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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. and that is all change means. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. they think all it has to do with is sex. It is going to challenge you. Always. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. If you are willing to move with it. confusion. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. There is no separation. It may first manifest outside of you. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. because you can never be separate. They have nothing to do with the problem. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. Instead.For one thing. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. You allow the other person to move in that direction. That was a tool in 3D. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. It is a symptom. then your relationships are going to start to change. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. but you haven't known what was happening. It is not the issue. Separation. Energetically. Some people are polarizing. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. If you are resisting change. It is not. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. let some things out. Some people are going with the flow. . at all costs. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. If they are vulnerable. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. In 4D. Breaking. these things started in the 1960s of your time. is inside of you. No one seems to really get the point. Divorce is a 3D solution. So. If you create resistance. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. they are weak and open to attack. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. no matter what choice happens. and challenge you. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. you are going to start feeling pain. it is going to be very different. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. is to be avoided in their belief. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. you will create more discomfort and pain. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. first level. and that is allowed. Change does not mean they will end. Change means change. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. and never has been. Sex. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. Some people are denying them. they believe. That. they will blame sex.
They have nothing to do with the other person. It placates you into thinking you are secure. They are all part of the same family anyway. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. In 4D you are acting in the moment. You only make the choices for you and no one else. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. allowance instead of manipulation. If you choose monogamy. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. You would just trust. That is what we meant by conscious choice. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. Your mate can do whatever they want. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. then that choice is for you.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. she has the child because she wants the child. Meaning absolute trust. It is trust. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. The choices are entirely for you. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. That is the difference. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. with trust instead of control. If we have explained it incorrectly. If the woman is Pleiadian. So you are trying to act on your excitement. although your society will change. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. No. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. If you choose to be non-monogamous. not a compulsion)." No. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. Because she wants the child. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. whatever) relationship. It is different from what you see here. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. Therefore. The choices are all for you. In 4D type relationships. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. So. we apologize. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. You do not have to plan for the future. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. In a 4D type relationship. . the idea of commitment does not exist. You say to the person.
Very simple. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. You say. That is what I've been finding out. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. You can say nice things all the time. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. It really depends on the individual. This is a very good question. and still push people's buttons. For others.Exactly. at all costs. sex is a really good trigger. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. It is an equation that doesn't work. I would rather not cause problems for them. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. I've finally been making choices for myself. You must. you got a haircut. and people have been getting upset. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. Sex is just one of those lids." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. then after the baby is born. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. In the moment. each day. Not just a child. you are in the past or the future. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. For some people it is sex. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. Yes. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. is all dependency gone? Yes. "Oh. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. It looks nice. ." Never. Okay. in the moment. you cannot put that outside of yourself. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. I made a mistake in having this child. Therefore. so all the issue come crawling out. No effort. Then in 4D. "Oh. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. you can love it. I don't want to hurt other people. For others it is money. there is that child. If you are totally 100% in the present. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. But I still want these people as friends. If you are in the moment. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. totally and absolutely. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. In the moment." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. and so when that recognition is there. we become dependent on the other person. There will never be a time where you will say. but any reality that you create. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. In 4D. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question.
in the husband's excitement he says. and emotions. then you are manipulating people around you. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. They all come from you. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. In your innocence and excitement. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. Good term. There cannot ever be victims. Well. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. But there are no victims. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. The outcome is the same. You try to protect other people. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. it is her choice. disapproval or invalidation. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. "I want to go hot air ballooning. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. I don't see there is an exception to that. In . If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. You can never hurt another person. It prolongs the pain. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. This is what we mean by enmeshment. We might borrow that one. If she chooses to be hurt. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. They like the concepts. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. But in reality. That is then the way you will see the universe. At the same time. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. That is one of my button-pushers here.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. If. fears. then you polarize between victims and hurters. It is then that each person will be challenged. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. He is protecting himself. That is empowerment. that is deliberately hurting her. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult.
