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Spring 2012


Lifes more fun with your clothes off .

LifeStyle Magazine

Spring 2012

Couples Questions By LifeStyle Counselor ............................................ 2 Single Gentlemen........................................... 5 Swing into Tantra........................................... 6
By Valerie Spice ..................................................... 8

Clothing Optional Cruises ........................... 16 ISD History .................................................... 17 Swing Etiquette

Discretion & Getting too Personal By Just Ask Julie .................................................. 18

The Dipstick of Mens Health

The History of Swinging .............................. 10 Healthy Swinging By Dr. Mike ........................................................ 12 Letters From Our Readers............................ 13

LifeStyle Club Listings.................................. 20 LifeStyle Club Review .................................. 25 Events & Conventions.................................. 26 LifeStyle News.............................................. 28 Lifes more fun with your clothes off.

By Joe Giantonio ................................................. 14

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Dear LifeStyle Counselor, My name is Jennifer (thats not my real name) I picked up this magazine at a local swinger club and love it. I decided to write in and ask some questions, since I can not seem to find answers anywhere. My question is very unique, see I am single and I am looking for a husband in the lifestyle, would I have a good chance of meeting someone interested in the same things I am? Signed Seeking Husband Dear Seeking Husband, Your question is not far fetched, I was on a popular blog the other day and I saw a post where a couple met on a swinger website and actually got married. I have heard of people getting together at swing clubs, so it is possible. There are some things you need to respect though, as a single woman, dont go for married men. You need to use your best judgment here. Keep in mind there are single men in the lifestyle looking for a potential partner to settle down with and participate in the lifestyle just like them. I also read online where a couple met at a local swinger club, hit it off and got married as well, last I checked they have been together a few years.

Dear LifeStyle Counselor, I am a single male and I love the lifestyle, I use to be part of a couple until she left. She started cheating on me with everyone and kept it from me. People said that she didnt cheat because we are in the lifestyle, could you shed some light on the subject? Signed Cheated On Dear Cheated On, I am sorry to hear about your situation, but it appears your non swinging friends are the ones saying this, am I correct? You see, the Lifestyle is about doing things together as a couple, setting rules and boundaries. If your significant other is sleeping with someone behind your back it is called cheating. Remember the lifestyle is about trust, communication and honesty, follow these simple rules and the lifestyle can be fun. If you have a spouse or partner doing things behind your back, its called cheating. Dear LifeStyle Counselor, I have been to several swinger clubs and participated in gang bangs. I have a concern, which is, I orgasm fairly quickly during masturbation and oral sex. My hang up is that I have never been able to climax during penetration, is this normal? Is this a physical or mental thing? Signed Orgasm Lady Dear Orgasm Lady, You are not alone so dont think anything of it. I have researched that 70% of women who orgasm certain ways have difficulties achieving orgasm another way. What it boils down to is that women need the right type of stimulation of her clitoral region in order to achieve a full orgasm. It can be a mental thing as well. Some women only achieve orgasm through anal sex. Your husband may be using the right type of pressure and stimulation you need during oral sex that his penis can not give you during penetrative sex. Some women also only climax through g-spot stimulation. I would recommend your husband use his hand to stimulate your clitoral region during sex, or you can do this yourself. Many women massage their clitoris during penetrative sex, and it helps them climax.

Dear LifeStyle Counselor, I am new to the lifestyle and my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. She has been in the Lifestyle for nearly 7 years so she has a lot more experience than I do. I am upset because she has done things with other guys that she says she is not interested in doing with me, but wants me to continue to cater to her needs in the Lifestyle, please help as I am confused on what to do. Signed confused New Swinger Guy Dear Confused New Swinger Guy, You need to think hard about how much of a deal this is to you, and as of right now, its clear that you are leaning towards Yeah, its an issue. If you cant decide for 100% certain that it doesnt matter to you at all, then there are problems. Remember the past is the past and youre with her now and into the near future so focus on that. Yes it may be scary to you to think about so dont. Ask yourself, if you should you be trying to change her, when you knew going in to this relationship what she had done? I would take it with a grain of salt, and enjoy that she could be your teacher and show you the ropes. If this is a major issue with you, then Ill bet that there are problems later on. Id consider ending it before it got to serious (soon!) if you are uneasy about her past. I am not one for breaking people up, but you need to resolve this or end it.


Dear LifeStyle Counselor, My husband and I are going to brave it and go to a swinger club, it has been a curious fantasy of ours, so our question is: Exactly what do people usually put on for the club? Signed What To Wear At A Swinger Club

Dear What To Wear, Great question and here is a simple answer, At off-premise events such as dances, its common for people to dress up or wear fairly sexy clothing. Dress at on-premise events tends to be a bit more casual, since nudity is a common outcome of the evening for many. As always, you should dress to impress. Its better to dress up than down. Make sure to check with your local club, as they usually provide towels and robes. If not, Its a good idea to bring a robe or kimono so you dont have to put all your clothes back on after getting undressed. Its also good to avoid small or expensive jewelry that might get lost. If its a theme party, then try to follow the theme.


