Germane: Greetings to everyone. This is Germane. We'd like to thank you all for coming this night.

The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.

3D Relationships
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having

to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.

4D Relationships
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking

about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.

Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.

Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?

Change does not mean they will end. Some people are going with the flow. then your relationships are going to start to change. let some things out. Sex. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. they believe. That was a tool in 3D. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. In 4D. If you create resistance. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. they are weak and open to attack. They have nothing to do with the problem. first level. and that is all change means. Breaking. confusion. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. it is going to be very different. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. It is a symptom. no matter what choice happens. is inside of you. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. There is no separation. they will blame sex. Separation. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. . is to be avoided in their belief. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. these things started in the 1960s of your time. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. and that is allowed. That. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. and never has been. If you are resisting change. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. It is going to challenge you. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. Divorce is a 3D solution. If they are vulnerable. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. If you are willing to move with it. because you can never be separate. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. It is not the issue. Change means change. Energetically. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. Instead. No one seems to really get the point. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. you will create more discomfort and pain. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. Some people are denying them. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. So. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power.For one thing. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. you are going to start feeling pain. and challenge you. You allow the other person to move in that direction. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. at all costs. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. Always. It may first manifest outside of you. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. but you haven't known what was happening. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. they think all it has to do with is sex. It is not. Some people are polarizing. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others.

. Therefore. You only make the choices for you and no one else. It is different from what you see here. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. If you choose to be non-monogamous. she has the child because she wants the child. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that." No. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. They have nothing to do with the other person. In 4D you are acting in the moment. It is trust. So. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. The choices are entirely for you. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. the idea of commitment does not exist. with trust instead of control. So you are trying to act on your excitement. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. In 4D type relationships. No. If you choose monogamy. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. You say to the person. although your society will change. It placates you into thinking you are secure. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. You would just trust. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. You do not have to plan for the future. not a compulsion). this is reflected in their society's philosophy. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. allowance instead of manipulation. If the woman is Pleiadian. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. we apologize. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. They are all part of the same family anyway. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. Because she wants the child. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. then that choice is for you. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. The choices are all for you. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. Your mate can do whatever they want. In a 4D type relationship. That is the difference. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. If we have explained it incorrectly. That is what we meant by conscious choice. Meaning absolute trust. whatever) relationship. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D.

. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. It looks nice. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. Sex is just one of those lids. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. If you are in the moment. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. For others. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. at all costs. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. You must. It really depends on the individual. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. For some people it is sex. there is that child. I've finally been making choices for myself. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. I made a mistake in having this child. This is a very good question. In 4D. Okay. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. we become dependent on the other person. and still push people's buttons. In the moment. and so when that recognition is there. Very simple. Yes. If you are totally 100% in the present. You say. But I still want these people as friends. but any reality that you create. in the moment. you cannot put that outside of yourself. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. and people have been getting upset. I would rather not cause problems for them. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. so all the issue come crawling out. No effort. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you." Never. In the moment. each day. Then in 4D." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. You can say nice things all the time. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. you are in the past or the future. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. you can love it. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. Therefore. is all dependency gone? Yes. Not just a child. That is what I've been finding out. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. For others it is money. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. sex is a really good trigger. It is an equation that doesn't work.Exactly. totally and absolutely. I don't want to hurt other people. "Oh. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. "Oh. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. you got a haircut. then after the baby is born. There will never be a time where you will say.

Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. Good term. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. "I want to go hot air ballooning. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. It is then that each person will be challenged. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. That is then the way you will see the universe. In . You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. It prolongs the pain. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. and emotions. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. At the same time. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. But in reality. They all come from you. Well. He is protecting himself. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. That is empowerment. that is deliberately hurting her. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. You try to protect other people. They like the concepts. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. There cannot ever be victims. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. You can never hurt another person. That is one of my button-pushers here." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. then you are manipulating people around you. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. The outcome is the same. If she chooses to be hurt. then you polarize between victims and hurters. I don't see there is an exception to that. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. disapproval or invalidation. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. in the husband's excitement he says. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. This is what we mean by enmeshment. But there are no victims. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. We might borrow that one. In your innocence and excitement. it is her choice. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. If. fears.

