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Thai Girls Exposed!
An In-depth Look at Thai Girl Lifestyle.
By Matt Smith ©2010 Matt Smith. All rights reserved. Published by Matt Smith.
Table of Contents
Intro Thai Girls Facts Thai Culture Buddhism Thai Girls and Buddhism Thailand's Good Girls Dating Begins Gigs Train Crashes Living Together Marriage Mia Nois Pregnancy Suicide Farm Girls College Educated Girls High School Educated Girls Ladyboys Toms 13 Clues Your Girlfriend or Wife Is or Was a Prostitute Good Guys Dating Bargirls Finding the Girl of Your Dreams Good Thai Girls FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) Bad Thai Girls Bad Thai Girls FAQ
This book is all about Thai girls, their behavior, their culture, their secrets. I've been in Thailand for nearly 6 years, during which I've experienced many different types of Thai girl. I'll tell you about each type that I've found - as well as ladyboys who insist they too are Thai girls. They might as well be, they are 100% into the role even if their voice and genitalia don't match up with a westerner's typical idea of a "Thai girl". Those that portray Thai girls as all whores for the sake of selling their books, or out of outright ignorance of the topic having experience in titty bars, fishbowl wank shops, and oil massage venues are doing the entire country of Thailand an injustice. I want to set the record straight with a rather large reality check. If you're coming to Thailand to find prostitutes for fun or to marry, you can find that in one night in Pattaya. If you're coming to find a PhD wife to marry - you can maybe find that too. If you're looking for a college educated girl with a love for adventure, but few resources - you can find that too. If it's good girls you're after you're going to spend some serious time looking for them. It's not that they are scarce - they're literally everywhere - but, you are not. Most visitors come to Thailand and wonder why all they can find are girls that want to throw them in bed for 500-1,000 Thai Baht (THB). Get the hell out of the sex tourist areas and go see what the rest of the country is like! I have a friend from Italy that found a wonderful doctor to marry after dating her during 4 visits over the past two years. This book is an attempt to explain the unexplainable, the mysterious ways of Thai Girls. The western man is clueless when he arrives and attempts to decipher all the interactions going on between himself and the Thai girls he interacts with. He's CLUE-less I'm telling you. I've been there. I've been dumber than wet rocks. Thai girls come from a society that is completely different than yours, and as a result - your relationships with Thai girls -the closer you become with the girl(s) of your choice - the worse you are going to experience the differences. Thai girls are really lovely people overall. Thais as a group are some of the best people in the world. Call me jaded. In 2005 I met an amazing Thai girl that I have fallen helplessly in love with and we now have a baby girl that is turning 9 months old tomorrow. I'm totally in love with my wife and entranced with my two favorite girls and,
because I know it's possible to find genuine, unselfish, caring, and kind girls in Thailand I want to share with you some observations I've had over the nearly 6 years I've lived in this amazing place. There are about 23.7 million Thai girls aged 15-64 years, so says the census phones estimating 2010 population, and who knows how many more Thai girls are scattered about the globe. California, USA has the highest population of Thais outside of Thailand with 120,000 total, so another 42,000 Thai women in the 15-64 age group are there. There must be a couple hundred thousand scattered throughout the globe. Though these girls are Thai - and part-Thai, and though some of the information found in this book can be generalized to include some of their behavior, culture, lifestyle - this book will focus mostly on Thai girls in Thailand. Thai girls are the pearls of Southeast Asia. I really believe that. While I haven't had experience with all the girls of Southeast Asia I've dated girls from: Philippines (dated & married); Thailand (dated & married); India; China; Laos; South Korea; Vietnam; Japan; and Indonesia with varying degrees of success. I considered for few days naming this book, "Thai Girls and Train Crashes" because I want to cover the whole realm of Thai girls... all the different types of girls that I can lump into groups for the sake of a book that purports to explain everything there is about Thai girls and how to go about interacting with them. A train wreck, train crash, train accident, is what Thais call it when the girl that you are dating, engaged to, married to meets up with your gig, or, the girl that you have sex with sometimes for whatever reason. Thai men love to joke about it, and it's a very common occurrence here. Men with multiple wives and multiple gigs and lovers is part of the norm in Thailand. It's impossible of course... categorizing Thai girls as this or that. It's useful only in that it will begin to give you a picture of what girls are like in Thailand. Your girl might be quite different from the norms and the generalizations that I dish out here in the pages of this book. With that in mind - read on, and go deep into the world of the Thai girl...
Thai Girl Facts
Total Population of Thai girls in TH: ~ 34 million Literate Thai girls: 90.5% Average Height: 5'2"
It's a strange thing to watch. This enables kids to play freely and learn as they go.very angry at the man.some people were outside watching. I pulled my motorbike up to them and shined the high-beam on him and asked Tum Alai? Tum Alai? What are you doing? He stopped and went back into his yard.telling kids no and don't at every opportunity.and there was no sense in both of us getting shot or macheteed. at least from what I've seen in the USA. It was a really horrible scene. I can't remember my wife every telling me "Don't" do something. got up from the table and went back to the yard to tell more at her husband… Unbelievable drama that happens in the streets. a man choking his wife .though the girls are treated special if there are no boy children in the family. . As they grow older though the boys definitely get preferential treatment and the best of everything. The older sisters know the way life is going to be at this tender age. The woman. when she could breathe. Kids are left to run freely and as long as they don't hurt themselves are rarely told "no" or "don't". in public. having already embarrassed the guy and causing him to lose face . I've seen teachers go to school with black and blue faces . Younger boys are known to be dominant over their older sisters even.sometimes wearing sunglasses in school to hide their bruises.I had my wife on the back of the motorbike .on the sidewalk as he had her bent backwards over a table. I've seen guys pull their girlfriend by the hair back into a car. mom or friend of the family getting beat up or manhandled by their partner or husband. We left then. Their poor little 3 year old baby was screaming and holding onto the mom's leg as she was being choked . Just being in the country for 5 years has given me ample opportunity to see guys beating their wives or girlfriends. Thai women don't seem to discriminate between the boys and girls much when they're very young. I've seen. It's a nice way to go through life! Thai boys are more prized than girls . I think it's really a much better system than we use in the USA . Nobody was doing or saying anything .Average income in Bangkok per day (year 2010): 206 THB Lowest average income in rural provinces (2010): 151 THB Thai Culture Childhood in Thailand is filled with fun for the most part. Thais carry this into adulthood as well. They probably already know an aunt. Thais raise their children similar to the way Indians do.
You would probably not find many prostitutes in western countries calling themselves Christian and praying at the start and end of every day.feel like you MUST get involved choose carefully what you do to protect people you see getting beat up. He may have been taking her to the river to drown her for all I know. Don't be maimed or killed fighting for someone that maybe did something very seriously wrong and was getting paid back. If I had helped the girl on the motorbike and been in the wrong .many Thai guys would have come running to help… not me . I've seen guys wrestle girls to the ground . She wasn't asking me for help. Buddhism in practice doesn't seem to be at odds with prostitution as much as a religion like Christianity is. Who knows what's going on.they look to kill someone. but you'll often find Thailand prostitutes with Buddhist shrines setup in their bedrooms where they thank Buddha for money coming in for having sex with strangers. Though you might want to get involved .help the guy beat the hell out of me for interfering. . I was torn between helping and not. Thailand is a land where men rule and they do so violently with women at times. Thai Girls and Buddhism 95% of Thailand's population is Buddhist. I've seen a guy push a girl out of a moving car.I've seen a guy forcing a girl to go with him on the motorbike while she tried desperately to get away from him. Sex isn't considered taboo among the participants. She may have been on drugs. In fights . She may have just tried to kill herself and he was taking her to the hospital. but only among the parents or partners of those having sex. Buddhism teaches people to be careful with sex but there are no commandments about it that anyone feels like their breaking when they do have sex. She may have cheated on him and he was taking her somewhere to go confront her gig. Anyway. It's part of Thai culture and isn't going to change anytime soon. 4% Muslim.Thais don't look to win and stop and go their separate ways . anyone that has lived in Thailand for any amount of time has stories to tell you about the inequality of men and women.7% Christian. There is not much you can or should do to intervene. and 0.it happened a few times on my soi at 2am when they returned from the bars.
Anyway… Dating at a young age is still frowned on by parents and elders . of course. Every expat living in the country will have experiences that differ . Some you'll think are right on.especially in the rural areas.it's not seen in a good light. Puberty happens between 10 and 13 generally in Thailand. I know some boys in M3 that were showing me condoms they were planning on using with their girlfriends over Loy Krathong holiday.even college before getting a boyfriend. Sex happens on average for some about M3. Even so. or older than them. It's said that more teens have sex during this day than any other day of the year. from other expats. We all have different experiences. and if they get one earlier . my own experience interacting with Thai girls in Thailand. BETTER. By M4 I'd say over half the kids are dating someone. Thailand's Good Girls The following is. Valentine's Day.and sometimes radically.moving away from traditional ways and toward western style of life. Some of the views you won't share . This is my point of view . the entire country is moving toward a reality the west has known for too long. giving monks food donations in the morning during their morning alms rounds. Loy Krathong is the Thai version of St. By M3 maybe 20% of the kids have some kind of special relationship with someone of the opposite sex.of course. Some argue strongly that it just isn't like that. At least that is the way the reviewers have come back to me on the book. BIGGER. I try to speak in generalities here except where relating specific instances I can recall. Dating Begins Starting about Mathyom 1 or 2 grade level (M1-M2) the majority of girls are getting interested in boys either their own age. A place where large companies reign supreme. . or date a number of people. as well as Japanese and South Korean. A place where freely available credit lines lead to the enslavement of the public who are brainwashed through advertising campaigns to think they need MORE. Only the northeast and parts of the north are holding tight to traditional ways which include Buddhist temple visits.Thailand is in the process of changing quite a bit . Kids are supposed to go through education .take it for what it's worth.
many. Just guessing. the sound is like gig or geek. Guys usually like to think they are the only ones that have gigs once married or dating a girl seriously. In others . as this has been what I've seen. you get the idea. Parents did squat about it . A guy might have just one or he might have 8. Or just whack him. However you want to try to spell it.which he is sometimes.There is no major problem with it unless the parents are very strict and are worried about the girl or boy not continuing on to university. Even when married. but the girls have them often too. I remember one kid at 16 was in a gang at local school and he was dating this nice 14 year old girl. In America we say. not like that doesn't happen every day somewhere in Thailand right? Gigs Thais call some people gigs or geeks.no limit to the number she might have. It's a special friend . Fuck Friend.the kid was in a gang and his parents were in the mafia and had huge money apparently. It might be someone you dated in the past. A gig is a sex partner that you occasionally have fun with. In some relationships the guy and girl accept it.someone will die over it. Normally there are 1-4 I'd say. Depending what these kids saw at home with dad beating up mom. It's a dangerous game if your partner doesn't accept the arrangement and a great many people die in these love-triangles.000 THB to cut the guy's manhood off and send it to his father in a Gatorade bottle. Thailand has a male dominated society. Many. Weird place right? If that were my daughter… well.with benefits. . The girl suffered through it… and the parents thought they were helpless to do anything about it. or it might be someone you just are attracted to and want to have sex with sometimes. A girl too . Sometimes the parents are worried that the boy is an asshole . MANY Thais have gigs they sleep with occasionally. many men and women refuse to give up their gigs. With westerners we don't really "get it" and we'd do something stupid like pay a tuk-tuk driver 30. A Thai may have a gig whether or not they have steady partner. Then when the parents stopped giving him money he started sending her into her homeroom class to ask all her friends to give her something to give the guy so he didn't beat her up. The boy took all the money she was given from her parents and was always asking for more. Probably more like 1-2 on average. they can easily adopt that controlling attitude with their girlfriends even at 14-15 years old.
