Germane: Greetings to everyone. This is Germane. We'd like to thank you all for coming this night.

The title of session is "Fourth-Density Relationships". We would like to encourage you to feel free to ask any questions that are on your mind on the topic. We are going to start out by talking about the transformation from third to fourth density. As you've heard us say many times, one of the characteristics of third density is separation. Whether it be separation from the God source, from each other, or separating aspects of yourselves within yourselves. This idea of separation has been necessary in third density to keep you in the third density experience. We are not saying in any way, shape or form, that the separation that you have been a part of on your world for the last several thousand years is in any way wrong, bad, negative. It is part of the experience that you have all chosen. As you are moving from the 3D into the 4D reality, one of the main qualities of fourth density reality is integration, or reintegration. Therefore, the laws or premises that you have in 3D reality (based on separation) can no longer operate successfully in 4D. If you attempt to carry the premises and beliefs of separation into a 4D reality and refuse to let them go, you can literally tear yourself apart emotionally. A lot of what many of you are feeling in your own growth (whether it be relationships with lovers, family, friends or yourself) is almost a sense of urgency about letting go of certain things that have been carried for quite some time. This feeling of urgency has to do with the idea, literally, that you are moving from one vibrational reality to another. The set of beliefs and premises that were operating in one reality cannot be sustained in the next. So you are feeling that desire to shift beliefs, to shift premises, and therefore shift the way you live. To some degree it is as if someone has handed you a tangled ball of yarn. There it is in your lap, you don't know where to start to untangle it. The only thing you can do is start where the easiest place is to start.

3D Relationships
Bringing this into the topic of relationships, the premises and beliefs of 3D (separation) were necessary to maintain 3D relationships. Let us share with you some of these principles. Principles based on separation can be as follows: Secrecy. This has been a big one in your society. Secrecy is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others; secrecy keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. The idea of secrecy has been very important to maintain relationships in 3D reality, because it is an expression of separation. Fear-based Monogamy. Another expression of separation is the expression of what you would call monogamy, fear-based monogamy. We are not talking about monogamy by choice, we are talking about monogamy through fear. That has been an expression based on separation. The premise basically is that if you can get someone to commit to you, then you thus take yourself out of the flow of having

to deal with relationships and you are safe. You are separate from the rest of the world. Separate and safe. This is monogamy based on fear. Conditional Love. Conditional love has been an expression which has been very vital to maintaining 3D-type relationships. Conditional love means that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love. There has been a noncomprehension in 3D reality of the meaning of unconditional love. When you are dealing from a separative framework, the only way you can view everything else is through that framework of separation. And so love therefore (the old definition of love in 3D) is love based on conditions. Expectation. This means that you go into a relationship with someone with expectations in your mind that maybe you are not even aware of. If you are aware of these expectations, you attempt to get the other person to fulfill those expectations. Again, the person is used to satisfy the need of the person seeking the relationship. Manipulation. This is another quality often inherent in 3D relationships. This can be very covert. It is overt in some cases, as well. However, in the classic 3D relationship there can be very deep-seated manipulation plays being done so that each person will get their needs fulfilled or will be protected from their fears. So often the idea of manipulation is carried out to protect you from your own fears. If you manipulate the other person, you can thus not feel your fear. The Need to Control The Need to Control is also a quality inherent in very solidly anchored 3D relationships. This is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs to be, or for your greater good. The need to control says you do not accept that idea. You thus must instead shape the relationship, force it, mold it, because you do not trust it will be what it needs to be by itself. We will stop here because there is literally a lot more we can say on this. It will come out later in the session. Let us go to the 4D idea.

4D Relationships
Since 4D is based on integration or reintegration, the characteristics that were once status quo in 3D relationships can no longer be sustained in 4D. Literally, the vibration cannot sustain separative ideas. Qualities inherent in 4D relationships would be: Honesty (Non-Secrecy). The couple or the unit must have, at all costs, honesty instead of secrecy. This means if you see in your friend or partner that they are doing something that is sabotaging to themselves or to the relationship that you speak that observation instead of withholding it (so you do not hurt the person's feelings), or so that you can continue to control them being in the relationship. Literally we are talking

about polar opposites here. 3D is Secrecy, 4D is honesty. We cannot stress to you enough how important honesty is in a 4D relationship. If there is no honesty, there cannot be a continuation of that relationship in the 4D model. It is that crucial. When we say honesty, we are also talking about honesty with the self. Many of you will at times keep things from yourself to keep you feeling safe. Within a 4D reality, it is very difficult to keep things from the self. You may wake up one morning, and you may suddenly realize that the relationship you are in no longer serves you. That must be recognized for the flow to continue. We are in no way saying, "You need to adopt these characteristics now!" Not at all. You will do this naturally. However, in this transition period now between 3D and 4D, you are being hit with qualities from both. As this happens, you will need to make some choices about how you wish to continue in your relationships. We will state that if you choose the integrative model (the 4D model) and you truly become that idea (not try to become it) you will not feel the pain of loss in any situation, in any relationship. You will only feel pain or loss if you are either in the 3D relationship, or deluding yourself into thinking you are in a 4D relationship. That will be when the pain of loss comes up. Again, we do want to stress to all of you that we are not saying you must do this, and you must move into 4D relationships. Not at all. You have choices. You can make the choices. It is entirely up to you. However, we want to help illustrate for you the package deal you may be signing up for if you make certain choices. It is a package deal. If you make a choice based on separation (a 3D model), and then expect to live in a 4D relationship, it is not going to happen. Recognize where your choices are based. Make your continuing choices from there. Let us go back to the qualities of 3D and 4D relationships. 3D relationships are based on secrecy and 4D on honesty; 3D based on conditional love and 4D based on unconditional love. Every being has the capability of experiencing more unconditional love than they ever have from moment to moment. There is never a limit to unconditional love. From this point, your experience of love has been 3D. Literally, you will need to build your own definitions of unconditional love because it can only be conceived of by experiencing it. We know you've heard definitions. We know that all of you can come up with definitions. But those definitions are partially intellectual. They are not yet 100% brought down to the emotions. Unconditional Love Unconditional love is another vital part of 4D relationships. That means loving someone with no conditions. If they don't fulfill your needs, you still love them. If they do not carry out your expectations, you still love them. You love them for being who they are without attempting to change them. It is an in-the-moment type of experience, whereas conditional love is always based on the past or future, not in the present. Unconditional love is based in the present. Absolute Trust. This is the opposite of the 3D quality of the Need to Control. There is no need or desire to control. It is not as if you must get up each day and say, "I must trust today." It is a beingness. When you wake up each day you are not worried about keeping your spirit in your body. You don't focus on that. It just happens. So, 4D is like that. The trust is there, it just happens. Control vs. trust.

Allowingness. This is the opposite of manipulation. Allow. Allow the other person to be who they need to be. Because only then will you truly see, in fact, who they are. If you attempt to manipulate them, you never see who they really are. You see who you need them to be. Relationships by Choice. This is the opposite of Monogamy from Fear. This means that if you want monogamy, it is by conscious choice. If you want polygamy or polyfidelity, it is by conscious choice. It is perfectly acceptable for you to choose any of these things. All of these things are inherently neutral. They do not have a built in meaning. You ascribe them meaning by judgment. One is "better," one is "worse." All of these choices are neutral, any that you choose can work for you. However, if your conscious choice is to move into a 4D type relationship, you will not be able to do that if you keep holding on to any of the premises from 3D. They will need to be shifted and rearranged. As you shift from a 3D to a 4D perspective, many people will in fact experience fear. Literally you are going through uncharted territory. You can't see necessarily what is over the next ridge. So it is frightening for a lot of people. That is perfectly fine. But if it is something you really want to pursue, let that fear be okay. When you come out on the other side of the ridge, you are going to realize that your identity is not based on another person. Your identity is based on you. You are the only one with whom you can rely on. You will feel that power, that clarity, and that liberation and release that comes form recognizing your own power. It is really interesting, because in 3D type relationships (separation), you have the illusion of separation, but yet you create things that remind you that you are still all connected. For instance, humans use enmeshment in 3D to remind yourself you are still connected. However, the way you've interpreted the idea of connectedness has come out in a way that is detrimental to you rather than supportive. Enmeshment is the 3D version of connectedness in 4D. It really is a matter of the way you look at it. When you feel enmeshed with another person in your life and it hurts, stop for a minute. Take some deep breaths. Remind yourself that the enmeshment is there to remind you that you are never separate from the other person ultimately. Separation is an illusion. No matter how far away you go, you are not separate from the person. If you can begin to emotionally heal the fear that you will no longer be with a person, you are going to start to feel the sense of connectedness that will then replace the 3D enmeshment idea. You will no longer need to create fear through enmeshment. You will thus create connectedness through your expressions in all of your relationships. Many of the dysfunctional symptoms in 3D are your way of reminding yourself of some of the qualities of 4D relationships. But they are translated through the veil of separation. So they come out a little askew. However, they are there as reminders and tools. They are there to help you ease the pain in your interactions with others.

Comments or questions?
What is the energy standpoint from 3D and 4D? We know that integration is occurring on all levels. Seams are coming apart, and other things are forming. We are going to be seeing changes. What do you foresee?

and challenge you. then you are going to start to see that maybe you will get more emotional for a while. That method of gauging can no longer to continue to exist. If relationships continue not to work and have conflict all the time. you are going to start feeling pain. The 4D version of "divorce" will be the recognition of two people that the relationship is going in a different direction. It is going to challenge you. You allow the other person to move in that direction. Some people are swinging the pendulum in the opposite direction. Change means change. In 4D. you can seek to help them move through changes at the same time as you do. is inside of you. No one seems to really get the point. Energetically you are going to find that as this change occurs. is to be avoided in their belief. That was a tool in 3D. Some people are polarizing. Energetically. pushes people's buttons because they do not want to be vulnerable. Always. and challenge you until you can come face to face with your own feelings of inadequacy and aloneness and how you have sought relationships to fill that gap. and never has been. You will see that if you resist claiming your own power. but you haven't known what was happening. Change does not mean destroy or divorce. the reason for that is that you are still using the relationship to make you feel better. They have nothing to do with the problem. being that it is an expression of vulnerability. Each person is reacting to them in the only way they know how. then your relationships are going to start to change. no matter what choice happens. You started to feel the shift of 3D to 4D in terms of the expressions of your relationships. let some things out. It is an artificial construct that is giving you artificial data generated by you so you don't have to face your fears. you are finding that everyone is touched by these energies. they think all it has to do with is sex. That. first and foremost internally you are all going to go through changes. Energetically you will create less disharmony if you move with it. If you create resistance. and that is allowed. It is a symptom. This will happen if you are not willing to move with the changes that are occurring inside of you and in the mass consciousness. There is no separation. confusion. Trust that the two of you are on the same path. So. they are weak and open to attack. and that is all change means. you will continually seek relationships to validate your own being. When I talk about these ideas regarding relationships with others. You may think it is a problem with your relationship. Change does not mean they will end. Separation. If you are willing to move with it. it is going to be very different. they will blame sex. It is not. Divorce is a 3D solution. It is your change inside that you are seeing reflected in your relationship. It may first manifest outside of you. they believe. You've seen the great rise in divorce since the '60s. because you can never be separate. You can then move with these changes and if there is a partner in your life. Sex. maybe even manifest all sorts of physical symptoms. at all costs. these things started in the 1960s of your time. Much of this is the resistance of the change until there is a snapping point. . Breaking.For one thing. you've tried to resist the change as a mass consciousness. If you are resisting change. Your points of view as a society on sex are symptoms of the greater dysfunction. We understand that many people in your society base personal satisfaction or success on how their relationhips are going in their life. If they are vulnerable. But you are going to find that this issue is not going to go away. It is not the issue. That cannot occur in a 4D type relationship. Some people are denying them. The buttons are pushed on sex because individuals will frequently ascribe another reason to something as a distraction so they do not have to look at the pain. Some people are going with the flow. Divorce is the idea of separating oneself to artificially create the illusion that you are not connected to that person. Instead. first level. you will create more discomfort and pain. You haven't known that you could go with the energy and heal it.

