Blog, Blog, Blog, Blog. Writing has been a problem for me ever since.

It s too hard for me to write my thoughts and ideas. Naisip ko, writing must come more from the heart and from the mind but definitely not from Google. I used to share my opinions and perspectives about things different kinds of people and I guess most of my blogs will be all about it. This blog about the confessions and life of a teenage bisexual who used to live a simple life but then realized that there s more than hiding inside his closet. After all, chasing happiness has not been easy for him; he had a hard time dealing with people and obstacles. But then, he later on realized that happiness is nothing without hardships, without tears, without hopes and without dreams. Mahirap maging kakaiba, Mahirap maging bakla. Some people might say that Ginusto niyo yan, Deal with it without knowing Ano nga ba ang feeling maging different, maging bakla? Maaring sabihin ng iba na kalokohan, may equality na! But there s no equality at all. Gay people are not yet accepted here in the country, maybe when Gay people comprise 50% of the population (wag naman sana). I mean, what s wrong with being gay? Why is it so hard for some people to understand why gay people deserved respect? Well, I hope, after reading my blog, you finally realized that gay people needs your acceptance and understanding and your respect as well. 1. Some people underestimate your capabilities. - One of the hardest parts of being gay is that some people simply underestimate your capabilities. Gawaing panglalake lang ito some people believed that gay people can t stand any work that involves force and strength. Who said that gay people can t play basketball? Who said gay people can t be engineers? Who said that gay people can t be weight lifters? Well in fact most of the Guys that you ll see in Gym are Gays so BEWARE!!!!! Anyway, it s so hard for you to express your ideas and plans if no one seems to believe in your capabilities. Napaka-Trying Hard madalas mong maririnig sa mga taong hindi naniniwala sayo. Oh well, don t mind the haters. Just be yourself and show them what you got. Always remember, Bihira ang baklang walang talent 2. Criticism is your number one enemy - Criticism is part of being gay. Well ever since na ipinakita mo ang mga sintomas ng pagiging beki, Bakla, Bakla! ang number 1 na pang asar sayo. It s so hard to deal with this people lalo na kapag in denial ka pa. You re afraid that someone might call you gay in front of your parents. At the very young age, I don t know why do they laugh at gay people? What s so funny? Why do they think that being gay is bad? Is this because their parents said so? Poor kids, they re in the wrong hands. I admire kids with open minds. Taking criticism in a negative way will not make you a better person. Pinatunayan mo lang na tama lahat ng sinabi nila tungkol sayo. You have to take advantage of those criticisms and use it to make yourself better. You have to learn how to deal with criticism because you ll never get out of your closet until you finally grew some balls and face the reality that gay people are meant to be criticized. You still have the maleness in you, so use it as your sword to deal with the haters. Kung kaya nila, kaya mo rin. Lalaki ka pa rin

He took that incident as his motivation to study hard and to succeed. everybody does. They are taking advantage of your weakness. Uso ang mag-ampon. Wag mong iisipin na magiging hadlang ang iyong kasarian para magtagumpay. Epic FAIL . Boy Abunda is a great example. You can always make your parents proud of you. Treasure your friends like your own brothers and sisters. INGAT! 4. tingalain niyo ako ngayon Most of you might not believe that it was a true story. Masakit ang masaktan lalo na t alam mong wala kang ginagawang masama. Don t worry. Gay s are not coward to the point that they can t even manage to defend their selves. bihira na lamang ang bikitima ng pang-haharass. Can you imagine the strength of a man and the mentality of a woman in one? You have lots of potentials and just like Katy Perry said in her song. There is this story that a gay student (in denial and discreet) was sexually molested by his classmates and teacher. but the point is. Sabi nga ni John Lloyd. ang mabastos dahil sa maikli mong kasuotan. ang masapak dahil sa pagsususuot ng pambabaeng damit. You ll never close your options. Falling in love with a gay person will not make you less straight as long as you re secured with your masculinity. isang sintomas na yan.3. Harassment . Why do some people think that gay people will never find their lifetime companion? Pati ba naman dun may discrimination? Love has no gender. you ll never be afraid to fell in love with a gay person. sa mga di pa secure sa gender nila. don t be afraid that you ll be left alone. his classmates will realize that Heto na ang baklang pinagtawanan at nilait ninyo noon. Who said that gay people can t find love? Katulad nga ng sabi sa kanta It s not about the money. hence keep it open. just ignite the light and let it shine. ang mabugbog dahil sa gusto mo lamang maging Masaya. Bobo nga lang ba ang nag-pauso nito o Inggit? To all the gay people out there. They are brave . To all the guys out there who believed that pag pumatol ka sa bakla.Yes. The scandal was recorded in a phone and his teacher spread the audio record to his classmates via Bluetooth. He went out of his closet and hoping that one day. He was like a trash and I can t even think how did he manage to remain silent. it s one of the hardest parts. gays have much more potentials than anybody else. pero they have companions. matatanggap din ang mga baklang nagtatayo ng sariling Pamilya. ano kami bangko? ALALAHANIN di lahat ng bakla may pera. money di naman lahat tungkol sa pera. money. The gay student has been humiliated. Masarap magmahal ng bakla sabi sa isang jeje na kanta. GAYS ARE BEING HARASSED. Go girl!! Keribelles lang yan Te!! 5. In time.Well I guess today. bakla ka na din . HAHAHAHAHAHHAAH!!!! lang ang nasasabi ko kapag nakakarinig ako ng ganitong katangahan. He s been with his partner for almost 27 years. FAIL! Most of the gay people out there think that they re a failure because they re born gays. and I ll never make my parents proud of me . Gay people really want to make their parents proud of them in spite of their gender. but still. Sometimes they feel like I m a failure because I m gay. Hmm. YOU STILL HAVE YOUR FRIENDS. if you re really secured with your gender. Gay People will die alone.

