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BE A WINNER.

A mysandesham presentation from T. James Joseph, Adhikarathil, Kottayam.Kerala.

WINNER.
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING.

Attitude is everything.

ONE LIFE do something

ONE LIFE do something

it is not the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up.

Think of the BEST Work for the BESTand Expect the BEST

It is your WORLD. Shape it or some one else will

Life is like a Mobile Phone. Most of us have facilities we never use.


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Factors determining your attitude.


EDUCATION

Attitude

ENVIRONMENT

EXPERIENCE

Attitude is the little thing that make big difference.

"The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind."

Success is not accidental, it is a choice.

Steps for developing a positive attitude.

1.ALWAYS LOOK FOR THE POSITIVE.

ONE LIFE do something

A study attributed to Harvard University found. that when a person gets a job, 85% of the time it is because of their attitude, and only 15% of the time because of how smart they are and how many facts and figures they know. Surprisingly, almost 100% of education dollars go to teach facts and figures which account for only 15% of success in work!

Attitude is the little thing that make big difference.

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Our attitude determines how we . look at a setback.... To a positive thinker, it can be a stepping stone to success... To a negative thinker, it can be a stumbling block....

The Real Question is not whether life exists after death..The real question is whether you are alive before deathLIVE YOUR LIFE.

Become aware of the principles that build a positive attitude Desire to be positive Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles As adults,

LIVE YOUR LIFE.


LIVE YOUR LIFE.
People can be your biggest asset or your biggest liability.

LIVE YOUR LIFE.

Change focus.. Look for the positive.

LIFE WILL GIVE YOU WHAT YOU ATTRACT WITH YOUR THOUGHT..

1.Change focus.. Look for the positive.


DEVELOP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE.

IT IS NOT YOUR APTITUDE BUT YOUR ATTITUDE THAT DETERMINES YOUR ALTITUDE...

ONE LIFE do something

Always look for the positive.

It is your WORLD. Shape it or some one else will .

Someone once approached Blaise Pascal, the famous French philosopher and said, "If I had your brains, I would be a better person." Pascal replied, "Be a better person and you will have my brains."

ONE LIFE do something

Opportunity is always under our feet. We don't have to go anywhere. All we need to do is recognize it.

ONE LIFE do something

When people don't know how to recognize opportunity, they complain of noise when it knocks.

LIVE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE

There are three kinds of people in this world: 1. People who make things happen. 2 People who watch things happen. 3 People who wonder what happened Which category do you fall into?

Attitude is the little thing that make big difference.

We need to step back and look at what kind of environment we have created for ourselves and those around us. It is tough to expect positive behavior in a negative environment. Where lawlessness becomes the law, honest citizens become cheats, crooks and thieves.
LIVE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE

Negative people.

Attitude is the little thing that make big difference.

They create a negative environment at home and work and become a liability to society. They also pass on their negative behavior to others around them and to future generations. They create a negative environment at home and work and become a liability to society. They also pass on their negative behavior to others around them and to future generations.

WHY DON'T Human nature generally resists change. WE Change is uncomfortable. CHANGE?

Regardless of its positive or negative effect, change can be stressful. Sometimes we get so comfortable with our negativity that even when the change is for the positive, we don't want to accept it. We stay with the negative.

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

Attitude is the little thing that make big difference.

The act of taking the first step is what separates winners from losers

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?


We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal. Earl Nightingale

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

LIVE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE

Interpersonal skills.. LIVE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE I will pay more for the ability to deal with people than for any other ability under the sun. --John Rockefeller Human beings cannot perform beyond the boundaries of their self-concept, whatever it may be.

Interpersonal skills..
We do not have business problems. We have people problems. When we solve our people problems, our business problems are substantially resolved. People knowledge is more important than product knowledge. Successful people build pleasing and magnetic personalities, which is what makes them charismatic. This helps in getting friendly cooperation from others. A pleasing personality is easy to recognize but hard to define. It is apparent in the way a person walks and talks, his tone of voice, the warmth in his behaviour and his definitive level of confidence. When you are good to others, you are best to yourself.

Interpersonal skills..
Wearing a pleasant expression is more important than anything else you wear. It takes a lot more than a shoeshine and a manicure to give a person polish Charming manners used to disguise a poor character may work in the short run, but reveal themselves rather quickly. Relationships based on talent and personality alone, without character, make life miserable. Charisma without character is like good looks without goodness. The bottom line is, a lasting winning combination requires both character and charisma.. When you are good to others, you are best to yourself.