You do not demand that the other person reciprocate. Here is an example of what we are not talking about. Therefore. if a 4D woman wants to have a child. The choices are all for you. If you have a 4D woman who wants to have a child. then that choice is for you. although your society will change. That is what we meant by conscious choice.You indicated that the new relationships are by conscious choice. They are all part of the same family anyway. They have nothing to do with the other person." No. You only make the choices for you and no one else. What does it really mean? How many people make commitments and they are not followed through? A commitment never insures your security. Meaning absolute trust. If the woman is Pleiadian. Let us say that you are in a relationship with a man (or woman) in 4D. Absolutely! If you continued to follow your excitement all the time from moment to moment. she will not have the child based on the hope or desire that the father will be there. Pay attention to when you take yourself out of the moment. In a 4D type relationship. That one seems to imply some sort of conditional acceptance by both people of a mode to indicate a relationship in 4D. Do you understand? So the idea of commitment is a 3D illusion. So you are trying to act on your excitement. If we have explained it incorrectly. this is reflected in their society's philosophy. with trust instead of control. then in 4D thinking you would have absolute trust that everything from there on out would work fine because you followed your excitement in the moment. You say to the person. It placates you into thinking you are secure. You don't require the other person to make the same choice. That idea cannot exist in a 4D reality. . All the other issues that you've touched seem to be mutually accepting issues that people can accept totally on their own and then share the fruits of those with another person. Because she wants the child. the idea of commitment does not exist. But that excitement includes a tremendous commitment with it over time. Your mate can do whatever they want. allowance instead of manipulation. Commitment takes yourself out of the moment. "I want a monogamous (or polygamous. then it is only you who chooses not to have sex with others. That is the difference. If you choose monogamy. The choices are entirely for you. If you choose to be non-monogamous. whatever) relationship. all of the principles we've outlined for 4D come into play. and I will continue this relationship with you only if you agree to that. You do not have to plan for the future. In 4D you are acting in the moment. Let us give you an example of conscious choice. there is no concern for the future because there is a knowingness that it will all take care of itself. It is trust. It is different from what you see here. That brings him in to something that is entirely her creation. we apologize. not a compulsion). So. there is absolute trust and allowance that everything will be perfectly fine. So you wouldn't think that tomorrow it may not be my excitement to have this child. if it is your excitement in the moment to conceive a child (and your true excitement. No. In 4D type relationships. she has the child because she wants the child. You would just trust. How do you act on your excitement and include future commitments? One could decide they want to conceive a child because that is their excitement in the moment. there is no reason to think you could ever not trust. If you stay totally in the moment you are thinking of having a child.

As near as I can see those extremes have led us into addictions and dependency. This is a very good question. It is an equation that doesn't work.Exactly. If you are in the moment. Okay. Is there a way to get at the issues without using sex to trigger them? Sex is only one symptom. we become dependent on the other person. It is very hard to see what it is you've created when you are not in the present. totally and absolutely. Therefore. I don't want to hurt other people. and people have been getting upset. You cannot ever be responsible for other people's pain. is all dependency gone? Yes. Because we open the box and have to lift the lid. sex is a really good trigger. Some of you have walked down the street and you've seen your friend. so all the issue come crawling out. express yourself while not taking responsibility for the reaction. Then in 4D. One of the reasons why you've had difficulty owning your creations is because you are not in the moment. You must. at all costs. "Oh. you clearly and consciously can own every creation that you've ever had. That is what I've been finding out." The friend then freaks out and think you are patronizing them. In 4D. there is that child. but any reality that you create." Never. We know this is a big one for most people on your world. you are in the past or the future. In the moment. You say. Dependency is a quality of separation depending on something outside of you. I'll have to state the analogy and then find the question. In the moment. each day. No effort. I made a mistake in having this child. there is a recognition of yourself as the creator. Dependency cannot exist in 4D because 4D is integration and not separation. If you are totally 100% in the present. One of the greatest gifts that you can give the people in your life is being 100% you. and so when that recognition is there. For some people it is sex. Each person will be able to get at those issues through whatever lid they have that triggers it. you got a haircut. and therefore always an excitement for your creation? It is just a matter of recognizing always in the moment that it is your creation. In 3D we've been living in polarities and extremes. you can love it. You can say nice things all the time. And also there is an inherent love for your creation. . I've finally been making choices for myself. Very simple. You've all had experiences like this where you've been totally misunderstood. For others it is money. Sex is just one of those lids. whatever is there in your reality you recognize as a part of your creation and who you are. You have voiced the mass consciousness here. Recognize that there are many lids that cover that box. This means that you be absolutely honest in all interactions and not take responsibility for their pain. It looks nice. in the moment. and still push people's buttons." This is why the issue of sex frequently brings up our issues. you cannot put that outside of yourself. I would rather not cause problems for them. Not just a child. But I still want these people as friends. then after the baby is born. I always find myself not making certain choices because I am sensitive to others. We stuff our issues in a box and seal the box with a lid called "sex. Yes. For others. It really depends on the individual. "Oh. Some people's issues are not triggered by sex. The dependency we feel is that we want someone to fulfill our needs. There will never be a time where you will say.

That is then the way you will see the universe. There cannot ever be victims. The greatest gift you can give in a relationship is to not hold back who you really are. That is one of my button-pushers here. "I want to go hot air ballooning. and emotions. you are really only trying to protect yourself from their anger. They like the concepts. That is disengaging yourself from the covert connections you have with people. or from guilt that maybe he caused her pain. It is then that each person can take responsibility for their lives. But in reality. then you are manipulating people around you. But there are no victims. If she chooses to be hurt. It prolongs the pain. So he makes sure she never is around anything high. We might borrow that one. This is what we mean by enmeshment. There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being fully who you know yourself to be. Do you want to come with me?" She may just say yes because she recognizes it is something to move through. In . How can you protect yourself from doing that? You can't. I don't think you have the right to emotionally hurt another person. Let us give you an example using a fictional model. fears. What he is really doing is protecting himself from being witness to her pain. Good term. If they don't ask you to be completely honest and hurt them. You may not ever know what will hurt your mate. That is empowerment. in the husband's excitement he says. most of these people have been part time meta-fizzlers. Never! If you are not being your 100% natural self. You try to protect other people.You cannot sacrifice your own growth and the growth of others for a relationship based on illusion. I've examined times in my communications with others where I've "softened the blow. At the same time. I don't see there is an exception to that. This is another one of those topics where we can't stress enough to you that the greatest service you can provide to your neighbor is being fully who you are. If the husband dragged the wife to the top of the cliff and forced her to look over the edge. Being who he is naturally is not hurting her. It is then that each person will be challenged. you may take her to one of those cliffs not knowing about that fear. that is deliberately hurting her." My partner and I have thought that our excitement would be too much for the other person. then you polarize between victims and hurters. So the husband thinks he is protecting his wife from her fear. and recognizing the greater spiritual connections that you all have that you have always had. And let's say that she came into this life to resolve a lifetime where she jumped off a cliff. The outcome is the same. Let us also say that her husband recognizes that she is afraid of heights. disapproval or invalidation. Let's say that a woman is afraid of heights. How is she easily going to be able to face what she came here to face if the husband keeps steering her away from the heights? It makes it more difficult. If. it is her choice. You can never hurt another person. In your innocence and excitement. when that is what she came here to face! The biggest gift you can give anyone in your life is to be fully 100% who you are. She cannot do that unless the husband gives her the opportunity to face those issues. The only thing you can be is fully who you are. They all come from you. He is protecting himself. Those emotions and reactions are never caused by someone else. If you ever believe in any instant that someone else can hurt another person. he is enabling the wife to continue being afraid and avoid her fears. Well. but they don't want to apply them in their lives. You've lost the boundaries between you and other people. why do you have the right to hurt them? There is a big difference between deliberately hurting someone and being who you know yourself to be.

you are not going to be able to train yourself to speak them. we've always screwed up the communication. They cannot ever love you for who you are. This is because they recognize that they create all comments that happen. they would never be hurt by the comment of another. This is because you do not allow them to ever fully be who they are. Let yourself think it first. You can tell them that. to hell with what the others think. heart disease. You stuff it. To hold this in will be lying to the other person. Literally. This will naturally teach you to express yourself without the heavy judgment you've had in the past. All That Is is neither positive nor negative. It is. Get them outside of your energy field so they don't lodge in your energy body. and then actually on the physical level. You are lying to the other person. If you are continually protected from the anger of another (just like if you are continually protected from the cold). Your design is built to 100% every moment channel the energy of All That Is. not necessarily the things they fear. But in one way. You compromise your integrity when you withhold. that is their choice. it is going to be devastating to you. It buries itself into your cells. Say it into a tape recorder. You are lying to yourself. You protect them from the things that you fear. Externalize them. They cannot be victim of hurt. Be truthful. Releasing these things will cause ecstasy. someday you are going to have to go outside and because you've never felt the cold. If you look at a Pleiadian. reflecting that which you feel within. Therefore all of your relationships to some degree have disharmony. But we don't believe that most of you really know what happens to you inside when you hold back truth. Write it down. You cannot withhold any portion of you. When you deny and shut off any part of yourself. Those judgments eat you up. It starts building painful toxins first on the emotional level.second guessing what the other person's reaction would be and then altering our natural self expression. you shut off the very foundation of the energy of your creation. If they don't agree with you. You judge that only parts of you are worthy and the other parts are not. That is an even greater hurt than the truth. It is stasis. Let it be okay to start thinking them. the more diseased you get. honorable that you care about the feelings of another. and yet you find that others are telling you that it would hurt them? How do you deal with those situations in the transition we are in now between 3D and 4D? At the risk of sounding really rude. They are the ones generating their reality. You are all divine portions of the creator. If you do not express who you are. but to hold it in would eat you up inside. balance. you are lying. in one way. it submerges itself. But if you are not even allowing yourself to think these thoughts. You won't know what the thoughts are. You may tell others that you understand what they are saying. and all of those lovely things you have on your planet are a result of your own judgment that you are not worthy to be fully who you know yourself to be. Cancer. Withholding your excitement for fear of hurting another is a 3D idea. Get comfortable with who you are. It throws you into disharmony. Stuffing these things can cause tremendous pain throughout your life. All That Is is neutral. first think what it is you want to say. If you do not express who you are 100%. you must store those judgments of who you are inside of you. They do not know who you are. You stuff it before you can really cognize the idea. it is also insulting. The more you stuff it. You cannot carry this into 4D if you want to truly express who you are. Many of you don't let yourself think about what you really want to say. What if you find yourself wanting to express following your excitement 100%. because they don't know who you are. Then they only know you through your lies. This is a no win situation. Write them down. You can retrain yourself to know who you are and the first step is that in a confrontive situation. You will be able to learn to tell when what you have to say is balanced an integrated . When you hold back that which you are.

I was just picking hairs because I thought you were saying that we all will be able to discern all the time whether what we wanted to say was clean or not. Then she will eventually make the recognition because your lack of reaction will not satisfy her needs. . Let's also say I have no emotional reaction to it. If they have no issue about being attacked. Listen to your thoughts and feelings. I understand that. If your wife walks up to you and says. and that's cool. you cannot take responsibility for how the person reacts. "It is clean as a whistle. It cannot be any other way." if you feel hurt. If that expression is an attack." and you express your thought. then that's part of the synchronicity for your own growth.. You will learn how to tell the difference. You don't know how they are going to react! They may not be triggered at all. whether she thinks it's clean or not. Sometimes you can see that. we will not be able to discern what is clean and what is not. they will feel attacked. let us clarify. If you think it's clean. There are times when you cannot see it. I'm not saying that it has to be clean. There is no reaction that doesn't belong.compared to when what you have to say is an attack or is a manipulation. There are not mistakes in creation. then before you express get yourself centered and feel if what you have to say is balanced and integrated or do you have a desire to be fulfilled by your expression to that person. So what you are doing is providing for the other person a way for them to heal their belief systems by providing that stimuli. If you feel you want to take gradual steps into this idea of expressing who you are. That is not what was implied. because that in itself is part of the growth process.. We did not mean to imply that every time you analyze it you'll have the answer. There are no wrong things. We apologize if the language was misleading. But by all means at least express it to yourself. "You are a jerk. then there is a hidden motivation and the expression may not be clean. Get out that pent-up energy. and I don't agree with that. you are expressing it to someone who has a belief system that they can be attacked. so it's fine. She can tell me I'm a jerk. Know who you are. In the expression. Let's say my wife walks up to me and says I'm a jerk. We suggest that as you're training yourself to express that you first ask yourself if it's clean or not clean. If they believe they can be attacked and that is one of their issues. Before you express something. All expressions belong in the context they are expressed. and if it is indeed an attack. whether it is attacking or not attacking. In fact. Other times you cannot. That is not a clean idea. If she has perceived that she is clean on it. ask yourself what desire you have in the expression. Your relationships are going to blossom and change when you stop taking responsibility for the other person's reaction. and she does it after she has thought about it and believes it is clean and is not an attack. Again. they are not going to feel attacked. Your interactions with each other are choreographed in perfect synchronicity. I'm just saying that it is our experience that we will not be able to discern. Yes. The more you practice. the more you will be able to tell. and the synchronicity of All That Is. then express it. That wasn't my question. There is only neutral expression. If it's not clean and you can recognize it. If you do (to get them to do something. All right. times when you say to yourself. then go ahead and process it however way you want to do it. One of the things I think is so wonderful about relationships is that we can love each other enough to be mirrors for that discernment. In the addictive state. you provide a way for the other person (the recipient) to learn and to grow. Sometimes you may find that the desire is to change the other person. So it's essential for her to express that. Okay. for instance).

