TO RID YOURSELF OF AN UNWANTED LOVER Some people are wooed by persistent would-be lovers, those who won't take

no for an answer and who won't leave them alone. This is the ideal spell for such a situation. It should be done during the waning cycle of the Moon. Have a roaring fire going, then go outside and pick up two handfuls of dry vervain leaves (you can place them on the ground ahead of time, if necessary.) As you pick them up, shout out the name of the one you wish to be rid of. Turn and go into the house (or cross to the fire if this is all done out in the open) and fling leaves onto the fire with the words: Here is my pain; Take it and soar. Depart from me now And offend me no more. Do this for three nights in a row. You will hear no more from the unwanted ones. TO GET SOMEONE OUT OF YOUR LIFE This ritual is used to get someone out of your life that you just can't seem to get away from. You'll need: a string of hemp a small dish a red, black, gray or black candle with the wick removed a cut burnt through to the candle's center. Slip the hemp through the crevice in the candle, and, holding both ends of the string with one hand. Begin to burn through the center of the wax, where the crevice starts. Channel energy into the candle based on what negative things the source has given or done to you. Then, as the wax cascades into two pieces and the hemp burns through, visualize yourself and the other source like the wax. Two separate bodies. A regular circle needs to be cast for this ritual, and you have to make sure you want no ties with this person again when the ritual's through. BANISHMENT SPELL This is a spell for love gone wrong, for ending a personal, family or business relationship that you no longer wish to be in. It is a fire spell. To work it, gather herbs of protection and an image of the person (photograph, poppet, etc.) Something written in their own hand, a lock of hair, a piece of clothing or a personal object will also do. Put everything into a fireproof container - iron

cauldron, marble mortar, whatever and set fire to it as you perform the spell. It should make a very satisfactory blaze that reduces to ashes. The ashes can be buried or washed down a drain. Flush them down a toilet if you are very angry. Dispose of all the objects that connect you to the person: gifts, letters, photographs, etc. It is especially important to get rid of jewelry. Move house if you have to. Be careful with this spell. It's permanent, so don't use it unless you really mean forever. By the crimson and the gold by basilisk and bloodstone by the garlic in the fields by the poppies and what they yield invisibly I make my shield to detect thee and deflect thee and keep thy harm from me. By dragon's blood and salamanders by horses when their hooves strike sparks by the dragon breathing flames from the Book of Life I erase thy names I cut the cords and unlock the chains I sever all the ties by which we were bound and with impenetrable walls myself I surround against thy power and its source against thy evil and its source Vesta, Pele, Lilith Kali Kali Kali I banish thee forever from me and any harm from thee to me doubles back and tables turned thou shalt by thyself be burned Lilith, Vesta, Pele Kali Ma Kali Ma by the power of three times three I banish thee, I banish thee, I banish thee I am set free So mote it be! TO END UNWANTED ROMANTIC FEELINGS Focus your thoughts on the person you want to no longer have feelings for. Think of all the reasons of yours & traits of theirs that you can, to back up your decision. Write this person's name on a small slip of paper. Cross out the name with deliberation. Say: You no longer hold a special place in my heart. You are not the right person for me. I will bury my feelings for you here & make a fresh start. Bury this bit of paper & all your feelings about this person outside under a waning moon. TO MAKE A LOVER LEAVE The following is an effective and simple spell to encourage the end of a relationship

