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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 .................................................................................................................................. 1 Welcome To Animal Orgasms! ................................................................................... 1 The Cheat-proof, Real-life, Sizzling Love Life ........................................................... 2 Who Am I, And Why Should You Listen To ME? ..................................................... 2 And You CAN Become a Sex God ............................................................................. 4 ...Even If You're A Virgin ........................................................................................... 5 ...Even If You Have No Clue ...................................................................................... 7 ...Even If You‘re ―Small‖, or Have A Small Bank Account. .................................... 10 Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! .................................................................... 12

Chapter 2 ................................................................................................................................ 13 The Five Types of ―Loser Lovers‖............................................................................. 13 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" ...................................................................................... 13 2) The ―NO Pump Chump‖ ....................................................................................... 14 3) The ―Robot‖ .......................................................................................................... 14 4) The ―Follower‖....................................................................................................... 15 5) The ―Guru" ............................................................................................................ 16

Chapter 3 ................................................................................................................................ 18 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track..................................................... 18 Sign #1 - She Can't Leave You Alone ....................................................................... 19 Sign #2 - She Does Leave you Alone ........................................................................ 20 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................................................ 22 The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man .............................................................. 22 Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed! ........................................................................... 22 Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms. ........................................ 23 Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way. .......................................... 23 Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn‘t Make Me Less of a Man ...................................... 25 Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me......................................................... 27 Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled - NOW .............................................................. 29

Chapter 5 ................................................................................................................................ 30 The P.A.V.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE................................. 30 1. PRESENCE ........................................................................................................... 30 2. AUTHORITY ........................................................................................................ 33 -Talk Dirty.................................................................................................................. 34 -Get ROUGH ............................................................................................................ 34 -Be Possessive ........................................................................................................... 35

3. VARIETY .............................................................................................................. 36 4. EMOTION ............................................................................................................. 38 Chapter 6 ................................................................................................................................ 42 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies - Written by Women!............................ 42 Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! ........................................................................... 42 Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now... ................................................ 47 Chapter 7 ................................................................................................................................ 55 Common Problems And How To Fix Them!............................................................. 55 How To Get HARD (Without Pills) .......................................................................... 55 1. Stop TRYING so hard to get hard ......................................................................... 55 2. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are ..... 56 3. More foreplay ........................................................................................................ 57 In Addition… ............................................................................................................ 57 How To Last Longer.................................................................................................. 58 How To Give Her An Orgasm ................................................................................... 62 How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! .............................................................. 66 What To Do If You‘re Inexperienced ....................................................................... 66 A Warning About Pornography ................................................................................ 67

Chapter 8 ................................................................................................................................ 68 Does Size REALLY Matter? ..................................................................................... 68 She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! ................................................. 68 About Pills, Supplements and Penis Pumps .............................................................. 69 It May Just Be in Your Head ..................................................................................... 70 Relax and Enjoy - It isn't all Hard Work! .................................................................. 70 Classy, Sassy, Conservative, Shy...Works for Every Woman! ................................. 71 Chapter 9 ................................................................................................................................ 73 Getting Started is Easy............................................................................................... 73 The ―Not Fun‖ But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs .................................. 73 STDs other than HIV: ................................................................................................ 77 What Kind of Condoms Are Best: ............................................................................. 77 When The Condom Breaks: ...................................................................................... 78 Don't Wait. Implement What You‘ve Learned ASAP! ............................................. 79

and that‘s from the National Center for Health Statistics. All the solutions you need are here in the coming pages. Awful! 1|Page .Chapter 1 Welcome To Incredible Sex Now! I‘m very excited that you have made the choice to become great in bed! Before we learn and master the material that‘s going to completely change you and your lover‘s sex life forever. in which the brides are 25 years or older result in a failed marriage. was begging to have sex with you??. FOR ONCE. Let‘s take a quick peek at the alarming stats: 51 percent of all marriages. Also. The facts don‘t lie! Millions of guys are having problems satisfying their women sexually. and it‘s all because you are having terrible sex. but YOU can now live without that FEAR — this is the new testament to an incredible sex life. 54 percent of married men weren‘t aware that their wives were cheating. divorce. let‘s talk about relationships and sex for a second. Ever felt like things would be better for you AND your relationship if you got laid more often or that maybe once you wouldn‘t have to try so hard to convince a woman to sleep with you OR maybe – just maybe – the woman. and it‘s creating horrendous relationship problems like cheating. So that means that out of the millions of people who are having affairs. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men don‘t know of their spouse‘s extramarital activity. This is why you are reading this book – to change all this! The statistics are alarming.

I'm a regular guy who got pissed off at myself for not being able to satisfy women. once you satisfy the primal urges that women really have. My lowest point though. Who Am I. I‘m not even a millionaire. As you keep reading you‘ll learn that it has nothing to do with how much money you make. as I‘ve tried to keep my life private. or if you take out the trash. was when I caught my then fiancée having sex with a guy she worked with! I confronted her visibly teary-eyed. Real-life. She was blunt. she will be yours for life. I selfishly thought that it was rare for a girl to have an orgasm and even got to the point that I didn‘t care! Inevitably my relationships. And Why Should You Listen To ME? Hopefully you've never heard of me. no matter how much I liked her. Luckily. I'm not a celebrity. and I was so excited that I lasted less than a minute. unappreciative people? A guys doesn‘t want to come home from a long day at work and see his girlfriend or wife. and not know where her lips have been. what car you drive. but the number one reason that they cheat is because they are not sexually satisfied in bed. Women won‘t tell you this. Sizzling Love Life So why are women cheating? Don‘t they love you? Or are they just nasty. I did end up being able to last a bit longer but struggled for over 10 years with not being able to give women orgasms. and blurted out that it was because I wasn‘t man enough and 2|Page . I stopped blaming every girl that wasn‘t satisfied and started doing something about it. would come crashing to a passionless halt. I‘m not an athlete. The first time I had sex I was 22.The Cheat-proof. and yelled at her how she could do something like that to me.

watched all of the how-to videos — tried everything that I could get my hands on. EVERY TIME. I read hundreds of books. When I did get back in the game. Once you "get it‖—it clicks and it changes everything! 3|Page . what happened was that through my own experimentation. and the use of expensive pills and supplements. I became able to make women orgasm continuously II'm talking orgasm EVERY TIME and MULTIPLE TIMES. Most of the stuff I read was so ridiculous and unrealistic though and revolved around faked interactions. but I spend my free time teaching men how to become sex gods in bed. I dedicated myself to getting this area of my life straightened out. I could get hard and last 45 minutes. Remember that infomercial with the guy ―Bob‖ who couldn‘t stop smiling? Who knows what the side-effects were from his long lasting hard-on! But over time. Now.couldn‘t satisfy her needs! I was so devastated that I couldn't date seriously again for 3 years. I got more confidence (one women broke my bed because she was losing control while I was doing her!). In the beginning I was too timid to try some things. I still have my day job as a business consultant. but as I saw how it made women literally start shaking and moaning.

I want you to have a great sex life like I do now. They never nag and best of all THEY NEVER CHEAT. you will feel so confident about your skills in bed that you will not be paranoid or insecure about your lover. or wife leaving you for some other guy with more money. what is more important than being able to satisfy a woman? After you read this book. because as a man. girlfriend. she doesn‘t even have the temptation. If you sleep with your girl and give her the best sex ever in the morning before she goes to work. filled with guys that are hitting on her or trying to seduce her.And You CAN Become a Sex God You are about to become so good in bed that women become sexually addicted to you. and better sexual skills than you. Most 4|Page . When you are satisfied you don‘t crave more. better looks.

. so take a deep breath. I used to last under a minute in bed and couldn‘t maintain a relationship because woman would not return my phone calls and never wanted to have sex with me. turn off your email and phone. One woman told me that I didn‘t satisfy her like a ―real man‖ (that sucked). I didn‘t kiss a girl until I was 20 and as I mentioned earlier. I struggled dating and always felt nervous around women and found myself trying to say and do things that would win them over and get them to like me. and he knew this..guys don‘t know what I‘m about to tell you and only a hand picked clan of a few women.. I have to tell you the story of losing my virginity — it really sums up where I was at. had never kissed a girl. Please don‘t laugh. anyone can have sex in Brazil!‖ So I scrapped together some cash. He was like. You‘ll see very soon how I became GREAT in bed but I want you to understand why I‘m revealing this sex knowledge and how I got into this whole thing. it‘s funny. In fact. . I was a complete loser.Even If You're A Virgin My sexual development with women was later than the average guy. ―Come to Brazil. I haven‘t always been good in bed or good with women. and let‘s get started! I‘m not a crazy magician or even a good pick up artist. flew to Brazil but my conversations with the women were going terribly. I lost my virginity when my Brazilian college roommate invited me down to Brazil for a vacation. I didn‘t lose my virginity until I was 22. I‘m not proud of this. laugh all you want. 5|Page . Actually.

Once I was naked. Somehow she liked me... It felt so good. I‘m thinking in my head ‗Please don‘t touch me yet. I was so tense that after I pumped 3 times. After fumbling around trying to figure out where to put myself for 3 or 4 minutes..‖ I‘m thinking. I had no idea what was happening but I followed her lead and we both began getting undressed. I put the much-toobig Brazilian condom (monsters down there) on and nearly came right then from the excitement. While I‘m fumbling with the loose condom she‘s lying on her back looking up at me with expectant blue eyes. but what did she know. I‘m convinced the only reason that she had liked me was because she thought I was a rich American. Algebra.‖ anything to distract myself..ARGH! . the most I‘d ever gone out. I was rock hard just knowing that I might finally have sex. I came! I panicked and had no idea what to do so I 6|Page . So THIS was it! Haha. I was so nervous that my hands were sweating. In the hotel room. her tits are great!‖ As I sat down on the bed awkwardly. we couldn‘t even communicate! After a few drinks we headed back to my hotel room. I was really only a poor college student. I was worried that I would cum as soon as she touched me. ―Calm.God. I met this girl who barely spoke English. I finally made it into the promise land. Meanwhile. calm.Then after going out for 5 nights in a row down there. Please don‘t. Math..

but I had no idea what to do about it. I‘d watch online porn and I‘d see guys doing crazy things like flipping girls over to get oral while they went down on them. beating it frantically trying to get hard again. and then going to town on her while she extended one leg up to the sky like a gymnast.just kept pumping away. The more I pumped and tried to get hard again. the softer and softer I got! After a few seconds of that she started laughing. And for a long time I was in denial.. and feeling like a small. They could do those moves and there was no fear of ―losing it‖. It sucked! I was all alone in a hotel in Brazil. My last memory of her was seeing her close the hotel room door loudly a few minutes later as I sat on the edge of the bed. but it was that they‘d last forever. and pushed me off of her. I was shocked that everyone talked about how great sex was. It has a happy ending! I knew that this was an area of my life that I needed to get a handle on. they were going fast and aggressively. making the girls scream with pleasure. I just want you to know how bad I was. And they weren‘t having sex slowly. pathetic little boy. . It wasn‘t that they were so huge. even though it definitely played a part in my mind.. said something in Portuguese. 7|Page . They had complete control of pleasing these women.Even If You Have No Clue This is NOT a sob story though.

