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Speed Seduction Technical Manual
A structured, linear approach to the full understanding and use of Speed Seduction, and related technologies in influence and persuasion.
Transcript / Workbook
Speed Seduction® is a registered trademark of Ross Jeffries, used with permission.
Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual
Table of Contents
Page No. Title Page Legal Notices Table of Contents Product Content Formatting and Conventions Acknowledgements Foreword Registration 1.0 1.1 1.2 2.0 2.1 2.2 2.3 2.4 2.5 2.6 3.0 3.1 3.2 3.3 3.4 3.5 3.6 3.7 3.8 4.0 4.1 4.2 4.3 4.4 4.5 Introduction and Welcome This Technical Manual Why a Model? The Structure of the Mind The Conscious Mind The Subconscious Mind The Subconscious Mind (continued) Linguistics and Hypnotic Techniques Rapport and Congruency Your Subconscious Her Subconscious The Tools and Resources Hierarchy Overview Tools Hierarchy Level 1 Tools Hierarchy Level 2 Tools Hierarchy Level 3 Tools Hierarchy Level 3 (continued) Tools Hierarchy Level 4 Tools Hierarchy Level 5 Tools Hierarchy Level 6 Tools Hierarchy Review and Application The Process Process Overview Process Step 0 Process Step 1 Process Step 2 Process Step 3 i ii iii v vi vii viii x 1 3 6 11 13 18 23 28 31 34 37 43 43 43 48 57 64 66 70 72 73 81 81 83 96 103 112 Disk and Track No.* — — — — — — — — D1-T1 D1-T4 D1-T8 D1-T18 D1-T24 D1-T29 D2-T1 D2-T11 D2-T20 D2-T30 D2-T35 D3-T1 D3-T2 D3-T3 D3-T9 D3-T31 D4-T1 D4-T4 D4-T11 D4-T13 D4-T16 D5-T1 D5-T2 D5-T8 D5-T26 D6-T1 D6-T18
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Page No, 4.6 4.7 4.8 5.0 6.0 Process Step 4 Process Flow and Examples Process Application and Summary Technical Manual Summary Student Questions and Answers 123 129 139 143 145 Disk and Track No.* D7-T1 D7-T12 D7-T29 D7-T34 D8-T1
* Disk and Track Numbers In this workbook, references to the CDs and the tracks on them are shown in a format such as "D2-T4", which in this example refers to Disk 2, Track 4.
Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual
The majority of this product is based upon a series of audio lectures that are on the CDs that are included. The bulk of the written text here is made up of a transcript of those lectures. The text in this book will also include notes, definitions, instructions and graphics which are not on the CDs. Some of these items may be referred to on the CD audio, others may not—this is by design. It's also another reason why each, the audio and the full workbook, have value on their own (and also compliment one another). In order to best present the text in this transcript/workbook, and allow for the student to follow along, certain conventions had to be developed. These will allow you to understand the different types of text, and how the text is best read and interpreted. Be sure to review the "Formatting and Conventions" section for a description. To make a full, direct transcript of audio lectures is a monumental task. There is MUCH room for interpretation in terms of punctuation, sentence and paragraph structure, etc. In spoken lectures, there is a LOT of meaning conveyed by the speaker in terms of emphasizing words, pausing, and vocal inflection. On this product a great deal of effort has been taken to create the transcript and to do a reasonably good job of conveying those qualities and aspects of a "vocal" delivery, in written form. There may be some slight errors or omissions, and some aspects of the grammar and the punctuation may not be formally "correct" in the most strict interpretation of English grammar and punctuation rules, but it is effective in conveying the meaning as intended. If there are any extreme errors or omissions, please to go www.daveriker.com and contact Dave Riker directly. Please provide concise yet full details of what you found and these changes may be incorporated into a revised version of the product at some future date.
Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual
Formatting and Conventions
The following formatting styles and conventions have been developed and are used throughout this transcript/workbook. This book combines "transcript" text (which shows, in written form, what is presented in the lectures on the CDs) and "workbook" text and content (which is ONLY here in the workbook). In order to allow the reader to; have a better understanding of the materials, follow along with the recorded lectures, and also gain value from the workbook by itself, the following fonts, styles, formatting, and punctuation is used.
Text in this typeface (Times New Roman, a "serif typeface) indicates text that is a part of the transcript, and represents what is being said on the CD audio.
Text in this typeface (Arial, which is a "sans-serif typeface) is unique to the transcript/workbook, and is not mentioned directly on the CDs. Italics is used to emphasize certain items. It may be used to place added importance on a word or phrase. It may also be used to covey when an obvious section of "pattern language" is shown ...so that you are now able to recognize the way in which you mysteriously begin to understand this more now (as an example). It is also used (very commonly) to show a degree of vocal emphasis so that the text more closely conveys the intended meaning of what was said in the audio lecture. Boldface text is used whenever key words or terminology is used. Many times in this text we make reference to specific terms and words like patterns, and we may mention the concept of being able to capture and lead the imagination (those are some examples) and in cases such as that, boldface type may be used to point out that this is a section where those specific terms and concepts are being discussed. Boldface type is also used for section titles as well. The long dash "—", is used to indicate breaks or pauses in the text—mostly they are used in the transcript portion in an attempt to somehow better convey the phrasing and pausing of the lecture. The ellipses "...", is used to indicate breaks or pauses in the text—mostly they are used in the transcript portion in an attempt to somehow better convey the phrasing and pausing of the lecture. The ellipses is used when something on either side of the ellipses ends up being a sentence fragment, or just a part of a sentence (and sometimes just a word or two). CD Location Reference is shown by terms such as "D3-T5" in the text. This shows (for example) the Disk (3) and the Track number (5) that corresponds to that part of the transcript.
Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual
The first and foremost acknowledgement goes out to Ross Jeffries himself, the creator of Speed Seduction®. Ross's developments have lead not only to helping many men with this part of their lives, but have also shown men the way to a new way of living, opening the door for many into the world of self improvement. To Dr. Yates Canipe, who has been the business genius that allowed Speed Seduction® to be brought to the masses through seminars and products, and who has also contributed greatly to helping men change their minds about themselves, and what is possible in their lives. To the many many experts out there who have augmented the SS teachings by showing me other aspects of the mind, and have opened the door for me to find many ways of self-improvement and understanding, most notably Hypnotica, EVS, SP, MC, and MD. To those in the local SD Lair group, who helped me by allowing me to help them, and for the assistance they provided with this product. To my coaching clients, who have placed their trust in me and allowed me the experience of showing them new and wonderful possibilities for what their lives may have to offer. Special thanks to my friends, colleagues, confidants, associates, mentors, teachers, and students (we are each all of these and more) in the TAGR Group, EK, JL, DM, SD. ... and to all of the Students out there who I have met at Speed Seduction® seminars, those who have read what I have written, and those who have entrusted me to teach you and to guide you, and to help you in finding the Women or Woman of Your Dreams. To all of you, Thank you, Dave Riker
with a very important part of their lives. This is so sad. there are a lot of wonderful women out there who would love to meet interesting men. Whether that be as friends or acquaintances. There are many such men out there. teachings. are the ones that really DO look at this area of their lives. and sharing experiences with them.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Forward Why am in doing such a thing as creating this product? Why am I taking the time and effort to bring this information to you? Because I really feel that I will be able to help many people. who was simply deprived of an means to "learn about" how to meet and talk with women. having and sharing experiences with. should somehow not improve himself. and grow. for some reason seem to be in short supply. Such men. and in many cases the efforts of men to solve this problem on their own have been met by small-minded criticism and slander. One of the biggest tragedies of life is that there are things. or don't know how to present themselves in the best way. to improve this area of his life. good-natured and well-intentioned man. there are a lot of great men out there who would like to meet interesting women. charming men. As if the interesting. whether this time has any sort of romantic or seductive component or not. Good. I think that is not correct. women. I think that many men. It's for these men. And I am here to help correct it. both men and women. So. spending time with them. Page vii . information. other people. And. (and more importantly a LACK of information in some cases) that can prevent such connections and moments from happening. And it's a shame for these women to be wanting for their company. interesting. One of the most wonderful things about life is the idea of connecting with others. the idea of simply communicating with and sharing experiences with the other half of the human population. that I create products such as this. some of the most wonderful moments of life are brought about by people. They just have not been taught such things. are NOT in short supply. the best men. or with that special woman of which they have always dreamed. Sadly this is most apparent when it comes to men. in fact. intelligent. They are the ones that really don't know how to introduce themselves. learn. and decide to move forward. I know of many women who are always distraught that they seem to not be able to meet good men. so that they really may share wonderful experiences of ALL types with women. and for those women. and set forth upon a path. take action. Many men through no fault of their own have grown up to be adults and have had little instruction or assistance in a very important area of their lives. They don't know how to keep a woman's interest.
Study. most women will be far better off and have much better chances with the kind of men. Having many interesting men available. or whether a man uses this information as a means to improve his chances of finding one special woman. and women. to make an informed choice. she should decide to be with whom she wants to be with by having opportunities. as well. helps to provide these women with an even better choice. Apply. He will be able to decide for himself which he feels is the best option for him. the benefits are meant to be for both men and women alike. or "compromise". somewhat happier and able to enjoy their lives even more than before. Dave Riker Page viii . of your dreams. that they will want to spend time with as well. Have fun. Learn. So guys . even though this product is intended to be read. And good luck in finding The Women.. or the kind of man. From that position. A woman should never "settle". understood. my goal and my hope is that this product will make men. The women of the world will be better off in their own way. So in my own way. is up to him.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Whether a man decides to use this information as way to embark upon a period of his life which involves casual romantic interludes. read.. or Woman. At least then he will be in a position of choice. Get out there. and showing themselves in the best and most honest light. and applied by men. So. and introducing themselves. and options.
learned. When in use. This Technical Manual is the result. and certain "types" of people. The transcript starts below. 0 Introduction and Welcome Welcome to the Speed Seduction® Technical Manual. The nature of the information does not lend itself to such a structure easily. One set of phenomena that has been observed by myself over the past several years. They really are able to just "create" spontaneously. Some disciplines and areas of study do not really lend themselves to using them in a structured way. The main goal of this product is to provide a good all-around set of teachings about Speed Seduction® and to do this in a way that lays it all out according to a series of models and processes. If that material is categorized however. So even if we do not want people to think about using complex materials in a structured way. As you go through the workbook and the lectures. including those from the Speed Seduction® catalog.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual 1. and placed into a structure which is geared to learning and assimilation. then it tends to me more completely and deeply assimilated. Those who are used to structured explanations and teachings will see that the main structure being built is NOT one on paper. This manual is made up of this transcript/workbook and a series of audio lectures (which have been fully transcribed in the transcript/workbook). However to that musician. This product is very different from most products you have seen before. known. the notes. and attempts for people to use information and teachings in that manner tend to not work. but in the mind of the student.. not so much on paper. simply grab the first CD in the set that came with the product. The details of what may be happening. deals with teaching and learning in a structured manner. the process of learning how to do that was different.. in-the-moment. ". sometimes there is a benefit to teaching it and understanding it in a structured way. its more being built in their own mind. the phrases. To follow along. "do". They can improvise. That's not very effective. However it has been recognized that for many people. the pauses.. it's not as if the person can be thinking " I am on level 3 of the tool set and at step 2 option 3. Now as fluid and as amazing as such things are when you see (and hear) the expert do them. such a structured approach will allow them to more fully grasp the teachings. And that is the key. It tends to help the information get into someone's head. it is something that he can just. The method here is to develop and use structured ways of collecting and categorizing the material to help to get this material (and there is a lot of material here to get) into your mind. and used.. however. Once its there. you will see that the method here is to develop a structure for all of this info. its almost as if the structure does not matter as much! Think of it this way. For a certain number of people. this all may be very complex. It still required that the bits and pieces of what he is Page 1 . Skilled jazz musicians can become so good that they can just "play". this HAS been accomplished. the process of learning some large set of material can be a bit overwhelming.. and go ahead and listen.
But I'll tell you what. and in such a way. so much.. and using. let's move onto the Lectures.. . I'm really pleased to be able to put this together because this represents the summation of a lot of work I've been doing over years in this subject and a lot of other subjects about the mind and how to influence people. this will allow them to get this material to such a degree. However once there. My belief is that this product is really going to the help a lot of the guys out there to understand and really use—really know—the materials that are part of Speed Seduction®. This is it. it's just a part of who he is. Well they want it put together and explained to them in a different way that's maybe going to help them.. Maybe you've seen Ross and/or myself teach live at a Speed Seduction® seminar over one of the weekends. so intuitively. is the sort of learning and understanding that I'm going to convey to you in this product. that you're going to get so good at this stuff. really learning what's discussed in here. From what I have seen and from what I have learned. They were all taught and delivered into his mind (both parts of it) in a structured way. Scales. be broken down and taught to him in a very structured manner. that you just get it so that you know what you know what to do automatically and these tools become a part of who you are. that more and more these technologies will become a part of who you are. so intuitively. Maybe you have your own copy of the basic home study course or some of the advanced courses. that he can just play. Page 2 . you like to know how one thing fits into the next. that's its going to be like a whole new life for you. he now knows it so well. Well a big part of that. and presents them to you in such a structured way. and become more and more something that you just. how it works. I'm going to lay it all out for you. is that after getting through this product. You know there is such a wealth of information and this is really a vast subject. sometimes it seems kind of overwhelming. or you're just the sort person that. Let's get started. So even though that Jazz musician spent time studying theory and details. And. there are many people that. for them. it's now something he just does. Step by step. my hope. a technical professional. There's a lot of info—it's all over the place.. He does not think about it. D1-T3 A lot of you out there already have some Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction® products. So what you are about to embark upon is a full and comprehensive set of teachings that will take the main aspects of what makes up this technology. Keys. and it was all broken down to him in a structured way. Dl-Tl Hi. Speed Seduction® is an incredible set of technologies and my belief. the Technical Manual. what maybe you're a structured person. For guys like that this product's for you. Now. do. really doing exercises and making this a part of you. You know. I'm really excited about this. you like to have things put before you in a certain order . how the mind works.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual doing. But you know no matter how much information is out there some people still want or need more. Chords. Bit by bit. all the bits and pieces.. and taught in a structured way. Timing. You want to learn it so well. These technical details and aspects were all taught in their own time and in their own ways. you know I'm really excited about this product and I'm excited for you. Rhythm. D1-T2 I'm excited because I remember what it was like I first started to learn this stuff. I'm Dave Riker..
And you know what's interesting. The next area I want to talk about is the structure of the mind. how they're doing and what you could do affect that. is that. There's a lot of ways we're going to facilitate that and make that happen. That's right. I want you really get this information and have become a part of you. Then we're going to discuss. I'm going to ask you to study and listen to it in certain ways. your ability to use this material and put into practice out the field is going to improve a lot. It's pretty important and you'll understand why a little later on. I'm going to ask you do certain things in this product. step two. But you know what? Page 3 . and so forth. why do we need to have a structure. why we need to do this. in this context.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual 1. I've sort of set this fourth as a series of steps. There are so many tools and so many things that make up the subject area its incredible. I what to sit down and actually give you some instructions about how I want you to get through this product and how I what you to best study it and use the information in it. Step one. when I ask you listen to something over and over. First. Once you understand each and every one of them and you see how they fit together. and how is that going to help. much better why a person's doing what they're doing. so that you could really get a sense of where person's at. obviously. The next area I want to talk about is. what you have to work on in order to get better.1 This Technical Manual D1-T4 I want to step back and take a moment to summarize what we're going to talk about and what this product is made up of. the Speed Seduction® process. Why is that needed. That's right. the process itself. work with it. why do we need to have a flowchart or to put things in the hierarchy or anything like that. the mind of a female of course that you're interested in. The next area we're going to talk about are the tools and resources that are part of Speed Seduction®. Yeah. what you need do next to get the kind of results that you're looking for. and a good way to help you understand the material even further. the human mind itself. you might think "jeez Dave. Then we're going to have some interesting review and question-and-answer sessions—going to try different approach to that—I think you're going to find it really interesting. Why? Because my goal is to not just have this be an intellectual understanding. why I'm asking you to do those things. Once you get the understanding about the human mind that's going to be conveyed this product. and experience it in the correct way. D1-T5 One of the first things I want to do this product is really sit down and talk to you about the product itself and how important I think it is that you listen to it. There are several major parts. you're going to understand even more so. and specifically in this case. We're going to talk about the structure of the mind and how you could really develop an understanding of it so that you're going to know. I've already heard it three or four times I don't need to listen to it again".
and the kind of understanding we're looking for. I would recommend you do that. like I said at least one of the first few times. You know. and also the transcript workbook. Now. it's essential that you have all of these parts. are written out in a transcript in your transcript workbook. your conscious and your subconscious mind.. and follow along.. you're really going to understand why I would ask you to listen to something several times. I'm going to sit down sometimes in here and tell you "look. different parts of your brain in the learning process. Sit down with the transcript in front of you. So follow along. when you go through all of the audio. to really sit down and focus on what's going on. So you need to sit down and write in the workbook when I tell you to write down things. But definitely do that a couple of times. Sit down.. but you know. I'm sitting down I'm going through a lot of material. with nothing else going on. obviously. at least one of the first times. Maybe listen to one CD or tape a day.. what I want you to do is either for the first time that you listen to this. and that's the key. Well. and this is very important. That's right. do it with the workbook. and stop it grab the book that you've got in front of you and write down what I told you to write down. Seriously. where there's sort of a graphical representation of the information.. D1-T6 Now. you need to do the exercises.. And I'll explain that in a minute. and the parts of your mind that we really want to affect.. Page 4 .Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Once you understand how the human mind works. don 7 let anything else distract you. is during the first time. and sit down with the workbook.. Don't have anything else going on. or at least one of the first several times.. and passive listening at different times. what's also important.. it's very important. Make the notes where I tell you to make the notes. Well. OK? Hopefully do some active. That's the active listing part. I want you listen to this.. I want you to do that in a so-called "active listening mode". Now. It's very important. Turn off the phone if you have to.. Why? Because I want you to actively be a part of it. I could have put in fancy graphics and built those for you . " It's very important that you do that. That's right. OK? By the time you're done you're going to be adding stuff all over the pages. with the book in front of you. You must stop the CD now. OK? But the key part that I am telling you to do is that there are specific areas. with the transcript in front of you. I want to make sure that you are part of the construction process.. And what I mean by that is. and laying it out for you piece by piece.. or at least one of the first times.. So what are we talking about here? What is this product made up of? Well. That's a part of the package that you have. sit down. that you are actively engaged in the process of learning.. Now... It's very important because we want to engage different parts of your mind. you need to stop the tape. and actively listen. you must do the exercises.. again the audio. the main part of it is a series of audio lectures from myself. I want your whole mind. probably the way most people think about listening to a product like this.. the audio lectures are included but you're also going to get a transcript and workbook as well. I want you to sit down with that transcript.. I'm talking and the words I'm saying right now. I want to make sure that you to sit down and actively listen and follow along in the workbook. Pay attention to what's being said.
You know. I wanted that information embedded in me. follow along with the transcript listen to it actively at least. it's almost like you're just bathing yourself in this stuff. You can start to magically and mysteriously come up with words and wonderful ways of describing stuff. write the stuff down. for lack of a better word. and literally listened to maybe an 18 cassette set of tapes. Look a lot of you have heard stories about the fact that I've taken tape sets that I've wanted to learn. 10. Write the stuff down when I ask you to do it. I want the understanding and the real grasp of this that's going to allow you to use this in the real world. you 're just going to naturally.. get into that passive listening mode. So remember to follow along in the book. really. these first few times is active listening. the best students I know that listen to new material like this. That's what I want to have you do. I'm not only giving you an intellectual understanding of this. listened to it over and over and over again. you know. Just play this in the background. two dozen times all the way through. then "schedule" time for this as you would any important studying or task that matters to you in your life! With the CDs playing. there's a lot of stuff going on in this. all the way through. Look. I want you to listen to it so much that you can just start to sound this way. That's right. and also.. the more you listen to me do it. Now. Many times. and I want you to do the passive listening too. I'm giving you a deep understanding that's going to become a part of who you are. Why? Because it wasn't just that I was looking for an intellectual understanding. There is a couple of layers were I'm working here guys. but that's key. again. OK? Trust me. I wanted a situation where I was able to just find myself speaking in the way that the speaker was speaking. I'm also addressing your subconscious mind. Active — Do this at least one time all the way through the product. And the more you find yourself listening to this material. that's your best chance. 12 times. Again. following along in the workbook. It does get easier that way. So that the words just naturally flowed and became a part of who I am. of having the success that I know you can have. and listened to the whole series two dozen times.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Make sure that you do that at least. then stop the CD at the appropriate time.. Well. the easier it is for you to do it. So again. I would love to hear from some of you guys that have listened to this entire set of CDs or tapes. or instructions in the workbook. it's very important that you do this. You see where I'm getting at with this guys? See. Sit down with the workbook. Read along as the words are being said. The Ways To Study And Listen To This Product. D1-T7 Then after that. you have set aside a time and a location that will keep interruptions to a minimum.. You have your full attention on what is going on. If there is text. I want to get into passive listening. OK? Sit down. exercises. one of the first several times that you listen to it. easily and comfortably be able to speak in this fashion. do the active listening. Do the exercises. I keep focusing on that. and then DO what the workbook says! Page 5 . I wanted it to be a part of me. that you follow along in the way that I've asked you to. That's right. If you are busy.
work. clean. I knew where to put the different things.. that there were other guys that maybe had the same challenge. I also saw where to use the techniques. exercise.. whenever I got new information.. I could assess how important it was. it was so much easier to learn new techniques. because I saw how it fit into existing techniques. and however is possible for you and your life. As you learn more in the product... Passive — Do this as many times as you can! You basically just "play the CDs" as you live. This series that I'm doing is based upon a presentation that I've given in Speed Seduction® seminars over the past few years. and one step led to another step and another step. whatever! As much as you can. I sort of knew where it fit.. linguistics and things like that for years. and over. you will understand why and how that works. I really got it.. I mean. let me back up. (like the laundry. how it might be better than other techniques or not as good as some. and concepts will become even more of a part of who you are. Why do we need a model? Why do we need a structure like this? Well... and the other information that I already had. Then I got it. this goes in the garage. 2 Why a Model? D1-T8 In this section. ) your subconscious will be listening and learning. When I finally worked with this information enough and figured out a way to really organize it all. this goes in the kitchen. and over again! 1. It's almost as if I had built myself a house with a set of rooms in it and now that I had one room for one area and one room for another type of thing to store. because my understanding was there. but there seemed to be so many many many bits and pieces of information and data that I couldn't make sense of it. I'd been studying the mind. and I remember when I first started to get into this and get into Speed Seduction®. I want to address. And I'll tell you what guys. that sort of thing. etc.. Even if you are "occupied" by doing something. OK? Oh. I could learn that in light of the other techniques. I wish somebody had done this for me years ago. cleaning the house. there's so much information. riding a bike.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual All of this helps to fully engage your conscious and subconscious in the process of learning. Just make sure the neighbors don't start to "wonder" about you by hearing you listening to these over. really went through the roof. I remember when I first got into this. You can do this wherever. Once I sort of had this categorization down. And my ability to use this in the field and in different areas of my life. Because what happened was with that structure within my brain. Your mind will take this all "in" and these words. But I found out more and more. Page 6 . When I was able to do that then it really started to make sense for me. See. there's so much stuff. just play them over and over. When I learned of the new technique. I mean some people are able to. I realized it's a tremendous wealth of material. this goes in the bedroom. whenever.. thoughts. and mind sciences. maybe this was something that was unique to me. like put a structure on the information and get a real understanding of where one thing built upon another and built upon another.
It's not just something that you look at and observe. because I want it to be overall frameworks for you. No one thinks that way in the real world.. They're having their own responses. Trust me. is that I've come up with some graphical representations of this. and I need to go here. there are some limits to this stuff..... you're able to use the model to look at behavior and look at actions in the real world and the model explains how and why those actions are taking place. getting into your subconscious. ".. D1-T10 One of the reasons I have you write this stuff down and fill in the graphics. We purposely didn't make them real fancy... You've got to understand. and have a much better understanding as to why things have taken place... That's what happens in experiments.. Where you can have one thing is sort of above something else. and be talking to someone and say "well okay. and it has different responses. That's been a key of science. and things like that. and if you have a good model.. It's also one of the things we're going to talk about here. sometimes we need a little bit of a structured fashion in order to do that. well look at science. But it's not like you're going to go out into the field. There is a random factor here guys that you're never going to Page 7 . and it's not. and it's intuitively a part of who you are. that's coming up in the workbook.. It doesn't really work that way. There are so many things to consider that we can't possibly predict with absolute perfection. you can predict what's going to happen.. The human mind is vast. No. Now the other thing about a model is that.. we're going to put things together in a fashion... and a model for these processes. We're talking about the human mind. and a model of the mind. ?" Look. No. what I want is an overall structure for you so. You know what guys? A lot of times their responses are not about you. They're their own person.. or one step leads to something else. Dl-Tl 1 Now when I talk about a model... think about a model from a scientific perspective. I know what a lot of guys are thinking. the models that we're going to be working with will allow you to look at behavior that's happened in the past. OK? That's why we've got this now. it doesn't work that way. I don't want that. subsection A. something that you're not sitting there talking to a female going "hmmm. again. the process of knowing what to do next is natural. If you look at a model in science. they say. and that's why we've put this together. ".. and you're also going to find out.. certain things are going on. lets see this line went there and this went. Okay? You might have an experiment that you could explain what happened.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual D1-T9 Now in the real world.. They're not going to be really complex. because it's part of your subconscious.. I mean. Okay? And a lot of those things that just didn't make sense are going to start to make sense for you. Well. Now.. The important things about models is that they allow you to predict behavior. getting it into your mind. Your going to get the reasoning for why women respond the way they do. So that if you have a certain set of conditions. you just happened to be in the area at the time. "a model? Where is she? Could she meet me at my apartment. you know where things go. it also allows you to predict what's going to happen in the future.. I'm at step number 2. But sometimes the process of getting it there. 2. because when you're there.... Now. 3 and things like that. The best kind of model is something that explains behavior that's taken place. so I... and in the transcript. I don't necessarily want you to think of this as a flowchart or something.. with step 1.
or I can use that in job interviews. Why Develop A Model. that also allows you to then alter or create things are going to happen. and some of them are just ridiculous. Well it works. you know. System". that's really key. A lot of it is just wrong. then with that kind of power and that kind of understanding your going to be actually able to alter the behavior that somebody would otherwise have. or whatever. and think that they understand how this all works. You're going to be able to create behavior in a good way. Now . is that once you know a model. To alter or create events that will happen in the future. Now.. and women have seen this too. Of The Process? • To explain and understand what has happened in the past. not just in this context. state for himself that that's a system that works. It's really funny. It just ... Okay? D1-T12 Now the third thing about model. wouldn't it? And he could probably very emphatically and very believably. And his system would simply be. and it works 100% of the time. isn't it? I mean. But this is going to be applicable. look... if you understand the mind. I have to take a few moments and address a few things here.. Like. I can use this in sales.. and some gorgeous women come up. Of The Mind. ". you're going to be sitting you're thinking. let me give you an example.. let me give you an example. To predict what will happen in the future... and that's why the real deep understanding of this stuff is going to help you. and basically you get to take your pick. That's the real power. D1-T13 You know it's funny with all of the discussion of models and things like that that were talking about.. you hang out for a while. and you can explain what's happened and predict what happened. guys. Ahhh That's the power. what people observe and what people think works is based a lot of times on who they are and their own reality. given a certain set of circumstances. working with people. "wow. Of The Tools.you know what's interesting? See. in terms of overall percentages.. we're going to get pretty good at predicting what could happen. does that sound good? Yeah. or just in general. That's what this is all about. that system would work great. I mean it's really interesting to see some of these "systems" that been created out there to help guys meet women. for him.. I mean. Thank you very much. But for the most part. See. Once you really understand how all this works. and that's what we're really looking for here with this technology. "The Mick Jagger System For Meeting Women". we're learning about this in the context of Speed Seduction®. It really amazes me to see some of these systems that people have put together. and what they're built upon. They try to explain it with these "systems". but in other contexts. You walk into a room. That's the key.. That's "The Mick Jagger. Page . and understand the tools that we have our disposal and the series of steps you want to take somebody through. because this is the Speed Seduction® Technical Manual.. D1-T14 There's a lot of guys that view interactions with men and women.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction* Technical Manual be able to pin down. D1-T15 What if somebody like Mick Jagger had a system? Yes. or somebody rich and famous... based on that reality of Mick Jagger or some movie star.
.. or some combination of all of these. you know. Or they're rich. and to really get the results that you're looking for.. You know whether you're a 50-year-old guy who has a lot of money. these other systems have all kind of special cases that are talked about. See. and complex terms that explain what they do. to really know these skills. and some of them. for them. just walk into a room and be Mick Jagger. this interesting. that works for Mick Jagger. And even.... the stuff were going to talk about in this product. And you know what. I don't know.. That guy needs an understanding of all of this and a model that's going to allow him to come up with ways where he can be his best. or 25-year-old guy who lives the middle of the Midwest.. Page 9 . what you don't know is that some of these guys that have put the systems together are maybe. where he can represent himself in the best way. What they do works—for them.. is going to give you that level of understanding. your going to have a understanding of the different component parts that you need to really be effective. That's why were putting a structure to this stuff. Who's not a movie star who's not a rock star.. once you learn this. an artist or a musician or magician or whatever. Okay? Based on their reality they might have put together a system. The average guy who's not rich and famous.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual D1-T16 See there's a lot of guys out there that have tried to put these systems together. D1-T17 So... in this technical manual.. Or they're six-foot five and great-looking.. it's going to allow you that understanding and that flexibility so that. What Mick Jagger does. and even models.. That's why were putting these models together Okay? You guys wanted a technical approach? You wanted step-by-step stuff? Well let's continue.. very good-looking.. where he has the best chances of success. with all due respect to these guys? I believe that they are right. we're going to talk about that some extent too. or maybe a foreign guy who has a thick accent. See.. Or they're young.. You're going to be able to explain all of the other systems by understanding what's in this technical manual. that's the overview. But is that going to work for the average guy out there? What about the average guy who's not very great-looking. Or they're..
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That's right we're going to get ready to have you stop the tape or so stop the CD pretty soon. linguistics and things like that. Let's face it. a lot of those things that are going on... so much has been written about this guys. That's a key part of this.. B.. We could write something that's going to take years to explain or I could do 20 CDs just on the human mind itself—That's not really going to help us here. and they just want to say.. Okay? Now. the thing about women.. 0 The Structure of The Mind D1-T18 The structure of the mind. If you've been studying different areas of the mind and different aspects of working with people.. Some of the things I'm going to discuss here are things that you've probably heard before. I mean. We are going to talk about the human mind itself. D1-T19 Before we get started on anything else there's something important. etc. . or language or linguistics or any thing like that. Now.. for this subject area. that. whatever".. One of the things I've heard from some guys is that guys say. Now. that's really going to be helpful to you in this context.. I want you to do. and C.. I know why women do that". you know.. that right now. I mean it will work with a lot of other areas in terms of influence and persuasion in general. but I think what I've been able to do as well. I really don't understand why women do this. we can kind of understand why they're going on. I'm building a lot upon some stuff that some other people have done. Or how come... I gladly pay homage to those who have put a lot of this information together. sometimes people get frustrated or exasperated. And you know. It's your first written exercise. A lot of guys just want to say. you really don't have an Page 11 . We want you to get an understanding of the mind that's so good that you can say "okay. D1-T20 To that end. and I've spent a lot of my time studying the human mind. " .Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual 2. in fact.. "whatever". I know why women do this. (god). Okay? This model and this explanation of the model are basically for this discipline. Or I really don't understand why women do. There's probably going to be some things about those studies that are going to make a lot more sense to you after you get this understanding of the mind that you're going to get over the next few moments. "you know. I want you in your workbook to write down specific things that women do. "well. that's the way women are. But you know.. or the brain.. Now there's a lot of other information that you might have learned too. there's something I need you to do. I've put a model together. Now. different mind sciences and linguistics and all the parts of Speed Seduction that have been discussed over the years. is to sort of craft an explanation of this that's truly going to work for you guys in this context.. That's right. you know this and that etc. and I think that's important. I didn't invent the mind. There's all kind of behavior that guys sit back and they don't understand why women do A. We want to do the best we can in a reasonable amount of time in this product to give you and understanding of the mind that's going to give you enough information so that you can really be effective with these skills. I understand that. one of the things we want to do is to learn enough so that a lot of those responses.
. exasperating things! Write down at least a few words here so that you list each of them! Be sure that you do this . Did you do the exercise? It's very important that you do the exercise. Okay? Page 12 . Why are women into clothes.. stop the CD. It's a key aspect of this whole system.Female Behavior Every guy knows of behaviors that they have seen. a couple of examples.. Think of the perplexing.. ) Assignment #1 . Really. ? Why are women into soaps Why fascination with celebs Why test guys h) i) j) D1-T22 Welcome back. I'm not kidding. a) b) c) d) e) f) g).Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual explanation for. and experienced with women that just do NOT seem to make sense! Take some time and write down some examples of behavior that women do. right down the things that have confused you in the past that women do. felt. or show..we will refer to this later (a few examples are shown already). okay? But.. cars.. that have not really made sense to you. etc. that you don't know why they do it. We're going to refer to that later. so you have to write it down. write down the things about women. (Note: Refer to Assignment #1 which follows in the workbook. or demonstrate. I mean . Women dig bad boys for some reason.Why do women go for bad boys? Why do women like nice shoes? I don't know what it is. What we are speaking of here is behavior that you still cannot figure out why they do it! It just does not seem to make sense! That's the kind of things we want you to note here.. confusing. Okay? D1-T21 So here you go. in terms of behavior. You have to write the stuff down. . The point here is not to think of things that you are "used" to them doing—you can get "used" to just about anything over time..
. that you've gotta go somewhere else to really deal with what's running the show? Did you ever have to say.. figures. communicating with... The conscious mind response to details. Yeah. philosophy.. and you're just not getting anywhere. See. the answer for you still is yes. that person behind the counter who is all chatty and taking up all your time.. you're doing everything you can. Did you ever get that sense that you were dealing with a person that wasn't in charge? That you've got to go to somebody else. who really doesn't the power to help you anyway. but it has its own sense of power to it. I mean. I need to speak to somebody in charge. They don't understand. What we're talking about now is the conscious mind and the subconscious mind. which is pretty big. That represents the conscious mind. The conscious mind is. You're trying to get them to understand. the conscious mind is what set the time on your schedule or calendar for you to have this hour or so to listen to this CD. you've been dealing with.. you know.. and addressing a part of the human mind that's really not in control. Or maybe it wasn't the right size. it's a triangle. and the power of the conscious mind. we don't want the graphics to be complex. When you think of things like science. maybe you need to return something. there's another area and you're going to see a big triangle on one of the pages (Refer to Assignment #2 on Page 15). We want them to show graphically some phenomena and some things that are taking place. for a lot of you. you're working and maybe you didn't get the service you wanted. I need to speak to somebody that's really making the decision. because. The conscious mind is what arranged for you to sit down and listen to this tape set today. the conscious mind is actually quite wonderful.. Maybe you're working with somebody behind the counter and you're arguing with them for 10 minutes. again. I don't know. okay? The conscious mind is the one that tends to focus on the content of things. is that chatty part of your brain that you listen to a lot of the times. The conscious mind.. It's almost like it's a waste of time. 2. and maybe had a customer service problem? I mean.. I know. but even if you didn't. but. Okay. 15 minutes. So there is a power to it and it has its own sense of power. Now what this is.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual D1-T23 Have you ever gone to a store.. You're trying to understand what they need or whatever. Okay? So. facts. Now it might not be in charge. "I need to speak your supervisor... 1 The Conscious Mind D1-T24 Now. were going to talk about the human mind now and were going to get into the fact that. The conscious mind is what made arrangements for you to buy it and balance your checkbook and do all those sort of things. things such as that—a lot of those are creations of the conscious mind. Okay. is a very crude representation of the human mind. or it wasn't the right part or something like that. you know . Okay? Page 13 . I need to know what's in control here"? Has that ever happened to you? Well guess what? Chances are you said yes.. if you look in your workbook. All right? Now. Now part of the problem.. 20 minutes and then it becomes apparent that you're arguing and you 're working with somebody. Because in a lot of respects.. It has powerful in its own sense.. and you worked with the person behind the counter. I mean. that's what a lot of people do. it's pretty basic. look at the triangle.. mathematics. The part on the top (I'm sorry) is much smaller. The conscious mind is what a lot of you guys have been focused on. things like that. See that? And the big triangle has a top part.. well. relatively small compared to the bottom part.
The Symbol As you will see and hear in the transcript text.The Structure of the Mind .Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Assignment #2 . there are many many references to the graphic shown on this page. Page 14 . Be sure to follow the instructions (throughout the transcript) and write down the various terms when told to do so.
or copy down specific points. Page 15 . a symbol which will allow you to understand and recall these learnings about how the different parts of the mind operate. Use this page to take additional notes. that will help you to remember what you believe are the most important points.Student Notes The graphic on the opposite page represents a symbol that you are to create within your mind.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual The Structure of the Mind .
then an elephant. and then a broom or. and what they've done. but it's kinda by accident. what they end up doing is they try to figure out ways to impress somebody's conscious mind. Okay? Who won't let you see the supervisor. what a lot of people do is that they make a picture of an elephant with a broom next to it. It is very important for you and your understanding. but for our purposes. Alright. "Figures". I want you to write these things down. there's a big thing that points to the top that says conscious mind.. But the conscious mind is not really in control. It happens pretty frequently. that are either in there. The conscious mind. First off. in their "date mode" if you will.. Well. or pointed to and you'll see. details. They spend all of this time. those are all the things that make up the conscious mind. OK? Content. It's like that store clerk. is they are addressing a woman's conscious mind.. I really strongly suggest that you do this. content. what they're really doing by sitting. single tasking. Aahhh. Even if I tell you. The loud store clerk. Now. Okay? The conscious mind is single tasking — it's focused on one thing at a time. figures. That's the subconscious mind. Okay? What's really in control is the subconscious mind. I mean. "Time sense". where. what I want you to do on the triangle there is..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual But look at the triangle. Think about it. There's others I know. it's the primary focus of dating. and were going to get into that difference in a moment. These are part of the conscious mind.. dating somebody over a period of weeks. So the top part is the conscious mind. Think of an elephant. "Facts". it tends to focus on the one thing at a time. those of the things we are focusing on.. if you look at the triangle there's a couple places for you to write stuff in and I want you to write it up at top part of the triangle. Okay? Now think about the conscious mind.. You have to write it down okay? "Facts"... "Details ".. Now to some extent. "Time sense". But it's important to you understand this distinction... who won't let you see the supervisor. you see. or their cars. you're going to see an area for you to make some notes on the conscious mind. the subconscious mind is different. they sit and have these conversations. and where there been.. So there's some places in that upper triangle.. Now.. the bigger part of the triangle is the part on the bottom. D1-T25 Now think about that. "Figures". all that sort of stuff.. Get all that? "Details". Think of them both at the same time. And think about it. Think of what a lot of guys try to do. then a broom.. for a lot of guys. They have these conversations where they're finding every route they can to talk about how much money they have. facts. I love this. time sense. "Content". Now what do we really mean by a "single tasking"? Well. Over on the page to the right. That's the time sense. and a broom. Page 16 .. You either think of an elephant. OK.. "Content".. Now. Also "Single Tasking" is very important. they might address the subconscious over time. you tend to one of two things. in their.
. a guy can have all the attributes in the world.. now sure.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual D1-T26 Now.. you could argue with her conscious mind until you 're blue in the face. hopefully you have a nice car. and I've got that. Okay. but I just found myself doing things I normally wouldn't do... or I didn't date him that long....... women will say.. if her subconscious does not like you. "Well. you want to dress nice. but if the subconscious is not happy she's not happy. and so fascinating. But think about it... That was so wonderful.. Think of a lot of times. there are reasons why dressing well.. That sense just wasn't there. If her subconscious has not accepted you... It's a losing battle. A lot of guys. and we'll get to that in a while because it does help the subconscious to accept you more.. Where you just know. the conscious mind stuff wasn't there. or this and that....... Page 17 . What do you think is more powerful? It's been a. or he looked good.. he had the money. You just know. " Now notice the language I'm using when I talk facts and figures..... "you know.... but on some level I just didn't feel comfortable with him.. in that case. and bathing. When talking more vague. you know. you want to bathe..... it's kinda the conscious mind type of stuff... that's really not going to get you very far with meeting and having any success with the women or woman that you want... that it's right. you said.. How many times did you heard a woman talk about.. that's subconscious mind talking.. but when it comes down to it.. "Oh. that's subconscious talk. and I've got this kind of job and you know. Or in he didn't really have the kind of job or he's not really the type that normally go for. Or I didn't know him that well.. tends to help you... but I've known you for this long. It's kinda pathetic. Hopefully you have some self-respect. you can see why a lot of guys lose the mark. we're going to get into a little more detail now about the subconscious and what makes it up and how it tends to think. that's the sort of language of the subconscious mind. What do you think is more powerful? Is this starting to make sense? D1-T27 See.. they'll have an argument with her. and I've got this. that you want to spend time with this person. about him. Okay? They do. this guy wasn't really perfect for me. ".. you could have everything that the conscious mind looks for. you know. and having a nice car. and we been going out for this long... Oh. but the subconscious mind stuff was. but with there was just something about him... but she'll say. Now again. That's what lot of you guys have to learn.. I didn't really have that sense. " Do you see that? See there.. But if you're purely focused on details and facts and figures and time sense and content. Okay? You've seen guys who fall for some woman and they go. the primary focus of dating being the conscious mind. The conscious mind has all those facts and figures and details. D1-T28 Because once a woman.