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G-spot stimulation works best when you do it by hand since it allows for more subtle manipulation. But that means less fun for you. To get at her G-spot during intercourse, enter her doggy-style from the rear. Its the best angle for hitting the G-spot. Keep your hands on her hips and pull her towards you each time you thrust.

A dry penis is a sensitive one; it likes gentle stroking, but sliding your hand up and down the shaft when it isnt lubricated can feel uncomfortable to him. Saliva is better than nothing, but come prepared with a tube of personal lubricant and dont feel embarrassed about squeezing some into your palm -- hell be grateful!

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LifeStyle magazine has received several letters asking why single men can not attend many swinger parties and why some clubs do not let them attend on certain days. This article on single men will help couples and single men enjoy themselves and each other. Some couples, believe it or not, are looking for a third gentleman to do a threesome with. First of all just by saying you have a huge penis does not give automatic access, period. When you are in a club you need to be polite. The same applies online when meeting people on swinger sites. Single males need to realize that just because you are on a swinger site or in a swinger club does not guarantee you sex. This is a long discussion and the lifestyle is a variety of ideas to a variety of people wanting different encounters. The things they share can be adoration for the erotic experience and also the quest for sexual enjoyment. You will find three significant types of swingers: couples, single females and single males. Couples are definitely the reason for the lifestyle. Single females are comparatively rare, these are called Unicorns which we went over in the last issue. Once they do get involved, it is often because theyre bisexual and the lifestyle affords them comfortable access to both men and women. In addition, single guys are abundant. A consistent new availability of horny men assures that its going to stay that way. So what does it require for a single guy adopting the lifestyle to achieve its purpose? People from the lifestyle meet a number of ways. Typically the most popular locations are through swinger clubs, private parties and swinger websites. For any driven single guy, clubs and websites are definitely the main vehicles because it is pretty hard for any newcomer to get invited to a private party. everyone to perform for you. This attitude will get you called a towel shark and you will not have any luck.

3. Be genuine, be natural and socialize.

Ask a lady to dance, or better yet, ask her husband because if he doesnt like you, you probably are not going anywhere. Communicate with the husband and become friendly with him too. Keep in mind that couples in the lifestyle are there because of their own enjoyment, not yours. Some have an interest only in couples, some only in females, some in nothing they just like the environment. Some have an interest in having fun with single men. Many couples are trying to find one or more men to participate with them.

4. Become familiar with the lifestyle, the expectations and also the facts. Remember that people at a swing club are there for the same reason you happen to be. Most swingers arent out there cheating on their spouse. Theyre open about what they actually do, resulting in whatever they love to do. Dont search for a party to just fall in love, or think youll sweep a woman off her feet and away from her husband. Arrive and have fun making some new friends. To achieve success, youll need to be the favorable guy which has been seen with some other couples, not the strange guy thats running from table to table attempting to score. Almost all couples possess a list of rules that they play with, plus they vary little from those rules. Do not attempt to alter them. Youll fail. 5. Certainly be a gentleman in addition to a classy guy. Just
because a woman likes sex does not imply she likes vulgar language or innuendos. Politeness and social skills tend to be more essential in this lifestyle than just about any place else.

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Swing clubs are Membership Only but are managed a little differently. In the lifestyle privacy is definitely the first priority, so clubs usually forgo formal background checks. Nevertheless, as soon as youre accepted, your personality is under constant review. In the event you behave poorly or become disruptive, your membership rights are going to be revoked and you will also be permanently prohibited from going to the club.

Below is a Single Gentlemens guide for successful swinging.

so try to become familiar with one another. In the event you insult or offend one couple, the news will begin to spread to others. Additionally, when you are pleasant and the couple really likes your company sexual or in any manner the couple will be open to introduce you to their friends. Naturally, swingers love to introduce individuals with unique sexual characteristics to their friends. Try not to walk around saying that you have a 12-inch penis, even if you do, everyone already knows it.

6. Dress nicely, like youre heading for a date. Since you are going on a date, take special care in your personal hygiene. Prior to going out, spend more time brushing and flossing your teeth, showering and shaving, styling your hair and dabbing on your best cologne but not too much. I recommend you take time to trim the goatee if you have one. 7. Dont think that because you talk or dance with
somebody that they wish to have sex with you. Do not get too aggressive unless you have the clear message that its OK. When (in case) you receive that message, go along with it, just dont go overboard. You may even ask again Is this okay?

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1. In swinger clubs, the exact same members visit repeatedly,

8. Leave the pickup lines at home with the tank tops. Women in the lifestyle are adults and are not into headgames. They have already heard every line in the book. 9. Again, when it comes to couples, introduce yourself to
both wife and husband. Dont approach a woman when her husband just isnt present. Bear in mind that Towel Shark fellow? Once the husband returns (and hubby will), he definitely wont be very happy to see you.

