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her attorney instigated the start of this conversation - I have enlarged Ben DiMuro’s address to point out how and whom this conversation started - Ilona told me she and her family had nothing to do with the my girls because I sent them to Catholic School and raised them Catholic – and they are Jewish. Ilona would be considered their Grandmother and her husband a blood relative Jerry Heckman of Keller Heckman an international law firm. This is the type of people the Judicial System in Virginia is protecting from being held accountable for her crimes.
-----Original Message----From: Rachel <firstname.lastname@example.org> To: email@example.com Sent: Tue, Jul 7, 2009 12:14 pm Subject: Janice, The good news is that people who live like you do with paranoia, revenge and various hatreds don't live as long as otherwise normal, happy well-adjusted people do. And my name is Rachel not Robin. --- On Tue, 7/7/09, firstname.lastname@example.org <email@example.com> wrote: From: firstname.lastname@example.org <email@example.com> Subject: Re: Whatever, Janice. For the past To: firstname.lastname@example.org Date: Tuesday, July 7, 2009, 7:07 PM Robin, I appreciate your candor and honesty about how you feel. Now I hope you appreciate mine.. I don't see any reason for you to have any contact with the girls from here on out. I think from your comments that you are racist and horrid. As I said before.. I wish you the best.. God Bless.. may your life be filled with peace and happiness... I wish you no ill will.. but, you can only push someone so far... and you have pushed me to my limit. God Bless... Janice
-----Original Message----From: Rachel <email@example.com> To: firstname.lastname@example.org Cc: email@example.com; firstname.lastname@example.org Sent: Tue, Jul 7, 2009 11:32 am Subject: Whatever, Janice. For the past several years whenever I called the girls on their birthdays--both Abbi's and Madd'ys, which I always did by the way, your phone mailbox was "full" meaning I could never leave them messages. How convenient of you to make stupid allegations when I know the facts to be otherwise. I said nothing about the girls, just your parenting style, which sad to say, is negligent or they would know their entire family. Your constant harrassment of their father over the years has made it impossible for them to have any sort of lasting or solid relationship with either him or us. That was entirely your doing, not mine. No one can assign away their inheritance rights that just shows how ignorant you are on the law. David knew he would get nothing so he was being practical. The person who has the power to bequeath inheritances has the authority to do that, which is why my grandmother did not bypass David leaving the girls anything with you as trustee for them. Also, she did not trust you. And yes, I have every single card my grandmother ever sent me on my birthday and the signatures do not match with the one on the contract and I don't give a flying fuck what you say about it to the contrary. She knew how important it was for us to have what they wanted us to have which was what they worked their entire lives to provide. They did not intend to leave anything for Ilona which is the sole matter that I addressed with Ilona recently. Frankly, none of that would be any of your damn business as you are not one of my legatees and thanks to your attitudes towards all of us, neither are your children. Yes, go ahead and show Abbi what I wrote. That would be in keeping with your psychotic attempts to alienate all of us from the girls. I stand by what I said. Your daughters went to private Catholic schools. They are historically not known for their tolerance of others. The facts bear me out on that statement. My Catholic friends call the Pope a "wanker" and with good reason. He was in the Hitler Youth. Madeline recently wrote how happy she was that a country singer showed up at her high school calling it the "most important event" in her life which is sad. Important things in life should be marriages, graduations from colleges and later, having families of their own. The values you instilled in both the girls are not values their grandparents or great-grandparents would appreciate. I did not call Abbi or Maddy racists, I called you one. You sure as hell raised them to have no contacts with people from any other place in the world except white Anglo-saxons which is sad. R --- On Tue, 7/7/09, email@example.com <firstname.lastname@example.org> wrote: From: email@example.com <firstname.lastname@example.org> Subject: Re: Per usual, Janice To: email@example.com Cc: firstname.lastname@example.org, email@example.com
Date: Tuesday, July 7, 2009, 2:51 PM Robin, I will once again address all the issues. I am curious... are you in contact with Ilona? I have emailed you in the past all the documents I have in writing to prove what I am saying. I am not sure why you feel such a need to attack me the way you have. I am more then happy to sit down with Andrea or anyone else you feel comfortable and show them all the paper work I have and the proof I am telling the truth. Your first paragraph goes again into he signature of your grandmother. I pulled the contract and a check she had signed and written. The signatures and the date numbers and the numbers on the check the way she wrote them matches.. perfectly. There is also a letter from Jim Arthur that was sent to your Grandmother that Ilona and David had approached him and thought it time to sell the Real Estate. which is dated August 24, 1987. Second paragraph the $ 63,000. is the amount that Jim Arthur and Ilona