Same Night 3some Close
(4 Steps Model)
Hey fellow PUA! However boring it may be, etiquette dictates an introduction before I delve into the exciting stuff. My name is Ali, and I am a high-end night and natural game specialist, and successcoach. Feel free to contact me to find out what I can contribute towards your life in general or your dating life in particular, or check out Kezia’s website (www.kezia-noble.com) I was writing my introduction while chilling out at my Wingman “C’s” house. I went to grab some food and when I came back he had written the below blurb about me, most of it true (I’ll get you back some day dude!!)
Introduction about Ali by his Wingman C: I remember Ali blowing me out of multiple sets, and then going home with two hot girls, while
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why are you blowing me out with the girls”. At one point we had a fight in the middle of Oxford Street because neither of us were moving in to a set. He started to laugh and said “Sorry dude I really wanted them both”. He wasn’t always this good. It hasn’t all been plain sailing for him.com (copyright 2010)
http://www. indirect game. We used to go out and he would run in the other direction if a hot girl smiled at him.kezia-noble. I can remember one time when we got talking to this really hot brunette Raquel. As time went by he tried really weird and wacky lines. but he does have a sword ). The determination and a lot of chocolate cake helped him through. He was stuttering and said that he liked food about 50 times. She was wearing quite a revealing top and Ali’s big black eyebrows disappeared under his hair.I sat there and scratched my head. then it comes across fake. He developed his own approach to game and speaking to people. not just girls. What most people forget is that if game is your life. After the second time. The guy is now an approach ninja (without the weird black clothing. I stopped him and said “look dude this shit isn’t funny. upside down game (ask him he might tell you about it ). direct game.
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. or you can do the whole thing from scratch with two girls you have not met. There are so many variables depending on the sets. You could ask your girl friend to involve one of her friends. May the Force be with you padawan!
http://www. I will give you a basic overview of how my particular model for a 3some Close works. Hope this e-book will help you in your quest to the Holy Grail of a males sexual fantasy.kezia-noble. There are various ways to achieve a 3some close. Now this e-book is about how you can achieve the last one. you could get your fuck buddy to pick up a girl with you. etc. The rest is somewhat easier (but do require different strategies to achieve them) but I cannot possibly cover all of them in this e-book. you could use your social proof in night clubs to game two girls whom know of you. it should give you a greater understanding of required mindset. your level of game. I say model not a routine because it is not a rigid or a linear thing and it is way too complex to be a routine. to-dos and not-to-dos as well as a simple-to-follow guideline.Model In the following pages. logistics. you could get your fuck buddies to play together.
3somes became easy when I saw both girls as my targets (it’s more fun that way).
Pattern Breaking 3some Close is all about breaking established patterns. Believe it and act it. I really started to see a difference in my game when I stopped looking at a 2 set as a “target and the obstacle”. mainly because you’ll want both of them to yourself (yeah I know. You are a social creature whose time and presence is desired by many beautiful and important people. starting with your mindset and using openers that will enable you to have two-way conversations right from the beginning.4 Step Model: Pattern Breaking – Comfort – Sexual Escalation .Close
Let’s look at each individual component. There is no need for gimmicks or so-called DHV stories. If girls you are talking to are smart enough. The moment you start the interaction you should be gaming both of them. The only draw back to this is that your wingman may feel a little left out.
a) State Calibration: Going into sets only to have a good time is essential. When attempting a 3some close you have to perceive both girls as your target. you then go for a 3some close.
http://www. naughty enough and daring enough for you. Gaming two girls at the same shows you have balls that rub on the floor as you walk (ok maybe not that big ). Girls like guys who have balls. There is no other way.com (copyright 2010)
.kezia-noble. bad boy).
