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The Court Without Ginsburg Netanyahu, with all the legal and political economy in the world. California teachers
With the death of Justice Ruth Bader issues surrounding his tenure, is the best would be better off guided by a factual
t
Ginsburg, America has lost a pioneer and representative Israel has to strengthen its and objective, not Marxism-driven, ethnic
icon of the movement for equal rights for standing in the world. These new study curriculum.
women, and the Supreme Court has lost agreements are convenient for Israel’s Vladimir Kaplan
one of its most renowned and respected new allies as they face the Iranian threat via email
jurists. but it doesn’t diminish what Netanyahu
Ginsburg, who died on erev Rosh has helped to achieve. »
Hashanah, also was one of eight Jewish Allan Kandel
justices, and the first female Jewish justice, Los Angeles
to serve on the nation’s highest court. sig
In a 2004 speech at the U.S. Holocaust Music to Their Ears be
Memorial Museum, she connected her The Ella Fitzgerald Charitable Em
heritage with her passion for justice: “I Foundation would like to thank the on
had the good fortune to be a Jew born and Journal for its wonderful conversation Letters should be no more than we
raised in the U.S.A. ... My heritage as a Jew with Ben Bram (“Ben Bram on Creating 200 words and must include a valid pa
and my occupation as a judge fit together A Cappella During a Pandemic,” Sept. name and city. The Journal reserves th
symmetrically. The demand for justice 18). We have happily helped support his A the right to edit all letters.
runs through the entirety of Jewish history Capella Academy, offering “camperships” letters@jewishjournal.com. an
and Jewish tradition. I take pride in and to talented young singers. Ella Fitzgerald SFSU: Aiding and Abetting I c
draw strength from my heritage.” would be so proud. Terrorism ha
Ginsburg was a feminist, a Zionist, Fran Morris Rosman San Francisco State University, by to
a proud Jew, a lawyer, a judge and a Executive director, inviting Leila Khaled, a known terrorist Ira
devoted wife and mother. She will The Ella Fitzgerald Charitable and member of the Popular Front for the I have much more power than anyone,
be remembered as someone who Foundation Liberation of Palestine (PFLP), to participate And I control the land — Mi
fought injustice and left the world a Pacific Palisades in a forum on Sept. 23, could be in violation In any accomplishment man has made, br
better place for her having been here. of 18 U.S. Code 2339A, “Providing material I have had a hand. Za
May we all find inspiration in the example Ethnic Studies Are Unfair support to terrorists.” wi
she set, the values she embodied and the The Ethnic Studies Model Curriculum SFSU, if it does include Khaled in this So take a load off your shoulders, be
legacy she leaves us. (ESMC) presents a limited view of forum, is raising Khaled’s profile, thereby And depend on me a bit, las
Stephen A. Silver California history, as being exclusively assisting her efforts to raise funds for the The last thing you should do now,
San Francisco dedicated to minorities’ suffering and PFLP, a possible violation of 18 U.S. Code Is throw up your hands and quit. on
disenfranchisement, mostly in the past, 2339A.
Israel, the UAE and Bahrain with the implication that nothing has Richard Sherman You must believe I’m watching,
During the signing ceremony of changed in the present. The ESMC’s Margate, Fla. And I guide you, when I can.
agreements normalizing relations between
Israel, the UAE and Bahrain on Sept. 15,
authors have stated: “Ethnic studies
teaching is grounded in the belief that A Letter From God
You certainly also must realize,
That I’m your biggest fan! A
I had a sickening feeling in the pit of my
stomach because previous accords always
education can be a tool for transformation,
social change, and liberation.” That sounds
Forgive me please for allowing you,
To sink to this emotional low. So tonight when you are sitting,
th
have been bittersweet, with Israel trading
land for an obscure peace arrangement.
very similar to Karl Marx and Friedrich
Engels’ “Communist Manifesto.”
Believe me, I’m not testing you,
To see how low you’ll go !
Feeling lonely as can be.
At least have the satisfaction of knowing,
p
I felt that way until I realized Israel
wasn’t giving away anything but instead,
Our educators deserve a much more
appropriate model in a state comprising I know that you believe in me.
You’re sitting there with me.
Alan Ascher
m
hopefully gaining new friends. dozens of ethnic groups that have Maybe more than most folks, too. via email B
b
Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin participated in creating the sixth largest But Faith must be 100%,
You see what less will do. We Have A Dream
U
My father, Nachman, a Jew From Wlodawa
I’ll decide if the mistakes you make His friend, Berman, who died on the way
a
need punishment or not, Uncle Victor, bad boy from Vienna
And from what I’ve seen the past few My mother — all the others
days, Who came before and after
You’ve punished yourself a lot. Had a dream for two thousand years wa
to return home to Zion tar
You sometimes feel alone in life, ter
And wonder why you’re here — They didn’t hate or want to destroy ca
But I really don’t understand that, But to share, to build up Am
What is it that you fear? To leave behind pogrom winters sp
Walk free among the orange blossoms ye
There are a lot of people on Earth, you Like anybody else
know, sa
And in order to be fair, So, in America, in the Diaspora, for
I try to answer all requests, we don’t need to feel ashamed hi
That are asked of me in Prayer. Or on “the wrong side” pr
When we speak out for Israel th
Only I can help you, Proudly, despite Her imperfections no
To really have peace of mind. Can’t we, too, have a dream? fre
Belief in yourself — or anyone else, Mina Stern we
Will pull you further behind. Venice
to
I AM THE
Emirates and Bahrain at the White House by local merchants. I want to haggle with
on Sept. 15 was like attending an ex’s them in perfect Persian until their hair falls
wedding. There they were, the happy out. That’s how I’ll know I’m truly back.
parties, joined in peace and unity. And But more than anything, I want to visit
there I sat, seething with jealousy. the graves of my paternal grandparents,
As a Zionist, I love this new era of peace whom I lovingly called Babachi and
and what it means for Israel. But inside, Nanechi, but never saw again after my
I coveted it with a passion that would immediate family escaped Iran. If an
have left Abraham mortified. Is it normal Israeli now can sunbathe in Bahrain, is it
to be jealous of the UAE? Yes, if you’re an too much to ask that I be able to place a
Iranian Jew. stone on my Nanechi’s grave in Tehran?
I watched “the groom,” Israeli Prime During the ceremony, when bin Zayed Life, I am the new year.
Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, and “the passed on “the regards of the UAE people” I am an unspoiled page in your book of time.
bride,” UAE Foreign Minister Abdullah bin to millions of Israelis, I broke down. Peace I am your next chance at the art of living.
Zayed al-Nahyan, stand together and I is so hard-earned and yet so attainable. I am your opportunity to practice
wished I was the bride. There should have Many Iranians don’t hate Israel. They hate what you have learned about life
been a Persian bride at the White House the Iranian regime. I believe the Iranian during the last twelve months.
last week. It should have been Iran. people do send their regards to the people
For 41 years, my community — which of Israel. All that you sought
once boasted 100,000 Jews in Iran — has Trump said that “other countries will and didn't find is hidden in me,
follow” and pursue peace with the Jewish waiting for you to search it out
state. At that point, he was just teasing me. with more determination.
Yes, other countries probably will follow
All the good that you planned
As a Zionist, I love (according to some analysts, Morocco
might be next), but not Iran. It’s too busy.
and didn't achieve
be jealous of the
Does that make me self-centered and by the touch of strong purpose.
petty? Yes. But I really loved my Nanechi.
I am your opportunity
UAE? Yes, if you’re
Israel and some Arab states are aligning
to thwart Iranian power in the region, and to renew your allegiance to Him who said,
'Behold, I make all things new.'
an Iranian Jew.
last week’s ceremony sent a clear message
to Tehran. Will there be peace between
I am the new year.
Israel and Iran in my lifetime? I don’t know.
watched helplessly as the regime has The bigger question is whether there will
targeted Israel through a campaign of be a free, democratic Iran in my lifetime. Warmest wishes for a year filled with light and love;
terror, demonization and proxy wars. You It’s something I pray I’ll live to see. Maybe with health and happiness; with peace and prosperity.
can’t imagine what it’s like as an Iranian one day, the president of a free Iran will The RVW Team
American Jew watching Iranian leaders stand alongside the Israeli prime minister
sponsor Holocaust cartoon contests every at the White House. Can you imagine that? Selwyn Gerber, Jonathan Gerber, Stephen Seo, Jesse Picunko
year. Nothing will keep me away from that Loren Gesas, Mary Ann Moe, Mike Chen, Simon Liu, Lisa Blackledge
In his remarks, President Donald Trump ceremony. Shelly Moore, Kristen Gunn, Abigail Huffstatler, Kelly Richardson
said the Abraham Accords “open the door During his remarks on Sept. 15,
for Muslims around the world to visit the Netanyahu imagined a future where Jews We are grateful for another year of strong growth
historic sites in Israel and to peacefully and Arabs “live together, pray together and in the number of client families we serve and the
pray at Al-Aqsa Mosque in Jerusalem, the dream together.” Until a president of a free assets entrusted to our stewardship.
third holiest site in Islam.” And Israelis Iran offers such messages of peace and
now can visit Bahrain and the UAE in total friendship at the White House, it’s still just
freedom. Such sweet words, and yet, they that — a dream. But I won’t stop hoping. n
were like salt on a wound. RESILIENT INVESTING FOR TURBULENT TIMES
I want that. I want to be able to go back Tabby Refael is a Los Angeles-based writer, 310.945.4000 • RVWWealth.com
to Iran. I want to swim in the Caspian Sea speaker and activist.
Mask Madness
» by Daniel Stone
AS AN INTERNAL MEDICINE SPECIALIST, benefit has increasingly shifted over the
I spend my days treating patients with decades. Sixty years ago, President John F.
all sorts of illnesses, including COVID-19. Kennedy told the nation: “Ask not what your
That may be one reason why I was so country can do for you — ask what you can
annoyed a few weeks ago when I walked do for your country.” Two decades later, the
by a crowded Pilates studio on the Westside fading of that communal ethic could be seen
and noticed 20 people exercising barely 6 in presidential candidate Ronald Reagan
feet apart and without masks. Thinking of asking Americans, “Are you better off now
my elderly COVID-19 patients, I rapped on than you were four years ago?”
the large window and bellowed, “I hope you This emphasis on individualism rather
don’t have grandmothers at home! If you than the greater good also can be seen in
do, you could bring back a virus and kill the arguments of anti-maskers. Many deny
them!” The instructor flashed a look to her the government’s authority to restrict their
assistant, who headed outside to meet me. personal freedom by compelling public
I looked across my mask at the assistant mask use. These advocates of extreme
as he approached me and mumbled, libertarianism don’t understand that self-
disapprovingly, “Free speech, you know.” determination was never a blank check. The
Why do many Americans still shun the late Supreme Court Justice Oliver Wendell
safety measures that produced coronavirus Holmes Jr. noted memorably that the right
success stories in Korea, Taiwan and to free speech “would not protect a man
elsewhere? The unfortunate answer falsely shouting fire in a theater and causing
A Time to Remember probably relates to two American cultural
trends: contempt for science and extreme
a panic.” Libertarians may wish otherwise
but, like freedom of speech, the “right” to
Congregation Kol Ami federal government demic, the Trump administration acted as
though an appeal for changes in personal
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continues to miss behavior would underscore the seriousness
of the situation and sabotage the message
lives.
death toll of the Vietnam war. The potential
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A Lesson From
Ginsburg, Mandela
and Scalia
» by Dan Schnur
BECAUSE IT’S UNLIKELY THAT THE When the dust settles, almost exactly half
United States will elect a Jewish president the country’s population will be dreadfully
in the foreseeable future, the passing of disappointed, not just at the final outcome
Ruth Bader Ginsburg on Sept. 18 will mark but with a process they will believe has
the most impactful death of an American swindled them out of what they know they
political figure to this community that many deserved. Almost exactly half of our fellow
of us will experience in our lifetimes. Because Americans will believe that their country has
of an unusual combination of demography, been stolen out from under them, and will
ideology and cultural iconography, Ginsburg immediately began plotting resistance and
had taken on, in the minds of her admirers, revenge. The only questions are whether that
a status well beyond those of most Supreme aggrieved faction will occupy the political
Court justices and most elected officials. The right or left, and whether the equally angry
result has been an outpouring of grief among victors will be progressive or conservative.
most American Jews. Either way, the chasm that separates
That doesn’t mean to suggest that every Americans will grow wider and the acrimony
Jewish American supports the aggressive and anger will worsen.
liberal agenda for which Ginsburg fought At that point, we will have two choices.
throughout her career. A sizable minority of Either our society can continue to turn on
Jewish voters will cast a ballot for Donald itself, with ever-increasing consequences as
Trump this fall, and most of them are rooting a downward cycle of fear, rancor and retali-
heavily for Trump’s nominee to the high ation accelerates. Alternatively, whichever
court to be quickly confirmed. But it should side prevails could decide that absolute sub-
be possible to disagree with Ginsburg’s jugation and humiliation of the defeated is
judicial philosophy while still admiring her unlikely to lead to any productive accom-
plishments and forward progress, let alone
any actual healing.