. If you look at your materials you see that big triangle once again. It's bigger. a woman in a bikini or an attractive woman.. it is "Multitasking". I mean. what tends to be in charge is the subconscious mind. OK? It's ultimately what's in control. all at the same time. D1-T30 Now. First off. there's no reason why anybody should fear maybe a needle. you've seen it. There's a lot of guys who understand that there's no reason that they should fear a pretty woman. and another pedal.. and they can't do whatever. who really can't get you the customer service that you want. Write that down. it's their subconscious mind. all of a sudden. Now. and your right Page 18 . "Multitasking". Consciously this totally make sense. the subconscious is reacting in a certain way.. There's no sense at all why they should not be able to go up and say what they want. and how it works. to really understand the mind. you have to understand. okay. or say whatever. you've heard of things like phobias. right? But of course. when you're driving a car.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual 2. 2 The Subconscious Mind D1-T29 The part that you've been focusing on is the wrong part. I need to talk to the supervisor. in terms of multitasking. we need to look at the subconscious and get a deep understanding of how it thinks. when we're talking about the subconscious mind. You could sit there. that the really like? I mean when you look at the details and facts and the figures of it. OK? What's more powerful in that situation? D1-T31 I mean. or their pulse goes up or their temperature goes up or what ever reaction they're going to have. But stick them in that situation. You've been talking to that counter clerk... There's no reason why they should physically think they're going to be harmed. you know. there's no reason to fear her. "you know what.. where their phobia button is going to be pressed and BOOM—their subconscious just goes haywire. What's more powerful in that instance? Obviously. maybe fear spiders. we're looking. Eventually. I need to talk to someone in charge". your subconscious is really doing most of the driving. Right? And you could talk to them all day long. I mean. Once you've learned how to drive a car... Think about it. and even consciously they might agree with you. Well. Think about it... If your conscious mind is saying one thing and your subconscious is saying something else—guess what's going to win? It's the subconscious mind. he starts to feel nervous. you see a big open section. and he can't put two words together and he can't even think. That's the subconscious mind.. And at the bottom of it. you're manipulating one pedal.. I mean think of common phobias that people have. D1-T32 Now. where a guy sees that pretty girl and wants to walk up to her and.. Now. it's far more powerful than the conscious mind. I'll give you a great example. I mean. what we want to look at is to really understand people. And in this context. So we're going to look at the triangle and look at the bottom of it because your going to fill some things and now. and his palms are sweaty. maybe fear going on an aircraft. what do I mean? It's able to look at many things at once and process them. you've got to learn to say. about the fact that well they shouldn't fear this or this is really not a problem. because in a lot of ways. you either have one or you know someone that's got one. isn't it? I mean.
in fact. Your subconscious. and also in a lower part. You could put in parentheses. It's able to recall stuff based on all of that too. but you might be able to recall how it felt. So the subconscious mind is extremely able to multitask and do many things at once. how things get done. all of your senses. Think about that. because it's responding to that type of vagueness.. that's a conscious mind thing. they all become associated with the event. So I want you to write down. And then again on the right hand page. what you hear. so that you don't really give them that exact idea of what is. "not content" after it. it makes a record of what you see.. A good time. if you want.. so many. where you see the triangle and you see the big base of the triangle in that area. well.. so vast. you use words just like "tremendously" and a "lot" of something. OK if you describe something with exact detail. it's going to use its own imagination to come up with interpretations of it as well. in the bottom triangle. Doesn't it? Well.. these things all become interrelated. OK? I mean. But if you describe things in a vague fashion.. again because of that process. See? it just sounds more like something your subconscious is going to work with.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual hand is doing one thing. think about it. If I say. can't you recall what was going on? When you hear that song—and it's not just "recall" what was going on in terms of what you saw. well. It can do a lot of things at once. there are some places to make notes and write stuff down. D1-T33 The subconscious mind tends to focus on process. If I say they're so much.. let's make sure you do that now. and the left hand's doing something else. "Multitasking"... When you have a situation going on. I mean. Remember in the bottom triangle.. you can make notes. it's perceiving everything at once. D1-T34 The other thing about your subconscious. The subconscious is running the show. write down "Process". Now. it's very perceptive. Maybe what you Page 19 . let's with say.. process language. Up there at the top. Okay? Now that's different from the conscious mind isn't it? Think about it. but on the left hand. You're breathing going. So it's extremely perceptive. write that down in the lower part of the triangle. It can handle multiple senses at once on the left-hand side write-down "very perceptive".. and things like that. that your really able to understand. That's very important.. And again. exact words. at more length. maybe on the right hand side write-down "multiple senses.. not necessarily content. whatever things at once. you want to write "Process" and. So it's focused on the process of getting things done. and you heard a certain song? And now when you hear that song. I want you to write a couple of specific notes like we just talked about.. but your subconscious is doing all the things at once. because it's extremely able to do multitasking is. How many times have you been at some situation where you've heard music? Maybe it was a wonderful event like a wedding reception. and it makes its own interpretation of it. Your conscious mind might be navigating. and you're looking at this mirror. and we are probably going to write down 10-12 things the bottom... what part of your mind is probably going to respond to that? The conscious mind. what you smell. It's also keeping your heart going. or someplace very special with that special girl from your past. "there's 12 of them". Down at the bottom. the emotions that were a part of it. facts and figures. or at a concert. You could be talking and it's helping to put the language together for you. it tends to respond to vagueness.. analyzed at once". Just an example. It's able to multitasking and take in all this information. we wrote down "Content". something wonderful has happened in the life. you're doing 8. 10.
.. symbols is where one thing represents another. Think of that. and as the ball of light gets larger and larger. Well. so one thing.. You'll find that some people have symbols that they have associated with things.. can easily be associated to another. you equate a symbol to Page 20 . because you're listening. There are symbols that you can do with your hand that tend to mean a certain thing to certain people.. (It's also one of the reasons why anchoring works.... Now think about that. What are you doing? You are writing stuff down. Or sometimes. Like I can make a symbol. Certain initials. Does that sound like that might make sense to you? Did you ever these demonstrations where somebody talks about. That's a symbol of—you know a little teddy bear or something—that symbolizes an aspect of their childhood. your perceiving it on multiple levels. a structure or a series of things I want you to think about in your mind. it can do a lot of things at once. or an idea. let's say somebody has a symbol like a stuffed animal in their home. and it perceives on all of these senses at once and they're all tied together. So people also create symbols in their lives so that one thing symbolizes another. We just talked about the fact that the subconscious is perceiving many things at once. maybe what you felt at the time.. OK? It's a triangle. Does this make sense? You see why I have you doing this? D1-T36 OK.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual smelled.. OK. What if you are able to talk to somebody about a certain feeling or whatever. a menorah means a certain thing to certain people.. become symbols that mean a certain thing to certain people. maybe a ball of light and. Now you may want to make some notes in the right hand side about this but remember. We're obviously associating a triangle with the conscious and subconscious. and were able to associate that with a symbol.. you might have a certain type of person become a symbol to you. You're going through the process of writing. and it tends to be a little bit vague. the interesting thing is when you associate a feeling. You might become a symbol of a certain way of thinking to your friends. You're engaging different things. OK? It's not that there's anything magical about a triangle guys. You think of a symbol like. like a graphical symbol. emotionally and physically? This is all interrelated. That triangle will become a symbol for you of the relative power of the conscious and subconscious minds. you are reading along in the transcript. It's multitasking. one part's smaller one part's bigger. The subconscious uses symbols. OK. and subconscious is more powerful. like a wedding ring.. but we'll get to that in a little while.. ) D1-T35 Another way that your subconscious works the way it tends to think—write this down on the left-hand side—"Symbols". the subconscious is less powerful (I'm sorry) the conscious mind is less powerful. because it's extremely perceptive. It's a symbol.. the bottom of it's large.. getting bigger and stronger and brighter and they feel warmer! Because again. that's going to... and the top of it's small. the triangle that you 're working with there. then you manipulate the feeling.. Symbols. imagine the ball of light represents warmth. you can associate one thing with another. one thing becomes associated with something else.. It's a symbol that you're using to understand a concept.. What you can also do is maybe create a symbol that represents something in someone's mind.. So when you have a symbol. huh? See. maybe indicate to you.. with a symbol. so the thing about symbols is. Interesting. you're flipping through the pages and writing things down. the cross means a certain thing to certain people. you just took the feeling of warmth and symbolized that with a ball of light! And you tell the person to imagine the ball of light. what you can do is if you have the symbol in front of you if you manipulate the symbol. Your multitasking. Like for example.. OK? Once we fill that in by having you write down the different words that I'm having you write down..
and there are things that sometimes will work against us. If that's not going to work in your favor then.. you manipulate the symbol. then you manipulate the feeling. We've heard discussions of these in Speed Seduction® materials all throughout the years. So again. A lot of you guys need to watch that. She knows that she's in control. hello???.. oh god you're just so overwhelmed by the way she looks.. These are Role structures that the subconscious is very well aware of. But Roles. If you go up there and you're like—I love the guys that—the smart guys who might know something technical —it always amazes me how older guys think they're going to impress younger women by teaching them stuff. and that's the way the subconscious tends to work. Does that sound like something you might be able to use? Does that sound like something that you've heard about in other materials? Yeah. that's a role too and it's not going to work in your favor. See how this all interrelates? It's there for reason. So. and you're playing the role of the pursuee (I'm sorry) the pursuer. the hunted and the hunter. D1-T37 Now. but you've got to understand that when you walk up and you start becoming "the teacher". Now there's other Role structures that. These Role structures are there and they are very much understood by the subconscious. I'll bet it does. if she recognizes that role. well. There are things you might want to be aware of. Now if that's going to work in your favor fine. They can feel it.. What about the role of the shy person? You think she's familiar with that? Did you ever walk up to someone and walk into that role of maybe being the shy person? Yeah now. Her subconscious understands that.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual feeling. They see it a mile away. If you make it too obvious that you're pursuing someone—they know that you're coming after them. again. then they start becoming "the student".. these structures are there in the subconscious. so that when you walk up to an attractive woman. Roles. write down "Roles". see how this all interrelates? When I talked about symbols.. and the next aspect of our subconscious that we want to do with is Roles. They can sense it. I described to you how vagueness works into that. and she falls right into the role. People fall right into that and they understand how that works. I just described to you how I want you write in the book.. She knows that she is the thing of value. in that box in the lower part of the triangle. That's why we have you doing all this stuff. she understands that she is the pursuee. and look at the transcript.. Roles.. and you fall into that role. like the pursue-ee and the pursuer. But I digress. You may want to make some notes on the right hand page about this. That's why I had an instruction part of this product for you. D1-T38 Let's move on to the next thing. Now.. don't go up to somebody and start being a teacher! Alright? D1-T39 Now. How. I mean R-O-L-E-S.. OK. How multitasking.. that's a role structure guys. . Page 21 . All right? That's why some of you guys that make it really obvious that you're trying to pick up somebody. you're talking about the process of how you move that symbol. the subconscious understands Roles because roles are part of who we are even in an animalistic sense. and look at the symbol. What about the role of somebody who is intimidated? Yeah. Think about it. It's in their subconscious. the interesting thing i s . a woman that is extremely attractive. The teacher and student. that might not work to your favor. and you walk up and like. .. she knows that she is being pursued. very important. she knows what you're doing.. that's where that comes from... you can.
well. you're playing the role the geek. it's not necessarily the clothes. So. Like you know a guy who hasn't met a woman in ages. if you're not. It's looking for symbols that tend to associate you with the role of the shy or intimidated or desperate person. if you're trying to take on a role that really is not you. and were going to talk about that more in the future. OK? If you try to walk up and be Mr. Those are also Roles. guys worry about clothes and things like that. she's going to respond to you in that role! OK.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Or the role of somebody that's desperate. that triangle. She's perceiving things on multiple levels. It's not looking at a. you're clothes symbolize a geek. just to touch this a little bit. she is going to know. yet. Write that down. it isn't looking at her watch. but it doesn't have a time since in terms of one-week. the subconscious of a woman might not care if you've gone out with a woman for three months. very quickly. the subconscious is aware of time. OK.. or the suave guy? Or the James Bond guy? OK? Those are Roles too. let me stop for second. two weeks. Again. or the charming guy.. Now. no time sense. or he's been studying stuff.. What symbol. you now represent. OK. that's where what you put in short descriptors that describe the subconscious. process (not content). and now he hasn't talked to woman in six months and. "no time sense". what Roles you've taken on. Now.. roles. if you're going to walk up and be in a certain role. Things like that. Things like multitasking. very perceptive. It's able to multitask and view things in the a lot of different ways. she's going to perceive that to. Joe Pimp. "no time sense". Write that down in that big triangle on the left.. It's looking for safety. That lower triangle. Or how much or how many perceptions. OK? Very important. and that's not really who you are. But the subconscious does get a sense of how comfortable she is with you.. and she will respond appropriately. So if you walk up. A lot of these guys want to dress up in certain types of outfits. she is going to know it. the clothes might have an effect. Well. Page 22 .. I mean. security comfort (we'll get to those in a moment). There might be some symbols that are acquainted with those Roles. That's what a lot of guys are not aware of. Well. the subconscious is extremely perceptive. there is no time sense. or how many experiences she has had with you.. you know. The subconscious isn't looking at the calendar. Now she's also perceiving things on multiple levels. but it tends to be aware of time as a series of events. If you walk up and you're dress like a geek. But the Roles can work in your favor. That's how this works. What about other Roles that might work in your favor? What about the role of being the interesting guy? The role of being the adventurous guy. is that in the subconscious. D1-T41 Now this is where we get into. symbols. and he's desperate and this has got to work. But you know. that her and her subconscious are going to recognize. So a lot of these guys that just try to take on a persona like a "I'm just going to be the Seducer Man". god this really has to work for him! Yeah. D1-T42 I also want to talk about something else in the subconscious.. a date book. what role does that convey to a woman. That's a role too. she's going to perceive that too. she's had. again.. and you're not able to really act in that role. there are clothes that tend to symbolize that. because remember she is extremely perceptive. with you or shared with you. You can take on those Roles as well. Meaning. a lot of senses are taking in information at once. But it's not looking at the clock. Well. Because again. D1-T40 Now the subconscious recognizes these roles and senses them. So watch out for that.
how much more less something is how similar or different it is. Security. .. See? Similarities and differences. Or you can just imagine it getting better and better. " Similarities and differences. and it's not about the weeks or months on the calendar.. You know.. if you really Page 23 . D2-T1 The subconscious tends to also work in a relative fashion. do whatever you have to do to remember that. you like this person almost as if you have known him for 7 1/2 weeks". . it's looking out for the "Safety. OK? Hopefully that makes sense. that just sees how much more comfortable and how much better. What do I mean by that? Well "relative" in terms of similarities and differences.. That's one thing. It's a relative way of judging things. There's more of something. So. Now again this contrasts with the conscious mind. and another is "Safety. " Again talking about similarities and differences. safety and security might for some people mean sitting on the couch or.. is it less or more. but the bottom line is that it's there to make the person safe and secure. There's a part of you. .. you are able to relate this person than anyone else. And that is. that there's a part that's just. what part of you just knows? What part of you doesn't have a sense of time? What part are we talking about? What part do we really want to work with here guys? The part that's in charge. Effort. Security. Now let's start off with the most important. D2-T2 I wanted to spend time on a couple of extremely important aspects of the subconscious mind.. the safest thing for you to do today is exactly what you did yesterday. Engagement". the conscious mind tends to look at the facts or figures. the relative fashion.. that just knows.. as long as it was safe. or someone is right? Well.. D2-T3 Now. the subconscious mind! OK? No time sense.. The subconscious is ultimately looking to protect the person to assure and enhance the person's safe and secure. and more important than anything else. No instead. looking at one thing. Survival". is able to make a decision because you just know that something.. . I can imagine guys trying to talk like that. Survival" of the individual. so somewhere in that triangle... Another is "Energy.. This is probably the most important job of the subconscious mind. write-down "Similarities and Differences. Make some notes. To the subconscious... So there are three aspects and they're extremely important. have you ever heard language that says things l i k e . this can manifest itself in a lot of different ways. because the conscious mind is looking for details. versus another. the thing is the subconscious has its own way of looking at safety and security. and it makes a relative assessment of one thing versus another. One is "Social Instinct". facts and figures. "You know there is a part of you. The subconscious minds tends to 1 him look at. 19 or 20". you use language like. where they're going to represent something important to you.. These are kind of more basic. You don't say "well. So you may want to write that down in the triangle on the left-hand side. But it's about knowing for yourself now. I want you to place these following three concepts. That's important because that works with the vague languaging that we are talking about. comparing and contrasting.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual D1-T43 That's w h y .. Now. that doesn't respond to time.. The subconscious is just concerned about similarities and differences in things. "is something 18.. You know.
controlled risks. security. See? Safety. And what they did yesterday. after they jump off the bridge with a bungee cord. That's constantly what it is doing. and the day before might be nothing! It may be they spent all of their time playing PlayStation or sitting on the couch or seeing people that they'd like to meet. But they took a risk. and then they jump off of the bridge. if they have spent their whole life not talking to attractive women. for some people. I mean nobody just—unless they are suicidal—Nobody just jumps off of a bridge with a bungee cord and doesn't really checks to make sure it is tied! I mean. "safety.. ? If they have spent their whole life sitting on the couch. security survival" On the right side of the page make some notes. Like for some people the way to prove that there are safe and secure is to take risks—measured. their subconscious has formed an equation that the way to the safe and secure is to prove to themselves that they can go out and do something risky and then survive it. D2-T5 What else are we looking at here? What'd we just mention? Social instinct. we tend to have more of a power. That is the way for some people. because social instinct in part. the subconscious is vast and depending upon a persons life experiences. the subconscious is screaming that this is risky. and then they end up OK. they have a bungee cord.. The herd mentality.. This is thrilling. I hope you have that note on the left side "safety. the easiest thing for them to do today is what they did yesterday. That is extremely important.. security and survival is the overriding instinct and purpose of the subconscious mind. "wow I did something with some risk.. We have found that collectively. We tend to work. there is something to be said for having a "group".. This is ultimately what a woman is looking for as well in terms of their safety and security. but not walking up to them. Now you may want to make some notes about this.. Again. It wants you to be able to survive to not have any risks or any problems. or at least even in caveman times . survival" is the most important thing. ultimately. Now it's not really. because. So again. the equation of safety. security and survival has manifested itself. not taking risks in terms of their career or doing anything physical. and all of these other aspects of their life in terms of what has happened to them and how they have associated it to other things. I'm going to feel even more safe and secure down the road. Why? Because in some respects. And if they have spent their whole life. Social instinct. For a lot of people the way this manifests itself is that it doesn't want to take risks... these aspects of the subconscious can manifest itself in interesting ways. well. They tie it and make sure it is safe and relatively secure and all of that. D2-T4 Now in other people that are shy.. but to take risks.. but I still was safe. after all. OK? It's looking for safety and security. It wants you to be comfortable.. but on the left side. and the day before. because I have shown myself that I can employ a risk in my life". and you have to understand that. Page 24 .Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual have not been very social—as long if you've been able to eat and sleep and be comfortable—if your past has not been very sociable than your subconscious says the safest thing for you to do today is to just a home and play PlayStation. what ever you need to help you remember that concept. when we are able to work and operate and function as a group. Now sometimes this can manifest itself and interesting ways too. is made of social proof. It's a rush. because their subconscious is saying. We are a social animal.
So this is where social instinct and social proof comes in. her social instinct and social proof is looking at you and saying. but all of her friends as well? Well. people are looking at social proof as a way to assess other people.. OK. and to be safe and secure on some level. you know. (The conscious mind tends to think in terms of verbalized chatter by the way.. and survive. That's why the symbol of clothes tends to mean something.. You .. you will think of this. This is where you get the stuff like. what do you think your subconscious is really going to respond to? Page 25 .. there is a very strong sense of a social instinct in people. then you're comfortable enough to maybe provide.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Yes. Did you ever have these people that are like "oh. or I have that idea. but what we have found that as a group.. your conscious mind is thinking of a lot of stuff all the time. they are part of what her existence is.. (This is how all of this stuff interrelates guys. she depends upon her friends. you will have individuals that strike out and do things from an individual standpoint. "—They are just constantly running from one thing to the next. let's say you look at somebody's clothes or car. How does this help in terms of what we're talking about? Because. So because of that. That's where the social instinct and social proof comes from. I would like to try this. why some of the things go on that you have seen in the past. When you look at it in that fashion. "Wow. ) Now.. He symbolizes something that is successful.. So if you are going to try to meet her and her six friends all at once.. that... What are your friends like? What kind of job do you have? Because if you have got good friends that shows. The subconscious really pays attention to things that involve effort. Energy and Engagement". It's very important for you to consider that.. It's not necessarily that their clothes are in and of themselves a big deal. you have better be able to match the social proof requirements of the whole group. they are looking for your "measure" as a man. you will have that idea..... that social proof. they indicate a certain ability to create. energy and engagement. It's the fact that the clothes indicate a certain amount of success. / can be safe and secure around this guy. did you ever wonder why sometimes you need to "win over" not only a woman. or I have this idea. They are part of what makes her life safe and secure.. or I would like to do that. your conscious mind is going bang-zoom. Do you think women do that? Of course they do. See.. it makes a lot more sense. look.. This is important to her. And imagine this.. Because she is looking for that whole group to approve of you. D2-T6 Now there is an important aspect of the subconscious mind that I want to address. if you are comfortable enough to buy $1000 suit. if you're one of these people with an overactive mind. ) I mean. Very quickly. and this is what I said was the third major thing. OK? The conscious mind has a lot of chatter. Let's face it. let's put it this way. social instinct. the social instinct and a social proof also gets into some of the symbols as well. Make sense? That herd mentality. and it is what I call "Effort. while all of that is going on. He has the role of being a successful person (similarities and differences) he is more able to provide safety and security. we can have power that is greater than the some of its parts. also works when it comes to person's friends.. " Does that make sense? See.
I should pick this up.. Security. You know.. all of the things are going on.. I need to change my way of operating. Page 26 . even thousands of conscious mind thoughts every day.. single tasking.. energy and engagement into something. if your subconscious is really going to change. The subconscious pays attention when it sees that you are putting effort.. and see that your environment is changing. content. then your subconscious goes. so it sees all of these things going on at once. "... if you have thousands of thoughts every day. I guess this is that this is really the way it is going. time sense. I'm just not going to pay attention to the chatter. and he is working with these graphics. isn't he". this is apart of my environment now.. if your subconscious really needs to pay attention.. and engagement... he is listening to the transcript. when you walk down the street. "you know. I guess I had better change. Does this make sense? Does it make more sense now. This person is really putting energy into this. Your subconscious recognizes that there is a lot of chatter in your conscious mind.. the people that buy a product and listen to it one time—your subconscious is going "well. He is engaged in the process. I should do that. I listened it to it once.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Again. it's very perceptive. I should do that. and Survival". Again look at the other stuff that we wrote down. Again.. energy. But if your subconscious hears that you have listened to it over and over and over again. Maybe he's been shy in the past.. Those should all be written down. you can sit there and g o . Your subconscious wants to see that if there is something that is going to matter. It is perceiving on multiple levels. "wow. Big deal". Is your subconscious actively engaged in all of those? Is it driving you forth to do all of those things? Of course not. " See that is the way the subconscious works. I should go here. There is a lot of chatter going on. "That would be an interesting job. it wants to see that there is energy put into something. I need to change to go along with it..... He is really engaged in the process".. He is really putting energy into changing. this triangle and all of this stuff. that triangle.. It is multitasking. Or. " D2-T7 The subconscious is impressed by seeing effort. why I'm having you do all of the stuff? See the subconscious looks at all of the experiences of life. that was fun. . and that's what serves my safety and security and survival in the past. "You know. What is your subconscious going to respond to? What is your subconscious going to pay attention to? What is your subconscious going to really look at and go. I should travel there. it is like that talkative salesperson. "this person is writing in the book. Again what have you got up there on the conscious mind? It responds to details. what are the three biggest things that we mentioned? The first concept is the concept of" Safety. OK? It's very important that you understand that.. figures. effort and engagement in a process. facts. The subconscious of a woman pays attention when it sees energy. In the subconscious. It has all these symbols and recognizes all of these roles of all of these people walking by even on the street. But he is really putting effort into changing. All of this stuff is going on..... D2-T8 I just want to review for a moment.. and the subconscious says. .
when I talked about that guy who made her feel a certain way. D2-T9 You know. one of the things that I think is interesting to do now is to review the concept of dating.. in the subconscious. do you see the terms I am using? Do understand how this works? How the facts and figures and the details are conscious mind stuff? Think of those words that I was using. There is no time sense.. remember when I talked about that sometimes you might be dealing with that counter person at the store. what part of her mind you think is responding what I'm talking that way? Or I am Page 27 . But if you look at who they actually go for.T 1 0 . and look at their actions.... so interesting. or like that.. . those are conscious mind things. what is going to happen more and more. because women a lot of times. OK? And it's funny to me that guys will spend so much time and effort on that. The third really important concept in the subconscious is what I call "Effort. Did you ever notice the difference between what they say they want and what they actually go for? See. well.. It just felt right.. I have to stop myself. The more you look at that. It's not the part that's making the decision. You know. who do they go for? The guy that just made them feel so wonderful. I really need to talk to supervisor". fall into the same trap. they will say they want somebody that is like this. just knew.. and Engagement". vagueness. Energy. It deals with vagueness and process language. If they tend to list his "attributes".. dating is focused on the conscious mind. just did not matter.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual The other super important concept is "Social Instinct". Do you see how it all works? You see where the languaging and comes from? We are describing things in the subconscious. who was so fascinating. The time did not matter.. Because again. Because. In a lot of respects. that their normal facts and figures and details did not matter anymore. I want you to make sure that they are all a part of that triangle. she felt that she was in the role of somebody who was being seduced and it was just something about him. It tends to think in terms of symbols. again. But it's interesting. just knew. and the more you think about it.. D 2 .. "Social Proof and "Herd Mentality" are similar. Like it's very perceptive. It tends to be familiar with and think in terms of roles. the more I want that to become a part of who you are. Dating is focused on the wrong part. when you ask a woman "What are the things you are looking for in a man". because. look at the diagram about the conscious and subconscious. that time. she could just not quite put a finger on it. And it thinks in terms of similarities and differences. And then we have a bunch of various attributes about how the subconscious functions. and you're arguing with them about something and you finally go "God. The guy who was so charming. that there was something wonderful about this person.. It's very important. . that's what dating is. because a part of them. a lot of times.. is it that you are going to look at people. and she imagined herself in the role of the woman who would. It's multitasking. Well. and be able to explain it in the context of their conscious and subconscious mind.. Now all of those things I've just set forth in that summary. those are the details and facts and figures.
So how did hypnosis get into this? Because we realized that the part that we really have to learn about..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual describing things in that way? What part of her mind do you think that you're going to have her respond with when you talk in that fashion? Is this starting to make sense now? Does the genesis or reasoning behind the languaging make more sense to you? I hope it does.. 2. 3. It's the fact that. Hypnosis is a way to directly address the subconscious mind. you know. Now look.. D2-T13 There is an important aspect of hypnosis that we're going to talk about now. how do you deal with the subconscious? How do you address the subconscious? Well. When it comes to the subconscious deciding whether to really take something on as a fact or as a basis for operation. by design. So when we talk about hypnosis in these contexts. and address. so that maybe suggestions can go into the subconscious. you are out there living your life and the subconscious is perceiving everything in its own way. But when you work with somebody and impose a Page 28 . are communications that deal with the subconscious. or hypnotic principles? Why are these used? Well. Or maybe you really did not want to become hypnotist. if you look at that map of the mind. That's why we have learned some aspects of how hypnosis works. were not really getting into it to learn about linguistics. it's not that you are going to go out on a date and sit there and go "you are getting very sleepy" or you're going to count someone down..... or hypnotherapy. There normally are filtering mechanisms within a person. And the reason that linguistics and hypnosis became a part of this is that we recognize that those parts by design deal with the subconscious. the whole point of hypnosis is to deal with the subconscious mind. these linguistic studies and hypnosis and hypnotherapy and hypnotic languaging. Maybe you do. not at all. Look at what is in charge. between the conscious and subconscious mind. and know about. I'm sure a lot of you guys that have gotten into this discipline.. and speak to. It's to find a way to address the subconscious mind directly. is the subconscious. And it is a concept called fractionation. D2-T12 Hypnosis. when you study hypnosis and you study hypnotic languaging. Now I'm not going to get into a complex discussion of hypnosis and how it works. hypnosis and things like that. That's what hypnosis is. or you can influence a person's subconscious. 3 Linguistics and Hypnotic Techniques D2-T11 One of the things that comes up. That's how that all came to be. because it really has brought to bear many of the techniques and brought up many of the ways we do things. you know. or hypnosis. It is the subconscious mind.. When you realize that then you have to say. Now normally. 2. But why do we deal with linguistics. That's the whole point. What is fractionation? Well let's back up for second. hypnosis is the study and means by which you can communicate with the subconscious mind.. and study. Now. That's why we deal with it. No. you're dealing with the subconscious. is that as part of Speed Seduction® and influence and persuasion and all of these processes. we've talked about things that deal with linguistic studies. and hypnotize them. or neurolinguistics. the subconscious is using its own method of evaluating things and it has its own methodology for doing that. that determine what the subconscious is going to "take in". 1.
And then you bring them back out on the hypnotic trance. who says something about. When you do that over and over. I mean. what happens is. I'm not going to get real technical about hypnosis here guys. You could do that 10 times. that's state tends to be OK? D2-T14 Now. The more effective.. Okay? The more you do it the better they are at it. In fact. it's more able to handle the state. OK? It is getting used to being with somebody. whereby you put somebody into a hypnotic state repeatedly. the degree to which they go into a trance gets better and better. And the same thing a day after that. The next time. drop them and bring them out. what has been found in studies is that. D2-T15 OK. If you do it 10 times.. You do that same thing 10 days in a row. that degree of increase in effectiveness does not necessarily depend upon how long the trance state lasts. Well. let's say you sit somebody down on day one. dropping you down and bring you up. and close your eyes. It makes a little more sense to it. does not necessarily require that you put them into the state for a long time. you can sit there and drop them into trance and bring them out. their subconscious is getting used to the fact that you are dropping them into trance. Then you bring them up.. again.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual hypnotic state. Now at Day 10. what has been found in studies is that. You drop them into trance. Now let me give you an example. the effect is stronger. drop them and bring them out and do it over and over and over again.. What's been found is this requirement. then they did on the first day. The next time. and open your eyes and close your eyes"... they tend to go deeper the 10th time.. It feels a little more comfortable.. You do that today. it's a little more comfortable. it might be a little bit on guard. That makes sense. they are fractionating you! They are dropping you down and bringing you up. and it is a way of employing this fractionation phenomenon. let's say you just dropped somebody into trance once and bring them back out—they only go so deeply. 10 times within two minutes.. Fractionation deals with the fact that the more you take somebody into a trance state. because in some respects their subconscious gets used to it. and you put them back in to the hypnotic trance. Let's say you have somebody go into a state of hypnosis for an hour and then they come out. Does this make sense? If you have ever listened to a hypnotist. they tend to go into a trance state. what does this has to do with Speed Seduction®? Because every time you do that. the more you do it. Now. and increase their depth of trance as well. "open your eyes. let's say you put them into a hypnotic trance.. for just a moment. and bear with me. and that you are talking about this and that and then. and then after a minute. Now... and it increases the effectiveness of the state. and with each successive time.. or this phenomenon. Let's say the first time you do it. this is important.. It is getting used to the trance effect. So how can this work? Well. Meaning. you bring them up for a moment and then you drop them back down... let's say you are talking to a woman and you are talking to her about something lighthearted. then drop them back down.. it's even more comfortable. they are going to be able to go into a deeper and more profound state of hypnosis.. You talk about something Page 29 . the deeper. OK? And then you take them out of the hypnotic trance. Then say tomorrow you do the same thing for another hour. It's less worried about it. It trusts you a little more each time.
.. Make you feel a certain way. and then you talk about something lighthearted... and. and you talk about one of these subjects that we deal with in Speed Seduction®. talk about something really fascinating for a few minutes.. You do it over and over and over. NO you don't. So sometimes when you are talking to somebody. In fact.... and then.. you get more and more profound depths of that state over time.. I'll talk about a different subject.. there's just something about that subject that so fascinating. No you don't.... D2-T16 Do you see example? Do see how that works guys? See.. and her subconscious and then their conscious. You got to be some kind of.. and then be lighthearted maybe you're at a party and you're talking about something about the music and then you know. No you don't. I will be saying "god.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual that's really profound.... and you do it over and over again. some pattern generating machine for four solid hours..... if you are using targeted communication to deal with somebody's subconscious mind.. and bringing them back out. So a lot of guys worry. Maybe you talk about something else for a while. I will talk like this. you know what you know what was interesting about what we were talking about before... then you talk about something lighthearted. and how that makes you feel and how it's so great. In our use.. " Page 30 . and it's more lighthearted. And then somebody walks up and you're talking about something lighthearted for a few minutes and everything and then they leave. you get into another subject. and then.. it is maybe something about some facts and figures maybe something that brings in her conscious mind.. and we have this and then I then. That's the way it works. D2-T17 See you don't have to sit there for an hour and talk to somebody in terms of all these patterns. you talk about another type of music for a while.. you are talking about this band and there's something about this type of music. But you know what? Not all that much guys. you're dropping someone into a state. maybe I am over emphasizing some things for the sake of the product to demonstrate it. You hear the way I'm talking on this product? I'm not just doing this for the sake of the product... that really engages her subconscious mind. a minute later..... NO you don't. now let's be honest. You are employing fractionation.. because I know a lot of you guys are thinking.. and in fact. you are talking about something else.. Fractionation is a phenomena from hypnosis that says that if you drop somebody into a state repeatedly. what we are doing is saying. and change my voice like this. I will be talking and be pretty lighthearted.. Nobody ever said you did.. because every time you do it. I've got to talk to a woman for an hour straight and use process language". you're much better off if you can.. That's how we use fractionation. I will sit and talk to people and I am animated. Does that make sense? I really hope it does.. when you go to a concert and its just something about the performer that's just wonderful. you know.. you know.. then you talk about something in Speed Seduction®. And so great. This is the way I talk to people. and she can imagine certain things and then.. it is okay to bounce between talking to her subconscious and talking to her conscious. this is so wonderful. and it's more lighthearted and you know. the degree to which you are able to address their subconscious mind increases. and I will sound just a lot more focused.. so exciting. You don't have to talk to someone using the trance words and trance language for all of this time. Look. and so wonderful that the sense of time just drifts away.. and then you turn to that woman you have been talking to for a while and say. That's really interesting. was that certain types of music.. And then. fractionation.. "God. I don't know....
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at least for me. If you walk up and you are obviously lying. To me congruency is about one thing being in line with the next thing. but their subconscious is going to say. and you obviously don't have the interests of that person at heart. D2-T22 There is another concept that is related to rapport. and you obviously don't really care and you're not in rapport then their subconscious might hear certain words. and . they are very congruent. Meaning. you 're acting in a way that is in alignment with who you are. their subconscious is listening to you. Your motions match. the thing is when you are being incongruent. a certain way.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual and these other concepts of somebody perceiving on a lot of levels and taking in things in terms of symbology and roles? Well. and they are comfortable with it. Your words and your actions match. It's probably almost easier to describe incongruency. if you are in rapport with somebody. "yeah. it's all a bunch of bull". have you ever seen someone that's tried to be someone or something that they're not? They are being incongruent. if you are congruent then you are being who you are. I mean. it is extremely difficult to get rapport. which is congruency. they might hear certain concepts and things like that. their subconscious is going to taking in and believe it. Okay? Now. Your thoughts match. When somebody is really being who they are. If you are in rapport with somebody and then when you talk. Because you don't have rapport with this person. That's what congruency is.
. "Do you have any spare change?" D2-T25 Now you can analyze that all day long... as a charming guy trying to "act" like a bad boy. the way they approach... you're not being congruent either. But there are people that will walk up and go "excuse me" and you'll just know. But there are ways to be a good person.. don't be a jerk.. What do those words describe? They describe processes that tend to go on in the subconscious.. the voice inflection. So congruency (getting back to that) is being who you are.. and you know. or directions. sometimes you're stuck with being a good person. What do you mean "you just knew"! When you say something like "you just know. You can analyze the minutia of their every movement or their words or whatever. you're going to have much better success being a charming guy.. you mysteriously know. don't be a bad boy.. the subconscious mind is responsible for recognizing that rapport is there.. so that you are being who you are. you magically know". But again. ". You know if somebody walks up and says "excuse me".. So that—again... seriously. But it's very hard. Not putting on an act. Why? How? Let me give you the example I was talking about.. And the subconscious mind is also responsible for seeing that congruency is there. you 're not going to get rapport.. the timing. in a way that's going to serve you. because when you try to "act" like a bad boy. listen to his description—"I just knew he was going to ask me for money".. the subconscious is analyzing all of that. because it is a big part of what makes a lot of Speed Seduction work. you'll just know. When you 're not congruent.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual opens their mouth.. I hope those things make sense. they might be clean. what makes things work for a lot of you guys that.. and sometimes when you are just trying to act like a jerk.. you just know that they're going to ask for a handout. D2-T26 There are ways to meet women and use Speed Seduction®. There's something about the look or whatever. the term "nice guy" has gotten kind of a bad connotation. I think are good guys. the eye contact. the subconscious is perceiving every subtlety of the person's movement. again. well.. and still have things work for you. not only are you not being effective... you're not going to be congruent. It's also. okay? Does this all sound familiar now? That's the way it works. that when they are walking near you. they're going to ask you for money... but they just walk up and they go "excuse me. If you are not a bad boy. than you are... D2-T27 So again. And if you really are a charming guy. the way they are moving the words they use. If you are not a jerk. and somebody walks up to you. there are a lot of guys out there that. with your conscious mind. and evaluating what you are saying in a correct way. You don't have to turn into a jerk to have women like you. it might not necessarily be that they're dressed like a homeless person. Right? Did you ever see that? I mean. You know. Sorry.. And you can tell. But there are a lot of guys out there that are pretty nice—they are good people. and when you don't get rapport their subconscious is not going to be listening to you. to try to analyze those things and to know that "oh they're homeless and they're going to ask for money". There are ways to be charming and have all of this stuff work.. Page 33 .. and it's not going to work. they want the time. D2-T24 Have you ever been out on the street. you know.