INTER PERSONAL SKILLS.....

"When you are good to others, you are best to yourself.

Goodness has a way of coming back; that is the nature of the beast. One doesn't have to do good with a desire to get back. It just happens automatically.

LIVE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking. - William B. Sprague

When you write the your biography of life never allow any body to hold the pen. It is your world

Unless we focus, we cannot achieve our goal.

On the journey to life's highway, keep your eyes upon the goal. Focus on the donut, not upon the hole.

When you write the your biography of life never allow any body to hold the pen. It is your world

Aim for the moon. Even if you miss, you will become one of the stars........

When you write the your biography of life never allow any body to hold the pen. It is your world

Successful people don't do great things, they only do small things in a great way.

Desires become GOALS when they are supported by direction dedication determination discipline deadlines

Successful people don't do great things, they only do small things in a great way.

Successful people don't do great things, they only do small things in a great way.

Successful people don't do great things, they only do small things in a great way.

Knowledge helps you to reach your destination provided you know what the destination is.

Steps to turn a dream into reality: 1. Have a definite, clear written goal. 2. Have a plan to accomplish it. 3. Read the first two twice a day..

Successful people don't do great things, they only do small things in a great way.

Water turns into steam with a difference of only one degree in temperature and steam can move some of the biggest engines in the world. That is what enthusiasm helps us to do in our lives.

Aim for the moon. Even if you miss, you will become one of the stars.

Just like a camera needs focus to take a good picture, we need goals to make a productive life.

ACTION PLAN. 1. Make definite goals. 2. Write them down. 3. Read your goals twice a day, morning and night. 4. Make goals slightly out of reach but not out of sight. 5. Check your progress periodically.

A farmer had a dog who used to sit by the roadside waiting for vehicles to come around. As soon as one came he would run down the road, barking and trying to overtake it. One day a neighbor asked the farmer "Do you think your dog is ever going to catch a car?" The farmer replied, "That is not what bothers me. What bothers me is what he would do if he ever caught one."

Just like a camera needs focus to take a good picture, we need goals to make a productive life.

Each goal must be evaluated in light of the following 1. Is it the truth? 2. Is it fair to all concerned? 3. Will it get me goodwill? 4. Will it get me health, wealth, and peace of mind? 5. Is it consistent with my other goals?

Worry leads to negative goalsetting.

One must evaluate one's activity in order to have accomplishment.

There was a fisherman who, every time he caught a big fish, would throw it back into the river, keeping only the smaller ones. A man watching this unusual behavior asked the fisherman why he was doing this. The fisherman replied, "Because I have a small frying pan." Most people never make it in life because they are carrying a small frying pan.

Water turns into steam with a difference of only one degree in temperature and steam can move some of the biggest engines in the world. That is what enthusiasm helps us to do in our lives.

Sincere appreciation is one of the greatest gifts one can give to another person. It makes a person feel important. The desire to feel important is one of the greatest cravings in most human beings. It can be a great motivator.

When the Other Person Realizes and Admits That He Has Made a Mistake, Congratulate Him and Give Him a Way Out to Save Face If we don't let him save face, we are hurting his self esteem.

A person who aims at nothing never misses. Aiming low is the biggest mistake. Winners see objectives, losers see obstacles. Our goals should be high enough to motivate yet realistic enough to avoid discouragement

Goals must be SMART:

Goals can be: 1. short-term--up to one year. 2. mid-term--up to three years. 3. long-term--up to five years. Goals can be longer than five years but then they become a purpose of life.

Why Don't More People Set Goals? 1. A pessimistic attitude-2. Fear of failure 3. A lack of ambition--limited thinking. 4. A fear of rejection-5. Procrastination6. Low self-esteem7. Ignorance of the importance of goals 8. A lack of knowledge about goal-setting--

DONT DIE BEFORE YOU ARE DEAD Ive missed more than 9000 shots in my career. Ive lost almost 300 games. 26 times, Ive been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. Ive failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. - Michael Jordan

Our life is like a wheel with six spokes.