Your opener is both the most and least important part of your interaction. you are not drunk enough yet to dance on the tables. Note that if you go direct this will mean you will only get one of the girls. If they want you to be around. So smile. that’s hardcore! I like you already! High two! (victory sign – breaking pattern) Girls: Laugh and do high two Ali: You know what. What are you drinking? Girl 1: Vodka on rock Girl 2: Sex on the Beach Ali: Wow.com (copyright 2010) 5
. you have two-way conversation with both of your targets.b) Opening: There are no specific 3some openers. This means your line does not have to be utterly original. Most important because nothing is going to happen if you don’t physically go up and speak to the girls. then say what’s on your mind player! Ali: Hey. It needs to break patterns of your targets so you can have two-way conversations from the beginning though. you can call me Sexy. Least important because no one remembers the first few things you said to them anyway. What are your names? They laugh Girl 2: Isabel Girl 1: Anna When opening done correctly. This is very important for 3some Close. how are you guys? Girls: We are OK Ali: Only normal.kezia-noble. act it. Don’t try to fill every moment of silence with something. I thought it was tap water and juice you guys having for a second (I do a cheeky smile) Girl 2: Now you know better! What is that you are drinking? (you are in) Ali: Tap water Girl 2: You are kidding right? Ali: When I drink. I forgot my manners… My name’s Sexyone. they have to work
http://www. You are a high value and fun guy. You can use any indirect openers as long as they involve both girls. girls try to take advantage of me so I decided to stick to tap water.
kezia-noble.from the beginning. Note note: For 3some closes. you need to spend equal amounts of time with each girl in the opening.
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. Note: Drop in a false time constraint at some point before you go further into the conversation.
You need to spend a good amount of time to establish a safe. who are you here with? (gathering information) Girls: We came on our own to catch up and have few drinks. you guys are so naughty and friendly. They look fun.
a) Crucial information: At this point we gather information that will help us get out of potential problems e. fun and dynamic environment within which you can talk about almost anything and get away with all sorts of cheeky / naughty stuff.
Below is a more common scenario: Ali: Cool meeting you guys (with a big smile). Ali: You mean those loud. having private time) with your frame (they are there to pick up hot guys) and a further frame (they are fun and you like them because they are naughty and friendly) this connects the pattern breaking to the comfort. I have my specific techniques to go about this but yet again I can’t cover all that in this e-book. who are you here with? (gathering information) Girl 1: We came with our friends. tank-like guys over there? (they are scary.Comfort This step is the most important part of 3some closes. you connect their frame (chilling out.g.kezia-noble. I like you already! (giving information) With your question you find out early on if there are obstacles in your way.com (copyright 2010) 7
. I love touching and hugging people. They should be here any moment. or something they said that made you like them. You also need to do tons of kino in this phase. Below is an ideal scenario: Ali: Cool meeting you guys (with a big smile). Do they have boyfriends? Are they behind you? We then give them information that let them know why we are talking to them e. tell you that much)
http://www. In the second part.g. Ali: Oh and catch a hot and fun guy (rest my palm on my chest at the same time)? Groovy.
. Do not try to find out whether they have a boyfriend or not at this early stage. you need to isolate. Create a triangle sitting plan. and / or moving to a better spot that is conducive to sexual escalation. I normally move girls around physically with gentle pulling. You quickly find out who is who and relationships among them. If girls facing you and a wall instead of the whole place. There would be nothing else to draw their attention. or if there is enough comfort. Ali: You are all with him? (Implying they are all his ‘girls’ with my tone and facial expression) Girls: (They laugh) No! Ali: Pause and look at them… Girl 2: He is our colleague. It shows you are comfortable with your sexuality and fun to hang out with. you have a legitimate reason for isolation anyway: ‘my ass needs some cuddling with leather. that would be just amazing. If you are standing up and there are seats in a corner or whatever. how is he going to protect you from all these vultures around? (gesturing all other guys) Girls: Do we? We so n.
