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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
is inside of you. Breaking. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. is to be avoided in their belief. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. It is not. That was a tool in 3D. but you haven't known what was happening. If you are resisting change. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. It is not the issue. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. Separation. That. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. then your relationships are going to start to change. Change means change. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. Always. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. you will create more discomfort and pain. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. It may first manifest outside of you. It is going to challenge you. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. If you are willing to move with it. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. If they are vulnerable. Energetically. and never has been. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. they believe. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. at all costs. and that is allowed. these things started in the 1960s of your time. In 4D. Change does not mean they will end. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. Some people are denying them. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. . it is going to be very different. So. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. you are going to start feeling pain. It is a symptom. they are weak and open to attack. Some people are polarizing. let some things out. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. and that is all change means. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. confusion. There is no separation. If you create resistance. they think all it has to do with is sex. No one seems to really get the point. and challenge you. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. Some people are going with the flow. Sex. Divorce is a 3D solution. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. You allow the other person to move in that direction. They have nothing to do with the problem. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. because you can never be separate. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. no matter what choice happens. first level. they will blame sex. Instead. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes.For one thing. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better.
In 4D you are acting in the moment. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. Because she wants the child. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. The choices are all for you. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. If you choose monogamy. Meaning absolute trust. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. In 4D type relationships. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. You would just trust. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. then that choice is for you. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. . Here is an example of what we are not talking about. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. she has the child because she wants the child. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. not a compulsion). If you choose to be non-monogamous. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. That is what we meant by conscious choice. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. It is different from what you see here. If we have explained it incorrectly. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. You say to the person. with trust instead of control. The choices are entirely for you. They are all part of the same family anyway. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others." No.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. allowance instead of manipulation. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. In a 4D type relationship. You only make the choices for you and no one else. the idea of commitment does not exist. we apologize. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. although your society will change. Therefore. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. Your mate can do whatever they want. They have nothing to do with the other person. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. It is trust. You do not have to plan for the future. If the woman is Pleiadian. It placates you into thinking you are secure. That is the difference. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. So you are trying to act on your excitement. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. So. No. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. whatever) relationship. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself.
For others it is money. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. "Oh. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box." Never." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. you got a haircut. I made a mistake in having this child. If you are totally 100% in the present. you cannot put that outside of yourself. It is an equation that doesn't work. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. For others. It looks nice. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. Very simple. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. You can say nice things all the time. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. then after the baby is born. It really depends on the individual. is all dependency gone? Yes. we become dependent on the other person. I would rather not cause problems for them. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. If you are in the moment. in the moment. I've finally been making choices for myself. so all the issue come crawling out. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. and still push people's buttons. Okay.Exactly. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. For some people it is sex. In the moment. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. sex is a really good trigger. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. you are in the past or the future. You must. Then in 4D. In 4D. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. Sex is just one of those lids. That is what I've been finding out. In the moment. you can love it. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. But I still want these people as friends. Not just a child. You say. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. and people have been getting upset. but any reality that you create. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. "Oh. . We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. there is that child. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. each day. This is a very good question. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. Yes. and so when that recognition is there. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. I don't want to hurt other people. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. No effort. at all costs. Therefore. There will never be a time where you will say. totally and absolutely. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain.
This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. and emotions. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. then you are manipulating people around you. We might borrow that one. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. Good term. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. it is her choice. The outcome is the same. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. In your innocence and excitement. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. He is protecting himself. that is deliberately hurting her. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. You try to protect other people. There cannot ever be victims. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. Well. This is what we mean by enmeshment. fears. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. If she chooses to be hurt. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. They all come from you. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. You can never hurt another person. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. It prolongs the pain. But there are no victims. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. If. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. in the husband's excitement he says. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. That is one of my button-pushers here. "I want to go hot air ballooning. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. then you polarize between victims and hurters. I don't see there is an exception to that. In . At the same time. But in reality. disapproval or invalidation. That is empowerment. They like the concepts. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. That is then the way you will see the universe. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. It is then that each person will be challenged.
