1
 The
Progressive
Relationship
 
 


The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2

Carl
&
Kenya
Stevens


JujuMama
LLC

The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1,
2010
 




The
JujuMama
 definition
of
relating
is:
a
series
of
 moments
essentially
designed
to
aid
in
 individual
and
collective
personal
 growth
and
development.


 
 This
is
the
essence
of
The
 Progressive
Love
Movement.

 We’ll
discuss
the
relationship
with:

 
  Source

  Self

  Others


 
 Enjoy
and
be
sure
to
stop
in
at
the
 Love
Academy
to
ask
any
questions
or
 leave
comments.


 In
this
e‐book
we
will
explain
–

 The
Progressive
Relationship.

We
have
developed
systems
 that
aid
today’s
savvy
Earth
dweller
in
 managing
relationships
new
ways!


 
 It
is
time
we
embrace
the
challenges
 of
relating.
 
 Relax
and
prepare
to
see
the
benefit
of
 the
relationship
protocol
we
suggest
 much
of
which
has
been
written
in
 230
elegant
posts
on
our
blog

 
 
 http://jujumamablog.The
Progressive
Relationship
 2
 
 
 Intro To Bliss 
 Modern
LOVE
needs
an
overhaul…

 We
are
all
experiencing
relationships
 as
a
major
challenge.com.
they
offer
ultimate
growth
 and
empowerment.
2010
 
 .
Self
 and
Other
that
has
opened
human
 beings
to
the
next
level
in
Bliss!

 
 We
set
the
book
up
in
three
sections.
However.

The
Progressive
 Love
Movement
was
born
to
shift
the
 Paradigm.
 
 Carl & Kenya Stevens 

 
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.

The
challenges
are
 favorable.
 
 Relating
to
others
can
be
tedious
and
 sometimes
unnerving.


 
 JujuMama
has
compiled
a
complete
 system
of
relating
with
Source.
these
 seemingly
tumultuous
relationship
 struggles
are
actually
beneficial
to
 those
who
understand
life
as
Progress
 or
Evolution!



 
 JujuMama
makes
it
easy
to
address
 insurmountable
difficulties
of
modern
 relating.


and
 attitudes.

We
 like
to
use
the
world
Source
because
 whatever
one’s
religion
or
spiritual
 principles.
it
is
beyond
us…
it
 unites
us
all.
2010
 
 .
 • You
know
what
you
want
and
 you
know
how
to
manifest
it!
 • You
are
open
to
exploring
your
 authentic
feelings.
 
 Source Connection 
 • You
feel
connected
to
all
beings
 a
sense
of
oneness.
which
is
an
 expansion
of
Source.
 • You
realize
you
have
the
ability
 to
create
joy
in
life.
 
 Self-Connection 
 What
is
the
self?

We
 believe
that
Self
is
an
 expression
of
Source.
talents
 and
‘intuitions’
knowing
they
 are
emanating
from
and
 shaped
by
Source.
this
is
a
process
and
 indeed
the
purpose
of
life.
 • You
understand
pain
as
daily
 learning

~
you
realize
you
can
 choose
not
to
suffer
~
instead
 processing
pain
for
learning.
we
do
the
 following:
 
 Self-Connection 
 • You
know
you
have
never
 made
“a
mistake”.
 
 When
we
can
answer
YES
to
all. The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.
 • You
are
willing
to
accept
that
 you
have
ultimate
control
over
 how
you
process
life

 • You
do
not
feel
subject
to
 anyone
or
anything
 • You
realize
you
create
your
life
 
 If
you
have
checked
each
item
on
 this
list.

Self
 involves
the
unique
ego.
moods.
 For
most.
 there
is
powerful
connection
to
Self
 To
align
Academy
Members
to
Self
 and
to
Source
we
use
the
 CnSystems…
These
are
28­day
 moon
cycles
or
365­Day
Sun
cycles.
rather
you
 are
purposefully
learning…

 • You
are
gentle
with
yourself
 through
life’s
mandatory
ups
 and
downs
‐
challenges.
 personality.3
 The
Progressive
Relationship
 
 Source-Connection Source
is
a
 placeholder
word
for
 the
divine
energy
 many
know
by
various
names.




 
 So
to
honor
Self.
 • You
choose
to
channel
your
 emotional
feelings
toward
the
 manifestation
of
anything
you
 desire.
Source
is
relevant.
you
can
truly
say
you
are
 deeply
connected
to
Source.
 • You
honor
your
desires.