1. Family--. Our loved ones are the reason to live and make a living. 2. Financial--. Represents our career and the things that money can buy. 3. Physical.-- Our health, without which nothing makes sense. 4. Mental.--Represents knowledge and wisdom. 5. Social. 6. Spiritual.-- Our value system represents ethics and qcharacter.

Winners see objectives, losers see obstacles.

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE

A person who aims at nothing never misses. Aiming low is the biggest mistake.

An argument with a fool will soon make two..

An argument is one thing you will never win. If you win, you lose; if you lose, you lose.

The Real Question is not whether life exists after death..The real question is whether you are alive before deathLIVE YOUR LIFE.

There is more gratification in being a caring person than in just being a nice person. A caring attitude builds goodwill which is the best kind of insurance that a person can have and it doesn't cost a thing.

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

Generally we see the world not the way it is but the way we are. Most of the time, other people's behaviour is a reaction to our own.

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

Make no little plans, they have no magic to stir men's blood. . . Make big plans, aim high in hope and work. -Daniel H. Burn ham

Scatter the seeds of courtesy wherever you can. Some are bound to take root and elevate you in the eyes of others.

DONT DIE BEFORE YOU ARE DEAD

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

Existence alone is not success! It is a lot more! Do more than exist -- live Do more than touch -- feel Do more than look -- observe Do more than read -- absorb Do more than hear -- listen Do more than listenunderstand

Excuses..
1. We have always done it that way. 2. We have never done it that way. 3. That is not my job. 4. I don't think it will make any difference. 5. I'm too busy.

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

There is a story about a farmer who planted pumpkins on his land. For no reason, he put a small pumpkin, hanging by the vine into a glass jar. At harvest time, he saw that the pumpkin had grown, equivalent only to the shape and size of the jar.

Human beings cannot perform beyond the boundaries of their self-concept, whatever it may be.

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

We need to learn from nature. According to scientists, the bumblebee's body is too heavy and its wing span too small. Aerodynamically, the bumblebee cannot fly. But the bumblebee doesn't know that and it keeps flying.

Successful people don't do great things, they only do small things in a great way.

Setbacks are inevitable in life. We need to learn to become victors, not victims

Destiny is no matter of chance.it is a matter of choice

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE? DONT DIE BEFORE YOU Destiny is no matter of ARE DEAD chance.it is a matter of choice

Every thing you do is triggered by an emotion of either desire or fear.

You must be the change you want to see in the world. - Mahatma Gandhi

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

When you write the your biography of life never allow any body to hold the pen. It is your world

Live while you are alive. Don't die before you are dead.

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals. Goethe

Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it is very important that you do it. - Mahatma Gandhi

A BURNING Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire which transcends everything. Napoleon Hill

. Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor. - Truman Capote

Vision without action is daydream. Action without vision is nightmare. - Japanese Proverb

It is your WORLD. Shape it or some one else will

Do THINGS DIFFERENTLY..

In any situation, the best thing you can do is the right thing; the next best thing you can do is the wrong thing; the worst thing you can do is nothing. - Theodore Roosevelt

Success consists of doing the common things of life uncommonly well.

Do THINGS DIFFERENTLY..

Success consists of doing the common things of life uncommonly well. - Unknown

When Life gives you Lemon you have two options, either to cry or ask for sugar to make lemonade........

Do THINGS DIFFERENTLY. .

A positive attitude is a persons passport to a better tomorrow.

It does not matter where you are coming fromAll that matters is where you are going..

Do THINGS DIFFERENTLY.. Keep on going and the chances are you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I have never heard of anyone stumbling on something sitting down. - Charles F. Kettering, Engineer and Inventor

. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain

A positive attitude is a persons passport to a better tomorrow.

Losers visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the rewards of success. - Unknown

Do THINGS DIFFERENTLY..

. Some succeed because they are destined. Some succeed because they are determined. - Unknown

Do THINGS DIFFERENTLY..

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want. - Dan Stanford

Do THINGS DIFFERENTLY.. Setting an example is not the main means of influencing others; it is the only means. - Albert Einstein

It does not matter where you are coming from All that matters is where you are going..

ATTITUDE IS THE KEY.. . If you're going to be able to look back on something and laugh about it, you might as well laugh about it now. - Marie Osmond

ATTITUDE IS THE KEY..

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

It does not matter where you are coming fromAll that matters is where you are going..

