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Table of Contents
Introduction Substantially Increase Your Money Flow Getting Rid of Repetitive Mental Patterns Winning the Lottery Finding the Love of Your Life Getting Beyond the Opinions of Others Finding Your Purpose Gain Confidence Getting Rid of Your Past Healing Your Body Solving Everyday Problems Attracting a Circle of Friends Getting Over a Relationship Business Success Getting Rid of Negative Thinking Attracting a Specific Material Desire Getting Rid of Emptiness Upgrade Your Career without Money Loss Triumphing Over Stress Attracting a Specific Person into Your Life Court Case in Your Favor Overcoming Grief
Releasing Fear about Money or Anything Else
Getting Your Kids to Live the LOA Securing Meaningful Employment
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Law of Attraction Solutions
by Beth and Lee McCain
Methods You Can Use NOW! Introduction
examining your own self in order for the proposals in this report to work for you. The Law of Attraction is an ancient thought process that many
his report offers methods and solutions to your everyday life through the Law of Attraction. You must have a working knowledge of how the LOA works and be open to
have successfully used. There is no reason why you cannot be one of those successful users of the LOA. When you have a growing understanding of how the Universe
works in conjunction with the LOA, you can truly achieve anything that you want… as long as you work WITHIN the laws of the Universe. This is one of the things that can be frustrating for someone applying the Law of Attraction intentionally. They canʹt understand why they arenʹt getting what they want when working so hard to live the LOA principles.
you will begin to attract more of that particular negative. We always leave the how to the Universe but these solutions and thoughts represent what can occur when you deal with the situations described through a combination of ʹreleaseʹ and LOA thoughts. When you react in an intense emotional way to something that seems negative. please feel free to email us at: info@bethandleemccain. How you react to your life and situations is a big part of achieving your desires. you will begin to change your own world.com 4 . We have collected what are the most common questions concerning ʹhowʹ to use the LOA to your benefit. life becomes easier and moves with a constant flow. By reaching ʹwithinʹ yourself and changing beliefs that no longer work for you and replacing those beliefs with the belief that will change your reality. It is part of the Universal Dance that we all participate in within this physical life. The Law of Attraction is so much more than just thinking something into existence. If you have any further questions. When changing your reaction to a seemingly negative situation to a calm balanced state and shifting focus to what you want in the situation.
Oh…and then…let go of the there are many ways you can try with the LOA to find which method works best for you.Substantially Increase Your Money Flow attachment feelings and thoughts about money. youʹll be able to create a method that works best for you from the methods in this report. Once you understand why money hasnʹt been knocking at the door. Example: You have been visualizing everyday on having more money. Your own perceptions and daily thoughts have a lot to do with whether money is in your future. There is no clear cut method to increasing your money flow but W ouldnʹt it be nice to just think it one time and all your money woes would be over? Well…think again and again and again. You have given the Universe a time frame of six months and here it is five months later and you have four weeks 5 . Two people can suffer from lack of money but have completely different perceptions of lack and struggle that cause the money hose to dry up or become non existent. No money or little money has come your way but not the amount that you have visualized on. Letʹs show you a few examples of what happens to the lack thoughts and feelings with money. You have selected an amount that you visualize upon. Everyone has a different perception of money.
Then. Start with the amount that you have asked the Universe to bring you. You are beginning to get antsy and wonder if it is working at all. you have two different thoughts and emotions emitting from you and the Universe doesnʹt discriminate. Does your own logical mind accept the amount that you have chosen? Does the logical mind believe that you can have this amount of money? Does it believe that the Universe will bring it to you? If you are having a problem with the logical mind accepting the amount. The Universe gives back what you put out in vibrations no matter what. as the logical mind gains confidence in the ability to manifest. What you emit is what comes back to you. it is important to begin with an amount that is ʹpossibleʹ for your mind to accept. If you have a chaotic thought process and you repetitively send those vibrations out to the Universe. you can increase the amount.to go. The Universe has no problem bringing you the amount you ask for as long as YOU believe it can happen without a shadow of a doubt. you will get back a chaotic reality. and then you have days that you struggle with the current status of your financial world. Is it possible to manifest quickly? It is as long as you are in alignment with the vibration of what you want. Now what? Letʹs examine the picture and go a little deeper. 6 . If you see and believe that you can bring money consistently into your life.
It is in everyday life that you want to apply the Law of Attraction. use your new positive thought list. but have become your reality. it will pick up on them and begin to emit those out to the Universe. But as you get the subconscious mind used to the new thoughts. Once you have your list read the first one off to yourself. Once you write down the ʹpop upʹ thoughts find a replacement for the thought that is for the positive. what thoughts pop up that tell you it isnʹt possible? Write down the thoughts that pop up. Carry the positive list in your purse. Begin by writing a list of what you want in your life. Remember that just because the world says things only happen a certain way (that you must work excessively hard for money or that you have to struggle) 7 . or car and when the negative loop about money starts up. At first it may be hard to believe. The more you use it the more you will begin a new repetitive thought process for yourself. pocket. You must prepare yourself to have what you want and know that it will come to you. These are merely repetitive thought patterns that arenʹt necessarily true. It is a daily job of shifting your focus from the struggle and lack thoughts to the abundance and wealth thoughts. Do you believe it is possible and if you donʹt. It usually is the opposite of the negative thought. wallet.
Stay in the abundant thought mode even when times seem tough. Deal with your current issues without any emotion. This is one of the main causes of misalignment with a want. Figure out how to take care of things through 8 . for a moment. Just choose the ones you want. You can pick up ANY thought and belief and make it your own. Hold those bills and focus on your money wants. So youʹve just finished a great visualization on your new money thoughts and you have been feeling and seeing them ʹin the nowʹ. Why have worries about the money you owe? It isnʹt going to change a thing to worry except to bring you more to worry about. abundance of love. then why get upset and worried about the bills? You of course see that you do have to deal with the current issues but at the same time you can. We visualize and focus on one thing but when our current life rears its head we crumble back into a state desperation or frustration. There are many bills and ʹdue nowʹ notices. Look around your world and look for abundance. Abundance in nature. How do you react? Do you react like someone who already has the money or do you react desperately. Now comes the part about reaction. So if you really believe the Universe is bringing you want you want now. find it and focus on it.doesnʹt mean it is so. see it all paid in full. You go out the door to start your day and you pick up the mail. abundance in a favorite store.
Donʹt focus on how is my money coming? Focus on what you want and let the Universe take care of the how. You may want money to feel secure. Just be aware of the signs the Universe gives you and act upon a situation that will bring you more money. Thank the Universe. How often do we take for granted what is right around us? How often do you get money in the mail and begin to worry about where you will spend it or that you wish it was more. That way you will bypass the lack of money thoughts and go for the feeling instead. It can be easier to envision feeling wealthy than to envision the money itself. instead focus on the feeling that money will bring to you. How grateful are you that the money came in the mail WITHOUT thinking it wasnʹt enough? As you can see. The feeling… Not the money. Do this over and over again.observation. it takes some positive thought changes for the money vibration to align. 9 . If money is hard for you to focus on. Focus on the feeling of being secure. Leave the how up to the Universe. it will come to you. Step aside from yourself and take care of it and then step back into the ʹreal youʹ of what you want. And last but not least be appreciative and grateful for everything that comes your way. When you live the life that you want. Think unlimited and donʹt limit ʹhowʹ the money comes to you.
So here are two words to remember when you are mulling over that 10‐year‐old fight you had with Mom: GAME OVER. When thinking of your past. This is wonderful if it is a happy moment in your life but if it is a traumatic or negative moment. say to yourself: GAME OVER. find out what you have learned from the experience and then say to yourself. The moment you realize you are reliving something that doesnʹt serve any purpose now. ʺGAME OVER. Sometimes we can get caught up in the past mental looping cycle. A past mental loop is when you think of a past moment and keep repeating it over and over again in your mind and before you know it you have been focusing on the past.ʺ 10 . you are simply creating the situation over and over again and that will attract right back to you in some form.Getting Rid of Repetitive Mental Patterns H ere are some methods to get rid of repetitive mental patterns: GAME OVER.
