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You cant change the way you are or who you fell in love with We support Uncle Poodle and all the other poodles in the world too.
TLC reality star Alana Honey Boo Boo Thompson in a statement publicized by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation on Oct. 19, Spirit Day, when people were encouraged to wear purple to oppose anti-LGBT bullying. Alanas gay Uncle Poodle, aka Lee Thompson, gave an in-depth interview to GA Voice in our Oct. 12 issue. (GLAAD.org, Oct. 19)

Recent local hate crimes show danger of incomplete information. Page 11 Lost-N-Found Youth marks one year of helping LGBT homeless. Page 13

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Lee Thompson, Uncle Poodle, in a video for Spirit Day recounting how he had been bullied day in and day out in school for being gay, but remains grateful for the support of his family. (GLAAD.org, Oct. 19)

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Being gay in the South, people dont like it. Why? You have homophobes who want to beat you and bully you and name-call you I am wearing purple today to let every youngster and teen know that is OK to be who you are. Dont let nobody change that.

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Organizers deem Atlanta Pride largest ever. Page 13 Atlanta Pride in pictures. Pages 16-17

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Melissa Etheridge gets back to her roots. Page 19 Books: Christian author plays gay for a year. Page 21 Theater: The Divine Sister bows at Process Theatre. Page 23 Food Porn: Husband-hunting in Atlantas restaurant scene. Page 24

People always talk about the double entendres. There was not one double entendre in the music.
David Scar Hodo, the construction worker in the 70s band The Village People, in an interview with other band members claiming songs like YMCA and In the Navy had no gay meaning. (The Sun, Oct. 22)

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Interior design television host Nate Berkus, promoting The Things that Matter, his semiautobiographical book, in an interview with Joy Behar. (HufngtonPost.com, Oct. 21)

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I knew that I was a gay boy fairly early; what was interesting to me was that my mother didnt know. I said, Mom, I dont like direct sunlight, I dont like bugs, I dont like grass, and Id rather be in the house playing with your fabric samples.

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Presidential race: Its our equality, stupid

Obama vs. Romney offers stark contrast on LGBT issues
MARRIAGE EQUALITY
Analysis and endorsement By Laura Douglas-Brown, GA Voice Editor Its the economy, stupid. Campaign strategist James Carvilles tagline for Bill Clintons 1992 presidential race has been a political catchphrase ever since. Its about the empathy, stupid. Thats the headline Slate.com writer Dalia Lithwick used to sum up the importance of President Barack Obamas May 2012 announcement that he had come to personally support same-sex marriage. Its our equality, stupid. Given all that Obama has accomplished on LGBT rights in his rst term, that may be the best way to explain why LGBT voters need to turn out to vote for Obama on Nov. 6 even in red states like Georgia that are likely to go for Republican challenger Mitt Romney. President Obama has improved the lives of LGBT Americans more than any president in history, the Human Rights Campaign, the nations largest LGBT political group, said in its endorsement of Obama. In 2008 we were promised change and profound change is what we got. Indeed, the list of Obamas accomplishments on LGBT issues would have been unimaginable for any other president. The president pushed for and signed into law two major items on the national gay political agenda: the LGBT-inclusive Matthew Shepard & James Byrd Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, and repeal of Dont Ask, Dont Tell. He instructed the Justice Department to stop defending court challenges against the Defense of Marriage Act, which bans federal recognition of same-sex marriage, and in May personally came out for marriage equality. He also made major strides on LGBT issues that didnt earn as many mainstream headlines, from requiring hospital visitation for LGBT partners to creating guidelines to protect transgender federal employees from job discrimination. Thats not to say some gay Republicans wont vote for Romney: In 2008, 27 percent of self-identied gay voters told exit pollsters they voted for GOP presidential nominee John McCain, though skeptics note the small sample size had a relatively large margin of error. But in this election, even the gay Republicans who back Romney arent using LGBT issues to explain their support. Instead, Jimmy LaSalvia, executive director of gay conservative group GOProud, argues Romney has a better economic plan. Many gay Americans simply do not have the luxury to make gay marriage their number
Obama: Personally supports marriage equality. Instructed the Justice Department to stop defending court challenges to the federal law that denies recognition to gay marriages. Romney: Pledges to amend the U.S. Constitution to ban gay marriage.

DONT ASK, DONT TELL

Obama: Successfully fought for repeal of Dont Ask, Dont Tell, allowing lesbians and gay men to now serve openly in the U.S. military. Romney: During the GOP primary, said he would not repeal DADT during the Iraq and Afghanistan conicts. Has since indicated he would not work to reinstate the law.
President Barack Obama will likely lose Georgia to Republican Mitt Romney, but casting your vote for the man Newsweek dubbed Americas rst gay president still matters. (Obama ofcial portrait, Romney publicty photo by Gage Skidmore)

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one issue. Many gay Americans like their straight counterparts simply cannot afford four more years of Barack Obama, LaSalvia said in an Oct. 16 press release. The Log Cabin Republicans, the other national gay GOP organization, issued a belated endorsement of Romney Oct. 23, while actually acknowledging that Obama is the better candidate on gay issues. If LGBT issues are a voters highest or only priority, then Gov. Romney may not be that voters choice. However, Log Cabin Republicans is an organization representing multifaceted individuals with diverse priorities, the endorsement states. Log Cabin leaders said they believe they can work with Romney on ENDA (perhaps because he was for it before he was against it: running for U.S. Senate in 1994, he told LCRs Massachusetts chapter he would co-sponsor ENDA, then changed his stance in later races). As for Romneys noxious pledge to support a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, Log Cabin leaders essentially said they dont think he will follow through, noting, there is a signicant difference between a valid threat and an empty promise made to a vocal but shrinking constituency. GA Voice doesnt presume to analyze each candidates economic plans; our expertise is LGBT issues. But it is worth noting that many of the LGBT rights initiatives backed by Obama and opposed by Romney have a direct economic impact for LGBT Americans. Military service offers a path to skilled

Obama: Supports the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, which would ban job discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity, and has extended similar protections for LGBT federal workers. Romney: As a U.S. Senate candidate in 1994, Romney said he would co-sponsor ENDA, but has since said he opposes ENDA because it would unfairly penalize employers at the hands of activist judges.

Its the economy, too

job training and a college education for thousands of middle class and lower-income Americans; repeal of Dont Ask, Dont Tell means gay people can take advantage of this economic benet. The Employment Non-Discrimination Act, which Obama supports and Romney opposes, would protect LGBT workers from facing economic disaster due to a bigoted employer. Likewise, the stark contrast between Obama and Romney on gay marriage represents a huge difference on both equality and economics, as being able to legally marry would have dramatic economic benets for same-sex couples. The list includes being able to inherit a spouses property without additional taxation, being able to cover a spouse on health benets without extra taxation, being able to receive Social Security survivor benets, avoiding legal fees to try to recreate a portion of the benets that come with an inexpensive marriage license, and many more. The winner of the popular vote gets all 15 of Georgias electoral college votes, which really elect the president, and its all but certain that Romney will win the Peach State. A poll conducted Oct. 8-12 by Abt SRBI

Your vote counts

Inc. for the Atlanta Journal-Constitution found that of 706 likely voters, 51 percent planned to cast their ballots for Romney, while 43 percent supported Obama. But with 5 percent undecided and a margin of error of 5.3 percent, it is still possible that the race could be close. And even though Georgias electoral college votes are awarded all-or-nothing, the spread still matters. The Williams Institute, a think tank, extrapolates from the 2010 Census to estimate Georgias LGBT population at 340,000, according to Georgia Equalitys Jeff Graham. To put that in perspective, in the 2008 presidential race, John McCain won Georgia with 52.2 percent of the vote, gaining 204,792 more votes than Obama. If LGBT voters turn out to help fuel a strong showing for Obama in Georgia, we can send a powerful message even if he doesnt win the state: We show that candidates who support LGBT equality can still be viable here, and we prove that LGBT citizens can be a voting block worthy of attention from candidates from the top of the ballot on down. So regardless of who gets Georgias electoral college votes, your ballot matters. If LGBT equality matters to you, cast it for President Obama on Nov. 6.