The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up. - Mark Twain

It does not matter where you are coming from All that matters is where you are going..

Failures are of two kinds: those who did and never thought and those who thought and never did.

A Burning Desire is the starting point of all achievements.. Begin with the end in mind

. Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." - Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Begin with the end in mind

Dictionary is the only place where success come before work..

Creativity is applying imagination to find a solution....

It is not uncommon to see the prey outsmarting the predator, because one is running for its food and the other for its life.

If you cannot, You must................. IF You must , You can........

Motivation ....the process which encourages and guides behaviour.....

Experience is not what happens to you: It is what you do with what happens to you.

If God created shadows, it was to emphasize the light.

We need two kinds of education. One that teaches us how to make a living and one that teaches us how to live........

Relationships are like bank accounts: The more we deposit, the greater they become, therefore, the more we can draw from them. However, if you try to draw without depositing, it leads to disappointment.

Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to pause and reflect. - Mark Twain

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be f elt with the heart. --Helen Keller

WHY DON'T WE CHANGE?

No person was ever honoured for what he received. Honour has been the reward for what he gave. -Calvin Coolidge

A man was traveling and stopped at an intersection. He asked an elderly man, "Where does this road take me?" The elderly person asked, "Where do you want to go?" The man replied, "I don't know. The elderly person said, "Then take any road . What difference does it make?"

Enthusiasm without direction is like wildfire and leads to frustration. Goals give a sense of direction.

Develop the habit of giving yourself positive self-talk. Autosuggestions alter our belief system by influencing the subconscious mind. Our behavior reflects our belief system. Hence auto-suggestions affect our behavior by influencing our belief system. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy

A positive attitude is a persons passport to a better tomorrow.

Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength. --Eric Hoffer

You cant always control circumstances. But you can control your thoughts and attitude. It is your job to keep your window clean.

Failures are of two kinds: those who did and never thought and those who thought and never did.

Sympathy is, "I understand how you feel." Empathy is, "I feel how you feel. Both sympathy and empathy are important.

We are born to win but are conditioned to lose.

Failures are of two kinds: those who did and never thought and those who thought and never did.

Success has enough challenges without creating your own road blocks. Know that, road to success is always under construction!

Remember, practice does not make perfect. Only perfect practice makes perfect.

Inspiration is what gets a person started, motivation is what keeps him on track and habit is what makes it automatic.

Habits are a matter of the pain and pleasure principle. We do things either to avoid pain or to gain pleasure. So long as the gain is more than the pain, we continue with the habit. But if the pain exceeds the gain, we drop it.

Success lies in the philosophy of sustain and abstain. Sustain what needs to be done and abstain from what is detrimental until this becomes habitual.

We are all being conditioned continuously by the environment and the media, and we start behaving like robots. It is our responsibility to condition ourselves in a positive manner.

For evil to flourish, good people have to do nothing and evil shall flourish. -Edmund Burke

Excessive talking does not mean communication. Talk less; say more. A fool speaks without thinking; a wise man thinks before speaking.

The right to criticize comes with the desire to help. As long as the act of criticizing does not give pleasure to the giver, it is okay. When giving criticism becomes a pleasure, it is time to stop.

HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED?

Good habits are hard to come by but easy to live with. Bad habits come easy but are hard to live with.

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Choices have consequences. We are free to make our choice but after we have chosen the choice controls us.

When criticism comes out of jealousy, take it as a compliment in disguise. You are being unjustly criticized because the other person wants to be where you are. The tree that bears the most fruits also gets the most stones.

Listening shows caring. When you show a caring attitude toward another person, that person feels important. When he feels important, what happens? He is more motivated and more receptive to your ideas..

DANCE ON THE TABLE OR SIT IN THE CORNER? LIFE IS ONLY ONCE AND THE CHOICE IS YOURS...

Live while you are alive. Don't die before you are dead. Enthusiasm and desire are what change mediocrity to excellence. Water turns into steam with a difference of only one degree in temperature and steam can move some of the biggest engines in the world.That is what enthusiasm helps us to do in our lives.

The biggest disease today is not leprosy or tuberculosis but rather the feeling of being unwanted. --Mother Teresa

We can choose our attitude even though we cannot always choose our circumstances. The choice is either to act like a victor or a victim. It is not our position but our disposition that determines our destiny.

