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Table of Contents
Introduction Substantially Increase Your Money Flow Getting Rid of Repetitive Mental Patterns Winning the Lottery Finding the Love of Your Life Getting Beyond the Opinions of Others Finding Your Purpose Gain Confidence Getting Rid of Your Past Healing Your Body Solving Everyday Problems Attracting a Circle of Friends Getting Over a Relationship Business Success Getting Rid of Negative Thinking Attracting a Specific Material Desire Getting Rid of Emptiness Upgrade Your Career without Money Loss Triumphing Over Stress Attracting a Specific Person into Your Life Court Case in Your Favor Overcoming Grief
Releasing Fear about Money or Anything Else
Getting Your Kids to Live the LOA Securing Meaningful Employment
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Law of Attraction Solutions
by Beth and Lee McCain
Methods You Can Use NOW! Introduction
examining your own self in order for the proposals in this report to work for you. The Law of Attraction is an ancient thought process that many
his report offers methods and solutions to your everyday life through the Law of Attraction. You must have a working knowledge of how the LOA works and be open to
have successfully used. There is no reason why you cannot be one of those successful users of the LOA. When you have a growing understanding of how the Universe
works in conjunction with the LOA, you can truly achieve anything that you want… as long as you work WITHIN the laws of the Universe. This is one of the things that can be frustrating for someone applying the Law of Attraction intentionally. They canʹt understand why they arenʹt getting what they want when working so hard to live the LOA principles.
How you react to your life and situations is a big part of achieving your desires. We have collected what are the most common questions concerning ʹhowʹ to use the LOA to your benefit. If you have any further questions. By reaching ʹwithinʹ yourself and changing beliefs that no longer work for you and replacing those beliefs with the belief that will change your reality. you will begin to attract more of that particular negative. When you react in an intense emotional way to something that seems negative. When changing your reaction to a seemingly negative situation to a calm balanced state and shifting focus to what you want in the situation. life becomes easier and moves with a constant flow. It is part of the Universal Dance that we all participate in within this physical life. We always leave the how to the Universe but these solutions and thoughts represent what can occur when you deal with the situations described through a combination of ʹreleaseʹ and LOA thoughts.com 4 . you will begin to change your own world. The Law of Attraction is so much more than just thinking something into existence. please feel free to email us at: info@bethandleemccain.
Substantially Increase Your Money Flow attachment feelings and thoughts about money. Letʹs show you a few examples of what happens to the lack thoughts and feelings with money. Example: You have been visualizing everyday on having more money. Everyone has a different perception of money. youʹll be able to create a method that works best for you from the methods in this report. There is no clear cut method to increasing your money flow but W ouldnʹt it be nice to just think it one time and all your money woes would be over? Well…think again and again and again. No money or little money has come your way but not the amount that you have visualized on. Once you understand why money hasnʹt been knocking at the door. You have selected an amount that you visualize upon. Your own perceptions and daily thoughts have a lot to do with whether money is in your future. Two people can suffer from lack of money but have completely different perceptions of lack and struggle that cause the money hose to dry up or become non existent. You have given the Universe a time frame of six months and here it is five months later and you have four weeks 5 . Oh…and then…let go of the there are many ways you can try with the LOA to find which method works best for you.
The Universe gives back what you put out in vibrations no matter what. it is important to begin with an amount that is ʹpossibleʹ for your mind to accept. Is it possible to manifest quickly? It is as long as you are in alignment with the vibration of what you want. The Universe has no problem bringing you the amount you ask for as long as YOU believe it can happen without a shadow of a doubt. If you see and believe that you can bring money consistently into your life. What you emit is what comes back to you. you will get back a chaotic reality. you can increase the amount. as the logical mind gains confidence in the ability to manifest. Does your own logical mind accept the amount that you have chosen? Does the logical mind believe that you can have this amount of money? Does it believe that the Universe will bring it to you? If you are having a problem with the logical mind accepting the amount. Now what? Letʹs examine the picture and go a little deeper.to go. Then. you have two different thoughts and emotions emitting from you and the Universe doesnʹt discriminate. 6 . You are beginning to get antsy and wonder if it is working at all. Start with the amount that you have asked the Universe to bring you. and then you have days that you struggle with the current status of your financial world. If you have a chaotic thought process and you repetitively send those vibrations out to the Universe.
At first it may be hard to believe. Remember that just because the world says things only happen a certain way (that you must work excessively hard for money or that you have to struggle) 7 . It is in everyday life that you want to apply the Law of Attraction. Do you believe it is possible and if you donʹt. The more you use it the more you will begin a new repetitive thought process for yourself. wallet. it will pick up on them and begin to emit those out to the Universe. Carry the positive list in your purse. You must prepare yourself to have what you want and know that it will come to you. what thoughts pop up that tell you it isnʹt possible? Write down the thoughts that pop up. It usually is the opposite of the negative thought. but have become your reality. or car and when the negative loop about money starts up. But as you get the subconscious mind used to the new thoughts. pocket. Once you have your list read the first one off to yourself. It is a daily job of shifting your focus from the struggle and lack thoughts to the abundance and wealth thoughts. These are merely repetitive thought patterns that arenʹt necessarily true. Begin by writing a list of what you want in your life. use your new positive thought list. Once you write down the ʹpop upʹ thoughts find a replacement for the thought that is for the positive.
Hold those bills and focus on your money wants. abundance in a favorite store. So if you really believe the Universe is bringing you want you want now. abundance of love. find it and focus on it. Deal with your current issues without any emotion. Just choose the ones you want. Abundance in nature. You can pick up ANY thought and belief and make it your own. There are many bills and ʹdue nowʹ notices. Look around your world and look for abundance. This is one of the main causes of misalignment with a want. You go out the door to start your day and you pick up the mail. see it all paid in full.doesnʹt mean it is so. then why get upset and worried about the bills? You of course see that you do have to deal with the current issues but at the same time you can. We visualize and focus on one thing but when our current life rears its head we crumble back into a state desperation or frustration. for a moment. How do you react? Do you react like someone who already has the money or do you react desperately. Why have worries about the money you owe? It isnʹt going to change a thing to worry except to bring you more to worry about. Now comes the part about reaction. Stay in the abundant thought mode even when times seem tough. Figure out how to take care of things through 8 . So youʹve just finished a great visualization on your new money thoughts and you have been feeling and seeing them ʹin the nowʹ.
it takes some positive thought changes for the money vibration to align. Leave the how up to the Universe. That way you will bypass the lack of money thoughts and go for the feeling instead. If money is hard for you to focus on. How grateful are you that the money came in the mail WITHOUT thinking it wasnʹt enough? As you can see. Think unlimited and donʹt limit ʹhowʹ the money comes to you. Step aside from yourself and take care of it and then step back into the ʹreal youʹ of what you want. The feeling… Not the money. 9 . Just be aware of the signs the Universe gives you and act upon a situation that will bring you more money. When you live the life that you want.observation. Donʹt focus on how is my money coming? Focus on what you want and let the Universe take care of the how. You may want money to feel secure. instead focus on the feeling that money will bring to you. How often do we take for granted what is right around us? How often do you get money in the mail and begin to worry about where you will spend it or that you wish it was more. And last but not least be appreciative and grateful for everything that comes your way. it will come to you. Do this over and over again. Thank the Universe. Focus on the feeling of being secure. It can be easier to envision feeling wealthy than to envision the money itself.
So here are two words to remember when you are mulling over that 10‐year‐old fight you had with Mom: GAME OVER. find out what you have learned from the experience and then say to yourself. say to yourself: GAME OVER. Sometimes we can get caught up in the past mental looping cycle.ʺ 10 .Getting Rid of Repetitive Mental Patterns H ere are some methods to get rid of repetitive mental patterns: GAME OVER. This is wonderful if it is a happy moment in your life but if it is a traumatic or negative moment. A past mental loop is when you think of a past moment and keep repeating it over and over again in your mind and before you know it you have been focusing on the past. The moment you realize you are reliving something that doesnʹt serve any purpose now. ʺGAME OVER. When thinking of your past. you are simply creating the situation over and over again and that will attract right back to you in some form.
