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insulin and C-reactive protein and lowers 12. Hit the weights have found that hostile, aggressive
HDL (good) cholesterol—all factors that University of Michigan scientists found that men often have low blood levels of
boost your odds of developing heart disease. men who completed three total-body weight DHA—one of the main omega-3
A better choice for your morning bowl: Post workouts a week for 2 months lowered fats found in fish oil. We like
Shredded Wheat cereal, which is made from their diastolic blood pressure (the bottom Nordic Naturals Ultimate Omega
100% whole grains and contains no sugar. number) by an average of 8 points. That’s (nordicnaturals.com). Take
7. Take a magnesium enough to reduce the risk of stroke by 1,000 to 2,000 mg every day.
Constant supplement 40% and heart attack by 15%. 19. Try a natural remedy
worrying Over an 18-year period, 13. Set a three-drink limit According to Israeli scientists,
shortens researchers determined Harvard researchers have determined eating one red grapefruit a day
your life that men with the that downing more than three drinks in a lowers LDL (bad) cholesterol by
span by highest blood levels of
magnesium are 40%
24-hour period increases your risk of atrial
fibrillation, a condition that may boost your
20%, even in people who don’t
respond to statins.
16 years. less likely to die of any odds of a stroke fivefold during that time. 20. Have breakfast within
cause than those with the lowest levels. An important note: When the average man 1½ hours of waking
Magnesium can make multivitamins too pours himself a glass of wine, it’s typically A University of Massachusetts
bulky, so add a 250-mg pill from iherb.com twice the size of a standard drink (4 ounces), study found that men who
or GNC to your daily regimen. report researchers at Duke University. waited longer than that were
8. Burn 1,100 calories a week 14. Treat a killer bee sting and our three-step strategy counteracts that 50% more likely to become obese. And
Duke University scientists have discovered You may not know if you’re allergic to by improving bloodflow to your heart. U.K. researchers determined that increases
that this amount of exercise prevents the the venom of a bee, wasp, or hornet until 15. Eat produce at every meal in body mass were directly proportional
accumulation of visceral adipose tissue—the you’ve already been stung. But if you start If you consume more than five servings of to the likelihood of dying of gut cancers—
dangerous belly fat that causes arterial to experience the symptoms of a life- fruits and vegetables per day, you have a specifically, rectal, bladder, colon, and liver.
inflammation and hypertension. Falling threatening reaction—hives, wheezing, and 26% lower risk of stroke than people who 21. Vacuum for 30 minutes
short? Join a league: A British Medical abdominal cramping—you can save yourself eat fewer than three servings, according Doing 150 calories’ worth of chores a day
Journal study reported that people who in three steps: to a U.K. study. can lower high blood pressure by 13 points,
exercised in groups boosted their average Step 1 Call 911. 16. Monitor your blood sugar according to Medicine & Science in Sports &
calorie burn by 500 a week. Step 2 Take a Benadryl. Johns Hopkins University researchers Exercise. The reduction lasts only 8 hours—
9. Take a daily multivitamin Step 3 Lie on your back and elevate have determined that people with the but make it a daily habit, and you can lower
Researchers at the University of California your legs while you wait for help, says Steven highest blood-sugar levels have twice the your BP in the long term. (Helping out
at Berkeley have discovered that this helps Kernerman, D.O., an allergist at the Spokane risk of heart disease as those with the lowest. with housework
prevent the DNA damage that causes Allergy and Asthma Clinic. An allergic A warning sign: fasting blood sugar that’s may improve your Reaching
cancer. We like Centrum Silver. reaction can constrict your blood vessels, greater than 100 mg per deciliter. sex life, too.) for an
17. Think positive
Purdue scientists have discovered that
22. Eat berries
The antioxidants
unsecured
constant worrying shortens your life in cranberries, blue- object as
If you think you’re having a heart attack… span by 16 years. berries, strawberries, you drive
18. Keep your cool and raspberries have makes you
eight times
10. Plop an Alka-Seltzer…
Men who frequently express anger been shown to offer
It contains 325 mg of aspirin, the same as a regular aspirin, and begins fighting blood clots almost
3 minutes faster than a pill, according to a study in the journal Thrombosis Research. outwardly are more than twice as likely to
have a stroke than guys who control their
protection from a
stroke, keep you
more likely
11. ...and call a ride.
tempers, according to the journal Stroke. If mentally sharp as
to swerve
Walk-in patients wait almost twice as long in the ER as those who arrive by ambulance, according
to a University of New Mexico study. you have anger-management issues, try fish you age, and ward into a road
oil. National Institutes of Health scientists off cancer. barrier.