When Nelson Mandela was sworn in as
in selecting her
against the leaders of the apartheid state
they replaced. Mandela instead called for
Ha’azinu:
RBG on “Being Jewish” The Poem of
» by Judea Pearl
IN 2003, WHEN MY WIFE, RUTH, AND For example, I say who I am in certain visible
Testimony
I were editing the book “I Am Jewish: signs. The command from Deuteronomy
T
Personal Reflections Inspired by the appears in artworks, in Hebrew letters, on
Last Words of Daniel Pearl” (Jewish Light three walls and a table in my chambers.
he tenth section of the Book of Deuteronomy, Parashat Ha’azinu, is com-
we Publishing, 2004), we asked more than “Zedek, Zedek tirdof,” “Justice, justice shalt posed of the Poem of Testimony that God instructed Moses to teach the
ht, 300 prominent Jewish personalities to thou pursue,” these art works proclaim; Jewish people. In it, God directs them to hearken (Ha’azinu, in Hebrew)
til contribute an essay, a note or a paragraph they are ever present reminders to me of to His words and to learn from history, recalling humanity’s past mistakes and
on what the words “I am Jewish” what judges must do “that God’s faithfulness in fulfilling His promises. He warns of the consequences of
my meant to them. they may thrive.” There is violating the covenant, and reminds them that the purpose of the vicissitudes of
ng Some responded with outright also a large silver mezuzah history is to bring them to their ultimate goal, the final Redemption.
my rejection, saying that in a world mounted on my doorpost. All this, of course, rings familiar, since three parashiot ago, in parashat
heading toward globalization, It is a gift from the super Tavo, the consequences of violating our covenant with God were spelled out
?” there is no point dwelling bright teenage students at
quite graphically. What does Ha’azinu add that was not covered in the admo-
on ethnic distinctions. Some the Shulamith School for Girls
nitions in parashat Tavo?
zs apologized for not being able to in Brooklyn, N.Y., the school
oo treat such complex question in one of my dearest law clerks
The answer may lie in the fact that the Ha’azinu admonitions are cast as a “poem,”
less than two or three volumes. attended in her growing-up a literary form whose use the Torah usually reserves for joyous praises to God. Later
e, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg did years. use of the Ha’azinu poem, in the Temple ritual, bears out this conception:
ad not hesitate for a moment and A question stated in various Every Sabbath, while the musaf sacrifice was offered up, the Levites would
k. sent us a 300-word piece we knew right ways is indicative of what I would like to sing a segment of the Ha’azinu poem, completing the entire poem over the
h away will strengthen the spines of Jewish convey. What is the difference between a New course of six weeks. Inasmuch as it is expressly forbidden to be sad on the
n youngsters for generations to come. York City Garment District bookkeeper and Sabbath, the fact that the Ha’azinu poem — which concerns punishment and
ed We assured her that she would be a Supreme Court Justice? One generation. retribution —was recited while the Sabbath sacrifice, which expresses the joy-
he remembered by that piece, especially by My life bears witness, the difference ous essence of the day, was offered up seems perplexing, to say the least.
a the millions who will forever associate between opportunities open to my mother,
True, the opening and closing passages of this poem are mostly “positive,”
a Jewishness with the biblical command a bookkeeper, and those open to me.
describing God’s benevolent providence and His promise for a bright future.
ed “Tzedek, tzedek tirdof” (Justice, justice, you I am a judge, born, raised and proud of
m shall pursue ...) (Deuteronomy 16:20). being a Jew. The demand for justice runs
But the intervening passages are largely “negative,” so why were they recited
Now that Ginsburg no longer is with us, through the entirety of the Jewish history by themselves on their designated Sabbaths, detached from the redeeming
and Jewish tradition. I hope, in all the years I optimism of the poem’s opening and closing passages?
have the good fortune to serve on the bench It appears that the point of reading the poem over a span of six weeks,
of the Supreme Court of the United States, I thereby dividing it into six sections, is precisely to emphasize this point —
“What is the difference will have the strength and courage to remain
steadfast in the service of that demand.
that even the retributive content of the poem is meant to be understood as
part of the whole, a paean of praise to God.
between a New York This becomes even clearer when we note that the finale of the poem is
A
City Garment District somewhat
s I reread this essay in 2020, there
is one sentence that strikes me as
ironic: “[We] are fortunate to ...
God’s promise of messianic redemption. From this perspective, all our turbu-
lent history can be seen as leading toward our ultimate radiant destiny. Thus,
the fact that this review of past failings ends on this positive, hopeful note
bookkeeper and a live at a time when Jews residing here face
few closed doors and do not fear letting
transforms the entire poem from a dirge into an exultant, joyful hymn.
The same applies to our own personal histories: we learn from Ha’azinu that
Supreme Court Justice? theHaving
world know who they are.”
been involved in a few campus all phases of our life, even those marked by embarrassing failures or suffering,
One generation.”
he incidents lately, I can’t help but imagine are necessary stages in personal growth, all leading to our eventual maturation as
RGB’s disappointment upon finding out her human beings fully devoted to our Divine mission and equipped to fulfill it.
g, grandchildren are becoming increasingly But more than that, the fact that Ha’azinu is a poem of praise teaches us
od — Ruth Bader Ginsburg hesitant to let the world know who they that the highest form of returning to God (teshuvah, the overall theme of the
he are. Had they applied to UCLA or USC, Book of Deuteronomy) is the return motivated by joy and performed in joy,
eo it is time for us to fulfil our promise and for example, they might well be deemed focused optimistically on the happy ending awaiting us at the conclusion of
he make her essay available to the general unfit to serve in student government by
the drama we are all living.
ng public. virtue of being Jewish, highly suspect of
Thus, this last, concluding section of Moses’ review of the covenant is his
no The following is the essay Ginsburg Zionist affiliation, beliefs or aspirations.
k, wrote for “I Am Jewish,” a book inspired by And Zionism, so university administrators
reminder to us to keep its significance at the forefront of our consciousness.
til the murder of my son by terrorists in 2002 tell us, is not a word their lawyers would In this way, our entire lives—past, present, and future—take on true meaning,
ed in Pakistan: permit them to spell, let alone respect or true vitality, and true direction. Our triumphs and our sufferings, our personal
It protect in public. and national identities, all combine to form our song of destiny, all flowing
He Former Supreme Court Justice Arthur May history remember Ginsburg for the toward the ultimate goal of making the world into God’s home. u
a Goldberg once said, “My concern for ideas she affirmed, the values she pursued
justice, for peace, for enlightenment stems and, not the least, her understanding of
From the writings of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem M. Schneerson.
from my heritage.” Justice Stephen Breyer the power of heritage in shaping values The Rebbe’s inspirational teachings on the Torah portion can be found in the Kehot
and I are fortunate to be linked to and ideas. n Chumash, produced by Chabad House Publications.
of that heritage, and to live in the U.S.A.
Sp ons o re d by Cha ba d o f Ca lif o rnia , in lov ing m e m o ry o f Ra bbi Tze m a c h
ed at a time when Jews residing here Judea Pearl is a professor emeritus at Yeh osh u a Cunin, E m is s a ry o f the Re bbe a nd Dire c to r o f Cha ba d o f Ce ntury City.
al face few closed doors and do not fear UCLA and president of the Daniel Pearl Foun-
letting the world know who they are. dation (danielpearl.org).
RBG and
learn Swedish and spend time in Sweden. when President Barack Obama could have
Ultimately, Ginsburg wrote a treatise on nominated a new justice who would have
Swedish civil law, which remains a leading been approved by the Democratic major-
women.”
Mishnah’s authors captured the limits of Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s legacy must live on
jurisprudence, the fragility of judicial in- in the form of courage, a courage that all
stitutions and the danger of relying on the justices must muster to protect our de-
courage of one justice. The fact the sages told anecdote recounts that at the end of and confirmed as a Supreme Court justice mocracy against our president. We must
inscribed this story as the law’s origin sto- her first year at Harvard, Ruth Bader Gins- in 1993, she was able to rule from prece- show that courage, too. We must take to
ry demonstrates the weakness of law in burg and the eight other women in her dents in cases that she had argued in front the streets to demonstrate that we will
the face of raw power. The sages all were class were summoned to the dean’s resi- of the court. not abide a cowed and cowering Supreme
killed. Shimon ben Shetah miscalculated, dence for dinner. At that dinner, the dean However, the political winds shifted, Court, that we will have the backs of jus-
and he lost. The law lost. asked the women to justify why they were and Ginsburg attained her “Notorious tices like Sotomayor, who can voice dis-
On the first night of Rosh Hashanah taking a man’s place at the school. Gins- RBG” moniker from her scathing dissents. sent. This will be the way we honor Ruth
this year, Shimon ben Shetah died. burg replied that she was studying the She called out the conservative wing of Bader Ginsburg’s memory. n
Ruth Bader Ginsburg was born on March law to understand her husband’s profes- the court for gutting the Voting Rights Act
15, 1933, in Brooklyn, N.Y., to an immigrant fa- sion better. To many, Ruth Bader Ginsberg (Shelby County v. Holder); for not recogniz- Aryeh Cohen is professor of rabbinic litera-
ther and a first-generation American mother. seemed destined to fulfill the role that ing the realities of employment in the Lilly ture at American Jewish University, the rabbi-
As the second female on the Supreme Court, many white Jewish women filled in mid- Ledbetter pay-discrimination case, which in-residence at Bend the Arc: Jewish Action,
she became a legend and an icon of the femi- century America — housewife with a pro- led to new congressional legislation; and Kogod Research Fellow of the Shalom Hartman
nist movement. However, this was not the fession secondary to her husband’s. on and on. She was fearless in calling out Institute and immediate past co-chair of the
obvious trajectory of her life. Yet, as Jill Lepore recently wrote, “Gins- power in her dissents. In the Shelby case, Board of Clergy & Laity United for Economic Jus-
Ginsburg grew up in an immigrant Jew- burg bore witness to, argued for, and Ginsburg likened the majority opinion to a tice. His latest book is “Justice in the City: An Ar-
ish neighborhood in Flatbush, and she helped to constitutionalize the most hard- person holding an umbrella in a storm and gument From the Sources of Rabbinic Judaism.”
She personally
broke the rules
for women in the
workplace, then
rewrote them for a
nation. We should
be obligated to
follow them — and
her.