If it's your excitement to take your wife to a dance. underneath everything else. if you really. because it's the way to take your power back. What is the fine line of deliberately hurting another individual? If you talk about something with your mate. Maybe I can help clarify things for the questioner. Recognize that the bottomline intention is never to destroy but always to love. you could say the nastiest thing to him in the world. And every action is based on that intention of learning to love.to fourth-density relationships model. He may be feeling absolutely joyous and ecstatic. Victimhood would come into it. No other person knows what is going to hurt me. If you really believe that Creation is Love. You cannot ever know what will hurt another person. and it will not hurt him. We are not sure that you are understanding or accepting the concept that we are saying. No one else in this room is prepared to accept responsibility for another human being's growth. that's not going to hurt him in the least.What if it is your excitement to do something (like go to the movies) that your mate is not excited about? If your excitement is based on another person's cooperation. And to withhold a comment because it will hurt someone is assuming responsibility for their emotions and thus for their growth. that hurts me. then there's got to be a belief somewhere in there which says that God or Creation can be hurtful. Well. This was something I was going to ask in direct relation to the earlier question. also. It is not possible. it's not true excitement. You cannot hurt another person. Let's say I'm in my relationship with my husband and I say to him. inhibit that growth and actually sabotage their own life's growth and the things their chosen to confront. really believe that. If your husband is 100% in his Godself and in his joy and excitement. then you will have matched your vibrations. third-density relationships often express victimhood. because each of you (like it or not) are totally responsible for your own emotions and reactions. So stop trying to take responsibility for the other person's reactions! Is all this based on a concept of victimhood? I don't think you mentioned victimhood per se in the third. knowing that it will hurt that person emotionally. Even the most heinous acts are an outcry to learn love. Fourth-density expresses self-responsibility and self-empowerment. but your excitement is based on her cooperation. but we didn't make it a major point. Examine your beliefs. "You look like a pig today. and in your excitement if she is truly excited. To do so will actively (if they're in a weakened or unempowered state). then every action." And if he feels really good about himself. You may walk up to your husband one day. so don't tell me about it if you do that . and you may say. But if you do. If you believe that actions can actually hurt. ever. If it's your excitement to go dancing for the sake of dancing (not based on anyone else's excitement). do you have the right to hurt that person or could you just channel that energy of excitement in another direction? You will never 100% always know what will hurt someone. "If you have dinner with another woman. every instance must support ultimately that belief. This in and of itself can be a great freedom. It will lock your relationship into third density. You can never hurt another person. it's not clean. But you can't know. They can choose to feel hurt. then it's clean. That is the bottomline intention of creation.

honesty. Many people are using it that way. Absolutely. but that's secrecy and it's third density. you will not feel pain. So it is quite all right to continue to choose third-density principles. then go back and examine what premise or belief that you have that is based on third-density separation. honesty versus this and find out which concept I'm holding onto. and those who do choose to embrace the fourth-density principles are going to choose to be exposed to the ground breakers. do not expect to choose third-density principles and expect the package deal that comes with fourth density. It's one package or another package. But some of you are holding onto some of the third as your are grasping for fourth. If you could 100% embrace the fourth-density idea of relationships. I won't feel any pain. In letting go from the third density to the fourth density. If you choose third density. It's all equal anyway. . correct? If I'm feeling pain in my relationship. unconditional love. and listening to the tape are groundbreaking these ideas. and that's quite all right. So whenever I feel pain. Where does the hurt come from and why is it still there if we're in this transition and we should be looking at these fourth-dimensional relationships? Why do we feel third-dimensional hurt? You are looking at the fourth-density relationships. and you're feeling the pain. many people are choosing to feel the hurt. then I need to go back and look at this versus that. allowance. But if you feel that you're really in fourth but there's still this one thing. Exactly. and you start getting the feeling back in your feet that it really hurts. Right? Yes! So it's fine.. But isn't that also expecting conditional love? [Everyone in unison] Third density! You're making a choice based on third density. no. he has no right to tell me that or to force that upon me. These are threatening ideas for a lot of people. there's nothing wrong with it. You cannot mix the packages! In all honesty.because that hurts me and I don't want to hear about it." That's okay to ask for that. However. exactly. Yes. then you're right. to remind you that you can still feel. so all the other parts of the package deal go with it. those in the room. You all must start identifying yourselves and sticking together! If I have truly chosen fourth-density relationships or to move into fourth-density relationships which are by choice. secrecy. then actually. because the cruise control does not come with third density. but recognize that's what you're choosing. it's fine. but it's choosing third density instead of fourth. reading this. Almost in the same way as when you're frostbite. so you can't expect a fourth-density relationship if you are choosing third-density interactions. It's a significator. You're holding onto something from third density. which an indicator that you are making the change..

But you are going to see changes in this lifetime. we will have a short break. Our way is not any better or any worse than yours. we would like to talk about the idea that is threatening to many of you. However. just as a model so that you can be presented with a different way of having relationships. and we're just going to throw out to you that some of you have expressed some interest in the past about knowing personally about some of my relationships. When you start recognizing that and you start changing yourself. it really does not. necessity meaning single parents. absolutely 100% guaranteed. you are going to see tremendous. We cannot stress to you how much we mean what we said about that. you will begin adapting with less resistance overall. You will see changes if you start to recognize when you are operating from third-density principles and attempting to bring them into a fourth-density relationship. And you will begin to see. They do not have to bring pain. powerful changes within your life. Do not be surprised. Yes. The actual overall societal change of relationships may externally seem to be a change brought about by necessity. then it's more than likely you will manifest it. exactly. Greetings. you will begin to see changes in yourself and in your relationships.Again. Sasha: All right. Germane gave you quite a lot of information and this information that he's given you are the tools you will now have and carry into the future relationships that you have in this life. overall. And that idea is the ability to love more than one person simultaneously. Do you follow? So the next 20 years are the most crucial in our estimation. what probabilities do you see? From the probability that we view. we'd like to take this opportunity to just be available to you for questions. It's a pleasure to be here with you and especially talking about one of our favorite topics. Now. It's simply different. It doesn't have to be through pain that these changes are brought about. with respect to your channel. but as you know is a very solid foundation of Pleiadian thought. it's an expression of who we are. We're going to lighten it a little bit in the second half. and many of you will choose to be such pioneers. literally that means two . but of course within the next 20 years there need to be pioneers and groundbreakers. Sasha. but you don't have to manifest pain. Greeting to all of you. That information is certainly available tonight if you would like to ask. this is Sasha. And within the next 20 years we perceive first more stress in relationships that are fighting change. Now. of course. perhaps with the shortage of a certain sex in a certain age group. Third density is the density of polarity. let me repeat myself. and those changes will bring ecstasy and joy. Now. not necessarily in every single relationship. and that is up to you and your personal choices and your agreements. So we're going to let you orchestrate this part of the evening. what will bring about changes in your relationships will not be these external things but will be the internal momentum of your change of energy. If you are feeling any pain in a relationship. some of the understandings. as you apply some of the tools that were given to you this evening. Now. if your belief system says that you must grow with pain. The external things will just be symptoms of the change. What would you like to talk about? As you look into our future on Earth. then I am desperately trying to hold onto some third-density concept within that relationship. the way we see the changes in relationships happening is that the next 20 years is the crucial point. After that.

back and forth. as intense. that you must at all cost heal this. if you in third-density. as equal to the love that is now felt between myself and my one mate. There is an inherent inequality within the emotions that is saying. In a fourth-density structure (which has been outlined by Germane). you must just go for it. That dynamic cannot be broken in the density of separation and duality. The basic structure of fourth density is set up to experience multiplicity. . Well. there will be no problem here. those of you who have spoken to us at length are aware that presently I have a single mate. I don't feel the one is equal to the other. Now. you're going to find that this rigidity is not necessarily going to work for you. we're not saying. Make your choices. You are batting this ping-pong back and forth. you are going to affect the energy between the two paddles. there's a certain amount of time spent with her that in my mind I perceive isn't spent with me. it takes away the love they can have for you. living in the moment. and these fears are based in third-density premises so they cannot be applicable in a fourth-density reality. Period. The basic structure of third-density is set up to support the idea of duality. When you love yourself unconditionally. That is a third-density idea. fourth. like two ping-pong paddles with a ball in between. as Germane was not saying. these things are going to begin coming up. One of these premises is that if your mate loves another person. And that is something that we would like to address. These 4D ideas do not support the idea that a third. It is not time.. most definitely. if spending time with your mate is equal to the idea of you not spending time with your mate. back and forth. I am deprived. are present. So therefore. it will not be a break in the flow of the energy. There is a finite amount of energy expended between these two because there's no expansion. insert a third variable. and then you bring in another mate. If another mate comes into my relationship now with my mate. then the time spent with your mate will be equal to the time spent alone." Do you follow? Now. Now. When I'm not with my mate I'm alone. and in this mated group. but it might not necessarily work for you. "This is better than this. The dynamics will have to change. I'm not alone. again. And that is the difference between thirdand fourth-density relationships when you're talking about the ability to love more than one person. honesty. Absolutely cannot happen. you have a finite amount of energy that you're batting back and forth with the ping-pong ball. So when I spend time with my mate. It is your identification with something that is equal or unequal in your reality. because using the paddle idea. the ideas of unconditional love and trust. I was also in a mated group. As you move into fourth-density type relationships.comments or ideas or questions on this? In third density it is so hard for me to see past the element of time. the intensity of the love between the individuals was as strong. When you're used to having a mate and therefore spending a certain amount of time with that mate. the amount of love is never less in a fourth-density relationship. It will simply be an adding of another facet through which the energy can travel. But recognize where the time element comes into it. so if I don't have this. fifth or millionth person entering your relationship can take away from the love that a mate can feel toward you. It cannot happen. It can. And so the introduction then of a third or a fourth or a fifth person is going to change the dynamic totally. back and forth. so because of the aloneness. As you start choosing how you want to live. Do you all follow? Thoughts. back and forth.ideas are present. I get caught in the time factor. etc. because there are many fears in many of you about the idea of loving more than one person simultaneously. back and forth.

There were basically three different phases of environments. We did live in one dwelling that is very similar to the one I live in now only on a larger scale. Yes. Sasha. when you lived with a group. Now you on your planet. because the way that you will heal this is parallel to your identity as a species. Can you help us learn how to share this information with the public and teach a new form of relationships? Just like you cannot be responsible for hurting another. Both companies are appreciated. it's exciting in the moment. It's just a question of when. But don't start any more crusades! Each way is really different for each civilization. One were rooms of privacy.Exactly. the recognition is there that you are the generator of your happiness. And again in fourth density. Or comment. but the transformation to fourth density is going to happen. which is open to all. I was just curious about that because. I assume in fourth density that is completely absent. that is when it is equal to be with the mate or to be with yourself because you love yourself as much as you love the mate. And so when that recognition is there. that only we entered. And then the third environment is the entire community environment. when your mate is not there. one of the other trouble areas in relationships is that a lot of third-density relationships have been based on really feeling like you own or you possess the other person. Did you want more on that? Well. We do not perceive. We have a lot of barriers in our society toward this information. invited guests you may call it. if you will. It will take longer if they resist it. you cannot be responsible for enlightening another. Either way. through who you have been as a species. Do what you can. You are it. the Pleiadian viewpoint on the relationship issue came about because of our past and who we were in the past and through this evolution we came to this point. . will develop your own personal way to make this transformation. at least right now. The shift is going to happen. it is still going to happen. some of which are religion and societal conditioning. Then there is a secondary room where you enter with a specific group. Sasha. So for instance. It is going to happen quicker as people consciously make choices to pursue these things. The critical mass is going to happen. no. did you all live in one dwelling? I know now you two have separate dwellings. as Germane was saying. The same thing with the Essassani. you are excited in the moment with yourself. that there is a method by which to communicate with Earth humans that is any more thorough than what we have begun doing with you. Question. Both are equal. And when you see your mate. Did you each have your own rooms in that dwelling? Yes So that you could be by yourself as much as you could be with someone else. and the same thing with the Orions. And that is up to all of you and whether you choose to take the bull by the horns or whether you choose to run from the bull.

that since the Dawn they will be reevaluating.What happened?! Harone was baffled to say the least. I would assume synchronistically that your civilization would also going through relationship transformation. having to deal with the need to control. and the time that you invited Bashar [an Essassani] and Harone [a Zeta] to your dome. but we have often preferred relationships with Pleiadian entities. The change that we are experiencing has more to do with our change in our relationship with other species in that to some degree. not out of a sense of prejudice. and therefore for instance. We knew you would be the one to bring it up. it was a natural movement from one state to another. what is the nature of that transformation that you're experiencing as a culture? We're not so much experiencing a change in relationships as you are in the same way. One last question along these lines. there were no tears or anger. and some chose to go into a more quiet time. yes.. or not even that different. So it's that issue. Just with a different twist. It was a recognition that the next step was to move in this direction. Several of the individuals wanted to go off the planet and explore. there was no fighting. And we've discussed before that there were seven members of this group. . And because we had not anchored the past or the future into this relationship. It's a little bit different. you seem to be willing to talk about your own history tonight.. If that's true. We are opening up possibilities of relationships with all different types of species. let's say there's a species who is so nonhuman that the sexual expression becomes impossible. Sasha. After puberty I did a lot of studying and traveling and had relationships that you might call "flings. Yes. Of course! Did you go right into this group from puberty? Again. very rough. You follow? Yes. rethinking their entire concept of relationships not based on conflict. Is there anything further that would be helpful in terms of how and why you left the group? I assume the group itself also disintegrated. one non-Pleiadian and six Pleiadians. let us say. We know that the Orion relationships are changing. We are learning the expression of that sexuality and that love in other ways. it was simply a recognition that the excitement of the individuals involved in the group had changed. the line of puberty is not as defined as it is in your culture.That feeling of ownership or possession is the idea that Germane was talking about. there was no resistance. We are going through relationship transformation. You know those Zetas. that's when I was in the group. but it comprised the greater portion of my relationship experience. So you were with the group 10-12 years or so? Equivalent. to give you a very dramatic example. So when the excitement to change the relationship was recognized." But when I came back to my planet and built a homebase there.