The more you stuff it. It is. to hell with what the others think. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. All That Is is neutral. in one way. You are all divine portions of the creator. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. When you hold back that which you are. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . you are lying. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. They do not know who you are. heart disease. Let it be okay to start thinking them. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. If they don't agree with you. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. the more diseased you get. It throws you into disharmony. If you do not express who you are. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. because they don't know who you are. This is a no win situation. You are lying to yourself. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. Say it into a tape recorder. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. Then they only know you through your lies. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. They are the ones generating their reality. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. Write it down. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. Literally. it is going to be devastating to you. If you look at a Pleiadian. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. that is their choice. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. Those judgments eat you up. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. reflecting that which you feel within. You are lying to the other person. But in one way. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. first think what it is you want to say. You stuff it. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. Get comfortable with who you are. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. It is stasis. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. You won't know what the thoughts are. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. we've always screwed up the communication. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. It buries itself into your cells. Let yourself think it first. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. You protect them from the things that you fear. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. Be truthful. You can tell them that. They cannot be victim of hurt. Write them down. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. Cancer. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. it submerges itself. If you do not express who you are 100%. not necessarily the things they fear. You cannot withhold any portion of you. They cannot ever love you for who you are. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. balance. and then actually on the physical level. it is also insulting.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. Externalize them.
because that in itself is part of the growth process. whether it is attacking or not attacking. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. You will learn how to tell the difference. Sometimes you can see that. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not.. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. That is not a clean idea. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. "You are a jerk. In fact. and the synchronicity of All That Is. they will feel attacked. whether she thinks it's clean or not. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. All right. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. Know who you are. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. There is only neutral expression. The more you practice. let us clarify. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. In the expression. Again. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. Get out that pent-up energy. In the addictive state. If your wife walks up to you and says. She can tell me I'm a jerk. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. they are not going to feel attacked. for instance). Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. If you do (to get them to do something. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. If they have no issue about being attacked. I understand that. . the more you will be able to tell. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack.. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. and I don't agree with that. Okay. so it's fine. then express it. That is not what was implied. Before you express something. "It is clean as a whistle." if you feel hurt. But by all means at least express it to yourself. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. Yes. There are not mistakes in creation. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. If that expression is an attack. So it's essential for her to express that. and if it is indeed an attack. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. and that's cool. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. We apologize if the language was misleading.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. There are no wrong things. It cannot be any other way. If you think it's clean. Other times you cannot. Listen to your thoughts and feelings." and you express your thought. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. There are times when you cannot see it. times when you say to yourself. That wasn't my question.
really believe that. underneath everything else. every instance must support ultimately that belief. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. if you really. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. then every action. Victimhood would come into it. Well. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. If you really believe that Creation is Love. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. Examine your beliefs.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. But if you do. It is not possible. and it will not hurt him. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. That is the bottomline intention of creation. that hurts me. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. third-density relationships often express victimhood. ever." And if he feels really good about himself. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. it's not true excitement. so don't tell me about it if you do that . also. it's not clean.to fourth-density relationships model. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. that's not going to hurt him in the least. You cannot hurt another person. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. but we didn't make it a major point. and you may say. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. "If you have dinner with another woman. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. because it's the way to take your power back. You can never hurt another person. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. "You look like a pig today. It will lock your relationship into third density. But you can't know. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. then you will have matched your vibrations. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. They can choose to feel hurt. You may walk up to your husband one day. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. then it's clean. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner.
