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• Bad body language
• Can’t dance
• Unconfident
• Petrified of public speaking
• Low Self-esteem
• CV lacks qualifications
• Live in a boring small city
Evolution Of A PUA: Part 1 – The Ugly Shy 1. I signed up to a TEFL course in Seville so that i’d
Introvert
be in a foreign country and be forced to speak in
front of a group of people (the students), interact
As you might know, I was not a natural with
with a bunch of strangers (the other trainees), and
women. I wasn’t even a natural with friends.
also get a useful qualification and get to visit a
I had bad social skills, was generally shy and
cool city.
introverted, and basically avoided social situations
like the plague.
I committed the money and time and it paid off. I
was shaking and nervous in the first class. 6 hours
Because i’ve gone from having nothing to being
of teaching time later and I was almost smooth!
successful with women and good socially in a
short space of time, I thought it might be valuable
2. I started slowly building a wardrobe of nice
to document the steps I took and my influences
clothes and throwing out all the ill-fitting sporty
along the way.
rubbish that i’d worn for the past 5 years. I found
the best brands for me, learnt about fit, materials,
Back in 2003, I got out a notebook and wrote down
quality etc.
my problems and what steps i’d take to address
them. Back then, I hadn’t heard of game, so it was
Over 2 years I filled my wardrobe with great
just focused on my perceived weaknesses: Here’s
clothes (mostly at discount prices) that i’d be
what it said:
able to wear for years. I avoided obvious labels
like Burberry and got classic stuff like Zegna and
• Shit fashion
Ralph Lauren Purple Label. I now have a wardrobe
• Shy
that will last me a long long time and rarely buy
• Bad social skills
clothes.
• Ugly
• Not funny
Having done these two I already felt more
• Quite voice
confident. But there was still a lot to learn.
• Can’t hold eye contact
3. For my general self-esteem, happiness, and
mental state, I read a lot of very useful books. I
read everything out there on, by, or about Milton
Erickson. I read all the old Bandler NLP books.
5. One thing that held back my confidence was I asked Tyler (who was kind of overseeing things)
my lack of qualifications. I was born in London and he broke it all down to me. Told me to buy
but lived in Cambridge, place that prizes academic The Game, etc. At the time, it was interesting, but
achievement. I signed up for lots of courses and I couldn’t imagine any of these guys being good
bulked up my CV with some impressive stuff like with women.
being a Chartered Financial Analyst (CFA). Not at
all related to PU but it gave me confidence. Fast forward a couple of weeks, i’ve read the game
and now have the idea that there are these super-
6. By studying NLP, psychology, and hypnosis, I hero PUA dudes that can have any woman they
became more artful in my use of language and want. With this as my new end-goal, I decide to
used the techniques of influence to make people gobble up, packman-style, all the information I
like me. I was good on job interviews and started can find on the subject.
to make connections and have some success
socially. Right after reading the game and a few other
things I take a trip to Singapore. On the trip I get
By this point, I was still useless with women, we my first one night stand. She basically PU’d me
are in mid-2005 now. I’d only slept with one girl! 60%, but at least I didn’t make the mistakes of old.
I started approaching sometimes in bars, very
rarely got numbers, and never progressed things She was hot-ish, I was attracted to her. I was
to a physical level. very proud of myself. I came back to England and
carried on with the theory. I used to watch DVD
Then in September 2005, I met Tyler Durden programs on the PC whilst watching the stock
in Starbucks, Leicester Sq, London, and it all market and making the occasional trade (my job
changed… at the time).
I’d never had 3 people watching me and listening Why did I wait so long? I found out the real
to me talk with interest before. I went red and answer, and thismight be the same thing that
was sweating but it was a great result.Small talk holds you back in many areas of your life, it was
continued, then they said some tiny objection like a HUGE realisation: I was afraid that if I moved
“we are meeting our friend soon”, so I made an to London and it was a failure, i’d be back in
excuse to leave (I was looking for one I guess!). Cambridge AND I would no longer have thedream
of something better to hold onto.
Sat back down, they seemed to linger around
suggesting “please n-close us, please!” but I let
So at it’s core, it was fear of failure. Look at any I had a regular night out in Covent Garden with
bigsteps that you have avoided taking and maybe my wing Conor where I started to get some good
it is the same reason. But I finally did do it.. results. We’d run some good wing game with each
of us isolating a chick and i’d try to connect and
I basically didn’t know anyone when I moved get a number close.
down. My flatmates were cool, and we got on, but
they had no social cirlce so I didn’t get to meet When you are winging, it is pretty easy not to get
people that way. What happened was thatI found blown out, because when those moments where
some London PUAs (from The London Seduction the conversation dips happen, the girl looks at her
Society/LSS) and hooked up with them. friend, she is in set and happy so she re-engages.
Holding on your own requires a lot more skill.
I went out on some group “sarges” and met them
and gave them the kind of respect i’d give Mystery I was able to get a few number closes. They didn’t
himself. We went to some bars, but I quickly convert and I had no idea to kino-escalate to a
foundout that most of these guys could talk a k-close in the club.I have to say that by now I was
good talk, look alpha, have an alpha-handshake pretty confident. The girls I was approaching were
and a cool walk, but they didn’t seem to be able to often hot and they did compliment me on my
open, hold, and close a set. looks. It was new and it was good.
I hadto ratchet down my expectations a little bit. The next big realisation happened about 3 weeks
into my London adventure. I was in a Sohu club
Over the next few weeks, I met some more of with Conor and the person I took over my room
theseguys. Most of them I didn’t really want from and Conor approached a Swedish 2-set.
to hang out with, but I did meet two - Eugene
andConor, who were “cool guys” and I tried to go I didn’t go and wing straight away because I was
out with these guys to clubs as much as possible. having a go at an Australian chick. It didn’t go too
far, so I decided to go and wing him. It was an 18
I was going out 4 nights a week. At this point, year old Swedish chick. Pretty cute. I was there for
i’d been to a club less than 30 times, and was AN HOUR talking to her, then I told her to move
completely uncomfortable in the environment. So up and sat down next to her, carried on talking.
these nights would normally entail us opening 20
or so sets, not many would hold. I was getting no touching from her, and didn’t
know what the hell to do. My one night stand in
I was overcoming my AA, and a couple of times I Singapore only happened because she touched
did get into sets that hooked and was ableto have my leg first and I just matched her kino-escalation
a nice conversation using my pre-existing skills in and then lead with the kiss.Anyhow, I said to
one-on-one conversations that comefrom having myself “fuck it” and put my arm around her and
the introvert qualities of being a good listener and went for the kiss.
being empathetic.
Lo-and-behold it worked, she was into it. Now haven’t used this stuff since ust because it hasn’t
I know I probably could have done it after been necessary).
30 seconds, but the point was that it shifted
something in my mind - you don’t need to ask if it I tried some light kino - touching her leg and arm
is okay to kiss. and she reciprocated. I went for the kiss after
about 5 minutes. She was tall, blonde, thin,blue
Conor left early because his chick didn’t pan out. eyes. Now she’d be average, but at the time, she
When they left, looking back, it would have been was very hot.
an easy f-close with my girl (other one was happy
to leave her in my care!) and even a pretty simple I lead her around the club -”lets go get a drink, lets
3-some. dance, let’s sit down”. We got quite hot and heavy
and then I just got up and said “let’s go”, she
But I didn’t because I was probably buzzing from started walking with me but asked “where” and I
the k-close and didn’t imagine it was possible.I said “somewhere else” and walked her out of the
was now happy in London, I had friends and I felt club to my house. Got the wine out and smoothly
like I was in control of things a little more. I had a escalated with no resistance.
lot of confidence and was on a high because I now
was able to attract and seduce women. I’ll leave out the details! Met her for a date
another day and the attraction had vanished,
I didn’t like that she smoked, I didn’t like her
Evolution Of A PUA: Part 5 – Loser To PUA accent, I didn’t like her shoes or the way she
To Natural walked.
I learnt the basic structure of a pickup from I felt like Jerry Seinfeld for dumping the girl for
6 months of theory and a few weeks in field. silly reasons but I didn’t call her again.
Admittedly I spent way too long geeking out on Over the next month I got plenty of k-closes and a
the material. I learnt way more from going out couple more f-closes. I did about 4 salsa classes. I
and doing stuff. I spent the next month going didn’t PU any girls in the class because they were
out and refining my approach. We used a lot of generally not up to standard but Idid devise my
canned material - should I die my hair blonde, “salsa escalation” where I go and ask the girl if she
best friends test, palmistry etc. It worked to hook can salsa and then salsa my way into a k-close.
the sets. I got a Serbian chick in 1-minute with this and she
was a virgin, 7 hours of LMR before she slept with
My first fclose came one night in a Covent Garden me and then she was my GF for about a month.6
club. My friend identified an HB, I sat next to her, foot tall, toned & tanned body, blonde, blue eyes.
just chatted, in terms of lines used, maybe some
C&F and I did bust out one of my own speed During that time I think I only k-closed one other
seduction patterns when I had her isolated (I girl and that was when I trained with Brent (from
various Double Your Dating video series’ and as
seen on Cliff’s List). He came over in May and I In July I went on holiday for 2 months with
decided that either i’d learn loads or i’d realise Steve and we went out 40 out of 44 nights in 11
that I could do it too. I paid $1000 + expenses for countries. During this holiday my kino, non-verbal
an evening from 7pm to 2am. pickup, dance-floor game, etc all got a huge boost.
He was good looking, confident and cool. The Steve is a legend and few people have seen his
training wasn’t very good because:He didn’t demo skills when he is at the top of his game. I saw him
anything cool.He couldn’t hold the rest of a 3 set do things a couple fo times on holiday that gave
when I engaged one of the girls (they dragged me the shivers! Next level game.
her away).He only said I should talk louder and
escalate faster. That was his only advice. Fast forward to today. I am going to parties
with celebrities to learn how to game in
Very nice guy though and maybe my level was those environments, i’m working with the
already just damn high. Anyhow, I pulled a guys here to further refine the system, i’m
nice HB that night. This was the first time I was travelling to different countries to test my game
disappointed with the skills of a well-known guru. internationally.