By acknowledging these trigger words the game no longer has to be played. They are the description of an event. You didnʹt desire ― whatever the situation was ― a mistake or a failure. NO MISTAKES OR FAILURES First of all there are no mistakes or failures. and sought anotherʹs choice and declared it was wrong and therefore is a ʺfailure. yet society made them up. That lesson is the golden nugget in your past choice because the lesson is what you got from it ― no more energy required! And then you can move forward on a path of intentional creation. These are words that we use too often in society.ʺ ʺMistakesʺ or ʺfailuresʺ are just words. and if someone else wants to bring the past up to you. These negative descriptions likely came from a person who first felt insecure about himself. you were just making a choice and putting the focus on a path that at the time seemed right. Look back on what you now call your mistake or failure without any emotion and see the true lesson that you may have learned from it. you are free to no longer be a part of the game. not a person. 11 . The past game is over.
12 . Here is a perfect analogy: When you board an airplane the flight attendant reminds you that in the event of an emergency. you wonʹt be around to help him anymore. to please put your oxygen mask on before you affix your childʹs oxygen mask. and so will the people you are helping. Make yourself the priority and then help others. Does everyone know that you will drop everything for them? Have you ever stopped to think by doing this you are not allowing them to learn from their own experiences? If you take care of every little thing for someone else how are they going to learn about life? There is nothing wrong with helping others as long as you have given yourself time as well. they will attract just that. This can be tiring and begin a cycle that wonʹt stop. This may appear as if they are caring people but when they put others before their own needs. you will be there for your child. You know why? Because if you attempt to take care of your child first and pass out from lack of oxygen for yourself. Everyone else will need and want their attention first. But if you take care of your own oxygen mask first. Youʹll be happier.TAKE CARE OF YOU Many people take care of everyone elseʹs needs before their own.
you are bypassing and confusing the logical mindʹs ability to recognize lack and instead you feel exactly what you want from the money. career. secure. It is just as effective. instead of visualizing and focusing on the actual desire like money. get down to the nitty‐gritty and determine what you really want from the material desire.000 arriving at your door. Letʹs take money for example. and the lack and disbelief plays the lead role in the money not coming. Instead of visualizing on $100. secure. Sometimes the logical mind canʹt believe that you could make money quickly or a sum of $100.000. Cut straight to the chase by visualizing the emotions and the joy of what money will bring you. and the logical mind doesnʹt seem to have a problem with feeling safe. 13 . or a loving relationship. By doing this. health.KNOW WHAT THE FOCUS IS When you desire something. confident. and relieved from stress once you take money out of the equation. and relieved of stress? Then focus on those feelings and include them in your visualization and focus sessions. focus on what you ultimately want from the money. confident. What will the money bring you in emotional terms? Do you want money so that you will feel safe.
Being happy with life will bring you more to be happy about through the LOA. The anticipation and thought of winning the lottery can be exciting. You can be happy while you are manifesting the life that you desire. When you see it all with ease it will come a lot easier and smoother for you. You are definitely building great positive thoughts UNLESS 14 . Take each day and find the joy within it.LIVE IN JOY This is a mental pattern that some people forget as they focus on their desires. but when you make it one of the specific focuses as to how the money is coming. Is the lottery one of the ways the Universe could bring you the life you deserve? Of course. Here is a way to understand what happens when someone buys a lottery ticket. When focusing and visualizing on your desires. Winning the Lottery W hen you visualize and focus on the life that you desire and know it is taken care of you want to be aware of the actions to take. you are in fact micro‐managing. donʹt forget to see them with ease.
. so the numbers are revealed and your ticket isnʹt the winner. just for the moment. Leave it at the wonderful expectations of money and then let it go to the Universe. First. if you are 15 . Here comes the part where you donʹt become attached to the winning of the lottery. Okay. maybe.you buy that ticket thinking that maybe you might win this week and you feel like you are throwing your dollar away.. doubt. Disappointment and the other lack feelings become strong and intense vibrations that are sent out to the Universe. but donʹt think it is your end‐all‐be‐all of obtaining money because then you are limiting. focus on what you want in life ― in this case money ― and buy your ticket with joy. Do you buy the ticket with the thoughts and feelings of maybe. that this could happen? You are mixing quite an array of feelings that are chaotic and that is what will come back to you. The lottery could be the way the Universe brings you cash. the ticket just gave you some wonderful feelings of expectation for your money focus. joy. Cast doubt aside. expectation and excitement. If anything. to build the possibility that it could happen. excitement. Disappointment and the feeling that the Universe let you down are going to bring you more of the same. and every time you donʹt win.
Hand it to the Universe.sending those thoughts and feelings out. just expectation and the focus of the life you want. because the Universe knows exactly how to bring you what you focus on. you will attract the same situation over and over again. Trust it and let it bring you what you want. but stay away from the disappointment of the moment because that moment is an important indicator as to how you feel and think with the lottery. You will find you will have the life you want and deserve by thinking unlimited minus micro management. The Universe really does have your back.. expectation. the way it knows best. but then donʹt put any more thoughts toward it at all. You can have it all. doubt. 16 . WOO HOO! There is always next week.. Next.. Let go and know that you will be getting what you asked for and focused on. If you win.. You will begin to find that you will win when the attachment to the feelings and thoughts are gone.. and let the Universe take care of the how. WOO HOO! If you donʹt win. joy. Visualize obtaining the cash and life you want. So hereʹs what you do. No mixed feelings of fear. buy your ticket with the anticipation and joy that this could be an avenue to cash..
Write down every quality that you would like in that perfect someone. enjoys movies? I nstead of waiting for the love of your life to enter your life. The physical attributes arenʹt important at the moment. write it down. make sure that when you create your image. Only the Universe does. In order to find your mate. When you concentrate on the true qualities. Is your mate adventuresome. Get yourself a Anything that you can think of. humorous. The Universe knows every living human being and what their qualities are. attract them to you. you really donʹt know if they truly match. you want to take an inventory on what kind of mate you want. the Universe will attract someone to you who is just as you envisioned. Even if someone seems to match your image from a quality level. quiet. The Universe will bring you someone that is 17 .Finding the Love of Your Life piece of paper and start with a list. Hereʹs a tip: If you have a certain someone in mind. you go with substance over fluff. there is a possibility that the certain someone doesnʹt possess all the qualities that you asked for. When you emit strong thoughts and feelings about a particular person as the clear image. Once you take inventory. create a clear image of your soon‐to‐be mate. and you donʹt want to micro‐ manage the Universe.
just as you envision, but leave it up to the Universe to find the right choice for you. So now you have this great clear image of your mate. What do
you do now? Take your clear image minus the specific physical features and find yourself a quiet spot to visualize. Close your eyes and see in your mind your perfect mate with
all of the qualities you wrote down earlier. See yourself with this person; going places together, having dinner together ― whatever you would want to do on a date or in a relationship. Feel the serenity that comes with having someone who is
exactly how you envisioned. See yourself together. Hear him or her telling you how much they care about you. Use every sense that you can to create an image of having them right now. Spend at least five minutes on creating your image. After you
have had an incredible visualization session, see yourself letting the image go to the Universe and then... truly let it go. Releasing control over finding your mate is essential. Trust the
Universe to bring this image to you. Every evening, visualize and let go and trust the Universe.
Make sure that you donʹt put any negative feelings toward the image you created because that will only bring you negative. Make sure to not put any feelings of impatience toward your image. The Universe will bring you who you desire in the time required.
