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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
let some things out. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. they will blame sex. at all costs. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. and that is allowed. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. no matter what choice happens. If you are willing to move with it. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. and never has been. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. No one seems to really get the point. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. Energetically. It is not. They have nothing to do with the problem. It is a symptom. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. but you haven't known what was happening. It is not the issue. Breaking. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. Change does not mean they will end. If they are vulnerable. and that is all change means. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. In 4D. That was a tool in 3D. Change means change. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. these things started in the 1960s of your time. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. Some people are denying them. Some people are polarizing. is to be avoided in their belief. you will create more discomfort and pain. Some people are going with the flow. Instead. You allow the other person to move in that direction. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. If you are resisting change. confusion. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. Divorce is a 3D solution. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. you are going to start feeling pain. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. It may first manifest outside of you. Sex. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. because you can never be separate.For one thing. . We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. they believe. That. There is no separation. then your relationships are going to start to change. So. first level. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. Always. they think all it has to do with is sex. It is going to challenge you. is inside of you. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. it is going to be very different. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. Separation. If you create resistance. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. and challenge you. they are weak and open to attack. Trust that the two of you are on the same path.
she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. although your society will change. If the woman is Pleiadian. No. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. the idea of commitment does not exist. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. not a compulsion). You would just trust. allowance instead of manipulation. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. she has the child because she wants the child. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. You do not have to plan for the future. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. we apologize. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. In 4D you are acting in the moment. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. with trust instead of control. So. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. It placates you into thinking you are secure. You only make the choices for you and no one else. If you choose monogamy. In 4D type relationships. Because she wants the child. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. If we have explained it incorrectly. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. The choices are entirely for you. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. Meaning absolute trust. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. Your mate can do whatever they want. That is the difference. They have nothing to do with the other person. whatever) relationship. It is different from what you see here. . It is trust. That is what we meant by conscious choice. If you choose to be non-monogamous. then that choice is for you. The choices are all for you. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. Therefore. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. You say to the person. They are all part of the same family anyway. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child." No. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. So you are trying to act on your excitement. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. In a 4D type relationship.
you can love it. you cannot put that outside of yourself." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. And also there is an inherent love for your creation.Exactly. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. I made a mistake in having this child. Therefore. It looks nice. If you are in the moment." Never. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. and people have been getting upset. That is what I've been finding out. I've finally been making choices for myself. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. In the moment. Yes. Then in 4D. You must. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. "Oh. This is a very good question. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. and still push people's buttons. but any reality that you create. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. There will never be a time where you will say. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. No effort. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. at all costs. But I still want these people as friends. For others. and so when that recognition is there. there is that child. In 4D. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. sex is a really good trigger. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. so all the issue come crawling out. then after the baby is born. totally and absolutely. you got a haircut. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. For others it is money. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. Not just a child. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. In the moment. each day. It really depends on the individual. we become dependent on the other person. . and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. It is an equation that doesn't work. Okay. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. Very simple. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. is all dependency gone? Yes. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. "Oh. Sex is just one of those lids. If you are totally 100% in the present. For some people it is sex. in the moment. You say. You can say nice things all the time." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. I would rather not cause problems for them. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. I don't want to hurt other people. you are in the past or the future. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others.
he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. Well. then you are manipulating people around you. That is then the way you will see the universe. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. In your innocence and excitement. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. then you polarize between victims and hurters. In . I don't see there is an exception to that. But there are no victims. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. If. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. If she chooses to be hurt. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. It is then that each person will be challenged. At the same time. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. "I want to go hot air ballooning. fears. That is one of my button-pushers here. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. it is her choice. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. That is empowerment. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. We might borrow that one. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. disapproval or invalidation. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. He is protecting himself. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. But in reality. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. and emotions.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. You can never hurt another person. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. There cannot ever be victims. You try to protect other people. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. This is what we mean by enmeshment. in the husband's excitement he says. It prolongs the pain. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. They like the concepts. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. They all come from you. Good term. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. The outcome is the same. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. that is deliberately hurting her. Let us give you an example using a fictional model.