This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. The more you stuff it. If they don't agree with you. Let it be okay to start thinking them. because they don't know who you are. that is their choice. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. It is. not necessarily the things they fear. You are lying to the other person. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. we've always screwed up the communication. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. They are the ones generating their reality. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. Be truthful. It throws you into disharmony. in one way. it is going to be devastating to you. If you do not express who you are. it submerges itself. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. and then actually on the physical level. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. the more diseased you get. Externalize them. it is also insulting. They cannot ever love you for who you are. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. When you hold back that which you are. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. They do not know who you are. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). They cannot be victim of hurt. You are lying to yourself. You can tell them that. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. You won't know what the thoughts are. Write them down. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. All That Is is neutral. Let yourself think it first. Then they only know you through your lies. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. If you look at a Pleiadian. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. It is stasis. reflecting that which you feel within. But in one way. Cancer. You protect them from the things that you fear. If you do not express who you are 100%. Say it into a tape recorder. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. Those judgments eat you up. to hell with what the others think. you are lying. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. You stuff it. Write it down. Literally. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. This is a no win situation. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. balance. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. first think what it is you want to say. heart disease. You are all divine portions of the creator. You cannot withhold any portion of you. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. Get comfortable with who you are. It buries itself into your cells. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be.
If that expression is an attack. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. times when you say to yourself. "It is clean as a whistle. I understand that. But by all means at least express it to yourself. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. for instance). Again. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. You will learn how to tell the difference. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. That wasn't my question. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. So it's essential for her to express that. Yes. the more you will be able to tell.. because that in itself is part of the growth process. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. Other times you cannot. whether it is attacking or not attacking.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. Get out that pent-up energy. In the expression. they will feel attacked. Sometimes you can see that. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. and the synchronicity of All That Is." if you feel hurt. We apologize if the language was misleading. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. There is only neutral expression. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. That is not a clean idea. She can tell me I'm a jerk. Know who you are. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. If your wife walks up to you and says. If they have no issue about being attacked. There are not mistakes in creation. If you do (to get them to do something. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. That is not what was implied. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. and I don't agree with that. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. In the addictive state. "You are a jerk. then express it. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. There are times when you cannot see it." and you express your thought. If you think it's clean. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. The more you practice. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. Before you express something. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. All right. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. . In fact. Okay. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. and if it is indeed an attack. whether she thinks it's clean or not.. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. they are not going to feel attacked. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. so it's fine. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. There are no wrong things. It cannot be any other way. and that's cool. let us clarify.
knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. You may walk up to your husband one day. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. Examine your beliefs. then every action. "You look like a pig today." And if he feels really good about himself. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. then it's clean. every instance must support ultimately that belief. That is the bottomline intention of creation. But you can't know. it's not clean. underneath everything else.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. then you will have matched your vibrations. Well. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. so don't tell me about it if you do that . Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). that hurts me. It is not possible. You can never hurt another person. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. ever. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. because it's the way to take your power back. but we didn't make it a major point. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. if you really. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. third-density relationships often express victimhood.to fourth-density relationships model. It will lock your relationship into third density. and you may say. If you really believe that Creation is Love. that's not going to hurt him in the least. also. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. You cannot hurt another person. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. But if you do. Victimhood would come into it. and it will not hurt him. really believe that. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. it's not true excitement. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. "If you have dinner with another woman. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. They can choose to feel hurt.
but that's secrecy and it's third density. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. then actually. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. So whenever I feel pain. Yes. However. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. You're holding onto something from third density. Exactly. honesty. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. those in the room. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. exactly. there's nothing wrong with it. you will not feel pain. It's one package or another package. and that's quite all right. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people.. . Many people are using it that way. because the cruise control does not come with third density. then you're right. secrecy. It's all equal anyway. I won't feel any pain. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. and you're feeling the pain. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. unconditional love. which an indicator that you are making the change. allowance.. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. Right? Yes! So it's fine. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. If you choose third density. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. Absolutely. no. It's a significator. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. but recognize that's what you're choosing. it's fine." That's okay to ask for that. to remind you that you can still feel. reading this. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density.
