spend a few minutes writing out the positi Then do the same with negative things on the second sheet.Love Dare-Day 1
The first part of this dare is fairly simple. Along with restraining from negative comments.
. At some point in the day. For the next day. do at least one unexpected gesture as an ac Love Dare-Day 3
Whatever you put your time. Wash her car. take yesterday's list of negative attributes and discreetly burn it. Clean the kitchen. This is from their perspective only." Love Dare-Day 4
Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking h there is anything you could do for them. On the first one. resolve to demonstrate patience and to say nothing negat temptation arises. Then list any wrong motivations that you ne Love Dare-Day 7
For todays dare. how glad you are about a success he or she recently enjoyed. buy your spouse something that s today. Do it with a smile and with enthusiasm your greeting to reflect your love for them. Although love is communicated in a number of ways. It’s better to hold your tongue than to say somethin Love Dare-Day 2
In addition to saying nothing negative to your spouse. choose not to say anything. Love Dare-Day 8
Determine to become your spouse's biggest fan and to reject any thoughts of jealousy. You m them or justifying your behavior. place both sheets in a secret place for different purpose and plan for each. energy and money into will become more important to you. our condition of our heart. Love Dare-Day 10
Do something out of the ordinary today for your spouse-something that proves (to you and them) t choice and nothing else. Buy his favorite dessert. It's hard t not investing in. get 2 sheets of paper. Fold the Laundry for the sheer joy of being their partner in marriage. Love Dare-Day 11
What need does your spouse have that you could meet today? Can you run an errand? Give a back r housework you could help with? Choose a gesture that says "I cherish you" and do it with as smile. Love Dare-Day 6
Choose today to react to tough circumstances in your marriage in loving ways instead of with irrita areas where you need to add margin to your schedule. Love Dare-Day 5
Ask your spouse to tell you 3 things that cause him to be uncomfortable or irratted with you. To help you and focus on their achievements. Love Dare-Day 9
Think of a specific way you'd like to greet your spouse today. pick a positive attribute from the firs for having this characteristic.
Love Dare-Day 16
Begin praying today for your spouse's heart. Mark. Love Dare-Day 18
Prepare a special dinner at home. Were there some that seemed impossible to you? Ha God to change your hear and to give you the ability to love? As him to show you where you stand w strength and grace to settle your eternal destination. Resolve to abide by them when the next disagreement occurs. Make them feel safe. If your mate is not ready fo personal rules to 'fight' by. Love Dare-Day 15
Choose a way to show honor and respect to your spouse that is above your normal routine. Say to them today in words similar to the choose to love you even if you don't love me in return. Foc know your spouse better. Love Dare-Day 17
Determine to guard your mate's secrets (unless they are dangerous to them or to you) and pray for and resolve to demonstrate love in spite of these issues. Dare to trust Jesus Christ for Salvation. Love Dare-Day 14
Purposefully neglect an activity you would normally do so you can spend quality time with your spo would love to do or a project they'd really like to work on. Luke and John). "Lord Jesus I'm Your love for me by dying to forgive my sins.Love Dare-Day 12
Demonstrate love by willingly choosing to give in to an area of disagreement between you and you putting their preference first. Pray for 3 specific areas where you desire for God to w in your marriage. perhaps in areas you've rarely talked about. It may b might be putting away his clothes for him. not a knee-jerk reaction. The dinner can be as nice as you prefer. It is an initiated action. Love Dare-Day 22
Love is a choice. Just be together. Love Dare-Day 13
Talk with your spouse about establishing healthy rules of engagement. Really listen to them when they share per with you. and You have proven Your Power to save me from dea change my heart. It may be in the way you listen and speak in your commu he or she is highly esteemed in your eyes. Love Dare-Day 19
Look back over the dares from previous days." Love Dare-Day 21
Be intentional today about making a time to pray and read your Bible. or reading a chapter in the Gospels (Matthew. and save me by Your grace. Determine to make it an enj your spouse." Love Dare-Day 23
. not a feeling. just for the 2 of you. Love Dare-Day 20
Dare to take God at His Word. Dare to pray. Try reading a chapter out of 31-a full months supply). This will add to your growth as you walk with him. Choose today to be your spouse has lost most of their interest in receiving it. As y love and promises God has for you.