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screws into a ceiling light socket and feeds glue, and sidewalk salt away from gas
off your home’s electricity. appliances. The chlorine or fluorine in these
Make sure you don’t end up as fish food 33. Sip on mint tea products breaks down into ionized gas, which
It contains the powerful antioxidant can eat holes in the pipes that deliver the fuel
Most shark attacks occur at dawn 23. Dive with a partner
and dusk, when sharks feed,
hesperidin, which reduces the inflammation for your furnace, range, or dryer. Think you
This cuts the chance of a shark attack by 50%, say Australian scientists.
says Alan Henningsen, a marine and oxidative stress associated with smell fumes? Don’t call for help from inside
24. If you’re attacked, hit the
biologist and shark researcher diabetes by 52%, according to a study at the your house; using your phone could create an
shark in its eyes or gills
at the National Aquarium, in
These are its most sensitive areas. The snout might work as a target,
University of Buffalo. And despite its lack of electric spark and set off an explosion.
Baltimore. You can watch the
but this tactic often results in a bitten arm, according to a University of caffeine, mint tea also increases alertness. 40. Add curry to vegetables
sky for clues to their location:
Seabirds eat the same fish as
Maryland study. 34. Don’t jaywalk Rutgers University scientists have
sharks. Here are three more 25. For God’s sake, don’t pee in the ocean This is particularly good advice if you’ve discovered that a combination of turmeric
ways to avoid a grisly death. Bodily fluids attract sharks. had too much to drink, because 77% of (found in curry powder) and phenethyl
pedestrians killed while crossing the isothiocyanate (a compound in broccoli,
road aren’t at intersections, and 53% of brussels sprouts, and cauliflower) helps fight
26. Drownproof yourself diabetes, and restless sleep increases your those killed at night have blood-alcohol prostate cancer. The researchers believe
If you’re dumped in the water without odds of a stroke. concentrations at or above .08%, the legal that dusting your vegetables just once a
a life preserver, the keys to survival are 29. Live life in a smoke-free zone limit in all 50 states. week will provide protection.
staying warm and conserving energy. Use Secondhand smoke, besides boosting your 35. Douse your salad 41. Be a career coach
the method taught to U.S. Navy pilots: risk of lung cancer, raises your diabetes risk with oil and vinegar A man married to a woman who is upset by her
Float facedown in the water with your by 40%—nearly the same as smoking does. European scientists have determined that work is 2.7 times more likely to develop heart
knees tucked against your chest in the 30. Dodge a deadly lightning bolt unheated olive oil reduces cancer risk. disease. If your wife won’t find a new job, help
fetal position. (This slows the drop in body Stay off the toilet during severe As for vinegar, eating it prior to a high- her practice her negotiating skills. A Harvard
temperature.) Exhale bubbles slowly, thunderstorms. If lightning hits within even carbohydrate meal (like pasta) slows the study found that due to anxiety, women don’t
turning your head to one side only to 60 feet of your house, not only can it jump absorption of carbs into your bloodstream. initiate money talks at work as often as men
inhale deeply. Repeat until help arrives. through phone and electrical lines, but it can This prevents the spikes in blood sugar and do, especially when the boss is male.
