The wounded mind

 All of us are masters, we have the power to create and rule our
own lives
 We master whatever we believe we are
 How do you apply your power? What kind of mastery do you
have?
 After practice, you can become a master of…anger, jealousy,
sadness, self-rejection
 All our drama and suffering comes from practice = mastery
 Human mind is sick with a disease called fear (anger, hate,
sadness, envy and hypocrisy
 Denial system – mask / restricts yourself – the dream of hell
 Hook attention – domestication – need to be accepted
 A man and a woman make an image of what they want to be
 The loss of innocence
 Emotional body – tuned to love
 Alarm system – fear – domesticate – injustice
 Hook the attention – emotional poison is
transferred / released
 We punish ourselves
 All the beliefs that make us suffer – parasite
 We are never going to be perfect
 The man that didn’t believe in love
 Love is like a drug
 Possessive
 Provider manipulate vs. addiction
 Fear relationship based on control
 Afraid to be alone – endure the suffering
 Met “love doesn’t exist” Vulnerable – selfishness
 Put the star in her hands – doubt –overwhelming
 Making someone else responsible for happiness
 Exchange rings?
 The track of love, the track of fear
 Emotions – fear (95%) and love (5%)
 Characteristics: love has no obligations, no
resistance, no expectations, based on respect,
ruthless, have compassion, responsible, kind,
generous, unconditional
 Track of love = justice
 You are only responsible for your half in the
relationship
 The perfect relationship
 You are what you are – be honest with yourself
 Love someone just the way he / she is
 The right one? Don’t need to change
 Closely aligned – a key in a lock
 Don’t invent in people what is not there
 Love and accept yourself just the way you are
 Relationship is an art – ½ ½
 Service – self-love
 The magical kitchen
 You already have all the love you need
 We can’t see that love
 Love hurts – risk
 Self-love before you can love someone else
 Searching for someone to control and manipulate – selfish
 We reject ourselves for not being perfect
 Most wonderful relationship: with yourself
 Be happy alone – refuse to beg for love
 What makes you happy is love coming out of you
 Generosity will open up all the doors
 The dream master
 You are responsible for the consequences of
whatever you do, say or feel
 The mastery of transformation
 Control your reactions – change your routine
 Once you have awareness, you have a choice
 Be responsible for your own life
 Accept yourself just the way you are – self-
love
 Sex, the biggest demon in hell
 Sex is the biggest sin
 Beliefs about sex – guilt, shame
 Believe a lot of lies about sex
 The need is in the mind = love
 Split needs: body vs. mind
 What am I?
 Trauma shows you what you are not
 Identity: a force (life)
 The divine huntress
 Artemis – apologize
 Hunt to fulfill our needs
 Hunt for love – don’t love ourselves
 Other humans don’t have what we need
 Hunt inside yourself
 Difficult prey – everything can distract you
 Surrender yourself – hunter (predator) = parasite
(judge - self-abuse)
 Hunt every reaction you have = become a warrior
 Seeing with eyes of love
 Apologize / say I’m sorry
 Mind abuses the body – concepts – we believe them
 If you can accept your own body, you accept
everyone
 Your own opinion is what counts
 We believe our beauty is our power
 You are what you believe you are
 Treat your body with love – a temple of God
 Hunt the parasite and make it surrender
 Healing the emotional body
 Open the wounds:
 Use the truth as a scalpel – the truth will set you free
 3 rules:
 Don’t believe me
 Don’t believe yourself
 Don’t believe anyone else
 Clean the wounds: forgiveness–act of self-love
 Real problem is pride – personal importance
 Make a list of everyone you need to forgive:
 Nothing anyone does, is because of you
 Self-love is the medicine the accelerates the process of healing
 Love yourself, love your neighbor, love your enemies
 You cannot share what you do not have