that is their choice. Let it be okay to start thinking them. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). This is a no win situation. They do not know who you are. first think what it is you want to say. Write them down. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. to hell with what the others think. Be truthful. You cannot withhold any portion of you. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. When you hold back that which you are. You are lying to the other person. It is. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. Say it into a tape recorder. Write it down. heart disease. the more diseased you get. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. All That Is is neutral. You are lying to yourself. Get comfortable with who you are. Cancer. because they don't know who you are. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. reflecting that which you feel within. But in one way. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. they would never be hurt by the comment of another.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. The more you stuff it. If you look at a Pleiadian. It throws you into disharmony. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. you are lying. You are all divine portions of the creator. You protect them from the things that you fear. Those judgments eat you up. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. it is going to be devastating to you. we've always screwed up the communication. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. If you do not express who you are 100%. They cannot be victim of hurt. They cannot ever love you for who you are. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. If you do not express who you are. If they don't agree with you. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. It is stasis. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. You won't know what the thoughts are. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. You can tell them that. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. balance. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. They are the ones generating their reality. It buries itself into your cells. in one way. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. and then actually on the physical level. it is also insulting. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. Let yourself think it first. You stuff it. not necessarily the things they fear. Externalize them. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. it submerges itself. Literally. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. Then they only know you through your lies.
you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. Okay.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. "You are a jerk. In fact. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. Again. and I don't agree with that. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. Know who you are. So it's essential for her to express that. That is not what was implied. Yes. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. times when you say to yourself. If that expression is an attack. If you think it's clean. She can tell me I'm a jerk. There is only neutral expression. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. "It is clean as a whistle. It cannot be any other way. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. Before you express something. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. Listen to your thoughts and feelings." and you express your thought. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. Sometimes you can see that. and if it is indeed an attack. whether it is attacking or not attacking. so it's fine. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. There are times when you cannot see it. . All right. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. the more you will be able to tell. let us clarify. If your wife walks up to you and says. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. whether she thinks it's clean or not. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. for instance). The more you practice. But by all means at least express it to yourself. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. Get out that pent-up energy. they will feel attacked. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. In the addictive state. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. You will learn how to tell the difference. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. That wasn't my question. That is not a clean idea. because that in itself is part of the growth process. There are no wrong things.. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. Other times you cannot. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. I understand that. If you do (to get them to do something. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. There are not mistakes in creation. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not.. If they have no issue about being attacked. and the synchronicity of All That Is. In the expression. then express it. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. they are not going to feel attacked. We apologize if the language was misleading. and that's cool." if you feel hurt.
That is the bottomline intention of creation. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. and it will not hurt him. It is not possible. They can choose to feel hurt. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. If you really believe that Creation is Love. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. also. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). but your excitement is based on her cooperation. but we didn't make it a major point. that hurts me. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. because it's the way to take your power back. if you really. You may walk up to your husband one day. You can never hurt another person. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. and you may say. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone.to fourth-density relationships model. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. Well. underneath everything else. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. then it's clean. every instance must support ultimately that belief. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. really believe that." And if he feels really good about himself. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). But you can't know. it's not true excitement. then every action. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. so don't tell me about it if you do that . You cannot hurt another person. Examine your beliefs. third-density relationships often express victimhood. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. that's not going to hurt him in the least. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. it's not clean. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. "You look like a pig today. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. Victimhood would come into it. "If you have dinner with another woman. ever. then you will have matched your vibrations. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. It will lock your relationship into third density. But if you do.
but that's secrecy and it's third density. secrecy. because the cruise control does not come with third density. allowance. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. So whenever I feel pain. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships.. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. Many people are using it that way. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. but recognize that's what you're choosing. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. You're holding onto something from third density. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. . Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. you will not feel pain. Right? Yes! So it's fine. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. I won't feel any pain. to remind you that you can still feel. exactly. It's all equal anyway. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. which an indicator that you are making the change. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. then actually. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. no. and that's quite all right.. those in the room. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. honesty. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. there's nothing wrong with it. If you choose third density. and you're feeling the pain. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice." That's okay to ask for that. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. Yes. reading this. It's a significator. Absolutely. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. then you're right. Exactly. it's fine. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. However. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. unconditional love. It's one package or another package.
