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Liam Ó Gógáin
14th June 2008
Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
• The Landscape
• The Problem
• The Solution
• The Plan
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Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
The Landscape
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Landscape
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Landscape
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There is no indication
whatsoever of either a levelling
off of these costs or of a
reversal in the trends of
relationship breakdown !
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Why Change?
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The Problem
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2) As a corollary, fathers in
relationship breakdown are
presumed to be primarily guilty
of misbehaviour, expected to
be primary and continuing
bread winners and providers
for the whole family costs even
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Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
INCREASING
• Rate of DivorceMarriage/Relationship
breakdown.
• Rate of Births outside Marriage > 30%
• Draw on Exchequer through massive Lone
Parent Welfare payments.
• Rate of Suicide by Males.
• Number of Family Law cases in court.
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Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
INCREASING
• Rate of DivorceMarriage/Relationship
breakdown.
• Rate of Births outside Marriage > 30%
• Draw on Exchequer through massive Lone
Parent Welfare payments.
• Rate of Suicide by Males.
• Number of Family Law cases in court.
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Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
INCREASING
• Level of Frustration of non-custodial fathers.
• Levels of violence/crime involving young
males.
• Overburdening of women – parenting alone.
• Children with no male role models at home or
in school.
• Percentage of child’s life spent in creches.
• Loss of grandparent and extended family
relationship with grandchildren in divorce.
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Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
INCREASING
• Level of Frustration of non-custodial fathers.
• Levels of violence/crime involving young
males.
• Overburdening of women – parenting alone.
• Children with no male role models at home or
in school.
• Percentage of child’s life spent in creches.
• Loss of grandparent and extended family
relationship with grandchildren in divorce.
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The Solution
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It’s OK to Change?
Promoting
Productive,
Positive
Participative
Child support
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Introducing!
Shared Parenting
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Societal disharmony !
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EASY!
Choose any
Option and You,
and all of us can
Win!
Click to choose !
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Shared Parenting
The Six- Way-Win
Program
Click on any
option to
WIN!
Click to CONTINUE
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Try Another !
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Try Another !
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Try Another !
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Try Another !
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OK!
So what’s the catch?
What’s the downside?
So Who loses?
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BUT!
There is hope even for the Toxic Losers!
In a scene from Zhivago, the revolution has taken
over and the soldiers are returning from the front.
The Bolshevik turns to Zhivago, the aristocratic
doctor who is now disenfranchised in the
hierarchical paradigm shift and with honesty
says:- “Want some advice, honoured Doctor, said
the millstone to the barley …………
ADAPT!!”
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The Plan
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Deliverables:-
•Online Shared Parenting delivery, FAQ
and One Stop info centre.
•An office based in Dundalk delivering a
locally based service.
• Distillation of the experiences and
transition of learning into online support
environment.
•Web based interactive community and
online radio to support parenting.
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Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
Deliverables:-
•Online Shared Parenting delivery, FAQ
and One Stop info centre.
•An office based in Dundalk delivering a
locally based service.
• Distillation of the experiences and
transition of learning into online support
environment.
•Web based interactive community and
online radio to support parenting.
www.parentalequality.ie ©2008
Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
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Families, Change and Social Policy Ireland 2008
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Socio-economic planning is
based on the core value of
both parents spending
substantive time with their
children
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