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The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking
about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.
Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.
Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?
No one seems to really get the point. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. It is a symptom. Change means change. There is no separation. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship.For one thing. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. . So. because you can never be separate. no matter what choice happens. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. they will blame sex. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. Sex. If they are vulnerable. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. Some people are denying them. these things started in the 1960s of your time. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. If you are resisting change. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. It is going to challenge you. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. is inside of you. Divorce is a 3D solution. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. and challenge you. it is going to be very different. they are weak and open to attack. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. Breaking. Always. and that is allowed. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. It is not the issue. you will create more discomfort and pain. you are going to start feeling pain. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. is to be avoided in their belief. If you are willing to move with it. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. at all costs. and that is all change means. and never has been. That. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. then your relationships are going to start to change. first level. Energetically. It may first manifest outside of you. If you create resistance. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. Some people are polarizing. they think all it has to do with is sex. Separation. confusion. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. Change does not mean they will end. Instead. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. but you haven't known what was happening. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. let some things out. You allow the other person to move in that direction. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. They have nothing to do with the problem. It is not. Some people are going with the flow. In 4D. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. That was a tool in 3D. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. they believe. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how.
there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. So you are trying to act on your excitement. It is different from what you see here. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. Therefore. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. So. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. Because she wants the child. she has the child because she wants the child. You would just trust. Your mate can do whatever they want. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. Meaning absolute trust. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. we apologize. No. whatever) relationship. The choices are entirely for you. allowance instead of manipulation. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. You do not have to plan for the future. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. not a compulsion). "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. You say to the person. In 4D you are acting in the moment. It placates you into thinking you are secure. . there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. If we have explained it incorrectly. You only make the choices for you and no one else. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. In a 4D type relationship. They have nothing to do with the other person. although your society will change. If you choose monogamy. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. the idea of commitment does not exist." No. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child. The choices are all for you. That is the difference. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. It is trust. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. with trust instead of control.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. They are all part of the same family anyway. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. In 4D type relationships. then that choice is for you. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. If the woman is Pleiadian. That is what we meant by conscious choice. If you choose to be non-monogamous.
"Oh. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. Then in 4D. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. Not just a child. then after the baby is born. In the moment. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. we become dependent on the other person. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. you are in the past or the future. Sex is just one of those lids. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. You must. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. but any reality that you create.Exactly. is all dependency gone? Yes. If you are in the moment. and people have been getting upset. in the moment. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. Yes. totally and absolutely. There will never be a time where you will say. It looks nice. you got a haircut. This is a very good question. ." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. It really depends on the individual. I made a mistake in having this child. at all costs. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. But I still want these people as friends. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. Very simple. For some people it is sex. Therefore. Okay. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. you cannot put that outside of yourself. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes." Never. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. In 4D. You say. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. each day. I would rather not cause problems for them. "Oh. so all the issue come crawling out. there is that child. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. No effort. That is what I've been finding out. For others it is money. sex is a really good trigger. and so when that recognition is there. For others. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. If you are totally 100% in the present. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. and still push people's buttons. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. you can love it. It is an equation that doesn't work. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. I've finally been making choices for myself. In the moment. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. I don't want to hurt other people. You can say nice things all the time.
It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. He is protecting himself. That is one of my button-pushers here. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. that is deliberately hurting her. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. They like the concepts. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. You can never hurt another person. Well. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. I don't see there is an exception to that. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. In . That is then the way you will see the universe. The outcome is the same. They all come from you. If. it is her choice. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. That is empowerment. in the husband's excitement he says. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. then you polarize between victims and hurters. You try to protect other people. disapproval or invalidation. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. fears. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. At the same time. In your innocence and excitement. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. This is what we mean by enmeshment. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. But there are no victims. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. It is then that each person will be challenged. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. then you are manipulating people around you. and emotions. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. It prolongs the pain. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. There cannot ever be victims. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. But in reality. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. We might borrow that one. Good term. "I want to go hot air ballooning." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. If she chooses to be hurt.