But in one way. to hell with what the others think. You are lying to the other person. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. Then they only know you through your lies. Let yourself think it first. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. You cannot withhold any portion of you. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. it submerges itself. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). Those judgments eat you up. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. in one way. balance. Get comfortable with who you are. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. You are all divine portions of the creator. They are the ones generating their reality.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. The more you stuff it. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. When you hold back that which you are. Say it into a tape recorder. it is also insulting. All That Is is neutral. Literally. It throws you into disharmony. They cannot ever love you for who you are. You can tell them that. Externalize them. Let it be okay to start thinking them. we've always screwed up the communication. This is a no win situation. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. They do not know who you are. If they don't agree with you. not necessarily the things they fear. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. heart disease. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. Cancer. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. If you do not express who you are 100%. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. It buries itself into your cells. They cannot be victim of hurt. You are lying to yourself. If you look at a Pleiadian. reflecting that which you feel within. Write them down. it is going to be devastating to you. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. You stuff it. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. You protect them from the things that you fear. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. and then actually on the physical level. because they don't know who you are. Write it down. It is. the more diseased you get. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. first think what it is you want to say. You won't know what the thoughts are. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. It is stasis. that is their choice. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. you are lying. Be truthful. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. If you do not express who you are.

they are not going to feel attacked. so it's fine. If that expression is an attack. In the expression. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. Other times you cannot. Sometimes you can see that. There are no wrong things. The more you practice. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. There are not mistakes in creation. If she has perceived that she is clean on it." and you express your thought. whether she thinks it's clean or not. then express it. We apologize if the language was misleading. There is only neutral expression. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. All right. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it." if you feel hurt. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. If they have no issue about being attacked. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation.. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. let us clarify. If your wife walks up to you and says. and that's cool. and I don't agree with that. That is not what was implied. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. they will feel attacked. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. "It is clean as a whistle. That wasn't my question. It cannot be any other way. Yes. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. . If you think it's clean. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. and if it is indeed an attack. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. Again. You will learn how to tell the difference. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. I understand that. the more you will be able to tell. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. So it's essential for her to express that. Before you express something. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. In fact. Get out that pent-up energy. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. If you do (to get them to do something. times when you say to yourself. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. But by all means at least express it to yourself. That is not a clean idea. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. whether it is attacking or not attacking. Okay.. In the addictive state. because that in itself is part of the growth process. and the synchronicity of All That Is. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. Know who you are. There are times when you cannot see it. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. for instance). She can tell me I'm a jerk. "You are a jerk. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity.

You may walk up to your husband one day. It is not possible. then it's clean. third-density relationships often express victimhood.to fourth-density relationships model. really believe that. so don't tell me about it if you do that . This in and of itself can be a great freedom. You cannot hurt another person. ever. it's not true excitement. because it's the way to take your power back. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. "If you have dinner with another woman.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. but we didn't make it a major point. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. every instance must support ultimately that belief. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. then you will have matched your vibrations. They can choose to feel hurt. It will lock your relationship into third density. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). If you really believe that Creation is Love. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. You can never hurt another person. that hurts me. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). But you can't know. But if you do. then every action. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. Well. "You look like a pig today. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. Victimhood would come into it. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. also. if you really. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. underneath everything else. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. that's not going to hurt him in the least. it's not clean. That is the bottomline intention of creation. and you may say. If you believe that actions can actually hurt." And if he feels really good about himself. and it will not hurt him. Examine your beliefs.

