Germane: Greetings to everyone. This is Germane. We'd like to thank you all for coming this night.

The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.

3D Relationships
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having

to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.

4D Relationships
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking

about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.

Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.

Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?

That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. It is not. Energetically. Always. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. at all costs. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. Separation. Change does not mean they will end. That. They have nothing to do with the problem. they will blame sex. It is not the issue. they believe. It is a symptom. . Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. Some people are going with the flow. you will create more discomfort and pain. and never has been. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. is to be avoided in their belief. confusion. If you are resisting change. no matter what choice happens.For one thing. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. first level. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. and that is all change means. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. Change means change. you are going to start feeling pain. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. let some things out. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. If you create resistance. then your relationships are going to start to change. In 4D. and challenge you. Some people are denying them. It is going to challenge you. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. Divorce is a 3D solution. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. So. but you haven't known what was happening. these things started in the 1960s of your time. Some people are polarizing. Instead. You allow the other person to move in that direction. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. Sex. If they are vulnerable. It may first manifest outside of you. If you are willing to move with it. because you can never be separate. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. it is going to be very different. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. they are weak and open to attack. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. is inside of you. That was a tool in 3D. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. they think all it has to do with is sex. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. There is no separation. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. Breaking. No one seems to really get the point. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. and that is allowed.

If you choose monogamy. They are all part of the same family anyway. In 4D type relationships. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. . You don't require the other person to make the same choice. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. Meaning absolute trust. That is what we meant by conscious choice. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. with trust instead of control. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. You would just trust. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. allowance instead of manipulation. If you choose to be non-monogamous. In 4D you are acting in the moment. Because she wants the child. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. You only make the choices for you and no one else. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. In a 4D type relationship. If we have explained it incorrectly. It is different from what you see here. That is the difference. No." No. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. Your mate can do whatever they want. the idea of commitment does not exist. The choices are all for you. she has the child because she wants the child. not a compulsion). although your society will change. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. It placates you into thinking you are secure. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. then that choice is for you. we apologize. They have nothing to do with the other person. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. You say to the person. If the woman is Pleiadian. So you are trying to act on your excitement. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. whatever) relationship. So. You do not have to plan for the future. The choices are entirely for you. Therefore. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. It is trust. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice.

.Exactly. then after the baby is born. sex is a really good trigger. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. and so when that recognition is there. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. Sex is just one of those lids. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. I don't want to hurt other people. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. In 4D. at all costs. Very simple. and still push people's buttons. If you are totally 100% in the present. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. If you are in the moment. you are in the past or the future. There will never be a time where you will say. Not just a child. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. is all dependency gone? Yes. No effort. we become dependent on the other person. It looks nice. Okay. "Oh. For others." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. totally and absolutely. I made a mistake in having this child. I would rather not cause problems for them. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. For others it is money. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. but any reality that you create. you can love it. In the moment. You say. For some people it is sex. It really depends on the individual. In the moment." Never. and people have been getting upset. you cannot put that outside of yourself. you got a haircut. That is what I've been finding out. "Oh. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. It is an equation that doesn't work. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. each day. I've finally been making choices for myself. But I still want these people as friends. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. You must. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. This is a very good question. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. so all the issue come crawling out. Therefore. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. You can say nice things all the time. Yes. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. in the moment. there is that child. Then in 4D.

I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. You can never hurt another person. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. and emotions. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. I don't see there is an exception to that. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. That is one of my button-pushers here. In . that is deliberately hurting her. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. "I want to go hot air ballooning. You try to protect other people. then you polarize between victims and hurters. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. We might borrow that one. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. It prolongs the pain." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. There cannot ever be victims. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. Good term. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. It is then that each person will be challenged. That is empowerment. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. If. At the same time. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. Well. If she chooses to be hurt. He is protecting himself. disapproval or invalidation. They like the concepts. In your innocence and excitement. fears. it is her choice. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. This is what we mean by enmeshment. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. They all come from you. then you are manipulating people around you. That is then the way you will see the universe. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. But there are no victims. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. But in reality. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. The outcome is the same. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. in the husband's excitement he says.

