Few days ago while sitting in a restaurant I was going through certain applications on my mobile device and suddenly

I heard a voice of an unknown brother who passed a comment on me saying I am sure he must be buzy with his girl friend and i am sure he must be having too many girl friends , I reacted looking at him and said "WHAT ????" then he said YO its good to have girl friends man its an experience, otherwise you will regret in your life that you didnt experienced this thing, you need to experience everything in your life and he said you need to be ready to see your heart breaking and tearing your eyes or you must be courageous to break others heart,he said you need to pay for the experience always I am listening to him silently without interrupting him . And once he was done with his lecture on experience, I told him why do you need this experience???? Is it countable anywhere???? Is anyone asking you for that experience???? Then there was a big silent from his side and I continued telling him and I told him, brother did u ever experienced raping some one???? He said NOOOOOOOOOO its not a good thing, I said why??? why dont you gain experience in this too , then he said brother u are not getting my point , I told him brother I am trying to get your point. I told him brother as u said raping is not good , but for a rapist raping is good and he enjoys and seeks pleasure in raping , so for a rapist raping is a good experience ,but not for you- personal perception and I continued to tell him that you should experience things which are within the limits so that you dont have to pay for it as you said experience pays

Then he began to leave and said i got your point brother and i agree with you , and i enjoyed talking to you and it was nice talking to you... Then surprisingly i met this brother the very next day it was a surprise , i asked him how is he doing and all and after a little converstion he told me brother i had discussed the example which you gave me with a friend of mine and he was shocked over listening to the example . I said why was he shocked ???? What is the reason ???? Why are you and your friend not able to digest the example ???? Why is this thing(example) not going down your throat ???? He said no brother the example you gave was a bit harsh , i said harsh ???? why was it harsh ???? we were not discussing something which is educating so that i could give you the example of 2+2 or we were not discussing something which is holy so that i could give you some holy examples , i gave you example which was very much relavant to the topic of the discussion but his thing doesnt go down your throat... Then he gave me a smile and i gave him a smile in return and it was was done for the day and he said bro i like you man...take care... NOTE : I apologise if my example that i gave to the brother is offensive and hurting to anyone...

Moral : so the important thing is not gaining experience ANYWEHRE and EVERYWHERE but what is more important is seeing in what course you are gaining experience and is it benificial for me in this life and in the everlasting AKHIRA... By , Syed Asif Ali Shah. (SERVANT OF ALLAH , IN THE SERVICE OF ISLAM.)