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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
You allow the other person to move in that direction. they think all it has to do with is sex. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. Energetically. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. and that is allowed. then your relationships are going to start to change. So. If you are willing to move with it. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. In 4D. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. It is not the issue. no matter what choice happens. Always. they are weak and open to attack. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. It is a symptom. you will create more discomfort and pain. There is no separation. let some things out. and challenge you. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. Some people are denying them. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. No one seems to really get the point. . That was a tool in 3D. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. Some people are polarizing. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. It is going to challenge you. is inside of you. Divorce is a 3D solution. They have nothing to do with the problem. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. That. and never has been. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. they believe.For one thing. Instead. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. they will blame sex. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. you are going to start feeling pain. Breaking. it is going to be very different. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. If you are resisting change. Separation. because you can never be separate. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. is to be avoided in their belief. Sex. Change means change. If they are vulnerable. It is not. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. but you haven't known what was happening. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. these things started in the 1960s of your time. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. first level. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. confusion. Some people are going with the flow. at all costs. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. Change does not mean they will end. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. If you create resistance. It may first manifest outside of you. and that is all change means.
You would just trust. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. Your mate can do whatever they want. then that choice is for you. although your society will change. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. You do not have to plan for the future. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. The choices are entirely for you. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. Therefore. she has the child because she wants the child. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. If you choose to be non-monogamous. You only make the choices for you and no one else. It is different from what you see here. the idea of commitment does not exist. It placates you into thinking you are secure. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. So. You say to the person. Because she wants the child. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality." No. with trust instead of control. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. In 4D you are acting in the moment. If we have explained it incorrectly. . Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. whatever) relationship. In a 4D type relationship. In 4D type relationships. So you are trying to act on your excitement. If the woman is Pleiadian. allowance instead of manipulation. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. If you choose monogamy. That is what we meant by conscious choice. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. No.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. That is the difference. It is trust. They have nothing to do with the other person. They are all part of the same family anyway. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. not a compulsion). we apologize. Meaning absolute trust. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. The choices are all for you. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child.
In the moment. totally and absolutely. It really depends on the individual. Very simple. we become dependent on the other person. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. "Oh. For others it is money. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. For others. there is that child. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box.Exactly. in the moment. you cannot put that outside of yourself. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. you got a haircut. you are in the past or the future. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. No effort. Not just a child. Sex is just one of those lids. and so when that recognition is there. sex is a really good trigger. Therefore. This is a very good question. then after the baby is born. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. I don't want to hurt other people. so all the issue come crawling out. For some people it is sex. each day." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. If you are totally 100% in the present." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. If you are in the moment. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. at all costs. It is an equation that doesn't work. I made a mistake in having this child. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. I would rather not cause problems for them. There will never be a time where you will say. Yes. you can love it. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. In 4D. You must. In the moment. But I still want these people as friends. . You can say nice things all the time. I've finally been making choices for myself. but any reality that you create. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. You say. Then in 4D. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. is all dependency gone? Yes. and still push people's buttons. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. It looks nice. and people have been getting upset. "Oh. Okay. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others." Never. That is what I've been finding out.
I don't see there is an exception to that. They all come from you. That is one of my button-pushers here. that is deliberately hurting her. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. At the same time.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. That is then the way you will see the universe. In . But there are no victims. Good term. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. If. It is then that each person will be challenged. We might borrow that one. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. In your innocence and excitement. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. He is protecting himself. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. disapproval or invalidation. it is her choice. That is empowerment. then you are manipulating people around you. But in reality. The outcome is the same. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. You try to protect other people. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. then you polarize between victims and hurters. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. They like the concepts. "I want to go hot air ballooning. and emotions. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. If she chooses to be hurt. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. fears. This is what we mean by enmeshment." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. in the husband's excitement he says. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. You can never hurt another person. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. It prolongs the pain. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. There cannot ever be victims. Well. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through.
