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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
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What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. It is not. at all costs. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. Change does not mean they will end. Always. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. So. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. they are weak and open to attack. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. It is going to challenge you. That was a tool in 3D. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. Some people are denying them. then your relationships are going to start to change. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. . and challenge you. no matter what choice happens. It is not the issue. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. You allow the other person to move in that direction. first level. you will create more discomfort and pain. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. If you are willing to move with it. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. is to be avoided in their belief. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. Divorce is a 3D solution. they think all it has to do with is sex. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. Change means change. confusion. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. If you create resistance.For one thing. they believe. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. Some people are going with the flow. It is a symptom. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. No one seems to really get the point. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. Separation. Some people are polarizing. They have nothing to do with the problem. That. is inside of you. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. There is no separation. these things started in the 1960s of your time. and never has been. because you can never be separate. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. it is going to be very different. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. you are going to start feeling pain. If you are resisting change. Energetically. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. and that is allowed. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. If they are vulnerable. let some things out. Sex. they will blame sex. Breaking. In 4D. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. Instead. but you haven't known what was happening. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. It may first manifest outside of you. and that is all change means.
In 4D type relationships. allowance instead of manipulation. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. although your society will change. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. she has the child because she wants the child. If we have explained it incorrectly. It is different from what you see here. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. then that choice is for you. It is trust. No. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. They are all part of the same family anyway. If the woman is Pleiadian. You do not have to plan for the future. Because she wants the child. with trust instead of control. In 4D you are acting in the moment. So. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. In a 4D type relationship. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. whatever) relationship. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. You would just trust. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. . "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. It placates you into thinking you are secure. the idea of commitment does not exist. You say to the person. we apologize. You only make the choices for you and no one else. Your mate can do whatever they want. That is what we meant by conscious choice." No. Meaning absolute trust. They have nothing to do with the other person. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. If you choose to be non-monogamous. If you choose monogamy. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. That is the difference. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. The choices are entirely for you. So you are trying to act on your excitement. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. not a compulsion). What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. Therefore. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. The choices are all for you.
You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. For some people it is sex. Okay. In 4D. Then in 4D. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. For others. "Oh. then after the baby is born." Never. is all dependency gone? Yes. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. and still push people's buttons. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. . In the moment. It looks nice. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. Very simple. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. you got a haircut. There will never be a time where you will say. I don't want to hurt other people. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. If you are totally 100% in the present. It really depends on the individual. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. you are in the past or the future. there is that child. This is a very good question. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. You can say nice things all the time. I've finally been making choices for myself. at all costs. I would rather not cause problems for them. For others it is money. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex.Exactly." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. You say. and so when that recognition is there. Not just a child. In the moment. It is an equation that doesn't work. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. sex is a really good trigger. "Oh. If you are in the moment. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. totally and absolutely. you can love it. you cannot put that outside of yourself. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. and people have been getting upset. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. Sex is just one of those lids. No effort. But I still want these people as friends. but any reality that you create. each day. we become dependent on the other person. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. in the moment. so all the issue come crawling out. I made a mistake in having this child. Yes. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. That is what I've been finding out. Therefore." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. You must.
That is one of my button-pushers here. We might borrow that one. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. in the husband's excitement he says. They like the concepts. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. It prolongs the pain. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. You try to protect other people. If she chooses to be hurt. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. Well. Good term. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. then you polarize between victims and hurters. In your innocence and excitement. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. There cannot ever be victims. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. that is deliberately hurting her. The outcome is the same.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. But in reality. This is what we mean by enmeshment. "I want to go hot air ballooning. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. They all come from you. But there are no victims. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. disapproval or invalidation. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. and emotions. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. You can never hurt another person. That is then the way you will see the universe. fears. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. He is protecting himself. At the same time. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. If. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. That is empowerment. then you are manipulating people around you. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. In . Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. it is her choice. I don't see there is an exception to that. It is then that each person will be challenged. but they don't want to apply them in their lives.
