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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
let some things out. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. That. There is no separation. That was a tool in 3D. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. and never has been. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. first level. they believe. they will blame sex. It may first manifest outside of you. at all costs. Instead. you are going to start feeling pain. you will create more discomfort and pain. no matter what choice happens. No one seems to really get the point. Some people are going with the flow. Some people are polarizing. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. is inside of you. they think all it has to do with is sex. Sex. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. You allow the other person to move in that direction. . You may think it is a problem with your relationship. it is going to be very different. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. and that is allowed. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. but you haven't known what was happening. They have nothing to do with the problem. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. Breaking. If you create resistance. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. If they are vulnerable. because you can never be separate. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. Energetically. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. If you are willing to move with it. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. In 4D. Divorce is a 3D solution. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. they are weak and open to attack. It is going to challenge you. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. It is not. then your relationships are going to start to change.For one thing. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. and that is all change means. Some people are denying them. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. Separation. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. Change means change. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. It is a symptom. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. is to be avoided in their belief. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. Always. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. Change does not mean they will end. and challenge you. these things started in the 1960s of your time. It is not the issue. So. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. confusion. If you are resisting change.
It is trust. whatever) relationship. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. allowance instead of manipulation. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. If the woman is Pleiadian. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. They are all part of the same family anyway. we apologize. In 4D you are acting in the moment. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. although your society will change. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. They have nothing to do with the other person. Your mate can do whatever they want. The choices are entirely for you. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. the idea of commitment does not exist. not a compulsion). The choices are all for you.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. So. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. Meaning absolute trust. Therefore. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. It is different from what you see here. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. So you are trying to act on your excitement. with trust instead of control. That is what we meant by conscious choice. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. . there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. In a 4D type relationship. You only make the choices for you and no one else. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment." No. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. then that choice is for you. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. If you choose monogamy. Because she wants the child. You do not have to plan for the future. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. That is the difference. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. It placates you into thinking you are secure. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. No. You say to the person. If we have explained it incorrectly. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. You would just trust. she has the child because she wants the child. If you choose to be non-monogamous. In 4D type relationships.
and so when that recognition is there. Very simple. It looks nice. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. This is a very good question. In 4D. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. In the moment. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom.Exactly. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. you got a haircut. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. It really depends on the individual. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. You say. If you are in the moment. Yes. I made a mistake in having this child. totally and absolutely." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. you are in the past or the future." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. we become dependent on the other person. there is that child. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. "Oh. then after the baby is born. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. You can say nice things all the time. I would rather not cause problems for them. is all dependency gone? Yes. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. There will never be a time where you will say. "Oh. Sex is just one of those lids. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. so all the issue come crawling out. For others. you can love it. and still push people's buttons. No effort. But I still want these people as friends. you cannot put that outside of yourself. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. If you are totally 100% in the present. In the moment. sex is a really good trigger. and people have been getting upset. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. You must. Okay. but any reality that you create. I don't want to hurt other people. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. For some people it is sex." Never. at all costs. It is an equation that doesn't work. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. Then in 4D. . For others it is money. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. Therefore. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. each day. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. in the moment. I've finally been making choices for myself. That is what I've been finding out. Not just a child.
but they don't want to apply them in their lives. They all come from you. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. Well. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. It is then that each person will be challenged. We might borrow that one. then you are manipulating people around you. If. then you polarize between victims and hurters. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. Good term. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. That is then the way you will see the universe. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. At the same time. They like the concepts.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. But there are no victims. You try to protect other people. fears. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. disapproval or invalidation. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. He is protecting himself. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. If she chooses to be hurt. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. that is deliberately hurting her. That is empowerment. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. and emotions. There cannot ever be victims. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. In . you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. it is her choice. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. You can never hurt another person. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. The outcome is the same. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. This is what we mean by enmeshment. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. That is one of my button-pushers here. But in reality. I don't see there is an exception to that. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. in the husband's excitement he says. It prolongs the pain. "I want to go hot air ballooning. In your innocence and excitement. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff.