Remember, our conscious mind has the ability to think. It can accept or reject. But the subconscious only accepts, it makes no distinction regarding input. If we feed our mind with thoughts of fear, doubt, and hate, the auto-suggestions will activate and translate those things into reality. The subconscious is the data bank. Of the two, the subconscious is more powerful. The subconscious is like the automobile while the conscious is like the driver. The power is in the automobile but the control is with the driver.

Sincere appreciation is one of the greatest gifts one can give to another person. It makes a person feel important. The desire to feel important is one of the greatest cravings in most human beings. It can be a great motivator.

The subconscious mind is like a garden; it doesn't care what you plant. It is neutral; it has no preferences. But if you plant good seeds, you will have a good garden; otherwise you will have a wild growth of weeds. Even when you plant good seeds, weeds still grow and the weeding process must continue constantly.

IS YOUR LIFE WORTH SAVING?

We control our habits by exercising control and self discipline over our thoughts. We need to harness the power of the subconscious mind. We need to cultivate the habits during childhood which build character in adulthood. Plant the right things early in life. But it is never too late to start. Every exposure to a positive or negative makes a difference. Learning new habits takes time but positive habits, once mastered, give new meaning to life

We cannot control all the events that happen in our lives, but we can control how we deal with them.

"Act or accept."

Human beings are not like a fruit which has no choice. A fruit cannot decide whether to become a giant tree or to become food for the squirrels. Human beings have choices. If nature gives us a lemon, we have a choice: either cry or make lemonade

Factors That Prevent Building and Maintaining Positive Relationships.....

Selfishness. Lack of courtesy. Inconsiderate behavior. Not meeting commitments Rude behaviour. Lack of integrity and honesty. Self-centeredness.

A big head gives a big headache whereas a big heart gives humility.......

A Burning Desire is the starting point of all achievements..

The biggest hurdle in building a positive relationship is Ego. Ego is self-intoxicating. Ego is negative pride resulting in arrogance

Changing the face can change nothing. But facing the change can change every thing Appreciation should be specific, Immediate and sincere .

DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE?

1.Become aware of the principles that build a positive attitude 2.Desire to be positive. 3.Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles.

Most of our attitude is shaped during our formative years.

. Many great ideas go unexecuted, and many great executioners are without ideas. One without the other is worthless. - Tim Blixseth

Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly. - Stephen R. Covey

A Burning Desire is the starting point of all achievements..

Success is getting what you want..Happiness is wanting what you get..

DANCE ON THE TABLE OR SIT IN THE CORNER? LIFE IS ONLY FOR ONCE AND THE CHOICE IS YOURS...

The total secret of success lies in two words, persistence and resistance. Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not be done.

Cause Change & Lead Accept Change & Survive Resist Change & Die

Our thoughts are causes. You sow a thought, you reap an action. You sow an action, you reap a habit. You sow a habit, you reap a character. You sow a character, you reap a destiny. It all starts with a thought.
Law of Cause and Effect.

Inspiration is changing thinking; motivation is changing action.

Accept Responsibility.

When people accept responsibility for their behaviour and actions, their attitude toward life becomes positive. They become more productive, personally and professionally. Their relationships improve both at home and at work. Life becomes more meaningful and fulfilled.

Dont limit youre your challenges.But challenge your limits..

Just like a great building stands on a strong foundation, so does success. And the foundation of success is attitude.

Be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. Make all your friends feel there is something in them. Look at the sunny side of everything. Think only of the best, work only for the best, and expect only the best.

If we utilize our present to its fullest, we are sowing the seeds for a better future automatically

Changing the face can change nothing. But facing the change can change every thing

Some people keep waiting for all lights to turn green before they leave home. That will never happen and they fail even before they start.

commitment

"My behaviour is predictable in an unpredictable future.

Attitude is your acceptance of natural laws or your rejection of natural laws....

Cause Change & Lead Accept Change & Survive Resist Change & Die

People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing..

If you dont like how things are.change it.you are not a tree..

If people have not defined a philosophy of success, they have actually defined a philosophy of failure by default......

Keep your goals firm.But the choice of your roads flexible

I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship.

Develop the winning edgesmall difference in your performance can lead to large difference in your results.

We need to dream beyond what is possible. Everything that we see today was a dream before it became reality. Live with enthusiasm, direction and with a sense of purpose. Do you have a dream? What is your dream? Every day that you live, are you getting closer to your purpose? Get your advice from successful people and not from living failures who will tell you how to succeed.