Again, letʹs not micro‐manage the Universe. Your job is to stick
to your clear image and to visualize then let the Universe take care of the ʹhowʹ through the Law of Attraction. The next step is to be aware, because the Universe is going to
start bringing you signs that it is taking care of your desire. These signs may manifest as an encouraging ʹthumbs upʹ or may be signs from the Universe to take action. Hereʹs an example: You meet your best friendʹs new boyfriend
and he happens to possess 80 percent of the qualities you want in a mate. This is a sign of encouragement from the Universe to you. The Universe is telling you that it is working on your mate and it is 80 percent there. See how it works? Then there is the sign of action. You go to lunch with your best
friend whose boyfriendʹs cousin is in town and she wants to know if you would do her a favor and double date. This could be the Universe giving you a sign of action because maybe this is the one. Just make sure you are aware of your surroundings and the signs that the Universe sends to you, and donʹt ignore the signs.
Getting Beyond the Opinions of Others
hen most people give you their opinion, they are trying to help you. Maybe they think that their way is the best way. But because one way works for one
person, doesnʹt necessarily mean it works for you. Remember that when someone offers their advice or opinion,
they are giving you what worked (or didnʹt work) for them from their own limited experiences and perceptions. They can only give you advice on what they have perceived or experienced from their own creation of their reality. Their experience or perception couldnʹt possibly be the same as yours. If two people live within the same exact life environment they still wonʹt have the same experiences and perceptions because they each carry their own thoughts and emotions. So advice from someone else may have worked for them and could work for you but not always. Youʹre two different people, both with different realities. Keep this in mind when hearing someone give you advice about your life. Itʹs important when making decisions about your life to listen
to your intuition. Someone who tells you that they know best certainly knows what is best for them, but you are the creator of your world and unless you truly trust and know that someone is going to give you sound advice, stick with your own.
Once a decision has been made with or without someone elseʹs help. leave regret behind. We donʹt know about you but we sure donʹt want the Universe bringing us more situations to have to try and control. Regretful feelings attract more things to regret. And if perchance it wasnʹt the right decision. And yes. You are here to create your world. that is a different story. When your advice is surrounded by love and support. stick to it. opinion manifests as a control vibration. There is no need to try and create their world and yours as well. It is compassion. However. if by offering your opinion you give someone hope or encouragement. pay attention to any dreams or signs you may receive throughout the week. Once you see a solution and give it up to the Universe. the Universe may bring someone into your life to help you with your decision but you will feel wonderful about their advice unlike the feelings you experience when someone tells you what to do and it doesnʹt feel right. Remember that if you ever discover that you are one who loves to tell others your opinion. If you are confused about a decision. Even if it is well meant. Regret belongs right up there with fear and doubt as far as the Law of 21 . it is no longer an opinion. consider what result you would like and release the ʹhowʹ to the Universe (Are you noticing a pattern here?).
5 happy children. Truly there is no failure. just let them know that while you appreciate their opinions. you have 2. If yesterdayʹs decision didnʹt work out for you. Each day is a brand new day to create. let them know how much you appreciate their love (and maybe listen to what they have to say!). this is just a perception of a physical result. you have to do this one on your own. and then go about creating your own world. We are all learning from past experiences. you always have today to make a new decision. Extrapolate what you want out of the opinion offered. and life is more 22 . You are an incredible human being and we are in this together. So next time you have one of those controlling friends or family members start telling you how to run your life. the relationship you have been seeking. Learn from your experience and move on as quickly as you can so those vibrations of the feelings of failure donʹt hang around.Attraction goes. Finding Your Purpose A sk yourself this question: If you had all the money you desired. superb health. And the next time you have a well meaning friend or family member offer you support.
Some people are content with being a parent. Not what you have to do. Find ways to enjoy your children and find your passion in just being with your kids. What do you and your kids love to do together? Donʹt leave 23 . What were / are you passionate about? What are some hobbies that you enjoy? Just searching for what makes you happy puts you in a good position to figure out what your purpose is in life to turn it into a full and complete life of joy. Believe it or not. What roles did you love to play as a child? Sometimes looking back at childhood can give us some clues as to what we would like to do in our lives. many people go through life not knowing what makes them happy and not knowing what their purpose in life truly is. What could you ʹworkʹ at 24 / 7 and still be excited about all the time? If you arenʹt quite sure of the answer to that question. Having a purpose means doing what you love to do in life.wonderful than you could ever imagined what would you do with your days? This is an important key to the Law of Attraction because it involves realizing what your purpose is. then itʹs time to search it out.
There is nothing more important than your happiness and the happiness of your family. We know when we found our purpose. joyous one. everything became easy. or just not feeling happy. Youʹll find people unconsciously helping you support and bolster your purpose.any stone unturned. the more the Universe will attract to you. they always seemed easier somehow. And the more excited you become about living your life to the fullest. the Universe always complies. being in a relationship that isnʹt what you want. Finding your purpose is an essential key. Once we focused on what we wanted for our lives. Even on the days that were a little hard. concentrate on having it and living it day after day. The Universe will actively bring you what you need to fulfill your purpose. When you have your purpose and you concentrate on a clear image of what you want to do with your life. 24 . You have your whole life ahead of you and it deserves to be a fulfilling. The more you know that the purpose you picked is right for you the clearer your picture is. Youʹll find situations that will begin to line up and work toward your purpose. This key can unlock many opportunities for you. Living life with purpose is what the Law of Attraction is all about. Once you have found your purpose. Not living life with your purpose is like going to a job that you donʹt enjoy.
this only attracts more people and situations to you that will bring you more concerns about yourself. Gain Confidence you worry about what others will think of you. Do yourself a favor and ask that very important question: If you had everything your heart desires. When you live life with purpose. Ask yourself the question at least once a week and work toward making it happen. It feels like you are living life just as you expected it. you donʹt seem to mind some of the extra ʺworkʺ that comes along with it. When without anotherʹs opinions? 25 . youʹll want to change your perceptions of yourself. How do you stop the cycle? How do you gain the confidence to make your own decisions I t is a good idea to start with how you feel about yourself. You deserve a wonderful life and there is nothing stopping you from having it.it all just seemed to all fall into place. If you are concerned about othersʹ opinions and how people feel about you. what would you do with your day tomorrow? Live your life with the answer to that question in mind. It doesnʹt feel like work.
then ask yourself why. Is it important to care what others think of you? If it is so important. Think about the freedom gained by not worrying about what others think of you. How do you ʹnot careʹ when you actually do care what people think of you? We have a mantra that we live by: Donʹt be who you think you are. It sounds easy and believe it or not it is. be who you wish to be. So ask yourself who you want to be? If you could create all the qualities for yourself from the ground up. Who knows you better? Have these other people ever walked in your shoes? So why do they have some strange power over you to make you feel that you need to care what they think? You have the freedom to create who you want to be ― no one can change that. Is it going to be the end of the world if someone doesnʹt like you? Is it the end‐all‐be‐all if someone looks at you the wrong way? It feels like it is the end if you let it affect you. what would they be? Would you be happy as the person you just created? And assuming 26 . But how can you gain some of that freedom? By allowing others to have their perceptions of you and not buying into what they seemingly see. Think about it. Now letʹs examine this very important thought further: Donʹt be who you think others think you are. not what others tell you that you are. be who you want to be.
