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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
no matter what choice happens. they believe. because you can never be separate. They have nothing to do with the problem. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. You allow the other person to move in that direction. That was a tool in 3D. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. Separation. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. Breaking. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. If you create resistance. they are weak and open to attack. Some people are polarizing. Sex. It is going to challenge you. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. confusion. . It is a symptom. Instead. It is not. No one seems to really get the point. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. let some things out. is to be avoided in their belief. these things started in the 1960s of your time. Change does not mean they will end. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. and never has been. you are going to start feeling pain. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. and that is allowed. they think all it has to do with is sex. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. but you haven't known what was happening. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. then your relationships are going to start to change. first level. It is not the issue. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. and challenge you. There is no separation. Some people are denying them. Energetically. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. at all costs. Some people are going with the flow. If they are vulnerable. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. it is going to be very different. you will create more discomfort and pain. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. That. they will blame sex. In 4D. So. is inside of you. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. It may first manifest outside of you. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. and that is all change means.For one thing. Change means change. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. Always. If you are willing to move with it. If you are resisting change. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. Divorce is a 3D solution.
this is reflected in their society's philosophy. Your mate can do whatever they want. No. with trust instead of control. They have nothing to do with the other person. In a 4D type relationship. You only make the choices for you and no one else. It is different from what you see here. You would just trust. In 4D you are acting in the moment. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. we apologize. The choices are all for you. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. whatever) relationship. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. In 4D type relationships. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. the idea of commitment does not exist. If you choose to be non-monogamous. If the woman is Pleiadian. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. So you are trying to act on your excitement. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. They are all part of the same family anyway. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. You do not have to plan for the future. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. You say to the person. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. she has the child because she wants the child.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice." No. It placates you into thinking you are secure. It is trust. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. That is what we meant by conscious choice. If you choose monogamy. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. Because she wants the child. The choices are entirely for you. If we have explained it incorrectly. Meaning absolute trust. . So. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. allowance instead of manipulation. then that choice is for you. Therefore. although your society will change. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. not a compulsion). That is the difference. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. if a 4D woman wants to have a child.
"Oh. I made a mistake in having this child. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. You say. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. In the moment. "Oh. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. That is what I've been finding out. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. No effort. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. so all the issue come crawling out. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. I don't want to hurt other people. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. ." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. but any reality that you create. Then in 4D. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. in the moment. you are in the past or the future." Never. You must. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. sex is a really good trigger." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. Very simple. we become dependent on the other person.Exactly. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. Not just a child. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. If you are in the moment. There will never be a time where you will say. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. you can love it. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. For others. You can say nice things all the time. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. It really depends on the individual. I've finally been making choices for myself. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. there is that child. is all dependency gone? Yes. In 4D. If you are totally 100% in the present. I would rather not cause problems for them. Yes. It is an equation that doesn't work. you got a haircut. each day. you cannot put that outside of yourself. at all costs. This is a very good question. Therefore. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. Sex is just one of those lids. In the moment. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. and people have been getting upset. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. then after the baby is born. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. Okay. But I still want these people as friends. It looks nice. and so when that recognition is there. For some people it is sex. and still push people's buttons. For others it is money. totally and absolutely. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question.
It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. disapproval or invalidation. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. This is what we mean by enmeshment. Good term. At the same time. it is her choice. In . That is one of my button-pushers here. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. It prolongs the pain. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. There cannot ever be victims. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. You try to protect other people. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. They like the concepts. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. If she chooses to be hurt. But in reality. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. That is empowerment. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. It is then that each person will be challenged. fears. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. Well. He is protecting himself. in the husband's excitement he says. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. That is then the way you will see the universe. then you polarize between victims and hurters. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. We might borrow that one. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. They all come from you. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. I don't see there is an exception to that. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. But there are no victims. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. Let us give you an example using a fictional model.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. The outcome is the same. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. In your innocence and excitement." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. You can never hurt another person. If. and emotions. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. that is deliberately hurting her. "I want to go hot air ballooning. then you are manipulating people around you. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had.
