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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
Breaking. Some people are denying them. You allow the other person to move in that direction. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. It is not the issue. No one seems to really get the point. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. and challenge you. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. you are going to start feeling pain. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. So. That. They have nothing to do with the problem. Divorce is a 3D solution. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. It is a symptom. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. If they are vulnerable. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. and that is allowed. Some people are polarizing. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. they are weak and open to attack. In 4D. It is not. is to be avoided in their belief. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. It is going to challenge you. Energetically.For one thing. then your relationships are going to start to change. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. confusion. If you create resistance. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. these things started in the 1960s of your time. no matter what choice happens. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. but you haven't known what was happening. Always. and never has been. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. you will create more discomfort and pain. Some people are going with the flow. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. Separation. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. because you can never be separate. Sex. Change does not mean they will end. There is no separation. they will blame sex. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. . first level. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. let some things out. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. If you are willing to move with it. It may first manifest outside of you. Change means change. is inside of you. they think all it has to do with is sex. and that is all change means. Instead. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. at all costs. they believe. If you are resisting change. That was a tool in 3D. it is going to be very different.
we apologize. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. So you are trying to act on your excitement. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. The choices are entirely for you. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. If the woman is Pleiadian. If we have explained it incorrectly. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. whatever) relationship. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. In 4D you are acting in the moment. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. That is the difference." No. then that choice is for you. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. It is trust. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. It is different from what you see here. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. with trust instead of control. It placates you into thinking you are secure. . Therefore. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. They have nothing to do with the other person. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. not a compulsion). this is reflected in their society's philosophy. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. That is what we meant by conscious choice. the idea of commitment does not exist. You do not have to plan for the future. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. Meaning absolute trust. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. In a 4D type relationship. allowance instead of manipulation. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. she has the child because she wants the child. You would just trust. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. If you choose to be non-monogamous.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. although your society will change. The choices are all for you. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. In 4D type relationships. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. They are all part of the same family anyway. Because she wants the child. No. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. You only make the choices for you and no one else. You say to the person. Your mate can do whatever they want. If you choose monogamy. So.
One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. It looks nice. so all the issue come crawling out. we become dependent on the other person. Yes. I would rather not cause problems for them. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. I've finally been making choices for myself. you can love it. Not just a child. Therefore. is all dependency gone? Yes. You can say nice things all the time. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. and still push people's buttons. "Oh. You must. "Oh. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. If you are in the moment.Exactly. For others. It really depends on the individual. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. But I still want these people as friends. If you are totally 100% in the present. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. There will never be a time where you will say. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. but any reality that you create. Sex is just one of those lids. In the moment. Okay. Then in 4D. . Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. It is an equation that doesn't work." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. For others it is money. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. That is what I've been finding out. there is that child. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. sex is a really good trigger. This is a very good question. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. You say. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. and people have been getting upset. in the moment. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. I made a mistake in having this child. totally and absolutely. You have voiced the mass consciousness here." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. In the moment. then after the baby is born. at all costs. In 4D. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. you got a haircut. For some people it is sex." Never. Very simple. each day. No effort. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. and so when that recognition is there. I don't want to hurt other people. you cannot put that outside of yourself. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. you are in the past or the future.
The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. They all come from you. They like the concepts. then you polarize between victims and hurters. that is deliberately hurting her. in the husband's excitement he says. But there are no victims. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. In . The only thing you can be is fully who you are. At the same time. Good term. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. But in reality. There cannot ever be victims. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. In your innocence and excitement. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. I don't see there is an exception to that. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. It is then that each person will be challenged. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. "I want to go hot air ballooning. We might borrow that one. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. Well. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. You try to protect other people. That is then the way you will see the universe. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. and emotions. This is what we mean by enmeshment. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. If. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. That is one of my button-pushers here. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. If she chooses to be hurt. It prolongs the pain. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. He is protecting himself." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. fears. You can never hurt another person. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. it is her choice. That is empowerment. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. The outcome is the same. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. disapproval or invalidation. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. then you are manipulating people around you.