Look yourself right in the eyes and tell yourself ― without shying away ― what you like most about that person in the mirror. Start being that person now. does it still matter that youʹll likely have the same number of detractors offering up more negative opinions? Be who you wish to be. You can take on the traits you desire now. and in turn you will feel confidence reflected. Become that girl or guy who is the one you admire and who is happy with life. tell yourself how great it is to have those qualities. You may feel like you are ʹfakingʹ it at first but your subconscious doesnʹt know the difference between real and fake so keep going until you feel the shift. Take a look in the mirror.you become this person you created. Even if you donʹt feel confident. by assuming the confident walk your body receives those signals. Others will recognize your confidence. See yourself as that adventuresome hang glider surrounded by friends who truly see and appreciate you for who you are: A Wonderful Human Being. If there are qualities that you wish to possess. Your former self will merge with this new confident person. You will become the person that you wish to be. 27 . Hold your shoulders back and walk with confidence.
the Universe will deliver more confident situations and the people to you who will compliment your own wonderful confident vibrations. The more you focus on a particular thought and feeling. the more they become a part of your world according to the attention that you give it. Once you have gained the confidence in yourself and know exactly what you want to be and have no doubts. You are the one in control of it. we become insecure and upset. the subject of your focus begins to take on a life of its own. When you experience this newfound confidence you will understand that your world is the only world you should create (and that everyone else is creating their own worlds). The more attention you give anotherʹs perceptions. It is entirely up to you who you give more attention to. When you focus on anything for a period of time. Getting Rid of Your Past Y our past experiences are a direct link to what you experience today. As you focus and feel 28 . But when we focus on a past traumatic experience. We all have past experiences that affect our lives. When we reflect on a wonderful thought from our childhood. the quicker the Universe will attract back what you are emitting. we feel secure and happy.
the Universe sends more of them to you. the Universe takes its cue and brings what you are feeling back to you. Why do you think people tend to repeat negative behavior patterns? They continue over and over again to relive past experiences. You donʹt have to relive past experiences. Itʹs taking its cue from you through what you focus on and feel so strongly about. you discover that you canʹt help but think. Yesterday is a closed book. The Universe isnʹt being unkind.more and more on the same want or desire. It was a time that was hurtful to you so every time you begin to attract a serious relationship. So how does one stop the repetitive thoughts and feelings? By starting anew as often as you have to. For example: Letʹs imagine for a moment that you experienced a traumatic relationship as a young adult. focus on. and when you do that. do your best to separate yourself from the experience while learning what you want or donʹt want from that 29 . and return to that one terrible experience. the Universe is only doing its job. But the more you think about and revisit that bad experience. When you think of a past experience that may not have been the most pleasant. you still think about that experience. Even though you are older now. the more you will attract that kind of experience back into your life.
When you close the book of Yesterday. you will bank good feelings that the Universe will work towards bringing to you. 30 . By changing the past ― even if it is only within your mind ― something miraculous happens: Your heart becomes freer because of the hope of what could have been. you will find that life becomes much smoother and easier. It served its purpose and you can let it go now. Then let the experience go. you can change your focus to the positive (as well as your accompanying feelings) and you will be creating better days for the future. When you create those great feelings. By doing this. You are hurting your own self by continually hanging on to it. your tomorrows will become days of ease and security. then play this helpful game with yourself: When that traumatic experience surfaces in your memory.experience. and you create wonderful feelings about a situation that was once such a negative focus for you. change thoughts of the past experience to what you would have wanted them to be. Take the whole situation and visualize how you wish it would have happened. By focusing on the joyous moments and gratitude now. especially on the ʹnot so greatʹ experiences. If you find it isnʹt easy for you to let go.
But what about the wonderful experiences of the past? Wonderful past experiences are good ways to get the ʹhappyʹ thoughts going. you will have a greatly positive emotion attached to a current‐day‐focus and that will become your true experience in your future. negative emotions attached will bring you more experiences of the same kind via the Universe. In this case the signal brings you more hurt and sorrow. more of whatever you are feeling and thinking. By using this method. Itʹs when you look back and dwell on 31 . Those feelings and emotions that you dwell upon only signal the Universe to bring you more of what you are focusing on. Dwelling on past experiences that have strong. but youʹll want to be careful of staying in the past too long because the Universe will bring you more past experiences to deal with. What we do is take a past experience and capture the feelings and then transfer the good feelings to what we currently want out of life. We can learn a lot from checking into our past at times. Looking back on past experiences to gain insight is a good thing. Can dwelling on past experiences that have strong positive emotions attached actually help you attain your desires? Yes they can. Staying ʹin the nowʹ is the answer. Use those experiences for the good feelings generated from them for today.
There would be no concerns about heart attacks 32 H ave you ever wondered what it would be like if you didnʹt have be concerned about your weight or your health? Just imagine it: You could eat as many potato . Your baggage serves nothing in your life. life is unlimited. make sure you observe your past without the feelings attached. It gets heavier and heavier when you keep lifting it up. no matter what you do. Baggage is limiting and in the Law of Attraction. without limits.. You canʹt hang onto the baggage and expect the Universe to see that you think unlimited thoughts concerning your desires. unless you let it. Healing Your Body chips as you like and your weight and health wouldnʹt be affected. Think and feel unlimited and let go of all of your past mistakes and hurts so that you can practice the Law of Attraction just as it should be practiced.. Leave the baggage behind and you will feel much freer. You will have a clearer picture of your past if you can leave the negative feelings out of it. If you look back on your past to learn what you want to do differently. That baggage is holding you down.the negative feelings that will adversely affect the Law of Attraction in your life. and with ease.
you go into a calmer state and then the Law of Attraction takes over. What is happening to our society and how can we change these health problems? Relieving mental stress is a good place to start. Back in the old days most people lived a rural life. but their home life was much simpler and health and mental issues werenʹt as pervasive. and modern day bathrooms. before there was electricity or toilets. we are dealing with so much more mental stress and that is something that is very taxing on our bodies. we live in a world that is much different. What if you just knew. The mental stresses that many people are under can cause health issues. While we have heaters. ensuring that you have calmer times ahead. Nowadays. more than we have ever seen. that you would never get cancer. without a doubt. we are programmed to survive. Each generation of family confronts and lives in a different kind of environment. and in some ways more difficult to survive in. lights. Many people work way over forty hours a week and return home exhausted and worried. Can you imagine how you would feel not having to be concerned about any of these health problems? As human beings. We have so many more people with diabetes and high blood pressure. and is just as important as physical exercise. When you relieve that stress. They had to survive in the coldest of winters. This kind of pressure is hard on the 33 .or acid reflux disease.
Walk to the park. Watch a funny movie. Use as many ʹfeel goodʹ moments as you can. When you concentrate on how difficult you feel your life is.body and the mind as well. it is good for your body. So how can we change this without the many medications that are actually doing nothing more than masking the core problem? By teaching others how to use the Law of Attraction as a way to help ease pain and stress. they can change their overall mental and physical health. Meditate. As these feelings build day after day. but most people canʹt accept that by just changing their way of thinking and focusing. and it can be. Being a healthier you includes thinking about your mental health and reducing your stress level. start there. you can obtain anything you desire and that 34 . you emit feelings that are extremely strong. they manifest into a recurring pattern that may manifest within your body. possibly in the form of illness or disease. This sounds like an easy fix. Being a healthier you doesnʹt always mean running laps. How can you help ease your stress? Take some time to think about what you want out of life and what you are thankful for. Through the Law of Attraction. These feelings create more situations that attract back to you. but most of all be grateful for what you have in life. Even if it is something small. Grateful feelings will lift your mindʹs vibration and even if it is just a little bit. Play with your puppy.
Can these situations be changed so that you donʹt have a hard day and so the involved individual will be well. serene life and let go of your stress. By just letting it go. For example. But there are some situations that can be hard for everyone. And youʹll find when you ʹlet goʹ you will have more energy and a healthier outlook on your life. You no longer have to worry about it. The perception is from And when you have other people involved. losing a loved one or learning that someone is in poor health. you are telling the Universe that you trust it to take care of the situation. understand that they are creating their own lives through the Law of Attraction. or not pass on? The situations that are mentioned above involve other people. Keep your eyes on the calmer. 35 . tell yourself to let it go and let the Universe take care of whatever the issue is that is causing your stress. Solving Everyday Problems you personally. E verything that happens in your life is all through your perception. Make a conscious effect to ʹfeelʹ good. What you consider as a hard or bad day may not be a hard day to someone else. Even when you are under stress.includes better health and less stress.