That is an even greater hurt than the truth. It buries itself into your cells. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. Cancer. Get comfortable with who you are. They are the ones generating their reality. in one way. It is stasis. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. You cannot withhold any portion of you. You are all divine portions of the creator. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. heart disease. Be truthful. you are lying. They cannot ever love you for who you are. first think what it is you want to say. Those judgments eat you up.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. You protect them from the things that you fear. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. because they don't know who you are. it submerges itself. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. This is a no win situation. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). All That Is is neutral. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. You are lying to the other person. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. Then they only know you through your lies. Write them down. to hell with what the others think. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. It is. and then actually on the physical level. balance. Externalize them. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. You can tell them that. When you hold back that which you are. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. we've always screwed up the communication. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. You are lying to yourself. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. that is their choice. it is also insulting. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. Literally. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. You stuff it. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. it is going to be devastating to you. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. It throws you into disharmony. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. Say it into a tape recorder. You won't know what the thoughts are. Let it be okay to start thinking them. If you do not express who you are. Write it down. the more diseased you get. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. Let yourself think it first. not necessarily the things they fear. The more you stuff it. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. They cannot be victim of hurt. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. If you do not express who you are 100%. They do not know who you are. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. But in one way. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. If you look at a Pleiadian. If they don't agree with you. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. reflecting that which you feel within. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying.
That is not what was implied. Know who you are. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. There are times when you cannot see it. times when you say to yourself. and the synchronicity of All That Is. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. the more you will be able to tell. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. She can tell me I'm a jerk. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. That wasn't my question. All right. If you do (to get them to do something. Get out that pent-up energy. Before you express something. There are no wrong things. In the expression. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. Again. and that's cool. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all." if you feel hurt. That is not a clean idea. You will learn how to tell the difference. We apologize if the language was misleading. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. If that expression is an attack. . then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. for instance). It cannot be any other way. So it's essential for her to express that.. I understand that. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. and if it is indeed an attack. and I don't agree with that. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. they are not going to feel attacked. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. let us clarify. The more you practice. Sometimes you can see that. whether she thinks it's clean or not. But by all means at least express it to yourself. There are not mistakes in creation. If they have no issue about being attacked. so it's fine. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. If your wife walks up to you and says." and you express your thought. "It is clean as a whistle. "You are a jerk. If you think it's clean. Other times you cannot. Yes. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. they will feel attacked..compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. In the addictive state. In fact. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. There is only neutral expression. whether it is attacking or not attacking. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. then express it. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. because that in itself is part of the growth process. Okay.
It is not possible. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. They can choose to feel hurt. so don't tell me about it if you do that .What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. Victimhood would come into it. That is the bottomline intention of creation. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. that's not going to hurt him in the least." And if he feels really good about himself. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. it's not true excitement. You may walk up to your husband one day. then it's clean. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). then every action. If you really believe that Creation is Love. but we didn't make it a major point. and it will not hurt him. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. third-density relationships often express victimhood. But if you do. It will lock your relationship into third density. But you can't know. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. underneath everything else. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. "If you have dinner with another woman. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. if you really. and you may say. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. You cannot hurt another person. then you will have matched your vibrations. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. You can never hurt another person.to fourth-density relationships model. it's not clean. also. every instance must support ultimately that belief. Examine your beliefs. ever. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). because it's the way to take your power back. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. really believe that. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. "You look like a pig today. that hurts me. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. Well. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment.
do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. Exactly. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers.. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. honesty. unconditional love. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. and that's quite all right. Right? Yes! So it's fine. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. allowance. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. and you're feeling the pain.. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. Absolutely. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. then I need to go back and look at this versus that." That's okay to ask for that. It's one package or another package. It's all equal anyway. but recognize that's what you're choosing. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. So whenever I feel pain. secrecy. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. those in the room. . to remind you that you can still feel. Many people are using it that way. because the cruise control does not come with third density. However. then you're right. Yes. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. reading this. I won't feel any pain. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. exactly. it's fine. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. then actually. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. but that's secrecy and it's third density. If you choose third density. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. You're holding onto something from third density. no. which an indicator that you are making the change. there's nothing wrong with it. It's a significator. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. you will not feel pain.
