Chapter 14

How to Throw a Skinnygirl Party

ntertaining can be stressful. You have this great idea that you are going to have a party, then you realize you have to clean, coordinate, and cook everything. What were you thinking? I’ve organized many parties, and I can tell you that throwing a party does not have to be so daunting. You can make a big impression on your guests without killing yourself if you remember these four words: Don’t be a hero. When I throw party, I don’t stress about it because I buy the difficult items and make the easy ones. I have produced many large-scale events, and I know the secret to throwing a Skinnygirl party without letting it take over your whole week: Don’t make everything from scratch. The devil is in the details. There are so many things you can buy ahead of time that you can make into something special.



Finding the Good Stuff
If you know where to look, you can find good-quality hors d’oeuvres, themed appetizers, and inexpensive but clever ways to serve them. Trader Joe ’s has a great selection of premade hors d’oeuvres as so do many supermarkets. Your favorite restaurants may also prepare foods for your party. Consider good Chinese, sushi, Greek, Mexican, and Italian restaurants for party ideas and themes. Purchase decor and serving accessories at local restaurants (Chinese takeout containers, chopsticks) or at stores such as IkEA, Pier 1, or Target. Some supermarkets also stock inexpensive serving ware. Here are some ideas for purchased party food made special with a few personal touches:

• Buy frozen premade pigs in a blanket at the supermarket, with three fancy jarred mustards to dip them in. Try cranberry, wasabi, garlic, herb, horseradish, hot pepper, Dijon, whole grain, and honey flavors. Serve in ramekins. • Order brown rice sushi rolls from a Japanese restaurant and sprinkle each roll with black sesame seeds. Serve them on inexpensive black lacquer plates. • For a Greek theme, buy spanakopita, hummus, baba ghanoush, and baklava at a Greek restaurant or good supermarket then design your own platter of fresh and marinated vegetables. Sprinkle fresh herbs over everything. • Men love meat. Whenever I put out platters of dried meat like prosciutto, brasaola, and pepperoni with chunks of Parmesan and crusty bread, it draws the men like a magnet. No cooking required—set out the meat and they will come. • Buy Chinese dumplings, mini–egg rolls, and Chinese noodles from the supermarket or your favorite Chinese restaurant. Serve them in Chinese food takeout containers with chopsticks and add a big bowl of fortune cookies. Hang paper lanterns over the table.


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• Buy good flavored bread, then make flavored butters to match. Mix tapenade into softened butter and you’ve got olive butter or add pesto, hot sauce, or honey. (See Chapter 13 for more on flavored butters.) • Grilled pizza always impresses people. Just go to your favorite pizza place and ask for the pizza dough only. Heat up the grill, brown the underside of the pizza dough, then flip it over and top it with whatever you like. All-white cheese, grilled vegetables, and truffle oil is one of my favorite combinations. Or try leftover broccoli rabe, Parmesan, and pine nuts, and suddenly you’re a big hero. This is so easy to do. Serve the pizza on a wooden cutting board with a pizza slicer so that people can help themselves. At a barbecue, you could make small pizzas on the grill and hand them out to people while you are also grilling the main course. Sprinkle with fresh herbs just before serving. You could also set up a station like an omelet bar. People put the topping they want on a plate and you make the pizzas to order. • As I suggested in Chapter 13, buy five kinds of cheese. Make individual cheese labels and put each one on a wooden cutting board. Serve with assorted crackers and bread.

Sweet Party
don’t forget to serve something sweet, which always makes people happy. Here are some ideas:

• Hollow out fresh lemon halves, cut off the bottoms so that they are flat, arrange on a tray, and serve scoops of lemon sorbet in them. Or make them ahead and store them in egg cartons in the freezer. • As I suggested in Chapter 13, soften low-fat vanilla ice cream and sandwich the ice cream between two cookies (purchased or home baked using any cookie recipe in this book). Wrap the sandwiches in plastic and freeze. A bunch of these look great on a platter at a party. For a pricier but quicker version, use the Carvel mini–ice-cream cookie sandwiches or icecream cupcakes.

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• Cupcakes are more fun to eat than cake and are great for parties. Make them or buy them. Cupcake towers are easy to assemble and look impressive. You can buy inexpensive cardboard towers. I have a wrought iron cupcake tower from Bed, Bath and Beyond that I use a lot. I’ve also seen them on eBay. A cupcake tower provides a big “wow” factor.

