Germane: Greetings to everyone. This is Germane. We'd like to thank you all for coming this night.

The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.

3D Relationships
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having

to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.

4D Relationships
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking

about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.

Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.

Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?

at all costs. It is not the issue. Always. and never has been. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. it is going to be very different. and challenge you. then your relationships are going to start to change. and that is all change means. If you create resistance. these things started in the 1960s of your time. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. That. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. Change means change. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. Breaking. they are weak and open to attack. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. There is no separation. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. Divorce is a 3D solution. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. Sex. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. Some people are polarizing. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. you are going to start feeling pain. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. Instead. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. . This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. It is not. Some people are going with the flow. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. and that is allowed. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. If you are resisting change. It is going to challenge you. That was a tool in 3D. no matter what choice happens. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. It may first manifest outside of you. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. So. is to be avoided in their belief. Change does not mean they will end. you will create more discomfort and pain. No one seems to really get the point. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. is inside of you. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. Energetically. they believe. let some things out. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. because you can never be separate. but you haven't known what was happening. You allow the other person to move in that direction. Separation. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. confusion. they will blame sex. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. In 4D. they think all it has to do with is sex. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. first level. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. Some people are denying them.For one thing. If they are vulnerable. They have nothing to do with the problem. It is a symptom. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. If you are willing to move with it.

You only make the choices for you and no one else. we apologize. They have nothing to do with the other person. If you choose monogamy. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. That is what we meant by conscious choice. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. Because she wants the child. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. It is trust. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. That is the difference. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child." No. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. So you are trying to act on your excitement. In 4D you are acting in the moment. It placates you into thinking you are secure. The choices are entirely for you. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. You say to the person. The choices are all for you. In a 4D type relationship. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. It is different from what you see here.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. then that choice is for you. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. not a compulsion). In 4D type relationships. So. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. You do not have to plan for the future. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. with trust instead of control. Therefore. No. she has the child because she wants the child. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. They are all part of the same family anyway. If we have explained it incorrectly. Your mate can do whatever they want. the idea of commitment does not exist. . although your society will change. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. If the woman is Pleiadian. allowance instead of manipulation. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. Meaning absolute trust. If you choose to be non-monogamous. whatever) relationship. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. You would just trust. Let us give you an example of conscious choice.

Okay. sex is a really good trigger. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. It looks nice. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. in the moment. but any reality that you create. You must. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. you can love it. There will never be a time where you will say. It really depends on the individual. then after the baby is born. Sex is just one of those lids. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. we become dependent on the other person. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend.Exactly. In the moment. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. If you are totally 100% in the present. there is that child. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. so all the issue come crawling out. In 4D. But I still want these people as friends. I made a mistake in having this child. you cannot put that outside of yourself. . It is an equation that doesn't work. you are in the past or the future. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. This is a very good question. For some people it is sex. and so when that recognition is there. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. and people have been getting upset. and still push people's buttons. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. If you are in the moment. I don't want to hurt other people." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. I would rather not cause problems for them. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. You can say nice things all the time. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. each day." Never. You say. I've finally been making choices for myself. That is what I've been finding out. Not just a child. In the moment. Very simple. Yes. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. For others. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. Then in 4D. For others it is money. "Oh. is all dependency gone? Yes. No effort. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. you got a haircut. at all costs. Therefore. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. totally and absolutely. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. "Oh.

disapproval or invalidation. At the same time. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. We might borrow that one. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. You try to protect other people. If she chooses to be hurt. There cannot ever be victims. But there are no victims. in the husband's excitement he says. fears. That is one of my button-pushers here. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. It prolongs the pain. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. They all come from you. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. This is what we mean by enmeshment. "I want to go hot air ballooning. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. that is deliberately hurting her. it is her choice. He is protecting himself. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. In your innocence and excitement. In . Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. Well. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. That is then the way you will see the universe. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. You can never hurt another person. and emotions. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. So he makes sure she never is around anything high." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. I don't see there is an exception to that. It is then that each person will be challenged. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. If. Good term. then you are manipulating people around you. then you polarize between victims and hurters. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. But in reality. but they don't want to apply them in their lives.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. That is empowerment. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. They like the concepts. The outcome is the same. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights.

