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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. They have nothing to do with the problem. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. Sex. you are going to start feeling pain. it is going to be very different. If you are resisting change. but you haven't known what was happening. Always. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. Separation. they are weak and open to attack. There is no separation. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. If you are willing to move with it. you will create more discomfort and pain. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. Change means change. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. is inside of you. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. It is not the issue. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. Some people are going with the flow. So. It is a symptom. no matter what choice happens. In 4D. Divorce is a 3D solution. then your relationships are going to start to change. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. Change does not mean they will end. Instead. they believe. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. No one seems to really get the point. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. It is not. and that is all change means. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. let some things out. because you can never be separate. If they are vulnerable. confusion. they think all it has to do with is sex. and challenge you. It may first manifest outside of you. is to be avoided in their belief. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. they will blame sex. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. Some people are denying them. these things started in the 1960s of your time. first level. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. and that is allowed. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. That.For one thing. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. at all costs. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. and never has been. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. Breaking. . Energetically. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. If you create resistance. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. You allow the other person to move in that direction. Some people are polarizing. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. It is going to challenge you. That was a tool in 3D.
"I want a monogamous (or polygamous. with trust instead of control. The choices are entirely for you. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. If we have explained it incorrectly. So. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. whatever) relationship. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. So you are trying to act on your excitement. They have nothing to do with the other person. . this is reflected in their society's philosophy. You do not have to plan for the future. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. That is the difference. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. If the woman is Pleiadian. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. The choices are all for you. allowance instead of manipulation. the idea of commitment does not exist. In 4D you are acting in the moment. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. Meaning absolute trust. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. That is what we meant by conscious choice. then that choice is for you. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. It is different from what you see here. No. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. she has the child because she wants the child. It is trust. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. You would just trust. It placates you into thinking you are secure. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. although your society will change. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. You say to the person. If you choose monogamy." No. Your mate can do whatever they want. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. Therefore. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. not a compulsion). then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. In a 4D type relationship. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. we apologize. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. You only make the choices for you and no one else. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. In 4D type relationships. They are all part of the same family anyway. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. If you choose to be non-monogamous. Because she wants the child.
Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. You can say nice things all the time. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. . and still push people's buttons. "Oh. No effort. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. If you are in the moment. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. It really depends on the individual. Yes. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. you cannot put that outside of yourself. That is what I've been finding out. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. But I still want these people as friends. totally and absolutely. sex is a really good trigger. "Oh. each day. so all the issue come crawling out. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. There will never be a time where you will say. For others it is money. This is a very good question. I don't want to hurt other people. In the moment. I've finally been making choices for myself. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. Okay. You must. we become dependent on the other person. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. Very simple. is all dependency gone? Yes. and so when that recognition is there. there is that child. In the moment. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. in the moment. and people have been getting upset. but any reality that you create." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. I made a mistake in having this child. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. Therefore. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency.Exactly. It is an equation that doesn't work. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. you are in the past or the future. If you are totally 100% in the present. In 4D. You say. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. I would rather not cause problems for them." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. Then in 4D. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. Not just a child. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. For some people it is sex. It looks nice. Sex is just one of those lids. you can love it. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. For others. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. at all costs. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. then after the baby is born. you got a haircut." Never.
If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. in the husband's excitement he says. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. We might borrow that one. then you are manipulating people around you. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. disapproval or invalidation. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. But there are no victims. They like the concepts. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. He is protecting himself. At the same time. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. That is one of my button-pushers here. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. and emotions. If she chooses to be hurt. There cannot ever be victims. that is deliberately hurting her. It is then that each person will be challenged. The outcome is the same. This is what we mean by enmeshment. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. "I want to go hot air ballooning. it is her choice. fears. Well. In your innocence and excitement. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. You can never hurt another person. But in reality. I don't see there is an exception to that. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. It prolongs the pain. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. That is empowerment. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. If. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. Good term. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. That is then the way you will see the universe. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. then you polarize between victims and hurters. You try to protect other people. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. They all come from you. In . If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues.