A woman marrying a guy with lots of money or status .sometimes quite a bit of money.which are minor wives. may have multiple mia nois . The man gives them money to take care of them . Marriage In the very small villages in rural areas kids will get married at 14-17 many times. 4th wives. great job. If the parents knew they would probably insist on marriage immediately . 3rd. or later with murderous rage. Don't bring your gig home.especially in the rural provinces. 2nd. These are basically girls he has sex with. College educated Thais tend to marry in late 20's and even late 30's. There is no real rush in their minds to get married. Mia Nois (Minor Wives) Though married. They are kept… like harem.the reality is often too much and someone flips out with violence. Living Together Like westerners Thais tend to live together with their long-term partners .but it is almost always kept a secret from the parents of the two. and don't ever.to see the person in real life . inheritance. Even if the two in love realize they'll not get married they just continue to live together out of convenience many times.Train Crash! (Rot Fy Chon Gahn in Thai) When your wife or steady girlfriend comes face to face with your gig through some gross miscalculation of comings and goings . a man with a lot of money.there was said to be a Train Crash. They are younger and usually quite beautiful. These can end up horribly as you can guess. Thais like to joke about it because it's such a horrible situation. but don't usually live at the same house with his 1st wife. ever let your wife or steady find you with your gig… even if they're ok with the idea . whatever. The first wife's duty is to have the children and provide the stable home life for their kids as they grow up.
killing someone. If you search 'Pattaya suicide' you'll see hundreds of articles from local online and print published newspapers about people that died in horrible ways. Pregnancy Ideally pregnancy happens within marriage with a man and his first wife. Sometimes they live in the same house. or not at all . She won't break free of it unless the guy beats the hell out of her and she is forced to leave. Sometimes not. and just continue to do as he likes. Usually if she tries to leave the man will insist she stay with him. Girls in this situation usually go one of two ways: 1. Sometimes the kids stay together with the first wife. Occasionally the man impregnates multiple wives and of course must support them all. Not always do 1st and 2nd wives and the rest stay at odds with each other.realizes that he will probably have mia nois. The guy tends to be older. Sometimes the girl is 14-15 when the guy gets her pregnant and she's stuck in a dead-end the rest of her life. There's a good chance she'll end up selling sex a short . Suicide Thais in relationships that go bad are prone to one of two things .which I believe is the last year they are mandated to go by the government. something really harsh that will kill them slowly . and sometimes much older. They may talk about it before marriage. Farm Girls Girls that are raised on a farm or in the rural villages far from town may or may not go the full 12 years of school.he'll just start finding them as he wishes. They hook up with some guy they know that is also picking rice or some other crop. The preferred method of Thai suicide appears to be by drinking some sort of cleaning agent. I guess they want the person they love that wronged them to really hurt for it like they do. turpentine. or suicide. Suicides are taken to the extreme in that the methods used are really gruesome. A first wife may choose to accept the situation or not. Many drop out after m4 .and torturously.
and then taking her to your country to live introduces so much profound change that I think there is a high probability that it just won't work out for you. she has a good chance of turning to the sex industry because the money is SO good and she can send money back to her poor family. Probably. 2. She needs to get over the moral block that exists in her mind.90+ degrees F and wearing long sleeved shirts and long pants. Could you find a girl working on a farm or on a mobile construction crew that would be a good wife to you? I'm sure you could. They're mostly working illegally and construction firms love to hire them because they can save a lot of money off hiring Thai workers that must receive a certain daily wage (but that sometime still don't). either in Thai bars or a tourist area just to make enough money to feed herself and kid(s). Usually a girl knows someone already working as a prostitute and is talked into it. they don't have their own businesses.but. hats and wraps around their faces to protect themselves from the direct sun which not only turns them brown . but is that really what you want? The difficulties of making a marriage work even with a girl that is educated and someone worldly is hard enough.like how many hours they work per day and what their legal status in the country is. It's quite depressing to watch these girls. Making it work with a girl that knows nothing but farm life . I'll also throw into this category the girls that work with the traveling construction crews that build houses and buildings of all kinds.but that gives them skin cancer to a high degree. The girl is either sent off by her parents. but if her friend is doing it and says it isn't so bad . women. Burmese. They are like traveling gypsies . they just build houses and apartment buildings mostly as they are hired on to do it. Your best chance is to move close to the village she is from -or in it -and you adjust. The girl will miss her home too much. or just decides to go to one of the sex-tourist areas under the guise of looking for honest work . and even children working in the heat of the day . They get paid 100-200 baht per day.but.spending retirement in small villages with their tee rak (number one love) and they write books about the experience. depending on a couple of factors . University Girls . Laos and Khmer (from Cambodia) workers get very little each day because they can be sent back to their country at any time.she'll get over the moral aspect quickly. Some guys do just this .while later.
They are smart. The education standard is nothing like a real school and the entrance is basically . Khon Kaen. . but the schools won't let a pregnant girl attend university! I've found university girls to be the ones I like interacting with best. There are good universities in Bangkok. Prince of Songkla University has a couple of branches and it is said to be a good school. They always hide this from their parents. I don’t count Rajabhat or Polytechnic as universities. College educated girls can expect to make just 7. Chiang Mai.anyone gets in. and write Thai and to some degree English then consider yourself lucky. fun.University girls are supposed to refrain from having boyfriends until after they graduate and have a job. but as you can guess .I taught some private English classes one on one and in small groups too. Some are even bold enough to live with their partner.if she can speak. If a girl gets pregnant while a university student she won't be allowed to finish school. University girls from the northeast are really the best girls in the whole country. Personally I'd never date anyone that wasn't at least college educated from a decent school and had their bachelor degree. I'm speaking about girls going to decent schools . Chiang Mai. The academic level of the university classes is weak compared to American universities. or Ubon Ratchathani. Koh Samui. Krabi.many are sexually active and have steady boyfriends.500 as teachers assistants if they decide to teach in a government school after graduation. Seriously weak.whether in Phuket. They can make decent money if they graduate in tourism and move to Phuket. I think they're quite different from university girls in the USA that seem to want to show their more mature side in public once they hit college age. University girls in Thailand are usually having a great time and loving life and not all that interested in school unless their parents are paying big bucks to send them to an expensive school. They are a bit immature.000 THB per month. read. and a real nice way to spend time getting paid to help them learn English. and Ubon Ratchathani as well as some cities in the South. Hotels can pay decent wages. Don’t expect your girl to be able to recite Shakespeare and stuff . She can return once she isn't visibly pregnant. just apply. I've met many . University girls that move away from their parents' home and into the dorms are sort of like high school girls. They are a bit brighter than those that didn't make it to school. and prone to doing silly things together. funny. I knew a girl working as an assistant to the director of sales at a nice hotel that made 30.
I find them to be almost totally unmotivated. and others that made 25.000 THB in Bangkok right after graduation.000 THB there for full time work and then comes back to her own private English language school where she teaches kids in groups for just 2.000 THB to work in 7-11 full-time I think it is. Some of the nicest . food money. or watching birds tweet in bird tournaments they gamble on.000 per month and she makes another 100. or some other small business venture.000 THB except . do nothing to further their skills. or opening their own food shop. Anyway. I'm going to generalize here and say that Thai guys that don't go to college are not generally motivated to create a business that does well so they can support themselves and their families. haircutting salon.and she is there every single day from 8am until 11pm. beer money. I know a university teacher that teaches at Ubon Ratchathani University that makes 30.I know accountants that made 10. Working in a video shop is probably the same . They make little money . There are 3 girls that work at the video store where we get our DVD's on the weekend that all fit this description.000 THB per month doing that. One girl is 19. one is 20.000 THB after graduation. MUCH more likely to be highly motivated to find one or a couple of girls that are working that they can mooch money from so they can continue doing nothing but drinking with their friends. Is that a jaded view? Probably. racing motorbikes. Maybe I just need to look harder to find the guys that are not college educated and that are working hard trying to make enough to support their families they eventually all have. back to uneducated girls that don't make it to a university.but much less to do. they are working retail. and one is 24. coffee. being a waitress.000 to 20. High School Educated Girls Many girls cannot afford to attend a university and so go straight into working at stores selling clothes.000 to 3.000 THB per month during the high season and about half that during the slow season. She makes (clears) over 100. and less stress. Like a bunch of surfers or something .that's the mentality… drink with friends.000 THB. and any extra money they can get. Maybe it's 6. I can't think of any in-between jobs that they can do and make 10.500 THB. I know engineers that made 15. I have a friend that runs a travel company with 2 employees . I just can't see it though . mooch money off family to stay alive and continue the lifestyle.6. They are much. Eventually girls like this are found by guys that have little income or potential that leech off them for a place to stay.most kind girls you'll meet are not college educated.
or will go the full Monty and start dressing as a girl and taking hormones so their breasts grow. Thai Ladyboys I won't cover Thai ladyboys much here because I'm going to revise an old book I wrote a couple years back and update it with my latest thoughts on the topic.considering themselves totally heterosexual. and do give a higher pitch tone to a man's voice that turns ladyboy. Much more so than they are in western society. and other ingredients preparation -but still.com and MikeFook. Voice is the one variable that is damn near impossible for a guy to change and sound like a true female. and not think twice about it . gay. Thai men will sometimes go with ladyboys.spicy papaya salad in Surat Thani that makes 15. Sometimes it's hard to argue with the logic. or some other simple business. But. it should be.000 THB in Bangkok. I'll re-release that ebook both at Amazon. who wants to get a cheap sex-change? Some of them are desperate and do it.she doesn't even have a full high school education.000 THB is a very decent income for her . right? A couple years back I remember hearing from a ladyboy that she could get it done for just 100. It will likely be called. Tracheal shaving operations are on the increase though. I know another woman with high school education making 25. The number of ladyboys that actually go through the full gender change operation is probably less than 5%. Boys start behaving gay in Prathom 5 or 6 (10 or 11 years old) and then over the next couple of years sort out whether they are hetero. ThailandeBooks. This stat I got from my friend that has quite a bit of experience with them. 15. The operation to remove the unit and build a working (for sex) vagina is expensive .000 THB making som tam in a tourist area. tomatoes. Some will have the operation if a boyfriend funds it . Ladyboys are generally accepted in Thailand.so look for it if you're interested.com in a couple of weeks .by opening their own food stand. but as many good looking ladyboys as there are . Guess what her husband does? Nothing.com. hair cutting salon. Bangkok surgeons are world-renowned for sex change operations .and change entirely to a girl. She works hard at lunch and dinner for 2 hours each time -and then the time she takes to cut all that papaya.there aren't that many that are fully passable as girls once you hit the voice. "The Ultimate Thai Ladyboy Guide". I do know a woman that makes som tam .well.000 THB per month. Takes the money and drinks and gambles. Others spend 5x that amount and have it done as professionally as anywhere in the world. That was considered cheap. Ladyboys are accepted in high school and at university level.