you are lying. not necessarily the things they fear. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. But in one way. When you hold back that which you are. that is their choice. It is stasis. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. it submerges itself. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. and then actually on the physical level. You can tell them that. If you do not express who you are. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. Externalize them. balance. we've always screwed up the communication. Say it into a tape recorder. All That Is is neutral. Be truthful. heart disease. It is. Write them down. If you look at a Pleiadian. You won't know what the thoughts are. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. it is going to be devastating to you. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. Get comfortable with who you are. You are all divine portions of the creator. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. You protect them from the things that you fear. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. They cannot be victim of hurt. If they don't agree with you. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. Let yourself think it first. It throws you into disharmony. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. You are lying to the other person. Then they only know you through your lies. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. first think what it is you want to say. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. Cancer. it is also insulting. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. Let it be okay to start thinking them. They are the ones generating their reality. If you do not express who you are 100%. because they don't know who you are. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. Write it down. It buries itself into your cells. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. to hell with what the others think. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. Literally. You cannot withhold any portion of you. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. This is a no win situation. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. The more you stuff it. in one way. They do not know who you are. They cannot ever love you for who you are. You are lying to yourself. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. Those judgments eat you up. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. You stuff it. reflecting that which you feel within. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. the more diseased you get.

If they have no issue about being attacked. That wasn't my question. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. and if it is indeed an attack. There are times when you cannot see it. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. then express it. whether she thinks it's clean or not. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. If your wife walks up to you and says. . and I don't agree with that. the more you will be able to tell. because that in itself is part of the growth process.. You will learn how to tell the difference. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. In the expression." and you express your thought. There are no wrong things. All right. That is not a clean idea. and the synchronicity of All That Is.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. and that's cool. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. There are not mistakes in creation. times when you say to yourself. Get out that pent-up energy. So it's essential for her to express that. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. Other times you cannot. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack.. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. Sometimes you can see that. If that expression is an attack. But by all means at least express it to yourself. Okay. they will feel attacked. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. There is only neutral expression. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. The more you practice. "It is clean as a whistle. whether it is attacking or not attacking." if you feel hurt. She can tell me I'm a jerk. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. We apologize if the language was misleading. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. "You are a jerk. let us clarify. It cannot be any other way. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. so it's fine. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. they are not going to feel attacked. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. If you do (to get them to do something. Before you express something. I understand that. for instance). Know who you are. In the addictive state. In fact. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. That is not what was implied. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. Yes. Again. If you think it's clean. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. There is no reaction that doesn't belong.

but your excitement is based on her cooperation. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. If you really believe that Creation is Love. Examine your beliefs. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. it's not clean. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. But if you do. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. It will lock your relationship into third density.to fourth-density relationships model. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. That is the bottomline intention of creation. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. then you will have matched your vibrations. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. But you can't know. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. really believe that. Well. if you really. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. every instance must support ultimately that belief. that hurts me. so don't tell me about it if you do that . but we didn't make it a major point. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. You can never hurt another person. You cannot hurt another person. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love." And if he feels really good about himself. "You look like a pig today. underneath everything else. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. it's not true excitement. and you may say. You may walk up to your husband one day. because it's the way to take your power back. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). It is not possible. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. They can choose to feel hurt. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. then every action. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. "If you have dinner with another woman. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. Victimhood would come into it. then it's clean. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. also. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. that's not going to hurt him in the least. third-density relationships often express victimhood. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. and it will not hurt him. ever.

it's fine. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. honesty.. It's one package or another package. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. Absolutely. but recognize that's what you're choosing. I won't feel any pain. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. exactly. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. Right? Yes! So it's fine. but that's secrecy and it's third density. because the cruise control does not come with third density. You're holding onto something from third density. and that's quite all right. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. those in the room. and you're feeling the pain. Yes. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. It's all equal anyway. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. If you choose third density.. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. Many people are using it that way. It's a significator. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. to remind you that you can still feel. . honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. Exactly." That's okay to ask for that. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. unconditional love. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. you will not feel pain. allowance.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. then actually. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. then you're right. reading this. no. secrecy. So whenever I feel pain. which an indicator that you are making the change. However. there's nothing wrong with it.