“A JEW, A WOMAN AND A MOTHER, Let’s tell her stories and celebrate her life intersection of grief, memory, celebration On hope: “So that’s the dissenter’s
that was a bit much. Three strikes put me with reverence. and legacy? hope: that they are writing not for today,
out of the game,” Justice Ruth Bader Gins- Through reverent tears, many of the Look no further than RBG herself. Hon- but for tomorrow.”
burg once recalled. Jewish women I’ve spoken with in recent oring her legacy daily and in perpetuity On persistence: “Real change, enduring
Ginsburg’s life meant a lot of things to days are overwhelmed because they just feels like a tall order, but it was she who change, happens one step at a time.”
a lot of people. To Jewish working women can’t imagine the Supreme Court, the taught us the power of seemingly “small” On women in leadership: “Women be-
and mothers, she was our patron saint. country or the world itself without her. actions. Famous for chipping away at the long in all places where decisions are be-
Before we the term “glass ceilings” was That’s why we should be obligated to take wall of gender bias instead of toppling it, ing made. It shouldn’t be that women are
coined, she shattered them. Before we RBG’s legacy with us into our daily lives — the petite associate justice taught us the the exception.”
conceptualized intersectionality or a di- which is in and of itself a very Jewish idea. power of winning the war by winning On being allies as Jewish Americans:
versity, equity and inclusion movement, “Perhaps I should start by saying, I grew up in
she defined them. the shadow of World War II, and we came to
On the morning of Sept. 19, Rosh Ha- know more and more what was happening
What Does it
Mean to
Have a Deeper
Yom Kippur?
» by Rabbi Mordecai Finley
Rosh Hashanah begins the work. Yom Kippur seals it. But only if you are willing to go deep.
IN MY 40 YEARS OF LEADING HIGH movies, and created great work with pod- even from a distance. Even if we are not Holy Days are what set us on the path to
Holy Days services, many people have giv- casts, YouTube, TikTok and other platforms. sure what to believe, we are drawn there. do the digging.
en me reasons for why they were at Yom We have scheduled time to talk in groups Because so much of the familiarity of Yom Rosh Hashanah begins the work. Yom
Kippur services, even though they are non- and one on one with our friends. There Kippur is not there — the physicality, the Kippur seals it. But only if you are willing
believers. Each year, congregants approach have been Zoom minyans, Zoom weddings, immediacy — it seems we are more ready to go deep.
me and tell me they are excited for Yom Zoom study groups and Zoom counseling. than ever to experience the true meaning
Kippur because it is “the annual meeting of People have told me they are amazed at the of Yom Kippur. We are prepared to seek ‘Deeper’ is different for each person
the Jewish people.” Some congregants say depth of the other people in their online depth. A deeper Yom Kippur depends on how
they enjoy “being in the presence of their groups, whom they never would have met What are those depths? If we take into honest and courageous we can be with
community.” Others tell me they “don’t be- had it not been for social distancing. account the power of the liturgy, the Kol ourselves. For each person, a deeper Yom
lieve in God, sin or a God who punishes,” Kippur will look different. We all have
but they “still belong at services.” depth, and we all have distinct things
We may have been deceiving ourselves in our depths: brilliant coral reefs but
these past 40 years — and possibly much, also stark, lonely sunken ships; prayers
much longer. Yom Kippur isn’t the annual
meeting of the Jewish people. We don’t sit
Even if you don’t believe in God, you can never uttered; lives yet to be lived; words
we can’t take back, tossed into the deep.
around tables and decide policy; we typi-
cally sit quietly with books in our hands
suspend your disbelief for a moment and These depths are unavoidable. If not sal-
vaged, they will haunt us.
and listen. Nor is God the entire reason
for being there; if that were the case, then
know God is on to you. On this day, there is For me, the basis of Yom Kippur is that
the day assumes things are hiding in your
why would nonbelievers bother to show
up? And if we celebrated Yom Kippur just
nowhere to hide. depths. Maybe you know what they are,
and maybe you don’t. One of God’s names
to be around other people, then is the day on Yom Kippur is “Chacham Ha-Razim,”
canceled for those of us quarantining? We also have become much closer to Nidre, the many confessionals, the con- “Wise to the Secrets.” Even if you don’t be-
What, then, is the point of participating in Judaism. I’ve heard only a few people say stant sense of urgency to do teshuvah, we lieve in God, you can suspend your disbe-
Yom Kippur services? they won’t attend an online High Holy see an insistent push to face the parts of lief for a moment and know God is on to
I think the answer lies in the vast num- Days service. Instead, many of us are turn- us that hide and resist change. We see a you. On this day, there is nowhere to hide.
ber of ways people have experienced the ing inward — as we have in our day-to-day push to go deep. Consider Jonah, the book we read on
recent shutdown. We have not only dis- lives — to the High Holy Days. We don’t On this deepest day of the Jewish year, Yom Kippur. Jonah took a ship to run from
tanced, we have also experienced inward- want a screen-sized version of services; at the core of our souls, we seek to con- God, and a storm threatened to sink the
ness: People have learned new skills and we want services that will match our deep front our inner disruptions — the darkest, ship until the sailors threw him overboard.
practiced old ones, read and reread great experiences from these past months. scariest parts of ourselves — and carve Eventually, Jonah ended up in Nineveh,
books, watched amazing TV shows and Most of us know we belong at services, paths to truer, authentic selves. The High whether he liked it or not.
mourn the wasted indulge going in deep with all the dreadful
things going on out there. I instructed this
you beyond the horizon, without excuses.
Clear — with integrity, humility, wisdom
courage to say it? Out loud to yourself?
Yom Kippur has a confessional for that.
person to imagine they are walking a sca- and depth. Now list what stops you from Several of them.
Digging for true depth your resistance to moral and spiritual get it right; as if you have debris of regret
and needless pain littered behind you; as
Yet feeling deeply on Yom Kippur is
not the same thing as depth. We all feel excellence. if you desperately want to create a clearing
ahead of you, to dig down, break through
things deeply. We are deeply angry, afraid the resistance and find your heart of truth.
and confused, and maybe feel some dread These piercing calls into our depths are
about the things going on outside of us. Not holding back your tongue. There is lit- fronting your resistance to moral and not unique to this year’s Yom Kippur. Per-
There truly are great problems to solve, so- ter of being needlessly hurt and defensive spiritual excellence. With a deeper Yom haps, though, on this Yom Kippur, when
cial justice issues to work out and political because others are needlessly insensitive Kippur, you will understand those ob- our lives are shorn of attractions to the
agendas to pursue. and hurtful. But look over yonder —you stacles as not just bad habits, but instead nonessential, we can be especially tilled
I can tell you, though, what every coun- might see someone else making a clearing as an organized alienation from your true for the “light that is sown to the righteous.”
selor knows about these difficult times: on Yom Kippur, too. potential as a human being. In Judaism, Find the Heart of the Universe, who is
People are suffering, and politics play no Many people don’t want to call these we call that alienation the yetzer harah. waiting for your arrival and readies you for
favorites. I counsel people of just about ev- inner disruptions “sins” because, they tell The word “yetzer” is from the Hebrew the next mine to dig. That is a deeper Yom
ery mainstream political view. Their opin- me, “Jews don’t believe in sin; just in miss- word “to make” or “shape.” The yetzer ha- Kippur. n
ions on how to repair the world differ, but ing the mark, missing the target.” But just rah, then, is a pattern with a will of its
their suffering is pretty much the same: because someone doesn’t believe in some- own, defying and resisting our highest Rabbi Mordecai Finley is the spiritual leader
trouble in relationships, especially spous- thing doesn’t make it untrue. If we don’t values. It is an inner entropy, waiting for of Ohr HaTorah and professor of Jewish Thought
es and teenagers; internal senses of anxi- face our disruptions, they can make our us to fall apart. at the Academy of Jewish Religion, California.
Judaism Is for
Nonbelievers, Too
» by Rabbi Bradley Shavit Artson
THIS IS THE TIME OF YEAR FOR JEWS and more soaring than any articulation holy days. If we’re honest with ourselves, solitude, it’s what we do with the people in
to feel like hypocrites. We come to syna- of faith. In the Jerusalem Talmud, God whether or not we are talking to God, we our community.
gogue every year, pick up the machzor says to one of the rabbis, “Would that the love talking and singing with one another. One of my rabbis, Keilah Lebell, high-
and recite words that we’re not sure we Jews abandon me but keep my Torah, its The way that religion can build communi- lighted the need for community with a
believe. Do we really think there’s a mon- light would bring them back.” If God has ty is unequaled in the world. One leading teaching in Mishnah Rosh Hashanah. The
arch in the sky? Does God really shift from to choose between our loving Torah or our manifestation of emotional pain is chronic way the sages used to determine the date
one throne to another? Do we really think believing, God prefers that we engage with of the New Year was by asking people to
that the words we recite will avert an evil the Torah. God is not an egotist. Mitzvot travel to Jerusalem so they could attest
decree? and community matter. that they had seen the new moon. After
Regardless of our
There are good reasons that lead many It may seem like a whopper to claim the rabbis had two witnesses, then they
to reject belief. For example, Elisha ben that Judaism is bigger than belief or re- could proclaim the date for Rosh Hasha-
versions of ourselves
tell his son to climb up a tree and fetch ligion” because the modern understanding money and energy out of a sense of public
an egg from an elevated nest. The boy of religion — a discrete set of beliefs or ob- duty. Do you say to those 98 people, “Too
by dialoguing with
scrambled up the ladder, shooed away the servances — is not a Jewish concept. The late. Go home?” No.
mother bird — then tripped and plunged Torah understands that Judaism encom- The rabbis of the Mishnah teach that
walking a path of
no judge and there is no justice.” Judaism is so much more than just a creed. body represents something unique that
Here’s the background you need: The The Talmud doesn’t just stick to “belief,” it only they embody. Similarly, a Torah scroll
Jewish spirit.
only two biblical commandments that addresses every subject under the sun. is not ritually fit if it is missing even a sin-
explicitly promise long life are “honor- We need religion, whether or not we gle letter. All the letters together make a
ing your parents” and “shooing away the are believers, because there is no human Torah, and Judaism also requires all of us
mother bird.” The boy obeyed both com- enterprise more capable than religion for loneliness. And Americans are more alone together.
mandments and yet he died. building community, teaching compas- than ever. Even before social distancing, There is nothing like religion to build
Despite abundant reasons making it sion, inculcating morality and kindness, we ate meals alone, went to movies alone community. Those of you who are syna-
hard to have faith, so many of us return harnessing education for success, balanc- and longed for people to call us. Religion gogue regulars know that if you don’t
to services year after year. We recite these ing optimism and pessimism and foster- shatters that isolation, turns around and show up on a Saturday, someone will call
old prayers that some of us believe. Others ing creativity. Regardless of our beliefs, we opens up people to the importance of each you and say, “We missed you. Where were
don’t believe them at all. Maybe that’s why all can grow into better versions of our- person. you? Are you OK?”
we sing so many prayers in Hebrew — to selves by dialoguing with Jewish wisdom Consider Judaism’s insistence that a
blur the gap between our words and our and walking a path of Jewish spirit. minyan (10 adult Jews) is needed to recite A story big enough to hold us
convictions. our most sacred prayers. It’s not that God Part of what helps build this commu-
Nevertheless, we return and sing. That A cure for loneliness can’t hear until there’s a 10th person in nity is the extraordinary way that Juda-
is because Judaism is bigger than dogma, Our need for Judaism is made obvious the room, it’s that we need one another. ism repeats its fundamental stories again
more fundamental than metaphysics by the way so many of us feel drawn to the Religion for us is not what we do with our and again. This repetition reminds us that
wisdom speaking to us, elevating us and ate and release the evil impulse. God con- tunes each year because they remind us to
projecting our story on an ancient screen. sented, but the rabbis decided to blind it feel, sob and renew.