I’ve personally met many girls in Isaan that I think are marriage material. For me. a girl I'd consider for marriage is: .the main reason is so you could find out enough information about Thai girls to help you decide when you've found one that is worth dating. When I lived in Ubon Ratchathani for almost 2 years I noticed there is literally no sex-tourist area within a 4-5 hour drive from Ubon. and that date women pretending to be as men. dress like men. the point of this is that the girls that live in the Isaan region are pretty untainted.but has probably had a bad experience with real men. and worth marrying. The Toms seem to want to play the whole role of the uneducated Thai man that uses girls for his own sexual pleasure as well as support. But. Toms usually have an attitude toward westerners . Let me give a definition of that… a sex-tourist area is one where farang (foreigners. she may have been beat up or raped in the past and just can't trust Thai guys anymore. Toms Toms are girls that act like men. Dating and Marrying I'm going to guess that the reason you bought this book . Now. Meaning. visitors from other countries (men usually) are gathered en-masse to find girls for sex for 300 . This may not be right on the money.and are probably the best in the world just due to sheer numbers of guys they turn into girls. I think the most pure and sweet of anywhere in Thailand. I think most Tom relationships are tenuous and the girl that acts like a girl in the relationship is not all that into the idea of dating a girl that acts like a man . but the Toms I've known seem to prey on the girls that are drop-dead beautiful and that have money.and probably because they realize that the allure of money and the prospect of dating a guy that doesn't beat them could be enough to take their girlfriend away. there ARE areas of cities in Isaan where sex can be found.3.000 THB. expats.
she goes to the temple sometimes either because her parents or family want her to or because she wants to. always a “lady”. Show up at a bar in Pattaya or on Sukhumvit. aging. fat. virgin. You will be married as soon as you pick one. kind. I think realistically you could arrive in Bangkok at 1am. taxi drivers.000 baht per month to ‘take care of them’. It's EASY to meet a girl that wants to marry you in Thailand. These girls are available here. Patong. Some girls – even Isaan girls. No joke. It would be THAT easy. It’s very possible to find a girl that never mentions money EVER. Not a drug user of any sort and probably doesn’t even know what they are. you’ll have a MUCH better chance meeting a good girl here than you would in Pattaya or Bangkok. Have you read the horrorshow articles that have become other expats’ lives? The Thailand expat forums are full of them. unselfish. treats her parents with the utmost respect as well as all her relatives and strangers. because they grew up poor have money on their minds 24-7. and you both can eat out every night vacation someplace once per year and send her parents (and her Thai husband and boyfriends) 20.that would have to be OK. car. staff. clumsy. ugly farang to do.• • • • • • • • • • Educated – with a 4 year college degree from one of the Thai universities Cute or Gorgeous Sweet. There might be nothing easier in the world for a bald.000 baht for an educated Isaan girl. etc. or Nana Plaza… Start telling the girls that you are looking for someone to marry you because you want to take her back to your country where you have a nice house. Buddhist – but not only that. Go to the . There are MANY of them. Without tattoos. Not focused on money. boat. generous. Doesn’t even KNOW anyone working in Pattaya. but. Even if I paid just 25. There are also a lot of girls that are only out for money in Isaan – just like all over Thailand. Hit the bars that night. Patpong. Not a smoker. Not worried about the dowry I will pay her family at the wedding and neither is her family. or other sex-tourist areas in Thailand (or other countries). that has not been married and has no children . Tell your story to everyone – Thai girls. never obnoxious. Why not find one? One that has friends that are other recent college graduates or professionals. farangs.
I’m not judging guys that want to do that and understand what they’re doing – whatever – enjoy it while it lasts I guess.and why? A girl in Pattaya that he fell hard for dropped him. destined to fail hookups. Don’t kill anyone when it ends though. No job – unless you are retired or wealthy enough to retire on your own. and there are MANY guys that want just that – many guys that don’t understand they really shouldn’t marry a whore… but they do anyway. Arrest record for anything except something fairly innocuous like too many parking tickets. Some do it for kicks. . Lack of online history… meaning I cannot find anything of substance that you’ve posted anywhere on the internet with an in-depth Google check. If you want that. Would you marry a whore in your own country? Why would you do it in Thailand . some for real (or imagined) love. killing and wounding many people . Thailand needs a service that goes beyond these simple. Go figure. mental health issues. Things that would eliminate YOU from consideration would be: Alcoholism. marry a prostitute and the relationship later sours. There needs to be a service that provides guys coming from abroad the chance to meet quality Thai girls .I'll probably never understand this mentality. You’ll have “fallen in love” by then with one girl that will not let you go nor let you near any of the other girls because she’s found her dream. Drug addiction.same bars the next 3 nights. There are thousands of sad stories about guys that come to Thailand.but only if you’re a great guy with some things going for you. Recently a guy from the United Kingdom went on a shooting spree there.
It’s your cash. So. you’re ignored. and Malaysia. . The guy had some money – and she overlooked EVERYTHING ELSE! This is a girl that HAD A LIFE here in Thailand. I talked to her about this clown. She is quite gorgeous. and it’s not those cute dimples either. and after all they see is bargirls they start to branch out and visit the provinces not known for sex tourism. smokes and drinks WAY too much. He wanted her to come stay with him on the farm! He processed her paperwork and she was all ready to go when I met her. has a good family and job at her sister’s law firm would meet a fat train engineer from Kentucky who is 60+ years old. Ubon. If not. and figured out that he was about the WORST catch she could possibly find on the internet. The guy raised holy hell with her – but she stayed firm on her plan to not go after I talked with her. I know this girl personally. and pushes her around . this is a decent girl… A bargirl has less to give up here. If you have cash – you’re desirable.Some guys start to get it after a while – maybe after 6 trips or so to Thailand.000b per MONTH from this guy in Kentucky. so she’ll be more ready to go. she has multiple “Gigs” that she can meet with in Bangkok. Laos. He still hounds her.slapping and punching her when he comes to visit her in Ubon at her family’s home is looking for LOVE IN AMERICA when she agrees to marry him and go with him there? HA! Even this girl is not looking for love… she is playing the game similar to what bargirls do – but not NEARLY as good as they do. but the desire to see America and to be able to go get her Master’s degree there was so high on her list of priorities that she was actually GOING to do it. Skippy. Bargirls are after one thing that you have. This guy was a nutcase. I talked her out of it. See how the older guys with the least desirable looks are the most sought after at the bar? Do you think the girls are looking for LOVE or for something else? Do you think a 25 year old Chinese-Thai girl from Ubon that is college educated. She was getting about 20.
Patpong. 4. Independence. visa fees and applications. So many guys that come here to Thailand and meet someone that they think is the answer to either their prayers… or to their sleepless nights with their hand under the sheets. Have fun. There ARE girls that are good girls there – don’t get me wrong. Once the girl spends a half year. and takes her back to his home country where he promptly realizes the girl is banging 6 of his friends on the sly. Here's the list of criteria to use to figure out . 5. 5 years accepting money to bang people she gets used to a couple of things: 1. Money. 2. If she KNOWS the areas – she is or was a whore. Don’t brush these criteria off because your honey-muffin told you she did something different with her life before she met you. Thai bargirls will make up EVERY story possible to get you to believe that she wasn’t a whore. if your little tinsel toes trips more than one of these – just accept the fact… she’s a whore and it's my own personal opinion that you can never take the whore out of the girl. no worries – whatever you want for yourself – whatever is OK by you – is great. Likewise. and Phuket are 3 areas that come to mind. not for you… This list of clues to knowing if you have found a good girl or one that is now or was in the past – not a good girl. wedding.a whore? 1. You just can't. If she can show you . If your girl is familiar with one of the pay-for-play areas in Thailand. Friends and their influence.13 Clues Your Girlfriend Is or Was a Prostitute Here are some criteria that you can use to judge whether or not the girl you found in Thailand is or was a whore at some point in the past or present. but the chances that you found the 1 out of 175 to be YOUR girlfriend – are – just that. The girl is really a whore – and the guy is clueless. travel. a year. Don’t read this until after you and the whore break up and then read this for when you want to find a decent girl next time or the time after that – or when you have a friend that needs some help. 3. He pays out the wazoo for dowry. for the guys that don’t care – ok. It shouldn’t need to be said that if you found your girl in a bar of ANY sort that you shouldn’t be reading this list… you know from whence she came and you don’t need to read this list of clues to see if maybe she might have SOME redeeming qualities OTHER than she was found in a bar.was she / is she . Few of these criteria in the list are 100% right on and prove guilt without question. Money. Not being accountable to anyone. However. or was a whore. Now. Lying. there are some Geographical AREAS that one could say – anyone that came from that AREA is. 1 in 175. 6. Pattaya.