you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. You are lying to the other person. first think what it is you want to say. Those judgments eat you up. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. Cancer. it is also insulting. not necessarily the things they fear. It is. It is stasis. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. All That Is is neutral. You are lying to yourself. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. They cannot ever love you for who you are. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. You won't know what the thoughts are. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. and then actually on the physical level. Write it down. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. Write them down. You can tell them that. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. to hell with what the others think. Let yourself think it first. we've always screwed up the communication. When you hold back that which you are. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. They are the ones generating their reality. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. If they don't agree with you. If you do not express who you are. The more you stuff it. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. It buries itself into your cells. balance. They cannot be victim of hurt. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. It throws you into disharmony. If you look at a Pleiadian. you are lying. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. reflecting that which you feel within. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold).second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. You are all divine portions of the creator. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. This is a no win situation. the more diseased you get. Be truthful. heart disease. Literally. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. You protect them from the things that you fear. in one way. because they don't know who you are. Externalize them. They do not know who you are. Get comfortable with who you are. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. But in one way. You stuff it. Let it be okay to start thinking them. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. Then they only know you through your lies. You cannot withhold any portion of you. that is their choice. it submerges itself. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. Say it into a tape recorder. it is going to be devastating to you. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. If you do not express who you are 100%.
. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. That wasn't my question. If your wife walks up to you and says. If you do (to get them to do something. The more you practice. So it's essential for her to express that. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. "You are a jerk. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. But by all means at least express it to yourself. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. they are not going to feel attacked. If they have no issue about being attacked. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. Again. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. and the synchronicity of All That Is. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not." if you feel hurt. "It is clean as a whistle. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. In the expression. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. There are times when you cannot see it. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. for instance). If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. let us clarify. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. whether it is attacking or not attacking. If you think it's clean. Other times you cannot. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. There are not mistakes in creation. There are no wrong things. times when you say to yourself. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. Yes. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. and I don't agree with that. It cannot be any other way. All right. If that expression is an attack. I understand that. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. because that in itself is part of the growth process." and you express your thought. That is not what was implied. they will feel attacked. then express it. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. Before you express something. That is not a clean idea. Know who you are. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. so it's fine. Okay. She can tell me I'm a jerk. the more you will be able to tell. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. Sometimes you can see that. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. You will learn how to tell the difference. We apologize if the language was misleading. whether she thinks it's clean or not. and that's cool. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. and if it is indeed an attack. Get out that pent-up energy. In the addictive state.. In fact. There is only neutral expression. .compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation.
What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate.to fourth-density relationships model. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. It will lock your relationship into third density. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). also. You may walk up to your husband one day. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). Victimhood would come into it. "If you have dinner with another woman. then every action. You cannot hurt another person. then it's clean. They can choose to feel hurt. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. but we didn't make it a major point.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. "You look like a pig today. that's not going to hurt him in the least. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. If you really believe that Creation is Love. because it's the way to take your power back. Examine your beliefs. You can never hurt another person. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. it's not true excitement. Well. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. if you really. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. every instance must support ultimately that belief. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. really believe that. and it will not hurt him. But you can't know. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. that hurts me. third-density relationships often express victimhood. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. But if you do. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. ever. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. underneath everything else. so don't tell me about it if you do that . If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. then you will have matched your vibrations. and you may say. It is not possible. That is the bottomline intention of creation. it's not clean." And if he feels really good about himself.
honesty. to remind you that you can still feel. reading this. unconditional love. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. However. You're holding onto something from third density. Absolutely. Yes. and you're feeling the pain. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. but that's secrecy and it's third density. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. Exactly. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. If you choose third density. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. which an indicator that you are making the change. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. then you're right. secrecy. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. allowance. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. no. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. and that's quite all right. those in the room. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. I won't feel any pain.. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. So whenever I feel pain. but recognize that's what you're choosing. because the cruise control does not come with third density. it's fine. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. It's all equal anyway. Many people are using it that way." That's okay to ask for that. . do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. you will not feel pain.. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. then actually. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. It's a significator. exactly. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. It's one package or another package. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. Right? Yes! So it's fine.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. there's nothing wrong with it.
