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AZ PUA Bootcamp - All Assignments (1/2) >>> mimicker: EDIT: I will be posting all the assignments in this one thread, so scroll down to see your next assignment. Good luck. ASSIGNMENT #1 ± Getting Rid of Approach Anxiety This week we will focus on simply approaching. You will have to do 36 approaches this week. It does not have to be solid game ± you can approach and then immediately eject if you want. All we are trying to do this week is get comfortable approaching, and destroy all hesitation of approach. You will be required to do three different types of approaches: indirect, neutral, and direct. You will do each of these types of openers 12 times. For indirect opener: I want you to use an opinion opener. An opinion opener is where you ask a girl's opinion on something, and have a story behind why you're asking their opinion on it. Usually, with an opinion opener your opening line is "Hey (guys), I need a -female- opinion on something..." then you immediately into your question. Or omit the "female" part if it is a set of guys and girls, and just say "Hey guys, I need an opinion on something." I want you to make up your own question and story though. No "who lies more?", "do girls think the rockstar david bowie is hot?", Style's two-part kiss opener, or any other community opinion opener. Come up with a story and some type of opinion you could get from it. You should ACTUALLY CARE about their opinion too, pick something you're honestly curious about. I¶m sure you can find one story from your life (or your friend's life) that you could base an opinion opener on. If you want help developing one, post what you got and we¶ll give you feedback on it. For neutral opener: I want you to use a complement opener or a situational opener. A complement opener is where you go up to a woman, and complement them on some article of clothing, accessory, make-up, or whatever. It isn't a
sets with both guys and girls. Extra Challenge for Advanced Guys: If you care to take on an extra challenge this week.are you friendly?" and then starting into deep and wide rapport. For direct opener: I want you to use this opener that Desperado described on Badboy¶s forum.beautiful. A situational opener is where you comment on something in the environment. But I have never approached in: convenience stores (7/11 and such)... It helps if the situational comment is funny. this is your mission: Find a venue in which you have never approached before and do some of your 36 approaches there. street. extra large sets with 7+ people in them.. I would suggest trying out this opener after you have gotten comfortable using the other ones. that is more of a direct opener.they'll love it. Some examples include: moving sets. mom/daughter sets.so beautiful" (delivered slowly and deliberately using eyebrows and voice to emphasise your words) "tell me..... I have approached in: clubs... ^---.. It's slow. perform these openers 36 times. and get HORRIBLE reactions. WHO CARES? Just get out there. Anyway.what kind of person are you?...."I think you look.. you have still succeeded because you did what you set out to do. mall.. if you suck at these openers. outside of clubs.make DEEP EC for a couple of seconds . They'll smile. . giggle. Quote Direct Opener . boyfriend/girlfriend sets. or festivals/carnival etc etc etc.. Even if you go out. 99% of chicks are going to experience butterflies in their stomach and a headrush from this kind of opener. Another challenge is to find sets that you have never approached before for whatever reason.... and go from there.turn a girl to face you ..then while looking eye to eye say. if you want to replace the word beautiful with "adorable" or "cute" or whatever. restaurants.. deliberate. standing sets... go ahead.complement on her physical beauty though.. grocery stores. schools. department stores (like Target). dad/daughter sets..a gentle smile. seated sets.. emotionally intense and very alpha..for the above.. deliver your opener. as you will need to be somewhat ³smooth´ for this one.
. For example. but it doesn't have to be. coffee shops.
Ideas Collection of ASF Openers (Rocker44) A fun collection of tons of ASF openers. Let's get started.. Moving on to the nitty gritty. Mostly opinion openers.) Mojo: For guys who need some extra inspiration.unless you're into that sort of thing. plus some other stuff. Opening Theory (Mojo) This post explains how to use Juggler's 90/10 rule with your opener to draw the woman into a conversation.. Inspiration State .Seduction Frames (Mojo) Not to toot my own horn. Rooting: The problem with the Who Lies More Opener (Style) This post explains a small but crucial distinction to take into consideration when using indirect openers. but you might find this post useful. What I do for fun (Mystery) Approaching women and playing the game should be FUN. This post explains how to make it that way. that breaks down really well the belief system of an approach machine. For a better explanation of this. The ideas in the above post were developed by me over a period of 4 months. But these could serve as inspiration. during which I was finally leaving behind the last vestiges of my KJism and approach anxiety. Also has some considerations about false time constraints to think about. I¶m going to quote Woodhaven in
. I'm going to be replying to Mimicker's assignments each week with links to posts that address that week's bootcamp. Neutral Entertaining Openers (SteviePUA) This post breaks down the structure of indirect situational openers really well. Useful Question for Devilhimself (Style) This is a short little post. Remember that for the bootcamp you are going to need to come up with and use a UNIQUE opener.old sets with grandma¶s in them (though I wouldn't recommend going direct on the grandma sets . and moving towards becoming an approach monster. mimicker: ASSIGNMENT #2 ± Surface Attraction This week we will concentrate on building surface or temporary attraction.
