Germane: Greetings to everyone. This is Germane. We'd like to thank you all for coming this night.

The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.

3D Relationships
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having

to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.

4D Relationships
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking

about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.

Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.

Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?

they believe. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. because you can never be separate. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. it is going to be very different. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. but you haven't known what was happening. Sex. If you create resistance. they think all it has to do with is sex. is to be avoided in their belief. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. you are going to start feeling pain. Separation. It is going to challenge you. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. It is not the issue. Divorce is a 3D solution. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. at all costs. they are weak and open to attack. is inside of you. Breaking. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. no matter what choice happens. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. first level. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. In 4D. It is not. Instead. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. and never has been.For one thing. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. That was a tool in 3D. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. There is no separation. Some people are polarizing. let some things out. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. . You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. If you are willing to move with it. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. and that is allowed. So. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. They have nothing to do with the problem. Some people are going with the flow. these things started in the 1960s of your time. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. they will blame sex. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. No one seems to really get the point. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. confusion. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. If you are resisting change. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. and challenge you. You allow the other person to move in that direction. you will create more discomfort and pain. Energetically. That. It is a symptom. and that is all change means. Always. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. Change means change. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. If they are vulnerable. then your relationships are going to start to change. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. Change does not mean they will end. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. It may first manifest outside of you. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it. Some people are denying them. You may think it is a problem with your relationship.

Because she wants the child. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. So. You would just trust. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. They are all part of the same family anyway. You only make the choices for you and no one else. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. If the woman is Pleiadian. with trust instead of control. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. . What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. Therefore. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. we apologize. That is what we meant by conscious choice. The choices are entirely for you. she has the child because she wants the child. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. then that choice is for you. All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. If you choose monogamy. That is the difference. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. Your mate can do whatever they want. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. not a compulsion). allowance instead of manipulation. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. The choices are all for you. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. It is different from what you see here. In 4D type relationships. They have nothing to do with the other person. In a 4D type relationship. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. It is trust. the idea of commitment does not exist." No. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. If we have explained it incorrectly. You do not have to plan for the future. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. No. Meaning absolute trust. In 4D you are acting in the moment. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. although your society will change. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. If you choose to be non-monogamous. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. So you are trying to act on your excitement. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. whatever) relationship. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. It placates you into thinking you are secure. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. You say to the person. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time.

You must. You can say nice things all the time. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. in the moment. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. Then in 4D. No effort. so all the issue come crawling out. there is that child. Very simple. at all costs. But I still want these people as friends. Sex is just one of those lids. There will never be a time where you will say. . I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. and so when that recognition is there. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. "Oh. In the moment. You have voiced the mass consciousness here." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. each day. Yes. we become dependent on the other person. If you are totally 100% in the present." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. then after the baby is born. I don't want to hurt other people. you cannot put that outside of yourself. and people have been getting upset. Therefore. and still push people's buttons. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. In the moment. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. Not just a child. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. but any reality that you create. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. "Oh." Never. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. you are in the past or the future. You say. you can love it.Exactly. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. Okay. It looks nice. It is an equation that doesn't work. This is a very good question. I would rather not cause problems for them. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. totally and absolutely. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. I've finally been making choices for myself. In 4D. If you are in the moment. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. I made a mistake in having this child. For others. sex is a really good trigger. you got a haircut. It really depends on the individual. That is what I've been finding out. For some people it is sex. For others it is money. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. is all dependency gone? Yes. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency.

Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. But there are no victims. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. They all come from you. They like the concepts. that is deliberately hurting her. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. fears. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. It is then that each person will be challenged. You try to protect other people. it is her choice. In your innocence and excitement. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. You can never hurt another person. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. then you are manipulating people around you. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. disapproval or invalidation. If. I don't see there is an exception to that. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. Good term. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. It prolongs the pain. If she chooses to be hurt. "I want to go hot air ballooning. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. We might borrow that one. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. Well. There cannot ever be victims. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. and emotions. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. He is protecting himself. That is then the way you will see the universe. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. in the husband's excitement he says. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be. How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. That is empowerment. That is one of my button-pushers here. But in reality. At the same time." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. In . I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. The outcome is the same. then you polarize between victims and hurters. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. This is what we mean by enmeshment.