If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. absolutely 100% guaranteed. Now. necessity meaning single parents. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. Sasha: All right. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. exactly. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. it really does not. literally that means two . We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. powerful changes within your life. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. not necessarily in every single relationship. let me repeat myself. some of the understandings. Do not be surprised. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. Sasha. Now. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. They do not have to bring pain. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. we will have a short break. It's simply different. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. And you will begin to see. Greeting to all of you.Again. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. but you don't have to manifest pain. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. overall. of course. Now. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. Now. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. Yes. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. Third density is the density of polarity. with respect to your channel. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. it's an expression of who we are. However. you are going to see tremendous. After that. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. Greetings. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. this is Sasha. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that.
It can. Do you all follow? Thoughts. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. The dynamics will have to change. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. back and forth. Now. living in the moment. you must just go for it. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. back and forth.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. we're not saying." Do you follow? Now. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. but it might not necessarily work for you. and then you bring in another mate. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. And that is something that we would like to address. again. Now.ideas are present. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. It cannot happen. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. it takes away the love they can have for you. "This is better than this. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. are present. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. Well. and in this mated group. etc. So when I spend time with my mate. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. that you must at all cost heal this. back and forth. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. I get caught in the time factor. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. if you in third-density. these things are going to begin coming up. insert a third variable. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. as Germane was not saying. there will be no problem here. fourth. I was also in a mated group. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. It is not time. most definitely. I'm not alone. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. as intense. As you start choosing how you want to live. so if I don't have this. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. That is a third-density idea. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. But recognize where the time element comes into it.. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. honesty. When you love yourself unconditionally. because using the paddle idea. Make your choices. back and forth. so because of the aloneness. back and forth. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. . I am deprived. Absolutely cannot happen. So therefore. Period. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles.
Or comment. when you lived with a group. invited guests you may call it. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you.Exactly. if you will. at least right now. One were rooms of privacy. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. when your mate is not there. . Now you on your planet. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. You are it. Question. Sasha. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. through who you have been as a species. Either way. it is still going to happen. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. and the same thing with the Orions. it's exciting in the moment. I was just curious about that because. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. We do not perceive. It will take longer if they resist it. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. The shift is going to happen. And so when that recognition is there. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. you are excited in the moment with yourself. And again in fourth density. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. Both are equal. Both companies are appreciated. And when you see your mate. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. Did you want more on that? Well. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. There were basically three different phases of environments. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. The critical mass is going to happen. Yes. It's just a question of when. no. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. So for instance. which is open to all. that only we entered. as Germane was saying. Sasha. The same thing with the Essassani. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. Do what you can. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings.
It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. it was a natural movement from one state to another. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. there was no resistance. You know those Zetas. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. If that's true. very rough. Sasha. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. yes. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. So it's that issue.. You follow? Yes. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. and therefore for instance. Just with a different twist. and some chose to go into a more quiet time.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. or not even that different. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. let us say. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. to give you a very dramatic example. Yes. having to deal with the need to control. that's when I was in the group. One last question along these lines.. We are going through relationship transformation. not out of a sense of prejudice. . it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. there was no fighting. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. It's a little bit different. there were no tears or anger. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree.
is there any attention at all on physical body type? . that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy.. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. I will be attracted to a certain body type. sexuality is not sex. can it? Exactly. We're not talking about the sex act. There is simply one expression. A lot of this searching goes on. And if you were to live in the moment.. because literally the past does not hold your answers. etc. someone else will be attracted to this body type. Now. going to bed with Sasha. there is so much emphasis on body types. Now. It is of a creative vibration. etc. Maybe. That was not so much of a challenge. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. Not only that. "Hmm. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. but he taught us a thing or two. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. any man that I've been around. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. the present holds your answers. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. Right now. sex does not become a big deal. and if that is the case. They are very secure in their identity in the present. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. no child feels unwanted. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. That was kind of a landmark. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have.. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. it can't be used against you. a different developmental structure. that becomes irrelevant. In third density.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. Again. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past." I mean. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities.. Again. On our planet and in third density. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally.