There were many more to come in the next few
months! My attitude now when I meet famous How do I pick up chicks now? I have an
PUAs is “Hey, if they are great i’ll learn something unbreakable routine stack that can get me
and if they aren’t, it makes me more confident”. laid every day of the week, one that uses an
Win Win! unbreakable opener, NLP, calculated responses,
built in emotional spikes, push-pull, DHVs, my SS
Over the next few months I improved my game, patterns. BUT I DON’T USE IT! I want to be able to
gained more confidence, had more hot girls, game naturally.
and met various influential charatcers, most
importantly - Steve Jabba AKA Vertex and Anthony I don’t wantto know what i’m going to say next.
P. We went out a lot and gamed together. I like to test my intelligence and exercise my
mentalmuscles. I want to make a better self
In June I had started Puatraining.com and had instead of making a character that I can step into
been doing 1-on-1s. I was a skilled teacher, could and act out.
clearly communicate things, and was able to
analyse the person’s strengths and weaknesses My indirect game usually involves a situational
very quicly and give them practical advice. opener, cocky funny, rapport and deep rapport,
kino-escalation, close. Pretty simple right?My
Through teaching, I learned by stuff way more Direct game is: force IOI, kino opener, afc fluff
tightly and was forced to game. I learnt how to with sexual undertones, quick close. Of course,
control my state instead of only being able to I might use routines again at some point in the
game when I felt like it. future.
Right now, I just want to round-out my game Gambler’s Philosophy Of Happiness:
some more and learn from guys that have Part 1
something unique to offer. Now I have confidence
and an energy that projects from that confidence. In the past, before mass communication and
globalisation, a person’s frame of reference was
I used routines when I first started and many his peer group and the people he came into
high-level guys still use them. It’s a personal personal contact with. Today, our peer group is
choice. For a newbie, routines are the fastest way still our primary frame of reference, but now there
to get improvement and that’s why we teach both are also people we know of and know about, like
on our courses: routines, canned openers. celebrities. We come to know about these people
and they can exert just as strong an influence
A structure for any pickup.The skills that you on us as our peer group does. First the world is
need to be a natural.My ex-students all game brought into our lives through the internet and
differently, they are not robotic, and some have TV: amounting to 1385 messages a day. Because
gone the natural route and some the routine our peer group is subjected to the same onslaught,
route. All of them seem to improve markedly for we would are ‘infected’ through them, even if we
months afterwards. could avoid it all.
Success?Email me for my HB pics! I meet a girl Global travel means people from different cultures
of high quality once every 3 weeks. Can k-close live in one place. In the 1900s example, the man
any time I go out. Can f-close multiple times a in the village who had a full-time manual labour
week. The only things that hold me back are:Busy job, had a healthy family, and was married to a
with the business.Not enough hot girls in London woman who he thought could be a good carer for
clubs!Sex drive is not so high that I need 7 girls a him and their family had everything he thought
week.I get more out of a loving relationship than life had to offer. He didn’t expect that he could
lots of casual sex. ever be the factory owner, because that man
was educated and had inherited wealth, unlike
himself. He didn’t expect that he could be married
to a beautiful or upper class woman, because he
was working class and not so financially secure.
He didn’t expect that he could live in a mansion,
because there was no frame of reference of a
normal working class person who had achieved
that.
Being in the moment is in many respects the Consider girls. What are girls all about?
opposite process to the normal functioning of the
brain, which appears to be the chunking together Hot girls are human beings. Same as me and you.
of moments into familiar scenes and patterns to They eat food and they shit it out. They urinate.
be matched with familiar responses and solutions. They get bad breath.
This saves the brain a lot of work, so its natural
mechanism is to pull me out of the moment They have insecurites, same as me and you.
and back into my head. Being in my head – or Maybe worse…We live in a society that BREEDS
thinking – relies on the reasonable assumption them. Hev you ever opened a really hot girl
and been AMAZED at how she reacts to you? Look at her face when she is talking, look at her
Friendly, open, even a little insecure? maybe a LOT body. Do you want her? Then just try and imagine,
insecure?? convincingly that YOU CAN HAVE HER. You can.
You can have her, girls want to be taken. They long
When you’re dealing with girls, no matter what for a man that will take her and ravish her.
you’re level, what kind of girl you are used to, bear
all of the above in mind. Remember it. Keep that one simple truth in mind and all
other stuff becomes irrelevant…Just be strong in
When they shit test you, or when they go quiet, yourself, like a rock and nothing else matters…
or when they look at you in a particlar way,
remember that they are living inside their own Forget everything else.
head. If they are quiet, DONT think does she like
me, is she offended, why is she quiet, why is she
smiling? Is she laughing at me? Reflex’s fast escalation bar-game
Reflex’s Tube Game - part 2 “Did you hear that busker?! He’s pretty good. I
used to be one myself.” Really?! “No. But thanks
Game is game. It doesn’t really matter where you for believing me.” This usually gets a laugh.
do it, on the tube or anywhere else. In part 1 I
discussed timing and attitude. The guidelines are “I think we’re standing in the best/worst place to
the same: you really do have to do virtually all of get a seat”. This is good because when the train
the talking for the first 30 seconds or so; make comes the two of you can put your prediction to
your approach look spontaneous (don’t linger); the test and therefore have something natural to
speak with confidence; hold eye contact; plow talk about, even if she hasn’t said much about it
through if she is unresponsive; feed off any verbal on the platform.
hooks you get.
If there is a seat next to her, and she’s noticed
So let’s get into what to say. Here are some you’re walking towards it :“Oh, were you saving
examples: this seat for me?!”If you get a laugh, start talking.
By the way, this works for seats anywhere.
“Is this the train for Hammersmith?”Yes/no/etc
“Are you sure?!! I hope so. Cos when I was a kid If she has an ipod: “Hey, cool ipod, I bet you pirate
and people used to ask me that I’d deliberately your music, right? Me too, what do you pirate?”
tell them the wrong thing to screw them up. I was This has to be spontaneous. Don’t worry, they
basically a little shit. You’re not like that are you?!” ALWAYS take their earphones out if they can’t
hear you!
‘Do you know how long the train takes to reach x?’
Eye-Coding: This is a good one for packed tubes
Better than ‘have you been waiting long’ which (or trains or buses). If something happens, like
has pick-up written all over it… someone won’t move down, or is annoying other
passengers by talking too loudly on their phone
or causing a problem by having too many bags Introduction to Dirty Cardenas
– then you can sort of look at her, and raise your
eyes to heaven as if to say : “For God’s sake! Some Hi I am Dirty Cardenas and I am an evil PUA, I will
people!” If you get a reciprocal eye-code back from bum your mother.
her, as if she’s saying “Yeah, I know!” then you’re
good to go. Start talking. If she has funky clothes, I am a natural and have pretty much always been
bag, or apparel: good with girls. I came into the community a year
ago with the intention of meeting some absolute
“You look like you like shopping!” Plow with heroes and going out and having threesomes with
chat about shopping: “I bet you’re one of these super models every week. Unfortunately I found
girls who pushes people out of the way in that the community in London is comprised
sales!” Making assumptions is one of the keys to mostly of key board jockeys who spend the
getting over awkward silences and keeping the majority of the time bickering on internet forums
conversation going. and theorising as to the best way to get a woman
as opposed to going out and actually f*cking some
I have gamed girls successfully by looking for women.
situational stuff to open with - I’ve asked girls if
they want to swap papers (or even books!) that By the grace of God I some how managed to meet
they’re reading; told them not to use that vending Vertex (Steve Jabba) and Beckster. Later on Vertex
machine because it will take their money; asked if introduced me to Gambler and so here I am. I am
they have something with just celebrity photos in one of the bootcamp instructors and specialise in
it for me to read because I’m sick of reading books Inner Game, Dominance, Sexual Confidence and
with words…the key with all these is delivery with Female Ejaculation.
cheekiness and a grin.
I hope the stories I share help you achieve
And don’t forget forcing IOIs like we show you whatever it is you hope to achieve as a PUA.
on the bootcamps! If you’re eagle-eyed you will
see girls checking you out! Finally : don’t be
embarrassed to ask for a number or a date - if you Cardenas: Owning the frame
are nervous you can wait until you are just about
to get off anyway, or wait till you both get off. And Last Sunday I went on a date with a girl that I’d
ignore the other passengers who may eavesdrop actually dropped a while back. She is pretty hot
on you. They will get off soon anyway! and a model. But about 2 months ago she annoyed
me so I dumped her. Last week guess what - she
sent me a text out of the blue saying hi, it’s been a
long time, how are you? I could tell what she was
angling for so I thought I’d meet her.
On the date I didn’t make any ‘move’ on her dumped her. She went pretty hysterical when I
early on. I just kept my distance and talked gave her the news but I refused to buckle or relent.
politely. I didn’t say “Oh it’s so nice to see you Quite a few months of no contact went by and
again” or any such thing. After all, I’d dumped her I moved on - then she got back in touch, asking
because she had shown a jealous streak and had to see me again, saying she’d missed me etc. I’d
annoyed me. She said I was different and that moved on from being besotted and no longer felt
I was hard to work out. We eventually went on that way, but was ok with seeing her again. Now
to a nightclub and I finally k-closed her etc. But it’s me that is in control. I decide when to see her,
I didn’t try and get her back to mine, I told her I where, and for how long. Same principle: always
was going and left early. She’s not used to being own the frame.
dumped, I think, and after dropping her I made
sure I didn’t contact her for a few months at all, There are lessons in all of this:
so she had to get in touch with me if she wanted
to. I had moved on and she had faded from my 1. Don’t go chasing like a desperado. Know when
mind. Now she’s bought into my frame and I have to draw the line. Make her wait if necessary.
more control. I’m still considering what sort of Always have things you can fall back on - career,
relationship, if any, I want from her. interests, hobbies, mates, whatever.
Another story: This weekend I’m going away for 2. If you know for sure that a girl is simply using
a few days with another girl. She used to be my you and playing you: tell her point blank that you
girlfriend way back last year, but I ended it for won’t stand for it. If she continues, BREAK IT OFF.
similar reasons to the girl above. Until I’d dumped This is vital. Never be talked out of it. Otherwise
her she had been in complete control of me you will end up like so many suckers out there,
- she’d left me dangling as if I were on a piece of trapped in a relationship you feel is controlled
string, constantly changing her mind about me, by a woman who knows you will always come
blowing hot and cold, telling me when I could crawling back . And that, my friend, is a very very
see her and deciding when I could visit her. She bad place to be. All your self-respect will dribble
was not averse to flirting with other men either away pitifully. The more attractive the girl, the You
(she is tall, blonde and very attractive). It left me must know some men who have fallen into that,
in the supplicating role in the relationship and as do I. I’m not suggesting you just dump a girl at
demoralised me completely, as I had totally fallen the slightest thing that annoys you or that you
for her. don’t try to work things out; just don’t let yourself
be taken for a ride (no, not THAT sort of ride!)