b) Isolation: In order to get a 3some Close.. that’s way you are talking to them).kezia-noble.com (copyright 2010) 8
. Ali: Poor fellow… You guys have this provocative sexual vibe. By labelling every other guy as ‘vultures’ you lowered your competitors value and at the same time you portray yourself as a different and cool guy. lets go and chill out there for a minute’.Girls: No! Girl 1: That guy over there and two other girls who are in the bathroom now. This may mean abstracting your targets from their group if they are part of a big group. a simple ‘Follow me’ would work. you imposed your frame (they have a provocative sexual vibe) and you connect that frame with another one (you find it attractive. you in the middle. lets go over there to sit for a
http://www. you are fine. As long as the guy is not the boyfriend of any of your targets. Verbal probes such as ‘there is a nice spot over there in that corner. pushing to get this desired setting. You look… (continue further into comfort) (giving information). Also. (You cut them before they can explain themselves) Ali: I find it very attractive.
you do not have to involve both girls in all topics. By creating two-way conversations and making deep emotional connections. what you do. Remember.
c) Triangle two-way conversations: You want to establish 30/70 interaction ratio. girls with tans being sexy. You do not have to initiate every single topic either. Not all of it from one girl however. etc.kezia-noble. 70% coming from girls. If they are interested. They have to be special to get you naked with them. You mention something about you briefly. finishes with apan.
http://www. good investment and insanely awesome investment. Since you are a high value guy. you are there to have fun. You do not have to stay in control all the time. No emotional connection. There is bad investment. etc. If one of the girls is not hooked up despite your best efforts.moment’. It is good practice to make sure both girls are engaged in the conversation throughout. Travelling.’ Boom. they are not interested. stay way clear of spending disproportionate amount of time with one specific girl in this phase.com (copyright 2010) 9
. you have a big subject to talk about there already. how hot I am. then no elaboration. i. I am not from Japan !) Also. However. you want to find out who they are and what they are made up of.e. girls ask where I am from originally almost always. you achieve the latter one. not to moderate a debate. you are not going to sleep with random hot girls. You need to make sure you intervene when necessary to steer the interaction towards your intended goal. what your dreams and ambitions are. That would be just too taxing and unnecessary. no lay… They need to know who you are. 3some Close is not on the table. You want girls to invest in the interaction on various levels. if I say how much fun it was to be able to play around under the sun most of the year when I was a kid. what you like. No matter what though. You do not force your stories on them though. make them work for it a little and get them to figure out the whole story. There is no absolute structure as to how the conversation needs to bounce between you and girls. I say ‘Guess. (By the way. It starts with J.
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. cold reading. And start making statements. You need to stop and make sure you are really listening and observing the situation appropriately. humorous roleplays. then repeat the process. If you find yourself keep asking questions. You also want to reward and punish behaviours.
Note: You want to ask a question.kezia-noble.I use specific techniques to establish dynamic two-way conversations i. Kezia has very effective tools you can employ for creating connection and build comfort. Make sure to check her new book and DVD series out. you are forcing conversation.e. Below is a bad example… Ali: Hey. wait for response and make a statement. etc. Also. how are you? Girl: Good Ali: What is your name? Girl: Rachael Ali: How old are you? Girl: 20 Ali: Who are you here with? Girl: Got to go Ali: Where are you going? Girl: To meet my boy friend Ali: Can I have your number? Girl: Bye Ali: Does this mean no?
