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What It Means When Women Don't Admire Men Anymore

Submitted by Paul Dobransky MD on Tue, 10/25/2011 - 10:45 http://www.womenshappiness.com/articles/what-it-means-when-women-dont-admire-menanymore? utm_source=getresponse&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=womenshappiness&utm_conten t=What+It+Means+When+Women+Don%27t+Admire+Men

It means that a full attraction for you cannot occur, and this becomes an "Achilles Heel" for later on, if a relationship does develop between you. Disastrous for both genders. Maybe you have at some point had a breakup. No, for sure at some point you've had a breakup, whether it's a divorce or simply the end of a string of dates. And leading up to that point you've felt a distance from him, a disrespect certainly or even a disdain. He probably quoted someone as saying that you "don't seem to appreciate him enough" if he even goes that far above falling often silent. Maybe he said that his job is overwhelming (which is really man-speak for a request to invest interest and care in his career dreams, stresses, and need for being honored in importance alongside your joint schedule, childcare, and quality time together. One thing he will almost never say because he doesn't even have the words, is that somewhere inside, men also need to feel the woman is committed BACK to them, and that what words, actions, and spirit tell him this is true - you don't only love him, but are also committed to him (an entirely separate part of the brain from love.) He is used to hearing this phrase from women in his own past, but actually wishes he could say it to you and still feel like a man rather than complaining: you "need to work harder on the relationship."" Chances are that when you noticed that he talks less, shares less, and seems to work more, you might even have felt hurt by that. Meanwhile, he was thinking something entirely different. He noticed that he doesn't feel too many places in life that tell him how valuable he is - the bad economy, cultural changes, and a lot of messages he sees in the media tell him this at least

It's the same thing I've heard from men who actually invest a lot of money just to go abroad to find dates with the . If. it might even be politically incorrect to say it. for the first time ever. for no intentional reason (and he won't tend to ask. while British men are still (barely so) considered honorable until proven otherwise. She said. Which leads us to why we teach men about the Equation of Femininity. he doesn't get his sense of masculinity fed by the relationship. when you are still just relative strangers. but you want quality time too. where a UK woman summed up for me what she viewed as the difference between American and British men. flirting.. with 2/3 .it means that he has more passion to bring back into the relationship. but immediately knew exactly what she was talking about. In some circles. words or actions of interest in his career or admiration of who he is. then brings it home to you..he then dives into work. I had the unfortunate (but compelling) experience last year to be in Britain. hoping he will get an equal amount of passion back. He gets it from the career world. But then again we all see how and why to do that in nearly every magazine. if exclusive) plus his progress in a career mission. "Sorry to inform you. Not just "having a job" but literally being on a mission for his life. and those who do actually make more than men for the same job (with one proviso . the beginnings of this long-term skill with men actually begins in the second step of sexual attraction. That he needs to be a source of YOU feeling vital. about you. It's gone. or the quality of relationship in his specific experience.but the single most stand out attraction or flirtation skill missing in today's western dating culture is this: It's the ability to ADMIRE a man. which does indeed benefit you too .no children. The statistics also support it. But you don't know about what we call the Equation of Masculinity . and the only other item of the equation being career progress .) You want to be with a hard-working guy who is honest and not lazy.implicitly.the only variable he truly does control . television show. and quite a few movies.which says that a male's sense of masculinity (the same as feeling vital and passionate about life. passionate and alive by way of your femininity. complain or beg for this) you don't do much patting on the back. but American men are considered dishonorable until proven otherwise. more women have jobs. When he does this it amplifies his sense of passion and vitality.. and about himself) equals his skill with women (if single. Even though we are talking about committed relationships here." I was stunned. because so many people have been hurt in PAST relationships (and we all naturally tend to "project" our past experiences and people onto CURRENT ones) ..3/4 of college graduates being women now.

