was always something for them to disagree over. The funny thing was that both of them seemed to make friends fine with everyone else. They even shared the same friends. However, Thomas and Sarah seemed to frequently find things to argue over. And so when they were teamed up for a party activity, things didnt start out well. A Toms y Sara les costaba llevarse bien. Siempre tenan sus desacuerdos. Lo curioso era que eran buenos amigos de todos los dems, y hasta tenan unos mismos amigos. Sin embargo, por alguna razn, con frecuencia encontraban algo por lo que discutir. Y cuando los pusieron como equipo en un juego durante una fiesta, las cosas no empezaron bien.
Thomas! Sarah exclaimed in frustration. Im trying to go one way, but then you want to go the opposite way and we fall. And what about me?! Thomas responded. Thomas and Sarah each had one leg in a large pair of pants, and whenever one tried to go somewhere, it seemed the other was insistent on going in the opposite direction. From the time they had each put a leg into the same pair of pants, they hadnt managed to get anywhere; they were a heap of legs, arms, and angry words. You tripped me! exclaimed Sarah, accusing Thomas. Toms! exclam Sara contrariada. Trato de ir para un lado, pero t vas para el otro y nos caemos. Y yo qu? repuso Toms. Tanto l como ella tenan una pierna en la pernera de un pantaln grande. Cada vez que uno intentaba ir en una direccin, el otro se empeaba en ir en la contraria. Desde que se haban puesto el pantaln as no haban conseguido llegar a ninguna parte. Terminaban cayndose revueltos y gritndose. Me hiciste tropezar! exclam Sara acusando a Toms. This is not working at all! Thomas exclaimed. Well, its not my fault, Sarah replied. Just then two of their friends, Matt and Karen, came strolling by. They were playing the same game as Thomas and Sarah both had one leg in a pair of pantsbut unlike Thomas and Sarah, Matt and Karen were walking along without any problems. How do they do that? Sarah asked. We keep falling all the time. Thomas called out to Matt and Karen, How do you guys do it? Every time we try, we just fall in a heap!
Esto no resulta, qu desastre! exclam Toms. Bueno, no es culpa ma replic Sara. En ese momento pasaron por all sus amigos Mario y Carmen, que tambin estaban haciendo una caminata en tres patas. Pero al contrario que ellos, caminaban bien sincronizados. Cmo lo harn? pregunt Sara. Nosotros no dejamos de caernos. Toms los llam y les pregunt: Cmo lo hacen? Cada vez que nosotros lo intentamos nos caemos revueltos! Its quite easy, Matt answered. We follow each other. First Karen takes a turn and we go her way and then I take a turn and we go my way. Sarah, thats great! Thomas exclaimed. It seems weve been both trying to go our own way, and thats why we just wind up in a heap again and again. Sarah stood up. So, Im just supposed to go wherever you want to go? Well, were pretty stuck right now, said Thomas. We need to find a solution. We could decide together where were going, and then take turns leading the way and yield to each other. If I go where youre going, and then you go where Im going, well make it to our destination. I-I guess we could give it a try
Es bastante sencillo respondi Mario. Nos seguimos el uno al otro. Cuando ella tuerce, yo la sigo, y cuando yo cambio de direccin, ella me sigue. Qu maravilla, Sara! exclam Toms. Parece que siempre nos estamos cayendo porque cada uno quiere ir por su lado. Entonces, solo tengo que ir adonde t quieras? pregunt Sara ponindose de pie. Bueno, en este momento estamos atascados dijo Toms. Hay que encontrar una solucin. Podemos decidir juntos hacia dnde ir, y luego nos turnamos para dar los pasos y para seguir al otro cuando nos toca. Si yo te sigo y t me sigues, lograremos llegar a destino. S-supongo que podemos intentarlo Thomas put his arm around Sarah, and she put her arm around him. At first there were a few trip-ups, but slowly they started to get the hang of it. Soon they were walking happily together to their shared destination, arm- in-arm.
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Is there someone you find yourself in conflict with? Try being considerate of his or her needs and desires. It may be the secret to developing a new friendship.
Toms le pas el brazo por encima del hombro a Sara, y ella se asi de su cintura. Al principio tropezaron algunas veces, pero poco a poco le fueron agarrando el truco. Al poco rato caminaban felices juntos del brazo hacia su destino comn.
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Hay alguien con quien no te lleves bien? Procura ser considerado y tener en cuenta sus necesidades y preferencias. Puede ser el secreto para cultivar una nueva amistad. Art and text courtesy of My Wonder Studio. Featured on www.freekidstories.org