then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. this is Sasha.Again. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. Greetings. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. you are going to see tremendous. Third density is the density of polarity. overall. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. Now. It's simply different. powerful changes within your life. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. not necessarily in every single relationship. necessity meaning single parents. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. some of the understandings. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. but you don't have to manifest pain. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. of course. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. They do not have to bring pain. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. Yes. with respect to your channel. Do not be surprised. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. Greeting to all of you. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. exactly. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. Sasha: All right. Sasha. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. Now. it's an expression of who we are. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. absolutely 100% guaranteed. literally that means two . Now. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. After that. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. it really does not. Now. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. let me repeat myself. And you will begin to see. However. we will have a short break.
And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). there will be no problem here. I am deprived. Period. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. . if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. that you must at all cost heal this. Make your choices. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. That is a third-density idea. and in this mated group. again. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. So therefore.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. if you in third-density. so because of the aloneness. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. etc. But recognize where the time element comes into it. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. we're not saying. but it might not necessarily work for you. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. living in the moment. It can. as Germane was not saying. Absolutely cannot happen. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. insert a third variable. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. I'm not alone. so if I don't have this. back and forth. back and forth. And that is something that we would like to address. As you move into fourth-density type relationships.ideas are present. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. The dynamics will have to change. because using the paddle idea. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. and then you bring in another mate. I was also in a mated group. are present. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. you must just go for it." Do you follow? Now. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. It is not time. Do you all follow? Thoughts. back and forth. As you start choosing how you want to live. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. these things are going to begin coming up. back and forth. fourth. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. When you love yourself unconditionally. Now. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. back and forth. it takes away the love they can have for you. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. It cannot happen. "This is better than this. Now. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. Well. So when I spend time with my mate. honesty.. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. I get caught in the time factor. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. as intense. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. most definitely. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles.
Question. And when you see your mate. Both are equal. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. So for instance. There were basically three different phases of environments. You are it. Do what you can. One were rooms of privacy. you are excited in the moment with yourself. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. that only we entered. as Germane was saying. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. Sasha. We do not perceive. when your mate is not there. which is open to all. when you lived with a group. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. Now you on your planet. The shift is going to happen. The critical mass is going to happen. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. at least right now. The same thing with the Essassani. Did you want more on that? Well. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. it's exciting in the moment. Yes. through who you have been as a species. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. no. invited guests you may call it. Both companies are appreciated. Sasha. and the same thing with the Orions. . one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. I was just curious about that because. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. And again in fourth density. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. Either way.Exactly. It will take longer if they resist it. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. it is still going to happen. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. Or comment. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. It's just a question of when. if you will. And so when that recognition is there.
let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. If that's true. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. very rough. We are going through relationship transformation. You follow? Yes. or not even that different. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. It's a little bit different. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. Sasha. not out of a sense of prejudice.. having to deal with the need to control. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. there were no tears or anger. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. You know those Zetas. that's when I was in the group.. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. Yes. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. it was a natural movement from one state to another." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. there was no resistance. and therefore for instance. let us say. there was no fighting. So it's that issue. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. Just with a different twist. . yes. to give you a very dramatic example. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. One last question along these lines.