Look back on what you now call your mistake or failure without any emotion and see the true lesson that you may have learned from it. and sought anotherʹs choice and declared it was wrong and therefore is a ʺfailure. That lesson is the golden nugget in your past choice because the lesson is what you got from it ― no more energy required! And then you can move forward on a path of intentional creation. NO MISTAKES OR FAILURES First of all there are no mistakes or failures. yet society made them up. The past game is over. You didnʹt desire ― whatever the situation was ― a mistake or a failure. not a person. 11 . you are free to no longer be a part of the game.ʺ ʺMistakesʺ or ʺfailuresʺ are just words. By acknowledging these trigger words the game no longer has to be played. These negative descriptions likely came from a person who first felt insecure about himself. They are the description of an event. These are words that we use too often in society. and if someone else wants to bring the past up to you. you were just making a choice and putting the focus on a path that at the time seemed right.
Youʹll be happier. they will attract just that. You know why? Because if you attempt to take care of your child first and pass out from lack of oxygen for yourself. This can be tiring and begin a cycle that wonʹt stop. and so will the people you are helping. you will be there for your child. Does everyone know that you will drop everything for them? Have you ever stopped to think by doing this you are not allowing them to learn from their own experiences? If you take care of every little thing for someone else how are they going to learn about life? There is nothing wrong with helping others as long as you have given yourself time as well. Make yourself the priority and then help others. But if you take care of your own oxygen mask first. to please put your oxygen mask on before you affix your childʹs oxygen mask. Everyone else will need and want their attention first. This may appear as if they are caring people but when they put others before their own needs.TAKE CARE OF YOU Many people take care of everyone elseʹs needs before their own. you wonʹt be around to help him anymore. Here is a perfect analogy: When you board an airplane the flight attendant reminds you that in the event of an emergency. 12 .
career. and relieved from stress once you take money out of the equation. confident. 13 . Instead of visualizing on $100. By doing this. Cut straight to the chase by visualizing the emotions and the joy of what money will bring you.000.KNOW WHAT THE FOCUS IS When you desire something. focus on what you ultimately want from the money. instead of visualizing and focusing on the actual desire like money. It is just as effective. or a loving relationship. Letʹs take money for example. Sometimes the logical mind canʹt believe that you could make money quickly or a sum of $100. health. and the logical mind doesnʹt seem to have a problem with feeling safe. confident. and the lack and disbelief plays the lead role in the money not coming. and relieved of stress? Then focus on those feelings and include them in your visualization and focus sessions.000 arriving at your door. What will the money bring you in emotional terms? Do you want money so that you will feel safe. get down to the nitty‐gritty and determine what you really want from the material desire. secure. you are bypassing and confusing the logical mindʹs ability to recognize lack and instead you feel exactly what you want from the money. secure.
but when you make it one of the specific focuses as to how the money is coming. Is the lottery one of the ways the Universe could bring you the life you deserve? Of course. You can be happy while you are manifesting the life that you desire. Here is a way to understand what happens when someone buys a lottery ticket. donʹt forget to see them with ease. Take each day and find the joy within it. You are definitely building great positive thoughts UNLESS 14 . When focusing and visualizing on your desires.LIVE IN JOY This is a mental pattern that some people forget as they focus on their desires. Winning the Lottery W hen you visualize and focus on the life that you desire and know it is taken care of you want to be aware of the actions to take. When you see it all with ease it will come a lot easier and smoother for you. The anticipation and thought of winning the lottery can be exciting. Being happy with life will bring you more to be happy about through the LOA. you are in fact micro‐managing.
focus on what you want in life ― in this case money ― and buy your ticket with joy. Here comes the part where you donʹt become attached to the winning of the lottery. Leave it at the wonderful expectations of money and then let it go to the Universe. so the numbers are revealed and your ticket isnʹt the winner. maybe. First. the ticket just gave you some wonderful feelings of expectation for your money focus. Disappointment and the feeling that the Universe let you down are going to bring you more of the same. The lottery could be the way the Universe brings you cash. Do you buy the ticket with the thoughts and feelings of maybe. expectation and excitement.. if you are 15 . Okay. joy. and every time you donʹt win.you buy that ticket thinking that maybe you might win this week and you feel like you are throwing your dollar away. just for the moment. Disappointment and the other lack feelings become strong and intense vibrations that are sent out to the Universe.. Cast doubt aside. to build the possibility that it could happen. excitement. that this could happen? You are mixing quite an array of feelings that are chaotic and that is what will come back to you. If anything. doubt. but donʹt think it is your end‐all‐be‐all of obtaining money because then you are limiting.
Trust it and let it bring you what you want. and let the Universe take care of the how.. Let go and know that you will be getting what you asked for and focused on. the way it knows best. 16 . If you win. You will find you will have the life you want and deserve by thinking unlimited minus micro management. joy. doubt.. but then donʹt put any more thoughts toward it at all. You will begin to find that you will win when the attachment to the feelings and thoughts are gone.. WOO HOO! There is always next week.. No mixed feelings of fear. Hand it to the Universe. The Universe really does have your back. because the Universe knows exactly how to bring you what you focus on. Visualize obtaining the cash and life you want. So hereʹs what you do. but stay away from the disappointment of the moment because that moment is an important indicator as to how you feel and think with the lottery.. expectation. WOO HOO! If you donʹt win. Next. buy your ticket with the anticipation and joy that this could be an avenue to cash.sending those thoughts and feelings out. just expectation and the focus of the life you want.. you will attract the same situation over and over again. You can have it all.
make sure that when you create your image. The physical attributes arenʹt important at the moment. humorous. create a clear image of your soon‐to‐be mate. write it down. enjoys movies? I nstead of waiting for the love of your life to enter your life. attract them to you. In order to find your mate. The Universe will bring you someone that is 17 . Only the Universe does. When you concentrate on the true qualities. there is a possibility that the certain someone doesnʹt possess all the qualities that you asked for. Write down every quality that you would like in that perfect someone. Once you take inventory.Finding the Love of Your Life piece of paper and start with a list. you go with substance over fluff. Is your mate adventuresome. The Universe knows every living human being and what their qualities are. When you emit strong thoughts and feelings about a particular person as the clear image. the Universe will attract someone to you who is just as you envisioned. you really donʹt know if they truly match. you want to take an inventory on what kind of mate you want. Even if someone seems to match your image from a quality level. Get yourself a Anything that you can think of. and you donʹt want to micro‐ manage the Universe. Hereʹs a tip: If you have a certain someone in mind. quiet.
just as you envision, but leave it up to the Universe to find the right choice for you. So now you have this great clear image of your mate. What do
you do now? Take your clear image minus the specific physical features and find yourself a quiet spot to visualize. Close your eyes and see in your mind your perfect mate with
all of the qualities you wrote down earlier. See yourself with this person; going places together, having dinner together ― whatever you would want to do on a date or in a relationship. Feel the serenity that comes with having someone who is
exactly how you envisioned. See yourself together. Hear him or her telling you how much they care about you. Use every sense that you can to create an image of having them right now. Spend at least five minutes on creating your image. After you
have had an incredible visualization session, see yourself letting the image go to the Universe and then... truly let it go. Releasing control over finding your mate is essential. Trust the
Universe to bring this image to you. Every evening, visualize and let go and trust the Universe.
Make sure that you donʹt put any negative feelings toward the image you created because that will only bring you negative. Make sure to not put any feelings of impatience toward your image. The Universe will bring you who you desire in the time required.