It is. You are all divine portions of the creator. Those judgments eat you up. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. that is their choice. If you do not express who you are 100%. They cannot ever love you for who you are. This is a no win situation. But in one way. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. to hell with what the others think. They do not know who you are. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. Let it be okay to start thinking them. You are lying to yourself. balance. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. You can tell them that. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. not necessarily the things they fear. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. Literally. because they don't know who you are. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. Write it down. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. All That Is is neutral. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. Let yourself think it first. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. You are lying to the other person. it is also insulting. Cancer. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. You won't know what the thoughts are. It buries itself into your cells. Say it into a tape recorder. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. It is stasis. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. it is going to be devastating to you. You stuff it. If you do not express who you are. They cannot be victim of hurt. When you hold back that which you are. and then actually on the physical level. Get comfortable with who you are. You cannot withhold any portion of you. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. you are lying. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. If you look at a Pleiadian. heart disease. in one way. If they don't agree with you. Be truthful. the more diseased you get. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. first think what it is you want to say. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. Write them down.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. They are the ones generating their reality. The more you stuff it. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. Externalize them. Then they only know you through your lies. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. It throws you into disharmony. You protect them from the things that you fear. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. we've always screwed up the communication. it submerges itself. reflecting that which you feel within. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%.
Before you express something. If your wife walks up to you and says. for instance). I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. All right. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. So it's essential for her to express that. In fact. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. There is only neutral expression. whether it is attacking or not attacking. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. I understand that. Get out that pent-up energy. If that expression is an attack. times when you say to yourself. Know who you are. and if it is indeed an attack. It cannot be any other way. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. so it's fine. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. "It is clean as a whistle. let us clarify.. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. they are not going to feel attacked. and I don't agree with that. That is not what was implied. Again. There are not mistakes in creation. Sometimes you can see that. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. Other times you cannot. Okay. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment.. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. "You are a jerk. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. But by all means at least express it to yourself. You will learn how to tell the difference. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. She can tell me I'm a jerk. . If it's not clean and you can recognize it. In the expression. whether she thinks it's clean or not. That is not a clean idea." if you feel hurt. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. and that's cool. In the addictive state. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer." and you express your thought. There are times when you cannot see it. because that in itself is part of the growth process. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. then express it. they will feel attacked. We apologize if the language was misleading. The more you practice. If you think it's clean. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. and the synchronicity of All That Is. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. If they have no issue about being attacked. Yes. If you do (to get them to do something. That wasn't my question. the more you will be able to tell. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. There are no wrong things.
really believe that. Victimhood would come into it. third-density relationships often express victimhood. it's not true excitement. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. That is the bottomline intention of creation. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner.to fourth-density relationships model. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). It is not possible. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. "If you have dinner with another woman. every instance must support ultimately that belief. also. then you will have matched your vibrations. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. that hurts me. If you really believe that Creation is Love. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. then every action. You may walk up to your husband one day. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. You cannot hurt another person. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. underneath everything else. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. if you really. so don't tell me about it if you do that . This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. because it's the way to take your power back. They can choose to feel hurt. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. It will lock your relationship into third density. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. that's not going to hurt him in the least. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. and you may say. You can never hurt another person. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. But if you do. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. and it will not hurt him. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). it's not clean.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation." And if he feels really good about himself. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. "You look like a pig today. but we didn't make it a major point. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. Well. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. But you can't know. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. then it's clean. ever. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. Examine your beliefs.
then I need to go back and look at this versus that. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. However. Many people are using it that way. You're holding onto something from third density. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. reading this. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. those in the room. I won't feel any pain. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. but that's secrecy and it's third density. Right? Yes! So it's fine.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. which an indicator that you are making the change. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. It's a significator. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. then you're right. If you choose third density. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. Exactly. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. because the cruise control does not come with third density. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. It's all equal anyway. then actually. It's one package or another package. exactly. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions." That's okay to ask for that. you will not feel pain. there's nothing wrong with it.. So whenever I feel pain. allowance. and that's quite all right. but recognize that's what you're choosing. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. honesty. . many people are choosing to feel the hurt. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. to remind you that you can still feel.. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. Yes. unconditional love. it's fine. no. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. secrecy. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. and you're feeling the pain. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. Absolutely.
