Negative Filipino Values

Bahala Na This trait means leaving everything to chance or letting the circumstances take care of itself. It implies fatalism under the pretext of trusting in Divine providence. By saying bahala na, a person resigns himself to luck as he believes the end-result depends ultimately on fate. It is a Filipinos way of avoiding rationalization or good reason. It is the same as saying, Que sera sera (whatever will be, will be). The Filipinos bahala na attitude is everywhere and with everyone. It could apply on big or small circumstances. For instance, a student who suddenly feels lazy to do his homework will just say bahala na. In this case, he resigns himself to whatever could happen in class the next day. This negative Filipino trait tends to be the cause of laziness by so many people. A lot of poor people resign themselves to the kind of life they have thinking that it is what God meant for them to have and He will take care of their needs. Their belief is that life finds a solution for itself. Ningas Kugon Filipinos are fond of starting a project with so much enthusiasm. This enthusiasm is so contagious that it spreads like wildfire. At the first sign of problem or difficulty, this enthusiasm is consumed as fast as it has spread. This is the quintessential Filipino trait ningas kugon meaning grassfire. This trait is the reason for the Filipinos show-off attitude; why so many projects are left unfinished and government officials corrupt. Crab Mentality The picture is this: when you put several crabs in a crate, they will all try to climb out in order to break free. Youll observe that when one gets a bit ahead, the other crabs will pull him down. A lot of Filipinos are like these crabs. Whenever one sees another progressing in their own field, others become resentful and instead of seeing the achievement of that person, they will try to highlight everything negative about him in an effort to bring him down or tarnish if not lessen the persons newly-acquired good image. It is an unhealthy competition in a way. Instead of doing things that could help one to develop and become better than his competitors, Filipinos devote so much of their time gossiping and back-biting. It is their way of deviating peoples attention on their inadequacy by focusing on other peoples faults. Patigasan This means resisting all efforts to a reconciliation. Because of the Filipino amor propio or egodefensiveness, it is very difficult for them to surrender their pride. It is noticeable that most Filipinos find it difficult to say the word sorry. Its better for them to act tough (matigas) rather than say sorry because to do the same is to sacrifice their precious pride. Maana or Bukas na This is the Filipino habit of leaving for tomorrow what they can do today. Most Filipinos have this habit of postponing their actions for a later time thus reducing accomplishments. Filipinos are fond of saying bukas na lang (Ill do it tomorrow) due to laziness. As a result, the work they produce is crammed. This arises from an indolent mentality that a problem will go away by itself. Kanya-kanya(to each his own) This is the Filipino self-centeredness and lack of regard for others. This happens when most

people are similarly situated such us in a calamity and in instances where family is involved as blood is thicker than water. In instances however when the others sis not meet the same fate, the Filipino helpfulness comes out. If one is able to help another without danger to himself and his family, they will readily extend a helping hand. Balimbing A reference to the many-sided star fruit, the term is applied to someone who changes allegiance for personal convenience. The allusion is that the person is not only double-faced, but multiplefaced. This was evident in the Marcos downfall where his cronies and enemies turned against him and embraced the Aquino government. These people are said to be balimbing

Filipino Positive values that should be kept and done by every Filipino people
This is Jochebed Dela Cruz or commonly known as Obed Dela Cruz I have posted before I have posted this discussion the bad traits of the Filipino people and now, here am I again but posting the Filipino positive values. Some positive Filipino values are: Respect for the elders hospitality goodness cleanliness prayerful morality sociable helpful close family ties loyalty These traits/values are from my school notes and books. These traits are the ones that should be applied always in our daily living. We should encourage our self and others to not forget these traits because making them remember is a way of "helping them." It is "helping them" because this will keep them from doing bad things and be honored of being a Filipino citizen. We must look for the highest prize. Let's be one of the minor and major factors that made this nation, the Philippines to be restored and be one of the richest nation in the world again!