So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. there is no attention on body type. conditions. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. But it is not a need in any way. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. That is very accurate. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. If you all felt that way. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. If you are so together and whole. When you move into fourth density. you would have all that male and female inside your body. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. Conditional love. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. Exactly. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. Exactly. we may have preferences. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. you feel vibrant. Yes. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. Most definitely. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. And that is the cycle. you feel beautiful. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. Separation. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. they're too ugly." Oh. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. I know. you would all be "gorgeous" also. When you do not need something from another individual.No. those symbols will change because you will change. you feel healthy. Most definitely. if you're all gorgeous. they're too tall. . Now. They are natural diversifying characteristics. that is a third-density idea. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. but the preferences are so unimportant. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. Well.
If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. then it is out of need. fun and excitement instead of need. yes. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. Recognize the need. you will not know the recipe. Fourth density is integration. Integration is the entire soup itself. If you do not want to look at your needs. Work with it. Now. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. Do you follow? There is a fine line. Third density is separation. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. Sasha. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. we would say. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. In fact. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. There is a difference. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. To use an analogy. The recipe needs those things. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. and it will take a lot more energy. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. Can be. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. Living the relationship.It's almost like a paradox here. The recipe requires carrots and celery. you will not know how to cook the soup. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. exactly. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas.
that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. There are times when we recognize. Exactly. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. You're not attacking someone. Go to your own garden. Nothing exists without a purpose. recognize what you get with that choice. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. So neither one is wrong nor right. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. As long as the relationship takes precedence. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). you are choosing to integrate yourself. Exactly. Now again. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person.carrots. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. personal growth will always have to suffer. Do you want to comment on that? Well. however. . We do not have that particular expression. If you choose personal growth over relationships. I become angry. Sasha. as dysfunctional as they may be. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. and your needs. But if you choose personal growth. we're talking in ways that are different than you.
Ahhh. That doesn't matter. "No. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. That is all you are responsible for. I appreciate that. You cannot deprive another person. pulling yourself back into third density. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. Back in this needs issue. and I feel it's a very good answer." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. We're not understanding the exact question. We are sorry. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. I have one question. if that's the case. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. But it came into my life suddenly. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. If they feel deprived. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. that need is okay. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. But you can play out that game. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. . then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. I follow. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. Well. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. from my thirddensity perspective. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. I guess. it's their choice. I refuse to do that. Well. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. getting the package deal there. And even if I'm able to say. And like we say with the soup. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. but there is. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. and I can tune into it.
and it started out. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. They will not verbalize them. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. they will never be satisfied. If you have that need. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. Period. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. you're not in fourth density. and let it be whatever it ends up being. whether covert or overt. And just be pure in my own intention. Exactly. the level of anger would be very. That is so correct. you will get caught because it is a game. the anger. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. So when you have no expectations . Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. hostility. starts setting in. Exactly.which is exactly what I do not want to do. ecstasy. Now. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. Obviously that is a trap. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. However. nearly nonexistent. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. Am I on track? Yes. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. "I don't expect anything from it. In other words. you cannot know. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. You are still playing the thirddensity game. Seventy-five percent. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. very low¾hidden anger. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. caring and sharing. play. For one thing. and then they will be angry. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. I remember saying. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. You can never second-guess another person.
