Much love and goodnight. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. it's not a light switch going on and off. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. You can enjoy yourself. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. you can truly experience unconditional love. what a load off your energy. It's a gradual movement from third. is difficult. they will transform. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. You are moving in that direction. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are.
if the weight is balanced on both sides. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening.galactic heritage and sexuality. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. The Empire vs. "Black" is not meant to be negative. we will integrate them together. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. who were the freedom fighters. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. In a tug-of-war. The idea . For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. As you know. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. These individuals we've called the Black League. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. If they were found. This is Germane. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. incarnationally speaking. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. Many of you on Earth. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . neither person is going to win. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. First. It took them a very. Thus you can see the dynamic. they would be annihilated. certain patterns of conflict. Orion Civilization . This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. Earth was a place where you could come. for instance. First of all.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species.they did not want to be found. So let us start with Orion. This is the energy. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants.
resonate with the most. There's a recognition . because it's definitely a two-way street . Surrogates So. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. very close to them.an instant recognition . The Orions have what we could call monogamy. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. very intense in a certain way. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate.and you choose to be a surrogate. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. When you're chosen as a surrogate . So when the mate is finally found. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. to say the least. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. but also through nonsexual intimacy. because if you had kept your entire memory intact.the relationship becomes as mates. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. So this is the one we will talk about. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. Again. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. because this is the energy that you on Earth. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. The Orions mate for life. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. This is for a very specific reason. to release the energy of conflict. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society.your civilization included.when two people come together who are to be mated. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. but from their . This is the opposite. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. and even a bit scary for some of you. to release emotional energy. at least for now. There is no "sneaking around. you ask. and there's no doubt of that recognition. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate.
They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. But that was a difficult one. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. societally speaking.even in thought . Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. However. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. When one is under stress. etc. it is eventually genetically encoded. During the times of the intense conflict. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. so it's not a repression of anything.point of view extremely fulfilling. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. This is why it is of primary . But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. It's simply the way they are.it's second nature. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about.in the direction of the mate. Because of this. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. One thing we would like to say here. they repress fantasy. The Vulcan is repressing. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. After awhile it's no longer control . many thousands of years long. If one mate was killed. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. that is the way the stress is released. yes. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. Experience does change genetics. for instance. does not exist. Now. So it would depend on which period of time. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. before the conflict was resolved. they moved very slowly. one is for exchange of intimacy. This is not anything that is imposed on them. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. That is an undisciplined thought. for instance. for fantasy simply does not exist. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. But. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. The Orion civilization was many. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. there was a lot of genetic change. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. yes.
because there are other ways of channeling energy.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization .some from Orion and some from other civilizations. many of them do. one on one . At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them.what you would call marriage. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. they feel secure . but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. These marriage units are very loving. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. So they were intent on repressing negativity. ancient Pleiadian past." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. recognize emotionality in the moment . Because of this focus on positivity. you may do some research. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). You don't have to be as disciplined. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. to some degree. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. So if any of you wish to examine that further. During times of peace other things are looked at. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. As with the Orions. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. very committed to each other. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. but when they pledge their love to a person. there are three or more. very connected. That's their idea of monogamy. There are also married groups. In the ancient. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. marriage rates increase. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. they're not pledging their love for the future.and that is how they choose to live their lives. they're monogamous in the moment. The Pleiadian Civilization . the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . This is.the Pleiadian civilization. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. They have ceremonies.importance that each Orion have a mate. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . If you are in a Pleiadian civilization.
This is changing now. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. They recognize that it must be the time. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. you get used to the partner. kind of like the . "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. On your planet. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. both of you have. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. you don't have to face certain issues.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. will attempt to latch on to you. However. the mate quite often will be very hurt." there's total understanding. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. When you are in a monogamous relationship. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. very safe. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. Not that it does not occur here . It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. that would be expressed as true monogamy.move into something else.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right.it does . it's very. a conscious choice. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. certain fears. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. etc. not having sexual relations with another person. and there is a disconnection. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. however. will show a lot of pain.
If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. That's what's occurring now. will not have pain and fear. to find out what your own inner truth is. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. you don't know how to do this. Now. Eventually. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. As your consciousness raises. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. Dis-eases. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. It's simply a matter of choice. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. So back . In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. none of these civilizations are better than yours. It's very important that we say that. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. It's important that we say this. It will work for you. when they are denying and repressing. deep level. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. But neither of their expressions are better. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. as your consciousness is raising.when that is actually what they are excited by. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. any more evolved. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. For the Pleiadians.Orions. No one here is any better. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. since we've already opened our mouth. They are different. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. they've taught you a lot. In your society now. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. we'll finish what we're saying. But you are already beginning to create it. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers.
Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. AIDS. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . AIDS and cancer.your own and others'. examine your motivation. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well.then they did have some disease. Whenever there's flow. If you really feel that .it's a partnership. more than any other disease you have on your planet. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. If. and to release that.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. to understand where your fears. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. when we feel that a relationship might be over. they're a mirror image of themselves. When they are having a relationship. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. that does not constitute separation at all.levels that you've not wished to look at before. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. and anger and pain lie. many dimensions to it. Q: Separation is never a solution. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. It's a matter of resistance and flow. yes.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. think about taking action. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. Correct. are directly connected to your state of emotionality.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. with your question. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. However. Whenever there's resistance. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. or clear the energy so you can stay. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. or whether it's a true excitement. absolute reflection of themselves. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . thinking separation is a solution. for instance. So when they separate. very deep levels . there's no flow .
how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. Do you follow? Q: Yes. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). same thing). and complete control over ejaculation. That is why when they separate. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. Their skin is very different. That's a perfect form of birth control. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. In terms of getting aroused sexually. That gives you a general idea of the body types.way inside. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. anyway. it doesn't completely disappear. Sexually. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. It is humanoid. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. then when you separate. Now. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. Now."I'd like you to meet my `better half. It's like some of your animals. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. it's olive-colored . two legs. You will seek out a half. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . The women have similar control over ovulation. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. relationships are frequently not completed. Each person is not complete within themselves. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. You'll only draw to you that which you are.a brown base with a greenish tinge. . head. Unfortunately. It is your galactic family. Thank you. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. A couple of other minor differences. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. body. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. two legs.
But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression.it touched a lot of people in your society . So it touched you . you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. That type of exchange occurs very frequently.deliberately nonphysical. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. so to speak. none of this is better than . The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. Well. It's part of who they are.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. when the woman came out of her shell. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. are both highly ritualized. For instance. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. like you saw in Cocoon. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. let's do tantra today. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. but it's not a conscious.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. "Well. You see the difference? And again. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. That is one way. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. But this occurs all the time. eye-toeye recognition. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. because it is a God union. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. one for procreation and one for intimacy. It's not as if they would say. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. That's one level of it. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. then tantra is better. including chocolate ice cream. several different levels. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. yes. One. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical .
Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. and that is not the case. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. balanced and nonviolent in every way. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. that there was to be a species crisis. less complete. We were born from conflict. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. since our environment was going to collapse. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. It becomes dimmer. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. There is much to share with you. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. as we saw the birth rate decrease. Due to severe radiation. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . We had war. You have been talking about us. You are learning and growing. At this point in time. we were born from crisis. We knew this was to occur. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum.Group Mind This is Harone. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. We have much to share with you. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. We know you have many questions. It was understood by us. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. once we were underground. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. then. who we've been talking about. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. are also learning and growing. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. so we were called. Your forefathers. We gave much thought to this and chose. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate.anything else. we could control the future of our race. Within our civilization we had much diversity. We needed. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into.
This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. We are infinitely entwined . many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. Even though we do not understand why. You will find that as evolution occurs.though our realities may say we are. we work with these genetic structures. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. As we have agreed to do millennia ago.we are not separate . but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. Our organs began atrophying over many. when we went underground and began cloning. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. some need activation on the physical level. we will have physical facilitators. we are told that their numbers are quite small. these latent genetic codes. Simply put. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. They would have you think they are much more numerous. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We will become much more individualistic. you will become more unified. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears.males from females. Because we have lost this ability for so long. However. for from our point of view we . That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. 2. That is what is occurring now. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. We are taking a species leap together. In our work with you. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality.our end of the agreement. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. we will become much more similar.
so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. many of you have come to our reality. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. even more than upon your world today. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. Unfortunately for our development. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. Our interactions with you represent evolution. this is an equal exchange. what was happening in your culture. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. You are resisting . recognize we have no intent. Our interactions with you push buttons. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. We're afraid of being vulnerable. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. as we have stated. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. to change you. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. When we interact with you. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself.recognize you have given us permission. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. We learn what we desire. your interactions with us will change dramatically. your civilization. you feel the tide of evolution. From our point of view. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. engage those fears and move through them. We recognize there may be questions from you. So in terms of symbolic expression. you learn what you desire.
you will feel the pressure of evolution. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. Our way . of what procreation means to the person. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. it really depends on which group. So biologically speaking. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. and until that fear is confronted and released. saying you have not created this somehow. secretions from prostate. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. That is. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. We may not know how to understand your emotions. Some are interested in reproductive research.not in the negative sense of weakness . a mind link. as you would say. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. Vulnerable . because the emotions are very intense for us. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. not of what we intend to do . You let your guard down. that you are not part of species transformation. If you surrender. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. It is not just cold research. shall we say. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. Well. It is a matter of shifting perspective. that's what I was getting at. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. as you know the term. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . you then become vulnerable in an empowering way.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. when you are vulnerable. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor.again we speak of the dynamic. energy shielding. We are divided.that is not what is meant .evolution because of your fear. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. but we do pay attention to them. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. Very often some of us will have protection. to the One. not as if we were invading . Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. skin samples and also an understanding. or disempowered vulnerability. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. you are open to All That Is. and in that case. It penetrates all of them. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. When you are lying on an examination table. There is no arousal.sperm. eggs. into different groups that have different purposes.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas.
and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. we can enter your reality in a light state. Some of you will sense our energy. You've done your research well. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. Now that may be inaccurate . or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring.perhaps many of you would think it is . which is very uncomfortable. certainly. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. We interact with you on every level we can. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. Our love to you and goodnight. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. . Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. we must densify ourselves. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. We must deal with data. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. That is also something of primary interest to us.
but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. That will be fruits and vegetables. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. Let us first address the physical level. So. allow yourself to feel fluid. Germane through Lyssa Royal. This is rather abstract. imagine yourself as being a river. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. the voltage is going to be upped. plan accordingly. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. We would recommend distilled or purified. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. so the electrical current is always running through your body. a current. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. the presence of water. whatever your choice is. Now. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. The more . Also. your showers. You are 90 some-odd percent water. All Rights Reserved. Also.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. Not just the ingesting of it. but you will know what is right for you.
Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. That's one idea. if it does any at all. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. You are symbiotic. you see these on your laptops. we guarantee you. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. put your feet in the water. If you want to put crystals in your bath. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. it's all connected. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. The water will then be in your auric field. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. on the market there are radiation screens. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). and you can feel the environment of that water. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. If you can't do that. Now. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. That's an optimum situation. that's perfectly fine. LCD screen. of course. You may also sit by a lake. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. But in the long run. You may even want to get some fish. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). if you're living under major power lines. there are several options available to you. or fill your bathtub.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. can significantly slow . Another suggestion (other than ingestation). You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. it's up to you. is to keep water close to you if you can. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. So. or very specific types of strict diets. The radiation is not going to damage you. your planet also recognizes its need for water. Actually. So. You can get one of those fishtanks. When you bathe or shower. very helpful for you. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. If you use a computer a lot. (No need to get neurotic about this. wear some of it. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. for instance. that incorporates water. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. Along with water comes detoxification. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. There is some jewelry. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. It will be a conversation piece as well. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. If you feel attracted to that. again. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you.
From our point of view. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. that is for others to answer. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. It's got to be one or the other. . Now. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. Now. where you are the only creator of your reality. This is about learning sovereignty. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. and it's certainly not going to do anything. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners.your own healing abilities. these are guidelines. and that's very important to stress. And so this is about processing belief systems. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. when this type of fearful information is given. Category: Healing. So. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. then absolutely anything can hurt you. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. and no more sinister plots. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. information to be added to your storehouse. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. computers and microwave ovens away. there will be no more victims. no computer creates that. Many say to throw your TVs. As soon as that is recognized and owned. It is not our understanding that you will ever. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. because it makes you think. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. information to make you think. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. No television. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized.
pleasure. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. The most extreme instance is called rape. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . but the game is over. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. What begins as duality and polarization within time. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . It inundates your entire being. (Ultimately.The Path With No Obstacles .By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. whether they know it or not. and many have yet to answer it. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. ironically.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. People get carried away. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. the Western Judeo-Christian. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. Yet. thought. save dying. People use each other for lust. . How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. they enslave us and we enslave others. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. is the opportunity for ego-loss. On the direct path of conscious awareness . No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. otherwise rarely known in human existence. It delivers you . the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. and it's good for your health. through no other human activity. but concurrent with our everyday existence. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love.Tantra For a thousand years. was to keep them well in check. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. When we can't handle our attachments. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world.beyond. the body. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. Lust is only a call to love.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. and our most basic instincts.body and soul . and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. and a gift of Enlightenment. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages.
Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. as in indigenous tribal customs." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. and get it over with as quickly as possible. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. By that logic. and conditioning. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . after all. candlelight. when . Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. They fear one and fake the other. . Ph. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. incense. mystical rituals. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. or it is devil-worship. Sufi and tantric couples practices. invocations. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. state of mind. and all too often . A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. ceremonial objects." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. Meditation.we find ourselves indulging in what is. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become.D.Miranda Shaw. and the total fulfillment of your partner. and call this "correct. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. power. money.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . not deny it.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. music. rituals. breathing exercises. . innate sexuality. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. or fame). We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. The great enigma is. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. the thrill. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy.when people use each other uncaringly . the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. depending upon one's intent.
Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. confused.. Everything matters. The senses are magnified a thousand times. long and deep. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. and you two become One. Every touch is The First. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. . from passion to compassion. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. Give only pleasure and love. Abandon all gain and control. Transpose taking and giving. whom you worship in awe. Decelerate until time stands still. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Worship your lover. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. engaging all your faculties. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Give voice to your feelings. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. weeks. Purify yourself in body and mind. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Giving and taking merge. Breathe together. Fall in love. the passion intense and profound.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. You notice everything. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Begin motionless and in silence. to the sacred fire within. all purifying. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Trust your body's deepest impulses. all consuming. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. and time stands still. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Listen for Inner Guidance. breathtakingly tender. Die as a personality. die into love. Wait for the perfect moment. stay in love. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. letting hers become yours. with reverence. Foreplay is truly playful. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. Opening all your centers. all fulfilling. unconditionally. Touch only in awe. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Meditate. Gaze into each other's eyes. ours. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Make it Holy. Make love with your whole being. Reside always at the beginning. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Move in slow motion. Surrender continuously. animal to divine.
Ph.From "Enlightenment in Our Time." by Lonny J.D. . Brown.
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