the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. Now. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. there is so much emphasis on body types. sexuality is not sex. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. We're not talking about the sex act. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. because literally the past does not hold your answers. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. It is of a creative vibration. etc." I mean. That was not so much of a challenge. There is simply one expression. Maybe. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. that becomes irrelevant. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. etc.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. That was kind of a landmark. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. the present holds your answers. they may be very threatened by our type of energy.. but he taught us a thing or two. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. On our planet and in third density. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. someone else will be attracted to this body type. I will be attracted to a certain body type. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. it can't be used against you. "Hmm. Again. In third density. Now.. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. and if that is the case. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't.. Not only that. any man that I've been around. can it? Exactly. a different developmental structure. And if you were to live in the moment. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. A lot of this searching goes on. Right now. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. Again. They are very secure in their identity in the present. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. sex does not become a big deal. going to bed with Sasha. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. no child feels unwanted..
so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. Most definitely. If you all felt that way. those symbols will change because you will change. If you are so together and whole. . So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. Separation. you would have all that male and female inside your body. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. they're too ugly. you feel healthy. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. When you do not need something from another individual. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. that is a third-density idea. we may have preferences. Conditional love. Exactly. That is very accurate. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. conditions. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. Most definitely. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. there is no attention on body type. But it is not a need in any way. you feel beautiful. they're too tall. When you move into fourth density. Well. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. Now. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. Yes. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. if you're all gorgeous. They are natural diversifying characteristics. I know. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. Exactly. you would all be "gorgeous" also. but the preferences are so unimportant." Oh. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. And that is the cycle.No. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. you feel vibrant.
But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. In fact. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. Integration is the entire soup itself. then it is out of need. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. Fourth density is integration. you will not know how to cook the soup. and it will take a lot more energy. Work with it. The recipe needs those things. we would say. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. Sasha. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. If you do not want to look at your needs. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. Living the relationship. yes. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. Recognize the need. you will not know the recipe. fun and excitement instead of need. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those .It's almost like a paradox here. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. Now. exactly. Can be. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. There is a difference. Do you follow? There is a fine line. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. The recipe requires carrots and celery. To use an analogy. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. Third density is separation.
Exactly. you are choosing to integrate yourself. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. we're talking in ways that are different than you. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. as dysfunctional as they may be. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. We do not have that particular expression. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. Go to your own garden. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. I become angry.carrots. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). and your needs. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. But if you choose personal growth. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. There are times when we recognize. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. Sasha. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. personal growth will always have to suffer. Exactly. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. So neither one is wrong nor right. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. recognize what you get with that choice. . are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. If you choose personal growth over relationships. Do you want to comment on that? Well. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. Now again. Nothing exists without a purpose. however. You're not attacking someone. As long as the relationship takes precedence. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide.
I refuse to do that. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. it's their choice. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. from my thirddensity perspective. And even if I'm able to say. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. getting the package deal there. . "No. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. but there is. That is all you are responsible for." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. But you can play out that game. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. pulling yourself back into third density. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. Back in this needs issue. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. Well. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. and I feel it's a very good answer. But it came into my life suddenly. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. Ahhh. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. I appreciate that.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. We're not understanding the exact question. and I can tune into it. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. We are sorry. I guess. I follow. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. And like we say with the soup. That doesn't matter. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. Well. I have one question. You cannot deprive another person. that need is okay. if that's the case. If they feel deprived. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person.
hostility. And just be pure in my own intention. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. They will not verbalize them. you cannot know. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. However. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. Seventy-five percent. very low¾hidden anger. the level of anger would be very. whether covert or overt. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. You can never second-guess another person. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. In other words. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. Period. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. you're not in fourth density. Obviously that is a trap. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. If you have that need. That is so correct. So when you have no expectations . and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. "I don't expect anything from it. I remember saying. and let it be whatever it ends up being. Am I on track? Yes. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Exactly. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. and my two basic needs were safety and protection.which is exactly what I do not want to do. you will get caught because it is a game. Now. the anger. ecstasy. Exactly. caring and sharing. For one thing. they will never be satisfied. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. starts setting in. play." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. and it started out. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. You are still playing the thirddensity game. nearly nonexistent. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. and then they will be angry.
