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What are the causes of counselling and how it is needed to remove the frustration of employees?

Many firms today realize the importance of attracting and retaining highly skilled, quality employees as a necessary component of their competitive advantage. One of the reasons that a quality workforce along with innovative tools for attracting and retaining has become so important is because previous sources of competitive advantage have become less important overtime. For example, previously, a firm’s success was attributed to an emphasis on product and process technology, access to financial markets, developing economies of scale & learning curves, patents, protected and regulated markets & individual attractiveness. Recently, however, some scholars have noted that these traditional sources of success are less important than in the past and emphasize that the selection and management of a quality workforce has become an increasingly critical factor to organizational success. Today, HR practitioners are busy developing new and innovative tools to attract and retain quality workforce. -One such tool that soon is likely to gain popularity in the corporate world is Employee Counselling. Employee Counselling is a service offered by companies to their employees. Organizations that care for their employees are perceived as more meaningful and purposeful. Every organization has economic and social goals. Here, it is worthwhile to note some observations made by the Chairman of Infosys in this regard. He states, “The task of leadership is to make people believe in themselves, the organization, in the aggressive targets the organization sets. Belief comes from trust: the trust that this organization isn’t about making one set of stakeholders better off; it is about making every one of us better off….” -A firm may gain competitive advantages from Employee Counselling activities especially if its reputation and image is valuable, rare and not easily imitated. Employee counselling therefore is a very powerful tool in the hands of companies in attracting and retaining quality workforce. -Although Counselling is known by many names like 'therapy' or 'helping' it is by and large, an attempt to encourage change. The counsellor’s problems could be so complex that it might be difficult to see any system of help as an elegant solution. But, Counselling has shown some effectiveness over the years, as a process of helping people come through with their troubles. -Counselling is a process of helping people to learn how to solve certain interpersonal, emotional and decision problems. Counsellors help their counsel’s to ‘learn’. The criterion for success in any Counselling is real changes in behaviour on the part of the counselled. Counsellors are concerned that their counsel’s become independent problem solvers. Continued dependence on the counsellor as well as others is discouraged. Counsellors are concerned with habit changes that increase peoples' satisfaction with themselves. It could be anything from helping people chooses a career option, becoming appropriately assertive or communicating more harmoniously with team members. Largely, Counselling has been a 'remedial approach'. But recently there has been a slight change in emphasis, from remedial to 'preventive'. -It is rightly said, ‘half knowledge is dangerous’. People often harbour myths about the counselling process. Some false beliefs about counselling are as follows: No human being is perfect and we all constantly fight our own inadequacies in our own ways. Working in any organization requires an individual to be geared up to face the challenges of work-life. This does not mean he/she can escape the duties and responsibilities of family life, whether married or unmarried. Not every individual is competent enough to take and manage the stress of a hectic life style. Thus, we cannot deny the fact that every individual has intra and interpersonal problems whether at work or at home. The HR function of any organization has the most important challenging job of "making the most" of their Human Resource. An employee can give his best to the organization only if he is in a positive "frame of mind". A mentally preoccupied or troubled individual will be in a position to give very little to his company. -No successful organization will ever be free from stress among its employees. Organization should be able to deal with stress on individuals at all levels. Here the role of Counselling comes in, where people can talk and attempt to solve their personal and work related worries. Need for employee counselling arises due to various causes in addition to stress. These causes include: to deal effectively with one’s own emotions, interpersonal problems and lack of team spirit at workplace, inability to meet job demands, over work-load, confrontation with authority, responsibility and accountability, conflicts with superiors, subordinates and management and various family problems, health problems, career problems, etc. Counselling is a process of helping an individual

Reasons for Counseling
People come to counseling for lots of different reasons, including the following. However, counseling is available for any issue you may be experiencing.  Domestic violence  Relationship problems  Self harm  Bullying  Separation and divorce  Mental health  Grief and loss  Family issues  Childhood abuse  Self-esteem  Feeling lonely  Behavior which causes concern Causes of conflict describe  Grief counseling is a form of psychotherapy that aims to help people cope with grief and mourning following the death of loved ones, or with major life changes that trigger feelings of grief (e.g., divorce).  Grief counselors feel that everyone experiences and expresses grief in their own way, often shaped by culture. They believe that it is not uncommon for a person to withdraw from their friends and family and feel helpless; some might be angry and want to take action. Some may laugh.  