literally that means two . perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. not necessarily in every single relationship. necessity meaning single parents. Now. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. powerful changes within your life. Now. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. They do not have to bring pain. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. of course. Greetings.Again. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. Greeting to all of you. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. Sasha: All right. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. absolutely 100% guaranteed. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. Sasha. some of the understandings. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. Now. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. After that. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. this is Sasha. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. but you don't have to manifest pain. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. exactly. it really does not. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. Yes. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. Third density is the density of polarity. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. it's an expression of who we are. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. let me repeat myself. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. And you will begin to see. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. It's simply different. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. Do not be surprised. However. we will have a short break. with respect to your channel. overall. Now. you are going to see tremendous. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall.
These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third." Do you follow? Now. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. back and forth. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. It can. living in the moment. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. as Germane was not saying. Well.. Do you all follow? Thoughts. there will be no problem here. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. these things are going to begin coming up. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. back and forth.ideas are present. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. back and forth. That is a third-density idea. Now. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. that you must at all cost heal this. Absolutely cannot happen. Make your choices. Now. The dynamics will have to change. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. . You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. again. And that is something that we would like to address. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. so because of the aloneness. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. are present. So when I spend time with my mate. it takes away the love they can have for you. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. insert a third variable. but it might not necessarily work for you. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. as intense. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. But recognize where the time element comes into it. "This is better than this. because using the paddle idea. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). I was also in a mated group. honesty. if you in third-density. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. so if I don't have this. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. I am deprived. I get caught in the time factor. As you start choosing how you want to live. etc. So therefore. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. we're not saying. Period. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. back and forth. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. and then you bring in another mate. and in this mated group. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. you must just go for it. I'm not alone. It is not time. fourth. most definitely. back and forth. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. When you love yourself unconditionally. It cannot happen.
Sasha. It will take longer if they resist it. it's exciting in the moment. and the same thing with the Orions. no. as Germane was saying. We do not perceive. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. through who you have been as a species. The critical mass is going to happen. it is still going to happen. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. Did you want more on that? Well. which is open to all. Now you on your planet. It's just a question of when. you are excited in the moment with yourself. And when you see your mate. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. if you will.Exactly. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. So for instance. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. I was just curious about that because. Either way. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. Both are equal. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. You are it. when you lived with a group. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. And again in fourth density. that only we entered. Question. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. when your mate is not there. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. invited guests you may call it. Yes. Do what you can. The shift is going to happen. One were rooms of privacy. . And so when that recognition is there. The same thing with the Essassani. Both companies are appreciated. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. at least right now. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. Sasha. Or comment. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. There were basically three different phases of environments. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization.
let us say. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. You follow? Yes. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. to give you a very dramatic example. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. very rough.. there was no resistance. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. So it's that issue. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. If that's true. . you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship.. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. Sasha. yes. that's when I was in the group. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. and therefore for instance.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. Yes. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. It's a little bit different. or not even that different. We are going through relationship transformation. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. there were no tears or anger. there was no fighting. Just with a different twist. it was a natural movement from one state to another. You know those Zetas. One last question along these lines. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. not out of a sense of prejudice. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. having to deal with the need to control.
and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. that becomes irrelevant. because literally the past does not hold your answers. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. They are very secure in their identity in the present. Now. etc. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. Maybe. Not only that. Right now. That was not so much of a challenge. sexuality is not sex. "Hmm. it can't be used against you. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. but he taught us a thing or two. and if that is the case. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . We're not talking about the sex act.. can it? Exactly.. no child feels unwanted. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. there is so much emphasis on body types. any man that I've been around. And if you were to live in the moment. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. In third density.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. Again.." I mean. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. Now. someone else will be attracted to this body type. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. There is simply one expression. That was kind of a landmark. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. Again. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. It is of a creative vibration. I will be attracted to a certain body type. a different developmental structure. etc. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. sex does not become a big deal.. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. going to bed with Sasha. the present holds your answers. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. On our planet and in third density. A lot of this searching goes on.
