One of the many things that piqued my interest while I was studying abroad in Japan was
just how effeminate young Japanese men are. There is a phenomenon similar to it in the United
States, dubbed “metrosexuals,” but here it is at not nearly the same scale as it is in Japan. The
United States also does not have a history of arts in which cross-dressing is not only the norm,
but encouraged. For this research paper I sought to understand just how this feminizing differs
from metrosexuals, and why this new breed of men in touch with their feminine side is safe from
First, what is a metrosexual? In his article defining the trend, Marc van Bree uses two
definitions: “a dandyish narcissist in love with not only himself, but also his urban lifestyle; a
straight man who is in touch with his feminine side,” and “a young man with money to spend,
living in or within easy reach of a metropolis – because that’s where all the best shops, clubs,
gyms and hairdressers are. He might be officially gay, straight or bisexual, but this is utterly
immaterial because he has clearly taken himself as his own love object and pleasure as his sexual
preference” (van Bree p). The main part of these definitions is the concept of narcissism. In the
United States, this is not something out of the ordinary, but in the group-oriented Japan,
narcissistic individuality is an alien concept. Although the qualities are shared, something is
Japan has a history of feminized men in the arts. Both traditional theater styles of Noh
and Kabuki have been male-dominated, much like Shakespearean theater, but unlike the latter,
the Japanese forms not only had the male actors dress up like women, but they basically lived
their lives being the opposite sex and were known as onnagata (“form of women”). As Maki
Morinaga states:
“When they came into being in the seventeenth century, onnagata modeled
relationships, which had had a long tradition in the warrior class. Warrior
wakashu, at least up to the time when onnagata came into existence during the
eventually reached artistic perfection in the eighteenth century, when they were
In feudal Japan, masculinity was interlinked with the homosexual practices of the warrior class.
Yet the onnagata not only embodied masculinity, they also embodied the essence of femininity, a
phenomenon that does not have an equal in the West. The more recent phenomenon that has my
particularly interested is that of visual rock. Visual rock has its roots in the Western glam rock of
the 1980s, but unlike that genre has continued even until today. Visual rock in Japan is
characterized by feminized bands composed of all young men who dress up like women (long
hair, makeup, skirts), and play for audiences that are at least 90% female.
I have used the term “feminized,” but Laura Miller believes that what we are seeing
among young Japanese men is not feminization but rather a change in thinking that allows
beauty to become a component of masculinity. Critics of the trend disagree, stating that male
focus on beautification is a sign of the loss of male power (126). Japan is even more of a
patriarchy than in the United States, therefore this is a legitimate concern, but Miller does not
believe there is anything to worry about. This narcissism is obviously not unique to Japan, and is
in fact a direct response to how men form identity in late-capitalist societies. Consumption,
coupled with the subsequent beautification, is a way for men to self-objectify themselves in order
to make themselves attractive to the opposite sex. The feminized man is what they believe to be
What women desire, Miller claims, is the antithesis to the oyaji (“old man”) stereotype of
the 1980s. Between the 1950s and the 1970s, masculinity was defined by the west, and promoted
through such hairy stars as Sean Connery and Charles Bronson (133). These were the men that
entered the time of economic wealth, but in order to gain that wealth, they had to sell their souls
to corporate companies and they were in turn de-eroticized. The image of men in this period was
the balding, mustached man wearing a business suit, too busy at the office to be a significant
factor in his own family life. At the time it was the norm, but after the economic bubble burst,
Japanese women began rejecting this stereotype and started favoring clean-shaven men not afraid
to put pride and individuality into their looks (127). Men today not only shave their faces and
chests, but also their legs, armpits, and arms as well, all driven by the female desire for non-hairy
men (133-135).
