BSE 2-1


Intimacy is always bothering me when it comes to know that time will come it will frighten me by its hurt. I am hurt if that person has great value to my sentiment and someday the relationship is neglected by him as if nothing happened like amnesia. That will only be of great intimacy if he is the only one whom I¶m dealing with but with the course of being expose with so many others there¶s a tendency to neglect once feeling to only one. I am not affected by technology to lessen my intimacy because many youth especially children majority don¶t have a facebook yet so I am not fully satisfied having many friends in fb because that¶s only for those who are of age and know how to use computer. For children that I have love before and after, there is only one to have. Since it is many of you, I must have to focus connecting to the ultimate that give me much importance. Buscaglia loves how he embraces life and he encourages me to pursue embracing others. The manner that I shown is seems like we missed each other in a long period of time as if I don¶t want to lose single moment of being with him. I will not weary to hug every time I see him. By doing small acts of kindness he change a lot after knowing me that I am a kind-hearted one. Someday, I will be teaching in a class of love like Leo. I am LIVING in my true self, I am LOVING in a true way and LEARNING as I continue to live in the world of love in the field of teaching. Teach about love to your class and teach how to live in love and not to teach in order to find love. These are the three ³L´ that I am telling. I live because of love and as I grown up I learned. The reason we are here in this world is to love. Love means everything. Without love, I am nothing, nothing at all. Love relates to our affective part and learning for our cognitive part and living is for our psychomotor. What a complete ingredients for being human. The hardest battle that I am going to fight is the battle to be just me. If I die it means I lose life and that life is love. Love is my life so, if I¶m not nurtured, I will die. I am that loving person who is able to love myself. Like a birthday gift, I am not bothered to open it as a surprise to face the essence of love. So, I really don¶t miss it. I will not be tired of saying a thousand words ³I love you´ just in a day. The essence of love is getting out of oneself and into others. When we care less about our feelings, our rights, our happiness, our security, etc., and begin to concern ourselves with the feelings, rights, happiness, and security of others, we will have found the true power of love. We can ask ourselves daily what we have done to make the world a better place, to make someone smile, to help someone to feel more secure, etc. It's the simple things which have the greatest effect. We must never underestimate the strength of a smile or act of kindness. We take love for granted. We assume we are all perfect lovers and all we need do is wait and our love will grow and blossom as readily as a flower in spring. Not so. Love doesn't grow unless we do. It takes patience, knowledge, experience, determination, and every positive trait we possess. In addition, love is always changing and unless we stay aware and change with it, it eludes us. We are all born with God-given, unique traits and skills. But, as with all possibilities they will remain unrealized unless they are developed, nurtured, and put into practice. You may have the "capacity" to love, but if left undeveloped, you will never gain the "ability." A life of love is one of continual growth, where the doors and windows of experience are always open to the wonder and magic that life offers. To love is to risk living fully. I don't believe in unconditional love. In fact, I think it's unwise. My love has had a condition that if ever my love keeps you from you, from your growing, and realizing your personal potential, then I must step aside. No one has the right to stand in the way of another's joy, development, or unique perceptions. We live in a small world. Not a leaf falls that doesn't affect a myriad of things. When we reach out to someone in love and the effect is made ² everyone, everything which comes in contact with the person we've affected is better for it. Of course, the converse is true, too.

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