yung pakikipagtalik sa kapwa lalaki at pakikipag relasyon sa lalaki ang bawal. 6. Masakit yan lalo na sa ibang hindi naman Gawain ang mag-take advantage sa mga lasing na lalaki. . karamihan ng galit sa bakla na wala namang ginagawa. Please. bukod sa mas hot ang medium built. . They have their weaknesses too. Well I can t please everybody to understand what I m talking about because some might have been chased by a gay person or yung iba. All they need is understanding and acceptance. in-denial lang talaga. hindi namin sila matatanggap dahil wala namang ginawa ang diyos na bakla sila na nga ang nagsabi na diyos ang gumawa ng lahat. hindi naman pinagbabawal ang bakla sa simbahan eh. It s so hard for them to control their desires and libido. besides we re in a democratic country? For the guys. Why is it so important if pwede namang dedmahin? It s because if some people really understand how do gay people feels. at hindi niya ginawa ang mga bakla.enough to say that I M GAY! What s wrong with cross-dressing? What s wrong with effeminate gestures? Why do they can t just allow them to be free. that s so immature. Alam ko at alam niyo na hindi lahat ng bakla ganito. Alam naman natin na hindi mo na mababago ang isang bakla kahit na bugbugin mo pa ito ng paulit-ulit. Acceptance is really needed. Ito ang pinaka-karaniwang impression sa mga bading. Taking Advantage. he allow us to decide for ourselves so I know matatanggap pa din niya ang kahit sino kahit na ano pang gender . and that s men in sleep and drunk. ay dahil bet mo siya or bet mo ang outfit niya! 7. ang manamantala. siguro isa na din itong paraan para ma-defend nila ang kanilang mga sarili sa mga taong maari silang saktan. so what s the point? Paulit-ulit kong sasabihin.Hmm. don t have the wrong impression to a gay person. Kaya nga siguro madami nang bading ang nagpapalaki ng katawan. they know their limitations and some of them can control their desires so you have nothing to be afraid of. If god really has the control to the world. Para ka lang napagbintangan sa isang kasalanang hindi mo naman ginawa. at masakit ang mapagbintangan.Paulit ulit ko ng sinabi na acceptance lang ang kailangan para lubusan mong maintidihan ang sitwasyon ng mga bakla. at kahit man magising ay hindi na ito papalag. God is Love diba? Kelan pa pinagbawal ang pag-ibig sa kapwa lalaki if Love has no gender at all? I still believe that gay people are part of god s creation. it s all a matter of confidence and faith na hindi magigising ang lalaki sa pagtulog. bakit di na lang niya inalis lahat ng bakla noon pa? It s a sexual preference so god is not responsible for that. they can be the instruments who will disseminate the idea that gay people should be accepted and with that many people will believe and be convinced that THEY SHOULD TREAT GAY PEOPLE FAIRLY . Wag naman natin lahatin.

