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.................................................. 12 RECOMMITTING ...................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................GET YOUR EX BACK Table of Contents INTRODUCTION .......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................... 11 KEEP THE MYSTERY ALIVE ............................................................................................................................ 13 LEARN TOGETHER ............................................................................................. 5 DOES YOUR EX ACT INTERESTED?........................................................................... 13 GIVE AND TAKE ..................................................................... 7 DEVELOP OTHER INTERESTS.............................................................................. 7 PLAY HARD TO GET ................................................ 14 W HAT YOUR EX REALLY WANTS...... 6 AVOID SEEMING DESPERATE................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................ 14 LITTLE THINGS MATTER .............................. 16 Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks..................................... 8 THINGS TO AVOID ....................................................................................... 9 NOT BEING JUST A FRIEND .................................................................. 10 BOOST EGOS ..................... 8 NO MIND GAMES .......... 7 WHAT NOT TO DO ................... 11 ATTEND TO THE SMALL THINGS .................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................... 10 CHANGE YOUR LOOKS .......................................................................................................................................... 7 PLAY IT COOL ................................................................................... 10 TAKE IT SLOW ........................................................................................... 4 CAN THIS RELATIONSHIP BE SAVED? .......................................................... 9 HOW TO REKINDLE THE SPARK .. 15 CONCLUSION ....................................................... 14 GETTING PAST THE HURT........................................................................................................................................................................... 13 W HAT YOU REALLY WANT ........ 15 USE FACEBOOK TO YOUR ADVANTAGE ..................................................................................................... 5 W HAT WENT WRONG? .................................................................com 3 ................

com 4 . Name-calling and blaming each other follows. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. There are ways to salvage a broken relationship. but then when it actually happens.GET YOUR EX BACK Introduction Even when you see a breakup coming. Still. How you conduct yourself and what you say and do at the very first hint of trouble can make a big difference in whether the relationship becomes hopeless or salvageable. it often is still a surprise. Another reaction to a breakup might be anger and accusations. We become desperate. The more it continues. Soon. or to possibly repair one before it is hopeless. Human nature makes us want to deny the inevitable. we wonder how we could have ever thought we loved them. we are devastated. trying everything we can think of to convince our ex that we want him or her back. We may think it is okay. There is any number of reasons we tell ourselves to explain why the heat may be cooling. Sometimes we tell ourselves we don’t care if the relationship dissolves. We tend to believe if we can just “do better” that the relationship will revive. and they may think the same. we don’t want to give up on the relationship. We let our desperation show. the more anger develops.

especially if you handle it right. they may be losing interest in you. trying to reignite the spark. but will be harder. let them go. even sometimes in front of friends and family. Everyone needs their space. then examine yourself. Maybe you have become too ‘comfortable’ in the relationship. It is merely an attempt to examine what is happening and seeing what part of it is due to your actions.GET YOUR EX BACK Can this relationship be saved? What went wrong? Before you can answer the question of whether the relationship can be saved or not. not using your best grooming habits like you did at first? Have you become so comfortable with your significant other that you no longer make an effort to connect with them. you know the relationship is on slippery ground. If it is them. Then.com 5 . and seem frustrated at many things you do. giving you disapproving looks. you have to understand what went wrong. If they are super critical. Try to turn loose and let go. They begin being critical of things you do and say. It might not be forever. It might not be impossible to reconcile. make efforts to change that. you might be able to see what could have been done differently and maybe prevented the breakup. Other than that. You get “those looks” that tell you they are upset or angry about something. When you reach out to them. They may even start arguments frequently. Try talking about what is frustrating them. but you can do something at the beginning that will help with any plans you might have for reuniting. They start calling less and less. neither on yourself or your partner. It may be too late to stop the breakup. and need to do something in a different way to attempt to ignite the spark again. expecting them to do all the trying? This is not an attempt to lay blame. You may be able to prevent the breakup from ever happening. maybe you have some aggravating habits. What actions did you see that pointed toward this breakup? If you can determine that. Of course. Try to sit down and talk things over in an attempt to see what you can do and help your partner understand what he or she can do. maybe you are being too clingy. they get more distant and maybe even reject your overtures. They become emotionally distant. or too demanding. There are some signs of an impending breakup. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. and their own private life. Do you require that they spend every spare moment with you? That will tend to drive them away. When you see any or all of the above signs. if they have someone else and have been cheating on you that is a different situation. Have you started letting yourself go. or openly criticizing you. Don’t cling. If it is you. If they seem constantly angry. look at their actions and see if you can determine what went wrong. what might have happened? If they begin calling less and less.