the more diseased you get. Those judgments eat you up.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. You are lying to yourself. Externalize them. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. Let yourself think it first. They cannot be victim of hurt. You won't know what the thoughts are. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. it is also insulting. You can tell them that. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. They do not know who you are. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. It is stasis. It buries itself into your cells. and then actually on the physical level. You protect them from the things that you fear. in one way. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). Write it down. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. Say it into a tape recorder. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. it is going to be devastating to you. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. balance. You cannot withhold any portion of you. Get comfortable with who you are. This is a no win situation. that is their choice. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. But in one way. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. If they don't agree with you. heart disease. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. to hell with what the others think. When you hold back that which you are. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. You are all divine portions of the creator. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. If you look at a Pleiadian. They are the ones generating their reality. because they don't know who you are. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. reflecting that which you feel within. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. The more you stuff it. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. All That Is is neutral. not necessarily the things they fear. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. You are lying to the other person. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. If you do not express who you are. If you do not express who you are 100%. Let it be okay to start thinking them. Then they only know you through your lies. Literally. It throws you into disharmony. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. Write them down. we've always screwed up the communication. first think what it is you want to say. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. You stuff it. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . Cancer. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. Be truthful. It is. it submerges itself. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. They cannot ever love you for who you are. you are lying.

You will learn how to tell the difference. That is not what was implied. Before you express something. then express it. let us clarify. There are times when you cannot see it. so it's fine." if you feel hurt. We apologize if the language was misleading. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. Sometimes you can see that. whether it is attacking or not attacking. So it's essential for her to express that. The more you practice. In the addictive state. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. Okay. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. If that expression is an attack. Other times you cannot. times when you say to yourself. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. Again. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. If you do (to get them to do something. She can tell me I'm a jerk. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. If they have no issue about being attacked. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. It cannot be any other way. they are not going to feel attacked. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. "You are a jerk. . That wasn't my question. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. whether she thinks it's clean or not. There are not mistakes in creation. There is only neutral expression. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. That is not a clean idea.. If you think it's clean. There are no wrong things. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. and the synchronicity of All That Is. Know who you are. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. because that in itself is part of the growth process. "It is clean as a whistle. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. In the expression. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. I understand that. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. and I don't agree with that. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. the more you will be able to tell. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. for instance).. Get out that pent-up energy. and if it is indeed an attack. Yes. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. But by all means at least express it to yourself. In fact. they will feel attacked. All right. If your wife walks up to you and says." and you express your thought. and that's cool. If it's not clean and you can recognize it.

No other person knows what is going to hurt me. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. then you will have matched your vibrations. underneath everything else. every instance must support ultimately that belief. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. But if you do. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. If you really believe that Creation is Love. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. You may walk up to your husband one day. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. that's not going to hurt him in the least. You can never hurt another person. third-density relationships often express victimhood. and it will not hurt him. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. "If you have dinner with another woman. that hurts me. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. then every action. It will lock your relationship into third density. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. it's not true excitement. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. really believe that. That is the bottomline intention of creation. They can choose to feel hurt. It is not possible. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. Examine your beliefs. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third.to fourth-density relationships model. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. Well. "You look like a pig today. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. You cannot hurt another person. ever. but we didn't make it a major point. if you really. also. so don't tell me about it if you do that . Victimhood would come into it." And if he feels really good about himself. and you may say.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. But you can't know. then it's clean. it's not clean. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. because it's the way to take your power back.

then you're right. unconditional love. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. it's fine. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. no. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. Absolutely. Yes. exactly. to remind you that you can still feel. If you choose third density. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. those in the room.. there's nothing wrong with it. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. Right? Yes! So it's fine. but that's secrecy and it's third density. reading this. I won't feel any pain. However. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. Exactly. which an indicator that you are making the change. then actually. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. It's all equal anyway. It's a significator. but recognize that's what you're choosing. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density." That's okay to ask for that. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. you will not feel pain. . and that's quite all right. Many people are using it that way. and you're feeling the pain. So whenever I feel pain. allowance. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. secrecy. honesty. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. You're holding onto something from third density. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. because the cruise control does not come with third density. It's one package or another package. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. then I need to go back and look at this versus that.. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people.