You're holding onto something from third density. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. allowance. I won't feel any pain. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. Exactly.. Yes. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. Many people are using it that way. reading this. no. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. unconditional love. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. then actually. exactly. It's all equal anyway. to remind you that you can still feel. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite.. secrecy. and that's quite all right. because the cruise control does not come with third density." That's okay to ask for that. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. and you're feeling the pain. then you're right. Right? Yes! So it's fine. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. those in the room. honesty. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. you will not feel pain. If you choose third density. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. it's fine. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. there's nothing wrong with it. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. It's one package or another package.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. So whenever I feel pain. but recognize that's what you're choosing. However. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. . Absolutely. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. but that's secrecy and it's third density. It's a significator. which an indicator that you are making the change.
and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. it's an expression of who we are. Greeting to all of you. but you don't have to manifest pain. necessity meaning single parents. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. Third density is the density of polarity. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. They do not have to bring pain. let me repeat myself. Now. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. Now. Sasha: All right. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. powerful changes within your life. it really does not. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. Do not be surprised. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. exactly. literally that means two . And you will begin to see. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. Greetings. this is Sasha. Yes. It's simply different. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. Sasha. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. Now. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. absolutely 100% guaranteed. After that. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. Now. some of the understandings.Again. not necessarily in every single relationship. overall. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. we will have a short break. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. of course. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. with respect to your channel. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. you are going to see tremendous. However. then it's more than likely you will manifest it.
comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. so because of the aloneness. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. Absolutely cannot happen. honesty. again. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. but it might not necessarily work for you. back and forth. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. back and forth. most definitely. "This is better than this. etc. living in the moment. . I get caught in the time factor. these things are going to begin coming up. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. It cannot happen. I was also in a mated group. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. Well. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. and in this mated group. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third." Do you follow? Now. you must just go for it. back and forth. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. fourth. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). are present. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. Now. Now. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. insert a third variable. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. back and forth. we're not saying. because using the paddle idea. so if I don't have this. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. And that is something that we would like to address. It can. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. Do you all follow? Thoughts.ideas are present. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. But recognize where the time element comes into it. as intense. The dynamics will have to change. and then you bring in another mate. As you start choosing how you want to live. I am deprived. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. So therefore. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. Period. as Germane was not saying. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. I'm not alone. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. Make your choices. that you must at all cost heal this. That is a third-density idea. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. So when I spend time with my mate. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. It is not time. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. if you in third-density. there will be no problem here. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. When you love yourself unconditionally.. it takes away the love they can have for you. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. back and forth. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me.
invited guests you may call it. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. And when you see your mate. I was just curious about that because. The critical mass is going to happen. It's just a question of when. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another.Exactly. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. at least right now. Either way. It will take longer if they resist it. The shift is going to happen. you are excited in the moment with yourself. which is open to all. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. One were rooms of privacy. Question. Both companies are appreciated. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. Sasha. The same thing with the Essassani. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. when you lived with a group. Did you want more on that? Well. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. if you will. as Germane was saying. and the same thing with the Orions. Or comment. when your mate is not there. through who you have been as a species. that only we entered. Now you on your planet. . So for instance. And again in fourth density. There were basically three different phases of environments. Both are equal. We do not perceive. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. And so when that recognition is there. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. it is still going to happen. Sasha. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. You are it. no. Do what you can. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. it's exciting in the moment. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. Yes.
After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. You follow? Yes. it was a natural movement from one state to another. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. Sasha.. and therefore for instance. . And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. One last question along these lines. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. You know those Zetas. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. there was no fighting." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. yes. We are going through relationship transformation. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. not out of a sense of prejudice. Yes. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. let us say. there were no tears or anger. that's when I was in the group. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. to give you a very dramatic example. So it's that issue. or not even that different. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. It's a little bit different. Just with a different twist. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. very rough. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed.. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. If that's true. there was no resistance. having to deal with the need to control. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight.
because literally the past does not hold your answers. it can't be used against you. the present holds your answers. there is so much emphasis on body types. Now. no child feels unwanted." I mean. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. On our planet and in third density. Again. Maybe. It is of a creative vibration. That was kind of a landmark. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. sexuality is not sex. We're not talking about the sex act. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. a different developmental structure. In third density. any man that I've been around. Not only that. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. They are very secure in their identity in the present. etc. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. etc. going to bed with Sasha. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . Again. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. "Hmm. sex does not become a big deal.. Now... What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. that becomes irrelevant. I will be attracted to a certain body type. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. but he taught us a thing or two. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. and if that is the case. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. can it? Exactly. There is simply one expression. someone else will be attracted to this body type. That was not so much of a challenge. And if you were to live in the moment. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't..But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. A lot of this searching goes on. Right now. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that.