You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. Write them down. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. If you look at a Pleiadian. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). It buries itself into your cells. It is. They cannot be victim of hurt. You are all divine portions of the creator. in one way. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. Then they only know you through your lies. Literally. They are the ones generating their reality. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. You cannot withhold any portion of you. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. Get comfortable with who you are. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. balance. That is an even greater hurt than the truth.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. and then actually on the physical level. to hell with what the others think. They cannot ever love you for who you are. If they don't agree with you. This is a no win situation. it submerges itself. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. reflecting that which you feel within. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. You are lying to yourself. first think what it is you want to say. not necessarily the things they fear. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. the more diseased you get. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . because they don't know who you are. You are lying to the other person. It throws you into disharmony. You stuff it. It is stasis. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. Be truthful. Those judgments eat you up. If you do not express who you are. Cancer. it is also insulting. Let it be okay to start thinking them. You can tell them that. If you do not express who you are 100%. that is their choice. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. But in one way. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. Write it down. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. All That Is is neutral. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. Externalize them. You won't know what the thoughts are. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. When you hold back that which you are. heart disease. They do not know who you are. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. You protect them from the things that you fear. Say it into a tape recorder. The more you stuff it. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. Let yourself think it first. it is going to be devastating to you. you are lying. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. we've always screwed up the communication. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. To hold this in will be lying to the other person.
Other times you cannot. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. If you think it's clean. In the expression. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. You will learn how to tell the difference. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. so it's fine. and I don't agree with that. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. That wasn't my question. Again. "It is clean as a whistle. Know who you are. All right. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. the more you will be able to tell. "You are a jerk. If they have no issue about being attacked. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. It cannot be any other way. We apologize if the language was misleading. Okay.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. If your wife walks up to you and says. She can tell me I'm a jerk.. There is only neutral expression. That is not what was implied. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. Yes. they will feel attacked. But by all means at least express it to yourself. I understand that. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. Get out that pent-up energy. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. .. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. So it's essential for her to express that. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. for instance). There are no wrong things." and you express your thought. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts." if you feel hurt. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. In the addictive state. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. whether she thinks it's clean or not. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. whether it is attacking or not attacking. and that's cool. let us clarify. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. If you do (to get them to do something. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. If that expression is an attack. Sometimes you can see that. That is not a clean idea. There are times when you cannot see it. Before you express something. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. times when you say to yourself. The more you practice. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. then express it. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. and the synchronicity of All That Is. they are not going to feel attacked. In fact. because that in itself is part of the growth process. There are not mistakes in creation. and if it is indeed an attack. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern.
But if you do. third-density relationships often express victimhood. "If you have dinner with another woman. ever. Well. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). then you will have matched your vibrations. underneath everything else. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. Examine your beliefs. it's not true excitement. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. If you really believe that Creation is Love. really believe that. They can choose to feel hurt. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. That is the bottomline intention of creation. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. that hurts me. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. every instance must support ultimately that belief. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. that's not going to hurt him in the least. and it will not hurt him. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. You can never hurt another person. also. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. You may walk up to your husband one day." And if he feels really good about himself. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. if you really. but we didn't make it a major point. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. so don't tell me about it if you do that . then every action. It will lock your relationship into third density. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. then it's clean.to fourth-density relationships model. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. Victimhood would come into it. and you may say. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. "You look like a pig today. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. It is not possible. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. it's not clean. You cannot hurt another person. But you can't know.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. because it's the way to take your power back. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state).
honesty. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. because the cruise control does not come with third density. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. but that's secrecy and it's third density. it's fine. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. there's nothing wrong with it. If you choose third density. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. Right? Yes! So it's fine. then actually. which an indicator that you are making the change. to remind you that you can still feel. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. Yes. So whenever I feel pain. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. You're holding onto something from third density. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. Many people are using it that way. However. reading this. you will not feel pain. It's all equal anyway. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships." That's okay to ask for that. exactly. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. Exactly.. It's one package or another package. . then you're right. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. I won't feel any pain. Absolutely. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. It's a significator. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. unconditional love. and that's quite all right. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth.. but recognize that's what you're choosing. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. no. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. then I need to go back and look at this versus that.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. those in the room. secrecy. allowance. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. and you're feeling the pain.