It
is
the
essence
of
all
 things.
talents
and
 other
individual
traits
as
well
as
that
 common
creative
energy
we
call
 Source.
 • You
realize
that
peace
is
the
 essence
of
who
you
are.




 
 Source
symbolizes
the
‘creative’
 energy
‐
the
Source
of
All.

It
is
the
 essence
of
us.


 
 Align To Source | Align To Self We
are
essentially
learning
to
trust
Source
and
ourselves
in
the
course
of
this
life
 experience.
 • Practice
an
alignment
that
will
catapult
your
personal
power.

We
are
learning
that
there
are
no
such
things
as
“mistakes”.
 The
Sun
Seasons
and
Moon
Cycles
demonstrate
natural
order.
 • Harness
the
power
of
the
seasons.

The
Universe
does
not
ask
 such.

Some
ask
that
we
simply
 “have
faith”.The
Progressive
Relationship
 4
 
 CnSystems is a JujuMama Exclusive 
 The
sun
cycle
is
a
very
impressive
design
created
by
Carl
 Stevens
and
explained
in
his
first
book
The
Bagua
Character
 Map.
loved.
 • Enjoy
a
new
perspective
that
will
raise
your
spiritual
vibration.
 • Beat
winter
depression
and
general
lack
of
enthusiasm.
(Available
on
Amazon)

For
everyone
in
the
Northern
 Hemisphere
–
these
dates
represent
a
very
natural
 progression
of
events
that
lead
to
full
manifestation
of
 anything
desired!

Each
year
we
take
our
top
members.
 • Feel
good
when
you
have
become
a
complete
success.
 
 The
most
important
benefit
to
aligning
to
 Source
is
the
trust
you
gain
in
the
process
 called
life.
 • Enjoy connecting
to
Source
by
aligning
to
natural
sun/moon
cycles.
cared
for
and
 fully
ALIVE!

Faith
becomes
a
natural
 outcome
based
on
knowledge
of
law.
on
a
365‐day
journey
on
these
solar
 phases…

http://jujumamablog.
2010
 
 .

What
most
 call
“mistakes”
are
simply
necessary
steps
on
the
path
to
wherever
we
are
working
 to
go.

We
learn
to
trust
that
we
are
 protected.

Each
“mistake”
can
help
us
to
see
more
about
how
to
make
the
journey
better
 –
but
only
if
we
view
these
“mistakes”
as
a
part
of
the
natural
order.com/cn365/

 
 The benefits to using the sun and moon phases: 
 • Enjoy
knowing
what
to
do
under
varied
seasons
of
the
year.

When
we
use
the
 law
of
seasons
we
understand
life
in
a
 new
way.
we
 call
them
initiates.
nurtured.
 • Manifest
any
long
term
goal
in
365
days
 • Manifest any
short
term
goal
in
28
days
 • Make
your
relationships
more
juicy
and
harmonious.
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.

Source
Energy
created
waves
of
 energy
called
seasons.



Cn28
or
Cn365
are
the
systems
we
 use
here
at
JujuMama.

This
is
life‐altering
 information
that
can
be
utilized
immediately.
2010
 
 .

We
run
programs
for
these
phases
for
the
past
five
years
 non‐stop!


 
 Every
person
on
the
Immediate
and
Premier
Membership
receives
these
specialized
 systems
and
group
coaching
to
their
end…

http://jujumamablog.com/signup/

 
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.The
Progressive
Relationship
 5
 
 Check
the
Chart
below
to
see
the
phases
of
the
Solar
and
Lunar
Cycles:
 Begin
with
Planning

End
with
Using

8
Steps
to
Manifest
ANYTHING…
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Learning
the
law
of
seasons
as
interpreted
by
JujuMama
is
very
helpful
in
 developing
a
Progressive
Relationship
with
Self
and
Source.


scents
and
protocols.
sound.

The
practice
of
following
 the
Solar
and
Lunar
cycles
will
open
you
to
yourself
in
new
ways!

This
is
a
direct
 route
to
peace
and
inner
harmony.
scent.
2010
 
 .
which
is
color.
colors.


 
 To
‘speak’
to
Spirit
within
for
the
purpose
of
creating
a
more
harmonious
life
is
 essential.
 feeling
(emotion).
sight…
we
come
into
harmony
with
 ourselves.The
Progressive
Relationship
 6
 
 Sub-Conscious | Mind power | Connect to source 
 Gaining
an
intellectual
understanding
of
the
phases
is
only
the
first
step…
 
 What
will
actually
make
a
 difference
is
using
these
cycles
 thus
engaging
the
Sub‐Conscious
 mind…
to
this
end.
taste.
touch.

The
ancients
said
“Know
Thyself”.