27. Sleep on your side also run through plumbing, according to the insulin that signal your body to store fat. 42. Stash a cinnamon
This can halve the number of sleep-apnea- National Weather Service. 36. Don’t get blown to bits air freshener in your car
related wake-ups you experience during the 31. Put your iPod on a mount Keep bleach, paint stripper, fabric softener, The strong, spicy smell can help you stay alert
night. Such interruptions make you up to six Reaching for an unsecured object as you
times more likely to be involved in an auto drive makes you eight times more likely to
accident, due to residual fatigue, according swerve into a road barrier, according to the
to researchers at University Hospital in Mayo Clinic. Improve your outlook, save your life
Bern, Switzerland. To keep from rolling over 32. Check your smoke alarms
Scandinavian 37. Find time to exercise...
onto your back as you sleep, stuff a small, The most likely reason a house fire ends in a researchers have People who exercise at any intensity for 2 hours a week—an average of about 17 minutes
firm neck pillow down the back of your fatality: no early warning. While just about observed that a day—are 61% less likely to feel highly stressed than their sedentary counterparts,
T-shirt before dozing off. every U.S. residence has smoke alarms, a deep depression according to researchers in Denmark.
28. Light a jasmine-scented candle Morehouse School of Medicine study revealed (and its spinoff,
38. ...then take it outside
suicide) is often
Scientists at Wheeling Jesuit University that the devices were nonfunctioning in one- British researchers found that people who exercised outdoors reduced their depression
caused by job
found that men who did this for just third of homes due to dead or absent batteries. stress. Here’s how
by 71%, while indoor exercisers’ depression decreased by only 45% after their workouts.
1 minute before bed fell asleep faster, tossed If you’ve ever let the juice in any of your to lower stress, 39. Cut out the sweet stuff
and turned less, and felt more refreshed in detectors dwindle—or removed the battery boost your mood, Tufts University researchers found that men on low-sugar diets had lower levels of
depression and anxiety than those who consumed all types of carbs. The happier people
the morning than those who didn’t inhale simply to disable the beep indicating low and improve your
overall health. also limited their total carb intake to 40% of total calories.
the aroma. That’s important, because power—consider installing at least one DuPont
insufficient sleep boosts your risk of self-charging smoke alarm (target.com). It
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discovered whites, reds, and discovered that drinking 4 cups of coffee Your Neck and Shoulders Hurt develop Parkinson’s. Fewer than
that drinking yellows and oranges. a day lowers your risk of dying of heart
disease by 53%. If you like Starbucks,
Secondary symptom: Severe, throbbing
headaches
40,000 Americans are diagnosed each
year. But a clear—and confounding—early
4 cups of
46. Take a
noontime nap choose a Caffè Americano: A grande counts One hidden cause: Lyme disease indicator is long-term pain in both biceps,
coffee a day Breaking up as 4 cups and contains just 15 calories. Diagnosis: Chances are good you won’t says Gordon Gilbert, M.D., a professor of
lowers your your day with a 50. Ask for the heel know if a pencil-point-size tick latched physiology and molecular pharmacology
risk of dying 30-minute snooze Bread crust has up to eight times more onto you this summer. That’s why many at the University of South Florida.
of heart can reduce coronary pronyl-lysine—an antioxidant that fights cases of Lyme disease are reported Prevent it: Hit the gym. A Harvard study
mortality by 37%, cancer—than what’s in the center. Similarly, in the fall and winter, when serious has found that men who work out regularly
disease report Greek the skin of produce is loaded with healthy symptoms set in. Early indicators are 40% less likely to develop Parkinson’s.
by 53%. researchers. Why? nutrients, too. of Lyme include neck stiffness and
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You may not know it, but you have a doctor study in Archives of Internal Medicine. A spoonful of sugar [2] [4]
who’s always on call—and he’s right between Your therapy: Start by taking a weekly helps the medicine go Blue The Rabbit Hole
your ears. Here are five ways you can inventory of what you’re grateful for— down, but then so does 1 Tbsp whole blueberries 1 oz Square One
harness your mental medicinal powers. friends, family, anything—and avoid feeling a shot of organic vodka. organic vodka
½ oz fresh lemon juice
1. Laugh away allergies resentful about what you still don’t have. If you’re going after the 2 oz Ty Ku, an Asian-inspired
3 oz fresh carrot juice
Queue up the gut busters when allergies Focusing on gratitude increases optimism, buzz, why not fill the drink liqueur made with sake ½ oz fresh cucumber juice
strike. Participants in a Japanese study according to a study in the Journal of with ingredients that carry 2 oz pomegranate juice ½ oz Cynar, an Italian
herbal liqueur
were less affected by allergens after Personality and Social Psychology. some benefits? Here’s to 1 oz limoncello
1 sprig fresh sage
seeing a funny film but sneezed more after 4. Imagine muscle strength your health.