When we read the Torah, we are expected in one eye, to weaken its power before re-
to seek what we can learn from those sto- leasing it. Be honest, be yourself, be religious
ries today, what this poetry asks of us and We need both the yetzer tov and the Religion is too big to leave to the believ-
how it plays out in our lives. yetzer harah. We need a dose of optimism ers, and I say this as a believer. I love God
Unlike secular education, in which you and pessimism to lead optimal lives, and God has been a big part of my life. But
read a book once and then never read it which is why Judaism teaches us to man- I don’t write to my fellow believers now.
again, religious education selects a hand- age both through its pervasive blend of I write to those of you who are drawn to
ful of transformative books and then memorializing tragedy and celebrating joy. these holy days because you are honoring
affirms that in each rereading we will That’s rabbinic realism. someone for whom it’s important that you
discover new insights and make them ac- are here. I write to those of you who rever-
we are part of something bigger than our- cessible through repetition. Even though A creative muse berate to the sound of the shofar because
selves, that we are not living isolated lives we know how the story ends, we don’t Beyond inspiring a realistic sense of being a Jew matters to you, and whether
and that we are, in fact, the Children of Is- know how our story will end, so we pre- hope and mobilizing us to bring that hope or not you believe, you know that on this
rael. We discover our best selves through pare for our journey with these timeless to fruition, religion also cultivates art and day, your place is with your fellow Jews. I
the paradigmatic stories of our people: and timely texts. If you read a book, watch imagination. The world’s great museums write to those people who may not believe
creation, Sabbath, Egypt, slavery, freedom, a film or view a piece of art once, they are are filled with religious art. The world’s what’s in the prayer book but do stand
wandering to a Promised Land, command- merely entertainment. But if you engage great cities are crowned with spectacular with the history and the tradition that
ments, trying to build a kingdom of righ- with them repeatedly, they become portals
teousness, failing, getting exiled again and to wisdom that remain accessible during
trying to get it right this time. difficult times. They intertwine with our
That story is not just about one of our
own biological lives. It is not just about our
very selves.
Because of Judaism, our story is as big as our
circle of loved ones and children. Because
of Judaism, our story is as big as our peo-
A balance between optimism, pessi-
mism and resilience people, encompassing all of our values and
ple, encompassing all of our values and
aspirations from generation to generation,
Just as we need Jewish education to di-
rect our vision and fortify our pursuit of aspirations from generation to generation,
linking our heritage to our destiny. It is the
allure of a worthy future that inspires us
meaning, we need Judaism to ground us
in a realistic integration of long-term opti- linking our heritage to our destiny.
to organize our present and to live lives of mism and short-term resilience to get past
purpose. And there is no grander future life’s bumps. religious architecture. And much of the generated it. I write to all who want to join
than knowing we are journeying toward a We live in a culture that values opti- world’s great literature is inspired by re- in the great future that is coming. To all of
Land of Promise together. mism, but the kind of optimism it values ligiosity. Why? Because nothing inspires you, I want to say, you are not hypocrites.
Linking ourselves to this encompassing is often superficial. I can’t count the num- human imagination the way that religion You are heroes. Like the rest of us, you
narrative also means that our story must ber of times someone has told me, “No does. need the growth that can emerge from en-
include other people. The Chasidic mas- worries.” Every time, I want to shriek in Of course, a great deal of contemporary gaging with Torah, with mitzvot and with
ter, Rebbe Moshe Leib of Sassov, taught, response, “Have you read the newspaper art is inspiring. But compare the way we Judaism. So be honest, be yourself and be
“If someone seeks your aid, act as though lately? Of course there are worries.” Exces- look at secular art with the way we relate religious. n
there is no God and you be the one to help.” sive optimism is a drug and a distraction. to religious art. For secular art, people go
Rav Kook used to teach that the danger of For the sake of a false sense of comfort, it to a museum and see an exhibit that is Rabbi Bradley Shavit Artson holds the Abner
religion is that you can say, “Well, God will forces us to ignore the needs of others and themed by what period it was made in, or and Roslyn Goldstine Dean’s Chair of the Ziegler
take care of it.” But Judaism teaches us to the wounds of our hearts. Judaism deflects by a particular artist or school. The pieces School of Rabbinic Studies and is vice president
act as if there’s no God and do something this excessive optimism by asking us to re- are collected in a room together, and visi- of American Jewish University in Los Angeles. A
to fix the problem ourselves. When we call and ritualize tragic moments, opening tors stroll through, looking at the artist’s professor of philosophy, he also is dean of the
step up and take responsibility, we grow in our hearts to grief and consolation. Our use of paint and reading snippets of the Zacharias Frankel College in Potsdam, Germany,
compassion and connect with others, re- memories keep us human. artist’s biography. But at no point does where he ordains Conservative rabbis for Europe.
ducing their loneliness and ours. But excessive pessimism is just as toxic someone turn to you and ask, “What do To dig deeper into this approach to religion, spend
and pervasive in our culture. Jewish histo- you know about yourself or about emo- time with “Jewish Religiosity” by Martin Buber,
An education for character ry refutes the sterile nihilism that it can’t tions differently because of this painting?” “Religion for Atheists” by Alain de Botton, and “A
To truly understand our need for Ju- get better. We are the people who con- By contrast, religious art heightens Common Faith” by John Dewey.
A Story of
During the next few months, while
Betty lived at Amir, I worked as an able
seaman in the Persian Gulf. After the Yom
IN EARLY OCTOBER 1973, MY WIFE, As the bus got closer to Kiryat Shmona, butz gate and he said, ‘What’s going on?’
Betty, was living at Kibbutz Amir in the people got off, leaving fewer and fewer I asked him what he was afraid of. He
Upper Galilee’s Hula Valley, where she
worked half days in the orchards and stud-
passengers. It got dark outside and what
had at first seemed safe became terrifying.
said he doesn’t like to see soldiers coming
into the kibbutz in time of war; it means
It got dark outside
ied at an ulpan during the other half.
On Friday, Oct. 5, 1973 she took the four-
When the bus arrived, there was only one
other passenger — and he lived in Kiryat
they’re bringing bad news — maybe a kib-
butz member has been killed.
and what had at
hour ride from the closest city with a bus
station, Kiryat Shmona, in order to spend
Shmona.
She got off the bus and looked around.
“I remember getting together with some
soldiers who’d been on the front lines in the
first seemed safe
Yom Kippur with her relatives in Tel Aviv.
By early Saturday afternoon, Oct. 6, they’d
“Every window in Kiryat Shmona was
blacked out,” she recalled. “It was scary but
Golan and they’d been given two days off.
The soldiers looked tired, wasted. I had the
became terrifying.
been fasting for 18 hours when, shocking- I had no way of returning to Tel Aviv.” feeling the situation was bad. I remember a
ly, they heard noises: tires screeching, cars There was a war going on, and she was young woman, a kibbutz member, toasted I read Time and Newsweek magazines,
pulling out of driveways. alone. Shakily, she walked toward Amir. them with ‘L’chayim aruchim,’ to a long life but all mention of Israel had been blacked
Sabche, Betty’s aunt, was worried. “She “I don’t remember how I got to Amir, but …. It was very poignant in that situation, in out, pages torn out. I contacted my par-
said something ‘serious’ was happening,” I got there. I probably hitchhiked. It was the middle of a war, with these soldiers on ents, who lived in Baltimore, and they
Betty recalled. “Nobody drives in Israel a 10-minute ride. At Amir, there were no temporary leave, not knowing if they were communicated with Amir. Betty and I re-
on Yom Kippur.” Minutes later, an alarm lights. It was hard to walk around. I made going to survive.” layed our messages via my parents and
sounded. my way by memory to the dining room Betty and I had met in Argentina in assured each other we were OK. We also
The Yom Kippur War had started. and went inside. They’d blacked out all the 1971. As a couple, we wandered Latin made plans on how and where to get back
Betty’s thoughts were with her friends at windows, but inside, there was light. America and Europe with little money. In together.
Amir: those at the ulpan (a school for the in- “When I went in, they looked at me like February 1973, eight months before the Fast forward to July 1974, seven months
tensive study of Hebrew) as well as kibbutz I was an apparition. ‘How did you make it Yom Kippur War, we landed in Israel with later. Betty and I are in New York; she’s
members, including her Hebrew teacher, here? What the hell are you doing here?’ I $20 in our wallets, and became volunteers pregnant with our first child. We aren’t
who’d become a surrogate father to her. She said I felt it was better to come back and at Kibbutz Netiv HaLamed Hei in the Val- sure what our next move will be. Should
knew most men in the kibbutz would be do whatever’s needed instead of being ley of Elah. we remain in the U.S.? Go back to Argen-
mobilized. By the third day away from the back in Tel Aviv doing nothing. Our closest friends there were Shu- tina? What about Israel?
mach and Yael, members of the kibbutz, We contacted Netiv HaLamed Hei and
a married couple with no children. Every- received tragic news: On Yom Kippur, Shu-
one, including Yael, called him Shumach, mach, our dear friend, was on reserve duty
his last name. We spent a lot of time with in the Sinai and was killed during the first
In February 1973, eight months before the them, and the four of us traveled together
throughout Israel. Once, when Shumach
hour of the war, which lasted Oct. 6-25,
1973.
Yom Kippur War, we landed in Israel with pointed out for the umpteenth time the We remembered that thoroughly hu-
of Elah.
book.” could we refuse him now — now that
By June 1973, we’d been at Netiv he had given his life for Israel? We owed
HaLamed Hei for four months. We liked it it to him, owed it to that moment when
kibbutz, Betty felt she had to go back. “At Amir, the windows were blacked but didn’t want to feel that staying there he stood in the doorway and asked us to
“It’s crazy,” Sabche told her. “You’ll out, explosions on the mountains, fires, was our only option. I had received a small come back.
be in a war zone.” Betty reasoned that if planes flying low. There were alarms and tax refund and decided to use it to travel And yes, we did go back. We became
there was a bus going to Kiryat Shmona, it we had to run to shelters, where the chil- overland to an Asian port where, as a members of Netiv HaLamed Hei, lived and
meant things were OK up north. She went dren slept. It was a different feeling from professional deckhand, I could get work on worked there for two years, and our older
to Tel Aviv’s Central Bus Station, where she Tel Aviv. I wasn’t scared, but it felt like a an American merchant ship. Meanwhile, son, Rafi, was born while we were there.
felt comforted by the crowds, a sign of nor- war zone. Betty was set on going to a kibbutz with an After we left the kibbutz, we lived for
malcy. Buses were leaving, so she caught “One day, I was walking with my ulpan ulpan so she could refresh the Hebrew she more than five years in Jerusalem before
one that was half-full to Kiryat Shmona. teacher. We saw two soldiers at the kib- had learned as a student. moving to Los Angeles. n
WITH THE DOORS TO THE ARK OPEN, The prediction was apt, but it did not articulate what has been painful and dis- the digital world is greater than the human
they came with their hearts open. They account for the coronavirus. As the leader- tressing about this era, yet challenging world. It is not. Virtual reality is impressive,
came with their unexpected tears and ship thought through the worship options them to name one unexpected wonder but it is no replacement for human touch,
their whispered intimacies. They came, we would offer our community over these they have found. Stepping back so their for presence, for true closeness.
broken and battered by COVID-19 and unique holidays (small, truncated services whispered words aren’t audible and thus On Kol Nidre, many communities recite
wildfires and choking air and societal up- outdoors as well as “Zooms galore”), we remain private, and inviting them to turn a piyyut (liturgical poem) whose refrain
heaval and crushing loneliness and finan- also explored creative ways, borne out to one another to articulate any wish or is labrit habet, v’al tefen layetzer. We ask
cial worry. They came with the crevices of God to remember
their souls exposed and they had a chance the covenant and
to place a prayer in the crevices of the Holy not pay attention to
Ark. our wayward urges.
When Temple Beth Am dedicated its
new sanctuary in 2019, just a few weeks
Virtual reality is This year, I sug-
gest we turn those
before Rosh Hashanah, we had no idea
how one spiritually whimsical design de-
impressive, but it is words on ourselves.
Let us not succumb
tail could become so important and pro-
found in 2020. And with our sanctuary so
no replacement for to the urge that
values the virtual
full and robust last year, we couldn’t an-
ticipate how empty and lonely it (and its
human touch, for over the personal.
Rather, let us re-
usual attendees) would be this year.