decided David would pay back to your Grandmother's Trust. That number was brought down to $ 33,000. after the commission was assigned back. There was a $ 33,000. Note then between David and your Grandmothers Trust, Ilona later negotiated that away with Jim Korman in return he gave up any claims against your Grandmothers Trust / Estate. The true number of the funds that were mismanaged is around $ 95,000. or more. The Providence account was at least $ 73,000.. Third paragraph I never said Ilona signed anything between Helen and David.. She negotiated the deal. Then in regard to Ilona being Trustee.. If you read the letters right after your Dad died.. My understanding was the The addendum that was done to the Trustee Agreement was done wrong. Ilona & David according to the letters were then made agents. There are notes in David's hand writing from his conversation with Ilona about this. As far as David signing over his inheritance rights it was done in May of 1994 .Actually David signed it July 18, 1994. The end of the paragraph you talk about a note between David and Ilona.. I am not sure what that pertains to. Jerry is or was back then when some of the money went into MAP a 50% partner in the ownership of Monroe Ave. That last paragraph.. Again you want to point the finger at me for the relationship you have with the girls.. Go right ahead.. I have never said no to ya'll to seeing the girls. And after reading what you have said. I think things worked out for the best... that there time with you worked out the way God thought best.. You are an adult and the things you said about my children are horrid. I don't want someone around them that feels that way about them. You also have some nerve accusing me of child abuse. What you want to say about me.. go right ahead.. Do not ever say another word about my family. I am tempted to show that paragraph to the girls so they know Robin exactly how you feel about them, me,and my family. Again.. I wish you the Best.. Thank you for your feed back.. I hope I have put to rest questions about the different issues you have with what happened. Again I am more then happy to sit down with anyone who would like to look at the documents you have all the documents I am
talking about. God Bless you Robin..
-----Original Message----From: firstname.lastname@example.org To: email@example.com Cc: firstname.lastname@example.org; email@example.com Sent: Tue, Jul 7, 2009 12:58 am Subject: Per usual, Janice your memory is not correct on anything. My grandmother never signed any contract or gave anyone permission to sell any of her land. For a long time, I kept a card you had sent her in your own handwriting enclosing pics of the girls for her along with every single scrap of paper she ever received from Jim and David. This is why the FBI and IRS were able to make such a strong case against Jim. We discussed David as well, but the "big fish" as the agents had said, was Jim. We compared the two signatures, the card from you and the contract, and they were identical. That is why David had to sign over the 10% commission which you, as a family member at the time, had no business taking in the first place. Since your memory is so decrepit, you both had a hand in selling a piece of her land on Collingsworth Road not far from the Holland Road property. My grandmother could not stop that transaction in time and the "commission" was taken regardless of her wishes or her knowledge. The separate amount which we figured David had taken and which Ilona denies knowing anything about came to approximately $63,000.00. This was the cash taken from my grandmother's bank accounts, and yes, I know which accounts my grandmother had. The amount left in a note that David signed was for the $33,000.00. I think he made a few payments then stopped. When my grandmother died I could have pursued the amount David didn't pay, but choose not to as we had all suffered enough. Ilona cannot be telling the truth but that is in keeing with her long tradition of obfuscation and bullshit. There is a reason my entire family hates her, and that includes my father's closest relative, which is not as Ilona claims, Jerry. Ilona had absolutely nothing to do with David signing over any inheritance rights. That was my grandmother's position. She never heard from David or Brian, so even if David had not stolen a cent from her he would have been disinherited. Ilona was never a signatory to any of the documentation between Helen and David. It did not concern her at all. She may have forced David's hand because she had much to lose and answer for, but she did not actually steal the money, David did. Ilona acted as the agent and was in charge of GIC where the money was alleged by you to have been deposited by David. She did maintain control over GIC funds. It is a shame none of Ilona's attorneys ever studied joint and several liability in law school. She had liability in that respect. You are incorrect on that matter, as well. She resigned as trustee because my grandmother determined that she could not be trusted after my father died and she saw how she was being treated by her. And yes, I knew