2. Youll have

more fun at parties if you leave your macho attitude at the door. Dont be the guy expecting

10. Dont insult a members intelligence using the statement, My wife wanted me to come here first on my own to test it out, so Ill be back with her the next time. What about you and I play now? Every swinger has heard that line repeatedly. You might as well say hey my wifes at church and I am cheating on her.
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Swing into Tantra: Expand your Sexual Repertoire with Tantra and the Kama Sutra
Bliss State #2 Secrets of the Oral Arts (for Couples)
Now that youve started down a new road of Bliss, armed with an array of new sensory delights guaranteed to make foreplay a sensual and sexy ritual all on its own. Lets get up close and personal with some advanced oral instruction in Fellatio and Cunnilingus where youll be amazed to discover how much there still is to learn when you simply mind your mouth. This workshop isnt for newbies. In this special live demonstration session, you will learn oral sexercise techniques, 5 advanced hand techniques, 10 advanced oral techniques, including deep throating and how to avoid gagging. Do you know what rocket boosters are? Blissful Lotus will teach you how to send each other into erotic overdrive, and finally theres The Oral Chain of Love for a threesome, foursome or moresome. If youre an orally minded individual then this workshop is a chance to enjoy some hands (and mouth) on adult fun. Notes: Sexual stimulation and arousal between consenting adults will occur during the seminar.

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Are you ready to expand your sexual repertoire and take your sexual skills to the next level? Even the most experienced of Swingers can learn a new thing or two. From foreplay to becoming a multiple-orgasmic lover, Tantric practices can help inspire your sex life to a new state of bliss. So youre wondering What is Tantra Anyway? In the 21st century, much of Western society views Tantra as a practice of using ones sexual and sensual energy to attain liberation; liberation from limited, self-defeating thoughts of ourselves, our relationships and how we view life. This liberation allows you to embrace all the pleasures of life from a place of peace and wholeness vs. ego, guilt, conflict and denial. These feelings usually rear their ugly head as jealousy and insecurity in relationships. Tantric practice teaches you to let these self-defeating feelings go and to embrace an ecstatic life of joy. Breath and the chakra points in the body are at the heart of all tantric practices. These points of energy located up the spine are where the tantric energies flow and find meaning and manifestation. These points, starting at the base of the spine are: Root, Sex, Solar Plexis, Heart, Throat, Third Eye and Crown. Each point has a specific energy focus with which one can direct their intentions and manifest change with not only the things in their lives but with their whole way of living. One may spend a lifetime mastering a tantric practice and their work with chakras, but the first step is simply deciding you wish to learn more. Once you reach that point then you can begin down the road of discovering your sensual and authentic self from a whole new perspective.

At the 2012 International Swingers Day Convention in Caliente Caribe, you will have the chance to discover the Tantric belief of no goal lovemaking, because in the Tantric realm its about the journey not the destination. Your Tantric tour guides will be the Blissful Lotus School of Loving Arts, lead by Sex Coach Stacey Murphy and her husband Sean Ramsay, as they take couples through an arousing and educational journey of sexual delight. During the couples retreat, you will have the opportunity to learn The Five States of Bliss that will get you one step closer to being the sexual virtuoso youve always wanted to be. By including any of these key Tantric-inspired ingredients in your sex game, your erotic state of bliss will be only moments away.

On the final stop of the tour, the workshop is based on the ancient Eastern erotic teachings that any man and woman can learn to become multi-orgasmic. It just takes a basic understanding of sexuality and some mental, emotional and physical techniques. A man becomes multi-orgasmic when he learns to separate orgasm from ejaculation; and a woman can become multi-orgasmic when she allows her body to follow her thoughts and emotions. Participants will learn about their orgasmic scale to better recognize where you and your partner are in their Bliss State. Learning to be multi-orgasmic will take your sexual adventures to new heights and allow you to have a more fulfilling lovemaking experience with your partner. We will practice various sexercises to help you better identify key love muscle groups leading to a pinnacle State of Bliss. Notes: Sexual stimulation and arousal between consenting adults will occur during the seminar. Blissful Lotus School of Loving Arts based in Orlando, FL is a premiere educational resource providing women & couples with an environment to explore their sensual and erotic needs in a safe & empowering manner. The owners of Blissful Lotus, the husband and wife team of Stacey Murphy & Sean Ramsay, are both Level 2 Initiates in the Ipsalu Tantra Kriya Yoga Tradition (Pink Tantra). Stacey is a Certified Master Sexpert and Erotic Educator. Since 2008, Stacey has produced intimacy workshops teaching women how to reclaim their sexual joy and empower the Sensual Diva within; she is the Educational Director for the School of Loving Arts and has a private Intimacy & Sex Coaching practice for individuals, couples and adventurous adults who want to venture into alternative relationship dynamics such as Polyamory and BDSM. They can be reached at,; 407-446-4170 or by email,
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Bliss State #3 Kama Sutra Sex Positions & Other Tempting Treats

Do you still remember foreplay? Or, have you allowed that part of your sexual expression to fall by the wayside? Getting right to business for some hot sex with your special someone and your other someone has become the focus of the day, but theres so much more. Nows your chance to take a step back, to reclaim the initial erotic spark of excitement that is foreplay, but do it the Tantric way. Experience a sensual journey of sight, sound, taste, touch and smell as you learn how to seduce your partner(s) and make love to their senses in order to create a foreplay experience of pure bliss and tactile intensity. Blissful Lotus will guide you through a Tantric journey of erotic play as you explore your lovers body, pleasure map and much more. Join us if you desire to be the best lover you can be as you embark on the first leg of your journey.