pal?!‖ It sounds comical. instead of just immediately putting myself inside the girl. videos. ―Yeah. I was like. ―What is wrong with you. struggling with this issue! So it‘s one thing to get this part of your life handled when your 15. I‘d do 8|Page . I couldn‘t get hard at all. but I‘m guessing that you know what I‘m talking about because all my guy friends say. but when you wait longer. and I was at 23. this really makes you feel depressed about being just plain bad in bed. The first times I‘d had sex I got really hard and couldn‘t last. I knew that I had to do whatever it took and I had to invest in skilltraining to learn this area of life. That‘s what happened my first time. I would massage her breasts and I‘d squeeze her ass. I‘m going to take all the stuff that I‘ve learned from all these books. So to try and turn my sex life around. I had to learn how to do it. I would kiss her for a while. After three years of wild experimentation.‖ But for them. I got to the point where even though I couldn‘t last very long. and make as many mistakes as possible and then correct them until I got it right. 16. It wasn‘t one of those things you were born with. their first time was at 16. I started reading every single book that I could about sex. I had absolutely no control over when I came. And the second time I had sex. So either way. cumming immediately. I looked down at my penis and I was not happy. I remember that. seminars. It was the same as when I was in college learning how to do computer-programming. and I figured I‘d do trial and error until something works.I didn‘t know how these guys could do it. 17 years old like a normal guy.

when I started reading books on psychology and focusing a lot more on the emotional side of sex. but I didn‘t get to the point where I could actually have sex with her with any type of stamina. but having sex with a hot girl was different for me and for the first time I 9|Page . We did wild things in public but then she moved away and I thought. I‘m not going to be able to walk tomorrow!‖ It was like I was in complete control of my body and how the girl felt emotionally and physically. regardless of the girl I ended up with. 50 minutes — even an hour. I wanted to have sex with other girls and do more shall we say ―hands-on‖ field study. that‘s when I actually GOT GOOD with women. through to penetration where I was able to last as long as I wanted every time — 40. I‘d last so long that sometimes she‘d even moan. Finally. I had finally shed some past feelings of humiliation and insecurity about my performance. ―oh great the one girl I was getting good with skips town!‖ But now we‘re friends because she still really wants me to have sex with her. Most importantly though.all sorts of other stuff. So I moved on and started dating other girls.. No question I was the best sex that she‘s ever had! For me though. learning where her trigger spots were. I quickly started getting to the point where I could consistently give her orgasms — over and over. From dirty-talk to just the sound of my voice. ―Oh goddd. I wanted to make sure that I was satisfying them completely when I was in a relationship with them. EVERY SINGLE TIME! I got really good by basically practicing on a girl I was friends with who wasn‘t that hot (I hope she isn‘t reading this!) but she seemed to want to have sex.

―Hey. I was beginning to find out there was a system for making women sexually addicted to me.‖ which was always a code word for hugging me and then they‘d start grabbing me and rubbing me. they‘d take the necklace.Even If You‘re ―Small‖.‖ I‘d try and show them how special they were. Sure. I had to do 10 | P a g e . They wouldn‘t be interested in dinner. I started getting it on with more girls and my skills got much better. I bought you a necklace. phone calls from other girls when I was with each girlfriend. but they didn‘t seem satisfied..was ready to meet the challenge.‖ which would be a code-word for let‘s just go into your bedroom and have sex. I was having sex whenever I wanted. . getting text messages from girls I was sleeping with. This could not be my life! I'm far from huge and I‘m not greatlooking or rich or even funny. They would want to have sex with me all the time and I felt like I was a sex god. But something started to happen. something that seemed to work with every girl. They‘d literally say ―I LOVE having getting it on with you!‖ I almost couldn‘t believe my eyes and ears. I‘d hear ―I want to take a nap. Or they‘d be like ―Oh. let‘s go out for a fancy dinner. every time. It was getting out of hand. or Have A Small Bank Account. I need a hug. practically tearing my clothes off.. These girls started to love it. So These hotter girls would want to come over and after we‘d had sex a few times I‘d be like. But I now had something that most other guys don‘t have. Here.

No more depression and feeling inadequate in bed. No more not feeling like a man. ―A man is only as faithful as his options. she‘s not going to want to have children with you. It‘s what I‘m thinking about at this café I‘m writing in while a really hot blond girl is reading some lame fantasy novel. I don‘t want guys feeling this pain. I walk around with a new feeling of confidence I never had.something with this power I had developed. If she only knew! More importantly. How to give women the best sex of their life. more and more. You don‘t think they get hit on and asked out every day of their life? 11 | P a g e . Chris Rock once joked. And if you can‘t give a woman good sex. I decided to take up sharing my tips as a hobby. she will want you more and more. and had either been dumped or had relationships and marriages fail because of a bad sex life. who have given up and faced rejection. It changed who I am. I wanted to make this amazing information I had personally learned available to guys like me. So I figured I would put together a system for how to have great sex with women. you‘re going to have to last.‖ Well that‘s definitely true — but the same goes for women. I feel like I now have this power to give any woman an orgasm and never have to worry about getting it up or ―busting‖ too quick. and you will get the sex you‘ve always wanted. It‘s what we think about all day long. after you mess around and get to the point you want a more serious relationship that lasts. You‘re here because of sex. she‘s not going to treat you well. It only makes sense and if you can last longer. humiliation. and she‘s going to be looking for other options.

These problems you‘re having. you‘ll know the psychology in what‘s actually going on during sex. and get hard at any time at the drop of a hat. When you‘re actually experienced and you‘ve studied my method. to where she‘s always begging you for sex instead of you chasing her for sex. and then all of these things which seemed so out of reach are actually really. 12 | P a g e . just make sure it stays between us. is that you‘re going to get the ability to give a woman as many orgasms as you want. problems I used to have. really easy for you. You‘re going to be able to have unlimited stamina.Get Women Sexually Addicted to You! What you‘re going to get out of this book and out of anything that I ever share with you. None of this is out of your grasp when you know what you‘re doing. You don‘t need to have sex with 5. 10 or 50 girls to be experienced. Have you ever tried to convince your girl to have sex with you? Is that what you want? I sure don‘t want that for you. these are the problems of an inexperienced lover. last as long as you want.

If you‘re not lasting AT LEAST 10 minutes she is probably not going to orgasm and may even fake it. This affects nearly EVERY guy I‘ve ever worked with. Often guys are a combination of some of these performer-types.Chapter 2 The Six Types of ―Loser Lovers‖ Learning what women DON'T want in bed is the first step towards doing what they DO want. 13 | P a g e . ―Is this ever me?‖ Be honest with yourself. Women are the same way. The good news is that stamina is a not a difficult problem to fix. I have been EVERY one of these and turned it around. full-body orgasms. We will address that in a moment. So to get started. You have to warm it up…and get it ready for the faster speeds. so don‘t feel alone! Think of the analogy that women are like cars. You can‘t turn your car on in the middle of the winter and start driving really fast immediately. so really think carefully. I'd like to share with you the 6 types of ―loser lovers‖ that all women secretly HATE. So can you! 1) The "Two-Pump Chump" The most common problem men have with women is that they just don‘t last the required time to give women deep.

3) The ―Robot‖ The next reason why a lot of guys suck in bed is that they are emotionless. They are thinking of ―Touch this. If you are unable to make a women feel strong emotion (other than nagging you !) it is very difficult to please her. we're going to talk about how to conquer this as well. they can‘t get hard. in the bedroom and outside it. Many guys are like an assembly-line robot. And what REALLY sucks about this situation is that usually the harder you TRY to get hard. keep a straight face‖…beep beep beep! Women are constantly talking about how they feel and how a guy makes them feel.2) The ―NO Pump Chump‖ The situation many guys find themselves in is that when the time comes. And women can tell! Women thrive on emotion. the limper you become! But don't worry. now touch that. 14 | P a g e .

romantic sex is good because you let down your guard and she can see a sensitive side of you —and you don‘t have to be dominant while feeling emotional — but other than that. Show her how much you want her. it radiates deep in the core of her femininity and shuts down her attraction for you. The sex will be less exciting and she won‘t think you‘re a real man. at some times the emotional. ―Does this feel ok?‖ Once or twice is good. it‘s important that you be the one leading the sexual 15 | P a g e . Show her you know what you want. It doesn‘t matter what they act like outside the bedroom. When you are passive and unsure of yourself. They want you to be in charge.4) The ―Follower‖ Guys who don‘t show they are in charge look weaker. not confident and slightly feminine. but it kills the moment! Women are looking to be led in bed. Obviously.

they‘re not based on feelings. 6) The ―Guru" Last is what I call the wanna-be sex-guru.. Then when I started experimenting and asking women what their favorite position was. They‘re always trying to do something weird because they think they‘re this guru that knows these crazy tricks when in reality they don‘t really know anything. and the sex guru has read all these magazines and books and they‘re all based on the physical. crazy shit. she‘ll be sexually pleased. 16 | P a g e . he thinks he is this guru and he‘s doing all sorts of weird. I noticed this a lot in my own life when I was starting to have more sex.interaction.‖ They loved it when I did them really hard and even spanked them! When you take an authoritative position with a woman. and their girl gets really turned off because she thinks ―What is this guy doing?‖ He‘s trying so hard. I thought that doggy-style might be demeaning and that maybe my lover wouldn‘t feel good about doing it. or I flip her at this angle and I touch this body part right here and I say this in this weird hypnotic way. and none of it is attractive because he just looks like a dork. So the sex guru thinks if I move the clitoris in this direction or I squeeze her breasts in this way. you will often find that this is when they get the most turned on.. almost every woman said ―doggy-style.

But fortunately. Of course. this is what comes out.So if you think that you‘re any of these.. and everyone is one of them at times — I‘ve been all of them — you‘ve really got to examine what you‘re doing wrong and then we‘ll adjust to the right way of doing things. To Sum Up: Now you know what women DON'T want in bed. they will never tell you if you are one of these guys to your face. it's easy to transform yourself into the type of guy who drives women CRAZY in bed. so now let's talk about how to do that! 17 | P a g e .. but when no one is around and they talk with their girlfriends.

18 | P a g e . looks. at the times that I did see her I would try and have sex with her but she would make up excuses. It was so painful to admit that to myself. Sexually attraction far outweighs money. what‘s sad is that she DID WANT to have sex. looking back on it. I remember when I was a poor lover I‘d always want to see my girlfriend. or even social status. Now let‘s get into the visible signs that you‘re going to see when you‘re sexually satisfying her. and there is a closeness and appreciation that they exhibit towards you. If I had a penny for every time I heard that she was tired. It‘s because he is sexually satisfying her and this causes the highest level of female attraction. charm.Chapter 3 The 4 Sure Signs That You're On the Right Track When women are sexually satisfied they act completely different. but I had to face the truth. or was stressed and not in the mood. But invariably she would have something else to do and I felt like I wasn‘t important enough or was acting needy. There is no nagging. I‘d be a very rich man today! In reality. or always trying to hold his hand. because I couldn‘t satisfy her. Then. She is sitting on his lap. had a headache. just not with me. no complaining about you sitting on the couch too much. Think about when you‘re in public and you see a woman that is draped all over her man. or kissing him.

so if you have a foreign lover or girlfriend that may be the case as well. Also many guys will bring up the topic of sex and basically ask their women if 19 | P a g e . if they ACCEPT when you initiate sex. most women do not have sex just to ―have sex. Many guys will start groping a woman and kissing her in an attempt to turn her on! (I certainly tried this). that is the same thing.Sign #1 .She Can't Leave You Alone When a woman initiates sex with you it means that you are fulfilling her sexually. Take note however. Note also that in some cultures the women do not initiate sex for cultural reasons. The more that she initiates sex. When a woman is initiating sex with you. so in this case. so read her reaction when YOU initiated sex. you know that she is enjoying it and wants more. Unlike many men. that there are some women who for psychological reasons are not comfortable initiating sex. You need to realize that women initiate sex very differently than guys.‖ They have to be able to orgasm or at least feel very strong emotions. the more she is sexually fulfilled by you.