Because. and how it's going to help you to improve how you are.. However each individual. is an individual. They are going to have individual responses. and every sensory perception they have ever had. the subconscious mind has its own logic. and your ability to affect and alter behavior is also going to increase as well. Women do especially. It's drawn its own conclusions about how best to assess it's safety and survival. and specifically of women. once you've come to appreciate it and really enjoy it. take one person.. There is a randomness to all of this guys. I am giving you a technical explanation of all this stuff and why it works and how it works. and who you are. I think your ability to predict behavior is going to go up tremendously. But in the end. go up a lot. That's where you get the wonderful reactions that you do. D2-T29 With the understanding of the subconscious and of the conscious mind that we are developing here. That's where you get those wonderful magical moments. OK? Because again. That's what makes us all actually a lot of fun. I mean. So. but the beauty of this is also that there is no exact science to this. every person is unique. Think about that. like I said. That's where you get the surprises. OK? But there is a random aspect here. the way you want them to happen.. The subconscious mind of each individual person is made up of the summation of every experience... and every word. and wonderful emotions. and our ability to know what's going to go on. depending on their environment and where they are they're going to react differently and women do too. Look.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual So. This is not about perfection.. and it has so much information its making its own equations. that sometimes it's difficult to predict exactly what it's going to do.. hopefully. how specifically its own social instincts and social proof are recognized and addressed how to look for effort and energy and engagement and have an awareness of these things. . And even within one person... Now we've talked in general. there is no exact science to this.. and we will have some more examples as we go throughout this product. there's one thing I want you to consider. It's random guys. But I think your ability to predict behavior is going to go up. and I know that you have been listening to this and thinking about "How is this going to help you to understand women and apply Speed Seduction® to a woman or with a woman". depending on their moods. we can explain a lot of behavior already. that explanation of congruency and rapport is something a you're going to be able to work with. But we are going to make your predictions and your ability to make things happen. 2. how this understanding of the subconscious is going to affect you. There is a variability from person to person. nobody can predict with 100% certainty. look. we are making it a lot better and increasing our chances. Page 34 .. over time. Okay? The thing is. D2-T28 In this discussion of the mind and the mind map. But the other aspect of this that is very important is that you need to consider.. about the subconscious mind of people in general. 5 Your Subconscious D2-T30 One thing about all this study is.
read magazine articles. effort and engagement. Does it happen often? No. effort and.. and it's seeing the effort that you're putting into it. That's how you change yourself guys. At first. Energy. OK? It doesn't happen that often. It's going to start working for you. If you haven't been meeting women.. but when your subconscious. "No no no no! I want you to go back to the way it was. part of my safety and survival and security is at stake now. and really put energy into changing. you're subconscious is not going to want to change. If you go out and put energy into changing. if you really keep taking steps forward to make your life different..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual You need to look at those aspects of the subconscious mind and realize that's how you function as well. a lot of guys think they are going to listen to a product one time and be dramatically changed.. it's really trying to protect you. It says. But when your subconscious sees that. OK? Because you need... We sat on the couch.... and thinking about it in your own mind and acting out.. does it happen? Yeah. if you have not been going out and being social in your life. security and survival". There is a lot of you that that's the way your life has been.. my world is changing. That's very important. But if you start to really change your life.. Like for example. No! no! We want to be the same as it was! Go back! Go back!" No. because that's how I 'm going to address his safety.. look like we said before.. You've probably thought of a lot of stuff you would like to do. look. you're putting energy into this product. Let's do it again today! Oh my God. at first it will try to protect you by holding you back. I don't want to go to a mall! I don't want to go meet people! That's different. it's moving in this direction. I mean. sounds pretty fascinating. You have heard people talk on the radio. and it's going to change you. well. yesterday.. you're subconscious says "you know what life is going to be different..... D2-T31 The thing is in terms of training you and your subconscious. You have heard a lot of people talk.. but if you really keep changing your life... Page 35 .. "well. OK? You are going to start to train yourself.... I don't need to change for any of that stuff. I'm sorry. taking it all in. security and survival.. Think about it. well. eventually. It's going to go "no no no... that you're putting effort into it because you're reading the things. that's pretty rare indeed. The engagement that you are really an active part of this process. sits at the end of the day. Think about it.. You know. If you're sitting you're thinking that you listen to something one time.. your subconscious is watching all of this stuff... You are really listening to the words that I'm using and the way that I'm speaking. But after awhile—put the energy and put the effort into it—you're subconscious is going to say "hey.. I mean.. I need to get on board. Look at energy. It's really trying to protect you in terms of your safety and security and survival.. Yeah.. on TV.. if you try to change that. when your subconscious sees all of these things.. sounds pretty interesting. sometimes your subconscious goes. go back". See all the power of your subconscious that sometimes you think gets in your way...... because you're scheduling time to listen to the CDs. I need to step up to the plate and help him ".. the world around me is changing.. hey. think about what I said about safety.
you are looking around. well. You are operating you're right foot. your mind is going to want to keep you in that safe and secure life. Now getting from one to the other is difficult. is going to want to hold you back. but a body in motion tends to stay in motion. I want to talk about something. Ross has told. consistently over time..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual D2-T32 So if you are used to sitting on the couch and then you try to go to mall and meet some people for a while. Listen to them over and over and over again. you're most Page 36 . D2-T33 So I hope that helps to give you a little bit of understanding about how that works. put time into that subject. OK? If you tend to lead a safe. D2-T34 Now. I have also told you. and you do it enough. Because you trained yourself to do that over time. to get a Journal. What is your conscious mind doing? A lot of times it's handling navigation. Practice. It's very important. this is the new way of thinking. your left foot. See... we talked about this before. so that you sort of begin to grasp this. But if you go to a mall enough. and you try to change it. he is spending time at the mall. facts. OK? Think of what's happening when you are driving. what are you worried about? The destination. and your subconscious. you're looking at the mirrors. But if you go out and live a life that is exciting and has a lots of things going on. I guess for me to help him out. That's the way it works for a lot of guys. One thing at a time. and that's what will make the difference for you. That's the way it works. That's the way it works. the subconscious tends to work on something I call "the momentum principal". I guess I have got to make this easy and start to be a part of the process now". Remember when you are doing something like driving. look at what we are talking about in terms of the effort. one thing. This is all going to train you.. is handling navigation and typically when you are navigating. go back home. Okay? Your conscious mind. just an example or two for you. at first. then you're subconscious is going to keep you in that life. What's happening with the Journal? You're writing stuff down. You're subconscious is going to go "oh my God. engagement and things like that in training you're subconscious. So employ that momentum principal. but you need to take the steps. you are looking at all of these mirrors and doing all of these things simultaneously. Get a Journal. secure life of solitude and boredom. then eventually you're subconscious goes "All right. If you have lived a safe and secure life of quiet solitude. Your making a point to review. go back home and get the PlayStation". Also you know. figures. You're probably heard that in a scientific context. you're mind. I don't want to do this. You need to be aware of this stuff when you are trying to train yourself as to how to do things as well. your left hand. If you're learning a new subject. Do the exercises in all of the products you have. energy. Right? OK? Anything at rest tends to stay at rest... they are all part of your subconscious. I guess he is doing this. It's going to apply to you too. your right hand. your subconscious mind. And you thought we were only learning this stuff about how it was going to apply to women. This is the new way of being. If you are actively involved in navigation.
or the one place to take her on the date. what is the next turn.. you are doing a lot of stuff when you're driving. It takes effort.. Again. guys think a lot of times that one magical technique is going to make it all work. Okay? So that's why.. understanding this.. One thing that might not make sense to you. OK? It takes time. and the conscious mind that we've been talking about. 2.. Does that make sense? I hope it does. you probably have a lot of other things too where you don't realize you have really trained you're subconscious.... D2-T36 Now before I move on. Because.. you will go right past the exit. the one pattern. think about. what's the next site you need to see for navigation purposes.. Because again. OK. That's also why you're probably heard the example of. and the whole environment. this is such a conscious mind thing. Just my thought on it. See. or the one thing to do when. Your subconscious is doing 12 things at once. A lot of guys tend to think "oh god. 6 Her Subconscious D2-T35 Now. Women do multiple things all of the time... and the subconscious mind. then a lot of these things just make more sense to you. or the one thing to say.. when you need to turn into that shopping center or something like that.. it interests me. but your conscious mind can only handle one. That's the road map. So. I think they do this only because a lot of men do not have an appreciation of how a lot of women's' subconscious mind works... you've got it. and the way he... OK? Now. and you are doing all of these things at once. it's all about the whole thing. what I want to do is. ". or the structures of the subconscious mind.. this is the way it works. you can be driving down the road.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual pressing thing is "what is the next maneuver you must make. if I just knew the one trick.. once you do understand the subconscious mind. You will go right past it. women make no sense to me and they change their mind.. Like remember before I said to write down some examples of things that women do that don't make sense to you? Now looking at that example. women are able to do more things at one time. This analogy works because it's showing you how things operate.. If your conscious mind is engaged in some active activity at that one moment .. about that parallel processing thing... And I want to bring up some examples that are pretty common.. that's an example of how you're subconscious handles parallel processing... And there's a couple off top of my head. There tends to be a better communication channel there. Really. Make sense? Does it make sense too. but if your conscious mind happens to be occupied at that one moment when you need to make that turn. I think they tend to be more actively aware of what their subconscious is doing at any point in time. the one piece of jewelry. if I just knew the one outfit.. is really going to help you. and they do this. " That's the way guys think. Let's think of a couple of these. Women are like "oh. "If I just know. Page 37 . and I think they tend to listen to it more.. the one thing too is that women are extremely good at that.. Okay? Women tend to be a little more actively engaged with their subconscious. because that's the terrain we are dealing with. But once you've got it. " OK? purposes. and depending upon what you do for a living or your other activities. " Because they are analyzing stuff on multiple levels.
. Now remember what we talked about. that's one of safety and security and survival... You're not going to take anything like money or anything like your resources and put it towards frilly things like pretty clothes or something like that. OK? That's the lure of the exciting guy. where the guy can handle himself and then still treats her nicely.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual One is. you don't need $1... we know. and choices. that's kind of like a bad boy. she's very excited because she is very safe. that when they're alone. It's not necessarily the guy's suit that she likes. I mean. have you ever.. her fantasy and what she's hoping for is. And part of the herd mentality is. that's what it's about. if you're somebody that is really concerned with the basic human needs. 000 dress (if you are a woman) if you're basic basic basic needs have been met.. if you can demonstrate that you've so much of an abundance of money. That's what she's looking for. this is really getting down to the basics guys of human behavior . It's the ultimate demonstration of excess. and I talked about this before.. and opportunities that you can spend money on clothes. or of resources that you can afford to purchase pretty clothes or good shoes. if you are well off. they love shoes. At a very deep level... OK? Because even when a woman is going out with one of these guys.. maybe you should go to a shoe store to meet some of these women and look at the state that they are in... You are so secure. So (if you) buy expensive shoes.. It's more of the herd mentality. So if you can demonstrate to other people that you are very well off. You can spend time and effort and resources on shoes. he's good-looking. OK? Even better yet... Does that make sense? D2-T37 Let me give you something else. to her. Now why do they respond in that way? Why do they do such a thing? Think about it. But the bottom line is. then you are basically got all your time and energy wrapped up in things like shelter and food.. that shows that. Now. of course. and very well taken care of then you can sort of spend time with them and success breeds success. it's not necessarily the car that a guy drives—its what the car represents that the woman likes. And in fact. tend to have an existence. You have such a life of abundance. Does that sound like something that your subconscious would like? Does that sound like something a woman's subconscious would like? See. Knowing that your guy can handle any situation is an incredibly safe and secure place to be in. Because they are going to help you. I mean. is the James Bond fantasy. you want to be around other people that are well off. James Bond. Does that make sense? I certainly hope it does. Because she is safe and secure. Why do women go for exciting guys? Why do they go for bad boys? OK? Think about it. you are so well able to take care of yourself that you can throw money away on shoes. he'll be really sweet. but that's.... show and demonstrate that you have an abundance and excess of resources at your disposal to enhance your safety. Page 38 . Who is the safest woman in the room? The safest woman in the room is the one who's next to the bad boy.. by expensive clothes. But you only would get $1. but I want to make sure we go over it really well. the herd mentality? We talked about social proof? Social proof is a way for you to determine whether or not other people tend to have a life.. in the hierarchy of needs. you're going to have commonality. they go crazy over their big shoe collection. in terms of.. and he's got a British accent and women love him and he's very well schooled.. security and survival. and he knows his weapons and all that other stuff. its what the guy's suit represents. because you are so well taken care of... What about these women that are fascinated with clothes and shoes. oh you are so safe. 000 dresses.
. or the best looking? Of course we can! But if you can score points by simply taking a shower. I want you to look at those behaviors that did not make sense before. And with the knowledge and understanding that you have now. maybe it is time for you to update your wardrobe! Many of the guys I have met at seminars over the years could use maybe a bit of an "upgrade" to the way they look. With an understanding of those "effects". What are the behaviors of women that did not make sense before? And I want you to look at your diagram of the conscious mind and the subconscious mind. because now that we've talked about the conscious mind and the subconscious mind. right? So why would you not at least make some effort to present yourself in a way that's at least somewhat up-to-date!?!?!? There is no shame at all in taking the time to look your best and present yourself in the best fashion. you wouldn't take a carburetor from a 1972 car and put it on a brand new car would you? You wouldn't take a computer that was the state-of-the-art in 1988 and use it today. you can create such effects in other.. remember? I had you guys right down some behavior of females that did not make sense you.. and now get a better understanding for yourself. if your clothes tend to reflect a fashion sense from 30 years ago. etc. It's more of a sign of lack of self respect that makes many guys not want to show their "best face". Shoes. getting a good haircut.. an assignment I gave you guys before.. or buying some new clothes. and look at how the subconscious mind functions. ways... Now I want you to go back. we have talked about what are the motivations of the subconscious mind. look at its power. What kind of data does it operate with? How does it function? OK? Now that we have spent that time. So. why not look your best? You wash your car don't you? If you want someone to like you. and we know what's really in charge.. Page 39 . Many guys (to be frank) go out of their way to NOT do this so that they can avoid taking any risks socially at all. or appear beaten up as if they fell off a truck onto the freeway. why not show that you like yourself enough to present yourself in the best manner? Now can we use all of these skills to overcome the fact maybe some guy is not the most stylish... look at how it operates. If you really respect yourself.. do you dress yourself up like a fashion expert? A fashion victim? Or maybe get so "flashy" that you look like a walking cartoon character? Guys I am not sitting here saying that you need to go buy expensive clothes and shoes! The point here is that 1 am describing why and how these things seem to have the effects that they do. Let's face it... (With your skills and the tools we will discuss later!) But by all means guys. just don't look like a fashion victim (or like a cartoon character)! D2-T38 Now I want to get back to. then why not do that? No you don't need to look like a fashion icon. Did you write it down? It was very important. look at what it focuses on.. Go back to that stuff you wrote out..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual A Note On Clothes.. (Refer to Assignment #3 on Page 40).
Female Behavior Explained Remember the behaviors that you listed in the first assignment? The ones that were confusing to you? With your new understanding and new knowledge. and think of each in terms of the Structure of the Mind that you have learned about. but she HOPES he will be nice to her. and you now know "why". This product is best played. maybe referring to the items shown in the diagram. Plus the safest woman is the one WITH the bad boy! He may be a bad boy. they are not looking for "approval" so they show that they have value. don't worry. Page 40 . read. See if you are able to now understand more about how and why females may act in certain ways. So if you can't explain all of the points yet.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Assignment #3 . and reviewed many many times to get the best and deepest understanding of all of the information contained within. go back and re-visit what you wrote earlier. in these cases. Just write down enough to show yourself that you got it. and therefore her. If you cannot explain everything. a) Bad boys can take care themselves. b) They demonstrate power. or what was learned in the text. females do what they do. yet. that the guy can handle himself and provide for himself. and the Symbol the you built in Assignment #2. if she can some how "get him". Look at each of the points you listed in Assignment #1. abundance. you will be able to in the future! Try making a note or two below for each item you had listed earlier. security.
You're going to think of stuff.. etc. just wait until we use the same techniques to help you understand the tools and resources that you have at your disposal! That's what you get next! Page 41 . Really. Then we are using a symbol to help you to learn it and categorize it. is for you to think about the symbol that was shown. you're in a much better position to be able to be effective with the skills.. what is being strived for is for you to have a true. . the different ways that these parts interact. . her subconscious mind is formulating its own conclusions. the triangle.. how it makes sense now.. But you're going to think of stuff over the next day weeks. then it's far more likely that these concepts will become a part of YOUR subconscious (and they will become more so when you listen to these sections over and over again). and building the triangle.. since YOU placed energy and effort into reading this and listening to this section. See how that all works? We are taking a lot of diverse. right?) Use that as a way to represent to yourself the different parts of a person's mind. and it wasn't about what you said! It was not about what you did! It was who she was! She was going to react that way no matter what you said or did. we have discussed some of the very same concepts about the mind that are being used to teach you about the mind. stop for a minute. But with an understanding of it like you have now. D2-T40 Remember. (Remember.. and using the knowledge is something that you just "do". Really. and intuitive understanding where this is all just something you "know". It's making its own evaluation and its own judgments. predicting what's going to happen.. One way to assist in this is through the use of symbols and symbology. And also when you do that. You will think of a behavior and go "you know that didn't make sense before. That triangle is a way to represent these concepts about the mind inside of your OWN mind. remember there were a lot of times when women have reacted in certain ways. "non-structured" information. months. store it. because life is a lot easier when you do.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual D2-T39 After you have done that. When learning new concepts regarding these subjects. See what I mean? I want you to really do that. years. and to determine what's going to happen. Instead of having you "remember" a bunch of details about how the mind works.. recalling that symbol will allow you to make even MORE sense of things you have learned in the past. so you may be thinking—How do you remember all of these details? And what is with the "symbol" and all? As you have probably started to figure out. When listening to your materials (even ones that you have had for a while). You have a much better chance of explaining things that happened. One way to assist in this. " . and you realize now that it's not about you—it's just the way they are\ She had something in her subconscious. and presenting it to you in structured manner. I want you to carry this forward with you. based upon the tools and resources that we are going to discuss in the next section. Since you took the time. deep. and that's the way she was going to react. And if you think THIS section is helpful. and the relative power that they each have.. you DID fill in that large one several pages back. Sound good? Well then let's continue. think of this symbol as a way for you to classify and categorize the new information. and consider your new understanding of it. I know you wrote a few things down. and recall that information for future use. Ok..
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as I say each one of these terms I want you to go ahead and fill it in in the structure. you hear somebody terms that are thrown around. it's almost overwhelming. all of a sudden start to speak in a way that their voice just sounds really wonderful. and all of these things are great as tools and things that we can use to actually affect and to make things happen. meaning at the top level is going to be big stuff like. so that you have a sense in your mind of how to categorize all of this stuff. when you first started to get into this. it's probably healthful to sit down to discuss each one of them individually: describe them for you and show you sort of how they all fit together. 1 Hierarchy Overview D3-T2 If you look at your workbook and transcript. it's almost overwhelming. But at some point. Yes..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual 3. 2. it will be doable for you. if you're like me. 6 levels. like a hierarchy.. I understand this. Now. I mean. And at the very bottom or going to have little details like "command words". jokes. and I'll tell you where it goes. 4. Well then you are noticing that aspect of someone's voice that we refer to as tonality. patterns. you've got the workbook page there. demonstrations. These are the small bits and pieces. have you ever heard anyone.. So let's do that now. poems. And it's built in kind of a hierarchy. the small chunk details. but those are the sort of things that are going to go there. theme. OK? What we can do is this.. to make things happen in someone's mind. 0 D3-T1 The Tools and Resources The tools and resources of Speed Seduction®. and that's where we are going to put the different aspects of what we are talking about here. because we're going to put this into a structure. isn't it? I mean. I know it's pretty blank right now.. I have been there too. "who you are". Lets start at the bottom here.. That's what this part of the product is about where we are going to go through all the tools of Speed Seduction®. beliefs.. but they are small chunk details. 5. Page 43 . you are following along hopefully in the transcript. and they are wonderful. "the life you lead" — don't write it down yet. Okay? This is important.. You know. but there is a structure there to it. OK? That's what we're going to get into now. tonality. that need you just feel so comfortable.. 3. but boy. commands.. rapport. What I want you to do is. really mellow. What you see is 1. again. 3. 3. it can get confusing. really calm.. They are important.. OK? Hopefully that make sense. you know. I mean. they seem to be very effective. because we're really going to get into some details. 2 D3-T3 Tools Hierarchy Level 1 The Tools Hierarchy. so you have a sense of like what are the little details and what are the big chunk stuff. cognitions. Then in the page or two to the right of there. you'll see that there is a place where this is laid out.. you may want to take some time to actually write a very quick definition for yourself.
Be sure to follow the instructions (throughout the transcript) and write down the various terms when told to do so. there are many many references to the graphic shown on this page.The Symbol As you will see and hear in the transcript text. Page 44 .The Tools Hierarchy .Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Assignment #4 .
Student Notes The graphic on the opposite page represents a symbol that you are to create within your mind. Level 6 Page 45 . that will help you to remember what you believe are the most important points. a symbol which will allow you to understand and recall these learnings about the different tools and resources that you have at your disposal. or copy down specific points. Use this page to take additional notes.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual The Tools Hierarchy .
you bring up things around the subject and you use them multiple times.. As in "command words" or command phrases. OK? Page 46 . remember it's listening on multiple levels. it's conveying a sense of comfort. 2. That type of speech delivered with that type of tonality much more easily is listened to. in one of those four boxes. feel warm. trust this person. again in the lowest row. As you find yourself writing this down and you have placed the pencil. it's perceiving in multiple ways with multiple senses. in a positive way. You've heard about that.... it's conveying a sense of self-assurance. As in "embedded commands" where you find yourself doing something.. there are six rows. so that the commands are heard over and over again. and have it be a part of what its thoughts are as well. well. but the word for our definition is "commands". and it's going to be tense. Those are examples. the want you to write down the word "commands". I am being a little mechanical to illustrate a point.. OK. that's a little different. Now. . Now look at the hierarchy. where it just is able to listen to what's going on. if I'm able to talk in that sort of fashion. with the proper tonality of course. 5. and it's not going to be in a mode. or similar commands. That's the tone of voice that you are using. Feel connected.. and there is locations for four different things that you can write. it's not enough to just talk to somebody for five minutes and then all of a sudden you say that you will feel connected to this person.. over the course of time. see that this is someone that you would like. why is it important. and it's not going. D3-T5 The next thing I want to talk about are command words.. lack of nervousness. You want to communicate in a way that's going to engage somebody's subconscious mind. pretty secure. what embedded commands are. but I am sure you have had times when you have listened to the words that somebody is speaking.. 1. it's going to be more on guard.. Now at the very bottom. and you were able to find out for yourself what the command words are. or by a subconscious mind. The subconscious mind of the person you are talking to is hearing all of these things. As you hear my words and understand what I'm saying you will find yourself understanding. see this occurring.. D3-T4 That kind of tonality is conveying a sense of warmth. move forward. but command is the lowest smallest chunk thing. take it all in. tone of voice that tends to be pleasing to the subconscious.. you're able to take action. you just find yourself doing that you are able to move now. And again. Look at the chart and those tools. that we have a sense of tonality? And what it is and what it does in how it works? Well.. where you just feel comfortable with something. So in the structure that you have in front of you. You want to write that down. 6 . and it's not going to be relaxed.. if you are sitting here and you are talking like this and talking really fast and talking about something and has a lot of energy and a lot of tension to it..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Tonality. and we are talking the very bottom row. your subconscious is hearing all of this stuff. The more that you layer in all of this stuff. 4. feel comfortable.. "Commands".. In one of those spaces right down "tonality ". 3. OK? Now. You want to embed different things in.. That's the way you use embedded commands. I feel pretty safe. ... and believed and interpreted by your subconscious. think about it. See.. their subconscious is going to feel energy and feel tension.. So "tonality". It doesn't work that way. lack of tension. you want to embed multiple commands..
descriptive. the conscious mind. you know. That's the third one. I have heard a lot of different opinions on this. but you hear me on the tape sometimes say things in certain ways.. I'll have a higher pitch. I'll have a lower pitch. sometimes you'll hear me stop for a moment and. If you are congruent with it you can do a lot of different things. I tend to think that's OK. When you do use a word like mysteriously. those were some examples! The next thing that we are going to talk about is "trance words". suddenly. the lowest row of the hierarchy that you've got there. then it doesn't stand out as much.. but I do it a lot. I will talk fast. you've already got "tonality". But if you speak and use a lot of trance words. Look. "trance words". I will vary myself to the degree where. I'll talk slow... when I'm speaking and the only people than those that are people that are well-trained in linguistics. These are things that. I don't consciously do it anymore. make sure you wrote it down in the diagram. in order to really perceive them and understand them to some degree. "commands".. If I spoke in a monotone all the time. so that all of my words tended to sound very similar. in a way that lets you know that I said it separately. where all of a sudden you magically find yourself able to do that in a way. and I mark off the embedded commands quite a lot. I just find myself doing it because it's more and more a part of the way I speak. in the literal sense for the subconscious mind to interpret the word. if I do something like an embedded command. and I am able to mark off embedded commands. it doesn't stand out as much.. and there has been some controversy on this by some people. It still has that effectiveness. when these words are perceived. the subconscious mind needs to go into that state and experience that state. that you are using these wondrous.. it doesn't have as much power. I think part of the reason I am able to do that. great terms.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual D3-T6 Now I have to say this with all due respect. "Embedded commands". write down "trance words".. Now I'm doing it in that example. when you hear me say a command. and feel what it was like to get what a trance word is? Well.. and I always had the same cadence and the same rhythm and then all of a sudden I. but the bottom line is this. magically. mark off the command. If you want to write down a definition down on the right hand side or on any of the other pages. that just engage someone's subconscious mind in a way that just allows them to Page 47 . wondrously. marked off an embedded command. just there. I did it really in an accentuated fashion to make a point. So if you are just explaining things factually. is that my voice normally does have quite a range to it. So again. because again. what part of the mind deals with facts and figures? That's right. See what I mean? But if I talk in the way that I have been talking on these tape sets.. go ahead and do so. magically really grasp the concept of trance words? Or you just wondrously were able to perceive and really know. D3-T7 Had you ever somehow mysteriously found yourself just able to wonder about what it might be like if you could all of a sudden. So that's something about commands for you. it has to go into a trance state. where I do tend to mark them off in a manner that might be more than other people would tend to do. then it would sound more obvious that I had done so.
which is a sort of a slang. it can be used as an anchor—it can be used as part of a gesture—those are higher level things in the hierarchy—but a touch in the most very basic. So why not use them. followed by "anchors ". and to sort of to show how one thing matches another thing. I'm putting down touching just in and of itself. That is a touch. when you're in rapport with somebody. Now again. touch them on the hand. Touching. you could write down a definition for yourself. Yup. the first thing I want you to write down the words "Physical Tools". trance words. you have succeeded in completing the bottom row of the tools hierarchy for Speed Seduction®. and a pretty effective way to make stuff happened and those are some examples for you just there. 3 Tools Hierarchy Level 2 D3-T9 Now let's go up to the next level in the SS tools hierarchy and we're going to talk some more about the different things that we have to use as part of our suite of tools and resources to really employ the Speed Seduction® techniques. now. or their interpretation is a subconscious mind process... and we'll talk about that in a while.. Again. this tools hierarchy is just something as a means to discuss these tools.. Make sure it's written down again on the right hand side or on some of the other pages. "Gestures". this is in the lowest row of the hierarchy. we have three columns. If you are more intimate. what I want you to do on the far right column on the second row. the fourth item that you are putting down as we complete the first row. Now in the next row.. you know pat them on the back. and how one thing might contain another thing.. OK? And if you need to stop the tape. hipster slang for kinesthetic.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual really experience things in a different way. right? You take your hand or a part of your body. Make sense? It's something that we do. OK? D3-T10 So.. to give you definitions for them and how they work. That makes sense what it is I hope. Touching someone. and you place it on their body someplace. 3. It engages the subconscious mind. trance words. we have three distinct areas. So that column in the second row should have "physical tools ".. Now some people call this "kino". are the type that need to be interpreted by the subconscious almost. D3-T8 The next thing I want to talk about is touching.. Well. followed by "gestures".. or the CD during this to maybe write those definitions down because you find yourself magically wanting to do that. you may touch their face. But down there in the lowest level is touching. sometimes you'll just touch them lightly on the arm. Now. touching. And congratulations. "Anchors" And below that. it's something that we do naturally.. guys. This is a rough categorization again. on that second row. Then it really brings the subconscious mind into it that much more. so. which is the second row up. Sounds pretty good. I want you to write down "Gestures". Now. very specific thing that can be used in different ways. then go ahead. because the subconscious mind is interpreting those... but it's a very. and below that what you to write down "Anchors". Page 48 . But touching.
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they will experience the emotional state.. if a person experiences an emotional state or feeling. and hears a certain song. It needs to be unique enough so that you are the only one (or one of very few) creating it... Well. but if you do it several times. or state of mind. emotion.. and touching. tasting. Got that? It can be any sensory perception associated to any feeling. and then has a sensory perception that correlates to it and they have. that may be unique. — the repetition of the anchor (how many time it is done). you know. too many times too soon and it seems odd or out of place. You need enough rapport for someone to be comfortable and their mind to be open to the experience. If you just do an anchor one time it's hardly effective. it is more powerful as an anchor. If you do the same thing when someone has a lot of rapport with you. hearing. If you meet a stranger who happens to laugh and just touch their arm—Big deal! With no real rapport. it becomes more powerful. and then have a sensory perception that correlates to it. it won't really have an effect (and may get you into trouble). If you touch someone's arm one time while laughing. If a person feels bad. Some "associations" may be easier to create or use than others. But if you do it several times. — the uniqueness of it. If they keep feeling bad. OK. but if you touch someone on their forehead. the easiest ones like sight... If they feel bad and hear the song again.. this definition works for us. and it will have much more of an effect. The effectives and the power of an anchor is determined by: — the rapport that is present. go through this process of experiencing the emotional state or feeling.. but not so unique and weird that it seems odd.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual A Few Notes About Anchoring This is such an important point that we need to make sure that you fully appreciate this definition: Anchoring is the association of a sensory (or physical) perception with a feeling. Touch someone's arm once today. and you won't have much of an anchor set. — the time period over which the repetitions are done. fine. and hearing a certain song when they feel bad. it has no great effect. all right. and it will seem odd (very!). Too much time between anchors and it loses effect. you do that enough so that if they just get the sensory perception. emotion. smelling. or a state of mind. let's say they lost a Page 50 . and again in several weeks.. or once again. you can associate a feeling or a state of mind to any sensory perception. eventually. Touch their arm 12 times in 2 minutes. but it will seem quite strange! D3-T15 Anchors in terms of what we are talking about is. Okay? And let's just consider that. Like.. Now let me give you an example just to give you something to think about. So maybe a touch on the upper arm is unique enough to be special and create an affective anchor. but in a general sense. and again a month after..
There's excellent training programs that will teach you different ways to anchor. Right? If you create. let's say you get somebody to discuss a subject. she talks about what it's like to feel very excited. D3-T18 Now.. she would associate that with being turned on! Does that make sense? That's a pretty simple example... the sensory perception of having her arm touched becomes correlated to the feeling of being excited. Another option would be that you create the association. Think of this. So what do you do? Go turn the thermostat up! Because maybe if she felt warm. you. that's great. let's say. Like in the example I just gave you. that song. Because in her subconscious... So. and you know. a sensory perception and feeling. when you are doing fine a year later.. Later on. where she is being very excited. you might be using a gesture. and you touch her arm again. can become an anchor to that feeling of loss. but what's that in terms of what they see as an anchor? It's a visual anchor for them. Look you can use anchors to whatever degree you want. It's become an anchor. they tend to be very subtle. there is a death in the family. or every time I get turned on.. when you're comfortable. again. she is talking about some other concept or some other story.. That's fine. anchors work like that.. and use it. Now what you can do—these work in different ways. and then you touch her arm. that song comes on the radio. This is what a lot of people tend to think about.. You know. that every time she talks about a subject you tug your ear.. again. every time a woman talks about a subject. OK. You could. If a woman would happen to say that "every time I turn on. you touch her arm. once that song is on the radio. and you hear the same pop song six times in one day. " All right. and then she says later that "every time I get turned on. OK? D3-T16 So. how to increase or decrease the state of anchor. that will make her excited. OK. that must be an anchor.. D3-T17 Now. but I'm trying to illustrate a point. that sound. are excellent tools out there for anchoring. for example. And she talks about the Page 51 . Later on.. again... I tend to feel really warm".. They're fantastic. There. you can find an association that's already there. she talks about what it's like to be really excited. Again. and everybody is very upset.. You know how Pop radio plays songs like crazy. find an anchor that already exists. a feeling or state with a sensory perception on their part.. what you need to do is associate. and not even thinking about the loss.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual loved one. and I'm being very simple here to illustrate a point... you start to think about that person. That's the way it works. OK. You are correlating a sensory perception to a feeling. I feel warm. But in a general sense. And when I say on their part. you touch her arm again. That it's a correlation. So that a year later. Does that make sense? That's why and how anchors work. You do that enough that eventually even if she is not excited. How to make it stick more than other ways. there has been a death in the family and there is a certain song that is famous on the radio.
I want you to write "rapport tools". OK? It tends to be more effective. • "fractionation". The degree to which an anchor is effective. increase the state of rapport. tools and things we can use to help us to get a state of rapport. you know. Well. if you sit there and you tug your ear five times in one minute. tug on your year once and then do it again three weeks later. and you just walk up next to it and push it in a new direction. let's say the first column in the second row. How frequently did you. Now. it helps to make its stick. and in the presence of rapport. she is going to know something is up. the repetition you have. what is pacing and leading? Think about it. or the anchors are set. So rapport tools. That makes sense. if you. and then do it again a month later. How does it work in terms of its effectiveness? It can be tremendously effective. you tug your ear. D3-T19 Now. remember what we said about rapport. Also. the energy. So we have rapport tools. That's "rapport tools". Meaning you need to have really good rapport with the person. OK? Does that make sense? So those are just a couple of the physical tools that we have available for us. D3-T20 Now we're going to look at the next set of tools in the Speed Seduction® tools hierarchy. OK? But then again. let's think about this. so that their subconscious is perceiving things in the correct way. and the degree to which an anchor lasts is dependent upon the rapport that you have. and she talks about a subject. It's having the person's subconscious feel that you and your subconscious are an ally. repetition.. you tug your ear.. I mean. there's going to be tools all over the place in this diagram that help with rapport. If you do the same anchor over and over and over. and when that's the case then they are more open to the perception and the subconscious tends to take in the anchor all the more. again. OK? Make sure it's there make sure it's kept there OK. In the top of that first column on the second row. I want you to write "pace and lead" and beneath t h a t . Beneath it. being engaged in the process.. and I want you to go to the other column.. and there to help it out. that's the way it works. but it's going to be rather abrupt isn't it? Page 52 . and you tug your ear. Now. in some respects. Now we are still in the second row in the diagram.. perceiving you in the correct way.. These are the tools that we used to help us generate rapport. you're probably not really going to create an anchor. Another aspect of this is time. if you want to change the direction of something.. and the time span over which the anchors are done. you might change its direction.. D3-T21 One of the things we can do in that is "pacing and leading". but there is a couple of key ones that I tend to think of when I think of rapport tools and those are the ones were going to be showing in this column. but it tends to work best in the presence of repetition.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual subject. she's going to think about the subject. repetition is a key. Well. sometime later. effort.
If you want to change someone's mind. and immediately try to change somebody's mind. Or maybe there is an office chair on wheels.. something's wrong here. because when you do that. D3-T23 By pacing and leading. D3-T22 With pacing and leading what we are doing is this. as you start to move into a different area. of course—but to spend time with the person so that you are seen as an ally.. boom. that they all of a sudden get nervous. or to push them in a different direction—mentally of course—then their subconscious may send up red flags. Then. somebody to be trusted.. that person. Then. First off. it's one thing. they all of a sudden throw up the red flag in their mind and want to leave. It's a way to get somebody to move with you. secure around you. And by generating an interrupt. you tend to throw off alarms in their subconscious. sometimes it's best to not immediately begin to change their mind in a very abrupt fashion. spend time with a new person—it can very into any length of time. and then go off in a direction with you in a way that does it naturally. push it.. So that's what pacing and leading is.. I mean. working with them. We are talking about getting them to change their mind. You're safe. You are seen as an ally of the person and their subconscious is comfortable around you. I don't have enough proof to indicate that this person should be able to do that". since you build up rapport over time. after you are there for a while. That's fine. doing something so abrupt or so out of character for them and their situation. and we talked about that before. in sort of a quick and abrupt manner? OK? Now.. this feels uncomfortable. you might be able to meet somebody and instead of having to pace and lead them you can be quite abrupt in taking their mind set and a different direction. pacing and leading is a good way to go about doing this. you can't just push people around like that. like you're playing football with them or something. so that you are doing things with them. if you've got a tremendous amount of social proof. or you're in the proper role. and now since you have paced for a while. and maybe have their mind set go in the direction that you would like it to go. because they feel unsafe. or target.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Wouldn't you think it would have been harmed. So. and lessens the risk of you "generating an interrupt" or creating a problem.. as you are pacing you are getting rapport.. of course. or subject. That makes sense right? D3-T24 The next thing we want to talk about is fractionation. in a different direction. If you go up.. you're not a threat. then you start to lead. didn't we? Page 53 . But for most people. I don't feel very safe and secure in this process. yeah. if you consider that when you are talking about pushing a bicycle into a new direction. or different thought process. discussing with them. So that you are moving "alongside" them for a while. or whatever is more apt to move in a direction with you. we mean to talk to a new person. or kind of thrust in a new way.. when you are talking about people. we're not talking about going up and giving somebody a body block. since the person and their subconscious sees you as an ally. Now. However. or send up alerts and go "wait a minute. then you go into a different direction and start to lead off in a different direction. doing things so that the interactions with you does not seem abrupt or out of character. and you want to push in a new direction and you just walk up and.
Then you back off a bit. thing . each successive time that you go into a trance or into a trance state. Then maybe you bounce out of it for second.writt downe get started. What you want to put at the top of that center column. You're moving your hands in relaxing manner. what do we mean by that? Well. Again. and they're such a key aspect of what we are discussing here. there'seathl to them. .. because it's beyond the scope of this product. you talk to them. and the more they do it. OK? You get rapport with them. what we talking about here? Fractionation. Now I'm not going to get into all the details as to how to do that here. Also we want to be able to bring up certain things. Maybe give them the correct gesture or something that could be relaxing. D3-T25 The next section I want to talk about. We've got five different things we're going to write in a column. if you're able to get somebody in a trance state. and their subconscious is not as engaged. it's a deeper state. you So when we talk about rapport tools. the ones I wanted to bring up specifically are "pacing and leading" and "fractionation". but what I want to do is set forth for you some thae youp influential an a g a i n . By doing that over and over. There's tons ofyoud thinge tha w.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Fractionation is the process where we're exploiting this ability of a person to go in and out of trance multiple times. we are at the second row on that graphic that you see in your workbook. they go into the trance state more easily. But in this context. so let'sTheWell i n c r e a s e wane yod t. they feel comfortable. OK. think about it guys. again. when you use fractionation—again. and then once again. could take some specific classes on rapport tools. So we have certain tools and certain things that we use to help facilitate us doing that. because I think they're so powerful. the next part of the SS tools hierarchy that we want to deal with is. . we are in the middle column. That's a good way to increase rapport as well. Part of this whole ability to use Speed Seduction® or any of these persuasive or influential techniques. get them to really relax in a trance state—then to some extent. if you've done that eight times. that's a process of fractionating them. Now. you relax. And again. you're pacing them by talking about something they are familiar with. You get tonality in the proper way. "conversational tools". they get a deeper trance state. r centepConversationaeWellS suc t h a lot of oe tha column We'v them out there. Conversational tools. then the ninth time their subconscious is a little more relaxed. direct the conversation to some extent. . we are having a conversation with a woman.. That ninth time it's easier for their subconscious to have an increased state of rapport with you because it knows that your safe and that you're an ally. let's say. is that you have to be able to have a conversation with somebody and maintain the conversation with somebody. Basically. and their subconscious is engaged more and more in the process. OK? We're at the second row. Write that down..
". Ok? D3-T28 What you're seeing is how we are building a structure here and how we are going up.. transitional phrases. it tends to be more quantifiable.. You know. it's almost like when you are doing that.. Or to transition to something else. "transitional phrases". / thought I heard such and such or what if somebody was to say to you this or what if I were to say to you that? Those are some weasel phrases. What that is is a way to say something without really saying something. . or they might be leading you to place where you could use some commands. to say something in a way that you're not really saying it. but you are not saying it. What are those? It's just like when. It's just like when you are doing this. It's a way like. but I also. you might be doing them in a way that has some trance words some commands. Look beneath them in the hierarchy guys. and all delivered with the proper tonality. i s .. my friend said this. it was Page 55 .. if I say things like "boy that was so much better. What do we mean by that? Remember when we talked about the conscious mind and unconscious mind. It's a way to weasel around the fact that you 're saying something. But. you can quote a friend or saying "it's almost like this. linkage phrases.. Or. See how they work? We're finding a way to talk about stuff and put it together in a structure. well... weasel phrases. The subconscious mind tends to deal with more generalities. . in terms of the hierarchy. So "linkage phrases". "Linkage phrases". Well.. And again. my friend used to say this or / read a magazine that or / also heard this. it's just like when this used to happen or that reminds me of the following or. It's using relative things. similarities and differences. the conscious mind deals with facts.. write that down.. D3-T27 The next thing below weasel phrases.. And the thing below that while you are writing on the paper is "transitional phrases". figures data.. well in their best application. Now again. You are saying it. the last thing in that center column is "ambiguities". and in so many other places that I don't want to get into a big definitions of it here. Your weasel phrases might have some trance words. Now. it's been discussed in so many other products. So I want you to write that down in the center column. Or in the case of weasel phrases. "god it was so much better. and then to link it to something else. 247 times as good as it was" that tends to engage the conscious mind. the last item is ambiguities. the home study course and things like that.. this is where weasel phrases fit into the overall structure of the tools that we are dealing with. it was 3. they are "linkage phrases". look at the hierarchy that you are building.. Your linkage phrases might have some commands in them. What are you using as part of weasel phrases and linkage phrases? You might have some trance words in there. They're phrases that allow you to talk about one thing.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Now you've heard mention of that in a lot of Ross Jeffries products and. it's almost like when.. But if I say.. So. Remember that we said. Does that make sense? See those little bits and pieces in that first row are the bits and pieces of the stuff in the second row. There's a vagueness as to it... If you are doing transitional phrases in the best way.