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Top 10 national LGBT races to watch

From Congress to marriage equality, much at stake on Election Day
By Laura Douglas-Brown lbrown@thegavoice.com From the chance to elect the nations first openly gay U.S. senator to the nations first state referendum to pro-actively legalize samesex marriage, Nov. 6 could prove historic for LGBT equality. Here are 10 key contests to watch around the country on Election Day.
Tammy Baldwin Wisconsin David Cicilline Rhode Island Kyrsten Sinema Arizona
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Wisconsin: Tammy Baldwin Democrat Tammy Baldwin made history in 1998 when she became the first non-incumbent openly LGBT person and the first out lesbian elected to the U.S. House, representing Wisconsins District 2. Now, the Madison resident wants to make history again: as the first openly LGBT U.S. senator in history. She faces Republican Tommy Thompson, former Wisconsin governor and former U.S. Secretary for Health & Human Services, for the seat left open by Sen. Herb Kohls decision to retire.

Mark Takano California

Richard Tisei Massachusetts

Sean Patrick Maloney New York

LGBT person of color to serve in the U.S. Congress, according to the Victory Fund. A Democrat, he is running against Republican John Tavaglione for the District 41 seat, based in Riverside County. Massachusetts: Richard Tisei Former Massachusetts state legislator Richard Tisei is running for the states District 6 seat in the U.S. House. If successful, he would be the first out Republican elected to Congress as a non-incumbent; Republican U.S. Reps. Jim Kolbe (RAriz.) and Steve Gunderson (R-Wisc.) both first came out while already serving in Congress. Tisei faces Democrat John Tierney and Libertarian Daniel Fishman. New York: Sean Patrick Maloney A Democrat running for the 18th Congressional District, Maloney would be the first out gay member of Congress from New York. The Cold Spring resident lives with his partner of more than 20 years; the couple has three children. Maloney faces Republican incumbent Nan Hayworth.

than by anti-gay forces seeking to prevent or overturn same-sex marriage. Freedom to Marry, a national advocacy organization that has invested $1 million in the Maine fight, cites a July 2012 poll from the Portland Press-Herald in which 57 percent of respondents favored allowing same-sex marriage. Maryland The Maryland state legislature passed samesex marriage last spring, and Maryland Gov. Martin OMalley signed it into law on March 1, 2012. Opponents pushed for a referendum on the November ballot to stop same-sex marriage, which was set to begin Jan. 1, 2013. The ballot measure, known as Question 6 or the Civil Marriage Protection Act, establishes that Marylands civil marriage laws allow gay and lesbian couples to obtain a civil marriage license. Minnesota Minnesota already has a state law banning same-sex marriage. On Nov. 6, voters will be asked whether to amend the state constitution to recognize marriage solely between one man and one woman. Washington Washingtons state legislature approved a same-sex marriage bill early this year and Gov. Christine Gregoire signed it into law by on Feb. 13. Same-sex marriage was scheduled to begin in Washington on June 7, 2012, but opponents were able to gather enough signatures to get a ballot measure to overturn gay marriage approved for the November 2012 election. To uphold same-sex marriage, voters will have to vote to approve Referendum 74. Sources: Victory Fund, Freedom to Marry, Project Vote Smart

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Rhode Island: David Cicilline Former mayor of Providence, R.I., David Cicillines 2010 election to the U.S. House made him the fourth openly LGBT member of Congress and just the seventh LGBT person in U.S. history to serve openly on Capitol Hill, according to the Victory Fund. A Democrat, he faces a tough reelection battle for District 1 versus Republican Brendan Doherty and Independent David Vogel. Arizona: Kyrsten Sinema Running to represent Arizonas 9th Congressional district, Phoenix resident Kyrsten Sinema would be the first out bisexual elected to Congress, according to the Victory Fund. In 2006, she led Arizona Together, the only successful effort to defeat an anti-gay marriage ballot initiative. A Democrat, she faces Republican Vernon Parker and Libertarian Powell Gammill on the Nov. 6 ballot. California: Mark Takano A public high school teacher whose parents and grandparents were sent to Japanese American internment camps during World War II, Mark Takano would become the first openly

BALLOT MEASURES

Maine In November, Maine citizens will vote not on a gay marriage ban but on whether to pro-actively grant marriage equality in their state. This is the first such ballot measure in the country, brought by LGBT advocates rather

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CANDIDATES RUNNING UNOPPOSED

Gay candidates seek seats in Ga. General Assembly

LGBT voters urged to help block GOP dominance in state legislature
By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com

State Rep. Karla Drenner (D-Avondale Estates) House District 85 www.karladrenner.org

State Rep. Keisha Waites (D-Atlanta) House District 60 www.keishawaites.com

CANDIDATES FACING OPPOSITION State Rep. Simone Bell (D-Atlanta)

House District 58 www.simonebell.com

State Rep. Simone Bell (D-Atlanta) won a special election in 2009, becoming the rst openly lesbian African-American state lawmaker in the country. In the House, Bell is a top co-sponsor of the Fair Employment Practices Act. Her long career in public service includes working for the Health Initiative and as community educator for Lambda Legal. Bell faces Republican challenger Earl Cooper on Nov. 6. She is endorsed by Georgia Equality, Atlanta Stonewall Democrats and the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund.

Timothy Swiney (D-Lawrenceville)

House District 101 www.electtimothy.com
Timothy Swiney is challenging Republican Rep. Valerie Clark. Swiney, who lives in Lawrenceville with his partner and their two adopted children, is a strong advocate for changing Georgia law to specify that LGBT couples can adopt. Currently, Georgia law is silent on gay adoption, leaving decisions to individual judges. Swiney is endorsed by the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats.

Five openly gay candidates seek seats in the Georgia General Assembly in the Nov. 6 election, including three lesbian incumbents and two gay men challenging GOP state lawmakers. Two other known gay candidates are also on the ballot in Georgia, running for state Public Service Commission and Floyd County Commission. In addition, Georgia Equality, the states largest LGBT political group, targets six races with gay-friendly Democratic candidates to try to keep Republicans from gaining a constitutional majority in the state legislature, which would allow them to put constitutional amendments on the ballot without needing any votes from Democrats. Also, the state Fair Employment Practices Act (FEPA), which would make it illegal to re state workers based on sexual orientation and gender identity, would be in danger of stalling. In the past session it stayed stuck in the House Judiciary Committee. There is a lot at stake the presidential race, a constitutional majority and sponsors for FEPA, Georgia Equality lobbyist Cathy Woolard has said of the upcoming election. When Nov. 7 rolls around, there will be at least two openly gay people serving under the Gold Dome. State Rep. Karla Drenner (D-Avondale Estates) has no opposition and will be reelected to House District 85. The rst openly LGBT person elected to the Georgia legislature, Drenner has held onto her post since she was rst elected in 2000. State Rep. Keisha Waites (D-Atlanta) battled a crowded eld in the Democratic primary, but also has no opposition in the general election and will win her rst full term in House District 60 after winning a special election in early 2012. State Rep. Simone Bell (D-Atlanta), the third openly lesbian member of the Georgia House, faces Republican challenger Earl Cooper in the redrawn House District 58. Interestingly, Coopers Facebook page displays a photo of him with Vice President Joe Biden and also a photo with First Lady Michelle Obama and wearing an Obama 08 pin.

Georgia Equalitys efforts to get out the LGBT vote included the LGBT political groups Gold Dome oat in the Atlanta Pride parade; other strategies include direct mail, phone banking and social media. (Photo by Bo Shell)

Tim Riley (D-Athens)

Senate District 47 www.drtimrileyforsenate.com

Tim Riley, a Democrat living in Athens, is vying for Senate District 47 but faces a Republican voting block and a popular Republican incumbent, Frank Ginn. This is his fourth bid for state Senate.

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Brad Ploeger (Libertarian-Atlanta)

Public Service Commission www.bradploeger.com

Brad Ploeger, a Libertarian, is running for the Public Service Commission against incumbent Chuck Eaton and Democrat Steve Oppenheimer. Ploeger said he is running for PSC because by most appearances the Commission serves solely as a rubber stamp for the businesses it is charged with regulating.