Bliss State #1 Tantra Sensory Foreplay:

The next stop on this tour of sexual Bliss takes us East where the Kama Sutra first originated. The Science of Pleasure is an ancient Indian sex manual of sexual practices, including embracing, kissing & even biting. During this bliss state, Blissful Lotus will lead couples through 10 Kama Sutra sex positions. Many of these positions are designed to reach a variety of pleasure spots for maximum male and female genital stimulation. All of this is sure to elevate your lovemaking to an art form of erotic delight.

Bliss State #4 Tantra 28 Days to Ecstasy

Youre well on your way to becoming a sexual virtuoso so now its time to truly embrace a new found ecstatic joy and state of bliss beyond mere orgasmic pleasures. In the 28 Days program you will take the tantric energies to the next level and make a practice of them by incorporating sensuality into your everyday lives. Daily exercises and weekly Love Rituals will help you discover new depths of intimacy in your relationships. Learn how to extend your love making sessions by controlling and directing your sexual energy. Plus learn the concept of no goal lovemaking and the benefits which accompany such a practice. This is for couples who want to commit themselves to a new way of sharing with each other on a deeper intimate level.

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The History of Swinging

was lost. The Earth shifted and started to split into different continents known as The Drift. About 60 million years ago, a comet collided with Earth near the Yucatan peninsula, resulting in in a cool down of Earth. Some humanoids retreated underground while others did not. Both groups remained very sexual and peaceful in their ways. As time went by, the inhabitants forgot about their connection to divinity. luxury. At the time, it was the city of cities, rich and incalculable, a feast of the arts, sciences and technology. Legends say it was not uncommon for locals to participate in orgies, reminiscent of Rome. Practicing safe sex was rumored to have initiated anal sex in virgins in order to control ejaculation. Atlanteans supposedly used crystals as a source of stored energy, records of knowledge similar to a computer. These crystals aided in flight, telekinesis and used for some strange energy during sex and orgies. Atlantis suffered a fate brought on by their own technology and sunk in a single day. for sex. These orgies are not often spoke of, but the aphrodisiacs they took have gained worldwide recognition today. Before the orgies, they would soak blue lotus of the Nile flower in wine. The blue lotus contains alkaloids, that when soaked with alcohol, will make a person horny, and very communicative. These heighten sex as well as touch.

Every myth has some truth, so does every legend. Swinging has been going on since the dawn of time. The Universe was created 20 billion years ago and seeded many planets, below is a timeline of Earths past based on legends and fact.

People fear the Unknown 1601 - 1700

Land Of Pan (Pangaea) 100,000,000 B.C.

Legends foretold creatures such as the Pegasus, Centaurs and other mystical creatures that wandered the Earth. The Land Of Pan was the Garden Of Eden discussed in present day religious teachings. This was paradise. Humanoids resided in peace, were extremely sexually active with everyone around them and lived cooperatively. These were considered the first swingers. The first swingers did nothing wrong in the eyes of the creator Tetragrammaton. The creator taught tolerance that there is nothing wrong with sex, just do not hurt others. Through the years this concept

Lemuria 200,000 B.C.

Roman Empire 27 B.C. - 1453 A.D.

Lemuria, or The Land Of Mu, first started during this period after a Grand Cycle of 25,920 had been completed. These people were peaceful, extremely sexual, and enjoyed multiple orgies. The inhabitants were not technically oriented, but were tribal in nature, enjoying music, rhythm and living in large cities near the coasts. Sex and sharing partners was a normal part of their daily life. Bisexuality was not looked down upon, it was welcomed. The Land of Mu ended when a comets tail brushed the Earth, causing a dramatic cooling, which dropped by 50 degrees. The land mass sunk due to EM storms and people retreated to The Americas, and high altitudes.

Sumerian Rise 8500 B.C. - 4500 B.C.

After a great flood that succumbed the Earth, The Sumerian empire began. During this time, men and women would dwell together, it was not uncommon for the man and wife to go to a friends place for mutual yet casual sex. Ancient Sumerians statues depict multiple sex acts. They had temples in which they would partake in orgies, some with people they did not know. During this time some people would buy slaves, just for the purpose to have sex with them. Weather change, along with invaders led to the demise of this ancient civilization.

Its no secret that the Romans had orgies. The misconception is that they were the ones who started them. The Roman empire lasted the longest, despite their orgies, they were a militaristic civilization. After the empire collapsed, sex with multiple partners would lie dormant for hundreds of years.

Between these time periods, people that embraced nature, life; much like the hippies of the 60s were labeled as occultists and alchemists. People that participated in this lifestyle, also participated in spouse trading. Once again these people praised divinity, and the creator Tetragrammaton. Even though some of the people practicing this were Christian and attended church, they were labeled witches, because they were different.