You protect them from the things that you fear. If you do not express who you are. heart disease. not necessarily the things they fear. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. Get comfortable with who you are. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. They cannot be victim of hurt. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). but to hold it in would eat you up inside.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. You cannot withhold any portion of you. Let yourself think it first. You are all divine portions of the creator. All That Is is neutral. You can tell them that. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. it is also insulting. If you do not express who you are 100%. You stuff it. it is going to be devastating to you. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. The more you stuff it. When you hold back that which you are. in one way. you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. You are lying to the other person. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. It throws you into disharmony. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. first think what it is you want to say. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. Write it down. Cancer. If you look at a Pleiadian. balance. Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. you are lying. It is. Let it be okay to start thinking them. If they don't agree with you. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. Literally. to hell with what the others think. Say it into a tape recorder. that is their choice. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. They do not know who you are. It buries itself into your cells. reflecting that which you feel within. It is stasis. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. and then actually on the physical level. Externalize them. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. But in one way. Write them down. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. You are lying to yourself. because they don't know who you are. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. They are the ones generating their reality. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. They cannot ever love you for who you are. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. Be truthful. Then they only know you through your lies. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. we've always screwed up the communication. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. it submerges itself. You won't know what the thoughts are. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. This is a no win situation. the more diseased you get. Those judgments eat you up.

you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. There is no reaction that doesn't belong. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. There are not mistakes in creation. "You are a jerk. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. whether it is attacking or not attacking. "It is clean as a whistle. Other times you cannot. All right. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. and if it is indeed an attack. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow.. they will feel attacked. You will learn how to tell the difference. So it's essential for her to express that. let us clarify." if you feel hurt. It cannot be any other way. I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. If they have no issue about being attacked. they are not going to feel attacked. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. Know who you are. then express it. Before you express something. The more you practice. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. times when you say to yourself. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. and the synchronicity of All That Is. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. I understand that. and that's cool. so it's fine. That is not what was implied. That is not a clean idea. If your wife walks up to you and says. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts.. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. If that expression is an attack. Yes. Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. and I don't agree with that. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity." and you express your thought. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. Sometimes you can see that. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. That wasn't my question. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. There are times when you cannot see it. whether she thinks it's clean or not. for instance). In fact. In the expression. In the addictive state. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. If you do (to get them to do something. There are no wrong things. If you think it's clean. We apologize if the language was misleading. the more you will be able to tell. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. But by all means at least express it to yourself. Get out that pent-up energy. Okay. There is only neutral expression. .compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. Again. She can tell me I'm a jerk. because that in itself is part of the growth process.

knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. then every action. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. You cannot hurt another person. But you can't know. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). underneath everything else. Well. You can never hurt another person. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. and it will not hurt him. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love. it's not clean. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. really believe that. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. "If you have dinner with another woman. if you really. it's not true excitement. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). That is the bottomline intention of creation. "You look like a pig today. It will lock your relationship into third density. then you will have matched your vibrations. but we didn't make it a major point.to fourth-density relationships model. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. that's not going to hurt him in the least. so don't tell me about it if you do that . They can choose to feel hurt. Examine your beliefs." And if he feels really good about himself. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. also. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. that hurts me. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. But if you do. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. and you may say. Victimhood would come into it. It is not possible. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. third-density relationships often express victimhood. then it's clean. because it's the way to take your power back. every instance must support ultimately that belief. If you really believe that Creation is Love. ever. You may walk up to your husband one day.

Exactly. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. secrecy. honesty. I won't feel any pain. exactly. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. to remind you that you can still feel. many people are choosing to feel the hurt.. It's one package or another package. If you choose third density. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships." That's okay to ask for that. However. . and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. but that's secrecy and it's third density. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty. You're holding onto something from third density. It's a significator. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas.. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. and you're feeling the pain. allowance. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. Right? Yes! So it's fine. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. Yes. correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. because the cruise control does not come with third density. you will not feel pain. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. then you're right. reading this. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. It's all equal anyway. Many people are using it that way. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. unconditional love. those in the room. there's nothing wrong with it. then actually. which an indicator that you are making the change. and that's quite all right. it's fine. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. Absolutely. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. but recognize that's what you're choosing. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. So whenever I feel pain. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. no. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing.