Again, letʹs not micro‐manage the Universe. Your job is to stick
to your clear image and to visualize then let the Universe take care of the ʹhowʹ through the Law of Attraction. The next step is to be aware, because the Universe is going to
start bringing you signs that it is taking care of your desire. These signs may manifest as an encouraging ʹthumbs upʹ or may be signs from the Universe to take action. Hereʹs an example: You meet your best friendʹs new boyfriend
and he happens to possess 80 percent of the qualities you want in a mate. This is a sign of encouragement from the Universe to you. The Universe is telling you that it is working on your mate and it is 80 percent there. See how it works? Then there is the sign of action. You go to lunch with your best
friend whose boyfriendʹs cousin is in town and she wants to know if you would do her a favor and double date. This could be the Universe giving you a sign of action because maybe this is the one. Just make sure you are aware of your surroundings and the signs that the Universe sends to you, and donʹt ignore the signs.
Getting Beyond the Opinions of Others
hen most people give you their opinion, they are trying to help you. Maybe they think that their way is the best way. But because one way works for one
person, doesnʹt necessarily mean it works for you. Remember that when someone offers their advice or opinion,
they are giving you what worked (or didnʹt work) for them from their own limited experiences and perceptions. They can only give you advice on what they have perceived or experienced from their own creation of their reality. Their experience or perception couldnʹt possibly be the same as yours. If two people live within the same exact life environment they still wonʹt have the same experiences and perceptions because they each carry their own thoughts and emotions. So advice from someone else may have worked for them and could work for you but not always. Youʹre two different people, both with different realities. Keep this in mind when hearing someone give you advice about your life. Itʹs important when making decisions about your life to listen
to your intuition. Someone who tells you that they know best certainly knows what is best for them, but you are the creator of your world and unless you truly trust and know that someone is going to give you sound advice, stick with your own.
leave regret behind. the Universe may bring someone into your life to help you with your decision but you will feel wonderful about their advice unlike the feelings you experience when someone tells you what to do and it doesnʹt feel right. Even if it is well meant. Once you see a solution and give it up to the Universe. pay attention to any dreams or signs you may receive throughout the week. There is no need to try and create their world and yours as well. if by offering your opinion you give someone hope or encouragement. And yes. And if perchance it wasnʹt the right decision. When your advice is surrounded by love and support. stick to it. You are here to create your world. consider what result you would like and release the ʹhowʹ to the Universe (Are you noticing a pattern here?). If you are confused about a decision. Remember that if you ever discover that you are one who loves to tell others your opinion. However. Once a decision has been made with or without someone elseʹs help. that is a different story. opinion manifests as a control vibration. Regretful feelings attract more things to regret. It is compassion. Regret belongs right up there with fear and doubt as far as the Law of 21 . We donʹt know about you but we sure donʹt want the Universe bringing us more situations to have to try and control. it is no longer an opinion.
superb health. If yesterdayʹs decision didnʹt work out for you. And the next time you have a well meaning friend or family member offer you support. you have 2. Finding Your Purpose A sk yourself this question: If you had all the money you desired. Truly there is no failure. let them know how much you appreciate their love (and maybe listen to what they have to say!). just let them know that while you appreciate their opinions. the relationship you have been seeking. You are an incredible human being and we are in this together. Extrapolate what you want out of the opinion offered. this is just a perception of a physical result. and then go about creating your own world.Attraction goes. you have to do this one on your own. you always have today to make a new decision. Learn from your experience and move on as quickly as you can so those vibrations of the feelings of failure donʹt hang around. We are all learning from past experiences. Each day is a brand new day to create.5 happy children. So next time you have one of those controlling friends or family members start telling you how to run your life. and life is more 22 .
What do you and your kids love to do together? Donʹt leave 23 . What roles did you love to play as a child? Sometimes looking back at childhood can give us some clues as to what we would like to do in our lives. What were / are you passionate about? What are some hobbies that you enjoy? Just searching for what makes you happy puts you in a good position to figure out what your purpose is in life to turn it into a full and complete life of joy. Believe it or not. then itʹs time to search it out. What could you ʹworkʹ at 24 / 7 and still be excited about all the time? If you arenʹt quite sure of the answer to that question. Find ways to enjoy your children and find your passion in just being with your kids. many people go through life not knowing what makes them happy and not knowing what their purpose in life truly is. Having a purpose means doing what you love to do in life. Some people are content with being a parent. Not what you have to do.wonderful than you could ever imagined what would you do with your days? This is an important key to the Law of Attraction because it involves realizing what your purpose is.
You have your whole life ahead of you and it deserves to be a fulfilling. joyous one.any stone unturned. the Universe always complies. concentrate on having it and living it day after day. This key can unlock many opportunities for you. everything became easy. Not living life with your purpose is like going to a job that you donʹt enjoy. And the more excited you become about living your life to the fullest. Even on the days that were a little hard. Once you have found your purpose. 24 . Once we focused on what we wanted for our lives. being in a relationship that isnʹt what you want. The more you know that the purpose you picked is right for you the clearer your picture is. We know when we found our purpose. they always seemed easier somehow. Youʹll find people unconsciously helping you support and bolster your purpose. Youʹll find situations that will begin to line up and work toward your purpose. When you have your purpose and you concentrate on a clear image of what you want to do with your life. Finding your purpose is an essential key. or just not feeling happy. Living life with purpose is what the Law of Attraction is all about. the more the Universe will attract to you. There is nothing more important than your happiness and the happiness of your family. The Universe will actively bring you what you need to fulfill your purpose.
When without anotherʹs opinions? 25 . It feels like you are living life just as you expected it. Gain Confidence you worry about what others will think of you. you donʹt seem to mind some of the extra ʺworkʺ that comes along with it. Do yourself a favor and ask that very important question: If you had everything your heart desires. It doesnʹt feel like work. How do you stop the cycle? How do you gain the confidence to make your own decisions I t is a good idea to start with how you feel about yourself. this only attracts more people and situations to you that will bring you more concerns about yourself. youʹll want to change your perceptions of yourself. what would you do with your day tomorrow? Live your life with the answer to that question in mind. Ask yourself the question at least once a week and work toward making it happen. You deserve a wonderful life and there is nothing stopping you from having it.it all just seemed to all fall into place. If you are concerned about othersʹ opinions and how people feel about you. When you live life with purpose.
Who knows you better? Have these other people ever walked in your shoes? So why do they have some strange power over you to make you feel that you need to care what they think? You have the freedom to create who you want to be ― no one can change that. not what others tell you that you are. But how can you gain some of that freedom? By allowing others to have their perceptions of you and not buying into what they seemingly see. How do you ʹnot careʹ when you actually do care what people think of you? We have a mantra that we live by: Donʹt be who you think you are. what would they be? Would you be happy as the person you just created? And assuming 26 . It sounds easy and believe it or not it is. Is it important to care what others think of you? If it is so important. then ask yourself why. be who you want to be. Think about it. be who you wish to be. Think about the freedom gained by not worrying about what others think of you. So ask yourself who you want to be? If you could create all the qualities for yourself from the ground up. Now letʹs examine this very important thought further: Donʹt be who you think others think you are. Is it going to be the end of the world if someone doesnʹt like you? Is it the end‐all‐be‐all if someone looks at you the wrong way? It feels like it is the end if you let it affect you.
Others will recognize your confidence. Take a look in the mirror. Start being that person now. If there are qualities that you wish to possess.you become this person you created. and in turn you will feel confidence reflected. 27 . does it still matter that youʹll likely have the same number of detractors offering up more negative opinions? Be who you wish to be. See yourself as that adventuresome hang glider surrounded by friends who truly see and appreciate you for who you are: A Wonderful Human Being. tell yourself how great it is to have those qualities. Hold your shoulders back and walk with confidence. by assuming the confident walk your body receives those signals. You may feel like you are ʹfakingʹ it at first but your subconscious doesnʹt know the difference between real and fake so keep going until you feel the shift. Look yourself right in the eyes and tell yourself ― without shying away ― what you like most about that person in the mirror. You will become the person that you wish to be. Your former self will merge with this new confident person. Become that girl or guy who is the one you admire and who is happy with life. You can take on the traits you desire now. Even if you donʹt feel confident.
we become insecure and upset. As you focus and feel 28 . It is entirely up to you who you give more attention to. You are the one in control of it. the subject of your focus begins to take on a life of its own. When you focus on anything for a period of time. the more they become a part of your world according to the attention that you give it. the quicker the Universe will attract back what you are emitting. Once you have gained the confidence in yourself and know exactly what you want to be and have no doubts. When we reflect on a wonderful thought from our childhood. the Universe will deliver more confident situations and the people to you who will compliment your own wonderful confident vibrations. The more you focus on a particular thought and feeling. The more attention you give anotherʹs perceptions. But when we focus on a past traumatic experience. Getting Rid of Your Past Y our past experiences are a direct link to what you experience today. We all have past experiences that affect our lives. When you experience this newfound confidence you will understand that your world is the only world you should create (and that everyone else is creating their own worlds). we feel secure and happy.