the present holds your answers. Maybe. We never said that inviting them to the dome was a sexual experience. On our planet and in third density. It cannot be used for control or manipulation. And we tone it down quite a bit!! [Laughter] Generally. someone else will be attracted to this body type. We're talking about the natural flow of energy in creation that is sexual/sensual in its nature. But in the transition that we're going through we have not developed to the point where we're always aware of that. "Hmm. We are therefore threatening to them because perhaps we may gain more attention in a direction they don't want to look at within themselves. and that is simply that we allow that energy to flow. and if that is the case. can it? Exactly. in your situation you have enough control over your sexual activity that you know when you are being fertilized and when you aren't. Now. but he taught us a thing or two. They are very secure in their identity in the present. Right now. if people judge their own or others' sexuality. Again. A lot of this searching goes on. In fourth density or in Pleiadian reality. many people have made the comment that they feel the sensual energy from the Pleiadian entities.But that's the kind of thing you're discussing. that becomes irrelevant. we have a situation where when children have been adopted out for example. In third density. because literally the past does not hold your answers. and we're not supposed to have extra weight on us. the non-Pleiadian was Essassani. regarding the group that I was involved in for that amount of time¾we've said six Pleiadians and one non-Pleiadian. So because the children in our society are literally the children of all¾which is something we do share with the Essassani. And if you were to live in the moment. is there any attention at all on physical body type? . but I haven't met a man who hasn't sat here and said. That was not so much of a challenge. etc. sex does not become a big deal. It is of a creative vibration. What is interesting is that we have had encounters with females in your society (through this channel) who have found us threatening because of the sensual energy perhaps that they are perceiving in us.. there is no sexuality/nonsexuality." I mean. it can't be used against you. all of a sudden this is the ideal sensual package that they all think they've been searching for. The idea of some individuals feeling the desire to know their true parentage is a reflection of the society's or your mass consciousness's need to gain your identity through your past. I will be attracted to a certain body type. We're not talking about the sex act. it seems like it becomes very important to many of them to find out who their genetic parents are.. If sexuality is allowed to have its natural place which is everywhere in everything you do. a different developmental structure. that I've ever spoken to about being around your energy. Does the child always knows who their mother and father are? Does it become important for the child to know? No. any man that I've been around. going to bed with Sasha.. etc. There is simply one expression. they may be very threatened by our type of energy. there is so much emphasis on body types. sexuality is not sex. but that represents our reaching out to other species more than we ever have. we are all supposed to be skinny body types and physically in shape. Not only that. Again. Now.. That was kind of a landmark. no child feels unwanted. No child feels the need to find their identity through their past.

So what is the need for a mate? There is no need per se. So basically there is a separation on many levels of ourselves and so we need to keep looking for relationships to fill the void. That is very accurate. you feel healthy. Well. So you come up with wonderful excuses for separation such as. but the preferences are so unimportant. But those differences are not from the result of trying to keep ourselves separate. Those symbols have been necessary for you to maintain the third-density identity. Exactly. Yes. We may choose to have the idea literally for reasons of enjoyment and fun. But one of the reasons why you perceive that you are not all gorgeous is that being in third density you still must create ways to separate each other from each other." Oh. I know. And that is the cycle. It is that together we play and we rejoice our own individual connections with the Creator. they're too ugly. When you move into fourth density. but we can certainly appreciate those differences when they are there. you feel vibrant. in the sense that we do not need to seek this idea. It always seems in our society that people have relationships out of needs. When we express ourselves sexually with another entity. When you learn that you are the only one who can satisfy yourself. If you are so together and whole. If individuals keep looking for someone else to fulfill their needs. they're too tall. if you're all gorgeous. that you are the only one who can fulfill yourself. Do you see what we mean? Enjoyment. Now granted there are not a lot of differences in our bodies. those symbols will change because you will change. When you do not need something from another individual. you would all be "gorgeous" also. conditions. They are natural diversifying characteristics. we may have preferences. "I can't be with that person there because they're too skinny. it is not that they fulfill a need for us. Now. all of your relationships become joyous and ecstatic. . so they will have a series of unsatisfying relationships. no one else will ever fulfill their needs. you feel beautiful.No. that is a third-density idea. Conditional love. Exactly. you can enjoy them for who they truly are. then why make a differentiation! But do you know why we are all gorgeous? Yes. you would have all that male and female inside your body. So you as Pleiadians can enjoy the differences in each others' bodies? Oh yes. Most definitely. You all feel wonderful about yourselves. there is no attention on body type. If you all felt that way. But it is not a need in any way. Most definitely. Separation. why is it there is a need to have another individual as a mate? If you are whole and not separate.

don't swing that opposite way if you discover that. You see? The needs are important for the eventual outcome of integration. How can you judge the carrots being wrong? It is your needs that are those . and in no way would we ever say to you that if you discover a relationship is out of need that you should disregard it and throw it away. Recognize the need. Now. They have no value except what you ascribe to them. you will not know how to cook the soup. Can be. Living the relationship. separation is all the ingredients to make a soup sitting separately on the counter. You cannot judge those carrots on the counter as being wrong. There is a difference. Could you offer us an interpretation of these needs as pointing to our eventual evolution into fourth density? Yes. So your needs in and of themselves again are neutral ideas. It's quite all right to be in a relationship out of need. But if the person possesses all those things inside of them and is operating from total joy and ecstasy. then it is out of need. you will not know the recipe. To use an analogy. Because that's what I'm in it for! Yes.It's almost like a paradox here. The recipe needs those things. and so the fear will reach out for protection and will often put a wall down. So discovering it in this particular case is not necessarily a way that is going to change it. If the person is looking for things that they want inside of themselves in someone else and so they have all these different relationships trying to get those things into themselves. triggers a tremendous amount of fear. but do not reject it because of the need because you'll keep creating relationships of need that you need to reject. The recipe requires carrots and celery. How can you really tell that it's not out of a need for joy? How can you tell if it's just for joy? It's a good question. why do you think it is so hard for us to visualize the relationships that you are talking about. and it will take a lot more energy. we would say. In fact. Do you follow what we mean? I'm thinking of multiple relationships at one time. Work with it. so you cannot imagine it so you cannot be threatened. fun and excitement instead of need. pain and struggle to eventually try to make up the recipe in a dark room. the ones that we're heading toward? Because the visualization of these relationships¾if you take it past just the intellect. If you do not want to look at your needs. if you're going from third to fourth and seeking to become whole. Do you follow? There is a fine line. Just visualizing a relationship that wouldn't fulfill my needs would scare me. recognizing your motivation and living it and healing through living it rather than rejecting it is going to be much more helpful. you must first recognize what the recipe requires. Isn't that being loving out of certain needs and out of the separations inside the person? Does not have to be. Third density is separation. having¾this individual and this individual and this individual¾and finding you're able to love all these individuals. Fourth density is integration. so for you to recognize those needs will allow you to chop them up and throw them into the pot which will then become the true expression of who you are in an integrated way. they can have a relationship with none or one or many people based on joy. exactly. Integration is the entire soup itself. yes. Sasha.

everything in your life (including your relationships) will enhance that. you are choosing to integrate yourself. we're talking in ways that are different than you. if my mate does not provide the needs that I expected my mate to provide. It seems to me that part and parcel of thirddensity relationships has been that the relationship would take precedent over all else and that one of the things that we're going through is the realization that personal growth must take precedence. but don't expect the fourth-density package deal with that choice. And the trick is to not expect to get the carrots from your mate. which will eventually become a very valuable thing. You have to be the one to go out and get the carrots. recognize what you get with that choice. As long as the relationship takes precedence. . you are making a fourth-density choice and then you can accept the fourth-density package to go along with it. So neither one is wrong nor right. then you can use your relationship to enhance that? If you choose personal growth. personal growth will always have to suffer. Nothing exists without a purpose. Exactly. however. There are times when we recognize.carrots. then recognize it's a choice of separation and that with that choice comes the package of third density. Exactly. or you don't have that particular expression of anger? We don't have the expression of anger in the sense that we attach it to another person. You're not attacking someone. are still eventually part of that soup and therefore very valid and very important that you read those lines in the recipe and chop up those vegetables and make them a part of the creation you are attempting to bring forth. in the book "Messages from Michael" in the first few pages Michael was discussing the fact that one of his purposes for channeling information was to get us off of this attention on relationships and help redirect our attention on selfimprovement (that's a paraphrase). as dysfunctional as they may be. In the way that relationships are set up now where it's based on needs. and the anger that is felt from that is not externalized. Go to your own garden. We do not have that particular expression. and your needs. where we will recognize that we have embraced a reality that we don't prefer. But if you choose personal growth. I become angry. Then in fourthdensity relationships do you not have anger. the way we will comment on it is that in one way there is no must in the sense that you are very welcome to choose relationships over personal growth. and obviously I think I'm angry at him but I'm angry because I'm not getting my needs met through my own efforts. Do you want to comment on that? Well. They are ideas that will eventually be put into the pot. Sasha. that perhaps we have not been true to ourselves. Now again. If you choose personal growth over relationships. If you want to choose a relationship to be more important than your personal growth. We are simply saying in terms of your choice.

and you're recognizing the specific areas that you would like to clear. Do you want to pursue this relationship from a third-density perspective. The intention is to maintain the fourth density. You have given yourself an opportunity now to make a conscious choice. So your seeing that in yourself is very important. We're not understanding the exact question. that need is okay. or do you want to pursue it from the fourth-density relationship and getting the package deal with that? So yes a whole new world has opened up for you which can do nothing but enrich you in the long run. pulling yourself back into third density. Because you are making the transition from third to fourth. And like we say with the soup. Back in this needs issue. But that still doesn't mean that I would then meet those needs? Just recognizing them rather than meeting them. the bottomline question with that as a set up is I don't understand why I even feel concerned that I'm depriving them of getting their physical or physiological needs met by another person. The last thing on my mind was a new relationship. You are not responsible for whether her needs are met or not." then I start sometimes feeling guilty that if I'm involving the other person totally at a fourth-density level. If they feel deprived. It needs to be seen and put in the pot in order to transform into the soup. or just recognizing that her needs exist? Her needs? Yes. That doesn't matter. and I find that there's a tendency to go back and forth. but why does it seem to be my choice to feel like I'm doing that? That's my question. And even if I'm able to say. and I feel it's a very good answer. That is all you are responsible for. I refuse to do that. and I can tune into it. You cannot deprive another person. But you can play out that game. Ahhh. then there's a tendency to think I need to fall into third density and fulfill needs for the other person. . then there's no room for them to get their needs met by somebody else if that's their choice. Well. if that's the case.Recently my relationship changed with my mate and I went on vacation. All you are responsible for is what in your integrity you would like to give to a relationship. We are sorry. but would you narrow the question and ask it again. What Sasha is not saying is that you cannot satisfy those needs of another person. from my thirddensity perspective. But does that mean that I would then be physically satisfying those needs. But it came into my life suddenly. I think you are because you answered it perfectly! You said that when I recognized the need that I would then put them in the pot. I follow. "No. it's their choice. but there is. There is a part of you which still needs to feel validated by providing for another. and if I don't stay conscious of that intention really clearly. getting the package deal there. I have one question. I appreciate that. Well. I'm pursuing or engaged in a relationship by intention at the fourth density. I guess.

ecstasy. but he didn't know that that was what I wanted. as soon as they either start fulfilling you or not fulfilling you. You are still playing the thirddensity game. So all I can do is present myself at my fourth-density awareness. Exactly. "I don't expect anything from it. and my two basic needs were safety and protection. That's why that sense of ecstasy is there. and then they will be angry. and because the person is seeking to have needs met outside of themselves. I remember saying. My husband tried to provide that safety and protection for me. the anger. and it started out. hostility. they will never be satisfied. whether covert or overt. So this now leaves us with one more need: the need for somebody to be with us that maintains the fourth-density intention also.which is exactly what I do not want to do. You cannot know what the other person's needs are. imagine what a relationship would be like if you did not need to be fulfilled by another. And just be pure in my own intention. Now the Pleiadian relationships framework can be likened to the beginning of your relationships when your expectations were very low and you are truly in the level of enjoyment. So when you have no expectations . But sometimes I seem to feel that I could just get out of the way and she could get her needs satisfied whatever way she wanted but that's depriving the potential of the fourth-density relationship. Seventy-five percent. Literally 75% of anger in relationships stems from one partner or the other believing or being angry that the other person is not fulfilling needs. Exactly. starts setting in. whether you're trying to protect them from their emotions or you're trying to communicate to them. and that's when the manipulation and the control begins. the level of anger would be very." and then I realized about two months into it that I couldn't say that anymore. there has not been time yet for the new person to fulfill or not fulfill your needs. That taken 100-fold deeper is what our relationships are like all the time. They will not verbalize them. Period. Am I on track? Yes. I expected a few things! If the excitement and the romance does not peter out by its own nature then it's simply sabotaged to death. nearly nonexistent. Is one of the reasons that new relationships are so delightful is because we haven't started manipulating the other person? Yes. and let it be whatever it ends up being. very low¾hidden anger. you're not in fourth density. you cannot know. Now. One of the things that we ran into was that I finally started examining what I felt my needs were. That is so correct. but he would have no idea how I want that provided. You can never second-guess another person. sometimes they don't even know themselves on the conscious level. Obviously that is a trap. so the only thing that you can do is be 100% who you are. However. If you have that need. you will get caught because it is a game. caring and sharing. because I was just thinking about the new relationship I was in. play. In other words. For one thing. If you try to get caught in the game of satisfying those needs. my idea of safety was for him to put his arm around me every time we walked into a room.

