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Birth control is found and your husband has had a vasectomy or your wife has had atubal ligation.2.
Mutual friends start acting awkwardly around you (they either have knowledge of thecheating
or have been told stories about how you’re a bad wife or husband)
Your husband or wife stops confiding in your or asking your for advice and input.4.
An email account is set up and you are not told of it.5.
The spouse leaves the house smelling of one fragrance but arrives home smelling of another.6.
They join a gym and start an arduous physical training program.7.
Your husband or wife begins to keep a change of clothes hidden in the trunk of their
vehicle or an unusual amount of clothes are being stored at the gym or inside a gymduffle bag.8.
Your wife or husband opens a post office box account without telling you.
Your spouse buys a prepaid cellular phone or starts a new cellular phone account and
doesn’t tell you.
Maybe a new cellular account is opened and billing is sent to the
Your spouse begins regularly deleting incoming phone calls from the call history and/or
caller ID log on their cellular phone.12.
Your spouse starts to regularly delete all incoming emails when they used to
You receive telephone calls where the caller hangs up when they hear your voice.14.
Your wife or husband uses a low voice or whisper when talking on the phone or hangsup quickly.15.
Your spouse tells you that you can get in touch with them at a different telephonenumber than they are normally at.16.
Your spouse becomes accusatory asking if you are being true to them possibly out of their own feelings of guilt.17.
Starts asking hypothetical questions like,
“Do you think it is possible that a person can
love more than one person at a time?18.
He or she buys themselves new underwear.19.
You find intimate clothing or gifts that you did not give your spouse.
Your husband or wife insists that the children’s car seat an
d/or toys be kept out of theirvehicle.21.
Your wife or husband stops wearing their wedding ring.22.
Your spouse has a new and/or sudden interest to assist in doing the laundry.
Has unexplained scratches or bruises on their body.
Your husband or wife stops having sex with you all together.
Your wife or husband suddenly wants to have more sex with you or wants sex more
often with you.27.
Your spouse supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it is not reflected in their paycheckor finances.28.
Your wife or husband starts fights in order to stomp out of the house.29.
You find out by accident or coincidence that your husband or wife took a vacation or
sick day from work but according to them they were at work that day or at that time.