We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. Sasha. Greeting to all of you. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. Now. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. Now. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. It's simply different. And you will begin to see. Third density is the density of polarity. let me repeat myself. Yes. Sasha: All right. not necessarily in every single relationship. you are going to see tremendous. absolutely 100% guaranteed. necessity meaning single parents. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. Do not be surprised. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. this is Sasha. However. Greetings.Again. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. literally that means two . and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. Now. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. some of the understandings. powerful changes within your life. it really does not. exactly. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. but you don't have to manifest pain. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. Now. They do not have to bring pain. with respect to your channel. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. overall. we will have a short break. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. of course. After that. it's an expression of who we are. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers.
it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. again. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. insert a third variable. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. It is not time. I'm not alone. etc. That is a third-density idea. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. there will be no problem here. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. that you must at all cost heal this. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. "This is better than this. So when I spend time with my mate. and then you bring in another mate. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. as Germane was not saying. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. you must just go for it. As you start choosing how you want to live. When you love yourself unconditionally. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. The dynamics will have to change." Do you follow? Now. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. honesty. back and forth. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. and in this mated group. Make your choices. I am deprived. It can. So therefore. back and forth. are present. Now. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. back and forth. Period. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. back and forth. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. most definitely. so because of the aloneness. these things are going to begin coming up. as intense. Now. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. we're not saying. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. because using the paddle idea. fourth. Well. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. it takes away the love they can have for you. I get caught in the time factor. I was also in a mated group. And that is something that we would like to address. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. . There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. Do you all follow? Thoughts. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. But recognize where the time element comes into it. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. living in the moment. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate.. so if I don't have this. if you in third-density.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. Absolutely cannot happen. It cannot happen. but it might not necessarily work for you.ideas are present. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. back and forth.
Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. it's exciting in the moment. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. And again in fourth density. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. It will take longer if they resist it. invited guests you may call it. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. It's just a question of when. The critical mass is going to happen. Either way. Do what you can. We do not perceive. The shift is going to happen. through who you have been as a species. at least right now. that only we entered. which is open to all. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. when you lived with a group. and the same thing with the Orions. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. Now you on your planet. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. Question. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. it is still going to happen. you are excited in the moment with yourself. Or comment. So for instance. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. no. Yes. And when you see your mate. You are it. I was just curious about that because. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. Did you want more on that? Well. One were rooms of privacy. as Germane was saying. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. The same thing with the Essassani. when your mate is not there. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. And so when that recognition is there. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. Sasha. if you will. Both companies are appreciated. There were basically three different phases of environments. Sasha. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another.Exactly. . Both are equal.
And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. We are going through relationship transformation. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. You follow? Yes. Just with a different twist. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. You know those Zetas. it was a natural movement from one state to another. Yes. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. to give you a very dramatic example. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. yes. there was no resistance. We knew you would be the one to bring it up.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about.. So it's that issue. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. let us say." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. One last question along these lines. It's a little bit different. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. not out of a sense of prejudice. If that's true. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. there was no fighting. that's when I was in the group. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. very rough. there were no tears or anger. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. Sasha. or not even that different. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. . having to deal with the need to control. and therefore for instance. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians..
there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . sexuality is not sex. Maybe. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are.. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. it can't be used against you. no child feels unwanted. We're not talking about the sex act.. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. Again. there is so much emphasis on body types. And if you were to live in the moment. That was kind of a landmark. that becomes irrelevant. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani." I mean. the present holds your answers.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. because literally the past does not hold your answers. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. can it? Exactly. Now. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. On our planet and in third density. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani... going to bed with Sasha. "Hmm. etc. Right now. a different developmental structure. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. and if that is the case. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. Now. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. Not only that. but he taught us a thing or two. Again. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. There is simply one expression. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. etc. someone else will be attracted to this body type. I will be attracted to a certain body type. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. They are very secure in their identity in the present. It is of a creative vibration. any man that I've been around. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. A lot of this searching goes on. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. In third density. sex does not become a big deal. That was not so much of a challenge.