This
is
the
only
way
to
be
Progressive
in
one’s
approach
to
life…
 
 When
we
actually
meditate
on
our
daily
lives.
we
bond
with
Source
and
Self.


 
 It
is
very
important
when
 connecting
to
Source
to
speak
 the
language
of
the
sub‐ conscious
mind.

There
is
a
post
about
this
here
‐
 http://jujumamablog.

The
sub­ conscious
mind
is
88%.

We
are
essentially
dual
beings
 with
both
physical
body
and
‘inner
spirit’.
JujuMama
 employs
corresponding
 meditation
exercises.
 gemstones.
 
 The
sub‐conscious
mind
is
what
some
deem
‘spirit’.
most
 powerful
self!


 
 Now
that
is
Progressive
relating
to
Source
and
Self!

Any
JujuMama
initiates
 knows
this
information
like
the
back
of
their
hand…
 
 Progressive Relationship with others… The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.

When
 we
begin
to
speak
to
our
inner
being
or
‘spirit’
and
use
it’s
language.

Meditation
 with
the
seasons
will
explode
your
sense
of
awareness
of
your
highest.com/2009/01/09/bend‐spirit‐a‐sensual‐exercise/


 
 You
have
heard
the
old
line
“I
want
to
get
to
know
myself”.
 
 The
intellect
is
just
12%
of
 who
we
are.


and
family.
2010
 
 .com.

As
well.
you’d
think
it
would
 be
easy
to
“just
get
along”.The
Progressive
Relationship
 7
 
 
 So
now
that
you
have
a
clear
connection
 with
Self
and
Source…
it
is
time
to
ask
 what
is
the
problem
in
the
Modern
 Relationship?


 
 What
is
the
central
problem
that
has
so
 many
people
down
about
love?
 
 With
the
information
that
we
have
 available
to
us
today.
for
the
purpose
of
this
e‐Book
we
 will
try
to
keep
it
simple.
 
 This
information
can
be
applied
to
spouse.
 colleagues
and
“enemies”!
 
 There
are
three
main
steps
to
creating
a
Progressive
Relationship
to
Others…
 
 Step One:

Harmonize
the
Male/Female
Dynamic
 
 Step Two:

Connect
With
Other
on
an
Intimate
Level
 
 Step Three:

Understand
the
Purpose
of
Relating
 
 We
will
go
over
each
of
these
steps
and
you
can
apply
them
one
by
one
to
each
 person
in
your
life.
 
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.

The
information
is
vast.
so.
simply
visit
http://jujumamablog.
 friends.


 
 JujuMama
has
developed
a
protocol
for
 creating
harmonious
unions
with
‘other’.
to
neighbors.

For
more
information
or
coaching
around
any
of
the
 principles.


even
with
 someone
of
the
same
sex.
we
can
easily
harmonize
in
 relationships.
Masculine
&
Feminine.
 
 In
terms
of
relating
in
love.

The
information
that
we
present
here
is
based
on
a
basic
Chinese
 Principle
familiar
to
many
–
Yin
and
Yang
(Adam
&
Eve.

Others
say
–
why
can’t
we
all
just
be
both
 genders
and
share
leadership.
it
is
most
feasible
for
one
partner
to
expand
the
feminine
 or
Yin.

Feminine
energy
is
water
and
earth.

Keep
in
mind
proper
use
of
duality
 principles
creates
oneness…
 
 To
create
a
great
relationship.
Night
&
Day)
Basic
DUALITY!
 
 Here
we
are
at
the
beginning.
we
call
it
Gender
Harmonics.The
Progressive
Relationship
 8
 
 Step One: Gender Harmony 
 Step
one
is
simple.
so
forth.
 To
create
a
successful
relationship
–
with
 someone
of
the
opposite
sex.
Sun
 &
Moon.


 
 
 This
becomes
the
central
challenge
in
our
love
relationships.
expect
the
worst.

We
have
been
doing
this
without
Gender
Harmony
and
it
is
not
working.
 
 Our
Books
address
Gender
Harmonics
in
depth…
 Change
Your
Man
–
http://jujumamablog.com/news‐2/tame‐your‐woman


 Available
on
Amazon
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.
2010
 
 .

If
we
understand
the
nature
of
 masculine
and
feminine
energy
on
planet
Earth.

Jujumama’s
response
is
to
simply
look
 around.

 Understanding
duality
is
the
beginning
of
 understanding
your
relationship
with
 anyone.

This
is
true
even
in
homosexual
(gay
and
lesbian)
relationships.