Gary D. Harrell (D-Rome)

Floyd County Commission Post 2 www.garydharrell.com

Rome resident Gary Harrell hopes to unseat Republican incumbent Garry E. Fricks for the Floyd County Commission Post 2 seat. Harrell said he is running on a platform of fresh ideas, supporting small businesses, balancing the countys budget thoughtfully and using new green and clean technology to move Floyd County forward.

Bells 2009 election made her the rst openly lesbian African-American state lawmaker in the country. She faced a tough Democratic primary this year, beating fellow Democratic Rep. Ralph Long after Republicans drew the two incumbents into the same new district. Two openly gay men are also vying for seats in the General Assembly Timothy Swiney of Lawrenceville is seeking state ofce for the rst time while Tim Riley of Athens is making a fourth run. Swiney, a Democrat, is hoping to unseat Republican incumbent Rep. Valerie Clark in House District 101. Swiney is endorsed by the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats and said he would strongly advocate for the Fair Employment Practices Act. Riley is again running for the state Senate against Republican incumbent Frank Ginn for Senate District 47. Riley also supports FEPA, saying he would work to ensure all people are treated fairly in the workplace. No openly gay man has been elected to the state legislature. State Rep. Rashad Taylor (D-Atlanta) lost to incumbent Pat Gardner (DAtlanta) in the July primary. Taylor came out as gay after already being in ofce. Also on the Nov. 6 ballot, Brad Ploeger, who is gay, seeks a seat on the state Public Service

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Commission. The mission of the PSC is to ensure that consumers receive safe, reliable and reasonably priced telecommunications, electric and natural gas services from nancially viable and technically competent companies. Meanwhile, in Rome, Ga., gay Democratic activist Gary Harrell is challenging Republican incumbent Garry E. Fricks for Floyd County Commission Post 2. Sexual orientation has not been an issue in the race, Harrell said.

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Fear of a GOP super majority

LGBT Georgians will suffer if the GOP solidies total control of the state legislature, according to Georgia Equalitys Woolard. I cant overstate how important it is that this [constitutional majority] not happen this time around, or the next time around. We need to not be moving toward this, we need to be moving away from this. This is too close to the edge, Woolard said at a recent political briefing at the Rush Center. A constitutional majority, or two-thirds of the members of the House or Senate, is the vote threshold required to put a constitutional amendment on the ballot in Georgia. In 2004, it took Democrats crossing party lines to vote with Republicans to put the constitutional amendment banning gay marriage on the ballot. If the GOP wins a constitutional majority, similar amendments could be sent to voters without needing any Democratic support. In the state House, Georgia Equality believes four out of ve key races must have Democrats win to block a GOP constitutional majority. The races are: Kimberly Alexander (D) vs. Bob Snelling (R). This is the newly drawn District 66 in the Douglasville area west of Atlanta. Snelling has name recognition because he was a state representative in 2002. Rep. Carl Von Epps (D-LaGrange) vs. Gene King (R) in District 132. Von Epps is a long-time incumbent and a sponsor of FEPA. Renita Hamilton (D) vs. Joyce Chandler (R) in the new District 105 that includes Lawrenceville and Grayson of Gwinnett County. Hamilton also received an early endorsement from Georgia Equality. Rep. Scott Holcomb (D-Atlanta) vs. Chris Boedeker (R) in District 81 that includes North Central DeKalb and a section of Gwinnett. Holcomb is the incumbent and a sponsor of FEPA. Rep. Pedro Marin (D-Duluth) vs. Mark Williams (R) in District 96. Marin is also a long-time incumbent and FEPA sponsor and is endorsed by Georgia Equality. On the Senate side of the General Assembly, there is one crucial race to keep the Republicans from gaining a constitutional majority the race between incumbent Rep. Doug Stoner (D-Smyrna) and Republican Hunter Hill for District 6, which includes Sandy Springs, Buckhead and South Cobb. Stoner has received Georgia Equalitys endorsement but Hill is a tough opponent because he is a native of the area, an Iraq War veteran and a Westminster graduate.

HOW YOU CAN HELP Georgia Equality seeks volunteers to help endorsed candidates, either through phone banking or even driving people to the polls. To nd out how you can help, email Melinda Sheldon at Melinda@georgiaequality.org

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Police cant verify recent local hate crime claims

Lesbians in Pride attack started fight; Atlantic Station alleged victim still mum
By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com When two lesbians told a local TV station they were attacked over Atlanta Pride weekend because they were gay, people reacted with shock and empathy. How could something so awful happen in Atlanta, much less during Pride weekend? But when the Fulton County Sheriffs Department released its report on the incident that happened at about 3:30 a.m. Oct. 13 in front of the W Hotel in Midtown, it raised questions about whether the two women told the whole story when they spoke to Fox 5 reporter Kaitlyn Pratt before the report was released. Lesbian couple Kathryn Katalinich and Brooke Creef told Fox 5 they were called an anti-gay slur and pushed to the ground by men who also laughed at them. Its just ridiculous there is so much hate, a tearful Katalinch told Fox 5 in a report that was broadcast Oct. 13 and posted to the Fox 5 website Oct. 14. The couple told Fox 5 that words were exchanged with two men as they were getting into a cab. Creef said she was pushed to the ground and then Katalinich was also pushed to the ground and her knees were scraped. The news report did not include any information from police, just the words of the women who said what happened to them was a hate crime. Pratt did not discuss what a hate crime is but stressed the angle that the crime coincided with the gayest weekend in Atlanta.

Lesbians started altercation

On Oct. 15, however, the Fulton County Sheriff Deputy who was working a secondary job as security at the W Hotel finished the report on the incident and it was released to the public. The report stated the lesbian couple was intoxicated and instigated the fight by calling an Asian woman a stripper among other things. After the lesbians called the Asian woman a stripper, she and her two black male friends retorted by calling Katalinich and Creef dykes, the report stated. The Fulton County sheriffs deputy, B. Pride, was working at the hotel when he was asked for assistance to break up a fight on the outdoor patio, according to the report. Some involved in the incident had fled the scene but the deputy interviewed the two women, Katalinich and Creef, both of Atlanta, who said they were beaten up.

Kathryn Katalinich (left) and her girlfriend, Brooke Creef, said they were attacked in a hate crime over Atlanta Pride weekend. A police report, however, suggests the couple instigated the fight. (Scheenshot via Fox 5)

Ms. Creef stated stated to me that the incident started as a result of her directing several comments towards the Asian female, during which she referred to her as a stripper and made negative comments about the way she was dressed, according to the report. The Asian female uttered, You look like a dike (sic). Both parties then engaged in a verbal confrontation yelling various negative epithets at each other. Ms. Creef alleged that Ms. Katalalinich approached the opposing party at which point one of the males pushed her down to the ground, the report states. The report further states Katalinich and Creef appeared to be moderately intoxicated. Both said they had been drinking at a party at the hotel, according to the report. Emails to the Fox 5 reporter Kaitlyn Pratt were not returned for comment. Attempts to reach Katalinich by phone and email were also unsuccessful. From news reports, it sounds like these women may have been victims of batteries. The obvious problem with calling yourself the victim of a crime, though, if you are the one who started it, is that you werent targeted due to your suspect class, in this case your homosexuality, said Atlanta gay attorney Christine Koehler. If news reports are correct, you drew attention to yourself when you referred to a woman as a stripper based on her attire. It is unfortunate that a verbal altercation would disintegrate in to name calling such as dyke, Koehler added. The Fulton County Sheriffs Department has turned over the case to the Atlanta Police Department. This is not being viewed as a bias crime,

at present, by APD, said spokesperson Carlos Campos. The report from the Fulton County Sheriffs Office seemed to indicate there was an exchange of words between two parties that led to an altercation. The information we were provided from the report indicates that the altercation did not seem to result from the sexual orientation of the complainants. We have spoken with the complainants, Campos said. We are not investigating the incident further.

Atlantic Station incident still in question

The Atlanta Pride incident follows another alleged gay bashing that occurred in Atlantic Station on Aug. 4. In that incident, John Mark Parker of Decatur was on the way to a party being thrown by LGBT magazine Fenuxe when he said he was punched in the face by a man after the man asked if he was gay and he answered yes. Parker was taken to the hospital and received stitches after filing a preliminary police report. But since Aug. 4, Atlanta police have been unable to reach Parker to follow up on the incident Parker has not returned phone calls, emails and not been available when visits were made to his home, according to an investigator with the APDs internal affairs department. Alarming the community by reporting a hate crime but then not following through or worse, calling yourself the victim of a crime when you started the whole altercation is the boy who cried wolf scenario. It has the potential to diminish real, valid claims made by true victims of hate crimes, Koehler said.