When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. powerful changes within your life. Yes. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. not necessarily in every single relationship. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. with respect to your channel. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. After that. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. It's simply different. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. absolutely 100% guaranteed. let me repeat myself. some of the understandings. Greetings. you are going to see tremendous. Now. it's an expression of who we are. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. it really does not. this is Sasha. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. we will have a short break. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. Sasha: All right. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. Now. Do not be surprised. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. They do not have to bring pain. And you will begin to see. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. Third density is the density of polarity. Now. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. However. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. Sasha. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. overall. Now. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. literally that means two .Again. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. of course. exactly. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. but you don't have to manifest pain. Greeting to all of you. necessity meaning single parents.

If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. And that is something that we would like to address. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. if you in third-density. we're not saying. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. So when I spend time with my mate. most definitely. I'm not alone. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. as intense. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. as Germane was not saying. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. Do you all follow? Thoughts. it takes away the love they can have for you. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. insert a third variable. When you love yourself unconditionally. . Now. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. I was also in a mated group. I am deprived. honesty. It cannot happen. It can. back and forth.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. so because of the aloneness. back and forth. Absolutely cannot happen. so if I don't have this. these things are going to begin coming up. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. because using the paddle idea. fourth. back and forth. again. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. Well. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. The dynamics will have to change. I get caught in the time factor. but it might not necessarily work for you. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. But recognize where the time element comes into it. etc. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. and in this mated group. Now. back and forth. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. are present.ideas are present. So therefore. It is not time. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person.. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate." Do you follow? Now. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. that you must at all cost heal this. you must just go for it. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. back and forth. and then you bring in another mate. Period. That is a third-density idea. Make your choices. "This is better than this. As you start choosing how you want to live. there will be no problem here. living in the moment.

We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. that only we entered. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. invited guests you may call it. at least right now.Exactly. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. . Both are equal. if you will. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. and the same thing with the Orions. There were basically three different phases of environments. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. We do not perceive. as Germane was saying. It's just a question of when. Now you on your planet. which is open to all. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. through who you have been as a species. It will take longer if they resist it. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. Question. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. Both companies are appreciated. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. it's exciting in the moment. And again in fourth density. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. Either way. Do what you can. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. it is still going to happen. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. Did you want more on that? Well. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. The critical mass is going to happen. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. The shift is going to happen. Or comment. You are it. Sasha. One were rooms of privacy. And so when that recognition is there. And when you see your mate. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. The same thing with the Essassani. Yes. I was just curious about that because. when you lived with a group. So for instance. when your mate is not there. Sasha. no. you are excited in the moment with yourself.

And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore.. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. Just with a different twist. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. having to deal with the need to control. You follow? Yes. not out of a sense of prejudice. yes. It's a little bit different. and therefore for instance. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction.. very rough. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. there were no tears or anger. So it's that issue.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. there was no resistance. there was no fighting." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. to give you a very dramatic example. it was a natural movement from one state to another. If that's true. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. . let us say. or not even that different. that's when I was in the group. We are going through relationship transformation. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. You know those Zetas. One last question along these lines. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. Sasha. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. Yes.

and if that is the case. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. etc.. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. In third density. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. going to bed with Sasha. etc. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. any man that I've been around. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. And if you were to live in the moment. Not only that. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us." I mean. Maybe. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. but he taught us a thing or two. "Hmm. Again.. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. A lot of this searching goes on. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. There is simply one expression. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. It is of a creative vibration. can it? Exactly. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. Again. sex does not become a big deal. That was kind of a landmark. Right now. We're not talking about the sex act. someone else will be attracted to this body type. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do.. because literally the past does not hold your answers. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. Now. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. there is so much emphasis on body types. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. On our planet and in third density. no child feels unwanted. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. Now. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. sexuality is not sex. That was not so much of a challenge. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. a different developmental structure. I will be attracted to a certain body type. the present holds your answers. They are very secure in their identity in the present. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. it can't be used against you.. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. that becomes irrelevant. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani.

