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Name: Winnie Kung Class: English 2C No: 499116126
The battle of ideality and reality
Everyone lives with reality. In this society, who can avoid to face the cruel reality? My mother always tells me ideality can’t be my food. I have no way to choose the real way to walk, to run. And then I have to abandon my ideal dream. Why I have to trust what my mother said. I think I have my own different opinion about the ideality and reality. Why I can’t have my perfect ideality? If I can’t make the thing that I wanted come true, I think it is a terrible joke. However, I will tell you the truth is not like my mother said. I will prove the truth to you. Reality is not cruel any more. Have you ever think that you can break the cruel reality by your great ideality. Reality is not a big due. It can’t make your ideality stop. You can have a wonderful reality with ideality.
Ideal is a dream. We chase this dream since we were children. In our childhood, we always have so many beautiful views about the future. Nevertheless, as we grow up, we yearn for a lot of different things and we always day-to-day enlarge our ideal. We can just sit and dream a lot of abstractive things in our mind. Actually, we always enjoy in this illusory space. You can say this is dreamlike, or you can say this is unrealistic. On the other hand, can we do something to change these opinions that seem to be true?
Reality is an alarm clock. This alarm clock will break our fantastic space. Also, it
tells us to wake up from the beautiful dream. We cannot stay in a imaginative space that it maybe never exist. We have to face the life, the cruel reality. Just like when we slept well, but the alarm clock is yelling nastily. At this moment, we want to throw the clock forcefully and continue the sleep. Nevertheless, we have to wake up immediately. It is very disagreeable, but we must obey it. Reality is such that thing. However we think so perfect, we must go along the fixed way, the reality. We have to live; we need wearing, eating, living, the basic necessarily. We need money. We cannot just sit and wait for the free lunch. That is impossible. We must starve to death in the harsh reality.
Ideality is different from reality. Ideality is personal. It cannot influence other people. You can have a lot of ideality or you want to just sit down and intoxicate in your beautiful dream. Okay, as you like, this is yours. On the contrary, reality involves to society and the other people. In this society, there are a lot of intense competitions between people to cause the society being realistic. This is the reality of this society. This is the real life. On the other hand, ideality is active. You have the choice to hold what your ideal is. Everything is controlled in your hand. On the contrary, reality is passive. Maybe sometimes, you just can go along the way. You can have your own action or the attitude to go this way, but you also need the good opportunity and the good timing to do something flawlessly.
Is an ideality sure to be an illusory space? Some people would work very hard in their whole lifetime because they want to chase their own ideal. Also, there are a lot of people live in their ideal and shirk the reality. They always stay at home and imagine a ideal spaces. These people always make their family angry. Therefore, their family will say that ideal cannot be your meal, face the reality. Nevertheless, maybe
you can find a good way to face the reality and live in reality. Shall we live in ideal and reality at the same time? Actually, ideal and reality are not mutually exclusive. There also is a relation between these two things and link them together. If you can control these two things suitably, maybe you can live happier and easier.
Ideality can be your unrealistic dream. Also, it can be a positive way for future. The difference between it can just be your unrealistic dream or you can use it fruitfully to help you having an aim to go in a better future. People always say that “living without an aim is like sailing without a compass.” So, living without an ideality is like living without a soul. Ideality is similar to water and reality is similar to a boat. Everyone knows that water can push the boat. Also, it can capsize the boat. Similarly, ideal can push the reality. Also, it can make you fall into disuse. How to make the ideal push the reality is how you can use your ideal. For example, if you ever wanted to be a doctor or a teacher in your childhood, you can try your best and do some similar works that can be related to these jobs. Another example is about my cousin. He is 25 years old right now. He has a dream since he was a child. He want to be a famous pianist. Nevertheless, his family is so poor in his childhood. He has no money to learn how to play the piano. Everyone knows that piano just like a game for the rich. But, who knows he can make his dream come true when he was 24 years old. He uses the money that he gets in his part-time job to pay the piano school
expenses. He didn’t fail any pubic piano exam. He doesn’t want to waste any
money in here because he thinks every dollar can make his piano skill better and better. He didn’t waste every second in his piano class. After a class finished, he would practice so many times to make his skill better and make the memory more impressive in his mind. He tries his best to make his dream come true. He fights down the reality. He makes his ideality appear in his life. “If you failed, you could try
again, again and again”, Nick Vujicic said. If you insist on in a thing one more second, the second will be yours. Maybe you can make your dream come true. You just have to remember a thing in your mind forever. That is “Never give up”. Who knows what you will get in next second? Just keep going. Fire your enthusiasm when you are still young. You are not an old person. You still have so many to chase for everything in your life. Don’t just sit in a fix place to complain everything. Make everything a try. Maybe you can get something you never thought that would be yours.
Ideality is something necessary in your life. You should have a good one. It is a yearning. You must use your own hand to make this dream come true. You have to show your ability to the people who despise your dream. Wake up and to increase your skill to yell to them. Try your best and to make your ideality and you closer. If we live without an ideality, we just feel working and working every day. We cannot find a good place for us to create some happiness in our life. You will feel bored and tired in one day. Reality is something you must face and you do not have any idea to change the reality. Although you do not have a chance to control everything, it doesn’t matter. You are not god. It is not necessary for you to do everything perfectly. Nonetheless, you have the responsibility to make your life better. You can control your action and your attitude to face the reality. Then, you will not miss any opportunity or good timing. You can face the reality in a good condition and live in reality happily. The important thing is you can live in reality with your dream, your ideal.
In my opinion, there only are lazy people but no stupid people in this world. An alarm clock can destroy your good dream or it can remind you to action for your dream. You can make it come true, can’t you? It won’t be a difficult thing. Ideality
also can be your food. It just depends on your effort. No pain no gain. You can change everything by your hand it you want. Nothing is difficult for one who sets his mind to do it. Don’t parrot what others say. You should have your own mind, your own opinion. I deny what my mother said. I have my opinion. I have example to prove what I said. I don’t think my mother is always right. I am not a doll. I can create my future by myself. I won’t let anything to influence my choice. You also can do everything you want. Go to chase your dream. There is nothing can be your stumbling stone.
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