It throws you into disharmony. They are the ones generating their reality. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. You won't know what the thoughts are. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. You cannot withhold any portion of you. If they don't agree with you. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. They cannot ever love you for who you are. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. It is. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). You compromise your integrity when you withhold. You stuff it. balance. we've always screwed up the communication. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. Get comfortable with who you are. You are lying to yourself. This is a no win situation. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. You can tell them that. first think what it is you want to say. Let it be okay to start thinking them. They cannot be victim of hurt. because they don't know who you are. Write them down. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . you are lying. reflecting that which you feel within. Then they only know you through your lies. Write it down.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. You protect them from the things that you fear. heart disease. You are lying to the other person. and then actually on the physical level. If you do not express who you are. If you do not express who you are 100%. They do not know who you are. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. in one way. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. it submerges itself. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. it is going to be devastating to you. All That Is is neutral. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. It is stasis. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. it is also insulting. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. You are all divine portions of the creator. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. Be truthful. Say it into a tape recorder. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. If you look at a Pleiadian. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. that is their choice. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. Let yourself think it first. not necessarily the things they fear. When you hold back that which you are. Literally. The more you stuff it. Externalize them. Those judgments eat you up. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. It buries itself into your cells. the more diseased you get. But in one way. Cancer. to hell with what the others think.
Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. .compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. In fact.. That is not what was implied. and I don't agree with that. You will learn how to tell the difference. In the expression. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. We apologize if the language was misleading. In the addictive state. All right. then express it. Sometimes you can see that. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. Before you express something. There is only neutral expression. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. they are not going to feel attacked. "You are a jerk.. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. times when you say to yourself. If that expression is an attack. If you think it's clean." and you express your thought. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. whether she thinks it's clean or not. the more you will be able to tell. and that's cool. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. Get out that pent-up energy. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. so it's fine. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. If they have no issue about being attacked. But by all means at least express it to yourself. let us clarify. There are not mistakes in creation. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. If you do (to get them to do something. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. The more you practice. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. whether it is attacking or not attacking. There are times when you cannot see it. Okay. There are no wrong things. they will feel attacked. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. "It is clean as a whistle. If your wife walks up to you and says. Again. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. It cannot be any other way. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. and if it is indeed an attack. Know who you are. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. Other times you cannot. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. because that in itself is part of the growth process. That wasn't my question. Yes. That is not a clean idea. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. She can tell me I'm a jerk. for instance). then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. So it's essential for her to express that. I understand that. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues." if you feel hurt. and the synchronicity of All That Is.
If you believe that actions can actually hurt. You cannot hurt another person. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. really believe that. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. also. but we didn't make it a major point. "You look like a pig today. it's not clean.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. But if you do. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. it's not true excitement. because it's the way to take your power back. and you may say. You can never hurt another person. Victimhood would come into it. that hurts me. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. that's not going to hurt him in the least. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. But you can't know. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. It is not possible. underneath everything else. You may walk up to your husband one day." And if he feels really good about himself. then you will have matched your vibrations. then it's clean. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. every instance must support ultimately that belief. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth.to fourth-density relationships model. then every action. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. That is the bottomline intention of creation. so don't tell me about it if you do that . Examine your beliefs. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. ever. They can choose to feel hurt. If you really believe that Creation is Love. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. and it will not hurt him. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. Well. if you really. "If you have dinner with another woman. It will lock your relationship into third density. third-density relationships often express victimhood. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement).
. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. but recognize that's what you're choosing. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me." That's okay to ask for that. to remind you that you can still feel.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. Yes. because the cruise control does not come with third density. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. there's nothing wrong with it. and that's quite all right. but that's secrecy and it's third density.. you will not feel pain. it's fine. It's a significator. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. It's all equal anyway. then you're right. honesty. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. allowance. reading this. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. So whenever I feel pain. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. and you're feeling the pain. It's one package or another package. which an indicator that you are making the change. If you choose third density. exactly. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. secrecy. then actually. those in the room. Exactly. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. You're holding onto something from third density. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. Absolutely. I won't feel any pain. Right? Yes! So it's fine. Many people are using it that way. no. unconditional love. However..