You cannot withhold any portion of you. You are lying to the other person. in one way. first think what it is you want to say. All That Is is neutral. Then they only know you through your lies. Say it into a tape recorder. not necessarily the things they fear. The more you stuff it. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. it is going to be devastating to you. You stuff it. Literally. If you look at a Pleiadian. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. It throws you into disharmony. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . They are the ones generating their reality. You protect them from the things that you fear. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. But in one way. that is their choice. Write it down. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. it is also insulting. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. balance. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. we've always screwed up the communication. It is stasis. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. You won't know what the thoughts are. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. When you hold back that which you are. you are lying. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. They do not know who you are. Get comfortable with who you are. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. They cannot be victim of hurt. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. If they don't agree with you. You are all divine portions of the creator. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. Be truthful. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. It buries itself into your cells. It is. You can tell them that. Write them down. Cancer. to hell with what the others think. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. Those judgments eat you up. If you do not express who you are 100%. Let yourself think it first. heart disease. You are lying to yourself. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. They cannot ever love you for who you are. Let it be okay to start thinking them. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. and then actually on the physical level. Externalize them. If you do not express who you are. reflecting that which you feel within. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. This is a no win situation. it submerges itself. because they don't know who you are. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. the more diseased you get. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony.
If they have no issue about being attacked. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. But by all means at least express it to yourself. whether she thinks it's clean or not. If you do (to get them to do something. then express it. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. So it's essential for her to express that. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. If you think it's clean. and if it is indeed an attack. In fact. Know who you are. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. "It is clean as a whistle. All right.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. There are no wrong things. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. Before you express something. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. You will learn how to tell the difference. We apologize if the language was misleading. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. times when you say to yourself. "You are a jerk. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. Get out that pent-up energy. . One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. She can tell me I'm a jerk. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. and the synchronicity of All That Is. That is not a clean idea. and I don't agree with that. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. In the expression. so it's fine. If your wife walks up to you and says. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. If that expression is an attack. for instance)." and you express your thought. There is only neutral expression. whether it is attacking or not attacking. the more you will be able to tell. Other times you cannot. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. and that's cool.." if you feel hurt. There are times when you cannot see it.. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. Sometimes you can see that. I understand that. because that in itself is part of the growth process. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. The more you practice. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. Again. There are not mistakes in creation. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. It cannot be any other way. In the addictive state. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. That wasn't my question. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. they will feel attacked. let us clarify. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. they are not going to feel attacked. Okay. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. That is not what was implied. Yes.
If you really believe that Creation is Love. That is the bottomline intention of creation. Victimhood would come into it. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. But if you do. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). then it's clean. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. that's not going to hurt him in the least. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. It is not possible. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. then every action. really believe that. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. They can choose to feel hurt. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. and you may say. if you really. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. ever. every instance must support ultimately that belief. third-density relationships often express victimhood. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. because it's the way to take your power back. You may walk up to your husband one day. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. It will lock your relationship into third density. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. also. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. so don't tell me about it if you do that . If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. then you will have matched your vibrations. Examine your beliefs. "You look like a pig today." And if he feels really good about himself. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. it's not true excitement. You cannot hurt another person. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. it's not clean. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. But you can't know. "If you have dinner with another woman. You can never hurt another person. but we didn't make it a major point. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. Well. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. that hurts me. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. and it will not hurt him.to fourth-density relationships model. underneath everything else.
and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers.. It's one package or another package. and that's quite all right. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. It's all equal anyway. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. honesty. but that's secrecy and it's third density. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. allowance. there's nothing wrong with it. unconditional love. then actually. So whenever I feel pain. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it..because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. . many people are choosing to feel the hurt. Many people are using it that way. no. Absolutely. Right? Yes! So it's fine. exactly. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. because the cruise control does not come with third density. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. It's a significator. Exactly. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto." That's okay to ask for that. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. but recognize that's what you're choosing. If you choose third density. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. secrecy. it's fine. to remind you that you can still feel. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. I won't feel any pain. Yes. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. However. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. reading this. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. those in the room. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. you will not feel pain. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. then you're right. You're holding onto something from third density. and you're feeling the pain. which an indicator that you are making the change.