That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. They do not have to bring pain. Yes. Now. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. absolutely 100% guaranteed. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships. this is Sasha. you are going to see tremendous. necessity meaning single parents. literally that means two . with respect to your channel. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. of course. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. It's simply different. Do not be surprised. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. Third density is the density of polarity. it really does not. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. some of the understandings. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. powerful changes within your life. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. overall. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. However. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. Sasha.Again. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. Now. let me repeat myself. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. Now. After that. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. Greetings. And you will begin to see. exactly. it's an expression of who we are. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. not necessarily in every single relationship. but you don't have to manifest pain. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. Now. Greeting to all of you. but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. Sasha: All right. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. we will have a short break.

the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. It can. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. Do you all follow? Thoughts. we're not saying. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. it takes away the love they can have for you. back and forth. Well. there will be no problem here. living in the moment. as Germane was not saying. and then you bring in another mate. It cannot happen. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. I am deprived. I was also in a mated group. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. most definitely.ideas are present. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. honesty. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. if you in third-density. as intense. fourth. again. insert a third variable. because using the paddle idea. But recognize where the time element comes into it. back and forth. that you must at all cost heal this. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. back and forth. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. That is a third-density idea. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you." Do you follow? Now. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. As you move into fourth-density type relationships. So therefore. back and forth. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy.. Now. So when I spend time with my mate. Period. As you start choosing how you want to live. It is not time. these things are going to begin coming up. etc. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. Now. . because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. "This is better than this. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone. Make your choices. When you love yourself unconditionally. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. I get caught in the time factor.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. so because of the aloneness. I'm not alone. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. Absolutely cannot happen. And that is something that we would like to address. The dynamics will have to change. so if I don't have this. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. back and forth. and in this mated group. you must just go for it. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). are present. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. but it might not necessarily work for you.

It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. The critical mass is going to happen. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. Do what you can. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. And again in fourth density. The shift is going to happen. Both are equal. Sasha. It will take longer if they resist it. Sasha. it's exciting in the moment. at least right now. And so when that recognition is there. you are excited in the moment with yourself. as Germane was saying. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. Both companies are appreciated. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. One were rooms of privacy. Either way. Did you want more on that? Well. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. . that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. and the same thing with the Orions. when your mate is not there. when you lived with a group. The same thing with the Essassani. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull. It's just a question of when. There were basically three different phases of environments. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. So for instance. that only we entered. which is open to all. no. I was just curious about that because. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. Or comment. Yes. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. Question. invited guests you may call it. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. And when you see your mate. through who you have been as a species. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization.Exactly. You are it. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. We do not perceive. Now you on your planet. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. it is still going to happen. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. if you will.

What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. it was a natural movement from one state to another." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there. having to deal with the need to control. .. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. let us say. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized. that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. It's a little bit different. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. there were no tears or anger. You follow? Yes. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. very rough. or not even that different. that's when I was in the group. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. Yes. We are going through relationship transformation. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. Just with a different twist. So it's that issue. and therefore for instance. yes. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. not out of a sense of prejudice. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. You know those Zetas. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. there was no resistance. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways.. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. If that's true. Sasha. to give you a very dramatic example. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. there was no fighting. One last question along these lines.

we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. A lot of this searching goes on. but he taught us a thing or two. because literally the past does not hold your answers." I mean. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. Now. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. no child feels unwanted. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. that becomes irrelevant. there is so much emphasis on body types. That was not so much of a challenge. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. We're not talking about the sex act. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. On our planet and in third density. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past.. I will be attracted to a certain body type. Again. "Hmm. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow... we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. can it? Exactly. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. In third density. etc. It is of a creative vibration. Maybe. They are very secure in their identity in the present. any man that I've been around. and if that is the case. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us. Again. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. someone else will be attracted to this body type. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. etc.. There is simply one expression. Not only that. Now. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. is there any attention at all on physical body type? .But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. That was kind of a landmark. sexuality is not sex. going to bed with Sasha. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. it can't be used against you. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. a different developmental structure. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities. Right now. sex does not become a big deal. the present holds your answers. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. And if you were to live in the moment.