But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it." In third density. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. they will stay there on the counter. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. it's not a light switch going on and off. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. The joy will start to grow. Much love and goodnight. you can't feel the ecstasy. they will transform. Copyright © 1993. In fourth density. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. The pain will start to subside. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. what a load off your mind that is. . much. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. yes. You are moving in that direction. are so valuable because they make up the soup. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. going to start seeing changes. Again. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. you then know there's an issue. you will soar. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. what a load off your energy. All Rights Reserved. you can truly experience unconditional love.about the other person fulfilling your needs. yes. Yes. that idea cannot exist. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. Once that idea is relinquished. "If you can't feel the pain. It's a gradual movement from third. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. Much. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. is difficult. and they will always be an issue.to fourth-density thinking. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. that you're angry at. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. You can enjoy yourself. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. It will just automatically start unfolding. If you judge them. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. that makes a lot of sense. much love to each and every one of you. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. that you judge. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. And so. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself.
The idea . The Empire vs.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. incarnationally speaking. Orion Civilization . you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. This is Germane. In a tug-of-war. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. First of all. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization.galactic heritage and sexuality. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. These individuals we've called the Black League. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. certain patterns of conflict. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. neither person is going to win. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. As you know. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. they would be annihilated. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . So let us start with Orion. It took them a very. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. "Black" is not meant to be negative. we will integrate them together. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. Many of you on Earth. Earth was a place where you could come.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. If they were found. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. if the weight is balanced on both sides. This is the energy. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. who were the freedom fighters. Thus you can see the dynamic.they did not want to be found. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. for instance. First.
it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . So when the mate is finally found. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. to say the least. resonate with the most. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. to release emotional energy. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate.your civilization included. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. but from their . This is for a very specific reason. This is the opposite. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. to release the energy of conflict. but also through nonsexual intimacy. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. Again. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting.when two people come together who are to be mated. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust.the relationship becomes as mates.and you choose to be a surrogate. There is no "sneaking around.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. When you're chosen as a surrogate . There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around.an instant recognition . is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. because it's definitely a two-way street . But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. you ask. Surrogates So. because this is the energy that you on Earth. The Orions mate for life. There's a recognition . because if you had kept your entire memory intact. at least for now. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. and even a bit scary for some of you. and there's no doubt of that recognition. So this is the one we will talk about. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. very close to them. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. very intense in a certain way. The Orions have what we could call monogamy.
even in thought . Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. for fantasy simply does not exist. But. yes. This is why it is of primary . It's simply the way they are. The Vulcan is repressing. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. it is eventually genetically encoded. This is not anything that is imposed on them. they repress fantasy. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. societally speaking. Because of this. During the times of the intense conflict. Experience does change genetics.point of view extremely fulfilling. If one mate was killed. The Orion civilization was many. they moved very slowly. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . many thousands of years long. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict.in the direction of the mate. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality.it's second nature. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. before the conflict was resolved. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. that is the way the stress is released. does not exist. yes. so it's not a repression of anything. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. etc. One thing we would like to say here. But that was a difficult one. After awhile it's no longer control . there was a lot of genetic change. That is an undisciplined thought. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. However. for instance. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. Now. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. So it would depend on which period of time. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. for instance. one is for exchange of intimacy. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. When one is under stress.
and that is how they choose to live their lives. During times of peace other things are looked at. There are also married groups. So if any of you wish to examine that further. because there are other ways of channeling energy. but when they pledge their love to a person. In the ancient. marriage rates increase. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system .importance that each Orion have a mate. you may do some research. they feel secure . Because of this focus on positivity.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. one on one . The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. there are three or more. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . many of them do. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people.what you would call marriage. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. recognize emotionality in the moment .in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. they're monogamous in the moment. As with the Orions. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. You don't have to be as disciplined. very committed to each other. That's their idea of monogamy. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. very connected. This is.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. So they were intent on repressing negativity. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous.the Pleiadian civilization. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. ancient Pleiadian past. The Pleiadian Civilization . The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. They have ceremonies. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. to some degree. they're not pledging their love for the future. These marriage units are very loving. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality.