She Does Leave you Alone Another way you will know when your girl is sexually satisfied is when her behavior changes outside the bedroom.‖ ―I need a massage. When I ask how she is treating him outside the bedroom the answers are almost always universally not positive. When women initiate sex they usually do it very subtly.‖ If you are hearing things like this. They complain of things like: 20 | P a g e . Just stay calm. Many guys tell me that they are rarely having sex with their wives and can‘t ―get‖ her to have sex.‖ ―I need a hug. chances are that she is initiating sex. They will say things like. In her head she is seeing this as the PRECURSOR to sex. ―Let‘s take a nap. She doesn‘t want to seem like a slut or sex-crazed. so she tends to subconsciously trick herself and hide what she really wants! So don‘t put the cart before the horse! Sign #2 . and don‘t try and skip that step.‖ or ―Lets watch a movie. the sex won‘t happen. and if you try and skip the nap or the hug.she wants to have sex right now or that night.

―I‘ m always getting nagged to do chores.‖ ―She tells me that I watch too much TV.‖ ―She says that I don‘t make enough money.‖

When you are completely satisfying a woman sexually these issues resolve themselves very quickly. They often completely disappear because the unhappiness concerning sex with you is the CAUSE of their problems. Poor sex manifests itself in all of these problems. Sign #3 - The Proof is in the Orgasm Later in the book you will learn about what an Overwhelming Orgasm™ is and how to give it to her. When a woman is having multiple orgasms, an overwhelming orgasm, or an orgasm so strong that she is very sensitive to the touch, she is REALLY into the sex. Strong orgasms and strong emotions are connected for women, so if you are giving her strong orgasms, she will be showing a very strong feeling of attraction towards you. Overwhelming Orgasm, Multiple O Feeling of Attraction towards you

Strong Feeling of Attraction Towards You Improved Behavior towards you so that you will keep having sex with her

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Chapter 4

The Six Mindsets of the Sexual Alpha Man
Now, I‘m going to lay out for you the 6 mindsets that sexual alpha males ALWAYS possess. These are 6 things you HAVE to get your mind ―set‖ on. If you‘ve been ―set‖ on being a loser in bed until you picked up this book, that‘s been your mindset. Before you get into any physical techniques, any verbal techniques, any kind of wild and crazy sex stuff, make sure you read and internalize these 6 mindsets:

Mindset 1: I Will Be Great in Bed!
You can be good in bed no matter where you're at today. If you‘re going to change everything around and become good in bed, it is absolutely essential that you adopt this belief! I personally hold this belief above all others. I‘ve seen incredible change in myself, and I‘ve seen it in others. Just a few short years ago I didn‘t even think change was possible. I thought that some guys just had it and other guys didn‘t. That I would always be ejaculating in under a minute and that I would have struggles with women and sexuality the rest of my life. The crazy thing is that there‘s proof everywhere that people can change, and they do change, but you just don‘t see it because you don‘t watch your next door neighbor having sex. You don‘t watch other people having sex. The only sex that you see is with your girl or in pornography, which is completely different. You have to learn the skills. You won‘t see the change unless you believe it. If you‘re thinking ―This isn‘t going to
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work‖ then it won‘t! But if you keep doing what you‘ve always been doing, you‘re going to get the same results! START TODAY actively believing that you can have good or great sex with women no matter where you are today. That is mindset #1.

Mindset 2: I Will Give Women Overwhelming Orgasms.
Many guys have this fear that they can‘t give a woman an orgasm. They think that they‘ll be good in bed, but she won‘t orgasm. Guys — if you‘re good in bed she will have orgasms, I guarantee it. She will be having orgasms over and over and be madly in love with having sex with you. You just need to see it once to see it in action to really internalize this. So Mindset 2 is both that you CAN give women orgasms and THAT your girl is capable of having mind-blowing orgasms! Your girl may have struggled to have orgasms in the past, but once you know the secrets she will surprise both of you with how sexual she can get. Trust me on that!

Mindset 3: Fear and Shame Will Not Stand in My Way.
I had a very successful sexual mastery summit I did — basically a superior man sexual-transformation weekend. And the guys were awesome guys. They reminded me a lot of myself, exactly where I was at and ready for change. But I noticed a few guys getting snared by the same ego-trap. This guy came in and said, ―Yeah, when I have sex with women, my problem is that they fall in love with
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me. They really love me, and they want to be with me all the time.‖ I was like, ―Mike, if that‘s what‘s happening I‘m going to give you your money back, and I want you to teach the course because you‘re so good with, and they really like you. I can‘t help you.‖ I felt like there must‘ve been a reason he was there though, so I said, ―Well, tell me a little bit more.‖ And he goes, ―Well, when I start kissing her, she immediately starts cumming.‖ So, ―Well, Michael, I don‘t really think that‘s the case. How many girls has that happened with?‖ He goes, ―It‘s happened with 37.‖ ―So you just paid me $5,000 to come to my inner circle mastery seminar to learn sexual skills, and you‘re telling me that 37 girls that you‘ve hooked up with started cumming right when you started kissing them?‖ I‘m like, ―That is possible — maybe some guys can do that — but they don‘t come to the seminars and pay five grand to tell other people about it.‖ To make a long story short, I took the guy aside and he finally revealed to me he‘d only had sex once and he came in under a minute. He looked like a wounded animal and his tone was very sullen. But I told him everything would be ok. After some work, we got him the skills he needed and 2 months later he emailed me to say he was lasting 25 minutes and starting to give his new girlfriend orgasms. The takeaway from Michael: You need to admit that what you‘re doing isn‘t working. If you think you‘re a fullfledged sex god porn star, this program‘s not for you. You‘ve got to realize that you

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And no matter how good you think you are. you had to learn. If your girl isn‘t trying to have sex with you all the time. ―If I learn how to have better sex rather than just figure it out on my own then I‘m a loser. programming a computer. No matter how bad you are. That‘s basically ―experienced-based learning. I used to think. Here‘s why: 2 Generally Accepted Ways Guys think they Get Good in Bed Have sex really early in life and with multiple women often so you have tons of experiences (very few guys). you‘re not where you need to be. but they are not. You didn‘t wake up and know how to play guitar. and she‘s not addicted to having sex with you — remember. you can still get better. Any skill in life is learned.‖ I‘d think. ―I‘m not a cool guy because I got help. Guys that have a lot of sex really early in their lives and get experience with a wide variety of women might seem natural.‖ That‘s not true. they WILL improve. Mindset 4: Getting Help Doesn‘t Make Me Less of a Man It‘s ok to get help. learning a language. NO ONE IS A NATURAL. You didn‘t wake up and know how to drive a car. anything.‖ 25 | P a g e .CAN improve your sexual skills. Any skill that‘s worth knowing. women need sex — then hey.

take care of it. There is a saying that I love. The Worst Enemy of Being Great is Being Good.Learning the material from guys who say they‘re good in bed and implementing unproven methods. you will. realize you‘re going to get it handled.‖ So it‘s okay to get help. It is one of my favorites. When you‘ve got an issue in your life. You‘ll be GREAT and blow past even the best ―naturals‖ and ―experiencebased learners. It is possible. I guarantee it. and that you‘ll love too. Starting out NOT having good sexual skills means that you have the desire and the need to improve. These guys (like me) have the most incentive to learn and don‘t have that ego that shields them from obvious shortcomings. You can be better in bed than any guy you know. and then boom. Really think about that. Guys that aren‘t that good HAVE TO learn how to be good in bed. The guys who really ―GET‖ female ―The Worst Enemy of Being Great Is Being Good‖ sexuality are the ones that had poor sex skills to start with. 26 | P a g e . Because you‘re forced to fix it. you‘ve got to embrace it.

‖ Or. If they can‘t have sex and good sex at that. you do. and you‘re." She doesn‘t get horny. again. So. like. cheating and then there‘s the divorce and the humiliation that you weren‘t man enough to satisfy her. What do you think women read? Look at Cosmopolitan. That‘s something that‘s really got to be addressed. This is everywhere. the guy that is supposed to sexually satisfy them sexually is letting them down at a primal. instinctual level. I‘m a guy. the better off you‘ll be. but think of women. women need sex more than men. If you think that you need sex. Look at YM. She is more interested in whether I do the chores and take out the trash and do things around the house more than having sex. 27 | P a g e . Women give up if they can‘t be sexually satisfied. ―She likes to cuddle and she‘s very romantic. and they move on and pretend it doesn‘t matter.Mindset 5: She Needs Sex Even More than Me That may sound unbelievable because many guys say ―My girlfriend‘s not that sexual. Look at all these women magazines. I‘m inserting in some quotes from women that I talked to. ―Hey. These are normal. the stuff that you look at. The sooner you realize this. Then eventually they start flirting with other guys.‖ That‘s because you‘re not satisfying her sexually. to be child-bearers. And they‘re telling you exactly how much they need sex. Their main goal in life is to have children. So recognize the mindset that women need sex more than men. real women.‖ Yeah. but she doesn‘t like sex. I need sex. with their picture.

They want to look desirable. It‘s my underwear. these pants. do I look fat in this?‖ It‘s because they‘re sexual creatures.and other products to look good. buying underwear. ―There it is.―That‘s trash. They have all this sexual desire. Look at all the time they spend buying shoes. and the examples of this are everywhere. and hopefully you‘ve internalized this. You ever look at a man‘s underwear. let‘s move on to the next mindset. 28 | P a g e . make-up. compared to women‘s underwear? Not to be graphic or weird. Dudes just throw on a pair of boxers or tightywhiteys. but society represses it. And You Don‘t Think Women Want And Care About Sex? So now that you know women are sexual creatures.‖ What do they talk about? Its all sex tips and sex headlines on those magazines! (insert screen shot of one of them). ―Is this the right underwear? Does it look good? This shirt.‖ Women spend hours.