it is going to be devastating to you. Write them down. not necessarily the things they fear. Write it down. You protect them from the things that you fear. balance. It throws you into disharmony. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. You are all divine portions of the creator. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. They do not know who you are. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. first think what it is you want to say. If you look at a Pleiadian. Those judgments eat you up. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. All That Is is neutral. in one way. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). reflecting that which you feel within. When you hold back that which you are. Let yourself think it first. You stuff it. Then they only know you through your lies. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. You are lying to yourself. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. If you do not express who you are 100%. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. They are the ones generating their reality. The more you stuff it. You won't know what the thoughts are. It buries itself into your cells. Let it be okay to start thinking them. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. They cannot ever love you for who you are. Externalize them. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . the more diseased you get. You cannot withhold any portion of you. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. Say it into a tape recorder. It is. If they don't agree with you. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. Cancer. and then actually on the physical level. This is a no win situation. it is also insulting. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. it submerges itself. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. It is stasis. because they don't know who you are. If you do not express who you are. You are lying to the other person. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. You can tell them that. They cannot be victim of hurt. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. we've always screwed up the communication. to hell with what the others think. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. Be truthful. you are lying. Literally. that is their choice. heart disease. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. But in one way. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. Get comfortable with who you are. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself.
The more you practice. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. I understand that. There is only neutral expression. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. Again. You will learn how to tell the difference. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. Get out that pent-up energy. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. In fact. ." and you express your thought. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. Yes. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. But by all means at least express it to yourself. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. So it's essential for her to express that. and the synchronicity of All That Is. There are no wrong things. so it's fine.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. the more you will be able to tell. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. That wasn't my question. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. In the expression. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. Know who you are. That is not a clean idea. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. There are not mistakes in creation. whether it is attacking or not attacking. for instance). whether she thinks it's clean or not. She can tell me I'm a jerk.. Sometimes you can see that. If that expression is an attack. because that in itself is part of the growth process. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. they will feel attacked. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. If you think it's clean. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. If you do (to get them to do something. "You are a jerk. In the addictive state. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. and I don't agree with that. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. We apologize if the language was misleading. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. There are times when you cannot see it.." if you feel hurt. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. All right. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. Before you express something. Okay. times when you say to yourself. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. If they have no issue about being attacked. That is not what was implied. and if it is indeed an attack. It cannot be any other way. If your wife walks up to you and says. they are not going to feel attacked. "It is clean as a whistle. then express it. and that's cool. let us clarify. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. Other times you cannot. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression.
then you will have matched your vibrations. Victimhood would come into it. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. it's not true excitement. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. but we didn't make it a major point. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. so don't tell me about it if you do that . that's not going to hurt him in the least. if you really.to fourth-density relationships model. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). It will lock your relationship into third density. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. every instance must support ultimately that belief. then every action. because it's the way to take your power back. really believe that. "You look like a pig today. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. then it's clean. it's not clean. and it will not hurt him. underneath everything else. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. and you may say. You may walk up to your husband one day. They can choose to feel hurt. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. It is not possible. If you really believe that Creation is Love. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. You cannot hurt another person. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. You can never hurt another person. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. Well. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. third-density relationships often express victimhood. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question." And if he feels really good about himself. But if you do. That is the bottomline intention of creation. also. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. that hurts me.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. ever. "If you have dinner with another woman. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. Examine your beliefs. But you can't know. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally.
It's one package or another package. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. exactly. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. you will not feel pain. those in the room. allowance. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. honesty. It's all equal anyway. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. it's fine. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. unconditional love. then you're right. but recognize that's what you're choosing. reading this. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it... so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. You're holding onto something from third density. then actually. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. However. because the cruise control does not come with third density. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. It's a significator. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. to remind you that you can still feel. Many people are using it that way. I won't feel any pain. but that's secrecy and it's third density. no. If you choose third density. Exactly. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. Yes. which an indicator that you are making the change. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. So whenever I feel pain. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. and that's quite all right. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. . there's nothing wrong with it. Right? Yes! So it's fine. and you're feeling the pain. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. Absolutely. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice." That's okay to ask for that. secrecy.