if you are no longer interested in the person as a lover. a black candle a white candle salt, water dragon's blood incense and a picture of the person you wish to end the relationship with. It also helps if you have something of theirs (a ring, watch, etc. that they will wear at a later time, and wear often). Arrange all these items on a table or altar somewhere quiet that you will not be disturbed. Write your name and his side by side on a piece of paper. Before casting this spell, it is important that you realize the meaning behind the various things involved. Each item represents something, and all four elements (earth, air, fire and water) are also represented. (1) The white candle represents good will, as you do not wish the person any harm, you are just no longer interested in a lover's relationship with them. (2) The black candle represents 'ending' or 'finality'. This signifies the ending of the relationship as it currently is. ** Both candles represent the element of fire. The dragon's blood incense represents the element air. The bowl of water represents the element of water. The salt sprinkled around your table represents the element of earth. The picture and personal items from the person help you to concentrate on the person, and the item that they might wear later will further infuse them with the power of the spell. To cast the spell: Light the candles and incense, going around the table from North to West to South to East (this represents diminishment or decrease, and you wish to decrease the love binding you and your boyfriend/girlfriend.) Cast a circle, paying tribute to the lord/lady/dragon/guardian of each of the watchtowers, again going from NWSE in direction. Repeat the following chant 3 times, and on the third time tear the paper that you've written your names on in half. "O fire and flame of candle dark, I call your power to free his/her heart. As I tear this paper with our names inscribed, separate his/her (name) love from me apart. Bring to him/her not one ounce of charm, but fall him/her to another's charms. Nevermore as lovers shall we two be, but forever

in friendship may we meet. As I will it, so mote it be." Take the two pieces of paper with the names, and burn yours in the flame of the white candle, and burn his/hers in the flame with the black candle - when they burn down far enough that you can't hold them any longer, drop them in the bowl of water. Ground the power and close the circle! This is very important. I usually do this by turning my palms downward and saying "Circle open, but not broken - power down, to the ground". The spell is finished, except that you must allow both the white and black candles to burn completely down(I like to use votive candles for this reason, so they don't have to burn so long). If you like, you can take a small silk purse or felt bag and place the burnt pieces of paper, ashes from the incense, salt from the table or altar's surface, and a few drops of water from the bowl in the bag and keep it until you are certain the spell has worked. It also works well if you write the spell on parchment paper, sprinkle some of the ashes on the paper then fold it so none of the ashes can fall out and seal the fold of the paper with wax dripped from both candles. SEPARATING YOURSELF FROM A PROBLEM/PERSON Small issues can be handed in a magic circle, larger issues may need a full ritual. Think carefully about which is best for the situation. Needed : 2 black candles, a long black ribbon, black gloves, scissors, cauldron containing small amounts of alcohol and a silver bell. Cleanse and consecrate all the items, and dress the candles (to send negative energy away from you), then light the candles. Hold each end of the ribbon and name the ends. Pass the silver bell over the alter several times until you feel you are in tune with the Universal energies of love and peace. Anger is not a luxury afforded to you in the situation. Put the black gloves on and say: 'I call upon the energies of Universal balance I call upon the ancient energies of my people I call upon the living energies of the Morrigan Underworld and heaven Land and sea, I awaken these energies unto me. Witness now that I renounce and sever Break bonds and connections with ________ By all the powers that are One Power

May the great sisters of Karma now weave anew and separate me from you As I will, so mote it be' Cut the ribbon and say: 'It is so.' Light the cauldron, and burn both the pieces of ribbon. RITUAL FOR A SMOOTH BREAKUP Have an object given to you or strongly associated with your partner, something of yours that the partner strongly associates with you and some twine. Tie a bit of the twine around each object, so there is some string distanced between the two. Think about your relationship with this person, about the reasons you want to leave and how you would like your life to be without this person. At the most emotional peak, cut the twine between the two objects. Say: With love did we begin this, and with love do I end this. What connected us is no more, so mote it be! Take each object and bury it far away from the other object, while you do this say, "I plant your heart that new love and direction may grow!" So mote it be. TO UNDO A LOVE SPELL You need: - Picture of both parties together or write the names on a piece of paper - A burning dish Cut the paper between the two of them and say: As I cut their tie let the bond between them be broken Burn both halves of the paper apart. Say: As I burn the tie let the bond be ever severed. So Mote it be! Thank the deities and dismiss the circle if you have used one. At last, bury or scatter the ashes.

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