The reason that you‘re not good in bed NOW is by not addressing this area of our life the right way. Whatever the reason that your bedroom skills aren‘t up to par. It‘s not your fault. with proper education. Congratulations on manning up and fixing this problem! Most guys don‘t have the balls to admit it to themselves let alone solve the problem! Great job. your lover will scream your name in thanks! 29 | P a g e . society makes it very tough for guys to know where to turn on such a sensitive and personal issue.NOW The final mindset is that the time to act is NOW. it‘s not your fault and you are going to handle this problem once and for all.Mindset 6: I Can Get This Handled .

then at the end of this chapter. you'll know that she's in the present when her eyes are closed. This is a bad thing.E System for COMPLETE SEXUAL PLEASURE Now we're gonna get into the 4 characteristics that are going to make you a rock star in bed. actually nothing! You're not thinking about anything.V. "Oh. I'll run through all four.Chapter 5 The P..A. Women are feelers. To start. 30 | P a g e . It's not just you being in the moment. because you want her not thinking anything. it's HER being in the moment. Just Do! One of the signs that you're both in the present is that you are THINKING too much. Don't Think. PRESENCE The first component is PRESENCE. Often. and she's not thinking about anything. should that painting be over there?" she's not in the present. but feeling. PRESENCE means being in the moment and not worrying about anything else other than what's going on. and she staring at you or looking around the room like. If her eyes are open. we'll talk about how to COMBINE them and take your skills to the next level! 1. and she's not in the moment at all. PRESENCE means that all you're thinking about is….

But the key that once you start doing the other things we've talked about. and you're no longer good at all. you are thinking too much about the actual sex! One of the big mistakes. Of course you want her to have a good time. which is not thinking about your penis and your performance. because you'll KNOW she's enjoying it! Not Thinking About Penis or Performance We're gonna move into the next part of presence. or you get soft. It's a big problem. "Am I good enough?" You start trying harder. ―Is she enjoying this?" Now don't get me wrong. It's game over. is to keep thinking to yourself over and over. Nothing about. or about different aspects of your sexuality.. and you lose your presence and your authority. 31 | P a g e . because all of a sudden.. "Am I lasting long enough?" What happens? You cum. "Am I big enough? Am I hard enough? Am I lasting long enough? Am I good?" As soon as you start thinking these questions. that is totally NATURAL when you are first learning this stuff. You lose every feeling of being in the moment.And more specifically.. you won't have to worry about that any longer.. so you got to make sure that you aren't worrying about any of these fears about your penis. or having sex with a woman for the first time. "Am I hard enough?" What happens? You get soft. you've lost all aspect of being good in bed.

Just going right after it. You want to just be going by instinct. It does it out of a primal instinct.Using Primal Instincts and Desire You don‘t want to be thinking. Think of a bear that's gonna pull a salmon out of the river. just getting in there and grabbing that salmon. while you're learning this stuff. and what's going on. you're thinking about it at the start. and I will grab him here. anything. That is PRESENCE. you no longer want to be thinking about what exactly you're doing. That's how you wanna be when you're in the present. 32 | P a g e . But. when you learn a language. Just like anything else. Always instinct. Maybe the salmon will move to 42 degrees. The bear just jumps into the river and grabs it. and the wind is this variable. you're definitely gonna be doing a lot of thinking. He's not thinking. You're just primal. "Maybe I'm gonna move my head in this direction. "What do I say now? Which gear to I shift into?" You're learning. So. once you get past the learning stage and pass the learning curve." Think of just pure instinct. in the beginning. Like when you learned to drive a stick shift. There'll be a learning curve.

2. you'll begin to naturally think. I'm gonna do what I like. more dominant. they would be with one! No. So what does being a man MEAN? You need to be authoritative in bed. and you're the one leading the sexual interaction. whether it's during sex or during a date. but you need to be authoritative. a woman wants a man. You should always treat women with respect. So. going to follow the lead of the man. Doggy style is a perfect way to show you‘re the boss of the interaction. If they did. I'm the boss here. you've gotta show that you're in charge. You need to show that you're in charge. Don‘t ask to do doggy style. Here‘s how: -Take Charge Show her you're in charge by leading. That's how it's been since the caveman days. AUTHORITY The 2nd trait is AUTHORITY. This doesn't mean you should be super aggressive. Just pull her into position and get going! 33 | P a g e . and the woman is." You wanna show that you're in charge. By having that mindset of leader. Why authority? Simple: because women don't want another woman! Take that one in: Women don't want another woman. It's much more attractive for women. Being authoritative is a mindset and a way of action. Evolution has shown that men have to be the stronger. to be led by the male. "I'm in charge.

. or reaching up the back of her neck and gently but firmly pulling her hair. and then ramp it up from there. That's very authoritative. Try saying things like. If she seems to REALLY get off on it. I like to have guys start with something like "You like how I feel inside you?" Something like that. but as you see how well she responds to it. what I mean is things like lightly slapping her ass as you are doing her.-Talk Dirty The second trait of being authoritative is to TALK DIRTY.. I know it can feel a bit awkward at first. This shows that you're confident in your sexuality and in your manliness. Now. Push her down into the bed. That's authoritative. slowly take it to the next level. If you're in missionary position. like "You like it when I fuck you don't you?‖ Nearly all women will respond to this kind of basic dirty talk. you'll get comfortable REAL fast! -Get ROUGH The third part of authority is getting just a little bit ROUGH with her. Get it? 34 | P a g e . And by all means. "You look so fucking hot right now‖ or "You like this? You like it hard? I'm gonna make you cum so hard‖ And just saying things that are dirty. give it to her HARD while you are doing these things! Move faster and go in deeper. after you've started gently and she is warmed up. I DON'T mean rough as in tieing her up and whipping her (though some girls DO like that!). pin her arms behind her head.

which is a very MASCULINE characteristic.. You want to say things that are really authoritative that make her understand that she is yours.. The reason this gets such a strong reaction from women is because you are being TERRITORIAL. 35 | P a g e . move on to telling her that certain body parts of hers belong to you. powerful man. ―Your ass is mine right now‖ etc. If this excites her. the more enjoyment she is going to get out of the experience.. Start with things like.. ―You are ALL MINE right now‖. There is nothing you can do in the bedroom that will get a woman more turned on that this! -Be Possessive The next key to blowing your woman's mind in the bedroom is to let her know that she belongs to YOU. ―These are my lips to kiss‖.. And the more things you do in the bedroom to remind her that she's YOUR woman and YOU are a strong...What you are trying to do her is to make her feel like she is being TAKEN by a strong and powerful man.. which is something all women want to hear.

And while physical variety is nice. or sneaking off somewhere. You're slapping her ass. like in public. Different positions definitely help. what I am really talking about here is EMOTIONAL VARIETY. I love being inside you. Then. system is VARIETY. I love you so much. It's being a different type of lover who keeps things fresh and exciting. This type of sex can be all about you being connected as one.V. Maybe you're doing her in a place you shouldn‘t be. Something like out of a romance novel. VARIETY The 3rd part of the P." That's one kind of a lover. and you have different interactions in these different positions. that Casanova. sometimes you need to be the bad boy that's doing her really hard. that comes in and sweeps her off her feet.E.A.3. You're doing her doggie-style. You could be telling her how much you love her and how much you want to be with her. Sometimes you want to be that really romantic guy. it's definitely gonna add 36 | P a g e . and you say different things. because different positions give her different emotions. saying "Baby. This creates a very different emotion for a woman than plain ole‘ ―bedroom sex‖… and women LOVE IT! Another idea is to narrated a very emotional fantasy. If you do different positions. The point from all examples is that emotional variety by being different kinds of lovers is highly important! VARIETY is about giving her a different sensation of feelings. It's not solely about different positions.

Y eah. But. It's gonna seem monotonous. positions themselves aren't really that different. There's so many different things that you can do just from missionary position. Being Spontaneous So. You can talk dirty. another issue to variety is SPONTANEITY. Try and rendezvous in the middle of the day to have sex. So. repeatedly.variety. And I just touched upon it. If it's planned. You want to be having sex at different times. if you can. Sometimes you want to have sex in the middle of the day. Be Spontaneous! You never wanna plan sex. If you're always having sex at 9:00 at night. it's not gonna have that variety. Try to have various times where you have sex. You can fuck her. because it's adding emotional variety AND physical variety. just from changing their emotional status by being in the missionary position. Why? It‘s because you can have massive variety within one position. 37 | P a g e . on Friday night. So. being different type of lovers is one of the keys to variety. In the missionary position you can make love to her. You can talk emotionally. You need to be able to give her different emotions and variety of sexual experiences from the same sexual positions. You only really need about four or five sexual positions. you wanna make sure that the sex is very spontaneous as often as possible. but positions aren't as important. that's not very spontaneous. Many of my students have made multiple girls have orgasms. It's not gonna have emotion. The second key to variety is that positions aren't that important. that really changes how she's feeling and what kind of orgasm she has.

because you can make her feel a wide range of emotions. Do it in the shower. (In a moment. Keep things fresh. and in the morning when you wake up. 4. There are lots of different fantasies. If you can't be emotional yourself. the main way to have more VARIETY is to change her emotions. and use fantasies as a way to make sure your sex life doesn‘t get boring. or take a little trip together and have sex when you get there. Using Fantasies A Great way to add in variety is through USING FANTASIES. you're going to give her a lot of orgasms. when you're 38 | P a g e . but as much as possible try not stick to a schedule. she's not going to feel emotion. Change the feelings that she has. and she's going to be madly in love with you. EMOTION The 4th trait is EMOTION. Here‘s how to put it into play… You Must Be Emotional Yourself! It takes two people to have great sex. be a different kind of lover. you‘re going to read some fantasies from real women!) Fantasies are a great way to add in variety. So in summary. as well as have a lot of fun yourself. and it‘s a very enjoyable thing. be spontaneous. And again. So you have to BE EMOTIONAL YOURSELF.you're gonna have a lot of sex at night after you go to bed. So. You want as much spontaneity as possible. when you make her feel a variety of emotions.

if you're not with a girl that you like. 39 | P a g e . So now. because you married her. If you've ever seen a bad boy with a really hot girl. And it's not that she loves each emotion that she feels. or they'll get a girlfriend. So. You're madly in love. it's that it's this wild roller coaster of various emotions. Then that emotion dips over a time." If you're saying ―I love you.‖ you want to say it with passion. It's because in the beginning. you don't want it to end in a weak "I love you. There's a lot of emotion in the beginning. Your bodies are new. Remember back to the emotions that you felt when you married her. even sexually or in any manner. The Stronger the Emotions. So. either inside the bedroom. make sure that you really mean it. there's so much emotion for both of you. Women want to feel different emotions during sex. he makes her feel a lot of strong emotions. The stronger the emotions. Sometimes she just wants to feel like a piece of meat. And then the sex peters out. If it's your wife. you need to be. Emotion is pretty hard to fake for most guys. and in the beginning the sex is really good. the stronger the orgasms are gonna be. you should be pretty emotional.telling her things. Sometimes she wants to feel really wanted in a caring and loving way. They‘ll get married. Make Her Feel a Range of Emotions EMOTION is all about giving her a range of emotions. after the initial emotions have dipped. you need to be emotional. the Better Women are attracted to strong emotions. Emotion also explains a lot of guys sexual problem. They love guys that make them feel strong emotions. or outside.

teasing. Different emotions. Once you learn what to say you‘ll be able to create strong emotions very easily Teasing TEASING is a great way to create emotion. If you're teasing a girl. It's not that having open dialogue or a convesation. and then kind of push her away. Emotions are best shown through words. Be Emotional But Authoritative Outside of the Bedroom Try and work in a little bit of emotion into your relationship outside the bedroom. If you're not talking in bed. Do what a woman would do when you're trying to get her. until finally she can't take it anymore. and you're really slowly building up…and you're building up…and you're building up. there's no way you're conveying any emotion. It is a few select words used here and there that have a purpose. Feelings of just being fucked. And the way that you can do that. Just keep going with the foreplay. keep kissing until all of the sudden she starts grabbing you.And you want to do that in bed. and she really wants you inside of you. and 40 | P a g e . Play hard to get. Anticipation creates excitement So. anticipation. What you don‘t realize is that good sex involves verbal communication during sex at times. all that teasing creates anticipation. You Must Be Verbal in Bed Third thing on emotion is that YOU MUST TALK. and keep gently pushing her away in a teasing manner. Different and strong emotions are what YOUR girl wants. Feelings of being loved. I just keep kissing. excitement.