Yes. it's an expression of who we are. with respect to your channel. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. Third density is the density of polarity. They do not have to bring pain. not necessarily in every single relationship. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. absolutely 100% guaranteed. literally that means two . then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. And you will begin to see. Greeting to all of you. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. Now. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. but you don't have to manifest pain. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. After that. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy.Again. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. powerful changes within your life. you are going to see tremendous. However. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. let me repeat myself. Do not be surprised. overall. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. necessity meaning single parents. exactly. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. Greetings. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. Sasha: All right. it really does not. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. this is Sasha. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. It's simply different. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. some of the understandings. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. of course. we will have a short break. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. Sasha. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. Now. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. Now. Now. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship.
because using the paddle idea. back and forth. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. etc. so because of the aloneness. I was also in a mated group. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. Now. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. Make your choices. back and forth. It cannot happen. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. living in the moment. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. I am deprived. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. As you start choosing how you want to live." Do you follow? Now. these things are going to begin coming up. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. And that is something that we would like to address. I get caught in the time factor. "This is better than this. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. So therefore. The dynamics will have to change. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. When you love yourself unconditionally. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. we're not saying. there will be no problem here. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. are present. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. most definitely. again. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. I'm not alone. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. and in this mated group. That is a third-density idea. as Germane was not saying.. . But recognize where the time element comes into it. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. if you in third-density. back and forth. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. it takes away the love they can have for you. back and forth. It can. you must just go for it. fourth. So when I spend time with my mate. that you must at all cost heal this. It is not time. honesty. but it might not necessarily work for you. so if I don't have this. Absolutely cannot happen. back and forth. Now. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. and then you bring in another mate.ideas are present. Period. Well. insert a third variable. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. Do you all follow? Thoughts. as intense. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong.
if you will. you are excited in the moment with yourself. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. it is still going to happen. And again in fourth density. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. It will take longer if they resist it. Yes. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. There were basically three different phases of environments. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. through who you have been as a species. when you lived with a group. The critical mass is going to happen. I was just curious about that because. Do what you can. as Germane was saying. Either way. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. One were rooms of privacy. And so when that recognition is there. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. Question. Sasha. invited guests you may call it. You are it. and the same thing with the Orions. . It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. that only we entered. We do not perceive. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. Now you on your planet. Sasha. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. The same thing with the Essassani. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. The shift is going to happen. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. Did you want more on that? Well. at least right now.Exactly. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. which is open to all. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. So for instance. no. Or comment. it's exciting in the moment. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. It's just a question of when. when your mate is not there. Both are equal. Both companies are appreciated. And when you see your mate.
the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. . We are going through relationship transformation. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. and therefore for instance. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. to give you a very dramatic example. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. One last question along these lines.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. You follow? Yes. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. let us say. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. You know those Zetas. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. not out of a sense of prejudice. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. there was no resistance. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. that's when I was in the group. So it's that issue. there were no tears or anger. it was a natural movement from one state to another. Just with a different twist. Yes. having to deal with the need to control. Sasha. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. If that's true. very rough. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating.. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. there was no fighting.. It's a little bit different. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. or not even that different. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. yes.
because literally the past does not hold your answers. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. it can't be used against you. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. Again. a different developmental structure. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally.. We're not talking about the sex act. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. "Hmm. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. sexuality is not sex. It is of a creative vibration. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. going to bed with Sasha. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. There is simply one expression. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. I will be attracted to a certain body type. the present holds your answers. someone else will be attracted to this body type. there is so much emphasis on body types. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. any man that I've been around. etc. sex does not become a big deal. and if that is the case. Maybe. They are very secure in their identity in the present. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us.. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian.. no child feels unwanted. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. Right now. Again. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. Not only that. In third density. A lot of this searching goes on. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. that becomes irrelevant. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. Now.. Now. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do." I mean. etc. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. And if you were to live in the moment. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. That was not so much of a challenge. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. That was kind of a landmark. but he taught us a thing or two. On our planet and in third density.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. can it? Exactly.