I won't feel any pain. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. secrecy. no. unconditional love. It's all equal anyway. honesty. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. You're holding onto something from third density.." That's okay to ask for that. and you're feeling the pain. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. Exactly. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. you will not feel pain. then you're right. It's one package or another package. Absolutely. to remind you that you can still feel. but recognize that's what you're choosing. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. However. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. reading this. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. there's nothing wrong with it. Right? Yes! So it's fine. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. So whenever I feel pain. but that's secrecy and it's third density. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. which an indicator that you are making the change. Yes. Many people are using it that way. it's fine. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. If you choose third density. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it.. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. and that's quite all right. It's a significator. . so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. allowance. then actually. those in the room. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. because the cruise control does not come with third density. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. exactly.

It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. powerful changes within your life.Again. It's simply different. literally that means two . So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. After that. Greetings. Sasha: All right. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. let me repeat myself. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. it's an expression of who we are. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. with respect to your channel. some of the understandings. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. of course. overall. However. not necessarily in every single relationship. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. exactly. Now. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. They do not have to bring pain. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. we will have a short break. but you don't have to manifest pain. Now. you are going to see tremendous. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. And you will begin to see. Now. Now. Yes. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. Sasha. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. Do not be surprised. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. absolutely 100% guaranteed. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. necessity meaning single parents. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. Greeting to all of you. it really does not. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. Third density is the density of polarity. this is Sasha.

I was also in a mated group. as intense. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. So when I spend time with my mate. Now. so if I don't have this. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. are present. Period.ideas are present. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). you must just go for it. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. Well. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. etc. most definitely. these things are going to begin coming up. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. As you start choosing how you want to live. . When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. Absolutely cannot happen. It is not time. It cannot happen. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. honesty. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. and then you bring in another mate. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. living in the moment. so because of the aloneness. I am deprived. That is a third-density idea. back and forth." Do you follow? Now. as Germane was not saying. if you in third-density. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. When you love yourself unconditionally. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. that you must at all cost heal this. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. back and forth. Now. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. and in this mated group. The dynamics will have to change. Make your choices. fourth. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. there will be no problem here. back and forth. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. we're not saying. it takes away the love they can have for you. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. "This is better than this. It can. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. back and forth. So therefore. the ideas of unconditional love and trust.. again. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. insert a third variable. And that is something that we would like to address. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. because using the paddle idea. But recognize where the time element comes into it. As you move into fourth-density type relationships.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. Do you all follow? Thoughts. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. but it might not necessarily work for you. back and forth. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. I get caught in the time factor. I'm not alone.

Question. at least right now. Sasha. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. And when you see your mate. Or comment. Did you want more on that? Well. invited guests you may call it. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. if you will. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. Sasha.Exactly. There were basically three different phases of environments. Do what you can. when you lived with a group. and the same thing with the Orions. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. through who you have been as a species. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. It's just a question of when. We do not perceive. You are it. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. no. One were rooms of privacy. Both are equal. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. it is still going to happen. Yes. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. that only we entered. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. Now you on your planet. it's exciting in the moment. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. The same thing with the Essassani. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. And so when that recognition is there. as Germane was saying. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. Either way. And again in fourth density. when your mate is not there. you are excited in the moment with yourself. which is open to all. Both companies are appreciated. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. I was just curious about that because. It will take longer if they resist it. . And then the third environment is the entire community environment. The shift is going to happen. So for instance. The critical mass is going to happen. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull.

Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. that's when I was in the group. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. Just with a different twist. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. to give you a very dramatic example. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. and therefore for instance. or not even that different. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again.. yes. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. Yes. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. If that's true. not out of a sense of prejudice. You follow? Yes. We are going through relationship transformation. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. So it's that issue. there were no tears or anger. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. there was no resistance.. It's a little bit different. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. let us say. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. there was no fighting. . We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. One last question along these lines. Sasha. You know those Zetas. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. and some chose to go into a more quiet time.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. very rough. it was a natural movement from one state to another. having to deal with the need to control.