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Lost-n-Found Youth celebrates first anniversary

Leader to spend two days on truck to raise awareness
By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com To commemorate the one-year anniversary of Lost-n-Found Youth, the organizations executive director plans to spend 48 hours on top of a box truck to raise awareness of the plight of LGBT homeless youth in Atlanta. Rick Westbrook, executive director of Lost-n-Found Youth, plans to stay on top of the truck from the afternoon of Nov.6 until Nov. 8. He will document his experience through Facebook posts, Twitter updates and perhaps a live video stream to give a glimpse of what homeless youth experience when forced to live on the streets. The truck will be parked next to Brushstrokes in the Ansley Square shopping center. Westbrook said he will climb aboard the truck one hour before the polls close on Election Day. He will come down for a short time to attend a town hall meeting on Nov. 7. I will be there rain or shine, Westbrook said. Weather permitting Ill sleep on the top of the truck, like the kids that sleep on the streets. If it rains Ill sleep in the back of the truck, like the kids that sleep in squats or abandoned buildings. If the weather gets below freezing Ill sleep in the truck, like the kids that sleep in their cars or any car they can find unlocked, he added. With access to the empty truck, Westbrook said he and the other volunteers of Lost-n-Found hope the community will fill it up with coats, underwear, socks, canned food and gift cards. Westbrook said he will attend the town hall meeting coming straight from his stay on the truck so it might not be pretty and then will return to the truck afterwards for another 24 hours.

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Lost-n-Found Youth Town Hall Wednesday, Nov. 7, 7 p.m. The Rush Center 1530 DeKalb Avenue, Suite A, Atlanta, GA 30307 www.lost-n-found.org 24 hour hotline: 678-8-Lost-25

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The Atlanta Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence announced at a town hall meeting last November that its members would form a new organization in Atlanta to serve LGBT homeless youth who were falling through the cracks of other organizations. First named Saint Lost-n-Found, the group changed its name to Lost-n-Found Youth and just this month received its own non-profit status as a separate entity from the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Since that town hall in November through today, the organization completely volunteer run has staffed a 24/7 hotline for youth who are in immediate need of housing and also

Lost-n-Found Youths float in the Atlanta Pride parade had the theme of The places youll go! (Photo by Dyana Bagby)

maintains a six-room home. In its first year, the organization has helped some 100 young people find housing, jobs, get dental and health care, clothes and a sense of empowerment. The town hall meeting on Nov. 7 will update the community on what Lost-n-Found has accomplished and also explain where the group

still needs help to serve LGBT youth, Westbrook said. The organization holds regular fundraisers, including the monthly Big Gay Game Show at Jungle, which typically raises approximately $1,000 and pays the rent for the group home. But Westbrook and the Lost-n-Found board of directors are determined not to accept state funding or grants because they do not want the organization to be forced to follow strict guidelines of who and how they can help. Thats why donations from the community are so important, Wesbrook said, noting that a great time to give is when he is camped on top of the truck. It really is the beginning of our second year of funding so If people want to bring cash, checks, loose change I will make sure it gets used to its fullest potential, Westbrook said.

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By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com Atlanta Pride 2012 is in the history books and next years fest is already set for Oct. 1213, 2013, in Piedmont Park. As planning begins for next years LGBT celebration, organizers called this years massive turnout truly the largest attendance in the events history. While the number of people who visited Piedmont Park for Atlanta Pride over the weekend of Oct. 13-14 is hard to measure, Atlanta Pride Board Chair Glen Paul Freedman said Pride had its busiest Saturday in years and overall attendance broke records. No question that with all of the events throughout the weekend, in and out of the park for Pride, you could say this was truly the largest attendance and the great weather assisted with the massive turn out, Freedman said. Vendors ran out of materials early on Saturday, an indicator of a heavy turnout, Freedman noted. Financial information on how much vendors made wont be available for another 60 days, he added. We have heard from vendors that many of them ran out of items in their booth on Saturday and had to totally restock on Sunday morning before the parade, and several vendors ran out by the end of the day on Sunday, Freedman said. Among the most popular Pride booths throughout the weekend were those offering free HIV testing. The Ric Crawford Clinic and Positive Impact joined forces to provide free testing at Atlanta Pride this year, and over the course of the weekend, tested approximately 1,000 people. People lined up at the tents waiting for the half-hour or longer process. Asen Herndon, 20, of Kennesaw, who is gay, said he wanted to take advantage of the free HIV testing and appreciated it being available during Pride.

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Top: These revelers in the 2012 Pride Parade were among the 200 entries that helped make this years event larger than ever. (Photo by Brent Corcoran/ RNZ Photography) Bottom left: The Ric Crawford Clinic and Positive Impact performed some 1,000 HIV tests in Piedmont Park. (Photo by Bo Shell)

Because I want to make sure Im safe. I havent tested since last year, Herndon said while waiting for his results. I love it, he said about having testing at Pride. Free is always good. But you cant put a price on being safe. Also waiting for his test results was J.J. Moore, 19. I really dont get tested often because I havent had sex ... but Atlanta is known for HIV or AIDS and anywhere someone can go get it done for free is good, Moore said. Nearly 160 people marched in the Trans March this year, up from last year. This march takes place in the park on Pride Saturday as a way to provide visibility to the lesbian, gay and bisexual people attending the festival. Casey Geyer of JustUs ATL said its time for the march to move to the streets. It was on the sidewalk, not on the street. I think next year it needs to be on the street, Geyer said. Trans tends to get pushed to the side. Its important we create visibility for ourselves.

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About 300 people marched in this years Dyke March, also on Saturday, Oct. 13. Karen Aguero and her partner marched as a group with their daughter, Taylor, and numerous other family members and friends for one simple reason: Because were proud, Aguero said. There were no major hiccups in the park other than a few anti-gay protesters who were in the park on Saturday but were removed with the help of the APD; no anti-gay protesters made it into the park on Sunday, Freedman said. Anti-gay protesters heckled Sundays Pride parade, but they were drowned out by cars blaring their horns and LGBT-rights supporters cheering as marchers and oats went by. The parade was also the largest ever, with some 200 entries. It lasted nearly three hours from the beginning at the MARTA Civic Station to the end at the Charles Allen entrance of Piedmont Park. Winners in the parade in the nonprot category were Latin Gay Community (rst place), MISTER (second) and Righteously Outrageous Twirling Society (third). In the for prot category, winners were Nakato

Japanese Restaurant (rst), Fenuxe magazine (second) and Swinging Richards (third). I would like our community to know that it takes 11 months to plan the Pride festival, parade and ofcial events, and we owe a large thank you to our APC staff, festival committee members, Pride leads and volunteers, Freedman said. We could not produce the largest LGBT free outdoor festival in the Southeast and the largest outdoor free festival in Atlanta without this dedicated group of staff and volunteers, he said. Buck Cooke held down the reins this year as interim managing director and plans are to hire a full-time executive director by the end of the year, Freedman added. The APC Board of Directors is meeting next week to approve the candidate process to hire a full-time executive director, which will be released by the end of this month. Our long term plans continue to be that we will hire an executive director before years end, he said.