there is no attention on body type. When you do not need something from another individual. Conditional love. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. When you move into fourth density. they're too tall. but the preferences are so unimportant. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. you would all be "gorgeous" also. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. that is a third-density idea. conditions. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. Now. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. we may have preferences. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. They are natural diversifying characteristics. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. . then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. you feel vibrant. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. Exactly. So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. If you all felt that way. Most definitely. Most definitely." Oh. But it is not a need in any way. you feel healthy. And that is the cycle. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea.No. they're too ugly. I know. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate. Yes. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. If you are so together and whole. you feel beautiful. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. Well. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. you would have all that male and female inside your body. those symbols will change because you will change. That is very accurate. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. Exactly. if you're all gorgeous. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. Separation.

fun and excitement instead of need. Third density is separation. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. Work with it. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. There is a difference. and it will take a lot more energy. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. yes. then it is out of need. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. Do you follow? There is a fine line. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. you will not know the recipe. Can be. In fact. Now. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. Sasha. The recipe needs those things. The recipe requires carrots and celery. and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. Integration is the entire soup itself. To use an analogy.It's almost like a paradox here. don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . exactly. Living the relationship. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. Fourth density is integration. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. If you do not want to look at your needs. we would say. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. Recognize the need. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. you will not know how to cook the soup. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals.

We are simply saying in terms of your choice. So neither one is wrong nor right. Sasha. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. Nothing exists without a purpose. There are times when we recognize. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. . we're talking in ways that are different than you. you are choosing to integrate yourself. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. as dysfunctional as they may be. As long as the relationship takes precedence. If you choose personal growth over relationships. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. Now again. Do you want to comment on that? Well. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. But if you choose personal growth. which will eventually become a very valuable thing.carrots. Exactly. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. Go to your own garden. I become angry. recognize what you get with that choice. however. We do not have that particular expression. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. personal growth will always have to suffer. Exactly. You're not attacking someone. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. and your needs. everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that.

But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. We're not understanding the exact question. pulling yourself back into third density. I follow." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. that need is okay. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. and I feel it's a very good answer. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. But it came into my life suddenly. I have one question. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. Well. "No. If they feel deprived. but there is. That doesn't matter. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. Back in this needs issue. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. You cannot deprive another person. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. it's their choice. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. . You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. But you can play out that game. And even if I'm able to say. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. I guess. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. getting the package deal there. then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. And like we say with the soup. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. Ahhh. Well. I refuse to do that. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. if that's the case. from my thirddensity perspective. We are sorry. That is all you are responsible for. I appreciate that. and I can tune into it.

That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. Now. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. they will never be satisfied. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. and it started out. very low¾hidden anger. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs.which is exactly what I do not want to do. They will not verbalize them. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. If you have that need. caring and sharing. Exactly. Period. And just be pure in my own intention. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. You can never second-guess another person. However. the anger. play. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. Exactly. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. Obviously that is a trap. whether covert or overt. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also. In other words. you cannot know. hostility. "I don't expect anything from it. So when you have no expectations . the level of anger would be very. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. you will get caught because it is a game. For one thing. you're not in fourth density. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. and then they will be angry. But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. nearly nonexistent. I remember saying. That is so correct. and let it be whatever it ends up being. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. ecstasy. You are still playing the thirddensity game." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. Seventy-five percent. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room. starts setting in. Am I on track? Yes. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted.