If you all felt that way. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. But it is not a need in any way. we may have preferences. Most definitely. Yes. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. they're too ugly. Well. you would have all that male and female inside your body.No. They are natural diversifying characteristics. you feel beautiful. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. Exactly. they're too tall. if you're all gorgeous. When you do not need something from another individual. Most definitely. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. you would all be "gorgeous" also. you feel vibrant. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. That is very accurate. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. that is a third-density idea. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. Exactly. . Separation. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. If you are so together and whole. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. And that is the cycle." Oh. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. conditions. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. you feel healthy. but the preferences are so unimportant. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. Conditional love. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. I know. When you move into fourth density. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. those symbols will change because you will change. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. there is no attention on body type. Now. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. you can enjoy them for who they truly are.
Fourth density is integration. Integration is the entire soup itself. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. Do you follow? There is a fine line. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. you will not know the recipe. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas.It's almost like a paradox here. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. If you do not want to look at your needs. Recognize the need. then it is out of need. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. and it will take a lot more energy. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. Work with it. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. fun and excitement instead of need. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. In fact. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. Now. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. The recipe requires carrots and celery. To use an analogy. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. The recipe needs those things. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. Living the relationship. exactly. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. There is a difference. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. Third density is separation. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. Can be. Sasha. yes. we would say. you will not know how to cook the soup.
Do you want to comment on that? Well. recognize what you get with that choice. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). Exactly. Now again. Exactly. There are times when we recognize. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. Nothing exists without a purpose. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. We do not have that particular expression. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. You're not attacking someone. As long as the relationship takes precedence. you are choosing to integrate yourself. Sasha. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. . you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. But if you choose personal growth. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. If you choose personal growth over relationships. Go to your own garden. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. I become angry. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate.carrots. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. and your needs. personal growth will always have to suffer. So neither one is wrong nor right. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. we're talking in ways that are different than you. however. as dysfunctional as they may be.
If they feel deprived. it's their choice. "No. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. That is all you are responsible for. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. getting the package deal there. Ahhh. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. I have one question. Back in this needs issue. and I can tune into it." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. I refuse to do that. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. But it came into my life suddenly. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. pulling yourself back into third density. That doesn't matter. . I guess. I follow. And like we say with the soup. Well. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. Well. We are sorry. But you can play out that game. I appreciate that. from my thirddensity perspective. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. if that's the case. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. You cannot deprive another person. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. but there is. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. that need is okay. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. We're not understanding the exact question. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. and I feel it's a very good answer. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. And even if I'm able to say. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person.
That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. You can never second-guess another person. and let it be whatever it ends up being. That is so correct. they will never be satisfied. However. the anger. In other words. hostility. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. I remember saying. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. Exactly. you're not in fourth density. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. the level of anger would be very. starts setting in. "I don't expect anything from it. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. and then they will be angry.which is exactly what I do not want to do. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. So when you have no expectations . nearly nonexistent. you will get caught because it is a game. ecstasy. you cannot know. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. Obviously that is a trap. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. Exactly. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. They will not verbalize them. caring and sharing. play. and it started out. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. For one thing. very low¾hidden anger. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. Now. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. You are still playing the thirddensity game." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. Am I on track? Yes. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. Seventy-five percent. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. Period. whether covert or overt. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. If you have that need. And just be pure in my own intention. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in.