Orgies And Swinging 1701 - 1800

First Documented Swinging arrangement - April 22, 1587

Atlantis 18,086 B.C. - 9000 B.C.

Atlantis was a city like any other in that it lay situated above the sea, but unlike any other in its splendor and

Ancient Egypt 3150 B.C. - 27 B.C.

Ancient Egyptians took part in huge orgies and often used drugs to heighten their sexual desires. During this time, there were many slaves, again some used

Up until the 16th century, church and state would frown upon sex, made it a sin, and forbid people from doing it until married and especially forbid adultery. On April 22 1587 John Dee, and his wife Jane, signed an agreement with Edward and Joanna Kelley to share spouses. This agreement would state that conjugal relations would be shared between their spouses. They partook in sances and spell casting. These rituals, were to honor Divinity, and the creator Tetragrammaton. By honoring the creator, people that did not understand this called this witchcraft. Religions are scared of this and people that embrace sexuality, embrace life.

Some such occultists held an annual orgy, when members exchanged spouses for a ceremony called Extinguishing the Lights. Once a year during the annual holiday the candles are put out in the course of a dinner and the ceremony of the exchange of wives took place. They had sexualreligious rituals, ranging from swinging to orgies. The occultists derived the initiation from sea captains sailing for Swedish trading companies. Apparently they set up a liaison with oriental Tantrists. This is a similar manner as in the 20th century Air Force pilots were involved in introducing swinging to the United States. (Ibid.)

Swinging in the U.S started in the Air Force during World War II. The pilots moved their wives closer to the base. Since the fatality rate of a pilot was high the social circle changed where non monogamy of other pilots was highly accepted. As in the movie Pearl Harbor, when one pilot is assumed dead, the wife moves on with his friend. These accepted swinging arrangements continued throughout bases during World War II and even up into the Korean War as well. During the later half of the 21st century, the internet started to connect more people open to swinging and continues to grow every year. As new age religions start appearing online, people are starting to remember their link to divinity and Tetragrammaton. Swinging may be looked down upon in society, but in the near future it will be accepted like it was in Earths past.

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away you will notice that everyone is friendly and talkative and people come right up to you and make their introduction. This is something that we noticed never happens on a vanilla cruise. As soon as everyone is settled and the ship is underway everyone goes to the bars, lounges, pool decks, and snack bars to start socializing and eyeing up their perspective playmates. With that being said wed like to note that there are all types of Lifestyle people on these cruises. Swingers, nudists, voyeurs, S&M and B&D, & fetishes of all kinds attend these events. There will also be all ages there as well; from Mid 20s to Mid 60s. Weve found these cruises to have the most diverse selection of people over any other event weve attended. There are parties and adult games that are organized by the pool decks each day. Many folks are naked or topless dancing to the DJs selection of heart thumping music. There are seminars about various aspects of the lifestyle, like Tantric sexual practices, various fetishes, medical concerns, social and psychological concerns, along with marriage and partnership workshops. All of these are included in the price of the cruise. Of course, besides the obvious difference of allowing people to run around naked on a major cruise ship, there is the unique ability on these charters for a couple to attend the thousands of square feet of play space on the ship. This is set up so that you can go to the play deck and see various themed rooms such as the tantric room, where people practice what they learned in the Trantra seminar; or the multi racial room where you can experiment with playmates of a different racial background or the whip cream and honey room or a private room with just your spouse or maybe one other couple or even the big orgy room where it is just a pile of flesh. The fun factor is off the chart and it is all done in 5 star luxury and at a price point that can fit anyones budget. Cabins start as low as $790 per person plus port taxes. If you are thinking of a lifestyle vacation with your spouse you will not be disappointed by choosing to go on one of these cruises.

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Cruising in general has outstripped every other recreational travel genre in growth by double digit figures over the last 7 years. Even in the midst of an economic downturn, the cruise industry is growing and is outpacing all other recreational travel. 15 million people cruised the Caribbean last year and more than 11 million were Americans. In 2010 & 11 there were 12 new ships that sailed the worlds waters for the first time, with guest capacities ranging from 1,000 to 6000+ passengers on what is now the largest ship in the world, the Royal Caribbean Allure of the Seas Todays ships offer a new generation of onboard features and a world of innovation, including surf pools, Planetariums, on-deck LED movie screens, golf simulators, water parks, demonstration kitchens, self-leveling billiard tables, multi-room villas with private pools and in-suite Jacuzzis, ice-skating rinks, rock-climbing walls, & bungee-trampolines. They have featurerich innovative facilities, amenities and services that exceed the expectations of a growing population of travelers.