. if we talk about something. or the person's voice that sounds exactly like John Madden or a person's voice. that tends to be analyzed specifically by the conscious mind. " I mean if I start to get very specific.. but you are still saying "there's something about the fact that his chest to waste ratio is 1.. if I try to make a guess if I say "there is something about this person's voice. in order to process the information.. so that we are not really being specific. of a greater experience than that which you have before. "you know it's like when you meet somebody who has that perfect physique? They have a body fat percentage of below 11%. by speaking in an engaging and charming and fascinating way..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual just amazing the degree to which we saw an amazing improvement. and they speak in just that way that you really enjoy it. if I'm not ambiguous. you know. this person's voice that sounds exactly like Paul Harvey. but to really talk about it. " that. there is a good chance that I'm going to be wrong! D3-T3O Let me give you another example. to talk about something... They are processing that with their conscious mind. pull in emotions? Doesn't that tend to require like a subconscious response to sort of to understand that kind of thing? That's what we are using by ambiguities. " Well. then they are thinking of a voice that they really appreciate and they really like! Now I don't know exactly what that voice is. so much. the type you really like.. But you are making some assumptions about exactly what she likes. that's just amazing to you and really makes you think of wonderful things. it tends to take an emotional response or a subconscious response. Like if I say. that's kind of ambiguous isn't it? But doesn't that tend to pull in feelings.. can you imagine that. " D3-T29 Now. But you see how it works? If you are ambiguous. Sure. I don't know exactly what kind of voice they like. you can assist the process by using proper tonality. you know. if you give them that sort of information. and you know what it's like to listen to a compelling speaker.. If we are able to sort of be ambiguous.. it's so much more improved.. See.. and we specifically give facts and data. Let me give you a quick example. it takes the magic out of it. the person listening is able to draw their own conclusions based on what they like. then. "the person has an amazing kind of voice that you really appreciate. That's no fun. And they have a certain amount of definition.. you hear this person speak. Page 56 . First off. wow. Second off. And there is a risk. because it's so much better. positive things in that ambiguous fashion. you know. Plus being ambiguous is less risky—think about it. that apart of you. there is a good chance that you are wrong. if you are talking to her and say. " Well. Let's say you are talking to a woman about what she prefers in a male body type. you can imagine it being. They do! Now. well. so that you are able to see at least four if not six abdominal muscles. by embedding some commands in there. there I go again with an example.. where they just draw you and other something about that voice. you're giving them all of the details. So. that's ambiguous isn't it? And when I talk about. ?" I am being specific. I am basically telling them what their favorite stuff is. 4 or above.... and then when they flex their bicep the circumference of that is on the order of 18 to 19 inches. 4. and I'm describing it specifically. if I'm specific. we are being kind of general. Their chest to waste ratio is greater than 1. If you tell somebody if you are talking to somebody and say "you know. because if I don't exactly know what they like.
0480. if I was going to talk to woman about that.. wow.. that body type that's their personal favorite.. you could appreciate them on that level.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual But if you say. I don't know what her type is. I want her subconscious to create those pictures or to create that idea for itself... and I don't know what that is but everybody has that. for herself.. when you 're with someone and there is something about that person's physique? I mean. when you see somebody like that. The type that makes you think of certain.. let her know that... Be ambiguous. I am being ambiguous because I don't know what she likes. "you know what it's like. It's all one in the same..0 . And you can quickly dispel it but I am getting off-track. Be vague. I want her to figure that out. the proper want t likes in il th prope Tj1.. you know. Being vague.. in the proper frame. Ambiguities. But you see how I talked about the fact.166c( t) Tj0.. in the proper tonality. you really like. Don't make a guess of exactly what she likes. Who am I to tell her what she likes? Okay? So ambiguities really work in your favor. " And then frankly.072Tw0. Allow her subconscious to fill in the blanks.. in general.. But there is so much more to this person.000 Tc(o) Tf0 TjET039 Tw0Tc( th) Tj0.. I don't really talk about physiques and body types.. Stated in a positive way.... about the specific physique that. things? Okay. You begin to realize that. you have a picture in your own mind of like the ideal physique. the type they really like. because I like it when they appreciate you for lot more than that..
. Now. And then you are talking about television for a while. It's a natural thing that takes place. and then a moment or two later. Don't you connect to your family. So you talk about sports for a while. you sit there and go. people you knew from school? What's it like to connect with guys.. and that you appreciate things.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Like you may be talking about sports. And look guys. you know. You have a connection with the people you went to school with. and then the guy is talking about his DVD player. there's a connection there. I don't necessarily mean that.... Yeah you do things. two hours. you start to talk about sports again. they mean the world to you okay. Now we have talked about this.. you can be masculine. you could be a man. did you talk about what it's like to connect the things. that talk about themes.. and still talk about that. You can be a man. half-hour.. There's a lot of you that get really hung up on —"well. masculine guy. Now I don't mean. but it's a little bit of a leap. D3-T34 What are themes that can work for you? Well. Wait a minute. So lets. and talk about that sort of thing. your Brother. and then you talk about the new TV that you bought. you know. because you're watching television. let all this stuff go were all of you guys are all hungup on "I need to sound like a man so I can't talk about some of this stuff. or you are a lot better off. you can be a guy. you want to be able to talk about things.. with a pet for god's sakes. you're the kind of man that appreciates the fact that he can connect with people. I really think you can have more of an open mind about it for some of you. so now you're talking about hockey for a while. You know what? Look. You could.. some people that you've worked with. but you know what. Sister. What I mean is that you are a man.. it's possible. Then you are talking about football. guys all of a sudden go "I could use a connection pattern and that's it". you like your friends. ". And what it was like to drive there etc. where the theme is going to serve you. you know. OK? It's OK to talk about that sort of stuff. But a theme is like the central part of the conversation that goes on for. "I really like to connect.. and like your job. don't you connect to friends. hey. even guys on your sports team they're buddies of yours. and lead to seduction or lead to romance or dating or what ever you want to do? Yeah. I've got to say this. Really. Okay? You can talk about what it's like to connect to these things and how important that is or how that's a part of your life... who is able to at least have a conversation about this stuff. watching some sports. See? Conversations ebb and flow in that fashion. and there is various products that have been out in the Speed Seduction® catalog for a while. Now you can go from sports to something that has to do with seduction or persuasion. What can you connect with? See. you like your car. you watch sports. if that's where you're at. and what it's like and one of you went to the stadium last week. Now let's think about it.. D3-T35 What are some other themes that we can work with? Page 58 .. an our. and what the game was like it. but it's a lot better off. and you talk about what it was like to go parking there.. Well. what we want to do in this context is. You love your family. Can you talk about sports with somebody for two hours. or talk about topics. and it's so important to me that I can connect with things. okay. Think about it... Because women love the idea of a strong guy. and saw a football game. and you talk some more about hockey. I'm a guy and I really don't talk about the sort of thing". maybe your parents are very important to you. if you can talk about things or have a conversation with a theme that's going to serve you.
That's a very important thing I wanted to talk about for a while is themes. D3-T36 Now. we are still on the third row of our SS tools hierarchy. and in one of the other columns on the third row. Okay? So a theme is that common thread. where he actually broke down the process of like. you're getting great themes in this product. isn't it? Okay. then beneath it. What about the theme of. selling something. well. and very much. There's tons of material in this product alone.. that will provide you excellent things to have conversations about—Excellent themes for you.. we talked about connection. "I was listening to this guy talk about. or analyze things or communicate... This whole product can be a theme. and it was so interesting.. So in one of those columns.. you know. how do we select were doing what their lives.. the nice thing about themes is you can start off with something pretty innocuous as a theme and go to something more seductive. going to help you going to get more success. " Guess what? That's a great theme. . spend a little time here showing you how they work. You can have the theme about work and career. even career. and I want to work on some more things here.. We talked about themes—in another of the columns. This going to sound very familiar for you and I want to take the time to define them. how do you make decisions in your life and you know what's important to you? What about the theme of. It's very useful.. .. what I think is good to learn i s . How do we plan what we're doing from week to week and day-to-day? Okay? What about the theme of.. how the structure of the mind works. and that's what were going to talk about in the next section anyway. Now. It was really fascinating.. and he broke it down into a series of steps. "patterns" and beneath it "demonstrations". or look at things. we're on the third row. think of some themes that would be useful to you and find a way to talk about it. and that theme could lead to a theme of. " We talked about that didn't we? "I was listening to this guy talk about all the different bits and pieces of conversation that people use and how you can persuade other people. there are three things I want you to write down.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Well. What are the different ways that men and women. who doesn't like the idea of adventure? Doing something adventurous.. What about adventure. Page 59 . or how are the different ways that men and women connect. Don't you what to do something more fulfilling as a career? Why is it important to do something fulfilling? See? That can lead to something more useful in terms of seduction or for our purposes. or convincing someone of something.. or seducing something. Again these are things that you've heard a lot about. how do you know what it is you appreciate doing and like doing. I tell you what are some good themes—based on this product! How do people's minds work? What's it like. what about excitement? What's it like to do something thrilling and exciting.. You can talk about. this subconscious & unconscious? How do people connect with what they really want to do and their dreams. This is all starting to sound a little more familiar to you. So guys.. I want you to write down first "poems". " Isn't that what were talking about in this section of the product? What about "there's a guy.
Think about it. you would be correct. that has a rhythm to it . go ahead and do that as well... So poems can get a magical response but it tends to be within the context of having created a good environment already. that language. Now let's look at your hierarchy for a second.... What's a poem? Well. I tend to think of it in terms of this. delivered with the proper tonality. and you have the chance to deliver a good poem. OK. And if poems have specific moments or times when you can send an anchor or do some touching. A poem in its best context for the uses here that we're talking about.. The languaging tends to be vague and tends to be emotional in its character. they. or evoke a state.... There are some specific poems that some very good people that have worked in the Speed Seduction® community have written in the past. poems for our purposes. and then she is so moved that something ends up happening between the two of them. And looking beneath it. Probably the most discussed. A lot of guys. If you think. and have it have some effect.. but obviously think about it. Now a poem is not a magic bullet. What is a pattern? Well you know.. to go from one line or one stanza or one verse to the next. it's going to create a state of mind for her. It's something that people key into. you could just say a regular poem. I'm not very good at riffing poetry guys. So all of the people hearing the story think.... and then to place embedded commands and trance words and things in there. and in the process. Tell me what the poem is!" You have to understand that poems can be wonderful. or far more familiar with literature than I am that can define what a poem is. we all know what a poem is. a poem has wonderful languaging.. they will hear a story about somebody talking to a woman. I'm sure there is people in literature that are far more educated than myself. D3-T39 Now the next thing I want to talk about is patterns. That rhythm. Makes sense? I hope it does. okay. Now.. tends to evoke.. "The poem is what did it. D3-T38 What are poems made of? Well. but I think you get the picture. and those poems are specifically designed to create a state... they use a poem. aren't they? Now poems don't go "and the magic of the fact that the rose was the exact shade of Red. that cadence to it. and of course. That's how it fits into the hierarchy. embedded commands. Page 60 . so many people have tried to define it and everything and it's sort of ambiguous in its definition. tends to have a response in the subconscious. most overdiscussed aspect of Speed Seduction® that there is. look down beneath. " no. They're going to have a lot of ambiguities in them. The languaging tends to flow and have a rhythm to it. All right? So poems have all of the bits and pieces that provide languaging or a good language structure to put a lot of information in.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual D3-T37 Poems. but they are not magic in and of themselves. what are also poems made up of? Poems for our purposes will have trance words in them. on the part of the subconscious. the poems might have a lot of conversational tools within don't they? They're going to have we some weasel phrases and some linkage phrases. Poems have a lot of ambiguities in them. A poem is something that's going to hopefully evoke a state of mind. a response. You've have talked to the person for a while..
take the examples for what they are.. the voice inflection. one could use to create or evoke an emotional state or response. Everything pattern. If it did this Manual would be a LOT shorter than it is! The patterns that you have seen and heard in many products and at seminars. However don't waste all of your time memorizing patterns! I have met many guys who have spent way way way too long doing that. are examples of what could be said and done. etc. etc. how you could sound. pattern. that creates or evokes and emotional state or response. Use them at times.. learn from them. who. what to say. at the right time. had spent an entire year learning like 30+ patterns. that have never used the connection pattern word for word. One guy from a few years back. and as way to introduce the languaging to yourself. Okay? I know a lot of very experienced guys that have used this technology. D3-T40 Now. on the right of the page you could write down your own definition. but more importantly. Use patterns as they are described here in the lectures. the topics and subjects. Now they talk about connections.. Now you can write this down to a degree that you want. But in real time. etc. they talk about what it's like to feel a connection or to have a connection so and in a way they are using a connection pattern. etc. when you are talking to a person. Examples. as ways to learn. But for the most part. but they have not used in "the connection pattern" exactly out of the workbook. The Super "Get-Every-Woman Now" Pattern . the point isn't to rattle the pattern off work for word! In fact. they might have known two dozen or three Page 61 . the language. does not exist. patterns are examples. Look. and just start to talk to women like that. That's basically what it is. and like three to five minutes. and he had very FEW encounters with women! He could say the patterns at home in front of a mirror. so that you start to become more and more familiar with it. the wording.written patterns. Now you've heard tons of examples of patterns and everything from the "connection pattern" to the "fascination pattern" to the "Discovery Channel pattern".Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual A pattern. because it gives you examples of how the patterns could be created. They are examples of what you could say. A lot of guys think that if I just have the magical pattern to create a state. and it would not happen! So. as we tend to see it. creates or evokes and emotional state or response. I know guys. and in the right context. that's going to make everything happen. I tend to think of a pattern as something that lasts between 15 seconds. it's good to see pre. Become familiar with the structure. you know. for the most part. but it's not necessary that you use them exactly. There are some circumstances where you may be able to use them word-for-word. as a fallback position to discuss certain subjects and themes. but put him in front of a woman and/or have him create a situation where he could actually USE those patterns. they are shown as examples of what could be said and what could be done. He had them memorized exactly. pauses. gestures. is a written example of the type of languaging.
. and some of these. that's going give you that is going to make it as effective as possible without having it be really complicated. I have done the best thing I can in creating this hierarchy. visualize a ball of this. the patterns can get some amazing responses by themselves. I want to talk. We are going to have a lot of examples of that in this product and others because what you basically need to do is think. and they knew every little inflection that they should do.. but its best when you have a bunch of patterns strung together. this hierarchy that I am doing is the best shot to give you a good bang for the buck. you've got something to show someone. use that to create a pattern for yourself. and it's not that the patterns. They can be very interesting because—first off—it's a great thing to have a conversation about! How cool. Or "have you ever had your hand writing analyzed?" Or "hey. but it was memorized.. an entire conversation is senior to patterns in the hierarchy. patterns are a great example of a structure we can use to create or evoke an emotional response. Page 62 ... Of course sprinkled throughout is going to be trance words.. there is going to be some linkage phrases and weasel phrases.. if you want to get that technical. I want somebody to feel fascinated. Nothing magical. " So you talk about what it's like to feel fascinated] And. I mean. D3-T42 The next area. again. it tends to be very conversational. understand the tools that we have here in the hierarchy.. move energy around. palmistry..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual dozen patterns word for word. It wasn't really something they were feeling. I tend to put things like "The Cube" and writing analysis. if you understand how the mind works. somebody could say that "well. The demonstrations can work and a lot of different ways. look at your hierarchy guys. while I am talking about feeling fascinated. They are not magic.. and proper tonality with touching when appropriate. See how that works? So. do want to see something really cool about how the mind works". but they are all demonstrations. Now we have heard some fantastic demonstrations. You don't have to be arrogant about it or what ever. I want to get into our demonstrations.. Hopefully. I'm going to do some fractionation.. " Okay. I'm going to throw in. you've just got an interesting thing to show somebody. when you understand the things in this hierarchy that we are talking about now. or a frame of that.... patterns are just what they are. And they knew every word. "you know... So in some respects.. and then pick an emotion or state that you want to create or evoke and talk about it.. patterns become a lot easier... commands. you know. or demonstrative things that people can do. you know what I was reading a book about like reading palms do want to check this out?" It's very easy to bring that sort of thing up. So. maybe some anchors. if you understand the aspects of Speed Seduction®. there are some wonderful demos in terms of having people visualize pictures. a theme or an overall conversation is made up of a bunch of patterns.. and in the process of having a discussion about it. that makes sense in light of the hierarchy and how far we have come. While I am talking about what it is like to feel fascinated. So. whatever.. I could get into a hierarchy here that has 12 levels and all sorts of stuff. D3-T41 Now.. Okay? Please don 7 spend tons of time memorizing every pattern! Instead understand the structure of the mind that we talked about... of the bits and pieces that make up patterns... Look. you know. you are talking and say "hey. But. and I think you are getting an understanding based on what we've talked about so far. and use the tools that are shown in the hierarchy here that make a pattern. and they had it down pat.
and you manipulate the feeling. to do some gestures. why not use it? D3-T43 Another great thing about demonstrations is. or moving. Now the other aspect of demonstrations that make them incredibly powerful. great. And then. if you've got something cool to show her or demonstrate to her. to work in some weasel phrases. if you're just an interesting guy. it's an excuse or reason for her to want to talk to you! Let's face it. ok—you are taking something that might symbolize excitement. OK? Some of these are quite overt in that you are taking something that symbolizes—remember. and touching them at just the specific times. that's a crutch"—wait a minute! Hey. and it's very powerful. were going to get into this later.. they can be quite magical in their power. great! If you happen to be her type. is that some of these demonstrations in and of themselves can be very persuasive. because some of these demonstrations can get very direct that you're manipulating their feelings and you're moving feelings around. what we talk about the Speed Seduction® steps. So it's a reason for them to talk to you.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual First off. What if you are doing hand writing and not just giving them a trait on the hand writing cards. Why not? Different people use different things. There are tons of things in different products. Remember what happens when you take a symbol and equate it to something? Have a symbol that represents a feeling. or imagine this in a picture.. you are doing it and being very aware of your tonality. You've got to be careful though. even if it's a trick or whatever. if it's a demonstration. why should she talk to you? Well. why not do the demo and (look at the hierarchy) it's a great opportunity to sprinkle in some of the other stuff. if you are talking to someone for a while. our diagram of the conscious and subconscious mind. Why not do their hand writing? Why not do palmistry? Why not show them some demonstration. you've got to have a reason for her to want to sit down and speak with you! Or if you meet her someplace—why should she talk to you? Well. working with feelings that can work very much in your favor. and ambiguities so that you can ultimately get in some trance words and commands? What if you are doing that demonstration and the whole time. Page 63 .. it symbolizes feeling attracted. and you're manipulating that symbol. OK. Maybe you. that's a good reason to talk to you I guess. or a symbol that you create that represents her feeling of being adventurous. Think about it. Demonstrations are very powerful and Ross does this exceptionally well. So why not use that? This whole thing about—"well. and manipulate the symbol. D3-T44 Now. it's good to have a skill or a subject that she finds fascinating or something that's going to keep her attention for a while. magic tricks are similar to this. she's busy. I have seen him. that's fine.. A lot of the demonstrations go that extra step and actually have you manipulating feelings. and it's really powerful and very dramatic.. See how that works? Demonstrations provide you with a great opportunity to use all of the tools below it on the hierarchy. or a picture frame with your face it. but you're using it as an opportunity to put in some anchors. that keeps people around and makes them interested enough to want to sit down. but you need a reason for her to talk to you guys! I mean she's got a life. It's fantastic for that. Ross has given you guys some unbelievable demos about moving someone's energy around. people talk about their job or how great their life is. the process itself. It's very exciting. putting all of their excitement into a ball of energy and moving that around.
then beneath that write "metaphors". Jokes help. and this is some other stuff you have heard about too. and making sure that this is ultimately going to be safe and secure for me". jokes.. See. that you know what you're doing. Well. You've got to be very careful about the sort of stuff... This is more of the conversational stuff that you can bring up with people but in that column in the third row. some of you guys have some real problems I've seen about using demonstrations like it's a crutch. remember. and you have to have a really good sense of rapport. They're probably are in pretty good Page 64 .. her subconscious is analyzing what's going on. if you've got good intentions and good rapport. but we're also watching. this is wonderful. listening. Think about it.... you've got to be very careful about the fact that that you are being congruent. in so many ways. or has the potential to be very invasive or very powerful. If somebody is sitting there talking to you and they're comfortable enough to tell you a joke. You start doing something extremely powerful. it's not a crutch. or how to specifically create a joke. If you're going to laugh. D4-T1 The next area I want to talk about is another column in that third row. if it's a very invasive demo. It's the way with a lot of things in life. It's extremely perceptive. it probably is. and learning. it is a crutch. ) But if you are really able to appreciate humor and laugh at something. and her subconscious is going "great. (There's such a thing as nervous laughter..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction* Technical Manual Manipulation is a strong word. It's watching. metaphors. it can be an incredibly powerful way to make this process happen.. "jokes" and then beneath that write "stories". So a lot of these guys think "oh yeah. It's just that you are working with their feelings. I hope I don't. If their subconscious gets a sense that you are not genuine.. I want you to write in the following stuff. you know. don't you have to be comfortable? If you're going to laugh at something. You are either funny or you're not.. And I'm telling you. You have to be very careful that you are being congruent about what you're doing. you're not congruent. if you're tense and upset or really worried about something do you think you're going to be able to laugh? Probably not. You can learn to be funny by the way but. feeling about what you're doing. Because you are moving things around and helping them to affect things in their subconscious. and you are comfortable. you're probably pretty relaxed. I mean. D4-T2 I don't need to sit here and define what a joke is. on multiple levels. D3-T45 Because her subconscious. It's a great way to show something to someone that's really cool and for our purposes here. because I don't think anybody has been able to really effectively define what a joke is.. if you think it is so. or that you are just doing this to get over on them or something like that—boom—they are out of there. because it probably won't work. So I suggest. it all rolls back guys. stories. They are not intimidated. that person's probably pretty relaxed... Remember all of that in our discussion of the subconscious? So demonstrations can be incredibly powerful and incredibly useful to you. but that's a different category.. being able to tell a joke to somebody works so well. They have nothing to fear. don't you? And if somebody is telling you a joke. because it's showing that you are relaxed. if you think it's a crutch. you have probably got pretty good rapport with them. and feeling... I found this demo to do such and such an ongoing to use it on this chick" Hey. You're probably pretty comfortable. you've got good rapport. listening. you've probably got some materials out there that talk about demos. you got one column left there.
because sometimes with jokes. There are some specific jokes that are in some of Ross's products that are written specifically to provide a framework for the Speed Seduction® materials. and up and down. things you have been through... there are specific jokes. I mean. and you are relaxed in a situation. so that they are thinking of another thing. right? My voice went up and down... A woman that maybe had a fantastic experience with this guy that she had met. there are parts of them that you really need to talk like this. Now. it ends up that they were thinking about the wrong thing. D4-T3 The next areas we're talking about are "stories" and "metaphors". or. Or a story that you read a magazine. You have stories about yourself.. A woman that you know who went through something and then had a wonderful time. Another thing about jokes is they provide you a great opportunity to find a way to use trance words and put in embedded commands. and it's really going to work in terms of being able to communicate well with someone. Ok? A lot of jokes to have as part of their mechanism. doing some weasel phrases. If they're able to laugh. If you are telling a joke (look at the hierarchy guys) if you are telling a joke and it might be an excellent example for you to find a way to fractionate.. jokes work in conveying that you are comfortable... If you need to use jokes and humor more as part of your routines. and then there's other parts that are soft again. its kind of a fractionating thing. but that's a bit of fractionation.. Ok? Jokes are an excellent way to maybe put in some anchors in there. they're going to relax a little bit. in your favor. it's almost like that time that you saw a movie... isn't it? So maybe you put a joke. Things that a friend has been through. linkage phrases. do it! It's really going to work.. Ok? It shows that you are not all upset... They really work in our favor. All right? So again (look at that hierarchy) jokes are a great framework in which to put a lot of the stuff beneath it. this. hopefully. I suggest you look through your materials and find those jokes and use them if you're comfortable doing so. and things like that. and then there's others were you are really excited and really animated. So.. But think about it. I think this is probably pretty self-explanatory. That's part of telling a joke in a dramatic way. ) Page 65 . you touch them.. There's excellent standup. about your life (hopefully you do) things you have learned. And there are other aspects of jokes and humor that tend to work in our favor. You create an anchor. I don't need to explain what a story is. tell stories.. (Those are some transitional phrases and linkage phrases for you there. If somebody is laughing and having a good time. Ok? Plus again. you are not tense. or do some gestures. There's tons of joke web sites. and that they are going to be relaxed in that situation. where they were talking about. But if you can tell a joke and get somebody to laugh. If not. it also works in that they are comfortable.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual rapport with you. learn some jokes. They are a great framework for pacing and leading. Go rent some comedy videos. or it's just like when you read something in the newspaper or. and right at the punch line when their laughing. a tension and release. meaning they're thinking of one thing and then you misdirect them in another way.. things that a friend has learned. If they get the joke and they laugh. it's a demonstration that they are relaxed and comfortable and have good rapport. it's a great time to do an anchor. or a metaphor is.
the phenomenon that we are observing. So if you form a picture in your mind of you talking to someone. and the second one is "your frame of mind". what does that mean? Let's look at the frame. Tell jokes. Anchor those states. These are larger items in terms of the tools that we are using.... That's good. what I want to talk about next is the fourth level up in the SS tools hierarchy. the resources that we have at our disposal. let's face it guys—I mean you are going to talk to a woman for an hour or a couple of hours. And with that we are done with the third level. because this does involve talking. because now we are starting to see how things fit into an overall structure. And they are part of the SS tools hierarchy. an hour or two. So let me give you a way to think about frames for second—meaning. use some trance words. that's good. See? So. or a story about what happened at the bank. you could have concepts that you're familiar with. But it's still an opportunity for you to talk. even if the story is not directly Speed Seduction® related—I mean. a lot of these tools. Now. You're not always going to be throwing in patterns and all of this elaborate stuff. So.. You might just be telling a story about work or a story about your life. And this is very important to us. there are two things here that I want you to write down. your frame of mind. 3. talking about exciting things. You could just talk about your life. And they don't has to be "Speed Seduction® stories". Two things go on the fourth level. isn't it? Like imagine. Have metaphors. You can have some stuff that you have worked out beforehand. But it's a part of what we have in our resource toolkit if you will. because you need to be able to have a conversation for you know. Maybe you are telling a story. a good way to embed a lot of these other aspects of Speed Seduction®. stories about a holiday or something happening to them today. or something you did. It's an opportunity for you to do proper tonality. And also. Ok? There Page 66 . wonderful things. there is a certain way that you are looking at the situation.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual If you are telling a story. It's all a part of it. When you are in a situation. But you can be talking about things and again (looking at the hierarchy) it gives you a framework to put in the stuff that we have talked about already.. and it's an incredible opportunity for you to place some embedded commands in there. Ok? I will tell stories. The first one is "your state of consciousness".. It doesn't mean you can't tell the story in a way that it's going to have some fractionation in it. we are getting into the big chunk items here. and I know people who will tell stories about work. anything. to talk for awhile. or a vacation or. D4-T5 Now. 5 Tools Hierarchy Level 4 D4-T4 Now. let's say you are talking to someone. tell stories. that routinely lead themselves to stories and metaphors. Maybe you can tell the story in a way that's going to involve some anchoring. Ok? That's a part of this. Great. the story itself and the metaphors as well. you know. So on that fourth level. Your state of consciousness. They don't have to be "Speed Seduction® metaphors". stories and metaphors you can be talking about these things. and we're ready to move on. some people get confused about state and frame.. So the story isn't about a Speed Seduction® thing.
you know. D4-T6 Now. you are some lecherous person who doesn't care what she thinks or feels? That's a frame. Page 67 . So what do I have to do to trick her into thinking that I am really thinking that she's. Well.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual is you and the person in the picture. I am really seeing if she is woman enough to appreciate what a great guy I am?" Well. Is the frame that all you need is to ask for directions so you're asking for her help? That's a frame. if she would only approve of me. she's really gorgeous and very beautiful. that's a frame.. I don't really think that I'm screening her. Is the frame that you are some arrogant guy. Is the frame of it that you're "hitting on her"? Is the frame of it that "she is absolutely gorgeous and you are intimidated"? That's a frame. what they're really asking is "Dave. Let's try that again. It's the frame that you have put around it.... No. picture that for second. and looking at it where you are sitting there thinking "boy. When I hear guys say stuff like "What do I have to do to get her to see that I have the frame of such and such. so that. The frame isn't about you doing something to convince her of what the frame is. I am. Let's see what she is like as a person. no. And your frame of mind i s .. no. The point of a frame isn't to do something to convince her that the frame is something different than it is. The frame is around that picture.... no. You set the frame.. I would be so lucky to spend two minutes talking to her" that's your frame. you could. I wonder if she'll make me feel better about myself by approving of me or being nice?" Wow.. Is the frame that. Ok? And that picture that you are looking at is one of "I am a great guy. I'd feel good about myself. that's a frame. you know. I feel good about myself. a frame is how you look at the situation from afar. when guys say. but you know. That's not a good frame is it? But the frame of "Hey. I want to get a point understood by you guys listening to this product is that guys ask the question a lot of times "What do I have to do to make her think that this is the frame?" Wait a minute. let's see if there's more to her than that. But if your frame is "god. no. See. You have to have the frame of mind. If your frame is "boy. . But I want to fool her into thinking I am. You have to have the frame of mind. '. I don't really believe that. she is stunning. " No. The point of a frame is not to trick her into thinking there is a different frame. Lets see if she can recognize that. so it is "How does one see that interaction". Guys will also ask questions like "What do I have to do to convince her that the frame is that I'm seeing if she.. " That's a frame. That's not a good frame is it? Ok. and god. So if you are sitting there in the frame that you have is "Oh. busting her chops? That's a frame. The point of a frame is to have the frame. the frame in your mind that you are putting on it... I mean picture that. It does not work that way.. " That's a frame. See. I want to see if she's woman enough to recognize what a great guy. "how to I frame the situation. Picture you talking to a woman and the frame around that picture. I mean imagine you talking to a woman and looking at it from outside. " That's a frame isn't it? That's a pretty good frame to operate from. . no. and you are just sitting there. " It gets convoluted to even think about it in that way.
You have to have the frame. what you say. Ok? Now if your state of consciousness. and sometimes they are in less than a good mood. That's all the work you got to do guys. Ok? You have to choose to have a good state of consciousness. and where your mind at. where's your mind at the time. you don't need to do any work. You really have to get to a point for yourself and realize that it's ultimately up to you. The key to setting a frame is to have the frame have it as a belief. D4-T8 Now here is the key. and she needs to recognize. It's how you are feeling at the time. If you have a great state of consciousness and you have a good frame of mind about the situation.. If that's what your belief is. if you are good guy. and then the frame is set.. because I want to talk about your state of consciousness Your state of consciousness is how you feel at the time. guess what? No one does. Really. what went wrong in the past. do you feel less than good? What is your state. you are focused on a positive outcome.. D4-T7 next.. or what could go wrong. that's always on 100% of the time". you have set the frame. no.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual If you have the frame. your state of consciousness within yourself is your responsibility. and all of the subtleties of how you present yourself. You choose to have a good state of consciousness. know it for yourself. Page 68 . That may sound overly simplistic. but it's actually true. you know. If your frame of mind is "I am a great guy. the key about being in a good state is to look at the positive things and to focus on the positive things for yourself. Okay? And you've got to understand some guys say. You have set the frame. I've got a lot going for me that's good. you are so powerful in terms of meeting women. but everybody has normal ebbs and flows to their state. is that you're a positive person. That's the frame. It's how you feel within yourself. that is your frame. Look. "I want to have a state.. How do you feel? Do you feel good. all of those things that her subconscious is going to be perceiving (remember it's very perceptive) that's all going to come across.. See. but it's extremely difficult to do it. A lot of the guys that are focused negatively about what's going wrong.. there's not a trick to setting the frame. let's see if she is woman enough to recognize it' then you have set the frame. Everybody has times when there in a good mood. have the frame! Know that you have a lot to offer. Ok. Well. all of the aspects of what your subconscious is going to be doing. I hope that make sense about frames. how you act. that's a good state to have. you don't need to create a frame or trick her into thinking there is a frame that says you are a good guy. Your state of consciousness is your state. that's a bad state to be in. It's that simple. and it's—really a big part of it—is that it's your own choice. Ok? So. You cannot trick somebody into thinking you have a frame that you don't. All of. Well maybe you can.. It's good to have a positive state of mind as much as you can. you are looking for positive things. in terms of using these techniques. how you move. You don't need to convince her. And those things supersede—or they are senior to—everything beneath them on the hierarchy.
YOU decide that. because you are relaxed and comfortable. Sometimes. and having a proper frame about the situation. but it IS. so just choose otherwise. D4-T9 Now what I want to do here is to stop for a moment and look at the hierarchy and where we are at. If your frame of mind is correct then a lot of the stuff beneath it is very easy to do. and it's very easy to use to stuff beneath it. it does not work that way. a process as you want it to be. Any choice made long enough. That's a great frame of mind to visualize your interaction with her from. well. you're having a positive time. if you need them. Things can happen to you all day long. They are good at all of the stuff beneath it. Now. They can do poems. she looks great. Well. you set the frame when you walk into the room. if you are in the correct state of mind. ) The frame is that "picture frame" around the situation—how it is seen from outside. See. Are you the man who is begging her for attention? Or are you the man who knows that he is a great guy and is offering her an opportunity to have some fun? Your state is how YOU feel. (ok) imagine the kind of jokes that you'll be able to tell. apply them. See. that's a great frame of mind to be in. but for the most part. and change. but those are just "things that happen". Well. you feel great. to think of patterns. but let's see what she's about as a person". (Ok. Page 69 . I want you to be able to apply the stuff. The Frame and The State Remember. how easy do think it is to do all of the other stuff beneath you on the hierarchy? Pretty easy isn't it? If you have this frame of mind of talking to woman of like "oh my god. although this is getting technical. let's just see what happens". maybe you can to a slight extent. and for some period. comfortable. you got that state that says "hey. It IS a choice. If you are in that proper state. and congruent within that frame (and the amount of rapport that you have) will determine the degree to which another person "adopts" your frame as well. one of the reasons its higher on the hierarchy as we see here is that there's an a lot of guys out there who are able to do a lot of the stuff beneath that. the theme that can be very interesting throughout a two-hour interaction with a woman. That is as complicated. The key is that YOU need to decide to use them.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Look at the hierarchy for a moment. Hey. it's getting a bit abstract. this is all about being in that proper state. NO one else. Again. maybe. they talk to a really beautiful woman and their frame of mind is all wrong. Now. Because it's important that you guys be able to put a lot of the stuff together. then look at all of the bits and pieces beneath that in the hierarchy. Being able to do demos and everything else—you are in a great state! It's very easy to use the proper demonstrations. It's much easier to use them. if you are in a great state of consciousness. or correct state of consciousness (I'm sorry). You can't "fool" someone into having them think you have a frame that you don't have. at doing themes as well. Ok? So it is "senior" to it. The degree to which you are secure. They are good. You want to change your state? You already chose to feel the way you are feeling. But sometimes they get nervous. You determine your state by how YOU DECIDE to respond to those things. and all through your life. or as simple. the key to all of this is application. There are great tools to help with that as well. or often enough. and have the right frame of mind about a situation. They can do patterns. almost seems like it's not a choice anymore. They are much more effective.
Do they? Or more trance words. or have a wrong frame of mind. just like it was on the fourth row. Because they have to have the proper state and frame in order for it all to work.. 6 Tools Hierarchy Level 5 D4-T11 Now we are at the fifth level of the Speed Seduction® tools hierarchy. let's move on to the next level. or that you are a great guy with a lot to offer. Page 70 . They need to work on their state of consciousness.. Ok? Now. And it's really senior to it isn't it? Think about it. and how they affect everything beneath it. If you look at the next row up. and some of the demos or patterns. things would be great". They had a bad frame about the situation. I hope that makes sense. Your state of consciousness and your frame of mind to determine how effective everything beneath them are. you know they have done the demo and maybe they did the demo the right way. some guys out there—you probably know of some friends—and I don't like to focus on negative stuff. do think they were effective? No. But think about it—your beliefs. Learn from your mistakes. But I wanted to show you here where they fit into the hierarchy. how do you think those jokes are going to sound? What you think those demos are going to be like? I mean. And this is why it's at this level the hierarchy. if you for cognition and you realize and visualize this for yourself if you a cognition that women do really appreciate this sort of stuff—if you the proper beliefs. but I want to take this moment to direct that to you.. again. Ok? Now. it does get easier with time. I know some guys that have learned some of the Speed Seduction® materials. and they said the pattern correctly. but I want a point out some of these things just as an opportunity to learn. Well. But there are two things I want you to right here on the fifth level and they are the following.. "beliefs" and "cognitions". and with that.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual It's like "Oh god. even though they said the pattern and the demo correctly. but they were in a bad state. but focus on the positive and what you want. how easy to think it is to do jokes? To tell great stories that really key people captivated? To do demos in a way that people enjoy them and they're having fun? If you are in the wrong state. If you the proper beliefs. I can do six CDs worth of material just on state and frame itself. there are places for just two things to be written. 3. if she'd only approve of me. The more you focus forward and focus positively on the outcomes that you want and move towards then the easier it is to have the correct state and the correct frame. they probably don't need to work on more commands. Now. learn from what went wrong. we are getting into really big chunk territory here guys in terms of how your mind works and how things are. on the graphic that we have there. where do you think those guys need to work? What do think they need to work on in this hierarchy? Yeah. And if you have a good state of consciousness and you are in the proper frame about the interaction it becomes so easy to do the stuff beneath it. It becomes easier.. If you have the proper state and the proper frame. and their frame of mind.. if you believe that women actually like you to present yourself in a good fashion if you believe that women actually like the idea of seduction or romance or meeting interesting men. if you believe that you are good person. D4-T10 A lot of that gets to some of the stuff we will talk about in the future. and the proper cognitions then the rest of the stuff is easy. Well.
however you want to frame it for yourself. you do have some believe it that you have learned.. Because that's good. and isn't that what all of this is anyway? Really. What about the cognition that they are able to really see if you have good intentions (and good intentions can mean that some sort of "interlude" is going to happen). Having the proper frame of mind. if you cognite that.. You believe that women like this stuff. that's senior to a lot of the other stuff we have talked about so far. that women actually appreciate those things. That's right. isn't it? If you have the proper cognitions and beliefs..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual If you the proper cognitions and beliefs about stuff is easy to have a proper frame of mind and state of consciousness. Because look at it in the hierarchy again. metaphors. Now look. I think a lot of that's just wrong. sex. that's bad. whether it be seduction or romance or they enjoy meeting interesting men. if you've got those. maybe. that are able to see through some of the jerks out there and appreciate a man who really has a lot going for him. then a lot of it's easy. that they enjoy. right? Because if you believe. I can't take three CDs to tell you how to do each one of these things. Page 71 . and so does everything below it. that women are actually powerful. can these tools and techniques be used to trick somebody? Yeah. They like being romanced. but if you cognite that those things are good. Well. What about the belief that women do enjoy the process. They appreciate the sort of things and this type of languaging... They want to have men do interesting things they want you to be interesting. you shouldn't do that that. And if you have those sort of beliefs and cognitions. I think a lot of that is wrong. having the proper state of consciousness. I think a lot of the bad beliefs that people have are things that they have been taught or trained. But what about the beliefs that women really are able to see a guy who's genuine. because those beliefs and cognitions are there. if you're operating at that level. the jokes. and it's a matter of. a lot of the beliefs and cognitions that a lot of guys have. is going to be so much easier for you. I mean. poems.. If that's what you.. women don't want that sort of stuff". Now. the stuff beneath it becomes so much easier. D4-T12 But when you look at the diagram that we did of the conscious and subconscious mind. or seduced. you're going to be in a lot better place. well.. then telling jokes and stories and demonstrations in a way that's going to be interesting and seductive or romantic or however you want to put it.. actually are ones that can serve you. now. all of that comes easier.. hey.. They want you to present yourself in an interesting way. is a lot easier. If you are just. remember how we showed how powerful the subconscious is? Remember how we said how perceptive it is? See. within the scope of this product and the scope of this hierarchy. But I think that in reality. I think that a lot of you guys need to get back in touch with the beliefs and cognitions that you have had and realize that women feel the same way. "Oh. if you believe that. If you've got those. If you're a great guy with a lot going for you. And then again. then it's easy to do the rest. If you just get back in touch with the cognitions and beliefs that do serve you. that a strong interesting woman is going to appreciate you. stories. Women want to meet interesting men. I'm trying to put them all into perspective for you. it's really able to perceive what you're true intentions are. and cognite that romance. seduction.
