Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 20

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 20

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88999-9-5

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Positive principles help us and contribute to becoming more unselfish. 2) Positive principles help us and contribute greatly to becoming more popular. 3) Some superstitions can sometimes impede the achievement of effective co operations. 4) Sometimes some superstitions prevent the achievement of personal goals. 5) The man that you can not trust is dangerous. 6) The lying man through his lies greatly damages himself. 7) Hatred is extremely dangerous. 8) Revenge is extremely dangerous. 9) Evil sometimes leads to another
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evil. 10) Waste is extremely harmful. 11) Each family member should contribute as much as he can to prevent family aggressions in his family. 12) Many acts of domestic violence can be prevented through education in schools, universities, on the Internet, in the media, etc. 13) Quarrels in the family slow us in achieving our personal goals. 14) Quarrels between several employees go, if not stopped, to cease the cooperation in the end. 15) The harmony between spouses helps and contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 16) The harmony between family members helps children achieve better results in school. 17) We are very harmful in our struggle
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to become the same as other persons. We are who we are and it is necessary and required for us to develop our positive parts, to complete them with others, etc., so that we get much further than if we tried to become another person. 18) The reduction of the exaggerated consumption of alcohol by as many people as possible has multiple positive effects on the society. 19) Any act of aggression against a family member by another family member is illegal and can be punished by the law. 20) Mature love prologues our life. 21) Mature love creates much happiness. 22) Each of us needs to discover all his qualities and develop them as much as possible for our big chance to maintain a happy marriage. 23) Employees who go to work drunk
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are first on the lists of redundancy. Attention amateurs. 24) Without dedication we can not maintain effective co operations. 25) Without dedication we can not maintain a mature love. 26) Preventive actions help prevent many inefficient actions. 27) Without patience there would not be many happy marriages. 28) Self- control helps us achieve real friendship. 29) Positive thoughts help us keep our marriage happy. 30) Pride removes the proud one from the others. 31) In any action, we increase our efficiency if we document everything better. 32) If we somehow have any inhumane behavior it is necessary to change to
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human behavior immediately. 33) Effective behaviors help us increase our chances to achieve positive personal goals. 34) Some successes are due only to outstanding efforts and to the people's participation and without any favorable situations. 35) Some successes are sometimes due only to favorable situations, which some people know how to use. 36) Not everyone knows how to use favorable situations but only some. 37) The solution to be lucky in life is to be tenacious, efficient in what we do and continue documenting more completely so as to know how and what to do to get what we want. You will surely be lucky if you comply with the rules to get what you want. Good luck. I am beside you. 38) The activity of law is extremely
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important for society, but unfortunately in many situations, many of them unbelievable, it does not have the quality it should have in almost all of the world s states. 39) Permanently, continuously, day by day, for as long as we live it is necessary to have the personal goal to increasingly support education and self-education for children to achieve a harmonious personality. 40) Discipline in everything we do helps us prevent certain failures. 41) The unfair one is always put first on the list of dismissals. 42) Principles help us become more efficient. 43) Compliance with principles helps us achieve real friendships. 44) Compliance with principles helps us achieve mature love.
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45) Compliance with the principles helps us greatly to achieve a happy marriage. 46) Employers should be supported, encouraged by states to develop a business, to improve it in order to give proper wages. 47) Inadequate education is directly or indirectly the cause of most crimes. 48) Inadequate education reduces the efficiency that we could achieve. 49) Inadequate education gives a smaller quality and number of opportunities we have to achieve efficient co-development. 50) Only effective actions help us achieve our efficient co-development. 51) Only effective actions help us get success. 52) Negative mentalities of those who have them greatly slow the achievement of
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personal goals. 53) Negative mentalities of those who have them slow the achievement of effective co operations. 54) Responsibility helps us have more chances to achieve our personal goals. 55) Responsibility helps us have more chances to become more efficient. 56) The Internet helps us have more chances to achieve effective co operations. 57) The world must legislate the obligation of putting recordings on the Internet of court sentences, of all documents related to the process, files, everything that is public information, except the circumstances stipulated by law when sentences are not public. 58) Some judges in some states are incredibly poorly trained. 59) A happy marriage makes us be more eager to live, to have a life without
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death. 60) A judge has many difficulties in achieving the justice of the act of quality. 61) Altruism helps us achieve a happy marriage. 62) Altruism helps us more easily achieve more successes. 63) The more efficient use of our time greatly increases our chances to achieve more and higher successes. 64) Creative ideas help us get performance. 65) Thinking efficiency helps us achieve performance. 66) The more organized we are the better chance we have to obtain performance. 67) Human communication greatly increases our chances to keep our efficient co-development. 68) The Internet is the ideal means to