Step two of sexual attraction has a step for women AND a step for men.tilting of the head. this woman prefers him over other men and may therefore be worth investing in. It's a necessary and valid step of human courtship that proves yes. they silently do the reflex behavior . Luckily. . What other teachers won't tend to tell you is that romance is a dance for two . and is preferred over other men.every interaction is a voluntary gift. It's no wonder so many being at a loss as to why they can't find love that also has commitment. and in their body language and behavior. letting him know that he is liked.ought to do so as well. and her tilt of the head. It very well may save the future of dating from temporary cultural fads and the cycle of what is politically correct."Step Two" for women that I lay out in the Seventh Sense Program . Thank God we still have an unconscious mind. fifty-fifty: Part of courtship . She signals men with her smile. after thousands of years of evolution. out of free will.must include a sense of the woman admiring a man in a nonverbal way. It's that sometimes we see so many atrocious things about the state of modern marriage that we forget that even after walking down the aisle. men do want them. and her grooming of herself while looking deep in their eyes. her gaze. We never own each other or owe each other . There is a promise of commitment in return for commitment. and it's diminished by plenty of advice out there regarding the perils of "stroking the fragile male ego.not just the woman getting her needs satisfied or the man rebelling against the cultural norm to practice "better game" in order to get his own needs satisfied. but it is most certainly in body language at the very least. only if they offer a feeling that masculinizes them. She expresses admiration for men that is real and heartfelt. they still do want men and desire them. woman to man and man to woman. we are stll both in the relationship voluntarily. could be loved.) Women are right and to be commended for seeking empowerment." It's not a fragile ego that men have at all. We both have to work for it.the other half . gazing with a barely perceptible flutter of the eyes that still reveals.potential to find long term relationships (yes. quite logically. Most men don't notice this at first. It may not be in words. smiling. it is ladies first here too. operates without their conscious control. And all human beings . women still have an unconscious that. As in much of life.

an invitation to show what he is made of.truly is the first thing to grab their attention and interest.and yet they also need a man of character and maturity whatever your age. and he lets you know how attractive you are to him. When women complain of men's lack of gentlemanliness. and what resources he possesses that could very much benefit her should she decide to align with him in something more than just a light dating relationship. It's not something that anyone wants to admit. but quickly discount his value as a man for not having that "edge" to him that says. I am a courteous man. and don't accept one who doesn't have the capacity to appreciate you. reliable guy who is not so sexy. but let's face it. or their singleminded focus on sex. And if all he has is machismo to the nth power. Not the same things you value about men.coming from a confidence. The way to do this has nothing to do with sexual prowess. But there are so very many ways to learn "man language" . he's not been so valuable to your life.decoding for you. and the reverse is also true.showing men that they admire something about them (which usually needs to be about their careers if it is to be most effective. not just a crush. then you may peg him as a nice. you may be briefly attracted. Today's lesson is to notice that when you do find a man who really understands women. or listening attentively to her. and everything to do with what kind of friend and partner you might be like in terms of teamwork . Step Two of attraction for men involves showing the woman the gentlemanliness. Most women who have been through a breakup know that something happens in the man to diminish her sense of being a valuable benefit to his life. Women DO need a man who is dominant and assertive and sexy .an alpha-male . yes. If that weren't true.to be a source of curiosity or mystery to the woman. .it need not have anything to do with sexual chemistry either. some women don't stop to wonder whether they have done the immediate step that precedes the gentlemanliness .whether it's making her feel safe.It's a call for gentlemanly behavior on his part. it is your turn to show her your interest in return. On the woman's part.we all are forced to admit . If you lose interest in a man. and what may benefit his life about you. and what you do with your appearance . the cosmetics and fashion industries wouldn't be the first and second oldest industries in the world. If all he has is character.) Last time we covered the very first step of sexual attraction that falls upon men to deliver on . men are very visual. Hold out for the man to see your value. and doing something for her that demonstrates it . It's that people like to know they are liked . but I am a man. demonstrating his wares as a man. what exactly it is that makes a man value a woman.

See you next time for the third and final step of sexual attraction in human courtship! . Well I want to go further than that for you. called Feminine Intelligence in Breaking Up (Or Winning Him Back). for FREE. We have a new program out. as only 50 women will get it. The first 50 women who get this deal also get ONE YEAR of free "breakup insurance" ..We cover this all in the Seventh Sense Program on dating and relationships. and a dedicated email address only for you have me immediately available day or night for the time surrounding a breakup if you encounter one. I'd like to give that to you as well. I hope you take advantage of this offer.in which a dedicated cell phone only for you. when you get the Seventh Sense Program at normal price.. and it always comes with the 500$ training program called the Virtual Dating Coach for free.

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