Yes. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. It's simply different. Now. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. exactly. Third density is the density of polarity. literally that means two . we will have a short break. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. Sasha: All right. Greeting to all of you. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. you are going to see tremendous. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. Now. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. this is Sasha. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. absolutely 100% guaranteed. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. Sasha. And you will begin to see. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. They do not have to bring pain. but you don't have to manifest pain. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. overall. necessity meaning single parents. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. Now. let me repeat myself. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. of course. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. with respect to your channel. not necessarily in every single relationship. it really does not. Now. it's an expression of who we are. However. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. Greetings. After that. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation.Again. Do not be surprised. powerful changes within your life. some of the understandings. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall.

I am deprived. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. "This is better than this. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. etc. As you start choosing how you want to live. as intense. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. honesty. Absolutely cannot happen. back and forth.ideas are present. you must just go for it. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. Now. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. and in this mated group. so if I don't have this. It cannot happen. That is a third-density idea. living in the moment. . you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. When you love yourself unconditionally. insert a third variable. I was also in a mated group. It can. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. The dynamics will have to change. I'm not alone.. there will be no problem here. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. again. Make your choices.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. back and forth. back and forth. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. most definitely. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. Period. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. back and forth. it takes away the love they can have for you. And that is something that we would like to address. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. I get caught in the time factor. so because of the aloneness. Do you all follow? Thoughts. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). back and forth. It is not time. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. these things are going to begin coming up. So when I spend time with my mate. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. Now. fourth. if you in third-density. But recognize where the time element comes into it." Do you follow? Now. because using the paddle idea. we're not saying. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. that you must at all cost heal this. and then you bring in another mate. So therefore. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. as Germane was not saying. but it might not necessarily work for you. Well. are present.

Did you want more on that? Well. Both are equal. that only we entered. Do what you can. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. which is open to all. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. And so when that recognition is there. as Germane was saying. Sasha. it's exciting in the moment. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. if you will. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. It's just a question of when. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. you are excited in the moment with yourself. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. Or comment. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. Sasha. . no. You are it. it is still going to happen. We do not perceive. And again in fourth density. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. There were basically three different phases of environments. Question. I was just curious about that because. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. So for instance. The critical mass is going to happen. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. And when you see your mate. Yes. The same thing with the Essassani. Both companies are appreciated. at least right now. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. It will take longer if they resist it. Now you on your planet. when your mate is not there. The shift is going to happen.Exactly. and the same thing with the Orions. through who you have been as a species. when you lived with a group. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. One were rooms of privacy. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. invited guests you may call it. Either way.

So it's that issue. One last question along these lines." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. there were no tears or anger. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. We knew you would be the one to bring it up.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. You follow? Yes. Just with a different twist. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. there was no resistance. or not even that different. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. not out of a sense of prejudice. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. very rough. yes. You know those Zetas. there was no fighting. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. and therefore for instance. having to deal with the need to control. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. . I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. to give you a very dramatic example. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. let us say. We are going through relationship transformation. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. If that's true.. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. it was a natural movement from one state to another.. Sasha. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. Yes. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. that's when I was in the group. It's a little bit different.