It will just automatically start unfolding. You will start to begin to know truly the beams of love that you really are. and it is our sensing that we will speak again on this matter shortly. that makes a lot of sense. What wonderful things await all of you! We know that your relationships are painful. and those of you who choose to embrace the fourthdensity idea. The pain will start to subside. that idea cannot exist. what a load off your energy. much love to each and every one of you. Once that idea is relinquished. they will transform. The joy will start to grow. and if your needs are not met you don't give that love. "If you can't feel the pain. we would like to close this evening with that acknowledgement and recognition of all that you've chosen. Much love and goodnight. . that you're angry at. yes. it's not a light switch going on and off. and they will always be an issue. they will stay there on the counter. That love that you will contain will be beyond what you can now conceive. what a load off your mind that is. that you judge. the things that you see now that you don't like in yourself. and you're going to start feeling changes inside of yourself. and we truly are excited to watch this happen because you will start to begin to see your divine connection. And so. If you judge them. you can't feel the ecstasy. I know a lot of people right now would chuck the whole fourth-density idea if they thought they had to manually clear all their needs before they got there. In fourth density. Much. You can enjoy yourself.to fourth-density thinking. much." In third density. are so valuable because they make up the soup. whether diving right in or taking it baby steps. All Rights Reserved. yes. going to start seeing changes. 1995 by Royal Priest Research. You are moving in that direction. By recognizing when you are conditionally loving someone. you then know there's an issue. for like the analogy of the soup and the carrot. The conditional love that is felt in third density is the love you will give if your needs are met. You all have a tremendous amount of love and joy locked within you that will begin to blossom when you stop expecting another person to validate you. so then you can actually go through it by turning that around to unconditionally loving them in spite of the issue. Can you begin to experience that love while still having the needs and recognizing them also? Absolutely. and we've heard comments that humans have made such as.about the other person fulfilling your needs. Yes. But we would also like to remind you that if you were incapable of taking the path you never would have chosen it. So we don't have to wait for our needs to be gone for us to experience this love? Correct. It's a gradual movement from third. when you stop expecting another person to make you feel whole. Again. you can truly experience unconditional love. It has been an absolute joy to have been a part of your gathering this evening. is difficult. Copyright © 1993. We would like to honor you and acknowledge you for taking a path that. you will soar. But if you allow them to exist and you take them with you in your growth.

First of all. recognize that these particular civilizations we are talking about represent either your physical forefathers or forefather energies. For any of you who have seen the Star Wars trilogy. for instance. you have a good possibility of adopting in adulthood. In a tug-of-war. Thus you can see the dynamic. very long time to realize that all they were doing was holding a balance through the amount of negativity each group placed on the other. So the general dynamic is as follows: The Empire was the dominant force within the Orion civilization. the Black League Stalemate So you have the active Empire individuals. you have individuals who were the subjects of the Empire and you have a very widespread underground group who resisted the Empire.Conflict We might as well begin with the polarized point of view. Since there were two subject matters advertised for this evening. This is Germane. Basically we'll outline to you the philosophies of the Orion civilization. It took them a very. Many of you on Earth. Orion Civilization . That's the general dynamic of the Orion civilization. As you know. who were the freedom fighters. Now one was the idea of the sexuality of some of the races that are very close to you. These individuals we've called the Black League. This Empire took it upon itself to be responsible for its citizens. We're going to begin first with a civilization called Orion . What we're going to do is to talk about some of the sexual belief systems of several races that are close to you. This will also illuminate the particular societal structures that each of these races have so you'll get a little bit of both . That responsibility often meant they would use force and other methods you would perhaps think did not have much integrity. If they were found. incarnationally speaking. "Black" is not meant to be negative. This is the energy. in your galactic family and another subject was that of galactic heritage. They were one of the areas of your galactic family that was committed to resolving polarity or conflict. We're going to talk a little bit about how their societal structure affects you on Earth at this time. The idea . whatever energy you are exposed to as infants. they would be annihilated. So let us start with Orion. have connections with the Orion civilization and have come here in order to break certain cycles.that is how you see it from your Earth plane. the Empire in the movie is kindergarten compared to the actual expression of this Empire energy within the Orion civilization. First. lose your identity or your memory of Orion and start again. Earth was a place where you could come.galactic heritage and sexuality. the Orion civilization was based on the idea of conflict.ET History and Sexuality Category: Channeled. The Empire vs. certain patterns of conflict. the belief systems that you as a civilization have been exposed to during your infancy as a species. we will integrate them together. if the weight is balanced on both sides.they did not want to be found. neither person is going to win. These resisters were fighting the Empire and both the resisters and the Empire were using the same methodologies with which to bring about their desires. it simply means the idea of absorption or being hidden .

because it's definitely a two-way street . to release emotional energy. There's a recognition . to release the energy of conflict. and even a bit scary for some of you. The relationship dynamic is primarily that of the Black League civilization (the resistance groups).the relationship becomes as mates. very intense in a certain way. but it's not necessarily the way it is on your planet. the entire dynamic is a result of the structure of their society. Orion Monogamous Relationships Now let us talk about the relationships in the Orion civilization. This is for a very specific reason. This means that the Orion relationships were a product of their dynamic of conflict. So you can imagine that the Orion relationships would be very. born out of the conflict of their civilization: They have learned through thousands of years not to trust. When you're chosen as a surrogate . Surrogates So. That is the energy dynamic behind how their relationships are structured. When one is chosen as a surrogate in the Orion civilization.when two people come together who are to be mated. to say the least. This surrogate relationship is for the purpose of releasing energy through sexuality. The relationship between Orions and their mate is of number one importance in the lifetime of the individual. So you can see that the entire expression of relationships was from your point of view perhaps a little limiting. So this is the one we will talk about. is there ever infidelity in the Orion system? It depends on your definition of infidelity. But if someone has to go on a mission or travel away from the mate. and so they've learned never to allow themselves to be vulnerable except with individuals who are very. This is because of the societal dynamics within the Orion system.of losing your memory has actually been something that's worked for you rather than against you. This is why an individual is excited only by the mate because they literally cannot allow themselves to be vulnerable with anyone else. There is no "sneaking around. at least for now. there is no (to use a colloquialism) sleeping around. resonate with the most. it's a tremendous honor and privilege. you ask. although it's different from the monogamy you have upon your world. During the period of time when one is seeking a mate. There is no competition between surrogates and primary mates. When an Orion is the equivalent of a teenager at puberty. because if you had kept your entire memory intact.an instant recognition . and there's no doubt of that recognition. but also through nonsexual intimacy.and you choose to be a surrogate. they already have their antennae out looking for a mate. Very often other forces infiltrate their reality. some of the memories (especially the Orion memories) would be quite intense. but there is an understanding that the surrogate relationship is temporary. it is expected of each of the mates to take a surrogate. but from their . The Orions have what we could call monogamy. You will find that the nature of personal relationships in any society is a product of the dynamics of that society . very close to them." That is not an idea that is compatible with the Orion philosophy because of the idea of vulnerability. because this is the energy that you on Earth. This is the opposite. Again. for an Orion is not aroused by anyone who is not their mate. So when the mate is finally found. In your civilization you are attracted to someone first and then you decide whether or not to make them your mate. The Orions mate for life. the arousal and the excitement come because the person is their mate. The mate is literally the one person with whom they allow themselves total vulnerability.your civilization included.

they moved very slowly. But generally speaking there is a lot of rigidity. When the conflict was eventually resolved and they had to learn to live differently. and the other is the expression of sexuality as a raw energy form. for instance. It is channeled through discipline and released through sexuality. and those types of thoughts were simply less and less necessary. another mated couple may take in the remaining spouse temporarily to act as surrogates until that spouse finds another mate. That is an undisciplined thought. Q: I was thinking about how they had to learn to control their stress reactions because of the conflict. The Vulcan is repressing. we will compare this idea to that of the Vulcan. many thousands of years long. If one mate was killed. is that the Orions do not know the concept of sexual fantasy. those of you who are familiar with some of the Star Trek scenarios. However. Because they did not have the idea of fantasy outside of the idea of mates. One thing we would like to say here. This is not anything that is imposed on them. they repress fantasy. it is eventually genetically encoded. they started thinking of different ways to express their relationships. Q: Is it totally a cultural thing? Or has it been encoded in their genetics after awhile? It is encoded in their genetics after awhile.point of view extremely fulfilling. Let's stop for a minute to ask if there's something you have a comment or question about. so it would depend on which era you're talking about as to how genetically coded it was. After awhile it's no longer control .in the direction of the mate. It's simply the way they are. Q: What about their glandular system and the way they react to stress? Does that have anything to do with the way the react to their sexuality. But. yes. thinking about how nice it will be to take the mate in her arms.even in thought . Any fantasy or any thought of intimate expression can only be expressed . before the conflict was resolved. there was a lot of genetic change. When one is under stress. It is simply the way they've rewired themselves to channel emotional energy. there are basically three different types of sexual expression that the Orions used with their mates: One is for procreation. They did find it to be extremely satisfying for their civilization. Because of this. Through eons of time they have been disciplining themselves. So the closest thing to an Orion fantasy would be a female thinking about when her mate is coming home. This is why it is of primary . that is the way the stress is released. But that was a difficult one. The Orion civilization was many. it takes a force to repress the emotionality. yes. how they're excited? We have talked in the past about this and Akbar has given the information in the book. During the times of the intense conflict. does not exist.it's second nature. so it's not a repression of anything. The Orions have gotten to the point where they are not repressing. There were some situations of group marriage that were usually temporary. Experience does change genetics. for fantasy simply does not exist. one is for exchange of intimacy. They are extremely disciplined in their mentality. etc. Now. for instance. which also points out the difference between you and the Orions. societally speaking. Fantasy with someone you saw walking down the street. So it would depend on which period of time.

But you will find that in history on your planet during wartime. the Pleiadians are much more open and flowing with these positive emotions. There are also married groups. Because of this focus on positivity. which you have here on your world called "polyfidelity. their methodologies of relationships and sexuality was born out of their environmental conditions. Whereas the Orions were very rigid and very disciplined in the expression of their emotion and their vulnerability.the Pleiadian civilization. You on your planet have a combination of sexual attitudes . As with the Orions. That's their idea of monogamy. The Pleiadian Civilization .in themselves and in their expression of their sexuality. This is a direct connection to what we are talking about regarding the channeling of certain primal energies. very committed to each other. They are instead pledging and celebrating their love in the moment. So if any of you wish to examine that further. you may do some research. But as you know from the statistics on your planet.but it's a little bit different from what you have here on your Earth. This brings up a lot of insecurity in some individuals we've talked to. they're monogamous in the moment. many of them do. because there are other ways of channeling energy. ancient Pleiadian past. the Pleiadians were very desirous of maintaining positive energy in their reality.what you would call marriage. an opposite energy to the Orion civilization. but when they pledge their love to a person. During times of peace other things are looked at. Present-Time Monogamy There are primary relationships within the Pleiadian system .importance that each Orion have a mate. So they were intent on repressing negativity. they feel secure . Because they have so many of these whole and complete interactions. they're not pledging their love for the future. one on one . The person they're with at that moment is the only person they are with energetically. because many individuals on your planet desire the security of having someone that you know is going to be there when you're 80 years old and in your rocking chair. marriage rates increase. They have ceremonies. This does not necessarily mean that they never live with one person or never have a type of marriage relationship with one person. recognize emotionality in the moment . but you will find that mated relationships become very important during wartime. If you are in a Pleiadian civilization. very connected." which is simply taking the monogamy idea and expanding it so instead of two people. This is. a lot of their relationship structures and their beliefs about relationships and sexuality came from this desire to not look at negativity. to some degree. We do not know if this has been studied or not on your planet.and that is how they choose to live their lives.some from Orion and some from other civilizations. So what the Pleiadians have done is to recognize spontaneity. These marriage units are very loving. The difference is that they recognize immediately when it's time to . pledges at the altar do not guarantee that. the expression of love and sexuality at that moment is literally so complete and balanced and whole that there is no need to attach themselves to the other person and drag them through eternity. In the ancient. At this time they did not understand how vital negative energy is when you balance them and channel them. there are three or more. From their definition of monogamy (and they've kind of twisted the definition a little bit). We would consider that to be nonmonogamous according to your definition of monogamous.Positivity Now we're going to go on to another civilization . You don't have to be as disciplined.