 Masculine
energy
is
fire
and
air.com/news‐2/change‐your‐man

 Tame
Your
Woman
‐
http://jujumamablog.
one
must
 know
how
to
function
for
best
results.

If
there
is
no
 understanding
of
how
these
forces
play
out
in
relationships.

Both
 energies
must
be
clearly
represented.
Shu
&
Tefnut.
When
two
 masculine
forces
compete
for
space
in
a
relationship
or
two
feminine
forces
 compete
for
space.
and
the
other
partner
to
expand
masculinity
or
Yang
to
make
a
relationship
 work.
 
 Some
say
this
is
utterly
impossible
with
modern
men
and
women
being
raised
 almost
without
concepts
of
gender
at
all.
the
energy
of
 masculine
and
feminine
should
be
 intentionally
balanced
between
you.
the
relationship
will
end
up
messy
and
volatile.


2010
 
 .
 
 
 Conservationist
 Feminine
 If
you
are
 Conservationist
your
 partner
will
become
 Soldier
 Lover
 
 Conservationist
is
self‐ focused.

Step
one
is
to
study
the
feminine
 gender
roles
and
the
masculine
gender
roles
below.
however.
including
cervical
cancer.
illness
such
as
breast
and
 womb
cancers.The
Progressive
Relationship
 9
 
 Step One Gender Harmonics JujuMama
created
Gender
Harmonics
in
2005.

She
is
smiling
 and
pleas
able.

 She
trusts
her
mate
 and
the
choices
that
he
 makes.

It
is
generally
best
for
women
 to
take
on
the
Yin
and
for
men
to
take
on
the
Yang.

He
is
 a
planner.
 Visionary
is
trusting.

She
is
willing
 to
conserve
her
energy
 for
tasks
that
deal
with
 the
internal
working
of
 her
home
and
taking
 care
of
herself
so
that
 her
energy
is
always
 fresh.
 
 Gender Chart with Archetypes Archetypes
 Monk
 Gender
 Masculine
 Correspondence
 If
you
are
monk
your
 partner
will
naturally
 be
visionary
 Responsibilities
 Monk
is
intuitive.

When
 men
and
women
are
outside
of
their
physical
gender
roles.
it
can
work
by
either
 sex
choosing
ANY
role
(as
long
as
there
is
clear
choice).

He
contrives
 the
long
and
short
term
 goals
 Focus
 Internal
 Goals
 Objectives
 Long
Term
 
 Internal
 Nurturing
 Following
 Trance
 Meditation
 Devotee
 
 Feminine
 If
you
are
Devotee
your
 partner
will
naturally
 become
Leader
 Devotee
is
a
follower.
but
physiologically
there
is
a
warning.
 Internal
 Self
 Home
 Family
 Health
 Sustenance
 Feminine
 If
you
are
lover
your
 partner
will
naturally
 become
Negotiator
 Internal
 Beauty
 Harmony
 Bliss
 Sex
Magic
 Sensuality
 Bounty
 External
 Trust
 Faith
 Optimism
 Strategy
 
 
 Visionary
 
 Feminine
 If
you
are
visionary
 your
partner
will
 naturally
become
Monk
 
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.

She
is
 complimentary
to
 those
around
her
and
 appreciative
of
life
in
 general.

Her
faith
 in
those
around
her
 causes
them
to
have
 great
success.
 Lover
is
beautiful
and
 sweet.

She
knows
that
 everything
is
in
her
 best
interest.


 
 Please
note*
Gender
is
not
sex
specific.
and
prostate
issues
may
arise.

 She
is
willing
to
 support
the
long
and
 term
goals
by
 meditating
upon
them
 and
buying
in.


willing
to
 put
himself
in
harms
 way
to
defend
and
 protect.
 bartering.

He
is
 fully
aware
of
his
 environment
and
of
all
 the
feelings
of
those
 around
him.

He
is
willing
 to
sacrifice
even
his
 own
desires
to
secure
 other.

He
is
 skilled
at
the
use
of
 language
for
romance.

 He
is
present.

There
will
be
a
clear
process
and
codes
to
 follow…
again
our
books
expand
these
roles
in
depth.

He
is
in
 service
to
people.
you
have
to
ask
yourself
if
you
 are
willing
to
try
it
out
‐
same
for
men.
 
 JujuMama
supports
clients
in
this
process
http://jujumamablog.
 External
 Execution
 Drive
 Discipline
 Sacrifice
 Stamina
 Negotiator
 Masculine
 If
you
are
negotiator.

These
are
 gender
choices
that
make
the
most
sense.