but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. you would all be "gorgeous" also. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. . they're too tall. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. Exactly. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. Well. we may have preferences. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. When you do not need something from another individual." Oh. you would have all that male and female inside your body. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. If you are so together and whole. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. Separation. if you're all gorgeous. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. that is a third-density idea. Yes.No. but the preferences are so unimportant. Now. you feel vibrant. And that is the cycle. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. I know. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. When you move into fourth density. you feel healthy. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. there is no attention on body type. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. If you all felt that way. you feel beautiful. Exactly. Most definitely. Conditional love. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. they're too ugly. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. Most definitely. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. those symbols will change because you will change. They are natural diversifying characteristics. conditions. But it is not a need in any way. That is very accurate.

exactly. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. Do you follow? There is a fine line. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. Living the relationship. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. yes. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. Recognize the need. Third density is separation. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. There is a difference. The recipe requires carrots and celery. In fact. you will not know the recipe. The recipe needs those things. and it will take a lot more energy. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. we would say. Can be. you will not know how to cook the soup. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. Now. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. To use an analogy. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. then it is out of need. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. Sasha. Fourth density is integration. fun and excitement instead of need. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. If you do not want to look at your needs. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. Work with it. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas.It's almost like a paradox here. Integration is the entire soup itself. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about.

and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. Go to your own garden. you are choosing to integrate yourself. as dysfunctional as they may be.carrots. Sasha. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. Do you want to comment on that? Well. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. Exactly. Exactly. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. and your needs. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. personal growth will always have to suffer. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. Nothing exists without a purpose. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. however. . recognize what you get with that choice. If you choose personal growth over relationships. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). We do not have that particular expression. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. So neither one is wrong nor right. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. I become angry. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. There are times when we recognize. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. You're not attacking someone. Now again. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. We are simply saying in terms of your choice. But if you choose personal growth. As long as the relationship takes precedence. we're talking in ways that are different than you. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person.

Back in this needs issue. That doesn't matter. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. and I can tune into it. But it came into my life suddenly. from my thirddensity perspective. that need is okay. it's their choice. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. And like we say with the soup. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. pulling yourself back into third density. I appreciate that. If they feel deprived. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. but there is. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. I follow. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. We're not understanding the exact question. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. We are sorry. But you can play out that game. That is all you are responsible for. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. Well. . and I feel it's a very good answer. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. Ahhh. And even if I'm able to say. I refuse to do that. You cannot deprive another person. "No. Well." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. if that's the case. I guess. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. getting the package deal there. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. I have one question.

So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. you cannot know. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. the anger. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. I remember saying. starts setting in. you're not in fourth density. For one thing. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. And just be pure in my own intention. Now. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. You are still playing the thirddensity game. Am I on track? Yes. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. and then they will be angry. nearly nonexistent. very low¾hidden anger. If you have that need.which is exactly what I do not want to do. play. you will get caught because it is a game. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. and it started out. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. Exactly. and let it be whatever it ends up being. However. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. In other words. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. That is so correct. "I don't expect anything from it. whether covert or overt. Seventy-five percent. You can never second-guess another person. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. caring and sharing. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. Obviously that is a trap. So when you have no expectations ." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. ecstasy. the level of anger would be very. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. they will never be satisfied. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. Period. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. hostility. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. They will not verbalize them. Exactly.