Yesterday is a closed book. For example: Letʹs imagine for a moment that you experienced a traumatic relationship as a young adult. It was a time that was hurtful to you so every time you begin to attract a serious relationship. and return to that one terrible experience.more and more on the same want or desire. the Universe is only doing its job. You donʹt have to relive past experiences. the Universe takes its cue and brings what you are feeling back to you. you still think about that experience. When you think of a past experience that may not have been the most pleasant. focus on. Even though you are older now. and when you do that. Itʹs taking its cue from you through what you focus on and feel so strongly about. the Universe sends more of them to you. So how does one stop the repetitive thoughts and feelings? By starting anew as often as you have to. do your best to separate yourself from the experience while learning what you want or donʹt want from that 29 . But the more you think about and revisit that bad experience. the more you will attract that kind of experience back into your life. you discover that you canʹt help but think. The Universe isnʹt being unkind. Why do you think people tend to repeat negative behavior patterns? They continue over and over again to relive past experiences.
By doing this. change thoughts of the past experience to what you would have wanted them to be. Then let the experience go. 30 . you will find that life becomes much smoother and easier. It served its purpose and you can let it go now. When you close the book of Yesterday. especially on the ʹnot so greatʹ experiences. By changing the past ― even if it is only within your mind ― something miraculous happens: Your heart becomes freer because of the hope of what could have been. your tomorrows will become days of ease and security. When you create those great feelings.experience. If you find it isnʹt easy for you to let go. By focusing on the joyous moments and gratitude now. and you create wonderful feelings about a situation that was once such a negative focus for you. You are hurting your own self by continually hanging on to it. then play this helpful game with yourself: When that traumatic experience surfaces in your memory. Take the whole situation and visualize how you wish it would have happened. you will bank good feelings that the Universe will work towards bringing to you. you can change your focus to the positive (as well as your accompanying feelings) and you will be creating better days for the future.
Looking back on past experiences to gain insight is a good thing. negative emotions attached will bring you more experiences of the same kind via the Universe. Dwelling on past experiences that have strong. you will have a greatly positive emotion attached to a current‐day‐focus and that will become your true experience in your future. Use those experiences for the good feelings generated from them for today. Those feelings and emotions that you dwell upon only signal the Universe to bring you more of what you are focusing on. We can learn a lot from checking into our past at times. but youʹll want to be careful of staying in the past too long because the Universe will bring you more past experiences to deal with. But what about the wonderful experiences of the past? Wonderful past experiences are good ways to get the ʹhappyʹ thoughts going. In this case the signal brings you more hurt and sorrow. Staying ʹin the nowʹ is the answer. Itʹs when you look back and dwell on 31 . Can dwelling on past experiences that have strong positive emotions attached actually help you attain your desires? Yes they can. By using this method. What we do is take a past experience and capture the feelings and then transfer the good feelings to what we currently want out of life. more of whatever you are feeling and thinking.
no matter what you do. Leave the baggage behind and you will feel much freer. Think and feel unlimited and let go of all of your past mistakes and hurts so that you can practice the Law of Attraction just as it should be practiced.. Your baggage serves nothing in your life. life is unlimited.. without limits. You will have a clearer picture of your past if you can leave the negative feelings out of it. Baggage is limiting and in the Law of Attraction. There would be no concerns about heart attacks 32 H ave you ever wondered what it would be like if you didnʹt have be concerned about your weight or your health? Just imagine it: You could eat as many potato . If you look back on your past to learn what you want to do differently. make sure you observe your past without the feelings attached.the negative feelings that will adversely affect the Law of Attraction in your life. and with ease. It gets heavier and heavier when you keep lifting it up. Healing Your Body chips as you like and your weight and health wouldnʹt be affected. That baggage is holding you down. unless you let it. You canʹt hang onto the baggage and expect the Universe to see that you think unlimited thoughts concerning your desires.
or acid reflux disease. we are programmed to survive. Back in the old days most people lived a rural life. This kind of pressure is hard on the 33 . While we have heaters. Can you imagine how you would feel not having to be concerned about any of these health problems? As human beings. and modern day bathrooms. and is just as important as physical exercise. What is happening to our society and how can we change these health problems? Relieving mental stress is a good place to start. that you would never get cancer. we are dealing with so much more mental stress and that is something that is very taxing on our bodies. They had to survive in the coldest of winters. and in some ways more difficult to survive in. Each generation of family confronts and lives in a different kind of environment. you go into a calmer state and then the Law of Attraction takes over. Nowadays. we live in a world that is much different. The mental stresses that many people are under can cause health issues. Many people work way over forty hours a week and return home exhausted and worried. lights. We have so many more people with diabetes and high blood pressure. When you relieve that stress. before there was electricity or toilets. without a doubt. more than we have ever seen. What if you just knew. ensuring that you have calmer times ahead. but their home life was much simpler and health and mental issues werenʹt as pervasive.
Use as many ʹfeel goodʹ moments as you can. Grateful feelings will lift your mindʹs vibration and even if it is just a little bit. As these feelings build day after day. Play with your puppy. Through the Law of Attraction. start there. Being a healthier you includes thinking about your mental health and reducing your stress level. they can change their overall mental and physical health. These feelings create more situations that attract back to you. it is good for your body. How can you help ease your stress? Take some time to think about what you want out of life and what you are thankful for. So how can we change this without the many medications that are actually doing nothing more than masking the core problem? By teaching others how to use the Law of Attraction as a way to help ease pain and stress. and it can be. they manifest into a recurring pattern that may manifest within your body.body and the mind as well. you can obtain anything you desire and that 34 . This sounds like an easy fix. When you concentrate on how difficult you feel your life is. Even if it is something small. but most of all be grateful for what you have in life. Being a healthier you doesnʹt always mean running laps. possibly in the form of illness or disease. Meditate. Watch a funny movie. you emit feelings that are extremely strong. Walk to the park. but most people canʹt accept that by just changing their way of thinking and focusing.
tell yourself to let it go and let the Universe take care of whatever the issue is that is causing your stress. you are telling the Universe that you trust it to take care of the situation. Solving Everyday Problems you personally. By just letting it go. What you consider as a hard or bad day may not be a hard day to someone else. Can these situations be changed so that you donʹt have a hard day and so the involved individual will be well. Keep your eyes on the calmer. But there are some situations that can be hard for everyone. For example. The perception is from And when you have other people involved.includes better health and less stress. serene life and let go of your stress. E verything that happens in your life is all through your perception. or not pass on? The situations that are mentioned above involve other people. Even when you are under stress. Make a conscious effect to ʹfeelʹ good. losing a loved one or learning that someone is in poor health. 35 . understand that they are creating their own lives through the Law of Attraction. You no longer have to worry about it. And youʹll find when you ʹlet goʹ you will have more energy and a healthier outlook on your life.
Knowing this makes you want to feel good all the time so that you can have a carefree life in your future. you may have had many hard days that created the feelings and thoughts that caused your today. but just one of those days that makes you feel like the world caved in. When you know that you are having a hard day and you have a choice whether to ride it through with ease or live through it with struggle. Your todays are a result of what you were feeling and thinking from the past. How do you stop this vicious cycle? Just by knowing you can change your future days. and put them into perspective. one where they donʹt get ill. How do you handle it when something bad intrudes in your life. it makes it easier to look at the seemingly bad days. It would be great if we could step in and create someone elseʹs world. and how do you continue to use the Law of Attraction? Get through it by employing a Perception of Understanding. But by doing so. Again. especially when they involve other people. Now what if you just canʹt avoid one of those days? Nothing as severe as health or death. just like your todays are creating your future days. by understanding how the Law of Attraction works. we would be encroaching upon the world that is there for them and them alone to create. Itʹs important to know that you most likely didnʹt intentionally create a hard day. then you 36 .