Some other good examples are David Bowie. This week we¶ll work on C&F. Mini Cold-reads. if you move toward someone. and the Elastic Snapband Effect. Attraction is created by the multitudes of techniques and methods that are studied here on mASF. Surface attraction created by mASF techniques is easily dissipated when a girl removes herself from the stimulus. It is temporary and superficial. Busting. dominant frames.one of his posts: Quote from: "Woodhaven" Attraction is highly coupled to validation. Using this sort of an opener will give you reactions to play off of. It is an automatic emotional response which symbolizes chasing. Anything that removes a person's validation in a fun and playful way creates attraction toward you. Metaphorically speaking.etc.) Here is your assignment: Go out and use an opinion opener that has a strong RESPONSE BIAS. you get some people saying "hell no" and some people saying "fuck yeah. Surface attraction is anything which does not give physical pleasure. hoops.. but before
." The archetype of this kind of opener is Who Lies More. (Thus this assignment we'll be using indirect game and opinion openers . they feel attracted to you. Jealous GF. Attraction is felt physically in the body as a force propelling you to that which you are attracted. If you move away from them. People have a tendency to resist attraction. Negs. Actions which resemble chasing also create attraction. however it is what leads to the deeper pleasure based attraction. Once you've run the opening question. Remember that all of the attraction caused by verbal techniques is just surface attraction. push-pull. The fun and playfulness is there because that is what sucks them into and assists them in accepting the dominant or imaginary frame you have created with the technique. Dental Floss. and they feel validated. while you feel validated. c+f. What I mean by this is that when you run the opener on a group. Conversely.sry to any of the direct guys. They are aware of the irrational emotional response created by attraction and attempt to shut it off as quickly as possible. The very act of chasing something makes you more attracted to it. you feel attracted to them..
mimicker: ASSIGNMENT #3 . and more. and pursue the threads from that. playful way (er. smacking her on the ass after she makes some C&F remark. ala project mayhem by TD. poking her. before the invisible threads from the story start to die out. we will go KINO IMMEDIATELY before uttering so much as one word. two times (so a total of eight sets for the week).Playful Kino This week we will be focusing on playful kino. this one is trouble -We are not going to get along -I have to watch out for this one (to group) Don't leave me alone with her Either way. that's for later in the bedroom! .you go into the post-opener story.php?t=205 -A C&F roleplay For examples: http://arizonapua. thumb wrestling.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=448 Do each of the above. Don't HURT the girls though. sry I couldn't think of a better definition..com/phpBB2/viewtopic. playfully hitting her.) Your first mission this week will be do to playful kino openers.php?t=1249 -Elastic Snapband Stuff For examples: http://arizonapua. stack into any one of a couple things: Busting on Mannerisms For examples: http://arizonapua.com/phpBB2/viewtopic. I can tell already Or you can disagree with the target: -Oh man. You can agree with the target: -I can hang with you -You are my new best friend we're going to get along. snapping her bra. if you got a better one let me know). Examples of playful kino include: tickling a girl. However. playing "hot hands". What is playful kino? It's touching women in a fun. play off of the target's response with some sort of CF push-pull. Here's the post that describes that: Quote from: "TylerDurden" We will go up to all attractive HBs on SIGHT. and rather than chatting them.com/phpBB2/viewtopic. Then tell your post opener story.. wrestling. We can probably NOT start touching their arms
. just so long as you are playing off the target's reaction to start up the flirting/sexual communication.php?t=1253 -A Mini-cold Read For examples: http://arizonapua.