That one design detail was in our Aron
presence, for true member the cov-
enant of humanity
HaKodesh. Its doors include an array of
iridescent cubes. The sun’s rays stream
closeness. we share and re-
commit — both in
in from the vast window on the east side of this excruciating moment, to serve up creative ways while
of the room, refract through those cubes tastes and feelings related to the High the pandemic rag-
and create a subtly dazzling dappled light. Holy Days. es and in all ways
When one is inside the ark and turns One of those ideas was to invite family once it ebbs — to be
around to face the sanctuary, one can units to spend 15 minutes at and within together, because
see the back of those cubes — hundreds the Holy Ark with one of our rabbis. The feeling welling up inside of them. we need to be together more than we ever
of them. And many are perforated with scene looked like a hybrid between a hock- And then, we turn back to the mini- have before.
small, tubular hollows. ey penalty box and a Catholic church con- Kotel, watching as Jews — who are about So much of human connection has
We intended that our ark would be a fessional, with the rabbi in one “pen” be- to recite a litany of scripted prayers during been wrenched away from us. For all of the
repository not only for God’s words but hind a plexiglass screen and the family in the High Holy Days — write out personal digital davening wonders we will deliver to
for ours. Not just holy writ but our writ- a separate pen on the other side of the ark. ones and place them within our ark. our community as we celebrate 5781, per-
ings. At the dedication last year, members Despite the masks, the physical distance, Zoom is a wonder. Navigating COVID-19 haps nothing will be more important and
wrote small prayers on special colored the plexiglass and the otherwise empty — personally, professionally, education- needed than those 15 minutes by the ark.
paper. They rolled the prayers around a room, these moments have felt intimate, ally — without it is nigh impossible. But And perhaps even some of those prayers
dowel and inserted them into the cubes’ grand, full and pregnant with meaning. Zoom also has limitations in some ways by in our mini-Kotel will be answered. n
hollows. Beth Am’s mini-Kotel, we mused, And prayer. enslaving us even more powerfully to our
had enough space for notes to last several There is such joy in seeing a member of screens. Zoom’s ubiquity and effectiveness Rabbi Adam Kligfeld is the senior rabbi at
generations. your community in person: having them is reinforcing to a young generation that Temple Beth Am.
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Honduras to Move Embassy Internet Giants Urged old rapper, also known as Freeze Corleone, en- ’30s” and “couldn’t care less about the Shoah.”
to Jerusalem by Year’s End to Remove French Rapper’s gages in “anti-Semitism, conspiracy theories, Corleone’s album has enjoyed consider-
Honduras will move its embassy to Je- Songs on Hitler, Jews and Money glorification of Hitler and the Third Reich and able commercial success by local standards,
rusalem by the end of this year, the Prime France’s oldest anti-racism watchdog the terrorist Mullah Omar,” a former leader of selling about 15,000 copies since its release
Minister’s Office in Israel announced. group called on internet giants to remove the Taliban, LICRA wrote last week on Twitter. on Sept. 11 — a date some believe he chose
The Sept. 21 statement followed a tele- from their platforms newly released rap songs Corleone sings on his 10th album, “The deliberately. The album’s 17 songs have been
phone conversation the previous day be- that critics say are anti-Semitic. Phantom Threat,” about wanting his children played more than 5 million times on Spotify,
tween Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin The International League Against Racism to “live like Jewish investors” and of being “de- according to the magazine Marianne. Cor-
Netanyahu and Honduran President Juan and Anti-Semitism (LICRA) urged YouTube, termined like Adolf.” leone has a long history of similar statements
Orlando Hernandez. Google, Apple Music and Spotify to remove He also sings “F*** a Rothchild, f*** a Rock- in his previous albums, the magazine showed.
Last year, Honduras recognized Jeru- works by Issa Lorenzo Diakhaté. The 28-year- efeller, I come determined like Adolf in the — Cnaan Liphshiz, JTA
salem as the capital of Israel and opened
a commercial office in the city. The two
nations and the United States had met
earlier in the year in Brazil and issued a
joint statement in which they agreed to
strengthen political ties “and coordinate
IMAGE OF THE WEEK
cooperation on development in Hondu-
ras,” as well as to “pursue a plan of action,
which includes meetings in their three re-
spective capitals, to advance the process
of the decision to open embassies in both
Tegucigalpa and Jerusalem.”
“We hope to take this historic step be-
fore the end of the year, as long as the
pandemic allows it,” Hernandez tweeted
about the embassy move to Jerusalem.
Honduras has the second-largest pop-
ulation of Palestinians in Latin America,
The Times of Israel reported.
— Marcy Oster, JTA
High Fever?
Israel’s search of a new status quo:
“We don’t have any other choice. Israel is the only country we have. If we con-
tinue in this [polarized] way, we will end up having a civil war. And nobody wants
that. In fact, I think we are already in some kind of a cultural civil war. Everything
is almost mean. I think this is because we are trying to understand who we are and
» by Shmuel Rosner what we stand for.”
LESS THAN A WEEK AGO, FOR THE to go to work without having any ar-
first time in my life, I blew the shofar on rangements for the kids — unless they
Rosh Hashanah. I have a short, black sho- leave the kids with a relative who’s not
far that’s relatively easy to blow. I bought sheltering with them. But that violates
it on Sept. 17, the day before the holiday the edicts. Or take them to work. Also
began, at a small Chabad shop not far from a violation. Or send them to a friend’s
where I live. house. Also a violation. So parents end
Because I have some experience play- up breaking the rules by skipping work
ing trumpet, clarinet, flute and other brass or by having contact with a relative
and wind instruments, I figured that the who’s not sheltering with them. Some
R
career, Ginsburg uth Bader Ginsburg, whose death on the first
night of Rosh Hashanah sent shockwaves
tradition and forgot her upbringing or the obstacles she overcame, us-
ing them to drive her pursuit of justice. May we learn from
Jewish history. It her life so we can inherit her spirit, her legacy and her
battle for a better world.
THE
ahead, you had to be twice as good, twice as tough, twice
as determined. All around her, fellow students were the
first in their family to speak English, the first to gradu-
ate from high school, the first to attend college, the first
whose horizons were less limited by poverty. After World
War II, America became a land of opportunity, at least for
JEWESS
men.
Based on her academic success in high school, Gins-
burg was able to attend Cornell University, where she met
the man she would marry — Martin Ginsburg. Their love
and marriage would enter lore as the justice achieved
celebrity status. Martin was outgoing and gregarious, his
AND THE
wife shy and reserved. He loved to cook and bake. She was
told by her family never to enter the kitchen. They both
loved music and, above all, each other.
Martin Ginsburg was a confident man who could revel
in his wife’s achievements. Although he was a success-
ful tax attorney, he was willing to adjust his life to make
JURIST
room for her to rise to the top of her profession. Unapolo-
getically, he used all his contacts and clout to advance her
candidacy for the Supreme Court.
Ruth Bader Ginsburg became an icon of modern femi-
nism — but so did Martin. By witnessing their love, many
husbands are reminded that it takes a real man to be sup-
portive of and empower an accomplished spouse. True to
form, on his deathbed, Martin wrote, “My dearest Ruth …
You are the only person [aside from my parents, children
» by Michael Berenbaum and Edward Gaffney, Jr. and grandchildren] I have loved in my life and I have ad-
mired and loved you almost since the day we first met at
Cornell. What a treat it has been to watch your progress to
the very top of the legal world.”
At a seminar on gender
swers were always gracious, and when her schedule per- that appeared to protect women. But she spoke the truth:
mitted, she would make the effort to participate in and putting women on pedestals actually put them in cages.
duty of attentiveness.
of social justice. Some of her work is at risk of being re- procedural fairness. If government wanted to stop her by
versed. throwing a long list of laws at her, she would address each
But Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg was focused on the
future — and so should we. Just consider the final words
by Martin’s fellow students, typed them up, and worked from 2004 speech at the Capitol:
with him to get him to graduate on time — all while ex- I was fortunate to be a child, a Jewish child, safely in
celling at her own studies and mothering their daughter,
Jane. Her work ethic and her fierce determination served
America during the Holocaust …. In the aftermath of
World War II, in the civil rights movement of the 1950s As we sit shivah this week
them both well. Many of those who have looked at Gins-
burg have not appropriately recognized the herculean ef-
and 1960s, in the burgeoning women’s rights movement
of the 1970s, “We the People” expanded to include all of for Ruth Bader Ginsburg,
fort it took for her many accomplishments.
When Martin graduated, he took a job in New York.
humankind, to embrace all the people of this great nation.
Our motto, E Pluribus Unum, of many one, signals our ap- we should reflect upon her
This posed a problem for Ginsburg, who still had her last
year of law school left. She approached Griswold with a
preciation that we are the richer for the religious, ethnic,
and racial diversity of our citizens. experiences as a Jew, a law
request that she take her last year at Columbia but obtain
a Harvard degree. Griswold refused such an accommoda-
Despite the considerable progress, a daunting distance
remains to be traveled … student, a law professor,
tion, so she transferred to Columbia. It was a decision that
Harvard lives to regret and one that Columbia continues
While mindful of current realities, the opening of doors
long closed makes me optimistic about a future in which advocate of gender
to celebrate.
After graduating from Columbia, Ruth Bader Ginsburg
daughters and sons alike will be free from artificial bar-
riers, free to aspire and achieve in full accord with their equality, and federal
looked for clerkship opportunities, and only after enormous
pressure from her professor was she offered a clerkship for
God-given talents, and their willingness to do the hard
work needed to make their dreams come true. judge and see how we, in
a federal judge. But even that couldn’t compensate for her
her stead, can adopt her
gender. Ginsburg was unable to secure a position in a pres-
tigious law firm. Instead, she went into academia — first
at Rutgers and then at Columbia — and worked with the
A s we sit shivah this week for Ruth Bader Ginsburg, we
should reflect upon her experiences as a Jew, a law
student, a law professor, advocate of gender equality, and genuine insight.
American Civil Liberties Union on landmark gender equal- federal judge and see how we, in her stead, can adopt her
ity cases. For her trailblazing legal work, President Jimmy genuine insight. one, one at a time. But Ginsburg also recognized that there
Carter appointed Ginsburg to the U.S. Court of Appeals for According to the eminent Canadian philosopher Ber- was a way to achieve gender equality without litigating
the District of Columbia Circuit in 1980. In 1993, President nard Lonergan, genuine insight requires attentiveness, in- law by law. She advocated strongly and persistently for
Bill Clinton appointed her to the Supreme Court. Ginsburg, telligence, reasonableness and responsibility. Ruth Bader the ratification of the Equal Rights Amendment because
who was excluded from law firms and the bimah, secured Ginsburg had all of these qualities — and more. she saw it as a move “toward a legal system in which each
one of the most exclusive jobs in the country. At a seminar on gender discrimination led by Justice person will be judged on individual merit and not on the
Ginsburg and her husband, both exemplified the duty of basis of an unalterable trait of birth.”
A trailblazing Jew attentiveness. They began each day’s discussion with a fo- In short, Ruth Bader Ginsburg was insightful in the
Throughout her successful career, Ginsburg remained cus on actual experiences of the people they represented most expansive and rigorous meaning of what human
deeply proud of Jewish tradition and Jewish history. It was in these cases. They knew all of their clients by name and understanding entails: being attentive, intelligent, rea-
at the core of her values and influenced her immensely. how their lives had been affected by irrational legislation. sonable and responsible. The best way we can honor her
In a speech at the United States Holocaust Memorial Mu- Justice Ginsburg began the seminar by stating, “The first legacy is to emulate those character traits.
seum in 2004, Ginsburg said: thing Marty and I did was to get to know the client. It is May her memory be a blessing on us all. n
My heritage as a Jew and my occupation as a judge always important to find out what’s happening in the cli-
fit together symmetrically. The demand for justice runs ent’s life …. Our primary role as lawyers is to help this Michael Berenbaum is director of the Sigi Ziering Institute
through the entirety of Jewish history and Jewish tradi- person, not to promote a cause.” and a professor of Jewish Studies at American Jewish Univer-
tion. I take pride in and draw strength from my heritage, Second, Ginsburg was intelligent. The facts she learned sity. Edward Gaffney Jr. is a senior scholar at Valparaiso Uni-
as signs in my chambers attest: a large silver mezuzah on from her clients always generated a serious question versity.