In a rocks glass, combine the blue-
viewing a serious one. Laughter revs your To boost recovery from a muscle injury, berries and lemon juice, and muddle Combine the liquid ingredients
parasympathetic nervous system, imagine a workout. Just visualizing lifting [1] the berries to extract the juice. Add in a shaker with ice. Shake, and
preventing allergens from taking hold. weights can actually build muscle, speeding Pepper Delicious ice until the glass is half full, top with strain into a cocktail glass. Top
the remaining ingredients, and stir. with the sage sprig.
Your therapy: Rent a sidesplitting DVD, such healing, say Cleveland Clinic researchers. In 3 rings sliced red
bell pepper The benefit: Lutein, which is
as Superbad, The Simpsons Movie, or Hot their study, men who visualized working out The benefit: In a Preventive
found in carrots, can reduce your
Medicine Research Institute study,
Fuzz (the Collector’s Edition). their biceps saw a 13% increase in muscle 6 –8 leaves fresh mint
risk of cancer, says an American
heart patients’ health improved
2. Do good for cuts and bruises mass—without lifting a single weight. 2 oz Aviation gin
after they drank antioxidant-rich
Journal of Clinical Nutrition study.
A Good Samaritan act can speed your Your therapy: For 15 minutes a day, imagine 1 oz fresh lime juice pomegranate juice.
recovery by at least a day. “Healing is exercising your injured muscle. Imagine every ¾ oz simple syrup [5]
delayed an additional day by hostile detail—the pressure, the range of motion, (equal parts sugar [3] Beet Sangria
and water
interactions,” says Janice Kiecolt-Glaser, and the muscle flexing and stretching—says Avocado Daiquiri 4 oz sugar
2–3 ice cubes
Ph.D., a professor of psychiatry at Ohio sports psychologist Trent Petrie, Ph.D. 2 oz silver rum Pinch of salt
State University. “But a positive inter- 5. Listen away office fatigue In a shaker glass, combine 2 oz gold rum 11 oz beet juice
action boosts cytokines—chemicals that Just like listening to the radio when you’re two pepper rings and the mint 2 oz simple syrup 3 oz fresh OJ
leaves, and press firmly with
recruit cells that are needed for making red-eyed on the road, tuning in to music at (equal parts sugar and water)
oz fresh lime juice
a muddler to pulverize the
repairs—in the area around the wound.” your desk will help you focus on the task peppers. Add the gin, lime
½ oz half-and-half
8 oz red wine
Your therapy: Surprise your mate with at hand, say Japanese researchers. Music juice, syrup, and ice. Shake, ¼ oz fresh lemon juice
oz brandy
(or lime juice)
dinner, or send a card to your grandma or triggers a relaxation response, muffling and strain into a chilled glass.
3 oz ginger beer (or ale)
a check to your favorite charity. Pay it unproductive temptations and letting you Garnish with the remaining ¼ medium-ripe avocado
pepper ring. 1 oz Cointreau
forward, and you’ll be cured in no time. tackle your work, says Larry McCleary, The benefit: A diet high in
1½ cups ice cubes
3. Be positive for your heart M.D., author of The Brain Trust Program. vitamin C, carotenoids, and Combine the ingredients in a
Dissolve the sugar and salt into
Purging pessimism can help your ticker. Your therapy: When you feel a dip, plug lycopene (all of which are amply blender until smooth.
the nonalcoholic ingredients.
Add the alcohol, and stir.
Men who scored high on an optimism into your iPod or call up pandora.com. supplied in red peppers) reduces The benefit: Researchers at Ohio
the incidence of chronic disease The benefit: Folate in beets
test were 55% less likely to die of It doesn’t matter what type of music you State University have determined
has been shown to lower the risk
and death, according to a that avocados protect against heart
cardiovascular disease than those listen to, as long as it’s something you Spanish study of 41,000 people. of coronary artery disease.
disease.
with defeatist dispositions, says a choose, research shows.