Again. going to start seeing changes. are so valuable because they make up the soup. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. "If you can't feel the pain. you then know there's an issue. If you judge them. that you judge. Much love and goodnight. The pain will start to subside. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. that idea cannot exist. yes. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. It will just automatically start unfolding." In third density. much love to each and every one of you. You are moving in that direction. you can't feel the ecstasy. what a load off your mind that is. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue.about the other person fulfilling your needs. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. Yes. In fourth density. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. it's not a light switch going on and off. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. you can truly experience unconditional love.to fourth-density thinking. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. that you're angry at. that makes a lot of sense. And so. You can enjoy yourself. Once that idea is relinquished. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. All Rights Reserved. Copyright © 1993. you will soar. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. Much. . the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. much. It's a gradual movement from third. The joy will start to grow. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. and they will always be an issue. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. what a load off your energy. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. they will transform. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. is difficult. they will stay there on the counter. yes.
they would be annihilated. If they were found. we will integrate them together. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. incarnationally speaking. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. if the weight is balanced on both sides. The Empire vs. Thus you can see the dynamic. As you know. certain patterns of conflict. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. "Black" is not meant to be negative. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . So let us start with Orion. These individuals we've called the Black League.galactic heritage and sexuality. This is Germane. Many of you on Earth. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. neither person is going to win. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. It took them a very. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. This is the energy. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. who were the freedom fighters. First.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. In a tug-of-war. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. Earth was a place where you could come. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. The idea . That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity.they did not want to be found. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. for instance. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. First of all. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. Orion Civilization . This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization.
to say the least. very close to them. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. at least for now. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. very intense in a certain way. So when the mate is finally found. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity.when two people come together who are to be mated. The Orions mate for life. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. because this is the energy that you on Earth. There is no "sneaking around. but from their .of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. and there's no doubt of that recognition. you ask. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. Again. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. to release the energy of conflict. and even a bit scary for some of you. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. to release emotional energy. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups)." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting.your civilization included. This is for a very specific reason. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. but also through nonsexual intimacy. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. When you're chosen as a surrogate . So this is the one we will talk about. resonate with the most. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. Surrogates So. There's a recognition . but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. because it's definitely a two-way street . This is the opposite. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense.an instant recognition . The Orions have what we could call monogamy. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict.the relationship becomes as mates. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization.and you choose to be a surrogate.
yes. yes. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. etc. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. before the conflict was resolved. This is why it is of primary . for instance. they repress fantasy. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. It's simply the way they are. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. for fantasy simply does not exist. does not exist. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. Now. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. they moved very slowly. many thousands of years long. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. After awhile it's no longer control . it is eventually genetically encoded.even in thought . Experience does change genetics. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. societally speaking. This is not anything that is imposed on them. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. Because of this. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home.in the direction of the mate. The Orion civilization was many. The Vulcan is repressing. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. But. one is for exchange of intimacy. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. that is the way the stress is released. However. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. So it would depend on which period of time. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions.it's second nature. When one is under stress.point of view extremely fulfilling. One thing we would like to say here. That is an undisciplined thought. there was a lot of genetic change. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. If one mate was killed. for instance. But that was a difficult one. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. During the times of the intense conflict. so it's not a repression of anything.
The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. one on one . they feel secure . the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. they're monogamous in the moment. The Pleiadian Civilization . The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically.and that is how they choose to live their lives.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization.the Pleiadian civilization. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. That's their idea of monogamy. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. they're not pledging their love for the future. but when they pledge their love to a person. because there are other ways of channeling energy. So if any of you wish to examine that further. recognize emotionality in the moment . because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. They have ceremonies. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. In the ancient. You don't have to be as disciplined. there are three or more. very connected. These marriage units are very loving. you may do some research.importance that each Orion have a mate. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. very committed to each other. As with the Orions. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. ancient Pleiadian past. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. There are also married groups. many of them do. Because of this focus on positivity. During times of peace other things are looked at. to some degree.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. marriage rates increase. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. So they were intent on repressing negativity.what you would call marriage. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). This is. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions.