Efrat settlement
Written during the first intifada, late ’80s
CHILDREN OF ABRAHAM
And you came with terror
both of us
and hate
children of Abraham
We answered you
who walked this holy land
with schools
with staff in hand
with doctors
and faith
with hope
Children of Abraham
We beckoned to you
who offered his son
in peace
to God on the holy mount
We screamed from the bottom of our souls:
Together we
who we call Isaac
“Peace!”
and you call Ishmael
could offer
who said to his cousin Lot,
You answered our pleas
“Let us part ways
with Munich
the world
in peace.”
and Maalot
You answered our prayers
a vision
Children of Abraham
with pain in the night
we never left this land
There were eras
when only a handful survived
no more
no more
together.
while nations came and went
Romans and Greeks and Turks
can we turn away Together we
could offer
no more
Byzantian and British
no more
While the children of Abraham
tended fields
Our blood checkered with yours across the fields the world a
dream.
Our children, schoolbags full of hope
wrote in the cities of Safad
passing your little shepherd boy on the road we share
and Jerusalem
your flock mingling with ours
books of wonder and of wisdom
so young, so young
A destiny so old, and so young
Children of Abraham
“I have enormous hopes for this historic occasion, that it will be far more
than a moment that we celebrate; that we will still witness a profound
and lasting shift in the global tensions surrounding Israel and how Muslim
nations relate to Israel.” — Milikh Yevdayev on the UAE deal (Sept. 22)
C o nt inue rea d ing th e se blog posts an d ot h er s at Jew i sh Jo u r n al .c o m
CRANBERRY ALMOND
BISCOTTI
The Sweetness
road. They’re concerned about the convoy
of military trucks, some loaded with jeeps,
barreling up the main road toward Israel’s
northern border.
meals we eat to
serrated knife.
synagogue. We’d come home and, before macaroni and cheese with crispy sage and Lower temperature to 275 F and bake
treats.
When the end of Yom Kippur was sig- from a traditional Iraqi family but, along
naled by the long blast of the shofar, my the way, she perfected the art of the Polish- PONCHE DE HUEVOS
Lithuanian dessert babka. Very popular
in Israel, they are called oogot sh’marim
(yeast cakes). They come with various deli-
cious fillings such as cinnamon, chocolate
and, like the ones Kahtan baked for us,
tangy, creamy, slightly sweet cheese. Fol-
low Kahtan on Instagram @MickeyBakes.
We also share our mothers’ recipes:
Nana Sue’s Cranberry Almond Biscotti and
Maman’s sweet coffee (Ponche De Huevos).
Mickey Kahtan’s Cheese Babka This year, we gratefully celebrate Yom
Kippur basking in the knowledge of a new
peace agreement with our Arab brethren. n
Confront Ageism • A T
• Restore for U
you persisted. Even as a professor, you were licized battles with cancer and her advanced
paid less than your male colleagues. Yet you age, she somehow seemed superhuman.
persisted. You defended widowers denied And, so, when I learned of her death, it was
pensions, fighting for gender equality before hard to fully comprehend. How could RBG
the law. Your elevation to the Supreme Court die? The truth is, the ideals that Justice Gins-
elevated us all. With the passage of time, you burg fought for are bigger than any one life,
became the living symbol of the dignity of all no matter how extraordinary. We were truly
people. You used the power of your pen and privileged to share the world with her for a from minority religions, like Jews) and
office to force the law to conform. You per- time. Now it is up to us to carry on her dis- much more. I won’t lie — when I think of A Giant of Her Generation
sisted. Through it all, you lived life well. You sent against the status quo. Madam Justice, all of that I feel afraid. But I’m certain of Every night, my 3-month-old goes to
cultivated a loving marriage, raised kind and we are ready. this: We can’t surrender to fear. We must sleep with a stuffed likeness of Justice Ruth
smart children, supported a diverse circle of — Rabbi Adam Greenwald, vice president all find within the Nachshon-like courage Bader Ginsburg in his crib. The proliferation
friends. You lived the Torah’s demand to love for Jewish Engagement, American Jewish Uni- of Ruth Bader Ginsburg. of RBG swag may seem kitschy, but her sta-
your neighbor as yourself, that there must be versity and director, Maas Center for Jewish — Eric Greene, writer, civil rights activist, tus as a pop culture icon reflects a deeper
one law for the citizen and the stranger, that Journeys and the Miller Introduction to Juda- board member of Jewish Multiracial Network yearning in our society: We are hungry for
the land must be allowed to rest, that we are ism Program righteous role models. The non-superhu-
commanded to pursue justice. We will honor
We Cannot Surrender to Fear The Thurgood Marshall man among us find strength and refuge in
you. We will walk your path. Your memory is of Disability Rights the massive shadow cast by an 85-pound
a blessing. As the newly freed Israelites were es- octogenarian. She was a seeker of justice
— Rabbi Bradley Shavit Artson, Abner and caping from Egypt, trapped on the shores The disability rights community lost with a steadfast moral compass and an un-
Roslyn Goldstine Dean’s Chair of the Ziegler School of the Sea of Reeds, one person, Nachshon, a champion in RBG. The NAACP and oth- flinching fight balanced only by a patient in-
of Rabbinic Studies and vice president of American had the courage to step into the water ers have noted that President Bill Clin- tegrity that enabled her to navigate a world
Jewish University first. The waters did not part at first, but ton, when nominating Justice Ginsburg that was decades behind her. She had faith
Nachshon kept going, risked drowning, to the Supreme Court, referred to her as that the world would catch up. I want that
Justice and Equality and inspired the others. Ruth Bader Gins- the Thurgood Marshall of women’s rights. faith. And I want to teach that faith to my
There have been 114 justices on the Su- burg was a modern Nachshon. At her first Often hailed as the legal linchpin of inde- son.
preme Court since 1789. But only one of them appearance before the Supreme Court, pendent living for people with disabilities, — Rabbi Sarah Bassin, associate rabbi,
became a veritable rock star. How remark- she famously quoted Sarah Grimke: “All I her powerful decision [in 1999’s Olmstead Temple Emanuel of Beverly Hills
Life But Never Defined Her Hearing about the passing of Justice Gins-
burg felt like losing a hero, a Jewish biblical
A Shofar Call to Confront
Ageism
past four years to be truly awe-inspiring. With Jewish history tions it will likely have for our nation, will in of the Torah’s most famous words: “Tzedek,
everything against her — failing health, a con- fact spark that great awakening. We hold now Tzedek Tirdof — Justice, justice, you shall
servative majority on the bench, ugly public A Resilient, Defiant Trailblazer many layers of grief — first and foremost for pursue.” RBG spent a lifetime following the
discourse — she did not slow down, she did After I emerged from my yontif break from the death of an exceptionally brilliant, fierce Torah’s vision of pursuing justice and creat-
not lose her spirit. In this perilous moment in technology, I read some of the articles on RBG, and courageous Jewish woman, a jurist, a ing a just society. Those famous words were
history, I find comfort in her words from about including those by people who were profes- mother and grandmother, a role model to mil- framed on the wall of her Supreme Court
a year ago: “The progress I have seen in my sionally closest to her, and was struck by what lions, whose steadfast commitment to justice, chambers, and they were etched deeply in
lifetime makes me optimistic for the future.” a woman of few words she was socially. (I equality and basic fairness made this country her heart. As I mourn her loss, I connect to
My hope is that we can carry on with her opti- want to learn from her in this regard, for sure.) and world a better place. And we hold antici- these words even more, as I do to the words
mism and fearlessness. I was reminded how much of her strength as patory grief, as we project the ramifications of recited thrice daily: “Restore for us our judges
— Todd Shotz, executive director and founder, a woman was because of her resilience, her her death and the brazen political maneuver- of old.”
Hebrew Helpers; board co-chair, JQ International defiance and her trailblazing in a field of mi- ings that will likely ensue in her absence. We — Rabbi Daniel Bouskila, Sephardic Educa-
sogynistic men of the legal world who did not must remember: even as we say Mourner’s tional Center and Westwood Village Synagogue
in America
she was. We don’t even bat an eye when said, adding, “that is a duty that not just
we speak of the justice who became a lawyers have but citizens have in terms
pop culture icon and earned the fabulous of achieving a broader notion of justice in
nickname the Notorious RBG. However, she society. I don’t think that law exists simply
was part of a not particularly glamorous to serve the powerful. I think it exists to
profession for those who work in it every day. spread the notion of justice to all people
Thursday, October 1, 11:00 AM – 12:00 PM A Jewish professor of constitutional in all situations. That is something she
law, evidence, law of the border and other definitely believed and she connected with
RABBI SANDRA LAWSON legal courses at the UCLA School of Law, Judaism.”
Peter Reich told the Journal that Ginsburg That sentiment resonates with Reich, as
Associate Chaplain for Jewish Life and
Senior Jewish Educator at Hillel at Elon University “was someone who does Ginsburg’s famous
was a model for many quote that she had said
Rabbi Sandra Lawson was ordained by the Reconstructionist Ruth
generations of law Bader before but also used to
Rabbinical College in June 2018. She graduated magna cum laude students and lawyers Ginsburg close her talk in 2001
from Saint Leo University with a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology, and — in terms of someone during an address at
holds a Master of Arts in Sociology from Clark Atlanta University. who combined her the National Council
Rabbi Sandra served in the United States Army as a Military Police scholarly precision of Jewish Women titled
person. She later started a personal training business and worked as an Adjunct Instructor with activism for social “Three Brave Jewish
of Sociology at local community colleges. She also served as the Investigative Researcher justice.” Women,” focusing on
for ADL’s Southeast Region, becoming the go-to person on hate groups for southern law Reacting to her Emma Lazarus, Anne
enforcement. She is also a writer for The Forward. Rabbi Sandra’s vision is to help build a more death, Reich said, “It’s Frank and Henrietta
inclusive Jewish community where all are welcomed and diversity is embraced. a huge loss. She was a Szold (founder of
person who spent every Hadassah). The quote
In conversation with day of her working life was: “I am a judge
as though it was her born, raised and proud
last. I feel as though of being a Jew. The
SAMIRA MEHTA
IKAR’s Yizkor
Memorial Garden: A
Space for Memory and
Dr. Eugene Rogolsky was someone who had a passion for
medicine, not only in practicing, but in the teaching as a Keck
Medical Professor and mentoring of other physicians. A pioneer
Community Connection
in the field of HIV healthcare, Dr. Rogolsky never shied away » by Esther D. Kustanowitz, Contributing Writer
from helping those most marginalized. Rather than turn his back
on those suffering from HIV and AIDS, he became a fighter in
IKAR PUBLISHES A YIZKOR BOOK you’re not touching anything?”
the battle. His compassion and empathy helped those suffering, every year that features members’ stories of The team settled on asking visitors to take
and offered hope when many felt hope was lost. He volunteered loved ones who have died. Reading these re- a stone with them from the entrance and de-
at many healthcare centers and utilized his gift of helping others. flections during Yom Kippur services — along posit it in a mandala’s spiral before they exit.
He was honored for his work many times including The Los An- with the Yizkor service — was a way to con- “When you go to a cemetery, you leave a peb-
geles Jewish Aids Society and AltaMed HIV Services. nect deeply with other IKARites, and to serve ble,” Goldfinger said. “With our stone activity,
In addition to medicine, Gene had an appreciation for the as witnesses to their loss and learn more the idea is to pick one up and carry it through
arts, he had a love for theater and he was a well known art col- about how they became the people they are and put it in a spiral in a sacred community
lector. His gift of about 800 pieces to the USC Fisher Museum of today. of mourners. So even though you didn’t touch
Art was celebrated in 2016 with an amazing exhibit that showed This year, as with everything relating to anyone, you see people mourning with you.”
the High Holy Days in the era of COVID-19, the She added, “The sculptures and mandalas on
his eclectic taste and interest in varied mediums.
space that IKAR carves out for grief had to be the ground do the job of ushering you into the
Friends and family alike would note that Gene always had
rethought. The result is IKAR’s Yizkor Memo- space.”
a twinkle in his eye, and was generous with his appreciation rial Garden, a physical space on IKAR’s patio Hutman said, “We were groping for how
and gratitude to those he held dear. He will be missed by many, off La Cienega Boulevard, with an exhibit that people can be together because it’s been so
and especially by his partner and husband of 28 years, Joseph holds people’s memories and limits the num- painful to mourn in isolation.”