Okay? Now I know some guys don't like big chunk stuff. Well. D4-T14 Let's face it guys. D4-T15 So who you are and the life you lead are sort of senior to everything. This is the top-level stuff guys.. are creating things. This is it. or something like that—then the rest is easy. you are doing exciting and adventurous things with your time. you are doing charity work. do I pause here or there. you have to spend a lot more time focusing on the details. that in and of itself is very seductive. And here it is.. It's easy to cognite on the proper things and your state and frame is easy. It's a lot easier to apply these things in the context of being an interesting person and leading an interesting life. the top row. but you lead and exciting interesting dynamic life. 7 Tools Hierarchy Level 6 D4-T13 Now. But it's going to make it a lot easier to find the kind of quality women or woman that you really want to find. But I wanted to back up and take this time to get at the biggest of the big chunk stuff. Now the "life you lead" well. I want you to write down the following things. maybe you're not a rock star or whatever. so at that top-level those things about you and your life are things that are going to work for this context. okay? Now it might not be something you can fix tomorrow. I'm sure not everybody can run out and be Mick Jagger tomorrow or be a rock star or a movie star. or some male model. or maybe you're an artist or whatever . Because hey. isn't it? It's easy to do that sort of stuff. Now. you guys that are dying for details have gotten that. we are up to the top level of the tools hierarchy that we have put together.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual 3. It makes you fascinating to women. If you are an interesting person. isn't it? It's easy to have the proper beliefs if you look gorgeous. ". The sixth row of the hierarchy. I've given you a lot of information so far about the hierarchy so hopefully. and you lead a great life. if you are rich and famous —I mean. Can you not be an interesting person and not have an interesting life and have success? Yeah. then don't you think the rest of the stuff is going to be a lot easier to do as well? And you probably are not going to have to do as much work. You have a lot more flexibility to lead the life that you want to lead. I think you're going to see how it's really going to make sense now. It might not be something. it's not going to make every woman fall at your feet of course. that's going to make this process easier for you. But you know what? You can become what ever you want to become. then the rest is easy. they want the details. If "who you are" is something that's going to work in this context really well. if you are rich. if you are Mick Jagger or some famous actor. But. if you're operating at the top-level. If you lead a life where you are doing fun things... or if you're a movie star or a rock star. It's very interesting. the biggest of the big chunk. or creating a business. They want to hear "What do I do? Is it and "and" or an "or". it just takes a little more work. First is "who you are" and the second is "the life you lead".. And in perspective. If the life you lead is an exciting and interesting life. if you lead an Page 72 . you are going for new opportunities. then the rest of it is very easy and the degree to which you are the kind of person that works well in this context. if you are in interesting guy.. you are taking risks.
and it's all easy. and you're watching the car in relation to the road. 3. You are doing things like. So now. It's there. the lowest level of the hierarchy. we are skilled at. you are looking around. accelerating and decelerating the car. Then. isn't there? Making sure that it's between one curb and the other and you're not up on the sidewalk. I like to use the same analogies through a lot of this product and other products. Think of it. you're looking at the sides. A lot of times your doing things like operating a temperature and climate control in the car. you are actually minding the road itself. That's another level in the hierarchy that you're operating at. There might be some passengers or people you have to deal with. Okay. Now going up in terms of the hierarchy. So you're manipulating the pedals. Now we are not talking about accelerating the car. Now at the bottom. You're looking in the rearview mirror. driving it down the road. there's steering the car in terms of the wheel. I'm sure that each of us in our own lives. you are looking in front of you. have things that we do what or we're good at that. In fact. you know. They have this kind of structure. It's a context that goes across it. and things like that. because they tend to help. You're moving the steering wheel in the manner that you need to. You are doing a lot of things while you are driving. what's the next level? Your doing things like steering the car. your state and your frame. but it's a little detailed thing that you have learned.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual interesting life and your beliefs and cognitions are there. Meaning. operating the brake. and the shifter. you're manipulating the knobs that you need to. 8 Tools Hierarchy Review and Application D4-T16 Now. you are doing all of these little bits and pieces. Moving this foot and that foot in a certain ways to manipulate a brake or a pedal. So you're watching the road. Moving your hand onto a gear shift lever. What are you also doing in the next level up? Well. Sounds like a theme doesn't it? D4-T17 What about driving? Think of driving in terms of this hierarchy. we are talking about putting a foot on a little piece of plastic or rubber that's on the floor. you don't even see the pedal. that's the sort of the next level up. You can't even see it. everything else is taken care of for you. or have natural skills at. or that we have learned. being mindful of things like having on the turn signal. Those are functions that you are doing that would be like on the second or third level. we've gone through all of the levels of the hierarchy and I really want to take a moment and talk about this because you know. your doing all that in a coordinated fashion so that you can actually stay on the road. moving it in a certain way. you are driving down the road. Let me give you an example of something that is pretty common to most people. And again I use a lot of the same analogies. right? Most of the time when you are driving. and it's probably going to indicate to you. That's the next level up. What's a level above that? Page 73 . that we can look at our lives in this sort of context. because I come back to it as a common reference point. like putting a hand on the wheel. That's the next level of driving a car. but there is also pointing the car. is there. great. What are you doing up a level from that? Okay. It's all good. and your having to keep track of where you are. there's a lot of things in life—even though we have laid this out in the context of Speed Seduction®—there's a lot of things in life that you do already that sort of have this kind of hierarchy to it.
D4-T18 Now for a lot of people I know what they did when they learned how to drive a car—you didn't get put onto a freeway going 60 miles an hour with no experience. you started in a parking lot.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Well. Then you do stuff like give it some gas. they should practice them until they have got them down. There's a lot of great tools and resources for those things. where you get hung up. well they've done a lot of studying (look at the hierarchy again) and they understand and can do the proper tonality. If you can do the bottom three levels really easily. Then you drive on some surface streets. she think I'm a loser". looking at the hierarchy.. you are doing the pedals and doing all the stuff. See. so that you are driving the car and pointing it. And what you probably did as part of learning was to break it down into a series of steps so that you would learn it. do you think those guys need to work on more embedded commands? I mean. " Okay? There's a lot of levels that you're operating in just in operating a car. what you think you need to work on? Sure. and they have worked a lot on weasel phrases and linkage phrases.. I'm still trying to impress her and I'm really caught up in that" Well. when you're able to use this stuff. The comes from having a very good understanding of how they all work based upon products like this and some others and products and there already out Page 74 . move ahead a little bit. and listening to it over and over again). I know a lot of guys who sit there and say. I know a lot of drivers-ed teachers that what they do is that they put you in a car. this can be a diagnostic tool to help you figure out where you are operating. there's stuff like "navigating the car". You do that off and on until you just get used to the basics of manipulating the gas and the brake. but. Let me give you an example. Then you build up in terms of the hierarchy. If they can do the things on let's say the bottom three levels. so it's just like when you are having a conversation where you are able to also recall a different time. you need to focus on the level of this chart. and you make some turns. and they even know some poems and everything else. you're driving the car down the road. I need to keep my eyes open for it. throwing in examples as were talking about it. there's going to be a ramp coming up. if they can do weasel only could phrases and all of those things. and patterns. we get up to the fifth and six level. For a lot of people. then you need to focus on your state of consciousness and your frame of mind. " Or "oh. but you are also keeping it between two curbs. When they talk to a woman and she is gorgeous they are thinking "oh. D4-T19 See.. That comes with repetition. and demos. if they can do the embedded commands and the touching and all that. I think there's a lot of guys that understand the bottom three levels (or hopefully you will after reviewing this product. You started with the bits and pieces. These guys are able to operate maybe on the lowest two or three levels. Okay? You see what I'm getting at? Even something like driving that we do pretty naturally. then you drive around the parking lot. You know. or "god. Go! No. Put your foot on the gas and roll for little bit then stop by putting your foot on the brake. you can use that sort of approach when it comes to Speed Seduction®. you're operating on a lot of levels. Well. but then navigating is like knowing "I'm going to have to take a turn three blocks up from here. If they can practice them into them comfortably then.. Again. Navigating the car. But when they talk to a woman they get tongue tied. and they threw you out there and said. and had you just put your foot on the gas and roll had a little bit and stop. and they know how to use embedded commands in a magical way that the trance words just flow from themselves wondrously. But I think there's guys that could be a little smoother at those bottom three levels. where you are just driving the car and pointing it.
Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual there and some that are being worked on. Do you think I do that every time? No. I stop for moment. and going "ok. and use it as a diagnostic tool to figure out where you need help. and then I'm going to. maybe what you need to do is work on themes. If you can do the trance words and commands and stuff at the lowest level. like you understand the weasel and linkage phrases. that's a pretty big chunk. and then do the stuff at the next level. it gets to the point where you know these skills so well that they truly become just apart of your subconscious. Who you are and the life you lead. on the gas pedal. But you know what? A lot of times guys. and you hear that I put an embedded command in. D4-T20 Another great use of this hierarchy is. Remember when I talked about driving. Well. listen to your products over and over. they don't throw you out in the highway and say. "go work on your shifting. " They back you up to a parking lot or something—I shouldn't say back you up with driving—they had you takes steps backwards in terms of the types of skills you need. and I need to put it this Page 75 . What's a great way to learn the lowest level stuff? There's different resources out there. and really accentuate the fact that I'm doing a command. I am not marking it out like that. that put all of the pieces in that are beneath it? See if you have trouble driving. I'm giving you types of examples. so I'm going to be talking and then I'm just going to pause. Start at the lowest level. You're going from small chunk to big chunk.. Now do you think I am sitting here in my mind. How can you talk about something for an hour with a common theme? Can you riff on patterns like that? Can you do demos in a way. and you're having trouble learning how to shift the car. D4-T21 See. Also listen to your other Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction products a lot. Look at the steps and how they build upon one another. They take you in a parking lot and say "let's work on your shifting". remember I said this product has stuff on multiple levels. well in just a moment I'm getting ready to use and embedded command. It's something that you just do. mark off the embedded command ".. your hands on the wheel—those little details that you don't even think about any more. So some of you guys need to look at this hierarchy. to big chunk to bigger chunk. But you can use this chart. think of those little details. as a learning tool. It's great because your subconscious is going to be doing it. your foot. for a brief moment. I'm using embedded commands 10 times more than the ones I'm marking out specifically for you.. you can do some anchors and gesturing and stuff like that. to simplify it so that you are working just on shifting. and I really hit the command hard. now sometimes I use an embedded command.. It's going to be doing the listening. Have we said this enough? Listen to this product a lot. I'm constantly using the skills throughout the entire product. right? You have done them so much they are part of who you are. would you're talking and you are forming sentences do you think about the "I need an adverb here and an adjective there. Meaning. You can do passive listening. over and over again. when I'm sitting here talking. and we talked about. Right? So look at it as a learning tool. like I said before. Its going to be really getting that information. After all. Sometimes I do that to really point it out so that you guys hear it and are aware of it. you can use this hierarchy to figure out what to focus on. You've done them so much that they're just embedded in your subconscious as stuff that you just know how to do. but I'll give you one. but it also comes from doing it over and over and over again.
I need to make that turn up there. or the stories you have seen in the field reports. Go back over your other materials and look at the skills that are being discussed... That's why this is a great learning tool for you. Especially in light of having heard this product. and weasel phrases. rapport tools. where you're going. ". That's the progression you want to work on. and you can do that. The same thing with the next level up. then I use this trance word. They might.. because the pedals are here. That's the kind of training. but that's not what they are thinking about actively while they Page 76 . conversational tools. it so much work! And.. So in this hierarchy. Look at that hierarchy. as high as possible on the chart. I want you to have this product down. Go back over your other materials with the new understanding and a new set of learnings. If you're sitting there thinking. You just talk. when you're in a car. make sure you've got it. similarly. and my hands need to overlap. Ok? D4-T22 The same way with the Speed Seduction® skills. physical tools. when you are using the Speed Seduction® materials you know what you want to be "thinking" about? (Meaning. Navigation. No. Because you have done it so much. For example. D4-T23 Now. The stuff that you just "do" becomes—the first row. Figure out where you are operating.. Look at how they are operating in terms of influence and persuasion —maybe they are good at sales. No you don't. You want to get to the point where. But what you really want to do is to be operating at that higher-level. No. what do you have to "think about"? You want to get to the point where the stuff that you just "do" becomes more and more a part of who you are. another thing I want you to be aware of when you look at that hierarchy is to use it as a modeling tool. you don't have to think about it. Remember when you're in a car. so that I can execute the turn. It's trained in your subconscious. But look at a good speed seducer or somebody you have just talked to. and you are driving. that stuff—you just do. I have tried it and I know guys that have.. what do you think about? Navigation. and I need to do this anchor. where are you functioning.. Think of other people that you know of. maybe they're just good at being a compelling speaker. I know.. Follow your way through the hierarchy and use it as a learning tool and you are really going to improve in terms of these skills. You truly can get to the point where doing embedded commands. you are operating in terms of it just being subconscious for you. You have been trained to do it. Listen to the skills and the talents that are being discussed and figure out where they are in that hierarchy.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual way. Are they sitting there going "well I. the gestures. Listen to it.. that you want to provide for yourself. Look at where those guys are operating. you want it to be just a part of who and what you are... trance words. "I need to use an embedded command here. it doesn't really work when you do it that way. The second row—that's stuff now that I just "do".. I'm going to touch her arm in this fashion. ". and then I must remove that foot there and put it here and put it here and I must be aware of my knee positioning. or guys that are good at some of this or Speed Seduction® or any area of life. do you think "well. consciously thinking about?) You want to be thinking about where you're going—where you want her to go. nobody even thinks that way! God. ". it's in your subconscious. you want it to be so that you can naturally use trance words. Same way. that's all part of who you are. That stuff is in your subconscious. you don't want to necessarily have to think about it. I'm going to move my foot several centimeters in this direction. it is natural for you. and then I need a weasel phrase in a moment. You can use this as a learning tool. "—I mean. Start at the bottom. commands—just naturally. Well.
. "Mick. wouldn't it? See. I lead my life. your best bet of having them telling you what they did. you'll hear them say stuff like "you know what. But again. and the life you lead" level up at the top. and I say "okay. That tends to be the thing where your best bet in terms of having a really good (you know) speed seducer or somebody who is familiar with the tools. I use this joke. and I have seen this happen to a lot of guys. So you get these experts. it's very difficult to do. what did you say?" And. I went this way. and that's the way they are effective. I am who I am and I walk in a room and I meet them. In fact. they are going to give you the view from that level. it's happened to me. That might not be where you are. What do I mean by that? Well. looking at the tool's hierarchy—to have guys actively think about what themes they're on and what conversational framework they are at. I knew I was in a great mood.. think about this. and that might be helpful to you in looking at some other people and see how they are working. the theme was this. and this story.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual there. where they are consciously. it's part of using this as a modeling tool. what is really interesting is that once the guys become pretty good. you drove across town. to a degree it can become challenging to think of the exact details. try to get them to tell you specifically. I mean. I'm sure as a modeling tool that if we went to—and I will keep using this as an example because it works—if we went to Mick Jagger. it's very difficult to get them to convey the details. Once the guys get really really good at stuff. And that's the way they think. we will see what happens". . "I don't know. if that's who you are and you can support that. / am there to have fun. If you are able to drive a car. And also making sense of when they tell you what works for them. But you can use this as a modeling tool because you can see how they are operating. Then I . you might be able to get there but it might not be where you are. and that way. I wanted to meet people and I had the frame of. I just walk in.. that's just naturally good at meeting women. the stuff below that. Because the exact details are parts that you just did because they are in your subconscious. and it would be a long story.. is that they will say "well. if they are operating at that level. and you have trained your subconscious to do the lower levels. and took that route. Do you really expect that somebody that's good at driving across town is going to be thinking about that level of detail? God. " He is operating at that "who you are. How does it work for you? What is the process that you do?" and he is like. They're telling you about the navigation. where they were consciously focused at the time. See you are thinking more about—it's very common really—looking at the hierarchy. Okay? Now. it took this route. But Page 11 . I put the car in reverse. when you hear the guys talk. that's just so much work. Nice place to be. I pulled out of the driveway. I used this pattern and demo" but. my state was like bam. you meet a lot of women. and said. and then I applied my foot from the one pedal to the next. "well. where guys go "what did you do. You can see where their thought processes are look at how they are focused. or if you talk to somebody who is a "natural". There's a lot of naturals out there—guys naturally good with women—that's the way they talk. and a lot of times what they are conveying about what they did is an indicator of what they were actively thinking about. I went in. They're telling you about what they had to think of consciously during the drive. ". Tell me about the drive" you'll say. I put this many grams of force upon it and then I turned my head so to look in the mirror. again for that guy who has the correct state or the correct beliefs. However do you really expect them to go "well..
do you need to go out in the field and think "I am at level. Okay? You can get there. I have heard so many people.. It's stuff that you just know. D4-T26 Now. isn't it? You just did it. if you are really good at driving. It's amazing the power that these things have. this and I'm using. where do you need to focus"? Use it as a modeling tool. Use it (like I said) as a way to organize the skills. It takes time. not just in this part of your life.. like I said. but it's stuff that you do. We are going to be moving on it a bit and we're going to be talking about the process of Speed Seduction® itself. a lot of stuff to integrate. we want to get this to the point where it's just. they're functioning at that level. I know. No. I know that it has helped me. It's truly amazing and used in the correct way you can have incredible results. Study that. But remember. and in training your subconscious it looks at that energy an effort and engagement. and that's the whole point isn't it? Again. This is a way for you to organize the stuff in your head So that ultimately. To them. Think about that. all of these different aspects and component parts of Speed Seduction®. I hope that this section has helped. it never was. like three or four levels down in the hierarchy. because it's something that they just do subconsciously. And what we've had you do is write it down in your workbook—hopefully you built that hierarchy for yourself. but I hope that this has been helpful to you. they just do. or when you are reading stories about guys that have been successful. It's ridiculous. But I hope.. that putting it into this hierarchy has been helpful to you as well. and others.. and it becomes a part of who you are to get you the kind of success that you want. D4-T25 Now. However. again. but in many others as well. Again. it takes some effort. becomes something that's a lot more real to you and you have a lot better chance of making that happen. Use it as a learning too—"where are you functioning".Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual be aware of the fact that they are probably not going to be able to divulge a lot of details. when you talk to other guys or hear stories—"Where is that guy functioning and where is that guy operating? What's his thought process like? Where are his thought processes in terms of that hierarchy? Use this in those ways. Page 78 . It's not a bag of tricks or whatever. Use it as a diagnostic tool—"where you functioning. Well for the guys who you might be modeling that are way up there on that chart. Use it to improve your skills and to make this area of your life. talk about all of the stools all of these techniques. D4-T24 We are getting ready to wrap up this part about the hierarchy. remember that? Okay. keep this hierarchy in mind. When you are reading about them. You know when you know all of this stuff. Nobody does. Ok? Look at that. the exact sequence of hand motions and foot motions you use to drive across town. ".. suddenly. you're not really thinking about the details. some of you guys have been confused because this is a lot of stuff to think about. it's not a bunch of different skills. the lowest level details are stuff. and you have been driving for five or 10 years. try to convey to somebody in detail. and you use. you know. a lot better. the idea of finding the women or woman of your dreams.
Use that to allow yourself to recall all of the information and how it fits together. and study the workbook more and more.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual This hierarchy provides a lot of information and also provides a great framework for you to learn. the next section walks you through the actual Process itself. know how pieces fit together. Think of where they operate on the hierarchy. training. The point is not to "memorize" all of this. As you listen to this product over and over. and store such information in your mind. and efforts. you are really going to see how it all starts to "fit together" now! Page 79 . Diagnostic Tool: Where are you operating? What do you need to "think about"? Where do you need to focus? Use the hierarchy as a way to assist you with these questions and to focus your studies. think of the symbol shown here. then that symbol will become a way for you to conveniently recall the information. Remember the main uses of the hierarchy: Learning Tool: To categorize and assemble the information within your mind. And yes. what they "think" about. use. Modeling Tool: Watching and learning from others can be very helpful. it's for you to have this all be "a part of you" so that these tools are things you just "know". When recalling the hierarchy. what can they do? Use that as a way to put their actions into perspective and allow you to model them and to learn from them even more. and know which items are contained within other items. so get ready.
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the toolset that we have at our disposal. the general dating way of meeting someone. the part that's the most powerful. and to give you some insight—Maybe about some things you have been doing in the past. That was in the last section. The part of the mind that's really the one that's making the decisions in a woman's mind. what we're going to be talking about is the process of seduction—that's right. you know. Other times. We also discussed. If you look in the workbook. and the way it processes information. Again. You're going to see the various steps that you need to go through with anybody using any technology. where I want you to take the time to write stuff down in the workbook. the criteria that it uses. how it looks at things. it's going to be up to you to Page 81 . what I want to discuss briefly. and we talked about that already in the model of the mind. Again. we want to be dealing with the part of someone's mind that's really making the decisions. and how you look at the world as well. Plus we're going to show you how Speed Seduction® and its related technologies. Of course. or that's really affecting you.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual 4. We discuss the subconscious—what it's looking for. So now you have an understanding of the different tools and how they fit together and the way they work. is to go over first a summary of all these steps. and allow you to be even more effective with the use of the skills. the tools. the overall process of the application of Speed Seduction. We're going to get into a model that explains all those steps and more. you're going to see a section that has a certain number of columns in it. 4. Or even (you know) before you heard about Speed Seduction®. write this stuff down. Sometimes I will explicitly say. but it's applicable in a more general fashion. Those represent the various steps of the seduction process. or maybe the second or third. The process and the model for it the going to give you is applicable to Speed Seduction®. 0 The Process D5-T1 In this section. we're going to be taking you through the various steps from beginning to end. are very well-qualified to arm you with the tools that you need to handle each and every one of these steps. It's important that you be engaged in the product in this manner. 1 Process Overview D5-T2 Now. You're going to see there are certain number of columns. this is one of these sections guys. I want you to understand something though. notes that you want to make that pertain to the way you process the information. it's important that you sit with the workbook. we have talked about the mind. Whether it's the first listen through. You'll see on the left-hand side of the page there should be broken down into a certain series of steps. wow the process of seduction works. the different parts of the mind. because now we're going to start to pull together the different aspects of what we have already learned in the product. In this section here. to show you how to apply this technology. I want you to write down in each of those. what you need to focus on in the future. Now this is exciting. It's very important to your learning. "write this down". fill in the areas of the graphic with stuff I tell. I'm going to be giving you details.
you actually engage in some sort of physical activity. Okay? It can last anywhere from 15 seconds. get and keep attention. But step 2 we're going to call "get and keep attention". and it's basically. "cold walk up". I am just giving you general time frames here. We'll get back to that in a second. So. All of the words will be in the transcript. Okay? So again.. in terms of it's time frame and a time element. that allows you to be sociable. D5-T3 The first step is what I call step zero. we're going to start off by giving you a brief summary of all the steps involved. I mean that can take anywhere from. "direct conversation and ramp interest". This is you. but this step (step one) is just the opener. it's the way you live all the time. This is typically. It's pretty basic. 15 minutes. clothes C-L-O-S-E. you know about. Page 82 . that she may want to spend more time. It's just a way to open a conversation with someone. but that's it. we'll get to that at a minute. there. you know. and it's important for you to consider that in terms of the development of your skills and the application of your skills. or six hours or whatever. When we get into more details in various sections. at least one of the first time. Yes. but first step is living the life. D5-T5 Now. D5-T4 Step 1 is "the opener". we're going to call "direct conversation and ramp interest. If you look at the process and the number of steps there. It might be over the course of one evening. and its called "living the life. Step 2 I call "get and keep attention". and a lot easier to do the most guys think. whatever you want it to be. or whatever. having it go in a way that you want to go. Now. follow along and write along in your book. or a special kind of time with you. It shows you a certain number steps going across the page. Now I'm not going to make this some kind of seedy product. and we will get into that in just a few minutes. living the life. and how to kiss somebody.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual decide (you know) what you want to write down. to 60 seconds. to 30 seconds. There are tons of resources out there for that. " Step zero. pretty basic. Okay? You can do this in various ways. This is what people typically refer to as a "walk up" or an introduction. D5-T6 Step 3. and be able to create. a "gold walk up" or a "platinum walk up". This might take place over multiple dates. you listen to the product. I mean. I'm not going to talk about where to put this hand. to two hours. That's an important part of this. and ramp up to the interest in a way that she is going to find you so interesting. That's all. A way to think about it. so it will be easy for you to recall in your mind. direct conversation and ramp interest. and I don't mean "clothes" in terms of something you wear. D5-T7 Step 4 is what I call "close". step three. to have women coming into your life.. This is something where you are giving her a reason to talk to you and can last anywhere from one minute to. And that's what we do at step three. and what you don't want to write down. It's just a way to get somebody's attention initially and engage them in some sort of discourse or conversation. designing a life that allows you to meet more women. Yes. let's say 15 minutes long. but I want you to have that sort of graphical representation of the process for yourself And it's pretty basic. I did that for you. You are just giving her reasons to want to talk to you for a while. I know a lot of you have some fear and everything attached to that. the next one. direct conversation means you're going to be directing the conversation in a certain way. where. Okay? Let's review. Step 2.
but by step four I mean physical close. on average. Okay? What do you want? One out of a million? One out of 10. there is a fifth step.. how long is that going to take you? Be honest. we will call it ^physical close. There are other things to life than simply going out and meeting women. you have set your sights low. You need to look at your life and lifestyle and figure out how long it's going to take you to it meet 50 women? Page 83 . Again. you are on your own. 000? Let's set the sights really low—and just to give you an example here guys—let's set the sights really low and say that one out of a 100 women is going to be good enough for you.. you've got to be able to meet women to do it. If that is the way your lifestyle is structured. where they do not have a chance. So again. kissing her. that's fine. You know. one special woman... where you get to meet different people. let's say that you just want to meet one woman. So you've got to meet 50 women. and this additional step is something that occurs even before the opener. and the there being four steps to the process. Okay. One out of 100 is going to be good enough for you quality-wise. a lot of guys. or really want to get a handle on this part of your life. for the most part. From that point. but I'm trying to make a point—is one out of 100. I want to get real results for you guys.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual By close. But I figured out. One out of 100 is a pretty low standard. look. And for some people it may be new to them if you have heard me speak before on these sort of topics. 4 months.. statistics would show or tends to indicate that. You know what. Let's consider something guys. 000? One out of a 1. Are you prepared to really put the time and effort into it and to really learn and really go out there and find the sort of women or woman that you want? Look at it. You just want to find one. I mean. you end up kissing her. just one special woman—I know. you have to be honest with yourself. I respect that. the fact is. even before you've introduced yourself. However. even if you want to meet. Step zero is "living the life". Now step zero is something I haven't discussed too much. maybe. Living the life. That means you've got to meet 50 women. you've got to actually meet 50 people to have a chance of meeting someone that's one out of a 100. Now. At the rate you are going. or say the first words to a woman. whether you eventually want to meet a bunch of women. to meet someone that's one out of 100. Let's say. there's some guys out there that want to meet a bunch. It's a little bit beyond the scope of this product that I'm doing today.. or one special woman. or something like that. if you really want to find that one special person. For title purposes. 2 Process Step 0 D5-T8 Let's start my discussion of step zero.. which is "living the life". I typically used to talk about steps one through four. a special relationship with one woman and the quality level that you are shooting for—we're shooting pretty low here. there are guys that live a certain life and lifestyle. You've got to meet 50 women to just have a chance of meeting that one out of a hundred quality-wise. Now. how long is going to take you to meet 50 women? What is your life like? Where are you meeting them? I mean. You can meet someone once every 3. or meet a lot of different women. 4. but let's just say for the sake of discussion. I mean.
The Symbol As you will see and hear in the transcript text.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Assignment #5 . Be sure to follow the instructions (throughout the transcript) and write down the various terms when told to do so.The Process . Step 0 Step 1 Step 2 Step 3 Step 4 Name Name Name Name Name Page . there are many many references to the graphic shown on this page.
a symbol which will allow you to understand and recall these learnings about the different tools and resources that you have at your disposal.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual The Process . Use this page to take additional notes. Page 85 . or copy down specific points. that will help you to remember what you believe are the most important points.Student Notes The graphic on the opposite page represents a symbol that you are to create within your mind.
. I've really looked at. but if you are looking to find somebody of quality. and how it sort of works on momentum. " And you are going to get new and better results. is a part of who you are and what you do. and the fifth one is "the internet". Now. and I'm not just saying looks. I don't know what they expect. You know. that's a lot of pizzas that you are going to have to go through. and again we are going to talk about each in detail. You know. But I want you to consider this. different activities. you know the amount of times that you socialize and to do that in a way that's going to move you forward and a positive fashion. You really have to look at what you -want your life to be. The next is "general social groups". then it kind of wants to keep moving forward. move in a positive direction. Now. it might sort of object and make you feel a little bit of uncomfortable. if you really want to change your life and to get a handle on this part of your life. The second is "single's social groups". What do you have to do to create the life that's going to provide this to you.. We talked about your subconscious mind. I'm doing different things. It can be actually a pretty wonderful thing. If it's moving forward.. each has their strengths. But what will begin to happen is that as you put effort into this. even to find one out of 50! But if you are looking to find somebody of quality. with new skills. change your life. Life is different. We are going to go over that.. That's pretty important. When you do that your subconscious wakes up and says "things must be different. looked at the modern world and looked at how you meet people as an adult in our society. you're going to have to create a lifestyle for yourself were meeting women and meeting new people. that's going to provide you with different opportunities to meet different women? Well let's be honest about it here. in your activities.. and sitting on the couch and listening to products and not being very sociable and. The first is "bars and nightclubs". eventually your subconscious will say "okay. and we've got five basic options for you here. you know a quality level. each has their weaknesses. you want to put some time and effort into it and part of this.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual D5-T9 Now some guys are sitting back. each of these has their own strength has their own weaknesses. Well. but again. and whatever that means to you.. Maybe they expect that they can order a pizza and have that one out of 50 woman show up as the pizza delivery person. at first. remember.. I have broken this down into five major ways that you can meet people. maybe to your lifestyle. D5-T11 So when we look at step zero. we are going to talk about them.. in your. " Now. One of the things that may actually help you is to make some changes in your lifestyle. go ahead and write those down. I urge you to write them down as you may want to make some notes. and a pretty positive experience for many of you.... We are going to go over them very briefly. what changes are you going to have to make... The fourth one is what I call "random". this is the way it's going. to do it? Okay? And if you're training yourself to get better at something. Now one of the things I have considered too is that (you know). This is step zero. What does this really break down to? What are the five major ways that you can meet people in today's society? Now I'm going to summarize them very briefly and then we will go over them in more detail. This is the new life and the new lifestyle and the new me. Page 86 . because of that. If it's not moving it sort of wants to stay not moving.
he can work on Speed Seduction® and these technologies. If that guy goes out and wants to have more success with women. when we look at these five different options we have here for step zero. One. So work with your skills is one way. you can step back and maybe assess what his chances of being successful with her are. dramatically. That's what a lot of people think about what may think of meeting people. You can get results that are outstanding so that really—when looked at from the outside—they almost seem miraculous. And frankly one way to work on your skills is meet more women anyway. Now the other thing that one can do to get more success—and it's actually an essential part of training yourself—is simply go out and meet more people and meet more women. he has one of two options. a certain woman. who has a certain kind of look or level of attractiveness. Creating a lifestyle in and a life. where you are able to meet people. Now. date them all. a certain amount of social skill. he can go out and meet more women. you have to take the steps necessary. Think about what you can accommodate or what you would like to accommodate. Now there's two parts to that equation. and really increase his success. or have relations with them all. I have seen it happen. Ok? That's great. and another way is. It's happened. and "assess her in some manner. let's step back for a second here and consider this. You get a certain guy. what are you we talking about here? We're really talking about helping increase your chances of success and increase your ability to learn this stuff. That's an option. It's going to help the development of your skills. D5-T12 Let's be really honest about this guys. and we're talking here (you know) it's kind of the single's bars. to provide her a wonderful experience. or women. we could pretty much step back and say that "that guy has a certain chance of success (however you define success) with that woman". I'm not necessarily saying that you know. Where the average Joe (or somebody who is below average Joe) is going out with somebody that almost looks like a supermodel.. The other option is he can work on skills like Speed Seduction® and make himself better able to create things in her mind. body type. I mean. meet more women. so it works. you sort of "size him up". That's kind of obvious. the nightclubs. if he is looking for successful outcomes or better quality overall with the sort of woman he wants to end up with. And meeting more people is going to help you in so many ways. D5-T13 So. It's going to help in the number of possible positive outcomes that you are going to have to the interactions. whatever. and that can occur if you really decide to master the skills. just simply increasing the number of people that you are meeting is going to help. if we take that guy. and increase his chances of success. then he has two main parts of that equation. and we take an average woman or a woman of some type. Bars and Nightclubs. Now.. there's a lot of guys that are very effective at Page 87 . height. If you really want to move forward in your life and make things more positive. stature. You know. the dance scene. and your lifestyle is like. and this is a big part of it. I'm just saying as an option. So at step zero. What are we talking about with any of these technologies? For a typical—let's take a guy as an example—who is of a certain age. Okay? Makes sense. maybe now is the time. let's look at the first one.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Think about what your life is like. One. to be what she's looking for.
Plus in bars and nightclubs too. There's another downside in there is a certain age range in clubs. your conversation. You are really going to stand out and its going to be a little bit difficult. that they do make clubs work. but her five friends are going to have to approve of you too. " They may go there. atmosphere. it's a little bit difficult to do that in a bar or nightclub—Because its loud. And if you are in that age range. Meaning. If you walk in there and you look good.... But if you are in your mid to upper thirties or older. you can make clubs work for you. not only do have to be approved of by her. They stay in their house all day long.. Now some guys go.. if you are her type. They never go to coffee shops. They tend to have this view of reality that super-hot women stay home all day long.. I mean. If that's a big part of you being attractive. 2 3 .. the energy.. And I have seen guys—even guys of average looks—really work so hard at that and work so much at that. You can work around that with a lot of energy and a lot of personality or a lot of gimmicks. D5-T14 Ok? Now bars and nightclubs too one of the challenges there is that. and you showing someone how interesting you are. Now if that works in your favor. you end up yelling to someone. if. There are a lot of people there. Let's look at some of the downsides of this though. you might have a certain amount of chance. And if you are her type or what ever. let us face it. energetic. Now that's an important qualifier. and you can dance well. the music. what are the positive aspects of that sort of approach? The positive ones are (hey). your looks are going to be a part of your success in clubs. Let's face it. going into a dance club that is primarily attended with people that are 21.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual that. Now. That's fantastic. but they are very effective at that. the sounds. you may want to look at some of the other options. Meaning it's a very energetic situation. "yeah. dancing. 22. . But it is a big effort. and you are that kind of guy. But if it doesn't really work in your favor. if you are a 40-year-old guy—give you an example—and you are looking to meet some woman that is 23. and she is there with her five friends. That works well for you. Now. sorry. and the social group that she is with. They never walk down the street. if that is your thing. It tends to be a lively. They might not be effective at other locations. they never go shopping. you know some dance clubs tend to have people maybe in their earlier twenties. It's loud! I mean. and they immediately leave the house and go straight Page 88 . They never go to get groceries. that is great. You sort of have to have enough going on that you are going to meet the approval of the woman you are interested in. it's distracting. I mean. some guys need to look at reality. 24. if you meet her by herself in another venue. the people. Okay? That's fantastic. skills that deal with your words. it all adds to a situation so that if you are her type and things are really going in your favor. but I mean. or you have an incredible amount of personal energy and magnetism. The women that are there tend to be very dressed up and really presenting themselves in the best way. First off. you can make some things happen very quickly. they do have other parts of their lives. but all of the super-hot girls are in the bars and nightclubs.. your way of speaking. women tend to be there with their friends and what happens then is—this can be a downside for some of you guys—is that you sort of have to be prepared to be accepted by the group in order to be accepted by one. it's sort of a heightened reality. Ok? Like it or not. but the bottom line is looks are going to be a factor in clubs. if that's a big aspect of your overall approach. But if you meet her at a club. . great. Ok? So it might not be the best option for you.. They never go out.
and a lot of you guys that think there are no other places—I am sorry. the women know what you are doing. Not if that snap judgment works in your favor. that's fine. good. great. So if you like bars and nightclubs—that's great. if you are not enjoying yourself. There are a lot of attractive women in clubs. you can work around that in a club and everything else. Meaning. And there are other places. I am sorry but that's not reality. and you do not like being there. and I know that if I met them at a club. you have got "the shield".. here is an important distinction that a lot of guys need to realize. I do this and this and guys bug me and I have to be a bitch to keep them away from me. this could be one of these. interesting. If it does not. Very quick snap judgment. Page 89 . I mean there are women that I have met in other venues. I suggest you look to some other places to go meet women. chances are. But you take that same woman. women—that if you meet them in a club. But if you don't like it.. because I know what they are like. She might not be very pleasant person to talk to. and again. yeah.. there are these different rapid dating and meeting services. if it is not a positive atmosphere for you. Then. It's called by some guys "the bitch shield". And they have told me about it. your chances of going there. but you are dealing with a shield like that. Again it is an option for you. If you do not like them. It has it's good and bad points. that's your limiting belief—you need to change that and look into maybe some other ways. then going there to meet women is probably not going to work for you.. she is really putting a wall up. Okay? Let's talk some more about some of those options as well. it is a social get together that is predicated upon everybody there being single. " But meet them in another venue and all of a sudden you get to see what she is really like. D5-T16 Now the next option here at step zero that I want to talk about is something called "single social groups". and a lot of times.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual to club. like the athletic singles association. Now. and the only reason you are there is to meet women—what do you think that does to your frame of mind? Would you think that does to your state of consciousness? Remember our hierarchy of tools? How important are those things? Extremely important. but it is not the only option. But you know what? I know women—wonderful. D5-T15 If you do not like going there just for the sake of going there. I know there is different associations of single people that. where she is really putting her defenses up. It is not something I like dealing with for very long. if you can support that. were sit down with somebody for five or 10 minutes—that falls into this category.. it's hard to work around. attractive.. I would not want to deal with them.. and things like that. They say "oh in clubs. but I will tell you this. because they are out there. In bars and nightclubs. she might be cold. a lot of women get so jaded in that atmosphere. and you meet her in a different venue—She's a wonderful person. They know that if your walking up to them.. it's because you are attracted and you are trying to make a move on them. Now. What is that? To me. There are others. Can you go to a bar or nightclub and not meet any women but still have a good time? Do you enjoy it? You like dancing? Do you like the atmosphere? If you can go there and not meet any women and still have fun. and they are making such a snap judgment.. Women do other things than just go to bars and nightclubs. But you know. that is not the way it works. So yeah. and meeting a woman are increased.
I mean—not that you strap them to a chair to talk to you—but. Look in your.. So in a singles social group. Some are going to be more attractive than others. the real super-hot women aren't there". the super-hot ones are rare. Social groups. maybe it is a little bit difficult to meet the super-hot women. So in any venue they are going to be relatively hard to find. if somebody is walking down the street. Ok? It's pretty easy to engage in somebody in conversation. Look on the internet. you have got to have a good reason for them to want to stop and talk to you. Okay? Now. There is singles travel groups where they get together as a group of single people and they go traveling. you are there with a group of people for an hour or two or three hours. to keep them there for 15 minutes. Look in your local newspaper. and it is not that bad of a situation. and they know everybody else is single. living your life. Now one of the advantages of this is that for the most part. and you can get in—okay. some are going to be more intelligent than others.. Kind of hard to find them—huh? Only a couple of them there that are that hot . But you know what guys? Let us get real here. if you are looking for the super-hot ones. okay? But. there is a general cross-section of people and a general cross-section of women and a general cross-section of different (you know) levels of attractiveness. most women don't look like that in real-life guys! Even the women on the magazine covers do not look like that in real life. you are going to find that kind of general demographic. or like an entertainment paper or a paper that talks about events or current events in town. It's positive. okay. a lot of those are based upon singles. It can be wine tasting.. that is the way it is. everybody that is going to be there is going to be single. That's reality. Well. a lot of the women that they are interested in. if you are looking for somebody that looks like they do on magazine covers—first off. and have fun. Okay? This is really a viable option. But if they are there and it is a party or some social event or some get-together. most of these singles social groups or events. etc. Most towns have a paper that may be released like once a week that tends to be more of an "artsy" thing. If people are there and they're single. it can actually be quite fun. let us face it. You know if they are going to be single and (because that is why they are there) and it tends to be a pretty sociable atmosphere. D5-T17 Now. and everybody there is single. there are going to be more hotties there. Now. and if it is going well. ok. I am giving you an overall set of options guys—maybe that is your bag. I mean. think about this—you have got a captive audience. they are a great way to meet people. if you want to find out about these things look in the newspaper. then it is not that difficult to talk to someone for 15 minutes. But I mean. the super-hot women are hard to find anyway] I mean.huh? That's reality. because—I will tell you what. There is a lot of charity events or charitable organizations that do things that are based upon singles getting together. or you run.. Look in that paper and look for events that are based upon everybody there Page 90 . There is singles church groups—again. to stop them and talk to them for 15 minutes.. So it's fun. they pretty much understand that they are there to meet people.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual where you go and you play volleyball. guess what? Go to a mall. Look for general social things that are geared around single people. But there is an option for going and meeting single people in a social setting. and everybody is single and they are all there for a couple of hours.. some guys say that "well. maybe that is not your bag. I have worked with a lot of people that this is the way they had met. Now if you happen to know the super-hot club in a major metropolis.