about the note between Ilona and David. I have no idea why you included Jerry in your emails. He is not involved in any of this matter but since ethics is not your forte I doubt you noticed. As for the girls, you made it impossible for us to ever see them. Even when I lived a few blocks away, the only time I ever saw them was when I caught them between school, after-school activities or went to Abbi's soccer games or when David had them for awhile. Andrew does not ever see his cousins which is also shame. You raised them to be snobs with bone-headed values which is also a shame. The girls do not ever meet or associate with Jews which is also your doing. I doubt Abbi ever would meet one at Ole Miss. I know you sent Abbi to a summer daycamp and then complained that minorities went there. Instilling racism into your children is actually a form of child abuse. I got that from Abbi herself and witnessed the daycamp saga first-hand. Andrea and Brian rarely get to see the girls and that is also your doing. All I can do is pray that someday they get to know the better side of their family tree. Your own family is hardly what one would deem suitable role models. R --- On Mon, 7/6/09, firstname.lastname@example.org <email@example.com> wrote: From: firstname.lastname@example.org <email@example.com> Subject: Re: Regarding your missive of July 3 To: firstname.lastname@example.org,
Date: Monday, July 6, 2009, 6:25 PM Rachel, First of all no one that I know forged your grandmother's signature. My memory of it was that it was sent down there for her signature and she sent it back. Second the commission Ilona negotiated back in the settlement to payback the portion of the $ 63,000.00 that was the number that was used to say that was mismanaged between Ilona & David as agents of the Trust. Then the remainder of the $ 33,000.00 was put in a note (for $33,000.) and then Ilona negotiated the Note away with David losing any kind of inheirtance from the estate. There was also a Note which you may or may not have known about which Ilona insisted on between David Grenadier and Wolk & Associates to reimburse the $ 30,000. plus interest. Thai is what I have asked Ilona to produce which she has chosen not to. Under Legal Ethics Rule 1.16 (d) & (e) But, I am sure you know that. Third I have talked to a lawyer.
Fourth There is no way to settle this privately or it would have already been done. From your letter I understand you and your siblings feel being a party to this is not the way you want to go. That is fine. Fifth you have some f.. nerve judging me as a single parent and how hard it has been. What have you are any of your family ever done for Abigail and Madeline. As you included Ilona's attorney which is basically telling him as well as me that you choose not to be a part of a settlement. I wish all of you the Best.. I in no way was trying to insult you or your family I only hope for all of you to be Happy and have healthy lives with much fun & laughter in them. I honestly thought I was helping you. I apologize to you from my heart. and wish you all the best.. God Bless... Janice Wolk Grenadier 703-623-9655
-----Original Message----From: Rachel <email@example.com> To: firstname.lastname@example.org; email@example.com; firstname.lastname@example.org; klg3g@comca st.net Sent: Mon, Jul 6, 2009 10:44 am Subject: Regarding your missive of July 3 Janice, I am in receipt of your letters to the above-named parties. First of all, the $30,000.00 that you allege Ilona or David somehow owes you or anyone else is incorrect. As you seem to have forgotten, this was the "commission" which was given back to my grandmother when it was found out that either you or David or both of you had forged her name to a Sales Contract for $300,000.00 and which was discovered thankfully, in time, by me and referred to Helen for disposition. Should it be necessary in the future I would swear an affidavit to that effect. As you seem to also have forgotten, I was my grandmother's co-trustee with Helen after Jim Arthur was relieved of his fiduciary duties. I was also her sole administrator at her death. She did not trust Ilona and that was one of the things she was able to correct before she died. No one owes you anything at all. Not that it is any of your concern, but that money was used for my grandmother's care in her last few years. Secondly, you really ought to hire the services of a lawyer. That way, you would have already found out that the U.S. Department of Justice--where I worked for 20 years--has no jurisdiction over the Virginia State Bar. That was just plain stupid to say. Also, it would be in your best interest to cease making such slanderous and libelous remarks as you will not gain anything from pursuing any matter that includes Karen, Andrea, or I, or even Brian when we have not given you permission or written authorization to do so. Furthermore, Brian has a highly-regarded position in the legal community and by making such outrageous comments and even attempting
to spread them in the press will land you on the ugly side of a courtroom and would jeopardize his standing and that is something which we will not tolerate or permit. Your "settlement" idea is ridiculous on its face as Brian is not of one my late grandmother's beneficiaries of her estate, also, for reasons which do not concern you. Finally, you are always reminding everyone of how hard it was for you to raise Abbi and Madeline by yourself and making yourself out to be some kind of martyr. As everyone knows, only Karen has had the misfortune to raise a child by herself without any financial assistence which you seem to have access to with your own family and she has done extremely well. Imagine your own children's embarrassment at having to read about their father in any public forum you have threatened him with. If you really cared for your own children you would attempt to resolve this matter privately. Clearly, this shows you are more concerned with getting your pound of flesh than being considerate of your children's standing. It is time you moved on and quit harrassing David and insulting my family. Rachel
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