In the last two years there have been numerous full ship chartered Lifestyle takeovers. We were ecstatic that the company producing these events was using Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines. They have been on Radiance Class ships with a passenger count of about 2,100 people. The next one to sail is on Freedom class ship with close to 4,000 passengers. It will be sailing November of this year. However, when we tried to book our cabin last October we were shocked to find out it had been sold already. There are generally 2 lifestyle cruises per year and these ships sell out a year or more in advance but we just found out there is a third one on the RCCL Jewel of the Seas for 2013. It was recently added for the first week of February, just in time for residents of the northern states to get away from the cold and enjoy some fun in the Caribbean sun. This is the only ship that has a selection of cabins (other than interiors) until the Freedom sails again at the end of next year. These cruises are in such high demand, the pricing structure is designed to reward people for booking early. The best price is when the ship goes on sale. As the cabins sell, the price goes up and there is also a price guarantee that states the price will never be discounted below what a previous cabin sold for. So there are never last minute discounts offered right before sailing. We have been informed that cabins can sell for double their retail price if it is within a few months of departure.

For the first time in history, International Swingers Day (ISD) will feature a huge lifestyle convention that will cater to industry leaders, stakeholders and swingers from all walks of life at Caliente Caribe, August 8 12, 2012, in the Dominican Republic. That is, five days of sexy fun and debauchery in the beautiful Caribbean, while advancing the needs and interests of the lifestyle industry. Founded in 2003, International Swingers Day was originally started as a grassroots celebration among local swingers to honor the lifestyle. In 2004, ISD was featured in LifeStyle Magazine, the industrys only periodical. Since then, it has grown and evolved into an international swingers holiday composed of numerous parties and a multi-day convention for industry leaders, stakeholders and the swinger community. ISD is the longest recognized swingers day celebration. ISD now offers a lifestyle convention in conjunction with this nationally recognized holiday to provide educational seminars to the swinger community and industry. International Swingers Day is scheduled to take place this year on Saturday, August 12th, and will be celebrated at a local swinger club near you. Check your local club calendar for more information. If you dont see it listed in their events calendar, ask them to add it to their schedule of events. Looking for a little more than just a day to celebrate this swinger holiday? Register for The International Swingers Day Convention. Couples may join ISD The Convention and other industry leaders, August 8 12, 2012, at Caliente Caribe Resort in the Dominican Republic. This is an all-inclusive opportunity to connect with others in the lifestyle as you enjoy ocean side dining, massages, entertainment, a couples retreat and industry related seminars led by industry leaders from around the country. Caliente Caribe is a clothing optional resort (sister property of Caliente in Tampa, FL) that is nicely nestled among the Caribbean islands with a beautiful natural setting. The

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We have cruised 19 times on 12 different ships using 8 different cruise lines and we have always felt that the best all around service, price, and accommodations were on the Royal Caribbean fleet of ships. Although we have done a small ship specialty cruise on the Windstar line (159 cabins) and we felt that was an exceptional personalized experience but it was clearly at luxury pricing. We love to cruise, but there are a couple elements that we would always have to make allowances for that were somewhat of a distraction to our vacation. On the mainstream cruise lines, there are always lots of kids and seniors. The kids are not always well behaved and the seniors often moved very slowly or were in wheelchairs. We love our kids and grandparents but we prefer to vacation without them. We found that the answer to this issue is to go on a clothing optional cruise for adult couples only.

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Arrival and embarkation is done at one of the major ports of call mostly in Florida for cruising further south into the warm Caribbean islands or Mexico. The Freedom for example is at port Canaveral, 25 minutes east of Orlando airport. The easiest port is Tampa, where the Jewel sails from, it is only 10 minutes from the airport. In both cases there are usually several hotels that are taken over for a day or two before the cruise; parties and meet and greets are organized there as well. The cruise schedule, dining, excursions, and operations are quite similar to a vanilla cruise however thats where the similarities stop! Right

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too long ago where one couple in particular would often make comments about other couples that we both knew. Unfortunately, what they said did seep in and we found ourselves thinking of this other couple this way. Over time and hearing other comments said, what we came to realize was that the couple who was making the comments was trying to make other couples look bad, and themselves look good, because they wanted to be with us and it was obvious we were interested in these other couples. The third aspect of discretion is protecting your own privacy. It is a good idea to limit how much information you give about yourselves, until you really know who you are dealing with. There are many people, especially online, who have ulterior motives. Do not give out your home address, phone number, or last name to anyone you have not met in person and with whom you do not feel comfortable. Do not tell people where you work unless you want them calling you there. While most people in the lifestyle understand discretionary lines, not all do. It is best to make sure that any means that someone has to contact you is a private means to which only you and your partner have access.
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While some do choose to be open about their lifestyle choice, most feel it is important to keep their lifestyle private. Be careful who you confide to about your lifestyle choice. While some friends or family may be accepting of it, others may not be and you may find that you not only lose a friend but that they may choose to tell others. Think long and hard before you open that door. The second important aspect of discretion comes in talking with other swingers. You know the saying what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas? Well what happens in your bedroom (or a playroom or a hotel room) should stay where it happened. Discussing your sexual encounters or other swingers you meet with others (whether swinger or not) is very bad form. Good swingers dont kiss and tell. If you discover that other swingers you know are talking about another couple, you cant help but wonder what they say about you when you are not around. Its best to just simply avoid the gossip or at the very least do not participate in it. And do not let what you hear from others cloud your opinion of others in the lifestyle. Keep in mind that they may have their own reasons for telling you something. We encountered a situation not

