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Child playing with his genitals. Child looks at an bra ad and ask what is she wearing?
When watching TV with Child – an intimate kissing scene comes up?
Your child tells you today “one child removed his pants in the class and something was hanging out? Why it does not hang out from my body?” Child asks – “What is Rape”? Child does not ask such question
Motivation Feelings Empower
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so WHY to bother.amable. Avoid/ Ignore .in So what do these responses do to the child? • I am bad • It’s wrong to discuss such things with YOU …………… Its eembarrassing • There is something SPECIAL about it • You don’t want to talk about it .www.
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“vagina” .in 1 Give the Vocabulary It is not „something‟ – it has a name: “penis”.www.amable.
in 2 Functions of ALL body parts The function of Urination does not make Vagina or Penis DIRTY.www.amable. .
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in Why Body Education ? Nothing is dirty or bad. You be the FIRST to give them information. . It will help make it easier for them to come to you when they have questions.amable.www. whether they are boys or girls. ALL parts of their body are good. Children need to feel good about themselves. Easy to talk about BODY when they grow.
what you feel and what you say. do.will have an impact on your children's sexual life” . and „not do‟ .in Break your own barrier “What you believe.www.amable.
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Sexual Behavior www. Wondering where babies come from.amable. Undressing with another preschooler and „playing doctor‟ together. Touch and play with them.in . Interest in the physical characteristics of the opposite sex.Pre Primary Exploring private body parts. Key source: Australian Research Centre in Sex. Health and society .
www. Babies come from? Sex play.amable. „playing doctor‟ Curious about gender differences.Primary Modest and conscious Kissing games and marriage pretend-play.in Sexual Behavior . sexual intercourse and pregnancy Key source: Australian Research Centre in Sex. Health and society .
in Puberty Physical Changes Girls Physical changes – Boys Also………. –Emotional changes –Your thinking will change –Your relationship with your parents .www..amable.
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Premarital sex.in Homo sexuality. Depression.amable. media. Smoking. Pornography sexual behaviour Alcohol. Fatigue Violent Responsible Media stereotypes .Sex education – Social www. Drugs Syndrome.
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www.amable.in Benefits You be the FIRST to inform You are approachable Your family values Healthy relationship .
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lets see what we can do (role play) You child comes and tells you that a adult relative of yours has been fondling with his/her genitals .in So.www.amable.
3.amable. 7.www. 6. 9. 8. 5. Listen – completely without any judgement Empathize with child‟s emotions If required express your emotions (only emotions) Assure its not child‟s mistake State that whatever maybe you are with the child Ask child for opinions and options Establish that saying NO to anybody is FINE Discuss more options Reiterate you are always THERE . 4. 2.in Sexual Abuse 1.
tell that child that you’re not comfortable Don’t react . youth websites that can help.Guidelines www.Understand the ACTION Do not give wrong or fanciful information Educate yourself Use books. A hysterical response will probably guarantee your child may never risk asking you anything about sex again . articles or videos.in Check your own beliefs Make it a regular topic Mark it important Be open & relaxed when talking about sex If not.amable. You could suggest someone you both trust as a good person for your son or daughter to talk with.
in TOOLS Role plays Puppets Casual Discussions Books Draw pictures Yoga – Body Awareness .www.amable.
Empathise with child feelings.draw. Express yours.in . Empower the child to face sexual situations 6. 4. 9. Prepare the child mentally. Awareness then understanding. Check your own beliefs 3. Be creative in how you show your points / concerns 7. Learn from life for life. 8. songs. give data about abuse. Strategies they can create themselves. role play. discuss. socially and sexually. Remember your response will determine how the child will think about himself or herself 5. Use Multiple ways to reach to the child . 10. www. Child is creative enough to create own understanding. emotionally.amable. Sex is natural behaviour and in most cases the intention is to enjoy oneself. 1.Jagriti Remember sex is a natural and biological motivation 2.
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penis.Myths . Its okay to say “God put baby in mummy‟s tummy” – kids will not understand the facts. hair growth (boys) and biology of sex. They will undesrtand as they grow Sex eductaion – only means menstruation (girls). Touching genitals is not normal – harmful for growth.Sex Education www. It distracts from studies. Boys do not need to know about periods and Girls do not need to know about wet dreams. Only mothers should talk to girls and fathers talk to son. Talk about sex issues .in There is an age Responsibility of school.kids will become sexually active. .amable.
in No age .Complete education to all the genders. It can be soothing.Talking with your children about their bodies is easier if you start when they are very young. Sex play – normal. Not only school . .will help make it easier for them to come to you when they have questions.You give factual and age appropriate information. Talking early about sex .amable. Both parenst talk – bonds the family Well informed kids behave sexually responsibly.Home plays a major role Sex education is as important as maths or engilish or sports Not only biology . They will understand .New Perspectives www.
emotional and sexual Empower at home Sexual behaviour of pre-primary and primary children. bad touch.amable. .in Sex education . sexual touch Awareness of Abuse – physical.1 Body education Awareness .Good touch.www.
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in Sex education .4 Myths related to “How to behave like a man and a woman” Reproduction. contraception.amable. birth control. unplanned pregnancy. Abortion Sex diseases and STD (sexually transmitted diseases). Premarital sex. Pregnancy Homo sexuality. Condoms. Infections like Urine infection .www.
Smoking. Drugs Fatique Syndrome. Pronography Responsible sexual behaviour .in Alcohol. Violent media.Sex education – 5 www. Depression.amable.
.www. Discuss a range of moral and social issues and perspectives on sex and sexuality. Be able to differentiate between accurate and inaccurate information. including different cultural attitudes and sensitive issues like sexuality.in Skills develop Being able to communicate. carers and professionals.including parents. abortion and contraception.amable. Be aware Decision-making Seek help from adults .
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remind yourself it is natural . doctor) or any other game If books are handy – read one for them Take it easy .YOUR ACTION: www.in 1.Playing Doctor . Remind them about My body – other cannot touch – only you can touch Private and public body parts Private and public actions Give them options – put your clothes and play same game (if they are playing family. 2. Do not act in horror or scream or punish.amable.
Curious.amable. Facts: Exploration. Not a sexual act Your action – Role play – My body – your body – My feelings – Give option .in Your young child likes to touch your private body parts.www.
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Your own pregnancy. Grow in mummy‟s organ called Utreus. Created from a sperm from their Dad and an egg from their Mum. 3. 1. Your Family Values .www.amable. Sperm comes from Dad's penis and the egg from Mum's ovaries. 2. the pregnancy of a friend or even pets giving birth.in How does baby come in Mummy’s Tummy ? Avoid fanciful explanations Keep your answers simple. Baby grows in mummy‟s tummy‟.
Curious.www.in Your young child likes to touch your private body parts.amable. Not a sexual act Your action – Role play – My body – your body – My feelings – Give option . Facts: Exploration.
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