If
you
find
the
male
roles
disturbing.The
Progressive
Relationship
 
 Leader
 Masculine
 If
you
are
leader
your
 partner
will
naturally
 become
devotee
 Leader
is
accountable.
challenges
that
 used
to
cause
arguments
will
be
no
more.com/coaching/


 
 
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Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
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1.
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 External
 Leadership
 Accountability
 Preparation
 Presence
 Service
 
 Soldier
 Masculine
 If
you
are
soldier
your
 partner
will
naturally
 become
conservationist

 
 Soldier
is
self‐ sacrificing.
 
 Once
your
relationship
is
balanced
with
gender
choices
made
clear.

If
you
 find
the
female
roles
distasteful
and
you
are
a
female.
you
 have
to
ask
yourself.
securing
 deals
that
will
bring
 resources
to
other.
are
you
willing
to
step
outside
of
your
comfort
zone
to
make
 any
relationship
successful?
 
 Keep
in
mind
you
may
choose
any
of
these…
they
are
not
gender
specific.
 
 External
 Deals
 Barters
 Resources
 Communication
 Romance
 Finances
 Marketing
 
 
 This
chart
becomes
a
starting
point
for
the
harmonizing
of
any
relationship.
2010
 
 .

But
gay
and
lesbian
couples
would
have
 to
make
a
determination
on
what
best
suits
them.
 your
partner
will
 naturally
become
lover
 Negotiator
is
 communicative.


a
new
house.

Tantra
is
an
ancient
 sensual
modality
that
aligns
human
beings
to
one
another
and
to
spirit.
peaceful
state
of
mind.
it
serves
two
major
purposes…
healing
 and
manifestation.

However.
 profound
connection
and
powerful
bonding
become
possible.
but
in
our
opinion.
beautiful
community.

Sex
is
 Sacred.
if
 we
aren’t
careful.
so
we
know
that
each
time
one
engages
in
the
act
of
love.
 Connection
is
 ultimately
critical!


 Sexual
connection
and
 between
love
partners
 needs
a
major
overhaul


 Thus
we
create
i2
 Tantra.
massive
energy.

The
hormones
of
the
body
make
this
 heightened
awareness
possible.
love.
or
the
creation
of
 babies.

Sex
is
a
healing
activity
because
all
of
the
body
systems
become
 engaged
when
energy
is
heightened.

When
we
use
this
heightened
state
to
focus
on
 health.
 
 Manifestation
is
a
part
of
sex
as
well…
this
is
called
procreation.
we
are
often
 connected
to
some
 form
of
technology
 most
of
the
time.
we
can
create
anything
during
sex!

Not
just
babies!

We
can
 create
tangible
and
intangible
realities
such
as.
and/or
a
new.
Sacred.


 
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.
light
and
power
we
heal
one
another
during
the
act
of
love.The
Progressive
Relationship
 1 1
 
 Step Two: integrate intimacy & i2 TANTRA 
 Scientists
have
noted
 that
the
human
need
 for
acknowledgement
 and
touch
is
stronger
 than
the
human
need
 for
food!


 
 In
today’s
fast
paced
 world.

 
 Connection can come in many forms.


 
 The
format
we
suggest
is
our
own
invention
–
i2
Tantra.
which
 can
interfere
with
our
 human
relationships.
2010
 
 .
a
million
dollar
 business.
 
 Not
only
is
Sex.
beauty.



Few
men
are
 able
to
actually
have
an
orgasm
–
aside
from
ejaculation.
JujuMama
 LLC.


 
 When
feminine
partner
is
not
exhibiting
feminine
energy.
which
does
not
actually
 count
as
an
orgasm.

Here
is
a
little
chart
of
tips
on
how
to
 deepen
your
sex
life
with
your
partner…
 We
train
i2
Tantra
Practitioners
http://jujumamablog.

 
 Men
(or
the
masculine
partner
in
any
relationship)
feel
disconnected
from
women
 to
the
same
extent
when
they
are
not
living
in
their
masculine
fullness.com

 
 We
coach
couples
in
i2
Tantric
Art
http://jujumamablog.

Interesting.

Keep
in
mind
that
ejaculation
is
not
orgasm.
but
embodying
the
more
 masculine
character
traits.

In
the
modern
world
–
78%
of
women
 do
not
have
an
orgasm
during
sexual
intercourse.The
Progressive
Relationship
 1 2
 
 We
create
these
things
during
sex
by
actually
taking
the
energy
of
pleasure
and
 using
it
to
visualize
end
results
that
we
crave.


 
 We
have
all
the
abundance
we
desire.