literally that means two . you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. overall. we will have a short break. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. Now. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. Sasha. After that. it's an expression of who we are. Greeting to all of you. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. Do not be surprised. it really does not. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. this is Sasha. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. Third density is the density of polarity. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. Now. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship.Again. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. powerful changes within your life. of course. absolutely 100% guaranteed. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. It's simply different. exactly. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. not necessarily in every single relationship. They do not have to bring pain. Yes. but you don't have to manifest pain. you are going to see tremendous. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. Sasha: All right. with respect to your channel. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. let me repeat myself. necessity meaning single parents. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. However. Now. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. Greetings. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. Now. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. some of the understandings. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. And you will begin to see. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation.
back and forth. as Germane was not saying. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. I am deprived. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. Absolutely cannot happen. When you love yourself unconditionally. Now. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. It cannot happen. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. if you in third-density. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. you must just go for it. As you start choosing how you want to live. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. So when I spend time with my mate. there will be no problem here. are present. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. I was also in a mated group. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). living in the moment.ideas are present. and in this mated group. Make your choices. we're not saying. Now. The dynamics will have to change. back and forth.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. insert a third variable. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. It is not time. because using the paddle idea. these things are going to begin coming up. as intense. that you must at all cost heal this. But recognize where the time element comes into it. fourth. so if I don't have this." Do you follow? Now. again. I get caught in the time factor. So therefore. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. . One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. That is a third-density idea. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. so because of the aloneness. and then you bring in another mate. back and forth. but it might not necessarily work for you. honesty. etc. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. It can. And that is something that we would like to address. most definitely. Well. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. Period. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. Do you all follow? Thoughts. I'm not alone. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. it takes away the love they can have for you. back and forth. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate.. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. "This is better than this. back and forth. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion.
We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. It's just a question of when. I was just curious about that because. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. You are it. So for instance. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. And again in fourth density. Both are equal. when your mate is not there. and the same thing with the Orions. And so when that recognition is there. Question. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. The same thing with the Essassani. which is open to all. invited guests you may call it. as Germane was saying. Do what you can. when you lived with a group. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. at least right now. We do not perceive. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person.Exactly. One were rooms of privacy. The shift is going to happen. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. And when you see your mate. . Either way. through who you have been as a species. Now you on your planet. you are excited in the moment with yourself. Sasha. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. that only we entered. Or comment. Did you want more on that? Well. it's exciting in the moment. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. it is still going to happen. There were basically three different phases of environments. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. The critical mass is going to happen. no. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. Both companies are appreciated. Sasha. It will take longer if they resist it. Yes. if you will.
to give you a very dramatic example. there was no fighting. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible.. . You follow? Yes. Yes. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. So it's that issue. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. It's a little bit different. let us say. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. there were no tears or anger. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. having to deal with the need to control. You know those Zetas. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. We knew you would be the one to bring it up.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. or not even that different. Sasha. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. One last question along these lines. yes. If that's true. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. it was a natural movement from one state to another. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. We are going through relationship transformation. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. that's when I was in the group. there was no resistance. not out of a sense of prejudice.. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. very rough. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. Just with a different twist. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. and therefore for instance. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation.
We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. etc. but he taught us a thing or two. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . if people judge their own or others' sexuality.. Now. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. And if you were to live in the moment. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. We're not talking about the sex act. A lot of this searching goes on. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. Now. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. it can't be used against you. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. no child feels unwanted. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. That was not so much of a challenge. Again.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. There is simply one expression. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. etc. there is so much emphasis on body types. any man that I've been around.. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past.. Right now. can it? Exactly. I will be attracted to a certain body type. going to bed with Sasha. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. "Hmm. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. a different developmental structure. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. It is of a creative vibration. Not only that. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. because literally the past does not hold your answers. That was kind of a landmark. and if that is the case. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. Again. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. that becomes irrelevant. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy." I mean. someone else will be attracted to this body type. sex does not become a big deal. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. They are very secure in their identity in the present. sexuality is not sex. In third density. the present holds your answers. On our planet and in third density. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have.. Maybe.