Again. How do you handle it when something bad intrudes in your life. then you 36 . It would be great if we could step in and create someone elseʹs world. just like your todays are creating your future days. we would be encroaching upon the world that is there for them and them alone to create. one where they donʹt get ill. But by doing so. and put them into perspective. and how do you continue to use the Law of Attraction? Get through it by employing a Perception of Understanding. When you know that you are having a hard day and you have a choice whether to ride it through with ease or live through it with struggle. especially when they involve other people. Itʹs important to know that you most likely didnʹt intentionally create a hard day. by understanding how the Law of Attraction works. Your todays are a result of what you were feeling and thinking from the past. but just one of those days that makes you feel like the world caved in. you may have had many hard days that created the feelings and thoughts that caused your today. Knowing this makes you want to feel good all the time so that you can have a carefree life in your future. it makes it easier to look at the seemingly bad days. Now what if you just canʹt avoid one of those days? Nothing as severe as health or death. How do you stop this vicious cycle? Just by knowing you can change your future days.
remember two things: Number One: Ride through the day with balance. flip into a better space so that you will enjoy days of ease. just let the day be good through your eyes and intentionally create a day that finishes wonderfully. just ride the day with ease.. the dog just threw up on the carpet. Number Two: Instead of just letting the day take you over and unintentionally creating even more hard days ahead. your hard days will number less and less through the Law of Attraction.. but by understanding how it happens and by letting the rest of the day pass by with ease. Here are a few tips on how to handle one of those days the Law of Attraction way. When you have that hard day. So even if a day starts out a bit rough. staring you in the face. and your boss is calling you every five minutes to find out when you are going to be there. If no decisions get made on that day. its okay. 37 . So youʹre just living your wonderful Law of Attraction life and. The kids are sick. Bingo! You start to have one of those days. You canʹt even imagine that you created such a day for yourself but here it is. We all have those days.are intentionally creating that day.
Write down each thankful thought you have. just donʹt react to your day. but by just recognizing that. you can change your future days. or find yourself a treat and just spoil yourself. just ride out the day. The key is how you handle this one.1. Grab a small notebook and write a thankful log. It can be as simple as that you had enough milk for the 38 . If you canʹt get happy. 3. Does this mean you have to be an unemotional stone? No. This will raise up your vibrations and help you pull out of your hard day. Find things to be thankful for. 2. donʹt react. Stay in a zone where you can remain as serene as possible. Ride the rest of the day with balance. relax and donʹt blame yourself. Donʹt be too hard on yourself. When a day comes that you simply canʹt fathom having had anything to do with attracting it. 4. When something seemingly bad happens. Stay as centered as possible and let it all roll off your back. Pamper yourself. Somewhere along the line some thoughts and emotions of yours created this particular day. Listen to some music that will put you in a better emotional space.
The Universe will provide what you focus on. Change the outcome. even if it is a ʹdonʹt wantʹ but it is always there to give you what you focus on. and you would love to change them. If it seems to be starting out rough. prove the Universe is still working on your desires. 5. When you have unwanted experiences over and over again in the same day. Find anything to be thankful for and you will see that there is good in your day. Look for signs! Find little signs from the Universe that. Do your best to start your day over again. The Universe is there to provide all that you desire as long as you focus on what you want. then change them. you can start your day over and over again 39 . 7. even though you are having a tough day. Revisit the experiences in your mind and change them into how you would have wanted them to have turned out. This will help the Universe to realize that you are changing all the ʹhardʹ in your days and will imagine them better.cereal that morning. Signs and indicators are a great way to know that you are not alone. The Universe will pick up on this and your future days will be ʹhardʹ free. 6.
not the qualities your mom would prefer. because as you know tomorrow is another day to create and the Law of Attraction will always help you out with creation. float. And your hard days will disappear through Law of Attraction application. Choose the qualities that you would like. Concentrate on the good days versus your hard days. The only friendships worth having are those that give you the joy you deserve. and you will soon notice many more good days.throughout a day. And if you just canʹt seem to pick yourself up. Instead of swimming against the current just stop swimming and float into a space that you are comfortable with. You can always have a great day if you make the conscious effort to have a wonderful day. Write down every quality and every detail that you believe will W hen searching for friendship. or a certain shallow. a place where your desires await you. outer appearance that you think your friends would envy. Just relax and let go. Find some quiet time and list the make you happy. Attracting a Circle of Friends qualities that you would like in a friendship. it is important to take inventory of what you really want in the relationships that you seek. 40 . Start with the qualities.
once you have visualized. it is usually traceable to impatience and doubt. it will bring back to you just what you have pictured. you are pigeonholing the Universe. ensuring that you may end up with some of the traits you visualized or perhaps none at all. Once you have generated your list. or better. Imagine meeting at the coffee shop in the morning before work. you may be wondering why one shouldnʹt invest more of the visualization into the potential friendʹs appearance. There are many individuals in the world who match your 41 . take the time to create a scenario featuring you and your new friends. you have to let it go. That said. visualize this circle of friends coming into your life. watching movies together. See and feel yourself with your new circle of friends as you enjoy their company. and walking on the beach or in the woods. whatever would make you happy. if your visualization is sketchy at best ― the Universe will fill in the gaps as best as it can. Every day. When people have problems manifesting relationships in their lives. If your visualization has holes in it ― in other words. and you know that the Universe is finding and bringing you what you want. When you concentrate on appearance. Let the Universe take care of the how. By letting the Universe take care of the how. This is the time when. Itʹs important to get as much detail in the description of your friendships as possible. See and feel yourself eating together.
but may not exactly match the outer shell that you think you want. Let the Universe take care of you. Getting Over a Relationship draining. Experiencing a breakup is emotionally and mentally 42 . When those friendships come into your life. and who exude the qualities you desire. You might even wonder if this is the person you should be with even though he or she isnʹt ʺthe allʺ of who you wanted. they will be vibrating at the same rate as you and you will have the friendships that you desire. G ive yourself some time to get over the initial sting of the breakup and then focus on your needs during this time. but not all.vibrations. The people who match some of the traits are your signs and indicators that the Universe moves people unconsciously toward one another. At first you may meet people who have some of the qualities of what you have envisioned. The Universe usually brings you signs to tell you that it is working on your desire. You are missing out on a lot of opportunity if you pigeonhole the Universe into an exact physical model of a person. The best thing that you can do for yourself right now is to make sure that you are being pampered. Trust in the Universe but make sure to do your part.
the Universe will bring you more of the same feelings that surrounded your breakup. whatever you put the most focus toward will attract back to you. If you spend too much time focusing on the breakup. In the Law of Attraction. Youʹre going to want to take your focus off the hurt of your breakup and see what life holds for you beyond this relationship. Donʹt surround yourself with people who enjoy complaining and commiserating about the pain of life. Surround yourself with friends who encourage and talk beyond the breakup. just remember that even though you have suffered a breakup. But like a book. the Universe will attract back to you exactly that: Whatever makes you happy. By concentrating on you and what makes you happy. 43 . Breakups happen and look at it as a page in the book of your life that you can look back on and know that you learned from the experience. Maybe you can take yourself to a movie or buy that shirt that you saw the other day. it doesnʹt mean that you stop enjoying life. something that tells you that you are paying special attention yourself. Start focusing on what you are going to do with your life now that it is just you. Each day will become a little easier and then you will be ready to search for the ʺsomeoneʺ you are looking to spend your life with. keep reading your book and move forward. Do something for you that you wouldnʹt normally do.
and the Universe will do the rest by bringing you enjoyable life experiences in the meantime. how many customers you would like to have. feel good feelings. a relationship that is exactly what you desire will soon blossom and these hard days will be just a faded memory. and donʹt lose hope of the ideal relationship. Think good thoughts. If you have a problem with believing the clear image. Business Success M plan. anything that you can think of to make the image of your business clear. what you want to sell. ake sure to have a clear picture of what you want your business to be.The best you can do is live and make the most of your days. Thatʹs all you have to do. pamper yourself. And. Once you see the first images of your business come true. Pretty soon the breakup will be just a word. Visualize yourself in a relationship that has all the qualities you want and enjoy life. then start with any smaller success you can imagine in your business. youʹll have the confidence to implement a larger 44 . if you play your cards right. This includes how much money you want to make. and you will have moved on to a better relationship.