Signature Cocktails
throwing a party isn’t all about the food. A lot of the charm of a great party is in the decor, music, lighting, and of course, cocktails. People love theme parties, especially when the cocktail matches the theme. My first rule for a memorable party is to create a signature cocktail (or two). Try any of the Skinnygirl cocktails in this book, or invent your own using the Skinnygirl Fixologist Formula (see Chapter 11) to get your guests into a party mood. Typically, your guests will be happy to participate in whatever you’ve set as your themed cocktail. Remember to have a fun nonalcoholic option for teetotalers, and always make a pitcher or two ahead of time so that you don’t spend your whole party playing bartender. Some people think those cocktail charms you hang on your glasses are cheesy, but I think they are cute and really do help people keep track of their drinks. I also like those humorous, off-color cocktail napkins. Why not give your guests something to talk (and laugh) about? Some great signature cocktails for theme parties could be:

For Winter:
• Serve mulled wine or apple cider for a winter holiday party. Gently heat the wine or cider on low heat in a pot on the stove with whole spices like cinnamon sticks, orange peel, and whole cloves. Strain and serve in mugs. • Serve kir Royales for New Year’s Eve: top glasses of champagne with splashes of crème de cassis.


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• Serve Skinnygirl Cosmos for Valentine’s Day. See the recipe on page 177, or buy the new bottled version—check www.skinnygirlcocktails.com for details.

For Spring:
• Serve Hurricanes for a Mardi Gras party. For a Skinnygirl version, put 2 ounces of rum over ice and add a splash of pineapple juice, a splash of orange liqueur (like Triple Sec), and a dash of grenadine. Fill the rest of the glass with club soda. Make them ahead of time in a pitcher (no ice) and chill. • Forget the green beer and serve Skinnygirl Mojitos for St. Patrick’s Day. See the recipe on page 173, or serve my new easy bottled version.

For Summer:
• On a hot summer day, serve Skinnygirl Piña Coladas (see the recipe in Naturally Thin). • Another great summer drink: Skinnygirl Strawberry Daiquiris. Just make Skinnygirl Margaritas, but muddle a few ripe strawberries in the bottom of the glass first, then substitute clear rum for the tequila. Or, add a splash of strawberry puree if you don’t have ripe strawberries. • For a summer garden party or luncheon, serve Skinnygirl Sangria (find the recipe in Naturally Thin).

For Fall:
• Bloody Marys make excellent drinks for Halloween parties. You are requiring everyone come in costume, right? Make them in a punch bowl and float ice with olives frozen in it. • Warm spiced cider, with or without the rum (see the section for winter cocktails), also makes a nice drink for a party on a chilly fall evening.

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 S kinnygirl Cosmo
Cosmos are such a popular drink, but I think they are too sweet. This version tastes delicious and has just a fraction of the sugar and calories. Indulge and fit into your jeans the next day.

Serves 1

2 ounces vodka 2 ounces club soda Splash of cranberry juice

Juice from 2 lime wedges plus 1 lime wedge for garnish

Combine all of the ingredients except the garnish in a shaker full of ice. Stir and pour into a chilled martini glass. Garnish with the lime wedge.

 S kinnygirl American “Virgin”
I created this drink for a Richard Branson Virgin America flight launch. You can make it a true virgin drink as is (no alcohol), or you can make it with peach vodka in place of the peach juice, for a less-than-virginal version.

Serves 1

2 ounces peach juice 2 ounces club soda Splash of orange juice

Splash of lemonade Lemon wedge for garnish

Combine all of the ingredients except the garnish in a shaker full of ice and stir to blend. Strain into a rocks glass filled with ice. Garnish with the lemon wedge.

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 Spicy Chipotle Dip
The third in my trio of Pepperidge Farm Baked naturals recipes, this spicy dip is quick to make and your party guests will devour it. It has a spreadable consistency.

Makes about 2 cups

16 ounces reduced-fat chive and onion flavored cream cheese G cup chipotle peppers, pureed

Juice from H fresh lime Pepperidge Farm Baked Naturals Four Cheese Crisps

In a bowl mix the cream cheese, peppers, and lime together by hand, or puree with an immersion blender. Serve with the Four Cheese Crisps.

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Use any of these variations, or mix and match them according to your tastes.

Instead of flavored cream cheese, try:

~ Any plain reduced-fat cream cheese ~ Any reduced-fat sour cream or yogurt (this will make the recipe more like a dip and less like a spread).

Instead of chipotle peppers, try:

~ 1–2 tablespoons chopped pickled jalapeños ~ 1 teaspoon any hot sauce ~ 1 ⁄4 teaspoon cayenne pepper ~ 1 ⁄ 2 teaspoon red pepper flakes.

Instead of fresh lime juice, try any other citrus juice. Instead of cheese crisps, try:

~ Baked blue corn or regular tortilla chips ~ Pretzel sticks ~ Baked potato chips ~ Toasted whole-grain pita wedges.