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MIND him over an aloof candidate who’s more
qualified, says David Myers, Ph.D., author
The strategy: Reason and analysis should
guide most of your investing, leaving only
of Intuition. a small window for hunches. (Economists
The strategy: You can’t completely avoid agree some intuition is wise.) But ignore the
your impression bias, but you can control frenzied pack—and all things subprime.
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MUSCLE 3. Balance Your
Movements
bias,” as dos Remedios calls it, often results
in a dominant limb negotiating more of the
Strength requires balance. “If you’re bench- weight than its weaker counterpart. This can
pressing 3 sets of 10, you also need to be lead to physical imbalances, performance
doing some exercise, such as horizontal flaws, and eventual injury.
over time, while your muscles are allowed In life, we usually reach or step with one Single-leg back
Back extension
2. Cycle Your Workouts plenty of time to adapt. This produces arm or one leg at a time. Then we hit the extension
You won’t make much progress doing more strength and size as the load on your gym, and we immediately plant both feet or Shoulder press Dumbbell one-arm
3 sets of 10 reps for the rest of your life. muscles keeps increasing. grab a bar with both hands. This “bilateral push press
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3. Swiss-Ball
The 5-Minute
Crunch
Lie on your back on a Swiss
ball so that your hips and your
4. Reverse Crunch
1. Plank Lie on your back on the floor,
Assume a pushup position, with your knees slightly bent.
but place your forearms on Raise your knees to your chest
the floor. Brace your abs by lifting your hips up and in.
as if you were about to be Lower your legs to the starting
punched in the gut, and hold position. Do 15 reps.
for 30 seconds.
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SEX
5. Cable 5 Ways to Split
or Commit
Woodchopper
With your right side toward
the weight stack of a cable
station, grab the rope handle Not sure whether to stay or go? Watch for these
of a high pulley with both warning flares when deciding if she’s a keeper.
hands. Pull the rope down and
across your body until your
hands are just outside your Sometimes you have a moment of clarity She “Wuvs” Baby Talk
left knee. Reverse the move about a woman—like when you find Stay or go: Go
to return to the start. Do 15 her indexed, 7-year collection of Brides Why: “Hey, baby” isn’t so bad, but the
reps. Then face the opposite magazines. Other times, the signals are coochie-coo stuff, especially in bed, is just
direction, and do 15 more. harder to read. Here’s help. creepy. “She may be trying to avoid adult
She Hand-Feeds Her Dog issues in the relationship, like problems
Stay or go: Stay or sex,” says Tiger. It’s also a mark of high
Why: She may seem like a coddler, but dogs maintenance. “She wants to be treated like
6. Reverse Cable can lower stress and blood pressure, making a baby, like a precious princess plaything,”
Woodchopper her a healthier and more stable person. “Dogs Tiger says. She’ll throw a tantrum when
make you more extroverted and outgoing,” you drop her, but you’ll feel good back in
Now attach the rope handle
says Katherine C. Grier, Ph.D., author of Pets the adult world.
to the low-pulley cable. Bend
in America. Even if the dog fits in your pocket She Overquotes Hegel
over and grab the rope with
and has a name like Tinkerbell, playing puppy and Other Dead Guys
both hands, your arms nearly
papa will improve your health, too. But when Stay or go: Go
straight and just outside your
you walk it, remove the bow first. Why: Aside from the obvious fact that
right knee. Pull the rope up
and across your body until She’s not She Can’t Make
a Decision on
the know-it-all act is annoying, she’s not
comfortable in her own skin if she’s cloaking
your hands are in line with comfortable Her Own herself in book smarts. Now, if she talked in
your left ear. Reverse the
movement. Do 15 reps. Then
in her own Stay or go: Go movie quotes, that’d be different.
face the opposite direction, skin if she’s Why: Her insecurity She’s an Out-of-Work Bohemian
and do 15 more. cloaking means she tells Stay or go: Stay
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Jealousy on the part of your significant resentful about her own need to impress
other can sabotage your best female your mom. 1. Sex Is a Race at Washington University. Bonus: Your
friendships. Here’s how to smooth over Ease her fears: Ship your ladies off to a wine Break it: Explore her. Focus on her thighs postrun sweat has androstadienone, a
your relationship. tasting together. (Find one in your city at and lower belly. Make a mental circle testosterone derivative that spikes her
localwineevents.com.) Each wants to win the 2 inches around the outside of her vagina, arousal when she smells it.