why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. If you are so together and whole. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. If you all felt that way. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. but the preferences are so unimportant. Well. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. Now. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. But it is not a need in any way. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. those symbols will change because you will change. they're too tall. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. Most definitely. there is no attention on body type. we may have preferences. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. you feel beautiful. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. Exactly. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea." Oh. it is not that they fulfill a need for us.No. Separation. When you do not need something from another individual. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. They are natural diversifying characteristics. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. Yes. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. you would have all that male and female inside your body. I know. That is very accurate. Most definitely. that is a third-density idea. they're too ugly. When you move into fourth density. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. Conditional love. you feel vibrant. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. Exactly. you would all be "gorgeous" also. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. . you feel healthy. And that is the cycle. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. if you're all gorgeous. conditions. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity.
You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. exactly. The recipe requires carrots and celery. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. fun and excitement instead of need. you will not know how to cook the soup. you will not know the recipe. In fact. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. Fourth density is integration.It's almost like a paradox here. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. Can be. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. To use an analogy. yes. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. Work with it. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. Do you follow? There is a fine line. There is a difference. Living the relationship. The recipe needs those things. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. Third density is separation. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. and it will take a lot more energy. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. Now. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. Recognize the need. Sasha. we would say. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. Integration is the entire soup itself. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. If you do not want to look at your needs. then it is out of need.
As long as the relationship takes precedence. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. Exactly. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. There are times when we recognize. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). personal growth will always have to suffer. we're talking in ways that are different than you. Go to your own garden. If you choose personal growth over relationships. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. You're not attacking someone. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. We do not have that particular expression. as dysfunctional as they may be. Now again. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. Nothing exists without a purpose. recognize what you get with that choice. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. you are choosing to integrate yourself. So neither one is wrong nor right. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. .carrots. Sasha. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. and your needs. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. Exactly. Do you want to comment on that? Well. I become angry. But if you choose personal growth. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. however. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence.
and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. from my thirddensity perspective. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. Well. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. That doesn't matter. We are sorry. I refuse to do that. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. but there is. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. And like we say with the soup. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. and I can tune into it. Back in this needs issue. pulling yourself back into third density. it's their choice. getting the package deal there. And even if I'm able to say. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. I guess. and I feel it's a very good answer. I appreciate that. Well. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. "No. . I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. Ahhh. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. If they feel deprived. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. But it came into my life suddenly. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. You cannot deprive another person.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. That is all you are responsible for. that need is okay. We're not understanding the exact question. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. I have one question. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. if that's the case. I follow. But you can play out that game. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. The intention is to maintain the fourth density.
Period. So when you have no expectations . the anger. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. and then they will be angry. the level of anger would be very. That is so correct. and it started out. play. you cannot know. ecstasy. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. Am I on track? Yes. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. Exactly. caring and sharing. Seventy-five percent. And just be pure in my own intention.which is exactly what I do not want to do. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Exactly. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. starts setting in. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. In other words. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. very low¾hidden anger. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. Obviously that is a trap. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. If you have that need. and let it be whatever it ends up being. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. nearly nonexistent. you're not in fourth density. You are still playing the thirddensity game. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. They will not verbalize them. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. Now. they will never be satisfied. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. "I don't expect anything from it. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. hostility. you will get caught because it is a game. For one thing. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. However. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. You can never second-guess another person. whether covert or overt. I remember saying.