Then I discovered ‘Game’, the PU community, and Remember, if the girl wants and values you SHE
entered the world that you too have now entered. will re-initiate things. If she doesn’t then she’s
I knew I’d allowed her to set the frame and not worth your precious time. Find someone else.
dominate me. So when she continued to mess me Don’t worry, you will. That way you will keep your
around I gave her an ultimatum to start treating self-respect. And if she does come back, YOU and
me properly - and when she didn’t change I not her, are in control.
Beckster: Game Science Formula have to drive over and collect them, she laughed
and said “I know, I let you because I like your eyes”
These are new techniques which a small team of (she said this in a jokey way). I said “yeah, and I
us have been developing and using over the past 2 catch you checking out my ass all the time!” and
years. walk out without a good bye.
Went out with Lord o Lust or LOL for short, just for Lord o Lust says his goodbyes and I head to
a few drinks to chat to him about DeepGame, LOL Chelsea, not much live but I see one bar and in the
told me some great stories which we will develop window a lone girl so I enter and as I walk in I give
into spiked stories. We decide to go to a salsa her a wink then up to the bar order a drink, she is
place, I open a 2 set HB7.5Slovak and HB7Polish, still watching me. I walk over and -
can speak a few sentence in both languages make
them laugh, I anchor it in case I want to talk to Me:Do you know what……. oh sorry are you with
them again, but not really my type. Beckon over a you boyfriend as I point to the pint glass near her
well suited girl HB8suit with my finger, she walks (you all know what I doing in that one sentence
over and imitates me with a finger motion. right? Interest and analysing the situation.
I ask her if she is a secret agent, because of her HB8Scandi: NO No that’s my flat mates.
suit and that she was surveying the area.
Turns out that I lived in her country for a while
Turns out she is the manager’s top hired gun, this and I saw in this bar watching her country place
should be fun. Run some stuff on her, neg her, on TV so I thought I would incorporate this in to
etc. Some people come in so we move to the cash a mind reading trick. So I said give me your hand
register so she can charge them admission. I ask blah blah blah.
her if she lets in boys that she fancies for free, she
said its happened once or twice, I say to her “great HB8Scandi: Wow that’s amazing
I’m in free all the time then”, she smiles and nods.
Me: That’s not all, sometimes like 1 in a thousand
I run my famous fish routine on her as it’s in her I can have this instantaneous connection with
palm more customers come in but she doesn’t put someone and something strange will happen.
it down she admits them, taking cash and giving
hand stamps with one hand, still holding up my HB8Scandi: Really what?
fish as if it were real. I neg her about it then tell
her fortune, told her I’m going to a better club in Me: Well I now can speak in your language.
Chelsea and she’ll be lucky to see me again. Left
it at that as its better not to pull her as she can HB8Scandi: No way!
be more useful letting me in for free. I told her as
I let that I’ve been stealing glasses from her bar Me: Yes way.
for 5 years and that if she wants them back she’ll
Talk to her in her language for 10mins about her like when seducing them, then do the other when
remote town (which I have been to) tell her about she’s free. Then do it to each of them again, but
the shops and station there, she laps it up. in front of each other so it seems to the other HB
that it’s the first time your turning on the charm
Her male house mate comes back he is Russian with her mate and how easy you do it will attract
and doesn’t like me being there, try’s to AMOG her then again, do the other one too.
me, he doesn’t even break the ice, every time he
try’s I speak to her in her language he get pissed The attraction will be high also the competition
of asks us to stop it. I play good cop bad cop with between women will also be strong, now you can
him and he chills out a bit. Plus he knows he’s say something like this:
beat as she keeps saying “he’s just jealous of you (Use this old one first)
because he’s in love with me” and “you must go
to the gym a lot you have big muscles” while she Me: “Who kisses better, men or women?”
squeezed them. No I wrestle bears like your flat
mate probably does right Ivon? HB’s: “Women blah blah blah”
I use some new GSF stuff on her then she agrees HB’s: (Always seem to say) “Yes, blah blah blah”
to come home with me, but I tell her another time
(as I have an early date Thursday and need some Me: “There’s this test to find out which are better
rest as I’ve been on it for a week solid.
kissers, but you wouldn’t be interested as your
Not once did they ask why I was by myself think friends, even though everyone at my Uni parties
hard why that is… use to test the theory and it worked soooo well?
…… Are you both open minded?”
I will arrange to meet her at a later date when I’m
free… HB’s: “Yes” (Now you have just got them to say
“Yes” to doing the game, but it way you have
asked them, they have said yes to everything you
Beckster: 3 Way Kissing Technique ask in the sentence) now to confirm it before they
realise, quickly say before they speak again.
First you must build up the comfort with wit and
humour- be cocky too- but in a way that makes Me: “I knew you two would be cool and open
everyone happy. minded, some people can be soo boring and miss
out on fun and great opportunities, you both grab
Kino both HB’s a lot and build it up, give them on for life right?”
both intimate time with you when one goes to the
toilet/bar/use phone, start being a bit more serious
HB’s: “Yes” (they normally giggle or something, she should say yes as she was kissing you more
remember you don’t have to say this word for then the other HB.
word).
Also you can get 3somes from this, I have and I
Me: “OK, are you ready?” haven’t even experiment much with it.
To me it means be the man, I’m a man, it’s a But a blue print can be used to help you along
man’s right, lets get breeding. Its natural to breed, your way and you know what, you will never get
it’s the most powerful instinct so why fight it? why better or good at it unless you practice.
let that little voice that has been the bane of your
life? Don’t let it mess with you anymore, because So some quick tips:
you know in your heart that every time you have
stood up to your (bad) inner voice you have felt Touch gently with the back of your hands and do
powerful and great, so why won’t you stand up to not linger, pull away slowly other times quickly.
him, if you stand up to him you can stand up to
anyone. Don’t look where you are touching her.
Use the back of your hands even better the finger I will leave you with a little game to practice
nails. which I call 3 touches in a minute.
Push away from her as you do this, it’s none You must touch her 3 times on each side of her
threatening and it confuses her mind if you body in a minute, but you must keep swapping
like her or not, sort of push pull but with body each side with each touch. Hard to explain I have
language. a rough quickly knocked up u-tube video of it to
help you get an idea..
Use your heels or toes to pivot away while you
kino then pull yourself in again. Up up and Kino’s away……… Kino is King
Touch her shoes not many people do that, root I discovered the community when I was 16 (5
this with a routine to, you can really pull her years ago) but when I was 16, as most 16 year olds
leg on to your lap and inspect them, this works do, I did everything half-assed, I fell into another
wonders it also conveys a lot of balls doing this relationship and just forgot about it. Earlier this
and how different you are to other people. summer my AFC friend got dumped just before
taking his CB4 girlfriend to NewYork.
Don’t be scared to take a HB’s hand just root again
why you are doing so. So I went with him instead, and at a Playboy
Leading is fine once enough kino has be installed, book signing picked up a book by my, by then,
you will even be able to look her it the eyes and second only to Douglas Adams, favourite author
stick your arm out for her to link on to then Neil Strauss. It all came flooding back. I looked at
parade her around the place. my friend and his CB4 ex-gf (who came anyway)
and all the acronyms and sudonyms patterns,
If it’s a 2set touch one but look at the other. This is everything I’d learned all of a sudden seemed to
a long and advanced one for another time. Along make more sense. For fear of being chastised I left
with boob-kino, yes I said boob-kino.
the book down and vowed to get it once I got back making them feel REALLY uncomfortable. I walked
to familiar bookshops. up, alpha handshake, “hey man hows it going I
really love your tie, whered you get it, its really
So I read it tried and tested a few wings and have cool I had one just like it, where you guys out for
whittled it down to 3 very good eager to learn tonight, just out drinknig on the pull? Thats really
guys. I went to see Gambler and by the end of cool, youll go really far, youve a great sense of
the day I was approaching like a motherfucker. tact…” basically I just kept talking as I walked him
First week back out I email close and F-closed a and his friend over to the other side of the bar.
fortnight later, got a half assed relationship outve
it. Not enough to make me leave the game. I then opened the two set Id just saved, fired an
opener at them, DHVd took a while, their shields
We went out once a week did one approach where up a bit cos of the guys, but they invited us
maybe, but would spend the rest of the week out the following day, one of the girls was really
watching DVDs, reading E-books, making up shy and submissive, the other quite dominant and
scenarios. There got to a point where I realised playful. TBH, closing shouldve been no problem,
that I could get past any womans LMR, AMOG the but I just didnt, thats the next stage I have to get
drunkest of guys and we were all really pleased to, thats for next week.
with ourselves…..but we couldn’t approach
anyone. Every week was the same, maybe open Another set I opened later that day had someone
one or two sets, and then laugh it up when they in it I already recognised, but she didnt recognise
went wrong, high five if they went right then my me, so I opened them and told her what her name
relationship ended, I watched the loverboy tribute was and she got a bit scared, I guessed her friends
to sarging video. It ended on a Thursday. I went birthday to “proove” I was psychic.
out that night, and everynight until tonight. 9
Days. 9 Nights out. Then isolated her friend, teased her, c&f all was
going well, pushed for the number close she
I figured out since last week Ive approached “couldnt remember her number”. The interaction
about 150 people. Early in the week the sets went quite well, but I dont think I displayed
wouldnt hook that easily, or would go dry but we enough personality and it was quite near the end
opened loads of them, got rid of the AA which of the night but thats another step up, besides Ill
was the point. Middle of the week wed hold sets see her again, if not, 7 billion people in the world
for ages, theyd get slightly bitchy after a while ive still most of them to meet.
