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Getting Back Out There: Secrets to Successful Dating and Finding Real Love after the Big Breakup
Written by Susan J. Elliott
Narrated by Kate Rudd
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About this audiobook
You’ve broken up, done the work, and you’re ready to move on to a new relationship. In Getting Back Out There, Susan J. Elliott—creator of the wildly popular blog GettingPastYourBreakup.com—guides you through the process of deciding when to date again, first date jitters, the selection (and rejection) of potential partners, and the rewarding experience of making a commitment to the right partner and being equipped for a happy, healthy relationship.
With chapters such as "The Steps from the Big Breakup to Happy and Healthy Dating, Mating, and Relating," "Five Questions to Ask Before You Take the Plunge," and "The Five R’s of Dating Failure: Readiness, Rejection, Recycling, Rebounding, Retreating," Getting Back Out There is the go-to guide to help you transition from former failed relationships to a successful new one.
Author
Susan J. Elliott
Susan J. Elliot, JD, MEd, is the creator of the Getting Past Your Breakup blog and seminar series. A sought-after relationship commentator, motivational speaker, certified grief counselor, and attorney, she has helped thousands of clients and readers transform their love lives. She lives in New York. GettingPastYourBreakup.com
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Reviews for Getting Back Out There
Rating: 4.631578947368421 out of 5 stars
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book is so much more than merely dating. It helps you focus and learn who you are and what you’re looking for in a relationship. I found it so helpful and very entertaining at the same time.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Everyone starting a new relationship should listen or read this book. It’ll help you learn and understand a lot of things, as well as reflect on past relationships.