that makes a lot of sense. what a load off your mind that is. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. what a load off your energy.about the other person fulfilling your needs. and they will always be an issue." In third density. is difficult. In fourth density. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. The pain will start to subside. that you're angry at. that idea cannot exist. you can't feel the ecstasy. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection.to fourth-density thinking. much. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. If you judge them. are so valuable because they make up the soup. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. All Rights Reserved. And so. Again. you then know there's an issue. You are moving in that direction. Yes. The joy will start to grow. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. "If you can't feel the pain. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. much love to each and every one of you. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. that you judge. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. . It will just automatically start unfolding. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. yes. You can enjoy yourself. going to start seeing changes. Once that idea is relinquished. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. yes. they will transform. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. you can truly experience unconditional love. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. Much. Copyright © 1993. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. they will stay there on the counter. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. Much love and goodnight. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. it's not a light switch going on and off. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. you will soar. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. It's a gradual movement from third.
that is how you see it from your Earth plane. First. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. Orion Civilization . Earth was a place where you could come. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. incarnationally speaking. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. certain patterns of conflict. In a tug-of-war. for instance. It took them a very.galactic heritage and sexuality. The Empire vs. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . we will integrate them together. These individuals we've called the Black League. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. So let us start with Orion. This is the energy. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. they would be annihilated. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. Many of you on Earth. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. "Black" is not meant to be negative. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. First of all. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. The idea . This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. As you know. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. if the weight is balanced on both sides. If they were found. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you.they did not want to be found. who were the freedom fighters. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. Thus you can see the dynamic. neither person is going to win. This is Germane. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens.
it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. resonate with the most. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. and even a bit scary for some of you.your civilization included. The Orions mate for life. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. to say the least. When you're chosen as a surrogate . some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . There is no "sneaking around. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization.an instant recognition . although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. This is for a very specific reason. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. The Orions have what we could call monogamy.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. This is the opposite. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. and there's no doubt of that recognition. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. There's a recognition . In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. because it's definitely a two-way street ." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. So this is the one we will talk about.when two people come together who are to be mated. So when the mate is finally found. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. Again. because this is the energy that you on Earth. but from their .and you choose to be a surrogate. to release emotional energy. you ask. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. very close to them. at least for now. but also through nonsexual intimacy. Surrogates So. to release the energy of conflict. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. very intense in a certain way. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system.the relationship becomes as mates. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups).
Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. so it's not a repression of anything. It's simply the way they are. it is eventually genetically encoded. for fantasy simply does not exist. yes. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. Experience does change genetics. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality.point of view extremely fulfilling. does not exist. After awhile it's no longer control . Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. there was a lot of genetic change. But that was a difficult one. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. When one is under stress. During the times of the intense conflict. So it would depend on which period of time. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. The Orion civilization was many. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. before the conflict was resolved. for instance. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. This is why it is of primary . yes. they moved very slowly. etc. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. Now. If one mate was killed. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. they repress fantasy. for instance. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. That is an undisciplined thought. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book.even in thought . that is the way the stress is released. one is for exchange of intimacy. The Vulcan is repressing. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. Because of this. But. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. One thing we would like to say here.in the direction of the mate. This is not anything that is imposed on them. However.it's second nature. societally speaking. many thousands of years long. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary.
recognize emotionality in the moment . This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to.importance that each Orion have a mate. This is. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. These marriage units are very loving. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. The Pleiadian Civilization . Because of this focus on positivity. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit)." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. That's their idea of monogamy. because there are other ways of channeling energy. You don't have to be as disciplined. very committed to each other. they're monogamous in the moment. but when they pledge their love to a person. So they were intent on repressing negativity. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that.the Pleiadian civilization. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. to some degree. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. But as you know from the statistics on your planet.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. they're not pledging their love for the future.what you would call marriage. you may do some research. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. they feel secure . But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. As with the Orions. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . very connected. one on one . the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . During times of peace other things are looked at. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. marriage rates increase. there are three or more. In the ancient. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. many of them do. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. So if any of you wish to examine that further.and that is how they choose to live their lives. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. There are also married groups. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. They have ceremonies. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . ancient Pleiadian past.