100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. certain fears. However. that would be expressed as true monogamy. Not that it does not occur here . etc. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening.move into something else. When you are in a monogamous relationship. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. They recognize that it must be the time. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. will show a lot of pain.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are.it does . my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. a conscious choice. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . both of you have. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. On your planet. very safe. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. you get used to the partner. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. you don't have to face certain issues. will attempt to latch on to you. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. however. kind of like the . The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life." there's total understanding. This is changing now. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. the mate quite often will be very hurt. not having sexual relations with another person. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. it's very. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment).fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. and there is a disconnection.
deep level. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. you don't know how to do this. they've taught you a lot. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. will not have pain and fear. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. That's what's occurring now. It's simply a matter of choice. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like .when that is actually what they are excited by. But neither of their expressions are better. since we've already opened our mouth. none of these civilizations are better than yours. As your consciousness raises. Now. as your consciousness is raising. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. any more evolved. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. It's important that we say this. In your society now.Orions. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. Dis-eases. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. to find out what your own inner truth is. It will work for you. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. But you are already beginning to create it. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. So back . when they are denying and repressing. For the Pleiadians. we'll finish what we're saying. No one here is any better. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. Eventually. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. They are different. It's very important that we say that.
Whenever there's flow. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. thinking separation is a solution. and anger and pain lie. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. or whether it's a true excitement. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very.then they did have some disease. examine your motivation. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. If you really feel that . So when they separate. AIDS and cancer. they're a mirror image of themselves. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now.levels that you've not wished to look at before. think about taking action. there's no flow . Whenever there's resistance. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. when we feel that a relationship might be over. absolute reflection of themselves. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person.your own and others'. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. more than any other disease you have on your planet. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. Q: Separation is never a solution.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . AIDS. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet.it's a partnership. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . and to release that.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. Correct. very deep levels . Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. for instance. to understand where your fears. However. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. If. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. that does not constitute separation at all. yes. or clear the energy so you can stay. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. It's a matter of resistance and flow. with your question. When they are having a relationship. many dimensions to it. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises.
The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations.way inside. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. . Thank you. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. it's olive-colored . It is your galactic family. two legs."I'd like you to meet my `better half. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. In terms of getting aroused sexually. anyway. Do you follow? Q: Yes. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. then when you separate. The women have similar control over ovulation. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . You won't be able to seek out a whole person. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. two legs. A couple of other minor differences. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. Unfortunately. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. it doesn't completely disappear. Their skin is very different. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. You'll only draw to you that which you are. You will seek out a half. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. Sexually. That's a perfect form of birth control. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. and complete control over ejaculation.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). head. Now. That is why when they separate. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street.a brown base with a greenish tinge. It is humanoid. It's like some of your animals. Each person is not complete within themselves. Now. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. body. relationships are frequently not completed. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. same thing). Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. That gives you a general idea of the body types.
Q: In the movie "Cocoon". It's not as if they would say. but it's not a conscious. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. eye-toeye recognition. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual.deliberately nonphysical. like you saw in Cocoon. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. when the woman came out of her shell. let's do tantra today. You see the difference? And again. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this.it touched a lot of people in your society . That's one level of it. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. yes. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. That is one way. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . one for procreation and one for intimacy. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. For instance. several different levels. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. Well. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. One.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. then tantra is better. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. So it touched you . Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical .because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. It's part of who they are. including chocolate ice cream. "Well. none of this is better than . are both highly ritualized. But this occurs all the time. so to speak. because it is a God union. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing.
Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. You have been talking about us. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. who we've been talking about. It becomes dimmer. It was understood by us. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. Your forefathers. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. We gave much thought to this and chose. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. We had war. then. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. There is much to share with you. Due to severe radiation. less complete. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. since our environment was going to collapse. We needed.Group Mind This is Harone. At this point in time. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate.anything else. are also learning and growing. We have much to share with you. We knew this was to occur. We were born from conflict. and that is not the case. we could control the future of our race. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. once we were underground. so we were called. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. You are learning and growing. that there was to be a species crisis. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. balanced and nonviolent in every way. Within our civilization we had much diversity. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We know you have many questions. we were born from crisis. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive.