. Here are a few tips on how to handle one of those days the Law of Attraction way. So youʹre just living your wonderful Law of Attraction life and. You canʹt even imagine that you created such a day for yourself but here it is. but by understanding how it happens and by letting the rest of the day pass by with ease. 37 . We all have those days. just ride the day with ease. just let the day be good through your eyes and intentionally create a day that finishes wonderfully. The kids are sick. If no decisions get made on that day. So even if a day starts out a bit rough.. and your boss is calling you every five minutes to find out when you are going to be there. Number Two: Instead of just letting the day take you over and unintentionally creating even more hard days ahead. remember two things: Number One: Ride through the day with balance. When you have that hard day. staring you in the face. Bingo! You start to have one of those days.are intentionally creating that day. its okay. the dog just threw up on the carpet. your hard days will number less and less through the Law of Attraction. flip into a better space so that you will enjoy days of ease.
donʹt react. Somewhere along the line some thoughts and emotions of yours created this particular day. Donʹt be too hard on yourself. Ride the rest of the day with balance. Stay in a zone where you can remain as serene as possible. just ride out the day. The key is how you handle this one. When a day comes that you simply canʹt fathom having had anything to do with attracting it. When something seemingly bad happens. It can be as simple as that you had enough milk for the 38 . If you canʹt get happy. Stay as centered as possible and let it all roll off your back. but by just recognizing that.1. relax and donʹt blame yourself. or find yourself a treat and just spoil yourself. Does this mean you have to be an unemotional stone? No. Find things to be thankful for. 4. Grab a small notebook and write a thankful log. Listen to some music that will put you in a better emotional space. just donʹt react to your day. 2. Pamper yourself. you can change your future days. Write down each thankful thought you have. 3. This will raise up your vibrations and help you pull out of your hard day.
This will help the Universe to realize that you are changing all the ʹhardʹ in your days and will imagine them better. you can start your day over and over again 39 . prove the Universe is still working on your desires. Find anything to be thankful for and you will see that there is good in your day. Do your best to start your day over again. When you have unwanted experiences over and over again in the same day. The Universe is there to provide all that you desire as long as you focus on what you want. The Universe will provide what you focus on. Look for signs! Find little signs from the Universe that. Signs and indicators are a great way to know that you are not alone. 6. Change the outcome. Revisit the experiences in your mind and change them into how you would have wanted them to have turned out. 7. then change them.cereal that morning. even though you are having a tough day. If it seems to be starting out rough. and you would love to change them. 5. even if it is a ʹdonʹt wantʹ but it is always there to give you what you focus on. The Universe will pick up on this and your future days will be ʹhardʹ free.
outer appearance that you think your friends would envy. not the qualities your mom would prefer. And your hard days will disappear through Law of Attraction application. float. Just relax and let go. The only friendships worth having are those that give you the joy you deserve. a place where your desires await you. Find some quiet time and list the make you happy. Concentrate on the good days versus your hard days. 40 . Choose the qualities that you would like. And if you just canʹt seem to pick yourself up. You can always have a great day if you make the conscious effort to have a wonderful day. and you will soon notice many more good days. it is important to take inventory of what you really want in the relationships that you seek.throughout a day. Write down every quality and every detail that you believe will W hen searching for friendship. or a certain shallow. Instead of swimming against the current just stop swimming and float into a space that you are comfortable with. Attracting a Circle of Friends qualities that you would like in a friendship. Start with the qualities. because as you know tomorrow is another day to create and the Law of Attraction will always help you out with creation.
Once you have generated your list. See and feel yourself with your new circle of friends as you enjoy their company. you are pigeonholing the Universe. it is usually traceable to impatience and doubt. There are many individuals in the world who match your 41 . Every day. you have to let it go. See and feel yourself eating together. If your visualization has holes in it ― in other words. That said. and you know that the Universe is finding and bringing you what you want. you may be wondering why one shouldnʹt invest more of the visualization into the potential friendʹs appearance. By letting the Universe take care of the how. visualize this circle of friends coming into your life. watching movies together. ensuring that you may end up with some of the traits you visualized or perhaps none at all. take the time to create a scenario featuring you and your new friends. This is the time when. Let the Universe take care of the how. once you have visualized. When people have problems manifesting relationships in their lives. it will bring back to you just what you have pictured. whatever would make you happy. or better. if your visualization is sketchy at best ― the Universe will fill in the gaps as best as it can. Itʹs important to get as much detail in the description of your friendships as possible. When you concentrate on appearance. and walking on the beach or in the woods. Imagine meeting at the coffee shop in the morning before work.
they will be vibrating at the same rate as you and you will have the friendships that you desire. but not all. Trust in the Universe but make sure to do your part. The Universe usually brings you signs to tell you that it is working on your desire. Let the Universe take care of you. Experiencing a breakup is emotionally and mentally 42 . G ive yourself some time to get over the initial sting of the breakup and then focus on your needs during this time. Getting Over a Relationship draining. You might even wonder if this is the person you should be with even though he or she isnʹt ʺthe allʺ of who you wanted.vibrations. but may not exactly match the outer shell that you think you want. The best thing that you can do for yourself right now is to make sure that you are being pampered. When those friendships come into your life. You are missing out on a lot of opportunity if you pigeonhole the Universe into an exact physical model of a person. The people who match some of the traits are your signs and indicators that the Universe moves people unconsciously toward one another. At first you may meet people who have some of the qualities of what you have envisioned. and who exude the qualities you desire.
it doesnʹt mean that you stop enjoying life. Do something for you that you wouldnʹt normally do. something that tells you that you are paying special attention yourself. Start focusing on what you are going to do with your life now that it is just you. If you spend too much time focusing on the breakup. just remember that even though you have suffered a breakup. But like a book. Donʹt surround yourself with people who enjoy complaining and commiserating about the pain of life. 43 . keep reading your book and move forward. the Universe will bring you more of the same feelings that surrounded your breakup. Surround yourself with friends who encourage and talk beyond the breakup. By concentrating on you and what makes you happy. whatever you put the most focus toward will attract back to you. Each day will become a little easier and then you will be ready to search for the ʺsomeoneʺ you are looking to spend your life with. Maybe you can take yourself to a movie or buy that shirt that you saw the other day. the Universe will attract back to you exactly that: Whatever makes you happy. Youʹre going to want to take your focus off the hurt of your breakup and see what life holds for you beyond this relationship. Breakups happen and look at it as a page in the book of your life that you can look back on and know that you learned from the experience. In the Law of Attraction.
and donʹt lose hope of the ideal relationship. Thatʹs all you have to do. If you have a problem with believing the clear image.The best you can do is live and make the most of your days. ake sure to have a clear picture of what you want your business to be. Once you see the first images of your business come true. feel good feelings. Visualize yourself in a relationship that has all the qualities you want and enjoy life. how many customers you would like to have. if you play your cards right. Pretty soon the breakup will be just a word. what you want to sell. a relationship that is exactly what you desire will soon blossom and these hard days will be just a faded memory. Think good thoughts. Business Success M plan. pamper yourself. This includes how much money you want to make. youʹll have the confidence to implement a larger 44 . And. and the Universe will do the rest by bringing you enjoyable life experiences in the meantime. then start with any smaller success you can imagine in your business. and you will have moved on to a better relationship. anything that you can think of to make the image of your business clear.
vendors. youʹll be on your way to the dream business you have always wanted. and anyone else you do business with. like the arrival in 45 . and neither does the Universe. Many people miss the subtle hints that the Universe hands you to help grow your business. These thoughts and feelings will only help build your successful business and the Universe will match those vibrations with the true physical manifestation. start with smaller numbers that you can halfway believe and then work on your trust in the Universe. Micro‐managing the Universe will only bring you similar situations and people that match the micro‐ management ʺcontrol freakʺ vibration. credit card companies. It canʹt hurt for you to ʹpretendʹ for a few minutes each day. If you have a partner. If this is the case. Be aware of the opportunities that the Universe will bring to you and your business. like you are already living your dream. envision together and imagine that you are living your wonderful business dream right now. Sometimes we imagine huge financial numbers complete with a clear image and the logical. Once you achieve the first number you envisioned. Let the Universe take care of the ʹhowʹ. meaning that you will likely become micro‐managed by the bank. Make sure to envision your successful business everyday. You can take care of the clear image. normal mind canʹt fathom making those kinds of numbers. and the trust. You donʹt appreciate micro‐ management.