We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. someone else will be attracted to this body type. That was kind of a landmark. can it? Exactly. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani." I mean. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. That was not so much of a challenge. On our planet and in third density.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. Right now. Again. We're not talking about the sex act.. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. but he taught us a thing or two. it can't be used against you... and if that is the case. a different developmental structure. etc. I will be attracted to a certain body type. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. that becomes irrelevant.. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. Now. because literally the past does not hold your answers. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . They are very secure in their identity in the present. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. There is simply one expression. Now. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. no child feels unwanted. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. It is of a creative vibration. A lot of this searching goes on. And if you were to live in the moment. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. "Hmm. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. sexuality is not sex. Maybe. Not only that. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. there is so much emphasis on body types. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. the present holds your answers. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. Again. etc. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. In third density. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. going to bed with Sasha. sex does not become a big deal. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. any man that I've been around.

But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. Now. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. If you all felt that way. you feel healthy. they're too ugly. you would have all that male and female inside your body. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. That is very accurate.No. there is no attention on body type. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. When you move into fourth density. And that is the cycle. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. If you are so together and whole. Most definitely. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. we may have preferences. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. . you can enjoy them for who they truly are. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. Separation. you would all be "gorgeous" also. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. they're too tall." Oh. Yes. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. Conditional love. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. you feel beautiful. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. conditions. you feel vibrant. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. When you do not need something from another individual. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. I know. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. but the preferences are so unimportant. if you're all gorgeous. Exactly. Well. Exactly. Most definitely. But it is not a need in any way. They are natural diversifying characteristics. those symbols will change because you will change. that is a third-density idea.

Now. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. Do you follow? There is a fine line. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. Can be. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. Recognize the need. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. fun and excitement instead of need. Integration is the entire soup itself. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. There is a difference. Third density is separation. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. Work with it. If you do not want to look at your needs. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. In fact. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. you will not know the recipe. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. exactly.It's almost like a paradox here. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. The recipe requires carrots and celery. you will not know how to cook the soup. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. Sasha. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. To use an analogy. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. Fourth density is integration. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. Living the relationship. and it will take a lot more energy. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. we would say. yes. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. The recipe needs those things. then it is out of need.

Nothing exists without a purpose. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. You're not attacking someone. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). Go to your own garden. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. Now again. however. . recognize what you get with that choice. Do you want to comment on that? Well. I become angry. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. So neither one is wrong nor right. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density.carrots. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. Sasha. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. As long as the relationship takes precedence. If you choose personal growth over relationships. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. and your needs. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. we're talking in ways that are different than you. personal growth will always have to suffer. Exactly. There are times when we recognize. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. as dysfunctional as they may be. you are choosing to integrate yourself. We do not have that particular expression. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. Exactly. But if you choose personal growth.

I refuse to do that. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. getting the package deal there. Well. That is all you are responsible for. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. it's their choice. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. We are sorry. Back in this needs issue. from my thirddensity perspective.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. I follow. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. But you can play out that game. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. If they feel deprived. I appreciate that. and I feel it's a very good answer. We're not understanding the exact question. pulling yourself back into third density. . but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. if that's the case. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. "No. And even if I'm able to say. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. I guess. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. that need is okay. That doesn't matter. Well. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. But it came into my life suddenly. and I can tune into it. but there is. Ahhh. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. You cannot deprive another person. I have one question. And like we say with the soup. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them.

the anger. the level of anger would be very. For one thing. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. You are still playing the thirddensity game. "I don't expect anything from it. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. And just be pure in my own intention. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. hostility. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. starts setting in. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. and then they will be angry. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. That is so correct. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. you will get caught because it is a game. whether covert or overt.which is exactly what I do not want to do. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. So when you have no expectations . nearly nonexistent. and it started out. you're not in fourth density. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. Exactly. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. play. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. In other words." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. Seventy-five percent. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. However. Period. Exactly. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. I remember saying. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. Obviously that is a trap. very low¾hidden anger. If you have that need. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. and let it be whatever it ends up being. Am I on track? Yes. You can never second-guess another person. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. They will not verbalize them. Now. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. ecstasy. they will never be satisfied. you cannot know. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. caring and sharing. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there.