We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness.our end of the agreement. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. we will have physical facilitators. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. Our organs began atrophying over many.we are not separate . You will find that as evolution occurs. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. We are infinitely entwined . for from our point of view we . you will become more unified. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. 2. some need activation on the physical level. In our work with you. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. we work with these genetic structures. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. We will become much more individualistic. However. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. we will become much more similar. Because we have lost this ability for so long. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. That is what is occurring now. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. we are told that their numbers are quite small. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. Simply put. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. We are taking a species leap together. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . Even though we do not understand why. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates.though our realities may say we are. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. They would have you think they are much more numerous. when we went underground and began cloning. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive.males from females. these latent genetic codes. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level.
so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. as we have stated. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. this is an equal exchange. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. We recognize there may be questions from you. to change you. Our interactions with you push buttons. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. your interactions with us will change dramatically. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation.recognize you have given us permission. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. you feel the tide of evolution. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. many of you have come to our reality. You are resisting . what was happening in your culture. your civilization. From our point of view. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. So in terms of symbolic expression. you learn what you desire. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. even more than upon your world today. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. We learn what we desire. When we interact with you. recognize we have no intent. Unfortunately for our development. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. Our interactions with you represent evolution. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. We're afraid of being vulnerable. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. engage those fears and move through them.
When you are lying on an examination table.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. because the emotions are very intense for us. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. If you surrender. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. as you know the term. You let your guard down. It is not just cold research.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. into different groups that have different purposes. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. Some are interested in reproductive research. Our way . that you are not part of species transformation. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. There is no arousal.sperm.evolution because of your fear. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. not of what we intend to do . We may not know how to understand your emotions. Vulnerable . It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. secretions from prostate. but we do pay attention to them. shall we say. That is. you are open to All That Is. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. of what procreation means to the person.again we speak of the dynamic.not in the negative sense of weakness . Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . not as if we were invading . We are divided. energy shielding. It is a matter of shifting perspective. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. or disempowered vulnerability. and until that fear is confronted and released. to the One. that's what I was getting at. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. you will feel the pressure of evolution. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. So biologically speaking. and in that case. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. as you would say. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. saying you have not created this somehow. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. It penetrates all of them. when you are vulnerable. eggs. Well. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them.that is not what is meant . skin samples and also an understanding. it really depends on which group. a mind link. Very often some of us will have protection.
Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. we must densify ourselves. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. certainly. Our love to you and goodnight. Some of you will sense our energy. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something.perhaps many of you would think it is . which is very uncomfortable. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. . Now that may be inaccurate . Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. We must deal with data. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. we can enter your reality in a light state. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. You've done your research well. We interact with you on every level we can. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. That is also something of primary interest to us. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically.
Now. the voltage is going to be upped. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. You are 90 some-odd percent water. Let us first address the physical level. the presence of water. so the electrical current is always running through your body. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. Also. This is rather abstract. a current. The more . All Rights Reserved. imagine yourself as being a river. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. Also. We would recommend distilled or purified. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. but you will know what is right for you. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. Germane through Lyssa Royal. your showers. That will be fruits and vegetables. plan accordingly. Not just the ingesting of it. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. allow yourself to feel fluid. whatever your choice is. So. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research.