as it is easier to talk about than actually do in a non-bar sober environment. and go up to HBs and -lightly. albeit taking the chance of getting arrested/charged. Add them to when you are busting on the girl (or wherever else you see fit.hip check them. and they must see you giving them EC and a PLAYFUL non-threatening (smile/tilthead/openbodylanguage) look as you physically approach. Rather. We will do this with a VERY playful look. bop them on the head with smartie packs in line at the grocery store. however. If I get these.and lightly . Here's a few you can do to "accentuate"
. I may even grab the wrists and kiss the next girl who gives me SERIOUS BLATANT IOIs. we will play like school yard kids. IMO.push our shopping carts into them in the isles etc. and it is very likely that it will happen. Props to anyone willing to do this. not recommended for newbies. here's the post "C&F Accentuators" by CraigSD: Quote from: "CraigSD" After seeing David D's napkin swat.. unless anyone is INCLINED which would make for good feedback. unless you are SHARP on reading IOIs. I WILL lead by example and be attempting immediate sexual KINO this week. It's little things like this that separate the naturals from the wannabe's. I realized just how many C & F Accentuators (is that a word?) I use. like STANDARDS KINO. you will also add playful kino to your regular approaches.) The format for this type of thing is usually: -busting -playful kino -busting For more examples of playful kino.. -Record their reactions and your EXACT method of KINO. although you are perhaps stupid. though I may lose my balls to do this. if this is to work (IE: don't run up to a chick from behind and bodyslam her OK bros) I am not suggesting walking up to HBs and touching them in immediately sexual ways.. This is.YOUR MISSION: -Go out Immediately go kino on all HBs (try not to let a previously sarged HB see you doing this to the next HB) -Play like you did on the schoolyard. pretend to . and have fun with these girls. and are getting MAJOR EC/sidelong glances.etc. In addition to playful kino OPENERS. and POST on this or whatever thread is spawned from this. --TO RECAP .
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Disclaimer: The content of this site is provided for purely educational purposes. So to recap. and risk of the reader. "The next one's gonna be on your ass. Bite her neck. and use playful kino in your usual approaches at least four times.com. and say. Poke her in the stomach a la Pillsbury dough boy. so have some freakin' fun and smack some ass for me :) =SkyNet=: where is asigment 4 ? gah .
visit our sponsor: www. Can you hang out with her?) "Where do you shop?" (Is she high maintenance? or does she survive off bargain bins?) "how much do you like to spend per week?" (How much money does she get. You need to know this as a baseline position when you screen.. Anyway. We may go back to that stuff later. you need to know what kind of things you want in a chick before you do anything.ASKJDOG. looks hot) * Is intelligent (has the ability to learn new things) * Has hobbies (so she doesn't annoy me) * Has a good job (and therefore has money) * Is generally satisfied with her life (so I don't have to be therapist) * Has money (so she doesn't try to manipulate me for any) * Is good in bed (obvious) Now.All Assignments <<< (2/2) mimicker: ASSIGNMENT #4 .VIDEO Exclusive!
AZ PUA Bootcamp ." I'm pretty lazy this week and I'm not an expert on screening. this week we will move from attraction into qualifying. Here are my general traits:. so I'm gonna let Neo-Rio take over from here. and we will start with "screening..com from VH1's The Pickup Artist .e. one night stands?) "Can you cook?" (Can she cook for you?) "Do you like to party?" (Is she a social person? or will she be a wallflower at a party.. but I'm going to move ahead in time a little bit. how likely she will cling to you when you want to leave her) "Do you like going out to
. I tacked on some comments to show why I would ask those questions:"Are you the adventurous type?" (Is she open to sex.. here are some good screening question I got from somewhere.Screening I believe originally this week was supposed to be devoted IVD's and storytelling. how rich is she) "Do you have any hobbies that take up a lot of your time?" (Does she have something to do when you don't want to fuck her) "Do you worry about what other people think of you?" (How insecure is she.* Looks after herself well (i. Quote from: "NeoRio" First.