that you judge. you can't feel the ecstasy. Once that idea is relinquished. If you judge them. it's not a light switch going on and off. You can enjoy yourself. they will transform. And so. Copyright © 1993. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. It's a gradual movement from third. In fourth density. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. is difficult. much. yes. they will stay there on the counter. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. It will just automatically start unfolding. going to start seeing changes. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. that idea cannot exist. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. The joy will start to grow. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea.about the other person fulfilling your needs. You are moving in that direction. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. you then know there's an issue. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. Much love and goodnight. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. yes. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. All Rights Reserved. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. that makes a lot of sense. Again. much love to each and every one of you." In third density. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself.to fourth-density thinking. "If you can't feel the pain. . we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. you can truly experience unconditional love. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. are so valuable because they make up the soup. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. and they will always be an issue. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. that you're angry at. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. you will soar. what a load off your mind that is. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. Yes. The pain will start to subside. what a load off your energy. Much.

you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. incarnationally speaking. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. First. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden .galactic heritage and sexuality. for instance. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. As you know. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . we will integrate them together. This is Germane. if the weight is balanced on both sides. The idea . the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. who were the freedom fighters. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. In a tug-of-war. "Black" is not meant to be negative.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. These individuals we've called the Black League. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. Earth was a place where you could come. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. First of all. Thus you can see the dynamic. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. they would be annihilated.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. So let us start with Orion. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. This is the energy. It took them a very. neither person is going to win. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species.they did not want to be found.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. Many of you on Earth. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. Orion Civilization . We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. The Empire vs. certain patterns of conflict. If they were found. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization.

So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. to release emotional energy. There's a recognition . There is no "sneaking around. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. The Orions mate for life. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. resonate with the most. very intense in a certain way. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. because it's definitely a two-way street .and you choose to be a surrogate. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). This is for a very specific reason. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. and there's no doubt of that recognition. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization.an instant recognition . you ask. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. to say the least. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. Again. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. So this is the one we will talk about. and even a bit scary for some of you. When you're chosen as a surrogate . During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. at least for now. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. but from their .your civilization included. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. to release the energy of conflict. So when the mate is finally found. because this is the energy that you on Earth. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. very close to them.the relationship becomes as mates. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. Surrogates So.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity.when two people come together who are to be mated. but also through nonsexual intimacy. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. This is the opposite.

Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. they moved very slowly. there was a lot of genetic change. It's simply the way they are. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. But that was a difficult one. This is why it is of primary . They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . Because of this. This is not anything that is imposed on them. that is the way the stress is released. Now. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality.in the direction of the mate. However. for instance. one is for exchange of intimacy. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. The Orion civilization was many. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. for fantasy simply does not exist.point of view extremely fulfilling. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. many thousands of years long. it is eventually genetically encoded. before the conflict was resolved. Experience does change genetics. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. When one is under stress. they repress fantasy. societally speaking. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. etc. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was.it's second nature. yes. yes. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. So it would depend on which period of time. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation.even in thought . how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. The Vulcan is repressing. so it's not a repression of anything. does not exist. But. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. During the times of the intense conflict. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. After awhile it's no longer control . The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. for instance. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. One thing we would like to say here. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. If one mate was killed. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. That is an undisciplined thought. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions.

in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system .importance that each Orion have a mate. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. In the ancient. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. marriage rates increase. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. they're not pledging their love for the future. you may do some research.what you would call marriage. recognize emotionality in the moment . they're monogamous in the moment. The Pleiadian Civilization . but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to.and that is how they choose to live their lives. They have ceremonies. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. As with the Orions.the Pleiadian civilization. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. During times of peace other things are looked at. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. ancient Pleiadian past. one on one . You don't have to be as disciplined. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . many of them do. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. very connected. There are also married groups. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. Because of this focus on positivity. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). to some degree. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. but when they pledge their love to a person. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. there are three or more. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. because there are other ways of channeling energy. These marriage units are very loving. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. This is. very committed to each other. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. So if any of you wish to examine that further. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. That's their idea of monogamy.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. So they were intent on repressing negativity. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. they feel secure .

a conscious choice. certain fears. etc. not having sexual relations with another person. you get used to the partner. and there is a disconnection. it's very. On your planet. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. you don't have to face certain issues. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. the mate quite often will be very hurt. will attempt to latch on to you.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. They recognize that it must be the time. very safe. When you are in a monogamous relationship. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. however. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. However. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment.it does . as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. kind of like the . total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. This is changing now. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed." there's total understanding. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. will show a lot of pain. Not that it does not occur here . One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at.move into something else. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). that would be expressed as true monogamy. both of you have. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy.