Recently we had a newbie couple contact us and in their first e-mail she shared an awful lot of personal information about themselves. By the second e-mail even more; really way too much for their safety and I had to wonder what she may share with other swingers about us if we were to reveal details about ourselves. I decided to give them a heads up on not being so open to start out. I think if someone wanted to they could drive to their house with all the info they provided us! It wouldnt be hard to find out who they are in their community. Her husband wrote back and thanked me for the advice. LikeMinds321 A particular ad pay site that we belonged to had a live chat session that was ongoing. There were quite a few people that didnt hesitate to name names (and Im talking real names, as we had met a few of them in the past) not use their handle or express their experiences in explicit detail, about who they were with and what they did the weekend prior. I found that tacky and that is one reason we no longer belong to that ad site. OhioCouple

Some people are very turned off by personal terms of affection or endearment from someone that they do not feel personally close to. In some parts of the country it is completely normal to refer to a stranger as darling, sweetie or babe. While some folks think nothing of signing an email with things like XOXO or Love Ya, or starting an email with Hey Sexy or Baby, others are very turned off by these terms when used by people that they do not know. It is best to avoid these types of terms rather than risk turning someone off because of a word that to you meant nothing. When you first meet people it is normal to want to make small talk and very often we tend to try to do so in the same way that we do in the vanilla world. It is important, however, to remember that some questions that are ok in the vanilla world may be considered too personal in the swinging world. When it comes to swinging, most information is need to know.

Unless you plan on showing up at their job site, which you shouldnt be doing, you dont need to know. Instead, just ask them what they do. There is really no need to even be discussing kids when you are meeting other swingers. Many people have them, but typically when they are out swinging that is the last thing they want to be reminded of. And if someone starts getting too personal, just let them know that info is more than you want to share. There are some questions that should be avoided altogether, such as: Whats your last name? What religion are you? Do you go to church? What is your political affiliation? Who are you going to vote for? Do you know so and so? The first and last question fall under the category of simple discretion. They dont need your last name unless you want to give it, and you dont need theirs. Small talk is the heart of getting to know new people and of establishing a common bond. The bulk of your discussion is going to revolve around why you are there. A great way to break the ice is to ask about the place where you are. If you are at a club, ask them if theyve been there before and how often. Ask them what other clubs they may have visited and what they thought. Instead of focusing on personal
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Welcome to the desert and Arizona Lifestyles, the longest running association of people in the Swingers Lifestyle in Arizona. Since 2004 they have been hosting Meet & Greets and select events and parties for sophisticated swingers in this state since January of that year. Arizona Lifestyles is not an on premise swing club. Quality swing clubs were prosecuted out of existence in this state back in 2003. So, like-minded people have had to resort to more creative means to meet, mingle and more. Thats where Arizona Lifestyles has stepped in to fill the void as best anyone can. Our meet & greets and events are designed for everyone in search of That Place. People can sit back in relaxed atmospheres and have an intimate sexy conversation with current and potential playmates without all of the noise and distraction common with many such events. Then possibly take things to the next level somewhere nearby. The regular meet and greet is held every third Saturday of each month at the world class Terroir Wine Pub in Scottsdale from 7PM to??? Its such a sought after event people have come from all over the world just to attend this cozy assembly of one hundred plus sexy people dressed in their hottest party clothes.

Its so popular that there is a link on the Arizona Lifestyles Web site ( to hotels near the Pub in a variety of prices to fit anyones budget. Terroir has wine by the glass as well as full bottles at more than reasonable prices along with a great selection of beers and appetizers. They do not sell spirits or have a full food menu but more than make that up in quality products and services. This and other events are always advertised on SLS. com well in advance and as it has been since day one there is never a cover charge at the Terroir event. If there is going to be any charge for any event youll know well before you register. Parties will always be by invitation only from whoever is hosting the party. Out of respect to those people, Arizona Lifestyles does not give out that information without their permission. Its our biggest wish that everyone in Arizona has a quality, safe and exciting LifeStyle experience here. For more information feel free to contact us at and check out our blog at Terroir Wine Pub only provides space to us and is not associated with Arizona Lifestyles in any way so please do not contact them for information

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Travel Events & Conventions 2012 - 2013

Travel Events
Caribe Resort
June 16 - 23, 2012 SwingLifeStyle and Topless Travel has secured a PRIVATE OASIS unlike anything else in Lifestyle travel! Be part of the It Crowd that calls this place the Haven of Heaven! Clothing-optional resort located on the unspoiled coast of the Dominican Republic in the Caribbean. 877-90-SWING

Swingers Break - Jamaica
April 21 - 28, 2012 Have you been to Hedonism yet? If you havent made it, this is your opportunity to be there with the HOTTEST Lifestyle Group, Hedo Events! Join us at the Pleasure Seekers Ultimate Super Inclusive Playground! Even if you are a regular to Hedonism, this will be the trip that changes everything. Come and enjoy a wicked week with Hedo Events! 877-90-SWING

LifeStyle Cruises

Jewel of the Seas Full Ship Takeover!