So if you have an interaction with a Pleiadian. Monogamy Defined The definition in your society of monogamy is two people committed to each other. We would say that true monogamy is when two people choose that idea of expression from an excitement and a willingness to play off the partner for personal growth. total respect with no personal pain withheld on the part of the other person. you get used to the partner. When you on your planet are in a relationship and feel that it's time to leave the relationship and you go and tell your mate.fear and unwillingness to do what you think is right. One interesting contrast is that the Orions do not express sexuality in day-to-day life." there's total understanding. my mind thinks of monogamy as not being sexually committed to just one person. will show a lot of pain. the idea that most people on Earth at this time do not practice true monogamy. etc. Within the Pleiadian system if the woman comes home and says. as all of you are committing yourselves to your own personal growth. On your planet. They recognize that it must be the time. however. that would be expressed as true monogamy. very safe. it's very. not having sexual relations with another person. 100% of the time when one of you feels the relationship is changed. It's because they do not differentiate between sensuality or sexuality and life. It's just that one person may not be recognizing it. They express their sexuality only when they're with their mate in a certain disciplined time period. Sensuality or sexuality to them is life. "This has been an absolutely wonderfully fulfilling relationship for me. That philosophy is brought into their society by how they structure their relationships. This allows relationships to be very fluid and the sexual energy within the partners is not held or blocked but is channeled through their entire body and into their lives. Q: What's the definition of monogamy? On what planet? Q: From the definitions I've looked at. instead of your parental or societal conditioning. and you can go about your life focusing your sexuality in a very tight beam.but when it occurs on that basis is where the problems are. both of you have. you don't have to face certain issues. Stephen said something very interesting yesterday about true monogamy. will attempt to latch on to you. I feel now that it's time for me to go to the other side of the planet and do something else. And that is not a valid choice for monogamy. When monogamy is chosen consciously instead of as a denial of something else (which we'll talk about in a moment).move into something else. and there is a disconnection. or may be living in their own type of creation and cannot see what's really happening. The definitions don't even say anything about sex. kind of like the . there are individuals in your society who choose monogamy for other reasons.it does . Not that it does not occur here . certain fears. it's the complete and full channeling of that energy through their embodiment. This is changing now. When you are in a monogamous relationship. a conscious choice. However. What he said was that many of us base our decision to be monogamous on insecurity of the moment and of the future . you may feel that there's a lot of sensual energy coming from that being. the mate quite often will be very hurt. The Pleiadians allow their sexual energy to permeate every aspect of their life.

Eventually. will not have pain and fear. We really didn't want to talk about this tonight but. They are different. True monogamy would be rather Orion-like . the Consequences of Repressing Negativity Q: Do the Pleiadians have AIDS? Are they creating AIDS? Very good question! We were telling you a little earlier that the environment that the Pleiadians were birthed out of was an environment of the repression of negativity. It's simply a matter of choice. since we've already opened our mouth. No one here is any better. But neither of their expressions are better. Many of you are seeing that the divorce rate is going so high. we'll finish what we're saying. What they manifested were dis-eases very similar to your AIDS disease. You're going to be able to make choices as to whether you want to choose monogamy for reasons of growth or for reasons of hiding fears or latching onto security. So when we talk about the sexuality of your galactic family. If you don't choose to expand that beam out of fear. Dis-eases. In ancient Pleiadian history there was a period of time when they were repressing so much negativity that it had to bleed out in other directions. so that you can choose whether you want to embrace them or not or learn from them and create something for yourself. Now. you don't know how to do this. You have parts of them in you because they have been your energetic forefathers. This is not because there's disease and terrible things going on in your society. For the Pleiadians. But you are already beginning to create it.Orions. It will work for you. as your consciousness is raising. you are going to be able to make some conscious choices for yourself. we're giving you bits and pieces of who you are. the structures of your relationships are going to begin changing. That's what's occurring now. deep level. As your consciousness raises. that system of relationships will not have denial within it. They could no longer hold that well of negativity within them. The mate is not threatened by expressions of sexuality from their mate. this inner truth is not to stifle sexual energy whenever it is felt just because they have a mate. then is that true monogamy or is that choosing from fear? You already know that many people on your planet choose monogamy. because you on Earth will eventually come up with a system of relationships that is perfect for you. it's because the structure of relationships on your planet is changing.when that is actually what they are excited by. Right now you don't know which direction to go in. to find out what your own inner truth is. So back . when they are denying and repressing. any more evolved. they've taught you a lot. bits and pieces of what is inside of you. but will be one that will be birthed from the type of environment you had growing up as a species. So you're running around and reshifting yourself to see what works for you. So what they learned from that is that when they are not being true to themselves. There is no idea of threat or negativity from sexual expression within the Pleiadian civilization. when they are not channeling both positive and negative into their lives and using it for growth. It's very important that we say that. none of these civilizations are better than yours. It's important that we say this. it causes dysfunction or disease in their society. In your society now. yet how many actually have extramarital relationships? The idea of extramarital relationships is not a choice of true monogamy. True monogamy would mean that the idea of extramarital relationships does not stimulate you on a conscious.

there's no flow . Whenever there's resistance. They recognize that when they separate they are separating into two wholes instead of two halves. what's the first thing they think? Sex! So it's coming up on one level only (there's much more to this) as a way for you to examine your sexual premises. Repression of Sexuality The issue of AIDS on your planet now has many. If you really feel that .your own and others'. But each person who is manifesting it is doing a very great service for your planet. to understand where your fears. When they are having a relationship.levels that you've not wished to look at before. thinking separation is a solution. Because of our inability from time to time to clearly see our own issues. or clear the energy so you can stay. Something needs to be resolved which will either clear the energy so that you can leave. The dimension we will choose to talk about for now. If you try to leave and it's very difficult . and to release that. they recognize their wholeness as separate beings and come together as a whole being as well. Relationships on your planet are frequently looked at as half a person coming together with another half of a person. So when they separate. so when you talk about the Pleiadians bringing a relationship to a conclusion and moving on to another one. There is an agreement between the two people in the relationship that they are together because they will initiate their own personal growth and help the personal growth of the other person . There's no competition for one to get something out of it and rip off the other person. is that ultimately the reason it is occurring on your planet now is indicative of the repression you have about sexuality . However. examine your motivation. are directly connected to your state of emotionality. when we feel that a relationship might be over. very deep levels . for instance. It was entirely a product of what they were repressing. absolute reflection of themselves. We understand it's not necessarily a sexual disease. AIDS and cancer. many dimensions to it. and anger and pain lie. you want to leave your wife or husband and it's very easy for you to do so . The reason this comes about is that they recognize the other person is a total. yes. because they're giving the opportunity for your planet to heal itself on very. Correct. Whenever there's flow. more than any other disease you have on your planet. if you say AIDS to a roomful of people.meaning that you get a job on the other side of town or things flow . Q: You've spoken about Pleiadians being able to separate freely. AIDS. that you're only whole when you're in a relationship. they're a mirror image of themselves. think about taking action. If. and only now in the last fifty years are allowing yourself to begin to look at. they separate into two wholes instead of two halves.things just don't happen to assist you in leaving.how can we tell whether our feeling a need to separate is from ego-generated issues of fear. or whether it's a true excitement. that does not constitute separation at all.it's a partnership.you're going to find the motivation is because there's a need for growth and you're following that path. Leaving a Relationship The way to discover your motivations in wanting to leave a relationship is by examining the flow in your life. with your question. It's a matter of resistance and flow. Q: Separation is never a solution.then they did have some disease. There are some people who are choosing to manifest the AIDS virus as symbols for the world instead of ways to let out some of this energy.then you're going to find that you are not looking at something.

it doesn't completely disappear. It is your galactic family. then when you separate. Now. It is humanoid. You would notice that they're different but wouldn't necessarily consider them alien. Unfortunately. anyway. That's how similar physically and genetically they are to you. Their hair has a greenish tinge because they have copper in their blood. That is why when they separate. it's olive-colored . If a Pleiadian were walking down the street. so they seek another half to complete and on the cycle continues. In terms of getting aroused sexually. The women have similar control over ovulation. You will find the two civilizations we've talked about are both anatomically similar to you. Tantra Q: We have a practice on our planet called tantra. Thank you. Sexually.'" Nobody really means that when they say it. the Orions do not consider the female breasts to be anything sexually arousing although they may use the nerve centers during the ceremonies and during the sex. Do you follow? Q: Yes. Each person is not complete within themselves. this is a terrific thing! You could play baseball without wearing a cup! You can still see it."I'd like you to meet my `better half. same thing). That gives you a general idea of the body types. so they have four very thick layers of skin to protect them from the harsh environment. Are they divided as we are into male and female? Sexual Anatomy of Pleiadians and Orions Very good. So pregnancy occurs only when there is an agreement between the male and the female that that is what will occur. the difference is that in the males the penis is retractable. Akbar [the one Lyssa channels] lives on a desert planet. You won't be able to seek out a whole person. Their skin is very different. two legs.a brown base with a greenish tinge. Comments or questions? Q: I have a couple of questions: One is about the actual physical manifestation of the sexual act. It is in the same location but it retracts back into the body for protection. and complete control over ejaculation. you would all turn and remark about how they look (they look terrific). The female breasts are used for lactation and child feeding in both civilizations. you will separate as half a person and you'll seek out another half-person to make yourself whole. You'll only draw to you that which you are. That's a perfect form of birth control. The Orions are somewhat taller (two arms. There goes another expression I can't use anymore .way inside. which is a higher form of sex where the energy is balanced to a certain extent to create a more powerful union. body. You will seek out a half. relationships are frequently not completed. There is a lot of ceremony on Orion concerning sex. the Pleiadian ears are somewhat lower than yours. two legs. but Pleiadians are so much genetically like you that they consider you to be their cousins. head. . It's like some of your animals. Now. because the idea of being one and a half is a little bit too much. Ejaculation will occur only when that agreement has been reached. how much do you want to talk about this? [laughter] Two arms. A couple of other minor differences. the male has complete control over an erection mentally.

all of you are extremely sexually active in your dream or astral state. It's part of who they are. For instance. The processes that they go through in a sexual exchange can be likened to tantra because it certainly does utilize the chakra system. when the woman came out of her shell. their sexual act is not a tantric exercise as a discipline but an expression that encapsulates the philosophies of tantra without their even having to think about it. If you're fantasizing alone you may be doing that and getting the attention of the person you're fantasizing about on another level. But this occurs all the time. Their forms of sexuality are both physical and nonphysical . one for procreation and one for intimacy. Another level has to do with other civilizations who do utilize that form of sexual exchange. That is one way. several different levels. for the Pleiadians that is occurring but they are still doing it physically.Do they have that also? Is that something we've inherited from them? We would first say that in the Orion civilization the first two forms we were talking about. none of this is better than . then tantra is better.deliberately nonphysical. are both highly ritualized. Well. That type of exchange occurs very frequently. but it's not a conscious. in a sense as a way to remember your heritage. eye-toeye recognition. It's not necessarily considered sex per se as it is what you'd call an integration. You're also tapping into that understanding that this will be something available to you in your future as you learn about your own sexual nature. This doesn't mean you have to study tantra in order to achieve this. but for right now you're not choosing to do it except in the context of astral journeying. There is a civilization called Essassani who represent (and we don't mean this as being better) a future evolutionary path for Earth. maybe not visually but emotionally? The situation in Cocoon was that you had two people focused on each other. in her light form and they had that powerful integration . It's not as if they would say.it touched a lot of people in your society . You see the difference? And again. you very often come together for this integration and this sharing.because it's something you all know how to do on certain levels. So it touched you . On Earth a lot of you are implementing tantric practices. There are some people on your planet who may use tantra as a way to escape their sexual pain. Q: Can't tantra also be used as an escape? If the consideration is that normal sexuality has something wrong with it. like you saw in Cocoon. Q: In the movie "Cocoon". Anything on your planet can be used as an escape. So it would depend on the motivations of any given individual. So when you are on your nonphysical journeys. But you will find that in the Pleiadian expression. "Well. similar to a Japanese tea ceremony." The Orions are not aware that they are doing anything except their ritual. because it is a God union. You would find that within that ritual there would be practices very close to tantra. yes. One. That's one level of it. Q: Is there any type of nonphysical sexual exchange while we're awake and in the body? Doesn't something like this occur sometimes when people are fantasizing on some level.that rang true on some level as if we'd known it before. In the Pleiadian civilization it would be the same thing. let's do tantra today. so to speak. including chocolate ice cream.