literally that means two . Now. Now. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. And you will begin to see. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. exactly. we will have a short break. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. not necessarily in every single relationship. powerful changes within your life. Sasha: All right. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. They do not have to bring pain. It's simply different. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. After that. Now. it's an expression of who we are. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. Sasha. but you don't have to manifest pain. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. some of the understandings. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. absolutely 100% guaranteed. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. it really does not. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. you are going to see tremendous. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships.Again. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. Greeting to all of you. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. Greetings. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. of course. let me repeat myself. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. necessity meaning single parents. Third density is the density of polarity. However. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. Do not be surprised. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. Yes. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. with respect to your channel. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. this is Sasha. Now. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. overall. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself.
It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. Now. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. because using the paddle idea. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate.. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. as Germane was not saying. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. Do you all follow? Thoughts. Make your choices. That is a third-density idea. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. It cannot happen. but it might not necessarily work for you. it takes away the love they can have for you. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. are present. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. these things are going to begin coming up. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. so if I don't have this. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. As you start choosing how you want to live. It can. you must just go for it. back and forth. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. And that is something that we would like to address. I am deprived. The dynamics will have to change. back and forth. Absolutely cannot happen.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). living in the moment. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. and in this mated group. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. Period. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. insert a third variable. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. Now. back and forth. that you must at all cost heal this. When you love yourself unconditionally. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. again. most definitely. Well. back and forth. back and forth. honesty. there will be no problem here. we're not saying. I was also in a mated group. . fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. So when I spend time with my mate. etc. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. But recognize where the time element comes into it. It is not time. as intense. I'm not alone. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. "This is better than this. So therefore.ideas are present. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball." Do you follow? Now. so because of the aloneness. if you in third-density. I get caught in the time factor. fourth. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. and then you bring in another mate.
some of which are religion and societal conditioning. Sasha. Did you want more on that? Well. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. The shift is going to happen. Either way. Sasha. when your mate is not there. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. it is still going to happen. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. It's just a question of when. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. which is open to all. You are it. you are excited in the moment with yourself. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. So for instance. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. Do what you can. when you lived with a group. One were rooms of privacy. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. I was just curious about that because. as Germane was saying. Yes. And so when that recognition is there.Exactly. Question. . We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. The same thing with the Essassani. and the same thing with the Orions. no. And again in fourth density. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. it's exciting in the moment. We do not perceive. Or comment. through who you have been as a species. invited guests you may call it. And when you see your mate. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. The critical mass is going to happen. Both companies are appreciated. Now you on your planet. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. Both are equal. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. if you will. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. that only we entered. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. There were basically three different phases of environments. It will take longer if they resist it. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. at least right now.
You follow? Yes. Sasha. Yes. very rough. or not even that different. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. it was a natural movement from one state to another. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. having to deal with the need to control. there were no tears or anger. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. So it's that issue. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible.. and therefore for instance. One last question along these lines. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. yes. Just with a different twist. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. not out of a sense of prejudice. let us say. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. there was no fighting. We are going through relationship transformation. You know those Zetas. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. . that's when I was in the group. there was no resistance. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings.. to give you a very dramatic example. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. If that's true. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. and some chose to go into a more quiet time." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. It's a little bit different.
No child feels the need to find their identity through their past. going to bed with Sasha. someone else will be attracted to this body type. I will be attracted to a certain body type. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. Not only that. In third density.. but he taught us a thing or two." I mean.. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. it can't be used against you.. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. the present holds your answers. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. And if you were to live in the moment. Now. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. "Hmm. etc. Maybe. sex does not become a big deal. There is simply one expression.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. It is of a creative vibration. there is so much emphasis on body types. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. Now. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. a different developmental structure. That was kind of a landmark. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. sexuality is not sex. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. Again. no child feels unwanted. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. We're not talking about the sex act. because literally the past does not hold your answers.. That was not so much of a challenge. Right now. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. On our planet and in third density. Again. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. any man that I've been around. and if that is the case. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. A lot of this searching goes on. etc. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. They are very secure in their identity in the present. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. can it? Exactly. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. that becomes irrelevant.