these two eBooks go into great detail about how to interpret the signs of an impending breakup. If your ex shows any of these signs you have a much better chance of getting them back. and the tendency to ignore or make light of little things that may go wrong. If your ex shows an interest in getting to know you again. for no particular reason indicates that romantic interest is still there. it is good sign. But. These signs fall into one of four categories. written for the gals. Click the title to get your copy and find out more about getting your ex back and keeping the relationship forever. Even if they mention dating or interest in others. following certain guidelines so as to not “mess it up. Does your ex act interested? There are several indicators that your ex might be interested in reviving the relationship. If they say they enjoy talking to you and want to see you more often. and they want you to know that. even when it is not a date. The Magic of Making Up. then you really have a good chance to revive your relationship. Other things that indicate romantic interest is the desire keep communication going with you. you can be confident that there is still some romantic interest there. What does your ex say? Do they indicate that they enjoy your company? That is good. They are: The M3 System. How does your ex communicate with you? Are conversations of a serious nature. You can read about them way more in depth than in this small eBook. communications. as does the desire to be around you whenever possible. You need to proceed with caution. If they claim being comfortable every time they are around you. other romantic interests. they haven’t committed to a relationship. We have just skimmed over them. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. there’s a good chance there is still some interest there. and does your ex expect and depend on your listening to what they have to say? Staring into your eyes for minutes at a time.com 6 . It is also encouraging if your ex asks if you have someone else. These categories are: what your ex says. What about other romantic interests? If your ex hasn’t formed a serious relationship with anyone while you have been apart. and responses to you. It means you have a chance.GET YOUR EX BACK These are just some basic things to consider. You should carefully proceed. is written for the guys and Get Him Back Forever.” Don’t do exactly what you did before and expect different results. Any or all of the above means you have a good chance of restoring your relationship. and find out exactly how to respond to them in the eBook.

So. The Magic of Making Up and Reunited Relationships. The key is to not let it show. When you see your ex. don’t be ugly.” Don’t call. a major part of their life is suddenly drastically changing. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. Develop other interests You should also develop other interests. Okay. and intense hurt and emotional pain hit you like a ton of bricks.GET YOUR EX BACK Avoid seeming desperate Play it Cool When a relationship breaks up a person can’t help feeling desperate. in effect eliminating any hope of getting them back. but will look at a few ways to play hard to get. or at least making it extremely hard. knowing that it will be harder. One key to seeming less that desperate is to play it cool. Just skip this step and move on to the next one. If you have already shown your desperation. For now. but not impossible. then you can just drop it later. Don’t stalk them for a chance to see or speak to them. If you don’t come to like it. Fear. ones that are different from what you two shared. not go downhill. Even if you don’t think you like it. but do play hard to get. how can you avoid showing that desperation and stand a better chance of getting your ex back? There are several keys to doing this. After all. probably one they expected to improve over time. Maybe pursue an interest you know your ex would never consider. but indicate that you just wanted to say. Make sure the new interests won’t cause you to run into your ex. Treat them as if they are just a casual friend. you are trying to find places to socialize where you won’t run into your ex. Just remember. Don’t hang onto their every word if you see them in person. Play hard to Get If you ex exhibits any interest in you. desperate is how you feel. If you used to bowl frequently. speak calmly and sort of disinterestedly. Look as if you have an important appointment or activity to go to. We won’t cover it in depth here.com 7 . Visibly showing your desperation will only drive your ex further away. “Hi. you need to move forward in the process of getting your ex back. skip bowling for a time and do something else. even panic. We will discuss three of them here. How can you not be desperate? You probably can’t help but feel desperate. there is a limit to how hard to get you should be in order not to risk totally alienating your ex. you just might be surprised. You can find more in the eBook.