"I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. Well. you feel healthy. Exactly. they're too tall. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. you feel beautiful. I know. Conditional love. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. Most definitely. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. That is very accurate. we may have preferences. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. conditions." Oh. Most definitely. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. They are natural diversifying characteristics. When you do not need something from another individual. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. you would have all that male and female inside your body. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. And that is the cycle. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. those symbols will change because you will change. there is no attention on body type. Exactly. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. When you move into fourth density. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. if you're all gorgeous. you would all be "gorgeous" also. . Now. Separation. but the preferences are so unimportant. that is a third-density idea. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. If you are so together and whole. Yes. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. But it is not a need in any way.No. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. they're too ugly. you feel vibrant. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. If you all felt that way.
You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. you will not know the recipe. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. Can be. and it will take a lot more energy. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. To use an analogy. you will not know how to cook the soup. Sasha. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. Integration is the entire soup itself. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. Living the relationship. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . The recipe requires carrots and celery. Now. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. we would say. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. Recognize the need. There is a difference. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. The recipe needs those things. yes. Third density is separation. Fourth density is integration. In fact. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. If you do not want to look at your needs. fun and excitement instead of need. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. exactly.It's almost like a paradox here. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. then it is out of need. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. Work with it. Do you follow? There is a fine line.
But if you choose personal growth. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. however. . Sasha. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. Exactly. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. personal growth will always have to suffer. You're not attacking someone. as dysfunctional as they may be. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. Go to your own garden. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. So neither one is wrong nor right. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. Now again. We do not have that particular expression. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. I become angry. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. Exactly. Do you want to comment on that? Well. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. If you choose personal growth over relationships. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. you are choosing to integrate yourself. we're talking in ways that are different than you. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. There are times when we recognize. and your needs. Nothing exists without a purpose. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. recognize what you get with that choice. As long as the relationship takes precedence. We are simply saying in terms of your choice.carrots. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density.
All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. And even if I'm able to say. I guess." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. getting the package deal there. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. But it came into my life suddenly. But you can play out that game. . It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. I follow. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. that need is okay. and I can tune into it. from my thirddensity perspective. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. I have one question. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. Back in this needs issue. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. And like we say with the soup. pulling yourself back into third density. if that's the case. We're not understanding the exact question. That is all you are responsible for. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. I refuse to do that. You cannot deprive another person. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. That doesn't matter. We are sorry. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. I appreciate that. but there is. Well. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. Ahhh. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. If they feel deprived. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. Well. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. "No. and I feel it's a very good answer. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. it's their choice.
which is exactly what I do not want to do. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. Obviously that is a trap. However. very low¾hidden anger. I remember saying. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. And just be pure in my own intention. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. That is so correct. You can never second-guess another person. Exactly. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. and let it be whatever it ends up being. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. So when you have no expectations . caring and sharing. They will not verbalize them. and it started out. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. whether covert or overt. play. Exactly. the level of anger would be very. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. Seventy-five percent. hostility." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. you will get caught because it is a game. Now. you're not in fourth density. Am I on track? Yes. you cannot know. nearly nonexistent. the anger. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. ecstasy. If you have that need. they will never be satisfied. starts setting in. In other words. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. and then they will be angry. "I don't expect anything from it. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. Period. For one thing. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. You are still playing the thirddensity game.