They are natural diversifying characteristics. conditions. those symbols will change because you will change. When you do not need something from another individual. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic.No. Yes. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. If you all felt that way. Exactly. And that is the cycle. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. if you're all gorgeous. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate." Oh. Well. When you move into fourth density. you feel beautiful. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. Separation. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. Most definitely. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. you would all be "gorgeous" also. you feel healthy. you would have all that male and female inside your body. we may have preferences. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. Now. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. but the preferences are so unimportant. they're too tall. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. . they're too ugly. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. I know. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. But it is not a need in any way. That is very accurate. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. that is a third-density idea. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. Most definitely. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. Conditional love. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. there is no attention on body type. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. If you are so together and whole. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. Exactly. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. you feel vibrant.
Integration is the entire soup itself. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. you will not know the recipe. fun and excitement instead of need. In fact. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. exactly. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. The recipe needs those things. Living the relationship. Can be. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. There is a difference. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. If you do not want to look at your needs. Sasha. The recipe requires carrots and celery. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. you will not know how to cook the soup. Recognize the need. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. Now. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that.It's almost like a paradox here. we would say. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . They have no value except what you ascribe to them. yes. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. then it is out of need. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. Work with it. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. and it will take a lot more energy. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. Do you follow? There is a fine line. Fourth density is integration. Third density is separation. To use an analogy. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question.
If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. Exactly. however. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. as dysfunctional as they may be. Nothing exists without a purpose. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. recognize what you get with that choice. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. you are choosing to integrate yourself. But if you choose personal growth. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. Now again. So neither one is wrong nor right. Go to your own garden. We are simply saying in terms of your choice.carrots. If you choose personal growth over relationships. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. Sasha. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. . or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. Do you want to comment on that? Well. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. There are times when we recognize. Exactly. we're talking in ways that are different than you. personal growth will always have to suffer. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. We do not have that particular expression. and your needs. As long as the relationship takes precedence. You're not attacking someone. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. I become angry. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase).
It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. and I feel it's a very good answer. Back in this needs issue. And even if I'm able to say. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. Well. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. it's their choice. I guess. . We are sorry. I refuse to do that. getting the package deal there. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. I follow. I have one question. and I can tune into it. That doesn't matter.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. Well. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. That is all you are responsible for. I appreciate that. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. "No. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. if that's the case. If they feel deprived. But you can play out that game." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. that need is okay. You cannot deprive another person. from my thirddensity perspective. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. We're not understanding the exact question. pulling yourself back into third density. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. Ahhh. but there is. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. And like we say with the soup. But it came into my life suddenly.
They will not verbalize them. That is so correct." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. they will never be satisfied. caring and sharing. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. Now. In other words. hostility. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. the level of anger would be very. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. very low¾hidden anger. And just be pure in my own intention. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. and let it be whatever it ends up being. you will get caught because it is a game. starts setting in. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. you cannot know. For one thing. Exactly. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. ecstasy. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. I remember saying. However. Period. Obviously that is a trap. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. So when you have no expectations .which is exactly what I do not want to do. play. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. the anger. You are still playing the thirddensity game. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. nearly nonexistent. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. and then they will be angry. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. You can never second-guess another person. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. "I don't expect anything from it. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. and it started out. whether covert or overt. you're not in fourth density. If you have that need. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. Exactly. Seventy-five percent. Am I on track? Yes. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are.