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develop as many human relationships as possible. 69) Most world states work very little and ineffectively to prevent the disregard for human rights and fundamental freedoms. 70) Unfortunately in 2007 in most states of the world there are still every day so many incredible violations of the human rights and fundamental freedoms. 71) All the states in the world need to take all necessary and effective measures to immediately and effectively stop any violation of human rights and fundamental freedoms. 72) States need and must take immediate effective measures to prevent the formation, maintenance and development of all human vices, as this creates enormously negative effects for those who have them and the others too
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unfortunately. 73) Each of us must act to prevent the formation, maintenance and development of vices, because it reduces the possibility for us to achieve our personal goals. 74) Each of us will be able to prevent the formation, maintenance and development of vices if we act with a lot of will continuously every day, for as long as we live to achieve this personal goal. 75) The prevention of companies bankruptcies needs to start even before their foundation by taking into account all the necessary measures to prevent bankruptcies and the real chances of survival after their establishment, stopping us from establishing firms only to find that there are no chances of survival. 76) Many bankruptcies can be prevented even before the establishment of firms if those who want to establish
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companies and who want to manage them themselves, document and learn very well what is necessary to do so that they can effectively manage a self-managing company. 77) Many companies who have gone bankrupt were set up in a place where there were no commercial sites and managed by the owners who did not know how to attract customers enough so that they do not go bankrupt. 78) The causes of bankruptcies of firms are infinite, some can be known and it can be predicted that those company will go bankrupt. Other causes come from externally generated factors incontrollable by us, like the unexpected bankruptcy of some clients and we can not collect money from them anymore, etc. 79) Our life partner can be found anywhere where we meet a woman or a
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man. 80) The more men or women we meet from case to case, the better chances we have to meet the right life partner. An ideal place to meet him/her is the Internet, taking into account the advantages, disadvantages and risks that it offers us. Good luck. Persevere as I am sure you will be able to find the right partner for life. Good luck. 81) Our life has been given to us so that we live it, but not in any way, mocking it, at chance, but thorough, economizing, planning, with good sense, with hopes, with positive thoughts and actions, with humanities, with love, with dedication only with what does us and others good. Good luck. You will succeed if you respect what there is to be respected, what you very well know and what must be respected. Good luck again.
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82) In life it is necessary and required to develop only positive feelings just because they only do us and others good. 83) Negative feelings damage us and others. Attention not to make them, maintain and develop them. 84) Each of us must have the strength and willpower to prevent negative feelings, to maintain and develop happiness because they are extremely harmful for us and for others. 85) We are each responsible for our own mistakes. 86) Each of us is required to take the effects of their own mistakes and not to try to make others bear them. 87) It is illegal to try to make others responsible for our own failures. 88) Accuracy helps us very much to have more chances to achieve timely and efficient personal goals.
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89) Accuracy helps us very much to have more chances to achieve more and greater successes. 90) Accuracy greatly helps us achieve a happy marriage. 91) You must always prevent the beginning of the state of despair. 92) A state of despair can be prevented. 93) Hopes prevent us to arrive in the state of despair. 94) Even if we are in some state of despair we should not think of suicide, regardless of the situation, the best solution is not to commit suicide but to act to solve those problems that we can resolve that can take us out of the state of despair and so out with this absurd idea to commit suicide. 95) Some suicides are desperate acts arising from desperation; others are caused by certain wrong ideas.
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96) Efficient co-development helps us very much to prevent to arrive in a state of despair. 97) Effective co operations take us from the state of passivity and make us more efficient. 98) Social participation helps us understand people better. 99) Social participation helps us find the right partner for life. 100) In all countries the number and quality of non-profit organizations activities must increase greatly and continuously as they can contribute greatly to the development of many problems in each country and in the world. 101) The world that exists on the Internet, in books, in newspapers, in the media, databases and on other media information enormously provide many positive ideas, helpful for people, states,
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etc. but unfortunately some are not used by anyone, others are used by a very small number of people out of the number of them that could use and apply them. 102) Even if you get to the state of despair you need and should not think anything about suicide because life was given to us to live it not to commit suicide. 103) Even if we reach the situation of despair we can very easily get rid of it most of the times because life was given to us to live it with the goods and bads, for we have the qualities necessary but we have to use them effectively. 104) Perseverance and will help you out of the state of despair. 105) Effective co operations help us very much to prevent reaching situations of despair. 106) The more effective action we have, the more likely we are to prevent the
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situation from reaching despair. 107) The more intellectually developed we are the more chances we have not to get to that state of despair. 108) The more mentally developed we are, the more chances we have not to get to the situation of despair. 109) The greater ability we have to work the more chances we have not to get to situations of despair. 110) We can make life more beautiful if we have an appropriate education for us to achieve it. 111) Expectations make us more confident in ourselves. 112) The more experience we have to help us achieve our personal goals, the more confidence we have in a better future. 113) Good morale needs to be kept constant, every day, for as long as we live.