For the Pleiadians. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. It's simply a matter of choice. But you are already beginning to create it. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. Now. we'll finish what we're saying. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. It's very important that we say that. when they are denying and repressing. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. none of these civilizations are better than yours. will not have pain and fear. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. to find out what your own inner truth is. you don't know how to do this. Eventually. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. That's what's occurring now. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. They are different. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. deep level. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization.Orions. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. No one here is any better. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. But neither of their expressions are better. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. as your consciousness is raising. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself.when that is actually what they are excited by. So back . It's important that we say this. In your society now. Dis-eases. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. As your consciousness raises. since we've already opened our mouth. they've taught you a lot. It will work for you. any more evolved. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are.

Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. and anger and pain lie. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. Q: Separation is never a solution. yes. Correct. thinking separation is a solution. It's a matter of resistance and flow. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. If you really feel that . examine your motivation. for instance. they're a mirror image of themselves. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. very deep levels .it's a partnership. many dimensions to it. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . that does not constitute separation at all.levels that you've not wished to look at before.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. AIDS and cancer. absolute reflection of themselves. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. However. there's no flow . There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. when we feel that a relationship might be over. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. with your question. Whenever there's resistance.then they did have some disease. and to release that. AIDS. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . or whether it's a true excitement.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. When they are having a relationship. or clear the energy so you can stay. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . to understand where your fears. think about taking action. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. Whenever there's flow. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship.your own and others'. If. So when they separate. more than any other disease you have on your planet.

It is humanoid. Their skin is very different. it's olive-colored . Now. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. same thing). two legs. That's a perfect form of birth control. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. Thank you. head. You will seek out a half. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. . the male has complete control over an erection mentally. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. Sexually. two legs.way inside. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur.a brown base with a greenish tinge."I'd like you to meet my `better half. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. It's like some of your animals. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. body. Unfortunately. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. You'll only draw to you that which you are. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. A couple of other minor differences. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. Now. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. Do you follow? Q: Yes. it doesn't completely disappear. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. That gives you a general idea of the body types. and complete control over ejaculation. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . Each person is not complete within themselves. anyway. It is your galactic family. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. then when you separate. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. That is why when they separate. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. relationships are frequently not completed. In terms of getting aroused sexually.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. The women have similar control over ovulation. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. You won't be able to seek out a whole person.

" The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. let's do tantra today. eye-toeye recognition. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. It's not as if they would say. You see the difference? And again. so to speak. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . when the woman came out of her shell. That is one way. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. but it's not a conscious. It's part of who they are. One. That's one level of it. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. are both highly ritualized. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . So it touched you .that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. Well. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". then tantra is better. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. several different levels. one for procreation and one for intimacy. including chocolate ice cream.deliberately nonphysical. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. none of this is better than . like you saw in Cocoon. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange.it touched a lot of people in your society . But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. "Well. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. because it is a God union. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. yes. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. But this occurs all the time. For instance. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this.

as we saw the birth rate decrease. less complete. You have been talking about us. are also learning and growing. We gave much thought to this and chose. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. once we were underground. We needed. so we were called.anything else. You are learning and growing. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. There is much to share with you. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. Due to severe radiation. who we've been talking about. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. We knew this was to occur. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. and that is not the case. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . At this point in time. We were born from conflict. It was understood by us. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. We have much to share with you. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. We know you have many questions.Group Mind This is Harone. We had war. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. Within our civilization we had much diversity. that there was to be a species crisis. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. It becomes dimmer. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. since our environment was going to collapse. then. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. balanced and nonviolent in every way. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. we were born from crisis. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. Your forefathers. we could control the future of our race.