Kind of ease it in there. you need to start now.‖ ―How much do you love me?" Stuff like that is romantic talk. 41 | P a g e .here are some ways you can do that: Romantic/Emotional Talk with Her Romantic talk with her is a great way to add a lot of emotion. You need to add in a lot of romantic talk. "Oh. baby." If you're not calling your wife or girlfriend baby. I miss you so much. otherwise it sounds a little weird. Romantic talk means things like. But romantic talk is. "I love you so much.

VE. anonymous. I wanted to share with you some fantasies written by REAL WOMEN… so you can get inside of their heads and see just how important using the elements of the P.E. So without further ado… here some real fantasies from women. unedited fantasies that prove how much women want and need sex.E system its unbelievable.Chapter 6 Proof Women Want It: Read Hot Fantasies Written by Women! To show you just how powerful this stuff is. As usual. within these fantasies and you will be able to copy these fantasies. Even though you are not 42 | P a g e . So I went and posted ads on Craigslist to have women write in with their fantasies.A.A. system really is! Of course I couldn‘t ask women I know because they wouldn‘t tell the truth… as they wouldn‘t want me to think differently of them.V.V. offering to pay them with Pay Pal so there would be zero embarrassment… that way I knew they would hold nothing back! What you are about to read are 100% true. I catch my breath when confronted with your masculinity. This stuff is so close to the P. Look for all the elements of P. Warning: These are UNEDITED and EXPLICIT… so read at your own risk! Fantasy 1: I Want You Right Now! I come home from work and there you are lying on the sofa in your boxers.A. Pay close attention when you are reading these.

I lean into your strength and warmth.physically big. ―Here are the rules: I touch you. you fill the room with your sexual presence. ―Do you know how badly I want to fuck you right now?‖ I murmur. Just lie back and let me pleasure you.‖ is all that you can utter. I set my briefcase on the counter. pulling me against you. I feel your hands slide up over my hips. as I grind my hips against you. I can feel the desire pool between my legs. sucking on your bottom lip.‖ My hands trail down your abdomen. satin camisole. ―I want to learn every part of your body tonight. I straddle your lap. You look up at me with that familiar mixture of innocence and desire that crumbles my resistance every time. The pinstripe skirt I am wearing stops about mid thigh and stretches tightly across my ample bottom. coming to rest on the waistband of your boxers. My rock hard nipples poke through the smooth fabric. revealing a tight. Wrapping my arms around your neck. kissing you softly. I gasp as you nibble at its stiff peak. darling. ―Not yet. and appraise your amazing body. You feel my lips graze your neck and you shiver. Your enormous brown eyes beg me to join you. still in my 4 inch heels. You help me remove them. You pull my suit coat off. walk over to the sofa and stand in front of you. you lean forward and suck on one through the thin material. and before I can stop you. I step back.‖ I whisper in your ear. ―Baby. You cannot touch me until I tell you its okay. Got it?‖ 43 | P a g e .

I stand up and slowly unzip my skirt. then with a bit more strength. I straddle your lap again and nibble at your earlobes. I‘m trying to drink you all in. The material is cool and smooth against your skin. nor do you know what I‘m going to do next. I can see the skepticism on your face. The scent of your arousal teases my nose. I‘ve never taken control like this. but tonight is about control. where are you?‖ ―I‘m here. I grab your left hand. it looks like it might explode. and kiss me breathless. I pull the camisole off too. I resist the temptation to just climb onto your cock and ride you. 44 | P a g e . ―Don‘t worry. If at any point it gets to be too much. gently at first. My touch is light and tentative. ―You‘re a naughty boy. I run my tongue between your fingers before taking one into my mouth and sucking. ―I‘ve got something that will help‖. and plant a kiss in your palm. so I continue with my lesson. It‘s driving you wild that you cannot see me. I run my fingers across your shoulders and down your arms. Just try to relax. You grab me around my waist. I trace the lines of your jaw with my thumb and kiss your neck softly. and is driving you wild. ―Baby.‖ Your breathing has gotten shallow and your cock is so hard. You hear it hit the floor.‖ I manage to get out between pants. baby. I can‘t get enough of your different textures.‖ I tie the scarf loosely around your eyes. paying special attention to the outlines of your muscles. I go into our bedroom and find a silk scarf.You swallow hard and nod your head. I can feel your erection pressing against my thighs. just say yellow. I want to take you in my mouth and suck you dry.

I cry out. and slam into me. down to your pelvic bone.I get down on the sofa again and lay a trail of kisses down the inside of your arm. then the other. You slap my ass . as our movements become frantic. You grab my hips and force me down onto you harder and harder. I begin to nibble at your thighs. I continue my assault.hard. I pinch your nipples. I inhale deeply near your navel. as you fuck me. You shudder when my soft lips brush across your bicep. riding you. first one cheek. You roll me underneath you. and you moan. I slide my fingers through the thin coarse hair on your chest and follow it to your smooth stomach. I can feel my orgasm rising as you possess me. I cannot take another second. nearing the verge of my climax. A flush has 45 | P a g e . I lower myself onto your cock and remove the blindfold. My legs are over your shoulders so you can get as deep as possible. I can feel your fingers digging into my flesh. causing your abdomen to quiver. You suck on them a little and realize that they are soaked with my juices. but not touching them. I run my fingers across your lips and press them inside your mouth. I start kissing you as I grind my hips. I cry out your name. I run my fingernails down your back. they‘re so different from mine. You squirm a little and cry out my name. I flick my tongue across the tip of your cock. The sting of your broken skin excites you. You grab my wrist and suck harder. breathing on your balls and shaft. loudly. running my tongue along your side. The slick walls of my pussy clench you tightly as you start to suck on my nipples again. My aching pussy has to have you now. lapping up a drop of precum. I am yours now.

I have never felt so safe. but you refuse to let me go. I can feel my juices running down my legs. You grab my hips and pound harder. I whimper again. It builds and I beg you to finish. and the delicious sounds you make are enough to send me over the edge. but you keep that same pace. You lap at me slowly. never changing pace or pressure. You are so strong. You cuddle up next to me and pull the afghan from the back of the sofa across our naked bodies. It is so intense that I soak your face and the sofa. causing my nipples to rub against the rough upholstery of the sofa. yet I‘m excited. trying to catch my breath. almost scream your name. my pussy throbbing with excitement. ―Fuck me…now. pulling me against you. 46 | P a g e . You wrap your arms around me. The orgasm is different this time.‖ I feel so wanton. bruising my tender skin. begging you to make me cum. I collapse onto our oversized sofa. My breasts are bouncing back and forth. Your tongue slides across my aching clit. I soak you with my juices and you are eager to lick them before they are wasted. ―Roll over. I get on all fours for you.‖ I take a sharp breath in.spread from my face down to my abdomen and I‘m whimpering now. ―Tell me that you want me. You start to orgasm. You grab my hair and jerk my head back a little. I touch my clit as you slam into me.‖ you say roughly. You pull back and look in my eyes. Your five o‘clock shadow scrapes my sensitive inner thighs. You hold my hips down so I cannot squirm away. causing me to moan. I feel so exposed with my ass in the air. I shudder my completion.

From the anonymous female author: "Telling people about my fantasies isn‘t something I thought I could ever do.. But when I saw the ad for fantasies. I thought. what the hell.―What brought that on?‖ you whisper lazily into my ear. ―I love you‖. but not before hearing you say softly. You make me feel safe and loved and protected. ―I wanted to do for you what you do for me every day.‖ ―What is that?‖ ―You worship my body in your own way. I close my eyes and drift off too.for real! I am flying down the highway in a little white GTO. It is a winding highway someplace rural. There is no freaking way I am going to pee in the woods.‖ This is what I fantasize about .. Fantasy 2: You Caught Me! Not So Innocent Now. probably western North Carolina. can‘t think. Mind numbing. You can never seem to get enough. Your breath is warm on my neck and I can tell you‘re getting sleepy. I feel like a goddess every time we make love. Really badly. I smile – that‘s the first time you‘ve said that. I love the power of the car and the thrill of speed.‖ I feel your thumbs brush the underside of my breasts as you snuggle even closer. I have to pee. This would be a lot of fun if I didn‘t have to pee. 47 | P a g e . There are tall pines on either side of the road and I am going way too fast. You cater to my whims.

there are the lights. At least I hope it is. ―Oh shit!‖ I am terrified and my overbeating heart cranks it up a notch but I can‘t slow down. He is coming after me. my panties at my ankles and he is staring at me. number 15. Thank god. And oh shit. I know my motel is around one of these hair-pin corners. Such relief.‖ Oh no I forgot about the cop in my panic. We go on like this for a couple miles when I see the entrance to the Summer Pines Motor Inn and crank the wheel into the gravel lot. 48 | P a g e . is at the end the building and the car goes screaming into the space right in front. My room. I feel a rush of heat run up my neck and face. I think I turn off the car but who really knows. I am sitting on the toilet with my skirt hiked up.‖ As I look up there is a tall man standing in the door way of the bathroom and he is staring at me. Then I hear the door slam open and ―Police. come out with your hands in the air. As I round yet another turn I see a cop car. I make it to the bathroom just in time to hike up my little white skirt and rip down my thong and sit. I manage ―I‘m in here.especially dressed in a mini-skirt and strappy sandals. I am out of the car fumbling with my keys and running to the bathroom. Oh my word. I must keep driving. This is so weird. I keep my foot nailed to the petal. And he is pointing a gun at me.

‖ I purr reaching my hands towards one another clasping them in front of me with my best ―I am so innocent‖ look. Higher still. looking at him. he hasn‘t said anything to me. He is totally hot. he has a dark complexion with salt and pepper hair and hard grey eyes. My eyes run up to his chest now and I see that he has broad shoulders. look at my privates. I know he is looking at my neat trim and I think I might like it. Instead of pulling the thong up I step out of it and walk forward without my sandals. I briefly consider my vulnerable situation but chances like this don‘t come every day. It is awkward in heated kind of way. Don‘t shoot me. 49 | P a g e . The cop can‘t help but look at me. Since he has seen me. He exhales again. He composes himself and gently shakes his head and blinks a couple of times. My eyes get stuck half way down when I can see that his cock is pushing against the front of his pants as he looks at me. I try wiggling my hips ever so slightly and but my skirt gets stuck on my hips a little lower but not anywhere close to modest.‖ I hold up my hands like I am surrendering and start to stand. As I stand up my little white skirt gets hung up on my hips. I tip my head up and give him a small wicked smile. His eyes drift down and my eyes follow his. He instinctually slides the gun into the holster on his hip. I have a great tan and bright pink toe nails. I am wearing a tight turquoise blue tank top and I can feel my nipples respond to the blast of cold AC. He exhales deeply and instinctively licks his lips. ―How about you put that weapon away.―I had to pee.