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114) Good morale helps us greatly to achieve a greater efficiency. 115) Good morale helps us a lot to us achieve personal goals. 116) Good morale contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 117) Good morale helps us very much in achieving records. 118) Good morale helps us greatly to achieve more and greater successes. 119) Good morale helps us very much to achieve effective co operations. 120) If we do not have a good morale, we can shape it by ourselves. 121) As we have more experience, the more chances we have to achieve an optimal morale. 122) Good morale greatly increases our chances of not getting in the situation of despair. 123) Good morale greatly increases our
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ability to have self-control in any situation. 124) A psychological balance helps us very much not to get in the situation of despair. 125) A psychological balance helps us very much and enlarges our capacity to persevere. 126) A psychological balance helps us greatly to continuously increase our efficiency. 127) A psychological balance helps us prevent arguments. 128) A psychological balance helps us make our life more beautiful. 129) A psychological balance can be maintain once achieved through the proper nutrition of the person concerned, through education, intellectual work, perseverance, experience, willingness, physical exercises, etc.
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130) Positive thinking can be achieved if you do not have it through the proper nutrition of the person concerned, through education, intellectual work, perseverance, experience, willingness, physical exercises, etc. 131) Ruses can help at the time not to be discovered, but after their discovery they could be extremely harmful, depending on the seriousness of the crimes and on the size of their negative effects. 132) Subtlety is not worth doing because it is an offense. 133) We do not have the right to commit an offense because it might even be a crime if it meets the conditions to be a crime. 134) The significance of cunningness is zero and it can not be compared with a positive deed however small it might be as a value, because cunningness has the value
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zero, it can not create value, or anything positive, but only something negative, it only has negative effects. 135) Lies have very short lives, sometimes it can not be completely discovered, another time some lies have a shorter or longer life, but ultimately all can be found if the interest is to discover them. 136) Human mind is diabolical, it can achieve positive incredible facts, but unfortunately also facts that may be enormously, incredibly negative. So be careful, a man can do what an angel can, but at the same time he can do what the devil can too. 137) Good mood can be formed 138) Good mood can be maintained. 139) By maintaining our good mood, we contribute to maintaining our mental balance.
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140) Good mood can be achieved if the person concerned has adequate nourishment, it can be achieved through education, intellectual work, perseverance, willpower, exercise, a value system that we believe in and that we respect, business dynamism, social relationships, friends, mature love and a happy marriage. 141) Good mood makes us be in shape. 142) Good mood helps us a lot to achieve our mental balance, if we do not have it. 143) Good mood helps us achieve mature love. 144) Good mood helps us very much to maintain our friendships. 145) Good mood makes us be much more attractive. 146) Good mood helps us out of stress. 147) Enthusiasm helps us out of stress. 148) Good mood makes our life more enjoyable.
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149) Reliability makes us be much more appreciated. 150) Reliability makes us be invulnerable. 151) Maintaining good humor continuously, day by day, for as long as we live is necessary to be a personal goal. 152) Fatigue creates many mistakes. 153) Fatigue creates failures. 154) We can prevent fatigue. 155) Fatigue can be prevented through the proper nutrition of the person concerned, through education, positive behavior, balanced life, intellectual exercises, perseverance, willpower, exercise, a value system that we believe in and that we respect, business dynamism, social relations, friends, mature love, a happy marriage, adequate rest when necessary, proper sleep, entertainment, etc..