It cannot be used for control or manipulation.. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. That was kind of a landmark. any man that I've been around. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. can it? Exactly. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. I will be attracted to a certain body type. And if you were to live in the moment. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for.. Again. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. that becomes irrelevant. Again. That was not so much of a challenge. there is so much emphasis on body types. In third density. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. etc.. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. "Hmm. Not only that. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. the present holds your answers. We're not talking about the sex act. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. a different developmental structure. They are very secure in their identity in the present. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. Now. Right now. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. sexuality is not sex. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani.." I mean. no child feels unwanted. going to bed with Sasha. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. because literally the past does not hold your answers. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. Now. someone else will be attracted to this body type. It is of a creative vibration. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. Maybe. A lot of this searching goes on. There is simply one expression. etc. and if that is the case. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. sex does not become a big deal. but he taught us a thing or two. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. On our planet and in third density. it can't be used against you. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us.

" Oh. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. you feel vibrant. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. they're too tall. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. Well. Now. Exactly. If you all felt that way. conditions.No. When you move into fourth density. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. if you're all gorgeous. you would all be "gorgeous" also. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. I know. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. And that is the cycle. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. When you do not need something from another individual. Most definitely. Most definitely. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. They are natural diversifying characteristics. . that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. That is very accurate. Yes. they're too ugly. there is no attention on body type. but the preferences are so unimportant. we may have preferences. Exactly. you feel healthy. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. If you are so together and whole. But it is not a need in any way. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. those symbols will change because you will change. you would have all that male and female inside your body. Separation. Conditional love. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. you feel beautiful. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. that is a third-density idea. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. no one else will ever fulfill their needs.

they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. To use an analogy. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. Fourth density is integration. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. then it is out of need. In fact. Can be. Do you follow? There is a fine line. Integration is the entire soup itself. and it will take a lot more energy. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. we would say. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. Third density is separation. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. There is a difference. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. Living the relationship. Recognize the need.It's almost like a paradox here. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. If you do not want to look at your needs. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. exactly. yes. Sasha. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. Work with it. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. The recipe needs those things. you will not know the recipe. you will not know how to cook the soup. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. The recipe requires carrots and celery. fun and excitement instead of need. Now.

we're talking in ways that are different than you. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. Exactly. As long as the relationship takes precedence. We do not have that particular expression. recognize what you get with that choice. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. Now again. Sasha. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. Do you want to comment on that? Well. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. Go to your own garden. So neither one is wrong nor right. Nothing exists without a purpose. Exactly. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. personal growth will always have to suffer. You're not attacking someone. There are times when we recognize. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. . They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. you are choosing to integrate yourself. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. as dysfunctional as they may be. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. however. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. If you choose personal growth over relationships. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. and your needs. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves.carrots. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. But if you choose personal growth. I become angry.

If they feel deprived. "No. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. Well. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. That is all you are responsible for. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. it's their choice. I appreciate that. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. You cannot deprive another person. And like we say with the soup. I follow. We're not understanding the exact question. getting the package deal there. That doesn't matter. that need is okay. I have one question. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. I refuse to do that. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. and I can tune into it. Back in this needs issue. And even if I'm able to say. We are sorry. if that's the case. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. But you can play out that game. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. pulling yourself back into third density. and I feel it's a very good answer. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. from my thirddensity perspective. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. . I guess. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. Well. But it came into my life suddenly. but there is. Ahhh." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person.

the anger. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. they will never be satisfied. very low¾hidden anger. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. Exactly. you're not in fourth density. and let it be whatever it ends up being. "I don't expect anything from it. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. Am I on track? Yes. ecstasy. caring and sharing. whether covert or overt. In other words. For one thing. You can never second-guess another person. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. the level of anger would be very. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. I remember saying. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. play. and then they will be angry." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. And just be pure in my own intention.which is exactly what I do not want to do. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. Seventy-five percent. That is so correct. However. They will not verbalize them. You are still playing the thirddensity game. hostility. Period. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. and it started out. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. Obviously that is a trap. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. Now. If you have that need. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. starts setting in. nearly nonexistent. you will get caught because it is a game. you cannot know. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. Exactly. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. So when you have no expectations . and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time.