you can truly experience unconditional love. what a load off your energy. you then know there's an issue. yes. If you judge them. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. you will soar. much love to each and every one of you. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. they will stay there on the counter. that makes a lot of sense. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. going to start seeing changes. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. Much love and goodnight. It's a gradual movement from third. Again. Copyright © 1993. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. that you judge. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. are so valuable because they make up the soup. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as. it's not a light switch going on and off. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. The pain will start to subside. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. that you're angry at. . Much. You can enjoy yourself. much. Yes. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. All Rights Reserved. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. that idea cannot exist. yes. and they will always be an issue.about the other person fulfilling your needs. It will just automatically start unfolding. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. And so. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. is difficult. You are moving in that direction. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. what a load off your mind that is. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth.to fourth-density thinking. Once that idea is relinquished. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. "If you can't feel the pain. they will transform." In third density. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. The joy will start to grow. In fourth density. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. you can't feel the ecstasy. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen.

These individuals we've called the Black League. neither person is going to win. First of all. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. who were the freedom fighters. whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. If they were found. we will integrate them together. they would be annihilated. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire.they did not want to be found. if the weight is balanced on both sides. In a tug-of-war. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. Orion Civilization . The idea . The Empire vs. "Black" is not meant to be negative. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. incarnationally speaking. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization.galactic heritage and sexuality. What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. certain patterns of conflict. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. Earth was a place where you could come. First. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. So let us start with Orion. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. As you know. for instance. This is the energy. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . It took them a very. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict. This is Germane. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden . This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . Thus you can see the dynamic. Many of you on Earth.

This is for a very specific reason. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. very intense in a certain way.your civilization included. Again. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. but from their . to say the least. There's a recognition . So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate.an instant recognition . The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. to release the energy of conflict. So when the mate is finally found. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. When you're chosen as a surrogate . When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. resonate with the most.the relationship becomes as mates. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. This is the opposite. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. because this is the energy that you on Earth. The Orions have what we could call monogamy. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. very close to them. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. because it's definitely a two-way street . The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups). the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. to release emotional energy. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization. because if you had kept your entire memory intact. So this is the one we will talk about. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. The Orions mate for life. and even a bit scary for some of you. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability.when two people come together who are to be mated. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system. There is no "sneaking around. and there's no doubt of that recognition. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. but also through nonsexual intimacy. at least for now. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. you ask. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very.and you choose to be a surrogate. Surrogates So. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate.

those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms. does not exist. etc. This is not anything that is imposed on them. yes.in the direction of the mate. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. Now. When one is under stress. they repress fantasy. Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . That is an undisciplined thought. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. it is eventually genetically encoded. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. Because of this. But that was a difficult one. many thousands of years long. During the times of the intense conflict. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. Experience does change genetics. one is for exchange of intimacy. One thing we would like to say here. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. before the conflict was resolved. However. The Orion civilization was many. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. for instance. societally speaking. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. there was a lot of genetic change. for instance.point of view extremely fulfilling. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. But. for fantasy simply does not exist. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization.even in thought . and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. If one mate was killed. yes. It's simply the way they are. After awhile it's no longer control . Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile. they moved very slowly.it's second nature. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. This is why it is of primary . that is the way the stress is released. so it's not a repression of anything. So it would depend on which period of time. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. The Vulcan is repressing.

The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. In the ancient. You don't have to be as disciplined. There are also married groups. They have ceremonies. Because of this focus on positivity. That's their idea of monogamy. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system .some from Orion and some from other civilizations. These marriage units are very loving. one on one . but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. they're not pledging their love for the future. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. But as you know from the statistics on your planet. to some degree. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous. because there are other ways of channeling energy. The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically.and that is how they choose to live their lives. ancient Pleiadian past. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. marriage rates increase. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). they feel secure . The Pleiadian Civilization . their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. there are three or more. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. they're monogamous in the moment. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions.importance that each Orion have a mate.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. So if any of you wish to examine that further. Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. During times of peace other things are looked at. you may do some research. This is. many of them do.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth.in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. So they were intent on repressing negativity. But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. very committed to each other. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. very connected. but when they pledge their love to a person. As with the Orions.what you would call marriage. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality. recognize emotionality in the moment . because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability.the Pleiadian civilization.

you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. They recognize that it must be the time. not having sexual relations with another person. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. however. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person.move into something else. Not that it does not occur here . the mate quite often will be very hurt." there's total understanding. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. it's very. that would be expressed as true monogamy. So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. will show a lot of pain. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life. very safe. you don't have to face certain issues. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. etc. will attempt to latch on to you. This is changing now. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment). However. instead of your parental or societal conditioning.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. When you are in a monogamous relationship. a conscious choice. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. both of you have.it does . there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons. you get used to the partner. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. and there is a disconnection. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. On your planet. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. kind of like the . certain fears. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate.