and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. with respect to your channel. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. Yes. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. we will have a short break. powerful changes within your life. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. let me repeat myself. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. Third density is the density of polarity. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. necessity meaning single parents. Now. some of the understandings. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. not necessarily in every single relationship. this is Sasha. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. literally that means two . Sasha. Now. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. overall. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. it's an expression of who we are. you are going to see tremendous. it really does not. Now. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. Now. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship.Again. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. Do not be surprised. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. Sasha: All right. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. After that. And you will begin to see. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. exactly. It's simply different. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. Greetings. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. but you don't have to manifest pain. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. absolutely 100% guaranteed. Greeting to all of you. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. of course. They do not have to bring pain. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. However.
The dynamics will have to change. back and forth. again. it takes away the love they can have for you. It cannot happen. And that is something that we would like to address. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. as Germane was not saying. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. Period. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third.. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. so because of the aloneness. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. back and forth. As you start choosing how you want to live.ideas are present. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. So therefore. I'm not alone. you must just go for it. back and forth. I get caught in the time factor. . insert a third variable. etc. back and forth. living in the moment. honesty." Do you follow? Now. Make your choices. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. if you in third-density. most definitely. because using the paddle idea. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. Do you all follow? Thoughts. Now. Now. I am deprived. Absolutely cannot happen. and in this mated group. that you must at all cost heal this. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. Well. but it might not necessarily work for you. back and forth. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. "This is better than this. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. It can. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. It is not time. fourth. are present. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. there will be no problem here. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. So when I spend time with my mate. so if I don't have this. That is a third-density idea. as intense. we're not saying. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. and then you bring in another mate. But recognize where the time element comes into it. When you love yourself unconditionally. these things are going to begin coming up. I was also in a mated group. the ideas of unconditional love and trust.
that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. and the same thing with the Orions. There were basically three different phases of environments. no. The critical mass is going to happen. It will take longer if they resist it. you are excited in the moment with yourself. Or comment. One were rooms of privacy. when you lived with a group. And again in fourth density. And when you see your mate. Either way. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. Did you want more on that? Well. Question. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. which is open to all. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. Now you on your planet. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. Sasha. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. And so when that recognition is there. that only we entered. it is still going to happen. The shift is going to happen. Both are equal. So for instance. Sasha. as Germane was saying.Exactly. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. You are it. through who you have been as a species. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. Yes. it's exciting in the moment. invited guests you may call it. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. Both companies are appreciated. The same thing with the Essassani. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. at least right now. Do what you can. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. if you will. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. when your mate is not there. I was just curious about that because. . It's just a question of when. We do not perceive. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things.
One last question along these lines.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. It's a little bit different. there was no resistance. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation.. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. If that's true. You know those Zetas. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. We are going through relationship transformation. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. it was a natural movement from one state to another. or not even that different. let us say. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. . Just with a different twist. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. Yes. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. Sasha. and therefore for instance. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way.. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. and some chose to go into a more quiet time.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. there were no tears or anger." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. not out of a sense of prejudice. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. to give you a very dramatic example. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. very rough. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. that's when I was in the group. You follow? Yes. yes. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. there was no fighting. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. So it's that issue. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. having to deal with the need to control. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible.
What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. sexuality is not sex. "Hmm. and if that is the case. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. the present holds your answers." I mean. I will be attracted to a certain body type. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. any man that I've been around. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. sex does not become a big deal. because literally the past does not hold your answers. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. Again. That was kind of a landmark. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. Maybe. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. We're not talking about the sex act. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani.. can it? Exactly. Now. In third density. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. Now. And if you were to live in the moment.. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . Not only that. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. etc. going to bed with Sasha. someone else will be attracted to this body type. On our planet and in third density. there is so much emphasis on body types. There is simply one expression. that becomes irrelevant. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. etc. That was not so much of a challenge. They are very secure in their identity in the present. a different developmental structure.. it can't be used against you. no child feels unwanted. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. It is of a creative vibration. but he taught us a thing or two.. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. A lot of this searching goes on. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. Right now. Again. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian.