Whenever you find whole world against you just turn around and lead the world. - Anonymous

Being defeated is only a temporary condition; giving up is what makes it permanent. - Marilyn vos Savant, Author and Advice Columnist

. I can't understand why people are frightened by new ideas. I'm frightened by old ones. - John Cage

. The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is . that little extra. - Unknown

People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the first secret of success. - Norman Vincent Peale

A person becomes good when he actually does good rather than not doing wrong.

If people have not defined a philosophy of success, they have actually defined a philosophy of failure by default......

Desire for purpose.

A purposeless life is a living death.. Find or create a purpose and then pursue it with passion and perseverance.

WINNERS LEAVE A LEGACY

Our greatest responsibility is to pass on a legacy that the coming generations can be proud of.

Great people leave something behind.

If people have not defined a philosophy of success, they have actually defined a philosophy of failure by default......

Success begins with developing your personal success philosophy, about your health, money, family, society and values

The best way to predict the future is to create it. - Unknown

Study as if you were to live forever. Live as if you were to die tomorrow. -Mahatma Gandhi

Life will reward us in proportion to our contribution.

Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. - John Wooden

Where the vision is one year, cultivate flowers. Where the vision is ten years, cultivate trees. Where the vision is eternity, cultivate people.

Winners don't do different things, they do things differently!

There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them. - Dr. Denis Waitley

There are only two rules for being successful. One, figure out exactly what you want to do, and two, do it. - Mario Cuomo

Attitudes are contagious. Make yours worth catching. - Unknown

Success is the ability to go from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm. - Sir Winston Churchill

power of concentration.
On the best sunny day, the most powerful magnifying glass will not light paper if you keep moving the glass. But if you focus and hold it, the paper will light up. That is the

Many people know how to be successful . Very few know how to handle success.

Sooner or later, those who win are those who think they can. - Richard Bach Winners live and work every day as if it were the last day. Because one of these days it is going to be the last and we don't know which one it is going to be. When they leave, they leave as winners.

It is better to deserve an honor and not have it than to have it and not deserve it. Because dignity is not in possessing but deserving.

Keep your goals firm.But the choice of your roads flexible

LIVING WITH A PURPOSE All of us are put on this planet for a purpose. We are part of a big picture. But very few people discover their purpose in life. Most of us just exist and keep counting our days rather than making our days count.

. Vision doesn't usually come as a lightening bolt. Rather it comes as a slow crystallization of life challenges that we one day recognize as a beautiful diamond with great value to ourselves and others. - Dr. Michael Norwood

Cause Change & Lead Accept Change & Survive Resist Change & Die

. Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better. - Samuel Beckett

Winners lose much more often than losers. So if you keep losing but you're still trying, keep it up! You're right on track. - Matthew Keith Groves

An obstacle is often a stepping stone. - Prescott

A Ship is safe when it is in the harbor, But the ship is not made for that purpose.

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.

Changing the face can change nothing. But facing the change can change every thing

Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats. - Voltaire Life is a shipwreck but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats. - Voltaire

.In matters of style, swim with the current; in matters of principle, stand like a rock....... thomas Jefferson

Defeat is not bitter unless you swallow it.

Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. Mahatma Gandhi

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.

Success is not to be measured by the position someone has reached in life, but the obstacles he has overcome while trying to succeed. Booker T. Washington

If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up. - J.M. Power

What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say" -- Ralph Waldo Emerson

. Life is "trying things to see if they work" Ray Bradbury

Defeat is not bitter unless you swallow it. -

An obstacle is often a stepping stone. - Prescott

We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities. Ralph Waldo Emerson

To avoid criticism do nothing, say nothing, be nothing. - Elbert Hubbard

If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up. - J.M. Power

. In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on. - Robert Frost

Those who wish to sing, always find a song

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: It goes on. - Robert Frost

Positive anything is better than negative thinking. - Elbert Hubbard

Defeat is not bitter unless you swallow it. - Joe Clark

Defeat is not bitter unless you swallow it. - Joe Clark

1.Change focus.. Look for the positive.

Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you took the eyes off the GOAL..

1.Change focus.. Look for the positive.