and there is a disconnection. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. will attempt to latch on to you.move into something else. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other." there's total understanding. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). you don't have to face certain issues. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. however. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. both of you have. will show a lot of pain. However. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. it's very. not having sexual relations with another person. When you are in a monogamous relationship. etc. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy.it does . The definitions don't even say anything about sex. the mate quite often will be very hurt. On your planet. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. This is changing now. that would be expressed as true monogamy. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. very safe. They recognize that it must be the time. kind of like the . So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . Not that it does not occur here . total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. a conscious choice.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. you get used to the partner. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. certain fears.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are.
they've taught you a lot. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate.when that is actually what they are excited by. we'll finish what we're saying. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. Now. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. since we've already opened our mouth. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. As your consciousness raises. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. to find out what your own inner truth is. But neither of their expressions are better.Orions. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. deep level. will not have pain and fear. none of these civilizations are better than yours. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. you don't know how to do this. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. It's simply a matter of choice. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. For the Pleiadians. as your consciousness is raising. But you are already beginning to create it. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. It will work for you. They are different. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. Eventually. So back . bits and pieces of what is inside of you. No one here is any better. any more evolved. Dis-eases. In your society now. when they are denying and repressing. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. That's what's occurring now. It's very important that we say that. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. It's important that we say this. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease.
with your question. that does not constitute separation at all. If. It's a matter of resistance and flow. When they are having a relationship. and to release that. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. there's no flow . Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. Whenever there's flow. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. think about taking action.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. when we feel that a relationship might be over. So when they separate. and anger and pain lie. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . If you really feel that . Correct. they're a mirror image of themselves. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. or clear the energy so you can stay. or whether it's a true excitement. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. examine your motivation.levels that you've not wished to look at before. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. to understand where your fears. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. very deep levels . We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. Whenever there's resistance. However. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. AIDS and cancer. many dimensions to it.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. thinking separation is a solution. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . more than any other disease you have on your planet. absolute reflection of themselves. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. for instance. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. Q: Separation is never a solution. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. yes.your own and others'. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves.it's a partnership. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very.then they did have some disease. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . AIDS. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship.
Sexually. You'll only draw to you that which you are. Thank you. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. A couple of other minor differences. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole."I'd like you to meet my `better half. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues.way inside. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. anyway. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. head. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. It is humanoid. Do you follow? Q: Yes. It is your galactic family. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. then when you separate. it's olive-colored . Their skin is very different. Now. and complete control over ejaculation. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . In terms of getting aroused sexually. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. That's a perfect form of birth control. It's like some of your animals. You will seek out a half. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. same thing). So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. two legs. it doesn't completely disappear. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. body. relationships are frequently not completed. That is why when they separate. Now. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you.a brown base with a greenish tinge. That gives you a general idea of the body types. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. The women have similar control over ovulation. two legs. Each person is not complete within themselves. . Unfortunately. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached.
their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. So it touched you ." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. It's part of who they are. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level.deliberately nonphysical. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. are both highly ritualized. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . then tantra is better.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. let's do tantra today. For instance. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. because it is a God union. eye-toeye recognition. Well. when the woman came out of her shell. But this occurs all the time. You see the difference? And again. none of this is better than . in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . like you saw in Cocoon. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape.it touched a lot of people in your society . but it's not a conscious. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. so to speak. yes. That's one level of it. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. It's not as if they would say. one for procreation and one for intimacy. One.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. including chocolate ice cream. "Well. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. That is one way. several different levels. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it.
we could control the future of our race. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. It was understood by us. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species.Group Mind This is Harone. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. We needed. We have much to share with you. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . and that is not the case. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. once we were underground. as we saw the birth rate decrease. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. since our environment was going to collapse. You have been talking about us. that there was to be a species crisis. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. who we've been talking about. At this point in time. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . Your forefathers. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. We know you have many questions. less complete.anything else. It becomes dimmer. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. We knew this was to occur. We were born from conflict. so we were called. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. We had war. There is much to share with you. then. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. Due to severe radiation. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. we were born from crisis. You are learning and growing. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. are also learning and growing. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. balanced and nonviolent in every way. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. Within our civilization we had much diversity. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. We gave much thought to this and chose. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli.