Girls hang out in groups because hanging out on their own is not very ideal and also their friends always bail them out from a difficult situation (defence mechanism) i.You make assumptions: Most girls have kissed another girl at one point in their life. all the techniques I mentioned above could be used to generate social proof for future or could get you phone numbers. However closing will be really difficult. If they
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a) Verbal sexual escalation: . First thing you need to determine is the level of interest from your targets. I generally steer conversation to this point and ask if she enjoyed kissing another girl. there is no other way. And finally when you turn a girl’s defence mechanism into your attacking tool. then you need to sexually escalate. Everything needs to happen in the same day / night. In situation ‘b’ sexual escalation is a little tricky. you need to get eager one to initiate escalation or follow your instructions on her friend. Lets say 70 – 30. Important: While leading the interaction.kezia-noble. what you are trying to achieve in essence is to wing one of your targets to sexually escalate on her friend. your targets are naturally thinking that there is no threat or a situation to be bailed out from. closing is way easier. her friend started kissing her and brought you in. if you want action.Sexual Escalation Defining factor for 3some close is that you have to sexually escalate and you have follow it through to the end. Since.e. then you come in to the action. There are two possible outcomes: a) it is 50 – 50 from each b) one of them is way more into you than other one. you are talking to both of them and didn’t try to isolate one of them. a guy trying to get into their pants with his charm and all. In situation ‘a’ you are safe in sexual escalation process.com (copyright 2010) 11
. If you do not sexually escalate. However.g. In this case. things get pretty awesome e.
you step backwards. you begin to understand what type of women you are talking to and what kind of sexual traits she has and is attracted to. If they have not. That demonstrated that I am experienced and they will have fun with me. 3some Close itself tells girls that you are not into a long term relationship so no worries about making your relationship intentions clear. or in our bootcamps we usually cover this topic. Talk about crazy things they have done i. sex in public spaces. you apply this technique. Come sit on my lap. In order to move forward.Sexual Cold Reading: If applied correctly. Have already given some examples of it above. .com (copyright 2010)
. . Advance Frame Control is a subject on its own. the turning point of the interaction was when I very accurately guessed what each of them was into. So I looked at former and said ‘you like doggy. I just looked into her eyes and smiled cheekily. You drop sexual vibe. One of them had a curvy body with long hair and other one was slim with big boobs. .Freeze-out: If girls put up resistance to sexual escalation. you do not believe it and act as if it is a blasphemy. getting your hair pulled and getting spanked… You love dirty talking too’ Her eyes grew and asked how I knew.You reward compliance and naughty initiations & punish non-compliance and adjust their frame (advance frame control): I think this is pretty obvious. there are few products out there you can check out.You tell them what you want: You need to skilfully tell girls what it is that you want from them throughout. you talk about it. kiss me. . kiss her. .kezia-noble.You explicitly express what traits you find hot in a girl: I generally frame girls of being naughty. As opposed to same night lay with one girl. etc. When I picked up two best friends from the beach in Virginia Beach last summer. independent and passionate in Comfort stage and then in Sexual Escalation stage I drop in sexually loaded frames along the same lines. You know what would be hot? If we all kiss at the same time.
http://www. girls or men. My favourite line is ‘I love women who love women’. groups. sex on the beach.e.did kiss a girl before. If you have substantial experience with women. Then you can apply some of physical sexual escalation techniques mentioned below. etc. Further topics could cover who kisses better. go back to comfort and try again later on. this will get you laid every single time.
b) Sexual Escalation Techniques: . dance floor game and sexual escalation just best partners that I know. . . each of you will lean in while your eyes closed and stay like few millimetres away from each others’
http://www. there is a tangible tension. which then triggers the story you seeded earlier on that they have sexual interest in you. Dance non-sexually while still holding their hands and then push them into each other and get them to some dirty dancing facing each other. You will lean in and kiss them on the cheek one by one. You need to plough through if they resist. you cannot stop now.com (copyright 2010) 13
. then proceed to more daring ones. You look into their eye and lean in slowly and kiss them on their cheek with all your sexual fantasies flowing through your mind and stay on the kiss for at least 3 seconds.I hope your phone can take pictures.Say you have read this study recently that when there is sexual interest between people. and repeat the process. You then get one of them grind on the other one and you dance with the one who is grinding face to face. You can do a train (girl is grinding on her friend. her friend is grinding on you) Make sure you follow all these with some non-sexual dancing while still holding hands. then kiss the other one. You then get them to do this on each other.kezia-noble. then some more daring poses. you are protecting them by showing ownership and alleviate fears that you are only interested in getting into their pants. kinda gay but whatever works huh? Then proceed to kissing the more eager/easy one. You switch the girls. Note: Holding hands and having non-sexual dancing helps to re-instate that they are safe with you. because they are blessing in disguise. You then get them to switch places. when they touch each other. You say they have to lean in slowly and stay on the kiss at least three seconds. check out pics together.If you are in a night club. I smile and make some pouts. you can get one of them to sit on your lap and take a silly pic. choose your favourite ones. you are committed. You say lets see if we have any. You hold their hands and pull them to the dance floor. You need to start with easy to comply and fun ones. Then. I generally get girls to do naughty poses and take pics and make fun of the pics. You then say there is a more daring one which involves no kissing or touching. Get them to kiss each other and finally do 3some kissing. Afterwards. You say. They will feel tension no matter what.