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How do you build and maintain a positive attitude? 1. Become aware of the principles that build a positive attitude. 2. Desire to be positive. 3. Cultivate the discipline and dedication to practice those principles.

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CHANGE FOCUS.

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People will always throw Stones in your path... Now it depends on you what you make from it..? WALL or BRIDGE?

You Are The Architect of YOUR Own LIFE...

Attitude is everything.

Attitude is everything.

Attitude is everything.

Change focus. Have an open mind. Avoid prejudices

, Remember when you go looking for gold, you have to move tons of dirt to get to an ounce of gold. But when you go looking, you don't go looking for the dirt, you go looking for the gold.

Change focus. Have an open mind. Avoid prejudices

2.LEARN TO LIKE THE THINGS WE HAVE TO DO.

LEARN TO LIKE THE THINGS WE HAVE TO DO.

2.LEARN TO LIKE THE THINGS WE HAVE TO DO.

A Ship is safe when it is in the harbour, But the ship is not made for that purpose.

Existence alone is not success! It is a lot more! Do more than exist -- live Do more than touch -- feel Do more than look -- observe Do more than read -- absorb Do more than hear -- listen Do more than listen understand

Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal.


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Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible. -St. Francis of Assisi

We are free to make our choice but after we have chosen, the choice controls us.

Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.
-St. Francis of Assisi

Yes. I am different

Attitude is everything.

Steps for developing a positive attitude.


3. START THE DAY WITH SOME THING POSITIVE.

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START THE DAY WITH SOME THING POSITIVE

Steps for developing a positive attitude.


4. GET INTO A CONTINUOUS EDUCATION PROGRAMME.

Intellectual education influences the head and values based education influences the heart. In fact, education that does not train the heart can be dangerous. If we want to build character in our offices, homes and society, we must achieve a minimum level of moral and ethical literacy.

A person can and will be successful with or without formal education if they have the 5Cs: character commitment conviction courtesy courage The tragedy is that there are many walking encyclopedias who are living failures.

Universities are turning out highly skilled barbarians because we don't provide a framework of values to young people, who more and more are searching for it. --Steven Muller, President, Johns Hopkins University

Schools are a fountain of knowledge: some students come to drink , some to sip and others just to gargle.

Yes. I am different

Just like our bodies need good food every day, our minds need good thoughts every day.

How come one man goes through life crossing one hurdle after another, accomplishing his goals while another struggles and gets nowhere? If the answer to these two questions can become part of the curriculum, it could revolutionize the educational system.

When was the last time you sharpened your axe?

Steps for developing a positive attitude.


6.BUILD A POSITIVE SELF ESTEEM.

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. What is Self-Esteem? Self-esteem is the way we feel about ourselves. When we feel good within, our performance goes up, our relationships improve both at home and at work. The world looks nicer. What is the reason? There is a direct correlation between feeling and behaviour.

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SELF ESTEEM.

SELF ESTEEM.

Self-esteem is the way we feel about ourselves.

SELF ESTEEM.

"Most people go to their graves, with music still in them." We don't achieve excellence because of our own lack of vision.

SELF ESTEEM.

SELF ESTEEM.

Attitude is everything.

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If you want to soar like an eagle, you have to learn the ways of an eagle. If you associate with achievers, you will become one. If you associate with thinkers, you will become one. If you associate with givers, you will become one. If you associate with complainers, you will become one.

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Human beings are not a fruit which has no choice. A fruit cannot decide whether to become a giant tree or to become food for the squirrels. Human beings have choices. If nature gives us a lemon, we have a choice: either cry or make lemonade.

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The Real Question is not whether life exists after death..The real question is whether you are alive before deathLIVE YOUR LIFE.

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Be A Good Listener.

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I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my . ship.

Dont Argue..But discuss.

POSITIVE ATTITUDE.
7.DEVELOP AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE..

7.Be Thankful.

Many of our blessings are hidden treasures--count your blessings and not your troubles.

7.Be Thankful.

7.Be Thankful.

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7.Be Thankful.

Mental Techniques.

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7.Be Thankful.

Develop an attitude of gratitude.

Develop an attitude of gratitude.

8.Time Mangement is Life Management.

8.Time Mangement is Life Management.


Time, and time again To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed his exams... To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby... To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper... To realize the value of ONE DAY, ask a daily wage laborer...

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8.Time Mangement is Life Management.