is difficult. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. If you judge them. that you judge. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. Once that idea is relinquished. The joy will start to grow. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. you can truly experience unconditional love. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. are so valuable because they make up the soup. you will soar. And so. In fourth density. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. they will stay there on the counter. Much.about the other person fulfilling your needs. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. You can enjoy yourself." In third density. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth. you then know there's an issue. "If you can't feel the pain. what a load off your energy. It will just automatically start unfolding. Copyright © 1993. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. much. going to start seeing changes. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. . they will transform. All Rights Reserved. what a load off your mind that is. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. much love to each and every one of you.to fourth-density thinking. Again. that you're angry at. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. you can't feel the ecstasy. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. it's not a light switch going on and off. and they will always be an issue. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. that makes a lot of sense. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. yes. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. You are moving in that direction. It's a gradual movement from third. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. The pain will start to subside. Much love and goodnight. yes. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. that idea cannot exist. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. Yes.
If they were found.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. It took them a very. incarnationally speaking. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. In a tug-of-war. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire. First. for instance. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. "Black" is not meant to be negative. if the weight is balanced on both sides. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . The idea . These individuals we've called the Black League. who were the freedom fighters. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. certain patterns of conflict. Orion Civilization . the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. we will integrate them together. This is the energy. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. neither person is going to win. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. Thus you can see the dynamic. As you know. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. Earth was a place where you could come. Many of you on Earth. they would be annihilated.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. This is Germane.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. So let us start with Orion. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. The Empire vs.they did not want to be found.galactic heritage and sexuality. First of all. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood.
to release the energy of conflict. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. Surrogates So. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. Again. So when the mate is finally found. you ask. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. resonate with the most. because it's definitely a two-way street .when two people come together who are to be mated. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. it's a tremendous honor and privilege." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. This is the opposite. at least for now.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. but also through nonsexual intimacy. and there's no doubt of that recognition. and even a bit scary for some of you. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization.your civilization included. When you're chosen as a surrogate . but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. to say the least. There is no "sneaking around. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. This is for a very specific reason. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. There's a recognition . This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. very close to them. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet.an instant recognition . You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. So this is the one we will talk about. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. The Orions mate for life. to release emotional energy. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. very intense in a certain way.the relationship becomes as mates. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. but from their . the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate.and you choose to be a surrogate. because this is the energy that you on Earth.
many thousands of years long. Experience does change genetics. So it would depend on which period of time. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. This is not anything that is imposed on them. before the conflict was resolved. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. The Orion civilization was many. Now. yes. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. they moved very slowly. for instance. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves.point of view extremely fulfilling. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. But that was a difficult one. does not exist. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. that is the way the stress is released. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation.even in thought . One thing we would like to say here. they repress fantasy. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. for fantasy simply does not exist. If one mate was killed. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. Because of this. etc. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. yes. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. It's simply the way they are. there was a lot of genetic change. it is eventually genetically encoded. This is why it is of primary .it's second nature. one is for exchange of intimacy. The Vulcan is repressing. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was.in the direction of the mate. so it's not a repression of anything. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. for instance. That is an undisciplined thought. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. However. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. societally speaking. But. After awhile it's no longer control . thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. When one is under stress. During the times of the intense conflict.
You don't have to be as disciplined. During times of peace other things are looked at. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. they feel secure . The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. They have ceremonies. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. one on one . an opposite energy to the Orion civilization.what you would call marriage.importance that each Orion have a mate. very committed to each other. there are three or more. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. many of them do. Because of this focus on positivity. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . you may do some research. but when they pledge their love to a person.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . As with the Orions. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system .in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality.some from Orion and some from other civilizations.and that is how they choose to live their lives. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. because there are other ways of channeling energy. to some degree. These marriage units are very loving. marriage rates increase. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. So if any of you wish to examine that further. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . they're not pledging their love for the future." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). ancient Pleiadian past. This is. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. very connected. There are also married groups. but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. That's their idea of monogamy. recognize emotionality in the moment . In the ancient. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. The Pleiadian Civilization . So they were intent on repressing negativity. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. they're monogamous in the moment. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability.the Pleiadian civilization. We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous.
a conscious choice. both of you have. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. When you are in a monogamous relationship. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future .but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. and there is a disconnection. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. the mate quite often will be very hurt. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. however. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. it's very. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. etc. you get used to the partner. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. that would be expressed as true monogamy. They recognize that it must be the time. On your planet. you don't have to face certain issues. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy.move into something else. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. instead of your parental or societal conditioning." there's total understanding. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. very safe. This is changing now. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. However. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person.it does . will show a lot of pain. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. Not that it does not occur here . will attempt to latch on to you. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. kind of like the . Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. certain fears. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. not having sexual relations with another person. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it.