but the interactions where fun. We have had to
incorporate negs, C&F, false takeaways..all those Ive been at the game for 3 months, and I
little decorations for the stages and as of last find that Ive had to extreme progress points,
night AMOGing. Gamblers workshop, and the past 9 days. The
commonalities? Approach everything. High five
These two really drunk guys where diving right people without drinks, clink glasses, say cheers or
into the seduction stage hanging off girls and happy christmas, work the room. Ive internalised
more in the past week than I have in the apst 3 shes probably just putting all this on anyway” Ill
months just because of this, most of which was give you guys a better idea by being more specific.
yesterday and the previous day. Game the world,
old lady serving you in a shop wearing an odd Today me and WING went out to a bar called Stiff
scarf? Kitten, it’s one of our regular establishments. We
went in said hey to the bouncers and headed
Talk about it. Girl walks into you in the street? on down the steps and approached the bar, as
Bust her on it. Guy wearing your favourite bands I ordered my Vodka and red bull, I took a quick
t-shirt? Talk to him about them. Just talk to peripheral look around, guy sets and couples all
everyone, if you tease a guy working in a pizza the way. I started talking to WING, I noticed a
shop, or a girl working in a bookstore, they two set a tall brunette HB7, and leading her down
probably aren’t going to accuse you of gaming the steps, a half-Italian HB8.5 long legs, eyes you
them. could lose yourself in, a hypnotic walk and most
importantly a life with a me-shaped hole in it. I
looked around, there was a set near them… a guy
Megadirt: Fear of success set, I briefly considered pawning them but just
grew some balls and went in to the two set with
I’ve had many sticking points in my three and no idea of what I was gonna say.
a half months of gaming. Approach anxiety
because I was new to the game. Being able to talk ”Hey guys, where’s there thats good to go on a
in sets because I was so nervous. Keeping high Saturday… that isn’t here or the Limelight?” ”
energy because I was thinking negative thoughts. Erm…..There’s the beach club…but they’ve got a
Creating attraction because I didnt understand really strict dress code, sometimes they wont let
about kino etc. Building comfort because I talked you in….” I cut her off here and looked offended
about myself a bit too much and didnt really care “What are you trying to say?” in a cocky funny
about them. These are all pretty generic, nothing way, while indicating how well I was dressed. She
to be ashamed of, they all make sense, easy to laughed and continued “No no no, I mean if you
get past. But recently Ive hit an odd one. I hope go in wearing a mini-skirt sometimes they….”
other people get this and I’m not just mental. I “Wow wow wow, what about my personality
cant number close. Not because she isn’t giving makes you think I’m gonna try and go in there
me enough IOI’s or is being bitchy, but because its in a mini skirt?” She laughed and lightly Kino’d
going so well. I look at the girl who is hotter than me, I let her finish waht she was trying to say,
anyone Ive ever spoken to before, she is feeling thanked her Kino’d the obstacle lightly and went
me up, rubbing against me, holding my hand from back to WING. He asked me if there was anywhere
time to time and shes looking at me with those around for food that wasn’t takeaway crap. So I
DDB eyes, this is the point when my that evil little asked the set, “Hey guys, you were so much help
man who lives in my head steps in and suggests the last time Im gonna let you consult me on my
“Look at her shes so hot, if you ask for her next problem, were can we get something to eat
number, her friend will think you’re weird, and around here that isnt greasy and burger king-y.”
We fluffed for a bit, and then WING took care of Im gonna have to get over that soon, Ill keep you
the obstacle. We started talking she started to posted as I get better.
give me a bit of kino and she asked me what I did
for work, we talked about her being half Itialian,
and where abouts she was from, Sicily it turns out, Gambler: The Importance Of Morals
and she asked how often I am in the Stiff Kitten. When Dealing With Women
I wasn’t sure if the truth was a good idea but I
said “About 4 times a week cos I love meeting new So you want the skill of a PUA which basically
people, and it keeps work very seperate from my means you can have choice with women? You can
social life.” I also pointed out I wasnt an alcoholic have multiple long term relationships, you can
and didnt drink everytime I was there. Her next have all the one-night stands you want, or you
question knocked me off guard “Have you read the can find a good quality girl and stick with her.
game?” I replied with a cool, “yeah it’s cool” then
she kept trying to make sure that I had constantly The problem for me is when guys don’t consider
asking me questions about it, as if it was a DHV the woman’s wants whatsoever. Maybe they hate
to have read it and she HAD to make sure. She women for all the times they’ve been rejected and
then was really interested in my path from being want to get their own back. This is messed up.
a nervos little boy to my current situation. “I Luckily most of our customers are good quality
can’t imagine you being shy.” “Yeah this time 2 guys who love women and just want more control
weeks ago my hair was long frizzy and I probably over their love lives.
wouldnt be tlaking to you, this time 3 months ago
I definately wouldn’t have been talknig to you, With great power comes great responsibility as
and this time 6 months ago I probably wouldnt Spiderman says. It is possible (and not even too
even have been out at the bar.” “Have you a photo difficult) to make sure you never break a girl’
of you with your hair longer, you look really sexy heart.
now.” She was kinoing me so much at this point
it was getting ridiculous, I was gonna have to You just need to follow a few simple rules:
close her. We fluffed for a while, it came time for
both of us to go to our next destinations, my head -If you just want sex, you don’t need a
kept saying “We should hang out sometime….. conversation to set these rules, you just need to
we should hang out sometime….we should hang keep the intera
out sometime…” She invited me to go with her
to the bar she was going to, I didnt go because I -Now, by being honest and having morals, you
was so skint I couldnt afford it, we both left about MIGHT sleep with less women, but that love for
the same time, I didnt close her, I couldve real women and the desire not to hurt them will make
easily even when we left she looked back at us you more attractive and will earn you trust when
twice I couldve called her over and done it there you really want it.
but didn’t. I really don’t feel comfortable doing it,
-Keep the interaction light, not mislead her, and Give compliments. But do it right! Do it when
not connect with her on a deep level. You know you really feel it. Don’t be generic with the
what she wants in a boyfriend, don’t be it! compliment, and don’t say it weakly. Deliver
it deadpan. Compliments about character or
-When you are dating, be honest. If you tell something that she has done with herself that she
her you are seeing other women or don’t want wasn’t born with are always better.
something too serious, she won’t be investing
emotion in something that isn’t real. You only need to play hard to get if she is, if
she is open to talking to you initially, don’t be
-You are a PUA, you can find another girl easily, distant, engage with her before she thinks you are
she might be heat-broken for months if you split interested in her ugly friend and decides to leave
up with her. Better to let the girl dump you. Just the two of you together!
be needy and clingy and unattractive, you don’t Take any rule with a pinch of salt. Find out what
need to start being a bastard. This isn’t about works for you. I break other guys’ rules every time
status, it’s about not being nasty when you don’t I go out and still get tons of quality girls.
need to.
I was on a 1on1 the other day and had some Another factor was that he nodded and moved
deeper realisations on eye contact. We were in his head a lot when the girl was speaking.
set together, I was winging and observing my Subconsciously, this told her that she should
student whilst he was in set. I noticed that I was finish what she is saying quickly. We all know
able to get my girl comfortable and in rapport what it is like when someone is nodding and
very quickly but his conversation seemed to be a saying “aha, yeah, aha”, it’s annoying and it
bit stop-start. A lot of guys also tell me that they communicates that they have something to say.
run out of things to say, etc. I used to have this He wasn’t verbally doing this, but he was nodding
problem, but maybe I wasn’t completely conscious and moving his head quickly which both makes
of all the elements I have now that make this not it look like he wasn’t listening well and made her
happen anymore. think he wanted to jump in with something to say.
He was breaking eye contact to think of what to If you can keep eye contact and match their vocal
say next. When you break eye contact, the other tone and be relaxed in your body language, you
person’s attention can wander. They will look can create an environment where they forget
around the room, things will catch their eye, the about the whole room and everything going on
eye wanders and then the mind wanders. It will for a few minutes, it’s almost hypnotic. I think
break them out of the moment. It’s very difficult this is what I do, and this is why my conversation
to do this if someone is holding eye contact with flows. We are focused completely on each other,
you, you might look away but you will feel drawn I’m not in my head wondering what to say, and
back in. they aren’t looking around getting distracted. It is
powerful.
I knew this already, but what I realised was the
timing of the eye contact break. If you break it Of course, eye contact is also essential for the
when there is a break in the conversation (end seduction phase…
of subject, thinking of what to say next), then it
increases the strength of the break and creates
the stop-start kind of conversation. If you break Gambler: 93% Of Gaming Is Non-Verbal
eye contact when they are in flow or you are in
flow, they still have the words there to hold their This is a recent realisation of mine. It goes against
attention so it is more acceptable and doesn’t conventional thought, and it goes against all the
create that break. I advocate constant eye contact, guys that constantly ask “what should I open
but I notice that I break it when I’m winging, with”.
talking to guys, or generally talking to people that
I don’t want to be attracted to me. But I break it
when there is not a conversational break, this
In a night club, you can k-close without saying Recently I’ve been gaming with a different style,
a word. Sexual tension is generated almost this is similar to what Beckster has been doing for
completely through non-verbal communication. years.
Of course, day-game has a much larger verbal I’ll go to a club and get 5 or more numbers of the
element, and it is kind of stupid that most of the hottest girls. I might only be in set with them for a
pickup material is verbally heavy but focused on short time. Normally all we have is attraction.
clubs. “Who lies more” doesn’t work in the street
or supermarket. Clubs are noisy, the girls have I’ll get the number and then I’ll send them the
lower attention spans, and in big cities there are same series of text messages which is designed to
often a large number of foreign girls. get them back to my house. From Wednesday I’ve
Assuming the basic rule that number closes are got 3 dates arranged, and from Thursday another
for the day-time and physical closes are for the 2. The girls are hot, some models, all meet my
night game (because one is a sexually charged criteria of looking good without make-up, bening
environment with alcohol and the other isn’t) thin, and having other attractive qualities outside
most of how night game is taught should focus on their looks. For my first time trying this style it
non-verbal communication. There is a shortage of went well, but I think with some refinements I
day-game material. My non-verbal game includes could line up dates for the whole week from just
forcing IOIs, sexual tension generation, sexual one night out.
state projection, and conveying attractive qualities
(sexual confidence, relaxed, indifferent, non- Of course, one constraint on this is the quality
needy). of the girls, and luckily now I’ve found the best
places in London for hot girls so I can guarantee
that I’m going to be attracted to quite a few of
Gambler: Fast Closes And Text Game, them vs none of them in the usual Leicester
Gaming The Lazy Way Square venues.