and of course.. "Things you don't want to hear". One being "Things you want to hear".Say you ask her what job she has. Poor job satisfaction means that she's more likely to be a golddigger) "Have you ever fallen in love? Still open for it?" (How naieve/jaded she is) .* They do the same kinds of shit-tests to men * It catches them unprepared to answer correctly * You are prizing yourself * You are hinting that a relationship is on offer. and you find out that she is. the bad. It's just as well because I find intelligence particularly attractive in women" When women pass tests.. they are either going to fall into one of three categories. say. Pay attention that the manner in which you respond should be congruent with what you are looking for in a woman and more importantly CONVEY THAT YOU ARE SIZING HER UP BASED OFF OF IT. the stuff you want to hear:. a chemical engineer that she does well for herself financially. They have set themselves down a path for their
. A case of the good. even gold-digging bitches.. when you hear the answers. This is where push&pull really work well IMHO. but they will start BEGINNING TO ACT the way you suggested with you from now on. many-many-more (tm) Now. and the ugly. or relationships?) "Do you consider yourself a romantic?" (Is romance the key to her panties? or just dirty caveman sex) "Do you like animals?" (Is she an animal freak who lives with nine cats and avoids human beings?) "Do you feel that you get enough attention from people?" (Does she have high self-esteem? Can she find other guys easily?) "Do you think you work hard enough?" (What's her job satisfaction like. can't resist having. Then you would say something like "WOW! A chemical engineer! You must be pretty intelligent. they need the encouragement that they have passed one. Women fall in love quickly like this because:. Not only that. First. which is something.restaurants a lot?" (Does she get out and do things? Or does she stay home and sleep all day) "What's the longest amount of time you have kept a partner for?" (Is she into one night stands. and "Things which are obvious bullshit".
The trick here is to remember your baseline requirements in a woman and stick to them. and on women who are generally too gutless to face reality with any courage). This is ALSO where C&F behaviour works INCREDIBLY well. C&F works (IMHO) when you jokingly point out that a woman is failing your screening test. Then you have to show her ways she can go about fixing these problems. If you say something like "No cooking ability? Right! Then it's OVER between us!" without the C&F and exaggeration. then you will BOMB.. more on this later. Screening them out of any kind of connection with you for perfectly practical and reasonable things will KICK THEM INTO ACTION to fix the situation. and not put up with problems women have. A line like this on a chick with no sense of humour will also bomb. and you could be so perfect for me if you had a better
. then you can say "I know you have a lot of potential. and NOT GET PUT OFF BY HER BEAUTY OR WHATEVER... because you will meet MANY MANY women which are "damaged" in some way. BUT you suck at this". Note that you CAN'T do "You are wonderful blah blah blah.. (at least in Japan many women are like this. Comes off less sincere. the stuff you DON'T want to hear:.and you would be so much more perfect for me if you could just do X".behaviour around you. Note that C&F generally won't work on women with no sense of humour. use AND.. This way is more romantic.. Instead of using BUT. or are not perfect but you will want to bonk them anyway. When C&F is failing. but with a woman with a sense of humour it will be DAMN FUNNY! Use C&F with care. (This method generally works better in Japan. Now.. Lots of women seem to be programmed from birth to attempt to attract ALL men at ALL COSTS.... First you need to start of by focussing on the good things. Say she has a crappy job.This is particularly tricky. then you need to have a more nurturing role to fix a chick's issues and get them up to speed. and who are too sensitive. ONLY if you ENCOURAGE them to do so. Slowly slip in ".) so in these cases you will need to be more nurturing to fix the problem..
Some will be obvious bullshitters. and you would be so much better if you just act yourself and stop lying to me like this. Even if she's lied to you at this point. you can't fuck her if you fail her on the screen. what happens when she tells you bullshit:. You will catch many bad things out in screening which should ring alarm bells.job. as per above. You won't get to fuck EVERY woman you meet though. All her problems can be solved (they have to be).. You need to take what you have and work on it. When you find bad stuff. you're a great girl.. Remember. They'll tell you everything you want to hear and lie about it.. The fun comes when you go for the close after 20 minutes of screening a chick. Let me show you how. She is going to have to act congruent with what she tells you. cause otherwise she has to know that she risks losing you. DON'T waste time on one woman when you've already sized her up. she's going to think that she's somehow seduced you when it's really YOU doing the seducing.First. you HAVE to fix it and move on. You can also blatantly tell her that since you are a good couple (you forced her to pass your screening) then its natural and no big deal. and IF things are going well between both of you.. you can say "Look. Moving in for the close after about 20-30 minutes of knowing a chick is good practice. and isolations. Obvious bullshit is screenable. then understand that she is throwing her power away already. and you have to sell that to her. obvious or not. teach her something (build value in yourself).. you will also note that screening is not about getting hooked up on one woman. I'm going to get to know the real you anyway" In one swift move you are in a position to drop her value. then you have to take the moment into your hands. This actually gives you power to call her out on all sorts of stuff. Tipping control back into your favour. Screening is about getting hooked up
. Then she'll be hooked. if she is telling bullshit. or if she thinks she failed. Now." If she is shit testing you. At this point you can basically start with screening of a sexual nature. and you'll be a great guy. Also understand that cock teasers are great in the bullshit department..