I arch my back and press my chest against him. This next transition is a blur. I lean into him as he finds nipple and rolls it between his thumb and all of his fingers one by one. My skirt is still jacked up around my hips. As I suck his full lip his hips start to press into the counter. He is coming towards me filling the doorway to the bathroom and he grabs me under the arm pits and easily hoists me onto the sink counter. He leans over and put his lips on my bare shoulder. I smell like sun and coconut and sweat and he breathes me deeply and moves his lips and his teeth to the round tightness of my bicep. He obviously likes it and grabs the back of my neck and shoots his tongue deep into my open and willing mouth.I try speaking. I want his mouth and grab his bottom lip with just a touch of my teeth. I slid my hands onto his pecs and use my face to move his lips to mine. He cups my whole tit in his hand and squeezes just enough for a twinge of delightful pain. A slight moan escapes my lips as I reach up and grab a handful of his shirt. I have to touch him. I move my hands to his front and quickly undo the buttons of his shirt. He spreads his fingers so that his thumb was on one nipple and his pinky finger was on the other. Greedily he kisses and licks my shoulders and neck feeling me rise and fall to meet him. probably? I was going really fast‖ Then I add ―Am I under arrest?‖ looking up with big wide eyes. He spreads my legs with his knee. I find his other hand and lift my tight tank top to offer my flesh. I love rough kissing and we explore every inch of each other‘s mouths. Brushing his cheek against my chest. My round and firm breasts are the perfect size for his large strong hands. ―Too fast. grunts and moves in quickly. His 50 | P a g e .

I love it. I reach my hands over my head into my hair and stretch. With a grunt he picks me up as I tuck my feet underneath until I am crouching on the sink. I catch him staring at my heat and he runs his 51 | P a g e . I love it when he uses his teeth and while it hurts I don‘t say stop. As I slowly stand he strips my skirt to my ankles. He moves in closer and runs his hands up the fronts until his thumbs meet my little mound and he spread his fingers around my hip bones. With each thumb he spreads my lips gently and looks up. I have big handfuls of his hair and I can see the muscles of his neck straining. My chest is pushed forward and as I desperately remove his shirt. The cop doesn‘t flinch as he leans in to take my rock hard nipples into his mouth. I arch again slipping my tank top over my head and grab his face and pushed it towards my heart. I am still sitting in front of the mirror on the cool marble counter with my legs dangling over the edge. He smells like musk and sweet chicory coffee. I feel so alive and hot standing naked in front of this hungry man. My thighs are at his eye level. He licks around in circles teasing my sharp points. I lean in close and I know he can feel the heat from my special place. He is so strong and I know he is hard. The pain shoots into my belly and down lower. I know I am beautiful. He looks up with need and reverence. The thought of ―what the fuck am I doing‖ comes into my head but leaves just as quickly.palm presses between my breasts and I grab his face and drive my tongue deeper into his mouth.

I am panting and gasping for air as he grabs me around the waist and plants my sweet ass onto the cold marble. My orgasm comes fast and hard. ―More. This gets me so excited for more. His hands are roughly he kneading my ass. I gasp but eagerly meet his hand. more. I can see his veins and the skin stretched thinly. He roughly grabs my ass with both hands and propels my hips towards his face. I still want to be fucked. My knees give out as he gently lowers me to the counter. I know my juices are pouring into his mouth and down his neck.) But I am not done with this fantasy. He spread my legs wide and finds my opening with his tip.‖ I moan and then release. He is lapping at my lips and forcing his tongue inside closer to my G-spot.tongue over his lips. He moves around until his head shines and plunges into my center. Don‘t stop. I am so wet and hot. Just then he finds my spot and teases it with his tongue while moving his two. 52 | P a g e . maybe three fingers in and out with a hard pumping rhythm. I am tight in the right way yet so wet and willing. I feel my knees go weak yet he holds me in place and thrusts his tongue into my spot. I want him to take me with his mouth so I tilt my hips closer. I watch the cop grab his belt and pants and jump out of them freeing his enormous hard on. It is so perfect. I can feel the wetness engulf my pussy. His sex was pulsing and I know he needs to be inside of me. After a minute he reaches one hand around and slides his first two fingers up into my slit. (This is usually when I have my first orgasm for real. I grab the top of his head and hold on for dear life.

I relish him being worn out. This is when we both come together. It was coming but he wants to be in deeper still. panting and trying to catch his breathe. His cock is stretched to the limit and I can tell he was getting ready. I dig my nails into his back and he flinches just for a second but it doesn‘t stop him. eh? It just goes to show that women are waaaay more sexual than we think! 53 | P a g e . I am mostly being held in place by his strong arms and his big dick deep inside of me. I want to bite him and chew on his neck and his shoulders while moving with his rhythm. Pumping harder and faster I grab his cock with my inside muscles and push my hips up as far as I can to meet his onslaught. His elbows give way and he lands gently on top of me. He lets his whole shaft come out to my soft lips and then drives it in harder and deeper. He moves his hips back and forth pumping me. And when he lifts his head I smile and say ―Does this mean I won‘t get a ticket?‖ Wild stuff. He fills me completely. He drives hard holding my shoulders so I have to take every inch of him.‖ he moans. He wraps his strong arms around my whole torso and takes me to floor. The cold tile is shocking to my back and I gasp but I don‘t want to stop. I feel triumphant. Each time he rams me I am shocked at how deep and far he is in me. I push up with my strong arms tilting my hips up to meet him while wrapping my legs around his back. My ass is barely on the counter.―Oh Jesus in heaven. I feel like a conqueror.

So now that we‘ve covered how to arouse a woman‘s emotions to give her intense physical pleasure. 54 | P a g e . and what to do about them. let‘s go over some of the common problems we men have in bed.

the limper you will get. your problem is entirely psychological. which basically means the harder you try. the stress reaction sends a signal to your brain that you are in a flight or fight response. (If you can‘t get hard for masturbation or porn then you need to talk with a doctor. here‘s how to get hard when you‘re with a woman: 1. You can always go the drug route and take Viagra or another such drug but in most cases I‘ve seen that guys usually don‘t really need it! If you can get hard during masturbation or while looking at porn. Let‘s address some of the major ones quickly.) Assuming you CAN get hard while masturbating.Stop TRYING so hard to get hard If you are trying to hard. not a physical problem.Chapter 7 Common Problems And How To Fix Them! No matter how much sexual improvement you do there will still be occasional issues that come up. How To Get HARD (Without Pills) When a guy has trouble getting hard it is almost always a psychological problem. but not during sex. Here is what to do instead: 55 | P a g e .

Once you hit 10 repeat cycle until you find you are completely relaxed. This exhale is 2. Repeat in and out in same manner until you reach 10. After you have done this a few times it will be 10-20 breathes.2... and now I'd like to show you a little-known breathing technique that I've found is THE SECRET to getting and keeping rock hard erections for as long as YOU want! It's called. this is one of the single best things you will EVER learn to improve your sex life! So let's get right into it. This breath is 1. Hold the in breath for a second once it is all the way in Breath out slowly through your mouth noticing your stomach coming back in. Clear your mind other than the numbers. and trust me when I say.. 56 | P a g e . 10-Count Breathing Sit in a comfortable position Breathe in slowly through your nose concentrating on making your stomach go out as you fill it with air. Practice 10 count breathing when not having sex… then use it when you are I've found that one of the best ways to get control of your manhood is through breathing. (5 cycles of 2). nothing about life or any topic. In the beginning this make take 40-50 breathes. Concentrate only on thinking about the number you are on.. ―10-Count Breathing‖.

In Addition… Another thing I highly recommend to boost your performance in bed is to start working out regularly. Sounds crazy. no woman has EVER complained about TOO MUCH forplay! It‘s usually the opposite! So relax and take your time. More foreplay= less tension= total arousal. then it will help your erections. If you are not having problems of arousal then your problems are of tension and presence. which allows you to relax more and get hard.Get to the point where you can do 10 count breathing and notice that you are relaxed. 3. And trust me. More foreplay Keep kissing your lover and having foreplay. To start you can do ANY exercise… it‘s better than nothing! If you can do 20 minutes of any exercise that makes you sweat a bit and gets your heard rate up and you feeling good. Right when you realized you are about to have sex start breathing QUIETLY but in 10 count breathing style and you will notice that you are able to maintain your level of arousal without having tension creep in and ruin your erection. You‘ll be glad you did. as physical activity signals to the body to increase testosterone production… which equals harder and bigger erections! 57 | P a g e . but it works! Keep practicing until you get this down.

which makes it an amazing sex life booster! If you can only do one physical activity. How To Last Longer If you are not lasting long enough let‘s fix this problem right now! I used to be the worst premature ejaculator of all. For further details. These include the dead lift. It makes sex no fun and a source of constant stress and anxiety because you know that you can‘t please a woman. dumbbell press. -Martial Arts: Martial arts are great for getting up testosterone. You don‘t have to ever fight or get injured. just use the activity to stay in shape and as a testosterone booster.Weight Training: This is the best ways to get your testosterone levels up and be ready and able to have more sex. squat. Instead of feeling pleasure during sex all you can think about is your fear of cumming! 58 | P a g e . look at a program such as Body of Life by Bill Phillips. as they will boost your testosterone the fastest. yoga is what I recommend . and pull-ups. Check into some Brazilian jujitsu classes or any kind of self defense. you learn to control your breathing as well. Focus on big multi joint movements that work more than one muscle at once.Here are some specific types of training that are GREAT for sex: -Yoga: With yoga you not only increase your strength and get a good workout. I‘ve personally done this for over 8 years now and always am relaxed and ready to have a ton of sex after training.

When you don‘t have presence. tension creeps into your body and causes you to ejaculate early. put it at a number. Start off by noticing during masturbation or sex what number you are at on a scale of 1-10. no erection. inevitable climax 59 | P a g e . your mowing the lawn Could get aroused. It‘s just going to take a little bit of work. Once you can put your arousal at a number it is easy to identify the point where you are about to cum and avoid it. Instead. couldn‘t stop cumming if I wanted to. thinking of maybe masturbating Aroused. Ejaculating too quickly usually occurs because you are not present enough during sex.I remember I used to kid myself that all guys lasted a short time… but thenwomen would tell me otherwise! The bottom line is ff you can‘t last. masturbating or foreplay but not enough to come Highly aroused but not going to come yet About to come. Don‘t fight your arousal. your relationship won‘t last… so listen up! The good news is that if you can last longer masturbating than having sex you can fix your premature ejaculation. Once you learn how aroused you are you can control your erection and last as long as you want. The scale should be roughly like this: Not aroused at all. Here‘s how: Step 1.