(iii) You get the point. So I have about 1 hour to game her, plenty.
Here is an example which illustrates the point, keep busting on her about various things and then
with follow up: go kino. Hardcore. Started off brushing a bit of hair
off her face and told her I love readheads, she says
I met HB 8.5 tall redhead at Cheltenham train I’m cheesy but is loving it. We’re chatting like this
station last Friday, I thought I would game her for for a while and then some guy sits opposite so I
a laugh as I haven’t been doing too much recently. open up my laptop and start typing messages for
her on the screen.
Me : Hey how long does x take to get to London,
it doesn’t say on the boardHB 8.5 tall redhead : It revolves around star signs and sexuality, I tell
Er about 2 hours I thinkMe : Wow you’re really her that she is a naughty girl and a typical red
expressive with your hand gestures, what are you head, she accuses me of being a player, doing
a gangster or something? You Italian? this all the time etc…I eventually say to her that
I think we should go to the toilets and fuck, she
replies with something like (my heart says yes but I felt we had something there and I want to
my head says no…I can’t do it,, I’m a good girl). see where it takes us, it’s not very often I meet
someone I really like..You felt it too babe didn’t
I am escalating kino all the time, I put my hand you, I know you did..Speak soon.”
on her knee and tell her that perfect symmetry is
rare in nature, she says one of her knees is bigger The KEY points here are:
than the other as she had an accident once, etc
etc. So I play about with this for a while and then (i) She was obviously very attracted and that alone
move my hand further up, part her legs etc and may have guaranteed a shag AT THAT TIME (e.g at
stroke thighs…Then lean in and nibble on her her house), however due to the time lag she might
neck and earlobes… have flaked, however because the attraction and
fascination was so strong she made it easy for
After more of this and more sexy talk I end up me to progress things by making comments like
getting off with her, not hugely passionate kissing “you’re a player, don’t go shagging and leaving too
but proper, right on the train This is a crowded many girls when you go out this weekend” etc etc.
train, there’s a guy opposite and to the other side
are various other passengers. They can’t see my She was making it clear that she thought I was
hand under the table though… As she gets off I like that, BUT WAS GIVING ME A CLEAR WAY OUT
smack her on the arse (my speciality) and tell her OF IT, all I had to say was that I felt something
I’ll be seeing her real soon…I have the number of special with her.(ii)This is absolutely key with
course. quick seductions that of necessity have to lead to
sex at another time – you HAVE to have MAJOR
So try to get her down at the weekend but she attraction, escalate smoothly, confidently and in a
doesn’t make it although she has rung me twice dominant way, and then later when she gives you
and will prob come down on Sunday. a chance to make her feel a little special, you take
it.
THE REAL KEY TO THIS POST :
I’ve had 3 minute, hell 2 minute no closes from
I could sense that she thought I was a player and nightclubs, coffee shops etc that have led to
not really faithful to girls and she felt like one in a prolonged contact and in some cases, sex. You
long queue, so I had to at least provide some sort have to sense the energy of the interaction
of spurious reason for her to come down and shag and leave on a high note when her interest is
me (ok she hasn’t yet but the fact that she has high…don’t let it flag and don’t talk too fucking
called twice now indicates to me that it’s on. If she much. (iii) Even though she probably knows it’s
does come down, I am 95% sure I will nail her). bullshit, in her mind she is probably resolved of all
responsibility as I am the one escalating etc.
So I sent her a txt, along the lines of “Hey in all
seriousness, I know we got a bit carried away She knows she wants to fuck but has to
there on the train but I did really quite like you.. rationalise it to herself in some way, so will most
definitely come down with the view “I’m not going Now, what is going on here? Is it natural to do this
to shag him”, but will do it and then rationalise are are you using a technique? A frame control
afterwards that it was all my fault… technique? To me, anything that is not natural is
WEAK. You will be found out eventually, IMHO.
I am typing this at work and my manager is Also, if not done correctly it looks fucking stupid.
watching me like a fucking hawk, I will come You look like a dork who is socially maladjusted,
back to it another time and reread to make trying to be “alpha”.
sure it makes sense…anyway there have been
other examples but I wanted to give a detailed I’ve seen this out there, by the way, it;s
breakdown so you could see what I was talking cringeworthy. It’s totally different from someone
about Summary who GENUINELY can’t be arsed to listen to any
bullshit and gives a congruent reaction. It looks
(i) Escalate physically, SMOOTHLY, CONFIDENTLY, WEIRD.
DOMINANT. She WILL be sucked into it if you do
this, doesn’t matter that much where you are. I’ve been thinking about game recently and a
key part of having a natural style is living in the
(ii) Leave the interaction on a high note moment. To me, this means just saying the first
thing that comes into my head!! Listen to what
(iii) There’s NOTHING wrong with her thinking your body is telling you, what pops into your mind
you’re a player, it’s a challenge to her, she is when someone says something to you?
turned on by it and will give you a way in by
dropping little hints so that you can make her feel I think it depends on a bunch of factors : your
a little special state, how tired you are, the environment, etc etc.
What about if you could just say the first thing
(iv) When you see her again, escalate from where that comes into your mind, and give your natural
you left off. First thing you do when you see her response with no regards to the consequenecs?
– walk up to her, kiss her and grab her arse. Because you really don’t care?
Me (moody and pissed off state) - Wincing. Look I think I am advocating something that is much
at her - “That’s a fucking stupid thing to say. Shut more simple, organic and natural that learning
up. Don’t say stuff like that to me again”Me (Angry techniques. I am advocating doing exactly what
state) Shut up you stupid cuntMe (horny state) your body and mind say at that point in time.
FUCK THE ARSE OFF YOU. You wouldnt fucking
believe it. Now shut up and grab my dick! Have you ever noticed the nerdy guys who, when
you get talking to them, occasionaly come out
Do you see where I am going with this? It’s with hysterical comments that have everyone
amazingly powerful. You just wander through life, rolling around the floor laughing? Would you ever
living in your own reality. expect that? No. So, what about if these guys try
giving themselves free reign to let this personality
Now, I am not advocating hitting people or being come out. This is what I am saying. Let the real
criminal. You need to be socially adjusted and person come out, past all the social programming.
have respect for peoples boundries. An obvious
one is : never fuck around with peoples religions. Other guys on here can probably advise more
technical ways of doing this : I am offering
Be socially aware but live in YOUR reality. another alternative.
Further info: Have you ever seen that movie, Falling Down? The
Micheal Douglas character is going insane, sure.
OK there are some valid points here and i’ll ignore But what’s he up to? HE’S ACTING AS HE WANTS
the pointless diatribe against me…No need for it. TO!! It is fucking annoying to him that they are
I am genuinely trying to help and am genuinely digging up the street, so he blows it up with a
trying to break down how I game because I feel it’s fucking rocket launcher!!!
valid : it’s not easy for me to do this.
So, if a girl is giving you shit, and yuo’re pissed
1st point : Frame control IS something that can be off, FUCKING TELL HER!!! Women want a guy who
learned. I was not a “natural” before I started : I IS emotional, who IS truthful, they don’t want a
wasn’t walking up to girls on the street and taking fucking invented personality!
them home. I had NEVER done a cold approach in
my life : I used to wait for EC and then move in.
Only in nightclubs. Usually it worked.
I say this not to boast but to point out that the NOTE 3: Please, no bleating about “is this field
stuff I describe here WORKS FOR ME, it may not tested, does it work”, of course its fucking field
work for everyone. If you use this kind of stuff tested, and it works for me.
though, it can get results like blow jobs on trains,
stuff like that. So, how to project a sexual vibe
These are general things that you can do.
You will probably find that if you do stuff like this,
you will get women calling you dangerous, sexy, 1. When you see a HB or SHB, imagine her naked.
horny, a predator etc. They will probably not trust Imagine her sucking on your cock, imagine her
you but they WILL find it sexy. If you have good lay bent over with her pink slit on display, imagine
logistics and can extract well, you may get lots on sliding your cock into her.
ONS by doing this.
2. Feel the weight of your cock between your legs,
feel your balls. Think of it as your big fat tool,
think of how you can slam it into the HBS and You can escalate extremely fast by doing this.
make her wet. THINK SEXUAL. Fluff about bullshit but be invading her space and
overwhelm her with masculine presence.
3. Your body language should convey this sexual
vibe. You should be standing tall, when you stand 6. When you first start to touch her, alternate.
still stand with your legs apart. TAKE UP SPACE. Start off with extremely alpha stuff, after you have
kissed her, SLAP her arse, I mean SLAP it, hard.
4. If you get the eye of a HB, look at her and decide Grab one of her arse cheeks and pull her into
if you want to fuck her. If you do, think to yourself you so her pussy is pressed up against your cock.
mmm, she is going to get some of my cock.. Grab her and pull her into you and let her feel
Swagger over to her (you have to do this right, it’s your cock rubbing against her. Grab the back of
NOT like Liam Gallagher, its like you KNOW she her head and pull her hair so that her head goes
wants you, the deal is already done, she wants to back, kiss her neck. If you are doing this right, you
feel your cock in her mouth). should be almost instantly hard and maybe have
some precum coming out of your cock.
Say anything, use something like “what’s your
story then?” Say it in the right way, get in close, Then alternate it later (usually after prolonged
invade the fuck out of her body space. I’m serious, kissing), put one hand under her chin and lean
do not be a joker, be sexually powerful. NO back, study her whole face and look at her softly.
TIMIDITY CAN BE SHOWN. BE OVERLY SEXUALLY Put both hands on her face, one on each side. Lean
CONFIDENT. in softly, bump heads a little. Rub noses with her
and laugh with her about it.
5. When you see her and are up close, use your
eyes and whole body to capture her attention. You At this point I am thinking – I am using my big
should almost instantly shut out the rest of the brown eyes to show her my tender side. Usually
club for her. You have to swallow her with your then you can hug her and stroke her back. Its
eyes, whole. Stare at her, extremely suggestively. almost as if you are taming a wild horse, you have
You should almost be sneering, this is how sexual to show it who’s boss to start, then you can show
you need to be. your tender side later.