This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. none of these civilizations are better than yours. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. any more evolved. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. It's simply a matter of choice. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. they've taught you a lot. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. It's very important that we say that. As your consciousness raises.Orions. Eventually. deep level. will not have pain and fear. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. since we've already opened our mouth. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. as your consciousness is raising. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. you don't know how to do this. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. For the Pleiadians.when that is actually what they are excited by. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. But neither of their expressions are better. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . Dis-eases. when they are denying and repressing. It will work for you. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. They are different. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. Now. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. In your society now. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. we'll finish what we're saying. It's important that we say this. But you are already beginning to create it. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. So back . There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. No one here is any better. to find out what your own inner truth is. That's what's occurring now.
Whenever there's flow. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. AIDS and cancer. If you really feel that . because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. examine your motivation. or clear the energy so you can stay. Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . more than any other disease you have on your planet. It's a matter of resistance and flow. thinking separation is a solution. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . think about taking action. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave.levels that you've not wished to look at before.your own and others'. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. with your question. and anger and pain lie. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. absolute reflection of themselves.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. to understand where your fears. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. yes. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life.it's a partnership. If. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. AIDS. there's no flow . The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. when we feel that a relationship might be over. or whether it's a true excitement. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so .then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. When they are having a relationship. However. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. So when they separate. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. and to release that. Whenever there's resistance. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality .then they did have some disease. that does not constitute separation at all. for instance. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . very deep levels . many dimensions to it. they're a mirror image of themselves. Q: Separation is never a solution. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. Correct. are directly connected to your state of emotionality.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person.
and complete control over ejaculation. Each person is not complete within themselves. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. It's like some of your animals.way inside. Sexually. In terms of getting aroused sexually. You'll only draw to you that which you are. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. body. You will seek out a half. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. Now. The women have similar control over ovulation. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. relationships are frequently not completed. Unfortunately. It is your galactic family. anyway. it doesn't completely disappear. then when you separate. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). Thank you. Their skin is very different. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. That gives you a general idea of the body types. It is humanoid.a brown base with a greenish tinge. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. Now. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. A couple of other minor differences. head. . You won't be able to seek out a whole person. two legs. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. That is why when they separate. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. Do you follow? Q: Yes. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. That's a perfect form of birth control."I'd like you to meet my `better half. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. same thing). it's olive-colored . two legs. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations.
that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. one for procreation and one for intimacy. are both highly ritualized. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. That type of exchange occurs very frequently.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. Well. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. then tantra is better. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. including chocolate ice cream. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. eye-toeye recognition. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . let's do tantra today. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. because it is a God union." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. but it's not a conscious. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. several different levels. So it touched you .Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. For instance. It's not as if they would say. so to speak. when the woman came out of her shell. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. But this occurs all the time.deliberately nonphysical. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. That's one level of it. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. none of this is better than . It's part of who they are. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. One. yes. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. That is one way. You see the difference? And again. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. like you saw in Cocoon. "Well.it touched a lot of people in your society .