. conditions. Most definitely. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. you would all be "gorgeous" also. Now. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. they're too ugly. you feel vibrant. if you're all gorgeous. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. But it is not a need in any way. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. you feel beautiful. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. Exactly. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. If you all felt that way. they're too tall. Most definitely. Conditional love. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. When you do not need something from another individual. but the preferences are so unimportant. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. You all feel wonderful about yourselves." Oh. you would have all that male and female inside your body.No. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. Well. They are natural diversifying characteristics. those symbols will change because you will change. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. Separation. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. When you move into fourth density. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. Yes. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. Exactly. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. you feel healthy. that is a third-density idea. we may have preferences. That is very accurate. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. I know. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. there is no attention on body type. If you are so together and whole. And that is the cycle.
Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it.It's almost like a paradox here. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. The recipe needs those things. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. Now. Third density is separation. Fourth density is integration. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. There is a difference. Sasha. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. Work with it. exactly. you will not know how to cook the soup. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. yes. then it is out of need. Can be. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. The recipe requires carrots and celery. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. If you do not want to look at your needs. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. we would say. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. Integration is the entire soup itself. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. fun and excitement instead of need. Recognize the need. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. To use an analogy. you will not know the recipe. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . Living the relationship. Do you follow? There is a fine line. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. In fact. and it will take a lot more energy. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject.
you are choosing to integrate yourself. Exactly. Sasha. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. personal growth will always have to suffer. There are times when we recognize. as dysfunctional as they may be. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. and your needs. Exactly. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. So neither one is wrong nor right. Now again. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. Do you want to comment on that? Well. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. We do not have that particular expression. As long as the relationship takes precedence. I become angry.carrots. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. Go to your own garden. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. Nothing exists without a purpose. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. If you choose personal growth over relationships. however. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. recognize what you get with that choice. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. we're talking in ways that are different than you. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. But if you choose personal growth. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. You're not attacking someone. . If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice.
and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. If they feel deprived. Well. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. it's their choice.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. You cannot deprive another person. We are sorry. and I can tune into it. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. "No. But it came into my life suddenly. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. Ahhh. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. I follow. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. if that's the case. that need is okay. We're not understanding the exact question. I guess. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. That is all you are responsible for. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. I appreciate that. Well. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. pulling yourself back into third density. getting the package deal there. That doesn't matter. . Back in this needs issue. from my thirddensity perspective. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. And like we say with the soup. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. but there is. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. And even if I'm able to say. But you can play out that game. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. I have one question. I refuse to do that. and I feel it's a very good answer. but would you narrow the question and ask it again.
You cannot know what the other person's needs are. I remember saying. the level of anger would be very. Seventy-five percent. very low¾hidden anger. They will not verbalize them. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. play. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. whether covert or overt. Period. Obviously that is a trap. Now. Exactly. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. starts setting in. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. nearly nonexistent. and then they will be angry. That is so correct. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. hostility. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. you will get caught because it is a game. caring and sharing. "I don't expect anything from it. you're not in fourth density. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. So when you have no expectations . In other words. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. You can never second-guess another person. they will never be satisfied. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there.which is exactly what I do not want to do. and let it be whatever it ends up being. Am I on track? Yes. the anger. For one thing. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. However. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. And just be pure in my own intention. Exactly. You are still playing the thirddensity game. you cannot know. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. If you have that need. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. and it started out. ecstasy. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room.