Guaranteed. If the mom was working as a whore – it’s not a good atmosphere for the kid and she knows it – and won’t expose the kid to it. She has had a baby. They have a severe loss of face for this – to be raising someone else’s child. Usually. This should be a major flag. is money and what she wants that costs more money. This is a pretty good clue actually. She wears a lot of makeup. holding hands. I’d say this is a good clue.oh. She is used to wearing it because she knows how to look good for the tourists who come to Thailand. The country is changing all the time . She is in the fashion industry – a model.even joking . 2. or someone in high-so (high society). Your girl isn’t a virgin. There are exceptions – but. The only reason a girl in Thailand would be wearing a lot of makeup is if: • • • She is from another country or lived in another country for some time. It’s not something that is on their mind and they are not obsessed by it. A Thai woman loves her kids a lot. 6. actress. A girl that loses her virginity had better marry the guy.around Pattaya or Patong – and shows you around to all the touristy spots chances are great she didn’t work there as a travel guide. If she's kissing you. Girls that are obsessed with it will do things to get . 4. Thai guys obviously don’t care about makeup much . but the baby is not with her… A large percentage of girls that work in the pay-for-play industry have had children that they’ve left with their mothers. 5. Good Thai girls don’t DO THIS without a lot of resistance in Thailand. ladyboys wear a ton of makeup.she is or was a whore. If she does not – then she is spoiled goods and the Thai guys won’t marry her.or the entire female population would be wearing it.like Trang or Koh Samui. They will almost NEVER marry a girl that has been married and has a child. In traditional Thai society – a girl that is not a virgin gets no dowry and probably gets no decent husband either. this rule will lose its truth in the next few years. Good Thai girls don’t MENTION money. She works or did work in a cosmetics place in the mall. aunts or other relatives – so they can work unencumbered. patting your ass or slapping your crotch . Those that are not WITH them are not with them for a reason. • 3. There are few exceptions . and kissing you – even on the cheek. If the mom worked a restaurant – she could have the kid with her wherever she was. All the girl can think about and talk about – the only thing that she seems to be passionate about. In Thailand the good girls that are marriage material don’t wear makeup.so. She isn’t shy about patting your ass in public. Already I see Thai couples holding hands more in some of the tourist areas .
she was a whore.000 THB to get the latest phone or clothes or whatever. and gossip with her friends. She wants to watch TV all day and eat. or lips pierced and she was probably a whore at some point. She understands anything that has to do with money or a bar or restaurant situation. She isn’t looking at you like you are a gift from heaven – which you are – you are making a farang salary – easily 4 times what any Thai guy is making… and you are supporting her with free rent. To live in Thailand all a good girl needs is 5. If she’s hiding something – it’s another guy she dates. gold. no university education and working in a restaurant do for money? I’ve seen so many girls that are freelance whores – they just go with guys they like for a dinner or movie or whatever – maybe straight to their room – just because they need an extra 500 – 1. She wants to send out for laundry and eat out every day. vacations. computer.more money. Many girls in the “industry” are married with Thai guys and send them money – maybe YOUR money to support them. 9. Whether she worked in a bar. metal poles). She is not interested at all in taking care of you once you are in a relationship with her. etc… they are never satisfied with what they have. a gig. They eat and stay very cheaply. I’ve seen it. vagina. If she has tattoos – she worked in the pay for play industry in SOME fashion. They are used to the bargirl lifestyle which is – eat out every day and try to buy what everyone else has. spending money. It’s what they do for love! 10. cooking or things like that. danced with poles (not polish people. Patong. They’ll plead with you to go out to eat somewhere. If your girl knows them . and they don’t GIVE much in the way of effort to keeping the house. as a masseuse. She may joke to you about “short time. or even a Thai husband. IPod. I’ve also seen those that weren’t happy with that kind of money – offer me sex for cash. To me – this is a major flag – and you must avoid ALL girls that are focused on money. . If she has friends IN Pattaya. The girls that have nothing to hide – have nothing to hide. worked in a fishbowl.000 THB per month to be happy. 7. What does a girl with no skills. 8. or freelanced on the streets – the girl was almost definitely a whore. It should make you wonder. Nipples. and going out to eat sometimes… whores and ex-whores want to really minimize WHAT they are doing from day to day. no money no honey…” and other typical bar-type jokes and ribbing that goes on. served drinks at a restaurant. 11. or Patpong and she’s keeping in close contact with them – she is or was or may turn out to be a whore if the relationship with you doesn’t work. She doesn’t cook. complain that they don’t have what someone else has – different type of car. Her English is pretty good. If she does these things – SHE WORKED IN THE INDUSTRY! Regular girls have no idea the usual jokes or topics of conversations that bargirls use with sex tourists. bigger TV. love you long time. If she goes to another place to talk on the cell phone then she is hiding something.
If she is not reachable by phone sometimes – she is up to something. The cell phone is a Thai girl’s entire existence… if she’s holed up with you living a boring life in the village – that phone is her link to sanity. Not just dumb guys. collect it as long as he’s sending it. Girls will. well. There are countless stories online in forums and expat gathering spots where guys of reasonable intelligence start a story just like this and expect long-term expats to pat them on the back and congratulate them on a job well done. WHO can come to this country… find a whore in a bar… and fall in love with her… and then rationalize that she CHANGED! How does a girl get the whore OUT of her after some years of playing the role? How? It’s not just guys that don't have options either. any Thai girl that can pick up a ringing cell phone while riding 90 km per hour on the motorbike can pick a cell phone up ANYTIME unless there’s a sneaky reason why she won’t. I will never cease to be amazed.12. of course. BUT. If you were going to tell me a story about your Thai girl you fell for and it started out like this… "Yeah. I met this girl in a bar in Pattaya (insert any destination in Thailand) and I really fell for her… she doesn’t fit the mold of the usual bargirl… this one is different… let me tell you why…" I would reach across the table and belt you in the head. Sometimes she is transferring money OUT to a Thai husband…. She has a separate bank account. Smart guys too. If you are calling her and she’s not answering it – something is SERIOUSLY wrong with that picture… No doubt. They are both bright guys. 13. sometimes she is receiving money from one or a group of past customers (foreigners probably) when she was a full time whore. Not saying she’ s a whore. I knew teachers from the UK and USA that did this. They are both calling whores "girlfriend". One told me that he hadn’t had much success with girls back in the states – he picked the “wrong girls”. Smart Guys with Bargirls as Girlfriends or Wives The capacity of foreigners to overlook clues that are staring them RIGHT IN THE FACE that the girl they chose to spend their life with is or was a whore is astounding to me. Yeah man. You’re WORSE off than you ever were in the states – you’re dating a whore now! Did you date whores in the states? . open your eyes and look at what you got now! You found this chick in a bar in Patong Beach. Guys will continue to send money for a LONG time between visits.
but still. From there you'd take a cab to the large "Laithong" or "Lai Thong" hotel near the hospital. bad hair… He MIGHT be 32? Nothing adds up except he’s right – he picks the wrong girls. Find out about her friends and family. and hopefully more like 2 months to come to hunt your Thai wife down. You would need to be somewhere in Isaan. With any luck you'll also meet a girl I used to date there .wow. tall. The right place in my mind is Isaan or the north of Thailand. perfect skin and everything really. First you would need 2 weeks. She is 30ish… bad bargirl tattoos all over her. She comes to stay with him sometimes – a 3 hour bus trip… or he goes down there where he stays with her.He met this girl in Patong at a bar… and now he’s calling her his girlfriend. Big C. She’s ugly as all hell. That'd make her 25 now .Su. Makro. And I mean to say it would be a great stroke of luck too because that girl loved sex and was 18-19 when I met her. smokes – he doesn’t… he’s into fitness. Let's stick with northeast Thailand since I'm so familiar with it. Good for you. come on. those reading… for the love of YOURSELF… save your money… spend it on a trip to the northeast sometime. Please. The first obstacle is the fact that to find the right girl you're going to have to be in the right place.there are other girls at the hotel that speak minimal English and you'll do well to talk to ANYONE in the city that speaks English and . Check her body for tattoos and piercings. Meet a girl in a mall that has something going for her… whether that’s college. So how can you come to Thailand and find the Thai girl of your dreams on your own? Great question. and Swenson's Ice Cream (in Robinson Center). Run through the list of criteria above. From there you'd take Air Asia to Ubon Ratchathani airport.so you'd want to make sure that's all taken care of first. You would buy a ticket from your home town to Bangkok. a job. Let's say Ubon since it's a big city with lots of people and some creature comforts like malls. She speaks English enough that you could tell her you're looking for a wife to take home. Let's say a bigger city so you're not bored. She's beautiful. IF you don’t' meet Su . Tesco. but if you catch her free . or nothing at all… she might have NOTHING going for her – except you… Date her. She dated a marine or something after we split . It's a decent enough place and a room will cost you about $20 per night.
but as I said.is not attractive to Thai girls because it reminds them of Monk Hair. Don't let someone go that speaks English because my friend.let them know you hope to find a girlfriend for a long-term relationship. and walk through the main shopping center . no… I'm not going to say. 100 baht for something. Next stop.this might be the ideal spot for you to hang out for a couple of days. not NYC or Bangkok.you never know. Once there make stops in Kentucky Fried Chicken. People are very friendly and curious about farangs (foreigners).they love to see it. So. they have a lot of great information.don't get me wrong. Not just a night.really.the more people you will talk to.and sit there and watch the procession of beautiful girls.so. It's a shopping center on the main road Chayangkun Road. Go to the coffee shop on the bottom floor and there might also be one on the top floor . One tip . They can't afford 50 baht. If you want a one-nighter.which is across the street from Rajabhat "university" . Short hair very short . There is a coffee shop on the bottom floor that is also great. The guy lives in Ubon and has for years. Girls from Rajabhat come over to Big C to shop and mostly look at clothes. it's not a good university.before you go . The girls are exceptional looking though .com. grow your hair out . Order something .you're in Ubon.very few people speak English well enough to understand what in the world they are talking about. there is a girl… no. He can tell you the farang bars to stop by at if you need male company. No Thai girl is excited about having sex with a monk or marrying one . Smile at people .grow your hair out if you cut it very short. The friendlier you are . Swenson's Ice Cream. you gotta take advantage of anyone that does.grow it out . in Ubon . Your next stop for finding a decent girl would be to walk through Big C .you'll hit them both and become a fixture there. It works very well. Be nice to anyone that speaks to you in English because they could be your matchmaker . sit around and try to look approachable. You'll find them if you're seriously looking. . Smart girls read books. For the last 4 years since my wife and I got serious I've cut mine to about 1/8th inch just so girls leave me alone.all the levels. Talk as much as you can to anyone that speaks to you in English . Robinson center. When you have time check out this website: WeLoveUbon. not for the coffee but for the proximity to the bookstore that it sits in the middle of.even if you think it looks ridiculous . Trust me. If you don't care if the girl is at a good uni .
a girl would be best. It will take him a while to chew on that one because he seems to know all the bad girls. Travel will .buy him some Pepsi or orange juice . or. It's a great place to eat and only 1 soi away from Soi 7. Khon Kaen and help you find someone to date. Girls there want to meet foreigners too . He speaks English well enough that you can ask him anything about Ubon and finding girls. As it is. but I've yet to see someone run with that ball. Ask for him by name . Pichet's area is marked by dormitories and is on the left side of the soi. If you want to go to a karaoke place and drink . Delicious street 9 is the translation. Tell him you want a GOOD GIRL.Pichet can hook you up.There is a guy named Pichet (pitch-et) that. Ideally you'd want to find a few people you could choose from. There are dogs on that Soi . Look at Pichet as a real resource for anything you want to do.he knows many bad girls and might introduce you to them. Find a girl online that does translations in Ubon .Isuzu. he can take you there. you are pretty much on your own.if you want to stay.and. Insist on a good girl. I think it could be a real winner of a business idea. What would be ideal to help you find a Thai girl to marry is a dating service that is IN Isaan and that already has a pool of girls that have been screened and shown interest in dating guys from abroad. Another way to find him is to go to Sap Soi Gaow.everyone knows him. IF you want to go swimming in a pool .he doesn't drink.some of them decent.if such a thing exists. if you can find. There is no such service that I know of. get a tuk-tuk or someone to take you down there. Pichet lives close to the end of Soi 7 on the left side. You can find him riding around in a white pickup truck . If you want to go to Khon Kaen .Nevada hotel has a big pool and he can take you there.he'll go with you .there are many colleges there . can make your stay more enjoyable from a short-term perspective and possibly help you find a decent girl that you fall in love with and marry. You'll know it's him because he is the only one that speaks English out of the 50+ people you'll see there. you'll meet some Thais that speak English there too. If you want a short-time girl for a lonely night . obviously. You'll meet some foreign teachers there .and they rarely see them. What you might try is finding someone to be your guide . He is at the train station in Warin Chamrap at about 6am when the first train comes in from Bangkok about 6 out of 7 mornings.so you can go there and talk to the administration about teaching there . Arrange for him to take you to Ubon Ratchathani University in Warin Chamrap next town over . and that would also be available to tour you around Ubon. just for the experience.so. Problem is . Plan on returning a few times to Thailand and spending some money to find what you want.