and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. It will just automatically start unfolding. Yes.about the other person fulfilling your needs. The joy will start to grow. you will soar. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. It's a gradual movement from third. you can truly experience unconditional love. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. you then know there's an issue. they will stay there on the counter. "If you can't feel the pain. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. that you're angry at. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. You are moving in that direction. Copyright © 1993. is difficult. that makes a lot of sense. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. it's not a light switch going on and off. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. The pain will start to subside. that idea cannot exist. You can enjoy yourself. In fourth density. Once that idea is relinquished. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. much. . All Rights Reserved. that you judge. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. Again. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. Much love and goodnight. And so. If you judge them. going to start seeing changes.to fourth-density thinking. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. much love to each and every one of you. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. yes. they will transform. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. yes. are so valuable because they make up the soup. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole." In third density. Much. what a load off your mind that is. what a load off your energy. you can't feel the ecstasy. and they will always be an issue.

This is the energy. they would be annihilated. As you know. Many of you on Earth. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. The idea . if the weight is balanced on both sides. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. If they were found. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. who were the freedom fighters. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. This is Germane.galactic heritage and sexuality. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion .they did not want to be found. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. Orion Civilization . the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. First. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. neither person is going to win. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. certain patterns of conflict. "Black" is not meant to be negative. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. First of all. So let us start with Orion.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. for instance. we will integrate them together. It took them a very. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. incarnationally speaking. The Empire vs. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. Earth was a place where you could come. In a tug-of-war. Thus you can see the dynamic. These individuals we've called the Black League.

because if you had kept your entire memory intact. When you're chosen as a surrogate . So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. very intense in a certain way. at least for now. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. There is no "sneaking around. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. and even a bit scary for some of you. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . they already have their antennae out looking for a mate.your civilization included. Again. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate.an instant recognition . The Orions mate for life. and there's no doubt of that recognition. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. This is for a very specific reason. Surrogates So. you ask. So when the mate is finally found. to release the energy of conflict. resonate with the most.when two people come together who are to be mated. So this is the one we will talk about. very close to them. but from their . Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. This is the opposite. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. because it's definitely a two-way street . The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very.the relationship becomes as mates. to say the least. but also through nonsexual intimacy.and you choose to be a surrogate. There's a recognition . There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. because this is the energy that you on Earth. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. to release emotional energy. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system.

many thousands of years long. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. But that was a difficult one. one is for exchange of intimacy. That is an undisciplined thought. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. When one is under stress. yes. This is not anything that is imposed on them. Because of this. for fantasy simply does not exist. it is eventually genetically encoded. societally speaking.in the direction of the mate. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. that is the way the stress is released. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. they moved very slowly.even in thought . Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. before the conflict was resolved. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. they repress fantasy. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. for instance. If one mate was killed.it's second nature. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. The Orion civilization was many. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. Now. During the times of the intense conflict. However. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. It's simply the way they are. Experience does change genetics. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. This is why it is of primary . It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. for instance. there was a lot of genetic change. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. yes. The Vulcan is repressing. After awhile it's no longer control . etc. But. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. does not exist. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. so it's not a repression of anything. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . it takes a force to repress the emotionality. One thing we would like to say here. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. So it would depend on which period of time.point of view extremely fulfilling.

We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous.the Pleiadian civilization.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. many of them do. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability. one on one . That's their idea of monogamy. In the ancient. The Pleiadian Civilization . You don't have to be as disciplined. very connected. they feel secure . because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. they're not pledging their love for the future. very committed to each other.what you would call marriage. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. ancient Pleiadian past. but when they pledge their love to a person. These marriage units are very loving. they're monogamous in the moment.and that is how they choose to live their lives. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. you may do some research. So they were intent on repressing negativity. This is. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. They have ceremonies. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. recognize emotionality in the moment . the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. So if any of you wish to examine that further. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. because there are other ways of channeling energy. There are also married groups. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. As with the Orions." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people.some from Orion and some from other civilizations.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. to some degree. there are three or more. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system . But as you know from the statistics on your planet.importance that each Orion have a mate. During times of peace other things are looked at.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . Because of this focus on positivity. marriage rates increase.