and one story about an interesting drama/social dynamic that is going on within your social circle recently. Assignment #5 . to give people a reason to listen -little waypoints of humor and drama throughout the story. pay attention not only to the words. please read this post: Instant Interactive Value Demonstrations IVDs typically take a bit more work to
. For an explanation of IVDs and demonstrating value. A large part of why story telling works is in HOW you tell the story. So as you take this stuff out into the field. through telling stories. This is attraction material.with a select number of women. in order to make them into semi-polished routines you can take out into the field with you. Onward. please read these posts: first post second post third post To listen to the final. as you're listening. Here is this weeks assignment. you will need to select two true stories from your own life to tell. pay attention to Wilder's tonality and pacing. to keep people engaged and fascinated -subtle allusions to the reasons why you're cool some sort of conclusion/moral/punchline For an example of how this process was used to tighten up a story.Storytelling and IVDs This week we are going to work on conveying value.. but to how you're saying them as well. and through interactive demonstrations of higher value (IVDs). Once you've selected your stories. Make sure that it has: an initial hook. I suggest you pick one story about something fun/cool that you did recently. good luck. tight version of this routine (audio). and meeting a hell of a lot more. click this link: Gay Cats Story. Skynet and I will be taking over the BC assignments until he returns. So make up some of your own questions for screening (or use his) and go out and use them.and it works to create attraction that is a bit more "sticky" than the buyingtemperature stuff we have worked on in previous weeks.mp3 Also. Mojo: Mimicker is going to be out for a month or so.. For the storytelling component of this assignment. take a minute to read this post: Wilder's Story Theory And then run your stories through the process that Wilder outlines.
As you use the material in the field. with groups of any size. find an IVD that you can use in all situations." and go right into your story. Tip:One of the sticking points that I and a lot of other people ran into with learning this skillset is discomfort in stacking. I was chatting to my friend today and. and stack in an IVD in at least four of these sets as well." To avoid this sticking point. Sure. Doing this sort of thing is how you start to build yourself a "routine stack. you will learn why it works and will start to come up with some of your own ideas.
. for exactly this reason. Tip:Final tip. and play around with how you sequence the stories with the other material you've learned. and with girls who are already exhibiting the behavior that the routine busts on.come up with. realize that you don't need transitions. What seems to work best? Do you want to stack your flirting/CF stuff around the stories. I promise :) As you are out practicing this material.. If you still have trouble with this. and it still flows. and it will. The assignment for the week is eight sets. try watching a few standup comedians on DVD. Tip:I would recommend NOT selecting the best friends test as the IVD you use. You can simply say. Tell your stories 4 times each. Instead. The key to making this work is simply acting like it is natural. or does it work better only as a response to the girl's BS? When is the best time to insert your qualifying questions? Ask yourself this stuff as you are practicing. So to keep things simple.. but make sure you are keeping your options open and flexible. Assume that it works. take some time to pay attention to your sequencing and stacking. It is a good routine. but it is best suited to use in a twoset. When I started out I used the Cs vs Us many many times.. You will often see people post "I don't know how to transition into that story. out of the blue." which is a very useful tool for the student. you can have the BF test teed up in case you do sarge a twoset. "hey. check this out. your assignment to start off with is to select one of the canned community IVDs and take that out into the field with you. You will see that they sometimes don't have any transition between their routines at all.