I cant describe it better than that, you need 7. When kissing, start off slowly, and gentle and
to have her in the state where nothing else in then when you get more into it, make appreciative
the world exists in that moment except your noises if you want, really get into it, pull back,
beautiful, fucking sexy face (this is honestly how kiss her HARD, almost like you are going to bruise
you need to be thinking). Do something like put 2 her mouth, pull her hair and position her mouth
fingers under her chin and just look at her, STUDY where YOU want it. Stick your tongue in as you
her for a while. feel like it.
8. Tell her what you want to do to her. Be graphic. A Powerful Frame To Have : What Does
Be extremely fucking sexual, I am going to fuck Your Body Say?
you so hard, I am going to make you scream, etc
etc. If she objects with some feeble shit, tell her to I’ve seen a lot of talk on here about FRAME. Your
shut the fuck up, come here (then kiss her again) frame in the interaction with HB’s.For eg, if the HB
says something unnacceptable, or is shit testing
9. In general just be extremely dominant. Be cool you or whatever, you FRAME CONTROL it away.
with it, you don’t want to come across like a “Yeah cool, so whatever”Now, what is going on
school teacher, more like an extremely confident, here? Is it natural to do this are are you using a
sexually powerful guy who gets what he wants technique? A frame control technique? To me,
from women. You should be thinking of the anything that is not natural is WEAK.
women as little retarded girls who don’t know
what they want and need a big guy to show them You will be found out eventually, IMHO. Also, if not
what the fuck is going on. done correctly it looks fucking stupid. You look
like a dork who is socially maladjusted, trying to
10. Tell her what to do, almost in an offhand way. be “alpha”. I’ve seen this out there, by the way, it;s
Come here, sit there, get me a beer, do this, do cringeworthy.
that. Accompany it with little smacks etc. Even, at
some points, a gentle slap in the face if she gives It’s totally different from someone who
you any shit, but stare her down and do not back GENUINELY can’t be arsed to listen to any bullshit
down after you have done it. and gives a congruent reaction. It looks WEIRD.I’ve
been thinking about game recently and a key part
11. Don’t be afraid to game her friends if there are of having a natural style is living in the moment.
two or more of them. Put your arms round both of To me, this means just saying the first thing that
them, feel their arses, have fun with them, they comes into my head!!
are girls and they come out to meet and have fun
with sexy guys. So don’t be afraid to have fun with Listen to what your body is telling you, what pops
them!! into your mind when someone says something
to you? I think it depends on a bunch of factors :
I shall try and break this down into more specific your state, how tired you are, the environment, etc
techniques in certain situations with examples if etc.What about if you could just say the first thing
anyone is interested. that comes into your mind, and give your natural
response with no regards to the consequenecs?
I would say that its easier to show you guys but I Because you really don’t care? London Hunk has
am still not used to gaming with other guys much been posting every Tuesday about responding
and find it much harder, but hopefully when I when a HB hits you with THIS. I find this really
wing some of you I can get into this state and do it cool, but I was thinking : my response would be
naturally to demonstrate. totally different depending on how I feel at any
given time, what my body is telling me.Example :
HB : So why do I need you as a boyfriend? What in the following example :PUA : Hey can you
will you do for me?Me (happy relaxed and playful tell me where the nearest hairdressers is?Her :
state) - Turn her over, smack her on the arse. “Shut Oh yeah, it’s just up there, turn left at the bank.
up silly girl”. Smack her arse again.Me (moody and PUA : OK , just up there…PAUSE..Did you say
pissed off state) - Wincing. Look at her - “That’s you wanted to watch me wank? I’ve only just
a fucking stupid thing to say. Shut up. Don’t say met you, my god you are forward…This is a
stuff like that to me again”Me (Angry state) Shut rather extreme, however it’s useful because it
up you stupid cuntMe (horny state) FUCK THE illustrates the technique. Using this kind of sexual
ARSE OFF YOU. You wouldnt fucking believe it. misinterpretation is great because :(i) You can
Now shut up and grab my dick!Do you see where use it at ANY point in the conversation e.g after
I am going with this? It’s amazingly powerful. You opening, rapport stage etc etc.(ii) It shows great
just wander through life, living in your own reality. confidence, and if delivered correctly is very funny
Now, I am not advocating hitting people or being – 2 ideal ingredients you want to demonstrate
criminal. I used to post stupid stuff like this, and to a girl.(iii) It immediately cuts through the
guess what? It was because I was feeling like it at bullshit and sets the tone of the conversation as
that time and it amused me. Anyway, of course sexual. Remember, a degree of sexual tension
you can’t go around hitting people. You need to is a MUST in interacting with girls. We all have
be socially adjusted and have respect for peoples boring, anodyne conversations all day long : this
boundries. An obvious one is : never fuck around is different and makes you stand out.(iv) It shows
with peoples religions. Be socially aware but live you are sexually confident and direct. Again this
in YOUR reality. is unusual and attractive. Ask as many attractive
women as you can if they would appreciate being
approached by an attractive guy who is direct and
Steve’s Guide To Creating Attraction… humourous.This technique is a way of creating
sexual tension and quickly changing the nature of
Here is my guide to creating attraction. There is the interaction and getting you talking as a man
a bunch of other stuff that I do that I am trying and woman who may be interested in sex. Use it
to quantify and break down, this is a good start sparingly as overuse will reduce it’s effectiveness.
though. You’ll have to wait…. It’s difficult to put an exact figure on how many
times you should do this but in a 3 minute
Creating attraction number close in the daytime, once should be
enough. Try and use it directly after the opener as
There are numerous ways in which you can create it’s a great way of flipping the attraction switches.
attraction. The following are some of the best,
most powerful ways : Another conversational method is to use ANY
hook to turn the conversation onto a sexual /
Method one – Conversational jujitsu.Using this dating plane. You can use literally ANYTHING
method you pretend not to hear what she is to do this, as with the example below :PUA : So
saying and misinterpret it in a sexual way, as where you from?HB : I’m from LatviaPUA : Latvia
– oh yeah, cool. I heard about that place…I read comment you make can become pregnant with
an article about it actually. Yeah, it said that the sexual undertones.To practice this, try and focus
girls from Latvia are all super hot…(IRONICALLY) on something that you find physically attractive
– I couldn’t comment , of course…PAUSE…And it about her and gain pleasure from it and SHOW IT
also said they all seem to have a special interest to the girl. Use the powerful statements in method
in (describe yourself) e.g 5”6 guys who wear brown five to enhance the effect.
courdroy pants and pink socks and matching pink
underwear. PAUSE…How strange. Are you aware Method three – pregnant pauses and sexual
of this phenomenon?Your lucky day eh?Again, use innuendo When you’re confident, showing
this sparingly as you do not want to appear to be a prolonged eye contact and using sexual humour,
clown by using too much humour. This method is you can also use pauses and sexual innuendo.
best used shortly after the opener. These techniques can be applied at any point
during the pickup.Here is an example, this is an
Method two – prolonged eye contact.This actual transcript taken from a 2 minute number
technique is most useful throughout the pickup. close, which lead to an f close on a day 2.PUA :
Generally you should aim to keep eye contact as You look just like the cat that got the cream…
long as possible but NOT IN A THREATING WAY! (PAUSE, looking at her in smiling way, but with
When in conversation with a girl, try and hold sexual intent)…See any interesting guys in here
her eyes and smile at appropriate points. Don’t (INNUENDO)HB : Not really, it’s a bad night..Except
stare! You know you’re staring if she starts to you (attraction gained within 2 seconds)PUA :
say “what…” and appears to think something is (Ironic smile) – I see..You’re very forward arne’t
wrong with her.When holding eye contact, you you? (Get closer). A bit of a naughty girl infact
can create attraction spikes by thinking of her (Sexual humour). Do you know what happens
in a sexual way and appreciating her beauty. to naughty girls (Innuendo)HB : I couldn’t guess
However, be careful NOT to appear sleazy, as there (fake innocence)PUA : (Grabbing her bum). They
is a world of difference between a sexual man get their arses smacked, of course. But you’d like
and a sleazy one. A sexual man has an honest that (sexual humour)PUA : Where you from??In
appreciation for beauty and gets pleasure from it, the above example we have all of the techniques
whereas a sleazy guy has a running porno video being used simultaneously, which allowed me
in his mind and views women as a sex object. To to get a solid number close and arrange to meet
practice this skill, try to keep holding eye contact her for a day 2. It was necessary to build up some
in every interaction with a woman. Don’t look comfort on text in order to solidify a day 2 but
away and notice their reactions. If they appear using these techniques you can get solid numbers
uncomfortable, keep practicing and try to smile very quickly as very very few guys out there are
more, in a genuine and sexually interested way. making this kind of impression so quickly.
As you practice this, you can let her in on the
fact that you find her attractive and play with Method four – Raise your standards.As a general
fake coyness, women can and WILL pick up on principle, whenever you’re in conversation with
this and it becomes a sort of game, as every a girl, you need to keep 1 principle in mind :
know your standards and stick to them. Write the tamer ones and move up the ladder to the
them down if you have to! What do you want in more powerful ones :
a girl? What qualities are an absolute MUST (try
to be more specific than 32DD breasts!). When (i) When was the last time you got really drunk?
you’re talking, is she displaying qualities that you (Gets rapport and sets tone for day 2 meeting, gets
don’t like? Has she said something that on some personal)
level pisses you off? Then SHOW IT!!This sounds
obvious but it’s surprising how many guys will try (ii) Those earrings (or X Y Z adornment) really say
to hide their distaste in the hopes of getting into a lot about you (playful and slightly ironic)…What
a girls knickers. In truth the opposite is true : if do they say?? Curious arnet you..They tell me
you show you’re a man with standards and will that (go into cold read). (Gets personal, instant
call her on shoddy behaviour, then you’re much DHV and shows you are paying attention, creates
more likely to gain attraction. Here is the key : attraction, sets dating / sexual frame)
it’s how you show disdain that matters. DON’T
get into a prolonged logical debate about her (iii) There’s something about a girl like you
behaviour or what she has said. Use your body that’s very sexy. I think it’s….the combination
and a quick word to convey distaste. Turn away of x quality and y quality. We’d be good
from her a little if she genuinely pisses you off. It’s together, imagine what our kids would look like
not necessary to tell her off, just say “I see” as you (humourous) As long as they got my looks, it
backturn, or even “that’s a little weird”…Then fall would be cool anyway (Immediatley sets tone for
silent. You’ll find that if she’s attracted, she’ll claw dating frame, gets her thinking of you in a bf / gf
at you and try to explain her position or apologise. way, funny)
This is a great opportunity to be won over (if you
agree with what she’s saying) and gain control of (iv) This is getting boring – when was the last time
the frame. you got fucked properly? (WHAM!! Very powerful,
can be used to create massive sexual tension, gets
Method five – tell her what you want / shock her thinking of sex WITH YOU, in a very powerful
tactics.This technique is very powerful, and direct way)
can literally transform the dynamic of an
interaction with 1 clear sentence. It sends a very You have to consider the effect that you want
direct signal to her that you are interested and to achieve in order to evaluate the best time
that you want her ;delivered at the right time to use these statements. In the above four
it’s a devastating technique and can instantly examples, you might use (iii) immediately after
transform an interaction and set the tone to receiving an IOI, whilst invading her personal
whatever you want.When in a conversation, you space.You might use (iv) on a day 2, in a natural
can bust out these kind of powerful statements pause in the conversation, after sexual tension
but they have to be used at the right time. Use the has been created but before you have kissed.