You may not even be aware of that person. You don’t want to make that totally impossible by the way your treated them at the breakup. make it apparent that you are not currently romantically involved. is written for the guys and Get Him Back Forever. The Magic of Making Up. What Not to do No Mind Games This is not the time for mind games. but ‘busy’ and limited in the time you have available. you may also alienate a potential partner who is standing in the sidelines observing what you are doing to your ex. Playing it cool. This could backfire. For more specific details specific to whether you are male or female. the chance of getting them back may not be good. These are just suggestions of a few quick tricks to get you started. but leave the subtle hint that you maybe could become interested sometime in the future. Desperation will panic your ex and have them running in the opposite direction. It may require a little more time to get your ex to see that you are the best one for them. This is extremely hard when you are dying to grab them in a bear hug and cling to them forever. and to get the reasons why you should follow through with these and more. you will have to recover the cool appearance. Not only will you inflict added hurt on them. Let yourself be seen in social circles visiting with others. It isn’t necessarily impossible. No matter how desperate you are. Also. Just claim activities that you must attend to. if you have messed up by falling apart at the beginning. Also. if your ex has become seriously involved with someone else. If you do show interest in someone of the opposite sex. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. written for the gals. Don’t claim a relationship when you have none. For more details. but slightly interested in them. but you will have an added challenge in making yourself appear more appealing than the new interest. get one of the following: The M3 System. get the eBook. not necessarily the opposite sex.GET YOUR EX BACK When your ex shows an interest. or particularly interested in them at the time. just not right now. but that there is definitely a chance of that happening. you may burn any bridges between you and your ex and you may just change your mind about wanting them back in the future. be nice. but show interest in whoever you are around. will have them struggling to renew your interest. hide that fact. Of course. with the intent of dumping them later. Don’t lead your ex on.com 8 .

We will look at a partial list. but you can get the whole list plus reasons for not doing them. and you will be hurt all over again. Not being just a friend It might appear that being just a friend when a relationship falters is a good idea. and what to do instead. it is possible. after you are really over the breakup. When you are fresh out of a relationship and not over your ex.com 9 . in The Magic of Making Up. What happens when the ex enters a new romantic relationship? A true friend would be overjoyed at the occurrence. But. especially if you want to try and get your ex back. it is not a good idea Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. Some of these things to avoid include: • • • • • • • • • Trying to convince them we are the love of their life Apologizing profusely for everything Promising to change for good this time Trying to get them to see that it wasn't really your fault Generally being overly nice and proclaiming your love over and over Buying gifts in an attempt to entice them back Using phony. there are some things you should definitely not do. it is not really. Later. Even if you don’t express it. argue and use logic to persuade your ex to come back to you Shutting your ex out of your life completely The eBook mentioned above gives reasons why these things won’t work and why you should not use them. making it impossible to ever get the relationship back again. can you be? The tendency is to be jealous and be offended. in the beginning.GET YOUR EX BACK Things to Avoid When you face the breakup of your relationship and want to try and get it back. the complications can be too much. they are not. But. That will make them angry that you weren’t honest. But. They will drive your ex further and further away from you. manipulative trickery to bribe your ex back to you Trying to reason. Trying to be just a friend when you secretly want to get your ex back can lead to major situations. Some even lead to more and more anger on the part of your ex. Though they may seem like positive actions. your ex can sense it.