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ts been almost 25 years since the release of Melissa Etheridges rst studio album and nearly 20 since she came out publicly with her aptly named 1993 album, Yes I Am. Now the groundbreaking lesbian rocker returns to her roots with her latest album, Septembers 4th Street Feeling, named for a street in her hometown of Leavenworth, Kan. Her tour stops in Atlanta on Monday, Nov. 12, for a show at Symphony Hall. Etheridge shattered barriers rst by coming out in the early 90s and then by performing live at the Grammys while bald from breast cancer treatment. She returns to where she was born and raised for her eclectic 11th studio album, while experimenting with some new elements as well like the banjitar featured in the rst single, Falling Up. Always been known as a confessional musician, Etheridges personal woes have been on display in a new way with her 2010 split from actress Tammy Michaels and the alimony and custody cases that have only recently been resolved. Nevertheless, Etheridge sings about her readiness to accept love again on her newest release, explaining that when she sings, I think Im ready to try my hand at love again in the track Rock & Roll Me, shes referring to her budding relationship with Nurse Jackie creator Linda Wallem, whom she met through her ex. I dont think were ever ready, Etheridge says. Like if it was up to me Id still be sitting up in my room, No! No! Im not going to do that again! But love has a way of coming and the relationship that Im actually in now, shes been my best friend for 10 years. Believe me, I wasnt going to go out and look for it; it found its way into my home. Im very happy. Yes, I am ready to try my hand at love again. You described that 4th Street feeling as the freedom to put everything you owned into your Chevy Impala. Youve been on a long journey from Leavenworth, Kan., so its interesting that the emotional center of this album has us listening to Al Green and Tina Turner on your old 8-track. Why was it so important for you to bring us all back here with you? Etheridge: Because thats where my journey took me. I thought in the spiritual evolution of aging and gaining wisdom that I would somehow shed all my old stuff and become something new. What I found is the only way you can become something new is to completely embrace all the old that you are and understand where you came from, and hold it, and even change your past in a way in the way that you perceive it. In the way

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Almost 20 years after Melissa Etheridge became one of the rst openly gay mainstream musicians, her 4th Street Feeling tour stop in Atlanta on Nov. 12. (Publicity photo by James Minchin III)

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Melissa Etheridge Monday, Nov. 12, 8 p.m. Atlanta Symphony Hall 1280 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30309 www.atlantasymphony.org that you hold it now. And music takes you right back there. Its obvious that were doing some reminiscing as a society right now. The music sounds like its right out of the 60s or something, everything is retro, its going back. Its like taking the best of what we did do and growing on it. You came out 19 years ago and released Yes I Am. Just recently, R&B singer Frank Ocean followed your script, coming out and dropping an album; how has the music industry changed for gay musicians since 93? Well, theres safety in numbers, you know? I think in the 90s when those of us were speaking out, it was a sparse eld. But I think everyone was kind of watching going, Well, are you going to lose everything? Is it going to be like what we think? And its all about how you kind of hold yourself in it. Back then we did it. Did it hurt my career? I say, I went from selling one million to six million. People can see that Im not blaming any of my perceived failures on being gay, so I hold it that way. Its just part of who I am. Its part of the big tapestry of who I am.

We also know that the male aspect of that sexuality can be really frightening to a lot of people, so I think that it is somehow looked at as its harder to be a gay man and open in the entertainment industry. Youve got to be really solid to do that. In general, its a little more delicate of a subject, just because of all the fear. Four years ago, you took part in the historic Logo-HRC presidential election panel. What do you think of whats happened since then? In the last 20 years, especially the last four, I think [the LGBT community has] become wiser about what part we play in this American drama that keeps unfolding in front of us, this experiment called Democracy and America and equality and what it really means. We challenge it to its very core and weve seen how weve been played in this game. OK, our votes are important, but no one can ever give us full cooperation, or they might be deemed less than, weak, or whatever scares them from giving us our civil rights. So I think this last thing that Obama did, by saying he supports gay marriage, it changes the direction of the stream just enough to kind of give us, Alright, theres a reason well vote for you again. Yes, you need our votes. Because were a large group of people that cuts across every kind of people. And it also cuts across so many of our deep-seated fears in our whole culture. Its a challenge. Were challenged people, and we are

challenging. And I think the homosexual community is the leaders in our great societal change right now. We are really pushing it, and I think its great. It always seems with the LGBT community, its two steps forward, two steps back. As an artist how do you respond to these crises of community? I look at the LGBT community as the balance. We are all searching for balance right now. Our whole society. The whole human race. The gay community we are examples of balance, because we have both the male and female inside each of us. And thats pretty special. And when we can learn to love that about us more, then well see that there are emotional distresses in every type of person in every walk and choice of person, and that theres a lot of sadness and a lot of fear and it makes you perfect and normal. And we have to realize that our diversity is our strength, not only in our community but in our country, in the world. Its loud and clear we better jump on that wagon, that everyone is different, and you have to celebrate those differences, otherwise were just going to destroy ourselves. So I appeal to the LGBT community and say, Hold yourself as someone very special. Believe in who you are, and hold your balance. And that will help balance the rest of the world.

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What happens when a lesbian breaks down outside of a karaoke club and comes out to her fundamental evangelical friend, telling him how she was thrown out of her church and home? In The Cross in the Closet, author Timothy Kurek describes his journey from condemning his friend to becoming accepting of all LGBT people. The process included his becoming gay for a year (or rather pretending to be gay) and really coming out to his family, friends and church. Since The Cross in the Closet was published earlier this month, Kureks experiment has garnered interviews on CNN, MSNBC, ABCs The View, Fox News Radio and more. GA Voice: Tell us about how this experiment began. Kurek: A friend of mine used to go to karaoke with me in Nashville every week. She said, I just came out to my family who is saved and they completely rejected me. She got kicked out of her home, excommunicated from her church, was forced to move out and then, with no nancial support, had to drop out of college. I realized that my instinct was to preach to her and change her instead of just loving her in that moment of sorrow. That voice telling me to preach to her wasnt God. It was my spiritual programming. I started to wonder how I could get rid of that programming and really feel her pain. I knew it wasnt enough to have sympathy: I had to have empathy. To understand what she went through, I would have to do what Jesus did and become something I wasnt and walk a mile in her shoes. I had always been taught to follow Jesus. Up until then, following Jesus just meant going to a legalistic church, listening to Rush Limbaugh and voting Republican. I knew I had to get away from those things and just see what it was like to live like a gay man. What was it like to come out to your parents? I hated lying to them but what other way could I possibly understand how it feels to have the fear of rejection unless I did? But you knew you would tell them eventually that you werent gay and theyd love you again so was there really a fear? If they had rejected me, I would have known forever that their love was conditional so it was a real fear. It was terrifying.

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What gay things did you do? I adopted the label of gay Im straight so I cant be gay. I could only immerse myself in gay culture. I didnt want things to be scripted so I just hung out in the gayborhood. When someone asked me to play on the gay softball team, I said yes. When someone asked me to go to New York to protest with SoulForce, I said yes. I let everything happen the way it would have naturally happened if I really were gay. I did have a pretend boyfriend because the rst time I went to a gay club, I realized I was in way over my head. I pulled my one gay friend from karaoke in and asked him to help. He agreed to be my boyfriend so it kept me from having to irt and gave me an excuse if a man asked me out. I did let him kiss me one time for the experience. We also held hands and I was very comfortable with him but I didnt do anything sexual whatsoever. What was the biggest surprise that you learned about the gay community? In my upbringing, there was a list of gay stereotypes like alcoholics, drug addicts, promiscuous all of the negative adjectives. When I started living with them, about 99 percent of those stereotypes evaporated. There was a series of these breaking down stereotypes moments that moved me along but I think the moment the scales fell off my eyes I wrote about it in the chapter I called Jesus in Drag it was when I was at the [LGBT] caf. I heard a familiar song coming from the community center next door. It was karaoke

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The Cross in the Closet by Timothy Kurek 352 pages, BlueHead Publishing (Oct. 11, 2012) www.timothykurek.com night and I walked in, there was a drag queen on stage singing Our God is an Awesome God and everybody in the room had their arms up, eyes closed and just praising God. It was the most intense worship experiences of my life. It was also the moment that I felt ashamed of how stupid I had been to think that you couldnt be gay and be a Christian. What was the biggest surprise that you learned about the Christian community? I had a few friends openly reject me. But more shocking was how isolating and debilitating it was when I realized when my church and everyone in it cut me off without a word. It ended up being a blessing to nd out who my real friends were. I was rooting for them to come and be like Jesus to me so that I could break some of the stereotypes about Christians. It was really convicting that when I walked into the gay community in Nashville, I was instantly welcomed, loved and accepted like Jesus would have done. I never felt that level of love or community in any church. If the church could emulate the LGBT community in terms of their ability to accept and love each other, I dont think the world would be the same.