Start with affirmations. But what do you do when you encounter a day full of negatives in your business? Stay on the straight path to the positive. The negative day was just a result of some past thoughts and feelings. that is what you will receive. Lifting Depression So how do you start when you feel so bad? Take small steps. The Universe brings what you focus on via your thoughts and your feelings. If you constantly focus on the lack of business. 46 . The Universe is on your side. Know that when you have more positive days the negative days will lessen. a lack of business.your mailbox of a flyer relevant to your business. It can appear that it is just easier to accept the life you are living rather than to change you. T he Law of Attraction takes work. a moment of weakness. and that the Universe is taking care of it. but it has no biased opinion. or an unexpected call from a buyer who is looking for your particular product. but the change is worth it.. Work on your inner self.. Why not focus on having a business full of abundance. Remember your clear image.
Start with just one and then continue to make more for all of the other negative thoughts you may have. but itʹs worth it with the Law of Attraction because itʹs guaranteed. Make these new phrases your mantra. counteract it with your new affirmation. just say your affirmations before bed. If you are not up to visualizing right now. Then each day will get better and better as you intentionally apply the Law of Attraction. This is important: If you WANT to. Then you can take the next step and consider what you really want in life. Then start working on the visualizations for the life you truly wish to lead. 47 . Things like I have so much energy. If this is running through your head over and over again. Trust that the Universe will bring you the desire to be happy in your life. When you hear how tired you are. You will soon leave the space you are in ― if you want to. You have to want to change your life for the better. Listen to what is running through your head over and over again. I want my life to change but I donʹt know how. Maybe itʹs a chorus of Iʹm always tired. Slowly but surely you will find you will feel a little better. My life is changing for the good and I know exactly how to change it. youʹll want to write down the complete opposite.
first examine the real reason youʹre upset. She said that at work the next day. but you can find it. and then permanently letting it go. she said she couldnʹt think of why it upset her and that is what upset her the most. We asked her if maybe it was because the guy turned out not to be the guy she thought he was. She was upset that a guy she was interested in was playing an W eʹre going to give you a method through example with this one. The root of the problem is usually right there within you and it may take some searching. Remember. This is what we told her. With our daughter. or who she wanted. when you are upset it always comes back to you and your thoughts and feelings. Not only did it not make her jealous. We got a call from our 23‐year old daughter the other day that got us thinking about getting to the immature ʺtrying to make her jealousʺ game. So we suggested we go a little deeper. it actually made her mad. 48 . all she could think about was how upset she was about the incident and so she called us to find out how to let go of the situation. that she knew there were other fish in the sea. When you have a situation that upsets you.Getting Rid of Negative Thinking fundamental root of a problem. She said that wasnʹt a big deal.
You see. She realized why she was upset. Was she upset with the fact that he actually made her jealous. not about the guy. Now was the time to let the situation go. We told her not to put up her defensive walls. She felt vulnerable and someone took advantage of that feeling. but instead to work through the fact that she can be vulnerable. She felt unprotected and insecure. That was her problem. and compounding the matter was that she usually can figure the guy out way before he can remotely think of figuring her out. and it upset her that someone she barely knew could press her buttons that quickly. He was a long forgotten part of the equation. She was able to shine light on the problem. Big Deal. Now it was time to find the solution. and thatʹs when we knew we hit the root of the problem. This particular guy had figured her out first. Her solution was in realizing that there are many fish in the sea and that the qualities that this particular guy did have can be found in 49 . she can be a hard one to figure out. she was vulnerable. So. This was about her. Once she figured out that it was about feeling insecure. it didnʹt seem scary any longer. and that it is totally okay. By figuring out what the root of the problem was. or was she upset with the fact that maybe he had figured how to upset her? She went silent. she no longer felt insecure.
This works for any specific desire you may have. 50 . Once she figured out that she didnʹt want to be a part of the world that he was creating. You no longer become attached to the situation or put energy toward it. But only for a little while. and with no limits. In other words. and by letting it go you are no longer a slave to the negative feelings and thoughts that were connected to the circumstance. Attracting a Specific Material Desire Hereʹs a technique to teach the logical mind that you can have abundance in any area of your life. In actuality he was the one feeling insecure and was creating his world. you wonʹt be attracting more of the same. she became empowered and felt more secure than ever.someone who doesnʹt come equipped with a need to make girls feel insecure. and she merely became a part of it. Let go and see how the Law of Attraction takes care of you. C onvincing your logical mind that you can have anything that you desire (and in abundance) can actually keep you from manifesting what you want to attain in your life. Finding the source of the upset and letting the situation go is a freeing experience.
The Universe supplies abundantly. or the abundance of cars ― and all of their harmful. Do you see the difference? Both represent abundant thought. looking at the limitless sky while concentrating on how abundant the smog is. Take a look at the sky. you are thinking about the world and what it is abundant in. The sky is abundant. Get yourself into a comfortable position and begin to think about how abundant this world really is. Think of the grass and how abundantly it grows. There is a difference between positive abundance thinking and negative abundance thinking. Find a quiet spot where you can do some good old fashioned contemplating. Take a look at nature. Contemplate all of the positive abundance that is around you. seeing the birds in the sky just knowing how many birds will be extinct because of the pollution in the world today. just you. Negative abundance thinking is drinking a fresh. When you think positive abundance. and a place far away from the busyness of life. abundance. While 51 . Think about the water that you drink each day and how abundant the water flows. sparkling clean drink of water while contemplating how one day there wonʹt be water. Think of all the birds that are in the sky. rotten emissions. This is positive abundance thinking. Think about all the money in the world and how much abundance there is.
think about the abundance of joy that ice 52 . and the list goes on and on. Everything that we see is in excess. think about how many dollar bills and how much money is in the world. We have a spot where we sit that overlooks a lush meadow. the sky that is truly limitless. all of the plants that surround the creek bed and grow so wild and abundantly. It will begin to see the abundance that the Universe creates and will recognize that you are a part of this incredibly abundant world. the Universe will bring you more to feel abundant about. The logical mind will see and listen while you contemplate. there is water that is abundantly running through the creek bed. As you go through your day think of the positive abundance that is in the world. When you are eating an ice cream cone and enjoying it.you are sitting in your quiet spot. think of the abundance in the world. There is green grass that seems to go on forever. all of the trees that crowd together because of the abundant soil. Teaching your logical mind to focus on the abundance in the world will begin to help you attain your desires. all of the different species of birds eating from the bird feeders. When you see and feel abundance everywhere. there are many more in the woods). Do this exercise as often as possible. the 13 deer that stroll across the meadow (and those are the ones we can see. When you have a dollar bill. complete with the sound of running water.