Once you have the ability to do this during masturbation you will be able to do the same thing during sex. We‘re going to move when you have sex from a number 9 to a number 6. When you are increasing 60 | P a g e . or some kind of additional physical or visual stimulation (aka doggy style). The foreplay makes you comfortable and lowers your arousal level to 4 but as long as it‘s done right doesn‘t make you come.5! What I want you to do is notice the next 10 times when you masturbate when are you are about to go from number 6. The goal for right now is to be able to identify when you hit number 6.5 and when it turns into number 9. So for the next ten times identify during the entire number system in each stage up to your orgasm. give us a call if you need help with this.not as hard stroking) and take 2 or 3 10 count breathes to get your arousal level back down from a number 9 to a number 6. harder stroking. Step 2.5 to number 9.5. Once you combine the arousal scale with physical positions that are less stimulating you will find that you have complete control over your how long you last and premature ejaculation is gone forever. Most guys ―go over the edge‖ and are about to come with faster thrusting. It‘s also described in detail in the Fundamentals DVD.. Again.You want to be able to recognize where you are on that scale of 1-10 at any time whether you are masturbating or involved in any sex play. Then for the next 9 times or however long it takes I want you to slow down the physical sensation (ie. Longer foreplay: The more foreplay you have the better off you will be able to last as long as you want.

In the beginning when you are learning to master your cock and increasing stamina avoid doggy style. or kiss her body. Take a breath and slow down! Once you get this working on masturbating with some porn then you can try it during sex. See demonstration in the DVD. Step 3. Step 4.your foreplay to get your arousal level down to a 4 concentrate on what you are doing to her rather than what she is doing to you. its excess of arousal you don‘t want her making you more aroused through a hand job or a blowjob. Have sex missionary with your arms under her and NOT supporting your weight. Instead eat her out. You have conditioned yourself from your masturbating that when you slow down you will lower arousal and get back to a 4. Missionary position or oral sex not doggy style. It may take a few times but you will find your sexual confidence goes through the roof and you will be able to last as long as you want once you master it. 61 | P a g e . or kiss her and you will get to and maintain an arousal level of 4 throughout sex until YOU DECIDE when you will come. Because lack of arousal isn‘t your problem. Doggy is the most visually and physically stimulating position for a guy and will increase your arousal level. Move slowly and when you are about to come slow down.

This orgasm is easy to have a women achieve because it is mostly a ―physical‖ orgasm as opposed to a full body orgasm or an orgasm during vaginal sex that has strong emotions. 62 | P a g e .If you combine this numerical arousal technique with weight training. Your first goal should be to learn to give women a manual stimulation orgasm every time.E. unlike men who usually have just one type of orgasm. How To Give Her An Orgasm A lot of guys think that their girl is different and she won‘t come. They have many more ―pleasure centers‖ and depending on how good a sexual experience you are giving them they can come more times and much stronger. Let‘s go over some of the types of orgasms women can have and a sure-fire backup plan to give any women an orgasm. She will. Here is a way to give a clitoral orgasm: I want to make this really simple. Physical Stimulation Orgasms. you just have to be doing the right things and following the P.V. model.A. From there your lover will want to be sexually satisfied vaginally and move on to deeper. exercise. You need to realize that it may take time but she will eventually have orgasms. meditation the day you are going to have sex it will speed up this learning process by at LEAST 50%.This is the ―go-to‖ orgasm when you‘re improving your sexual skills. Also. women are capable of many different types. full body orgasms.

Kiss her until she is horny and moaning. inner thighs. Don‘t do anything else just leave it there. side of back. Kiss her neck. Feel her get off! 63 | P a g e . While you are kissing her put your palm over her area and apply light pressure. Once she starts grinding up against your hand (she will) put your middle finger inside her with your palm up Go as far back as you can with your finger along the upper wall until you find a smooth spot Press on the smooth spot and start making a come here motion with your finger…don‘t be afraid to apply some pressure Keep making the come hither motion while you kiss her neck and breasts. mouth.

‖ I have seen others use words like ―full body orgasm‖. Vaginal orgasms are a result of penetrating her in a rhythmic constant manner and having presence. she was from Austria. It‘s overwhelming because it creates a primal female sexual addiction to you. These orgasms are harder to have her achieve without her first having a physical stimulation orgasm before sex. I was dating this girl Renee. smart 64 | P a g e . A woman will often say she misses you 20 minutes after you left each others company. It is currently being trademarked and patented as it is recognized that it gives women ―Overwhelming Orgasms. continuous orgasmic state. a really sexy. repeated cumming etc. However the term ―overwhelming orgasm‖ most accurately describes what is going.Vaginal Orgasms Vaginal orgasms are produced during intercourse. Remember: The more orgasms you can give her before you have sex the better the actual penetration will be. She will tell all her friends about how great you are and she will talk and act like she is madly in love with you. I know this sounds ridiculous. variety. authority. (using the PAVE system) Overwhelming Orgasms This is a term that I have coined. I call these orgasms overwhelming because when women have an ―overwhelming orgasm‖ they don‘t know how many times they came. I didn‘t believe it until I saw it in my own life. When you start giving women ―overwhelming orgasms‖ you will be amazed how quickly they fall in love with you or you create unheard of levels of passion in your relationship. and emotion.

gifts. When we started having sex I started slow because at this time I was a bit timid to try all of the techniques that I use now. Over time with her though.e to give her an overwhelming orgasm 65 | P a g e . Giving Women Orgasms Ladder Longer foreplay to get her more relaxed…don‘t‘ push the sex.a. and panties with my name on them. with no physiological hang-ups. She told me that she had never felt so good with someone and that she would do anything to keep me having sex with her! She became so addicted to the sex that she would show up with food. This is the reality for some guys when your sexual skills are good enough. I started implementing real authority and she began cumming over and over with ―overwhelming orgasms‖ After the second time we had sex she told me she loved me and this is a normal girl.v. let her want it from you Have her masturbate while you are there watching and she makes herself co me Have her masturbate while touching you or you are inside her Physical stimulation orgasm Orgasm through sex Add in all elements of p.accountant.

she is just conditioned to think the sex isn't good with you. realize that everyone starts off inexperienced sexually.. Here are some tips to follow: Start being more emotional and more authoritative OUTSIDE the bedroom Start being more flirtatious during the day (texts. etc) Never bring up the topic of sex outside the bedroom Never try and trade anything for sex Start giving her more orgas ms (duh! But now you know how !) What To Do If You‘re Inexperienced First off. It‘s whether you WANT to be good and the desire to get this area of your life handled that is going to make you a great lover! Have as much sex as possible doesn't matter if the girl is hot After a sexual experience look back on what was good about it and what needed improvement 66 | P a g e . she has to be reconditioned to know that you are now a better lover. you must realize is that she does WANT to have great sex.. since she is used to the old you! So now that you ARE good.How To Get Her To Pursue YOU For Sex! First of all. kisses.

That will program your brain with POSITIVE associations.Pick only 1 thing for next sexual experience… work on only one thing at a time Enjoy your practice. so get in as much as you can. plus you are training yourself with BAD HABITS by making the association in your brain between porn and having an orgasm as opposed to SEX and having an orgasm. so the temptation is there! The problem real with watching porn is that it lowers your sex drive for REAL women. it‘s ok to watch a little bit of porn. Online porn these days is cheap. and don‘t put too much pressure on yourself! Practice makes perfect. and when you are with a woman you will be ready! 67 | P a g e .. and the sites have TONS of videos.. Any practice and progress you make now will benefit you for the rest of your life with wo men! A Warning About Pornography A lot of guys get really addicted pornography when they aren‘t having enough sex. the girls are beautiful. In short. but mix up your ―selflove‖ sessions with some where you are masturbating to your own positive mental pictures of giving it to a woman good. Watch too much porn and you‘ll find you cum too fast or can‘t get hard when you actually have sex.

and maker her come.Chapter 8 Does Size REALLY Matter? "My penis is too small. it will raise your testosterone.5 inches hard it does not matter. Women don‘t often fantasize about getting railed by a huge guy. If a woman is getting naked with you and ready for sex then you need to release the beliefs that your body is holding you back. and you‘ll be able to move better in bed." This is one of the biggest myths about giving women sexual pleasure. Just get naked. pumps. You don‘t need to try exercises to lengthen it or make it thicker. It‘s not hiding as much as you think. Even if it does work at all. a bigger dick will not give you sexual mastery. Forget about your penis size and instead invest in the scientifically proven principles in this book which are proven to make you a masterful lover and make her sexually addicted to you! She is More Worried About Her Body Than Yours! Woman know what you look when you have clothes in. Women DO fantasize about elaborate sexual fantasies that you can create with your MIND. You need to realize that as self conscious as you may be about your body. Unless your penis is under 2. 68 | P a g e . the woman that you are with is even more self conscious. or exercises don‘t waste your time. Don‘t discuss what you look like and don‘t make any attempt to hide it. If you have tried lengthening with penis pills. Yeah you definitely SHOULD get in better shape because she will be more attracted. stamina.

Cialis: I‘ve also tried Cialis a handful of times and if you are going away for a long weekend or know you will be having sex multiple times over a few days this could be a good option for you. Remember. (Often the benefit is more psychological than anything else). Viagra: I‘ve taken Viagra to see how it feels.turn off the lights to start if you are nervous and use what you learn in here. pleasing women has nothing to do with dick size. use the lowest possible dose that gives you a benefit. Let‘s do a quick run through. Try 25 mg first and that should do the trick for you. Viagra is best taken if you know you are going to be having sex in 45 minutes-3 hours and need an extra boost. Most guys don‘t need Viagra to get hard and stay hard it‘s a mental thing. From my own experience and guys that I‘ve talked to Cialis doesn‘t 69 | P a g e . women are turned on by the emotional not the physical! About Pills. But if you feel that you really need it. But in order to give proper guidance I‘ve gone out there and extensively tested everything I could get my hands on. Again once you master these techniques you will have the strategies you need to give women repeated orgasms and these medications are only to get it up more. If you really need a boost for long weekend away or repeated sessions then Cialis works better. Supplements and Penis Pumps I currently do not use sexual stimulants other than my own testosterone boosting workouts. Remember though.

Sometimes you get so focused on making the sex good for her that you neglect yourself! This usually happens as you‘re starting to get better in bed. she‘s starting to have some orgasms and you don‘t want to ruin it. Penis pumps: I tried a penis pump back in my desperation days. Once you can consistently give women AN ORGASM you need to be working on your sexual skills no more than 70 | P a g e . If you have no problem getting up looking at porn then your problems in the bedroom are not physical they are mental. It hurt. don‘t.give you the rock hard erections that Viagra does. If a guy can‘t get hard to masturbate then he definitely needs some pharmaceutical help. What it does is it allows you to keep getting hard over and over even if you‘ve just had sex. Practice the breathing exercises for relaxation and you will find that you don‘t need these drugs anymore. if you can masturbate without any pharmaceutical help than the problem is in your head. Dick size is NOT the problem. It May Just Be in Your Head Look. Or if you prefer them as a safety blanket then just try and minimize your dosage for safety reasons. Relax and Enjoy . The solution is learning how to be a fantastic lover using these techniques and emotion.It isn't all Hard Work! Amen brother! This is something that I really worried about still have to remind myself about. If you‘re thinking of getting one. It‘s a waste of your time and money. I nearly popped some blood vessels and I‘m never using it again.