what a load off your energy. that you judge. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. you then know there's an issue. much love to each and every one of you. going to start seeing changes. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. Much. that makes a lot of sense. it's not a light switch going on and off. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. And so." In third density. The joy will start to grow. You are moving in that direction. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. you can truly experience unconditional love. Yes. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. much.to fourth-density thinking. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. If you judge them. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. yes. and they will always be an issue. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. .about the other person fulfilling your needs. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. you will soar. they will transform. Again. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. "If you can't feel the pain. Copyright © 1993. are so valuable because they make up the soup. that idea cannot exist. you can't feel the ecstasy. what a load off your mind that is. It will just automatically start unfolding. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. is difficult. You can enjoy yourself. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. Much love and goodnight. In fourth density. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. It's a gradual movement from third. that you're angry at. they will stay there on the counter. All Rights Reserved. Once that idea is relinquished. yes. The pain will start to subside. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love.
We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. These individuals we've called the Black League. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. If they were found. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. Thus you can see the dynamic. they would be annihilated. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. for instance. The Empire vs. neither person is going to win. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict.galactic heritage and sexuality. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. "Black" is not meant to be negative. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. Earth was a place where you could come. This is the energy. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. First. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. As you know. The idea . In a tug-of-war. Orion Civilization . Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. who were the freedom fighters.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. certain patterns of conflict. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. if the weight is balanced on both sides.they did not want to be found. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. So let us start with Orion. This is Germane. Many of you on Earth. incarnationally speaking. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. It took them a very. First of all. we will integrate them together.
During the period of time when one is seeking a mate.and you choose to be a surrogate. to release emotional energy.an instant recognition . The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. very intense in a certain way. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. at least for now. There is no "sneaking around. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. and even a bit scary for some of you. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. Again. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very.your civilization included. very close to them. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization.the relationship becomes as mates. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. The Orions mate for life. This is for a very specific reason.when two people come together who are to be mated. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. This is the opposite. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. because it's definitely a two-way street . But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. resonate with the most. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. because this is the energy that you on Earth. you ask. So this is the one we will talk about. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. but also through nonsexual intimacy. and there's no doubt of that recognition. There's a recognition . The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. to release the energy of conflict. but from their . So when the mate is finally found. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. When you're chosen as a surrogate . and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. to say the least. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. Surrogates So. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate.
they repress fantasy. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . societally speaking. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation.even in thought . But. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. yes. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. one is for exchange of intimacy.point of view extremely fulfilling. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. they moved very slowly. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. does not exist. During the times of the intense conflict. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. One thing we would like to say here. Now. many thousands of years long. So it would depend on which period of time. before the conflict was resolved. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. for instance.it's second nature. That is an undisciplined thought. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. so it's not a repression of anything. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. If one mate was killed. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. This is not anything that is imposed on them. yes. for fantasy simply does not exist. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. etc. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. Experience does change genetics. It's simply the way they are. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. But that was a difficult one. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. for instance. Because of this. However. that is the way the stress is released. The Vulcan is repressing. After awhile it's no longer control . The Orion civilization was many. there was a lot of genetic change. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. This is why it is of primary .in the direction of the mate. it is eventually genetically encoded. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. When one is under stress. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization.
which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. Because of this focus on positivity. one on one . but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. very committed to each other. but when they pledge their love to a person. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. there are three or more. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. marriage rates increase. So if any of you wish to examine that further. As with the Orions.what you would call marriage.importance that each Orion have a mate.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). you may do some research. There are also married groups.and that is how they choose to live their lives. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. they feel secure . That's their idea of monogamy. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. they're not pledging their love for the future.the Pleiadian civilization. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . to some degree. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. recognize emotionality in the moment . ancient Pleiadian past. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. they're monogamous in the moment. This is. because there are other ways of channeling energy.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. In the ancient. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. You don't have to be as disciplined. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. These marriage units are very loving. The Pleiadian Civilization ." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. So they were intent on repressing negativity. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. many of them do. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. They have ceremonies. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. During times of peace other things are looked at. very connected.