2. when we went underground and began cloning. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. for from our point of view we . In our work with you. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. We are taking a species leap together. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. We are infinitely entwined . we will have physical facilitators. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. Even though we do not understand why. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. Our organs began atrophying over many. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well.we are not separate .males from females.though our realities may say we are. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. However. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. Because we have lost this ability for so long. some need activation on the physical level. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. we will become much more similar. we work with these genetic structures.our end of the agreement. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. We will become much more individualistic. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. Simply put. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. we are told that their numbers are quite small. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. these latent genetic codes. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. you will become more unified. You will find that as evolution occurs. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. They would have you think they are much more numerous. That is what is occurring now. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. As we have agreed to do millennia ago.
your interactions with us will change dramatically. Our interactions with you represent evolution. to change you. even more than upon your world today. You are resisting . Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. recognize we have no intent. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties.recognize you have given us permission. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. We're afraid of being vulnerable. many of you have come to our reality. Unfortunately for our development. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. you feel the tide of evolution. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. as we have stated. When we interact with you. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. Our interactions with you push buttons. We learn what we desire. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. you learn what you desire. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. So in terms of symbolic expression. From our point of view. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. We recognize there may be questions from you. your civilization. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. this is an equal exchange. engage those fears and move through them. what was happening in your culture.
Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . Our way . Vulnerable . what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. When we interact with you in an abduction situation .evolution because of your fear. Some are interested in reproductive research.not in the negative sense of weakness . Some are interested primarily in genetic research. into different groups that have different purposes. We may not know how to understand your emotions. or disempowered vulnerability. If you surrender.that is not what is meant .sperm. as you know the term. It is not just cold research. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. shall we say. There is no arousal. not of what we intend to do . eggs. you will feel the pressure of evolution. That is. because the emotions are very intense for us. a mind link. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. So biologically speaking. it really depends on which group.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. but we do pay attention to them. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. to the One. energy shielding. Very often some of us will have protection. that's what I was getting at. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. You let your guard down. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. when you are vulnerable. of what procreation means to the person. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. When you are lying on an examination table. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. as you would say. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. skin samples and also an understanding. saying you have not created this somehow. that you are not part of species transformation. It penetrates all of them. not as if we were invading .again we speak of the dynamic. and in that case. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. secretions from prostate. you are open to All That Is. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. Well. We are divided. and until that fear is confronted and released. It is a matter of shifting perspective.
Some of you will sense our energy. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. Now that may be inaccurate .but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. We must deal with data. You've done your research well. we can enter your reality in a light state. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. certainly. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. Our love to you and goodnight. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One.perhaps many of you would think it is . Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. we must densify ourselves. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. . and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. We interact with you on every level we can. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. That is also something of primary interest to us. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. which is very uncomfortable. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One.
the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. You are 90 some-odd percent water. the voltage is going to be upped. Germane through Lyssa Royal. imagine yourself as being a river. plan accordingly. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. Also. So. so the electrical current is always running through your body. This is rather abstract. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. whatever your choice is. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. We would recommend distilled or purified. Now. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. allow yourself to feel fluid. Also. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. the presence of water. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. All Rights Reserved. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. The more . your showers. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. Let us first address the physical level. but you will know what is right for you. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. Not just the ingesting of it. a current. That will be fruits and vegetables.
Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. or very specific types of strict diets. if you're living under major power lines. The water will then be in your auric field. So. can significantly slow . We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. wear some of it. (No need to get neurotic about this. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. Actually. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. and you can feel the environment of that water. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. put your feet in the water. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. or fill your bathtub. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). So. You may also sit by a lake. When you bathe or shower. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. If you feel attracted to that. You can get one of those fishtanks. if it does any at all. That's one idea. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. very helpful for you. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. If you want to put crystals in your bath. your planet also recognizes its need for water. there are several options available to you. of course. The radiation is not going to damage you. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. LCD screen. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. It will be a conversation piece as well. on the market there are radiation screens. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. that incorporates water. Along with water comes detoxification. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). that's perfectly fine. That's an optimum situation. If you can't do that. for instance. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. If you use a computer a lot. You may even want to get some fish. it's up to you. we guarantee you. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). you see these on your laptops. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. There is some jewelry. But in the long run. is to keep water close to you if you can. Now. You are symbiotic. again. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. it's all connected.
We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. . No television. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. From our point of view. and it's certainly not going to do anything. and that's very important to stress. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. It is not our understanding that you will ever. Many say to throw your TVs. So. when this type of fearful information is given. information to make you think. there will be no more victims. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. This is about learning sovereignty. that is for others to answer. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. no computer creates that. Category: Healing. these are guidelines. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in.your own healing abilities. And so this is about processing belief systems. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. Now. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. then absolutely anything can hurt you. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. As soon as that is recognized and owned. Now. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. information to be added to your storehouse. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. because it makes you think. and no more sinister plots. It's got to be one or the other. computers and microwave ovens away. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. where you are the only creator of your reality.
What begins as duality and polarization within time. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss.Tantra For a thousand years. save dying. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. and it's good for your health. through no other human activity. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. The most extreme instance is called rape. Lust is only a call to love.body and soul . When we can't handle our attachments.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. the Western Judeo-Christian. People get carried away.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension.The Path With No Obstacles .beyond. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. pleasure. but the game is over. and a gift of Enlightenment. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. otherwise rarely known in human existence. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. People use each other for lust. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. (Ultimately.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. On the direct path of conscious awareness . This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. . and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. whether they know it or not. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. It inundates your entire being. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. was to keep them well in check. It delivers you . The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. they enslave us and we enslave others. and many have yet to answer it.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. ironically. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. is the opportunity for ego-loss. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. Yet. but concurrent with our everyday existence. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. the body. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. and our most basic instincts. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. thought.
But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). They fear one and fake the other. breathing exercises." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. incense. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization.Miranda Shaw. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. ceremonial objects. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. power. and the total fulfillment of your partner. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. invocations. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. after all.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . . It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. innate sexuality." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. The great enigma is. music. Sufi and tantric couples practices. . even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. By that logic. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. the thrill. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. or fame). and get it over with as quickly as possible. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. money. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking.when people use each other uncaringly . Meditation. and call this "correct. when . Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. rituals.we find ourselves indulging in what is. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. mystical rituals. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union.D. and conditioning. Ph. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. as in indigenous tribal customs. depending upon one's intent. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. not deny it. candlelight. or it is devil-worship. state of mind. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. and all too often .
Make it Holy. Trust your body's deepest impulses. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. Worship your lover. Fall in love. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Decelerate until time stands still. Breathe together. Begin motionless and in silence. the passion intense and profound. Reside always at the beginning. ours. unconditionally. Giving and taking merge. with reverence. Every touch is The First. die into love. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Meditate. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. all fulfilling.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Surrender continuously. Make love with your whole being. Listen for Inner Guidance. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Die as a personality. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Transpose taking and giving. stay in love.. from passion to compassion. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. animal to divine. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. Touch only in awe. . weeks. Give voice to your feelings. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Everything matters. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. engaging all your faculties. letting hers become yours. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. and time stands still. breathtakingly tender. all consuming. Gaze into each other's eyes. Give only pleasure and love. Purify yourself in body and mind. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Abandon all gain and control. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. whom you worship in awe. to the sacred fire within. all purifying. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. You notice everything. long and deep. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. and you two become One. Move in slow motion. Wait for the perfect moment. confused. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Foreplay is truly playful. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Opening all your centers.
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