Japanese men indulge their depilatory and other desires at esute (from the Japanese
pronunciation of “aesthetic”) salons. Esute salons offer services that address a myriad of
problems that the self-conscious young man may have, such as skin, body hair, and body weight
problems, but depilation is by far the number one service (129). These salons use advertising that
exploit the need to “feminize” as a means of attracting women, and the advertising refers to the
effect the beautification will have on said women. Each esute salon is different, some catering to
young males of high school and college age, middle-aged professional men, or even specifically
gay men. One of the biggest, Dandy House, has a mostly female staff (130), and their
commercials that I saw during my stay in Japan reflected the typical esute approach to attracting
men to “feminization.” These commercials show a scruffy older man, rock icon Keisuke Kuwata,
attempting to mimic the suave actions of a beautified younger man in order to woo a woman at a
fancy party. He fails, obviously in much need of the services Dandy House has to offer. One
commercial even shows his attempts at this new masculinity being misconstrued as gay,
Homosexuality in Japan is only slightly more accepted in Japan than it is in the United
States. In the Japanese mind, all entertainers are exempt from the same social norms as everyday
people, and this includes openly gay entertainers, but being openly gay in the normal world is
still something unheard of in the country. Homosexual entertainers tend to be of the flamboyant
variety, and shows such as Onee-Mans (a pun on the word onee-san, which means “older sister”)
fully exploit such talents. Onee-Mans is a show that consists of a panel of gay and transgendered
men who discuss fashion aimed at young women. The official website describes these panelists
as “men, yet not men, and more womanly than women.” One of the panelists, Shogo Kariyazaki,
was interviewed on what he thought about the current trend of male beauty, “There's no question
that men are changing the way they think of themselves in Japan. Even [businessmen] are
interested in beauty and looking their best -- either for their girlfriends or just for themselves. It
doesn't matter if they are straight or gay. We are simply not afraid to show our feminine sides
Not all young men in Japan are accepting of this new beauty trend. Miller interviewed
young males at universities and discovered that those who were against it used sexist rather than
homophobic thinking. They did not find the feminization wrong because it makes men seem gay,
but because it shows that the men in question have no pride in themselves and submit easily to a
women’s demands (137). This has some credence, since for many young Japanese women, the
old oyaji image is a symbol of the strong patriarchal values still present in Japan, and the
feminization of men shows the liberalization of its young people (138). In reality, the cause has
more to do with the marriage crisis in Japan than sexism. Miller states that “because of the
importance of heterosexual marriage for establishing adult male identity, young men must be
able to successfully attract wives in an era of intense marriage resistance among women” (127).
van Bree agrees claims this new metrosexuality is merely consumerism, an attempt by
companies to include men in the market for expensive clothing and beauty products (np).
Cosmetics in Japan have always been genderless, and even before this recent trend men
have preferred to go to salons for haircuts rather than barbershops (Miller 139). In fact, the entire
time I was in Japan I did not see one barbershop, and the majority of employees at hair salons
are, not surprisingly, young men. Another commercial I saw in Japan was for the company Labo
Labo, a company that markets facial cleansing products, which featured the cross-dressing
comedian Yakkun Sakurazuka. Yakkun was interviewed about his role in the commercial, and he
revealed that he uses such beauty products not only for his character of a wooden-sword-
wielding schoolgirl, but also for his clients, since he does women’s makeup for a professional
living. He claims that his makeup technique is to make the eyes look large because “women need
strong eyes.” When asked why he takes pride in caring for his face outside of his female
character, he responded, “I want to fall in love. No, that's a lie! I don't really. But definitely how
Current male fashion in Japan not only appropriates the once underground and
stigmatized gay culture, but also the Western norms of what beauty is. Ear piercing, body
piercing, and tattoos were once taboo, but are now being embraced in popular culture
(particularly the visual rock I previously mentioned). Even so, if a heterosexual man has
piercings, he is advised to wear jewelry that is “cute” or “sweet” to soften the look, otherwise he
may still be mistaken as part of the gay culture (Miller 144). Bleaching and coloring hair is the
most common form of beautification utilized by men and women alike. Many young Japanese
opt to dye their hair light brown instead of the natural dark browns and blacks that are
genetically common, and this can be construed not only as an acceptance of foreign beauty
standards, but also as another way to reject the oyaji, who are characterized by their close-
cropped black hairstyles. Tans on men are also considered masculine, since they symbolize youth
or an active outdoors life, as opposed to the unhealthy paleness of the businessmen who spend
their lives indoors. Also stemming from this hatred towards businessmen, Japanese women
express hatred for three things in men: short, bald, and chubby (146). Most popular young male
models, such as Mokomichi Hayami pictured on the right, are six feet tall or over, an extremely
uncommon height in Japan. Studies conducted at the University of Tokyo and the University of
St. Andrews in Scotland showed that women preferred men with feminine features for long-term
relationships, but preferred men with masculine features during the point in ovulation when a
Cosmetic surgery is also a very common modern practice in Japan. The face is the most
common site for men, such as the nose and the chin line, and for both sexes changing the eyelid
by adding a crease to make it appear larger is the number one surgery not only in Japan, but in
the rest of East Asia. If surgery is not pursued, then this same effect is accomplished using
makeup and a special glue to make a temporary crease in the eyelid (147). Many critics of this
new beauty trend in Japan believe that it is in fact a continued racist beauty ideology that implies
Asians are not pretty enough and they must strive to look more “Western” (149). Men, as well as
women, feel this pressure, and these new beauty norms are not a result of shifts in popular
cultural thought or changes in the understanding of masculinity and femininity, but rather
capitalist consumerism fueled by international relations that claim Western dominance over
Japan (148). Japanese men have always embraced their feminine side, but today thanks to
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