So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. Yes.No. you would all be "gorgeous" also. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. they're too tall. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. Exactly. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. we may have preferences. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. Well. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. you would have all that male and female inside your body. those symbols will change because you will change. When you do not need something from another individual. Most definitely. They are natural diversifying characteristics. you feel healthy. you feel vibrant. you feel beautiful. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. there is no attention on body type. Exactly. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. Separation. Now. they're too ugly. Most definitely. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. I know. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. if you're all gorgeous. If you are so together and whole. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. that is a third-density idea. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. but the preferences are so unimportant. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. But it is not a need in any way. And that is the cycle. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. That is very accurate." Oh. If you all felt that way. conditions. Conditional love. When you move into fourth density. .
If you do not want to look at your needs. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. Do you follow? There is a fine line. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. The recipe needs those things. and it will take a lot more energy. To use an analogy. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. Third density is separation. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. Recognize the need. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. exactly. we would say. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. Fourth density is integration. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. you will not know the recipe. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. Living the relationship. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. you will not know how to cook the soup. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it.It's almost like a paradox here. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. then it is out of need. Now. Integration is the entire soup itself. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . yes. fun and excitement instead of need. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. In fact. Sasha. Can be. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. Work with it. The recipe requires carrots and celery. There is a difference.
if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. you are choosing to integrate yourself. Exactly. Now again. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. and your needs. however. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. as dysfunctional as they may be. We do not have that particular expression.carrots. Sasha. There are times when we recognize. personal growth will always have to suffer. Do you want to comment on that? Well. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. You're not attacking someone. But if you choose personal growth. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. we're talking in ways that are different than you. recognize what you get with that choice. I become angry. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. . then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. So neither one is wrong nor right. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. As long as the relationship takes precedence. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. Exactly. Nothing exists without a purpose. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. Go to your own garden. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. If you choose personal growth over relationships. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase).
then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. I refuse to do that. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. We are sorry. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. Well. "No. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. And like we say with the soup. that need is okay. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. and I can tune into it. If they feel deprived. We're not understanding the exact question. getting the package deal there. from my thirddensity perspective. Back in this needs issue. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. Well. and I feel it's a very good answer. That doesn't matter. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. pulling yourself back into third density. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. it's their choice. But you can play out that game. but there is. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. I appreciate that. Ahhh. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. I guess. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. You cannot deprive another person. . and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. But it came into my life suddenly. I follow. if that's the case.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. And even if I'm able to say. That is all you are responsible for. I have one question. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly.
the anger. Exactly. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. Period. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. starts setting in. That is so correct. Seventy-five percent. nearly nonexistent. In other words. you cannot know. So when you have no expectations . my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. whether covert or overt. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. and let it be whatever it ends up being. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. very low¾hidden anger. they will never be satisfied. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. Exactly. They will not verbalize them. hostility. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. Am I on track? Yes. ecstasy. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. "I don't expect anything from it. However. You can never second-guess another person. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. You are still playing the thirddensity game. Obviously that is a trap. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. the level of anger would be very. and it started out. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. Now. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. you will get caught because it is a game. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. And just be pure in my own intention. For one thing. you're not in fourth density. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. play. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. caring and sharing. I remember saying. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. and then they will be angry.which is exactly what I do not want to do. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. If you have that need.