Boutell. ber of visitors at any one time for health and Lebell noted that one guiding idea was the
On June 9, 1929 Eugene Harmon Rogolsky parents, Eva and safety reasons. wall of candles present in many churches.
Israel David Rogolsky, welcomed their son, into their family of IKAR Assistant Rabbi Keilah Lebell, who “You might be completely alone but you light
girls, Lillian (Bickart), Jeanette (Kaufman) and Ann (Lesser). Over created the space with co-chairs and IKAR a candle and see the other candles that are lit
the years, this devoted son was a loving Husband, Brother, Un- members Samara Hutman and Sarah Gold- and know that others have been there,” she
cle, Cousin, friend, and mentor to many. finger, said the goal was to create “a way said. “We are all part of this space together,
for people to come to a physical space and creating connection between community
He is survived by his loving husband Joe Boutell. His many
have a Yizkor moment that didn’t have members.”
loving nieces and nephews, Joan Colman and Eric Colman, Dr.
anything to do with a screen.” On Monday afternoon, the garden was
Martin Lesser and Dr. Linda Ann Groene, Lauren, Max and Ari Feedback from several mourners empty of people, but the breeze carried sounds
Bogren, Madeline and Alek Jeziorek, Steven, Lori, Samantha and shaped a more interactive experience that that you only hear when human voices are ab-
Matthew Lesser, Debbie, Dori, Julia and Elizabeth Nagar, Jeffrey also adhered to safety guidelines. Hutman, sent: air lightly whipping at sheltering tarps,
Debi, David and Jessica Kaufman, in-laws Tina, Harley and who had been a set decorator for years, wind chimes tinkling idiosyncratically, the
Vincent Boutell , first cousins Howard and Elinor Bernstein and suggested a garden, Lebell said, and cre- bubbling fountains creating a spa-like calm.
many members of his extended family and friends. ated “something that’s alive, where people “It is a very holy place,” Hutman said. “I
To donate in his name please donate to Birthright Israel at could visit and spend time there.” Lebell myself have been healed here over the course
https://birthrightisrael.foundation/donate credited Goldfinger for knowing “how to of weeks as we took it from idea to place, to
create sacred space and a sense of beauty.” human space with dimension, and quotidian
“[The experience] had to be something rhythms: pruning the plants and sweeping
touch-free,” Goldfinger said. “How do you the paths; listening to the chimes in the wind;
create a space that feels interactive even if watching fiery skies with worry; welcoming
Where do I
cause of these people, we are the people we collage in a bright yellow shirt, smiling,
What
are today. looking slightly off-camera with delight
want to go?
inspires me?
Who
“We were groping for how people can be am I?
together because it’s been so painful to
mourn in isolation.” — Samara Hutman
There’s also an acknowledgment of
more global losses, from the Holocaust to
the COVID-19 pandemic, and the destruc-
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and unflinchingly to and deeds of kindness.’ Blessed is our congregation which fulfills these three
requisites. I teach them Torah; you pray for them; and they perform deeds of
and minorities.”
prayer. It is with humility in which we offer our gratitude. Thank you for your
trust, loyalty, confidence and partnership.
This year, we endeavor to engage in High Holy Days in ways that feel for-
— Ronald Lauder
eign and strange. Many clergy davening without congregants in the pews;
looking at screens, reaching out to hearts that are miles and miles away. The
journey leading to Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur 5781 is undoubtedly a
Greenblatt tweeted. “We honor her memory a blessing & may we honor her dying wish.” strange one. And yet, in knowing that we daven together from living rooms
& her words: ‘Fight for the things that you Ginsburg said in a statement to her and backyards all over the world, you give us peace in knowing that we too,
care about, but do it in a way that will lead granddaughter days before her death: are not alone.
others to join you.’ We promise, #RBG.” “My most fervent wish is that I will not be
American Jewish Committee (AJC) CEO replaced until a new president is installed.” May this High Holy Days season be one of meaningful prayer, engaging les-
David Harris hailed Ginsburg in a tweet as The Democratic Majority for Israel sons, poignant revelation and strong connections.
“a giant of American jurisprudence, she (DMFI) similarly tweeted, “We will be forever
championed women’s rights & gender grateful for her moral leadership and her
Connection to God, connection to one another and, dare I say, connection
to the internet.
equality. She exemplified courage & fierce advocacy for women’s equality and
conviction throughout her life. We’ll never for justice. This is a profound loss for our
Shanah tovah. Have a healthy and joyous new year.
forget her speeches to @AJCGlobal.” country. May her memory be a blessing.”
His tweet also featured a 1996 New York World Jewish Congress President Ronald
Times adaptation of a speech Ginsburg Lauder called Ginsburg “a trailblazer on be-
gave to the AJC in 1995 in which she said, “I half of gender equality.” His statement went
am a judge born, raised and proud of being on to say, “She paved the way for women
a Jew. The demand for justice runs through in the law and on the courts. She fought
the entirety of the Jewish tradition. I hope fiercely and unflinchingly to advance and
in my years on the bench of the Supreme defend the rights of women and minori-
Court of the United States, I will have the ties, and, in the tradition of Justices Louis D.
strength and courage to remain constant Brandeis and Benjamin Cardozo, embodied
in the service of that demand.” the principle of equal justice for all under Rabbi Nicole Guzik is a rabbi at Sinai Temple.
The Simon Wiesenthal Center tweeted, the law, as well as the Jewish value of ‘tze-
“We join all Americans in mourning the dek, tzedek, tirdof’ — ‘justice, justice shall
passing of Supreme Court Justice Ruth you pursue.’ Her life is a legacy and a tes-
Bader Ginsburg #RBG who brought dignity, tament, and her memory will be a blessing
grace, and brilliance to our Nation’s highest and a lesson forever more.” n
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in which it is set, “Tehran” is an edge-of- While it was co-creator Maor Kohn’s origi-
s
the-seat espionage thriller about an Israeli nal idea five years ago, “Everything about Iran
mission to disable a nuclear reactor — a has fascinated me, the ayatollah regime and
task that’s left in the inexperienced hands
of a young Mossad agent and master hacker
the young people who are demonstrating
against the regime in the streets, risking their s
on her first undercover assignment. Things
don’t go according to plan as errors are made
lives,” Zonder said. He endeavored to human-
ize characters like Toub’s security chief Faraz a
and relationships both romantic and famil- Kamali, who has to deal with a personal crisis
ial complicate the operation and raise the as well as a national one. Ta
stakes. “Our biggest challenge was to write the th
From co-creator Moshe Zonder, who Iranian characters; to get under their skin and Sh
wrote the first season of “Fauda,” it stars Niv understand the way they feel, think and act,” da
Sultan in the central role and “Homeland’s” Zonder said. “I was an investigative journal- al
Shaun Toub and Navid Negahban —both ist before I became a screenwriter and it was ta
born in Iran — in supporting roles. The eight- always a challenge for me to cross the border
part Apple TV+ series will premiere three physically and mentally, to learn about my up
episodes on Sept. 25 and one installment per enemy, the one I’ve been told that wants to en
week thereafter. kill me. When we were doing the research se
“Our show is entertaining and full of ac- before writing, we looked at YouTube for ex- ism
tion but we knew that it would be better if ample, and if you put it on mute, they looked im
we [could] integrate the personal side of the Israeli. We are more the same than different.
characters, to make one thing lead to another There are a lot of similarities between us.” in
… [and raise] the stakes to be as high as pos- During their research, he and co-writer w
sible by integrating those two layers,” Zonder Omri Shenhar met and interviewed Mossad ta
told the Journal. “The show is actually about case officers who work counterintelligence la
identity, connection, devotion to your family on Iran’s nuclear program. For obvious rea- in
and your roots and checking out what the sons, they couldn’t go to Tehran at that stage is
or to shoot the series. Co-creator Dana Eden on working in these kinds of things,” Sultan Photo courtesy of Apple TV+
suggested Athens, Greece, as a stand-in, and said. “I’m hoping to keep on doing things that
director Daniel Syrkin and his team worked interest me and challenge me and make me
their magic. feel alive. I’m hoping for good things to come.”
As for their main character, Iranian-born Zonder’s Polish-born father escaped to Is-
Israeli Tamar Rabinyan, “We wanted our rael in 1935 and his mother, also Polish, moved
protagonist to be a woman. It was a po- to Canada after the war after losing her entire
litical decision to put a young woman, this family in the Holocaust. “She came to Israel
amazing hacker, in this tough macho world,” for a vacation in 1956 and met my father.
Zonder said. They fell in love and she stayed here,” he said.
It’s Sultan’s first international role, and He’s married with two sons, one who recently
learning to speak Farsi and training in the completed his military service and the other,
martial art krav maga were not her only who has just started it.
hurdles. “It’s such a challenging role because Zonder was studying to be a movie and
WRITER-DIRECTOR ALBERT DABAH idiot savant, he is brilliant in mathematics, unable to know me.” He found it implausible, even though it had
knows he’s treading in delicate territory in classical music, literature and baseball. His Dabah’s father could not reconcile himself actually happened.” In the end, Dabah felt that
“Extra Innings,” an autobiographical debut topics range from Dostoevsky to Ty Cobb. to his son’s love of baseball, early career as a to tell his story the way he wanted, he would
film that dramatizes two family suicides, “Extra Innings” endured 12 revisions over psychotherapist and later his stint as an ac- have to make the film himself.
those of his brother, Morris (Robert Ramos), 20 years. Dabah recalled that in an earlier tor. His son’s disaffection with religion was Asked to what degree he reshaped the
who overdosed on pills, and then five years draft, his Jewish Syrian community was al- further alienation, though Dabah said he very truth in order to make it believable, Dabah
later, his sister Vivian (Mara Kassin), who most a character, clearly defined and vividly much identifies as a Jew. said he changed nothing that was funda-
jumped off a cliff. etched. What now emerges on screen is a At 69, Dabah is mature for a first time film- mentally significant, though he employed
Violating family privacy heads the list of Jewish world but one that is not singularly maker, but he insisted he encountered no age- dramatic license in recounting some of the
challenges Dabah faced, but he felt compelled Syrian. ism. For the past 40-plus years, he has headed more peripheral details. In an effort to hit a
to tell his story nonetheless. The movie was “I wanted the story to be more universal, Simba, his video production company that contemporary note, his late sister’s lover was
not simply a therapeutic outlet for his own but I was also sensitive to Syrian Jews being creates commercials plus educational and portrayed as a woman when in fact it was a
lingering anguish; it also was his way of recog- an intensely private community,” Dabah said. promotional materials, among other services. Black man. Dabah felt the lesbian relation-
nizing and honoring their lives, which seem- “My very religious [surviving] sister who still During the course of his career, he has worked ship would have greater resonance today
ingly were erased almost from the moment lives in that world begged me not to make the with many major names (Meryl Streep, than an interracial love story.