Begin to look at everything through the eyes of positive abundance and it will change your life. Only you can think you are separated and even though you arenʹt. Getting Rid of Emptiness G etting rid of that empty feeling isnʹt just about the Law of Attraction. When you begin to focus on positive abundance instead of negative abundance.cream brings to so many people. Trust the Universe to bring you the desire. and trust. expect. but knowing how the LOA works can help you understand how to get rid of feelings of emptiness. Donʹt rely on another person to get rid of emptiness. The real you is ʹwithinʹ you. you will direct your life toward the abundance of good that comes from the Universe and the Law of Attraction. This real you is called many things but we call it the Core Being within. This physical you is not you. You are never alone and 53 . That is who you really are and it is always connected to the Universe. you make a reality that feels that way. It all comes from within you. Ask. The connection is never disconnected. It will come to you in the best form you have focused upon. Visualize on a specific desire and let the Universe take care of how it will come.
you are always accepted and approved of no matter what you say or do. When you begin to rely on your Core Being to live your life. There is no judgment with the Universe. you are ALWAYS loved and accepted. no matter how inferior you feel. you can begin to see there is no room for emptiness. 54 . It really is that simple. when you realize there really is no reason to fear or worry because your Core Being is always perfectly fine. Do this each day and you will find that the emptiness will subside and youʹll begin to see life in a different way. Find your Core Being within by sitting quietly without mind chatter and just ʹbeʹ. no matter. youʹre not separate. you are always perfect within. If you are feeling empty it is because you have decided that you are separate some how. Begin to stop living as if you are a physical body with an ego.you are always perfect. no matter. No matter what your ego or personality has you do. No matter what you say. You are loved. you are always connected. no matter. Always. You are never separate. by the Universe. Strip that away and you have a wonderful beautiful being within that is connected to each and every person on this Earth and the Universe. You are unconditionally loved no matter what. when you listen to what it has to say.
Do this before you begin focusing and visualizing on the new job you want. and at the same time be visualizing on what you want. There can be an easy change over. The reason for this is that you want to keep the old job and ease into the new career and enjoy a smooth transition. Itʹs like when you want a new car. 55 . You appreciate your old car as well as the new one you are visualizing on. Begin by thanking the Universe for the job that you now have. Each and every time you visualize on the new career you always want to start at your old job and how much you appreciate it now (If there are ill feelings at the old job make sure to focus on what you like about the old job). A lot of people want to change careers but donʹt take the leap because theyʹre concerned about the interim time between doing what you love and doing what you have Think about what you appreciate about it (even the little things) and be thankful for it.Upgrade Your Career without Money Loss to because of financial pressures. the old car will likely give out because of the negative vibrations you are emitting. See the transition being very easy. All with ease from the one career to the next. You must be thankful for what you have. But if you ʹdamnʹ the old car and complain how badly you need a new one.
Donʹt make rash decisions unless the Universe gives you indicators to do so (In which case. So your teenage daughter comes home very late and past her curfew. Make the change over easy by being appreciative of both. Trust that you will have the new career in no time. observe your reaction to life. She really is fine. Choose to know that the odds are in her favor. When you have a situation that seems to be building stress in you. assume the best. you donʹt know where she is at but worry will only make you confused and upset. Remember this: If your old job goes quickly while you are doing this process trust that the Universe is handing you the new career. Letʹs figure out how you can change the reaction within yourself. Until you have someone wearing a uniform knock on your door and tell you otherwise donʹt assume the worst. What will the worry do for you? Sure. Finding quiet time to yourself to ʹjust beʹ is another factor in reducing stress in your life. it wouldnʹt be rash…). Triumphing Over Stress C hoosing how you react to situations will change the stress level in your life. You obviously have to deal with it but your reaction is what will cause the stress level. 56 . First you were worried and then you were angry with her.
Your authority has been challenged and it stings the ego. Defuse and still solve WITHOUT the negative strong emotions because those will only bring you more negative. So she gets in the door. Itʹs not going to make you a meditation guru. ʹJust beʹ. 57 . Defuse the negative emotions so that you can think clearly. This should be taught in school at a young age. Sitting still and thinking of nothing and relaxing is as important and exercise and eating right. you can still ground her or take privileges away without being angry and without stress. Giving yourself time to ʹjust beʹ is important. Are you angry because she disobeyed you or are you tension‐relieved that she is fine ― or a combination of both? Begin with observing how you feel BEFORE she gets in the door. This will do so much for you within and physically. Clear your mind and do nothing for a few minutes each day. Handle stressful situations like this. realize this is ego based. It doesn’t sound like this will work but it does. It is just a much needed rest for the mind and body to connect within to the Universe. Weʹve tried life with and without this and it is definitely more calm with ʹjust beingʹ. If youʹre upset that she disobeyed you. It doesnʹt mean you let her get away with anything. Stress will roll off your back and you will be able to see things more clearly. When she gets in the door figure out a non‐stressful way of dealing with the situation.
listen to music. There are many factors as to why this is happening but there responding it is usually because you are not on the same vibrational frequency. What is it that makes you want them around? If it is for the sole purpose of lust. when you want someone in your life and they arenʹt S o you have your eye on a certain someone that you want to have in your life but she/he isnʹt giving you the time of day. Taking time for your self ― whether you read. In order for someone to be a part of your life you have to be emitting the same matching vibrations. But if you feel ʹloveʹ this is the best place to start. and at the same time seeing yourself with 58 . Love heals many things and love makes things happen that you never thought would. Love is the strongest emotion you can possibly have. Attracting a Specific Person into Your Life are a few things you can do through the Law of Attraction that can move things in your favor… IF it is meant to be. weʹre telling you right now that unless that person is reflecting your thoughts. or watch movies ― is beneficial to reducing stress. This is how everything in the Universe works. Begin by visualizing and focusing on why you want this person in your life. You see. it isnʹt going to happen. By sending love and gratitude to this person.
The Universe knows everything about each person and knows what you have focused on. if the other person is emitting out the same vibration. It always has your best in mind. Maybe you still have some experiences to be had before you are with the certain someone or maybe they do and at a later time you will hook up. Will they come immediately? Sometimes not. Donʹt push yourself upon this person. Donʹt be so dead set on one certain person if the Universe brings you another.them enjoying each otherʹs company. The Universe will line it up for you if you give it the chance and if it is all in alignment. the Universe always gives you what you want ― or better. You never know. then they will come into your life. 59 . When you send out a vibrational frequency and they are ready to match it. you are in a great space. The interesting thing that can happen is if that certain person isnʹt vibrating at your frequency someone else that fits the profile will and this could be just as great as who you originally thought you wanted to be with. It can take time for this to happen. Remember. but donʹt micro‐manage the Universe.
But if you feel like you are in the right and the situation didnʹt infringe on someone elseʹs creation with either hurt or dishonesty. So take all the negative emotions aimed at the other party out of the equation. There are a few things you can do to help direct ask yourself if this is the right thing to do. Begin by visualizing what you want out of the court case. then you are in a good space. if it was something you knew was ʹwrong and possibly hurtful or dishonest. Right back at you. Begin by visualizing how you would like the court case to finish WITHOUT 60 .Court Case in Your Favor your court case in your favor through the LOA. and anxiety and worry can definitely help the other side win. it is tied right in there with the Law of Attraction. Begin by observing why you are going to court. Be honest and H aving a court case can be anxious enough but wondering if you are going to have it come out in your favor is even worse. If it involves making someone pay or is motivated by revenge you know what will happen there. There is a little word called Karma and whether you believe it or not. the Universe will return the circumstance and that is Karma. but remember that ultimately it comes down to what you are emitting in thoughts and feelings. If you emit a vibration and it lands you in court.
malice toward the other party. Now if you get into court and the judge rules in the other partyʹs favor remember that it isnʹt over. See yourself happy and hear ʹin your favorʹ at all times. Does it mean you wonʹt miss them or grieve? Absolutely not. Sometimes a court ruling will seem against you and then down the road you will find that for some reason something else comes out of it in your favor. you will miss that person but you understand that he / she had to go home just like we will one day. You will miss them and you 61 . When you cross the path of someone passing. Keep the faith in the Universe and see yourself happy with the decision. whatever it is. This is part of being a creator and returning to where we came this person chose this date and the ʹhowʹ helps with the understand why. We already know when we will pass on. Keep the faith and thank the Universe for the answer that is ʹin your favorʹ. Overcoming Grief after having this grand experience called life. Yes. It just helps you deal with the sad feelings when you can understand. by knowing that W e each know our exit date before we arrive on Earth.