If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies.No. you would all be "gorgeous" also. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. When you move into fourth density. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. They are natural diversifying characteristics. conditions. . Most definitely. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. we may have preferences. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. Exactly. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. you would have all that male and female inside your body. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. And that is the cycle. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity." Oh. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. That is very accurate. you feel beautiful. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. I know. Yes. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. When you do not need something from another individual. they're too tall. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. Conditional love. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. Well. there is no attention on body type. but the preferences are so unimportant. you feel healthy. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. If you are so together and whole. they're too ugly. if you're all gorgeous. But it is not a need in any way. that is a third-density idea. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. Now. If you all felt that way. those symbols will change because you will change. Exactly. Separation. Most definitely. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. you feel vibrant. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs.
Living the relationship. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. Can be. Integration is the entire soup itself. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. Do you follow? There is a fine line. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. There is a difference. The recipe requires carrots and celery. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. yes.It's almost like a paradox here. fun and excitement instead of need. and it will take a lot more energy. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. To use an analogy. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. Now. Third density is separation. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. The recipe needs those things. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. If you do not want to look at your needs. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. you will not know the recipe. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. then it is out of need. In fact. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. Sasha. Recognize the need. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. Work with it. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. we would say. Fourth density is integration. you will not know how to cook the soup. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. exactly.
however. as dysfunctional as they may be. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. recognize what you get with that choice. personal growth will always have to suffer. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. Go to your own garden. . if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. You're not attacking someone. As long as the relationship takes precedence. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. I become angry. Exactly. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. There are times when we recognize. Sasha. If you choose personal growth over relationships. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. So neither one is wrong nor right. Nothing exists without a purpose. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. you are choosing to integrate yourself. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. We are simply saying in terms of your choice.carrots. But if you choose personal growth. we're talking in ways that are different than you. and your needs. Exactly. Now again. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. We do not have that particular expression. Do you want to comment on that? Well. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth.
There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. I guess. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. "No. Back in this needs issue. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. Well. it's their choice. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. That doesn't matter. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. I follow. And even if I'm able to say. from my thirddensity perspective. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. Ahhh. and I can tune into it. . But it came into my life suddenly. We're not understanding the exact question. pulling yourself back into third density. I appreciate that. If they feel deprived. We are sorry. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. if that's the case. I refuse to do that.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. And like we say with the soup. Well." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. But you can play out that game. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. but there is. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. and I feel it's a very good answer. getting the package deal there. I have one question. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. that need is okay. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. That is all you are responsible for. You cannot deprive another person. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question.
and it started out. very low¾hidden anger. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. you cannot know.which is exactly what I do not want to do. and let it be whatever it ends up being. That is so correct. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. You can never second-guess another person. caring and sharing. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. Exactly. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. the level of anger would be very. you're not in fourth density. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. If you have that need. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. Seventy-five percent. So when you have no expectations . they will never be satisfied. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. Period. "I don't expect anything from it. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. whether covert or overt. I remember saying. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. you will get caught because it is a game. hostility. And just be pure in my own intention. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. play. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. For one thing. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. the anger. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. In other words. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. Obviously that is a trap. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. starts setting in. ecstasy. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. Am I on track? Yes. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. You are still playing the thirddensity game. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Exactly. nearly nonexistent. However. Now. and then they will be angry. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. They will not verbalize them. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me.