The definitions don't even say anything about sex. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. you get used to the partner." there's total understanding. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. On your planet. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. etc. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. very safe. When you are in a monogamous relationship. you don't have to face certain issues. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me.it does . my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. kind of like the . both of you have.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. it's very. This is changing now. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. However. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. a conscious choice. will show a lot of pain. will attempt to latch on to you. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth.move into something else. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. not having sexual relations with another person. the mate quite often will be very hurt. Not that it does not occur here . When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. certain fears. that would be expressed as true monogamy. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). however. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. and there is a disconnection. They recognize that it must be the time.
the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. Now. It will work for you. In your society now. It's important that we say this. deep level. For the Pleiadians. you don't know how to do this. any more evolved. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. As your consciousness raises. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. Dis-eases. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. They are different. when they are denying and repressing. as your consciousness is raising. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. will not have pain and fear. since we've already opened our mouth. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. we'll finish what we're saying. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. they've taught you a lot. none of these civilizations are better than yours. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. It's simply a matter of choice. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. But you are already beginning to create it. No one here is any better. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. Eventually. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing.when that is actually what they are excited by.Orions. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. But neither of their expressions are better. So back . There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. to find out what your own inner truth is. That's what's occurring now. It's very important that we say that. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy.
Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. with your question. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person .you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. and to release that. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. that does not constitute separation at all. more than any other disease you have on your planet. absolute reflection of themselves. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. Whenever there's resistance. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. yes. very deep levels . It was entirely a product of what they were repressing.then they did have some disease. when we feel that a relationship might be over.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. If you really feel that . Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. Whenever there's flow. It's a matter of resistance and flow. there's no flow . many dimensions to it. AIDS and cancer. When they are having a relationship.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy.your own and others'. think about taking action. Correct. So when they separate. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. thinking separation is a solution. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. If. for instance. or whether it's a true excitement. examine your motivation. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship.levels that you've not wished to look at before.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. and anger and pain lie. they're a mirror image of themselves. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. to understand where your fears. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . or clear the energy so you can stay. AIDS. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves.it's a partnership. However. Q: Separation is never a solution. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people.
you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. . Now. It is humanoid. The women have similar control over ovulation. That gives you a general idea of the body types. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. it's olive-colored . you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). Now. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. Unfortunately. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. You will seek out a half. then when you separate. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. Thank you. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. two legs. In terms of getting aroused sexually. A couple of other minor differences. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. body. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . relationships are frequently not completed. and complete control over ejaculation. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. head.way inside. same thing). It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. It's like some of your animals. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. Sexually.a brown base with a greenish tinge. anyway. Each person is not complete within themselves. it doesn't completely disappear. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. Their skin is very different."I'd like you to meet my `better half. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. That is why when they separate. It is your galactic family. two legs. That's a perfect form of birth control. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. Do you follow? Q: Yes. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. You'll only draw to you that which you are. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations.
In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. That is one way.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . It's not as if they would say. let's do tantra today.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. So it touched you . But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. like you saw in Cocoon. For instance. one for procreation and one for intimacy. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. That's one level of it. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. then tantra is better. Q: In the movie "Cocoon"." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. because it is a God union.deliberately nonphysical. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. Well. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. none of this is better than . in her light form and they had that powerful integration . It's part of who they are. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. are both highly ritualized. One. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. "Well. But this occurs all the time. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. so to speak. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. but it's not a conscious. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange.it touched a lot of people in your society . eye-toeye recognition. several different levels. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. when the woman came out of her shell. including chocolate ice cream. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. yes. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. You see the difference? And again.