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being single, and go to the events. It is an option, there is people there, is an option for you. D5-T18 Now, another of our major ways that we can meet people here at step zero, "living the life", is what I call "general social groups". Now this can be anything guys. It can be and... We are coming up with a general model so this can be anything. I mean, it can be anything from a bowling league, to an art gallery opening, to a museum event, to a chamber of commerce meeting, to a charity event, to a volleyball tournament—I mean anything—an activity were people are getting together, and hopefully one where they're are socializing. You know again, if you are sitting at home, hoping that that wonderful woman is going to show up delivering pizza, hey if it happens, that is great. But, if you want to get better at these skills, or even if you are pretty good and you just want to meet some different people, you have got to get out there. You have got to have a process or find a way in your life to have more people come into your life, and general social groups are a great way to go. A good part of it is people tend to be relaxed. You are not going to get a lot of the "shield" factor. They are going to be comfortable. Okay some, if it is like a tournament, or a volleyball tournament, or a sporting event, there's people there, but it's maybe not a "sociable" event. People are not meeting and talking. But if you go to like an art gallery opening, chamber of commerce event... I mean different things like that where people are getting together, and people are standing around talking and socializing—what a great opportunity. Ok? That is the good side of it. D5-T19 The bad side might be some of the women are not going to be single. Oh well. Hey, that is a good way to meet them too. Think about it. If you are talking to two or three women, maybe they are not single, but you are talking to them. You are having fun. You are having an interesting conversation, maybe finding their opinion on something. Maybe there is somebody single there, and they are like "look at that guy. He is talking to those women, the women are having a great time I'll join in". Okay? It is a great way to meet people. And it is an option for you, so "general social groups", it might be a way to go. D5-T20 Now, this fourth option here in step zero is what I call "random". This is like, you know, coffee shops, and checkout lines, and walking down the street, or being in a mall, it's just the random meeting of people. So that you are out living your life, and if you happen to see somebody, you start talking to them. Now this is great because the shields are down... Now there might be some general shields in terms of ... I mean she's walking down the street, she is not used to some stranger just talking to her, but it is not like having a shield in a nightclub, where they are sitting there and they are all dressed up and all of the guys are on the make. So she might be bitchy. When you meet somebody in a random fashion, you just got to come across as (you know) you are not a degenerate, you are not homeless, you are not going to ask her for a quarter, you know. You want to be kind of low-key and have a good positive energy about it. But you can meet people in coffee shops, malls, on the street, checkout lines are a fantastic place, while shopping, while just out living your life. I mean, you know, you could be pumping gas and a car pulls up, and there is a woman there, that you
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think might be interesting. Say something, start talking. D5-T21 Now, this is the thing that a lot of guys aspire to; to be anywhere, at any time, and to seize any opportunity. And that's great. That's fantastic as a goal. One of the downsides of working on a random approach like this, is that, well... It's kind of hard to use it as a learning tool. Like let us say next week you want to go out and really—in a targeted fashion—I mean, you are go to learn this stuff and practice and talk to 20 women next week, even if it is for 30 seconds. You are going to talk to 20 new women. Great. To depend upon a random approach to make that happen might not be the best way to go. Because it's random! It's hard to predict! Ok? It's difficult to know how many times you are going to b e . . . I mean, how many times can you pump gas in a week? Ok? You can spend time in coffee shops, that's fine, but there is a logistical thing that, you know... Are women coming in? Do you have a moment or two to say something? Is there an ability to make eye contact? Etc. So it does have its challenges as a training tool, Ok? But in terms of, once you are skilled, and just being able to go out and meet people... It's fantastic. It's low-key, it's wonderful. One of the challenges—and as we get through the major steps to seduction and the process itself that we are in in this section—one of the challenges of meeting people in a random fashion is—they are doing something! Ok? You have got to give a reason to talk to you! If you have an opener, that's fine. But if she is walking down the street, you have to give her a reason to want to keep talking to you. If she is pumping her gas, you have to give her a reason to want to talk to you. Ok? That is a little bit of a challenge here with the random approach. So it is a great way to meet people once you are pretty good, but to depend upon it in this context, and especially as a means by which to get better with the skills, it leaves a little bit to be desired. D5-T22 Now, the fifth option we want to talk about it step zero—the fifth major way to meet people, is, on the internet. It is an option. Now, one thing that needs to be considered is this... I have heard a lot of people say, "well, you can't meat really good looking women on the internet, or you cannot,... etc. etc. " If you have a belief about something that you can or cannot do it, you are right. If you think you will not find interesting women or attractive women on the internet, you're right. Ok? If you think that you can, you probably well. I know guys that have met fabulously attractive women on the internet. Now, looks are a factor and—guess what guys—in any venue looks are a factor. Meaning, how good looking you are or are not, is a factor in how effective you may be at meeting women. Whether you meet them in bars and nightclubs, where looks are big factor that venue, you can work around it, but they are factor. Whether you meet them in single social groups or random or whatever, your looks are a factor in your success, you can make up for it by being very good at the skills, but they are a factor. Now on the internet, they are a factor as well. It tends to be a little more cut and dried, because she might see your picture and not approve, and it's hard to really recover from that when she's at the other end of a phone line or an Ethernet connection. But it is an issue as it is with any of them.
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Now the internet is unique in that—you know, let's be real. Some guys... If you have got all the time in the world to go hang out and do random stuff, to go out to bars and nightclubs multiple nights a week, or go to social events all the time, that's great! That's great. But I do realize that there are a lot of guys who ... You are at a desk! You work a lot! You do not have the time to go out three or four nights a week. You do not have the time to do some of these other social things. There are guys out there that, I know you are working, 50, 60, 70 hours a week! There might be a computer on your deskUsing the internet is a viable option. It tends to have its own unique set of advantages and challenges and I'm not going to get into it... That is a little bit beyond the scope of this product, so I'm not going to go into an entire set of discussions and points about the internet and specific techniques, but it is an option for meeting people, and more and more it is an acceptable option. It is becoming more and more mainstream. It was sort of relegated to like the "want ads" or the "classifieds" where as you know, 10 years ago people put ads in newspapers, and it was almost a sort of clandestine thing that you did not talk about. Now it's becoming more and more acceptable. I do not know about you, but on the radio and things like that, I hear ads all the time of matchmaking and dating services that are on the internet. It is an option, and it might be an option for you. D5-T23 Now when we look at step zero, and look at all of these different options, you really have to look at your life. What is it that you like to do? What is it -where you can see yourself spending time doing one of these things? Whether it's bars and nightclubs, single social events, general social groups, random, or meeting people on the internet, what is going to work with you and your life? Now, again, you could meet somebody every three months and get some success, and get better with the skills. But it is going to take a while, and your chances maybe of finding a quality woman, or women, is going to be less. But if you want to get better at the skills and increase your chances of success and increase your skill level, then you really want to look at where you are spending your time. Look at these options. Each of them has pluses and minuses. D5-T24 You know, I'll tell you what... roughly looking at it as an overview, if you are a pretty good looking guy and you're very sociable, and you like going to bars and nightclubs—I mean you like going there—then that is a good option. If you are not the best looking guy in the world, if you do not like loud places or if you are an older guy trying to get women that are a little bit younger, or younger (period) than you, then bars and nightclubs might not be the best for you. Ok? Let's get real, but let's be honest about this. Now, single social groups and general social groups. They are great options, and they are actually fantastic options if you want to learn these skills and get better at them. Because there are people there that had to be positive, you tend to have a captive audience. It's easy to go from talking to somebody from one minute, to five, to 10 to 15, as long as you're interesting. Ok? Everybody is there for a reason.
etc. They think they will study study study and practice practice practice. One Shot. all the way through. they think they will find one woman.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Step 0 Reality: It All Starts From Here: Many guys need to really face the fact that you MUST get started and meet women for ANY of these things to work! Look at the graph below: 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 0 Step Number The Dream World Scenario. etc. They wait around. Too many guys try this approach. etc. too much time "thinking". and have that go well. and then move that one woman to Step 3. Then after all that work. spending too much time at home. It does not work that way! Here is the way it really works: Page 94 . and then move that 1 woman to Step 2. and do Step 1. and have it go well. One Woman.
ok?). or a great excuse. get that little "artsy" paper. get the paper. The more women that you can move to each step will allow YOU to have more of a selection. ".. or take part in athletic events. They are there to meet people. which will YOU start to make more a part of YOUR life? If it is a singles group. and all are woman that were at Step 0 at some point. only a certain number of them make it to Step 1? And then for the ones that make it to Step 1. I wish I had the time to do that . I can't stress enough too guys that this is a viable way to do that. Hey. I mean yeah. they are there to meet people! That's part of the reason they are there. It tends to not be a great option if you want to develop skills. It ALL starts with Step 0. these are not factual numbers. maybe now is the chance... Page 95 . Look for events. for you to do those sort of things. great.. 3. or using the random approach to meeting people. but instead to find one special woman for yourself. you have 5 different options for Step 0. 2. of course). If you are a busy guy. are ALL women that were a part of your life in some way. great. Any and all women that end up at Steps 1. So. the more women you will able to take to each successive step (if that is your goal. more options. I always wish I was able to do this. It all starts from there. 4. or a charity. Now it might be difficult to develop your skills in a random fashion. because it's random.. and you are living your life. the more women will make it through the steps! If your goal is not to get a lot of women to step 4. Ok? The other thing—random. I know a lot of guys that go "boy.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Look at how the second graph is laid out. pay special attention to the numbers on the "Y" axis (which means the number of women in this case.. they might be there to taste wine. if you happen to be out there. that maybe is released once a week in your area—look for things that are going on. It tends to be a great option for you if you are already skilled. A lot of guys do not think along these terms. See how for all the women at Step 0. But. then the more you start off with at Step 0 the better. And so should you. more chances of finding that one woman that you may be looking for. or whatever. Or spend time at this kind of activity. but it is an option and you know. Get the newspaper. Ok? The shields are down. The "percentage" that you are then able to move to successive steps of The Process will get better and better! If your goal is to get as many women as you can to Step 4. Maybe now is a great time and a great opportunity. then just a certain number of THOSE make it to Step 2? THAT IS THE WAY IT WORKS IN THE REAL WORLD! So what can and does learning these technologies do for you? Look at the arrows! What will happen is that the more you learn and use and really apply these teachings. they are just there to illustrate a point. you can always have your eyes and ears open for opportunities and to meet somebody. And the better you are with these skills. but if it is a singles group. it is so much better. Ok? This might be a chance for you to open up a whole new life for yourself. this applies as well.
create the life that you want to have. But this can be your chance. Step one in the process of Speed Seduction®. you won't. We talked about this a moment or two ago when I gave you a summary in that all I am talking about here is just maybe. 4.. live the life. you see how important is things are your frame of mind your state of mind in that look. and if you are impatient or anything like that. getting you moving. Good luck. Start to meet more people. You know the example I keep coming back to—some Page 96 . Have fun. It's "single tasking".. Whether you've already got the skills and you just need more people to work with. there is so much going on when you walk up to somebody. But it is an option for you. it is based upon your own beliefs. Ok? It might seem a little weird at first. maybe not. It is like getting that car rolling. more and more a viable option for many guys. You just are finding a way to start a conversation with somebody and have a conversation—if only for a few minutes. The opener. So. 3. and you are going to find your skills going up. but you know what? I know guys that (hey) they are no Mel Gibson. we are learning about you and yourself and how to make this work. Maybe for you. Remember. 60 seconds. or application of any of these skills. Remember. get out there. Step zero. is that we are not just learning about a woman's mind. Meaning try to get through step one with a bunch of people. the internet can be challenging well. Spend time with the people that you want to spend time with. Ok.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual And again the fifth option is the internet. We want to change your life and help you make things better—this is all about application—getting you out there. Looks are a factor. But. 4. listening to this product and others. D5-T25 Step zero. Now I can't stress enough to how so much of step one is really about the frame and really about your state of mind.. 3 Process Step 1 D5-T26 Step one in the process. If you think you are not going to be successful. Now I know if you look back on that diagram that we created about your conscious and subconscious mind. and putting it into first-gear. and do not worry about steps 2. but they definitely had success in that venue. look at these options. In any of these examples. And if that is different than the kind of person that you are. Meet some people. make it happen. the process of seducing someone. a big part of this. Getting yourself moving to start is the most difficult thing to do. Have the people in it that you want to be in it. 30. Look. sort of the mind map if you will. the first 15. whether you're learning the skills. Ok. Their conscious mind is only thinking about one thing. if you are having trouble with that in on this then just meet people and do not worry about the outcome. or only for a few seconds really—just to get started. think about it. This is all going to help you to become the person that you want to be.. and the things we are talking about. they are no Brad Pitt. Get out there.. Those are some options for you. and you need people to practice on and to be more comfortable with—to be more comfortable around. and your success happening more and more. Ok? Getting it rolling is the hardest thing to do.. that's great. I urge you. But their subconscious is picking up so many things on so many levels. because again. a big part of this product.
innocuous. The second is "the opinion opener". You are able to perceive on a lot of levels. and you're kind of opening indirectly. after-the-fact. D5-T27 When it comes to meeting somebody or meeting a woman in this context. (It -) But you go up. I am just walking up. I am going to go through them briefly and then give you a little more detail. There might not be a lot you can do with that. and you know they want something. social. how is she going to know ? " Well. and it works really well. That's all. you know the difference in the way you feel when the person walks up and you just get that sense that that person wants something. where you just go up and in a social context—this tends to be best to parties or get togethers. "you are absently stunning". with step one. step one. and they walk up and. I will get to that and a minute. her subconscious is able to perceive on a lot of levels.. maybe they are homeless. And it's not that they are dressed in certain way or whatever. and we will get to that in a moment.. do have some spare change. you are going up to meet and introduce yourself. all I am talking about is 15 seconds to maybe a minute. or "I really wanted to meet you". you just kind of know. I have not said anything yet. your kind of slipping in under the radar. See a lot of you guys—it is not step one you are worried about. it's really step two. Ok? The first is what I call "the interested opener". The third is "the social opener". A way to start a conversation. but it is an effective way to start a conversation.. I know that once you do that there might not be very many places to go. Now. you have a pretty good shot. But step one is just engage her in conversation for that brief period of time. you know. But those are the four major ways. Again. I am giving you an overall structure guys. The basis for talking to her is that you are going to ask her opinion or ask for a question. they're asking for handout. and in the pretext of the just being a social context. again. they are probably going to ask for directions. the interested opener. That is where your opening. Page 97 . because it is a very low key approach. As opposed to somebody who might walk up and they might look the same way in a lot of respects. you know what it is like when somebody walks up to you on the street. you kinda know "hey. or something like that. "how can she determine your state of mind or what your intent.. where did you get that item that's in your shopping cart or something like that. Its just. Now wait a minute. Now look. step one can be walking up and asking somebody for the time. You know where you walk up and you say. I have pretty much taken step one and given you four different ways that you can do it. and all that sort of stuff. is basically an opener. You're pretty much laying it right on the line that you are interested. So if you just walk up comfortably and calmly and use something as an opener.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual guys are like well. And the fourth is what I call an "innocuous opener". then we will look at what works and kinda what doesn't within it So. the example I keep coming up with is. Or they are probably going to ask you about. opinion. " Before they open their mouth. I mean. you just get that feeling.
If the snap judgment's not going to work in your favor.. No. Whether it be due to their words or their actions or a combination of both—I know some guys that are really slick and really smooth with women. but be aware of the fact that. should it be one of curiosity? Is this guy a potential friend? Lover? Psychopath? You know. D5-T28 The interested opener is what a lot of guys think of when they really think of what they would like to be able to do in the application of these skills. her subconscious is trying to analyze what's going on. what's happening? When you walk up instep one—and this is a general comment about any aspect of step one application— D5-T30 Step one. a lot of the guys who are "naturals". you may want to avoid the snap judgment. I really wanted to meet you. great. •. You are not just saying the "hi. and how it tends to have certain role structures? You know. Now if this snap judgment works in your favor. where you are showing interest.. ".. But the way they do it and the way they look at the woman. D5-T29 Now. or you're close to her "type". And that is fine. I am interested". That sort of a low key thing. so fascinating.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Now let us talk about each. should it be one of interest. are you somebody she wants to talk to? Doesn't want to talk to? Someone she should fear? Or feel safe around? Someone she should have some sort of. To have that power to see somebody and you just found her so interesting. ok? It tends to work in that fashion. you are not meeting them to ask about their car. welcome to this meeting or welcome to this charity. putting situations into categories. you are putting it on the table that you are interested. The subconscious thinks in terms of roles. You are not talking about something in the checkout line. she is trying to assess who and what you are. Like if you are a pretty good-looking guy.. again. runaway... pardon me for interrupting but you are so absolutely stunning. putting people into categories or roles. a woman is quickly trying to make an assessment of you and figure out who you are. . they putting across the thing right off that "hey. but you know what. you have to have the energy and belief in yourself—and the frame of mind—that you can walk up and do that sort of thing and be comfortable. she. and just to find out what kind of person you are on the inside. remember how we talked about—see you're going to see how this all starts to integrate guys—remember how we talked about. that you have interest in them and you know. how are you doing". sometimes a snap judgment will work in your favor. • Meaning. Page 98 . You are walking up. Or you walk up and you say "you know what. and right from the start... and to feed her signals. I saw you from over there. "you know. and I told myself. it may be easy to route yourself into a categorization that is going to be favorable. this is what they do. and they will walk up and they may just say the words "hi. When you walk up and start talking to a woman. should it be one of fear. and be able to follow it up with a good step two. and you walk up and you go. It's OK to state your interest. That I really wanted to take the chance to meet you". Meaning. ". interest in? And. You are setting it fourth right from the start that you are interested in the person.
. are their cases.. if she is way different from you in age.. Now. Now this is a snap judgment that happens guys. have a very good energy and be very relaxed. or be flattered by the fact that you are putting that much energy into it and pushing through the nervousness. if you try to do an interested opener—conveying interest right at the start—and your energy is wrong. that guy can kind of "get in under the radar".. and just starts making general comments in her vicinity. her age.. is going to set off too many bells and whistles. their tends to be snap judgments that would be associated with that and one of them is "I do not want to. That's reality. and her situation in terms of her attractiveness. spend some time with her. than the snap judgment is fine.. get her to be more comfortable.. Because it is a very distinct way to quantify a phenomenon. ". And you can go up and present yourself as somebody who is interested in her and a romantic or seductive way. But.. maybe he is just social and saying high and talking. if she is a right kind of woman. ".. If you are reasonably good-looking guy who. That is fine. D5-T33 So getting back to the aspect of this "interested" opener—it can work. But it can work and it tends to work better. is such that you have a pretty good chance of a snap judgment by her working in your favor in. I know some guys that are in their forties. if you are pretty close to. Now. and saying "I am interested in you. ". This is very important. Ok? Now.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual D5-T31 The thing about using some of these opener approaches is that you have to be aware of where the snap judgment is going to take you. if the snap judgment is not going to work in your favor then don 7 go for the snap judgment. I really wanted to be you. you are really stating it—your putting it right out in front of you—right out there guys in front of you.. Because. You know. And if she is looking at your age being 40 and her being 25. And the phenomenon being that it's an age. well obviously.. You have to be very calm with your intent. then he like a letch or a perv or whatever". "if he is trying to hit on me. maybe he asks her opinion on something. her social status etc. you are setting forth—right from the start—that you're interested. but as a general case to pull off an interested opener. very comfortable with your intent. and then goes into a conversation with her based on that. It's a number. get her to see him in different ways. And the thing with some of these openers is that some of them are going to lend themselves more to snap judgments than others. Maybe. and then he will have a chance. If they walk up to a woman and go "you.. and they have to be very careful. that same guy if he takes a more low-key approach. or you feel nervous about it. are absolutely stunning. you need to be pretty calm. or social status. and get away with it. she will think that is cute or whatever. you are going to snap the line. it's very difficult to pull it off. And you need to be. walking up and going "hi. I am not interested in this guy". Ok. or. the reason I point out this example of a 40-year-old guy and a 25-year-old woman is that the snap judgments tend to be something that's not going to work in your favor. D5-T32 So. if you are a 40-year-old guy and trying to walk up to a 25-year-old woman. at least roughly close to being her type where the snap judgment isn't going to hurt you all that much. Now Page 99 . or maybe he is innocuous. So it's important for you to be aware of that in your selection of what kind of opener you may want to use. or whatever. It's extremely difficult to pull it off. but. D5-T34 Another opener at that works tremendously well for a lot of guys is the opinion opener. You know. where you can do it with some nervousness and have it work? Yeah.. Ok? And I am using the example of the ages—not is not because it is all that bad or what ever—it's just an example.
I was talking to some guys over there I really want to get the opinion of some females on something. I am kind of busy right now. ". everybody wants to feel important and feel like their opinion matters! And. Or "excuse me. But.. It's an opener. " Look.. Step one is just have a minimal dialogue with her. can you help me with something.. but I am walking down the street. Remember. but the social opener tends to work better with a captive audience. you are giving her a complement on her.. can I get your opinion with something? Can I get your opinion on something?" You can walk up to a group of women and say "you know what. and I'm really looking for somebody's opinion that has a good eye for fashion. have you had any of these pastries. if you are at an event.. " you know. a lot of you guys that are worried about this step—it's really step two you are worried about—we're getting there. Walk up to somebody. It is so easy to do that. where there's people there. It is an opener. do like this one or that one?" Anything.. another option that I like in terms of step one is a "social opener". 15 seconds. so many guys are so caught up in not wanting to appear like a wimp or not wanting to supplicate or whatever. and do in a good way. Just hello and some pleasantries to get things moving. you know. you can ask somebody's opinion without conveying that you are bowing down to them or worshiping them.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual there are some guys that say "do not ask a woman a question. "Excuse me. That's all. But if you are at a party. Look... I need to buy a gift for friend of mine. what's your name?" It is an opener. in terms of clothes. It is a way to at least get you through step one... so can I ask your opinion?" I mean. which one of these muffins is better. very low key. and it is not necessarily that you are going to take their opinion as gospel or fact. 15. You know. and you walk up to somebody and say "hi my name is so-and-so. There is nothing wrong with that. Okay. Well. Ok? Just ask her opinion. It is a great way to do it.. and things like that. and shut up. 30 seconds. conveying it very low key. You know. Even if they say "yes". really.. Like if you are at a party or social gathering or something. you still did it! Ok? And for some of you guys that haven't talked to somebody new in a while. Look.. Ask their opinion. again. Do you have a minute?" Hey. I haven't seen you here before. But if I walk up to a woman in a mall and say "you know what. you give them and a little bit of credit. and this tends to work better. You are just trying to find out their opinion. I mean if you are on the street. Ok? That's fine. Can I had your opinion on this". or even some of the ones that have.. that they go way too far to the other extreme. which of these two colors do you think is better?" Or if you are in a checkout line at Starbucks for anything go "hey. maybe a minute. this is one of those ones that. again. her style. not good. you can do it and still maintain your power as a man—for you guys are all worried about that sort of stuff. not good. ok? And again.. if you are at an art gallery opening or the bowling alley or a sporting event or a chamber of commerce meeting or anything that is just social. If you are like "I need your opinion. 45 seconds. if I walk up to a woman and go "excuse me. you're being honest.. D5-T35 Now. you can ask somebody's opinion. you know and go "excuse me. It's really not that hard. Maybe she is dressed nicely or something like that and in some way. they are different ways to meet people in different situations where you can meet them. you walk up and say hi. And you get them talking. yeah. and introduce yourself. depending upon how you deliver it can have an effect. pardon me ladies. we're Page 100 . hey—why not ask their opinion? It is a way to get things started..
ok? Go out and train yourself. you are not supposed to be eavesdropping over there. see how easy it is. You ever see where somebody three feet away. I love this in situations where. really. the opener that a lot of you guys are worried about—15 to 30 seconds is not a problem. . Sandy? Nice to meet you Sandy. Page 101 . and you are talking to a friend of yours. reading her book. so bear with me. And you are talking to one woman. Or you are not saying "you know what. Or you are in a line at a coffee shop and you make a comment about the muffins or pastries that are there. it's an option.. stunning. Well. do it a lot. " Hey. No. " That sort of thing. whatever. and you will. Say "what you think about that"? Or "wait a minute. Now. my name is Dave. and another woman is next to you. where it's random. D5-T36 Another option here is what I called the "innocuous opener". . what is your opinion on this. You know like when somebody is standing a foot or two away from you and they just kind of overhear. Really. when you step back. can you tell—or. You are not necessarily introducing yourself or asking their opinion. I use that all the time. That is fine. Ok. So. interested. or ask them their name or introduce yourself. and you are not really opening per se. typing on her laptop. it's a piece of cake. But woman "B" is hearing you talk. say hello. and you know what. You are not necessarily saying "Hi my name is Dave". There is 15 seconds of dialogue right there as you say "hey. and the fact that there is a close conversation in her proximity. what's your name? Ah.. You just make a comment like you know you will point at those tabloids and say "oh god. That's just a summary guys. with your laptop". You want to find out? Go do it. writing. they kind of hear you are saying and they're kind of reacting? They laugh. let's say. the aliens have landed again. Ok? D5-T37 Now. It is an effective way to just get something going. Like let us say you are like in a checkout line. he has had so many good openers. You can comment on that. ". and they join in? It is an innocuous opener.. but you are talking to your friend.. if you are talking to woman "A" and woman "B" happens to be standing there. go up.. And don't worry about anything beyond. I love this.. innocuous. You are just there an innocuously hanging out and she becomes a part of your conversation. Sometimes. you look s o . the woman is overhearing what you're saying. the woman's doing her thing. Or the—I love checkout lines. " or "it's so unfair that they have to stick these candy bars right here". Just do that step. you may be (you know) at a coffee shop.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual getting there we're building through all the steps. guess what I just spent 12 seconds.. because you are not directly addressing her. Well.. social. It's innocuous. opinion. directly asking her opinion or introducing yourself or showing interest in woman "B". and there is a woman three feet away. You know you are someplace in a social setting. There's so much work that has been developed and techniques that have been developed by Ross. You not necessarily saying "pardon me. is somewhat of an invitation for her to join the conversation.. they may even make eye contact or somehow acknowledge what you said? That is an opener in a sense. and it gets easier. your discussion with woman "A" is sort of an innocuous opener to woman "B". and you just start talking. be social. Look at all those different openers. ok if you are going to listen to my conversation that I get to read what's on your laptop.
If not. focus on something else for awhile. which is part of this. If you are out talking to people. then just use a social opener. if you can pull it off. I love that. And get ready for the next step. you know. hey. it is a little bit of a challenge for some of you guys. as to when to use which. there is one more thing I want to address. I urge you—look at those four option. just say Hello! So that's a summary. and under what circumstances.. Then. See someone around who you can just make a comment to because they just happen to be there? Maybe an innocuous opener will work. If it's a social setting. You may even want to think of an overall "algorithm" of sorts. and to use them all fluently. I know that it is a little bit challenging. If not. is to go to that diagram which represents "The Process". Go shopping. or you are making comments about things in your environment—you can comment on the weather for god sakes—it is an opener. so do it if you can. but if you are on the street. if you are going out and doing things and meeting people. will depend upon the situation. we will get to that in a minute. See something in the area that maybe you can comment on or ask about? Maybe an opinion opener will work there. and be sure to list each of these four major options to Step 1. Page 102 . Step one. An important thing for you to do in working with this workbook. don't worry about it. At least get things moving. But there's one thing I want to bring up in this context at this time. So it's a good idea for you to be familiar with them all. people are overhearing you. on the right side (facing) page. that is a little direct. But. interested openers. maybe make some various notes about what YOU see as key points. For example if you are at a social gathering then a social opener is more acceptable. Social opener.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Step two is where some guys have a little bit more of a challenge. Do you have the right frame and are secure enough to express interest? Then go for an interested opener. the main types of openers that we are dealing with fall into 4 categories. Do you need to focus or fixate on just one of these four? No. Like. Or.. fine. you know what. you are walking up and introducing yourself. If you want to practice. just make things happen and get them rolling. Maybe you can come up with a better set of if/then statements for yourself. it. In fact you are better off to be aware of them all. Come up with some things that are going to work for you. Ok? Step 1 Reality: Opener Methods As detailed in the transcript. D5-T38 Before we go on to the next step. Ok. just an opener. Go shopping in places were you know there is women there and ask their opinion. but again. I know. with step one. ok. it becomes easier to do. You thought we were moving onto step two. might not work as well. practice. A lot of the selection process as to which option you choose. Maybe ask opinions. The innocuous opener..
. 4 Process Step 2 D6-T1 Step two. She is doing something. to make sure that the embedded command is exactly well written. call that your energy or whatever. Embedded commands. she's living her life.. ok? Her subconscious is doing parallel processing. ok? She's Page 103 . They'll still work.. and she is living her life. you need all of those factors and those factors will help you. I hope that make sense. Ok? It can help. Again. you have a moment" as being part of the embedded command. I have seen so many guys worry so much about you know. when it comes down to it. Look. she is processing things on so many levels. making sure your approach is something that is comfortable and not threatening to her. again. Your much better off with step one focusing on making sure you are relaxed. Get and Keep Attention. " and they blame the woman. So let's look at this... Saying one embedded command. Now. remember. but you need repetition. Ok. She is buying something. That is a much better place to put your energy and attention in step one. " effect. where embedded commands. 15 minutes or an hour.. and they have sort of say "additive.. In a lot of cases. you need rapport. she is busy. she left or she did whatever you know. the tonality and all that stuff. remember. when you meet somebody and you go through step one.. And they are all worried about saying. Wait a minute—why should she talk to you guys? Give her a reason! I mean. Now that period of time can be five minutes. we are getting down to the basics and this is a general structure that is going to explain everything. the exact wording of the step one opener.. here.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual I know a lot of guys have gotten very concerned about the exact wording of an opener. She is with her friends. . it's looking at what all of her senses are telling her about the way you come off.. and now as I promised. making sure it's comfortable. She's doing something. but worrying so much about the exact wording of something that is going to last 15 to 20 seconds—it's probably not the best place to place your energy. you need time. look. one time.. it might help. where all of these things have an effect upon a subconscious. .. well. walking up and saying "pardon me.. Ok? And this is where. you have a moment". are the sort of things that work on the subconscious. but to work at their best. 4. and they work on all this. she is going somewhere.. But look. it can. and so much effort to write and craft an opener. but is processing on all of these levels. is by a sort of repeated use and use over some period of time. we are getting down to reality. let us move on to the next step. Now this is something that we are talking about lasting from one minute to 15 minutes. but don't get caught up in it. does it help if you have got the exact languaging down for an opener? Yeah. But really. A lot of guys go up and talk to someone for 15 seconds or 30 seconds or whatever and they are like "Oh. in order for embedded commands and things such as that to work at their best. but d o . a lot of guys spend so much time. in the span of 10 or 15 seconds in an opener. ". or you know. or doing something. Why should she talk to you? Think about it. and how comfortable you seem in the way you moving. is it going to have some effect? Maybe.
Anybody can walk up and go "hey. Now step two. Step two is why is she going to want to talk to you. D6-T2 Now. You know. at some sort of opening or party or whatever. Let us think about this in the context overall. especially if she is walking in the other direction. Let's say you are at a social event were somebody is there. and this is something that a lot of guys need to focus on. step two. There's four major approaches that you can use for step two. when we look at step two. So they are going to be around. Step two is why should she stand there. The first option we have. doing. it'll probably be a little bit easier to come up with a situation that would cause her to want to spend five to 10 minutes with you. chances are that if you look like a male model or you are rich are famous. how are you doing". The pressure of step two is what is holding up a lot of guys from step one. I'm walking. and I'm moving someplace. step two. As opposed to maybe another example—let us say you are on the street. it's easy to get and keep her attention if you just happened to be her type. living her own life. I hope it does. all of the ways that somebody can... she is going somewhere. You are her type. basically what I've done is I've broken step two into four major categories. or use Page 104 . Again in step one—just say something. Even if she is in a club and walking around—she is doing something! Give her a reason to want to talk to you. of her time. the thing is. this is what really hangs guys up. say something innocuous—that's pretty easy. why should she talk to you? She is probably not walking down the street going "you know. it is an option. step two can be sometimes more of a challenge than some other times. isn't it?" "Excuse me. for some period of time. She is doing something. seduce someone. Then. You do something interesting enough. She may be in a checkout line. make a statement or a comment. You are done. why should she talk to you! Ok? Now. and they are going to be there for two hours. you get her to stop. No. and then we are going to go into each in detail. ask for an opinion. what are some options.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual going about her day. Now. Ok? So. Remember some of these are better for some guys and some of them are better for other situations. "get and keep her attention" the first option is "be her type". " That is step one. ask an opinion. Ok? This is reality. and I'm going to summarize them real quickly. doing her thing. right? Think about it. You're walking down the street of a major city and a woman is walking. she is living her life. step one is. ask a question. buying a muffin or a cup of coffee someplace. you probably aren't listening to this product. D6-T3 Now. you say something. do you have the time?" "Oh which is these. give an opinion.. They're going to be in the room. You have to be interesting or make her feel good. Does that make sense. we went over the step one options. or do something that is going to give her a reason to want to spend 5 to 10 minutes of your time. Why should she stand therefor a couple of minutes. I'm trying to give you a model that explains everything.. we will get into that. But again. but really what I want is for somebody to give me a reason to stop for 10 minutes". Now I know. or it might be a large room or whatever. maybe she is walking down the street. "Nice day today.
and it's fine. be what she wants. For the average guy for the average Joe. and what may work for you. Again. that guy is her type. if you are rich or famous or whatever. . then it's easy. all they have got to do is open their mouth.. and she is really good-looking. you can just roll through this step. if you are a male model. be her type. because I want to discuss it separately. If you grant that to her then.. that she wants to spend time with you. if you are really good-looking. It is very easy. you do not even have to do step one. this is an option.. All they have got to do is walk up. if you walk up and say hello. ok? Now it's an option for some guys if you can. I'm separating it out as a separate one. if you are great-looking. Just be comfortable and be relaxed. option three is be funny. it's somewhere. and this is what I do to meet women. basically. then getting her to stay for two minutes or 10 minutes and just talk to you is pretty easy to do. D6-T5 Now. or you know. Option four is "make her feel interesting". . all they have to do is not screw up and she will sit there and talk. That's all the excuse you need too because you are her type. You are sitting or you are making her laugh. So it's easy for them. ok? Everybody wants to feel interesting. Ok? Now there are a lot of guys out there that talk about "Oh. Ok? Be very interesting. " There is a lot of guys that have different approaches and what they are not telling you is... If you are maybe the average guy.. and it's not hard. D6-T4 Option two is "be very interesting". But hey. For some reason you are so interesting.. You are very funny. hey. or you are really famous or a rock star. Ok? Page 105 . this is my technique to meet women. It's basically a matter of don't screw up. That's great. you will be able to get and keep her attention very easily. Ok? Now. or maybe she is really well-off or has a lot of social proof. Just by virtue of who you are. She wants t o . if you are rich and famous or good-looking. and some people (if you want to split hairs) being funny is a way to be interesting. I mean. Don't be intimidated. or she perceives that you are in the right age bracket or social bracket or whatever. do something that makes her feel interesting. that she may want to sit around and talk to you for a few minutes. and then I'm going to show you the Speed Seduction® context of it. you are so fascinating. so let's look at this. So. but again. she is having such a good time that she is going to want to sit there and to be an audience.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual ® any of the technologies like this. so this is actually similar to option two. is very easy to do. what does not. Now let us go over each in detail and talk about what works. Ok? So step two option one. step two the first option is. these guys are pretty fortunate. you know? All you have got to do is go up and start talking to someone—I mean god. they walk up and do it for you! But if you are her type. Do not put off a weird energy. and if you are her type. If you 're her type. It's a reason. There is a big section of women out there that for those women. for a lot of guys we have to give her a reason. option three is "be very funny". everybody wants to feel important. Ok? Those are the major options. It is an option.
See to go from being the clown. One option is to "be funny". So. it does have a little bit of a challenge in terms of shifting the energy over of the interaction to something more of a romantic or sexual nature. they are so opened up. So. it's good for so many reasons. If you are able to make someone laugh. can take quite a shift.. If you are funny. I'm going to skip ahead here. Step three. or being attracted to you want something physical to happen.. If you are humorous. it's really funny that you laughed about that because some friends and I were talking about this. let's look at the context. But now. Her subconscious perceives that as something that is safe. But it is a great option and you know. . being funny is great initially. etc. isn't it? Especially spontaneous humor? So. It's a great way of her being relaxed around you. fantastic! However.. and really appreciate when they're having a good time. Imagine the power of being able to talk to somebody and have them laughing and having a good time and they're joking and having that energy of humor. typically that is an indicator that you are not nervous. It really is. you are sitting there and they're laughing. if you are being funny.. there is kind of a shift now.. etc. it's easier to laugh. to being somebody that she is attracted to. you making her laugh. because most women are not laughing when they are kissing you! Hopefully they're not.. if you can be funny for the first 10 minutes. Obviously. " See. If you are laughing.. you don 7 have to be funny all the time. and then you go ".. you being funny. you being humorous. down the road.. (looking ahead) is "direct the conversation and ramp interest" you want her to start (later on in this process) thinking of you in a sexual fashion. you have an audience. Be funny. if you make somebody laugh. make somebody laugh. you have got her there. "You know. it is not very easy for you to be funny. is a great way to incorporate fractionation. think of this.. Think about it. Let's face it.. you can anchor the state like crazy—it's wonderful in terms of rapport building. people have stuff going on in their lives but if you can't stop and laugh or allow yourself to meet new Page 106 . is a way to demonstrate that you 're relaxed and that you are comfortable. make them feel comfortable. it tends to be indicative that you are relaxed and comfortable. because I want to make a point. familiarity. However. If you are sitting there and fearful of somebody. in terms of somebody being relaxed. and really relax. or being humorous.. if your subconscious is giving you a fear response. I've know some friends of mine that they're so busy in their lives.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual D6-T6 Now the other option here in step two and. that's really great that you are laughing at that because you know.. making humor a part of your approach. I've got stress going on. making humor a part of your technique. and you are being the clown (you know) you can get and keep her attention. they're so comfortable. You can get a lot of embedded commands and you can do a lot of great things. ok? It's hard for a lot of women to go directly from thinking of you as the clown or humorous to being attracted to you in a romantic fashion. . and we were saying that etc. Now. if you are nervous or fearful. and then you shift from that and g o . D6-T8 Plus. it's a good rapport building thing. You know.. I mean. they're so relaxed. comfort. they just can't stop. There is an amazing power in being able to be funny. it's hard to laugh around them. It's a great way of building rapport. that it is easy to keep somebody around for a while.. being funny works.. isn't it? But if you are relaxed and you are comfortable. So it works both ways. you're going to have to make a major shift. Ok? D6-T7 Being funny has its advantages in terms of rapport building. that you are relaxed.
that trance state.. Go rent some standup comedy videos. then you feel better about yourself.. bounce back and forth. it's the same thing.. D6-T9 Now. then. The more you do that. The power of jokes.. Again. Yeah. it's a common phenomenon of everybody. or that I've coached.. ok? Some of the sitcoms today are rather boring. I told a lot of people that I've consulted with. put your mind into an atmosphere and into an environment where humor is something that is prevalent. and some of the best guys that I've seen use this technology are able to do that. I know it is going to be really difficult for you. there's joke web sites. There's great DVDs and videotapes of great performers. but watch your favorites. but let us see if you can do this.. You see what I'm saying? Remember we talked about fractionation? That push and pull? That tension and release. you are either funny or you are not funny. or hold you at some level of appreciation.. Okay? So get those comedy videos. Remember the herd mentality? You see how this all works? Page 107 . I want talk about being humorous and being funny. Everybody likes the idea of feeling important. because the power of going from something really compelling and really fascinating and really interesting.. Does that make sense? Does that sound familiar to the way that I've talked to you about training yourself with these materials. they will tend to be allies of yours. The more your mind starts to naturally think in that fashion. and then something humorous for a while and funny and joking. this is a tough assignment here guys. You know. Some guys say "you are either funny or you are not" Well. I'm not saying necessarily that each of you should try to copy their acts or say their jokes verbatim.. provides you with a fantastic tool. D6-T10 Now. and being funny. There's joke web sites. and then back to being fascinating and interesting. It is an easy way to get and keep her attention. It's really fantastic. the more you are able to naturally communicate in that fashion and be funny. watch them. Go watch standup comedy routines. you know. Rent videos with standup comedy routines. if you are being funny it's a reason for her to want to talk to you. because I know this sounds really arduous and difficult. but it will give you material. and out of a trance state? That access of the subconscious and then pulling out as it were? Humor. ok? You can even say "hey. " and then you tell her a joke but. We talked about this before on the product. " Look. what's the point? What's the point of going through all of the stress.. and again. the more your mind will start to think in that fashion. It is incredible. It is another approach. look. and not very original. If you feel that other people hold you at some level of the esteem. They tend to be—look at the diagram of the conscious and subconscious—remember about safety and security? Ok? You feel better if you believe that other people hold you at some high level of regard. it is a great option for you.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual people and enjoy this. Watch them like crazy.. and trying to achieve anything? And that reminds me of a joke. Can you become funny? Yeah I mean. The power of that scenario is amazing... with Speed Seduction®. where humor is a part of what you experience. I was watching this great comedy video the other night and the guy said this. for just a moment or two more. You know. another option we have here in step two of getting and keeping her attention is "make her feel interesting. if you can be funny. hey. " Ok? It's more material.