It's a gradual movement from third. Again. In fourth density. you will soar. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. what a load off your mind that is. much. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. yes." In third density. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. Much love and goodnight. you can truly experience unconditional love. The pain will start to subside. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. Much. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. and they will always be an issue. Copyright © 1993. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot.about the other person fulfilling your needs. going to start seeing changes. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. that you're angry at. they will transform. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. is difficult. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. what a load off your energy. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. You are moving in that direction. that idea cannot exist. it's not a light switch going on and off. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. Once that idea is relinquished. much love to each and every one of you. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. you can't feel the ecstasy. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. "If you can't feel the pain. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. You can enjoy yourself. that you judge. yes. that makes a lot of sense. they will stay there on the counter. The joy will start to grow. And so. It will just automatically start unfolding. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. All Rights Reserved. If you judge them. . But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. are so valuable because they make up the soup. Yes. you then know there's an issue.to fourth-density thinking. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone.
for instance. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. who were the freedom fighters. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. If they were found. Orion Civilization . it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. First of all. Earth was a place where you could come. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you.galactic heritage and sexuality. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. First. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. It took them a very. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. they would be annihilated. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy.they did not want to be found. In a tug-of-war. neither person is going to win. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. These individuals we've called the Black League. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. Thus you can see the dynamic. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. This is Germane. incarnationally speaking. we will integrate them together. So let us start with Orion.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. certain patterns of conflict. "Black" is not meant to be negative. This is the energy. Many of you on Earth. The Empire vs. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. As you know.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. The idea . in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. if the weight is balanced on both sides. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens.
You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. There is no "sneaking around.an instant recognition . Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. So this is the one we will talk about. So when the mate is finally found. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. This is the opposite. to say the least. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. Again.the relationship becomes as mates. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. and even a bit scary for some of you.when two people come together who are to be mated.and you choose to be a surrogate. at least for now. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. but also through nonsexual intimacy. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. very intense in a certain way. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. but from their . This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. you ask. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. This is for a very specific reason. When you're chosen as a surrogate . but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. and there's no doubt of that recognition. to release emotional energy. because it's definitely a two-way street . There's a recognition . Surrogates So. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. to release the energy of conflict. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. resonate with the most. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. The Orions mate for life.your civilization included. very close to them. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. because this is the energy that you on Earth.
is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. for instance. The Vulcan is repressing. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. However. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. One thing we would like to say here. But that was a difficult one. there was a lot of genetic change. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. does not exist. This is not anything that is imposed on them. When one is under stress. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. That is an undisciplined thought. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. Now. During the times of the intense conflict.in the direction of the mate. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. many thousands of years long. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. that is the way the stress is released. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. etc. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. This is why it is of primary .it's second nature. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . yes. they moved very slowly. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. one is for exchange of intimacy. societally speaking. So it would depend on which period of time. It's simply the way they are. The Orion civilization was many. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. If one mate was killed. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. Experience does change genetics. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. yes. Because of this.even in thought . After awhile it's no longer control . Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. they repress fantasy.point of view extremely fulfilling. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. for instance. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. so it's not a repression of anything. it is eventually genetically encoded. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. But. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. for fantasy simply does not exist. before the conflict was resolved. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing.
one on one .Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . The Pleiadian Civilization . Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. they feel secure . This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. As with the Orions. So they were intent on repressing negativity. In the ancient. there are three or more. You don't have to be as disciplined. ancient Pleiadian past. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. very connected. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. very committed to each other. many of them do. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. but when they pledge their love to a person. marriage rates increase. Because of this focus on positivity. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. They have ceremonies. This is. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity.the Pleiadian civilization.and that is how they choose to live their lives. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. to some degree. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. they're not pledging their love for the future. So if any of you wish to examine that further. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. These marriage units are very loving. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. they're monogamous in the moment. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. you may do some research. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. because there are other ways of channeling energy.what you would call marriage. During times of peace other things are looked at. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions.importance that each Orion have a mate. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . That's their idea of monogamy.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. recognize emotionality in the moment . There are also married groups.