and building more solid closes through bridging and venuechanging. If you've been practicing the tools so far. you may not be experiencing the success you want yet. This is all you really need to get basic number closes. you have all the tools you need to get somewhere with women. is to print out the above checklist and take it into the field with you for a week. One caveat though. In the near future. we have covered a range of attraction "tools. you will see errors you are making and correct them quickly. and see how the responses you are getting change. review quickly and check off the errors you made. and calibrating to the target based on her body language. We will focus on two aspects: tightening up our own body langauge to make sure its not subcommunicating the wrong things. After each set. Try: Sheriff's Subcommunication Checklist My suggestion.Body Language This week we shift priorities in bootcamp. But as of right now. This aspect of the game didn't really click for me until I
. This week. written up the definitive post on body language. The above is focused largely on MISTAKES. correct them. So for the next several weeks. it is probably because some aspect of your subcommunication is flawed. Your Body Language Tyler Durden has. we will begin to add some artistry to it. pay attention to your BL and see if you are making any of the mistakes that TD points out in his post.Mojo: Assignment #6 . Please read: TD's 25 point checklist As you go out this week and run your sets. we are going to focus on tightening up what we've already learned. If you are. IMO. We will work on comfort and kino escalation. Getting immediate feedback like this. and only getting lukewarm responses. but they make a HUGE difference in the kind of responses you get. It might be helpful to use a checklist with this. even though its a bit dorky. our focus is on body language. However. So far. as well as tightening up various levels of subcommunication. The things we'll be working on in the next several weeks are subtle." as well as some simple qualifying techniques. It is hard to figure out what GOOD body language looks like without having a real world model.
If this isn't possible for you. and see if she leans toward
. So if you can. giving thoughtful. here are a couple. nonautopilot answers to what I'm saying) -is asking me personal questions? -is she touching me? If you want to play around with IOI tests (active IOIs). Try watching the movie Ocean's Eleven. If you can. active and passive. and if you count three of them.com . "Once you have counted three IOIs. Generally. I don't know where to find it now). based on the cues you are getting from her. she's laughing. For a long list of passive IOIs. leaning in. then you can look for other examples. as it used to be taught in the old days. try to find the . see: Layguide signs of interest list I don't try to remember all of this in the field. These can be fun to play with. phase shift into the close.puamedia. By paying attention to the IOIs the girl is giving you. you will start to look for IOIs. I am looking for only three IOIs: -is she engaged in the conversation? (ie. try to meet up with one of the skilled guys from the lair. -give her something to hold (a drink. but for now. you can get ideas to start off on the right path to learn how to calibrate." So this week.met up with JDog. Calibration is a skill that is almost entirely learnt through repeated field experience. asking the girl for a number or email is fine. you will know exactly what you need to do in that moment to advance the pickup. and see if she holds it or sets it down -lean out. you must close the girl. but we can start with a simple concept from the Mystery Method.wmv video of CraigSD's appearance on Elimidate (it used to be on bristollair. Knowing exactly what to do takes field experience. and watch Brad Pitt and George Clooney's BL. Active IOIs are the ones that you elicit by testing for them. You can try a fancy close like venuechanging or kissing. check out some of the videos on www. however. Her Body Language The second part of this week's assignment is learning to calibrate your game to the specific girl. Passive IOIs are the ones the girl gives off naturally. Also. You won't learn it through text. etc). There are two types of IOIs. The way to start learning calibration is through IOIs (Indicators of Interest).
. Keep running your material as you have before (remember to pay attention to your sequencing. here is a quote from Swinggcat's Real World Seduction ebook: Quote I have already mentioned frames several times. what exactly is going on here? The difference is that in the first example. "You are so beautifuI" and the girl rudely responds. Imagine a guy goes up to a girl in a bar and says. "buy me a drink" to which the guy chuckles and says. why this is the case? Or. He responds by saying.you -let the conversation die off. So. A "frame" is a general focus or direction that provides an overall guidance for thoughts and actions during an interaction. but are seeking a clear definition. take a few minutes to review the subcommunication checklist and see how you did. a meta-frame determines the overall underlying meaning of the interaction. Let's look at an example. On the other hand.now go buy me a drink".Frame Control This week we are going to work on building a strong frame. You might be wondering. AND POST YOUR RESULTS IN THE FORUM!!! Mojo: Assignment #7 . I would put some big money on the first guy not shagging the girI. the assignment for the week is 10 sets. And l am sure many of you have some idea of what l mean by "frame". think of the meta-frame as a giant frame which all of the other frames fit inside of.. etc. Now imagine another guy going up to a girl and chatting her up. Once the set is over. the second guy has a pretty good chance. and see if she takes it -run some kino IOI tests (see the second newsletter) So. what is different about these two examples? Or. by the
. anything you want sweetheart"." -offer her a sip of your drink/a bite of food/gum. Put in layman's terms a frame determines the underlying meaning of behaviours and actions. count IOIs and once you have three. "sure. For a description of what this means. "Yea yea. and see if she tries to reinitiate "sooo. shift the set to a close. As you are running the set. "Is that your best pick up line? You struck me as someone more creative than that". After a few minutes the girl says. However.. to work out the kinks in your routine stack).