Dis-eases. It's very important that we say that. when they are denying and repressing. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. any more evolved. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. They are different. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. Eventually. Now. But you are already beginning to create it. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. As your consciousness raises. they've taught you a lot. That's what's occurring now. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. It's simply a matter of choice. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. none of these civilizations are better than yours. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. So back . it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing. bits and pieces of what is inside of you.when that is actually what they are excited by. It will work for you. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. No one here is any better. will not have pain and fear. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. we'll finish what we're saying. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious. deep level. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. For the Pleiadians. to find out what your own inner truth is. you don't know how to do this. In your society now.Orions. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. It's important that we say this. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. since we've already opened our mouth. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. But neither of their expressions are better. as your consciousness is raising.

Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. If you really feel that . Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. However. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves. and to release that. that does not constitute separation at all. yes. absolute reflection of themselves. they're a mirror image of themselves.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something. with your question.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. thinking separation is a solution. many dimensions to it. There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. or whether it's a true excitement. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . If. It's a matter of resistance and flow. So when they separate. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. Q: Separation is never a solution. The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality .things just don't happen to assist you in leaving.levels that you've not wished to look at before. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves.then they did have some disease. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . AIDS.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. when we feel that a relationship might be over. to understand where your fears. AIDS and cancer. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. more than any other disease you have on your planet. for instance. very deep levels . that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. Correct. think about taking action.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . examine your motivation. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. Whenever there's flow. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. When they are having a relationship. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . and anger and pain lie. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very.it's a partnership. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people. there's no flow . are directly connected to your state of emotionality.your own and others'. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. or clear the energy so you can stay. Whenever there's resistance.

That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. Their skin is very different. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. You will seek out a half. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it. That is why when they separate. If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. There goes another expression I can't use anymore . Sexually. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. the male has complete control over an erection mentally. That gives you a general idea of the body types. head. It's like some of your animals. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. same thing). two legs. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. It is humanoid.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. it's olive-colored . the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you."I'd like you to meet my `better half. anyway. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. it doesn't completely disappear. That's a perfect form of birth control. . Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. You'll only draw to you that which you are. Now. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. In terms of getting aroused sexually. Each person is not complete within themselves. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. Thank you. A couple of other minor differences. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. relationships are frequently not completed. Do you follow? Q: Yes. then when you separate. Unfortunately. Now. The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur.a brown base with a greenish tinge. and complete control over ejaculation. two legs. It is your galactic family.way inside. The women have similar control over ovulation. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. body.

none of this is better than . are both highly ritualized.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". yes. including chocolate ice cream. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing. It's not as if they would say." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. Well. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. You see the difference? And again. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. one for procreation and one for intimacy. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . But this occurs all the time. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level. Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. It's part of who they are. For instance. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. several different levels. That is one way.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. then tantra is better. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . like you saw in Cocoon. So it touched you . because it is a God union.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. when the woman came out of her shell. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. One. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. let's do tantra today. all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. That's one level of it. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. "Well. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony.it touched a lot of people in your society . So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. but it's not a conscious. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. eye-toeye recognition.deliberately nonphysical. On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. so to speak.

You are learning and growing. Within our civilization we had much diversity. once we were underground. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species.Group Mind This is Harone. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. Due to severe radiation. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. We knew this was to occur. and that is not the case. since our environment was going to collapse. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. Your forefathers. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . then. who we've been talking about. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. as we saw the birth rate decrease. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. It becomes dimmer. that there was to be a species crisis. There is much to share with you. we were born from crisis. We gave much thought to this and chose. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. At this point in time. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. less complete. You have been talking about us. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. We needed. We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. we could control the future of our race. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. It was understood by us. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. We had war. We have much to share with you. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. We were born from conflict. We know you have many questions. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. are also learning and growing. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. balanced and nonviolent in every way. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process.anything else. so we were called.