We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day.anything else. and that is not the case. so we were called. We gave much thought to this and chose. Within our civilization we had much diversity. At this point in time. are also learning and growing. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. Due to severe radiation. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . Throughout thousands of years of cloning. We have much to share with you. We were born from conflict. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. You are learning and growing. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. since our environment was going to collapse. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. once we were underground. we were born from crisis. who we've been talking about. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. then. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. Your forefathers. We had war. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. It becomes dimmer.Group Mind This is Harone. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. It was understood by us. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. less complete. We needed. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . that there was to be a species crisis. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. You have been talking about us. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. We knew this was to occur. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. We know you have many questions. There is much to share with you. balanced and nonviolent in every way. we could control the future of our race. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us.
these latent genetic codes. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. We are infinitely entwined . We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development.though our realities may say we are. However. Because we have lost this ability for so long. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. We are taking a species leap together. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. In our work with you. we will have physical facilitators. we will become much more similar. Our organs began atrophying over many. That is what is occurring now. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . we are told that their numbers are quite small. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. Even though we do not understand why. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. for from our point of view we . Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1.males from females. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so.we are not separate . 2. when we went underground and began cloning. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. we work with these genetic structures. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. They would have you think they are much more numerous. We will become much more individualistic. Simply put. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. You will find that as evolution occurs. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. you will become more unified.our end of the agreement. some need activation on the physical level.
what was happening in your culture. many of you have come to our reality. From our point of view. You are resisting . There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. So in terms of symbolic expression. engage those fears and move through them. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. We recognize there may be questions from you. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. even more than upon your world today. your civilization. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. Unfortunately for our development. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. Our interactions with you push buttons. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. When we interact with you. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. you learn what you desire. Our interactions with you represent evolution. as we have stated. We learn what we desire. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. to change you. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. which tends to cause a lot of trauma.recognize you have given us permission. this is an equal exchange. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. We're afraid of being vulnerable. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. your interactions with us will change dramatically. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. you feel the tide of evolution. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. recognize we have no intent. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them.
Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes.sperm. You let your guard down. Our way . when you are vulnerable. So biologically speaking. that's what I was getting at. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. Very often some of us will have protection. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor.not in the negative sense of weakness . how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . We are divided. you are open to All That Is. that you are not part of species transformation. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. shall we say. eggs. We may not know how to understand your emotions.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. Vulnerable . It is a matter of shifting perspective. Well. to the One. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. but we do pay attention to them. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. into different groups that have different purposes. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. because the emotions are very intense for us. Some are interested primarily in genetic research.again we speak of the dynamic. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. a mind link. and in that case. When you are lying on an examination table.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. it really depends on which group. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. you will feel the pressure of evolution. energy shielding.that is not what is meant . It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. not as if we were invading . of what procreation means to the person. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. skin samples and also an understanding. There is no arousal. as you would say. or disempowered vulnerability. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. It is not just cold research. saying you have not created this somehow. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. as you know the term. Some are interested in reproductive research. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. It penetrates all of them.evolution because of your fear. not of what we intend to do . what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. That is. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. secretions from prostate. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . and until that fear is confronted and released. If you surrender.
We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. certainly. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. That is also something of primary interest to us. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. We interact with you on every level we can. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. . Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. Now that may be inaccurate . Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. which is very uncomfortable. You've done your research well. we can enter your reality in a light state. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. we must densify ourselves. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. We must deal with data. Some of you will sense our energy. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. We are not capable of a smile as an individual.perhaps many of you would think it is . or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. Our love to you and goodnight.
That will be fruits and vegetables. Let us first address the physical level. so the electrical current is always running through your body. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. So. This is rather abstract. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. the voltage is going to be upped. imagine yourself as being a river. We would recommend distilled or purified. plan accordingly. allow yourself to feel fluid.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. Also. Also. but you will know what is right for you. the presence of water. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. your showers. a current. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. All Rights Reserved. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. You are 90 some-odd percent water. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. Not just the ingesting of it. The more . Germane through Lyssa Royal. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time. whatever your choice is. Now. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis.
on the market there are radiation screens. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. So. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. that's perfectly fine. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. It will be a conversation piece as well. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. it's all connected. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). you see these on your laptops. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. So. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. LCD screen. The radiation is not going to damage you. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. That's one idea. If you use a computer a lot. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. You can get one of those fishtanks. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. That's an optimum situation. if it does any at all. (No need to get neurotic about this. of course. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. There is some jewelry. You may even want to get some fish. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. put your feet in the water. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). If you feel attracted to that. Actually. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. Along with water comes detoxification. wear some of it. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. it's up to you. or very specific types of strict diets. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. if you're living under major power lines. very helpful for you. and you can feel the environment of that water. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). your planet also recognizes its need for water. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). there are several options available to you. If you can't do that. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. we guarantee you. You may also sit by a lake. is to keep water close to you if you can. Now. or fill your bathtub. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. again. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. The water will then be in your auric field. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. can significantly slow . Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. If you want to put crystals in your bath. You are symbiotic. But in the long run. for instance. When you bathe or shower. that incorporates water.