it does . as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. However. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other." there's total understanding. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. Not that it does not occur here . you don't have to face certain issues. will show a lot of pain. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian.move into something else. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. both of you have. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. This is changing now. very safe. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future .but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. the mate quite often will be very hurt. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. it's very. and there is a disconnection. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. On your planet. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. will attempt to latch on to you. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. you get used to the partner. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. kind of like the . or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. etc. They recognize that it must be the time. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. When you are in a monogamous relationship. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. a conscious choice. however. that would be expressed as true monogamy. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. not having sexual relations with another person. certain fears.
the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. they've taught you a lot. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. They are different. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. Eventually. we'll finish what we're saying. But you are already beginning to create it. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. to find out what your own inner truth is. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family.when that is actually what they are excited by.Orions. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. when they are denying and repressing. will not have pain and fear. So back . any more evolved. For the Pleiadians. It's simply a matter of choice. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. It will work for you. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. none of these civilizations are better than yours. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. Now. you don't know how to do this. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. It's very important that we say that. But neither of their expressions are better. as your consciousness is raising. That's what's occurring now. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. since we've already opened our mouth. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. As your consciousness raises. It's important that we say this. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. Dis-eases. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. deep level. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. In your society now. No one here is any better.
Whenever there's resistance. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. So when they separate. However. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . If you really feel that . what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises.then they did have some disease.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. Q: Separation is never a solution. for instance. Correct. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . to understand where your fears. examine your motivation. thinking separation is a solution. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues.it's a partnership. If. AIDS. or clear the energy so you can stay. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. think about taking action. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely.levels that you've not wished to look at before. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. when we feel that a relationship might be over.your own and others'. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. It's a matter of resistance and flow. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. more than any other disease you have on your planet. very deep levels . that does not constitute separation at all. or whether it's a true excitement. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. absolute reflection of themselves. they're a mirror image of themselves. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. and to release that. and anger and pain lie. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow .you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. there's no flow . When they are having a relationship. yes.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. Whenever there's flow. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. AIDS and cancer. many dimensions to it. with your question.
then when you separate. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. It's like some of your animals.way inside. Now. That is why when they separate. Their skin is very different. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. it doesn't completely disappear. it's olive-colored . which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. That's a perfect form of birth control. two legs. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you."I'd like you to meet my `better half. Now. You will seek out a half. body. A couple of other minor differences. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. In terms of getting aroused sexually. . you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific).a brown base with a greenish tinge. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. and complete control over ejaculation. Thank you.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. head. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. anyway. Do you follow? Q: Yes. same thing). That gives you a general idea of the body types. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. Each person is not complete within themselves. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. relationships are frequently not completed. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. Sexually. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. It is your galactic family. Unfortunately. two legs. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. It is humanoid. The women have similar control over ovulation. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. You'll only draw to you that which you are. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable.
that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. like you saw in Cocoon. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. then tantra is better. because it is a God union. It's part of who they are. including chocolate ice cream. yes. so to speak. but it's not a conscious. eye-toeye recognition. That's one level of it. several different levels. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. That is one way. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. But this occurs all the time. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. let's do tantra today. It's not as if they would say.deliberately nonphysical." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. when the woman came out of her shell. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. So it touched you . Well. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. "Well. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. You see the difference? And again. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. none of this is better than .it touched a lot of people in your society . One. For instance. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. Q: In the movie "Cocoon".because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. one for procreation and one for intimacy. are both highly ritualized. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra.
Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. We gave much thought to this and chose. Within our civilization we had much diversity. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. We were born from conflict. once we were underground. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. We have much to share with you. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. balanced and nonviolent in every way. Due to severe radiation. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. then. as we saw the birth rate decrease. we could control the future of our race. It was understood by us. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. and that is not the case. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . You have been talking about us. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. so we were called. It becomes dimmer. less complete. We knew this was to occur. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . At this point in time. are also learning and growing. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. We needed. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent.anything else. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. that there was to be a species crisis. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. since our environment was going to collapse. Your forefathers.Group Mind This is Harone. There is much to share with you. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. who we've been talking about. We had war. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. we were born from crisis. We know you have many questions. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. You are learning and growing.