Lahat na ata ng Gawain may Gender. Gusto mo maglaro ng Barbie. Some gays are so tactless and they feel so perfect and powerful to the point that they are stepping on someone else s pagkatao . or they simply want to be noticed. You ll never be accepted if you can t even admit that you are gay. hindi mo ikakaganda yan o ikakayaman and besides babae yan at lalaki ka pa din. tingalain sila. Yun naman ang mali. so gusto naman nila na kahit sa ibang paraan. sikat man o hindi. And some gays don t know how to get rid of the haters so pinapatulan naman nila. Ang sarap kaya! Try mo!! Acceptance should start from yourself. hindi mawawala ang mga pesteng haters. having true friends. 8. Gays love attention. The best thing is to make friends with them or simply ask them why they hate you. You ll never be happy living in pretense. no one has the right to stop you from chasing happiness.Napakahirap na gawin ang pagkatao mo pag ikaw ay isang bakla. then from the community. some gays are trying to be somebody but they simply can t. give them reason to like you. Wala ba silang karapatan maging artista o maging matagumpay dahil bakla sila? Pati sa kurso mong gusto. 9. Ang pakikipag-sabunutan sa babae o kahit ano pang pisikal na pananakit ang pinakamaling gagawin ng isang bakla. It s so hard for a gay person to be judged that he ll just be a parlor gay or hair dresser one day. mali ito sa paningin ng tao. You don t have to be somebody anyway. Bakla na nga sila. Gay people want to be somebody. at may pang babae.- nito. neither hanging out in expensive places nor studying in expensive or exclusive universities. You have the choice to be happy. stop all the pretense and hence just be yourself. everyone does.kahit sino naman ata satin. so don t be afraid to pursue what will make you really happy. Accept the fact that you are not perfect. pero dahil lalaki ka. from your family. We can t get rid of them. The reason why do they have so many haters is that they are being misunderstood. You can be somebody in so many different ways. They simply don t want to be overpowered. either because they re so pretentious or they re so tactless. May gawaing panglalaki. Wearing Gaga clothes is not a solution. at wala sa bakla kundi ang mag-parlor. so simply don t mind them. Walang problemang nasosolusyunan ang pakikipag basag ulo. Some gays are intimidating. studying hard and graduate with flying colors or simply be yourself. What s wrong with same sex relationships? Sabi nga sa isang commercial. they always want to make their friends and people around them happy even making fun with other people. Mapapagod din yan. Lagi mong iniisip kung ano ang tama sa paningin ng ibang tao kahit hindi ito ang makakapagpasaya sayo. Self Creation is the hardest part . being different is cool. HATERS . Don t give them any reason to hate you more. hindi ka makapag cosmetology dahil Gawain ito ng .