we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. are so valuable because they make up the soup. that idea cannot exist. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. much. and they will always be an issue. you then know there's an issue. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. they will stay there on the counter. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. they will transform. you can truly experience unconditional love. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. . that makes a lot of sense. much love to each and every one of you. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. you will soar. Yes. Much love and goodnight. In fourth density. that you're angry at. Copyright © 1993. that you judge. "If you can't feel the pain. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it." In third density. You can enjoy yourself. you can't feel the ecstasy. going to start seeing changes. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. yes. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. It will just automatically start unfolding. The joy will start to grow. And so. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. You are moving in that direction. Much. yes. All Rights Reserved. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. it's not a light switch going on and off. is difficult. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. The pain will start to subside. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are.about the other person fulfilling your needs. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. what a load off your mind that is. Again. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. what a load off your energy. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. Once that idea is relinquished.to fourth-density thinking. It's a gradual movement from third. If you judge them. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself.
incarnationally speaking. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy.they did not want to be found. This is Germane. Thus you can see the dynamic. if the weight is balanced on both sides. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . for instance. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. Earth was a place where you could come. As you know. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. neither person is going to win. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. First. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. It took them a very. In a tug-of-war. they would be annihilated.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. Orion Civilization .Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. we will integrate them together. Many of you on Earth. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. If they were found. This is the energy. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. The idea .galactic heritage and sexuality. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . certain patterns of conflict.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. First of all. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. "Black" is not meant to be negative. who were the freedom fighters. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. These individuals we've called the Black League. The Empire vs. So let us start with Orion. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening.
Surrogates So. at least for now. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). but from their . it's a tremendous honor and privilege. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. This is for a very specific reason. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. The Orions mate for life. There is no "sneaking around." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. you ask. and even a bit scary for some of you. very intense in a certain way. because this is the energy that you on Earth. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. very close to them. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. This is the opposite. Again. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. to release the energy of conflict. resonate with the most. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate.when two people come together who are to be mated. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. because it's definitely a two-way street . and there's no doubt of that recognition. to say the least. So when the mate is finally found. When you're chosen as a surrogate . There's a recognition .and you choose to be a surrogate.your civilization included. but also through nonsexual intimacy. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates.the relationship becomes as mates. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. to release emotional energy. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust.an instant recognition . When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. So this is the one we will talk about. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate.
and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. they moved very slowly. This is why it is of primary . That is an undisciplined thought.it's second nature. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation.even in thought . Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. it is eventually genetically encoded. many thousands of years long. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. After awhile it's no longer control . so it's not a repression of anything. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. for fantasy simply does not exist. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. When one is under stress. etc. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was.in the direction of the mate. yes. One thing we would like to say here. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. yes. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. does not exist. This is not anything that is imposed on them. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. before the conflict was resolved. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. During the times of the intense conflict. Experience does change genetics. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. Because of this. societally speaking. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. But that was a difficult one. But.point of view extremely fulfilling. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. So it would depend on which period of time. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . for instance. The Vulcan is repressing. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. there was a lot of genetic change. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. It's simply the way they are. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. for instance. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. they repress fantasy. that is the way the stress is released. The Orion civilization was many. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. one is for exchange of intimacy. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. If one mate was killed. Now. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. However.
" which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. they feel secure . At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. But as you know from the statistics on your planet.the Pleiadian civilization. During times of peace other things are looked at. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. So they were intent on repressing negativity. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . You don't have to be as disciplined. because there are other ways of channeling energy. That's their idea of monogamy. This is. to some degree. So if any of you wish to examine that further. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that.what you would call marriage. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. There are also married groups. They have ceremonies. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. In the ancient. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . As with the Orions.importance that each Orion have a mate. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. but when they pledge their love to a person. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. marriage rates increase. recognize emotionality in the moment .and that is how they choose to live their lives. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. they're not pledging their love for the future. there are three or more.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. These marriage units are very loving. The Pleiadian Civilization . many of them do. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . very committed to each other.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. Because of this focus on positivity. one on one . an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. they're monogamous in the moment. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. very connected. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. ancient Pleiadian past. you may do some research.
Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. On your planet. This is changing now. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth.move into something else. will show a lot of pain. however. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. kind of like the . it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me." there's total understanding. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. However. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. you don't have to face certain issues. When you are in a monogamous relationship. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. Not that it does not occur here . When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment).it does . So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. both of you have. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. etc. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. They recognize that it must be the time. that would be expressed as true monogamy. very safe. and there is a disconnection. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. it's very. not having sexual relations with another person. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. a conscious choice. certain fears. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. the mate quite often will be very hurt. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. will attempt to latch on to you. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. you get used to the partner.
we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. will not have pain and fear. No one here is any better. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. when they are denying and repressing.when that is actually what they are excited by. For the Pleiadians. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. Dis-eases. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. But neither of their expressions are better. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. In your society now. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. That's what's occurring now. They are different. any more evolved. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. they've taught you a lot. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. none of these civilizations are better than yours. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. As your consciousness raises. as your consciousness is raising. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. It's very important that we say that. Now. to find out what your own inner truth is. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. Eventually. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. since we've already opened our mouth. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. So back . we'll finish what we're saying. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease.Orions. you don't know how to do this. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. It's important that we say this. deep level. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. It will work for you. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. It's simply a matter of choice. But you are already beginning to create it.
many dimensions to it. when we feel that a relationship might be over. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing.then they did have some disease. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves.your own and others'. Correct.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. more than any other disease you have on your planet. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . very deep levels .it's a partnership. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. or clear the energy so you can stay. AIDS and cancer. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. or whether it's a true excitement. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. think about taking action. Q: Separation is never a solution. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. Whenever there's resistance. there's no flow . that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. with your question. and anger and pain lie. However. for instance. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. Whenever there's flow. and to release that. to understand where your fears. AIDS. When they are having a relationship. If.levels that you've not wished to look at before. examine your motivation. If you really feel that . you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . yes. absolute reflection of themselves. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. they're a mirror image of themselves. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. thinking separation is a solution. that does not constitute separation at all. It's a matter of resistance and flow. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. So when they separate. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease.
because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. That's a perfect form of birth control. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. You will seek out a half. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. it's olive-colored . There goes another expression I can't use anymore . Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. It is humanoid. two legs. body. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms."I'd like you to meet my `better half. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). head. same thing). The women have similar control over ovulation. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. and complete control over ejaculation. it doesn't completely disappear. A couple of other minor differences. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. That gives you a general idea of the body types. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations.way inside. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. Do you follow? Q: Yes. Sexually. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. then when you separate. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. Their skin is very different. You'll only draw to you that which you are. That is why when they separate. anyway. Each person is not complete within themselves. relationships are frequently not completed. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. In terms of getting aroused sexually. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. . Unfortunately. Now. It is your galactic family. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. It's like some of your animals. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. Thank you. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. two legs. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection.a brown base with a greenish tinge. Now.
So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. For instance. One. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . That type of exchange occurs very frequently. because it is a God union. one for procreation and one for intimacy. You see the difference? And again. then tantra is better. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. yes. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. It's not as if they would say." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. but it's not a conscious. none of this is better than . for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. It's part of who they are. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. are both highly ritualized. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. when the woman came out of her shell. eye-toeye recognition. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. So it touched you . let's do tantra today. But this occurs all the time. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression.deliberately nonphysical. so to speak. like you saw in Cocoon. Well. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other.it touched a lot of people in your society . "Well. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. including chocolate ice cream. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. That is one way.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. That's one level of it. several different levels.
and that is not the case. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. that there was to be a species crisis. since our environment was going to collapse. Within our civilization we had much diversity. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. as we saw the birth rate decrease. once we were underground. are also learning and growing. You have been talking about us. less complete. then. We know you have many questions. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. It becomes dimmer. who we've been talking about. so we were called. Due to severe radiation. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. We knew this was to occur. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. balanced and nonviolent in every way. We gave much thought to this and chose. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. We have much to share with you. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. You are learning and growing. At this point in time. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. Your forefathers. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. we were born from crisis. We needed.anything else. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into.Group Mind This is Harone. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. We had war. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. There is much to share with you. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . We were born from conflict. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. we could control the future of our race. It was understood by us. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths.