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156) It is necessary to have the personal goal to prevent chronic fatigue, continually, day by day, for as long as we live. 157) Preventing chronic fatigue can be resolved. 158) In 2007 in most countries there are still a lot of malformations, which unfortunately are not recognized as being abnormal but on the contrary, abnormalities are considered normal and incredibly, what is normal is considered abnormal. 159) It is necessary and imperative that each of us, regardless of what country we are from, to have the personal goal of acting with greater efficiency continuously, every day, for as long as we live, for us all to join forces in order to establish normality where there is abnormal as soon as possible and to
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prevent the establishment of abnormality instead of normality. 160) The abnormalitys existence in place of normality has multiple diversified, negative short-term and long term effects for all the people around the world. 161) People on earth have sufficient resources to unite their huge forces, through solidarity, cooperation, codevelopment, perseverance, willpower, work, the Internet, the media, the mobile phone, etc., to install in record time in many places and situations normality instead of abnormalities. Start right now that you will always succeed for you are an invincible force, you can replace the abnormal with the normal in no matter what situations and places. Persevere until you succeed and if you need it, continually ask for help from other citizens of the
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planet that will join you to become incredibly many. Good luck. I am sure you will succeed. 162) Fatigue greatly reduces our efficiency. 163) Fatigue greatly reduces our ability to create. 164) Fatigue can produce very high misfortunate acts when we are tired. 165) When you are tired it is necessary to stop any activity and to do what you can to recover better and faster. Good luck. 166) Inadequate education is a major cause of many crimes. 167) By making a proper education states can prevent many crimes. 168) States can prevent many crimes if they take effective measures to prevent the crimes for every type of crime. 169) Measures to prevent crime not only reduce the pain of very high prison
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sentences, there is a need for much more effective measures from all points of view inclusively for a citizen having to support large amounts of money because of an ineffective legal system of prison terms. 170) Since 2007 most states do not apply the appropriate measures for the most effective prevention of crimes, unfortunately, but they apply only primitive and inefficient methods of punishment through prison. 171) States need to take the immediate necessary measures to provide a proper education efficiency to be able to prevent many crimes by this method, which consists in carrying out an effective appropriate education for people who do not want to commit crimes. 172) Effective state investments in an education that is corresponding and against the disobedience of laws is worth
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the efforts, because if it is of a good quality, very effective and very attentively created it produces multiple and various effects paying back the positive investments made and an additional huge profit if analyzed in terms of financial efficiency of the investment. 173) States should be especially concerned to achieve a proper education effective from all points of view to respond to real the needs of education of the people and society and to effectively satisfy both their needs. 174) An appropriate efficient education meant to meet the needs of people and society is particularly important for people and for society, but unfortunately, even in 2007, many states do not have a proper effective education to meet the requirements and needs of people and of society concerning education.
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175) The woman is a delicate being, which all men want to have, they need to understand her in order to achieve a true love, a mature and happy marriage with happy children. 176) Most women and men are looking for a happy marriage, but unfortunately they do too little, give too little time, too little attention to that and to achieving and maintaining it. If on the contrary, they will do what is necessary to achieve and maintain a happy marriage, they will surely achieve it. I wish you success with the confidence that you will be able to achieve and maintain a happy marriage. Good luck again. 177) In 2007 the behaviors of the majority of people in the world are mostly selfish behaviors unfortunately. They are very harmful because these behaviors are particularly concerned with the interests of
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his own people, irrespective of the account that they damage other people and in some cases, exceptional people even die or huge damages are made. 178) Selfish behavior needs to be replaced with ego altruistic behavior in most cases. 179) Ego altruistic behavior is a behavior that takes into account both personal interests, of the self and of the other, acting to meet them both for a harmonious coexistence for himself and for the other. 180) Efficient inter human relations must be rewarded. 181) Efficient inter human relations make us more effective. 182) Efficient inter human relations help us become happier. 183) Efficient inter human relations help us create more friendships. 184) Efficient inter human relations
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increase our productivity. 185) Efficient inter human relations help us maintain our relations of cooperation. 186) Efficient inter human relations help us maintain our happy marriages. 187) Efficient inter human relations can be formed. 188) Efficient inter human relations can help us achieve more successes in life. 189) Efficient inter human relations make us more powerful. 190) Efficient inter human relations help us become more efficient. 191) Efficient inter human relations help us maintain friendships. 192) Friendships make us stronger. 193) Friendships create many joys. 194) Friendships make our life more beautiful. 195) Friendships are maintained through certain specific behaviors.
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196) Friendships are good for our health. 197) Friendships make many happy surprises. 198) Friendships create a special psychical comfort. 199) Friendships sometimes make us more forgiving. 200) Friendships sometimes make us more tolerant. 201) Each of us has the need to have friends. 202) People who are open more easily make friends. 203) People who are open more easily maintain their friendships. 204) Friendships can sometimes make some of us more open. 205) Friendships can sometimes make us more confident in ourselves. 206) Friendships help us know each other better.
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207) Friendships help us develop certain qualities. 208) Friendships help us more easily achieve our personal goals. 209) Friendships make some of us more communicative. 210) Friendships make some of us better.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88999-9-5

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