1-MAXIMISING SINGLEHOOD

2.- EMOTIONAL WELLBEING

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A Heathy self esteem-confidence of

your ability
A possibility mentality.
Discover your purpose in life.
Persue personal development.
Build healthy relationships.
Develop your talent and gift.
Monitors the kind of information
that enters your life.
Learn to package yourself well.
You are already complete!!In Christ..
Marriage will not complete you, it will
only compliment you.

 LOVE! LOVE! LOVE!

LOVE! LOVE!....

IT HAS FOUR STAGES:

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1.ONE

2.TWO

INFATUATION STAGE: Inspired

With intense but short lived passion

MULTUAL AFFECTION:
(No Love)

3.THREE

DISINTERDRATION STAGE:

4.FOUR

LOVE CONNECTION STAGE:

FIRST, WRONG REASONS

To ensure financial
security

For lustful
reasons

ONE

THREE

TWO

To escape parental
pressure

FOUR

Peer pressure

.Marriage will not fix you.

.Marriage is not a problem solver but
problem magnifier.
.marriage will not automatically make
you happy.
.Marriage will not automatically satisfy
you.
.Marriage is not a ticket to free sex.
.Marriage will automatically heal your
past. Etc. etc. etc.

REASONS FOR GETTING MARRIED

SECOND, CORRECT REASONS

You are in love.

Share common vision.
Share common values and
beliefs system.
Trust each other
Share friendship and
companionship
Compatible for each other.
For partnership.

KNOWING WHEN IN LOVE NOT LUST

LOVE

LUST

1. Seek to
sacrifice
self.
2.Gets for the other. 2. Seek to get
for self.
3. It it a taker.
3.It is a giver.
Love must be tested by:
1.Giving test. 2. Admiration test.
3.Acceptant test 4. Communication test
5.Quarrel test 6. Time test
7. Fire test
8. trust & excitement test
1.Will to sacrifice

FIVE PURPOSES OF MARRIAGE

1. COMPANIONSHIP (GEN 2:18b)

2. MEETING NEED.
3. PARTNERSHIP. (GEN 2:23)
4. HELPER (GEN 2:18b, 20)
5. RAISING GODLY SEEDS

WHAT IS EMOTIONAL WELLBEING?

It is not the absence of emotion but it
is your ability to understand the value
of your emotions and use them to
move your life forward in a position
direction.
It is a vibrant mental health, the state
of mind where we find inner peace
and contenant (freedom from worry,
insecurirty, stress, anxiety etc.)

 Being a young person carries many

risk factors which may have a negative
impact on a young persons emotional
wellbeing, such as poor housing,
economic disadvantages etc. The
better you are able to master your
emotions,
The greater your capacity to enjoy
your life as a single, stress, depression,
anxiety etc (problems of emotional
wellbeing). These problems are
classified into:

 Biological
Spiritual
psychological
One writer (Charles Swindoll) says
i am convinced that life is 10%
what happens to man and 90%
how he reacts to it.

1.Temperament: Is our inborn emotional

make-up.
Sanguine- talks alot.
Choleric- can see far.
Melancholic- sence more.
Phlegmatic- Can hear more.
2. Environnent: it can create confusion
3. Parennting
4. Empathy
5. Acceptance and praise
6. Spirituality

SIX REASONS TO IMPROVE

EMOTIONAL WELLBEING
1. SELF ACCEPTANCE
2. PERSONAL GROWTH
3. PURPOSE IN LIFE
4. ENVIRONMENTAL MASTER
5. AUTONOMY
6. POSITIVE RELATION WITH
OTHERS

CONCLUSIVE BIBLICAL STANDARD

GENESIS 2: 8, 15, 18, 22-23
Adam was formed by God. You must allow God to form
you.
Adam was busy working in the Garden. You must be
busy working in the Garden (the Kingdom, the local church).
Adam had a job in the Garden. You should have a job.
God made a woman for Adam. As a woman, you must
allow God to make you for your husband.
God presents the woman to the Adam. Adam was still
busy working for God, not working to find a woman.
Adam gladly received and accepted the woman. Ladies:
you cant make a man want you. He either does or he doesnt.
They continued to work in the Garden. You stay and
continue to work in the Garden

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