"This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me.move into something else. On your planet. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. however. that would be expressed as true monogamy. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. very safe. you don't have to face certain issues. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. When you are in a monogamous relationship.it does . as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. the mate quite often will be very hurt. This is changing now. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. and there is a disconnection. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . not having sexual relations with another person. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. kind of like the . They recognize that it must be the time.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. will attempt to latch on to you. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. will show a lot of pain. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. etc. you get used to the partner. a conscious choice. Not that it does not occur here . When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment)." there's total understanding. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. it's very. However. certain fears. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. both of you have.

none of these civilizations are better than yours. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. For the Pleiadians. No one here is any better. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. It's important that we say this. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. since we've already opened our mouth. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. They are different. when they are denying and repressing. to find out what your own inner truth is. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. It's very important that we say that. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. bits and pieces of what is inside of you.when that is actually what they are excited by. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. Dis-eases. Eventually. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. we'll finish what we're saying. you don't know how to do this.Orions. will not have pain and fear. It's simply a matter of choice. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. Now. That's what's occurring now. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. As your consciousness raises. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. deep level. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. In your society now. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. any more evolved. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. as your consciousness is raising. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. It will work for you. So back . What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. But you are already beginning to create it. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. they've taught you a lot. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. But neither of their expressions are better.

then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. Whenever there's resistance. absolute reflection of themselves. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. If. Correct.levels that you've not wished to look at before. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. Whenever there's flow. or whether it's a true excitement. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises.it's a partnership.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . It's a matter of resistance and flow.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. very deep levels . you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . are directly connected to your state of emotionality. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. and to release that. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. If you really feel that . they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. However. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . When they are having a relationship. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. there's no flow . think about taking action. when we feel that a relationship might be over. AIDS and cancer. Q: Separation is never a solution. and anger and pain lie. yes. they're a mirror image of themselves. to understand where your fears. for instance. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. examine your motivation.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. So when they separate.then they did have some disease. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. that does not constitute separation at all. more than any other disease you have on your planet. many dimensions to it. or clear the energy so you can stay. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. AIDS. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy.your own and others'. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. thinking separation is a solution. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. with your question. If you try to leave and it's very difficult .

the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union.a brown base with a greenish tinge. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. You'll only draw to you that which you are. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood.way inside. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. The women have similar control over ovulation. . So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. Sexually. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. That gives you a general idea of the body types. That is why when they separate. two legs. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. two legs. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. relationships are frequently not completed. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . It's like some of your animals. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. That's a perfect form of birth control. it's olive-colored . If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. It is humanoid. same thing). then when you separate. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. It is your galactic family. A couple of other minor differences. and complete control over ejaculation. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. Thank you. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. it doesn't completely disappear. Unfortunately. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. Their skin is very different. Now. In terms of getting aroused sexually."I'd like you to meet my `better half.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. head. Now. body. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. You will seek out a half. Do you follow? Q: Yes. Each person is not complete within themselves. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. anyway.

yes. none of this is better than . then tantra is better. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. For instance.deliberately nonphysical. It's not as if they would say. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. let's do tantra today. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. several different levels. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. like you saw in Cocoon. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . because it is a God union. so to speak. So it touched you . But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. are both highly ritualized.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. when the woman came out of her shell. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain.it touched a lot of people in your society . including chocolate ice cream. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. That's one level of it. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. one for procreation and one for intimacy. That is one way. eye-toeye recognition. "Well. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. but it's not a conscious. One. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. It's part of who they are. Well. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. You see the difference? And again.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. But this occurs all the time. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration.

We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. There is much to share with you. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. We have much to share with you. Your forefathers. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . are also learning and growing. since our environment was going to collapse. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. At this point in time. once we were underground. balanced and nonviolent in every way. You are learning and growing. we were born from crisis. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. We know you have many questions. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. who we've been talking about. We were born from conflict. We gave much thought to this and chose. less complete. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. so we were called. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. then. Due to severe radiation. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. Within our civilization we had much diversity. We had war. We knew this was to occur. that there was to be a species crisis. and that is not the case. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. We needed.Group Mind This is Harone. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. we could control the future of our race. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. It was understood by us. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. It becomes dimmer.anything else. You have been talking about us. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate.

Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate.we are not separate . for from our point of view we . Our organs began atrophying over many. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. some need activation on the physical level.males from females. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process.though our realities may say we are. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. when we went underground and began cloning. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. Because we have lost this ability for so long. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. you will become more unified. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. In our work with you. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. we work with these genetic structures. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. 2. You will find that as evolution occurs. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. However. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. We will become much more individualistic. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. We are infinitely entwined . Even though we do not understand why. we are told that their numbers are quite small. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. Simply put. we will become much more similar. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. we will have physical facilitators. We are taking a species leap together. these latent genetic codes. That is what is occurring now. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1.our end of the agreement. They would have you think they are much more numerous. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is.

which tends to cause a lot of trauma. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. what was happening in your culture. Our interactions with you represent evolution. this is an equal exchange. recognize we have no intent. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. even more than upon your world today. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. You are resisting . we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning.recognize you have given us permission. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. engage those fears and move through them. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. Unfortunately for our development. We're afraid of being vulnerable. We learn what we desire. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. you feel the tide of evolution. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. to change you. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. So in terms of symbolic expression. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. many of you have come to our reality. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. as we have stated. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. your civilization. When we interact with you. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. We recognize there may be questions from you. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. you learn what you desire. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. From our point of view. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. your interactions with us will change dramatically. Our interactions with you push buttons.

because the emotions are very intense for us. skin samples and also an understanding. it really depends on which group. energy shielding. not as if we were invading . those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. It is a matter of shifting perspective. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. Very often some of us will have protection. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken. It penetrates all of them. Our way . but we do pay attention to them. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. When you are lying on an examination table. shall we say. whereas each and every one of you is part of that.sperm. and until that fear is confronted and released. That is. as you would say. We are divided. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. Some are interested in reproductive research. a mind link. or disempowered vulnerability. eggs. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. It is not just cold research. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. that's what I was getting at. and in that case. as you know the term.evolution because of your fear. We may not know how to understand your emotions. when you are vulnerable. If you surrender. not of what we intend to do . Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. saying you have not created this somehow. Well. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. you will feel the pressure of evolution. samples would be taken from all portions of the body.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. So biologically speaking.again we speak of the dynamic. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. You let your guard down. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. secretions from prostate.not in the negative sense of weakness . those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. you are open to All That Is. There is no arousal. that you are not part of species transformation. Vulnerable . into different groups that have different purposes. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. to the One. And you see that in that choice there is no pain.that is not what is meant . of what procreation means to the person. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. Some are interested primarily in genetic research.

Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. We interact with you on every level we can. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. You've done your research well. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. Our love to you and goodnight. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. certainly. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. We must deal with data. . We are not capable of a smile as an individual. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. That is also something of primary interest to us.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. we can enter your reality in a light state. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. Now that may be inaccurate . Some of you will sense our energy.perhaps many of you would think it is . And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. which is very uncomfortable. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. we must densify ourselves.

The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. allow yourself to feel fluid. The more . either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. So. but you will know what is right for you. Not just the ingesting of it. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. a current. whatever your choice is. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. plan accordingly. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. imagine yourself as being a river. That will be fruits and vegetables. You are 90 some-odd percent water. This is rather abstract. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. the voltage is going to be upped. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. so the electrical current is always running through your body. Also. We would recommend distilled or purified. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. your showers. Germane through Lyssa Royal. All Rights Reserved. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. Now. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. Also. the presence of water. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. Let us first address the physical level.