and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. that you judge. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. that idea cannot exist. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. that makes a lot of sense. yes. and they will always be an issue. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. All Rights Reserved. they will stay there on the counter. Much love and goodnight. Again. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. you can't feel the ecstasy. Yes. It's a gradual movement from third.to fourth-density thinking. "If you can't feel the pain. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. You can enjoy yourself. The joy will start to grow. Much. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. they will transform. you can truly experience unconditional love. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. much. And so. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. going to start seeing changes. it's not a light switch going on and off. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. If you judge them. You are moving in that direction. you will soar. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. that you're angry at. Copyright © 1993. are so valuable because they make up the soup.about the other person fulfilling your needs. The pain will start to subside. what a load off your energy." In third density. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. you then know there's an issue. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. yes. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. . I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. is difficult. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. In fourth density. what a load off your mind that is. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. much love to each and every one of you. It will just automatically start unfolding. Once that idea is relinquished.

incarnationally speaking. First of all. In a tug-of-war. who were the freedom fighters. The Empire vs. Earth was a place where you could come. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. "Black" is not meant to be negative. Orion Civilization . What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . they would be annihilated. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. This is Germane. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization.they did not want to be found. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals.that is how you see it from your Earth plane.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. It took them a very. for instance. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. As you know. The idea . we will integrate them together. if the weight is balanced on both sides. These individuals we've called the Black League. First. If they were found. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. This is the energy. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity.galactic heritage and sexuality. Thus you can see the dynamic. certain patterns of conflict. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. So let us start with Orion. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. neither person is going to win. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. Many of you on Earth.

So this is the one we will talk about. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. This is the opposite. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. There's a recognition .of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. at least for now. very close to them. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. This is for a very specific reason. resonate with the most. but from their . the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. but also through nonsexual intimacy. The Orions mate for life. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. When you're chosen as a surrogate . There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. very intense in a certain way. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. The Orions have what we could call monogamy.an instant recognition . Again. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . So when the mate is finally found. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate.your civilization included. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). There is no "sneaking around. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality.when two people come together who are to be mated. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability.the relationship becomes as mates. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. you ask. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. and there's no doubt of that recognition. because this is the energy that you on Earth. and even a bit scary for some of you." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. because it's definitely a two-way street . Surrogates So. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. to release the energy of conflict.and you choose to be a surrogate. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. to release emotional energy. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. to say the least.

even in thought . so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. there was a lot of genetic change. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. it is eventually genetically encoded. etc. yes. The Vulcan is repressing. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. The Orion civilization was many. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. societally speaking. one is for exchange of intimacy. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. for fantasy simply does not exist. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. so it's not a repression of anything. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. But that was a difficult one. Now. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. This is why it is of primary . they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. So it would depend on which period of time. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. many thousands of years long. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. But. However. for instance. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. If one mate was killed.point of view extremely fulfilling. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. Experience does change genetics. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. One thing we would like to say here. After awhile it's no longer control . they moved very slowly. yes. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. they repress fantasy. That is an undisciplined thought. before the conflict was resolved. When one is under stress.it's second nature. Because of this. that is the way the stress is released. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. During the times of the intense conflict. for instance. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. It's simply the way they are.in the direction of the mate. This is not anything that is imposed on them. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. does not exist.

That's their idea of monogamy. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. So if any of you wish to examine that further. they feel secure . This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. You don't have to be as disciplined. As with the Orions. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. recognize emotionality in the moment .but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. So they were intent on repressing negativity. you may do some research.and that is how they choose to live their lives.importance that each Orion have a mate.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. In the ancient. but when they pledge their love to a person. Because of this focus on positivity. because there are other ways of channeling energy. they're monogamous in the moment. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. The Pleiadian Civilization . There are also married groups. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). They have ceremonies. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. one on one . because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. to some degree. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. ancient Pleiadian past. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. During times of peace other things are looked at.what you would call marriage. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. they're not pledging their love for the future. very committed to each other. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. very connected. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. This is. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. many of them do. there are three or more. marriage rates increase. These marriage units are very loving. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies.the Pleiadian civilization.