that’s very naughty. Then talk about a subject that is not sexual while holding their hands. Or Girl 1: I love raw sex Ali: What do you mean? Girl 1: I mean I like guys to take me real hard Ali: Wow. Then proceed to kiss one of them on the lips.lips. When girls test you by throwing sexually loaded comments. get out of control and start making out fully. we would have given it a go. If you lose. You keep hold of their hair and pull it gently during the process. I like that. Girl 1: I love raw sex Ali: Smile and shrug. Note: Under no circumstances. If I knew you a little better.com (copyright 2010) 14
. When 10seconds passed. you say. remember this is supposed to be fun for all of you. you say you knew they were special girls
http://www. And go about doing it. Smile and shrug or validate them. You get the girls do this first. You push their heads gently towards each other if the distance is longer than 1 cm (you have to tell them you will do that verbally though). You got to
start and finish the kissing. you know what would be so hot? If three of you kissed at the same time. If she says yes or sometimes. Stay in control. (you got to talk about this with no emotion or blushing or anything of that sort) Then talk about something else. no one can beat you to that. finally.kezia-noble. Then repeat the process with the other girl now at the receiving end. This can go on to the tests like who can kiss better. you do it with one of the girls. 3some kissing can still be considered safe if the guy is just cool with it and do not take it that seriously. You know where this is going I hope If it didn’t happen already and if you feel the situation is ripe after all these preparation and you are in control. Then talk about something else. It has to feel safe. And make sure after a second or two you kiss her and pull away and say she cheated. Repeat it with the other girl. You stay like that for 10 seconds and you say under no circumstances they are allowed to kiss you or each other. who she thought kissed better. Ask the girl. do not buckle under them. you say you are amazing at working your magic on neck. Or you can ask Girl 2 if she likes raw sex too with no interest in your voice or face. get the other girl to kiss the girl you just kissed.
Then talk about something else. You need to make sure you pass these ‘tests’ with flying colours.
c) Potential Problems that may arise: Your targets will try to ascertain which one of them it is that you are hitting on. if you have been slow or hesitated. (you got to say these with genuine interest) (Then shut up and look at her with expectant eyes) Girl 1: I mean yes. Girl 2: What was amazing? Ali: You lean and kiss her on the lips for a second or two. that’s very nice. hold her hand. When Girl 1 comes back. etc. This is another application of advance frame control.com (copyright 2010) 15
. You are to not allow that to happen by constantly taking the interaction further into sexual escalation territory. you are a social guy… Fun as well. you show her more attention. Sounds like a risky strategy? Well. kiss her on the cheek. Ali: Thanks… I lean and kiss her on the cheek (stay kissing her cheek at least 3 seconds). lean back and carry on with the conversation. Girl 1: My friend is hot and I think she likes you Ali: Wow. you acknowledged the test and treated it as a compliment coming from BOTH of them and made sure she understood that you appreciate the compliment. then they throw you tests. That means a lot coming from two very hot girls. 3somes is not for feint-hearted or cowards my friend. (Say this while looking at her eyes.kezia-noble. However. very slowly and with passion)… (Pause) That was amazing (with a cheeky smile). Then forced her to admit she kinda likes you too.and smile.