but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. you will become more unified. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. when we interact with you either physically or etherically.though our realities may say we are. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. We are infinitely entwined .our end of the agreement. Simply put. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution.males from females. we will have physical facilitators. some need activation on the physical level. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. However. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear.we are not separate . In our work with you. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. we are told that their numbers are quite small. these latent genetic codes. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. Even though we do not understand why. We will become much more individualistic. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. We are taking a species leap together. They would have you think they are much more numerous. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. for from our point of view we . 2. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. Our organs began atrophying over many. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. when we went underground and began cloning. Because we have lost this ability for so long. we will become much more similar. That is what is occurring now. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. we work with these genetic structures. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. You will find that as evolution occurs.

many of you have come to our reality. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. engage those fears and move through them. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. We're afraid of being vulnerable. From our point of view. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. Our interactions with you represent evolution. So in terms of symbolic expression. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. what was happening in your culture. to change you. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. Our interactions with you push buttons. even more than upon your world today. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. We learn what we desire. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. recognize we have no intent. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. your interactions with us will change dramatically. We recognize there may be questions from you. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. You are resisting . It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us.recognize you have given us permission. as we have stated. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Unfortunately for our development. this is an equal exchange. you feel the tide of evolution. your civilization. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. you learn what you desire. When we interact with you.

but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. and until that fear is confronted and released. Vulnerable . We may not know how to understand your emotions. There is no arousal.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . energy shielding. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. It penetrates all of them. That is. to the One. And you see that in that choice there is no pain.that is not what is meant . it really depends on which group. as you know the term. You let your guard down. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. eggs. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. and in that case. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. or disempowered vulnerability. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes.sperm. into different groups that have different purposes.evolution because of your fear. but we do pay attention to them. It is not just cold research. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. not as if we were invading . because the emotions are very intense for us. It is a matter of shifting perspective. a mind link. Some are interested in reproductive research. We are divided.again we speak of the dynamic. Our way . you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. skin samples and also an understanding. not of what we intend to do . you are open to All That Is. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . when you are vulnerable. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. that you are not part of species transformation. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. that's what I was getting at. saying you have not created this somehow. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. of what procreation means to the person. shall we say. Well. secretions from prostate. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. So biologically speaking. you will feel the pressure of evolution. If you surrender. Very often some of us will have protection. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor.not in the negative sense of weakness . as you would say. When you are lying on an examination table. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution.

And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. which is very uncomfortable. We interact with you on every level we can. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. certainly. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. we can enter your reality in a light state. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. . Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. Some of you will sense our energy.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. You've done your research well. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. Our love to you and goodnight. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. we must densify ourselves. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. Now that may be inaccurate . That is also something of primary interest to us. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. We must deal with data. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base.perhaps many of you would think it is .

Also. imagine yourself as being a river. your showers. Let us first address the physical level. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. This is rather abstract. Not just the ingesting of it. The more . Also. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. but you will know what is right for you. You are 90 some-odd percent water. the voltage is going to be upped. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. We would recommend distilled or purified. plan accordingly. a current. Germane through Lyssa Royal. so the electrical current is always running through your body. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. That will be fruits and vegetables. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. All Rights Reserved. whatever your choice is. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. So. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. allow yourself to feel fluid. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. the presence of water. Now. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter.