2. In our work with you. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. when we went underground and began cloning. We will become much more individualistic. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. for from our point of view we . We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. We are taking a species leap together. However. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. They would have you think they are much more numerous. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. You will find that as evolution occurs. we will become much more similar. some need activation on the physical level. Simply put. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. we work with these genetic structures. you will become more unified. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part.though our realities may say we are. Even though we do not understand why. Our organs began atrophying over many. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . That is what is occurring now. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. we are told that their numbers are quite small. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. We are infinitely entwined . It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. we will have physical facilitators. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. these latent genetic codes. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel.males from females. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature.our end of the agreement. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. Because we have lost this ability for so long.we are not separate . That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering.
Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. many of you have come to our reality. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. what was happening in your culture. Our interactions with you push buttons. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. When we interact with you. you feel the tide of evolution. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. you learn what you desire. your civilization. as we have stated. You are resisting . So in terms of symbolic expression. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. Unfortunately for our development. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. recognize we have no intent. We learn what we desire. engage those fears and move through them. From our point of view. to change you. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. We recognize there may be questions from you. Our interactions with you represent evolution. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. this is an equal exchange. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. your interactions with us will change dramatically. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. even more than upon your world today. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity.recognize you have given us permission. We're afraid of being vulnerable.
shall we say. into different groups that have different purposes. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. saying you have not created this somehow. We may not know how to understand your emotions. as you would say. you will feel the pressure of evolution. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. and until that fear is confronted and released. That is. not of what we intend to do . that you are not part of species transformation. of what procreation means to the person. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. When you are lying on an examination table. Our way . It is not just cold research. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. So biologically speaking.not in the negative sense of weakness . Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. Well. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. you are open to All That Is. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. You let your guard down. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. and in that case. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. Some are interested in reproductive research. because the emotions are very intense for us. We are divided. Vulnerable .again we speak of the dynamic. If you surrender. not as if we were invading . We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. to the One.sperm. energy shielding. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations.evolution because of your fear. it really depends on which group.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . It penetrates all of them. or disempowered vulnerability. It is a matter of shifting perspective.that is not what is meant . Some are interested primarily in genetic research. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. Very often some of us will have protection. skin samples and also an understanding. secretions from prostate. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. but we do pay attention to them. as you know the term. There is no arousal. eggs. when you are vulnerable. that's what I was getting at. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. a mind link.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability.
Our love to you and goodnight. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. . Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. we can enter your reality in a light state. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. Now that may be inaccurate . and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. We must deal with data. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. which is very uncomfortable. That is also something of primary interest to us. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality.perhaps many of you would think it is . Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. We interact with you on every level we can. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. You've done your research well. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. we must densify ourselves. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. Some of you will sense our energy. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. certainly.
but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. but you will know what is right for you. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. We would recommend distilled or purified. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. You are 90 some-odd percent water. your showers. Not just the ingesting of it. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. whatever your choice is. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. This is rather abstract. plan accordingly. imagine yourself as being a river. Also. Germane through Lyssa Royal. All Rights Reserved. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. a current. The more . preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. Now. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. the voltage is going to be upped. the presence of water. Also. so the electrical current is always running through your body.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. Let us first address the physical level. So. That will be fruits and vegetables. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. allow yourself to feel fluid.