We are taking a species leap together. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. 2.males from females. Our organs began atrophying over many. Even though we do not understand why. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear.though our realities may say we are. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. some need activation on the physical level. It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. We are infinitely entwined . As we have agreed to do millennia ago. we work with these genetic structures.we are not separate .our end of the agreement. we will have physical facilitators. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. However. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. You will find that as evolution occurs. you will become more unified. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof. That is what is occurring now. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. we will become much more similar. we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. In our work with you. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate. we are told that their numbers are quite small. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature. So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. for from our point of view we . That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. They would have you think they are much more numerous. We will become much more individualistic. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. when we went underground and began cloning. Simply put. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. Because we have lost this ability for so long. these latent genetic codes. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development.

even more than upon your world today. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. You are resisting . as we have stated. So in terms of symbolic expression. this is an equal exchange. your interactions with us will change dramatically. you feel the tide of evolution. your civilization. From our point of view. When we interact with you. If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. Unfortunately for our development. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. Our interactions with you represent evolution. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation.recognize you have given us permission. engage those fears and move through them. We learn what we desire. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. recognize we have no intent. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. We recognize there may be questions from you. We're afraid of being vulnerable. to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. to change you. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. what was happening in your culture. Our interactions with you push buttons. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. many of you have come to our reality. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. you learn what you desire. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality.

If you surrender. as you would say. it really depends on which group. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. Well. We may not know how to understand your emotions. energy shielding. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. that you are not part of species transformation. a mind link.you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken.sperm. not of what we intend to do . secretions from prostate. and until that fear is confronted and released. and in that case. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. or disempowered vulnerability. It penetrates all of them. you are open to All That Is.that is not what is meant . into different groups that have different purposes. samples would be taken from all portions of the body.evolution because of your fear. Some are interested in reproductive research. So biologically speaking. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. Some are interested primarily in genetic research. That is. but we do pay attention to them. We are divided. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. you will feel the pressure of evolution. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. that's what I was getting at.again we speak of the dynamic. It is not just cold research. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. Vulnerable . you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. Our way . and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation.not in the negative sense of weakness . shall we say. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment. as you know the term. When you are lying on an examination table. of what procreation means to the person. because the emotions are very intense for us. Very often some of us will have protection. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. not as if we were invading .but vulnerable meaning empowerment.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender. eggs. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. skin samples and also an understanding. when you are vulnerable. When we interact with you in an abduction situation . There is no arousal. saying you have not created this somehow. It is a matter of shifting perspective. to the One. You let your guard down.

which is very uncomfortable. . Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. You've done your research well. Our love to you and goodnight. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. Some of you will sense our energy. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. Now that may be inaccurate . it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. We interact with you on every level we can. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. certainly. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. That is also something of primary interest to us. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution.perhaps many of you would think it is . or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. we must densify ourselves. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. We must deal with data. we can enter your reality in a light state. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes.

Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. So. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. You are 90 some-odd percent water. but you will know what is right for you. All Rights Reserved. That will be fruits and vegetables. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. the presence of water. so the electrical current is always running through your body. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. Also. Let us first address the physical level. allow yourself to feel fluid. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. imagine yourself as being a river. a current. Not just the ingesting of it. The more . This is rather abstract. Now. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. Germane through Lyssa Royal. Also. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. whatever your choice is. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. your showers. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. plan accordingly. the voltage is going to be upped. We would recommend distilled or purified.

