147 Understanding Women’s Emotions – Alyson Lanier

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147 Understanding Women’s Emotions – Alyson Lanier

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Nov 6, 2013

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Do you avoid the truth to keep the peace? Learn to understand women’s emotions and keep a discussion from turning into attacks, name calling and blaming.

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Nov 6, 2013

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185 The KKK, Race, and Awkward Conversations – W. Kamau Bell: Kamau Bell United Shades of America by The New Man
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161 Switching Careers and Doing What You Love for a Living – Tripp Lanier and Steve Chandler: Thinking about switching careers? Hungry to do work that matters? Master coach Steve Chandler interviews Tripp Lanier about doing what you love for a living. by The New Man
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