The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. It was understood by us. There is much to share with you. we could control the future of our race. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . We have much to share with you. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . You have been talking about us. You are learning and growing. We needed. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. once we were underground. We had war. and that is not the case. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. that there was to be a species crisis. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We know you have many questions. we were born from crisis. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. At this point in time. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. since our environment was going to collapse. We knew this was to occur. Your forefathers. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum.Group Mind This is Harone. It becomes dimmer. balanced and nonviolent in every way. We were born from conflict. Due to severe radiation. Within our civilization we had much diversity. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. who we've been talking about. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. are also learning and growing. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. so we were called. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. then. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother.anything else. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. less complete. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. We gave much thought to this and chose. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought.
males from females. we work with these genetic structures. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. However. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness.our end of the agreement. you will become more unified. In our work with you. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. We are taking a species leap together. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. for from our point of view we . Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. we will become much more similar. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. Even though we do not understand why. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. You will find that as evolution occurs. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. We are infinitely entwined . we are told that their numbers are quite small. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY.we are not separate . They would have you think they are much more numerous. we will have physical facilitators. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. 2. Our organs began atrophying over many. some need activation on the physical level. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. That is what is occurring now. Simply put. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. Because we have lost this ability for so long. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. when we went underground and began cloning. We will become much more individualistic.though our realities may say we are. these latent genetic codes. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality.
which tends to cause a lot of trauma. to change you. your civilization. You are resisting . to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Unfortunately for our development. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. From our point of view. even more than upon your world today. So in terms of symbolic expression. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. this is an equal exchange. many of you have come to our reality.recognize you have given us permission. We recognize there may be questions from you. you learn what you desire. recognize we have no intent. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. Our interactions with you represent evolution. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. you feel the tide of evolution. We learn what we desire. engage those fears and move through them. your interactions with us will change dramatically. We're afraid of being vulnerable. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. as we have stated. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. what was happening in your culture. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. When we interact with you. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. Our interactions with you push buttons.
Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. saying you have not created this somehow. Very often some of us will have protection. that you are not part of species transformation. Well. eggs. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act.not in the negative sense of weakness . and in that case. not of what we intend to do . those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. It is not just cold research. Vulnerable . secretions from prostate. and until that fear is confronted and released. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. You let your guard down. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. when you are vulnerable. It is a matter of shifting perspective.that is not what is meant . If you surrender. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. but we do pay attention to them. energy shielding. as you know the term. When you are lying on an examination table. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. a mind link.again we speak of the dynamic. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. or disempowered vulnerability.sperm. skin samples and also an understanding. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . it really depends on which group. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. So biologically speaking. you are open to All That Is. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. Some are interested in reproductive research. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. We may not know how to understand your emotions. That is. that's what I was getting at. Our way . into different groups that have different purposes. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation.evolution because of your fear. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. of what procreation means to the person. There is no arousal. as you would say. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. We are divided. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. shall we say. to the One.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. you will feel the pressure of evolution. not as if we were invading . because the emotions are very intense for us.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. It penetrates all of them. When we interact with you in an abduction situation .
And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. You've done your research well. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. we can enter your reality in a light state. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. That is also something of primary interest to us. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. Some of you will sense our energy. which is very uncomfortable. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. . We are not capable of a smile as an individual. we must densify ourselves. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. We interact with you on every level we can. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. Now that may be inaccurate . do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. certainly. We must deal with data. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed.perhaps many of you would think it is . it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. Our love to you and goodnight. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart.
All Rights Reserved. Also. We would recommend distilled or purified. Germane through Lyssa Royal. Not just the ingesting of it.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. but you will know what is right for you. your showers. allow yourself to feel fluid. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. Now. That will be fruits and vegetables. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. Also. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. the voltage is going to be upped. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. plan accordingly. imagine yourself as being a river. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. a current. whatever your choice is. This is rather abstract. Let us first address the physical level. so the electrical current is always running through your body. You are 90 some-odd percent water. So. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. the presence of water. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. The more .