of course. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. So. or very specific types of strict diets. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. if you're living under major power lines. So. there are several options available to you. If you feel attracted to that. put your feet in the water. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. can significantly slow . Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. There is some jewelry. The radiation is not going to damage you. for instance. is to keep water close to you if you can. That's one idea. If you want to put crystals in your bath. we guarantee you. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. wear some of it. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). You can get one of those fishtanks. (No need to get neurotic about this. it's up to you. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. it's all connected. You may also sit by a lake. You are symbiotic. your planet also recognizes its need for water. or fill your bathtub. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. that incorporates water. Actually. again. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. It will be a conversation piece as well. Along with water comes detoxification. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. on the market there are radiation screens. very helpful for you. But in the long run. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. You may even want to get some fish. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. you see these on your laptops. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. The water will then be in your auric field. and you can feel the environment of that water. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. if it does any at all. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. that's perfectly fine. Now. That's an optimum situation. If you use a computer a lot. LCD screen. If you can't do that. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. When you bathe or shower.
where you are the only creator of your reality. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. and it's certainly not going to do anything. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. and that's very important to stress. that is for others to answer. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. these are guidelines. Category: Healing. . Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. information to be added to your storehouse. computers and microwave ovens away. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes.your own healing abilities. information to make you think. Now. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. This is about learning sovereignty. no computer creates that. As soon as that is recognized and owned. And so this is about processing belief systems. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. From our point of view. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. It's got to be one or the other. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. It is not our understanding that you will ever. and no more sinister plots. So. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. No television. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. there will be no more victims. then absolutely anything can hurt you. because it makes you think. Now. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. Many say to throw your TVs. when this type of fearful information is given.
climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. but concurrent with our everyday existence. (Ultimately. thought. and a gift of Enlightenment. People use each other for lust. was to keep them well in check.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It inundates your entire being. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. otherwise rarely known in human existence. What begins as duality and polarization within time.body and soul . The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification.The Path With No Obstacles . but the game is over. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. they enslave us and we enslave others. and it's good for your health. through no other human activity. save dying. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another.beyond. It delivers you . the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. . and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. The most extreme instance is called rape. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss.Tantra For a thousand years. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. People get carried away. the body. ironically. the Western Judeo-Christian. whether they know it or not. is the opportunity for ego-loss. Lust is only a call to love. Yet.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. and our most basic instincts. When we can't handle our attachments. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. pleasure. and many have yet to answer it. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. On the direct path of conscious awareness .
Ph. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. and call this "correct. Sufi and tantric couples practices. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. ceremonial objects.D. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. By that logic. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. after all.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. Meditation. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. incense. power. innate sexuality. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. The great enigma is.we find ourselves indulging in what is. depending upon one's intent.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. when . how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. and all too often . Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. state of mind. . Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. and the total fulfillment of your partner. not deny it. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. candlelight. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. mystical rituals. . the thrill. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. or fame). rituals. money. and get it over with as quickly as possible. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . breathing exercises. as in indigenous tribal customs.when people use each other uncaringly .Miranda Shaw. They fear one and fake the other. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. or it is devil-worship. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. invocations. music. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. and conditioning.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" .
The senses are magnified a thousand times. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. Abandon all gain and control. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. to the sacred fire within. Worship your lover. Foreplay is truly playful. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Move in slow motion. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. from passion to compassion. Reside always at the beginning. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. Wait for the perfect moment. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. engaging all your faculties. unconditionally. Surrender continuously.. Listen for Inner Guidance. letting hers become yours. all purifying. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. Begin motionless and in silence. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. Giving and taking merge. Make love with your whole being. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. die into love. ours. Everything matters. Trust your body's deepest impulses. confused. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. with reverence. Purify yourself in body and mind. Give only pleasure and love. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. stay in love. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Make it Holy. breathtakingly tender. Die as a personality. Touch only in awe. You notice everything. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. whom you worship in awe. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. and you two become One. animal to divine. Fall in love. and time stands still. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. Every touch is The First. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. Decelerate until time stands still. Give voice to your feelings. . weeks. Meditate. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Transcendent love is a religious experience. all fulfilling. Opening all your centers. all consuming. the passion intense and profound.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Transpose taking and giving. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. long and deep. Gaze into each other's eyes. Breathe together.
" by Lonny J.D. Brown. . Ph.From "Enlightenment in Our Time.