Don’t make drastic changes. moving to a new city.com 10 . Maybe if there was a certain color before that you wouldn’t wear. it is a new relationship. looks don’t matter. You realize that you don’t want to go on without each other. One reason is that the old look might bring back old memories. Don’t jump into anything too rapidly. worthy of their consideration. So. and compromise on those that do matter. such as new jobs. You know you have to each give the other some space. After all. and understand that it is not a sign of lack of commitment to want that personal space and time. a new haircut.GET YOUR EX BACK to try and be just friends. You and your ex are the same people. any small changes will work. new apartments. Your change doesn’t have to be drastic. Drop the old accusations and Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. it is wise to give off an aura of new found confidence. But. Once you get completely over your ex and have moved on. Just a new couple of outfits. You mutually agree to get back together. and now you are moving to a new phase. You want your ex to see you as a new person. trying to continue a friendship after a romantic relationship is not really a good idea. If someone loves another. Any new partner may well resent a continuing relationship with an ex. it is beneficial to change your looks. You want to please yourself as well as your ex. So. don’t force it. You both realize you want the relationship to continue. how can you insure that you won’t go back to the problems you had before? Change your looks It is not that looks determine the relationship. it will make you feel more confident. It will not only help them see your new confidence. some personal time. You agree to disagree about those issues that don’t matter. you have just learned some things about getting along. Don’t expect something that is not there. If you don’t like the new look. new jewelry. Take it Slow It is best to move slowly. maybe causing some friction. How to rekindle the spark You finally manage to work out all the past issues with your ex. Plus. You have both learned what went wrong. try it. maybe even found your own new relationship. for a number of reasons. The old relationship died. and other such major life changes. You are excited about having and being something new. you will probably not need them as a friend.

com 11 . Do what you can to boost your ex’s ego. You don’t want to build your relationship on intimacy alone.GET YOUR EX BACK disappointments. Let them know you noticed and appreciate it. If they do some small thing for you. but try to gently guide them toward what you need. Find out what you ex wants in the relationship. You want the relationship to be based on love and respect. If you ex happens to give you a hug in a way that makes you feel special. You may have to find small steps to compliment. and even some feelings of not being good enough for the other. but you risk alienating them. giving and taking to move forward without accusations. but did take them to the bathroom. but be willing to attempt to give them what they want from the relationship. You might even have to gently guide them to build your ego as well. Each of you probably has some feelings of guilt for your part in the breakup. Don’t get totally upset if they don’t. Take time to talk to each other. Attend to the small things Other changes are important. Also. Feelings of being loved are probably tender as well. Give compliments as you can and still be sincere. such as working at your job. Maybe they didn’t put their dirty clothes in the hamper. but let them know you appreciate it. even if they unconsciously did it. We’ve been told this is the way to guide to what we want. and let your ex know what you want. are for doing it. Sometimes it is tempting to ignore what is expected. Don’t totally give you personality over to your ex. or you. it helps boost the ego to hear how appreciated they. expect them to attempt to give you what you want. Let them know you appreciate the things they do. Even though it is what is supposed to be done. but next time…. the old issues are there. Don’t expect miracles. or paying the bills. Don’t nag. but know that deep down. “It’s nice you put them in the bathroom. They may have only handed you a glass of cold water. Don’t say. and they will probably do the same for you. give them a compliment. Expect it. and you will be more apt to get it. but accept them if they happen. compliment them for that. Boost Egos Both of you are probably somewhat nervous about what the future holds. Even though that is your “job” or your ex’s “job” it is a good ego boost to compliment them for doing it. There are some things you Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. especially before engaging in the intimate aspect of the relationship. or keeping the house clean. Let them know what will make you feel important to them.” You may think you are guiding them into what you want. but they see it as a criticism.