I'm not in the business of hooking people up. Maybe you'll beat the girl. I don't know you from a stick in the mud. Matchmaking? I'm writing books. Preferably months. her parents. I do hope you find someone that is willing to help and I really hope someone sets up a business to match Isaan girls up with good guys from Abroad. maybe you're an alcoholic. Just no time to play matchmaker. it's a 2-way street. . She needs to get to know you as well. her friends. I've been offered some serious money to help people too . You should have weeks at a time to stay and get to know the girl. While I know girls in Thailand that would like to have foreign boyfriends and husbands. while I've had some requests over the years I always turn them down. it's not my business.be expensive. I've got a lot going on. So. maybe you're a porn producer. I'm creating websites. I only set my friends up because I don't know someone that writes me an email and asks if I know any girls that would like a farang partner.but.
find a girl. exciting. there is reluctance to have some variations of sex that westerners enjoy. and they are working in Thai restaurants.but definitely a couple that weren't into it at all. Thai girls are like this… and talk about a whole population. and Vietnamese.and then marry her and bring her back to your country. There is no way to say. I've found no good girls in Thailand ready to travel down that road. . I'm just going from my own experience.they are going to university. factually. sex with girls you're not paying for will be fun. Expensive that way too.maybe see her 3 times in a year . I've not encountered girls that won't do it . Probably the rate of Thai girls that don't like it much is higher when compared with Americans. Oral sex is the first. Finding a Thai girl that will accommodate anal sex is like finding a Thai Eskimo. and everything else you want it to be. and you have probably overlooked this . When you've built up a proper relationship with a Thai girl and you're dating her you'll likely find sexual activity very satisfying. Yes. Thai girls enjoy sex like everyone else on the planet! How to Go About Finding a Good Thai Girl to Marry? One way. Even dated some at home. passionate. The Thai girls that were living by themselves in America that I knew had rich parents at home that sent them to the USA for college.this will be generalizations of my experience and from what I've read of others' experiences here in Thailand. and to study English so they could attend graduate school usually. However. Other than those two areas. date her for a little while . there are some! They already know your culture if they live there and your chances of a successful marriage are probably 5x higher than they are if you were to come to Thailand. Probably many Thai parents sending their daughters abroad want them to marry a guy from that country. Good luck.is to find a Thai girl in your home country to marry. Filipinos. It's easy to find Thai girls in your country . taking language lessons to learn English better. I knew a number of Thai girls in Florida and Hawaii before I came to Thailand. Japanese. But.Good Thai Girls FAQ What is Sex Like With Thai Girls that Don't Work in the Sex Tourist Areas? Keep in mind .
If you are 40 and you're after 20-30 year olds in the USA. Don't let your age hold you back. Her parents were Chinese father and Chinese-Thai mom. She was picture perfect. I think the best chance you have to find a Thai girl that you make a relationship work with . but I didn't have any trouble pulling a gorgeous 19 year old waitress at a local Chinese restaurant near a university.you're still OK. Go figure.the girl I dated. . was a track runner and got straight A's in high school and was attending school in the town I lived. and had the sweetest personality to match.Girls like this are exceptionally easy to talk to and date if you just show them that you are interested in them. I guess because the younger guys don't know their head from their ass and once they see the girl doesn’t talk about Nietzsche and Socrates. And so on.is to find her in your country. they move on to find someone that can. Chaddy . UK. Some Thai girls that have married and moved away to Ireland. Girls that grew up poor and that see foreigners as the answer to their money problems seem to be more interested in foreigners than rich girls in Bangkok that don't need the money. Then I did what anyone would do that just had a taste of dating a beautiful Thai girl… I dated another I knew from a Thai restaurant close to where I lived. Most guys want to come to Thailand to find their Thai girl though. She had grown up in Florida and spoke perfect English.forever . UK. but it's not the attention they want. I found that almost impossible to believe. (bird shit) Some like foreigners because they hear good things from friends or family that married a foreigner in the past. Why do Thai Girls Seem to Love Foreigners? Not all do. and look at the foreigners that come to Thailand as kee-nok for the most part. AUS. as in . USA. I was. wherever you are . That's how it goes in America. We broke up after a year. The older guys that know Thailand I'm sure pay these girls PLENTY of attention. This makes some girls want the same for themselves. I couldn't believe my luck. was born in the USA. Of course not in all cases. The beautiful Thai girls I knew in Florida said that they had a very hard time finding guys that were interested in them.long term. let's see…34 years old. not come to Thailand and look for her. Her mom had come over with an American and they broke up once she got her citizenship. and elsewhere have amazing stories to tell of travel and living the life of a high society type person. Canada.
Though I think they're just kidding themselves. It took me years to trust my girlfriend completely.or outright lie? The emphasis in Thailand is on smoothing over social interactions of all types. I don't know how a relationship can go on with lies… but some people insist on making a relationship like that . We've had an incredible 5 years together . .spending $50 to a couple hundred dollars on an evening or span of days all in order to get sex. but I have to say that she is one girl in Thailand that doesn't lie about anything.most everyone lies to some degree. will the person I'm telling the lie to lose face. Lying accomplishes this if it goes unquestioned.and ignore it . will someone else lose face if I don't twist the facts a little bit .also choosing to focus on the smooth social interaction and not the whether someone just lied a little bit to retain face or save face for someone else. If you look hard I'm sure you'll find more. The overriding consideration when telling a lie is .and much prefer to live that way.and I feel the same about her today as I did 5 years ago. or. Thai culture looks at lying as less something to worry about… less negative than American culture -a and probably your culture does.I can handle all the truth . they bed friends and the relationships can last for many years. Bad Thai Girls I define bad girls as those Thai girls that earn a living or supplement their income by engaging in sex acts for money with strangers. Thais lie often . Is my wife the only girl in Thailand that doesn't lie? I don't think so. There must be hundreds of thousands of college students and other young girls that are in mia noi relationships where they receive money once or often during the month for having sex with a man that is probably married and may have more mia nois in addition to her. or dinner and some special event .small lies that in their eyes make no difference. A perfect couple if there ever was one. Are these 'bad girls'? Not in my definition here. They don't go with strangers.will I lose face. It was good to find her after my experiences with girls that lied for a living in Patong Beach. I told my wife very early on in our relationship that it's never OK to lie to me.Do all Thai Girls Lie? No. Most Thais can see when something might be a lie . Tell me the truth . It's not any different than a guy that spends a lot of money on a girl taking her to travel."work". I would say that on average .
or they work for themselves and are meeting with strangers for sex for payment. This number. This number might be off by as many as a million. That's one-half of 1%.get paid for sex or sexual services.37 million bad girls in Thailand that. how can we come to the right number? The easiest way is to guess at what percentage of the female population between 15-64 that might be bad girls. that would mean that at the very highest end of anyone's guesses there might be 2. Patong Beach.246 girls between 15 and 64 years old.000 of the "real" number. Of those there are about 23. Keep in mind this includes all grandmothers from 50-64 -almost none of which are taking cash for sex favors. If you've spent any time in Thailand .way off. Pattaya. and Chiang Mai. There are 67 million Thai people in Thailand. but. Foreigners paying for sex in Thailand started in 1964 as the USA established 7 military bases in Thailand that were to be for "rest and relaxation" but which the soldiers renamed "intercourse and intoxication". 1/200 might even be way high.621 girls that take money for sex acts with strangers in Thailand. The number will be off .724. Ten percent is way the hell off! So.there is no real number because there is no way in hell anyone is going to tally them up. I couldn't find a reliable breakdown of population of females between 16 and 40 which is by far where the bulk of the bad girls are. If that makes any sense. Of those there are about 35. let's use it so we can get going through the book here! 1/200 equates to 118. for all intents and purposes IS the real number. in some way .Bad girls work in businesses that offer girls for sex. The majority of them living in the sex-tourist areas of Bangkok. as close as we can get or anyone else can get. but I'm going to guess I'm within 100. but if someone did. Because there is no real number. Regardless. I'm going to guess that 1 girl out of every 200 girls aged 15 to 64 across the entire country takes money for sex acts from strangers.000 girls. How many bad girls are in Thailand? Here's where I get ridiculous and try to come up with a number.000.across the entire country you would know that 10% of all girls between the age of 15 and 64 couldn't possibly be bad girls. Nobody in their right mind would guess that even 10% of all of this group of women were "bad girls". Know this . .
Bad girls… My friend had. Giant breasts for a Thai. Thai Girls. He said. Long black hair. Patong Beach at night was a blast to experience. just a little meat to her. Randy. and outrageous action at night (or day) if you wanted it. I stayed just steps from the beach with a friend I'll call. what I thought was. We watched some American flick with Thai subtitles. Randy as all hell. Medications to keep you ticking as long as your ticker will take you . I just had what he was showing me.and it will be the best move you ever made. laughed and smiled at each other a lot. Randy had lived in Patong Beach the entire 3+ years he stayed in Thailand. Calm if you wanted calm. and a sweet demeanor that lured me in instantly. He was a fellow American.another $600 or so per month. to be exact. We made a date to meet for dinner and movie that night.as I became every bit as laid back as he was over the next couple of years. Once past dinner we went to the movie theater and sat on the big couch at the back. She was with 2 other friends and they seemed to be shopping for t-shirts and things at the small clothing stalls that line the road during the daytime. I argued with him a few times. . America was full of stress -and Thailand was a far away oasis of calm. but she wasn't that bad in English. You can find a place to stay for as little as $300 per month. a jaded view of Thai girls. I hadn't a clue what that meant. but was laid back in a way I can't describe.outright. Thailand does that to you. But at the time I didn't have a well-rounded view. If you drink alcohol and enjoy looking at women or ladyboys. It was a prelude to things to come . but after he proved it to me repeatedly I was gradually coming around to accept his point of view. Eat on another $300. Sell everything you have and book your one-way ticket. Thai movie theaters are great for this. when I first arrived that I thought was different. We went at it like cats in heat back at my hotel that first night. Patong Beach. Patong Beach is the best place for you to spend your dying days. because he was. A case in point… I met this girl.When I first arrived in Thailand I was in Bangkok for 3 nights before flying to Phuket. Drinks and fun . Lek was beautiful. Not rail skinny like many Thai girls. I'm getting away from the subject. I met her on Soi Bangla at midday on a Wednesday. I had to almost agree with him. Lek. At dinner we struggled to communicate. We ate popcorn. every Thai girl here can be bought .