although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. we are told that their numbers are quite small. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. In our work with you. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. for from our point of view we . Simply put. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1.males from females. we work with these genetic structures. They would have you think they are much more numerous. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. That is what is occurring now. some need activation on the physical level. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so.we are not separate . There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. we will become much more similar. you will become more unified. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part.though our realities may say we are. However. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. We will become much more individualistic. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. It is not our desire to promote fear in you.our end of the agreement. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. when we went underground and began cloning. 2. We are taking a species leap together. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. we will have physical facilitators. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. Even though we do not understand why. We are infinitely entwined . You will find that as evolution occurs. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. Because we have lost this ability for so long. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. these latent genetic codes. Our organs began atrophying over many. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear.
Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. what was happening in your culture. We're afraid of being vulnerable. Our interactions with you push buttons. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning.recognize you have given us permission. this is an equal exchange. as we have stated. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. many of you have come to our reality. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. So in terms of symbolic expression. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. even more than upon your world today. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. you feel the tide of evolution. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. you learn what you desire. to change you. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. engage those fears and move through them. When we interact with you. your interactions with us will change dramatically. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. You are resisting . You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. We recognize there may be questions from you. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. recognize we have no intent. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. From our point of view. Unfortunately for our development. Our interactions with you represent evolution. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. your civilization. We learn what we desire.
And you see that in that choice there is no pain. There is no arousal. not as if we were invading .not in the negative sense of weakness . and in that case. a mind link. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken.sperm. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. that you are not part of species transformation. It penetrates all of them. that's what I was getting at. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. When we interact with you in an abduction situation .but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. when you are vulnerable. but we do pay attention to them. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. it really depends on which group. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. eggs. If you surrender. It is a matter of shifting perspective. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. You let your guard down. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment.that is not what is meant . I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. It is not just cold research. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. We are divided. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. because the emotions are very intense for us. saying you have not created this somehow.evolution because of your fear. Our way .but vulnerable meaning empowerment. not of what we intend to do .you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. as you would say. and until that fear is confronted and released. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. you will feel the pressure of evolution. energy shielding. to the One. That is. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. Very often some of us will have protection. skin samples and also an understanding. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. or disempowered vulnerability. into different groups that have different purposes. secretions from prostate. Vulnerable . samples would be taken from all portions of the body. When you are lying on an examination table. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. shall we say. of what procreation means to the person. Well. Some are interested in reproductive research.again we speak of the dynamic. So biologically speaking. We may not know how to understand your emotions. as you know the term. you are open to All That Is.
You've done your research well. which is very uncomfortable. we can enter your reality in a light state. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. That is also something of primary interest to us. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. certainly. . At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. we must densify ourselves. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. We interact with you on every level we can. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you.perhaps many of you would think it is . Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. Now that may be inaccurate . Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. Some of you will sense our energy. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. We must deal with data. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. Our love to you and goodnight.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group.
We would recommend distilled or purified. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. This is rather abstract. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. You are 90 some-odd percent water. allow yourself to feel fluid. so the electrical current is always running through your body. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. Also. Let us first address the physical level. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. a current. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. the presence of water. whatever your choice is. imagine yourself as being a river. The more . but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. That will be fruits and vegetables. So. Now. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. Also. Germane through Lyssa Royal. All Rights Reserved. Not just the ingesting of it. your showers. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. the voltage is going to be upped. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. but you will know what is right for you. plan accordingly. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate.