January 28 - February 2, 2013 6 Days and 5 Nights Tampa - Grand Cayman - Mexico - Tampa
Ship Registry: Nassau, Bahamas

Naughty in Nawlins
July 11-15, 2012 Naughty in Nawlins is a lifestyle and swinger couples convention and is Bob & Tess signature event. Since 1999, this has been the most popular lifestyle event in the country. Where else does the City shut down their main street (Bourbon St.) and let 1,000 sexy swingers throw a parade? Only in New Orleans! 800-304-4493

Join over 2,000 swingers for another exciting couples only, full ship charter lifestyle cruise. This is a 6-day/5-night cruise aboard the beautiful Jewel of the Seas that will be leaving from Tampa, FL and stopping in George Town, Grand Cayman and Playa Del Carmen, Mexico before returning to Tampa.
Freedom of the Seas
November 11 - 18, 2012 Are you ready for the biggest swinger cruise of 2012? Its time to start making your reservations for the top swingers cruise of 2012. The swinger cruise ship Freedom of the Seas will set sail in November 2012 for sun and fun in exotic Caribbean destinations. The best rooms sell out quickly for this high-seas swinging adventure so get started by checking cabin availability now! Cabins start as low as $790.00 per/person, double occupancy plus taxes, gratuities and admin fees. 877-90-SWING

Desire, Riviera Maya Mexico

July 1 - 8, 2012 8 days/7 nights All-Inclusive Luxury. One of the best things about 4th of July at Desire is its low season so the prices are unbeatable. Remember, Desire is all inclusive, that means all of the booze you can drink, all of the food you can eat, luxury accomodations and top rate service. 877-90-SWING

Brilliance of the Seas
April 13 - 20, 2013 Join over 2,100 people on one of the most impressive cruise ships in the world for another Full Ship Charter, Couples Only, Clothing Optional Cruise. We will be leaving from beautiful San Juan, Puerto Rico on a Southern Caribbean Journey that will include Aruba & Curacao before heading back north so we can visit St. Kitts & St. Maarten. Book today so you can add these great islands to your list of places you have visited. Cabins start as low as $775.00 per/person, double occupancy plus taxes, gratuities and admin fees. 877-90-SWING

TampaBayEscapes 4 National Swingers Convention

July 26-29, 2012 Weve sold out completely each year. Every room and over 240 people for 3 days and 3 nights of fun, sensuality, games, play shops, prizes, playrooms, food, dances, entertainment & (optional) Debauchery. Thank you so much for the tremendous response! Every year has been one hell of a party! But sadly, weve had to turn down many couples who just called too late. So please, dont be closed out. Call us now to reserve your room 813-293-7663

Costa Rica
July 25 - 29, 2012 (5 day event) - Couples Only Lifestyle Adventure Weekend A Swingers event unlike any other. Meet lots of likeminded couples and many local Latin Ladies! We are limited to 25 couples to the Exotic Country of Costa Rica where the daytime adventures are World Class and the Adult Night-Life is Smokin Hot. Hosted by SwingLifeStyle and ToplessTravel 877-90-SWING

International Swingers Day The Convention

August 8 - 12, 2012 Caliente Caribe, Dominican Republic. Celebrate International Swingers Day World-Wide on August 11th. International Swingers Day (ISD) is a celebration for swingers worldwide. The purpose of ISD is to honor the growing sexual revolution among the swinging community while addressing the needs of the industry via a Lifestyle convention. Visit www. to book your room. 877-90-SWING

Freedom of the Seas

November 10 - 17, 2013 Its time to start making your reservations for the top swingers cruise of 2013. The swinger cruise ship Freedom of the Seas will set sail again in November 2013 for sun and fun in exotic Caribbean destinations. Every night offers you a different exotic and erotic theme; so put on a mask, get body painted, grab a shot and experience your freedom. Cabins start as low as $775.00 per/person, double occupancy plus taxes, gratuities and admin fees 877-90-SWING

Hedonism II
November 3 - 10, 2012 (8 day event) SwingLifeStyle is Hosting the 2nd annual week-long Meet & Greet for couples only, at the world-famous Hedonism II. Meet your favorite couples and invite them to join you along with other members from SLS! Only 100 rooms so dont hesitate to book this all-inclusive private event - Food, Booze, 5 Restaurants, Water Sports, Theme-Parties every night, and sexy games during the day on the beach and by the pool. Its the ultimate guilty vacation without the guilt! 877-90-SWING

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LifeStyle News
The Social Club Gives Back to Their Community
Swingers Donate To The Humane Society And Homeless
On February 4th 2012, The Social Club, Nashville TN, hosted an Official SLS Event to benefit The Humane Society as well as the Second Harvest Food Bank. These local swingers pulled it together and donated $240 to the Humane Society and ended up with over 400 lbs of food for the Second Harvest Food Bank. This was a large party and meet and greet that brought in over 500 people. This was one of the largest parties held by The Social Club, and shows that swingers are kind hearted and care about the homeless as well as about animals.

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