000 Thai Baht (THB). Here was this overweight.a ball peen hammer. It had to be a joke… And then he did bang my little Lek. He was a funny guy when he wanted to be. short black guy in Thailand that was going to bang my little sweetheart Lek that was definitely in love with me and saw me as her ticket out of the country? Come on. See. engaged. Always. I thought he was joking at first . I couldn't be mad at him .a bar one of Randy's friends owned . waitress. I was laughing but nervously. she'd be there. dating someone. Randy would only choose girls that were married. girl on the . Randy thought differently of Lek. She obviously liked me and she was at the bar all the time.he had told me probably 8 times he was going to do it just to prove to me that she was no good and could be bought just like every Thai girl in the country. He never went past 3. For some reason. Randy started asking a lot of questions about Lek. Never hugging or kissing someone. It was one of Randy's past times to debunk the idea that Thai girls are faithful to anyone at all. about $32 for the night and she refused. Randy taught me a lesson about Thai girls in Patong Beach. They always went with him too. This was almost too much. I was really enjoying this girl. engaged. I half wanted him to try! So it was.which also became my friend. She asked guys to buy her drinks . so if he offered a girl 1. like I often did when out with Randy. He started saying he was going to go by that bar and pick her up to bang her. and even though I have 6 years studying and working in the field of psychology. Seriously. She said she was 19 years old. he'd just keep increasing the offer. I never saw him get worked up over a girl unless the girl was married.which her aunt or the other bartender mixed up without alcohol for her. Lek sat at the bar and teased guys to come and sit down and play stupid games like hit the nail into the board with the round end of a hammer . never walking around Soi Bangla with some other guy. the girls in Patong always wanted the cash.he just didn't have to.000 THB . It didn't matter if the girl was a bar girl. I could never figure out… It seemed like Randy only got turned on by banging other guy's girlfriends. Randy was making a good income at the time. I trusted her fully. or in love with someone else.Over the next two weeks we saw each other every night or every other. or in love with someone. If I walked by. I was 38.that was some funny shit. dating. He had photos and video to prove it. Lek was helping her aunt at a small bar that was close to Suzy Wong's . Worked for me. I have to admit that for a while there as I stayed in Patong I was damn sure that there wasn't a virtuous girl in the entire country! I was buying what Randy was spewing because he was proving it almost nightly as we prowled for girls to hook up with.
girls that work in the pay for play establishments in Thailand are available literally at every corner of the country. I'm sure. or bars.all the northeastern provinces are part of it. It just didn't matter. the park. or fishbowl and find girls to pay 500-1. Randy had this idea that the Thai girls across the entire country was like Patong Beach. but I'm just saying . Is it possible that you go to Isaan by yourself and to into Thai bars and find what you're looking for . I could tell you story after story of their generosity. jaded about the type of girls that are here. Pay for play availability in Thailand is probably only rivaled by the Philippines. like my friend Randy. South Korea when I was there in 1986 was an outrageous place. they're getting what they need in these places. It's true that bad girls . Sukhumvit Road in Bangkok. Make it to your hotel in another 5 minutes and be well into whatever your preference is to do in the privacy of your own room. but since the American military closed bases it's been rather different. the whole town of Pattaya and the entire town of Patong Beach are where most guys go to find their action. I set out to see Thailand's northeast where I'd heard the people were more simple and traditional. Expats are resourceful when it comes to finding sex in strange places. Money talks in Patong Beach. is the jewel of the entire country.the Isaan or Isaan area. massage place. Are there pay for play girls there? Sure there are.they become. The sex-tourist areas of Patpong in Bangkok. you can go to a Thai bar.without speaking hardly a word of Thai? Possible . Isaan is a big place . Go figure. And. I wouldn't go that far. That's exactly what I found.yes.the possibility exists. Many guys don't venture outside these areas because they just don't see a need to.street.a rather large Thai city. Likely? Not sure. While living in Ubon Ratchathani . and kindness. their naivety. or girl that co-owned a bar with her expat husband. right? . If you don’t speak Thai you might be wise to bring someone with you that does.000 THB for and enjoy an hour or two of sex with a girl 18-40. but far fewer tourists. but they don’t cater to the foreigners primarily because so few visitors to Thailand ever see the northeast provinces. Approximately 1% of all foreign tourists to Thailand make it to Isaan. I saw an average of 1-2 foreigners per day when out and about in town.and walk out with her in under 5 minutes. So. There are very few local expats living there. I met the most incredible people there. helpfulness. The English language is not well spoken outside the tourist areas. It's possible to walk into a bar in Patong and choose the hottest girl there . having not experienced the rest of the country. As a result . In the northeast . Some could accomplish it. their unselfishness. Sure you'll pay for it.
are very. There are many Thais in the small bars that don't enjoy seeing foreigners there because they feel uncomfortable. Many more people go to the temple. Some establishments are fine with foreigners. I counted 62. The sex establishments are not in the open . 300 minimum. Approach a girl you meet on the street that is smiling at you . In another city in the south. Bangkok is a massive place and there are many times more sex establishments than Pattaya. In Isaan the sex trade is more hidden. Probably the number is more like 500. There may be immediate pressure to spend some money from the manager that tells the girls to go sit at your table and try to get you to buy them a drink.unknowingly.they are on the back sois (streets) and hidden pretty well from public view.There are bars in Ubon Ratchathani that I have gone to by myself where I didn't feel comfortable at all. First. There are many. The girls walking the streets in Ubon. In Bangkok .and try to make her understand you'd like to give her 1. They're already happy. In Patong I've never counted.like you have. they aren't much concerned about making money as the means to happiness. Most use tuk-tuk drivers.like your mom or sister. There may be outrageous prices for bottles of beer.it's a big area. Maybe they think the prices will go up in town for girls if more foreigners start visiting? Not sure the reasons. Hundreds would be the right answer… but not sure how many hundreds.I don’t even have a guess. smaller than Ubon.000 THB to go back to your hotel room for a good time and you're likely to get the strangest looks. but if you were visiting you would have a very difficult time finding them. Though it is said that most of the Thai girls in the sex industry come from Isaan you wouldn't know it by going there. Everyone that lives there knows where they are. karaoke bars. You don't see Thai girls out in skimpy outfits roaming around the city in the daytime. Others are not so fine. it's the norm that everyone in the entire place stops what they're doing and gawks at whatever foreigner comes into the place. in all of Isaan. Another place wanted me to buy 200 THB drinks for the girls at a karaoke place where the girls take turns singing on stage. 800 if you include Phuket town where there are lower priced. . They have no comprehension of the pay for play areas of Thailand . soapies.just regular girls . massage parlors. In Ubon I counted 45 bars. and the one go-go bar I mentioned. though Pattaya's are all in a relatively small area and quite easy to find. of that I am sure about. In Pattaya the number is probably more like 1.000. If you've spent time in Patong Beach. Some places do it so the foreigners leave quickly. VERY likely . predominantly Thai men focused sex bars. Many people are there because they like the simple way of life. Buddhism is paid attention to more. One go-go place in Ubon wanted to charge me 190 THB for a small bottle of Heineken. It may be that I knew the southern city a little better and things are spread out in Ubon . but you could spend an entire week finding new places there. It's a more traditional town. but you may be paying them a commission on whatever bar you go to .
or not. The truth is .and everyone wanted to interact with them in some way. Udon. They are telling each other who you are with. malls. etc. I guessed earlier that maybe there are 119.a very small minority. Patpong .Pattaya. In fact. In Pattaya . I found girls that were eager to talk with me . Just so happens that in Ubon and Udon there was a rest and relaxation base setup for western soldiers taking part in the Vietnam war. If you're a foreigner living there and you are married. or Patpong .yes.000 THB per month in a small Thai town. food. Truth is .despite our atrocious attempts at speaking each other's language. Foreigners were like aliens back then . Korat? Yes. That's $100 USD. Just like in the USA. I embarrassed myself a few times in Ubon before I started to "get it". In Patong .the whores in Thailand are very different from the everyday people. The Thais that live there have all heard stories from their parents.you know how the system works there. dance clubs. or anywhere . You can't offer 3.yes. The foreigners started paying outright for girls to spend time with. motorbike. I had many strange looks… embarrassed smiles and then they broke off the conversation under the guise of having something else to do. whatever you're doing . You don't have the slightest idea what Thai girls that aren't whores.the entire town is gossiping about you. The people of Isaan have an endless fascination with all things farang (foreigner). Sukhumvit .each girl was embarrassed that I considered her a whore.my friend Randy was very wrong about the rest of the country. With 65 million men and women in the population that isn't a majority of Thai women by any means. how much you spend on clothes.000 girls in Thailand that accept money for sex regularly.000 THB to any Thai girl and have her drop to her knees eager to earn the equivalent of 2 weeks pay in an hour. teaching. Prostitution wasn't born this way the Thais had been doing it for hundreds of years before. I started by offering money to have them spend the night with me. Not nearly as embarrassed as I was though. but. Word travels LIGHTNING fast in Isaan. Some bars in Ubon. The average earning power of a girl with no college education in Thailand is about 3. or restaurants of any city in the country? Hell no. I had no takers. For those .yes. it's 1 out of 200 . grandparents. room. anyone that was alive back then. In the streets.yes. They are captivated by us. or not. are like. prostitution between farangs and Thais began in this way. This was in the 1960's. UK. AU.