Now. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. that's perfectly fine. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. it's all connected. that incorporates water. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. Along with water comes detoxification. The water will then be in your auric field. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. The radiation is not going to damage you. There is some jewelry. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. can significantly slow . it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. It will be a conversation piece as well. put your feet in the water. That's one idea. LCD screen. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. When you bathe or shower. there are several options available to you. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. (No need to get neurotic about this. Actually. we guarantee you. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. But in the long run. is to keep water close to you if you can. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. So. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). So. or very specific types of strict diets. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. If you feel attracted to that. You may even want to get some fish. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. of course. you see these on your laptops. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. if you're living under major power lines. You can get one of those fishtanks. That's an optimum situation. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. wear some of it. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. for instance. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. it's up to you. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. or fill your bathtub. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. on the market there are radiation screens. You may also sit by a lake. If you use a computer a lot. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. If you want to put crystals in your bath. If you can't do that. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. again. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. very helpful for you. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. your planet also recognizes its need for water. You are symbiotic. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. and you can feel the environment of that water. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. if it does any at all. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference.
and it's certainly not going to do anything. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. when this type of fearful information is given. there will be no more victims. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. It is not our understanding that you will ever. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. Category: Healing. and that's very important to stress. From our point of view. So. and no more sinister plots. information to make you think. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. . ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. Many say to throw your TVs. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. that is for others to answer. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. these are guidelines. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. Now. It's got to be one or the other. No television. where you are the only creator of your reality. As soon as that is recognized and owned. computers and microwave ovens away. Now. This is about learning sovereignty. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. no computer creates that. then absolutely anything can hurt you. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. information to be added to your storehouse. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. And so this is about processing belief systems.your own healing abilities. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. because it makes you think.
The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. whether they know it or not.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. It delivers you . climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. and a gift of Enlightenment. Lust is only a call to love. ironically. It inundates your entire being. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. People use each other for lust.body and soul . the Western Judeo-Christian. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. and our most basic instincts. save dying. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. When we can't handle our attachments. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love.The Path With No Obstacles . We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. On the direct path of conscious awareness . tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. the body. was to keep them well in check. they enslave us and we enslave others. pleasure. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline.beyond. and it's good for your health. is the opportunity for ego-loss. . The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . through no other human activity.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. but concurrent with our everyday existence.Tantra For a thousand years. The most extreme instance is called rape. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. People get carried away. otherwise rarely known in human existence. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. thought. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. and many have yet to answer it. (Ultimately. What begins as duality and polarization within time. but the game is over. Yet.
breathing exercises. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. and get it over with as quickly as possible. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. as in indigenous tribal customs. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love.D. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. The great enigma is. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. rituals.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. or it is devil-worship. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. Sufi and tantric couples practices. music. Meditation. the thrill." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. incense. and call this "correct. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). state of mind. and all too often . candlelight. and the total fulfillment of your partner. .when people use each other uncaringly . or fame). Ph. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. ceremonial objects. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. mystical rituals. They fear one and fake the other. not deny it. power. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking.we find ourselves indulging in what is. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. money. innate sexuality. ." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. By that logic. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. invocations. depending upon one's intent. after all. and conditioning.Miranda Shaw. when .
Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. Make it Holy. Move in slow motion. Touch only in awe. die into love. Gaze into each other's eyes. unconditionally. Meditate. whom you worship in awe. Surrender continuously. and you two become One. Give only pleasure and love. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Abandon all gain and control. Trust your body's deepest impulses. Breathe together. Give voice to your feelings. Begin motionless and in silence. Listen for Inner Guidance. stay in love. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. with reverence. Purify yourself in body and mind. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. . Die as a personality. Fall in love. and time stands still. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. ours. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. from passion to compassion. Everything matters. Reside always at the beginning. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. animal to divine. Make love with your whole being. long and deep. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. Worship your lover. to the sacred fire within. Decelerate until time stands still.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Transpose taking and giving. Transcendent love is a religious experience. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Opening all your centers. all fulfilling. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. all purifying. letting hers become yours. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. the passion intense and profound. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. confused. Every touch is The First. breathtakingly tender. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Wait for the perfect moment. You notice everything. engaging all your faculties. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Giving and taking merge. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. weeks. all consuming. Foreplay is truly playful..
.From "Enlightenment in Our Time.D. Brown. Ph." by Lonny J.
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