we could control the future of our race. At this time most are simply attributing negative scenarios to us. We in turn have agreed to assist you in yours. We now have so little variation in our species genetically that it is as if you are taking a photograph and xeroxing it time and time and time again. There is much to share with you. Sometimes the birth would even kill the mother. We learned cloning abilities and this was of great excitement to us because we realized that then we could control the conception process. We had war. the majority of people on your planet are not aware that we are assisting you. We recognized that we were literally having a species crisis and so we prepared ourselves for survival. It becomes dimmer. We have much to share with you. are also learning and growing. once we were underground. The Zeta Reticuli Civilization . You are learning and growing. a way to incorporate into ourselves new genetics so that our species will survive. First we will say that in no way do we orient ourselves as being negative. since our environment was going to collapse. At this point in time. Thus you have the beginning of the race that you have called the Zeta Reticuli. and that is not the case. It was understood by us. Within our civilization we had much diversity. We will tell you briefly about our historical evolution so you can understand some of the orientations we have that you interact with in your present time continuum. who we've been talking about. balanced and nonviolent in every way. as we saw the birth rate decrease. Throughout thousands of years of cloning. we had differing belief systems and we also eventually had severe toxicity that was brought into our environmental system through individuals on our planet who were progressing technologically at a very rapid rate.anything else. The Human-Reticuli Agreement for Species Transformation It is our understanding that you as a species have agreed to assist us in our transformation. we have come to realize that what we wanted to achieve had a lot of forethought. We needed. Our unique way was to begin preparing underground facilities that we could go into. that there was to be a species crisis. we also knew that we were becoming sterile. less complete. it becomes less likely that the original image will continue to exist. We adapted ourselves to this crisis in the only way we knew how and thus you have the species that you see in your present day. then. Yet we know an agreement has been achieved and we promise you that we will uphold . We are Zeta Reticuli consciousness. We will begin by telling you a little about our work with your species. Over a period of generations we recognized that the cranial size of our infants was growing larger at a marked rate. We were born from conflict. Our definition of negative means that we would have selfserving interests only. You have been talking about us. to clone out the wide range of neurochemical responses in our brain so that emotionally our state of being would be consistent. but we made great errors in how we went about achieving it. We knew this was to occur. and we cannot share this with you from our present state of being. we were born from crisis. Our females were not able to adapt to this cranial increase. and so there were many of what you would call unsuccessful births and stillbirths. so we were called. Millennia ago we were a thriving civilization much like you. Your forefathers. Due to severe radiation.Group Mind This is Harone. We know you have many questions. We gave much thought to this and chose.

However. We have joined hands together with you in order to bring about this species evolution for both of us. these latent genetic codes. That we will assist you in triggering latent genetic codes that will propel you into an accelerated state of genetic evolution. Even though we do not understand the concept of emotion we seek to understand it and we watch you in order to do so. We have been told by others who interact with us that your species' goal at the present time is in expressing and then integrating your fears. other extraterrestrial beings who help to facilitate this process. Our organs began atrophying over many.we are not separate . It is also a great honor for us that you have chosen to play a role for us as well. we work with these genetic structures. we have joined hands and we are transforming together. In our work with you. We are told by them that you desire to hear about our sexual orientation or lack thereof.males from females. Some of them can be activated from the etheric level. we will have physical facilitators. Zeta Sexual Orientation When we communicate with you in this fashion through a physical channel. we will become much more similar. We are also told by other entities that there are others who are genetically connected to us who are deliberately promoting fear in you. We are infinitely entwined . So we are fascinated by the sexual act that you have upon your world and the emotional processes that you encounter during these acts. many generations until now you cannot tell us apart . we are made aware that our interactions with you do in fact trigger that fear. This will provide a way for us to finally open communication so that you may begin unfolding your memories of your species heritage and of the galactic family of which you are a part. when we interact with you either physically or etherically. we will carry out this agreement of assisting in this species triggering. we understand that our interactions with you promote fear in some people. Though we do not intentionally desire to trigger your fear. You will find that as evolution occurs. That is what is occurring now. Even though we do not understand why. It is not our desire to promote fear in you. Because we have lost this ability for so long. but those we interact with who are guardians to you tell us that your confrontation with your fear is of vital importance at this time in your development. 2. Recognize that from our point of view and from the point of view of your mass consciousness. when we went underground and began cloning. In no way do we perceive we are being intrusive. We are taking a species leap together. we did away with the idea of physical procreation as well as the sexual act. There is a recognition that neither our species nor yours can continue indefinitely the way it is. you will become more unified. They would have you think they are much more numerous. for from our point of view we . although on a chromosomal level we are still either XX or XY. we also desire to learn how once again to connect with our humanity through the idea you call sexuality. some need activation on the physical level. Simply put.though our realities may say we are. we are told that their numbers are quite small. This vibratory rate occurs when your consciousness accelerates. We are very connected and for that we send our gratitude. Our end of the agreement is as follows: 1. As we have agreed to do millennia ago. It is a great honor for us to play this role for you. These codes were placed in you by your forefathers and were designed to be triggered when you achieved a certain vibratory rate.our end of the agreement. We will become much more individualistic. We seek emotional understanding and we also understand that you express your emotions in a sexual nature.

If you as a species look in these dark corners where you are afraid to look. you feel the tide of evolution. and we would like to take this opportunity to address those if you would like to ask them. you learn what you desire. We are not deliberately doing anything to you. Unfortunately for our development. From our point of view. We're afraid of being vulnerable. You are resisting . to our crafts and you have viewed us engaged in what we call our Oneness ritual. Our mass consciousness desired a way to communicate the importance of this recognition of the gap. Your interactions with us will not be from a fear-based orientation. engage those fears and move through them. this is an equal exchange. we did not recognize this until after we had begun cloning. what was happening in your culture. In exchange for this gift that you have given us. Q: What did the enlargement of the cranium symbolize? You could have manifested any number of physical difficulties. We recognize there may be questions from you. so we have erected a lot of psychological and emotional methods to protect our sexuality. Q: At the point in time in your history where children's heads were getting too large for birth. You see this on your planet now when you demand proof for everything rather than recognizing a flow or a connectedness to all. Many people experience that idea being violated during an abduction experience. When we interact with you. It has been an honor that you have agreed to come and share this with us. Sexuality in Abductions Q: Can you talk about your interest in our sexuality as experienced by people who are abducted? Our sexuality is something that our species protects. Evolution requires the one evolving to look deeply into the mirror of self and choose what is undesirable for the evolution and to relinquish it. Our interactions with you represent evolution. Our interactions with you bring up this in your consciousness. recognize we have no intent. There became a very marked gap between spirituality and technology. even more than upon your world today. Can you speak to us on how you view this? What are you exploring? What are you learning about our sexuality? And what is your intent? First of all.recognize you have given us permission. that this would manifest itself symbolically? Our technological abilities were not paralleling our spiritual progression. We learn what we desire. Our interactions with you push buttons. your civilization. as we have stated. It was even more pronounced in our civilization. the natural tendency was for the cranium to grow so we would recognize there was a crisis and would then examine this crisis and recognize the gap between spirituality and technology. So in terms of symbolic expression. your interactions with us will change dramatically. which is a complete and total merging with our one identity. which tends to cause a lot of trauma. to change you. You manifest this now in a way much less dramatic than the way we did. Intellect! An imbalance of intellect over spirituality. This translates into your consciousness as threat because it requires you to look at yourself and relinquish things you have been carrying as a part of yourself. many of you have come to our reality. There are times when we will view you when you are having sexual exchanges in order that we may somehow learn how to initiate this within ourselves.

We may not know how to understand your emotions. and from their perception puts the person in a powerless situation. Some are interested in reproductive research. It penetrates all of them. or disempowered vulnerability. a mind link.but vulnerable meaning empowerment. it really depends on which group.that is not what is meant . It is a matter of shifting perspective. Some are entirely focused on neurochemical research. not of what we intend to do . Are we being too philosophical for you? Do you want to know what we do with you? Q: Yes. We are divided. because the emotions are very intense for us. samples would be taken from all portions of the body. Q: When you are observing people in the sexual act. And you see that in that choice there is no pain. those groups will focus primarily on the head and the neck areas. I was asking for a description from the point of view of an abductor. If you surrender. energy shielding. Perhaps it would not take too much imagination to know what we seek . into different groups that have different purposes. We are extremely curious about your emotional selves. This in itself causes a violation of our systems of protection. when you are vulnerable. as you know the term. to the One.not in the negative sense of weakness . eggs. whereas each and every one of you is part of that. There is no arousal. not as if we were invading . It is not just cold research. When we interact with you in an abduction situation .you are given the opportunity to look at the situation either from a point of empowering vulnerability or from a victimizing vulnerability. Our way . the choice is to either feel victimized and to hold and repress that pain of victimization in your life or to confront that feeling and then surrender.sperm. and until that fear is confronted and released. and in that case. Very often some of us will have protection. what is of most interest in viewing the sexual act are the biochemical fluctuations. of what procreation means to the person. So biologically speaking. That is. Well. saying you have not created this somehow. Some are interested primarily in genetic research.evolution because of your fear. you merge with the One and thus become an active force in the tide of evolution. You let your guard down. There is a tremendous amount of curiosity in the biochemical secretions in the brain that are occurring during the sexual act. Vulnerable . that's what I was getting at. When you are lying on an examination table. that you are not part of species transformation. Q: Can you comment on the mechanics of what occurs during an abduction? Many people have their sexual organs examined and probes put inside them and samples taken.again we speak of the dynamic. how do you personally perceive this? How do you respond to those strong emotions? It's my understanding that you almost can't bear them. shall we say. you then become vulnerable in an empowering way.but relinquish your resistance and recognize yourself as a co-creator in this. as you would say. those are the ones who work directly with your reproductive functions. secretions from prostate. but we do pay attention to them. you will feel the pressure of evolution. you are open to All That Is. skin samples and also an understanding. It is also an opportunity to look at it as being in a vulnerable situation instead of a powerless situation. You cannot connect fully with your Divine Creator or Self unless you become totally vulnerable. There is only pain when one chooses to focus on the idea of disempowerment.

We must deal with data. and could it be radiated forth from your physical face or from your body? Yes. You've done your research well.perhaps many of you would think it is . which is very uncomfortable. Sometimes when more physical samples are needed. it would be a sensing more than actually seeing the movement in the face. Do not ever underestimate that your coming here has not assisted. Each and every one of you have your own gift and we thank and honor you for those gifts. Q: Would that have a tremendous quality of sweetness to it. Other Zeta Forms Q: Apart from the physical form that you maintain. And we thank you for being a part of our gift that we give to you. Q: Do you ever express any countenance other than what we might call deadpan. Now that may be inaccurate . that can be seen as a light form? And do you use that form to help us trigger some of these genetic memories whose time it is to come forward? Can you project that in various wavelengths or colors through the use of sound? Could it be detected and interacted with? Yes. We cannot deal with it from an emotional base. But we thank all of you as individuals and as a group and as a planetary society for the roles that you have played in your planetary evolution. do you project something that is not as dense in its reality. We interact with you on every level we can. We are not capable of a smile as an individual. and your consciousness will translate our energy into a shape that will tell you the identity of the energy that you are sensing. Some of you will sense our energy.of understanding emotions is by first understanding biochemically. That is also something of primary interest to us.but right now that is the only way we know how to do it. we can enter your reality in a light state. At this time we will honor the vehicle and depart. When we were speaking of our ritual of the One. certainly. Sometimes when we are working only with etheric DNA triggering. Q: Would it be a sensitivity or a connectedness that would come from the energy that you have? Yes. it is the only form that we could say approximates a sexual exchange in our reality. Our love to you and goodnight. or without emotion? Are you capable of what we would call a smile or would that be too emotional in nature? We would have to explain something. we must densify ourselves. and soaring to heights of ecstasy of the One. You would not necessarily see it as a smiling. It is basically standing in a circle with others and holding hands or joining energies. We are capable of joy or ecstasy as a group. We are also interested in the physical methods of touching that you use not only in sexual acts but in acts of affection and maternal and paternal demonstrations to your offspring. .