we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. It's a gradual movement from third. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. much. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. You are moving in that direction. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. much love to each and every one of you. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. It will just automatically start unfolding. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. Copyright © 1993. In fourth density. The joy will start to grow. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. going to start seeing changes. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. . you then know there's an issue. you will soar. Again. they will stay there on the counter. you can truly experience unconditional love. You can enjoy yourself. If you judge them. "If you can't feel the pain. that makes a lot of sense. Much. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. Once that idea is relinquished. Much love and goodnight. you can't feel the ecstasy. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. And so. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. is difficult. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. yes. they will transform. and they will always be an issue. that idea cannot exist.to fourth-density thinking. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. All Rights Reserved. Yes." In third density. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. yes. that you're angry at. what a load off your energy. The pain will start to subside. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. are so valuable because they make up the soup. what a load off your mind that is. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct.about the other person fulfilling your needs. that you judge. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. it's not a light switch going on and off.
that is how you see it from your Earth plane. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. The Empire vs. Orion Civilization . The idea . These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. This is the energy. As you know. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both .Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. First of all. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. So let us start with Orion. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood.galactic heritage and sexuality. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. Many of you on Earth. Earth was a place where you could come. In a tug-of-war. certain patterns of conflict. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. they would be annihilated. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. Thus you can see the dynamic. It took them a very. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. if the weight is balanced on both sides. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. for instance. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. "Black" is not meant to be negative.they did not want to be found. we will integrate them together. This is Germane. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. incarnationally speaking. First. who were the freedom fighters. If they were found. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. These individuals we've called the Black League. neither person is going to win. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion .
Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization.when two people come together who are to be mated. because it's definitely a two-way street . and even a bit scary for some of you. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. because this is the energy that you on Earth. The Orions mate for life.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate.the relationship becomes as mates. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. to release the energy of conflict. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. There is no "sneaking around. Again. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. This is the opposite. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. There's a recognition . there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. Surrogates So." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. but from their .and you choose to be a surrogate. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. but also through nonsexual intimacy. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. you ask. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict.an instant recognition . This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. to say the least. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. to release emotional energy. When you're chosen as a surrogate . very close to them. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. So when the mate is finally found. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. at least for now. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. very intense in a certain way. and there's no doubt of that recognition. resonate with the most. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. This is for a very specific reason. So this is the one we will talk about. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates.your civilization included. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate.
they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. that is the way the stress is released. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . it is eventually genetically encoded. for instance. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. for fantasy simply does not exist. yes.it's second nature. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. they moved very slowly. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. During the times of the intense conflict. But. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. societally speaking. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. Because of this. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary.in the direction of the mate. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. After awhile it's no longer control . Experience does change genetics.even in thought . They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. When one is under stress. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. before the conflict was resolved. for instance. But that was a difficult one. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. one is for exchange of intimacy. so it's not a repression of anything. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. does not exist. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. So it would depend on which period of time. One thing we would like to say here. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. yes. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. This is why it is of primary . Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. This is not anything that is imposed on them. However. The Orion civilization was many. The Vulcan is repressing. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. That is an undisciplined thought. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. etc. Now. there was a lot of genetic change.point of view extremely fulfilling. It's simply the way they are. they repress fantasy. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. many thousands of years long. If one mate was killed.
So if any of you wish to examine that further.the Pleiadian civilization. During times of peace other things are looked at. Because of this focus on positivity. you may do some research. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. These marriage units are very loving. So they were intent on repressing negativity. This is. to some degree. but when they pledge their love to a person. That's their idea of monogamy. very connected. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. As with the Orions. ancient Pleiadian past. very committed to each other. there are three or more. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. one on one . Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . they're monogamous in the moment. because there are other ways of channeling energy. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. they feel secure . marriage rates increase. In the ancient. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. They have ceremonies. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . The Pleiadian Civilization . they're not pledging their love for the future. There are also married groups. But as you know from the statistics on your planet.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . You don't have to be as disciplined.what you would call marriage. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. many of them do. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization.importance that each Orion have a mate.some from Orion and some from other civilizations.and that is how they choose to live their lives. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. recognize emotionality in the moment . which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions.