" there's total understanding. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. They recognize that it must be the time. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. This is changing now. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. When you are in a monogamous relationship. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. not having sexual relations with another person. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. both of you have. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). certain fears. it's very. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. etc. that would be expressed as true monogamy. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. you don't have to face certain issues. kind of like the . and there is a disconnection. Not that it does not occur here . It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. On your planet. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. the mate quite often will be very hurt. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening.move into something else. very safe. will show a lot of pain.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. However.it does .fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . however. you get used to the partner. will attempt to latch on to you. a conscious choice. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy.

For the Pleiadians.Orions. As your consciousness raises. It's simply a matter of choice.when that is actually what they are excited by. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. But you are already beginning to create it. as your consciousness is raising. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. That's what's occurring now. Dis-eases. No one here is any better. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. to find out what your own inner truth is. you don't know how to do this. we'll finish what we're saying. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. It's important that we say this. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. It will work for you. Eventually. since we've already opened our mouth. In your society now. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. It's very important that we say that. any more evolved. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. deep level. But neither of their expressions are better. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. So back . they've taught you a lot. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. They are different. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. Now. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. none of these civilizations are better than yours. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. when they are denying and repressing. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. will not have pain and fear. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but.

It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. Whenever there's flow. with your question.levels that you've not wished to look at before. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. yes. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. they're a mirror image of themselves. examine your motivation. When they are having a relationship.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. AIDS and cancer.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. AIDS. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . think about taking action. If. to understand where your fears.it's a partnership. Whenever there's resistance. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. that does not constitute separation at all. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. there's no flow .how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at.your own and others'. and anger and pain lie. when we feel that a relationship might be over. However. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. for instance. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. So when they separate. thinking separation is a solution. Correct. very deep levels . and to release that. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . or clear the energy so you can stay. or whether it's a true excitement. more than any other disease you have on your planet. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . Q: Separation is never a solution. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total.then they did have some disease. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. many dimensions to it. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. It's a matter of resistance and flow. If you really feel that . absolute reflection of themselves. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so .

If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. You'll only draw to you that which you are. That's a perfect form of birth control. relationships are frequently not completed. The women have similar control over ovulation. then when you separate. Sexually. Each person is not complete within themselves. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you.way inside.a brown base with a greenish tinge. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. body. In terms of getting aroused sexually. head. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. It is your galactic family. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. Do you follow? Q: Yes. it doesn't completely disappear. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. A couple of other minor differences. it's olive-colored . You will seek out a half. two legs. . and complete control over ejaculation.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. Thank you. It's like some of your animals. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. two legs. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . Unfortunately. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. anyway. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. Now. Now."I'd like you to meet my `better half. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. It is humanoid. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. That is why when they separate. same thing). Their skin is very different. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. That gives you a general idea of the body types. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole.

Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. one for procreation and one for intimacy. then tantra is better. because it is a God union. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. including chocolate ice cream. You see the difference? And again. It's part of who they are. none of this is better than .Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. But this occurs all the time. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. so to speak. like you saw in Cocoon. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. "Well. Well. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. That is one way. let's do tantra today. but it's not a conscious.it touched a lot of people in your society .deliberately nonphysical. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. So it touched you . One. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . when the woman came out of her shell. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. yes. For instance. several different levels.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. That's one level of it. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. It's not as if they would say. are both highly ritualized. eye-toeye recognition. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level.

we also knew that we were becoming sterile. We had war. It was understood by us. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. Within our civilization we had much diversity. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. At this point in time. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. and that is not the case. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. once we were underground. that there was to be a species crisis. We have much to share with you. You have been talking about us. We knew this was to occur. You are learning and growing. less complete. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. balanced and nonviolent in every way. we could control the future of our race. we were born from crisis. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. Due to severe radiation.Group Mind This is Harone. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. We were born from conflict. are also learning and growing. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. since our environment was going to collapse. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. so we were called. We know you have many questions. It becomes dimmer. who we've been talking about. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization .anything else. We needed. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. We gave much thought to this and chose. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. Your forefathers. There is much to share with you. as we saw the birth rate decrease. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . then.