000 THB and even 100.the psychology of bad Thai girls. one after another to take her to the short-time hotel across the street. My friend Randy had Patong Beach wired . or Ubon and he'd be sex-less for weeks until he figured the place out. right? Don't make the mistake of thinking that all girls in Thailand can be had for a fee.000 THB pretty easily.000 THB per month to work 6 days per week.000 THB per month. Though a mother and father wouldn't want to raise a girl that turned to prostitution. very thin and great body. It's an employer's dream. but she could have been asking more… she was very dark skinned .15. they can expect to get 6. A Thai girl having 4 short time experiences with foreigners in one month has paid all her expenses and can survive. That was within 2 hours.000-7.000 THB and getting it. their . Decent looking girls with friendly attitudes in Patong Beach.if she was doing this for 8 hours every day she'd be the Thai equivalent of rich in just a few months. Let's get into the focus of this chapter . Pattaya. Mothers do it.with a college degree. The average short-time rate (sex where the paying male has 1 orgasm) varies among foreigners from 500-1. The crafty ones that promise fidelity to guys that go back to their home country and send them money each month can make way over 100. Those that are knockouts can make upwards of 30.exotic looking.500 THB.000 . In Bangkok workers are often expected to work 10 hour days. or some other sex-tourist area in Thailand can make 10. She was about a 9/10 on the model scale. As I laid on a chair getting my feet massaged across from Mike Mall on Pattaya Beach I watched one energetic girl find 3 guys. Korat. often times it runs in the poor families. Even if she got all 500 THB tricks she'd have to do it 12 times each month to make her expenses. It takes a while to commute every day too. Sex pays in Thailand . I'm guessing she wanted 500 THB like everyone else. Girls that turn to selling themselves for cash in the streets of Patong Beach or other sex tourist areas (STA) have usually been doing it elsewhere in the country for Thai men for some months or years before making the move away from home. and employee nightmare . That's one per week. She could have been asking 1.that you haven't visited anywhere outside the usual sex tourist haunts.000 THB per month. A Thai girl targeting Thai men instead can expect to receive 200-500 THB for the same short-time experience.and knew it all. Working six days a week is no picnic. Realistically .but at least they have jobs.and there are many girls that take the easy way out. It shows your ignorance . Drop him in Khon Kaen.
and make a quick killing. As a result. newspapers. many BMW and Mercedes cars here. or you know another person in your family . Many girls university girls too . direct mail. Advertising is such a powerful force. The stigma of it is lessened when half your family is doing the same thing.can anyone argue that the entire USA has been molded by billions of dollars of ad campaigns on TV. It mirrors American society and it's a sad state of things. and now on the internet and mobile phones? Thais are starting to buy into the whole consumer economy. So . Aunts and cousins do it. Thailand is ripe for it though. Look at the USA . buys cars and houses. There are more rich Thais in Patong Beach and some other southern cities than you can believe. but do anyway because they want to gain some measure of respect for having purchased something expensive that others cannot. I mean. buses around town. The guys . mobile phone.000 THB as a family to afford some decent things. How is she going to do that and afford a place to stay.or a close friend of the family is doing it. Even a daughter making 6. but to support their parents that want more. the average Thai wants more stuff.just like in America and every other country in the world. they have an economy that churns on despite widespread corruption in government and every other area of power. Everyone retires off it. in magazines. but. Those in positions of power and business owners are making as much as successful westerners. or just choose not to work. Not starting. It literally shapes whole societies.daughters also do it.those that can't afford to buy them. radio. and the latest fashions? She can't.000 THB per month is expected to send her parents in Isaan something. it's been going on for the past 20 years or so. but now there's even more need for young people to make more cash .there has begun this emphasis on making more money among the young.freelance or set themselves up as part-time girlfriends of guys that have lots of money.not only for themselves. food. There are enough Thais making over 30. This brings advertising to target people that can afford the new toys. and invests. . It's rather regular money that they can count on . It's not fun to be poor in Thailand when you want more. but more importantly to these companies . mobile phone cards.and so they can meet expenses. There are many. The norm in Thailand is that kids support the parents as the parents get older and either can't work. The advertising industry in Thailand is cranking up . on t-shirts. Families sell land their family has owned forever. it won't go away only spread.Thai or foreign expats or visitors give them money for sex every couple of days or weeks.
. All had a need for more money. living in the traditional areas and doing a job that gives them no respect. I wouldn't want to see my sister or mom doing it. etc.000 THB per month. I think it was 2. 5m across the driveway was another dorm of Thai girls . He also owned a large building in the back of the house . He made much more than that from all the foreigners that took his truck because he was a nice guy and was the only one speaking English at the train station. There are some .If it was me . Sometimes there were 4 girls in one room.000 THB per month if I remember correctly. They do it because they have to . There are few Thai girls addicted to drugs in Isaan and the rest of Thailand as a whole. He would bring girls to over to the house and ask me if I was interested in being with them. They are embarrassed.that was filled with college girls paying 750 per month per room.remember?). They weren't going to a good school . It's sad. Their parents were quite poor .most of them rice farmers or workers on the rice plantations. In Ubon I lived at a cab driver's house. it has become accepted as a necessary evil among some Thais as they can't make more money any other way . All were beautiful. Some 20. I've seen girls that should have still been in high school working in some bars. That was a LOT of money to them. Some 19. In small Thai towns the girls that are working in massage places or fishbowls. Behind that was another dorm of Thai women and guys . I stayed in his house .a new house he'd just built. But. Anyway. I've seen moms. Though these girls weren't working at bars or in massage places they understood the value of 1. soapies. this guy had his transgressions… and he freely shared them with me. The guy was an incredible business person. He did all that while working in the local mental health hospital making 8.not because they like it (most).they already work enough.000 THB. are usually low-key about it..I'd be doing it. He drove his truck around the city and was at the train station every morning to try to find foreigners because his English was better than anyone else's. There are few in comparison to the girls that are working in the STA's (sex tourist areas . So. this guy introduced me to the world of Thai women in Ubon.Rajabhat or Polytechnic.another 8 rooms. He paid the mafia a fee to go to the train station because they 'owned it'. and his wife was teaching part-time at a small school. These were some of the college girls in the dorms! Some were 18. I've seen many college girls that were moonlighting. I don't blame them for it.another 8 rooms.sure.
the freelancer's places he knew about. I found most girls like that in Isaan.and some sex for cash.One girl must have asked me about 6 times whether I wanted to go to a local hotel with her.000 THB per month as their entire salary. When we did finally go . would take me to the soapy places. and go back to their dorm room 2. So I guess that was her part time boyfriend. You gotta wrap that thing. These girls were pulling that in 1-2 hours as college students moonlighting as prostitutes. IN addition to regular western visitors from the USA.or even IN the bars. Many people in Isaan make 3.if you're going to go with girls here you've gotta wear condoms. and worse people morally than girls that don't. She did have a guy come over her room occasionally in the middle of the night. The guy was shameless. and yet there is some stigma attached to being seen with foreigners in public . She wasn't a virgin . and they say there are high numbers of housewives that became infected by their promiscuous husbands. the massage places. not sure which. She was so sweet… and didn't let up. There is this notion among regular Thais… but. . I'm not sure what is behind it.physically. or real boyfriend. Bad girls are available.it was a horrible experience. Many Thai girls will just refuse to go with a foreigner in a Thai bar. Canada. and Europe he had many repeat Japanese visitors that would visit and stay at his house multiple times per year. Mentally .and then. If you spend some time in Ubon or any city in the northeast you'll find the bars that are foreigner friendly and you'll have quite a good time if that's what you're looking for. I attribute it to the Thai notion that girls that go with foreigners are sex-crazed. There are thousands and thousands of people with full-blown AIDS here.she was still.000 . I'll call him Somchai. The Thai brothels are just rife with it. There are Buddhist temples here that have taken it upon themselves to care for those with AIDS. does it extend even to those that work in the pay for play shops? I'm guessing that's what it is. Every time.000 THB richer.each night 2 different girls would come back in his truck and go to the Japanese guys' rooms. He'd find them a couple of high school or young college girls . In 1-2 hours they'd be done. Seriously. once in the middle of it I found myself wishing I'd never gone down that path… There is a very high HIV rate in Thailand . They'd come in twos. They were eager to try .3. She had no idea what she was doing. So my cab driver friend. She wasn't much into sex and didn't have the slightest idea what she was doing. the fishbowls. and it's really a sad scene. He'd even drive around the local Rajabhat and talk to girls walking to class and ask if they wanted to come over for dinner with a foreigner .
I think most hard-core punters like Pattaya better. or nothing . They invite you over and surround you . If you enjoy the go-go clubs and want to see the most beautiful (and expensive) girls in Thailand you'll want to go to Nana Plaza in Bangkok.Bad Thai Girl FAQ Where to Go for the Best Sex and Nightlife in Thailand? This depends what kind of person you are. Pay for Play girls are usually found in these places: • • • • • • go go bars beer bars short-time bars discos streets massage parlors.depending on what time it is and the agreement they have with the powers that be. Short-Time Bars Usually indoors there is nothing going on except girls sitting at tables. bikinis. but. fishbowls Go-Go Bars Have a stage and shiny stainless steel poles the girls use in their dance routines. . Girls wear underwear. more naughty nightlife areas per square kilometer than Patong Beach. If you're looking to have fun with bargirls any of these places will put a smile on your face. To each his own.prodding you until you pick one. more ladyboys. Often times there are rooms on premises and you go for a 1 hour session with whomever you choose for 300 to 500 THB usually. more bars. If you'd prefer a beach scene I'd suggest Patong Beach over Pattaya any day. Pattaya has more girls. Guys that want to take a girl from here pay a bar fine of a few hundred THB and arrange a price directly with the girl for taking her out of the bar to a hotel for a short-time or long-time experience.
Girls might be behind a large pane of glass so you can choose one like you're picking a pet at the pet store. It's easy to meet girls. Freelance girls in the crowd are available in Bangkok and other tourist areas. Ladyboys dancing or girls dancing . The discos are the ideal places to pick up freelancing college girls from Rajabhat. a bit more dangerous.000 THB up to 1. Discos Discos in Patong actually have dancing.000 THB except on special days like New Years. Street Girls Beach road in Pattaya and Patong Beach are for finding freelance girls that might be college students that need extra money. Polytechnic and other schools where the students are really poor. There is a bar fine to pay almost always under 1. Some discos other places might not be about dancing as a participant but they might have shows to watch. You can choose a girl to take home from the show if you want. non-prostitutes that will go home with you for free. Locals get better rates than foreigners. You'll pay 1. He paid 500 THB for the girl for a couple hours.800 or so for an hour with a 10/10 girl.but. I had a Chinese friend that used to do this often.are the norm. Massage Parlors Soapy massage in a big tub with you and the girl naked are the norm at these places. . The shows are great to watch.Beer Bars Bars open to the outside world without walls. or girls on drugs. You tell a guy or woman the number of the girl you want and they arrange it. Girls range from amazing looking to drab. Girls circulate among the guys drinking. They have a roof. Patong Beach Discos are great for this. girls that got kicked out of beer bars… They are often cheaper to take with you . Some call this a fish bowl. Ladyboys prowl the beach roads during late night and rip everyone off. In Isaan you can find non-pros.