Grief counselors hold that one can expect a wide range of emotion and behavior associated with grief. Some counselors believe that in all places and cultures, the grieving person benefits from the support of others. Further, grief counselors believe that where such support is lacking, counseling may provide an avenue for healthy resolution. Grief counselors believe that grief is a process the goal of which is "resolution." The field further believes that where the process of grieving is interrupted, for example, by simultaneously having to deal with practical issues of survival or by being the strong one and holding a family together, grief can remain unresolved and later resurface as an issue for counseling.  Domestic violence, also known as domestic abuse, spousal abuse, battering, family violence, and intimate partner violence (IPV), is defined as a pattern of abusive behaviors by one partner against another in an intimate relationship such as marriage, dating, family, or cohabitation. Domestic violence, so defined, has many forms, including physical aggression or assault (hitting, kicking, biting, shoving, restraining, slapping, throwing objects), or threats thereof; sexual abuse; emotional abuse; controlling or domineering; intimidation; stalking; passive/covert abuse (e.g., neglect); and economic deprivation. Alcohol consumption and mental illness can be co-morbid with abuse, and present additional challenges in eliminating

he or she can be said to have binge eating disorder. work to increase public awareness. during which they return to pick at food throughout the day. Genetic counseling has developed to inform and aid individuals considering genetic testing and has become a model for other genetically dominant diseases. but usually progress predictably. and full-time care is required in the later stages of the disease. Someone may need to have a certain amount of empathy before they are able to feel compassion. While Christianity and Western sociologists and psychologists view a state of emptiness as a negative. also sometimes called food addiction. Genetic testing can be performed at any stage of development. share feelings (such as sadness or happiness) that are being experienced by another sentient or semi-sentient being. The Huntingtin gene provides the genetic information for a protein that is also called "huntingtin". emptiness (Śūnyatā) is a realized achievement. The variant is classified as juvenile. Mental abilities generally decline into dementia. which gradually damages cells in the brain. Titchener as an attempt to translate the German word "Einfühlungsvermögen". unwanted condition. along with a decline in mental abilities and behavioral and psychiatric problems. In an early exposition of his new technique. is characterized by an obsessive/compulsive relationship to food. Feelings of emptiness often accompany dysthymia. compulsive overeaters can also engage in grazing behavior. Huntington's disease (HD) is a neurodegenerative genetic disorder that affects muscle coordination and leads to cognitive decline and psychiatric problems. akinetic-rigid or Westphal variant HD. and to promote and facilitate research. Compulsive overeaters will typically eat when they are not hungry. definition and documentation of domestic violence differs widely from country to country. trespassing. heart disease. and indeed the disease used to be called Huntington's chorea. perception. and physical injury from falls reduce life expectancy to around twenty years after symptoms begin. death of a loved one. depression. hypertension. clinical trials of pharmaceuticals to treat symptoms or slow the progression of the disease. a new phenomenon explored at the end of 19th century mainly by Theodor Lipps. An individual suffering from compulsive overeating disorder engages in frequent episodes of uncontrolled eating. Professionals address this with either a behavior-modification model or a food-addiction model. and studying procedures such as stem cell therapy with the goal of repairing damage caused by the disease. they progress faster and vary slightly. through mechanisms that are not fully understood. Expansion of a CAG triplet repeat stretch within the Huntingtin gene results in a different (mutant) form of the protein. The genetic basis of HD was discovered in 1993 by an international collaborative effort spearheaded by the Hereditary Disease Foundation. The discovery of the unconscious and the introduction of it into consciousness is performed in the face of a continuous resistance (Widerstände) on the part of the patient. the disease may develop earlier in life in each successive generation. and managing confidentiality and disclosure of test results. When a compulsive eater overeats primarily through binging.               domestic violence. kidnapping. in some Eastern philosophies such as Buddhist philosophy and Taoism. to some extent. Current research directions include determining the exact mechanism of the disease. Compulsive overeating usually leads to weight gain and obesity. Complications such as pneumonia. laxative use or vomiting. In addition to binge eating. A sense of emptiness is also part of a natural process of grief. While compulsive overeaters tend to be overweight or obese. Research and support organizations. the theory of repression is the cornerstone on which the whole structure of psychoanalysis rests and all his accounts of its discovery "are alike in emphasizing the fact that the concept of repression was inevitably suggested by the clinical phenomenon of resistance". Through genetic anticipation. whether parents have the right to have their children tested. HD is the most common genetic cause of abnormal involuntary writhing movements called chorea. The process of bringing this unconscious material to light is associated with pain (Unlust). to provide support for individuals and their families. which means any child of an affected parent has a 50% risk of inheriting the disease. It was later re-translated into the German language (Germanized) as "Empathie". and is still in use there. compulsive overeating can lead to serious medical conditions including high cholesterol. and secretly plan or fantasize