Sasha: All right. we will have a short break. exactly. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. some of the understandings. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. However. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. it really does not. it's an expression of who we are. They do not have to bring pain.Again. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. Sasha. with respect to your channel. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. Third density is the density of polarity. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. After that. of course. but you don't have to manifest pain. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. Now. let me repeat myself. Yes. you are going to see tremendous. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. overall. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. powerful changes within your life. It's simply different. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. Greeting to all of you. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. Do not be surprised. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. Greetings. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. literally that means two . Now. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. necessity meaning single parents. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. absolutely 100% guaranteed. not necessarily in every single relationship. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. And you will begin to see. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. Now. Now. this is Sasha.
As you move into fourth-density type relationships. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. But recognize where the time element comes into it. back and forth. if you in third-density. It cannot happen. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. insert a third variable. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. that you must at all cost heal this. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. So therefore. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. again. I was also in a mated group. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. we're not saying. back and forth. you must just go for it. back and forth.. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. Absolutely cannot happen. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. so if I don't have this. As you start choosing how you want to live. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. as Germane was not saying. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. back and forth. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. there will be no problem here. but it might not necessarily work for you. It can. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality.ideas are present. It is not time. so because of the aloneness. The dynamics will have to change. Well. Period. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). and then you bring in another mate. most definitely. And that is something that we would like to address. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. I get caught in the time factor.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. Make your choices. are present. That is a third-density idea. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. "This is better than this. because using the paddle idea. So when I spend time with my mate." Do you follow? Now. honesty. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. Now. living in the moment. I'm not alone. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. Do you all follow? Thoughts. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. Now. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. etc. . back and forth. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. it takes away the love they can have for you. I am deprived. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. When you love yourself unconditionally. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. and in this mated group. fourth. as intense. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. these things are going to begin coming up.
Sasha. which is open to all. . And again in fourth density. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. through who you have been as a species. Question. when you lived with a group. when your mate is not there. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. and the same thing with the Orions. The shift is going to happen. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. You are it. I was just curious about that because. at least right now. if you will. Or comment. as Germane was saying. The same thing with the Essassani. It's just a question of when. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. Did you want more on that? Well. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. It will take longer if they resist it. Both companies are appreciated. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. it is still going to happen. And so when that recognition is there. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. no. Either way. We do not perceive. Both are equal. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. There were basically three different phases of environments. Sasha. that only we entered. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. So for instance. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. it's exciting in the moment. invited guests you may call it. One were rooms of privacy. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. And when you see your mate. Now you on your planet. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent.Exactly. Yes. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. Do what you can. you are excited in the moment with yourself. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. The critical mass is going to happen. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen.
but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. very rough. having to deal with the need to control. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. We are going through relationship transformation. it was a natural movement from one state to another. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. You follow? Yes.. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way.. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. So it's that issue. or not even that different. not out of a sense of prejudice. and therefore for instance. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. that's when I was in the group. If that's true. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. yes. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. to give you a very dramatic example. there was no fighting. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. One last question along these lines. Just with a different twist. We knew you would be the one to bring it up." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. there was no resistance. Sasha. there were no tears or anger. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. It's a little bit different. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. You know those Zetas. Yes. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. . let us say.
and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. because literally the past does not hold your answers. etc. a different developmental structure. there is so much emphasis on body types. It is of a creative vibration. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. That was not so much of a challenge. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities.. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. In third density. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. that becomes irrelevant. sex does not become a big deal. any man that I've been around. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are.. Right now. sexuality is not sex. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. etc. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. Now. and if that is the case. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. the present holds your answers. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. can it? Exactly. On our planet and in third density. but he taught us a thing or two. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. We're not talking about the sex act. going to bed with Sasha. Again. Maybe. Again. There is simply one expression. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past.." I mean. A lot of this searching goes on.. Not only that. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. "Hmm. no child feels unwanted. Now. That was kind of a landmark. And if you were to live in the moment. I will be attracted to a certain body type. someone else will be attracted to this body type. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. They are very secure in their identity in the present. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. it can't be used against you.