and wanting to discover who this new you really is. begin to defer to your ex’s choices. see the eBook. If you used to never decide the restaurant to go to in the past. Be mysterious. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. As mentioned before. not one intended to lead to sex. suddenly make that decision on your own. The Magic of Making Up.GET YOUR EX BACK can do to insure the fullest aspects of that relationship. and that will help develop a relationship based on respect. or on a plate they usually get to eat a snack. no longer do that. The mystique around you will keep your ex guessing. Keep your ex guessing about what has come over you. or cost much. or taped to the refrigerator door. or any little thing that doesn’t take long to do. Stick a love note anywhere they might go during the course of their day. building your new relationship. Bring a small gift. These are just a few suggestions of how to keep the mystery alive in your relationship. These are just a few little things you can do to show you love them. fix a soft drink. the basics of how it helps you relationship. such as going around picking up behind them. If you used to do something you knew bugged them. bring the paper. just one to show you love to touch them. compliments help boost egos. If you need suggestions to get your ideas flowing. Keep the mystery alive Don’t let things get mundane again. No longer will the disrespect for each other be a part of your lives. Give a spontaneous hug as you pass them. check out the eBook. If you were quiet and passive before. wait until they are not around. The Magic of Making Up. Do little things for each other to show that you care. a favorite candy bar. Whisper sweet words in their ear. you also need to be spending time discovering things about each other and growing closer. but just says you were thinking of them. If you used to always make the decisions for the two of you. To learn of more ways to be mysterious. become more forceful. Be creative and think of some of your own. Call them during the day just to say you love them. Hold hands. Leave a love note on their pillow. like on the steering wheel. Of course. and find out why it is important. such as a flower.com 12 . If your impulse is to pick up things. taped to the bathroom mirror. or in their lunch box. Don’t let on that it bothers you to see things lying around.

Though you should not depend on equal sharing with the give and take. A healthy relationship is dependent on their being an equal give and take. Discover new places together. They will respect you more than if you wait until you are totally frustrated and feeling taken advantage of. That means sometimes you give more than the other partner. don’t become a slave to them. In most relationships that go bad. and the other has been used to always giving. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks.GET YOUR EX BACK Recommitting The process of recommitting to each other is a fun.com 13 . being willing to do that should mean that sometimes your partner will give more than you. How you handle this early on can make a big difference in your relationship. be willing to give in more than ‘your share’ is important. but challenging one. If for some reason your partner doesn’t get the idea. and request. Yes. do new activities. maybe with conviction. is showing each other you are willing to give your all. and especially a renewed one. then blowing up. but it is also important to have things your way part of the time. There are certain things you need to establish at the beginning of the recommitment period. But. Go to new places. Give and Take Another important factor that probably was missing before is give and take. it works best if it is equal. causing another rift. Learn Together You need to work together to learn about each other and about the changes you have gone through and are going through. always giving in. that they give you what you are due once in a while. Gently let your partner know what it is you want. Part of the success of any relationship. make life new and discover it together as you rebuild a special relationship. one person has been used to getting their way all the time. and should be ready to give more than you take.

Sometimes. You may have to dig a little. and Get Him Back Forever.GET YOUR EX BACK What you really want Kindly and respectfully let your ex. to try and decide what they might want. and any other information you have. Combine that with what you know about human nature and try to form an idea of their wishes. but have trouble verbalizing. but most Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. and what you expect to give them. as some people find it hard to talk about expectations. Do a deep soul-searching to determine what you really want. it is even hard for some to know what they really want. The M3 System. If it is just impossible to get your partner to reveal what they want. What your ex really wants While sitting and discussing the expectations you have for the relationship. listen carefully to what your partner desires in the relationship. Of course. you and your ex have to get past the hurt of the breakup. You can adjust this as you go along and find out something that doesn’t work. and determine to match that to what your partner desires in the relationship. You may have to help them be able to do that. their dreams. it may be that they haven’t done the soul-searching that you did. If your partner has a hard time verbalizing what they want in the relationship. ask some poignant questions. Use what you know about their likes. know what you really want from the relationship. what you are willing to give in a relationship. Getting past the hurt For your new relationship to succeed.com 14 . Determine. There were probably things each of you did that hurt the other and more than likely hurtful words were exchanged. You can find more information about what men and women want from each other in the eBooks. as well. and the hurts inflicted during your relationship prior to that breakup. you can still get a good idea. but also can help you decide what about the relationship is important to you. Guide them through questioning if they just can’t seem to tell you what it is. There was probably a lot of anger. written for the gals. What you think they want may not be it at all. Be specific. it is best if you can get it directly from them. Knowing this will not only help you know what your partner wants. written for the guys. so may not understand what it is they want. This leads us to the next section. now partner. They have vague longings. Let them know the expectations you have from them. you need to know that yourself. Before you can let your ex (partner) know what you want and expect. Or.