But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. You can enjoy yourself. they will transform. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. much. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. you will soar. is difficult.to fourth-density thinking. you then know there's an issue. that you judge. "If you can't feel the pain. Once that idea is relinquished. You are moving in that direction. In fourth density. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. you can truly experience unconditional love. much love to each and every one of you. going to start seeing changes. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. If you judge them. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. Yes. Much. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. you can't feel the ecstasy." In third density. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. and they will always be an issue. Again. Copyright © 1993. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. All Rights Reserved. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. that you're angry at. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. that idea cannot exist. are so valuable because they make up the soup. . It's a gradual movement from third. that makes a lot of sense. what a load off your mind that is. yes. It will just automatically start unfolding. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. And so. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful.about the other person fulfilling your needs. they will stay there on the counter. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. yes. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. it's not a light switch going on and off. The pain will start to subside. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. The joy will start to grow. Much love and goodnight. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. what a load off your energy. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself.
This is the energy. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy.they did not want to be found. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. The Empire vs. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. This is Germane. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. we will integrate them together. First of all. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. So let us start with Orion. As you know.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. Many of you on Earth. The idea . Orion Civilization . it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. "Black" is not meant to be negative. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. incarnationally speaking. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. These individuals we've called the Black League. Earth was a place where you could come. In a tug-of-war. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. they would be annihilated. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. It took them a very. certain patterns of conflict. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. Thus you can see the dynamic.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. for instance. If they were found.galactic heritage and sexuality. First. if the weight is balanced on both sides. who were the freedom fighters. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . neither person is going to win. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again.
You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . to release the energy of conflict. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. So this is the one we will talk about. because it's definitely a two-way street . There is no "sneaking around. because if you had kept your entire memory intact.the relationship becomes as mates. but from their . The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. to say the least.and you choose to be a surrogate. resonate with the most. you ask. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. This is for a very specific reason. Surrogates So. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate.your civilization included. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary.when two people come together who are to be mated.an instant recognition . The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). at least for now. to release emotional energy. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. and there's no doubt of that recognition. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. very intense in a certain way. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. very close to them. because this is the energy that you on Earth. So when the mate is finally found. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. The Orions mate for life. Again. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. and even a bit scary for some of you. This is the opposite. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. There's a recognition . is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. When you're chosen as a surrogate . the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. but also through nonsexual intimacy. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured.
is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. Because of this. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy.it's second nature. Now. societally speaking. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. yes. One thing we would like to say here. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. it is eventually genetically encoded. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. they moved very slowly. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . many thousands of years long. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. that is the way the stress is released. there was a lot of genetic change. one is for exchange of intimacy. etc. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. But that was a difficult one. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. When one is under stress. The Vulcan is repressing. If one mate was killed. This is why it is of primary . Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. does not exist. However. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. for instance. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions.even in thought . During the times of the intense conflict.in the direction of the mate. After awhile it's no longer control . So it would depend on which period of time. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. That is an undisciplined thought. for instance. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. for fantasy simply does not exist. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. so it's not a repression of anything. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. before the conflict was resolved. Experience does change genetics. This is not anything that is imposed on them. they repress fantasy. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. But. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary.point of view extremely fulfilling. It's simply the way they are. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. yes. The Orion civilization was many.
If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. recognize emotionality in the moment . In the ancient. This is. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. very committed to each other. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system .what you would call marriage.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. You don't have to be as disciplined. The Pleiadian Civilization . They have ceremonies. they feel secure . the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. many of them do. there are three or more. one on one . because there are other ways of channeling energy. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. they're monogamous in the moment.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. ancient Pleiadian past. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. There are also married groups. but when they pledge their love to a person." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. During times of peace other things are looked at. As with the Orions.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. That's their idea of monogamy. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies.and that is how they choose to live their lives. you may do some research. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair.importance that each Orion have a mate. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. to some degree. These marriage units are very loving. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. they're not pledging their love for the future. So they were intent on repressing negativity. Because of this focus on positivity. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity.the Pleiadian civilization. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. very connected.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. marriage rates increase. So if any of you wish to examine that further.