they're too tall. That is very accurate. there is no attention on body type. those symbols will change because you will change. they're too ugly. When you do not need something from another individual. But it is not a need in any way. Most definitely. but the preferences are so unimportant. If you all felt that way. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. you feel vibrant. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. Separation. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. Exactly. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. I know.No. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. Well. if you're all gorgeous. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there." Oh. you feel beautiful. you would have all that male and female inside your body. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. If you are so together and whole. Conditional love. Exactly. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. you feel healthy. And that is the cycle. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. When you move into fourth density. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. They are natural diversifying characteristics. you would all be "gorgeous" also. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. . Yes. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. conditions. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. Most definitely. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. we may have preferences. Now. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. that is a third-density idea.
So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. There is a difference. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. The recipe requires carrots and celery. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. we would say. Third density is separation. Fourth density is integration. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. Now. If you do not want to look at your needs. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. In fact. Work with it. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. yes. then it is out of need. Sasha. Integration is the entire soup itself. Can be. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals.It's almost like a paradox here. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. exactly. Recognize the need. To use an analogy. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. you will not know the recipe. fun and excitement instead of need. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. Living the relationship. and it will take a lot more energy. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. Do you follow? There is a fine line. you will not know how to cook the soup. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. The recipe needs those things.
We do not have that particular expression. You're not attacking someone. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. however. Nothing exists without a purpose. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. we're talking in ways that are different than you. . personal growth will always have to suffer. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. and your needs. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. But if you choose personal growth. recognize what you get with that choice. Now again. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. Sasha. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. Do you want to comment on that? Well. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. As long as the relationship takes precedence. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. So neither one is wrong nor right. as dysfunctional as they may be. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. Exactly. I become angry. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth.carrots. There are times when we recognize. If you choose personal growth over relationships. Go to your own garden. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. Exactly. you are choosing to integrate yourself.
or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. And like we say with the soup. getting the package deal there. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. if that's the case. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. and I feel it's a very good answer. If they feel deprived. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. I appreciate that. I refuse to do that. That is all you are responsible for. I follow. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. I guess. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. That doesn't matter. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. Ahhh. but there is. from my thirddensity perspective. We're not understanding the exact question. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. And even if I'm able to say.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. Well. I have one question. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. Back in this needs issue. Well. . that need is okay. We are sorry. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. pulling yourself back into third density. and I can tune into it. But it came into my life suddenly. it's their choice. But you can play out that game. "No. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. You cannot deprive another person.
So when you have no expectations . That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. In other words. hostility. They will not verbalize them. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. you cannot know. and it started out. Exactly. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. Now. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. caring and sharing. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. very low¾hidden anger. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. starts setting in. "I don't expect anything from it. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. For one thing. you're not in fourth density. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. Exactly. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. you will get caught because it is a game. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. If you have that need. Seventy-five percent. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. That is so correct. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. And just be pure in my own intention. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Am I on track? Yes. nearly nonexistent. Obviously that is a trap. Period. You can never second-guess another person. they will never be satisfied. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. and then they will be angry. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. ecstasy. the level of anger would be very. However. and let it be whatever it ends up being.which is exactly what I do not want to do." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. whether covert or overt. play. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. the anger. You are still playing the thirddensity game. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. I remember saying.