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 Low-Fat Mock-a-Mole
Increase the fiber and decrease the fat with this take on guacamole.

Makes about 1H cups

1 avocado, peeled, pitted, and mashed 1 cup cooked green peas G cup chopped fresh tomato 2 tablespoons chopped fresh cilantro plus more for garnish 1 tablespoon chopped red onion

1 tablespoon chopped fresh parsley 2 teaspoons fresh lime juice 1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce 1 teaspoon garlic salt H teaspoon black pepper I teaspoon Tabasco sauce

Combine all of the ingredients in a large bowl and blend with an immersion blender until smooth. You can garnish with cilantro. Serve with tortilla chips, whole grain crackers, and raw vegetables.

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Use any of these variations, or mix and match them according to your tastes.

Instead of cooked peas, try an additional avocado. Instead of tomato, try chopped pear, grape, or cherry tomatoes. Instead of cilantro, try doubling the amount of parsley. Instead of red onion, try:

~ Any other onion ~ Scallions, white parts and some of the green ~ Chives.

Instead of fresh parsley, try adding 1 extra tablespoon fresh


Instead of fresh lime juice, try any other citrus juice.

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Instead of Worcestershire sauce, try soy sauce (including tamari

or shoyu).

Instead of garlic salt, try:

~ 1 Clove garlic, minced, plus 3 ⁄4 teaspoon regular or seasoned salt.

Instead of Tabasco sauce, try:

~ Any other hot sauce ~ 1 dash cayenne pepper ~ 1 pinch red pepper flakes.



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 Healthy Tacos
Tacos are quick, fun, and easy to put on the table, and so many ingredients can become taco filling that this is an almost indispensable meal when you have to feed more than just yourself. Even if it’s just you, almost anything you had for dinner last night can probably be made into taco filling. Meat, veggies, cheese . . . it all works. “Regular” tacos can be a greasy mess of fried meat, lard-filled beans, and fatty cheese. That’s not how Skinnygirls eat. Plus, the problem with crunchy taco shells is that they are fried. If they ever come out with whole-grain baked taco shells, I’ll be on board, and one fried taco shell is not going to make you gain 5 pounds overnight. However, I prefer soft tacos because you can buy low-fat whole-wheat tortillas. They have more fiber and more volume. Warm them in the microwave and let everyone put the ingredients they like on their own taco. With this recipe, all the ingredients are good investments, so no matter what people choose, they’ll be getting a good meal.

Serves 4

1 pound lean ground turkey 2 teaspoons chili powder 2 teaspoons ground cumin 1 teaspoon garlic salt 1 teaspoon black pepper 1 teaspoon paprika 1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce H teaspoon Tabasco sauce H teaspoon Dijon mustard G teaspoon red pepper flakes 4 whole-wheat tortillas

Toppings (such as G heart romaine lettuce, shredded ~ H cup shredded reducedfat cheddar cheese ~ H cup shredded reduced-fat Monterey Jack cheese ~ Skinnygirl sour cream (1 cup nonfat Greek yogurt mixed with 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice)

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1. Spray a nonstick skillet with cooking spray and put over medium heat. Crumble the ground turkey into the pan. Add the next nine ingredients and cook, stirring and breaking up the meat with a wooden spoon or spatula, until the meat is browned. Set aside. 2. Wrap the tortillas in a towel and heat in the microwave for 15 to 30 seconds. To serve, put the meat, tortillas, and toppings on serving plates. Everyone can make their own taco.

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Use any of these variations, or mix and match them according to your tastes.

Instead of ground turkey, try:

Any ground or shredded meat or poultry ~ Cooked shrimp ~ Refried beans ~ Veggie crumbles ~ Canned black beans, drained and rinsed.

Instead of chili powder, try:

Taco seasoning mix ~ Cajun seasoning mix ~ 1 tablespoon prepared salsa or taco sauce.

Instead of garlic salt, try any regular or seasoned salt. Instead of Worcestershire sauce, try:

~ Soy sauce ~ Tamari ~ Fish sauce (for shrimp tacos).

Instead of Tabasco sauce, try any other hot sauce. Instead of red pepper flakes, try cayenne pepper or chili


Instead of or in addition to the toppings listed, try:

~ 1 fresh tomato, chopped, mixed with 1 or 2 scallions, chopped, with or without a little bit of chopped fresh or pickled jalapeño pepper ~ Chopped fresh cilantro ~ Red or green salsa ~ Chopped iceberg lettuce ~ Any other sharp cheese, Mexican cheese, feta cheese, or goat cheese ~ Guacamole or avocado slices.

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