- Stop trading status for approval. - Untaingle past present and future. - Men who chases 2 rabbit catching none. - Travel - expend your mind and possibilites , see how other lives,the more att ractive and interesting you become. - Prove to yourself you can live with rejection. - Learn to delay gratification especially to achieve a longer goal. - You are respnosible for generating your own experience of reality. - Value your self and your time more then any woman. - Emotions - Addicitve chemicals - Be Honest. - Learn to recognize social status by behaviour, body language or any external apprearnces. - Become an expert on your own self deception habits.