1. The Leggy Coworker other’s approval, which can lead to insecurities and don’t cross the line while you kiss, lick, 4. Lopsided First Moves
Why she’s worried: Your sexy office gal pal and false perceptions, says Gini Graham Scott, and caress, says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., author Break it: Tie her hands. It’s now up to her
has unfettered access to half of your Ph.D., author of Disagreements, Disputes and of Different Loving. You’ll ignite her nerve to figure out how to remove your shirt,
weekday, and your girl fears this face time All-Out War. A retreat with some vino will endings and bring her close to her red zone. tie, cuff links, and pants. You’ll share a
may spark a cubicle romance. melt away any hangups. It makes sex about discovery, not some few laughs and marvel at her ingenuity.
Ease her fears: Play show-and-tell. Give your 4. The Facebook Fox destination. “Goal-oriented sex isn’t sexy,” Whether you tie her up or she binds you,
girl a guided tour of the office, introduce her Why she’s worried: You’ve dutifully declared Brame says. the game will break your predictable,
to your coworkers—including Legs—and end you’re “in a relationship” in your MySpace or 2. Same Time, Same Place first-move habits. The bonus: “It acts as
at your desk, where she’ll find a prominently Facebook profile. But she worries it means Break it: Relive the past. Take her to the an automatic foreplay extender,” says
displayed picture of herself. It’s a talisman nothing to the harem of cybervixens on your garage, and reclaim the space you long ago Berman.
that wards off flirty office coworkers, says friends list. ceded: Seduce her in the backseat of the car. 5. TV, Then Sex
Dorian Solot, author of I Love Female Bump Ease her fears: Let her plant It feels a little public, it’s steeped in Break it: Read to her. It doesn’t have to be
Orgasm. “It shows her she’s on your mind
while you’re on the clock.”
her up aIfflag in your digital world.
they’re not online, too,
testosterone, and there’s a throwback,
high-school quality to it. Make it a quickie,
erotica. It’s an intimate activity that makes
her focus on your voice. The deeper,
2. The College Cohort to the girlfriends and wives place which has its place in the sexual diet; having the better. Low voices are a sign of high
Why she’s worried: You spent 4 boozy, top of these sites just a notch above lots of sex begets more sex, because you testosterone, which ups her attraction
sexually charged years with this girl, who your porn. Help her create her own stay connected, says Laura Berman, Ph.D., to you, according to a Scottish study. To
knows the secret handshake and dated half friends page, and bump her up to the director of the Berman Center in Chicago. dip an octave, read lying in bed with your
of your fraternity. What’s more, unlike your list. top of your friends list. 3. Predictable head up; it forces you to push air with your
girl, she has a standing invitation to game 5. The Gym Goddess Having Foreplay diaphragm instead of your lungs.
day and poker night. Why she’s worried: Your trainer is single and lots of sex Break it: Work out 6. Habitual Hand-Holding
Ease her fears: Paint the friend as a mascot, oozes sexuality from every pore. You may say
begets together. Think of it as Break it: Caressher neck. Sure, holding
not a romantic interest, says Susan F.
Benjamin, author of Perfect Phrases for
her postworkout chats are harmless, but your
girlfriend knows better (and so do you, playa).
more sex, fat-burning foreplay. It
will raise her dopamine
hands can work as an aphrodisiac: It
shows her you’re devoted and proud
Dealing with Difficult People. And invite Ease her fears: Play matchmaker, and set the because levels, easing her to tell the world. But after a while, its
your gal to a few college game parties so goddess up with a friend. Face it: You’re taken, you stay anxieties. “She’ll feel poignancy wanes. A stepped-up PDA will
she’ll see that the cutie sits squarely in and she’s a temptress. So try this underutilized connected. the sex is about her and deepen her connection to you, so she’ll be
your “like-a-sister” category. brushoff, which will allow you two to still chat not some random need more willing to really give herself to you
3. The Matriarch at the gym. The move will take her off your she has to accommodate,” says Pepper in the bedroom, says Schwartz.