Micro‐managing the Universe will only bring you similar situations and people that match the micro‐ management ʺcontrol freakʺ vibration. If this is the case. Let the Universe take care of the ʹhowʹ. like you are already living your dream. Once you achieve the first number you envisioned. normal mind canʹt fathom making those kinds of numbers. meaning that you will likely become micro‐managed by the bank. Be aware of the opportunities that the Universe will bring to you and your business. credit card companies. If you have a partner. and anyone else you do business with. start with smaller numbers that you can halfway believe and then work on your trust in the Universe. It canʹt hurt for you to ʹpretendʹ for a few minutes each day. Many people miss the subtle hints that the Universe hands you to help grow your business. Make sure to envision your successful business everyday. These thoughts and feelings will only help build your successful business and the Universe will match those vibrations with the true physical manifestation. envision together and imagine that you are living your wonderful business dream right now. You donʹt appreciate micro‐ management. vendors. You can take care of the clear image. like the arrival in 45 . Sometimes we imagine huge financial numbers complete with a clear image and the logical. and the trust. youʹll be on your way to the dream business you have always wanted. and neither does the Universe.
but it has no biased opinion. a moment of weakness. If you constantly focus on the lack of business. Why not focus on having a business full of abundance. that is what you will receive.. and that the Universe is taking care of it. 46 . Start with affirmations. The Universe is on your side. But what do you do when you encounter a day full of negatives in your business? Stay on the straight path to the positive. The negative day was just a result of some past thoughts and feelings. It can appear that it is just easier to accept the life you are living rather than to change you. a lack of business. T he Law of Attraction takes work. Know that when you have more positive days the negative days will lessen. but the change is worth it. Lifting Depression So how do you start when you feel so bad? Take small steps.your mailbox of a flyer relevant to your business. or an unexpected call from a buyer who is looking for your particular product. The Universe brings what you focus on via your thoughts and your feelings. Work on your inner self.. Remember your clear image.
Make these new phrases your mantra. just say your affirmations before bed. If you are not up to visualizing right now. youʹll want to write down the complete opposite. If this is running through your head over and over again. Then you can take the next step and consider what you really want in life. I want my life to change but I donʹt know how. This is important: If you WANT to. Start with just one and then continue to make more for all of the other negative thoughts you may have. but itʹs worth it with the Law of Attraction because itʹs guaranteed. Then start working on the visualizations for the life you truly wish to lead. Listen to what is running through your head over and over again. Maybe itʹs a chorus of Iʹm always tired. My life is changing for the good and I know exactly how to change it. Trust that the Universe will bring you the desire to be happy in your life. Slowly but surely you will find you will feel a little better. counteract it with your new affirmation. You will soon leave the space you are in ― if you want to. You have to want to change your life for the better. 47 . Then each day will get better and better as you intentionally apply the Law of Attraction. When you hear how tired you are. Things like I have so much energy.
With our daughter. when you are upset it always comes back to you and your thoughts and feelings. So we suggested we go a little deeper. When you have a situation that upsets you. Remember. This is what we told her.Getting Rid of Negative Thinking fundamental root of a problem. or who she wanted. The root of the problem is usually right there within you and it may take some searching. She was upset that a guy she was interested in was playing an W eʹre going to give you a method through example with this one. and then permanently letting it go. it actually made her mad. first examine the real reason youʹre upset. she said she couldnʹt think of why it upset her and that is what upset her the most. 48 . that she knew there were other fish in the sea. She said that at work the next day. Not only did it not make her jealous. but you can find it. We asked her if maybe it was because the guy turned out not to be the guy she thought he was. We got a call from our 23‐year old daughter the other day that got us thinking about getting to the immature ʺtrying to make her jealousʺ game. She said that wasnʹt a big deal. all she could think about was how upset she was about the incident and so she called us to find out how to let go of the situation.
she was vulnerable. and compounding the matter was that she usually can figure the guy out way before he can remotely think of figuring her out. but instead to work through the fact that she can be vulnerable. she no longer felt insecure. We told her not to put up her defensive walls. and it upset her that someone she barely knew could press her buttons that quickly. she can be a hard one to figure out. She felt unprotected and insecure. it didnʹt seem scary any longer. This was about her. or was she upset with the fact that maybe he had figured how to upset her? She went silent. She realized why she was upset. So. Big Deal. and that it is totally okay. Was she upset with the fact that he actually made her jealous. Now it was time to find the solution. He was a long forgotten part of the equation. By figuring out what the root of the problem was. and thatʹs when we knew we hit the root of the problem. Now was the time to let the situation go. Once she figured out that it was about feeling insecure. That was her problem. not about the guy. Her solution was in realizing that there are many fish in the sea and that the qualities that this particular guy did have can be found in 49 . She felt vulnerable and someone took advantage of that feeling. She was able to shine light on the problem. You see. This particular guy had figured her out first.
and she merely became a part of it. Once she figured out that she didnʹt want to be a part of the world that he was creating. 50 . and by letting it go you are no longer a slave to the negative feelings and thoughts that were connected to the circumstance. This works for any specific desire you may have. Finding the source of the upset and letting the situation go is a freeing experience. you wonʹt be attracting more of the same. Let go and see how the Law of Attraction takes care of you. But only for a little while. she became empowered and felt more secure than ever. and with no limits. C onvincing your logical mind that you can have anything that you desire (and in abundance) can actually keep you from manifesting what you want to attain in your life.someone who doesnʹt come equipped with a need to make girls feel insecure. You no longer become attached to the situation or put energy toward it. In other words. Attracting a Specific Material Desire Hereʹs a technique to teach the logical mind that you can have abundance in any area of your life. In actuality he was the one feeling insecure and was creating his world.
The sky is abundant. just you. Get yourself into a comfortable position and begin to think about how abundant this world really is. seeing the birds in the sky just knowing how many birds will be extinct because of the pollution in the world today. Find a quiet spot where you can do some good old fashioned contemplating. sparkling clean drink of water while contemplating how one day there wonʹt be water. looking at the limitless sky while concentrating on how abundant the smog is. When you think positive abundance. or the abundance of cars ― and all of their harmful. Think about all the money in the world and how much abundance there is. and a place far away from the busyness of life. Think about the water that you drink each day and how abundant the water flows. Do you see the difference? Both represent abundant thought. There is a difference between positive abundance thinking and negative abundance thinking. Take a look at the sky. rotten emissions. While 51 . abundance. you are thinking about the world and what it is abundant in. Negative abundance thinking is drinking a fresh. The Universe supplies abundantly. This is positive abundance thinking. Think of the grass and how abundantly it grows. Contemplate all of the positive abundance that is around you. Think of all the birds that are in the sky. Take a look at nature.
As you go through your day think of the positive abundance that is in the world. the 13 deer that stroll across the meadow (and those are the ones we can see. The logical mind will see and listen while you contemplate. We have a spot where we sit that overlooks a lush meadow. Do this exercise as often as possible. all of the plants that surround the creek bed and grow so wild and abundantly. the sky that is truly limitless. think about how many dollar bills and how much money is in the world. When you are eating an ice cream cone and enjoying it. When you have a dollar bill. and the list goes on and on. Everything that we see is in excess.you are sitting in your quiet spot. Teaching your logical mind to focus on the abundance in the world will begin to help you attain your desires. It will begin to see the abundance that the Universe creates and will recognize that you are a part of this incredibly abundant world. There is green grass that seems to go on forever. When you see and feel abundance everywhere. the Universe will bring you more to feel abundant about. all of the different species of birds eating from the bird feeders. there is water that is abundantly running through the creek bed. think of the abundance in the world. complete with the sound of running water. there are many more in the woods). think about the abundance of joy that ice 52 . all of the trees that crowd together because of the abundant soil.
and trust. It all comes from within you. The real you is ʹwithinʹ you. Ask. Donʹt rely on another person to get rid of emptiness. Begin to look at everything through the eyes of positive abundance and it will change your life. It will come to you in the best form you have focused upon. Only you can think you are separated and even though you arenʹt. Visualize on a specific desire and let the Universe take care of how it will come. but knowing how the LOA works can help you understand how to get rid of feelings of emptiness. This real you is called many things but we call it the Core Being within. you make a reality that feels that way. This physical you is not you. Trust the Universe to bring you the desire. You are never alone and 53 . When you begin to focus on positive abundance instead of negative abundance. Getting Rid of Emptiness G etting rid of that empty feeling isnʹt just about the Law of Attraction. The connection is never disconnected. expect. That is who you really are and it is always connected to the Universe.cream brings to so many people. you will direct your life toward the abundance of good that comes from the Universe and the Law of Attraction.