conversational pauses, look directly at her and Especially effective if you are talking about boring
then deliver the statements. You can start off with subjects that neither of you are interested in,
as conversation fillers, especially if she is the move straight in. Get closer to her. Kino lightly,
nervous type.You must use your judgement about start off by putting your hand on her arm and
when to use these statements. You can practice whisper in her ear. Immediately drop any cocky
by writing out some simple, declarative, powerful techniques and get serious with her, by delivering
statements that you want to achieve a particular a powerful statement about how you like her..“In
effect, then bringing them out at particular points all seriousness, we’re messing around but…I gotta
in the interaction. say I like you because of X Y Z quality (pick out
a quality that’s unique to her – DON’T JUST SAY
Method six– Invasion of personal space.Traditional NICE TITS. Try and think of something unique).
social dynamics literature will tell you that Now you’re having a real interaction! Sexual
respecting another persons personal space is very interest is there, it’s established, you’re on. Now
important to avoid conflict and create rapport. it’s time to focus on building and escalating to an f
This is mostly true, however in pickup, flaunting close, this will be covered in later chapters. Or, you
this “rule” can be extremely effective in creating can get a number close and if you reach this point,
attraction. The main reasons why this works as you can be 90% sure the number will not flake if
a technique are (i) You show that you have the you use the techniques as directed.
sexual confidence to escalate. Most guys are afraid
of screwing this up and losing the girl, and women
can sense this. If you are different, in that you More bar and club game techniques
invade their personal space in a dominant and
congruent way, it shows that you are not like most Although I believe game is game, I think this kind
men and have more sexual confidence. Displays of stuff is more suited to bars / clubs…Daytime is
like this send a very clear signal to her that you more about fast closes or longer insta dates (in my
are the kind of man that can take her to bed and experince tho I am no day game specialist)
show her a good time, something that is lacking
in most men. It shows you are an alpha male See my blog for the club game and sexual
and that when you see something you like, you escalation techniques….
go for it.(ii) It shows that you are investing in the
interaction and are not afraid to put your balls on So…
the line.
(i) What needs further explanation / clarification
Again, you are not behaving in a wishy washy (ii) Is it well explained?
way and are clearly telegraphing your interest to (iii) How could it be improved for you?? e.g explain
the girl in a direct and powerful way. Ironically, HOW TO in easy steps
you are less likely to receive a negative reaction if
you act in this way than if you pussyfoot around POST FOLLOWS!!
and are scared to screw up or scare her away.
So how do you do it?Firstly, when talking, use
the techniques above. When you get one IOI,
Key principles You demonstrate physical dominance using the
techniques described here, sexual dominance, and
Indifference to outcome finally mental dominance (breaking her and then
the shift of mindset).
You must be coming from a place where you
are not leeching off her, or TAKING SOMETHING Putting your real personality on the line –
from her that she doesn’t want to give. Sexual adopting frame of doing what your body says. If
attraction and tension should be its own free you are acting in the moment, and NATURALLY
flowing entity that exists between TWO people, i.e indifferent to outcome and knowning you have
it’s not something that you should be wanting “broken” her, you cannot help but do this. You
to take from her. Therefore in the early stages, should be living in your own reality but at the
until you have gained mutual respect and sexual same time you are painfully honest with the HB
attraction is between both of you, you must try and you give of yourself.
NOT TO CARE about the outcome. This mindset
encompasses a number of sub elements Step One : dominate and break her.
You shouldn’t be thinking of what she is thinking This is the stage when you are clearly attracted to
of you. each other, IOIs are flowing.
You shouldn’t be thinking in terms of what can I First step is that you must make a quick strike and
do to impress this girl. break her.
You must not be WANTING or NEEDING anything Breaking the girl is more overt and obvious for
off her. sexually agressive girls.. But it is a method that is
employed on ALL girls in the early stages, though
You must not attach your emotional state to how the technique is different.
she reacts to you.
The idea of breaking the girl is that you have to
Dominance quickly establish who is in charge, so in addition
to the “indifferent” frame that we are familiar
The aspect of dominance is vital because it with that has been discussed elsewhere, you are
demonstrates that demonstrating to her as a man that you are going
to LEAD her, but in a confident, slightly risky way
You are a man who will take charge and LEAD that will turn her on. You are overwhelming her
her in a way that is highly exciting to her : sexy, in a short space of time and OWNING her in a
slightly risky, strong, forceful. sexy risky way.
Sexually aggressive girls : I am the man here, I am in charge, this girl will
not tame me, I am going to break her.
You have to make an assessment of the level of
sexual aggression of the girl, go a notch higher For other types of girls..
and then break her with your aggression and
dominance. For other types of girls your approach is
less aggressive but you are still physically
Ways of spotting her sexual agressivity: demonstrating that you are in charge. So when
kissing her, withdraw and look at her, study
How hard does she kiss – is she a PASSIVE kisser her…Then do a move that shows that as the man
(receiver), or does she push back with her tongue? you are leading, you are in charge, and you will
Does she move your hands for you to where she dominate her..
wants them to be?
Put one hand under her chin, tilt her head back.
Does she grab you with force with her hands? Put your hand on the back of her head, arrange it
so that its in a good position for kissing then move
Is she generally “feisty” i.e doing what she wants, in and kiss her..Whilst doing so put your hand on
lots of energetic movements? the side of her face and stroke it gently.
As a basic principle, you must always be in charge. NOTE : The “move” is irrelevant really, this is just
If she starts to dominate YOU sexually, you an example and one that I use, it’s the underlying
must stop that immediately and physically and MINDSET that is CRUCIAL.
aggressively take charge:
This move shows her physically that you are in
If she kisses you back hard, increase the tension charge, in a dominant but less sexually aggressive
by pulling back, grabbing her face, forcing her way than with sexually aggressive HB’s.
mouth onto yours
When you do this you should find that you get
If she is moving your hands, GRAB her hands, pin HUGE DDB eyes. You know that look that women
them and push her back. get when their mouths are slightly open and they
look a but dumb, and their eyes are HUGE and
If she keeps moving around, pin her down, stop shining? This is what should happen…
her, get her doing what you want her to do.
Phase two : The shift (now she is yours)
You should find that she will submit to your
physical will after a few push backs. If she Once this has happened, sit back and look at her
doesn’t, KEEP GOING. YOU HAVE to take charge in a complacent way. At this point you are now
and dominate her. In your mind you are thinking going to reinforce what has just happened and
assert your position further.
Now is the time to ARRANGE her…Move her about her, you’re tender too, a strong man with a tender
a bit, say come here, in an offhand way, then side…She loves it..And you’re interested in her as
smack her bum. a person too, and you want to know more…
Your mindset : Can you see how this rollercoaster ride can
fascinate a woman??
This is my girl now, I’ve broken her and she’s
submitted. There is NO QUESTION that she is These three phases can happen very quickly
mine, all pretence is gone. (literally within 3-5 minutes or even shorter), or
may take up to 20. But you should aim to be in
Phase three : comfort the comfort phase within 5 minutes.
So within the space of a few minutes to half This is one girl, there are millions more out there
and hour you are sending her emotions on a and I can get them
rollercoaster ride…In her mind she is thinking:
I am the man and I am in charge
Yeah I’m the shit, I’m confident, etc etc. HOWEVER
Then you guy roll up and take charge, you appear Put yourself on the line and don’t dick around…
to be all man… You have lead her and controlled Tell her you like her and SHOW it..But the
her in a way that she likes and that turns her on. underlying FRAME shouldn’t change, since you
Then all of a sudden you are leaning back, looking are not coming from a place of NEEDINESS, you
at her like she’s a little girl…Whats going on? You are coming from an authentic place as a man
suddenly appear to be treating her differently… who has already DEMONSTRATED that you are
Some switch has flipped in your mind and she’s in charge and you are aware that she is attracted
now certain that this is a man that she cannot to you (the mental phase shift)…Now you are
tame, that she can never control..But wait, now showing that you like her too. You can now
you’re acting soppy, and you’re getting to know AFFORD to be 100% genuine and natural with her
and the PU will move along naturally towards it’s Strategy
logical outcome….
Before I will write something about strategy I
would like to introduce myself. My name is Strat,
Gambler: Strip Club Game: How To Game I have been living in Germany, France, the USA
Strippers, Get Their Numbers And Close and Australia. During that time I got to know a lot
Them of different women in partially totally different
cultures. However interesting is that one thing
Okay so we’ve established that the strip club is a always works with women all around the world:
good place to pick up. How do you do it? Well the Strategy
guys here all have a different approach.
What is strategy? Of course there is the kind
Anthony P is very sexually aggressive. He aims of strategy that you need to compete against
to be more sexual than the girl. He is very direct, competitors in the business environment, there is
he’ll grab them and mess with them. He’ll be very the kind of strategy that leads small countries to
intense. These are tough girls so they respond well victories against big countries in a time of war, but
to this. there is also the kind of strategy that is involved
in seducing, keeping and winning women back.
Steve/Vertex is more cocky/funny and uses his
wit. He is very sexual and manly, and strippers The last one is the kind of strategy that I have
are probably very happy to meet a man that looks been studying since I got my first real kiss when I
like he can handle their sexuality because he has was 14. This kind of strategy is about psychology.
more than them.