you don't have to face certain issues. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. This is changing now. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. that would be expressed as true monogamy. When you are in a monogamous relationship. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. very safe. a conscious choice. you get used to the partner. will attempt to latch on to you. and there is a disconnection. not having sexual relations with another person. Not that it does not occur here . the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. however. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy." there's total understanding. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. certain fears. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. However. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. it's very.move into something else. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . kind of like the . We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment).but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. etc. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other.it does . or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. On your planet. They recognize that it must be the time. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. instead of your parental or societal conditioning.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. the mate quite often will be very hurt. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. will show a lot of pain. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. both of you have. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me.
it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. you don't know how to do this. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. we'll finish what we're saying. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. they've taught you a lot. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. none of these civilizations are better than yours. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. It's important that we say this. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. As your consciousness raises. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. It's simply a matter of choice. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. It's very important that we say that. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. So back . We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. deep level. to find out what your own inner truth is. In your society now. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. Now. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. They are different. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. It will work for you. But neither of their expressions are better. For the Pleiadians. since we've already opened our mouth. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization.Orions. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. as your consciousness is raising. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. Eventually. will not have pain and fear. No one here is any better. Dis-eases. That's what's occurring now. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . But you are already beginning to create it. when they are denying and repressing. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. any more evolved.when that is actually what they are excited by. Right now you don't know which direction to go in.
AIDS and cancer. with your question. examine your motivation. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. many dimensions to it. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. Whenever there's resistance. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. for instance. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person .then they did have some disease. When they are having a relationship. think about taking action. and to release that. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. and anger and pain lie. more than any other disease you have on your planet. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy.your own and others'. that does not constitute separation at all.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow .things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. If you really feel that . to understand where your fears. absolute reflection of themselves. However.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . or clear the energy so you can stay. If. or whether it's a true excitement. Q: Separation is never a solution.levels that you've not wished to look at before. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. Correct. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. they're a mirror image of themselves. So when they separate. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. thinking separation is a solution. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. AIDS. there's no flow . very deep levels . But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. It's a matter of resistance and flow. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. yes. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. Whenever there's flow. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . when we feel that a relationship might be over. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one.it's a partnership.
You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. same thing). head. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. anyway. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. it doesn't completely disappear. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. It is humanoid. relationships are frequently not completed. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. That is why when they separate.a brown base with a greenish tinge. Now. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet.way inside. two legs. You will seek out a half. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. That gives you a general idea of the body types. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. Each person is not complete within themselves.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. That's a perfect form of birth control. Do you follow? Q: Yes. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. then when you separate. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms."I'd like you to meet my `better half. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. Their skin is very different. It's like some of your animals. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. Sexually. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. and complete control over ejaculation. You'll only draw to you that which you are. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. Unfortunately. Thank you. . two legs. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). It is your galactic family. A couple of other minor differences. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. it's olive-colored . Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. In terms of getting aroused sexually. body. Now. The women have similar control over ovulation.
yes.deliberately nonphysical. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. let's do tantra today. It's not as if they would say. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. "Well. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. That is one way. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. like you saw in Cocoon.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. are both highly ritualized. You see the difference? And again. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. But this occurs all the time. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . That's one level of it. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . so to speak. It's part of who they are." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. one for procreation and one for intimacy. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. For instance. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. but it's not a conscious. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. One. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. eye-toeye recognition. So it touched you . because it is a God union. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. including chocolate ice cream. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". when the woman came out of her shell. Well.it touched a lot of people in your society . none of this is better than . You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. several different levels. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. then tantra is better.