Why she’s worried: Your woman feels gal’s worry list. Schwartz, Ph.D., a professor of sociology
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LOOKS How it works: This is a simple, safe, and
effective procedure. That’s because the laser
Fine points: You may still have a few stray
hairs even after several treatments. And a
light is fine-tuned to the specific pigment word of warning to men with blond locks:
of your follicles, allowing the heat energy to Laser hair removal doesn’t work well on
Custom nips and tucks have become more routine for men. See if 3. Balding Head
you’re a good candidate and which procedure may be right for you Cosmetic fix:
Hair transpl antation
Even though Rogaine and
These days, you have as many options dermatology at New York’s Mount Sinai Propecia sometimes slow
for upgrading your looks as you have for School of Medicine. “Botox produces a more hair loss or regrow some hair,
upgrading your computer. And the number relaxed and likable look.” transplantation is the only
of men availing themselves of a nip here How it works: The doctor injects diluted way to restore your naked
and a tuck there keeps growing: The botulinum toxin into your wrinkle zone. pate completely.
American Society for Aesthetic Plastic In about 4 days, the Botox begins to How it works: After injecting
Surgery reports a 47% increase in male temporarily block nerve transmissions a local anesthetic, the
procedures in 6 years, from 640,000 in to the muscles that create the wrinkles. surgeon removes a narrow
2000 to 940,000 in 2006. Why the jump? As a result, your skin smooths out strip of scalp from the strip
Cosmetic surgery has grown into a precise, dramatically. Brief side effects, such as of permanent hair around
often pain-free way to slow the visual bruising, swelling, or headaches, are possible the sides and back of your
effects of aging or simply add the final but uncommon. You’ll need new injections head. The surgeon divides
detailing on a body you’ve worked hard to every 4 to 6 months to stay smooth. this donor strip into sections
build through diet and exercise. Still, there Fine points: Avoid the “mask effect” by going containing one to four hairs,
are people who should pass on the surgical to a doctor whose Botox practice includes at which he then inserts into
solution. With this primer, you’ll be able to least 10 to 15% men; the doc will be sure to tiny scalp incisions made at
decide whether a cosmetic fix should be in leave some expression lines on your face— the same angle and direction
your future. especially the crow’s-feet. as the original follicles. These
Note: Price ranges reflect differences Price: $350 to $1,200 hairs will fall out within
in the amount of work performed, your the first 3 weeks but will
geographical location, and the experience permanently grow back about
of the doctor. 2. Hairy Back/
Shoulders/Neck
1. Wrinkled Forehead
Cosmetic fix: L aser hair removal
This is the only permanent hasta la vista to
Pick a top doctor
Cosmetic fix: Botox hairiness. And while the neck and Find a specialist by asking your regular doctor for a referral—don’t rely on ads or the Internet. Next,
make sure the surgeon is board certified in the procedure. Also, insist on meeting with the doctor first,
A man can feel happy, calm, and rested, back are the areas men usually want blasted
not a “consultant” who’s really just a sales associate trained to sign you up for procedures. Finally,
but “a wrinkled brow will make him look bare, treatments on the chest and the front look for promotional material that touts science over salesmanship. (“Miraculous results” and “latest
angry, tense, and tired,” says Patricia Wexler, of the ears are also popular, says Ramsey technology” are red-flag phrases.)
M.D., an associate clinical professor of Choucair, M.D., a Dallas plastic surgeon.