http://www. Don’t try cocky funny. In the first example. lean back and carry on with the conversation One of them goes to toilet or for drinks… Girl 2: Are you hitting on me? Ali: ? Girl 2: Are you hitting on me? Ali: Do I think you are sexy? Girl 2: Yes Ali: Yes. You then appropriately awarded her.
jealousy.In the second example. etc. You want to stimulate girls emotionally but in a 3some Close you want lust to be the dominant emotion. give in to the temptation of choosing the easiest one and go home with her. girl wants to find out if you are interested in her emotionally and not necessarily sexually. You adjusting her frame (are you interested in me emotionally?) to your frame (Do I want to have crazy. Simultaneously. passionate sex with you?). That you can do anyway (or hopefully you can). keeping to the path of 3some.
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. Under no condition.
so don’t assume just because they came home with you they will have sex with you. Once the situation is ripe. because you need to wake up early for a meeting or whatever. Or you can go to one of their places depending on how you laid your logistical story.
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. You need to get their tops and bras off first I learned this the hard way… Note note note: You need to get girls to initiate and enjoy sex. It could be something to eat (followed by going to someone’s place) or going to your home for playing music and drinking a bit more for some time. You get them to kiss and make out. you will not get sex I am afraid.kezia-noble. You tell them that you want to have sex with both of them because not only they are insanely sexy and provocative but they are also so much fun and interesting people. Whatever shape the situation takes. You can use taking pics as a way of getting them to take their tops and bras off.Close You did all the hard work. Only for a short while. You find an excuse to get out from the venue. This does not have to be verbal. you are nowhere near sex stage. now it is time to close. you need to adopt appropriately and make sure you ended up in someone house. Note note: Until girls have their tops and bras off. safe and fun with them. Peace. Enjoy and report all your success stories as well as botched attempts. Once in someone’s house. re-animate some good memories from your interaction with them. This feels just right. Negative experiences how we learn the best anyway.kezia-noble. etc. get sexual escalation going slowly but surely. Or they could invite you to somewhere else. you play it cool. Ali if you want to find out more about Ali and the rest of the trainers on the team go to http://www. Get them to take their tops off.com/trainers/
http://www. Make sure you demonstrate dominant alpha traits in this phase. verbal sexual escalation is key. If you do not ask and demand that you get it. You push them on to each other.
I can easily tailor my system in accordance with my students’ personality. etc. However. cold reading. 2) You have already realised or will realise that no system would work for every single person. If I claim that I have such a system. for some it may feel a little complicated. It is very much possible if it is really what you want.com (copyright 2010)
. and animated. because I never thought I would have 3somes only 16 months ago. 6) Your personality will determine how you deploy each of these methods.Notes: 1) There is no magic or bullet-proof way of having 3somes It is at least twice as difficult as having same night lays if not more. It is just wrong in a million ways. My most sincere advice will be to deal with basics as thoroughly as possible with an experienced trainer.kezia-noble. then you will be equipped enough to succeed advanced stuff consistently. it is a little over-rated 5) You will come across many fundamental blocks of game in this short e-book such as social proof. don’t lose faith. wingmanship. If you have not TOTALLY covered these fundamentals. 7) Make sure both your libido and imagination are up to the task Not all of us are blessed with such gifts.
http://www. Let me tell you tho. 4) This is an advance application of game. so do not be ashamed of preparing yourself with whatever un-harmful means available to you. Therefore. I would be basically lying unashamedly. Anything and everything you learn should be seen as a tool in your social arsenal to achieve your goals in life. frame control. 3) Do not forego your personality and attempt to replace it with any system. so the following pages show you how someone like me should go about 3some close. This e-book will however will give you effective ways of going out about it. read the material in this e-book with a critical mind and modify it accordingly so it will be congruent with your personality. your success will not be consistent. you will have to take responsibility of doing so or contacting me for one-to-one. positive state of mind. I am generally very friendly. However since this is a generic document.
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