We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. balanced and nonviolent in every way. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. We know you have many questions. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. We have much to share with you. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. so we were called. At this point in time. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it.anything else. less complete. We knew this was to occur. who we've been talking about. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. then. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. You have been talking about us. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. We were born from conflict. We needed. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. You are learning and growing. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. There is much to share with you. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. We gave much thought to this and chose. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. once we were underground. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. It becomes dimmer. we were born from crisis. Your forefathers. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. It was understood by us. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. that there was to be a species crisis. and that is not the case. are also learning and growing. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. Within our civilization we had much diversity. Due to severe radiation. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We had war. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day.Group Mind This is Harone. we could control the future of our race. since our environment was going to collapse. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths.
but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. However. when we went underground and began cloning. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. some need activation on the physical level. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. That is what is occurring now. we work with these genetic structures. Even though we do not understand why. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . for from our point of view we . We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. In our work with you. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness.our end of the agreement. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude.we are not separate .males from females. 2. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. Our organs began atrophying over many. you will become more unified. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. We will become much more individualistic. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. we will have physical facilitators. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. these latent genetic codes. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. we are told that their numbers are quite small. We are infinitely entwined . Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. You will find that as evolution occurs. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. Simply put. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. They would have you think they are much more numerous. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. We are taking a species leap together. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. we will become much more similar. Because we have lost this ability for so long.though our realities may say we are.
Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. Our interactions with you push buttons. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. We recognize there may be questions from you. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. you feel the tide of evolution. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. From our point of view. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. your civilization. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. Our interactions with you represent evolution. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. this is an equal exchange. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Unfortunately for our development. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. When we interact with you. So in terms of symbolic expression. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. engage those fears and move through them. many of you have come to our reality. We're afraid of being vulnerable. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. even more than upon your world today. recognize we have no intent. as we have stated. You are resisting . what was happening in your culture. We are not deliberately doing anything to you.recognize you have given us permission. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. you learn what you desire. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. your interactions with us will change dramatically. We learn what we desire. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. to change you. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation.
You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. but we do pay attention to them. shall we say. and in that case. That is. Well. because the emotions are very intense for us. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. you will feel the pressure of evolution. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . to the One. as you know the term. or disempowered vulnerability. Very often some of us will have protection. it really depends on which group. We may not know how to understand your emotions. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. when you are vulnerable. you are open to All That Is. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. saying you have not created this somehow. not as if we were invading . And you see that in that choice there is no pain. secretions from prostate. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. a mind link. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. eggs.evolution because of your fear. There is no arousal. If you surrender. So biologically speaking. Some are interested in reproductive research. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. that you are not part of species transformation. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. as you would say. It is not just cold research. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. Our way . skin samples and also an understanding. Some are interested primarily in genetic research.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. Vulnerable . energy shielding. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. We are divided.not in the negative sense of weakness . There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. of what procreation means to the person. It penetrates all of them. not of what we intend to do . I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. It is a matter of shifting perspective. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . that's what I was getting at.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act.sperm.again we speak of the dynamic. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender.that is not what is meant . into different groups that have different purposes. When you are lying on an examination table. You let your guard down. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. and until that fear is confronted and released.
which is very uncomfortable. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. You've done your research well. certainly. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. Some of you will sense our energy. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. We must deal with data. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. Our love to you and goodnight.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. That is also something of primary interest to us. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. we can enter your reality in a light state. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. . You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. Now that may be inaccurate . And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. We interact with you on every level we can. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted.perhaps many of you would think it is . Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. We are not capable of a smile as an individual.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. we must densify ourselves. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One.
Now. All Rights Reserved. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. plan accordingly. your showers.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. So. Germane through Lyssa Royal. Also. Also. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. Let us first address the physical level. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. We would recommend distilled or purified. the presence of water. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. This is rather abstract. You are 90 some-odd percent water. the voltage is going to be upped. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. Not just the ingesting of it. That will be fruits and vegetables. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. allow yourself to feel fluid. but you will know what is right for you. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. whatever your choice is. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. a current. The more . so the electrical current is always running through your body. imagine yourself as being a river. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content.