When you are in a monogamous relationship. They recognize that it must be the time. will attempt to latch on to you. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed." there's total understanding. not having sexual relations with another person. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. a conscious choice. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. However. it's very. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. and there is a disconnection. etc. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment).move into something else. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. This is changing now. both of you have. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. certain fears. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. you get used to the partner. however. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. kind of like the . Not that it does not occur here . or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian.it does .fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. that would be expressed as true monogamy. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. On your planet. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. will show a lot of pain. the mate quite often will be very hurt. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. very safe. you don't have to face certain issues. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth.
There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. For the Pleiadians. It's simply a matter of choice. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. As your consciousness raises. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. So back . we'll finish what we're saying. Dis-eases.when that is actually what they are excited by. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . they've taught you a lot. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. But neither of their expressions are better. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. when they are denying and repressing. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. They are different. No one here is any better. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. It's important that we say this. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. In your society now. That's what's occurring now. any more evolved. deep level. will not have pain and fear. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. since we've already opened our mouth. to find out what your own inner truth is. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. Eventually. as your consciousness is raising. none of these civilizations are better than yours. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. But you are already beginning to create it. Now. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. It will work for you. you don't know how to do this. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. It's very important that we say that. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy.Orions. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species.
Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. for instance. If you really feel that . is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . AIDS and cancer. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. examine your motivation. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so .you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. to understand where your fears. and to release that. many dimensions to it. AIDS.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. yes. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. Whenever there's resistance. Correct. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. If. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. they're a mirror image of themselves. think about taking action.it's a partnership. absolute reflection of themselves.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. more than any other disease you have on your planet. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. very deep levels . that does not constitute separation at all. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. there's no flow . or clear the energy so you can stay. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. So when they separate. with your question. when we feel that a relationship might be over. It's a matter of resistance and flow. Whenever there's flow. and anger and pain lie. When they are having a relationship. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. However. thinking separation is a solution.levels that you've not wished to look at before. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship.your own and others'. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. Q: Separation is never a solution. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person.then they did have some disease. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. or whether it's a true excitement.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear.
Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. Do you follow? Q: Yes. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. Their skin is very different. A couple of other minor differences. Thank you. and complete control over ejaculation. head. body. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. Each person is not complete within themselves. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms.a brown base with a greenish tinge. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. In terms of getting aroused sexually. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. two legs. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. It is humanoid. That is why when they separate. same thing). but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. anyway.way inside. That's a perfect form of birth control. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. two legs. it doesn't completely disappear. . It is your galactic family."I'd like you to meet my `better half. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. then when you separate. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. That gives you a general idea of the body types. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. The women have similar control over ovulation. Unfortunately. You will seek out a half.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. Sexually. Now. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. relationships are frequently not completed. It's like some of your animals. it's olive-colored . which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. Now. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. You'll only draw to you that which you are. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms.
In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. because it is a God union. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. none of this is better than . It's part of who they are. It's not as if they would say. That's one level of it. including chocolate ice cream. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. are both highly ritualized. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices.it touched a lot of people in your society . eye-toeye recognition. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. "Well. For instance. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other.deliberately nonphysical. yes. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. but it's not a conscious. so to speak. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. in her light form and they had that powerful integration .because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". like you saw in Cocoon.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. when the woman came out of her shell. So it touched you . Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. You see the difference? And again. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. But this occurs all the time." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. One. one for procreation and one for intimacy. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . then tantra is better. several different levels. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. That is one way. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. Well. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. let's do tantra today. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically.
We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. We were born from conflict. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. It was understood by us. Within our civilization we had much diversity. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. We gave much thought to this and chose. are also learning and growing. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We knew this was to occur. then. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. once we were underground. Due to severe radiation.Group Mind This is Harone. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . It becomes dimmer. You have been talking about us. Your forefathers. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. balanced and nonviolent in every way. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. that there was to be a species crisis. We had war. You are learning and growing. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. and that is not the case. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. There is much to share with you. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. We know you have many questions. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. so we were called.anything else. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. less complete. who we've been talking about. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. At this point in time. we could control the future of our race. since our environment was going to collapse. we were born from crisis. We needed. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. We have much to share with you.