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3 months later, with the full effect taking area. With too many incisions, not enough 5. Tired Eyes cartilage (the soft part at the bottom of the
about a year. blood can reach the transplanted hair for the Cosmetic fix: Eyelid surgery nose) and bone (at the upper part). This can
Fine points: You’ll have to avoid strenuous follicles to survive. Your eyelids play a subtle yet powerful role be accomplished through a small incision
exercise for 7 to 10 days. (Heat and sweat Price: $6,000 to $18,000 in your overall appearance. Specifically, either at the bottom of the tissue that
increase the odds of infection, plus the saggy upper eyelids and puffy lower lids send separates your nostrils or up through the
physical exertion can tug on the donor- everyone the message that you’re overtired, inside of your nostrils, which helps minimize
area wound and result in a wider scar.) You 4. Love Handles over the hill, or both, says Joel Feldman, scarring.
should also resist the temptation to have Cosmetic fix: M.D., an associate clinical professor of Fine points: Not every schnoz can be saved.
“megasessions” of 3,000 or more grafts Liposuction surgery at Harvard Medical School. A surgeon can’t change the thickness of
transplanted all at once or too densely. Fat men need not apply. The best candidates How it works: The sagging and puffiness are the skin on a person’s nose—a problem if
That’s because every microincision severs are normal-weight men who can’t shed caused by excess fat and skin. To remove you have a bulbous nose and want to have
blood vessels and reduces bloodflow to the specific fatty deposits. “There are limits to the fat, the surgeon will make an incision it trimmed down. Also, find out how he’ll
what exercise and diet can on the inside edge of the lower lid, both to handle the tip of your nose: The tip might
do,” says Daniel C. Baker, avoid leaving a visible scar and to reduce not have enough cartilage to create a strong
M.D., a professor of plastic the risk of damaging surrounding muscles. appearance, in which case the doctor can
surgery at New York Then it’s just a matter of scraping out the bolster it by working with a piece of the
University. fat. To remove excess skin, the surgeon septum (the cartilage that separates the two
How it works: You’ll be makes incisions on the outside of the lid. cavities) as a graft.
awake but numb to the Most people need to wear dark sunglasses Price: $5,000 to $10,000
sucking, thanks to an for up to 2 weeks after surgery, although
anesthetic. The surgeon some swelling and discoloration may
will insert a metal, remain for several months. 7. Sagging Face
strawlike device into the Fine points: Eyelid surgery may not Cosmetic fix: Facelift
target area and literally completely eliminate those circles under The stereotype of the facelift being only
vacuum out the fat. And your eyes, and there’s a danger that for ungracefully aging women is history.
that includes the fat inside the surgeon will remove too much skin Men are now turning to lifts, because they
man-boobs—liposuction and fat, creating a somewhat feminized think they look older than they actually
is an option for about appearance. are and want to remain competitive in the
90% of men with enlarged Price: $3,000 to $6,000 workplace. Others simply want to look
breasts. younger.
Fine points: Liposuction How it works: Think of making a bed: The
is safe and effective—in 6. Droopy Nose more of the sheet and blanket you can pull
the hands of a qualified Cosmetic fix: Rhinopl asty under the mattress, the tauter the top will
surgeon. (See “Pick a Top Like other body parts, the nose droops over be. During a facelift, a surgeon pulls tight
Doctor” on p. 30.) It’s also time, and the only way to rescue it is with and tucks in your skin and the deeper layers
important to remember rhinoplasty. “If done properly, people will responsible for reshaping the face. In order
that while lipo sucks out think a man lost weight or that his hair is to do this, he makes incisions in front of and
fat, it can’t tighten loose different, rather than notice that it’s his nose behind your ears while you’re under general
skin. Nor is it generally that’s changed,” says Alan Matarasso, M.D., anesthesia. Surprisingly, the surgery is not
recommended for the a clinical professor of plastic surgery at generally painful, because the surgeon is
face, because of the many the Albert Einstein College of Medicine of working in layers of the face without many
small nerves and blood Yeshiva University. nerve endings. Men usually look good in
vessels in the area. How it works: In order to reposition your 2 weeks (1 week sooner than women), because
Price: $3,000 to $15,000 proboscis, the surgeon needs to sculpt the their thicker skin hides the bruising better.
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Poor cuts can morph into
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That’s because the temple
line—where the top
blends with the sides—
grows up and out and
rounds your cut into a
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