painful issues. Things that began as just a nagging annoyance. Catch them while they are still little.GET YOUR EX BACK definitely there was a lot of hurt. Don’t dwell on the bad parts of the past. insist they let you in on what is wrong. don’t wait until things blow up. as we have discussed. Apologies may be exchanged. Find out what went wrong and make sure not to repeat it. If those issues are in the current relationship. No relationship can survive all that unless you manage to put it behind you. but so do the little things. It also doesn’t mean dealing with infidelity. causing many breakups. Little things do matter. Little things add up to big things over time. The little things grate on you and can cause the relationship to start deteriorating. Don’t demand one. and those can destroy your relationship. If something irritates you. or they may not. to move on. Even if they insist it is a little thing that doesn’t matter that much. It can also be used to show your partner how Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. It is often an avenue for insulting the partner. if you sense something is not right between you and your partner. you and your ex both have to be forgiving. Take care of it while it is still small and manageable. Conversely. you can use it to your advantage and use it to show your ex how much you have changed and how you have new interests in your life.com 15 . and then a bigger thing or two are added. wondering what is going on. that doesn’t mean dwelling on them and rehashing hurts. when added to other small things. Over time. Try to see the positives and focus on your present relationship as well. the little things can develop into bigger things. don’t ignore it and let it stew. Even your Facebook account can be used to help your relationship. Though hurts and anger will never really be forgotten. moving on and showing your remorse by a changed attitude can do more than an actual apology. Little things grow into big things if not caught at the beginning. you need to take advantage of every avenue. Little things matter The big things are important. It does mean dealing with the underlying issues that lead to the infidelity. they must be addressed in order to move on. Have a talk and get to the bottom. Moving on doesn’t necessarily mean avoiding old. Use Facebook to your Advantage When trying to develop a new relationship. But. and you can expect to have a long. But. you have to move on. Sometimes. to have a decent relationship. Try to set it right before it escalates. But. loving relationship. can result in an insurmountable difference.

written for the guys. It can happen. because what might seem a good thing often is just the opposite. either. Like this eBook? Download more FREE eBooks at HowBooks. and will help you understand what your ex needs as well. work on getting the best relationship ever. one expected to last forever. and to have an ongoing relationship that meets and exceeds all your expectations. so long as they haven’t married yet. Two eBooks. They may not know want they need and want. written for the gals. Just use the information you find in the eBooks mentioned and you will have a blueprint for getting what you want. and more than just a little knowledge. and they often don’t even know what that is. Conclusion It is possible to get your ex back. and Get Him Back Forever. one for the ladies and one for the gentlemen. will help you recognize what you need. It is hard to do it all on your own. The Magic of Making Up. You may not know what you want and need. But. as well as giving other relationship advice.GET YOUR EX BACK much you care. The mp3 series. when you do get them back. Even a new romantic interest can be challenged. The eBook. and help them understand you better. They are: The M3 System. Never give up on your dream of getting your ex back. And. has all the secrets to guide you through getting your ex back and rebuilding that relationship. About the only thing that would prevent it is if they had remarried. it does take effort. guides you in how to do that. Reunited Relationships.com 16 . There are certain expectations people have in a relationship.

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