Hindi ito nakakabawas ng pagkalalaki. Wag ka manghinayag na mawala ang mga kaibigan mong ikahihiya ka sa ganoong sitwasyon mo. it is a choice to be happy and free. Hindi porke bakla ay wala kang magagawa.For those who are still on the in-denial phase. yung wala kang pakielam sa sasabhin ng ibang tao sayo. It will not make you rich or it will not make you less gay. You don t have to think what will other people say about you hanggat wala kang inaapakang tao. kailangan mong bigyan ang sarili mo ng kahihiyan. as what I have said. bakla na din as what I have said. You have to create yourself based on your preferences. gusto kong mauunawaan mo na wala kang dapat ikahiya at ikatakot pag dumating ka sa puntong iyon. so it doesn t mean that they are trying to be vice ganda. No one knows yourself except you. Being Gay. kung secure ka sa gender mo. kung nung bata ka . But this choice is a responsibility too. hindi akma kung tipong sa mall mo ito . gays have the same humor. Some of them are ashamed when someone called them gay. Why do you mind them so much? You ll never be happy with who you are if you ll depend on what will other people say about you. They have so many insecurities because they can t do things that gay people do. hindi mo narinig sa kahit na sinong tao na mali ang umibig sa kapwa lalaki at wala kang naring sa kahit sino na nakakadiri ang same sex relationship. The question is always ano kaya ang sasabihin nila? but the question should be ano bang gusto ko? nakakapurga ang laging isipin kung ano ang sasabihin ng tao sayo. Lagi nilang iniisip ang sasabihin ng ibang tao sa preferences nila. Their lost is your gain. yung tipong ang masasabi mo nalang sa mga taong nakatingin sayo ay manigas ka kakatingin! . hindi mo kailangang maging hesitant sa mga tanong na may pag-asa ka bang makipagrelasyon sa kapwa lalaki mo? what s so disgusting about it? Yung salitang pandidiri ay nanggaling sa mga taong may mababang pang unawa. ginagaya mo ba si Vice Ganda? FYI. this could be the hardest phase for them. bilang isang bakla. everything is limited. nakakadag pa nga eh. Kung iyong iisipin.Some people might say that being gay is a choice. I m not convincing you to have relationship with same sex. and I m Proud 10. kase. a responsibility to learn how to spare ourselves from humiliation. Yes. Hindi ganon kadali ang lahat. I pity them. Ang hirap buuin ang sarili lalo na kung sa palagay ng iba ay nangagaya ka lang. wow. Kung ikaw yung tipong mala-Lady Gaga manamit. siguro ang lahat ng bagay ay may tamang oras at tamang panahon. Ang sarap sarap maging ikaw. . Bakit mo pa kailangang magpa-apekto sa sasabihin ng iba tungkol sayo kung alam mo naman sa sarili mo kung ano ka talaga? Hindi mawawala ang mga totoo mong kaibigan na may malawak na pagiisip. YOU RE BRAVE ENOUGH TO FOLLOW YOUR HEART WITHOUT THINKING WHAT MIGHT OTHER PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOU . Sila pa yung pinakamadaming sinasabing panlalait sa mga bakla.ano ka kaya ngayon? Asan ka kaya ngayon? I admire Guys who are brave enough to say I m straight yet I m open for same sex relationship.bakla o kahit fashion design. They don t even worth your time.To all the guys who believed that pag pumatol sa bakla. yung tipong masusuot mo ang gusto mo. On the other hand. a choice and a responsibility to learn how to spare ourselves from humiliation. they re still inside their closet and can t even get out and say I m gay. Some might be glad if they are being compared to a celebrity or to any one else without knowing that being compared is an insult. It will not make you less straight. Nakakainis ang mga in-denial.

I m hoping that one day. wag kang magpapadala sa emosyon. besides. Ano nga ba ang mali? May dapat bang sisihin? Kung ganon sino? Lahat ng tao ay may kasalanan. patunayan mo sa kanila na di porke bakla ay bastusin. Hanggang ngayon may halong pandidiri pa din kapag may nakita kayong dalawang lalaking nag-holding hands sa mall. Dumadami na sila. spread the word. WALA WALA WALA WALA. well in fact you can get it for free? You don t have to rush things because you might end up disappointed. nangagapang. Talagang napag-iwanan na ang bansa. Hindi ba? Maaring Oo. malamang nasagot ko na sa blog ng ito. Why did they have to pay for sex. pwede magi sip te. Iba-iba ang lahat ng tao. This is for the lesbian too. parlorista (samantalang marangal ang trabahong ito). Happy reading. May mga batas bang prumoprotekta sa mga bakla? Kapag ba sinabi ng isang bakla na siya y ginahasa ng mga lalaki. postponed satisfaction. STAY PUT LANG! Just keep this on mind. kasalanan din ng ibang bakla kaya naging iisa ang tingin ng ibang tao sa lahat ng bakla. Ikaw na mismo ang nagbibigay ng dahilan para bastusin ka. kung wala talaga silang fashion taste. dahil kahit bakla ay pwede ring tingalain. wala ng tao ang nandidiri sa mga bakla at sa mga lalaking umiibig sa bakla. Hindi ko sinasabing may mali sa iyong suot ngunit hindi lahat ng tao nakikilala at nauunawaan ka.kaya nga may utak eh. Dahilan sa naging sarado ang ating pag-iisip at basta na lamang nagpaniwala sa sabi ng kung sino man. so don t give them any reason para mabastos ka.sinusuot o yung tipong nag-cocommute. follow your heart pero wag abusuhin. pineperahan. pasensya dahil nasa lipunan tayo ng may mababang pag-unawa. Deferred gratification. Wag ka kaseng excited te. para kang mauubusan. you re responsible for everything. maniniwala ka ba agad o matatawa ka? Nakakalungkot na naging ganoon ang lipunan natin pagdating sa ganitong usapin. Rod Singh . kung ikaw man ang aking tanungin na kung ano ang mali at masama sa pagiging bakla.hindi porke bakla. Dress to express and not to impress. Well I guess marami na din akong nasabi. wag kang mag-alala.

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