Category: Healing. no computer creates that. because it makes you think. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. From our point of view. where you are the only creator of your reality. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. information to be added to your storehouse. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. And so this is about processing belief systems. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. computers and microwave ovens away. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. Many say to throw your TVs. and no more sinister plots. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. then absolutely anything can hurt you. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. there will be no more victims. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. Now. As soon as that is recognized and owned. It's got to be one or the other. So. and that's very important to stress. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. and it's certainly not going to do anything. these are guidelines. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. when this type of fearful information is given. . you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim.your own healing abilities. It is not our understanding that you will ever. Now. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. information to make you think. No television. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. that is for others to answer. This is about learning sovereignty. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system.
the Western Judeo-Christian. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. and our most basic instincts. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. but concurrent with our everyday existence. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe.beyond.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. People use each other for lust. otherwise rarely known in human existence. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. through no other human activity. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. is the opportunity for ego-loss. . they enslave us and we enslave others. save dying. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. but the game is over. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. Lust is only a call to love. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. When we can't handle our attachments. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. whether they know it or not. pleasure. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. the body. and it's good for your health. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . What begins as duality and polarization within time. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. ironically. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. People get carried away. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. and many have yet to answer it. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking.body and soul .Tantra For a thousand years. Yet. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. On the direct path of conscious awareness . The most extreme instance is called rape. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. It delivers you .By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. It inundates your entire being.The Path With No Obstacles .to unimagined heights of ecstasy. (Ultimately. thought. and a gift of Enlightenment. was to keep them well in check.
or fame). even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. or it is devil-worship. depending upon one's intent." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy.we find ourselves indulging in what is. and conditioning. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. By that logic. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. . Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization.Miranda Shaw. the thrill. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. money. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism .combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. breathing exercises. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. They fear one and fake the other. The great enigma is. and call this "correct. . Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. and get it over with as quickly as possible. innate sexuality.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" . as in indigenous tribal customs. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. incense. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. state of mind. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. Ph. after all. when . music. mystical rituals. invocations. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. Sufi and tantric couples practices. power. rituals. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. ceremonial objects. not deny it. candlelight. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. and all too often . and the total fulfillment of your partner. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural.when people use each other uncaringly . and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality.D. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. Meditation.
Reside always at the beginning. Giving and taking merge. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Fall in love. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Transpose taking and giving. Abandon all gain and control. Wait for the perfect moment. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE.. unconditionally. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. long and deep. Foreplay is truly playful. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. all fulfilling. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Breathe together. whom you worship in awe. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Surrender continuously. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. die into love. Move in slow motion. Every touch is The First. Worship your lover. with reverence. all purifying. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Listen for Inner Guidance. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. and you two become One. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. You notice everything. Make love with your whole being. animal to divine. to the sacred fire within. Touch only in awe. from passion to compassion. Die as a personality. ours. and time stands still. Meditate. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. Begin motionless and in silence. letting hers become yours. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. all consuming. Gaze into each other's eyes. . engaging all your faculties. Give voice to your feelings. weeks. Be born as pure Love in the Universe.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Everything matters. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Make it Holy. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. confused. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. Give only pleasure and love. Purify yourself in body and mind. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. Trust your body's deepest impulses. Opening all your centers. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. stay in love. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. Decelerate until time stands still. The senses are magnified a thousand times. breathtakingly tender. the passion intense and profound.
Brown. Ph." by Lonny J.From "Enlightenment in Our Time.D. .
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