they died. picture. She has seven children and 61 grand- Martin Scorsese) in front of and behind the Dabah would love to write and/or direct
“No one ever talked about them,” Dabah children and was fearful that if the suicides scenes. His experience with casting directors, another film, though at the moment none is
said during a phone conversation from his in our family came to light, her grandchildren for example, showed him what to look for in in the hopper. Recently, he took a life-coach-
New York City home. “It was as if they never would not be viewed as marriageable. Suicide auditioning actors, not least the ability to do ing course, toying with the idea of wearing
existed. I think perhaps I’m the only one who is still that much of a stigma and therefore a scene in more than one way. That was the his therapeutic hat again. His attentions now
ever really knew them, anyway. I had a close not talked about.” stumbling block among the actors he audi- are focused on “Extra Innings” and he hopes
relationship with both.” One major reason for making the film was tioned to play his dad. Even if they resembled that after viewing the film, people are more
Set in the early 1960s in an insular Jewish
Syrian community in Brooklyn, the award-
winning “Extra Innings” is at its core a com-
ing-of-age tale, awash in intergenerational
culture clash. Young David (Aiden Pierce Bren- “I wanted the story to be more universal, but I was also
nan), who attends a religious day school, loves
baseball and has his sights set on a baseball sensitive to Syrian Jews being an intensely private community.
career. But his father (played by Dabah) has lit-
tle tolerance for David’s dreams. His immedi- My very religious [surviving] sister who still lives in that world
ate concern is David’s upcoming bar mitzvah,
and he views baseball as an intrusion. Beyond begged me not to make the picture.” — Albert Dabah
that, he expects David to join the family busi-
ness (though it’s never entirely clear what that to open up the conversation and help lift the him, they didn’t have the acting chops. comfortable talking about mental illness in
is) and marry a Jewish woman. He is not at all stigma. Dabah was careful not to lay blame “Jon Lovett suggested I do it,” Dabah said. general and suicide in particular. It’s not that
pleased with David’s non-Jewish friends (and at anyone’s feet. The family is dysfunctional, “And once I decided I would, I brought on a co- the pain will go away, he stressed.
later, a non-Jewish girlfriend). His mandate is but there are no villains. Even the father, who director [Brian Drillinger]. I didn’t feel I could “There’s no such thing as closure,” he
simple: “You stick to your own kind.” seemingly is the most disconnected, is doing direct myself.” said, debunking the widely held myth. “But I
The family also includes David’s belea- the best he can. Dabah never envisioned himself as a writ- no longer feel guilty for having survived and
guered but empathic mom (Geraldine Singer); “Playing my father did not really change er and director, let alone a co-producer of his having had a good life.” n
a goody two-shoes older sister, Rita (Natasha my view of him, but rather confirmed what I own feature film. But like many new screen-
Coppola-Shalom); Vivian, who is living in Los already knew,” Dabah said. “Yet, when I said writers, he futilely shopped his script around. “Extra Innings” is available on Amazon,
Angeles, a divorced, sexually liberated free the lines to David [the older David is played Responses (from those who bothered to re- iTunes, Google Play, Vudu, Fandango, Xbox and
spirit always longing for that elusive love; and, by Alex Walton], as my father said to me, that spond at all) were all over the map. “Typically, InDemand.
most centrally, Morris, a lethargic round man he would disown me if I married my Chris- they wanted me to tell a whole different story
who speaks in a drone when he speaks at all. tian girlfriend, I broke down all over again. I — their story,” Dabah said. “One well-known Simi Horwitz is an award-winning feature
A diagnosed schizophrenic and arguably an was sad for me but also sad for him. He was distributor was turned off by the two suicides. writer and film reviewer.
AMERICANS HAVE BEEN GUARAN- of state was (and is) the head of the Church of The defense of freedom of religion fell to religious symbol would feel that it was not
teed the freedom of religion under the First England. As recently as 1986, they point out, Ginsburg and her fellow separationists, who ‘their’ city government.”
Amendment for more than two centuries, the Supreme Court ruled that an Orthodox were always in the minority. “By maintain- To their credit, the authors are plain-
but it’s not a right that we can or should take Jewish psychiatrist who worked for the U.S. ing the Peace Cross on a public highway, the spoken about their own values and aspira-
for granted. Air Force “was required to abide by its uni- [government] elevates Christianity over other tions. The First Amendment, they declare,
That’s the alarming message in “The form dress requirements even though that faiths, and religion over nonreligion,” she “was meant to create a wall that separates
Religion Clauses: The Case for Separating meant he could not wear a yarmulke while wrote in one of the dissents
Church and State” by Howard Gillman and on duty at a military hospital.” for which she is celebrated.
Erwin Chemerinsky, which is the latest title So, the authors find themselves compelled “Memorializing the service of
in the “Inalienable Rights Series” from Ox- by the facts of history to point out that “[v]ir- American soldiers is an ‘ad-
ford University Press. They argue that the tually every recent Supreme Court case about mirable and unquestionably
conservative majority on the Supreme Court the Religion Clauses has involved whether secular’ objective. But the
already has signaled that they “reject the the government can accommodate Christi- [government] does not serve
idea of a wall separating church and state,” anity” — and the answer has been “yes.” But that objective by displaying a
and the authors point out that a tireless when it comes to non-Christian religions, the symbol that bears a ‘starkly
‘DAYS OF AWESOME’
“Days of Awesome” is the name of Pico Shul’s High Holy with Rotem Rozental of American Jewish executive director of the Equal Justice
Days services for millennials. Husband and wife Rabbi University. 9:30 a.m. aju.edu. Initiative. IKAR and the Jewish Emergent
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Separate tickets ($40) are required for
IKAR FREE SERVICES most services. 7:30 p.m. Kol Nidre. For Yom
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Sinai Temple’s Atid group for young
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Ziegler Sanctuary service; 1:30-4 p.m.
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THU OCT 1
GAMES FOR THE SUKKAH
year, the discussion is held virtually with Stacy Katz, co-inventor of the family card
Rabbi Sarah Bassin moderating “Multiple game “Not Parent Approved,” talks to Rabbi
Identities: Navigating Jewish Spaces as a Sherre Hirsch of American Jewish University
Person of Color and Minority Spaces as a about suggested games for the sukkah during
Jew.” April Baskin, former vice president of Sukkot. Noon. aju.edu.
may observe the fast by eating in small fluid intake, blood pressure medication and renewal. It’s a time to focus on the Hearts, Who Nurtures Every Living Being:
quantities throughout the day, rather than may need adjustment. Going off these meaning of life — to open up your heart As You know, dear God,
traditional meals. medicines suddenly can be dangerous, so to new possibilities — and set personal Yom Kippur is here,
But even the small-snacks route can consult a professional first. goals for the year ahead.” and I am not able to keep the traditional
cause problems for seniors with certain “Even if you are older, fasting can be This reflection can be achieved in fast — I cannot abstain totally from eating.
health conditions. Dr. Jennifer Rhodes- done safely if it is important to you,” many personal ways beyond the realm On this Day of Atonement, this Sabbath
Kropf, a Hebrew SeniorLife staff geriatrician Rhodes-Kropf said. “The key is making of food, including attending religious of Sabbaths, this year and every year,
and assistant professor of medicine at the decision thoughtfully, considering services, reading reflective texts and it is so central to join the people of
Harvard Medical School, encourages all one’s medical conditions and doctor’s contemplation. “Fasting does not define Israel
seniors to consult a physician before any advice.” Yom Kippur,” she said. in abstaining from food and drink for
fast — especially those with the following Rabbi Sara Paasche-Orlow, director To help nonfasters put their eating one day and to focus on correcting our
specific medical issues: misdeeds,
• Diabetes: “If someone has diabetes on knowing our mortality;
and they are on diabetes medication, they on reaching for a life of Torah, mitzvot and
Senators Assemblymembers
Ben Allen Rebecca Bauer-Kahan
Steven Glazer Richard Bloom
Bob Hertzberg Marc Berman
Hannah-Beth Jackson Laura Friedman
Susan Rubio Jesse Gabriel
Henry Stern Marc Levine
Scott Wiener Jose Medina
Adrin Nazarian
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Wishing you and your family a healthy and sweet New Year! Shana Tova!
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AFTER READING THE STORY OF JONAH ON YOM KIPPUR,
what better way to break the fast than with a meal featur-
ing these Jonah and the Whale placemats?
For this project, I used a drawing of Jonah that I created
for a Jonah and the Whale tissue box a few years ago. You
can download that, draw your own Jonah or substitute
photos of family members so they can be in the belly of
the whale. My favorite part of the placemat is the blow-
hole for the napkin. n
1. Start with a large sheet of blue construction paper or 2. Cut a whale shape out of the paper. You don’t have 3. With the excess paper you cut off, fashion a tail and
poster paper. Mine was 12 inches by 18 inches. to be anatomically correct. Just make a rectangle with attach it to the shorter end of the whale with a glue stick.
rounded corners with one side taller than the other.
4. Cut out an eye and mouth from a white sheet of pa- 5. With the rest of your white piece of paper, cut out an 6. Cut a slit at the top of the whale for the blowhole and
per and glue it to the front of the whale. You also can draw oval shape for the belly and glue it to the middle of the insert a napkin through the opening.
them. whale. Add a drawing of Jonah to the belly.
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JUST ASKING
said, “We’re
it’s been like doing comedy over Zoom and how he’s been surviving
not one but two lockdowns in Israel.
doing services Jewish Journal: Why did you decide to make “Corona
online. Can
Confession”?
Joel Chasnoff: It’s a strange story. I’d done a Zoom comedy show
you make
for a synagogue because a lot of them are doing that a lot nowadays.
The next day, the rabbi said, “We’re doing services online. Can you
exciting?” I JJ: How many of those things in the video have you actually
done?
brainstormed JC: I’ve done all of them. I’ve certainly made up excuses to leave
Zoom meetings early and I took a neighbor’s dog for a walk because
ideas and it in Israel, one of the only ways you can get outside when you’re on
lockdown is to walk a pet. I’ve certainly touched fruit in the store and put JJ: Did you do outdoor shows when they were allowed?
came to me it back. I can easily say I’ve done all of them because I reflected on my own
misdeeds. A lot of people are emailing me and saying, “I’ve done all these,
JC: I’ve always felt that comedy is an indoor sport. There is
something about comedy that once there’s no roof, a vibe is lost.
to make a too.” I’m not the outlier here. It relieves us of the burden of thinking we Comedy is so psychological. It’s all about energy and having a shared
parody of sins
aren’t behaving so well. sense of laughter and enjoyment. The energy literally vaporizes into
the atmosphere when it’s outside. I have done 10 outdoor shows
we list off in
JJ: When did you make aliyah? since the pandemic began and I’ve made them work, but it’s not the
JC: I made aliyah twice. The first time was when I was 23 and I joined same thing.
this particular
the army. Then I made aliyah 20 years later after I raised a family in the
U.S. Four years ago, we remade aliyah again as an entire family. My wife JJ: How is the comedy scene in Israel?
relate them] started out as an experiment and now it’s been four years, so I guess the
experiment is working.
perform. There’s more variety. The comedy used to be very Israeli.
Now you’re getting comedians who are a little more intellectual.
to corona. JJ: How has life been in Israel with the coronavirus?
Israel is coming up with great TV shows. The comedy clubs were
pretty much sold out before the pandemic.
JC: It’s been pretty tumultuous. The first round, we were patting
ourselves on the back. We transitioned too fast and the country is on JJ: How can people stay happy throughout all this?
lockdown again for three weeks. We can’t be more than 500 meters from JC: What I’ve been doing is watching old comedians like Rodney
our homes. All restaurants, gyms and movies are closed again. It’s like the Dangerfield and Steve Martin and Richard Pryor and reminding
first few weeks of the pandemic. The mood here is sour. myself of how funny they were and why I got into this in the first
place. It’s a great thing to do, to appreciate the older comedians
JJ: How are people celebrating the High Holy Days? and just how funny they were. I watch contemporary things, too.
JC: There are rules, like you can have up to 20 people in an outdoor Comics are putting out videos to shed light on this situation. There
space as long as they are 2 meters apart. I think a lot of people will be is content being made, thank God. n
davening at home. It’s a vacation season. It’s a time when many Israelis
go away either to Europe or Cyprus or Greece. It’s a chance to be with their You can watch Joel Chasnoff’s “Corona Confession” video at youtube.
families, so a lot of people are disappointed they can’t go away this year. com/watch?v=yFmPysI3tl0.