That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. these latent genetic codes. we will have physical facilitators. Because we have lost this ability for so long. We will become much more individualistic. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development.our end of the agreement.we are not separate .males from females. you will become more unified. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1.though our realities may say we are. Our organs began atrophying over many. we will become much more similar. They would have you think they are much more numerous. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. for from our point of view we . Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. That is what is occurring now. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. we work with these genetic structures. Even though we do not understand why. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. when we went underground and began cloning. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. We are taking a species leap together. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. However. some need activation on the physical level. Simply put. You will find that as evolution occurs. we are told that their numbers are quite small. We are infinitely entwined . These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. 2. In our work with you.
which tends to cause a lot of trauma. When we interact with you. your interactions with us will change dramatically. even more than upon your world today. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. From our point of view. Our interactions with you push buttons. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. We recognize there may be questions from you. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. as we have stated. this is an equal exchange. what was happening in your culture. many of you have come to our reality. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. to change you. you feel the tide of evolution. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. engage those fears and move through them. your civilization. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. We're afraid of being vulnerable. you learn what you desire. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. So in terms of symbolic expression. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. Unfortunately for our development. You are resisting . We learn what we desire. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. recognize we have no intent.recognize you have given us permission. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. Our interactions with you represent evolution. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them.
you are open to All That Is. into different groups that have different purposes. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. that's what I was getting at. you will feel the pressure of evolution. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. as you would say. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. That is. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. it really depends on which group. We are divided. skin samples and also an understanding. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. We may not know how to understand your emotions. not of what we intend to do . Very often some of us will have protection. because the emotions are very intense for us. saying you have not created this somehow. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. So biologically speaking. of what procreation means to the person. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. but we do pay attention to them. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them.not in the negative sense of weakness . It is a matter of shifting perspective. You let your guard down. secretions from prostate. It penetrates all of them. If you surrender. and in that case. It is not just cold research. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. shall we say. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. Some are interested in reproductive research.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. eggs. Vulnerable . that you are not part of species transformation. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. Our way . There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. or disempowered vulnerability. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. Well. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. to the One. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. energy shielding. not as if we were invading . There is no arousal. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection.sperm.again we speak of the dynamic. and until that fear is confronted and released. a mind link.evolution because of your fear. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. as you know the term.that is not what is meant . When we interact with you in an abduction situation . when you are vulnerable.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. When you are lying on an examination table. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable.
that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. That is also something of primary interest to us. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. we must densify ourselves.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. Some of you will sense our energy. which is very uncomfortable. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something.perhaps many of you would think it is . When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. certainly. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. . And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. We interact with you on every level we can. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. Now that may be inaccurate . We must deal with data. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. Our love to you and goodnight. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. You've done your research well. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. we can enter your reality in a light state. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes.
So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. Also. So. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. The more . a current. your showers. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. Now. Let us first address the physical level.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. so the electrical current is always running through your body. the presence of water. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. We would recommend distilled or purified. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. You are 90 some-odd percent water. but you will know what is right for you. This is rather abstract. plan accordingly. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. the voltage is going to be upped. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. imagine yourself as being a river. allow yourself to feel fluid. Germane through Lyssa Royal. That will be fruits and vegetables. All Rights Reserved. Also. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. whatever your choice is. Not just the ingesting of it.