The other half of the times don‘t worry about how long you‘re lasting. what position you are in. These are psychological principles. As long as the other half of the time you are focused on improving your skills and pleasuring her she will still be sexually satisfied. whether she is coming. if you want to last 2 minutes.. So what I want you to do is not spend more than 50% of your time having sex actually TRYING to have better sex.. If you want to say something say it. That is why at the end I‘ve created the ―implementation‖ mini course. I understand that is intimidating to start using a lot of the techniques in this book. Sassy. and will it still work? The answer is ABSOLUTELY! Guys. Shy. 71 | P a g e . Just FUCK her.50% of the time. Be a total primal instinct driven animal. Conservative. not just think about theoretically. if you want to do something to do it. Read as much material as you can outside the bedroom but only implement it half the time. ALL women respond incredibly to these techniques. Classy. Don‘t think about ANYTHING. Something that you have to work on.Works for Every Woman! Sometimes guys who HAVEN‘T read this book or tried these techniques write to me and say that their girl is different. the evidence is overwhelming. If you are worried about and trying to improve your sexual skills EVERYTIME sex will feel like a chore to you. that‘s fine. I want to make sure that you EXPERIENCE the power of this stuff.

You can tone down anything in this book to adjust with any lover. but remember that this stuff has been used by thousands of guys with ALL TYPES of women. 72 | P a g e .

but I want to make sure you are SAFE. It‘s like I always wanted it and she didn‘t! Follow this sex-initiating ladder and the work will be done for you! Start doing more activities together outside bedroom (does not matter what they are as long as you are together and its not stressful).if you are doing more things together it won‘t see incongruent..Chapter 9 Getting Started is Easy I don‘t know how to initiate sex For me. Ignore at your peril! Types of birth control 73 | P a g e . Start kissing outside the bedroom more…just lean in and kiss her. Start kissing her more at night when you are going to bed and massaging her breasts while doing it and put her hand on your penis. when I was less than stellar in bed I didn‘t even know HOW to start sex with my girlfriend. Sex will occur! The ―Not Fun‖ But Important Stuff: Contraceptives & STDs I know I know. boring stuff. because safe sex = less worry and a lot more fun! So here is a run-down on the different types of birth control and types of condoms.

Let‘s run though some of them now: (Note this chapter assumes that you are in a relationship and that BOTH of you have been tested and deemed STD free.) The Pull Out Method: This is when she is not on birth control and you have sex and ―pull out‖ your penis before you ejaculate. The Pill: Women take the pill on a set time and schedule. If you are using the ―Pull-Out‖ Method you are setting yourself up for an unplanned pregnancy. It‘s also one of the only methods of birth control where you can control the outcome. (as opposed to the pill or other female solutions which require her to be in charge). Sometime women will ―skip‖ a dose if they really want a child or in today‘s busy times often it gets lost in the shuffle. As long you put the condom on the right way and it doesn‘t break then you will prevent pregnancy.There are numerous types of birth control. Sperm lead to children. If you are having sex with her while she is on her period or the day or two before it chances are you are ok but I still do not recommend using the pull out method even at that time. (The chance of a woman getting pregnant on her period is very rare but it has happened before. It works really well — as long as she takes it. if you‘re hesitant that she will forget or really wants a child with you explore the other options. If she is on the pill and you completely trust her then the pill is a great solution. I am not going to dignify this method by saying you should ever use it. 74 | P a g e . Pre-cum contains sperm.) Condoms: Condoms are great protection against STD‘s and are great birth control.

Diaphragm: The diaphragm is another thing that a woman can wear. The stats vary but diaphragms have been known to be less effective than a condom or the pill. The Patch. Guys take responsibility. some studies have shown that spermicide condoms are no better at preventing pregnancy that just a regular ole condom. Spermicide used with a condom is very effective at preventing pregnancy. Some guys like it more than them wearing a condom while others say it‘s like having sex with a plastic tarp.Female condom: The female condom was launched with great fandom as it would be an opportunity for women to control their own sexual destiny. However it hasn‘t done as well as many thought it would. However. they‘re better for the absent-minded than the pill. Most times a woman needs a prescription from a doctor to get a diaphragm. 75 | P a g e . I would not recommend it. I‘d wear a condom and skip the diaphragm. The Ring. There chance of pregnancy is too high. Spermicide: Spermicide is a gel that is applied to kill sperm. but when I need a condom I always wear one and forget the female condom. Again. Spermicide used on its own is a risky proposition. know this exists but wear a condom yourself. Since these have to be replaced infrequently. It‘s kind of a pain as they need to get it fitted and leave it in after sex. You can experiment with it. unless you have a major aversion to condoms. and the Implant: These are all hormonal solutions available with a prescription from her doctor or a family planning clinic. Here is what you need to know about spermicide. the Shot.

comfortable solution for women who have already had a child. but I know people who have had. Vasectomy: I almost considered this one night after being very concerned that I had impregnated a girlfriend at the time. Even if the condom breaks your chance of getting HIV is quite low. I‘ve never had one. Although both operations (guys and girls) are reversible. If you‘re going to do this be sure. Let‘s make it simple: HIV: If you put a condom on and it does not break your chance of getting HIV is TINY. Don‘t get it. Let‘s dive into what‘s important to know and then move on.IUD: Although the IUD has had some PR difficulties. who was really concerned about unplanned pregnancy had the operation and said it wasn‘t too bad. Some STDs are very serious. it‘s a very effective. If you‘re worried she‘ll forget or it‘s a girl you just started sleeping with and hasn‘t been tested for STD‘s always be safe and strap on a condom! Avoiding STDs: I hate talking about STDs. He walked out of the hospital and was fine after a weekend. The stupidest thing you can ever do is have REPEATED sex with a woman who has not been tested. It has to be inserted (and removed) by a medical professional. My friend Mike. AIDS is still a life threatening disease. If a condom does break with 76 | P a g e . changing your mind later on doesn‘t mean it will go well and it‘s expensive. It is much easier for a woman to get HIV than a man. The bottom line is this: if you really trust your girl and she is on the pill or another form of hormonal birth control your fine.

‖ If you can get hard with no condom on while watching porn or touching yourself you can get hard with a condom during sex. You can also get what‘s called an OraQuick HIV test and you get the results in 20 minutes. Often guys will say something like. doesn‘t grip you too tight. I‘m not going to list every STD here. ―I can‘t get hard with a condom on. Despite it being a serious subject. bring it up casually but firmly. or condoms ruin sex. STDs other than HIV: There are all sorts of miserable sounding stuff out there. if you feel a burning when you take a pee or see weird spots go see your doctor. It will test you by a simple urine sample for Chlamydia and Gonorrhea. then go get tested ASAP for everything and then again for HIV in 3 months. you should be fine. This is important! It‘s your life we‘re talking about here! Condoms can prevent transmission of most STDs. and still always you to enjoy sex. Always ask a woman about her sexual history.a woman that for some reason you didn‘t ask about her sexual past. Just get tested to be sure. What Kind of Condoms Are Best: The best condom is the one that you can put with ease. It‘s all 77 | P a g e . Obviously sex is much better with no condom (―raw‖) but this should only be with a woman who you are in some type of relationship and you know. There is a test now called Aptima Combo 2 Assay. not guess. that is completely STD free as are you yourself. Unless you have been having unprotected anal sex with prostitures.

) When The Condom Breaks: If you are putting on a condom correctly condoms rarely break. You can use Astroglide. STDs make LIFE unenjoyable. The best condoms that I have ever used are Durex Love. I highly do recommend that Durex Love. While condoms definitely make sex less enjoyable. What I recommend you do is that you buy Durex Love as well as a bunch of other condoms at www.com. 78 | P a g e . Pjur or Wet (my favorites) or any other lube that you may want to try out. (Tip: If you are concerned about losing sensation because of wearing a condom.condomdepot. I have never found them in a store but have bought them online. Stay away from lambskin and other unusual material condoms. Read about his issue under trouble shooting. They aren‘t as durable and more likely to break.in your head. you can add drop of lube INSIDE the condom. If you‘re breaking condoms often then definitely pay attention to this review. For overall experience. Buy one of their sampler kits and try the different condoms. It will replicate the wet sensation and does not affect the condom staying on. Let‘s review how to put on a condom.

Don't Wait. but make sure you stay congruent with the physical aspect. and focus on your breathing. If you can last 10 minutes you have the stamina to give her orgasms during penetration. make sure you have a few go-to moves for different situations. in 2 or 3 basic positions. You should have a few go-to things to say in case the sex ever starts to feel awkward and silent. remembering the 10-Count Breathing exercise. Have a few‖ go-to‖ moves. 1. "baby that feels so good. Implement What You‘ve Learned ASAP! What good is this system if you never implement it? Don‘t be worried about implementing everything at once. Let‘s go through and talk about where to start. Sometimes when you are getting started you can get overwhelmed and feel like you "don't know what to do. This is not the time to pull out the "spinning reverse cow-girl." To avoid this. You‘ll be amazed at how well it works! 2. If you can‘t last 10 minutes then work on this using the numbered arousal system. If you are having relatively tame sex." and "you want some more of this??‖ should cover you in most situations. Be able to last at least 10 minutes." so again stick to the basics. Try being a little more creative if you are comfortable. you 79 | P a g e . in the bedroom (all of which is fine for your first sexual experiences!). Sticking with the classics like.

It will also increase her total pleasure and make the experience longer. You don‘t have to go crazy. you should spend a whole lot more! This will help you to get comfortable with being sexually intimate with your partner. Be able to give her an orgasm. Remember that first you will give her a clitoral orgasm through digital stimulation.don't want to be talking about more advanced and wild fantasies because it will be very incongruent 3. Then move on until you can give her an orgasm through penetration by using Emotion and Authority. 5. You should notice an increase in how often you are having sex! 80 | P a g e . Increase the frequency of how often you have sex. If you can‘t give your lover any an orgasm this should be you next goal. Focus on getting your girl to so hot during foreplay that she begs you to be inside of her. Focus on giving her a clitoral orgasm from foreplay. which will help to offset any stamina issues that you might have. Focusing on foreplay is one of the fastest ways to improve your sexual skills. Try and spend just as much time on foreplay as the actual sex… but actually unless it‘s a ―quickie‖. 4. Focus on foreplay. As your sexual skills start rocking the bedroom you will be able to have more and better sex with your partner.

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It‘s being a real man. You now have an advantage few guys have actually had the balls to go out and get.After-thoughts: I‘m pumped you have chosen to get this area of your life handled and become a ROCK STAR in the bedroom. it‘s so much more than that. ISN Education.2GirlsTeachSex. Get ready to have some WILD times with women… and congratulate yourself on a job well done! To your success. This isn‘t just about giving a woman orgasms. Bobby Bradshaw www.com 2011. LLC 82 | P a g e . Sexual skills really do make the man and people can tell. living life on your own terms. and being treated with respect by all the women and men that you meet.

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