That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. much. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. that makes a lot of sense. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. they will stay there on the counter. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. you can truly experience unconditional love. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. you will soar. going to start seeing changes. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. You are moving in that direction. The joy will start to grow. . the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. they will transform. you can't feel the ecstasy. are so valuable because they make up the soup. It's a gradual movement from third. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps." In third density. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. Again. Yes.about the other person fulfilling your needs. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. is difficult. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. yes. much love to each and every one of you. The pain will start to subside. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful.to fourth-density thinking. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. that you judge. it's not a light switch going on and off. If you judge them. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. Much love and goodnight. Once that idea is relinquished. And so. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. "If you can't feel the pain. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. what a load off your energy. and they will always be an issue. what a load off your mind that is. All Rights Reserved. you then know there's an issue. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. In fourth density. Copyright © 1993. yes. that idea cannot exist. Much. It will just automatically start unfolding. You can enjoy yourself. that you're angry at.
whatever energy you are exposed to as infants.they did not want to be found. So let us start with Orion. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. Orion Civilization . This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. Earth was a place where you could come. for instance. As you know. It took them a very. Thus you can see the dynamic. First. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. who were the freedom fighters. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. incarnationally speaking. certain patterns of conflict. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. Many of you on Earth. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. First of all. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. we will integrate them together. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. These individuals we've called the Black League. "Black" is not meant to be negative. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both .galactic heritage and sexuality.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. The idea . This is Germane. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. The Empire vs. if the weight is balanced on both sides. If they were found.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. In a tug-of-war. This is the energy. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. neither person is going to win. they would be annihilated.
This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system.when two people come together who are to be mated.and you choose to be a surrogate. So this is the one we will talk about. Again. because it's definitely a two-way street . When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. to say the least. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. So when the mate is finally found. but from their . but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . you ask. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. to release emotional energy.an instant recognition . and even a bit scary for some of you. resonate with the most. When you're chosen as a surrogate . So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. to release the energy of conflict.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. There is no "sneaking around.the relationship becomes as mates. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. This is for a very specific reason. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate.your civilization included. The Orions mate for life. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. but also through nonsexual intimacy. at least for now. very intense in a certain way. and there's no doubt of that recognition. This is the opposite. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. very close to them. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. because this is the energy that you on Earth. Surrogates So. There's a recognition . But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very.
and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. The Vulcan is repressing. it is eventually genetically encoded. before the conflict was resolved. yes. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. Because of this. societally speaking. It's simply the way they are. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . That is an undisciplined thought. This is why it is of primary . so it's not a repression of anything. they moved very slowly. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. does not exist. One thing we would like to say here. After awhile it's no longer control . Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. etc. for fantasy simply does not exist.even in thought . Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. they repress fantasy.it's second nature. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. But.in the direction of the mate. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. Experience does change genetics. one is for exchange of intimacy. During the times of the intense conflict. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan.point of view extremely fulfilling. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. Now. If one mate was killed. many thousands of years long. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. When one is under stress. The Orion civilization was many. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. This is not anything that is imposed on them. But that was a difficult one. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. for instance. for instance. yes. However. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. So it would depend on which period of time. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. that is the way the stress is released. there was a lot of genetic change. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality.
an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. very connected. So they were intent on repressing negativity.importance that each Orion have a mate. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system .Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . but when they pledge their love to a person.and that is how they choose to live their lives. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. they feel secure .the Pleiadian civilization. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. In the ancient. Because of this focus on positivity. to some degree. recognize emotionality in the moment . they're not pledging their love for the future. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. There are also married groups. very committed to each other. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. These marriage units are very loving. That's their idea of monogamy. You don't have to be as disciplined. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. As with the Orions. During times of peace other things are looked at. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. they're monogamous in the moment. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. because there are other ways of channeling energy. The Pleiadian Civilization . If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. ancient Pleiadian past. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit).what you would call marriage. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. many of them do. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. This is." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. marriage rates increase. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. They have ceremonies. So if any of you wish to examine that further. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . there are three or more.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. one on one . you may do some research. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity.