This
 is
how
we
created
our
amazing
 success
with
this
company.

We
also
create
things
for
our
 children.

 
 My
husband
and
I
have
used
this
 technique
for
a
number
of
years.

But
only
 12%
of
men
are
experiencing
orgasm.
infertile.

I’ll
give
instructions
later…
 
 Masculine as Giver | Feminine are Receiver 
 Some
of
the
issues
with
using
Tantra
come
up
when
gender
has
not
been
clearly
 defined
in
a
relationship
(based
on
the
chart
above).
like
a
new
house.

But
it
is
simple
to
regain.
 
 This
can
be
remedied
when
masculine
becomes
giver
during
sex
~
and
feminine
is
 receiver.
for
instance.

She
is
not
orgasmic
in
the
act
of
love.

This
is
the
basic
challenge
in
the
modern
sex
live
‐
we
have
lost
this
 understanding.
2010
 
 .
family
and
home.
this
person
may
feel
frigid.

She
may
 not
have
a
sex
drive
at
all!

Often
the
woman
feels
disconnected
sensually
from
her
 man.

Men
can
easily
have
full
body
orgasm
just
like
women.

But
she
can
give
herself
an
 orgasm
with
toys.com/coaching

 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.
 and
all
the
peace
and
love
too!

We
 seed
these
types
of
things
during
the
 sex
act.
and
dry.


 2.
 8. Stay
meditative.

Teach
him
non‐ verbally.
 9. Give
your
partner
instructions
during
sex. Be
sure
to
deal
with
your
past
pain
about
sex.


 5.

If
you
are
in
La
La
land
and
she
is
left
behind.The
Progressive
Relationship
 
 I2 Tantra Tips for  Masculine as Giver 1 3
 1.
pay
attention
to
her
emotional
 state.

 When
he
is
doing
something
you
really
care
for
–
respond!

If
he
is
doing
 something
not
so
great.
or
another
 professional
counselor.
you
will
also
receive.

The
feminine
will
go
into
“La
La
Land”
if
 you
can
stay
alert.

Ask
her
not
to
 try
to
please
you.

Be
 receptive.
tell
her
to
relax.
 4.


 7.

If
masculine
is
alert
and
encouraging
her
to
relax.

Be
present
with
 her
daily.
just
let
the
sounds
lessen…

NO
Fake
PERFORMING!

 In
this
way
he
will
learn.
 serving
your
needs.

Allow
yourself
to
go
away
from
 yourself
into
deep
trance
in
your
body.
tell
her
that
this
is
all
for
her.

No
thinking…
No
performing.

Verbally
 appreciate
your
partner
after
every
act
of
sex.

&
check
in
often
with
questions.
your
presence. Allow
yourself
to
respond
from
within.

If
your
 partner
is
tense.

 
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.
she
will
 be
more
willing
to
relax. Stay
under
your
partner’s
energy. Realize
that
you
are
receiving
a
gift
during
sex. Allow
yourself
to
respond
verbally
to
your
partner.
but
to
simply
receive
naturally…
 5.
you
will
also
give
but
vicariously.
 6.

(Rape.
be
the
leader
of
the
act.
molestation.
albeit
vicariously. Stay
alert
–
let
the
feminine
soar.

Take
a
few
deep
breaths
as
he
begins
to
initiate
sex.
 
 I2 Tantra Tips for Feminine as Receiver 1.
abuse)
 4. Allow
your
body
to
respond
to
your
partner’s
 advances…

 3. What
turns
the
feminine
energy
on
is
 attention.
 3. NEVER
try
to
teach
a
man
verbally
how
to
make
love
to
you. Begin
slowly
and
make
sure
that
you
give
 at
least
20
minutes
upwards
to
three
hours
 of
warm
up
time
before
penetrating.

Teach
with
your
sounds
and
bodily
movements…
 6. Recall
that
as
the
receiver
in
sex. Use
kind
and
soft
words
during
sex. Recall
that
as
the
giver
during
sex.
she
will
not
have
an
orgasm.

Get
 help
from
JujuMama
with
this.
 7. Masculine
is
giving
a
gift
during
sex.

Allow.

No
need
to
rush
perfection.
2010
 
 .
 2.




 
 If
you
would
like
to
use
sex
for
healing.
but
everyone
doesn’t
make
time
for
it.

JujuMama
has
formulated
 an
advanced
theory.

Love
becomes
a
benefit
of
this
growth.
 