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The Divine Sister Through Nov. 17 at Onstage Atlanta 2597 N. Decatur Road, Decatur, GA 30033 www.theprocesstheatre.org sible with the big giant body and baritone voice I bring to the table. Thats ended up being so instructive with the men, as well, because I pay attention to specicity and consistency. In a sense, Joan Crawford taught me to be a better actor, which I think shed be pleased to know. Mother Superior has been a fun new area to explore because her vow is totally literal. She really sees herself as married to Jesus, and every choice she makes is ltered through that relationship. Being Mrs. Jesus is a pretty big responsibility. How would you describe this character? Is she Auntie Mame-ish? Topher: Mother Superior was a girl reporter in the 1940s who ed to a convent after getting dumped by the love of her life. Her best friend came along and became a nun as well. Now

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If theres anything Auntie Mame-ish about her, its her absolute unappability. She just takes life as it comes, which I admire. DeWayne: She is an everywoman; everyone looks up to her and respects her opinion. She really wants to rebuild the convent they are in and move it into the new century. Did you do any special preparation or specic research? Topher: The plays a mash-up of every movie about nuns, so I re-watched the ones it references Sister Act, Doubt, Agnes of God, plus that amazingly bad movie where Mary Tyler Moores a nun and Elvis is a doctor in the ghetto. Seriously, I am still getting over how bad that movie was. For my own prep, with each of the female characters I try to send them in a new direction, so the audience doesnt say, Oh, Tophers doing that thing he does when he plays a chick. I studied Maggie Smith, Cherry Jones, Katharine Hepburn whiskey-voiced broads who command absolute authority, but seem like they know a few really good dirty jokes. With Walmart poised to take over the Suburban Plaza shopping center (where Onstage and Process are housed) next year, where will the two theaters re-locate? DeWayne: We want to stay with Onstage together somewhere within a ve-mile radius, and hopefully we can announce something soon.

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Never known to shy away from gay-themed or bawdy material, the Process Theatre opens its 10th anniversary season this week with the comedic The Divine Sister, starring a duo who have worked together consistently over the years Topher Payne (also a GA Voice columnist) and Process Artistic Director DeWayne Morgan, both openly gay. Sister is the latest from the hands of Charles Busch, author of Vampire Lesbians of Sodom, Die, Mommie, Die! and Psycho Beach Party. We caught up with Payne and Morgan to discuss the play and the future of Process Theatre. Youve played so many diverse roles in your career, Topher, from David Frost to Joan Crawford. How does playing a nun t into your oeuvre? Topher: When I approach playing one of these women, I have to study movement and voice so closely, just to gure out whats pos-

Topher Payne, GA Voice columnist and Best Actor winner in the 2012 GA Voice Best of Atlanta awards, plays Mother Superior in the new comedy Divine Sister. (Photo courtesy Payne)

its 20 year later, and her lost love shows up at the convent, which would be tricky enough, but theres also a nun experiencing visions and healing the sick, plus a Da Vinci Code subplot and a few musical numbers.

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#11: White men, ethnic minorities and aphrodisiacs

Our husband-hunting hero gets a Holy Taco, and more
Robert lay in bed and stared at the ceiling. Beside him was Ricardo, a man hed met at Marys a few hours earlier in East Atlanta Village. They had gone for a late dinner at nearby Holy Taco and, after a two margaritas on top of a beer, landed in bed at Ricardos nearby apartment. Roberts mind was, as usual, running a mile a minute. Theyd had good sex. Robert especially liked that Ricardo automatically reached for a condom. For reasons he did not understand, unsafe sex seemed to be the norm now. Perhaps it was the myth that HIV infection is easily managed and doesnt affect life span. But, as always with Robert, appreciation was immediately followed by irritation. After the sex, Ricardo rolled over and lit a cigarette, exhaling a cloud that hovered over the bed and glowed in the light of a street lamp outside the open window. Robert wondered how the mortality rates of lung cancer and AIDS compared. You dont mind if I smoke, do you? Ricardo asked, six puffs after starting. No, Robert replied. Erotic asphyxiation can be hot. Ricardo ignored or didnt get the sarcasm. How did you like dinner? Robert asked. He knew that Ricardo was of Mexican heritage and might have a pointed opinion about Chef Robert Phalens very creative cooking. I eat there a lot, Ricardo replied. Its not pure Mexican for sure, but theres very little of that in the city anyway. The Tex-Mex that most people eat here is repulsive goo. Robert agreed. At Holy Taco, a truly pan-Latin restaurant, one can dine on buttermilk chicken-heart tacos; whole grilled sardines; short-rib sandwiches topped with pickled baby turnips; Buffalo-style pig tails; ears of grilled corn slathered in mayo and scattered with queso fresco; an amazing chimichanga; and many more small plates, entrees and fresh, local vegetables. So, Robert asked, how does it feel to be gay and Latino in Atlanta? Do you encounter much prejudice? White gay men love Latinos as long as you dont have too much Indian blood, Ricardo replied, stubbing out his cigarette. They tend to think of us as exotic. But we also encounter new prejudice because of all the talk about illegal immigrants. Robert rolled over and put his arm around Ricardo. Oh, I meant to ask to see your papers before I agreed to have sex. Ricardo laughed. White gay men in Atlanta have a surprising amount of prejudice, he said, for a community of oppressed people

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1314 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316 404-230-6177, www.holy-taco.com Good choices: The menu changes fairly frequently but any of the dishes mentioned above, if available, is a good choice. Its the combo of flavors, often provided by surprising ingredients, that makes much of the food compelling. themselves. Robert agreed. Still, Robert said, black men are often fetishized by white men, too. Its all about the BBD. What? Ricardo replied. Big Black Dick, Robert said. BBD is the term used on the Internet. Ricardo sighed. Oh, I know what you mean. He reminded Robert how a certain bar in the city became infamous for turning out the lights in a back room late one night a week. The purpose was public sex in a virtually unlit environment. It was obvious that a lot of the white men were there to have sex with black men but without any need to actually interact socially. Right, Robert said. Get some BBD and run out the door. Do Latinos encounter anything like that? Not quite as explicit, he said. Well, a lot of white men do seem to assume every Latino has twice the foreskin and three times the passion of everyone else on the planet. But you do, Robert said, laughing and reaching for Ricardos penis. You know, he said, I think Holy Tacos food may be a true aphrodisiac. Its some of the most sensual food in our city.

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Carma Productions hosts the Atlanta Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce for networking from 5:30-7:30 p.m. at Senor Patron Mexican Restaurant, 860 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.atlantagaychamber.org DJ 5 Hour Boner and DJ Sam Rothstein spin for Hallo-Weenie dance party and costume contest. 9 p.m. 3 a.m. at Marys, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.marysatlanta.com DJ Brett Long spins for the 90s dance party at the Atlanta Eagle, 306 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.atlantaeagle.com You have three chances to win as Burkharts serves up Halloween costume contests tonight, Saturday night and Wednesday night. 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com Secretroom.net presents Halloween Dreams, featuring electrohouse, techno, a horror show, $1,000 costume contest and more, at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com Get into the spirit with Masquerade Ball, featuring mask and stripper pole contests at LeBuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30367, www.thenewlebuzz.com

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Poetry Atlanta, Georgia Center for the Book and Poets & Writers present the 8th annual Voices Carry reading featuring Jericho Brown, Sandra Meek, Alice Lovelace and Cecilia Woloch; hosted by Collin Kelley. 3 p.m. at Decatur Library, 215 Sycamore Street, Decatur, GA 30030. http://poetryatlanta.blogspot.com/

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Its the Trick Your Treat Halloween Bash at 10 p.m. at Cockpit, 465 Boulevard SE, Atlanta, GA 30312 DJ Pat Scott spins with a costume contest at 1 a.m. with the theme A Night at the Movies at Atlanta Eagle, 306 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.atlantaeagle.com DJ Tina Vee spins and the Court of Kings perform for Hella Gay Halloween, including a costume contest at My Sisters Room, 1271 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.mysistersroom.com DJ Seth Cooper spins for the Gods and Monsters Halloween bash at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com Dress as your favorite celebrity (living or zombie) for Scary-Oke. 9 p.m. 3 a.m. at Marys, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.marysatlanta.com Bubba D. Licious hosts Night of the Dancing Dead with DJ Mike Pope at 10 p.m. and a costume contest at 1 a.m. at the Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com Mixx hosts a Happy Halloween dance at 1492-B Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.mixxatlanta.com Traxx and Traxx Girls join forces for Pitch Black 2012: A Night of Darkness, an LGBT Halloween bash, including a costume contest. 18 and up. Doors open at 10 p.m. at XS Ultra Lounge, 708 Spring St., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.xcessultralounge.com