You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. You may even want to get some fish. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. that's perfectly fine. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. can significantly slow . But in the long run. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). we guarantee you. When you bathe or shower. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. If you can't do that. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. if you're living under major power lines. So. There is some jewelry. The radiation is not going to damage you. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. It will be a conversation piece as well. it's all connected. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. If you want to put crystals in your bath. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. Along with water comes detoxification. You are symbiotic.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. there are several options available to you. wear some of it. Now. (No need to get neurotic about this. if it does any at all. You can get one of those fishtanks. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. put your feet in the water. The water will then be in your auric field. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). LCD screen. or very specific types of strict diets. That's one idea. If you use a computer a lot. is to keep water close to you if you can. that incorporates water. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). you see these on your laptops. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. or fill your bathtub. So. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. and you can feel the environment of that water. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. on the market there are radiation screens. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. for instance. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. your planet also recognizes its need for water. You may also sit by a lake. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. of course. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. That's an optimum situation. it's up to you. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. Actually. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. If you feel attracted to that. again. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. very helpful for you. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very.

Now. Now. then absolutely anything can hurt you. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer.your own healing abilities. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. It is not our understanding that you will ever. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. As soon as that is recognized and owned. these are guidelines. No television. where you are the only creator of your reality. This is about learning sovereignty. computers and microwave ovens away. It's got to be one or the other. that is for others to answer. Many say to throw your TVs. and no more sinister plots. . If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. no computer creates that. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. when this type of fearful information is given. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. So. information to be added to your storehouse. And so this is about processing belief systems. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. because it makes you think. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. and that's very important to stress. information to make you think. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. there will be no more victims. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. and it's certainly not going to do anything. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. From our point of view. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. Category: Healing.

The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. . When we can't handle our attachments. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. thought. (Ultimately. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. What begins as duality and polarization within time. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . It inundates your entire being. the Western Judeo-Christian. pleasure. was to keep them well in check. the body. On the direct path of conscious awareness . they enslave us and we enslave others. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. but the game is over.beyond. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then .) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. People use each other for lust. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. The most extreme instance is called rape. whether they know it or not. People get carried away. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. but concurrent with our everyday existence. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy.The Path With No Obstacles . It delivers you . is the opportunity for ego-loss.Tantra For a thousand years. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. and many have yet to answer it. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. and it's good for your health. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. through no other human activity. Lust is only a call to love. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. Yet. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. and our most basic instincts. and a gift of Enlightenment. ironically. otherwise rarely known in human existence.body and soul .By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. save dying.

Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . after all.we find ourselves indulging in what is. . rituals. Ph. Meditation.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. not deny it. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. and all too often ." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. The great enigma is.Miranda Shaw. money. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy.D. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality.when people use each other uncaringly . Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. when . mystical rituals. Sufi and tantric couples practices. breathing exercises. or it is devil-worship. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. or fame).despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . They fear one and fake the other. and get it over with as quickly as possible. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. and conditioning. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. music. By that logic. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. and call this "correct. power. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. as in indigenous tribal customs. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. depending upon one's intent. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. invocations. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. candlelight." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. and the total fulfillment of your partner. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. state of mind. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. ceremonial objects. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. incense. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. innate sexuality. the thrill. .

ours. Wait for the perfect moment. Breathe together. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. Make love with your whole being. Fall in love. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. whom you worship in awe. Every touch is The First. Make it Holy. all purifying. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. animal to divine. Listen for Inner Guidance. Gaze into each other's eyes. Transpose taking and giving. from passion to compassion. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. weeks. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Touch only in awe. stay in love. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. with reverence. letting hers become yours. to the sacred fire within. Giving and taking merge. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Meditate.. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Surrender continuously. die into love. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Everything matters. . unconditionally. Opening all your centers. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Foreplay is truly playful. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. Worship your lover. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. Decelerate until time stands still. Begin motionless and in silence. all consuming. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Trust your body's deepest impulses. Abandon all gain and control. long and deep. engaging all your faculties. breathtakingly tender. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Give only pleasure and love. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. You notice everything. and you two become One. Give voice to your feelings. Reside always at the beginning. Move in slow motion. Purify yourself in body and mind. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. and time stands still. the passion intense and profound. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. confused. all fulfilling.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Die as a personality.

Ph. .D. Brown.From "Enlightenment in Our Time." by Lonny J.

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