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Time is not an enemy unless you try to kill it..

Time is not an enemy unless you try to kill it..

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8.Time Mangement is Life Management.

8.Time Mangement is Life Management.

8.Time Mangement is Life Management.


Success consists of doing the common things of life uncommonly well.

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Organise your Activities. Avoid Procrastination Give priority. Delegate effectively.

LIVE IN THE PRESENT.


YESTERDAY is history. TOMORROW is a mystery. TODAY is a gift. That's why it's called the PRESENT!!

8.Time Mangement is Life Management.

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Life is XXX. Yesterday is Xperience. Today is Xperiment. Tomorrow is Xpectation. So use your Xperience in your Xperiment to achieve your Xpectation.

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8.Time Mangement is Life Management. Worry pulls tomorrows cloud over todays bright sunshine .

There is more then one chance in life for everything. But there is no chance of another LIFE" EXPRESS n ENJOY Every Moment....

Worry pulls tomorrows cloud over todays bright sunshine .

8.Time Mangement is Life Management.

8.Time Mangement is Life Management.

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DECIDE TODAY...

DECIDE TODAY...

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9.Stay away from negative influences. STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE INFLUENCES.

9.Stay away from negative influences.

STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE.

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9.Stay away from negative influences.

Don't let negative people drag you down. Remember, a person's character is not only judged by the company he or she keeps but also by the company he or she avoids

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9.Stay away from negative influences.

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10.Accept Change..

10.Accept Change.

You have only two options in life 1) Accept 2) Change 1. Accept what you can't change. 2. Change what you can't accept.

10.Accept Change.

10.Accept Change.

11.Think Differently.
1. 2. 3. 4. Have realistic expectations. Reframe problems. Maintain your sense of humor. Express your feelings instead of bottling them up. 5. Don t try to control events or other people.

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don't try to control things that are uncontrollable instead adjust response, adapt.

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Success in life is not determined by how we are doing compared with others, but by how we are doing compared with what we are capable of doing. Successful people compete against themselves. They better their own record and keep improving constantly. Success is not measured by how high we go up in life but by how many times we bounce back when we fall down. It is this bounce back ability that determines success.

Nature's greatest gift to man is the ability to think. He can create his own environment, whereas animals adapt to their environment.

Sadly, very few people use the greatest gift the ability to think to its full potential.

We can choose our attitude even though we cannot always choose our circumstances. The choice is either to act like a victor or a victim. It is not our position but our disposition that determines our destiny.

A burning desire is the starting point of all accomplishment. Just like a small fire cannot give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results.

Ships that go out into the open water face risk from a storm. But if they sit in the harbour, they would rust and that is not what they were built for. That is the difference between playing to win and playing not to lose. One cannot be committed and not take risks. People who play to win thrive on pressure and those who play not to lose don't know how to succeed

There is no magic wand for success. In the real world, success comes to doers, not observers. Without hard work there is no success. Nature gives birds their food but does not put it in their nest. They have to work hard for it.

If you want to get ahead in life, go the extra mile. There is no competition on the extra mile. Are you willing to do a little more than you get paid for ? How many people you know are willing to do a little bit more than what they get paid for? Always think in terms of giving value added whether to customers, friends, your spouse, parents or children. Whenever you do anything, ask yourself, "How can I add value to what I am doing?" or "How can I give added value to others?"

When we give or do more than what we get paid for, we eliminate our competition. In fact, we become the competition. This attitude is much more important than intelligence or a degree.

A burning desire is the starting point of all accomplishment. Just like a small fire cannot give much heat, a weak desire cannot produce great results

Break the boundaries

Leave your comfort zone .

Break the boundaries

12.Dont QUIT.

12.Dont QUIT. Quitters Never Win. Winners Never Quit

12.Dont QUIT. Quitters Never Win. Winners Never Quit

13.forgive.

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13.forgive.
This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it.

Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive, Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving.

Mental Tehniques.

13.forgive.
Two children playing in a park begin to argue. One says, I hate you! Im never going to play with you again! For a few moments, they play separately, and then they are back playing together and sharing toys. How do children manage to be so angry one minute and best of friends the next?

The answer is simple, it is more important to them to be happy than to be right.

13.forgive.

Please forgive me.


Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

T.J Joseph. Adhikarathil. S H Mount. Kottayam.