and there is a disconnection. that would be expressed as true monogamy. kind of like the . So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. On your planet. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. both of you have. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. When you are in a monogamous relationship.it does . total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth." there's total understanding. certain fears. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. not having sexual relations with another person. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. This is changing now. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. etc. will attempt to latch on to you. Not that it does not occur here . there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life.move into something else. They recognize that it must be the time. you get used to the partner. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. you don't have to face certain issues. very safe. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. however. will show a lot of pain. it's very. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. the mate quite often will be very hurt. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. However. a conscious choice. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future .
none of these civilizations are better than yours. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. It's simply a matter of choice. Now.when that is actually what they are excited by. Eventually. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. Dis-eases. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. any more evolved. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. we'll finish what we're saying. It's very important that we say that. It will work for you.Orions. as your consciousness is raising. they've taught you a lot. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. So back . the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. to find out what your own inner truth is. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. But neither of their expressions are better. deep level. since we've already opened our mouth. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. For the Pleiadians. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. No one here is any better. They are different. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. But you are already beginning to create it. As your consciousness raises. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. when they are denying and repressing. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. will not have pain and fear. you don't know how to do this. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. It's important that we say this. That's what's occurring now. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. In your society now. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family.
things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. AIDS. yes. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. When they are having a relationship. that does not constitute separation at all. If you really feel that .how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person.levels that you've not wished to look at before. or whether it's a true excitement.it's a partnership. So when they separate. examine your motivation. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. more than any other disease you have on your planet. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . for instance. If. and to release that. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. Q: Separation is never a solution.your own and others'. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. However. many dimensions to it. Correct. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . Whenever there's resistance. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. Whenever there's flow. they're a mirror image of themselves.then they did have some disease. think about taking action. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. AIDS and cancer. very deep levels . if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. absolute reflection of themselves.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. when we feel that a relationship might be over. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. to understand where your fears. there's no flow .meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . with your question. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. and anger and pain lie. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. or clear the energy so you can stay. thinking separation is a solution. It's a matter of resistance and flow.
There goes another expression I can't use anymore . then when you separate. two legs. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. and complete control over ejaculation. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. Thank you. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. The women have similar control over ovulation. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. You'll only draw to you that which you are. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. anyway. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. It's like some of your animals. Unfortunately. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. it doesn't completely disappear. it's olive-colored . but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. It is humanoid. two legs.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. head. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. Sexually. relationships are frequently not completed. body."I'd like you to meet my `better half. A couple of other minor differences. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. In terms of getting aroused sexually. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. . you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). Now. That is why when they separate.a brown base with a greenish tinge. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. You will seek out a half. That gives you a general idea of the body types. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. It is your galactic family. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. Their skin is very different. Do you follow? Q: Yes. That's a perfect form of birth control. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. same thing). That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. Each person is not complete within themselves.way inside. Now.
But this occurs all the time.deliberately nonphysical. Well. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. then tantra is better. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. "Well. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. so to speak. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . It's part of who they are. let's do tantra today. One. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. several different levels. including chocolate ice cream.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. are both highly ritualized. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. eye-toeye recognition. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. when the woman came out of her shell. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. For instance. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. You see the difference? And again. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. like you saw in Cocoon. one for procreation and one for intimacy.it touched a lot of people in your society . It's not as if they would say. because it is a God union. but it's not a conscious." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. That is one way. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. none of this is better than . all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. So it touched you . That's one level of it. yes.
it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. that there was to be a species crisis. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. We know you have many questions. At this point in time. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. There is much to share with you. Due to severe radiation. It becomes dimmer. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. We were born from conflict. so we were called. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. once we were underground. are also learning and growing. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. we could control the future of our race. We knew this was to occur. We gave much thought to this and chose. We have much to share with you. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli.anything else. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . Within our civilization we had much diversity. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. less complete. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. We needed. We had war. we were born from crisis. who we've been talking about.Group Mind This is Harone. It was understood by us. balanced and nonviolent in every way. and that is not the case. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. Your forefathers. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. You have been talking about us. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. then. You are learning and growing. since our environment was going to collapse.