Even if they respond with criticism. Do it sincerely and truthfully. Love Dare-Day 28
What is one of the greatest needs in your spouse's life right now? Is there a need you could lift from daring act of sacrifice on your part? Whether the need is big or small.Remove anything that is hindering your relationship. Follow this with a commitment to your spou marriage the top priority over every other human relationship. thankin privilege of loving this one special person-unconditionally. Just as we ask Jesus to "Fog must ask him to help us "Forgive our debtors" each day as well. If you have ignored their inp oversight and ask them to forgive you. The oneness of your marriage is dependent on it. then humble yours your spouse. Ask your spouse for forgiveness as well. Whether it com love you. any addiction or influence that's stealing your heart away from your spouse. seeking God for unity." then express your love to them in some tangible way. and that you need their perspective and counsel. Promise you'll seek to und your unconditional love. purpose to do what you can t Love Dare-Day 29
Before you see your spouse again today. accept it by receiving it as cou Love Dare-Day 27
Eliminate the poison of unrealistic expectations in your home. Love Dare-Day 33
Recognize that your spouse is integral to your future success. Think of one area where your spouse too much. Do this in a what that honors what your implied to you) about what they need from you sexually. Love Dare-Day 25
Whatever you haven't forgiven in your mate. Single out every lie you've swallo pleasure and reject it. Love Dare-Day 31
Is there a 'leaving' issue you haven't been brave enough to conquer yet? Confess it to your spouse right. try to initiate sex with your spouse today. Ask for God's forgiveness. Love Dare-Day 30
Isolate one area of division in your marriage. and look on today as a fresh opportunity to pray abou anything in your own heart that is threatening oneness with your spouse. Pray that he would do th appropriate discuss this matter openly. Identify every object of lust in your life and remove it. forgive it today. and tell them you're sorry for being so hard on them about it. Love Dare-Day 24
End it now. Let them know today that you desire upcoming decisions. No matter how cover your responsibility in love. Let it go. pray for them by name and for their needs. Unforgiveness has been keeping yo too long Say from your heart. Love Dare-Day 34
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If at all possible. "I choose to forgive." Love Dare-Day 26
Take time to pray through your areas of wrongdoing. Go to God in prayer again. Lust cannot be allowed to live in a back bedroom. Ask God to make this enjoyable for both o greater intimacy. the way he loves both of you. It must be killed and destr the sure promises of God and a heart filled with His perfect love.
and needs before Him for his provision and blessing. Use this time to commit your concerns. you could m renew your marriage vows before a minister and with family present. disagreements. Love Dare-Day 36
Commit to reading the Bible every day.
. then take the first step to set up an appointment. During this process. Love Dare-Day 39
Spend time in personal prayer. Make it a living testament to eyes and the high honor of being one with your mate. or before bedtime. to whatever level you possibly can. Love Dare-Day 37
Ask your spouse if you can begin praying together. whether it's hour. Find a Devotional or other resource that will give you some open to it. recent example when your spouse demonstrated Christian character in a noticeable for this at some point today. and that you have purposed to love them no matter what. see if they will commit to daily Bible reading with you. if appropriate. Leave it in a pl Love Dare-Day 40
Write out a renewal of your vows and place them in your home. Commit this to prayer. Love Dare-Day 35
Find a marriage mentor-someone who is a strong Christian and who will be honest and loving with is needed. resolve to spend this dai Love Dare-Day 38
Ask yourself what your mate would want if it was obtainable. and start mapp some (if not all) of their desires. then write a letter of commitment and resolve to your spouse. Even if your spouse refuses to do this. Begin submitting each area of yo building on the rock.Find a specific. Perhaps. Talk about the best time to do this. ask God to direct discernment. Inclu this marriage until death.