about eating alone. Psychoanalytic origins The discovery of resistance was central to Freud's theory of psychoanalysis: for Freud. or other mental/emotional disorders such as borderline personality disorder. Awareness. As the disease advances. often consuming food past the point of being comfortably full. The earliest symptoms are often subtle problems with mood or cognition. sleep apnea. Physical abilities are gradually impeded until coordinated movement becomes very difficult. This fact raises several ethical debates: the age at which an individual is considered mature enough to choose testing. Empathy is the capacity to recognize and. Unlike individuals with bulimia. heart disease. another point of view which you may take up in order to understand the psychoanalytic method. Compulsive overeating.B. persons of normal or average weight can also be affected. arthritis. diabetes. and from era to era. Existing pharmaceutical and non-drug treatments can relieve many of its symptoms. It typically becomes noticeable in mid-adult life. Binging in this way is generally followed by feelings of guilt and depression. but usually begin between 35 and 44 years of age. Symptoms of the disease can vary between individuals and even among affected members of the same family. or other significant changes. and because of this pain the patient again and again rejects it". Left untreated. Outside of Eastern philosophy. Freud wrote that "There is. harassment. Emptiness as a human condition is a sense of generalized boredom. however. However. Additional long-term side effects of the condition also include kidney disease. A general lack of coordination and an unsteady gait often follows. uncoordinated. social alienation and apathy. loneliness. Domestic violence and abuse is not limited to obvious physical violence. the particular meanings of “emptiness” vary with the particular context and the religious or cultural tradition in which it is used. criminal coercion. The disease is caused by an autosomal dominant mutation in either of an individual's two copies of a gene called Huntingtin. Many new research discoveries have been made and understanding of the disease is improving. Domestic violence can also mean endangerment. It is much more common in people of Western European descent than in those of Asian or African ancestry. These things result in a large overall number of calories consumed even if the quantities eaten at any one time may be small. compulsive overeaters do not attempt to compensate for their binging with purging behaviors such as fasting. About 6% of cases start before the age of 21 years with an akinetic-rigid syndrome. unlawful imprisonment. jerky body movements become more apparent. but not everyone who is obese is also a compulsive overeater. or binge eating. Their obsession is demonstrated in that they spend excessive amounts of time and thought devoted to food. and stalking. Other negative effects may include the amount of money that is wasted on food and the feelings of low self esteem that comes as a result of binging. despair. The English word was coined in 1909 by E. during which they may feel frenzied or out of control. . improving animal models to expedite research. and major depression. bone deterioration and stroke. even before the onset of symptoms. Physical symptoms of Huntington's disease can begin at any age from infancy to old age. as resulting of separation. There is no cure for HD. first founded in the 1960s and increasing in number. some writers [citation needed] have also suggested that people may use a transitory state of emptiness as a means of liberating themselves for personal growth.

something that up to now. he has rejected (repressed).Psychoanalytic treatment may in general be conceived of as such a re-education in overcoming internal resistances  Organizational conflict is a state of discord caused by the actual or perceived opposition of needs. role definitions.He went on to add that "It is for you then to interpose in this conflict in the patient's mental life. personality clashes.. The condition is classified as an impulse control disorder. jealousies. There is the inevitable clash between formal authority and power and those individuals and groups affected. by virtue of a better understanding. and between unions and management. and how long and hard people should work. or Coughlan's syndrome. There are disputes over how revenues should be divided. in consequence of this automatic regulation by pain. even with adequate stimulation. Anorgasmia is far more common in females than in males and is especially rare in younger men. There is also conflict within individuals — between competing needs and demands — to which individuals respond in different ways.. Problem gambling often is defined by whether harm is experienced by the gambler or others. departments.  Anorgasmia. is a type of sexual dysfunction in which a person cannot achieve orgasm. Pathological gambling is a common disorder that is associated with social costs. Severe problem gambling may be diagnosed as clinical pathological gambling if the gambler meets certain criteria. Anorgasmia can often cause sexual frustration. rather than by the gambler's behavior. values and interests between people working together. Conflict takes many forms in organizations. There are subtler forms of conflict involving rivalries. Although the term gambling addiction is common in the recovery movement pathological gambling is considered by the American Psychiatric Association to be an impulse control disorder rather than an addiction. If you succeed in persuading him to accept. you will then have accomplished something towards his education. it is particularly similar to substance addictions. how the work should be done. although similarities exist with other disorders. and family. .  Problem gambling (ludomania) is an urge to continuously gamble despite harmful negative consequences or a desire to stop. There are jurisdictional disagreements among individuals. In males the condition is often related to delayed ejaculation. and struggles for power and favor.