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Enjoy a costume contest at midnight plus the Divas Cabaret at LeBuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30367, www.thenewlebuzz.com It will technically be Sunday morning as Dave & Gerardo spin at 3 a.m. at private club Xion, 2241 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.cariocaproductions.com

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Lesbian-owned feminist bookstore Charis hosts The Magic of Fairy Dust, a Halloween Childrens story hour. 1 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Some $666 in cash and prizes is up for grabs in the Tricks or Treats costume contest; sign up by 6 p.m. for contest at 7 p.m. at Amsterdam Atlanta, 502-A Amsterdam Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306, www.amsterdamatlanta.com Join DJs Stroker Ace and Business Casual for Twin Peaks Prom. Dress as your favorite Twin Peaks/Fire Walk With Me character or in prom attire. 8 p.m. to midnight at Sauced, 753 Edgewood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, http://on.fb.me/WE20hb

Sunday, Oct. 28
5Friends4Life presents the 10th annual Black Party, with the theme Wicked. Discounted admission if you bring a new toy for Toys for Tots. VIP at 5 p.m., party at 7 p.m. at Opera, 50 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.5friends4life.com

Saturday, Oct. 27Sunday, Oct. 28

The Atlanta Harlequins Womens Rugby Club hosts the 2012 USA Rugby Womens Division 1 Elite 8 Playoffs, bringing the nations top eight teams to compete for one of two spots in the Nov. 10 national championship. Matches begin at 10 a.m. Saturday and 9 a.m. Sunday at Rhodes Jordan Park Field 3, 100 East Crogan St., Lawrenceville, GA 30046, www.atlantaharlequins.com

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Regina Simms and Aqualencia Litre present Witches & Bitches, a scary Halloween show, at 9 p.m. at Friends Neighborhood Bar, 736 Ponce de Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA friendsonponce-at.com

Monday, Oct. 29

Susanna Hoffs of the Bangles plays at 8 p.m. at Eddies Attic, 515-B McDonough Road, Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com Every Monday night, enjoy Stars of the Century at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com

Tuesday, Oct. 30

Tim Westover presents his Auraria: A Georgia Ghost Novel at 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com The Halloween edition of Cockpits comedy series, held the last Tuesday of each month, is Laugh Your Balls Off: Scream Queens of Comedy. 8:30 p.m. at Cockpit, 465 Boulevard SE, Atlanta, GA 30312

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Wednesday, Oct. 31

Amanda Kyle Williams, who got her start in lesbian ction and found major success with her mainstream mystery series, brings her new novel, A Stranger in the Room, home to Atlantas feminist bookstore. 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com

Enjoy food and drinks on the patio at 7 p.m., a costume contest at 7:45 p.m. and Rocky Horror Picture Show at 8 p.m., all to benet the Atlanta Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence grant fund. Cowtippers Steaks & Spirits, 1600 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, Ga. 30324 Rapture Divine is special guest judge and performs tonight in Jungles Dragnicent. Theres $1,000 up for grabs at the end of the seven-week amateur competition. 10 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com The Revenge of Marys Goth Nite returns for Halloween, with spooky attire requested. 9 p.m. 3 a.m. at Marys, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.marysatlanta.com Get $1 off every drink if you wear your Halloween costume to the Atlanta Eagle, 306 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.atlantaeagle.com Show off your costume with a contest at midnight at Friends Neighborhood Bar, 736 Ponce de Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA friendsonponce-at.com DJ Birdman celebrates his birthday on Halloween night with Evolution at LeBuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30367, www.thenewlebuzz.com

Buy your tickets to tonights show of Cirque du Soleils Totem directly through CHRIS Kids, so 100 percent goes to the agency that serves youth and families, including LGBT youth. 8-10 p.m. under the Big Top at Atlantic Station, 1380 Atlantic Drive, Atlanta, GA 30363, www.chriskids.org/annual-events Wassup N ATL hosts their upscale First Friday party with DJs Trouble and Angel X with MC Wild Thang on the mic. 10 p.m. - 3 a.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.wassupnatl.com

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Friday, Nov. 2 Sunday, Nov. 4

The Atlanta Rollergirls host Grits and Glory, the 2012 Womens Flat Track Derby Association championships at the Georgia World Congress Center, 285 Andrew Young International Blvd., Atlanta, GA 30313, www.atlantarollergirls.com

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Thursday, Nov. 1

SAGE Atlanta, a support and social group for LGBT elders, meets starting at 10 a.m. on Thursdays at the Philip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.sageatl.org Thursdays are 18-and-up College Night at My Sisters Room, 1271 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.mysistersroom.com

The MEGA Family Project hosts its annual MEGA Family Conference, dubbed the largest gathering in the South for LGBT families. Expect a day of workshops, speakers, networking and fun for the whole family. 8:30 a.m 5 p.m. at Saint Mark United Methodist Church, 781 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.megafamilyproject.org Monica hosts a free march and rally to Keep the Promise on AIDS in the South. 1 p.m. at Centennial Park, www.keepthepromiseonaids.org A new coming out support group for LGBT adults meets on Saturdays through Nov. 17; 4 p.m. at First MCC Community Center, 1379 Tullie Road NE, Atlanta, GA 30329. www.rstmcc.com

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SAGE Atlanta, for LGBT elders, hosts chair yoga every Friday at 10:30 a.m. at the Philip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.sageatl.org

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Major funding for this organization is provided by the Fulton County Board of Commissioners under the guidance of the Fulton County Arts Council. This program is supported in part by the Georgia Council for the Arts through appropriations from the Georgia General Assembly. GCA is a Partner Agency of the National Endowment for the Arts. This program is supported in part by the City of Atlanta Office of Cultural Affairs.

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CONTINUED FROM PAGE 27 We Have Not Been Moved: Celebrating Mandy Carter and Southerners on New Ground celebrates these innovators in progressive activism. 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Celebrate the release of Kathy Grifns new DVD, Red, White & Raw at Blakes on the Park, 227 10th St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com

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Saturday, Nov. 3 Sunday, Nov. 4

The Chastain Park Arts Festival, a part of the gay owned and operated Atlanta Foundation for Public Spaces series of festivals, offers local arts and crafts in the largest public park in Fulton County. Saturday 10 a.m. - 6 p.m., Sunday 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. at Chastain Park, 4469 Stella Drive, Atlanta, GA 30327

Sunday, Nov. 4

For the Foodie in All of Us is the chef series to raise funds for For the Kid in All of Us, which produces Toy Party and other events to benet kids in need. Today, enjoy a culinary and cocktail demonstration from Chef Shane Devereaux and mixologist Justin Hadaway. Tickets are $50; event is from 3-5 p.m. at the Cooks Warehouse, 1544 Piedmont Ave. #403R, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.forthekid.org The Armorettes, Atlantas legendary fundraising drag troupe, takes over at 8 p.m. at at Burkharts, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com

Monday, Nov. 5

PFLAG Atlanta hosts its First Monday Support meeting for parents, friends and families of LGBT people. 7:30-9 p.m. at Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta, slightly beyond 1587 Northeast Expressway, Atlanta, GA 30329, www.pagatl.org Family Feud returns at 11:30 p.m. to Blakes on the Park, 227 10th St., Atlanta, GA 30309,www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com

Tuesday, Nov. 6

Its Election Day, so make sure your vote counts. 7 a.m. 7 p.m. To nd your polling location, visit https://mvp.sos.state.ga.us Tuesdays, Thursdays and early Saturday, get your country on with 3-Legged Cowboy nights at the Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com

Thursday, Nov. 8

Kelly Barth presents My Almost Certainly Real Imaginary Jesus: A Memoir of Sexuality and Christianity. 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Joshua Radin, who has performed on Ellen DeGeneres talk show and sang at her wedding, takes the stage with A Fine Frenzy at 8 p.m. at Buckhead Theatre, The Buckhead Theatre, 3110 Roswell Rd NW, Atlanta, Ga. 30305, www.ticketmaster.com