 Here are the four principles on Progressive Love… Th e P r o g r e ss iv e R elatio n sh ip ™
 
 ➢



The
Purpose
is
Growth
|
The
Benefit
is
Love
 ➢



100%
AVAILABILITY
No
Bail
Outs
|
No
Cop
Outs
 ➢



100%
RESPONSIBILITY
No
Victims
|
No
Villains
 ➢



100%
TOLERANCE
No
Blame
|
No
Shame
 
 These
are
the
four
easy
principles
to
formulate
our
ideas
 around
Progressive
Love…

The
Progressive
Love
 Movement
is
based
solely
on
these
concepts.

This
is
true
for
all
Progressive
 Relationships.com
Shantam
Nityama
is
our
Tantra
master.

We
feel
the
purpose
of
a
relationship
is
so
 that
all
parties
involved
have
perfect
opportunities
to
develop
their
character
traits
 beyond
where
they
were
when
they
entered
the
union…until
we
become
exactly
 who
we
came
to
Earth
to
be!
 
 If
we
accept
that
the
purpose
is
growth.

A
quick
way
to
summarize
the
purpose
 of
any
relationship
is
Growth.
romance. The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.
instead
of
love.

We
can
easily
understand
that
we
 must
expect
challenges
as
well
as
success
because
this
is
what
the
relationship
is
 meant
to
produce.
2010
 
 .
learn
Nitvana…
order
the
video
here
 http://nitayam.

We
happen
not
to
agree.

Setting
the
environment
with
candles
and
ambiance
is
 always
nice
as
well.

Excellent
stuff!
 
 Step Three: the Purpose of the Relationship The
following
information
is
imperative
in
developing
a
working
relationship.

See
Video
Here:
 
 The Purpose is Growth | The Benefit is Love 
 The
old
program
says:
the
purpose
of
a
relationship
is
love.

What
 we
must
understand
is
the
purpose
of
all
relationships.
 and
happiness.The
Progressive
Relationship
 1 4
 
 These
are
just
a
few
tips.
 The
Progressive
Relationship™
is
based
on
relating
 with
purpose.
we
can
easily
find
beauty
in
 all
challenges
that
occur
in
our
relationships.

The
purpose
of
the
 relationship
is
growth.
good
times.


2010
 
 .
yes.

In
love.

The
key
thought
is
~
I
create
my
life!

We
 have
seen
earlier
that
when
we
connect
to
Source.

A
Bail
out
 is
just
leaving
the
situation
physically
when
things
get
rough
‐
one
partner
literally
 packing
the
bags.
it
is
because
as
of
yet
there
has
not
been
a
 sit‐com
or
soap
opera
that
shows
two
people
facing
drama
and
working
it
out
in
a
 Progressive
way…

 
 In
a
Progressive
Relationship
there
is
never
a
need
to
Bail
Out
or
Cop
Out.

How
do
we
know
when
 we’re
doing
this?

When
we
feel
we
villains.

Each
of
 us
literally
creates
every
scenario
happening
in
our
relationships
ALL
of
the
time!
 
 I’m
sure
some
of
you
are
thinking
–
well
hell.
we’re
still
creating.
you
did.
well.

But
whether
or
not
we
connect
to
Source.
work
 late…
etc.

You
create
in
four
ways
according
to
JujuMama:

 
     You
Expect
your
partner
into
place
 You
Exhibit
the
very
behavior
your
partner
displays
 You
Experience
your
partner
as
a
teacher
showing
you
a
trait
you
need
 You
Expose
gender
issues
that
need
care
 To
learn
more
about
this
aspect
of
your
relationship
come
for
a
session
with
 JujuMama
http://jujumamablog.
they
feel
 that
they
are
not
capable
of
staying
any
longer
or
maybe
the
other
partner
is
 “abusive”
and
so
forth.com/coaching/

 100% Tolerance | No Shame No Blame The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.The
Progressive
Relationship
 1 5
 
 100% AVAILABILITY | No Cop Outs & No Drop Outs 
 This
one
is
simple.
cheat.
tune
out.
 
 The
only
way
to
remedy
this
is
to
know
from
the
start
that
in
this
relationship
there
 are
neither
victims
nor
villains.

I
 am
here
to
say.

This
often
 happens
when
one
or
both
partners
feel
the
relationship
is
just
too
painful.
leaving
and
filing
for
a
divorce.
 
 100% Responsibility | No Victims No Villains 
 'No
Victims
and
No
Villains'
is
simple.

 When
we
feel
ourselves
the
victim
we
have
anger.

Ever.
blame
and
animosity
toward
 our
partner.
I
didn’t
create
THIS
terrible
situation.

