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How to spot your preschooler's h idden talen ts
Last updated: June 2009


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Your child loves to sort objects Your child talks nonstop Your child fiddles with everything Your child is a daydreamer Your child loves to solve puzzles Your kid is a take-charge type Your child can't keep still Your child's talents are still a mystery to you Some kids' gifts are on display for the world to see. Other children may have hidden talents that masquerade as chattiness, daydreaming, high energy, or even misbehavior. Below, experts on gifted children tell you how to read the clues to your child's hidden talents and offer advice on how to help her blossom.

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She pairs up socks, lines up toy cars, or groups items by color, size, or shape. She may also like things to be organized and orderly. What it may mean: Your child is probably what's known as an auditory sequential learner, meaning she is an analytical thinker, is well organized, and pays attention to details. She may be looking for patterns, often an early indicator of aptitude in math and science, says Linda Powers Leviton, an expert in gifted education. How to nurture: Explore projects and games that involve patterns and matching, such as beading or Go Fish. Find activities to encourage math skills and experiments to interest a budding scientist. Put your child in charge of sorting the silverware and organizing the cans in the cupboard. For the collector, hardware stores sell plastic containers with multiple drawers that are perfect for storing small items like shells, rocks, crystals, and whatever else your child wants to count, sort, or classify.

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Your chatty kid may have an advanced vocabulary, concoct elaborate stories, and make few grammatical or pronunciation errors, says Judy Galbraith, author of You Know Your Child Is Gifted When… She may also talk very fast and often doesn't stop until she's asleep. She wants to have the last word and may attempt to wear you down with her arguments. What it may mean: Verbal proficiency can be an early sign of a gifted kid. It's also key to success in school and many other aspects of life. Kids with the gift of persuasion may someday choose professions such as law or journalism. How to nurture: Encourage your talkative kid by asking her to dictate stories to you that you can then turn into books for the two of you to read. Interview your child and record her thoughts on tape or video. Along with promoting speaking and writing skills, teach her to be a good listener, too. Visit the library often and find books that challenge your child. She may prefer books with more words and fewer pictures than other kids her age. Listen to her musings and arguments – but set a time limit if your kid is a tireless debater. And build some quiet time into the day, for everyone's sake.

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She's compelled to explore how things work – she likes to fiddle with buttons and switches. She may pull something apart and then try to figure out how to put it back together. She enjoys building towers with blocks and is fascinated by machines. What it may mean: Your child is probably a visual-spatial learner. A child who enjoys tinkering may be a future mechanic, engineer, architect, inventor, or scientist. Or she may design anything from a better mousetrap to a state-of-the-art laptop. How to nurture: Keep your builder supplied with blocks and other construction toys so she can create, break down, and rebuild her own designs. Encourage her to build with empty cereal and tissue boxes, or whatever else she finds around the house. Visit play centers or playgrounds designed for hands-on exploration. Satisfy her urge to figure out how things work by giving her safe gizmos to play with, such as padlocks and keys or toys with lots of dials and switches. Point out mechanical objects, such as traffic lights, when you're on a stroll. Keep close watch over your child, as these are the types of kids who will reach for a power tool or try to learn about an electrical socket by sticking a knife into it.

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She may seem to be off in her own world communing with the pixies. She may enjoy pretend play, spend free time painting, and have lots of ideas to share. She may use things in new and unusual ways (such as shoveling with a shoe or storing things in it), be open to zany ideas, and think of creative ways to solve problems. What it may mean: Your little visionary may seem unfocused but probably spends her time dreaming up big ideas. This kind of behavior often indicates a strong creative streak, a telltale sign of giftedness. Everyday life may seem boring to this imaginative thinker, who may escape into fantasy and have a tough time separating what's real from what's not. Down the road, your child may pursue creative vocations like artist, actor, writer, filmmaker, or fashion or interior designer. Or she may make use of her think-outsidethe-box brain and problem-solving skills in innovative ways in the arts or sciences. How to nurture: Encourage your child's creativity, in whatever form it takes. Provide a budding artist with plenty of materials to stretch her imagination. Play music and sing songs. Experiment with science projects. Take your child to plays and concerts, listen to her fantastic tales, and provide props (and an audience) for her performances. Take advantage of free "family days" at art

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By noticing the areas where she has natural talent. so she's less likely to alienate playmates. http://www. Chances are you'll spot her special gifts over time. says Powers Leviton. Ask for her help in solving a family problem: "We're always late for swimming. Down the track she may make a good detective. you can help her be seen. and sculpting projects. For those who like to use their hands. an hour or two before it's time to sleep. but make sure she knows you're in charge when it comes to safety and other matters grown-ups need to have the say-so on. But make it clear when you're open to hearing tall tales and stories – and when you need to know the truth. These children may also enjoy exploring music through movement. What it may mean: The puzzle master may be a visual-spatial learner. see conflicts from different perspectives. bring out arge ty p e Your child has strong opinions about how things should be done. How to nurture: Whenever you can. She may gravitate toward jobs that aren't deskbound. Or maybe Grandpa notices her love of nature. or research scientist. or a mystery story. How to nurture: Make sure each day includes lots of time for physical activity.babycenter. too. calling the shots. Then follow with a bath. archeologist. You r k i d i s a tak e. A take-charge child may inspire others." riddles. What it may mean: She's likely what's known as a bodily-kinesthetic or physical learner. and most everything else. But your ultimate goal is to love her for who she is while you help her reach her full potential. Word games. let this child lead the way. And introduce her to the notion of taking turns. Can you think of anything that would help us be on time? Satisfy her need to lead. She enjoys anything where movement is the name of the game. so rotate activities to keep things fresh. Listening to relaxing music in the dark can also help your antsy child rest. like organizing the shoe rack. She likes to call the shots with games. In the future? Leadership is especially valued in business. she's less likely to use trial and error and more likely to place a piece where it belongs on or near her first attempt. and bring out the best in a team. which will serve her well in school. Or she may use her superior hand skills as a chef. and mystery stories are good. When solving jigsaws. How to nurture: Keep the puzzles coming. What it may mean: This bossy boots may be a natural-born leader. It's equally important for this busy child that you establish soothing bedtime rituals. book. and mediation. She may take to sports. and many other aspects of life. Asking for feedback from other adults in your child's life can give you fresh insights. who absorbs information and is most engaged when activities involve action and movement. politics. Movers and shakers can get easily bored. dance. Your child's preschool teacher may point out her ability at the craft beading. and bed. such as teacher or park ranger. sports.. community organizing. You r ch i ld lov es to solv e p u zzles She adores puzzles of any kind – jigsaws. heard. suggests Galbraith. Try a soothing snack. Her childcare provider may comment on her agility on the playground. and listening. stay open to teasing out her hidden talents. and don't forget shape sorters and other spatial problem-solving toys. dramatic play. Let her arrange things in her room the way she likes (within reason). She may want you to follow her on the hiking trail. She's likely to think in images and put her talents to use by taking in the whole picture. painting. a round of "I Spy.How to spot your preschooler's hidden talents | BabyCenter museums. like milk and whole-grain cereal.. riddles. 2 of 2 6/4/2011 8:41 AM . so give them the chance to sing and dance. Put her in charge of a project at home. or music and may have advanced fine-motor skills. and understood. You r ch i ld can 't k eep sti ll She likes to do everything on the go – or at least standing up. You r ch i ld's talen t s are st i ll a m y st ery to y ou If you don't see any of these signs in your child.

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