This episode is brought to you by Skillshare: Start learning on Skillshare today with 2 free months at skillshare.com/impacttheory Read more at https://impacttheory.libsyn.com/#JyqUkXSsBxAb2vAA.99   Tom answers questions from the community.   To have your question answered, send an email to ama@impacttheory.com with the subject line “AMA Question”   SHOWNOTES:   How Tom toughened up and how you can too (his step by step process) [00:11]   What to do when you’re not sure about what your goals should be [6:35]   What to do if you’re experiencing loneliness and you’re not excited about what you’re doing [11:58]   Should you stick it out in your current field or change it up and try something new?  [15:01]   How to pursue your passion when it’s costing you money [20:20]   How to find a career path when you’re 30 and you feel lost [26:01]   What to do if you have Approval Addiction [31:19]   What to do if you’re not content with your job [35:25]   How to get experience when nobody wants to take a bet on you [37:45]   How to follow through on your goals by learning how to turn your wants into burning needs [41:01]     PEOPLE MENTIONED:   Wim Hof http://bit.ly/2WJdaTY [3:30]   Kevin Kelly  http://bit.ly/2I8jss0 [7:21]   Daniel Amen http://bit.ly/2CLnDXp  [32:30]   BOOKS MENTIONED:    Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy https://amzn.to/2HUFwHm  [34:37]