that incorporates water. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. can significantly slow . You are symbiotic. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. If you want to put crystals in your bath. But in the long run. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. and you can feel the environment of that water. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. your planet also recognizes its need for water.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. wear some of it. The water will then be in your auric field. on the market there are radiation screens. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. it's all connected. You may even want to get some fish. we guarantee you. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. That's one idea. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. The radiation is not going to damage you. Now. Actually. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. put your feet in the water. So. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. LCD screen. Along with water comes detoxification. If you feel attracted to that. there are several options available to you. you see these on your laptops. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. or very specific types of strict diets. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. (No need to get neurotic about this. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. that's perfectly fine. If you can't do that. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. of course. That's an optimum situation. is to keep water close to you if you can. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. if it does any at all. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. or fill your bathtub. So. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. it's up to you. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. if you're living under major power lines. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. When you bathe or shower. If you use a computer a lot. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. It will be a conversation piece as well. very helpful for you. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. for instance. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. There is some jewelry. You can get one of those fishtanks. You may also sit by a lake. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). again.

No television. that is for others to answer. Many say to throw your TVs. It's got to be one or the other. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. From our point of view. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. As soon as that is recognized and owned. And so this is about processing belief systems. and that's very important to stress. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. and no more sinister plots. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. and it's certainly not going to do anything. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. where you are the only creator of your reality. Now. then absolutely anything can hurt you. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. because it makes you think. computers and microwave ovens away. Now. It is not our understanding that you will ever. information to make you think. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in.your own healing abilities. . when this type of fearful information is given. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. So. information to be added to your storehouse. Category: Healing. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. these are guidelines. This is about learning sovereignty. there will be no more victims. no computer creates that.

tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. (Ultimately. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life.Tantra For a thousand years. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. . and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. What begins as duality and polarization within time. they enslave us and we enslave others. through no other human activity. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. It delivers you . The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. and a gift of Enlightenment. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. It inundates your entire being.body and soul . but the game is over.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension.beyond. thought. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. The most extreme instance is called rape. pleasure. but concurrent with our everyday existence. When we can't handle our attachments. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. the Western Judeo-Christian. was to keep them well in check. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. and it's good for your health. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. People use each other for lust. is the opportunity for ego-loss. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. and many have yet to answer it. Yet. save dying. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. the body. whether they know it or not. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. and our most basic instincts. ironically. People get carried away. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. otherwise rarely known in human existence. On the direct path of conscious awareness . transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . Lust is only a call to love. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation.The Path With No Obstacles .

Ph. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. invocations. or it is devil-worship. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization.we find ourselves indulging in what is.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. music. money." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. mystical rituals.Miranda Shaw. The great enigma is. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). depending upon one's intent. not deny it. and conditioning. By that logic. They fear one and fake the other.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . candlelight. and all too often . . the thrill. Sufi and tantric couples practices. and the total fulfillment of your partner.when people use each other uncaringly . after all. as in indigenous tribal customs. breathing exercises. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. rituals. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. innate sexuality. . incense. Meditation. power. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. or fame).D. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. and call this "correct. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. ceremonial objects." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. when .combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. and get it over with as quickly as possible. state of mind. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex.

Listen for Inner Guidance. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. to the sacred fire within. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. ours. Wait for the perfect moment. Purify yourself in body and mind. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Foreplay is truly playful. Opening all your centers. unconditionally. Touch only in awe. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Giving and taking merge. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Die as a personality. weeks. Everything matters. Give only pleasure and love. engaging all your faculties. The senses are magnified a thousand times. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. die into love. animal to divine. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Reside always at the beginning. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Decelerate until time stands still. letting hers become yours. Transpose taking and giving. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. the passion intense and profound. whom you worship in awe. Begin motionless and in silence. Surrender continuously. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. Meditate. from passion to compassion. Abandon all gain and control. all purifying. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. Make love with your whole being. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Make it Holy. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Breathe together. Worship your lover. confused. Gaze into each other's eyes. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. and you two become One. Fall in love. Every touch is The First. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. breathtakingly tender. with reverence. all fulfilling.. Give voice to your feelings.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. Move in slow motion. Trust your body's deepest impulses. stay in love. You notice everything. long and deep. . all consuming. and time stands still. The transformation from ordinary mechanical.

Brown. .D. Ph." by Lonny J.From "Enlightenment in Our Time.

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