and will understand this natural event. But when you are able to see that it isnʹt a tragedy that someone decides to go back home. but do your best to think of the wonderful times with your loved one instead of the pain caused by their leaving. many physical lives can be affected and many lessons can be taught. Focus on the joy you have had with the one who has passed on. you will be better able to maintain what attracts to you. And if it wasnʹt joy and there is guilt or blame attached to the thoughts of the deceased realize once they have passed. They understand and grow from what they experienced on Earth. Donʹt forget they picked the date to ʹreturn homeʹ. And if you believe in someone giving you signs 62 . it makes it a little easier. You will see them again without the cumbersome human ego in the way. How is it possible that someone would pick a painful death? Why wouldnʹt everyone pick a calm peaceful death? This answer lies within their ʹthoughtsʹ of how they will pass and / or they may have picked that particular death to help others with the lessons and experiences that came along with the ʹpainful or traumaticʹ death. When someone passes. The grief of missing someone seems to be endless sometimes.will grieve. They understand if you hurt them and why or vice versa. Remember fondly. they see the picture very clearly. By doing this.
after passing. Releasing Fear about Money or Anything Else the door as quickly as they come unless you deal with releasing your fears regarding money. C an you achieve your financial goals using the Law of Attraction hanging while onto fears that are related to money? You can achieve the goals but they may head out You may just think that if you focus on more money it will come to you through the Law of Attraction. but have you ever thought about what your actual thoughts and feelings are about money? Is it possible that you may have some buried lack thoughts from either a perception you may have or a thought process that was passed down from generation to generation that you didnʹt even know you had? It is very possible. they will do that and you make you feel much more comforted. It really doesnʹt matter where they came from but get yourself a notebook and begin to look inside yourself and hear what you are saying about money and abundance. You may not even know that you have any fears about money. 63 . and youʹll want to find out what those lack thoughts are so that you can get rid of them.
So now Billy is forming a belief of his great grandpa. that child will hear the same belief that great grandpa did through his own father. We can pick up perceptions from any number of situations and people. Each perception can seem just as ʹrightʹ as the next one and this is how a belief can begin. When you have family that has lived through a depression or has had a traumatic experience in their money life they can pass their own perceptions on to you through the family line. when Billy gets married and has a child. your great grandpa now has the perception that wealthy people will screw you out of money. I (Beth) was able to trace back my own lack of money fear thoughts several years ago and once I became aware that I didnʹt have to keep those thoughts I became free of the fears of money and abundance. Now great grandpa has a son and great grandpa raises his little Billy to see that wealthy people arenʹt good. theyʹre bad apples. Whether the wealthy family dealt him a bad hand or not. Hereʹs an example: Letʹs say your great grandpa had bad dealings with a wealthy family. Two people can look at the same situation and each one will perceive it differently than the other ― and each perception is a very real truth to them. the lot of them. It can get passed down from generation to generation and as it gets farther down the ancestral line the belief could change into Donʹt be 64 . Now. in fact.
ʹ It is helpful but hanging on to a past will keep you in that past. Or maybe you have had a bad experience with money and you feel as if you have failed. What is considered a mistake or failure is just a choice you made and focused on and it wasnʹt what you wanted in your life. Sometimes something just as small as you donʹt know how to file taxes on big money can scare you into not making money if you focus on it enough. and each moment is a new moment to create your new world. This just isnʹt true. You learn what you ʹdo wantʹ and you learn what you ʹdonʹt want. This scenario can also be responsible for being afraid of success. it doesnʹt matter who or what it came from. the past is done. You are not your past. You may have a fear of being rich and not know why.rich because rich is bad. So you change it. What is the past good for? Learning and growing from. You focus on something you do want. Find the core of your fear about money. Do you see how it can work? So again. 65 . gone. These are words that others have given a name for when something doesnʹt work out. just ask yourself some questions about money and see how your logical mind reacts. In the Law of Attraction there are no mistakes or failures. You may think that you couldnʹt possibly have financial success because of past mistakes.
You can use this technique with anything you may fear. Take each of your negative money thoughts and rewrite an opposite to the negative. Once you have written down as many fears or beliefs you may have about money. So can you imagine what it would . see which ones that you donʹt need and would like to change. replace it with your new positive money thoughts. and how lifeʹs bumps would seem less potent. Getting Your Kids to Live the LOA be like to be a child of the Law of Attraction. 66 E ach one of us possesses all the tools we require to have all that we desire in our lives through intentionally applying the Law of Attraction. Make positive money thoughts to replace the negative ones and when you find yourself going down the money fear path. to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally from childhood? Think of how wonderful life would be. or worry. Fear only brings you more fear while facing fear and changing the rules on fear will bring you in alignment with what you want minus the doubt. By doing this you will be starting a whole new belief within yourself about money without the fear and that is what will bring you your money desires through the Law of Attraction. fear.
. and parents teach their children what to be afraid of and what dangers there are through their own life perceptions. career. Children naturally live the LOA until they begin to communicate and are told by others what is right and wrong for them. Children are like the intuitive mind. That is where they live until we show them the logical mind. just like they would want it. And just like you want it for them. gratitude. We continually teach them about the logical mind and what we perceive is right or wrong. health. They could become the great creators of their lives and have all they desire. our children will most likely inherit the same 67 . Every one of us carries baggage of some sort and even if we arenʹt responsible for it. So how do you raise a child to understand and apply the Law of Attraction without encouraging and creating a little monster with no manners? Just because you are teaching them to apply the LOA doesnʹt mean you let them get away with everything because you thing you might be encroaching upon their world. Your children get this passed on to them. financial abundance.. relationships. joy. love. But how wonderful would it be to teach our children how to use their intuitive minds as well as the logical mind while putting more emphasis on the intuitive? Letʹs teach our children how to create without fear so when they grow up that is all they know. just like it was passed on to you.
they will apply the LOA effortlessly. But if they are equipped with the tools to teach them how to release their baggage early on. Once you have put in the application. Make sure you are applying the Law of Attraction intentionally so they will ʹperceiveʹ how life works. The best thing you can do for your child is to show how to live life joyously and be grateful for their lives. they will avoid dragging a baggage cart through life. Children learn by example. you like your boss. Begin by thinking about the job that you really want and focusing on your having it now. and well… just visualize to the hilt. so many people are after one job. Securing Meaningful Employment I t can seem like the job market is limited these days. You can get that job by implementing a few changes in your thinking process. donʹt start worrying and pulling it all 68 .baggage. See yourself going to work and enjoying everything around you. your child will begin to create perceptions of life. Then when they become adults. By observing how you live through the Law of Attraction.
At the same time put applications in to other places as well and follow the same ʹno worryʹ rule. Trust that the Universe will bring you more jobs to pick from so continue your visualizations. or that maybe it wonʹt work out. Whether you are more qualified or not.apart by thinking that there are many who are more qualified than you. You will get the job as long as you visualize and put your trust in the Universe to make the right decision. You have an edge by knowing that what you think and feel can get you what you want. Trust and act upon any indicators that the Universe provides for you. The Universe knows. Then give it over to the Universe. Let the Universe lead you to whichever one is best for you. Focus on seeing yourself working there and that you are the only one for the job. That one wasnʹt the one. The Universe knows every little thing about each job and where you would be best suited as compared to your visualization. 69 . Donʹt get down if one doesnʹt work out. If someone else gets the job donʹt get down in the mouth. it doesnʹt matter.
You are invited to visit www. the married nationally syndicated weekly radio show called Radio LOA. and teach the principles of the Law of Attraction at gatherings and seminars around the world. publish the only national LOA magazine. also known as In addition to three books they couple host a popular The Secret.bethandleemccain. have co-authored on the Law of Attraction.com for more Law of Attraction information and free study materials. 70 .B happily eth and Lee McCain are two of the most prolific authors on the subject of the Law of Attraction. They make their home in Oregon's lush Alsea Valley. The Indicator.
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