What I am good in is the long term seduction.
I go the rapport route and show difference from Strategically thought through, well planned and
the usual customers. I give them something they executed.
haven’t experienced before, and get to their real
emotions and the real person under the façade. What I will write about in my posts has not much
to do with the actual process of picking up. I will
The key in all cases is to break the frame. It starts leave that up to professionals like Gambler and
as you being the punter, and it changes into you his team, Mystery and Ross. I will write about
being a potential boyfriend/date/sexual partner. getting the women that you cannot get. The
This is the key in every case. woman that has a boyfriend and who you cannot
pick up in a bar, on the street or in a club. The
None of us use the Mystery Method or Archer woman that you have been knowing forever but
Sloan stuff for strip clubs, we don’t think it is that does not notice you because you are just not
necessary. her type, or the woman that you had been with,
you still love and who is with another guy now.
Boyfriend Destroyer Strategy by Strat I always found that girls that are in a relationship
are actually easier to get then girls that are not.
First I want to say that I am sorry for not posting The longer the relationship has been the easier it
anything in such a long time. I was long thinking is. Most guys probably thing the opposite. Thus I
about publishing this post because it is somehow will explain you why that is.
evil. It gives you an overview over the tools to
attract a person that is in a relationship and to A girl that has been in a relationship for let’s say
somehow manipulate her to be turned her away two years is definitely missing something. If she is
from her boyfriend. I don’t know if you guys are not then we need to demonstrate her that she is.
religious, but I think that you should at least not Especially girls between 17 and 26 have a intuitive
mess with an instance that is way higher then drive to experience something, some more some
you. Therefore I am writing this post because I less, but everybody has this drive build in by
want you to see what other people might try to mother nature. It is also a fact that most guys
destroy your relationship by getting your girl. This don’t care about their girl after two years as much
post is therefore designed to make you realise that anymore as at the beginning. They might argue a
especially a long relationship is not a guarantee bit more, sex is almost a routine, kisses get shorter
for an everlasting relationship. I don’t want to and less after a couple months and the attention
encourage you to actually use this strategy as I they give her is not as high as it used to be.
said I it is evil in my eyes. I have done it and it
worked over and over again but after a couple But we all know that girls need attention. Guys
years I have realised that it is more important to are kind of retiring after a couple years and think
know about this kind of strategy and to prevent it that they have the girl for sure because she is
from happening once you have the girl that you constantly bagging him for more kisses, love and
really love. attention. Thus this is exactly our chance. This is
where we attack. This is where we win her over!
This strategy is for boyfriends who don’t want
their women to get slowly seduced by another Once you got the girl to go out with you, to spend
guy out of their own arms. However I am writing a day with you or something else the first step is
it as if you would be the guy how wants to seduce to:
another girl, because that is the position that I
know best. 1. Study her boyfriend
If you for example already know the woman for a What does he do? How old is he? How long has
while or you know that you would not be able to their relationship been going on for? Ask her
pick her up in just one night and you know that simple superficial questions first, later on try to
you want her as your girlfriend. If you just want get her to tell you about their relationship. The
to have fun for a couple nights, then Gambler’s, goal is to find out if there are any weaknesses. Do
Mystery’s and Ross’s Methods definitely work they go out a lot? Is he taking her on vacations?
better. Is he just lying on the sofa when he gets home?
Are they doing a lot with their friends? Is he Show her that there is a lot more to do in the
creative? Those questions need to come out world then watching movies. She needs to have
naturally though, don’t bomb her with exactly the feeling that she is missing out when she is
those questions; these are just the questions that spending time with him and not with you. Make
you want to have answered for yourself. By asking her realise that live can be so much more exiting,
her a couple questions she might even tell you her funny and spontaneous and interesting with you.
complains and that is exactly where we want to
have her. 3. Don’t talk about him unless she brings it up
2. Demonstrate value After you have studied her boyfriend in the first
part, don’t ever mention him again. You don’t
From now on his weaknesses needs to be your want her to think about him, in fact you want her
strength. If she tells you that they are usually at to forget him, to just enjoy her time. If she brings
home watching movies, then that is exactly what him up, listen to her, but don’t let it turn into
you will not do! You will take her out, take her a big discussion. Just listen and agree with her.
to a lake rent a canoe or take her to nice places She will project all the things that he is not into
that you know. Just make sure that she hasn’t you by complaining to you about him and by you
been there with him yet. Otherwise it will just agreeing with her. Just say every once in awhile
remind her of good old times with her boyfriend. things like: “Hmm, I can’t understand that”, “That
She will feel like betraying him by coming there is wired”, “Why would he do that?”
with you and she will block. Hence it has to be a
place where she hasn’t been. It also always looks 4. Spend time with her
good if you make it look like it is spontaneous,
like you just had a great idea. Maybe don’t even This is actually the most difficult and crucial part
tell her yet were you will go. If you think about because here you have to take care that you don’t
it, in a long relationship everything is usually turn into her best friend that she can do nice
planed, she knows how much time he has, she things with and then she goes home and gets
knows the places that he knows and there are no the sex from her boyfriend. The goal is to make
real surprises anymore. Therefore surprise her! her as comfortable around you as possible and to
Make her laugh! Make her enjoy the day like no make her fall in love with you. The trick is to do
other day! If he is more the quite guy, then be that without her even recognising it. I mean, if
crazy! Be the opposite. Make her realise that she you think about it, what is the difference between
is missing out. Be a gentleman, be all the things a good friend a boyfriend? It pretty much just
that he has forgotten, fight for her! Her boyfriend comes down to the physical part. Hence, touch her
is not fighting for her anymore, he is probably not gently every once in a while. If you walk next to
opening every door for her, because he thinks he her make your hand touch hers for half a second,
is on the save site. when you sit in front of her, put her hair back,
make her gentle compliments like: “Your hair is
beautiful”, “I love you fingers.” You can learn a lot
of those things from the PUAs posting on this site. Don’t be shocked if she doesn’t kiss you back. I
– make her attracted to you. will write you in the next couple of posts what to
do in this case or what do so that this doesn’t turn
This case is a bit different from a seduction out into a onetime thing that she regrets.
in a bar though in a bar you need to win her
attention here you already have it, you are already
somewhat between a friend and a boyfriend Gambler: High-Rollers, lots of money, not
hence compliments from you are like from some so much game
random guy at a pub.
Recently, I’ve started going to upmarket venues.
When you drop her off tell her nice things like: “It I’ve met lots of guys in there who will happily
was wonderful with you, as always”- big smile- If spend £1000 on a night out, and one of the main
she tells you this then reply “Well it was you who reasons they are spending that much is to get
made it wonderful, I was just the driver.” Or tell women. They order champagne and invite women
her when she just got out of the car: “Hey! You can to share it with them. The funny thing is, even in
call me … anytime you want.” these cases, the guys often don’t get anywhere.
They say “I’m an investment banker at Goldman
Again, this might sound a bit cheesy and some Sachs” and they think that the women will get
PUAs might disagree with me here because you wet over that. Fact is, most women would prefer
could say that you are running after her a bit, well a mountain climber who plays the electric guitar
in this case you are not. You want to win her over any day over just another guy with money.
by being at the right time in the right place. Think about it, these women of high value have
offers of dinners and champagne every day of
5. Wait for the right time the week. These guys definitely lack what PUAs
call game. Their game is to get the girls drunk,
Don’t make a move when she is happy with her get drunk themselves, and see if she rejects the
boyfriend right now, wait for a day when she is sleazy advances. Of course, if the guy is not too
annoyed by him, they had an argument or she bad looking and the girl isn’t too fussy, it might
is just pissed because of something he did. This work, but are these guys getting what they want?
will lower the chance to be rejected dramatically. Do they feel satisfied with only the kind of girls
She will not run off with you when she just got that will sleep with them as long as they get to
fifty roses from him that day. If you have done the live a nice lifestyle. The usual problem with these
fourth step right she might even call you when guys is not running out of things to say like it
she wants to talk to you or when she is annoyed is with other guys, it’s talking too much about
by him. Try the ideas to get a kiss close from this themselves, being boring, and not being sensitive
site to actually kiss her. to what the woman wants. For us in these clubs,
it’s pretty funny. We don’t spend money, and the
girls really don’t care, they’re happy to meet guys
that are attractive past the wallet, that know how
to treat them, how to talk to them, and how to started out and each of them are relatively easy to
turn them on. overcome given focused effort.
Gambler: The common sticking points Gambler: Not Being Dumped: Keeping
the girl
After meeting nearly 400 customers, it’s become
possible to categorise guys into a number of A friend of mine recently pulled a very hot girl.
sticking points. They will either have one or many, She is the most attractive girl he’s even number
and luckily we have a method of getting over each closed.
one. The common sticking points are:
He met her in a club, saw her for a date,
1. Fear of the approach. everything was cool. He had another date with
2. Run out of things to say and get stuck her, and he thought he made some mistakes.
conversationally. Then disaster struck, he called, she didn’t answer,
3. Get into a long conversation and don’t know she didn’t call back and hours had passed, he
how to close. thought she’d gone off him and that was that.
4. Get numbers but they flake. My thoughts were this: You meet the girl and close
5. Get dates and girls don’t want to see them her, that means she likes certain things about you.
again after first one. Maybe you were cocky and funny, maybe you were
6. Don’t know how to escalate physically. sweet, whatever. The problem is that when a guy
7. Girls just want to be friends. falls for a girl or puts too much pressure on the
situation, he changes. He stops doing the things
And the answers to these are: that made her fall for him initially, the attraction
disappears and then he’s finished.
1. Desensitisation, giving content, confidence
boosting, framing the situation differently, So, the advice to anyone who finds this situation
motivation strategies. familar is this: Think about what the girl liked
2. Impro exercises and giving content. about you when you first met her and give her
3. Verbally leading into a number or kiss close. more of this.
4. Solid number closing, text game, phone game.
5. Rapport, day-2 system, status. Oh yeah, the end of the story? It’s all cool, she had
6. Sexual tension, verbal and non-verbal sexual a legitimate excuse and is now chasing him.
escalation.
7. Sexual escalation, prizing. Guys, do this stuff, but there is much more you
can do to keep a girl interested, without being a
Of course, every individual is different and it’s bad jerk.
to categorise guys like that, but that’s basically it.
I know that I had each of the 7 problems when I