We are infinitely entwined . when we interact with you either physically or etherically. we will become much more similar. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. Even though we do not understand why. Because we have lost this ability for so long. They would have you think they are much more numerous. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. you will become more unified. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness.though our realities may say we are. You will find that as evolution occurs. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. Simply put. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. We will become much more individualistic. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart .our end of the agreement. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. these latent genetic codes. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. we work with these genetic structures. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. Our organs began atrophying over many.we are not separate . for from our point of view we . We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY.males from females. However. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. 2. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. some need activation on the physical level. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. we are told that their numbers are quite small. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. In our work with you. We are taking a species leap together. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. when we went underground and began cloning. we will have physical facilitators. That is what is occurring now. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates.

It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. When we interact with you. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. this is an equal exchange. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. Unfortunately for our development. Our interactions with you represent evolution. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. We recognize there may be questions from you. as we have stated. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation.recognize you have given us permission. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. So in terms of symbolic expression. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. to change you. We learn what we desire. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. From our point of view. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. even more than upon your world today. many of you have come to our reality. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. recognize we have no intent. you feel the tide of evolution. your civilization. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. We're afraid of being vulnerable. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. your interactions with us will change dramatically. You are resisting . what was happening in your culture. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. engage those fears and move through them. Our interactions with you push buttons. you learn what you desire.

You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. as you know the term. It is a matter of shifting perspective. not as if we were invading . There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act.that is not what is meant . how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. because the emotions are very intense for us. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. Our way . it really depends on which group. It is not just cold research. energy shielding. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. If you surrender. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. It penetrates all of them. shall we say.sperm. So biologically speaking. or disempowered vulnerability. as you would say. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. When you are lying on an examination table. You let your guard down. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. not of what we intend to do . We may not know how to understand your emotions. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. secretions from prostate. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. saying you have not created this somehow. Very often some of us will have protection.evolution because of your fear. skin samples and also an understanding. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. into different groups that have different purposes.again we speak of the dynamic. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. Well. that's what I was getting at. a mind link. but we do pay attention to them. you will feel the pressure of evolution. eggs. That is. We are divided. Some are interested in reproductive research. you are open to All That Is. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. to the One. Vulnerable . and until that fear is confronted and released. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender.not in the negative sense of weakness . when you are vulnerable. and in that case. of what procreation means to the person. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . that you are not part of species transformation. There is no arousal.

Some of you will sense our energy. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies.perhaps many of you would think it is . and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. That is also something of primary interest to us. which is very uncomfortable. We must deal with data. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. certainly. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. Now that may be inaccurate . Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. we can enter your reality in a light state. You've done your research well. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. we must densify ourselves. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. . it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. We interact with you on every level we can. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. Our love to you and goodnight. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution.

preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. so the electrical current is always running through your body. All Rights Reserved. but you will know what is right for you. So. a current. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. We would recommend distilled or purified. Not just the ingesting of it. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. Let us first address the physical level. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. plan accordingly. whatever your choice is. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. your showers. Germane through Lyssa Royal. That will be fruits and vegetables. Also. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. Now. This is rather abstract. The more . The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. the presence of water. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. the voltage is going to be upped. allow yourself to feel fluid. You are 90 some-odd percent water. Also. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. imagine yourself as being a river. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has.

Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. You are symbiotic. on the market there are radiation screens. That's one idea. of course. your planet also recognizes its need for water. if you're living under major power lines. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. we guarantee you. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). But in the long run. There is some jewelry. very helpful for you. You may also sit by a lake. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. You may even want to get some fish. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. and you can feel the environment of that water. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. Now. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). that's perfectly fine. Actually. If you want to put crystals in your bath. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. You can get one of those fishtanks. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. is to keep water close to you if you can. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. there are several options available to you. if it does any at all. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. Along with water comes detoxification. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. The water will then be in your auric field. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. So. you see these on your laptops. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. If you use a computer a lot. can significantly slow . Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. If you feel attracted to that. wear some of it. or very specific types of strict diets.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. put your feet in the water. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. It will be a conversation piece as well. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. LCD screen. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. it's up to you. that incorporates water. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. The radiation is not going to damage you. again. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. When you bathe or shower. (No need to get neurotic about this. That's an optimum situation. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. or fill your bathtub. If you can't do that. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. for instance. So. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. it's all connected. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave.

your own healing abilities. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. It is not our understanding that you will ever. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. and it's certainly not going to do anything. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. and that's very important to stress. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. when this type of fearful information is given. Many say to throw your TVs. that is for others to answer. where you are the only creator of your reality. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. This is about learning sovereignty. From our point of view. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. Now. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. there will be no more victims. Now. . It's got to be one or the other. information to make you think. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. So. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. then absolutely anything can hurt you. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. And so this is about processing belief systems. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. Category: Healing. As soon as that is recognized and owned. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. No television. no computer creates that. and no more sinister plots. these are guidelines. information to be added to your storehouse. because it makes you think. computers and microwave ovens away.

the body. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. but the game is over. whether they know it or not. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. Lust is only a call to love. It delivers you .beyond.body and soul . was to keep them well in check. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization.The Path With No Obstacles . they enslave us and we enslave others. Yet. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. ironically.Tantra For a thousand years. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. thought. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. the Western Judeo-Christian. It inundates your entire being. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then .By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. otherwise rarely known in human existence. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. On the direct path of conscious awareness . but concurrent with our everyday existence. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. The most extreme instance is called rape. People use each other for lust. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. is the opportunity for ego-loss. and our most basic instincts. and many have yet to answer it. through no other human activity. save dying. People get carried away. . When we can't handle our attachments. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. pleasure. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. and it's good for your health. and a gift of Enlightenment. What begins as duality and polarization within time. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. (Ultimately.

. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. not deny it. breathing exercises. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. Sufi and tantric couples practices. and conditioning. music. invocations. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . Meditation.we find ourselves indulging in what is. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. and the total fulfillment of your partner. and call this "correct. money. and all too often ." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. innate sexuality.D. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . incense. state of mind. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. as in indigenous tribal customs. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. Ph. the thrill. rituals. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. candlelight. and get it over with as quickly as possible. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. when . . one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. mystical rituals. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. depending upon one's intent. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. They fear one and fake the other. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment.when people use each other uncaringly . But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. or fame). while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. The great enigma is. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become.Miranda Shaw. power. after all. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. ceremonial objects. or it is devil-worship. By that logic. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality.

with reverence. and time stands still. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Giving and taking merge. Trust your body's deepest impulses. die into love. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. stay in love. confused. engaging all your faculties. to the sacred fire within. and you two become One. long and deep. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. Surrender continuously. Begin motionless and in silence. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. animal to divine. The senses are magnified a thousand times. letting hers become yours. Touch only in awe. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Meditate. . Die as a personality. Worship your lover. whom you worship in awe. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. weeks. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Decelerate until time stands still. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. all fulfilling. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. from passion to compassion.. unconditionally. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. Every touch is The First. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Everything matters. Transpose taking and giving. Move in slow motion. Fall in love. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. Make it Holy. Purify yourself in body and mind. the passion intense and profound. all consuming. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Wait for the perfect moment. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Opening all your centers. Listen for Inner Guidance. Give only pleasure and love. Make love with your whole being. all purifying. Gaze into each other's eyes. Abandon all gain and control. Foreplay is truly playful. You notice everything. ours. Breathe together. Give voice to your feelings. breathtakingly tender. Reside always at the beginning. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency.

" by Lonny J.D.From "Enlightenment in Our Time. Ph. Brown. .

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