We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. They would have you think they are much more numerous.we are not separate . We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us.though our realities may say we are. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. Our organs began atrophying over many. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. 2. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. we work with these genetic structures. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. some need activation on the physical level. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. That is what is occurring now. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. We are infinitely entwined . This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. Simply put. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. we will have physical facilitators. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. Even though we do not understand why. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . In our work with you. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. we are told that their numbers are quite small. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well.males from females. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. However. We will become much more individualistic. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. you will become more unified. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. these latent genetic codes. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. we will become much more similar. for from our point of view we . It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. when we went underground and began cloning. You will find that as evolution occurs. Because we have lost this ability for so long. We are taking a species leap together. when we interact with you either physically or etherically.our end of the agreement. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel.
Our interactions with you represent evolution.recognize you have given us permission. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. you learn what you desire. you feel the tide of evolution. We learn what we desire. We're afraid of being vulnerable. this is an equal exchange. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. When we interact with you. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. recognize we have no intent. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. to change you. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. Unfortunately for our development. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. We recognize there may be questions from you. as we have stated. From our point of view. engage those fears and move through them. your civilization. So in terms of symbolic expression. your interactions with us will change dramatically. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. what was happening in your culture. many of you have come to our reality. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. Our interactions with you push buttons. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. even more than upon your world today. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. You are resisting .
It is a matter of shifting perspective. When you are lying on an examination table. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. energy shielding. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. saying you have not created this somehow. It penetrates all of them. If you surrender. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. as you would say. That is. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. a mind link. to the One. because the emotions are very intense for us. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . that you are not part of species transformation.not in the negative sense of weakness . and until that fear is confronted and released. You let your guard down. secretions from prostate.sperm. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. Well. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. There is no arousal. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. it really depends on which group.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. when you are vulnerable. Some are interested primarily in genetic research.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. eggs. We may not know how to understand your emotions. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. you are open to All That Is. It is not just cold research. So biologically speaking. that's what I was getting at. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. shall we say. skin samples and also an understanding. into different groups that have different purposes. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. or disempowered vulnerability. you will feel the pressure of evolution. not as if we were invading . as you know the term. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. Very often some of us will have protection. but we do pay attention to them. Some are interested in reproductive research. Our way . There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. Vulnerable .that is not what is meant . not of what we intend to do . whereas each and every one of you is part of that. We are divided. of what procreation means to the person.evolution because of your fear.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them.again we speak of the dynamic. and in that case.
that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. Our love to you and goodnight. we must densify ourselves. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. which is very uncomfortable. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. We must deal with data. We interact with you on every level we can. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. Now that may be inaccurate . and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. That is also something of primary interest to us. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies.perhaps many of you would think it is . You've done your research well. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. we can enter your reality in a light state. Some of you will sense our energy. . You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. certainly. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution.
Also. your showers. so the electrical current is always running through your body. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. This is rather abstract. imagine yourself as being a river. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. Let us first address the physical level. but you will know what is right for you. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. So. the presence of water. Not just the ingesting of it. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. That will be fruits and vegetables. the voltage is going to be upped. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. whatever your choice is. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. Now. Also. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. We would recommend distilled or purified. Germane through Lyssa Royal. plan accordingly. You are 90 some-odd percent water. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. allow yourself to feel fluid. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. All Rights Reserved. The more . preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. a current.
it's all connected. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. wear some of it. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. we guarantee you. of course. The water will then be in your auric field. Along with water comes detoxification. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. put your feet in the water. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. Now. you see these on your laptops. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. that's perfectly fine. (No need to get neurotic about this. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. You can get one of those fishtanks. There is some jewelry. for instance. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. if you're living under major power lines. If you feel attracted to that. If you use a computer a lot. there are several options available to you. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. and you can feel the environment of that water.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. or fill your bathtub. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. That's an optimum situation. If you want to put crystals in your bath. But in the long run. or very specific types of strict diets. is to keep water close to you if you can. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. if it does any at all. You may even want to get some fish. LCD screen. So. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. That's one idea. very helpful for you. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. that incorporates water. it's up to you. The radiation is not going to damage you. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. If you can't do that. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. on the market there are radiation screens. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. It will be a conversation piece as well. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). You are symbiotic. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. You may also sit by a lake. Actually. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. again. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. your planet also recognizes its need for water. can significantly slow . When you bathe or shower. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. So.