on the market there are radiation screens. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. you see these on your laptops. You may also sit by a lake. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. That's one idea. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. You may even want to get some fish. The water will then be in your auric field. Now. again. we guarantee you. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. But in the long run. or fill your bathtub. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. of course. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. So. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up). When you bathe or shower. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. if you're living under major power lines. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. for instance. If you use a computer a lot. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. Along with water comes detoxification. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. If you want to put crystals in your bath. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. that's perfectly fine.you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). if it does any at all. You are symbiotic. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. (No need to get neurotic about this. your planet also recognizes its need for water. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. or very specific types of strict diets. There is some jewelry. Actually. The radiation is not going to damage you. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. and you can feel the environment of that water. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. wear some of it. You can get one of those fishtanks. can significantly slow . So. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. it's up to you. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. That's an optimum situation. put your feet in the water. it's all connected. LCD screen. is to keep water close to you if you can. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. that incorporates water. there are several options available to you. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. It will be a conversation piece as well. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. If you feel attracted to that. very helpful for you. If you can't do that. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way.

It is not our understanding that you will ever. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. And so this is about processing belief systems. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. information to make you think. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. . no computer creates that. then absolutely anything can hurt you. because it makes you think. and it's certainly not going to do anything. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. these are guidelines. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. Category: Healing. that is for others to answer. So. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. This is about learning sovereignty. Now. and no more sinister plots. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. information to be added to your storehouse. computers and microwave ovens away. It's got to be one or the other.your own healing abilities. No television. there will be no more victims. and that's very important to stress. From our point of view. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. Many say to throw your TVs. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. As soon as that is recognized and owned. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. when this type of fearful information is given. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. Now. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. where you are the only creator of your reality.

People use each other for lust. On the direct path of conscious awareness . We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. People get carried away. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. but the game is over. and our most basic instincts. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love.to unimagined heights of ecstasy. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . When we can't handle our attachments. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. through no other human activity.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. and a gift of Enlightenment. the body. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking.Tantra For a thousand years.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. the Western Judeo-Christian.body and soul . was to keep them well in check. Yet. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. and it's good for your health. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect. but concurrent with our everyday existence. pleasure. is the opportunity for ego-loss. Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. The most extreme instance is called rape. save dying. (Ultimately. otherwise rarely known in human existence.beyond. . whether they know it or not. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. It delivers you . The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. they enslave us and we enslave others. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness.The Path With No Obstacles . It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. ironically. thought. Lust is only a call to love. and many have yet to answer it. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. What begins as duality and polarization within time. It inundates your entire being.

The great enigma is. breathing exercises.when people use each other uncaringly . not deny it. . candlelight. ceremonial objects. Sufi and tantric couples practices. and call this "correct. They fear one and fake the other. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles. as in indigenous tribal customs. or it is devil-worship. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment.despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" ." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life.D. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. innate sexuality. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. By that logic. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty.we find ourselves indulging in what is. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . music. Meditation. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. rituals.Miranda Shaw. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. invocations.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. after all. power. when . A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. Ph. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation. incense. . mystical rituals.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. money. or fame). and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. and get it over with as quickly as possible. and the total fulfillment of your partner. and conditioning. and all too often . depending upon one's intent. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. the thrill. state of mind.

unconditionally. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. letting hers become yours. Transpose taking and giving. weeks.. Meditate. Give voice to your feelings. Touch only in awe. Move in slow motion. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Gaze into each other's eyes.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. Give only pleasure and love. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Foreplay is truly playful. Abandon all gain and control. from passion to compassion. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. ours. Decelerate until time stands still. all consuming. the passion intense and profound. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. all fulfilling. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. Listen for Inner Guidance. die into love. Fall in love. You notice everything. engaging all your faculties. Wait for the perfect moment. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Opening all your centers. Trust your body's deepest impulses. Reside always at the beginning. Everything matters. animal to divine. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. and you two become One. Every touch is The First. stay in love. and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. Worship your lover. Begin motionless and in silence. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. breathtakingly tender. Surrender continuously. to the sacred fire within. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. all purifying. confused. Breathe together. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. . and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. Giving and taking merge. Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. Make it Holy. Transcendent love is a religious experience. with reverence. and time stands still. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. long and deep. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. Die as a personality. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. whom you worship in awe. Make love with your whole being. Purify yourself in body and mind.

Ph. Brown. .D.From "Enlightenment in Our Time." by Lonny J.

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