Strip that away and you have a wonderful beautiful being within that is connected to each and every person on this Earth and the Universe. by the Universe. Begin to stop living as if you are a physical body with an ego. you can begin to see there is no room for emptiness. Do this each day and you will find that the emptiness will subside and youʹll begin to see life in a different way. youʹre not separate. Find your Core Being within by sitting quietly without mind chatter and just ʹbeʹ. no matter. no matter. you are always perfect within. No matter what your ego or personality has you do. You are unconditionally loved no matter what. when you realize there really is no reason to fear or worry because your Core Being is always perfectly fine. you are ALWAYS loved and accepted. You are loved. no matter how inferior you feel. no matter. 54 . If you are feeling empty it is because you have decided that you are separate some how. You are never separate. No matter what you say. when you listen to what it has to say. Always. you are always accepted and approved of no matter what you say or do. It really is that simple. There is no judgment with the Universe. you are always connected.you are always perfect. When you begin to rely on your Core Being to live your life.
A lot of people want to change careers but donʹt take the leap because theyʹre concerned about the interim time between doing what you love and doing what you have Think about what you appreciate about it (even the little things) and be thankful for it. Do this before you begin focusing and visualizing on the new job you want. See the transition being very easy. The reason for this is that you want to keep the old job and ease into the new career and enjoy a smooth transition. But if you ʹdamnʹ the old car and complain how badly you need a new one. and at the same time be visualizing on what you want. 55 . Itʹs like when you want a new car. All with ease from the one career to the next. the old car will likely give out because of the negative vibrations you are emitting. Begin by thanking the Universe for the job that you now have. There can be an easy change over. You must be thankful for what you have. You appreciate your old car as well as the new one you are visualizing on. Each and every time you visualize on the new career you always want to start at your old job and how much you appreciate it now (If there are ill feelings at the old job make sure to focus on what you like about the old job).Upgrade Your Career without Money Loss to because of financial pressures.
So your teenage daughter comes home very late and past her curfew. assume the best. Choose to know that the odds are in her favor. Remember this: If your old job goes quickly while you are doing this process trust that the Universe is handing you the new career. What will the worry do for you? Sure. observe your reaction to life. Letʹs figure out how you can change the reaction within yourself. You obviously have to deal with it but your reaction is what will cause the stress level. Trust that you will have the new career in no time. Donʹt make rash decisions unless the Universe gives you indicators to do so (In which case. Triumphing Over Stress C hoosing how you react to situations will change the stress level in your life. When you have a situation that seems to be building stress in you. you donʹt know where she is at but worry will only make you confused and upset. Finding quiet time to yourself to ʹjust beʹ is another factor in reducing stress in your life. Make the change over easy by being appreciative of both. First you were worried and then you were angry with her. She really is fine. 56 . Until you have someone wearing a uniform knock on your door and tell you otherwise donʹt assume the worst. it wouldnʹt be rash…).
If youʹre upset that she disobeyed you. Are you angry because she disobeyed you or are you tension‐relieved that she is fine ― or a combination of both? Begin with observing how you feel BEFORE she gets in the door. This should be taught in school at a young age. It is just a much needed rest for the mind and body to connect within to the Universe. Clear your mind and do nothing for a few minutes each day. It doesn’t sound like this will work but it does. ʹJust beʹ. This will do so much for you within and physically. 57 . So she gets in the door. It doesnʹt mean you let her get away with anything. Itʹs not going to make you a meditation guru. Defuse and still solve WITHOUT the negative strong emotions because those will only bring you more negative. Stress will roll off your back and you will be able to see things more clearly. you can still ground her or take privileges away without being angry and without stress. Weʹve tried life with and without this and it is definitely more calm with ʹjust beingʹ. Your authority has been challenged and it stings the ego. realize this is ego based. Giving yourself time to ʹjust beʹ is important. Sitting still and thinking of nothing and relaxing is as important and exercise and eating right. Handle stressful situations like this. Defuse the negative emotions so that you can think clearly. When she gets in the door figure out a non‐stressful way of dealing with the situation.
Love heals many things and love makes things happen that you never thought would. Attracting a Specific Person into Your Life are a few things you can do through the Law of Attraction that can move things in your favor… IF it is meant to be. weʹre telling you right now that unless that person is reflecting your thoughts. By sending love and gratitude to this person. it isnʹt going to happen. In order for someone to be a part of your life you have to be emitting the same matching vibrations. or watch movies ― is beneficial to reducing stress. Begin by visualizing and focusing on why you want this person in your life. Love is the strongest emotion you can possibly have. You see. listen to music. and at the same time seeing yourself with 58 . What is it that makes you want them around? If it is for the sole purpose of lust. when you want someone in your life and they arenʹt S o you have your eye on a certain someone that you want to have in your life but she/he isnʹt giving you the time of day. Taking time for your self ― whether you read. But if you feel ʹloveʹ this is the best place to start. There are many factors as to why this is happening but there responding it is usually because you are not on the same vibrational frequency. This is how everything in the Universe works.
them enjoying each otherʹs company. The Universe knows everything about each person and knows what you have focused on. but donʹt micro‐manage the Universe. then they will come into your life. you are in a great space. Will they come immediately? Sometimes not. Donʹt push yourself upon this person. Maybe you still have some experiences to be had before you are with the certain someone or maybe they do and at a later time you will hook up. It always has your best in mind. the Universe always gives you what you want ― or better. if the other person is emitting out the same vibration. You never know. The Universe will line it up for you if you give it the chance and if it is all in alignment. The interesting thing that can happen is if that certain person isnʹt vibrating at your frequency someone else that fits the profile will and this could be just as great as who you originally thought you wanted to be with. 59 . It can take time for this to happen. Remember. Donʹt be so dead set on one certain person if the Universe brings you another. When you send out a vibrational frequency and they are ready to match it.
Right back at you. If you emit a vibration and it lands you in court. But if you feel like you are in the right and the situation didnʹt infringe on someone elseʹs creation with either hurt or dishonesty. the Universe will return the circumstance and that is Karma. but remember that ultimately it comes down to what you are emitting in thoughts and feelings. Begin by observing why you are going to court. So take all the negative emotions aimed at the other party out of the equation. If it involves making someone pay or is motivated by revenge you know what will happen there. There are a few things you can do to help direct ask yourself if this is the right thing to do. Begin by visualizing what you want out of the court case. Begin by visualizing how you would like the court case to finish WITHOUT 60 . it is tied right in there with the Law of Attraction. There is a little word called Karma and whether you believe it or not. Be honest and H aving a court case can be anxious enough but wondering if you are going to have it come out in your favor is even worse.Court Case in Your Favor your court case in your favor through the LOA. and anxiety and worry can definitely help the other side win. if it was something you knew was ʹwrong and possibly hurtful or dishonest. then you are in a good space.
you will miss that person but you understand that he / she had to go home just like we will one day. by knowing that W e each know our exit date before we arrive on Earth. It just helps you deal with the sad feelings when you can understand. When you cross the path of someone passing.malice toward the other party. Now if you get into court and the judge rules in the other partyʹs favor remember that it isnʹt over. Yes. Does it mean you wonʹt miss them or grieve? Absolutely not. Keep the faith and thank the Universe for the answer that is ʹin your favorʹ. whatever it is. See yourself happy and hear ʹin your favorʹ at all times. Sometimes a court ruling will seem against you and then down the road you will find that for some reason something else comes out of it in your favor. Keep the faith in the Universe and see yourself happy with the decision. We already know when we will pass on. Overcoming Grief after having this grand experience called life. This is part of being a creator and returning to where we came this person chose this date and the ʹhowʹ helps with the understand why. You will miss them and you 61 .
many physical lives can be affected and many lessons can be taught. And if you believe in someone giving you signs 62 . Remember fondly. When someone passes. By doing this. They understand if you hurt them and why or vice versa. And if it wasnʹt joy and there is guilt or blame attached to the thoughts of the deceased realize once they have passed. The grief of missing someone seems to be endless sometimes. Donʹt forget they picked the date to ʹreturn homeʹ. But when you are able to see that it isnʹt a tragedy that someone decides to go back home. and will understand this natural event. How is it possible that someone would pick a painful death? Why wouldnʹt everyone pick a calm peaceful death? This answer lies within their ʹthoughtsʹ of how they will pass and / or they may have picked that particular death to help others with the lessons and experiences that came along with the ʹpainful or traumaticʹ death. You will see them again without the cumbersome human ego in the way.will grieve. Focus on the joy you have had with the one who has passed on. they see the picture very clearly. it makes it a little easier. you will be better able to maintain what attracts to you. but do your best to think of the wonderful times with your loved one instead of the pain caused by their leaving. They understand and grow from what they experienced on Earth.