etc. SS. since he is rewarding her rude behaviour. Through the community you can learn all sorts of little
. But even if she doesn't. that she is the PRIZE and that if he wants to talk to her he has to buy her a drink. and etc. meta-frames. So. So let's look at why the second guy has a much better chance of shagging the girI. Instead of doing this. Put in other words. he flips it around on her and maintains the belief that he is the PRIZE in the interaction. not necessarily the other way around. it is just objective reality. 2. the frames he has set both imply and fit inside her meta-frame: that she is the PRIZE. MM. be it direct. 3. Now she may or may not fall into his meta-frame. That he is trying to get her to stay and talk with him. Did you get that? This is very very important. when a woman says something rude to you and you buy into it being true.guy responding to the rude woman's request--for him to buy her a drink--he is allowing the following frames to be set: 1. This meta-frame is unlikely to lead to this guy getting laid. Unfortunately. The reason is that he is sticking to his guns and not falling into her meta-frame: namely. this is how he is allowing the underlying meanings of his behaviours and actions to be defined. A strong frame is a universally attractive trait to women. But none of this is objective reality. he is conveying the message that he is unwilling to buy into her metaframe. That he must be the one who is interested in her. and she buys into it. you are in her frame. But l am here to tell you that this is bullshit because underlying meanings and frames are not objective reality. she is in your frame. that he is trying to win her over. That he is a pushover. DYD. When you say something to a woman. It is just what a person accepts as their subjective reality. They only exist inside the skulls of human beings. and underlying meanings are not reaI. So this week's assignment is an important one to get down. Having a strong frame is the one thing that's common to all seduction methods that work. Put in other words. frames. Some of you might be thinking that this whole talk of frames is silly because a person cannot really change the underlying meaning of an interaction.
this not only helps you develop a stronger frame. Your assignment for the week is to fuck up your sets :) In the middle of a set.. but it also creates some funny push-pulls. and start to internalize the frame into your identity. As Style pointed out. AFC: I think I could really fall for you.lines and tricks to control the frame in an interaction. This is a learning process everyone must go through. And we've worked on some of this stuff already . and post your observations in your BC thread. and attract them to you. One of the best sources for this stuff is actually Swinggcat's Real World Seduction ebook. (If you do. Then attempt to recover the set from a PUA frame. Maybe not the best examples. if you really want to get this down. However. PUA: Its too bad you're mentally so disoriented. you become less reactive to this social pressure. As you go out into the field and attempt to pick up girls. This is what we are going to focus on this week. and start to build a strong reality for yourself. you are going to say or do something AFC. PUA: . No one is above it.. Just do it ten times.. Some examples: AFC: I want to take you out tomorrow. This strong reality will suck people in. but you get the general idea. be sure to post a FR. cause I know it will be HILARIOUS).. However. You can do it multiple times in a single set if you want. there are some things that you can do to accelerate it. you have to go beyond just spouting the lines. Have fun with it. The way you do this is through field experience.a lot of the CF stuff we did in week two works because it controls the frame of the interaction. if they are going to get good. You can also do it on the phone with a girl you already PUed. Your assignment for the week is to go out and do this ten times. PUA: . you are subjecting yourself to social pressure. Those have got to go.if it weren't for those shoes.but I'm worried that you might embarrass me in front of my friends.. or whatever. Navigation
. Can you tone down the dorkiness? AFC: You're really a sweet girl. With repeated exposure.
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