All Rights Reserved. your jacuzzis) is becoming very important. The more . Also. That will be fruits and vegetables. This means that water will become perhaps more important to you than it ever has. You are 90 some-odd percent water. So our suggestion then would be that you drink as much water as you can. We have been talking about some of the physical changes that your bodies are going through and will go through as your vibrations accelerate. What kind of physical changes can you expect? What can you do to help facilitate the process in a much more easy way? Well. allow yourself to feel fluid. So. Germane through Lyssa Royal. so the electrical current is always running through your body. but the submersion in it (whether it be your baths. Remember to eat foods that have a high water content. We would recommend distilled or purified. the primary change is in the electrical system of the body. Not just the ingesting of it. Also. the voltage is going to be upped. but anytime you're feeling fatigued or raw emotionally. imagine yourself as being a river. whatever your choice is. The electrical field of your body is literally the energy that translates spirit to matter. This is rather abstract. plan accordingly. a current. the presence of water. Tools for the coming Changes Category: Channeled. either in your auric field or in your sacred space (your home) is essential. preferably water than is not from the tap but purified or reverse osmosis. but you will know what is right for you. Let us first address the physical level. your showers.Copyright © 1992 by Royal Priest Research. Now. The human electrical system is one that you don't necessarily consciously know is operating all of the time.

Many of you already are on programs of detoxification. If you are a normal person with a normal television and a normal microwave. and you can feel the environment of that water. Your planet is also going to be doing what it needs to do to get the water that it needs. if it does any at all. You may also sit by a lake. and these can be put over your CRT screen and they can significantly reduce the amount of radiation you are exposed to. The radiation is not going to damage you. if you're living under major power lines. so that it feels like a peaceful place to you. Toxins can be seen as electrical interference. it's not going to do enough damage that you would even notice it. but it can slow the detoxification and healing process if you spend a lot of time in front of the computer every day. Many of the fourth-density planets have very large amounts of water. very helpful for you. If you want to put crystals in your bath. Actually. put your feet in the water. The water will clear out the electromagnetic field. you see these on your laptops. You can get one of those fishtanks. is to keep water close to you if you can. that's perfectly fine. The body is going to respond well to this water in your presence and continue the process of cleaning itself out and boosting the voltage of the electrical field. it's all connected. it's up to you. If you use a computer a lot. fill it with water and pretty stones and crystals and whatever you want to put in there. because nothing will happen to you if you don't do it). If you can't do that. or very specific types of strict diets. There are foundational qualities of 3D that are going to be transformed into 4D as you become clear. that incorporates water. for instance. You are symbiotic. You may even want to get some fish. the more you're going to facilitate the electrical changes that your body and the planet are going through. Even though it looks like you all are creating this horrible hole in the ozone layer. That's one idea. When you bathe or shower. it's going to be a tremendous boost to your body and to your electrical system because there will be less interference. Use your imagination! You may also use the sound of water. So. The closer that you can get to the water when you feel you need recharging will be very. since your sense of hearing will trigger you in the same way. or fill your bathtub. There is some jewelry. Your planet is also a consciousness of which you are a part. So. If you feel attracted to that. can significantly slow . (No need to get neurotic about this. your planet is somewhat unique to have so much water in a third-density reality. You're clearing out the toxins of the third density. And you reflect each other in your own transformations. Showering and bathing is also a wonderful way to get your daily dose of water. We cannot tell you how much this will benefit you. Put it next to your bed or put it somewhere in your home where you can look at it. whether it's colonics or juicing or fasting. you are in reality assisting the planet to melt the icecaps to get the water it needs. wear some of it. it helps to release emotional toxins which will then help to keep you clear. there are several options available to you. The water will then be in your auric field. We have often been asked if electrical appliances are harmful to human beings. Several of these ideas are ideal if you live in an urban environment. You may want to create in your apartment a small water environment. we guarantee you. You could get a computer that has a liquid crystal display screen. Approximately four hours at one sitting at the computer (without getting up).you can imagine yourself fluidly moving like water. that might be a little bit much in terms of energy. Along with water comes detoxification. It's very beneficial to you to go through some type of detoxification program (whatever one works for you). again. LCD screen. Another suggestion (other than ingestation). Now. But in the long run. of course. It will be a conversation piece as well. That's an optimum situation. on the market there are radiation screens. your planet also recognizes its need for water.

then you cannot subscribe to the idea of something outside of you affecting you. If you truly believe in the idea that you create your reality and no one can be a victim. that is for others to answer. no computer creates that. And so this is about processing belief systems. If you really don't believe that you create your reality and you believe you can be a victim. As soon as that is recognized and owned. Each entity and each channel has their own belief system through which information comes. because it makes you think. From our point of view. and that's very important to stress. Category: Healing. Your self-responsibility will set you free! Sacred Sexuality. . then absolutely anything can hurt you. It is not our understanding that you will ever. ever be affected by anything outside of you unless you hold a belief system that it can and that you can be victimized. information to be added to your storehouse. We have gotten questions from many people also about the teachings of other channels and health practioners. Information that is fearful and negative allows you to process your own fears. you are faced with an opportunity to think about what you really want to believe in. It's got to be one or the other. where you are the only creator of your reality. Look at the different things that you have learned in your growth. information to make you think. Many say to throw your TVs. we do have to state here that we are talking in generalities and that all of this is dependent on your belief system. Now. and no more sinister plots. and the ultimate voice is your own belief system. Information that we bring through is not channeled so you will believe us. then you can live under a power line and sleep with your computer. when this type of fearful information is given. instead of listening to an outside source without checking it with your own self. these are guidelines. but so you will take what is given and learn to grow from it by discovering your own truth. And certainly no evil government with a sinister plot! The power is within you.your own healing abilities. If you truly (on all levels of your being) believe that nothing outside of you can effect your health. as to why that fearful and limiting information is said. This is about learning sovereignty. So. and it's certainly not going to do anything. We have always said that information is meant to be taken as information only. Now. computers and microwave ovens away. But what we can say is that it is valuable that it be said. No television. there will be no more victims.

pleasure. otherwise rarely known in human existence. It inundates your entire being. (Ultimately.The Path With No Obstacles . through no other human activity. authoritarian male-dominant strategy for handling the emotions. People get carried away. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to. and realization becomes spiritual liberation itself. It turns out there's nothing unspiritual about pleasure. and be consumed in ecstatic union with the beloved and the Universe. and generally disavow as best we could any feelings below the waistline. Freud said that empires were built on the resulting sublimated energy. The ultimate consummation of physical love-making is complete transcendental Union.beyond. the world's greatest aphrodisiac is selflessness. climaxes as a shared soul-merging experience of Eternity. and a gift of Enlightenment. The passions are so overwhelmingly powerful that religions have been warning you away from them since the dark ages. transformation and transpersonal realization so prevalent and powerful as in conjugal lovemaking. the Western Judeo-Christian. the Yogin gains his eternal salvation. and it's good for your health.to unimagined heights of ecstasy.Tantra For a thousand years. ironically. they enslave us and we enslave others. and our most basic instincts. The heightened intensity of the sexual experience soon persuades us that it is the most important one in the world. whether they know it or not.By the same acts that cause some men to burn in hell for thousands of years. This is what the west has come to refer to as Tantric love. What begins as duality and polarization within time. On the direct path of conscious awareness . When we can't handle our attachments. Yet. How to achieve such divine deliverance through one of the most common "animalistic" functions we perform is the secret known to enlightened lovers as the direct path of Love. We may think we are content giving and taking personal gratification. thought. It delivers you . Spiritual merging in love is the elusive prize that everyone seeks when they lay down with another. save dying. No one is better than the Bodhisattva in bed. It transcends the trap of the ego-self: In effect.sexual union naturally also means the union of the continuing practice and its realization.) The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It bestows upon the lovers the experience of a spectacular breakthrough to the Infinite . People use each other for lust. tantra means more than embracing your physicality: all action. yet all the while the heart seeks nothing less than to lose itself absolutely in love. It is instructive to ask just how we ever came to feel so bad about even thinking about feeling good. The point of giving her sexual pleasure is to awaken the bliss that she will then . the body. was to keep them well in check. . but concurrent with our everyday existence.body and soul . Lust is only a call to love. but the game is over. is the opportunity for ego-loss. A transformation occurs which evolves from desire and passion to a level of total and perfect bliss. and begin to believe that the next great orgasm is the only important thing in life. The most extreme instance is called rape. and many have yet to answer it.

D." Certain religions contend that sex must be solely for insemination and procreation.we find ourselves indulging in what is. We might even say that repression of this primal biological imperative creates rapists and pedophiles.this most universally accessible mystical experience of orgasm is debased into something dishonorable and dirty. money. state of mind. one should certainly refrain from using one's hands (not to mention lips and tongue). breathing exercises.combine with meditation on emptiness in order to attain enlightenment. Sufi and tantric couples practices. They fear one and fake the other. Respect for that very danger should make us take care as we take pleasure. mystical rituals. or fame). even as we realize what a guilded cage it could very well become. candlelight. or it is devil-worship. invocations. and conditioning. not deny it. music. Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism . and get it over with as quickly as possible. and the total fulfillment of your partner. Copulation as high communion? Is there any better way? SEXUAL SPIRITUALITY Many in today's generation are beginning to re-learn the sacred approach to lovemaking. Sex can drive you either towards or away from Enlightenment. A truly relevant and realistic religion would teach us how to consecrate our sexuality. Of course men and women compromise their morality and good judgment all the time for sex (although probably no more than for love. innate sexuality. after all. Such careful preparations tend to quiet the neurotic mind and increase sensitivity and sensuality. Why is the divine gift of lovemaking so often little more than a desperate groping for glandular stimulation in dark rooms. We need to unlearn our guilt about wanting sex. by harnessing your own desire to the happiness. depending upon one's intent. Obviously the Good Lord made this procreational pleasure-drive far more powerful than most individual's (and any church's) power to control. accompanied by feelings of hunger and shame? Ironically. It calls for constancy and commitment to the ultimate goal of Enlightenment. Let us celebrate and make sacred our natural. rituals. Meditation. and post-sexual-revolution "high monogamy.(Princeton University Press) SURRENDER The paradox of sex is that the same act can both liberate and imprison.Miranda Shaw. incense. while at the same time engendering the proper reverence. Shame is taught by "authorities" who can embrace neither their animal nor their spiritual nature. when . Ph. and call this "correct. power. the single most compelling human urge after breathing and eating. as in indigenous tribal customs. The essence of this conscious sex approach is to transform the very energy of your appetite for personal pleasure into one of cosmic realization. . and all too often .despite heroic efforts to curb our "lower appetites" .when people use each other uncaringly . and potent libations have been used to create a special environment and mind-state in which to sanctify sexual union. how can we transform the trap of addictive physical appetite to the ecstatic realization of Divine Union? It all depends on your true and underlying purpose. By that logic." Cultures much older than ours have evolved ways for seekers to include their physical bodies within the context of spiritual practice and the enlightened life. But the inherent dangers are hardly reason to avoid the experience. the thrill. But anti-sex admonitions in turn only give rise to guilt. The great enigma is. ceremonial objects. .

Worship each other's pure essence as Goddess and God. and the climax is an exquisite release of the body. long and deep. Listen for Inner Guidance. EXQUISITE LOVE To lose the self in love. Use all senses Read your beloved's mind/body. the heart and the soul in a spectacular shared revelation of the Universal Self. In slow motion abandonment of time itself. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Consecrate the setting. stay in love. The after-glow of such a cosmic physical union endures for days. The experience is healing and unifying in every way. Begin motionless and in silence. letting hers become yours. unconditionally. Trust your body's deepest impulses. ours. the animal/emotional/spiritual crescendo of love lasts forever. from passion to compassion. all purifying. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Surrender continuously. Dedicate the experience to your highest purpose. confused. all fulfilling. Die as a personality. Transcendent love is a religious experience. Giving and taking merge. by making her (or his) ecstasy your own. Decelerate until time stands still. look always to the beginning and keep to the beginning. The transformation from ordinary mechanical. Make love with your whole being.Thus you achieve Unity through duality. Transpose taking and giving. Fall in love. . and it all conveys tremendous meaning and potency. and time stands still. Invoke the Goddesses of Love. Everything matters. HOW TO MAKE ENLIGHTENED LOVE. all consuming. Every touch is The First. Abandon all gain and control. weeks. Worship your lover. engaging all your faculties. Foreplay is truly playful. Touch only in awe. animal to divine. You notice everything. Meditate. The pleasure is immediately and continuously perfect. Move in slow motion.. the passion intense and profound. Make it Holy. die into love. Gaze into each other's eyes. whom you worship in awe. Be born as pure Love in the Universe. Reside always at the beginning. guilt-ridden sex to the profound gift of natural/spiritual lovemaking depends upon a broadening of one's focus from the genitals to the heart. Your partner becomes a Goddess or God. Give only pleasure and love. breathtakingly tender. with reverence. and you two become One. Opening all your centers. Time itself disappears and the Holy Universe becomes self-evident. Breathe together. Wait for the perfect moment. Spiritualized sex opens you at all centers at once. Purify yourself in body and mind. to the sacred fire within. Give voice to your feelings.

" by Lonny J.D.From "Enlightenment in Our Time. . Brown. Ph.

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