Wednesday, Nov. 7

Pamela King Cable reads from Televenge: A televangelist mystery. 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com

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Friday, Nov. 9
The Brushstrokes Miss Originality Pageant features $1,000 for the winner, $500 for rst runner up and $300 for second runner up; limited to rst 10 paid contestants. Provocative drag star Sharon Needles performs and serves as special guest judge. Proceeds benet PALS and Lost-N-Found Youth. 8 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.brushstrokes.us/pageant

Saturday, Nov. 10

Hosted by Mariah Balenciaga of Rupauls Drag Race, the Diva! dance party features performances by Michael Robinson, Corian Ellisor and Marcus Allen. 9 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com

Monday, Nov. 12

Lesbian rock superstar Melissa Etheridge plays a show at Symphony Hall on her 4th Street Feeling tour. 8 p.m. at Atlanta Symphony Hall, 1280 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.atlantasymphony.org

Wednesday, Nov. 14

Black and White Ball is the theme for this months PALS Bingo, hosted by Bubba D. Licious and Brent Star. Doors at 6:30 p.m., program at 7:30 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.palsatlanta.org

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SHE SAID Costume

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Confessions of an elitist Halloween snob
Im an elitist Halloween snob. I freely admit that I have a few hard and fast rules that I impose in a Pentecostal way. For example, I oppose sexy Halloween costumes if they only exist for the sake of being sexy. An effort to simply show skin at Halloween is a sacrilege to what I believe is the beauty of Halloween: creativity and humor. The true judge of your costume is the reaction that others have and I have never been impressed by a costume just because it was sexy. I take this time of year as an outlet to set aside all levels of political correctness. Normally, I am sensitive to the tragedies experienced by others, but on Halloween, all bets are off and I will eagerly use these tragedies to shock and amuse others. For instance, after Kurt Cobains death I went as the singer after he killed himself. When Firestone got in trouble for accidents caused by their blown tires, I dressed up as a Firestone accident victim. People were afraid to swim on the Florida coast one summer after a series of shark attacks, so I went as someone who had been attacked with an inatable shark in tow. When Roy from Siegfried & Roy got bitten by his white tiger, Montecore, I went as the animal fresh from the attack. If Halloween happens to come during a time when you have something unique going on in your own life, I fully expect that condition to be embraced and exploited. When I was still on dialysis and very underweight, I used that opportunity to go into the childrens department and dress as one of the girls who had been beaten by her minister at the House of Prayer in Atlanta. Yes, to answer your question, at Halloween nothing is sacred, including abused children. Halloween is also the perfect time of year to cash in on bets. Once, I was on the receiving end and after losing a bet to Bert Weiss, I was forced to dress as a UGA cheerleader at our shows

Melissa Carter is also a writer for Hufngton Post. She broke ground as the rst out lesbian radio personality on a major station in Atlanta and was one of the few out morning show personalities in the country. Follow her on Twitter @MelissaCarter

Halloween party. I added horns and a pitchfork to the outt, so when anyone asked why I was dressed this way, I would honestly reply that I was in Hell for having to wear that outt. After I broke my ankle, I used my cast in my depiction of Kim Zolciak from Real Housewives of Atlanta, fresh from a NeNe Leakes beat down. Dont be afraid to take risks. Black face is not usually in my arsenal of costumes but during the 2008 presidential campaign, Katie and I decided to go as potential rst ladies Cindy McCain and Michelle Obama. In order to authentically pull it off, Katie had to turn her skin a darker shade to look like Michelle. Walking into the party we both knew it could turn out badly for us, and planned a quick escape route if we were not well received. Instead, the African-American women were the ones who laughed loudest and asked for photos rst. Just last week, Katie and I paid homage to the jailed members of the Russian punk band Pussy Riot when we attended a friends party. We included the bands logo on our shirt, along with shackles and a ball and chain. It was immediately evident who was aware of that news story when we arrived. Despite those who had not read the news story and had no clue what we were, the belly laughs from those who got it were well worth the trouble. This year, I am taking my Halloween obsession to a new level. I will host my rst very own Halloween Party on Halloween Night at the Goat Farm. My party, Harvest, will benet the Melissa Carter Transplant Fund. Get it? (They harvest organs for donation...I told you nothing was sacred). Each year we will have a different theme and Steampunk will be the theme for our inaugural party. For those who arent familiar with Steampunk, Google it. For those who are, impress me. Happy Halloween!

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When it comes to Chick-Fil-A, the numbers dont lie
A few weeks back in this column, I wrote about a certain restaurant known for its chicken sandwiches, wafe fries, and hatemongering religious extremism. I received a message in response from a reader, in which he stated: There is so much misinformation and exaggeration about CFAs donations to hate groups. Only $1,000 each was donated to FRC and Exodus, and not millions as has been reported here by gay activists and other left-wing publications. This distortion of the truth has been repeated so consistently, but doesnt stand up to even the most passive scrutiny. Even supporters of the Chick-l-A boycott may not be aware of how the corporate funds were distributed. So, here are the exact dollar amounts of the donations, who got em, and why its a problem. Marriage & Family Foundation: $1,188,380 Founded by Dan Cathys brother Donald, who is a senior VP at Chick-l-A, the foundations mission statement clearly outlines a commitment to guide Americas values back towards the traditional family model. Oh, and guess whos on the list of charter members? Why its Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International, the bigoted wackadoos who send you to summer camp and teach you how to not be gay. Fun fact: Chick-l-A gave Exodus $1,000 in 2010. Also a charter member: the president of the Georgia Family Council. You might remember them from their successful campaign for a state constitutional ban on marriage equality. Fun fact: Chick-l-A gave Georgia Family Council $2,500 in 2010. Fellowship of Christian Athletes: $480,000 Hey kids, come join FCA! Whats that? Youre gay? Oh. Come back after youve prayed that away. God condemns you and so do we. But after youve been delivered from homosexuality, well let you speak at our national conference and put you on our website.

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Topher Payne is an Atlanta-based playwright, and the author of the book Necessary Luxuries: Notes on a Semi-Fabulous Life. Find out more at topherpayne.com

National Christian Foundation: $247,500 Theyre the largest Christian grant-making foundation in the world, and their three largest grant recipients each year are Focus on the Family, the Discovery Institute, and the Family Research Council. Were talking tens of millions of dollars, to fund anti-marriage equality initiatives on the state level and defending DOMA on the federal level, plus conversion therapy, and heteronormative abstinence-only education in public schools. New Mexico Christian Foundation: $54,000 Another sneaky move. The New Mexico Christian Foundation is just a localized offshoot of the National Christian Foundation. See above. Family Research Council: $1,000 In addition to the grants funded by Chickl-A and bestowed by the NCF and its New Mexico branch, there was this bonus payout to an organization which has repeatedly compared homosexuality to child molestation and bestiality. They are classied as a hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center. These people 1026.KTLO.4.917X2.4.AGAV_Layout 1 10/19/12 11:40 AM Page 1 are fanatical sociopaths, driven by hatred. All of this is, of course, their right. As long as they are open and honest about it, people can make informed decisions. Taking simple A front-runner for statistics and presenting them as the facts they -ERIC HYNES, THE VILLAGE VOICE clearly are is not infringing on their rights, or Exquisitely, even thrillingly authentic. being intolerant. Its just reporting truth. -A.0. SCOTT, THE NEW YORK TIMES And nally, in response to the reader calling HHHHH You simply have to see it! out gay activists: Yes, I am a gay man. Married - JOSHUA ROTHKOPF, TIME OUT NEW YORK to a gay man. I have the license to prove it. I am also a Christian. My beliefs are fervently held Thure Lindhardt Zachary Booth and the foundation of my life. I strive to be a champion of love, kindness, and charity, so my activism is for fairness and A film by Ira Sachs equality, because I believe that is Christs ex Southport Music Box Corp ample. I know there are people who believe keepthelightsonfilm.com musicboxfilms.com facebook.com/keepthelightsonfilm their relationships are more deserving of recognition than others. What I will never understand is why they think that.

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