it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. that's perfectly fine. we guarantee you. can significantly slow . It will be a conversation piece as well. So. for instance. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. very helpful for you. Actually. your planet also recognizes its need for water. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. That's one idea. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. There is some jewelry. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you).you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. So. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. If you use a computer a lot. you see these on your laptops. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. is to keep water close to you if you can. of course. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. if it does any at all. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. When you bathe or shower. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. (No need to get neurotic about this. again. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. or very specific types of strict diets. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. If you want to put crystals in your bath. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. You may even want to get some fish. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. You are symbiotic. If you can't do that. it's all connected. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. there are several options available to you. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. Now. If you feel attracted to that. That's an optimum situation. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. The radiation is not going to damage you. and you can feel the environment of that water. Along with water comes detoxification. or fill your bathtub. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. But in the long run. on the market there are radiation screens. it's up to you. that incorporates water. LCD screen. if you're living under major power lines. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. You may also sit by a lake. You can get one of those fishtanks. put your feet in the water. The water will then be in your auric field. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. wear some of it. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference.
when this type of fearful information is given. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. Category: Healing. This is about learning sovereignty. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. then absolutely anything can hurt you. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. information to be added to your storehouse. As soon as that is recognized and owned. no computer creates that. that is for others to answer. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. Now. and no more sinister plots. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. Now. and it's certainly not going to do anything. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. there will be no more victims. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. Many say to throw your TVs. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. And so this is about processing belief systems.your own healing abilities. computers and microwave ovens away. It is not our understanding that you will ever. and that's very important to stress. information to make you think. It's got to be one or the other. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. So. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. because it makes you think. No television. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. . you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. these are guidelines. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. where you are the only creator of your reality. From our point of view.
The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. but concurrent with our everyday existence. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. The most extreme instance is called rape. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. People get carried away. It inundates your entire being. and many have yet to answer it. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. was to keep them well in check. the Western Judeo-Christian.to unimagined heights of ecstasy.beyond. and it's good for your health. When we can't handle our attachments. People use each other for lust. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. save dying.Tantra For a thousand years. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. they enslave us and we enslave others. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. the body. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . but the game is over. otherwise rarely known in human existence. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. On the direct path of conscious awareness . and a gift of Enlightenment. (Ultimately. and our most basic instincts. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. Yet.body and soul . transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking.The Path With No Obstacles . the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. thought. Lust is only a call to love. .) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. whether they know it or not. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. through no other human activity. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. is the opportunity for ego-loss. What begins as duality and polarization within time. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. It delivers you .sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. pleasure. ironically. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss.
Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. as in indigenous tribal customs.D. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. not deny it. . incense.we find ourselves indulging in what is.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" .combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. after all. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. ceremonial objects. when .this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. . Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. breathing exercises. and the total fulfillment of your partner. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. mystical rituals. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). and get it over with as quickly as possible. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. By that logic. Sufi and tantric couples practices. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. and all too often . music. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. or fame). or it is devil-worship.Miranda Shaw. and call this "correct. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . money. the thrill. Ph. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. innate sexuality. candlelight. power. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. The great enigma is. invocations. Meditation. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment.when people use each other uncaringly . rituals. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. They fear one and fake the other. depending upon one's intent. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. state of mind. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. and conditioning. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life.
weeks. Reside always at the beginning. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Listen for Inner Guidance. Decelerate until time stands still.. Purify yourself in body and mind. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. animal to divine. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. all consuming. Giving and taking merge. Wait for the perfect moment. Surrender continuously. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. Die as a personality. Trust your body's deepest impulses. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. engaging all your faculties. letting hers become yours. and time stands still. from passion to compassion. Make it Holy. to the sacred fire within. Breathe together. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Gaze into each other's eyes. Touch only in awe. Worship your lover.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Give voice to your feelings. Give only pleasure and love. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Meditate. die into love. Fall in love. Make love with your whole being. Opening all your centers. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. the passion intense and profound. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. and you two become One. Everything matters. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Transcendent love is a religious experience. ours. unconditionally. long and deep. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. . Move in slow motion. Every touch is The First. all purifying. Begin motionless and in silence. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. You notice everything. breathtakingly tender. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. confused. Abandon all gain and control. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. with reverence. Transpose taking and giving. all fulfilling. Foreplay is truly playful. whom you worship in awe. stay in love. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect.
" by Lonny J. Brown.D.From "Enlightenment in Our Time. Ph. .
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