Often
times
in
relation
to
‘other’
we
attempt
 to
place
ourselves
in
the
role
of
either
victim
of
villain.
hurt.
All
tactics
evade
the
scenario
at
hand.
we
have
the
innate
freedom
to
 create
at
will.
 
 A
cop
out
is
just
as
simple.
stay
busy.

IE.

One
or
both
of
the
partners
decides
to
continue
in
a
 relationship
without
being
fully
present.
we
exhibit
guilt.

That
is
a
Bail
Out.

Drink.
times
that
test
us.
times
that
 take
us
outside
our
comfort
zones.
and
regret.

The
Progressive
Relationship
does
 not
include
either
of
these
old
forms
of
relating
or
‘coping’.

We
don’t
cope
we
thrive.
shame.

This
is
why
JujuMama
writes
so
candidly
about
 our
own
relationship
drama
on
the
blog.
there
will
be
trying
times.

The
Progressive
Relationship
 
 
 1 6
 This
final
area
of
concern
in
 most
relationships
is
simple
 to
sort
out.

We
have
to
look
within!

Every
 challenge
in
the
Progressive
Model
would
ask
that
we
look
within…
 
 How does that work? 
 If
we
can
look
within
to
ask
ourselves
these
questions.
2010
 
 .
we
can
begin
a
deep
healing
 process
in
our
love
lives:
 
  Is
this
the
first
time
this
is
happening
to
me?
  When
has
this
happened
before?
  How
did
I
handle
it
before?
  Do
I
need
a
new
approach?
  Do
I
have
a
warped
view
that
perfection
looks
like
being
perfect?
  Do
I
have
the
idea
that
my
partner
should
not
have
any
lessons
to
learn?
  Do
I
have
the
warped
view
that
‘mistakes’
are
possible?
  How
tolerant
do
I
want
people
to
be
with
me?
  How
tolerant
am
I
with
myself?
  How
tolerant
can
I
be
of
my
partner
in
this
scenario?
  How
tolerant
can
I
be
of
myself
in
this
scenario?
 
 Once
you
are
viewing
life
through
these
developmental
lenses
–
you
are
in
a
 Progressive
Relationship!

Yay!!!

http://jujumamablog.
for
instance.

 The
difficulties
in
relating
 need
to
be
understood
as
 self‐creations
for
the
 purpose
of
Growth!


 
 When
the
relationship
is
running
low
on
cash.
we
can’t
look
to
the
 other
partner
and
shame
or
blame
him
or
her.com

 
 
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.
 
 What
we
have
learned
here
 is
that
we
create
our
lives.

For
too
long
we
 have
been
blaming
our
 partners
for
the
mishaps
in
 relationships
and
then
 shaming
them
for
being
the
 problem
which
does
not
help
 the
situation.


have
been
married
16
years.
and
Progressive
Love
we
were
 lifted
to
a
next
level
–
Universal
Love.
this
registers
as
an
 attraction
to
others
about
which
we
decided
to
say
YES!

The
expanded
sensual
bliss
 heightens
our
love
and
elevates
our
purposes.

Open
relating
is
more
about
an
integrity‐based
 mindset
where
authenticity
is
welcomed.
i2
 Tantra.



 Once
we
began
to
create
and
live
the
 principles
of
Source
Connection.
sharing
and
trust!

 
 We
both
fell
deeply
and
sweetly
inclined
to
work
with
others
to
achieve
even
 greater
levels
of
self‐development
and
healing.

Why?

Recall
that
the
 purpose
of
a
relationship
is
growth!

We
are
now
on
to
lessons
of
releasing
fear.
2010
 
 .

Sexual
non‐monogamy
is
a
choice
 that
two
partners
make
together.com
We
endeavor
to
expand
the
modern
concept
of
love!
 The
Progressive
Love
Handbook
e2
 February
1.

And
sure.

We
are
writing
a
book
about
the
importance
of
 Universal
Love
and
we
will
be
providing
classes
on
this
in
the
near
future…

 http://jujumamablog.


 
 Do
note.

 All
of
our
systems
are
housed
at
The
 Love
Academy
and
inside
the
 Progressive
Love
Philosophy
…
 
 What
about
Open
Relating?


 How
does
this
style
of
relating
play
 into
the
Progressive
Love
Movement?
 
 Great
question!
 
 Carl
and
I.
we
do
not
believe
that
human
beings
are
naturally
monogamous.The
Progressive
Relationship
 1 7
 
 What About Open Relating? 
 All
Things
Considered…
JujuMama
has
 produced
a
movement
of
mass
 proportion
and
of
mass
importance.
 
 Our
bliss
could
no
longer
be
contained
in
just
our
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