You may also sit by a lake. If you use a computer a lot. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. Along with water comes detoxification. There is some jewelry. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. it's all connected. for instance. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. The radiation is not going to damage you. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. put your feet in the water. on the market there are radiation screens. LCD screen. that incorporates water. You can get one of those fishtanks. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. That's an optimum situation. your planet also recognizes its need for water. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. You are symbiotic.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. So. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. and you can feel the environment of that water. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). can significantly slow . So. When you bathe or shower. Actually. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. Now. that's perfectly fine. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. it's up to you. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. But in the long run. we guarantee you. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. If you can't do that. if you're living under major power lines. of course. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. you see these on your laptops. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. That's one idea. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. or fill your bathtub. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. If you want to put crystals in your bath. If you feel attracted to that. wear some of it. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. It will be a conversation piece as well. if it does any at all. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. or very specific types of strict diets. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. The water will then be in your auric field. again. there are several options available to you. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. very helpful for you. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). (No need to get neurotic about this. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. You may even want to get some fish. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. is to keep water close to you if you can.
If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said.your own healing abilities. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. that is for others to answer. Many say to throw your TVs. So. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. Now. because it makes you think. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. where you are the only creator of your reality. It's got to be one or the other. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. information to be added to your storehouse. From our point of view. . If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. Now. and no more sinister plots. there will be no more victims. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. information to make you think. And so this is about processing belief systems. when this type of fearful information is given. and that's very important to stress. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. these are guidelines. no computer creates that. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. and it's certainly not going to do anything. No television. As soon as that is recognized and owned. then absolutely anything can hurt you. computers and microwave ovens away. This is about learning sovereignty. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. It is not our understanding that you will ever. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. Category: Healing.
The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. whether they know it or not. the Western Judeo-Christian. is the opportunity for ego-loss. Yet. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. People use each other for lust.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. It inundates your entire being.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. but concurrent with our everyday existence. through no other human activity.beyond. It delivers you . No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. and a gift of Enlightenment. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. and many have yet to answer it. thought. pleasure. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love.Tantra For a thousand years.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. and it's good for your health.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. What begins as duality and polarization within time. save dying. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions.The Path With No Obstacles . A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . they enslave us and we enslave others. On the direct path of conscious awareness . otherwise rarely known in human existence. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. . climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. People get carried away. The most extreme instance is called rape.body and soul . the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. Lust is only a call to love. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. (Ultimately. and our most basic instincts. the body. but the game is over. was to keep them well in check. ironically. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. When we can't handle our attachments. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy.
and all too often . We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty.we find ourselves indulging in what is.D. state of mind. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. breathing exercises. .despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" .combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. innate sexuality. when . as in indigenous tribal customs. or fame). Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. The great enigma is. Ph. invocations.Miranda Shaw. power. or it is devil-worship. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. music. after all. money. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. and the total fulfillment of your partner. By that logic. the thrill. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism ." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. Sufi and tantric couples practices. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. and call this "correct. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. mystical rituals. incense.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking.when people use each other uncaringly . But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. not deny it. candlelight. and get it over with as quickly as possible. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). rituals. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. . ceremonial objects. and conditioning. depending upon one's intent. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. Meditation. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. They fear one and fake the other. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness.
engaging all your faculties. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. with reverence. from passion to compassion. Decelerate until time stands still. Meditate. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Die as a personality. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. letting hers become yours. all consuming. Surrender continuously. You notice everything. Listen for Inner Guidance. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Wait for the perfect moment. all fulfilling. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. Reside always at the beginning. Gaze into each other's eyes. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. confused. Give only pleasure and love.. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Transcendent love is a religious experience. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Breathe together. Foreplay is truly playful. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Opening all your centers. die into love. Abandon all gain and control. Purify yourself in body and mind. Touch only in awe. The senses are magnified a thousand times. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. Move in slow motion. Everything matters. and you two become One. unconditionally. Give voice to your feelings. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. Every touch is The First. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. . Make it Holy. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. breathtakingly tender. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. whom you worship in awe. Fall in love. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. stay in love. weeks. Begin motionless and in silence. animal to divine. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. Giving and taking merge. Transpose taking and giving. Worship your lover. all purifying. to the sacred fire within. long and deep. Make love with your whole being. and time stands still. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. ours. Trust your body's deepest impulses. the passion intense and profound.
Ph.D.From "Enlightenment in Our Time. Brown. ." by Lonny J.