Now. and I just put you up on the highest pedestal. "oh. I worship you and I want you to feel interesting and amazing. Remember the opinion opener in step one? So many guys are so worried about asking a woman's opinion. well what is it that you do? Why do you like that? Is that a fun job to do.. interesting thing to demonstrate to her or to tell her. maybe you are not her type. what you do for a living. be a man and talk to her and say "you know. Make her feel interesting. ". You are not sitting there saying. But you know. of getting to know them even better. it's going to be pretty easy to get and keep her attention isn't it? I mean that just makes sense. D6-T11 You guys that are a little bit nervous about what to say and what to do. " There are so many ways to work around this that I could just go off on it for an hour on this topic alone.. without giving up your own power. what is it about that you really enjoy (or). you know the easiest way to get through step two? Let her do all the work! Yeah.. about the process of getting to know somebody. How men and women may think differently about stuff. ask her about.. You are talking to her. you can ask for the opinion of someone else. and it's probably one of the more effective ones is to "be very interesting. that is really fascinating. Again. I'm not saying sit there and go "oh you are so wonderful and you are so interesting. and maybe making her feel interesting isn't your bag. by asking her opinion. does she think that's true? That men tend to be a little bit more superficial and that women are able to see a lot more depth?" That is one of the things we are talking about here isn't it? You can ask her opinion on that. If you have got a good energy about it. Asking what she thinks about something. ask her about men and women. Look at this product we are talking about here. They want to feel that others find that their opinion matters. you can even say "say. because they do not want to come off as needy or supplicating or whatever. I've always been interested in that line of work.. you know. like her opinion matters. and it was saying that. she will think... Now what do I mean by that? Meaning. and she finds that interesting enough for her. you guys want material to talk to women about—ask women about—maybe not this product specifically—but the things we are talking about. interesting knowledge. your going to be successfully into step two. when you've heard of guys talk about sitting there and doing demonstrations (remember when we talked about that before) see all you Page 108 .Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual See. you know you were reading something about the way that men and women get to know each other. do you feel that allows you to grow or to be a better person. again. you can make her feel interesting.. "Wow. No! It's ok to sit there and powerfully. wow. But let's say you have got some interesting skill... No! You are just sitting there asking. women are really able to analyze guys on a lot of different levels.. this is getting back to some other stuff like. Ok? If you are interesting. which is to get and keep her attention. why did you get into that?" She is going to talk about herself. maybe you can't sit there and joke around or whatever. she's going to feel interesting. In fact. Again... why you get into that? What part of you is that sort of serving or. she is going to want to talk to you. you can make someone else feel interesting.. don't do it as a wimp. people want to be interesting. ". D6-T12 Probably the most common approach to step two that a lot of you guys think of. comfortably. look. ask her questions. When I talk about making her feel interesting. " Just be very interesting.. I mean.
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are doing with the demo... Now, the demos can have a secondary thing, or you might be manipulating their energy or moving their pictures around or something like that... But if you are doing a demonstration, it is something interesting. It's a reason she should talk to you. Ok? It's fun to hang around and somebody's showing you something cool, you will give them a few minutes of your time. It is a way to get and keep someone's attention. So the things that you have heard mentioned about like doing handwriting analysis, or doing palmistry or things like the Cube or guys doing these different demonstrations with somebody's energy or showing someone how anchors work or moving their pictures around, what are these? They're demos. They are a reason for somebody to want to talk you. You know I've heard somebody guys say "well, that's a crutch". Well, you know, some guys get and keep attention by talking about their job, or being an interesting guy, or finding a way to talk about what it is they do, or whatever. Some guys can get and keep their attention by just being in interesting guy or being their type. Remember that was one of the options, wasn't it? You know, some guys keep their attention by being funny, etc. But if you have got something interesting to show her, if you're interesting because of your stories, if you are interesting because of things that you can convey, then they'll want to talk to you. Ok? D6-T13 Now, how can you be very interesting? There are different ways to do it. You can have stories that you tell. You know, interesting anecdotes. You can share some piece of information. Ok? You can give a demonstration, show them something, again, being very interesting. Think about it,... This is where some of these guys that are musicians and artists or things like that—they're very interesting aren't they—if a woman is into that kind of guy. A guy that knows how to do palmistry or handwriting analysis, that's a reason they might want to talk to you isn't it? Some guys learn stuff like magic tricks, I know some of you have heard of that. Ok? It is the same thing, it's a reason that they will want to sit and talk to you. Ok? Now sometimes being interesting might be the clothes that you wear. It may be that you are sitting there and you have got some outrageous outfit on, and that gets her interest. Now again, if it's just an interesting piece of clothing, or an interesting outfit, you know—where do you go from there? If you have got nothing to do other than that, then you are kind of stuck, but it is an option. It'll get their attention, you know, a piece of clothing might not keep their attention—you've got to have something else beyond that—but it is a way to get their attention. Ok? So just be very interesting is a way to go. D6-T14 If you're naturally able to talk to people, ask them questions or do any of these options, that is fantastic. Go for it. But if you are trying to learn, if you are trying to really get better at these skills, you'll want to look at this option of being very interesting, and all of these options frankly, and really map out which one that you are going to work on. Think about it. Like for the most part, if you are listening to this product, chances are that the option of "be what she wants" or where, I mean, you just are the type of guy that she wants, it's probably not your situation, or you probably would not have this product. So then you really have to look at this and say look, you might get through step one by just saying something to a woman and engaging in a conversation. Fine. But now, the reality of it is "why should she talk to you". Ok?
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Now if you guys want to work on your skills, what you have to do realistically is say, What are you going to do? Are you in going to come up with a way to be very funny? Are you going to work on that? Are you going to have some sort of a series of questions, or ways to make her feel interesting by asking her opinion or discussing something with her that can make her feel interesting or important? Or are you going to develop some way for yourself to be very interesting to her? Those are your options. This is a way for you to really look at the situation and really break it down. This is where we are getting into the application guys! This is the real world! You have to look at your life and what you have to offer and give her a reason to talk to you. How are you going to get and keep her attention?
Step 2 Reality: Get and Keep Her Attention So if you have been studying these technologies for a while, you have undoubtedly heard of SO many references to these sort of "demos" and various ways to "show her something about herself or to "show her something really cool". Does this make more sense now as to why that may be important? This is one of these areas where you REALLY need to sit and face reality and figure out—what will YOU do to get and keep attention?!?! Don't ignore this, don't brush this off as academic. It's Reality. Face it. Really consider this and find a solution, or better yet a set of solutions that work for YOU. And again, did you write those various options down on the diagram? You need to do that before moving on.
D6-T15 Now, if you think that naturally or magically, you are just going to say whatever, and she's going to want to spend 10 minutes with you... Remember, chances are she's got somewhere to go or something to do. So the way to apply this is to, coldly, look at this step, look at those options, and figure out what are. you going to do and what do you have to offer. Are you interesting enough, do you have—I hate saying the word "gimmick", because there are negative connotations but,... Do you have something to show her? Do you have something to ask her? Do you have something to demonstrate?
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Or are you naturally able to just chat somebody up and be an interesting person for 10 minutes? If the answer to all those is no, then you have got some work to do. You need to sit down and figure out why should she talk to you. Why should she spend (you know) five to 15 minutes with you, or one to 15 minutes with you. How are you going to get and keep her attention? D6-T16 I hope that taking the time to break this step out is really help you in terms of the reality of this, because a lot of guys have gotten hung up on step two. I know some of these guys that are fearful of step one and really when I look at it, the issue is not step one, the issue i s . . . They are worried what is going to happen right after step one is done, and it stares them right in the face. Now that's kind of cold, but the reality is, you have got to have a reason for her to want to stick around. Or else,... It is that awkward situation... Do you ever do that? You say hi or whatever, "hey hi, how are you doing (yeah ) what's your name? Oh, Sandy? Yeah, my name is Dave, " - you've got nowhere to go! You have got nothing to do! . I mean, I just did step one. Now what you do? Where do you go from there? Ok, this is something that's really hanging a lot of guys up. This is something you need to work on. D6-T17 Now look back at what we've dealt with. Look back at the tools hierarchy. You can have patterns, demos jokes, those are some things that you can work on to incorporate into step two. Look at the conscious and subconscious mind, remember, you want to have that trained. If you are going to be funny, if you are going to be very interesting, you want to put effort into it, you will want to be engaged in the process. You know this is why I said, if you want to be funny, listen to a lot of funny stuff put energy into that, change your life to be funny 000 T, st Tj0.000
you have got her attention. So we are going to spend a little bit more time on this and we are going to get into some detail. what part of her is really making the decision guys? It is her subconscious. But you want to find a way to get across to her subconscious that you are the kind of guy that she would like to be with. You have to be able to continue a conversation and have a conversation with a woman for some period of time for all these steps to work. let us be realistic here. this is where a lot of the work is going to be done—if you want to consider it work. even at this stage. OK? So that is what you want to be aware of in step three. because we have to have a social component to what we are doing. just due to the way that you look. However. you may. or whatever. Ok? Now. you know what? The numbers. but let us look at step three "direct conversation and ramp interest. because her subconscious is going to be more open. and how you are saying it. even at step three. And it's those other magical parts of her. maybe she has thought of you in a certain way. ok? It is doing parallel processing. She is talking to you. Now we have to find a way to get her subconscious to like you. those things are a factor here. This is a part where a lot of the magical stuff happens. Yes. what she wants. Because remember. It is looking at various means of assessing who you are. It has a herd mentality it's evaluating things on multiple levels—remember we talked about that. " Well. And even at this step. Ok? All of the senses are tuned in. is Page 112 . She is going to be more receptive to what you have to say. like all of her senses are tuned in she is watching. learning. the facts and figures and the conscious mind is definitely an aspect of the interaction. when we talked about the structure of a woman's mind—or of anybody's mind for that matter—what were we speaking of? We were speaking of what the subconscious is looking for. the data. you can—but I think this is where a lot of the wonderful things of Speed Seduction® can really happen. Now. We are talking. yeah. Now that sounds familiar. the information.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual 4. D6-T19 Now. doesn't it? That is why a rapport is such a big issue at this point. I'll talk later about this in the overall context. but what you want to do here is you want to find a way to appeal to the part of her that is really making the decision. and something that you must address. I mean. or you have presumably have passed some initial screening. even if those things are not in your favor. the process by which the conscious mind is screening for potential guys. so that she decides that you are the kind of guy that she wants to be with. remember what we talked about in the early steps. 5 Process Step 3 D6-T18 Step three in the Speed Seduction® process "direct the conversation and ramp interest. rapport in my definition. What it the subconscious looking for is looking for safety and security. not necessarily the parts that are looking at you in terms of facts and figures and data and numbers and things like that. with the correct application of the skills. Ok? You can really be the kind of guy that she is really looking for—that her subconscious is really looking for. you can overcome those things. after getting through the earlier steps that we had talked about. what's going to interest her and what is going to excite her. Now. listening. Now. we are having a conversation. and to where you want to lead her if you have good rapport. it's going to be a little easier for you if you are better looking or its going to be a little easier for you if you are more close to her typical "type". This is the part where you are really using the languaging and where you are really appealing to the parts of her that are really monitoring what kind of person you are.
Remember. maybe certain languaging she is looking for. It is the opposite of fear. Find something that's there Page 113 . The second is "assume". Make sense? The third option is to "utilize" what is that her subconscious. and again. The fourth option is to "remap" things that are in her subconscious already. what are these different options that we have? The first is "create". Ok? So in step three. They could be certain roles that are appealing. similar to her. and that we are going to go into each in detail.. this is a time for you to look at your workbook and to write these things down and take notes for yourself because I want you to be involved in this process.. You being similar to other people she knows. and when I say this.. D6-T21 Now what I've done with step three here is. D6-T20 There is kind of four main ways to do that. And what I mean is. knowing that she looks at things in terms of symbols.. she is comfortable.. things that will appeal to it. I'm going to just go through them quickly and just summarize them. and it basically comes down to four different main areas that we can use. it could be certain things about her environment that make her feel safe. that make her feel excited. what is in her subconscious. So that is very important that you have that at this stage. and I'm not going to get into detail about all of them here.. what I mean by approaches is this. and she recognizes that you are to some extent. and with the knowledge of that. certain structures that it's looking for. you're going to find a way for you to symbolize something good. There's rapport. we did the mind map before? If you look at that mind map now. I've broken it down into four main ways.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual that ability of her subconscious to know that you are kind of an "ally" that you're subconscious and her subconscious have sort of an "agreement" if you will.. Her subconscious has certain things that it's looking for. But we want to find a way to get her subconscious to look at you in a certain way.. So let's go. To find something that's there and you are going to use in your favor. you are an ally. Make sense? That's really what we are doing a lot here with step three. You are creating things that her subconscious. Ok again. Meaning... Now. Ok? Four different main approaches here in step three. Knowing that roles are important to the subconscious. you want to find a way for you to be in a good role. there are a lot of great rapport tools out there. Ok? There is nothing to fear. there are several distinct ways to approach it. we are basically trying to find a way to reach into her subconscious (for lack of a better word) and to find ways to have her subconscious look at you in a positive fashion. the differences between you and other people she knows. All these things I am listing right now they are all aspects of her subconscious. assume something is already there and you are just going to use it. you will see the what we're doing is trying to look at the way the subconscious views things. and with step three basically.. It could be certain things in terms of what she is looking for. we have to direct those means of assessment in your favor. and again as typical.
because it's almost unreasonable to try this approach.. You've got to find something in her subconscious—really that is what we are talking about—that you are going to appeal to. talk to a woman and create all of the structures that the woman needs. that's a lot of work guys.. and this tends to be what happens if you find somebody (you know). create symbols. They have very little in their subconscious that you can work with.. . You are those things. In terms of comparing you. in a way that's going to work for you. Sounds interesting. Now I do not want to get into a big discussion of this here. That is a lot of responsibility.. They think that from scratch their going to go and. Meaning. I suggest you move on. doesn't it? It's a lot of work. That's kind of scary.. What we are talking about here in this step three. . create all of the languaging and everything in her mind —if you have to create all that stuff. god. and I'm pretty sure that a lot of you are just not ready to accept it. create these means of comparison. This is what happens when you have got somebody that is really not too smart (to put it as positively as I can). Okay? There's no symbols in there that you can use and work with. You can either be who you are and what you are. the first option we have like I said was to create things in her subconscious. Now. Now those of the four main options we have here in step three. It may seem appealing in one way. then you become the embodiment of all that stuff.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual that might work in your favor and remap it... All right? So. Let us put it this way. the symbol. and that's a scary thing. D6-T23 See. basic. again. You know if that works in your favor. go for it. Ok? And. Ok? In this case. that is great. really. There is nothing there to really work with. and put in so much effort that it's really not worth it.. that is a great approach to work with. you know. or create all of the means by which the woman is going to like you from scratch. one of the dangers is. You have to create things absolutely from scratch and then direct them in the way that you wish. there is really nothing there to work with. and they're just like a sponge. You become the role.. Ok? There is none of the structures that we talked about before that you are going to be able to use in your favor. "create things in her subconscious to work with". the thing to which all other things are compared in these subjects. and what you are doing is you you've got to find something there that you can work with.. Let us talk about each one in particular. were you think it is the only real approach. because now you are the way that she becomes fulfilled in this area of her life. Now you could do that by appealing to her most basic. Leave that person for someone else. D6-T22 Now. reroute it. Think about it in terms of.. but the bottom line i s . basic instincts.. create processes in their mind. Ok? So that first option.. ok.. Page 114 . If you find a way to do that.. they're soaking it all up. and what the subconscious has in it? Think about creating this stuff. is finding a way to talk to them conversationally. the similarities and differences between you and other people. Sometimes you will find someone and you may be using really persuasive languaging and using a lot of even prewritten patterns. because of that. you have to go in there and do so much work. There's nothing there. Remember the mind map. this is what a lot of guys think they are going to do. and I really do not recommend that and if you find somebody who. because there are things at her subconscious that you will be able to use and utilize. and it just turns out that there are just things in her that respond to you. there is no roles in there that she could really use.. if you create the very things in their subconscious—if you have to create roles. it's a lot of work.
what's her subconscious telling you. the way it makes you feel. well...000 c(Whe)83Tkj.. That is the way you are listening.. what is exciting. She is talking about skydiving for example.0.. What does she like...651 Tw-0. what really fascinates her? And again.000 applw0. She is talking to WelTc(ihe) ws.iheoft.sts her s-129he outd9?43Tj0.ny0Tc()j51'62drp7u9-4az/F8bI3?EBg 40Td.(mTj19w-0.72T(are)j13l . ei Now..w129 . she might be telling you about what she enjoys doing. When you talk about subjects like these in step three.014w592-8Tconsiu)0. or in any step of this process. what's her mind telling you about what appeals to her. and saying it is "so exciting. those descriptions are things in her subconscious. You talk about subjects that deal with (you know). What are people like? What do you like to do? What do you find interesting? What you think is the difference between men and women? How you look at the way that men and women communicate? What do you like about your past relationships? What do you find really interesting? What you find really exciting? See? When you ask questions like these. "she is talking about skydiving and I'm listing for the internal ( processes.091 Tc( thos) Tj0. and it's so energetic and I feel like I'm doing something wild that I've always wanted to do".. and you are sitting you are thinking. what are the processes in her subconscious that I can work with ".56c(f)Tj139wyou0..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual The challenge here is finding a way to conversationally to do this and this is where.014Twbe98c(doin)jv23hay6Rkr'u subjects with some depth. "What roles is she talking about here.012 Tc( abou) ars 12. it is not as clinical as. you talk about 5. ". Well.000 91. no it is not that clinical.0TfRiker'u 0 uy Tc2.. What you are listening for is information.
What are the structures that are in her mind that mean something to her. if you find yourself being interested in those subjects. assuming things is good because it gives you material to work with. again. great. we're on step three. hopefully you get a "hit"— meaning.. find ways to talk about them. I'm flipping through my pages here too to follow along with you because I want you to do that.. things like that—and then basically what you are doing in step three is that you are directing the conversation in that way. see how that works? That's how this works. but you know. she starts to associate you with being excited. and it is going to actually get you set up for a lot more effectiveness in the field and a lot more success in applying this material. Learn about them. What is she interested in? How does it make her feel? Why does that matter to her? Ok? What are you doing? You are asking her questions.. Ok? Again.. is unique. It has it's limits because every person. . you know. remember. You are talking to somebody—this does involve talking to them. Then you've got material to work with ok? So that is what I'm talking about with assume. D6-T27 Now the third option here.. What we are talking about here. D6-T26 All right? Now. and you can converse on them. back. Page 117 .. if it is there. Then you can talk to them about them. You are listening to how she responds. if you learn about those subjects. It's great for practicing it's great for learning. if you find what are the eight or ten most common themes or what are the most common things that women tend to want to talk about. What are the roles that mean something to her how the she compare and contrast things in her mind.. Ok. be able to come up with SS languaging about them.. you can talk about it. because you want to have that discussion with her where you find out is what is in her subconscious and then you utilize it. and good way to learn the tools and to learn the processes that we are talking about. you can evoke it by using all of the SS tools that we have talked about.. directing the conversation and ramping interest. riff on them. Why? Because we want to find out what matters to her. if you have a way to talk about those subjects. and link it to you by pointing to yourself and using some of the linkage phrases—you know. well you know it won't be a bad approach to assume that (you know) with some reasonable women that they are going to have at least some of those things appeal to them.. You're going to talk to a woman. Hey. what does she like. does that sound familiar? Remember. Then you map it back to you. you assume it's there and hopefully it is—and then.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual So you are assuming something's there. Now the third option is to "utilize" what is in her subconscious. and so it's good to have a little bit more flexibility. what does she not like. or anticipation. You are listening to the words she uses.. You are going to spend time with her. She starts to associate you with connections.. look. Every woman has unique structures in her mind. and it is a good way to learn about women. and connect to. Because. "assuming" is a good way to go. ok? You need to go back and look at those tools that are in the hierarchy. "now with me". You are finding out about who she is. You are going to have discussions about. Now this is similar to assume in what we are doing i s . You are assuming that the things are there. Ok? And you need to look at the map of the mind. every woman. If you pick six or eight subjects that women are familiar with and interested in. It can work in the field. and you are ramping interest. ..
go back to the mind map. what she has to have to feel safe and excited. Ok. You are pointing to yourself. You are using linkage phrases. and you know.. Now what does that mean? Well. See how it works? Remember.. Get her to experience it. Ok..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual See back with assuming. some of them are wrong. For her what really matters is trusting her instincts. it's almost like there is a hierarchy to that (once again). go back to the tools hierarchy. she is telling you that that's her process. In utilizing what you are doing here in this option is your going to talk to her. Ok? And then you want to direct that towards you. I mean at the base. You just know when someone is right for her. She says. Get her to talk about what it's like. Ok. here we are at step three. I can't give you every technique. but I'm trying to show you how it all fits into the greater parts. maybe you touch her and you anchor her. how does she know when that happens.. She is giving you some sort of hint as to what is in her subconscious. so you talk to her about what it is like when. Ok? Now again. and we are at the fourth option. you are linking it to yourself. so that their almost instinctual. It works well with assuming too because you are integrating them. I just know when someone is right for me. find out what's there and utilize it. Page 118 . What do you do? You talk about it. this works tremendously well. and by basic. Ok then utilize that. Talk to her about that.. When she enters that state. is right for her. That's how it works. Does that make sense? I certainly hope it does. You might start talking about somebody assuming things are there. Ok.. because. or someone. You are evoking that. or anticipate things. what we call "remap" things that are in her subconscious. I just know when something is right. Things that she uses in her subconscious to decide when something. I can't give you every tactic here. because this is the meat—this is where it all happens. and there at the lowest. you're going to find that. we sort of had some blind assumptions about what is in there. you find out that she's g other things that you did not even know about. ask her questions. you are going to find out what is in her subconscious and then utilize it in your favor.00r a while. Ok? D6-T28 Now the fourth option that we have. Okay? You want to utilize that. what roles appeal to her. but then afc( touc) Tj0. How does that feel? How does she know that that's happening? Can that happened instantaneously like when she is talking to somebody? Can she come up with examples? When she is talking about that... What is she like. so let me give you an example. most significant levels of who we are. what are the signs to herself. Fine. They're very important. Meaning. This works tremendously well. have some discussions. find out some of them are right. Well then. some things are more basic. don't talk to her about chocolate making her feel excited—talk to her about what it is like to take chances! Ok? If you find to her that she. if you consider the aspects of somebody's conscious and subconscious mind. Ok? And then some things are more fleeting or lighthearted. When you talk about those things and ask her about those things you utilize it by linking it back to you. So if you find out for her that what makes her feel really excited is taking chances. so that when you are learning this and when you are doing this in the real world you'll have an idea of what you are doing and how it is working for you. more ideas.
she get so bored with these guys that were like her age and into all the same stuff. She still does skydiving and still does snowboarding and things like that. but that. and somebody different. and then she got even more depth and then she said. she can judge what kind of person this was. She found that that was so exciting. You know... what really got fascinating for her was learning how to be into new and exciting people.. was tremendously exciting. I mean. You know. and that really started to turn her on. that those were the only ones she would hang out with.. She could take the risk of being with somebody like that. you know. but she really get into the. Maybe this person comes from a different part of town. and this type a friend or even this type of guy. and it was so thrilling.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual "Oh yeah.. Maybe this person is a different age or a different background. hang outl l e . I mean she used to really be concerned about this type of person.. But then she got to the point where she learned that really deciding that she wanted to spend time with somebody new. Maybe this person looks differently from what you are used to. She still jumps out of airplanes. she still does. because now here's somebody new and different and totally different walk of life. She started to go out with different people. Because she learned for herself that ultimately. I had a friend too and she was really into extreme sports and everything and she was really into that...
the better off you are in terms of your success. if you walk up to somebody at step one and you're desperate and really dying for their attention or approval. that babe or whatever that was really hot at step one. You know what? That girl. what you are going to see is you might have a lot of women get through the step one. because that rolls back into the earlier steps. You may find that.. But also the more you become familiar with these tools and the better you get. they are going to sense it. and (ok) alright to talk to at step two. Ok? Step three is very powerful because you are finding. You know. D6-T32 Remember. Maybe you find out that you have to create too much stuff. It's very important and a lot of times. You are showing her that you can be the way she experiences wonderful things. And you know.. sometimes by step three. and a lot of times you may get to the point with step three with somebody were you go. One of the most powerful things of get into any these steps is to have your own criteria for yourself as to what you like. Maybe she is just not there. and you are using all of those Speed Seduction® tools in the process.. "Let's see what kind of woman she is. Maybe you assume some things are in her subconscious and they just aren't there or there is nothing really worthwhile to utilize. this person doesn't have the level of depth and they really don't have something I can work with. because you have a captive audience.. But if you are the sort of guy that. and you looking at her.. what you enjoy. using these techniques and tools to show her wonderful things about herself and about experiencing the world. Yes. and the more you understand them you are going to have more criteria for yourself. the more that you have a life full options and you know you can meet different people and different women. Step three is not just about finding stuff to use. They are just not all that interesting. step Page 121 . And the irony is the more you have those standards. " You may find that you are going to develop your own set of criteria in step three and a lot of women aren't going to pass it. step three is going to be a big qualifier for you. that woman. Step three becomes. You are actually showing her a better way to experience life. maybe not. or assuming that this is there. You're talking about interesting and fascinating stuff. less through step three etc. Let's see if she has the sort of things that I find appealing. Let's see if this is the kind of person that I can give this wonderful gift to of using these materials. because most of the guys I know that are experienced with this material they have their own set of criteria that they look for. or utilizing it or remapping it. You know what? That's fine.. there is more to a woman than simply how they look.. then step three is a lot easier..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual attention so that they think you are an interesting person and they want to talk to you. Part of step three that's very important. you know... what you will not tolerate and what you will.. well. that I want you to consider is you. Part of this is about developing self-respect and your own set of standards that go beyond just how she looks. what you don't like. and less trough step two. or something that I'm interested in working with.
having that frame of mind makes you so much more powerful. and what motivates them. Step 3 Reality: Direct The Conversation and Ramp Interest Here at Step 3 is where we are really seeing it all start to "come together". We could predict various scenarios forever. Create . and the better you get at step three for example. Now such understanding does not happen overnight. So that you really "know" what to do. Page 122 . and use these tools in the real world. and step two. the better you will be in step one. how they think. This is where the "magic" happens in many ways. Knowing how the mind works will help a great deal. at every step of the way. For many guys a lot of what they have learned and studied in this technology really comes out and provides a lot of power and effectiveness at this step. and study. So all of these steps help all the other steps. It works all around. but you know later on. so be sure to study and pay attention to that mind map that we went over earlier in the product. you know those early steps were there's a lot of nonverbal communication going on. then at step one you are going to have that comfortable. And also. but nothing will ever match the ability of a guy to be able to decide. because your energy is going to be better. And so much more powerful at. in real-time. what is best to do. in-the-moment.. application is what it all is about. she looks great. casual. I hope that helps. Again. was so that you will really be ready for "anything". " And ironically. the reason we went into all of that discussion about the Mind.. and I'll talk to her for a moment or two. That will carry you farther than any other tool or technique ever will. A genuine curiosity about people. confident air about you that says "Well.Not much work you can do there. ok.. and the mind map. and what tools that you have at your disposal—does that sound familiar?!? See. and various things you can say and do. and her subconscious just perceives the kind of person that you are. if that is the kind of man that you become. but I'm still not convinced. and I hope spending this additional time on step three has helped you to better understand it and better able to go and do it in utilize it in the real world. and you did write down those options onto that diagram—right?) let's move on.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual three is one where you are not just trying to convince her of something. but the more you listen learn.. you are also screening to she is the sort of person that you like. it's great. the best tool that you can have for yourself is this. the better you get. Go through those different options. we could theorize all day long about various scenarios. and you could walk out tomorrow and find something that had not been planned for! The best way to prepare is to be very very familiar with how people's minds work. I mean. _____ So. And with that (oh. How can you get better at Step 3? Look.. a couple steps down the line we'll see what she's really about as a person. thenand-there. go through those methods of step three.
. There is ways to make it easier. Let me ask you this. But if you have done steps one. you are finding out who she is.again. Boy can seem like the longest two feet in the world can't it—Leaning in to kiss somebody? If you have never touched her. how many times before that have you touched her? I don't mean in a sexual way. Most first kisses that most guys have with most women are not like they are in the movies. And then the fourth thing.. you know. It tends to be what it is—It's a first kiss. Let us put this in the context of steps one. or to close. like a kiss or something like that. romantic physical contact. a phone number close an e-mail close etc. you're initiating some sort of physical contact. Does that make sense now? You have heard those questions talked about for years. Let's get real. and three really well. Let may give you an example. This section. three. How does it feel to you? What is that manner? What is the process?. playing love songs behind you. But just be able to talk about the subjects and look for what's appealing to her. what I call "the close".. but it is not like it is in the movies. With that done.Ok.. two. Utilize . and you have never touched her. OK? I know there are guys that get into discussions of things like. and three then. in any capacity. if Page 123 . two. Most of the time when you are ready (at step four) to kiss somebody. OK? That's basically it. Now when I say closing a woman what I typically mean in this context is. I am not going to get into details here about anything sexual. or closing a woman. or touch this and stroke that or anything like that..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Assume . a lot of women's subconscious. wonderful. not necessarily pre-scripted patterns. you do not have an orchestra behind you. step four is pretty easy. You have probably heard this discussed and talked about in many different products in many different form and venues. That's the whole point of those. What are those questions about? Those questions are a way to find out what's in her subconscious that you can utilize.... step three of the overall process. that all much the better. I mean just touched her like a hand on a hand or touching her arm or shoulder or putting and arm around her? See if you have spent all this time with somebody. So think about that in terms of having some material to talk about. two. and four. look. let's move on.. or closing. you are showing her different.. And. Okay? First off. etc. or whatever term you want to use. if it's experienced with you. Remapping .. See a lot of guys get very upset about having step four go well and how you are going to do step four and how step four is going to come across. new ways to experience those things. I'll mention them briefly. I rattled off a bunch of common things that are in a lot of people's subconscious. but for our purposes here we are talking about actually leaning over and kissing woman. OK? Now. Now. Okay? If you have done good work at steps one. 4. 6 Process Step 4 D7-T1 Step four in the Speed Seduction® process. all these earlier steps.Think of what we talked about. now look at the nature of the questions we asked. then leaning in and going across that. So I hope this section has helped you. step four becomes a lot easier.. We can get into a discussion of those things later.
none of that has to be sexual. It easier for you. There might on some level of her subconscious on some level of her mind there maybe a bit of a concern or an alarm early on. You are going to start to see how the different components work together—remember we talked about the concept of fractionation. playfully. or her shoulder. It helps indirectly. the kiss isn't anywhere near as alarming. Again. and that can raise a lot of arm belts. the energy is good. you have never touched her hand or her arm. after having good rapport. is what is happening. She becomes comfortable with the idea of it. you touched her hand. OK? If that is all happening at once it can be pretty risky. it can be a little bit of an alarming thing. maybe you're are laughing having a good time. maybe put arm around her. See? This is what some guys refer to what they are talking about touching or "kino" or whatever.. and he is getting ready to kiss me".. and sometime later touched them and withdraw. and her mind. It's easier for her because she has already been touched a few times. then all of a sudden. Her subconscious does not send up a bunch of alarm bells going "oh my god the guy's going touch me. if you have initiated some form of repeated physical contact. touched her back maybe. and then maybe touched her arm. then that two feet is one of the longest two feet you are ever going to encounter in your life. if you walk up and you don't have rapport. I want to look back again to another concept we talked about earlier. It's actually a lot easier to have happen. after spending time. you touched them and withdraw. see that. if you have never touched her. and her subconscious. I am just saying if you have initiated some sort of physical contact. OK? Why? D7-T2 Think about it. OK? There is a sort of an "alarm bell "that can go off the first time somebody physically touches you. But if you get some rapport and you touched. and then withdraw and then some time later. let us face it.. I do not mean touching by groping. But if throughout the course of the evening you leaned in. how doing something repeatedly helps. when you do lean across to kiss her. even if it's innocuous and has no sexual or romantic component at all. and all the parts of herself are getting used to the fact that you've touched her. She is monitoring the situation on some level of her mind to see she has good report with you. maybe put a hand around her. Her subconscious is looking for safety and security.. is she comfortable with what is going on. or never got a touch or anything like that. It's not just a matter that your kissing her. because you have already touched her a few times... touched her. and you touched somebody with than 20 seconds. Now if you have spent some time with her and then at some point. It's like fractionation she gets used to it. this repeated action. what she wants to have happen. guys I am just saying touching someone! OK? You do that enough times. If you have done that repeatedly. remember what I said. get some humor and at a good time leaned forward and maybe you know. You know. if you have never anchored her at all. You might. If you have got great rapport or if you're laughing when it happens. That is a lot to have happen at once. See this is all going to start to fit together in your mind now...Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual you have never put arm around her. maybe not—again... you touch you pull back. or anything like that.. see? Page 124 . touch are on the shoulder or something like that—do you understand why now? See. that "oh boy.. it is the first time you touched her! OK. you touch you pull back. But after several instances. look back on the diagram of how the mind works. it has an additive effect to it? OK? Maybe the first time you touched somebody:. again.. he is touching me". then her. after seeing that your energy and everything is in the right way. because what you are doing is your getting her used to the idea of touching you or getting touched by you OK? D7-T3 Now.
she wants it to go well. You there are some exceptions. she kisses you and you're done. she wants it to happen. OK. and it is going to be successful—meaning. that's pretty much all she's going to do. There might be original ways to get somebody to kiss you. Look.. the idea of kissing them is a lot easier. you might get her to kiss you. you do this and you do. she is going to kiss you. and she is ready to kiss you. the easier step two becomes. Because she wants to kiss you.. a lot of guys look at step four. that's it.. This is not something where you have got to be perfect. two. she's on your side.. I understand that.. not meeting a lot of women in step one. She realizes it is a little bit awkward and everything else OK. See all of these techniques about "Oh. It does get a lot simpler and more natural for you to just you know when to kiss her. Let's face it. Step four. if you're at step three with a woman and things are going really really well and you want to kiss her. chances are that she is going to what the kiss you too! OK? A lot of the techniques I have heard that help guys to trick a woman into kissing you? OK. the first time you have leaned in towards them. and they are worried about step four. It's a lot easier. And again. She probably wants it to happen. because if you trick her into kissing you. Now it's just a matter of kissing her. But I think you understand what I'm talking about. " I made I have heard. if you trick a woman into kissing you. Does that make sense? I certainly hope it does. so she wants it to work as well. She wants it to happen. you have done that already. I mean. you do not have to trick her. because she wants you to kiss her. That's about the worst that can take place. D7-T4 One thing to help you guys out in terms of lessening the burden that you are putting yourself is that. Not getting a lot of women to spend time with them at step two and not really ramping up and getting the interest and everything in step three. you don't want to think about as a trick. Page 125 . and want to leave. But even if it is an original way. the easier step two becomes the easier step three becomes. some of these are incredible. the worst that can happen is you have a clumsy moment and you laugh and. because you tricked her into kissing you! I mean if all you want to do is kiss her and be done.. OK. but she's not going top kiss you again. So if you're going to kiss someone.. D7-T5 So really this is a lot easier than a lot of guys give themselves credit for. and three it really does become easier. it's really hard to screw things up. two. etc. So she is on your side. And if she want you to kiss her. and things are going well. three have all gone well and you are ready to kiss her. Seriously. But if you have to trick her into a kiss. She is on your side. Look.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual When you have done that. I have seen guys do it. you know. the first time you have touched them. while sitting at their house. that is a pretty true statement to make. you know. then you can do a trick. when you spend time with somebody at those earlier stays steps. once you've been successful at steps one. when you feel comfortable leaning and touching them to some degree—all of a sudden. if you have gotten that far. But for the most part. the more that you do step one. if she wants to kiss you—if you're at that step-it's really hard to screw it up so bad so that not only is she not going to kiss you. but you are probably not going to get her to do much more than kiss you.. she might want to do a little bit more than just kissing—then chances are. she wants it to happen. Those things are something she is used to after you have spent some time with her. if she really wants to kiss you. It's not a matter of it being the first time you have gotten near them. then what do you do about the steps after a kiss—and again I'm not going to get into all those in this product. isn't it? Because now it's just a matter of kissing them. I mean if steps one.
Watch her reaction. You must remember this: "A Kiss Is JUST a Kiss" . but you act as if you are going to and you see what happens. she wants it to happen. is the test kiss. Again don't worry about kissing someone. You'll be talking to her and then you do that bit where you stop. even if you are not that smooth at it. Things are going well. Then you are on your own. and you look at them from moment. this isn't the entire array of options.. she wants it to happen. Look. its engaging those parts of her mind. and it's got the last for 10 minutes and they have to have this whole game plan. I've broken it down. in light of this being the technical manual. but you know. At different times you have leaned in... and then you keep going. One way to think about it that is going to help you is to think about the kiss as just a kiss. Then you are pretty much on your way.. It's just a kiss guys. A lot of guys worry that they've got to lean in and enclose a woman and kiss her. two. I mean. Again. that's the kind of close. D7-T6 I do what to give you a couple more specific strategies about this and things that can really help you to think about this and make it easier for yourself. Don't worry about closing. don't think about the steps past that. Let's get down to a few specifics. OK? Think about just kissing somebody for 5-10 seconds. where you don't really kiss them. This is not really an "option" in Step 4 as much as it is an overall point that needs to be remembered. than backup. You are comfortable. that'll happen. Those things are actually more natural than anything..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual Those things do happen.. If you are that step and it's going well. all you have got to worry about—and I don't really want to say worry. OK? Page 126 . and lean forward. fractionation. that's step four that I'm talking about.. That's all. you've touched her and everything else. D7-T7 Now I want to give you three specific tactics that you can use that are going to help you. Just be talking and talking about something really interesting. and with being in that situation. OK? And again. and then at some moment just stop. as if you are going to kiss her. That is another product. that's is a bad way to put it—all you need to think about is simply leaning and in kissing somebody for 5-10 seconds. I want to give you a framework for it OK? And give you some help in this area.. you are talking. OK? Guys want specifics here. They come with time and with training.. write that down on the diagram! The first line under the "name" area for Step 4.. the effectiveness of a kiss can be had with a 510 second kiss. Imagine you have gone through steps one. Again. just do that. building up a response potential.. and three. That's all.. That is all you need to do.. One thing that's going to help you very specifically. imagine being there. OK? Again. A 5-10 second kiss and you are done. a few times... OK? Step 4 Tactic: The Test Kiss Write that down on the diagram! So this first tactic is what I call a test or test kiss. I do what to give you some specifics here.
that's pretty much a good sign. OK? So do a test is one option.. it's one thing to lean in to somebody or lean in to a woman as if you are going to kiss them or something like that. You're also building response potential. But you can back off. I'm just giving you a technique. But one way to make the distinction of kissing somebody is to lean in towards them—this is similar to the test—but lean in and as you are leaning in.. OK? If you lean and like that and she sort of stops and leans in a little bit.. If they reject by backing up when you lean in—not a good sign. tilt your head. you know. OK? Don't end the evening at that point and run home and listen to your tapes. do a test kiss. You need to work more on step three. and then you don't kiss them. that's a good sign. You can use it as a test. your going to get feedback. If you lean in and you get closer. you lean in a little bit. you know. You act as if you are going to. just slowly to one side as you lean more and more in and then. When you lean in and do the head tilt (OK) you may see. I'm not going to get sleazy with this. or you can use it as a means to try to kiss somebody. if you lean in and a do ahead tilt she may lean forward and tilt her head too. or back off. I'm just going to go in and see what's happening and back out. You are building up the anticipation.. " It is a way to have it work. if you are worried about an outcome if you are nervous about this then tell yourself "I'm just going to lean in. so.. Watch their reaction.. don't say anything for a moment and do a head tilt. Step 4 Tactic: The Head Tilt Write that down on the diagram! D7-T9 I'm so passionate about this guys because.. You are also fractionating. plan on going in and backing off without kissing her. you know... just slowly to one side. If you see their head tilt. D7-T8 Another tactic that may help you is a similar thing where. it's response potential... and I really liked him. You are using repetition. I know a lot of women who've said "God.. And again. Again.. I've gone out with this guy. OK? Remember all of these things we have talked about before? It all works in your favor. again. and he never kissed me!" OK. You getting her used to the idea. Because you are testing. So do that. It's more about using the kinesthetics. well. D7-T10 The next specific tactic I want to give you has to do with. It's a tactic... and I am not going to kiss her.. That's a really good sign guys. So you can kiss them then. there's a lot of instances out there where women are sitting their going "why isn't this guy kissing me"? So when you do these tests. Trust me. This is a way for you to try to do something. OK. OK? Getting down to specifics here guys. hey. and it was great and I wanted him to kiss me and I had the sense that this guy wanted to kiss me. Page 127 . I am just going to do ahead tilt. more about using your hands and everything else. I mean—Kiss Her! Come on.. but that's pretty much a good sign. and then this thing with. It's fractionation. back. you are building that up. Ahhh. again. It is like the weasel phrase of kissing! OK? To try to do something without really doing it. That's a specific tactic that can help. she may lean in more.. She.. lean in and do a head tilt..Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual This is a way.
