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CH11 Orgasm and Slow Tantric Sex

CH11 Orgasm and Slow Tantric Sex

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Almost everything a husband and wife needs to know about sex, whether just married or in mature relationships.
Almost everything a husband and wife needs to know about sex, whether just married or in mature relationships.

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Chapter 11
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Full Course Sex
It is no secret that in comparing genders, most men arein a rush to get to orgasm. Understanding that a woman’s body takes time to climax is critical. In thefollowing section we discuss ways to slow done sex. Just as in the world of cooking, although there maybethe occasion for a quickie, the best food is cookedslowly and carefully. The best sex is also served slowly. This maybe a hard thing for most to grasp, but thepayoff is enormous.
Slow Sex
Men during sex often accelerate like a sports car, going to the finish line, and then hitting the brakes. Theirarousal curve comes up fast, and then declines quickly. This can take three to five minutes. Women’s bodiesare not geared the same way, and they need time to warm up, which may take 20-30 minutes to plateau andorgasm. The last thing she wants to do is look in therear view mirror, see her hubby biting the dust just asshe is getting the engine going and into first gear.
 
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Research shows that three quarters of men climax when they have sex, but only a third of women do. It isimperative to make this a mutually pleasurableexperience and to put the joy of your wife first. Goodsex is not like it is in the movies, where a couple areattracted to each other, meet, go to the bedroom, andkeep having one simultaneous orgasm after another inincreasing intensity as they make mad passionate love. This is all a false dichotomy, and (unfortunately) oftenbecomes a model for real people. To return to ourgarden metaphor, sex is like nurturing various plantsand flowers in various seasons and growing stages. Itcannot be done by following one single set of directions or seeing others do it.
Orgasm and Mood
Orgasm results in increased brain activity and musclecontractions. The urge to climax is a powerful drive inthe human being. Although orgasm can start fiveminutes after arousal, most men can train themselves tolast longer. When a man gets close to point of no return this is where the Kegels and training come in. Ejaculationresults in handful of contractions, about one persecond. The refractory period, between the cool downperiod when penis goes limp and can become hardagain, is short as five to thirty minutes for adult malesdepending upon age. As women are aroused her lips redden, pupils dilate,nipples become erect, and breathing and bloodpressure increase. As she gets close to climax, her
 
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clitoris fills with blood and an increase in stimulationcan bring on an orgasm. At climax, the vagina contractsa handful of times or more, mirroring the response of the man. Their contractions may be longer and slower. Women do not have a refractory period, so may havemultiple orgasms, but more orgasms does notnecessarily mean more pleasure.
Penetration
Enter the vagina gradually, first only one inch, then pullback just a little but keep the penis inside vagina. Avoidsexual scripts of love making as shown in porn films. This is recipe for fast ejaculation leaving neither theman nor woman satisfied. Find your rhythm and beone with it. Thrust shallowly a number of times beforethrusting deeply. Alternate between shallow and deepthrusts, but don’t just pull penis out of vagina, as itcreates a seal. Besides thrust, try different directionsand stimulate as much of vagina using your hips. Godeeper, and then play with one side and then the otherof the vagina. Encourage the woman to also pulse andmove in directions that are pleasurable for her. Changeyour moves. Do things at random. Change from onetechnique to another during foreplay. Kiss her allthroughout her body and in different parts, withdifferent softness and firmness. Variation is thekeyword so you will not bore her and change hermood. Move from routine to variety with your spouse
What’s the Rush?
It is important that you lead your spouse through thesexual experience especially if you sense that he or she

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