As soon as that is recognized and owned. From our point of view. . information to be added to your storehouse. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. there will be no more victims. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. and it's certainly not going to do anything. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. Many say to throw your TVs. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. because it makes you think. computers and microwave ovens away. information to make you think. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. And so this is about processing belief systems. and that's very important to stress. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. So. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. Now. It is not our understanding that you will ever. and no more sinister plots. It's got to be one or the other. Now. No television. no computer creates that. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. then absolutely anything can hurt you. This is about learning sovereignty. that is for others to answer. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. these are guidelines. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. where you are the only creator of your reality. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer.your own healing abilities. Category: Healing. when this type of fearful information is given. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us.
body and soul .By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. Yet. save dying. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . . The most extreme instance is called rape. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. (Ultimately. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. they enslave us and we enslave others. What begins as duality and polarization within time. and a gift of Enlightenment. was to keep them well in check. and many have yet to answer it. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. pleasure. the body. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. Lust is only a call to love. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. On the direct path of conscious awareness . The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. whether they know it or not. thought.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. through no other human activity. and it's good for your health. and our most basic instincts. People get carried away.beyond. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. ironically. People use each other for lust. is the opportunity for ego-loss. but concurrent with our everyday existence.The Path With No Obstacles . but the game is over. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. It delivers you . No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. When we can't handle our attachments. It inundates your entire being.Tantra For a thousand years. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. the Western Judeo-Christian. otherwise rarely known in human existence.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization.
innate sexuality. ceremonial objects. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). candlelight. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. breathing exercises. or it is devil-worship.we find ourselves indulging in what is. The great enigma is. By that logic.Miranda Shaw. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. . But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. when . power. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. music.when people use each other uncaringly . even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. . Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. invocations. and get it over with as quickly as possible. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. after all. They fear one and fake the other. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. state of mind. and all too often . and conditioning. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. the thrill. rituals. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. or fame)." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. Sufi and tantric couples practices. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. mystical rituals. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. Ph. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. and call this "correct. Meditation.D. depending upon one's intent. incense. as in indigenous tribal customs. money.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. not deny it. and the total fulfillment of your partner. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism .
by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Worship your lover. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Decelerate until time stands still. breathtakingly tender. Meditate. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. animal to divine. Wait for the perfect moment. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Foreplay is truly playful. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Die as a personality. Surrender continuously. Make it Holy. Give voice to your feelings. Fall in love. Make love with your whole being. Give only pleasure and love. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. to the sacred fire within. You notice everything. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. letting hers become yours. Trust your body's deepest impulses. Reside always at the beginning. Transcendent love is a religious experience. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. Purify yourself in body and mind. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. . look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. unconditionally. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. Listen for Inner Guidance. Breathe together. long and deep. and time stands still. with reverence. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. whom you worship in awe. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. Gaze into each other's eyes. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. The senses are magnified a thousand times. from passion to compassion. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. Begin motionless and in silence. Abandon all gain and control. Opening all your centers. Giving and taking merge.. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. Transpose taking and giving. Everything matters. all purifying. die into love. all consuming. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. all fulfilling.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Touch only in awe. weeks. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. stay in love. confused. Move in slow motion. the passion intense and profound. ours. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. and you two become One. engaging all your faculties. Every touch is The First.
Brown. ." by Lonny J.From "Enlightenment in Our Time. Ph.D.
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