I am giving you those specifics in a respectful way. then she is used to the idea. touching her. laughing. I want to give you those specifics. and they are still worried about step four! Step four is a lot easier to deal with when you are at step three. then don't even worry about Step 4 yet. that are stuck at step one and two of this process. See how this all kind of fits in with. is to consider it when they are hardly even doing Steps 1 and 2! Step 4 is much much much easier to do with any woman. OK? That works. part of her mind is going to go "hey. and she is responding well. 3. and I want your learning to be about you. one way to do this i s . hopefully that will help you with step four. you have to be gentle. because they're step at stuck at step one.. then just use those tactics. Step 4 is very very easy. worry about that when you get there. about you doing things naturally. and see what happens. The results will surprise you. because I want this product. act like you are going to kiss someone. You know I don't even like talking about these specifics. having a good time. But just as a way to help you. I am only doing is because I know there is a lot of guys that get hung up at this step. you can move in. with itself? D7-T11 So those are some specific techniques. OK? So there's some specific things. You bring your hand up. OK? You can use that with the other ones. what am I going to do?!?!" Well. etc. OK? If and when you DO happen to get a women at Step 3 and she is powerfully responding. Don't grab their hair don't push their head around guys. do a head tilt as kind of a way to test or as a prelude to a kiss. what's this guy doing". but if you just reach up and lightly touch someone in the back of the head. be respectful about this. The other thing is.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Step 4 Tactic: The Hand Behind the Head Write that down on the diagram! If you lean in. 2. and three if there has been no physical contact of any type and your reach up with your hand. From that perspective. you know. doing anchoring. I mean. That helps a lot. and she wants things to move forward. because you sort of draw them into you.. when you are there with her at Step 3. and you put your hand like behind her head. do a test kiss is one way. and the hand behind her head and pull them towards you. So if you are not yet getting women through Steps 1. and they are saying "But at step four. Page 128 . . two. And again. you know. you do a head tilt. if you lean in and you haven't touched her for you know. I know somebody women that have told me that they've been on so many encounters where they knew the guy wanted to kiss them and he didn't. OK? Step 4 Reality: The Final Step of the Journey The biggest problems that most men have when considering Step 4. for steps one. If they do a head tilt then you put your hand up. But if you have been spending time. . I know they are out there. and again. that's a good technique. And most of the time that their hung up at step four. a good prelude to a kiss may be a little bit of a hand just gently behind someone's head. very comfortably. But there is a lot of guys. enjoying herself.
The hierarchy of the tools.. people change all the time and every individual is unique. which is what we have done in the process here. We're not done. every man is different. Every woman is different. You know. but it is going to give you a general guideline along the way. which is one of the goals we want to get to with you and you're learning and your development with these skills.. and every situation is unique. that triangle. we're going to talk about it some more. inside your mind. That say "go 27. all those specifics. You are kind of stuck. you are kind of stuck in the process. right? Most of the guys say "get on the Internet and get another map". OK. a lot of guys when we go a trip if you're going to drive from Chicago to Los Angeles. But you need to have a general set so that you can have an understanding and have real-time flexibility. 6 miles on that road. The problem is that people are dynamic. I can give you a general set of steps. that's a rough thing. (you know) this far and make a right. and there is a detour? Or the road is out and you have got to find some other way to go? Oh my God. I want you to think in terms of that. 7 Process Flow and Examples D7-T12 So now. because the roads don't change.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual 4. and all of a sudden you are going down the road. if you get that map that says "go. Part of this process of doing this whole product is—that mind map. " You know that's what a lot of guys want. the steps are going across that one page. OK? It can help you with preparation. and now the process. . " You don't think in that way. I want you to remember that graphic. you know. but you know what I am getting at. is something what you have inside yourself... you have to learn to enjoy the journey. you are in Chicago and you kind of kind of fine your way to—I don't know how far route 80 is from there—you kind of find your way to interstate and you just sort of Page 129 . that was that detailed. D7-T13 One way I like to think about is you know. But. But I want to go through it and sort of lay it out for you. . I really urge you to do that. But it's a general roadmap for you to show you where you're going to go. and it's a way that you think. the same thing. we've discussed all the steps of the process. I put that one page in there were you see spaces for all those steps. Like you go on these Internet sites (OK) they give you map. what happens if you're halfway there. Please do that. 2 miles on this road.. step by step. and then make a right and then go 4. write the stuff in the workbook. It will get you from Chicago to LA. and then go this many miles exactly and make a left" etc. Now it's not necessarily that you are going to be out there with a woman going "Well. OK? I hope I've got that point across. OK? Hopefully. you've been taking notes along in your workbook. And that's what guys want in a product like this or want a roadmap of this process. guys tend to want to go and get an exact destination. where do you go from there. I am at step two and I'm doing option three and now I need t o . Guys. If you get general directions that. But even if I gave you that map to go from Chicago LA. But. like. You see the places where you can fill in notes and fill in the titles of those steps. but it does not work that way. and then you head west and then go. OK. using the driving analogy again.. Pretty much—they do construction and everything—but pretty much they don't change. So that you could see sort of how they will fit together. Well that's fine. All right? Getting back to the driving analogy. I want you engaged in this process.
He spends time and he walks up to somebody in step one. That's not the way to go. So your typical AFC is sitting out there and he maybe has a chance to meet some women. shy. OK? And the thing is to just get started.. maybe you've seen or maybe you are one of these people. the real-world stuff that you are going to have to have when you go out there. because. if you need to focus on step one and step two—maybe you need to focus on step two just to find some reason for her to talk to you. several distinct steps. hey all you need to do is just keep driving west. as long as I point in the right direction. Don't worry about the fact that a light may be red in LA before you are ready to take off from Chicago and start driving. what I want to talk about with you is some integration of these things and some examples to show you how this all works. there can be detours along the way. but this is the time to really talk about integration of all the information that we've had here. great. so you can see how all this works together. and actually when you navigate that way. What you need to focus on. Now I want to give you some specific examples of the kind of guys that maybe. D7-T14 See the thing with this process like I've shown you is. You have more flexibility. head west until you get to the water than find out whether you need to go north or south and the just go in that direction. All right. all you have to do is just head west. you've got to be more interesting or come up with some skit our gimmick or stories or be funny or whatever. All right? So let's look back now.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual head west. how they operate in situations and how they go. ) Let's consider your average kinda. Now I know we just had got done talking about the process. And giving you examples of specific guys. It is a general guideline. Now let's think Page 130 . When you look at the process and you look at those steps in that process. We've used the term AFC for "average frustrated chump". and in each one of those steps I've given you some options. OK? A lot of guys are so hung up on like step three and four that they aren't going to try step one.. that's the overall map.. It's a lot easier. I mean. You know where. I've given you. you know. this road's out? I'll just go on another road. Guys. Then go do that. Don't worry about step four yet. insecure guy. you tend to have a lot more fun because you can enjoy the journey. you can have problems. But in a general sense it is an overall process that you are going to need to go on. well. To show you how that overall process works in a general fashion. Okay? This is where we're going to have the different parts of this start to together and you're going to see how one part starts to fit into another even more. I mean look at what direction the sun is setting and just drive that way. work on that for a while. or questions for her. (OK. You can have detours. • If you are in Chicago do you really need to know that every road is open between there and LA? Do you have to stand in Chicago and see that every street light between there and LA is green before you leave? No! Get in the car and start driving] Same thing here. So that's going to help you in determining what skills you need.. OK. OK? General directions like that. and then we are going to talk about how it works in terms of Speed Seduction®. D7-T16 Now. All right? D7-T15 So that is the overall process. Then you're going to get to Los Angeles eventually.
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about step one, remember, step one doesn't last too long. It's just an introduction. OK? It's just an introduction, just a way to say something or say one or two things. So this guy, this AFC, does his opener, or he is trying to do his opener. Now, again, if this opener, this whole step is lasting maybe 15 seconds to 60 seconds... How much information is she perceiving at that time? I mean how much can a guy reasonably say in 15 to 30 seconds. (You would be amazed at how fast some guys can talk when they are nervous. ) But she is looking at how the guy appears. She is getting a sense as to how comfortable he is. He is giving off information in terms of whether he is relaxed or he's nervous. His nonverbal information that he is containing... He is actually conveying a lot of stuff about two and what he is. So her, and her subconscious, is doing it's best to sort of evaluate who the guy is. Now, remember how the subconscious looks at the situation. It's processing on multiple levels, using a lot of sensory input all at once, looking at how the guy moves, how he acts, what his voice tone is, what's his hands doing? She's going to perceive "does this guy feel relaxed, does this guy feel as if he's threatened or nervous. Or does he come across as threatening, or something that would make me nervous?" See if he is an AFC and he is insecure and he is kind of intimidated by her, her subconscious is going to pick up on that. So step one, he might walk up and say something. He might get something across, and she might enter into some dialogue, lasting 15-30 seconds. But is he going to be interesting enough for her to want to sit there and talk? Is he going to be able to get a keep her attention for any period of time? Probably not, because first off—he's an AFC'—he probably doesn't really have anything that's all that interesting that would want to keep her there. Plus her subconscious is saying you know "hey, I am not interested in this guy, this is not somebody for me, this is somebody that maybe I should be a little scared of... ", so it is going to be difficult to have enough rapport to be able to get and keep attention. So the AFC is normally going to be kinda sunk at steps one or step two. Hope that makes sense. D7-T17 Now let us give another example and I call this the "Performer Man". OK, let's say I guy has a skill, let's say, the guy... like a street magician. OK, so he is a street magician and he is out there, and he is able to do his act, alright. Now, OK... So he encounters a woman that finds attractive. Saying hello, and doing step one is not really a much of a problem. He just says hello, he has probably done it a lot of times, he's said hello to a lot of people. He has introduced himself or opened up a topic of conversation, so doing step one is actually pretty easy for him. And he can also do step one like an innocuous opener, just by being there. If he is there doing stuff, showing some other people, and the woman happens to be next to him, or happens to be around, and then sort of comes over and sort of rolls into a discussion or something, it's kind of an innocuous opener. He's not showing that he's interested, he didn't ask her opinion, he's not just being social saying hello, he is just there and she sort of innocuously engages him in some conversation. Ok? So step one tends to be pretty easy for the performer type. Now step two is easy as well because he has to get and keep attention. Well if he is interesting if he has something interesting to show her, she's going to want to stick around and watch. I mean, you know, whether he is a magician on the street or a juggler or whatever, hey, he's at step two. She's there, she is watching, she might be listening, they might be having a conversation. That's fine, that's great. He is able to get and keep her attention. But... Where do you go from there?
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See, he can be an interesting way to spent her time, he can be, like a show, but does that mean she is going to want to have anything happen in terms of romantic or sexual context? Probably not, or not necessarily. Because again, if that's all he does, and he does not know how to direct the conversation and ramp interest... I mean... He is doing a magic trick. He is juggling or doing whatever does he know how to direct that into an area of conversation that going to make her... Think about certain things? He needs to know how to do that. Does he know how to maybe create some interest, or ramp it up for her, or to help her to ramp it up for herself? If he doesn't know how to do that then this performer guy is to be able to get to step two and that's it. It doesn't really go anywhere. He meets a lot of people, he meets a lot of women, and he is able to get and keep their attention (step two) but it doesn't really go anywhere. D7-T18 Now let's get another example, let's say, a guy is pretty good looking. OK, he's a good looking guy. Again... I am giving you a general structure here as to how everything works. I can explain... you know there are so these other guys that have some other "systems" out there that they say are going to teach guys how to and meet women. I think a lot of them are nowhere near as good as the stuff that Speed Seduction® teaches you, but they are out there. And I can explain what works and what does not work in these systems in the context of this overall structure. And the reason that is good is because it gives you an understanding of why everything works and how everything works so that you are much more flexible in the field. I know you sit back and say oh, "good-looking guys have it easy. " But let's look at the good-looking guy and what that is like, in terms of the structure so you can understand it. OK? Or in terms of this process. Now a good-looking guy walks up, starts talking to someone, he can use any of the openers or whatever. Let us just say he gets through step one. In he's done step one a lot, it tends to be a lot easier for him. OK. She may have opened him. Again... When I say step one and opener, this doesn't necessarily mean that the guy has to be the one doing it OK? All right, and when I say step two, get and keep attention, the guy doesn't necessarily have to do anything for that. She can be the one that's working to get and keep attention as well? See, this works for all of the cases. So say he is a good looking guy and he is at step two. Well look, if he is that good-looking, all he has to do is find a way to comfortably get through step one, walkup, talk, maybe she walks up and talks. If he gets through step one comfortably, then at step two there is a good chance that he is just what she wants. He's her type. Maybe she likes that type of guy, as long as he is moderately interesting.... and again... These categories are not distinct. When you are at step two you don't have to either be what she wants or be very interesting. It helps if you are some combination of both, it helps if you are able to do all of those things! So if he is pretty good looking and he is able to be interesting, maybe a little bit of humor in their too hey, that is great. He is able to get and keep her attention. Not a problem. Now, step three,... And this is the world of the good-looking guy. A lot of these guys that are pretty good looking, if they just get through step two its pretty easy for them. You know why? Because at step three, she's helping to direct the conversation and ramp the interest. If you are good-looking guy, and you are kind of her type, once you get through step two, a lot of guys don't make it through step two but, as long as you get through step two, step three... She'll do a lot of that. She is going to talk about certain... things. She is going to
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direct the conversation in a good way. She is going to ramp her own interest up. If she is really motivated and sees the guy's not interested she is going to do it she can to ramp up his interest. OK? That's the way it works for good-looking guys. You know if step three is really really powerful, then step four is a lot easier. That's the world of the good-looking guy. That's why it works. Now, it is also why... There is a lot of good-looking guys out there, Ok.... Give you another example. There's lot of really good-looking guys out there, that have various means of telling you how to go meet women. D7-T19 OK, I know couple of them, one guy he... I have a lot of respect... Some of these guys have really done well to refine their technique, and they are very good at what they do, I don't mean any disrespect to them at all. They are very talented, but you have to understand that their reality is probably different from most people's. Let me give you an example while we are at this point. Let us say you have got a guy who is pretty good-looking guy OK? He is tall. He's in a good age range. He is got like, you know, good-looking hair. He can dress real provocatively. And he is a skill, let's say, he can do magic or something like that and get attention. Good. That's great. That's great for him. Now for that guy, all he has to do i s . . . He has got techniques for opening, got techniques for getting and keeping attention it's very easy... A guy like that sails through step three. It's very easy for him. If he is good-looking, and he has... I don't want to say the word gimmick, because it has a negative connotation, and I don't mean it to be negative. The guy might know how to do magic and do really well at captivating a group of people. So for that guy, if you are really tall and pretty good-looking, and a good age range, and you are able to go in and work a room, and you are able to get all that social proof from having 12 people watch you do magic tricks, and you are able to have all that work in your favor, that is a pretty nice reality to be in, huh? Looking at the model, you can see how step one and two are taken care of itself very easily. Step three, the woman is going to do most of the work—for that guy. See there's guys in that mindset, that try to tell the average guy—who is not six-foot whatever, who doesn't look that good, who is not in that age range, who can't do magic tricks. Those types of guys say "well, all you got to do is go there and be funny to get a group of people. And they're going to take... " . . . What they are saying in effect is that a woman will take care of step three on her own. Sorry, but for a lot of regular guys out there, it doesn't work that way. You have got to do a lot of the lifting in step two and step three. The world is a different place when you are good-looking and tall, and you can do magic and everything else. We can learn from people like that. We can look at this model, and see how and why what they're doing works, for them. But for the average guy (well), learn from what they do—but to try to emulate it—You are going to be up a blind alley you're going to hit a dead at, because you will find you have a lot of people interested in watching you at step two, but then you become the performer. Because you are not six-foot whatever and you aren't all that great-looking, and maybe you aren't the best magician in the world, and she's not going to sail through step three for you guys. But that is where Speed Seduction® comes in. Speed Seduction® can be used at all thee steps. Really. However, you know, step three is where you get a lot of the power of Speed Seduction® coming to bear to really help you the kind of success that you want. D7-T20 In the context of the process that we've laid out with these steps I want to look and give you guys some information about the world of the really good-looking women and what happens in this process with her. And I think this will just make sense to you. I mean after learning about the
So. and then some number fewer at step two. They're being constantly bombarded. the elimination process to get to step one to two to three might easily be a hundred to one. you are looking for reasons to screen them. and then some number fewer make it to step three etc. Again look at the process. Let's face it. The number of guys that have reached step three is actually quite low compared to the ones that she meets. get rid of them. the bar is raised quite a bit at step two. But again she is doing a lot of screening. see how that works? So you got to step two and maybe you are reasonably good-looking guy. if you are out there and dozens of guys are hitting on you all day long. or say you are a not goodlooking guy at all. I mean. look at it this way. OK? And to get to step three you to have a combination of either being. and looking at these steps let's look at what's happening. just get rid of them. because nobody can deal with 200 resumes. only one makes the step three. And the one pile is the "let's look at this later" pile—it might be good—and the other pile is the "no way" pile. Now for those women too. when it comes them. or b) maybe you're not the best looking but you are so interesting. They might get a stack of like 200 resumes for one opening. for any guy doing this you might have a lot of women that you meet that get to step one. It's kind of like if you ever worked at a company. when they get resumes in for a new position. but if you are incredibly fascinating or are incredibly interesting you can get through Page 134 . That's why it's very important to just be very relaxed and comfortable at that step. They look at each and they scan them very quickly. There are techniques to develop that—little bit beyond the scope of this product—but I have given you some insight into how that works. And the first screening that has to be done on those resumes is. And that is what a lot of women have to do.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual subconscious and things like that. For anybody really. They're being hit on all the time—all the time—and they're used to doing (the woman) is used to doing a lot of screening at step one. They're going about their day trying to get stuff done or to live and guys are coming up to them constantly. that for every hundred guys that try step one. D7-T21 Now. there is an incredible amount of screening going on at step one. Really. But for really a intelligent—I'm sorry—for a really attractive woman. they are doing a lot of screening during these early steps. so many men are eliminated at step one. So for a really good-looking woman. learning about her mind. she is getting bombarded with offers. get rid of them. and an incredible amount of screening going on at step two. Ok? Guys are trying different tips and techniques and tricks and all of this stuff to do things to have her find them interesting enough to spend some time. That's just the way it works. A really good-looking woman is having a bunch of guys sort of bombard her with their attempts to get to step one. or funny enough. get rid of them. And you got to get down to like 10 percent very fast. a big part of what you have to do to deal with it is screen them out. a) good-looking or her type. It's a very quick screen. and they look at them very quickly for like 15 to 30 seconds. you're so smooth at step one that you're able to get step two and then you were interesting enough or made her feel interesting enough. Because there is a lot of different guys that are trying to get and keep their attention. somebody looks at them. to get and keep her attention. She has to.
Just because you haven't been eliminated doesn't mean you are going to win the race. there's nowhere near as many men that made it to that step. That is so much better than you were doing. At the very beginning of the race there's an incredible amount of traffic—there's a lot of cars. I just mean she is perceiving whether or not you are comfortable. we talked about the criteria that she uses to do that. and again.. they use methods to get through step one and step two that really leave them nowhere to go. And if you. It just means rapport. Rapport doesn't necessarily mean being nice. who has really interesting things to show her. To use sort of a metaphorical example here. a lot of it's your energy and how you come across to her. that once you are at step three. That's fantastic. there's some techniques that you can use out there to meet women and some people talk about them. And you see NASCAR or something like that... and in each one of those six. because a lot of the guys what they do is that. You're done. Maybe he is really funny or he is asking her really insightful questions that she finds fascinating. But that is the world of the beautiful woman. There's so much screening done. It happens. Does that mean you are going to win the race? No it doesn't. if I come to you and I show you a way to consistently get through those first three laps. and the speeds are so high that it is not uncommon for there to be a lot of accidents in the first two or three laps. Now. The average guy has a chance. It is a trap. especially when you've mastered these skills. you are still in the running. that's pretty good isn't it. OK? That is the way it works for a good-looking woman. and I call it a trap. are Page 135 . you participated in them. and in the first six major NASCAR events of this year. Everybody's so packed in. I don't mean energy in any sort of strange way or whatever. where they might have 30 or 40 cars starting at the beginning of the race. You have a chance. there's so much moving around and maneuvering. OK? The key is to make it through the screens. Let me give you an example. That kinda stinks doesn't it? If you have crashed in those first three laps. OK. that's why I broke those down in step two. D7-T22 Now there's is one thing I do want to talk about. It is all good stuff guys. you aren't going to finish. We talked about that before. really interesting things to talk about. you've got a good chance.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual step two because it's probably pretty rare that she finds somebody that interesting. whether or not she can get good rapport with you on some level. OK? So the number of guys that have made it to step three is relatively rare. There's sort of trap here that some guys fall into. Now let's say you are a driver in NASCAR.. Because they've screened out so many guys. Now there's a blind alley. In that. But if you get there. So to a really beautiful woman. very few guys make it to step three. sometimes once you get them to step three. And you've probably seen a lot of races.. so you can get to that fourth and fifth lap every time (or almost every time). and you are on this year's NASCAR circuit. where in the first two to three laps there is a lot of accidents.. it's actually new territory for you. and at the earliest steps. A lot of you guys have watched auto racing on TV.. screening screening screening screening screening. but. you have crashed in the first three laps. they've eliminated so many men from the competition. They are all jockeying for position.
If you're rich and live in the great part of town. put her down. and you can put them down to some extent. " I'm sorry. making fun of her being almost mean to her. you get to step one and two. and/or drive the great car. again. And if you are goodlooking guy there's very few guys that are good-looking that get to step three with her. But you can put them down and do that stuff and get away with it because as long as you get to step three. I'm.. It's just like that analogy. that all works. and you live in the cool part of town. OK? If you are really good-looking guy and you drive the great car. but he is being mean to me". hey. putting her down. that's fine. Now here is the thing. if you can get and keep her attention. that all fits within our model. Because again a beautiful woman is doing a lot of screening. See. But there's a lot of guys that talk about. D7-T24 A lot of guys that advocate being mean to women and putting them down—here is what they are not telling you—they 're really good-looking. you can joke with them. as long as you do it in a playful way. maybe it does. But there's no where to go. but if you do it too much it's a blind alley and there's no where to go after step two. you can do that in a playful way. if I teach you how to joke with women and put them down you're going to have a lot more success at steps one and two. That is great. But the problem is. But a lot of guys advocate doing a lot of humor that's sort of deprecating to her. You've demonstrated that you not boring because you have stuff to talk about. Because all that happens is. you're showing that you are interesting (again look at steps one and two guys) you're comfortable. you know. D7-T23 There's a lot of guys that advocate when you meet a woman—joke with her—joke around with her. then all you have to do is stand in the room and keep talking.. So if you are good-looking guy. that might get you to step one. can be a bit mean. very few guys get to step three with her.. it's a blind alley. She is like "well. That's great. They've got a lot going on for themselves. You have demonstrated that you're not somebody who is going to shy away and leave. and joke with them. That's fine. there's guys that simply think " well. If you're used to being an AFC. but there's nowhere to go. you can talk with them. humor. etc. that might get you well into step two. etc. You. in step two she might find you entertaining and everything. but does that mean you are going to get to step three? Not necessarily. joke with her. your energy's come across fine. That's fine. you can talk to women that way at step one and step two. make fun of her. And if you are at the end of step two and you have been kind of mean. just because you get through the first couple laps doesn't mean you are going to win the race. jokes. Where do you go from there? I mean you've demonstrated that you 're not intimidated. it doesn't work that way in the real world. If you're goodlooking guy. sometimes. and if you do that in a playful way you are showing that you're comfortable. and she's going to want to have something happen with you physically. What they advocate. OK? You are not getting eliminated at steps one and two. you know. Now you can get. Alright? Now. She's not going to go into the state of mind that you want her to do at step three. it can be a trap. if Page 136 . sorry. and they advocate being kind of mean to women.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual not careful about how you apply them. you know. you have a good way to open. with real guys. you can't back up. in a lot of instances. Let me give you an example or a description of this... he is cool and all this.
but it might actually cause a problem that makes it so that you can 'twin. but sometimes you can't. it happens. In light of our process. she likes your car and your money enough that she is going to direct the conversation and ramp interest on her own. you're probably somewhere in step two or step three. That is a very common thing to do... In reality what's happening is they're not quite as mean as they say they are. you talk to them. again. And again. That's fine. I have a lot of respect for them they come up with great stuff. very quickly. They might tell the guys "Oh yeah I'm putting her down and joking with her and making fun of her. D7-T25 Now. But I don't want you to spend all that time and all that effort to find a way to get trough those first few laps of the race only to find that not only does it not guarantee a win. than a lot of other guys would realize. the farther down that process you can go before you get the e-mail or the phone number and try to switch venues the better off the chances of success. maybe you meet them in a club or at a coffee shop or checkout line or whatever. and you know. When guys do this. you can joke—jokes a lot of time are at someone's expense.. and it's very common. They do. It's a blind alley. You can do things and joke with her. You can play around. because they have got a really good at just getting phone numbers.. it's is not going to work. So it's not all that uncommon that you'll talk to somebody for a while and then you have to switch. Now let me explain. D7-T26 Now one of the things I wanted to talk about too in this overall process.. OK. rah rah rah.. that switchover tends to happen at step two or step three. And then step three. you can't spend a half-hour with them. There's a lot of guys that have run into problems.. " that's what they say.. They are being a little more playful. and again the process in light of the map of the mind. Maybe you can transition to coffee or whatever.. It is a good place to be. I hope that makes sense. a lot of these guys. so they can be a combination of jokes at your expense. these guys are actually more playful and more friendlier to the women that they think. having a little more playful energy. Meaning you meet them face-to-face.. Maybe you meet them on the street. Depending on how much time you have before you get the e-mail address or before you get the phone number or plan another meeting.. OK. at getting you to that point. But be careful about how mean it is. those techniques do help. then maybe your reality is that you can get to step two by being a little bit mean to her and not get eliminated. it's great if you haven't had a lot of success at steps one and two. Can you play around with them? Sure. and hers. you've got to then get their e-mail address or their phone number.. you spend some time with them. And frankly a lot of these guys that talk about doing that sort of stuff with women. Look at the steps that we have set forth in our process structure.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual you've got all these things going for you.. and other peoples. Guys walk up and bang- Page 137 . Now. You meet somebody. but then. I've seen it happen.. because I don't want you to fall into the trap. But for the normal guy. So.. In person. you can spend maybe five minutes with them. It's part of humor. just physically where you're at. and reality is that really in person (I've spent a lot of time with these guys).. You get and keep some attention. and Speed Seduction® tools that we have talked about is a lot of guys talk about a phone number close or an e-mail close and things like that. I want to spend a few moments talking about that and putting in context. joke about her to an extent. OK? So give that some thought to yourself and hopefully that makes sense in the context of the overall model.. they go out.
. then her coworker says "Who was that?". especially if she is attractive... (hopefully) she's got things to do... That's the kind of reaction that you want guys. She hangs up the phone... or said two minutes worth of dialogue to her on the street. I think it is rude when a woman says she'll call you and she doesn't. you have to give her a reason to the interested like that.... "Oh my God. That's great. you know. ) He was so fascinating he was showing me this thing. ahhh. " or it'd be like "Oh... She is like "oh. But then they get the e-mail address and the woman doesn't return their e-mails... and we talked.. D7-T27 Here is what you want to have happen. You know.. if you've barely spent any time to get and keep her attention. yeah.. "Who was that on the phone?" And the woman you called goes. some guys go "oh. ) He was doing. they're able to get a woman's phone number. she has probably given a bunch of guys her phone number.. What reason have you given her? Other than the fact that you just called her up. ) He was doing my handwriting analysis.. Dave oh Dave. I mean hey. " Well wait a minute.. I can't even remember where I met him.. or be funny or etc. Then a couple days later. again I am not putting these guys down. and it was like. it was that guy. And they are wondering what's going on. I gave him my number.... (Or. " Isn't that the kind of reaction you want! Don't you want her to be really interested? Well. He was the funniest guy I've have met in so long..... He did.. let me call you back.. within a minute.. urn. uhhhh. I'm busy right now.. ok? Great". she was a bitch and all of this stuff . you know what. a bunch of guys her e-mail address.. It was that guy I met the other day. what reaction would you like her to have? A lot of times. (?). So she's sitting at work and her phone rings.. I was just. you know.. Oh God... "Oh. then why should she call you back. It's almost like a trick. OK? There is Page 138 . it's some guy I met him in a parking lot .... Why should she e-mail you back? Just because you got her e-mail address. He was so interesting.... If you talk to her for minute or two... she's got a life. he might have been cute or interesting.... you know...Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual bang-bang zoom! It's amazing... (Or. Could you imagine. you know. it's some guy. But again. and it's you.. And within 30 seconds they've got a woman's phone number. they are going "Well how come she won't call me back"? OK? Or these guys that. I don't know. here.... uh.... Then she.. That is a whole other story... but.. and then two days later you call her and she's at work. Her co-worker asks.. OK? Yeah.. or make her feel that way.. women will go. " Do you want her to have that sort of reaction? Or would you rather have her go..... Why should she? What have you shown her in terms of why she should spend time with you? Again.... this demonstration that he does. have my number . See. I met him. you get somebody's phone number. Some of these guys are quite skilled at what they are doing. That is fantastic. I was busy and it was like.. why should she e-mail you back.. Now. or to really be that interesting or fascinating. He was asking me about (this and this or). Well. (Or.
Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual all of this stuff. all of these tricks and stuff to get her to call back and all that. the more you understand it on this level. the better off your going to be.. Maybe there's a little bit more work you have to do.. I mean. and then some insight into the process that you need to walk through with someone—having a command and understanding of all that now is something you can integrate? You can see how it all makes sense? See. Now. Look at those. your success is going to increase dramatically. OK..... But what did you do before you got her phone number that's going to make her want to talk to you again? A lot of guys are missing out on that... But really when you think about it now. interesting. Why don't you give me your phone number. oh. but you know what? You've got to go.. or you're really funny. let's look at this process that we talked about and these different steps. the more time that you have. like steps two and step three. If you are her type.. If you can get well into directing conversation and ramping interest.. well OK its pretty easy. That's great.. The technical manual of Speed Seduction. you know. So the more that you can invest. or make her feel great and interesting before you get that phone number or as a part of getting her phone number. this venue change. But if you can show her that you are really interesting. or talking to her in a good way on the phone. We have talked about that in detail in a lot of those steps. and getting the e-mail returned you need to look at the process. 4. god. how many guys talk about that sort of stuff? And she's enjoying it. manual here. Ok? Page 139 . And your directing the conversation to something really. the more you actually able to apply it. If you get into there so that you're. don't you think she is going to want to call you back? OK If you could do those things before you get her e-mail. we've already talked about that in a lot of ways haven't we. Look at the examples.. I do want to step back and give you an overview. and let's roll back briefly and look the other aspects of the overall structure of what we talked about. Guys talk about. Sure. if that's the case.. But if you do the right work in the right way.. then don't you think she is going to want to e-mail you right back quickly? Don't you think that arranging a time to meet her some place for a drink or something to eat or coffee or whatever.... she is going to want to call you back. subjects. really talking to her about fascinating.. D7-T28 Now. But can you see how these different aspects of the whole picture fit in together? How having a knowledge of the mind and how it works.... Or if she just really enjoys it. So look at it in this context. and wants it to happen even more. The more the you can really get and keep or attention. we want to look at the application and use of Speed Seduction® in the context of that overall process. 8 Process Application and Summary D7-T29 Now. This is the real world. Don't you think that is going to be a piece of cake? Yeah. OK? So a lot of you guys that have had trouble getting those phone calls.. there's something to be said for leaving a good and compelling message on an answering machine. I mean. coupled then with an idea of all the tools and resources at your disposal. or this situation change of getting an e-mail or a phone number is happening at step two or step three... because you can look at it in a different way. or let us put it this way. . of the overall. the options you have in step two..
Step one of the process. It's impressed by effort. then not only are you able to get and keep her attention (step two) but it's easy to start then direct the conversation and ramp interest. if you can be funny. or the home study courses that you already have. getting and keeping attention. In fact. the more chances you've of success. the more you can do stuff. Page 140 . Things get easier for you. Do you see now. Like... and all that. how that fits in? Again at step two. Again. So as you go up the hierarchy of tools you start to see some of the more important things. and the other products. Now. that's a good way to lead into step three because if your asking her the right questions. It's looking for similarities and differences. and the seminars.. Will have an effect. You're asking her questions. OK. Hey. It's hard to put in a lot of embedded commands or weasel phrases or things like that in 15-30 seconds. but look at all the other options. the opener. that are going to help you with step one.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual D7-T30 So again. then step one goes a lot better. You're getting her to think. if you've got a good story. But. multiple input it's using a lot of different senses. yeah. Where's Speed Seduction® help in that? OK. that's great. you don't have a lot of time. let's look at it. OK? Now. What's the subconscious doing. the more senses are picking up positive things in her mind. Some great stories OK? Maybe you know palmistry or handwriting analysis or any of the other things that we have talked about.. in the application of using Speed Seduction® with it. you have good languaging skills. If your frame of mind is correct. the subconscious is trying to put you into a certain role at that point. look back at the structure of the mind. So. Maybe 15 seconds up to a minute. how the different things that have been discussed in Speed Seduction® over the years. in the right way. Getting out into the field and working with stuff is going to help you. OK. But if your are her type chances are you probably would not be listening to this product. based on the tools hierarchy that we discussed. have you heard a lot of techniques in these materials about asking a woman proper questions. a good overall pattern. when you understand this stuff. But let's look at the structure of the mind. the more effort you put into it.. Languaging can be a part of it. being very interesting. when you understand how the mind works. Can you do it? Yeah. it's hard to put in (looking at the graphic). you've been to. looking at the hierarchy of Speed Seduction® tools. but how much effect can it have? Well.. well sure. D7-T31 Moving to step two. Doing things like listening to this product—how many times? Over and over again—Is going to help you. OK? And look at the other options of step two. The opener is not going to last that long. Ok? How does that happen? How do you get that right state of mind and frame? Ok. the subconscious is processing on multiple levels. your state of consciousness is correct. if you're her type. maybe some cool demos that you can show her. asking her interesting questions to get her to access other levels of her mind? Well that's some stuff in step two. Coming up with processes and themes and stories that have to do with your life are going to all help you and assist in that process and help you to get that right frame of mind and state of consciousness. that's great. again it's about repetition. There's some grew great jokes and everything that we've talked about. What's important for you at that point? Look. OK? Make her feel interesting.
at times. They've been discussed so many times. Ok? While you are doing that. that all works. in and among Speed Seduction® materials. if you can do it in a way. with Speed Seduction®. interesting things. all the way through this product. That's the part that's in control. fascinating things. two. And the more tools you are using—remember going back to the structure of the mind —your really getting more and more parts of her mind interested in you. we've talked about this. My description there. Page 141 . I mean. this is all. and I know most of you guys have heard about it like crazy. She's going to be so interested that you do. what are some ways to ramp interest.. This is why.. Look how step three. That's how it works. The patterns that have been talked about. And you are understanding it more and more. we're not going to get into the details of what you say while you are engaged in some sort of physical interlude with a woman.. but you know. They're sitting there. D7-T32 Now. you get the part of her that is really interested in you to make the decision. the weasel phrases. step three. you are telling stories.. the linkage phrases. what are you doing? You're using the languaging. You're using all the conversational tools and rapport building tools. You are linking things together in a really interesting way. It does happen where they're so interested and so fascinated that they 're the ones that lean in and try to kiss you! OK? That does take place. This is all stuff you've already been realizing throughout the development of this product. she is going to want step four to happen. If while you're being interesting. D7-T33 Now going on to step four in the context of Speed Seduction®. Again. OK. But I will tell you this. now we are talking about closing. you've seen examples of them. You are setting anchors at just the proper time. It's very easy in that context to use all those tools and to ramp interest. Again.. hopefully.. Talking about things that have happened in your life. OK? And again. Once you understand this. and you have great tonality and you are doing all of this stuff so that she feels comfortable around you and she is getting a good energy from you and have good rapport. So we have given you some specific techniques. If you have gone trough step one. the embedded commands are being put in there. So if your being very interesting (here at step two) and you are doing that in a way (looking at the structure of the mind) that's making her laugh that she is putting you in a good role of being an interesting person. get these situations where they close you.. "direct the conversation ramp interest". And again.. It fits into that context. The patterns that we have mentioned here on this product and ideas for patterns. Look at the tools hierarchy. once you're at step four. while you are conveying stories. that is going to affect multiple aspects of her and her mind and make her feel great in many way that's all the better. and three using Speed Seduction® techniques. Ok? It helps to do those things to get and keep her attention.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual These are great ways to make yourself very interesting. See? That's how it all fits together. remember—see how it all fits together guys remember—the structure of the mind? The subconscious is analyzing things on multiple levels. You're using just the perfect tonality. I was talking about different things that are in the tools hierarchy. She's comparing you to other people and you are coming up favorably. Look at the things that you have at your disposal. all of the things we've discussed. talking about exciting things. Its very easy for her to sit there and spent time with you. you know.
It's not the most frequent occurrence. to kiss her. to close her. Well. or to do something like that. when there's a good chance she's sitting there just dying for you to do something. But don't sit around there waiting for that. but it does happen.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction Technical Manual Now don't sit around and wait for that to take place.. Page 142 .. Ok? It does happen. OK? Use the techniques that we talked about. Don't sit around waiting for that to happen guys. I know a lot of guys have heard stories about the times with the woman just gets so excited that she jumps up and kisses the guy. To make a move.
but you still did what you need to do to get the kind of success that you want to have happen. why did this happen. you can make sense of it. See how much more insight you have into all the tools that are being discussed. I want you listen to it again. or come to that conclusion. etc. I'm really happy to have brought this to you. and integrate those together for yourself? This is what I have been talking about. I mean. you see how everything fits in with everything else? The second.. I know there is a lot of times. You didn't do anything wrong.. hopefully. that's what going to seminars is for and some of the other fine products that are available. are for. Look at what's worked for you and what hasn't worked for you. it's going to make more and more sense. See how much more of an understanding and a grasp you have of the different steps that you must take someone through as part of this process. oh well. so that it can be put into your mind in a way that allows you to recall it.. Yes. I have said before.. third. sixth time you listen to this. . that is it is your home study course is for.. You've listened to this at least. "you know. you know.. and use it in the real world. the technical manual of Speed Seduction.. You can't totally predict what people are going to do. about putting together for you. that was just going make a go the other way. You're going to hear how the different things integrate. The other products. You did everything right. Listen to those now. Page 143 .. there is this wonderful aspect of it. . etc. can you see how it all works together? Can you see how the different parts fit in with each other? Can you look at that structure of the mind.. Again. Also what's going to be really interesting is that. You can find out that a lot of times. understand it. fifth. and how they fit together. this manual. when the situation doesn't come out quite the way you wanted. What I've tried to do in this product is to find a way for you to understand it all. Go over those class notes again that you took. and see how much more understanding you have of how people work. 0 Technical Manual Summary D7-T34 Now. It was something in there. D7-T36 The other exciting thing about this i s . " Now I think when you look back your going to see that there is some logic to it. D7-T35 What I want you to consider is. because. stuff you have learned in the past. Ok? However.. there is a random quality. it wasn't really about you. this one time all the way through. Watch those videos. fourth. maybe she lost out on a great opportunity with somebody like you. when we look into our past and we go. How women's minds work. You're going to be drawing conclusions for yourself about what happens and what doesn't happen... something in her. after having listened to this product. and these steps. You can have a better understanding. Things that didn't make sense before are—BAM—going to make sense to you now. the tools.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual 5. That's key. I don't have the time or the resources in this product to give you every aspect of Speed Seduction®. Look at it in light of the new knowledge that you now have. this didn't go right. If she didn't happen to see that. Look at your life and your experiences that you've had. Get a structure for you to really get all of it. is all going to start make a lot more sense to you. why did that happen. this doesn't make sense. You might want to listen to this product a couple of times and then pull some of your other products out that you haven't heard in a while.
. this didn't work and that didn't work. What Can I Do Better. Ok? You what stop that.. Now remember. And that will increase your effectiveness and success with this material and many other things. Oh this went wrong. I talked to this person. you have gotten a lot out of it. That's the way to get better. Page 144 . you can always find me as part of the Speed Seduction® training team or find this product on the Speed Seduction® web site affiliated with Ross Jeffries. and that are going to happen in your future. When you go and have an encounter with somebody and when you look at the encounters that you have had in your past there's a tendency for some guys to go "Oh. And here's the formula. I hope. and every part of your life. What can you do better. the last thing you think about is. then that's where you're going to be focused and that is what's going to happen for you.. you want to run this formula on that occurrence. And give your mind a new way to think about things that happened in your past. ok.. If you want to see me. That is not the way to focus your mind. you want to say yourself "well. Remember. If you focus on what went wrong. you know where to find me. And the last thing to remember. How can you increase your skills and make your life better. I had this interaction. " Stop that. The next i s .. and you can get the latest news and information about what I'm doing.com. I want to leave you with one good formula for the way to look at your past and to look at these things. When looking at something that took place and looking at something that's happening. First. I know I have gotten a lot out of it by putting it together for you. I wish I had this years ago to help me and I hope it is going to help you as well. That's the place to focus your energy. What Went Right. if you focus on what could go wrong.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual D7-T37 Before I go as we start to wrap up.daveriker. this is Riker's formula for achieving positive things. I wish you success with this part of your life. D7-T38 I hope you've enjoyed this product. That's the thing you should carry with you forward and focus on. . and what products I have available. Go to www. . What Went Wrong? Be honest with yourself and learn from it.
Have fun! Page 145 . There is an 8th CD included which is just a question and answer session between me and a group of students like yourself! These students were able to listen to and review the full set of lecture CDs (they did not have this transcript/workbook available at the time) that you have just listed to. there are still questions and issues that some students may have. 0 Student Questions and Answers D8-T1 With all of the lectures completed. there is a special bonus for you as part of this product. and on this bonus CD. but I am Confident that you will find it a valuable addition to this product I am trust it will increase your understanding of the material even more. Now even though there has been a LOT of time and effort placed into the CDs. then what next? Well. and after you have listened to them and followed along here in the transcript/workbook.Dave Riker's Speed Seduction® Technical Manual 6. you get to hear many of these addressed! This is almost like YOU having a chance to ask what YOU would like to ask! This bonus CD is not transcribed (that's not appropriate in this case).