This is changing now. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. the mate quite often will be very hurt. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. it's very. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. will show a lot of pain. that would be expressed as true monogamy. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy." there's total understanding. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. very safe. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. Not that it does not occur here . and there is a disconnection. certain fears.it does . however. you don't have to face certain issues. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. you get used to the partner. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. not having sexual relations with another person. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. will attempt to latch on to you. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it.move into something else. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. On your planet. kind of like the . instead of your parental or societal conditioning. a conscious choice. They recognize that it must be the time. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. both of you have. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. However. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. etc. When you are in a monogamous relationship.
we'll finish what we're saying. No one here is any better. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. Now. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. As your consciousness raises. you don't know how to do this. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. It's simply a matter of choice. deep level. So back . In your society now.when that is actually what they are excited by. They are different. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. to find out what your own inner truth is. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. none of these civilizations are better than yours. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. since we've already opened our mouth. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. That's what's occurring now. But neither of their expressions are better. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. It will work for you. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing.Orions. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. It's important that we say this. will not have pain and fear. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. Dis-eases. For the Pleiadians. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. as your consciousness is raising. they've taught you a lot. any more evolved. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. Eventually. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . It's very important that we say that. But you are already beginning to create it. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. when they are denying and repressing. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society.
or whether it's a true excitement. absolute reflection of themselves. yes. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. examine your motivation. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. Whenever there's flow. AIDS. that does not constitute separation at all. Correct. thinking separation is a solution. It's a matter of resistance and flow. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so .how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. for instance. When they are having a relationship. So when they separate. think about taking action. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many.then they did have some disease. very deep levels . Whenever there's resistance. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . If. If you really feel that . If you try to leave and it's very difficult . or clear the energy so you can stay. However.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow .your own and others'.levels that you've not wished to look at before.it's a partnership. they're a mirror image of themselves. many dimensions to it. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. to understand where your fears. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. AIDS and cancer. with your question. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. and to release that. there's no flow . and anger and pain lie.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. when we feel that a relationship might be over. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. Q: Separation is never a solution. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. more than any other disease you have on your planet.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving.
You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. Now. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . relationships are frequently not completed. it's olive-colored . body. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. That is why when they separate. It is humanoid. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). You'll only draw to you that which you are. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. head. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. It's like some of your animals. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. That's a perfect form of birth control. anyway."I'd like you to meet my `better half.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. You will seek out a half. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. and complete control over ejaculation. Thank you. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street.way inside. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex.a brown base with a greenish tinge. same thing). So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. two legs. Now. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. The women have similar control over ovulation. . The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. A couple of other minor differences. It is your galactic family. Do you follow? Q: Yes. Unfortunately. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. Each person is not complete within themselves. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. then when you separate. Sexually. two legs. Their skin is very different. In terms of getting aroused sexually. it doesn't completely disappear. That gives you a general idea of the body types.
but it's not a conscious. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. are both highly ritualized. because it is a God union. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. For instance. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. Well. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. let's do tantra today. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. none of this is better than . several different levels. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. "Well. when the woman came out of her shell. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. including chocolate ice cream. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. One. So it touched you . in her light form and they had that powerful integration . Q: In the movie "Cocoon". one for procreation and one for intimacy. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. It's not as if they would say. like you saw in Cocoon.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. then tantra is better. so to speak. You see the difference? And again. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. yes. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. eye-toeye recognition.it touched a lot of people in your society .because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels.deliberately nonphysical. But this occurs all the time. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . It's part of who they are. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. That's one level of it. That is one way. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration.
Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. are also learning and growing. Your forefathers. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. It becomes dimmer. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. We needed. We have much to share with you. Due to severe radiation. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. At this point in time. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. It was understood by us. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness.anything else. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. You have been talking about us. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. We knew this was to occur. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. balanced and nonviolent in every way. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. we were born from crisis. since our environment was going to collapse. so we were called. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. There is much to share with you. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. and that is not the case.Group Mind This is Harone. You are learning and growing. We know you have many questions. less complete. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. We gave much thought to this and chose. once we were underground. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. we could control the future of our race. who we've been talking about. We were born from conflict. then. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. that there was to be a species crisis. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We had war. Within our civilization we had much diversity. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative.
many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude.though our realities may say we are. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. we will have physical facilitators. Because we have lost this ability for so long. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. we work with these genetic structures. Even though we do not understand why. In our work with you. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. these latent genetic codes. They would have you think they are much more numerous. some need activation on the physical level. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality.our end of the agreement. when we went underground and began cloning. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level.we are not separate . However. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. You will find that as evolution occurs. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. Our organs began atrophying over many. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. We are infinitely entwined . This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature.males from females. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. 2. We are taking a species leap together. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. We will become much more individualistic. for from our point of view we . That is what is occurring now. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. you will become more unified. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. we are told that their numbers are quite small. we will become much more similar. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. Simply put. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear.
This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. recognize we have no intent. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation.recognize you have given us permission. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. From our point of view. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. even more than upon your world today. You are resisting . what was happening in your culture. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. as we have stated. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. Our interactions with you represent evolution. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. Unfortunately for our development. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. this is an equal exchange. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. your interactions with us will change dramatically. engage those fears and move through them. to change you. you feel the tide of evolution. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. We're afraid of being vulnerable. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. you learn what you desire. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. your civilization. many of you have come to our reality. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. We recognize there may be questions from you. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. Our interactions with you push buttons. When we interact with you. We learn what we desire. So in terms of symbolic expression.
If you surrender.again we speak of the dynamic. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. to the One. a mind link. it really depends on which group.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. Some are interested in reproductive research. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. that's what I was getting at. energy shielding. secretions from prostate. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. It penetrates all of them. skin samples and also an understanding. Very often some of us will have protection. When you are lying on an examination table. as you would say. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. not as if we were invading . because the emotions are very intense for us. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. and until that fear is confronted and released. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . You let your guard down. Our way . That is. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. of what procreation means to the person. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. Well. shall we say. that you are not part of species transformation. but we do pay attention to them. So biologically speaking. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas.sperm. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. Vulnerable . as you know the term. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. We may not know how to understand your emotions. when you are vulnerable. We are divided. you will feel the pressure of evolution. or disempowered vulnerability. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. There is no arousal. eggs. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. It is not just cold research. not of what we intend to do . It is a matter of shifting perspective. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. and in that case. into different groups that have different purposes. you are open to All That Is.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way.that is not what is meant .evolution because of your fear.not in the negative sense of weakness . whereas each and every one of you is part of that. saying you have not created this somehow. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act.
Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. we can enter your reality in a light state. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. which is very uncomfortable. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. certainly. Some of you will sense our energy. . But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. We interact with you on every level we can. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. That is also something of primary interest to us. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. You've done your research well.perhaps many of you would think it is . Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. we must densify ourselves. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. We must deal with data. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. Now that may be inaccurate . At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. Our love to you and goodnight. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it.
imagine yourself as being a river. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. plan accordingly. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. So. Not just the ingesting of it. allow yourself to feel fluid. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. Also. whatever your choice is. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. Germane through Lyssa Royal. All Rights Reserved.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. the voltage is going to be upped. The more . the presence of water. so the electrical current is always running through your body. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. Let us first address the physical level. but you will know what is right for you. This is rather abstract. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. Also. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. We would recommend distilled or purified. That will be fruits and vegetables. a current. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. You are 90 some-odd percent water. your showers. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. Now.