Many do not. Do Bargirls like their jobs? Not usually. Do Bargirls Earn Good Wages? . He said there were many young boys in their teens available. Most are in their 20's.are $6 per day. There are some . Many girls . but I have a friend that went there sometimes just to see what's going on (he said!).most? Have friends or relatives that are already in the industry and that talked the new girl into it with the allure of more money and being able to help their poor parents by sending money monthly. it's basically by choice that they are there working. would they prefer it and say they like it if they had a decent alternative? No. So. But. but I'd guess that less than 2% of all bargirls are underage. Twenty to thirty years old is probably the majority of where they are.don't get me wrong. the gay clubs are in their own sections of the tourist areas and not frequented much by anyone not gay. None do that though. They could leave anytime and disrespect their parents. rather than face the alternative .Have most bargirls been forced into prostitution? Not most.at the highest . no. The wages in Thailand on average . they like it enough to stay. you don't see them in the regular bars.working in 7-11 for $200 USD per month. It's true that some are sold by their parents to recruiters that give them a job to pay back what their parents borrowed. but. They are doing it because they really have nothing else to do. A girl selling sexual favors can make triple that in 1 hour very easily. but even then. Are many Thai Bargirls Under aged? No. Those choosing to work as prostitutes usually lie and say they are doing work in a hotel or in some other business. Some parents know their daughters or sons are working as prostitutes in the sex tourist areas. On the contrary… Thai boys that go with gay men are often times underage. I'd say that most are there by choice. I'm not familiar with the gay clubs much.
The older guys aren't as demanding during sex and 1 time is probably enough in an hour. The older guys are financially much better off than younger foreign guys in Thailand and can send continuing payments from their home country if they fall in love with a Thai bargirl (bonus!). They like to be in control and try to get everything done by their rules. The months from May through October are usually pretty slim pickings and many bargirls return home or go somewhere else for the rainy season until the tourists return in November. Do Bargirls Like Younger Men or Older Men Better? Thai bargirls seem to like the older guys better . many bargirls have Thai boyfriends on the side that they support. and more. Why marry them I wonder? Is it True that Thai Bargirls are Submissive and Love for You to Take Charge? No. That happens a LOT in the sextourist areas. That said. It's a weird situation for sure. It's seasonal. scammed.Some can. raped.at least they target them more in the bars. stolen from.over 20. I'd guess that the majority make 8. hit.000 THB per month and then.000-10. Only the top 20% of girls really make decent money . Why? The older guys are less choosey. That's more than they'd make cutting chicken into pieces in a Rayong meat packing plant. The older guys are less likely to haggle over 500 THB. Do Bargirls like Foreign Men Better than Thais? You'll hear that a LOT.000 THB per month when all is said and done. Girls will insist they don’t like Thai men because they were hit or taken advantage of by Thai men. The quality of men in these places is bottom of the barrel. . Some are married to Thai men that enjoy the money their wife makes banging foreigners. but it's not 'good wages' by most standards. Bargirls in Thailand are like prostitutes anywhere in the world I imagine they've been taken advantage of. Bargirls can be violent and on edge too. Thai men married to bargirls are more like pimps. not every month either.
Do Bargirls get Jealous of Each Other? Can I Take Multiple Girls from the Same Bar? They do. If you are really a good guy and can prove it to the girl over time or with visits back to your country with her so she can see what she's getting into she'll likely agree to go with you. Do Thai Bargirls Ever Have Children at Home? Yes. killed. raped. or is it a Game to Get Money? Some do fall in love. sold into sexual slavery. It means to them that the first girl wasn't worth the money and you're still looking for someone to satisfy you the right way. etc. If the man has a lot of money and agrees to support them while they are married . There are many horror stories of Thai girls going abroad and getting beaten. or with the foreigner. You shouldn't. Many times that's why they are working in a bar . Do Thai Bargirls Really Fall in Love with Foreigners. It's not 'nice'. All the bargirls have heard these stories and most all believe them.to take care of their kids that are currently staying with their parents back in their home province. used for porn movies. The girl you go with first will lose a lot of face if you come back to the same bar and take another girl that also works there. and friends too much to move. They will move if it's for their family's financial security. That is the question. Most Thai girls love their country. Is It a Bargirl's Number 1 Dream to Marry a Foreigner and Go to His Country to Live? No.don't choose from the same bar.the girl will likely go abroad with the man. Go to another bar and find girl number 2 . . Most are afraid to leave Thailand. Do they fall in love WITH the money. tortured. Often. family.
and are just clueless? I'm sure. You. 3.it happens very rarely. According to other people that don't require as much as me and that would put up with a lot more than I would . but any Thai girl. A bargirl's heart belongs (in this order) to: 1. cheated on.hell no. 4. Call it a money thing and don't bring love into it. There are guys that say they are happily married to ex-bargirls.they are. Can a 19 Year Old Girl Really Love a 50 Year Old Foreigner? Doubtful. in many cases . there must be some cases in which it is a real relationship and the girl is being true to the guy . Any Good Thai Girl you date or marry has these priorities: . Not just bargirls. Money.maybe. What 19 year old can love a guy old enough to be her grandfather? I'm going to guess . 2. She loves the security of having an older guy that can support her and her family financially in most cases. Any Thai she is dating.and just happy to not have to worry about money or being raped or killed as a bargirl. Is it True that I Will Never be #1 in a Bargirl's Heart? Yes. Are they being fleeced. But. Family.Can a Foreigner Ever Hope to Have a Fairy Tale Marriage with an ExBargirl? According to me .
You or Money. • Butterfly . but. What Are Some Common Phrases in Sex Tourist Areas of Thailand? • Bar Fine . so you pay the owner.Gatoey . they really don't like it because they lose face when you go with one girl and then to a different girl. and mean to girls.woman that runs the house .The female / male supervisor of the girls in a pay for play establishment. not Asian • Fan . Bargirls say it teasingly. • Maeh bahn .Thai language meaning girlfriend or boyfriend • Freelancer . She can't earn drink money or provide entertainment to customers while she's gone. Usually found on the street at night or in discos or non-bargirl bars.falang . • Katoey .a negative term bargirls use to describe guys that flit from girl to girl . • Cheap Charlie .paid to owner of bar or establishment as fee to take the girl away for your sexual activity. She tries to find guys to go with her for a fee for sexual favors. • Farang .like butterflies bounce flower to flower.A Thai guy that dresses as a woman.A prostitute who is not employed by any establishment. but the first girl and her friends see you with a new girl.foreigner. 3. He may or may not have his appendage.1.Kee Nee Oh . Whichever lost in #2. 2. Family.Thai language for guy that is a penny pincher. • Mamasan / Papasan .
time is up. . Everyone says same same though it might be way different . • You like smoke? .sexual activity where the man comes once and that's it . are you having fun? • Short Time . Sort of like buying her company so she can stay with you and make the bar some money. Sanook mai? Are you having fun? • Are you funny? .just to keep everyone smiling and thinking they know what's going on.Bad English.having fun.You like blowjob? • Same-Same . It means.• Lady drink . same as… often used because it's damn near impossible to communicate sometimes.small street.soda or juice that a foreigner is talked into buying for a bargirl. • Sanook .maybe the most frequently said phrase by bargirls in Thailand. It means. Usually shouldn't last more than 60-90 minutes in total. • Soi .
Is it True that Bargirls Lie More than Other Thai Girls? .
not by a long shot. Be careful with freelancers.she's engaging in the nastiness with customers for money. if she's at the massage place she is almost definitely engaging in handshake extras. at least sometimes. or anything that resembles a nightlife venue . anything is possible. I've read many accounts on forums of the same thing occurring with other farangs. I've found the university student freelancers to be real gems in Patong Beach discos. Harsh. then you make a guess… Is it possible that my Thai Girlfriend Working in a Massage Place Doesn't Engage in Sex Acts with Customers? Possible? Hell ya. Genuine. huh? Wait until you interact with them. soapy. Friends have told me the same. Don't fool yourself. or more with customers. Literally anything is possible. Don't drink what they give you or had access to while your back was turned. if she's working at a tourist bar. A Thai girl could work at 7-11 or a video place. Why are Freelancers Best? They have time to travel and you need not pay bar fine. I've been offered the "happy ending". The pope could be a closet rubber freak too. Is it likely? No.and yet. You have to exchange the word possible for likely.but. They have to or they'd lose money. Sweet. There are a couple big schools in Phuket Town and the girls that need cash come across the hill to earn some weekend money. don't give them any leeway. they want more anonymity and are ripping guys off… drugging their drinks and cleaning them out. The girls are just like any college girl you'd see in Thailand in their uniforms. Or. I've been to many massage places that are supposed to be traditional . karaoke haunt. I have a theory that they never say anything that is true. They are often OK with less money. Hot. massage place.Entirely true. Why are Freelancers the Worst? Those that aren't true college students can be jaded girls that have worked as bargirls for years and are tired of that scene. Nothing. anywhere BUT a massage place . . a restaurant.
Takes 1-2 customers per night Sleeps about 0300-0600 hours. Takes a motorbike taxi to the bar around dinner time. Eats poor quality food .instant noodles. what did mommy do before you met her?" I'd hate to tell her she bounced up and down on someone's meat for money. sometimes not until 1400 hours. I think if the girl does it for a day .decides it's not her and stops . Any longer and I wouldn't marry her if you paid me. Watches television a LOT. Lives in apartment with couple prostitute roommates to save $. junk food. Has som tam almost daily ."Daddy. Repeats daily How Long After a Girl Starts to Work as a Prostitute Would You Estimate She is Not Marriage Material? In my mind? About a day.then she's still OK.What is a Typical Day Like for a Thai Prostitute? • • • • • • • • • Wakes up around noon. Gossips with friends a LOT. I couldn't quite get past the thought that at some point in the future our child will ask us . .the healthiest thing she'll eat.
you feel better and your head isn't spinning as much.com . Then it's more a matter of just finding someone you like and that likes you and… well. As I said. Matt Smith Books at: ThailandeBooks. Cheers.and play the game their way .or. I imagine that most Thai-Western relationships fail outright because someone has a lot of changing to do to get a grip on how a new society works. likely you won't.000 good girls to every 1 bad girl. If you're sitting in your country wondering what it would be like to come to Thailand and see the amazing women and country don't wait.but.completely differently from the USA . And vice-versa. Life is too short to waste. The guys too. I misunderstand a lot.Parting Advice… Overall the girls in Thailand are amazing people. Once you start to 'get it' though . go to Isaan where you'll find 1. If you're coming to Thailand to find a girl to marry don't even stop in the sextourist areas and hope you'll find someone that is decent. You could be dead in 2 weeks for all you know. Usually it just stems from a misunderstood word. Usually that's all it is. Book a ticket as soon as you can get 2 weeks or more free from your commitments. A misunderstanding because she misunderstood what I said before. and didn't want to clear it up then . Thai and American culture are so substantially different that at times I can't believe I'm on planet earth. didn't know she misunderstood at all. It's been an absolute blast living here and seeing how another culture works . My wife and I have been together almost 5 years and we still have conversations where I'm looking at her like she's from planet Pluto. Seriously.and better in so many ways. you know how it goes. the differences in society are gigantic. Instead. you might find the one out of hundreds that is a good girl .
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