Releasing Fear about Money or Anything Else the door as quickly as they come unless you deal with releasing your fears regarding money. C an you achieve your financial goals using the Law of Attraction hanging while onto fears that are related to money? You can achieve the goals but they may head out You may just think that if you focus on more money it will come to you through the Law of Attraction. 63 . they will do that and you make you feel much more comforted. You may not even know that you have any fears about money.after passing. but have you ever thought about what your actual thoughts and feelings are about money? Is it possible that you may have some buried lack thoughts from either a perception you may have or a thought process that was passed down from generation to generation that you didnʹt even know you had? It is very possible. and youʹll want to find out what those lack thoughts are so that you can get rid of them. It really doesnʹt matter where they came from but get yourself a notebook and begin to look inside yourself and hear what you are saying about money and abundance.
When you have family that has lived through a depression or has had a traumatic experience in their money life they can pass their own perceptions on to you through the family line. that child will hear the same belief that great grandpa did through his own father. the lot of them. So now Billy is forming a belief of his great grandpa. theyʹre bad apples. Now great grandpa has a son and great grandpa raises his little Billy to see that wealthy people arenʹt good. Whether the wealthy family dealt him a bad hand or not. your great grandpa now has the perception that wealthy people will screw you out of money. in fact. when Billy gets married and has a child. We can pick up perceptions from any number of situations and people. Two people can look at the same situation and each one will perceive it differently than the other ― and each perception is a very real truth to them. I (Beth) was able to trace back my own lack of money fear thoughts several years ago and once I became aware that I didnʹt have to keep those thoughts I became free of the fears of money and abundance. Hereʹs an example: Letʹs say your great grandpa had bad dealings with a wealthy family. It can get passed down from generation to generation and as it gets farther down the ancestral line the belief could change into Donʹt be 64 . Each perception can seem just as ʹrightʹ as the next one and this is how a belief can begin. Now.
rich because rich is bad. What is considered a mistake or failure is just a choice you made and focused on and it wasnʹt what you wanted in your life. So you change it.ʹ It is helpful but hanging on to a past will keep you in that past. Sometimes something just as small as you donʹt know how to file taxes on big money can scare you into not making money if you focus on it enough. You are not your past. and each moment is a new moment to create your new world. just ask yourself some questions about money and see how your logical mind reacts. You may think that you couldnʹt possibly have financial success because of past mistakes. gone. Find the core of your fear about money. the past is done. 65 . You learn what you ʹdo wantʹ and you learn what you ʹdonʹt want. This scenario can also be responsible for being afraid of success. You focus on something you do want. Do you see how it can work? So again. Or maybe you have had a bad experience with money and you feel as if you have failed. What is the past good for? Learning and growing from. it doesnʹt matter who or what it came from. In the Law of Attraction there are no mistakes or failures. These are words that others have given a name for when something doesnʹt work out. You may have a fear of being rich and not know why. This just isnʹt true.
replace it with your new positive money thoughts. So can you imagine what it would . and how lifeʹs bumps would seem less potent. Once you have written down as many fears or beliefs you may have about money. see which ones that you donʹt need and would like to change. Fear only brings you more fear while facing fear and changing the rules on fear will bring you in alignment with what you want minus the doubt. Take each of your negative money thoughts and rewrite an opposite to the negative. to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally from childhood? Think of how wonderful life would be. By doing this you will be starting a whole new belief within yourself about money without the fear and that is what will bring you your money desires through the Law of Attraction. Getting Your Kids to Live the LOA be like to be a child of the Law of Attraction. 66 E ach one of us possesses all the tools we require to have all that we desire in our lives through intentionally applying the Law of Attraction. or worry. Make positive money thoughts to replace the negative ones and when you find yourself going down the money fear path. fear. You can use this technique with anything you may fear.
Every one of us carries baggage of some sort and even if we arenʹt responsible for it. just like it was passed on to you. Children naturally live the LOA until they begin to communicate and are told by others what is right and wrong for them. financial abundance. love. relationships. joy. career. But how wonderful would it be to teach our children how to use their intuitive minds as well as the logical mind while putting more emphasis on the intuitive? Letʹs teach our children how to create without fear so when they grow up that is all they know. And just like you want it for them. That is where they live until we show them the logical mind. and parents teach their children what to be afraid of and what dangers there are through their own life perceptions. just like they would want it. Children are like the intuitive mind. We continually teach them about the logical mind and what we perceive is right or wrong.. So how do you raise a child to understand and apply the Law of Attraction without encouraging and creating a little monster with no manners? Just because you are teaching them to apply the LOA doesnʹt mean you let them get away with everything because you thing you might be encroaching upon their world. They could become the great creators of their lives and have all they desire. health. our children will most likely inherit the same 67 . Your children get this passed on to them. gratitude..
You can get that job by implementing a few changes in your thinking process. The best thing you can do for your child is to show how to live life joyously and be grateful for their lives. they will avoid dragging a baggage cart through life. donʹt start worrying and pulling it all 68 . Then when they become adults. Begin by thinking about the job that you really want and focusing on your having it now. Securing Meaningful Employment I t can seem like the job market is limited these days. By observing how you live through the Law of Attraction. See yourself going to work and enjoying everything around you. Children learn by example. they will apply the LOA effortlessly.baggage. you like your boss. Make sure you are applying the Law of Attraction intentionally so they will ʹperceiveʹ how life works. and well… just visualize to the hilt. Once you have put in the application. so many people are after one job. But if they are equipped with the tools to teach them how to release their baggage early on. your child will begin to create perceptions of life.
or that maybe it wonʹt work out. The Universe knows. That one wasnʹt the one. The Universe knows every little thing about each job and where you would be best suited as compared to your visualization. You have an edge by knowing that what you think and feel can get you what you want. At the same time put applications in to other places as well and follow the same ʹno worryʹ rule. it doesnʹt matter. Let the Universe lead you to whichever one is best for you. Then give it over to the Universe. You will get the job as long as you visualize and put your trust in the Universe to make the right decision. Donʹt get down if one doesnʹt work out. Trust that the Universe will bring you more jobs to pick from so continue your visualizations. 69 .apart by thinking that there are many who are more qualified than you. Focus on seeing yourself working there and that you are the only one for the job. Whether you are more qualified or not. If someone else gets the job donʹt get down in the mouth. Trust and act upon any indicators that the Universe provides for you.
They make their home in Oregon's lush Alsea Valley. 70 . You are invited to visit www.com for more Law of Attraction information and free study materials. publish the only national LOA magazine.B happily eth and Lee McCain are two of the most prolific authors on the subject of the Law of Attraction. and teach the principles of the Law of Attraction at gatherings and seminars around the world. the married nationally syndicated weekly radio show called Radio LOA. The Indicator.bethandleemccain. also known as In addition to three books they couple host a popular The Secret. have co-authored on the Law of Attraction.