You can get one of those fishtanks. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. Along with water comes detoxification. if it does any at all. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). There is some jewelry. it's all connected. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). can significantly slow . very helpful for you. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. You may even want to get some fish. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. Actually. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. we guarantee you. Now. wear some of it. for instance. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. That's an optimum situation. or very specific types of strict diets. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. that incorporates water. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. again. You may also sit by a lake. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. That's one idea. If you use a computer a lot. It will be a conversation piece as well. So. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. LCD screen. If you feel attracted to that. of course. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). But in the long run. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. or fill your bathtub. If you can't do that. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. your planet also recognizes its need for water. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. that's perfectly fine. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. If you want to put crystals in your bath. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. and you can feel the environment of that water. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. When you bathe or shower. if you're living under major power lines. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. The radiation is not going to damage you. is to keep water close to you if you can. (No need to get neurotic about this. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. there are several options available to you. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. it's up to you. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. You are symbiotic.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. you see these on your laptops. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. The water will then be in your auric field. So. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. on the market there are radiation screens. put your feet in the water. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification.
you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. As soon as that is recognized and owned. when this type of fearful information is given. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. there will be no more victims. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. these are guidelines. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. From our point of view. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. because it makes you think. Many say to throw your TVs. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim.your own healing abilities. and that's very important to stress. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. no computer creates that. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. . Now. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. and it's certainly not going to do anything. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. Category: Healing. where you are the only creator of your reality. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. So. information to be added to your storehouse. and no more sinister plots. that is for others to answer. And so this is about processing belief systems. then absolutely anything can hurt you. It's got to be one or the other. computers and microwave ovens away. It is not our understanding that you will ever. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. information to make you think. No television. Now. This is about learning sovereignty.
ironically. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. the body. was to keep them well in check. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. otherwise rarely known in human existence. whether they know it or not. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. It delivers you .The Path With No Obstacles . When we can't handle our attachments. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. but concurrent with our everyday existence. pleasure. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. Lust is only a call to love. the Western Judeo-Christian. On the direct path of conscious awareness . It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. Yet. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . but the game is over. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. they enslave us and we enslave others. and many have yet to answer it. What begins as duality and polarization within time. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. and our most basic instincts. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. People use each other for lust. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure.body and soul . and a gift of Enlightenment. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. The most extreme instance is called rape. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good.Tantra For a thousand years.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. (Ultimately. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. through no other human activity. thought. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. save dying. and it's good for your health. People get carried away.beyond.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. is the opportunity for ego-loss. It inundates your entire being. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. . the Yogin gains his eternal salvation.
Sufi and tantric couples practices. candlelight. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). as in indigenous tribal customs. and all too often . It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. Ph. Meditation. and get it over with as quickly as possible. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms.D. music.when people use each other uncaringly . A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. mystical rituals.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. or fame). invocations. .we find ourselves indulging in what is. rituals. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. and conditioning. when . Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. the thrill. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. depending upon one's intent. incense. . ceremonial objects. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. The great enigma is. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. money.Miranda Shaw. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. By that logic.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. breathing exercises. or it is devil-worship. and the total fulfillment of your partner. They fear one and fake the other. and call this "correct. power. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. innate sexuality. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. not deny it. after all. state of mind.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy.
Give only pleasure and love. and you two become One. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. long and deep. Begin motionless and in silence. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. all fulfilling. ours. the passion intense and profound. from passion to compassion. Breathe together. Make it Holy. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. unconditionally. breathtakingly tender. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. weeks. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. letting hers become yours. Decelerate until time stands still. Abandon all gain and control. all purifying. animal to divine. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. all consuming. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Wait for the perfect moment. stay in love. Gaze into each other's eyes. Surrender continuously. You notice everything. with reverence. Purify yourself in body and mind. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Trust your body's deepest impulses. confused. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. whom you worship in awe. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. The senses are magnified a thousand times.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Touch only in awe. to the sacred fire within. Die as a personality. Listen for Inner Guidance. and time stands still. Opening all your centers. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Giving and taking merge. Meditate. Reside always at the beginning. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE.. die into love. Everything matters. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. Transpose taking and giving. . and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Make love with your whole being. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Fall in love. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. Every touch is The First. Move in slow motion. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Give voice to your feelings. engaging all your faculties. Foreplay is truly playful. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Worship your lover.
. Brown. Ph.D." by Lonny J.From "Enlightenment in Our Time.
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