is to keep water close to you if you can. Now. your planet also recognizes its need for water. put your feet in the water. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. LCD screen. very helpful for you. there are several options available to you. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. The radiation is not going to damage you. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. and you can feel the environment of that water. But in the long run. if you're living under major power lines. it's all connected. that incorporates water. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. or fill your bathtub. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). And you reflect each other in your own transformations. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. That's an optimum situation. You are symbiotic. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. wear some of it. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. The water will then be in your auric field. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. There is some jewelry. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. If you use a computer a lot. for instance. again. You can get one of those fishtanks. When you bathe or shower. (No need to get neurotic about this. on the market there are radiation screens. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. It will be a conversation piece as well. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. can significantly slow . we guarantee you. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). That's one idea. So. you see these on your laptops. You may also sit by a lake. If you want to put crystals in your bath. it's up to you. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. that's perfectly fine. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). Along with water comes detoxification. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. Actually. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. or very specific types of strict diets.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. If you can't do that. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). You may even want to get some fish. if it does any at all. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. of course. If you feel attracted to that. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. So. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way.
. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. So. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. and no more sinister plots. And so this is about processing belief systems. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. then absolutely anything can hurt you. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. there will be no more victims. and that's very important to stress. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. when this type of fearful information is given. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. information to make you think. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. because it makes you think. This is about learning sovereignty. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. From our point of view. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. It's got to be one or the other. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. computers and microwave ovens away. these are guidelines. Now. information to be added to your storehouse. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. No television. As soon as that is recognized and owned. that is for others to answer. no computer creates that. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. where you are the only creator of your reality. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. Category: Healing. Now. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. Many say to throw your TVs.your own healing abilities. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. and it's certainly not going to do anything. It is not our understanding that you will ever. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said.
The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. . ironically. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. save dying. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. (Ultimately. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . and our most basic instincts. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . Yet. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. and many have yet to answer it. When we can't handle our attachments. but the game is over.beyond. the Western Judeo-Christian. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. It delivers you . and a gift of Enlightenment. What begins as duality and polarization within time. It inundates your entire being. pleasure.Tantra For a thousand years. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure.body and soul . Lust is only a call to love. whether they know it or not. is the opportunity for ego-loss.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. they enslave us and we enslave others. The most extreme instance is called rape.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. the body.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years.The Path With No Obstacles . The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. otherwise rarely known in human existence. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. but concurrent with our everyday existence. was to keep them well in check. through no other human activity.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. People get carried away. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. On the direct path of conscious awareness . How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. thought. and it's good for your health. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. People use each other for lust.
innate sexuality. after all.when people use each other uncaringly . candlelight. money. or it is devil-worship. music. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. Ph." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. Meditation. rituals. and all too often . and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. invocations. when . incense. or fame). Sufi and tantric couples practices. The great enigma is. state of mind. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. power. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. By that logic.D. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. . and conditioning. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. They fear one and fake the other.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. and get it over with as quickly as possible. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . ceremonial objects. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue).we find ourselves indulging in what is. breathing exercises. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. as in indigenous tribal customs.Miranda Shaw. and call this "correct. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. . not deny it. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" .combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. the thrill. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. and the total fulfillment of your partner. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. mystical rituals. depending upon one's intent. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy.
Make it Holy. Surrender continuously. Trust your body's deepest impulses. Fall in love. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. die into love. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Make love with your whole being. Breathe together. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. letting hers become yours. . the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. unconditionally. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Abandon all gain and control. Purify yourself in body and mind. to the sacred fire within. You notice everything. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. The senses are magnified a thousand times. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. Decelerate until time stands still.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. all consuming. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Reside always at the beginning. Die as a personality. Transpose taking and giving. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. with reverence. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. and you two become One. Gaze into each other's eyes. ours. weeks. Everything matters. and time stands still. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. all purifying. Every touch is The First. Worship your lover. breathtakingly tender. Listen for Inner Guidance. Foreplay is truly playful. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. Giving and taking merge.. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. Touch only in awe. the passion intense and profound. Opening all your centers. Wait for the perfect moment. Begin motionless and in silence. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. all fulfilling. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. engaging all your faculties. confused. from passion to compassion. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. Give voice to your feelings. whom you worship in awe. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Give only pleasure and love. long and deep. stay in love. Move in slow motion. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Meditate. animal to divine.
. Brown.From "Enlightenment in Our Time." by Lonny J.D. Ph.
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