and you can feel the environment of that water. for instance. it's up to you. there are several options available to you. The water will then be in your auric field. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. But in the long run. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. put your feet in the water. very helpful for you. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. or fill your bathtub. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. Along with water comes detoxification. or very specific types of strict diets. Actually. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. You may even want to get some fish. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. So. You can get one of those fishtanks. can significantly slow . you see these on your laptops. is to keep water close to you if you can. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. The radiation is not going to damage you. on the market there are radiation screens. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. You are symbiotic. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. It will be a conversation piece as well. your planet also recognizes its need for water. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). wear some of it. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. of course. If you feel attracted to that. that's perfectly fine. If you can't do that. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. That's one idea. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. it's all connected. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. You may also sit by a lake. again. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. that incorporates water. Now. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. If you use a computer a lot. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. (No need to get neurotic about this. we guarantee you. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. So. That's an optimum situation. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. There is some jewelry. If you want to put crystals in your bath. When you bathe or shower. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. if it does any at all. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). if you're living under major power lines. LCD screen. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up).
It's got to be one or the other. So. It is not our understanding that you will ever. This is about learning sovereignty. where you are the only creator of your reality. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. and it's certainly not going to do anything. No television. and no more sinister plots. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. And so this is about processing belief systems. . If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. information to make you think. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. As soon as that is recognized and owned. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. then absolutely anything can hurt you. information to be added to your storehouse. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. because it makes you think. Now. and that's very important to stress. computers and microwave ovens away. Many say to throw your TVs. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. From our point of view. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. Category: Healing. no computer creates that. there will be no more victims. these are guidelines. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. Now. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. when this type of fearful information is given. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim.your own healing abilities. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. that is for others to answer.
When we can't handle our attachments. ironically. What begins as duality and polarization within time. People use each other for lust. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. the Western Judeo-Christian. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. and a gift of Enlightenment. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. but the game is over.beyond. but concurrent with our everyday existence. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. thought. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. Lust is only a call to love. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. Yet. through no other human activity. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. whether they know it or not. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. the body.body and soul . We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. pleasure. is the opportunity for ego-loss. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. It delivers you .sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. they enslave us and we enslave others.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . (Ultimately. and our most basic instincts. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love.Tantra For a thousand years. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then .The Path With No Obstacles . It inundates your entire being. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. People get carried away. The most extreme instance is called rape. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. was to keep them well in check. On the direct path of conscious awareness . and many have yet to answer it.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. . transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. and it's good for your health. save dying. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. otherwise rarely known in human existence.
It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment.we find ourselves indulging in what is. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. . and get it over with as quickly as possible. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. mystical rituals. money. rituals. Meditation. Sufi and tantric couples practices. and call this "correct. incense.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. Ph. ceremonial objects. music. power. and the total fulfillment of your partner. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. or it is devil-worship." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. depending upon one's intent. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. The great enigma is. the thrill. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison.D. candlelight. state of mind. not deny it. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. when .when people use each other uncaringly . and conditioning. They fear one and fake the other. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. innate sexuality. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. breathing exercises. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. after all. invocations.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. By that logic. or fame). and all too often . . as in indigenous tribal customs. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation.Miranda Shaw.
Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Giving and taking merge. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. whom you worship in awe. Move in slow motion. ours. engaging all your faculties. all purifying. stay in love. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Opening all your centers. Fall in love. Purify yourself in body and mind. die into love. animal to divine. Give voice to your feelings. letting hers become yours. Transcendent love is a religious experience. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Make love with your whole being. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Die as a personality. and you two become One. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. to the sacred fire within. Surrender continuously. Breathe together. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. breathtakingly tender. Worship your lover. Transpose taking and giving. all fulfilling. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. confused. Gaze into each other's eyes. long and deep. Begin motionless and in silence. Reside always at the beginning.. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. Listen for Inner Guidance. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Trust your body's deepest impulses. Wait for the perfect moment. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. Decelerate until time stands still. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Foreplay is truly playful. Everything matters. weeks. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Meditate. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Give only pleasure and love. . and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Make it Holy. and time stands still. with reverence. the passion intense and profound. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. from passion to compassion. Abandon all gain and control. unconditionally. Touch only in awe. all consuming. Every touch is The First. You notice everything.
D. ." by Lonny J. Brown. Ph.From "Enlightenment in Our Time.